Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

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Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility in 2021

You may find yourself in different states of mind in the 2021. The Aries woman displays her usual industrious commitment to work and family ventures. Impressing a boss or authority figure is the key to the Aries woman rise in career fortune so the Aquarius man should not mock these efforts. The Aquarius man may be looking for something new, a fresh venture or exciting opportunity. The Aries woman can offer assistance and be a good sounding board for these ideas as they develop. A real assessment of the Aquarius man's strengths and weaknesses may be necessary which could be leaving him feel vulnerable. Make your relationship a space of loving critique and support.

Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Relationship - Complete Guide

As the Air comes in contact with Fire, it enhances the spark of fire leading to spontaneous attraction between these two signs. ON one side where, the Aquarius love is detached but undemanding which an Aries can rejoice, the Aries love is exciting but selfish with lots of demands to be fulfilled. But both of them make amazing pair with their mutual trust and affection.

An Aquarius man is one of a kind who follows his own path. He is a bit moody but generally one can find him calm, generous, affectionate and full of good and quality humor. Though he is passionate in nature but he has the ability to control it but at times one can still find him unpredictable, weird and unconventional. It is hard to ditch him as he is highly intuitive while his good nature is one thing that is admired by almost everyone in his contact. In love with an Aries woman, he is a very generous lover. He is sympathetic to all her demands and can even control her emotional outbursts.

An Aries woman is an impulsive lady who loves all of the privileges of being a woman together with the equality with males. She is very independent and believes herself to be superior to most people around. She has clever wits and never avoids an intellectual spat. When she commits to an Aquarius man, she stays completely committed until the excitement is lost in their relationship. She enjoys his jolly nature and takes part in all his adventure with total enthusiasm. But his easy going nature with the people around him can sometimes make her outrageous.

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An Aries woman is just as enthusiastic as the Aquarius man but it is her innocence that makes him fall for her. She is a dynamic partner for him with all the qualities of head and heart that he wants. Though sometimes she sounds a little more demanding but he is usually ready to give her selflessly with all his heart. She stands for him and makes him comfortable in all aspects of life. She fills in the air of newness in every part of their relationship with her creativity. She also respects his wisdom and ability to self control and is very much ready to be with him in all his actions. At times she is dominating but since he is calm enough to maintain his dignity, he doesn’t minds it much. Her jealousy may though disturb him and can interrupt his freedom as he is more extrovert person and is very friendly too.

An Aquarius man is a very understanding and generous match for an impulsive Aries woman. He feels sympathetic towards her and is always ready to pull her out of the confusions. As he adapts himself to the outbursts of rage by her, he makes her feel more loved and protected and enhances the bond of their wonderful relationship. He finds the ability and zeal her irresistible, while she loves his outgoing and adventurous nature. He deals with her aggressive nature with due love and kindness putting her stubbornness and superior wisdom aside. Mostly she admires him but his extra friendly and compassionate behavior with the world makes her insecure and she suffers from jealousy. There maybe a cold detachment in him, that makes her uncertain regarding their relationship for a long term.

As this lovely pair understands the beauty of commitment and love, they excel together in their relationship in many different ways. As the Aries woman and Aquarius man share a powerful common characteristic of passion, once they are completely committed, the blaze of their affection keeps burning till eternity. They both love helping each other in all possible ways throughout their lives to bring out best of them. They are blessed with the gift of strong mutual understanding which helps them to overcome all the difference and be grateful to the sky that keeps on showering them with purity of trust. He gives her challenges that she needs to stay interested while she simply admires the soft beauty of him. He is always willing to learn, while she loves to educate him with all her knowledge and experiences for the life time.

Sexuality between the two comes in at a far distance which leaves their sex life very unpredictable. She brings out the Aquarius’ tender side with her basic honesty about sexual love along with the freshness of her aura. She will have to maintain the innocence of their first encounter to keep him coming back for more. He will expect the desires from their first sexual encounter to remain through out the duration of their relationship. This is not a problem for her seeing how she expects the same form of innocence to be maintained by him. She can actually try out some crazy bed ideas and he will quite admire it and come back to her dumbfounded, wondering, hoping, if there was perhaps more to this show. He would actually love to explore her body squeezing here, fondling there, lifting, holding and cradling. This is not just pure lust but also has a lot of affection and attachment for his woman. This would actually make her feel so eager, so happy and so desiring. In turn he feels that his Aries lady is so tender, so affectionate and so innocent.

The Aries woman and the Aquarius man can usually go on fine with some compromises and adjusting to the variations in their basic traits. He strongly adores the innocence of her while she loves his jolly nature and appreciates his calm and composed attitude. But the detachment and absent mindedness of Aquarius makes Aries impulsive and confused while the selfishness of her can make him feel sad and unloved. They both need to understand their feelings and balance them to have a healthy relationship. It is important that she should lessen her selfish attitude while he should be more present both physically and mentally when around his Aries maiden.

  1. PMJ March 15th, 2021

    I just started seeing an Aquarius man, it’s been about a little over a month now. He is so fun and full of life, I came across this article as I am an Aries woman, and this is spot on how I am, even though I’m not really a jealous type. Or maybe it just hasn’t revealed itself yet, I don’t know. BUT I hope that me and this guy can have this beautiful compatibility like this article. We make each other laugh, and it’s always a good time. So keeping my fingers crossed that this could be true.

  2. Small madam January 15th, 2021

    This is very true i’ve known this guy for nearly 6 years always chasing me etc but I just wanted to be cool with him lost contact for a while but I popped up to him on Facebook just to ask him something for someone we know swapped numbers again talked etc.. fast forward we’re dating it’s been over 4 months now we get along fine but argue a lot mostly over silly things which is mostly miscommunication on his part I know they say it’s different being friends with someone and then being in a relationship but I feel like he still has some walls up he’s been open with me about a lot of stuff and so have I but I feel like he should take that as a sign that he can trust me but I still just feel like he really doesn’t like me because I want to feel needed like all the time I want him to want me there by his side all the time. I’m trying to be patient here but I just don’t know anymore.

    • Jas 7 days ago

      He is attracted to loyalty he will surprise you with the time he is honest and transparent. As an Aries you will have to wait. It. Out love
      But remember to chase your goals he needs to see your purpose. He’s about the fantasy of things coming true.

  3. Kat December 12th, 2020

    I can’t believe how spot-on this is. I’m an Aries woman who has been with an Aquarius man for TWENTY YEARS. The description of their love-life here is very true. We keep it fresh, and have the same amount of passion we did when we first met (although not every time). I bring in new ideas, and he loves this. I am his sounding bored and I like to help him figure out his scrupled mind. I did once feel ‘unloved’ by him years ago when he spent most of his time in the garage. I actually thought he didn’t love me anymore and it almost caused a divorce. In the beginning of our relationship, he wasn’t very open with me, and was not expressive with his feelings towards me. This is something an Aries woman craves. She wants to be at the top of his list, and strictly his soul-mate. She wants her man to profess his love for her, and if he doesn’t, this is a deal breaker for her. Turns out the garage thing was a misunderstand. He was keeping his distance from me because I was depressed. He just didn’t know how to help. Thank God he finally learned to be open and venerable with me. This Aries woman and Aquarious man will be passionately in love for eternity.

    • Deb December 16th, 2020

      It is very spot on I also am an aries woman with an aquarius man for 20 years I love him like it’s our first year together. I am very insecure and very jelous I just astounded at how accurate this is.

  4. Violet December 9th, 2020

    I’m Aries girl and I really like this Aquarius boy a lot. Unfortunately, we are not a couple. I know he likes me. He told me a few times already. In the past, he ended things with me. We weren’t a couple but we were talking. However, he always come back to me. It’s true that Aquarius boys have a lot of walls up because the one I like has so many walls up. He only open up to me once about his emotional issues. I’m trying my best to be patient because, to me, he’s worth it. I’m hoping for the best in the future. I want to be with him so badly. Even if it doesn’t work out, I’m so happy he came into my life.

    • V December 10th, 2020

      I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years all together, and we talked for nearly a year. At our 3 year mark, I just recently broke down all his barriers. It takes time so if you think he’s worth it, give it time.

  5. DaisyLayne87 August 26th, 2020

    He’s an Aquarius male 46. I’m an Aries 33. He’s an retired veteran. Still works and invests. He’s protective of his son. Although,
    He’s not the foreplay heavy kind of lover. Our coitus is almost always highly addictive, extremely pleasurable and passionate. He has pizzazz, a beautiful smile so, I make sure to keep him laughing. All he wears is Ralph Lauren, Nike and Gucci a neat, consistent style. We love our connection.

  6. Kristy August 23rd, 2020

    Met an Aquarius man first date just as described, enjoy his company even the slight detachment is sort of..freeing.. don’t know how that would go over time though! I guess as long as he remains present and loving this could be something special and excited to spend more time with him. There is something refreshing and sort of aloof about him but very intelligent and incredibly generous. I’ve never met an aquarius man before, am a bit captivated!

  7. Brittany July 27th, 2020

    “She can actually try out some crazy bed ideas and he will quite admire it and come back to her dumbfounded, wondering, hoping, if there was perhaps more to this show.” What does this mean?

    • Ti November 12th, 2020

      Being wild in bed that’s essentially what it means trying new freaky things.

  8. Amanda LeRoux July 5th, 2020

    I am a 33 year old Aries woman and I have had two major relationships (5 years and 3 years respectively) with Aquarius men. Both of which had the same birthday of Feb 10th. Now I am courting with a man who is also Aquarius and his birthday is February 12th. I thought the coincindence between the first two men was weird, but now I am a little interested in why I connect so well with Aquarius men.

    I identify strongly as an Aries. I have a young and energetic spirit. I am competitive and independent. I am impulsive and passionate.

    I just wonder why I connect so well with these men, that in my opinion are all so different and I don’t even know their birthdays until later. It isn’t like I am only after Aquarius men. I know the intellectual connection is a big thing. They also have just made me laugh a lot. Anyways just thought that I would share!

  9. Emma November 24th, 2019

    I think Aquarius men tend to balance out Aries…they’re very intellectual. Hard to grasp sometimes. I got this free love reading and it was helpful:
    I hope it helps xoxo

  10. Kayla November 11th, 2019

    I’m a 13-year-old Aries girl and I have a crush on my best friend and he is a 14-year-old Aquarius boy. also one of my friends told me that they asked Ephraim(the Aquarius I have a crush on) if he likes me and she said that he said yes. I think that when I’m allowed to date that I will tell him and since I know that he likes me back that he might just might but probably won’t that maybe he will ask me on a date. but I won’t be allowed to date until either next school year which is 9th gride or until 10th grade. I dont know exactly when I will be allowed to date but i know that my sister who is older than me that she wasn’t allowed to date until she was about 15 and a half.

  11. G.S.C. August 5th, 2019

    Hi! I’m an Aries woman and I really like an Aquarius guy. He lives in another country but for me that’s no a problem because I can speak his language perfectly and I travel a lot to his country. He is older than me but I don’t really care about that, the only thing is that I don’t really know how he feels. I think that he likes me too but I would love to know some tricks to make him fall in love with me and to make him express his feelings to me. It’s a bit complicated to explain our relationship but I have hope for it. I want him, I haven’t told him that but I do have told him that I care about him. I don’t want to make him feel that he is forced to do something for me or anything like that. I have never got a boyfriend before so I don’t really know how to act to seduce him a bit. Some guys from his age and older than him have told me that they liked me and they have flirted with me but they weren’t Aquarius. But the other day, a friend of mine that is Aquarius, told me that he liked me when we were kids and the funny thing was that I liked him too when I was a kid but we are just friends and I have told about this Aquarius guy that I like. Should I ask my friend for advice? Thank you for everything. 😘😘😘🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  12. Lovenia Fontenot May 22nd, 2019

    I have found the one my soul loves. I an Aries woman with an Aquarius male. His water puts out fires mno one could touch, then again adds fuel to flesh I never knew existed. But our communication is off and I am drove by his ability to save face and show no emotion. If he does it’s like a child and I’m playing the guessing game? Help pls

    • thebest May 24th, 2019

      Just be blunt and ask him why is he being so vague with you because I am sure you have poured out your heart to him and he knows exactly how you feel so tell him you need to know how he feels about you

  13. Jana April 17th, 2019

    I’m an Aries woman deeply in love with an Aquarius man and we have been together for nearly seven years ! He makes me smile and makes me feel safe although he is hardly ever serious and he has an explosive temper…The connection is so strong that I can’t ever get him off my mind.. we have struggled and I need him to finally in the present be serious about our relationship!!!

  14. Daina Lairson Pinon March 10th, 2019

    I am an aries female and I am strongly interested in an Aquarius male. Sex is very passionate and explosive. I really like him a lot. He seems to cool my aggressive nature. I hope that things will work out between him and I. I really feel I could truly fall in love with him.

    • Jana May 23rd, 2019

      I’m sorry to report that my seven year relationship is over with my Aquarius and if you have any sense before you fall as deep as I did.. you will get out of the flames before you burn up! The most devastating thing I’ve ever felt is what he’s putting me through right now! He just abandoned ship!!

    • Jana May 23rd, 2019

      STOP: Do not follow that feeling of intoxicating euphoria it’s a trap.. I spent seven years with my Aquarius and he was and will remain to be my most miserable best thing I’ve ever done!! He just abandoned me for a whole new family.. the female he left me for has a baby on the way by some other man and another kid in tow.. so they are not loyal or reliable!! Run away NOW

      • thebest May 24th, 2019

        I am a Aries woman I have been with a Aquarius Man for 7 months and everything seems to be going fine I have no complaints but the first Aquarius Man but I was with about 12 years ago he was horrible I think it depends on the birthday because the Aquarius man that I’m with now we get along so well

      • Jana May 24th, 2019

        I believe it’s the way an Aquarius was raised bc mine had nobody good to lead him as a child! He doesn’t have the knowledge of how to express any of his emotions in a healthy or accurate way it’s either way overly too much of an emotion or lacking detrimentally on a specific emotion! He is the knight of my heart until the end of my life but unfortunately we are over as our lives stand right now! I wish all of you the best bc when we were on fire we were beautiful!!!

  15. Thatoneaquariusguy January 1st, 2019

    I’m a Aquarius male and to be honest I have affection for one of my Aries female friends but she is dating another one of my friends who is a gemini male and they text so much I need some advice

    • Dj March 8th, 2019

      I am a Aries woman. They will not last you are more suitable for her. You need to step up to the plate be aggressive and start flirting with her. You only have one life to live give it your best shot. Gemini is not for her. You are go get your girl before it is to late. Aires and Aquarius are the nest fit. I know because I am engaged to a Aquarius😀

    • Yoma Sohbig July 29th, 2019

      Fuck her in the pussy

  16. Jackielantern June 30th, 2018

    I am an Aquarius female, and have attraction to both genders. I always end up crushing on the Aries. I had a small crush on this Aries Male, he was such a tease, and would always pat my head when he would see me at school. I would be very cold, and would refuse to accept that I was forming a crush for him. He would always want to stand next to me and talk before class started, but I played a small hard-to-get. For me, I couldn’t tell him I liked him, and I ended up bragging about my crush about him to a friend of mine.

    Bad thing is, she ended up telling him for me. To which I never agreed too, since I thought he wasn’t interested. I was kind of right. He would start to ignore me at school, and sometimes even be absent. At one point, in our shared biology class, as the bell rang he immediately stood and left out the door. Since he was right next to it. I texted him about him ignoring me, and he said he wasn’t doing so. He said he got out of a relationship, and said he needed time to get over his ex. I felt bad afterwords, but he ended up saying if he is ever ready, that I would be first on his mind.

    I thought it was silly, and later on he ended up moving. During the two weeks since he knew, he was only at school for a total of 4 days. This was also the beginning of a new semester. So we’ve only came back from break and been two weeks.

    I ended up loosing interest, since we will never be able to meet and be a thing. Months passed, and near the end of school. He texted me, being very blunt haha and asking if I found someone who I was interested in.

    I tries to play hard-to-get again and said maybe, asking why?

    Then he kept saying how he still liked me and everything, and also he moved not too far away from me. We ended the day being a couple. On june SODOSDIOERIFOI aaaaand we really showed our love, and he kept saying how much he loved me. We planned to meet, and us being teenagers still. His parents did not allowed him to date, and they broke us up.

    He still has me on social media, and it hurts knowing we aren’t together because of his parents.

    I even had a dream he texted me back saying he didnt care about his parents, and that he wanted to be with me.

    When I woke up, I realized it was just a dream.

    I really think, Aquarius and Aries can have a really good relationship. We only argued once. Then again, I had to apologize. Even so, I still miss him. 🙂

  17. Aries gal June 6th, 2018

    So after reading most of these comments, I’ve come to the conclusion that Aquarians need their space. I started talking to an Aquarius man in March. He actually started it all. I really liked the conversations we had. Our sex was really really good (lol). I found out he had a lot of problems but continued to ignore them until I blew. I ignored him and never replied to his messages. Like seriously out of the blue. Coming to find out though, that they are emotionally detached so I don’t think he is going to ask what happened between him and I. I actually thought he liked me as I liked him back. He also opened up to me on a few occasions (I felt like it was a really good start). I feel like I blew up and now Idk how to fix it. He is not healthy for me, but I really really like him. I don’t want to message him because of my stubbornness, but I know he wouldn’t do it on his own. It really sucks because I thought he was “boyfriend material”. I probably jumped into things way too quick. There’s just too many things that work against my favor.

  18. Aries Girl February 23rd, 2018

    I have been together with my Aquarius prince for more than a year. Even he is more mature than me he always makes my simple moments precious with his child-like heart. We never have had any serious fight because when I go really serious and mad about something he can always take it so wisely and softly, and subtly make me understand what has gone wrong. I admire his intelligence, calmness and positiveness, and he likes my passion and sees every subtle thing I do for him. He likes to tease me though, sometimes even wants to rile me up intentionally, which makes me so attached and addicted to him because I find him so hot laughing over my falling into his traps. We are similar in a lot of ways yet different too, just we always respect each other’s space while constantly be each other’s support for anything and everything. Theoretically we remain independent individuals in a way even we have been together for more than a year. We both love challenges and have been learning from each other from day one. I know my Aquarius prince is not the kind who like to talk about things but his actions just tell me how much he cares for me. We are now staying in two different countries due to work and stuff, but we know we will only get closer as time goes by. The secret to keeping this fire burning fiercely forever between us, I think, is understanding, trust and patience.

  19. Angela Robertson February 20th, 2018

    I’m dating my first Aquarius, and he seems to be the calm to my storm.

  20. Aries girl February 13th, 2018

    So this is the Aries girly who made a comment “African lounge story” ext ext. Wanted to give an update regarding me and aquas relationship. We are just friends, but so much has happened too much to type. But I can definitely see myself being with him forever, we’re taking things very slow and have decided to just be friends. Though I know he misses me allot and vice versa. I found the space between us “alone time” seems to be pulling us closer and not apart, which is weird it should be the opposite happening. But the more away from him and vice versa the clearer things are about our love and care for each other. I find series woman and Aquarius man are perfect for each other and worth the adjustments and commitment to build the trust. I know I wont ever stop loving him, I see things looking up for us 🙂

  21. Erin October 30th, 2017

    I’m an Aries woman and seem to be drawn to Aquarius men. I cannot get away from them! I’ve been in two serious relationships with Aquarius’ and neither seemed to work. I was first attracted to their quiet charm and honestly enjoyed the adventure of figuring them out. But he never fully opened up! The Aquarius I just left had major walls up and though I was patient, he never seemed to let them down. Any time I tried to discuss anything emotional, I was met with defensiveness. And treated as though chatting about feelings was needy. Though, I think some of the emotional issues were due to his upbringing- I know its in the water signs nature to be aloof. It’s disappointing because I was careful not to push certain subjects, handle them delicately and make sure to give lots of space. More than that, I felt as though I wasn’t supported emotionally. Aquarius have a difficult time comforting. It turned out to be one sided. I would try and talk about deeper things and get frustrated when it didn’t go anywhere. I would start to cry a bit and he would just sit there and watch me. He wasn’t willing to put the effort into keeping the magic alive and progressing to another level. When the magic was almost gone, he was just going to run it into the ground (as if he wasn’t aware) for the sake of avoiding dealing with it. He waited for me to finally get fed up enough to leave so that i’d have to initiate and do the work. I let my anger drive me to leave because I don’t know that I could have done it otherwise. Aquarius have this strange allure about them. Anyways, Anyone that knows an Aries, knows that we’ve got to feel/know we’re important to the person we’re with. I am very self sufficient and really loved Aquarius for their independence as well. We both liked our space. But with any relationship, there needs to be a feeling of togetherness. I thought I had developed a deeper connection. I thought 5 years of chipping away at his walls may have got me somewhere. Don’t think it did. I have a feeling the Aquarius will always tend to feel separate. I was with mine for 5 years and he left me through text message, saying the next guy would treat me better than he did. And that was it. I never saw or spoke to him again and decided not to reach out because it would be unsuccessful. He never shared how much I had meant to him during those 5 years and I will never know. I understand some people grow apart but I wish this aquarius would have ended things with more tact and respect. Feeling a bit taken for granted, to say the least. I know there are some more balanced Aquarius out there and maybe I’ve just picked one that has some serious internal issues.

    • carstenthomas20 December 23rd, 2017

      Im sorry Erin that you want through those two relationships. Ive been reading a lot about my sign and I know Aquarius have a hard time opening but im learning how too plus some of us take down wall fast or slower depending on the individual we are talking to.

    • DaQuan Wilson September 28th, 2018

      Aquarius is an air sign

  22. Kylie September 10th, 2017

    I’m an Aries and my boyfriend is an Aquarius. We connected so quick it was crazy. We were inseparable since we met and I got pregnant 1 month after we met. My son is an Aquarius too (his birthdays the day after his dad). We do fight a lot because I’m very controlling and I need to know exact details and he definitely takes his time to get things done because how he processes. I can tell when he’s upset because often times he’ll just be quiet about it and I hate that because I want to talk now and deal with it right now. But I’ve learned to let him take his time when he’s upset with me. Although we fight we’re crazy about each other and the passion we have is amazing. We’re like two little kids together. Always wanting to go out and do different things. I love and hate his humor because sometimes I’m very serious. Meeting him and having an Aquarius son has made me fall in love with the sign.

    • Paige K Gruber October 20th, 2017

      This is so crazy.. Me and my Aquarius partner clicked right away. We got pregnant a month into the relationship also.. My son is due a few days after his dad’s birthday. There is no way that is a coincidence.

  23. Aries August 27th, 2017

    My ex was an Aquarius. He was living and great until he slipped. I couldn’t handle so we had to break up. I still love him and I don’t know how to make him for fall me again. I lost him

  24. Shawnae Goldstein August 23rd, 2017

    I have to say.. My story is similar but different! I am an Aries woman.. My Aquarius man has been in my presence for 16 years and we never had one conversation until this March of 2017.. I fell for him.. Instantly.. He’s patient with me.. Always listens.. When I become stubborn with my requests.. He tells me I’m wrong and then gives me what I want.. Never disrespect me.. Always a gentleman.. Lives his life for God.. I’m falling in Love with him.. I pray God #Blessed me with his beautiful soul..

    • Angela Robertson February 20th, 2018

      We are living the same life..

  25. Aries girl June 12th, 2017

    Been reading all the comments and thought Id chime in with my experience. First Im an aries girl deeply in love with an Aquarius man. We met at a lounge he said he was leaving, saw man and decided to stay. I was dancing alone to African music and noticed him, he came up and danced so passionately on the dance floor. It was weird because it seemed everyone moved off the floor when we began to dance. He was attached to me for the rest of tge night. I sat on his lap and talked he was sooo comfortable to be around.

    Some guy tried to talk to me in front of him and I said no Im with someone and look at my aqua he waved me back which was a huge turn on I went back to his lap and hugged him. So weird I’ve never done this in life with someone. The guy that was trying to talk to me came back trying to get me and I said no Im with him.

    We left and talked in the parking lot it was great and spoke on way home. We spoke for two days on phone he ended up staying right down the street and I asked him to meet me outside he did.

    The connection was so intense like I knew him already and I missed him, we hugged passionately. I turned on slow music in the car and we danced romantically, played basketball a bit because I challenged him for play lol and talked.

    It was great! We talked every morning because we had the same work schedule, we went out played pool and danced together. We both are so adventures and was thinking of travels and things to do together. We had sex it was a 10 beyound amazing very passionate and romantic.

    He actually offered for me to spend the night we literely seen eachother day 14 days straight.

    He expressed he cares about me, can see himself marrying me and possibly becoming sprung.

    Are problems arived due to both of us just getting out of bad relationships yet still wanting love. I scared him away due to being overly emotional and crying on 3 ocassions about my relationships. Bad I know. But I trusted him that much and he was a bit cold about it, gave me advice and did not like all the emotions. Which now I understand why.

    He ended up pulling away telling me he wants to just be friends due to the emotional outburst and he dont want to go through the past again.

    I freaked out and wanted more closure. I asked to meet in person to discuss and we did and the connection was still there the look in his eyes was still there only a bit more guarded. We talked and I asked for a hug we hugged very intimately 3x he was grinding ext. But yet hes still distant.

    So I text him I think we should just cut ties because I cant just be friends with someone I care for so deeply. He said he dont agree and he wants to remain friends.

    But the cold distant nature is too much for a loving, warm aries who wants warmth and to be close.

    No lie though I love this guy deeply more than anyone before and Im willing to give him space. If he only stopped being too distant and be more open about his feelings this relationship could thrive for eternity.

    Everything is there for Aries except the hot and cold distant behavior. But I can also work on understand to not be overly emotional with him which I wish I could take back daily.

    Hope helps

  26. Aries May 7th, 2017

    I met an Acquarius guy at a hotel a few years ago and we had a great time together. We didn’t really have a conversation because we were to busy making out all the time. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other. I literally felt sparks whenever he touched some part as simple as my hand. He seemed infatuated with me but I didn’t want a relationship back then seeing as we just met at the time. And now after all these years we started texting. I was excited about rekindling whatever we had but the conversation sucks. It feels like I have to try really hard to get the conversation going. I’m kind of getting bored of him but I still really like him. What should I do?

    • Jahn May 31st, 2017

      Facetime Maybe? Or even Make arrangements to meet with him. I’m an Aquarius and I hate texting. Being that we are naturally detached texting further isolates us from interaction we desire to be intrigued.

    • Latoya June 8th, 2017

      More one on one time without the sex would be good.. Sometimes it take being around someone to get them to talk

    • Angela Robertson February 20th, 2018

      Be patient.

  27. Aries 87 May 6th, 2017

    I need help I met an Aquarius man twelve years ago and things didn’t work out and he recently found me and stated that he wanted to try again I am afraid to go down that road again. I asked him why and he stated he knew I was the one for him even back in the day. What is a woman to do.?????? Please help.

    • Alexis June 2nd, 2017

      If you are both single, go for it.. maybe it didn’t work out because you weren’t ready. I’m going through the same, my Aquarius and I go back 19 years, I have​ five kids from two prescriptions relationships in which I was engaged in both but it never worked or. He stayed single. I’ve been single almost five years and here we are.. he said the same that he knew since back then, so all these years he has seen me grow and evolve to the woman I am now, I am ready and I love him and am happy.. if you are ready to allow happiness get past the fear then you will and might have a happiness you deserve and never known. Good luck.. Alexis Blessed

    • Aries Girl February 23rd, 2018

      Tell him about your worries and see how he responds.

    • Karson June 15th, 2020

      This My Second Time Talking To A Aquarius The First One Took My Virginty I Think He Just Wanted Sex Plus He Was Older Then Me . Yes I Was Very Hurt . So Now I Have Decided To Give Another Aquarius A Try && He Is So Nice And Sweet To Me The Sex Is Romantic && Very Touchy . Plus He Is Sooo Handsome With Pretty Teeth . && Im Thinking He Really Like Me But I Still Keeping Amy Gaurd Up Much As I Like Him Because Some Times These Men Can Play Mind Games && They Are Good At Lying . Btw We Just Started Talking About 2 Months Ago I Haven’t Seen Change Yet But We Will See As Time Goes By

  28. ariesnation07 April 20th, 2017

    I met a Aquarius male for the first time in my life and had sort of a fling with best night of my life with no sex involved I’m 30 he 47 he stood very close to me and when we walked somewhere he held my hand mind you this is our first time up close and personal we just waved at each other in the past we had great conversation and he even ditched friends to be just around me now all I can do is think about is him I get chills and tears in my eyes bad thing is it might be a year before I see him we left each other without no contacts

  29. Aquarious Boy April 11th, 2017

    I like an Aires girl and I don’t know how to approach her… Im too shy and standoffish and don’t know how to approach her…we’re good friends though… please help! (We’re both in 8 grade)

    • ariesnation07 April 20th, 2017

      Write her a note… classic!

    • Aries04 April 27th, 2017

      You should just be yourself. Aries girls love a man with confidence, and if you can make her laugh, even better! Just try to bury your shyness for a bit and start chatting with her. If you really like her, it’s worth it to take a chance, right? Good luck!

    • Aries 87 May 6th, 2017

      Write her a letter telling her how you feel. As a fellow Aries we love to know your true feelings.

  30. Michael April 3rd, 2017

    I had an affair with aries woman I am aquarius for four months now we went out I was very gentlemen with her I bought her flower every day or so open the door for her but she had College girlfriend they change her mind about me the last text I had from her. Thank you so much for show me how a good man treats woman . I appreciate everything you did for me and gave me . I am sorry I cannot be the woman you need or deserve Her sister wrote to my sister does like you very much but she feel you are different people and that the areas you are diffrent concern her for any long term relationship if thinks if you two could genuinely become simply friends again and then it allow her to see she really is liking more about your friendship than the things that concern her,then,time may take care of things

    • April April 4th, 2017

      It would have ended in disaster anyway. I truly believe these signs are not compatible in the long run. I am an Aries woman and tried to make it work with a Aquarius man for 12 years. Ultimately we just ended up hurting each other because of how different we were. That opposites attract stuff is wrong.

  31. AriesIndianGirl November 8th, 2016

    Suggestion Needed 🙂
    Hey There,
    I happened to be in a beautiful story 4 months ago. I am PhD student and I was on my business travel in US and happened to meet this tiny sweet handsome intelligent lovely aquarian in San Francisco. It was during my couch surfing days in between the work. We were instantly attracted to each other. e is so intelligent, generous, friendly and kind. He wasn’t the one who took the initiative because afterall he was my couch surfing host. Iknew he is interested in me and I took the forst step. We had an incrdible time together. It was mre like a reality we lived together. I extended my stay from two nights to five. He took me with his to all his daily stuffs, office, his car sevice appointments and so. He constantly told me that he can’T get enough of me and why don’t I stay back forever. But I had to go to Chicago and my plan was to fly back to Germany(I work there) from New york. But I skipped new york, he booked me a flight to SF and I stayed again with him for 5 days before I returned to Germany. I was a lovely time. His gestures were so cute and lovely. Once in the supermarket he touched my heart asking whether I can give it to him. His gestures were so lovely. I love this man with all I have and I am sure he is the one for me but now being so far it is difficult to be in touch. He is career oriented, busy with his business. I have seen his busy schedule when I was around. He told me that he would have dated me if I was there in SF or Bay area. He even told me that I am so perfect as in, intelligent, beautiful and have a good heart. I will finish my PhD in 5 months. Right now I am searching for a job on SF. But the thing is he never committed to me or gave me any surety. I am an Indian(not a typical one, but comes from a very traditional family) and i am in my critical age 26(I know it doesn’t sounds that cdritical for you!) not sure whther I should do this huge step of relocating to SF just for him while he didn’t give any surety except for the strong gestures. He just text me back in a word or two and send some tech links or funny cartoons one in a while. He is 36 and is not married. I so can’t get over him. Shall I go ahead and try it with him? I don’t send him tooo many messages everyday or not even every week. but sometimes i get drunk and text in all my emotions in one go 🙁 he never reacted badly and he just skip the word ‘love’. Shall I visit him this Christmas. Asking him whether I should come or not, is it cheap to ask him by myself? Please Aries and aquarians out there help meeeeeeeeee. I sooooo love him!

    • Britney December 21st, 2016

      Communication is everything and if it’s diminishing this soon, I’d try maybe FaceTime or Skype. If he still looks at you the way he did when you were together, buy a ticket to visit! Met my Aquarius on bumble but we connected instantly. We’ve spent every weekend together since our first date and FaceTime almost daily when we aren’t. Even if it’s just to see a smile or blow a kiss.

    • Aprile Luten January 25th, 2017

      I am a Aries women in with Aquarius we have lived togather the only difference is that i have a daughter. And he loves her like she is his but you have to know that we lived togther it didn’t work but as long as we are apart. Qnd can see eachother its great

    • Sad the counsellor March 6th, 2017

      I don’t think yo should take the lead… don’t b overwhelmed stay calm… love and life are not about just the gestures it’s lot more than that… the gestures are temporary try to get serious and be serious here… yo Gotta find first whether he is serious or not you have to have their terms finalised you can point blankly ask him that whether he needs you for fun or infatuation or he is really into you ? Ask him go ahead

  32. Takiowns July 13th, 2016

    Just made an account to share something extremely important.
    I am 32, male Aquarian doctor, still single and looking for the right woman. I see plenty of comments reflecting how much misunderstood we male Aquarians are, even by the Arians who we love unconditionally. Now, horoscopy is a pseudoscience so don’t take it for full value, but please take this into consideration.
    Aquarius males marry at a much older age, especially in western societies. The reason is simple, we Aquarius men are very intelligent and we have a profound sense of what kind of woman we are with. Aquarius marries last but marries the best wife-quality women. In other words, if you are an Aries whore, which unfortunately is very common due to their rebellious, energetic nature, Aqua is just interested in your body. And if you don’t know whether you’re a whore or not, that’s a big problem. You need to be honest with yourself and face it. Make a change, and one day an awesome Aquarius will marry you and show pure love you have never felt before. Aquarius man is friendly with everyone but never cheats to his wife. He goes immediately for divorce if he figured out she is a whore. And believe me, Aquarius figures out a lot of things much quicker than other signs, but he keeps to himself and use you as a sex toy temporarily. 
    Bottomline, an Aquarius will never leave a good Aries woman, but he will never commit to a whore.

    • hoebag December 17th, 2016

      this is a fucking ridiculous statement and you are a whore 🙂

    • Aries 87 May 6th, 2017

      Hi, I meant an Aquarius man twelve years ago and it didn’t go anywhere but not to long ago he found me and​ stated he wanted to try again because he knew I was the one. We are much older now because of our past I’m not sure if I can trust him or not.

    • AriesareLove August 12th, 2017

      I am an Aries woman sir, and I don’t care Who you are or Who you think you are…. I think I can easily speak for Every Aries on here and out there when I say that calling any “group” of people, whether it be “Aries” or any other sort of group….”WHORES” is simply UNACCEPTABLE!
      You have obviously had some sort of personal encounter that was negative for you. That does not give you license to attack everyone else and group them together with a negative nasty comment like that. What this does is make you racist and ignorant by grouping everyone together and making such a statement. And for someone who wants to publicly state his education as superior too many… you sir have shown nothing but ignorance! So in the future I would suggest that you count to 10 before you go online and make such a comment!

  33. June 14th, 2016

    A match between an Aquarius man and Aries woman sounds very well match.

  34. Jasmine614 April 12th, 2016

    I need a aquarius man advice please

  35. thebest October 31st, 2015

    @Angelfire70 wooow!! Lol I feel so sorry for you you are never never never going to get over him or at least that is how it is with me and the Aquarian man that I was married to.  We met in 1995 got married in 2010  and was only married for 4 years I am married someone and he remarried someone I Am Separated from my husband and now I am dating A Sagittarius and he is a wonderful person but again he is not the aquariun that I was once married to I hope you will be able to get over him but so far it doesn’t look like you are my aquariun man is still in love with me and i am  still in love with him we have been communicating for the past couple of weeks now now and he wishes that he was still married to me and I wish I was still married to him we both wish we could wave a magic wand and get back together because now we both understand and respect one another I wish you the best I hope you can figure it out because once you get with an Aquarius man there is no Everything else that everyone else is saying is so true

  36. thebest October 31st, 2015

    @Angelfire70 wooow!! Lol I feel so sorry for you you are never never never going to get over him or at least that is how it is with me and the Aquarian man that I was married to 20 years but we have known each other for 20 years married for 4 Yuri married someone and he remarried someone I am separated from my husband and now I am dating vegetarian and he is a wonderful person but again he is not the aquarium and I was once married to I hope you will be able to get over him but so far it doesn’t look like you are my aquarium man is still in love with me still in love with him we have been communicating for the past couple of weeks now now and he wishes that he was still married to me and I wish I was still married to him we both wish we could wave a magic wand and get back together because now we both understand and respect one another I wish you the best I hope you can figure it out because once you get with an Aquarius man there is no other

  37. thebest September 12th, 2015

    I was married to an Aquarius man, but now we are divorced. I wished I never divorced him, I knew him for 17 years after 17 years we got married and was only married 4 years if I can turn back the hands of time Iwould  . No one gets and understands me the way that he did if you are with a  Aquarius man stay with him and stick it out I did not really understand  until i started reading about zodiac signs to me this is very important and if I knew then what I know now I never would have gotten a divorce. He’s married now and I am dating a Sagittarius man he’s a nice guy still in love with my ex husband I need to get over it and keep it movin

  38. thebest September 12th, 2015

    I was married to an Aquarius man, but now we are divorced. I wished I never divorced him, I knew him for 17 years after 17 years we got married and was only married 4 years feeling

  39. ariesgirl28 June 15th, 2015

    I am dating an Aquarius guy and all of these comments helped me to understand my man a bit better. He is calling me and coming to me, I don’t pursue him but sometimes he is too detached for a warm Aries girl. It’s something I am learning to deal with 🙂
    Even thought we are in a relationship and he commited to me another day he confessed that he was wondering about our relationship on a long term basis but  he considers we have a nice relationship, I am giving him a freedom and he would be sad if we break up. But then again, he asked we once when is too late to tell a person that you love him/her. This made me a bit confused together with his wondering about our relationship. Sometimes I can feel how much he likes me and cares about me but he cannot say it. And I don’t want to press him to say things… So I am kinda clueless how to behave..
    Any views?

  40. Jclovingme April 22nd, 2014

    Wow reading all these comments I have just started dating an Aquarius. and everything I’m reading sounds so true we have been dating for 5 months now. I am a Aries. 

  41. nacyrima March 31st, 2014

    Wow!! As I read everyones comment about Aquarius men It blows me away I’m a aries women I was lately in a 16 yrs relationship with a sagitarrius man I just started back dateing again I’m now currently dating a Aquarius man this man is laso the same man I was in love with when I was 16 teen yrs old we would spend hr’s on the phone wwe had something you would call puppy love he chase me for yrs after that wanting to be with me 20 yrs later here we are again and I’m deeply in love with him he is very good to me at times but cold  at times to I gott mad at hime once and didnt speak to him for four days he had pushed me away with is on and off personality he doesnt seem to relize that it sometimes is an issue because he so distant. at time I want affection and want to be up under him and he so far away I have to demand attention from him. Then I decided to allow him to give me that attention when he is ready but I find that because I love so much I want that attention when I want it I dont wont to wait for it I sometimes be in the same room with him and can’t take my eys off of him he makes me feel wanted and loved and appreciated I love the way he speaks to me when he is catering to my needs or offering his affection it’s undeniable he mad me cry and I thought he didnt care but he did he just didnt want to show me I knew it bothered him he hides his feeling alot when it comes to love but when he angry he has no problem showing it but I can handle it because I’m a aries and I have fire sometimes when I’m upset he listens and it tends to calm him and he laughs as if I’m the crazy one but I think it is because he knows that I’m not going to put up with that hot and cold personality I can be hot and cold to but I dont want it to be a tit fo tat thing so sometimes I just give in to him so that he knows I’m not trying to fight with him..Aqurius men can be difficukt to be with but Aries women are strong enough to deal with it if they want if we dont let our selfishness stand in the way I never consider myself as the jelous type but sometimes I’m concerned about other women I think it’s because I know how I feel about him I love my Aquarius man and I willl do what I can to make it work we will lesarn each other as well love each other

  42. Angelfire70 February 18th, 2014

    Lol, I am sitting here at my desktop and I am just laughing away at most of the comments I am reading. This is all true. I was wondering which one of y’all was the fly on my wall when my situation was going on? Honestly, I am an Aries female who met a male Aquarian 30 years ago. I was young but not all dumb. He reeled me all the way in. He decided to be honest with me one week later and tell me that he was married. I felt confused but also caught up. There was this connection I felt with him that I can’t even begin to explain but I am sure you all know what I’m talking about. All I know is that when I was in his presence, I didn’t want to be anywhere else. He just took over my emotions. I later moved to another state and we drifted apart. I never stopped thinking about him. It’s like he was always there. 30 years has gone by and I will have you all to know that I have always wondered where he was and how he was really doing. My questions were answered 3 wks ago. I went to this social event with my husband. I had been there maybe 4 hours.  I am certain that he had spotted me long before I saw him or even knew he was there. I happen to look up and there he was; all over again. My pulse began to race and I felt like I was out of control. I finally got the chance to talk with him. I asked for his number to stay in touch (was that dumb or what?) He asked a lot of questions but he gave me his personal number before we departed. I don’t want to read too much into this but what does this mean? I have to remember that we both are married but something is still going on here. It feels like everything I felt for him 30 years ago has resurfaced. We have been texting each other but he does give short texts but what started out as I thought was a possible platonic conversation, has turned into something else. He’s started calling me sweetie & baby doll etc. He has promised for 2 days to call at certain times but he hasn’t done so yet. He has a company job that keeps him pretty busy. I felt like he was playing a game with me. I find myself attracted to everything about him. We can just look at each other a certain way and that’s all it takes. We don’t have to say anything. I can remember every detail from 30 years ago. I feel things for him that I know I shouldn’t but it’s like I am not in control of it. Somebody help! I need clarity on what may be going on. I don’t want to be too impulsive and rush anything but I just feel there is unfinished business between us. The attraction is too strong. I don’t want to hurt nobody but I need to know where this could have gone. He pursues me in his own little way. I find myself pursuing back. I know that I am in trouble. I need some feedback quick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  43. sacgirl December 27th, 2013

    I just had to add my 2 cents (I’m an Aries)….I’ve known my Aquarius since high school (over 30 years ago).  In high school, both of us were too shy to really get to know each other.  I left town the year I graduated HS, but as the years went by, I always thought about him and he thought about me.  In the early 90’s we had one night together (both of us were drunk so it’s a vague memory).  More years went by and the few times we have seen each other (at parties) there has always been a draw….intense attraction.  Both of us have tried to forget about the other…went on to marriages, children, ect.  But no matter how much either of us try, we can’t seem to move on from each other.  Just recently we’ve decided it’s time to figure it out.  I’m not sure where this relationship will end, but it’s something that is always there.  Maybe we’ll just be friends forever….or we could find that we’re really soulmates and that’s why we keep finding outselves back at the same place we always do. 
    I find that I can tell him anything….and he has actually found himself telling me things he wouldn’t normally do.  I am generally not a trusting person by any means, but yet, I find that I trust him completely and I have no idea why.
    The Aries in me always want to know….to understand.  I can be insecure when I don’t have the cues to know he cares.  However, for the first time in my life….I get him and I understand that he is super independent (as am I) and that he needs his space (as I do).  I talk WAY more than he ever does, but that’s ok because I understand that is his way.  Although he doesn’t text much…he always sends me a text saying good morning….and a text saying good night each day.  If I don’t get one, then I know there is a good reason and I never ask him why.  I believe he cares because I don’t believe he would take the time to send those simple texts…and it shows that he is thinking of me.
    Being older I think is a plus because we both will benefit from our past experiences with life.  Our lives are very complicated, but we both believe that if we don’t find out what we are meant to be….it will be the biggest regret.

  44. LegioX December 18th, 2013

    needless to say am aquarius

  45. LegioX December 18th, 2013

    i opened up an account just because i wanted to chip in my 2p
    throughout highschool, i was in love with an aries girl. she broke my heart by insisting we should stay friends. years later she said she would like to see me more, hang out together, go out . but i was in a different relationship now, with another aries girl, whom i loved to bits, after 5 years of relationship that ended in tears and shouts. guess what. she also insisted on staying friends. recently i ran into another (or was picked up by her?) aries girl, for one month, everything was purrfect, even her cat liked me. and then, 2 weeks later, with no prior notification, she catches me off guard by tellin me its better off if we stayed friends because i scare her and we dont match. just like that. last time i’ll ever get involved with an aries girl in my life, i swear

    • Aries girl June 12th, 2017

      Were you distant with your aries?

  46. QueenAries August 8th, 2013

    U can tell when a female is into you…. She’s probably waiting for you to make that move.  Aries women (at least I do) love romance…and even though we r impatient at letting some things just happen we still are ol school when it comes to love.
    Do it….Ask her!

  47. QueenAries August 7th, 2013

    I had to make an account just to be a part of this convo! In the last month I hsve come to the realization that I am in LOVE with this Aquarius man I have brn involved with for quite some time. I am reading these comments and it feels like I am reading about us.  He THOROUGHLY has me confused but reading the comments shed lots of light.  I know that people have their own personality traits but again what I’ve read here sounds familiar n gives me hope.
    He Is so detached but then turns around n has me feeling like the most beautiful creature on earth. And for those reasons Im so open but I try and play hard….which isn’t good because my feelings r all over the place. Lol ughhhh .. He tells me to express myself but what’s the point if I dunno if its mutual???
    He is definitely a brat n never likes to take accountability for things n sometimed it boils my blood but it also keeps me lured in n on my toes…I feel like a mad woman lol
    What have I gotten myself into…who am i kidding I love it..n him :^) 

  48. March 21st, 2013

    My husband is an Aquarius and I’ve never had a more perfect match for me, (an Aries). It comes from first understanding and accepting a few things about myself. This isn’t a match for the weak of heart. He is a challenge, a brat and a prince, all at once. It’s in his nature. Something to note though, I did not pursue him. He found me, and would not stop until I was his. He’s never done that. We were friends as children. Once he saw me, it was over. Our connections were immediate and very intense, a little scary, actually. He loved me very deeply and very quickly, I think before I loved him. He’s very devoted to me, but he’s also a MAN. He doesn’t take my crap for too long and as I consider myself a queen, I can dish out plenty. We had alot more arguements in the beginning around what was “meant” by something because we were still getting used to understanding one another’s true feelings. Aquarians keep things close to the vest and in some aspects, you have to DRAG it out of them but that doesn’t mean those feelings aren’t there and they don’t exist. These are men of “doing”. You have to watch what they do. They love our openness, expressiveness and joy but they are not as visibly demonstrative as we are. When these men do love though, they love deeply, completely, and blindly in some cases. You need to be very careful about that and make sure that the love given is the love returned because these men WILL protect and cherish you. They KNOW we Aries women are prone to getting hurt and hurt easily. My husband will let me fight my own fights but when he sees I get to a point where I just can’t deal or someone has crossed a line, he can become a mean and scary man quick. They are deeply generous and indulgent of our whims in and out of the bedroom and there’s often a “polarity in reverse” when I know he’s there for the taking and he’s doing all the encouraging to take. He needs his space though and when he needs it, I never give him a hard time. He’s very generous in all other ways so it’s no big deal. I found that I had to tell him from day one what I wanted from the relationship. Plain terms, no nonsense, and be a tempermental Aries brat about it. The thing is, he  was so struck by me, I would have had it, temper tantrum or not. These are very principaled men. They don’t like liars, cheats, game players. They don’t love easily so when they do, they love big and if you betray that, you’re done. For good. They don’t mind a fight, in fact, expect to fight a great deal initially, as long as there is an understanding of deep love and joy and a strong bond between you. Do what Aries do, STAND FOR YOUR MAN….and they will be 100% yours. I love our relationship. It’s a joy, it’s a challenge, it’s never a bore and the bonds are very very strong, but it wasn’t always easy….

  49. LovemyAquarius January 11th, 2013

    Oh Aquarius man, nothing is more of a turn off for an aries women then a man who does not act!..  If you want her go and get her.  Dont be afraid to be assertive or aggressive in what your want.
    I will never forget how my aquarius man went after me and it didnt matter what i did or said he wanted me and he was ganna win me over. He let me know that no matter what he will always be here waiting for me.
    Its ok to be afraid, but be couragous and ask yourself is she worth the risk?  You will have a lot more hurdles in your relationship then this :).
    Me and my aquarius have been together for nearly 4 years and are very much in love.  We started as friends, had a drunken night and he swooped me off my feet and after that I had no chance, LOL.
    You aquarius men are 
    Good luck and god bless

  50. LovemyAquarius January 11th, 2013

    Loved reading all the responses you got.  I cant help but to laugh.. Its soooo True.  I have been in love twice in my life and both Aquarius.  I am swarmed by them like moths to a flame, and I too them.
    I have been with my Aquarius for almost 4years.  And believe me we have had some battles but he has always worked on our issues and has always been all in.  The being aloof and distant, it is their nature.  And Yes even after all these years I know how much he loves me but I do get lonely and feel forgetten.  But dont let that scare you, he is worth the wait and battle.  When I have his attention is undivided and I’m the person in his world.  We are often at opposite time lines. Example when I want attention he doesnt, when he wants my attention I dont.  Its irritating at time but hilarious.  We have a million laughs not only is he the love of my life, he is my best friend, my partner in crime.
    Get to know yourself and your aquarius nature and life will make sense and be easier. 
    Even after 4 years and we live together, he rarely calls me or texts me and its usually short and simple. 🙂
    Keep things light and airy.  Give him his space but if he’s taking too long for your give him a little nudge by texting him and just say Hi.
    Let him do what he does and plan the date.  Your a girl be a girl and let him romance you.  When you are on your date have fun with it.  Talk about what you like to do what you have done etc.  Show him how unpredictable you are or can be and it will excite him.  Aquarius love challenges and feeds off your passion and excitment. 
    We have this silly game where when he wants affection I dont give it to him, even a simple kiss.  It drives him crazy and he will try everything for me to give in even for hours. I make him work.  Its so silly but fun and exciting. 🙂
    Good luck with your aquarius and dont worry if its meant to be it will be.  Dont be so scared or so quick to jump all over him.  Space is good for him and for you.  But dont be afraid to give him a little nudge here and there :).

  51. Ar1es November 9th, 2012

    I have had 3 major relationships in my life. Each has been with an Aquarius. I’ve had children with the 2nd and fell deeply in love with the 3rd. From my experience, the Aquarian man can be so nurturing and good for the soul. You have the ones that are too clingy and the ones that are aloof. I’m more attracted to the aloof ones. I feel like they are a drug to Aries. Get u so high, then crash very hard when the high is over. I’m still addicted to my last Aquarian. But I have to learn to avoid them as the heartbreak is so strong. If the aquarian knew how to be more in tuned with Aries, than it can be the strongest relationship known to man as we work very well together. Unstoppable.

  52. McClellan October 6th, 2012

    Hey I’m an Aquarius male and I’m in love with an arise female but for some reason I just can’t tell her how I feel. We aren’t together but I want us to be when we hang out its fun but I want more than to just be friends but I just can’t ask her out because IM so scared it won’t work out what do I do.

  53. September 24th, 2012


  54. Tezk June 7th, 2012

    Hi Country Girl, i’m an aquarian male and i can tell you that is completely normal. we like the chase as much as the end result. but we dont like the chase in a bad “we’re just gonna lead you on for fun” kinda way. we want you to want us, but not be full on, but not be cold either. a bit of give and take. Be fun with it (the txt’s), be cheeky and witty. He will defnitely pick up on that and it will be an incredible turn-on.
    as for what to do on your next date, DEFINITELY do something off-the-wall. do something that is so different that it will shock him, but in a good way. He will respond well to a date like this.
    We just want someone to stimulate our minds and to challenge us. we are always after someone who will challenge us and have a war of the minds with us. but dont be too stubborn or submissive. hold your ground, but also give a little.
    dont listen to Lydia, we definitely DO know how to communicate in that way, we just dont like to. there’s not much that gets past us. our intuition leads us to know where the game is and the next best approach.
    whatever you do, do not be too full on, he will back away quicker than you can say “another Friday night alone”
    even if he isn’t communicating with you much, he is still interested in you. us being cold and distant doesnt mean we aren’t interested. it means we are needing time to refocus, re-adjust and just to recharge. we love company and people, but we need time to ourselves to to have a look at the week past and to take it all in.
    Best of Luck Country Girl. us Aquarian men are definitely worth all the work. we are very loyal and will give you everything you desire, as long as you give us the same…. remember, we need space, space, space, but we also want to know we are wanted.

  55. elmickey27 March 22nd, 2012

    Countrygirl7424, I also am into a two month relationship of sorts with an Aquarian man.  We were hot and heavy every few days but now it’s an every Friday night get together.  As an Aries we want more but I’ve learned that my Aquarian man loves his freedom, privacy and family.  He wants no strings (at this time). He doesn’t like texting or hardly any communication until I get the call on Friday night when he picks me up, which is something I am learning to deal with.  The fireworks are still there and we love each others company and talk and talk as well as… but I think this type of man has to learn how to give more.  He is sweet and considerate but as an Aries woman we need so much more attention, it’s been hard getting use to.  I suggest you try and spice up the next text, see if he likes you’re new approach, if he doesn’t take the bait, maybe it isn’t to be.  They don’t seem to know how to communicate in that way, while I am texting away, he responds with two or three words, usually not in response to my text, but some off the topic comment.  If he’s worth it to you, you’ll have to figure out what he can give, it might not be enough for you, but I have learned it’s not that he doesn’t want to, it’s all he is able to.   

  56. CountryGirl7424 March 20th, 2012

    Help Required Please
    I have just started to date a delicious Aquarian Man..there is lots of animal magnetism to be sure..we score very highly on that one and have had a couple of great dates but….24 hours after the end of the 2nd date when I was getting positive, lighthearted txts all looking good and things seemed to be proceeding well..we were’nt rushing into no 3 it was 9 days down the line…I suddenly get the cold shoulder and the tone of the txts really change and I suddenly feel that all the good things we had going are on the slide?
    A friend suggests that an Aquarian will usually do the opposite to what they are feeling i.e. at the beginning they get a little scared that they like you and they therefore back off….so I’ve cut the txts completely now and we are 36 hours on…I was going to leave it for 3 more days until the day before our proposed date before I contacted him again and made some suggestion about our proposed date and where we might go/meet.
    I’m feeling anxious about this because I really like this guy and I know I am going to have to learn to adapt to this ‘hot’ and then ‘col’ streak but should I just leave it until he contacts me?  I was going to suggest something quite off the wall for our next date hoping he might see this as really interesting and a challenge but not sure how he might react?  He’s very energetic and very driven in his chosen sport so I was hoping my suggestion might appeal to him rather than just suggesting some thing boring like a drink and a meal?
    Any views?

  57. aries331 January 31st, 2012

    I’m an aries and I love my aquarius so much, he was the first and only person I’ve ever been in love with(im 18 years old) but let me tell you what, he is a lot to handle! It is really hard for Aquarius men to trust and accept friendship as well as lovers, and he’s done that with me. He’s SO STUBBORN! and he defiantly goes through mood swings and depression phases. One time he said I was interfering with his life too much and he didn’t talk to me for over 9 months!!! Every time we get in these kind of fights though, he always comes back to me, thats how I know he’s in love with me. When he’s sweet, nothing makes my heart melt more. Now being an Aries, I am very loud, outgoing, jealous, stubborn…etc. But I love this boy so much, all those traits go away when I’m with him. I deal with all his crazy mood swings and don’t push him any farther, you only see my good side when I’m with him :). Aquarius’s are extremely passionate and loyal though like the article said, he would do anything for me at any time and we defiantly do understand each other. No matter what happens, we’ll always love each other.

  58. lala9091 January 27th, 2012

    @Lexasso what was the outcome?? as an Aries girl, im intrigued now! lol

  59. Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    I love Aquarius men!!!!!!!!!

  60. Alice-X September 20th, 2011

    All I have to say is that the Aquarian I’m seeing is the opposite of all the bad experiences no rudeness intended this guy is actually ver respectful, smart,and talkative. It’s funny how we always seem to be able to talk for hrs on end and not get tired of eachother we are so ready to meet… I know this will be great.

  61. Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @ariesme Girl I so agree with you!! The sex is so great!! and even though we did not say we are together we act like it and when we go out dancing I feel like he is the only one in the room

  62. Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @LostAquarian You are right because my friend got her from his marriage his wife left him for another man and now she is making it hard for him to see his kids and I have to go through all that with him.. I feel bad sometimes and wish he can be happy but it is going to take sometime.

  63. Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @ Carrie, I know just wat you mean he makes me sick with his kindness!!! I really love this man but sometimes he can be so cold and I hate that he does not like to talk about his feeling but his action shows me he really care about me and he loves to be around me but I am so confuse that I really want to give up on him and move on because I am tired of getting mad with him being hot and cold

  64. Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @this website)I agree with this site I am a Aries woman inlove wit a Aquarian man now for 2yrs.. He drives me crazy with the distance! But when he comes out of that he is so nice and great with me… The sex is amazing.. We have been knowing each other for like 5 yrs before we was actually talking. We were both married.. Now that we have been talking and its been hot and cold.. So he went to FL for a week an half and I decided not to contact him because I know they need there space and wat do you know he calls me twice seen he been down there.. He should be back home today so I want to know how our relationship will be since we have not been talking much

  65. LostAquarian August 15th, 2011

    @Aries Girl What you fail to take into account is the experiences of the Aquarian in question…If the Auarian has gone through enough heartache he’ll know not to hurt anyone as much as he’s been heart.Our Distantness is simply a defense from the pain,there are those of us who are affected by the coldness rather then emitting it

  66. bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    ARIESME………… reccomendation for u is to move on wt ur life trust me…he is no good for u….

  67. bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    oh also ive learned bout this tooo b4 u really actually get involve wt aquarious man find out his backgrounds and what not,,,,but if his a type of a person who cant tell u nothing and not open up wt u as much as u are.and if he drinks too much and partying too much, well then i guesss thats a bad aquarious

  68. bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    well some of the things that this thing saying is true and false….yes ive met some aquarious whos an assss i shall say and those are the bad ones, maybe cuz of how they way they were brought up and wther if they were taught good by their parents or not…but luckyly i did met another aquarious man who is so sincere,sweet,kind,whos there for me no matter what and regardless,his basically well mannered man,and he came from a good family. as an aries woman i am the one who wear pants occasionally in our relationship,but i too also make him wear his pant too…theres no jealousy thing going on in our relationship.he understand me for what i am and who i am.

  69. bayouaries June 22nd, 2011

    oh my. All true. My aqua guy has so many female friends. It drives me crazy, cause he so damn sweet to them. They always run to him with teir problems. Sometimes I have to act a fool to get his attention. Lol but his mom loves me cause she says his past girlfriends never called him on anything. I’m an Aries baby and I got words. Then at other times when he says mami I calm down. Just like that.

  70. ariesexy June 18th, 2011

    I am an aries lady in love with an aquarius man. So far it is the most natural and nurturing relationship I have ever been in. He is so non-judgmental and whenever we are together it feels like we are the only ones in the world. The detached emotional part of his personality can be confusing. The more I fall back the more he latches on and vice versa-weird…but intriguing! I can’t help it I am in total love with him and the sex is the best I have ever had in my life! If u r an aries girl in luv with an aquarian guy ur n for a great treat!

  71. ariesme May 19th, 2011

    I(apr 9)have never had my emotions so toyed by anyone except by this aquarius(25 Jan)…it takes me two month before I can see him anytime…communication is usually one sided for the two months followed by then one fine day he writes back its ok to meet..then we have the most wonderful crazy time together, like we have been the best of couples for many years, then aagain the two month longing trauma again before I get to see him…It seems like stupidity on my part to even pursue someone like this, but I cant help it..he is way too interesting for me…and so.. I seem to appear like a fool. I wonder if I should just give him a piece of my mind one of these days

  72. mary April 14th, 2011

    An aries woman, acquarius man combo in the one made in heaven. We like each other so much, have so much in common, independent, freedom loving, adventurous and love challenges. Iam an aries woman and I love to be with my acquarius man. We both admire each other for what we are. The bedroom is full of fun and adventure. we both enjoy our intimacy.I think an acquarius man is a good match for an aries girl

  73. gigi April 1st, 2011

    I was born 3/30 and the experiences I’ve had with aqua men have been not been very good at all. That’s why I’m here, because I’ve met this aqua man that “seems” ok but they all do in the beginning. The relationships seem mentally and emotionally draining to me and they aren’t very loyal or honest imo.

  74. roe March 12th, 2011

    I’m a aqu man an I have been with arian woman 13yrs don’t tell them anything about your personal mistakes cause they will us it to be impulsive in the wrong way in the future have own shit and stand firm when it time keep her busy and she will never be happ y with her status in life untell. She makes 2 or 3 ‘mistakes

  75. Aqua Man March 11th, 2011

    I met an aries woman recently. She is just a wonderful person. I really like and enjoy how in-tune we are with each other. The communication between us is very good, it just feels right. She is
    sensitive on one side and firey on the other. Its such a awesome balance. She also knows how to give me space when I need it so thats a good thing. She can be persistant in trying to get feelings and thoughts out of me but thats just her way to my heart I guess.

    I just fell really good around her so if your a aqua aries combo just go for it. When it works it really works.

  76. Arian February 16th, 2011

    I’m an aries woman with an aquarian man and all that I’ve read is true. It’s amazing how all of this is accurate. It’s almost like it’s describing us. I couldn’t be any happier than to be with him as well. He’s kept me happy and willing to do whatever for him to make his self esteem the best, for he’s quite sensitive toward the world, but he’s willing to protect me from any harm that I may encounter. For Valentine’s Day he got me a beautiful necklace and before made me promise not to get him anything, so then I had decided to draw him a picture symbolizing all of our love along with every word to him from my heart <3

  77. Aquarius_a_3 February 13th, 2011

    I agree wit ‘some1’, I’m an aquarius guy nd I’ve been in a relationship wit an aries girl for almost a year now. I love her nd even want to b committed to her. We argue alot about mostly everythin abt keepin a relationship. I get skeptical at times nd wonda y it alwys seem like she’s pushin herself on me, I guess it’s d fire in her nd d strong attraction she has towards me. I jst need her to know wen to tak a break off me; how to treat me wit respect; nd let me b wen I really want to b left alone. Dat’s all !

  78. Some1 January 11th, 2011

    Yes, I’m an aries born in 19 march. Some astrologers say it is pisces, but my character says the opposite exactly as Dec 27th comment. Whatever, I understand aquarians very well and I needed TIME to do so. Now, we are the best of friends and lovers. Whenever you feel that you can NOT handle that detachment anymore as many arians reach this point !, just take a BREACK for some time. Trust me 😉 .

  79. mika December 29th, 2010

    yes..this article is definitely true!!

  80. Shhh December 27th, 2010

    I’m really a Pisces, but I was born on a cusp, because my birthday is the 19 of march, so in my opinion, I’m much more similar to a Aries than I am to a Pisces; any way! Aquarious, agh, there so biepolar! One minute there hot, the next there cold, I have many good friends that are aquarious’s, but, they have these long periods of depression, and out of nowhere there just happy and funny, in my opinion, there VERY unpredictable, and that’s kind of nerve wrecking after a while. There hard to understand. If you can get them and relate to them thats awesome, but, there SO tricky to understand !

  81. NA December 20th, 2010
  82. KT December 13th, 2010

    I’m an aries kiwi, he’s an aquarius swede, haven’t seen him since we were on a kibbutz in Israel the week of my 21st… after 23 years we are in contact via email. I can’t wait to meet him again some day!

  83. kiara December 8th, 2010

    well i am in a relationship with an aquarian man for 3 years now,and must say if they are committed they really are,he treats me like a goddess and being an aries girl i just enjoy that.
    aquarius men are very deep ,passionate,emotional,and romantic..

    justneed to find the committed ones and life is just perfect for an aries as we are we imagine our dream guys to be perfect ,if ur an arian ull no wat i mean ,welook for that guy wholl pamper us be crazy abt us ,give us that lil happy ending…

    and a aquarius guy who is head over heels in love is exactly like that:)

  84. Aries girl November 26th, 2010

    i like an aquarius dude and well we started off being best friends until i tld him i liked him he said he was confused and well that being that i said ok then. after we were kinda like strangers but now i catch him sometimes lookin at me and our relationship is gettin warmer again cause it was o cold before but the thing is that i like him cause he makes me so furious and i love the way he makes me feel like so alive i love the challange and i guess he cant keep away from me either cause he is around me and well he has to find a subject to talk about i guess with time our relationship will be as hot as it was before.

  85. Aries woman November 6th, 2010

    I so agree with Aries girl “March 13th”

  86. Married Aries Girl! :) October 12th, 2010

    I married one at 18…first and only sex part. greatest guy in the world! Today..Three years later I am as happy as if it were our first day together….

    Great article!

    True in every way!

  87. Lexas August 18th, 2010

    In continuation of my post dated 12/08…guess what? He finally got back in touch and we arranged to meet again. Only this time, when I arrived, he was fast asleep on the sofa and his mate answered the door???
    It was strange, because instead of feeling let down or annoyed, I actually felt it was quite funny. I had to wait in his house for a taxi to take me back home and whilst waiting, I changed my shoes (bad choice in heels!) and put on my handy roll-up slip-ons – you know the ones girls! When the taxi arrived, in my haste I forgot my heels. Next morning, text comes through from Mr. Aquarius asking “why leave shoes…..” I explained in reply and asked that he put the shoes in a carrier bag and leave outside by his bins and I would collect them on my way home. That was Sunday. I have had no response from him and I have not contacted him either, mainly because I have been so busy with work and home, I haven’t had the time.

    The saga continues….

  88. ahkweriass teen Boy August 17th, 2010

    to the above aries grl….iv been in a relationship with an aries grl, n jus to speak on behalf ov ur bfrnd, evertym we aquarius comes to textin an aries grl! we try to think ov so many thngz to say until we look bk n jus leav it withou evn text…it hppnz to me all the time… my advise fo u is to meet hm in person, arange it dnt js shoW up p.s i love my aries, shes so open,

  89. Lexas August 12th, 2010

    I recently met an Aquarius man and I have to say, it’s been hard work and now I just don’t know where I stand with him. At first, I pursued him and he seemed interested and then he would cool off. Then out of the blue, he would respond like nothing went amiss?

    We agreed a meet and he invited me to his house. I was excited and nervous, as the sexually tension was so strong. Then we I got there, he was so cool, almost not bothered. After 2 and half hours of pleasant chatting, I began to wonder what the hell I was there for? I became impatient with the waiting to see if he would make a move and said it was getting late and I was going home. I kissed his cheek and left.

    I made no further contact with him, as I resigned myself to believe that he wasn’t that interested after all. Then out of the blue, 2 days later, he sends me a text saying it was weird how I just walked off…! I was surprised that he had even thought about it! In my reply, I stated I was sorry he thought it was weird and that i didn’t mean it to be. I’ve texted him a couple of times since and guess what? Nothing. He hasn’t replied.

    So, now I’m again resigned to think he doesn’t want to know, but I am so curious to know what he is thinking, its driving me nuts! I have to keep telling myself not to contact him again and its sooooo hard. I’m too intrigued.

    We’ll see what happens…

  90. efelia retazo July 26th, 2010

    somoetime im not beliaeve to horoscope
    why be coz me
    now i cannot feel love to all guys
    starting im getting broken hearted
    i love to my ex boy friend
    his sodiac sign is acquarius
    febuary 16 1984.and i am aries sisgn march 25 1982
    they said to the neumerologist this sign is so compatible but nothing we are breaking up

  91. Divine July 12th, 2010

    So true its scary.!

  92. akwa guy May 23rd, 2010

    ive dated an arian girl for 6 years now, without any breaks, but now we broke up. and although im a bit stalkerhish – ill admit – shes the one whos the most jealous. maybe because she doesnt like the idea of losing to another girl? its nothing but pride and ambition, she’s not jealous because of our lost love? she drove me crazy with her behavior after we broke up: either cold, or hot. i should be given a straight answer: stay, or go away!

  93. Arian princess 17 May 17th, 2010

    Aquarians are such jerks! They always baby talk their way. I thought I liked this Arian more than just a friend. Since he told me he liked me too but… Turned out he only wanted experience with a “good girl”… And we’ve been talking like we r going out for awhile now. But on his myspace, facebook and all says he’s SILL single. We’ve already told ea other we like ea other asmort than friends. But then y is this??? Arians bewareof a jerk who will only b trying to play u. Make sure he’s serious and will stick to it. I so wonder wat will happen with me and this aqua..

  94. yride May 4th, 2010

    I’ve loved Aquarians for years, I agree with the hot and cold aspect of their natures. We get along great, as long as we don,t try to control each other but in the end I think that we make better friends than a couple, when the sex is good is g-g-reat! That’s usually what keeps us coming back for more.

  95. cocoacreme April 26th, 2010

    I too have dated many Aquarians and I do find them to be aloof too often. One minute he can’t stop calling me and the other minute he is no where to be found. I also feel he likes everything done on his terms which I am not always comfortable with. It is such a touch and go situation I think I will leave them (Aquarians) alone for now.

  96. ARIESGAL April 24th, 2010

    I have been with my aqua ex for 17 years and yes we are compatible, in fact he was like my best friend most of the times, but we both went down our seperate roads and i’ve never looked back but he has alot. I personally think aqua’s and leo’s are most compatible with aries, as we all understand each other.

  97. aries girl March 27th, 2010

    i feel like I’m in love with this aquraius guy! he is so great! he liked me but now he doesnt. i moved away and he cried. i’m confused! we’re best friends though!

  98. Another Aries Here March 24th, 2010

    Be careful when an when an aquarius falls hard. “The Aquarius falls hard for the Aries woman who is filled with the innocence of a child. He craves her vulnerability” He stalked me for a year.

  99. Kate Aries Girl March 18th, 2010

    I am an aries woman and qquarian men are going to be great!
    So far everything is so good, any one who wants to doubt the relationship should re consider before speaking

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