Aries Woman and Gemini Man Love Compatibility

As the calm and airy Gemini feels a connection with the fiery Aries they can work very well as team in all aspects of life. Both of them enjoy the commonly shared love and affection but for Gemini, their freedom is above the security provided by love while for Aries love is just a synonym of life.

A Gemini man is mentally ambitious person with very cool and calm aura. He is generally a logical and rational being but lacks practicality at times. He never fights for position and authority as it gives him the space to explore different avenues of life and helps him remain free of responsibilities. He falls for an Aries woman very quickly as he falls in love with the mind first and Aries woman is definitely an intellectual lady. He is never a jealous man, which can cause some problems for him with the Aries woman as she likes her man to be a bit jealous and possessive.

An Aries woman is very energetic and ambitious lady and is always ready to take initiative in all aspects of life. She is ready to accept any idea, sound or unsound, that appeals to and arouses her emotions. She is generally quick in making decisions and has a direct approach for love. In love with a Gemini man, she needs constant reassurance as she has the fear of rejection deep inside her. She expects her lover to live in her dream world and fulfill all her demands of affection and devotion.

An Aries woman in love with a Gemini man provides him with a partner who can go to any extend to defend and protect her man. She helps him in achieving success and fulfilling all his wishes with her strong courage. She gives herself away quickly, by holding nothing back and ensuring her Gemini prince of all the love and intimacy. She often allows her fear of rejection to create serious bitterness towards others. This woman needs constant reassurance. He should always remember that she expects all he can give and some more. There is a magnetic force of his care free nature that attracts her and she expects him to be the miracle of her life giving her innocent faith and passionate love to him.

A Gemini man always provides an Aries woman with a calm and collected partner who has a mental rationality of her equal or rather even more. Aries are rulers of the head, while Gemini’s rule the mind. This causes the mutual attraction between them. He loves the mental challenges (and some mind games too) she gives him. He is able to bring out her sweet and affectionate nature that she rarely reveals to others. He proves himself to be superior in some ways, while making it clear that he admires her for her own qualities, which are equal to his and some even superior. But the sense of jealously and fear of loosing love makes her dominating and possessive which cause problems between them as he loves his freedom above everything.

The union between an Aries woman and a Gemini man result in an explosion of emotions and intimacy unmatched by others. Once these two decide to remain together, she learns to control her jealousy and insecurities, while he learns to sympathize with her motives for this behavior. As he verbalizes his admiration for the lovely Aries woman, she feels a bounce in her femininity making her love him more and more and gives him the freedom he deserves. Their love becomes so pure and strong that all their misunderstandings dissolves away and even in the worst of arguments do not stand for long. He does a lot of chasing, but rarely obtains what he is chasing but she provides him with stability and helps him achieve all his endeavors. There is no in-between for these two as their relationship reaches the triumph.

The Aries woman has a more passionately burning need of physical intimacy while the Gemini man has some slightly airy desires of making love. As for their physical compatibility, he is one of the few men who are capable of creating the illusions this woman needs during sex. But there are two side to the same coin. Sometimes she begins to feel that he is holding something back, even during intimacy. This is not just a part of her delusional thinking. A lack of pleasure is lacking on his part due to his airy approach to lovemaking. Love making to him is equivalent of some hot imaginations and sensations. He closes his eyes, and he basks in the pleasure of oneness, feeling the surging, pulsations of relief sweep through him and this baffles his Aries lady even more. He needs to understand that he does not have to put on a show in bed. He needs to become more involved in the love making process and engage in intimacy. It will take some work for both of them to keep their love life burning brightly.

The Aries woman and Gemini man lack restraint in the area of love between the two of them. They are very fulfilling and rejoicing couple. He admires the intellect and courage of the Aries woman, the possessiveness and jealousy of this woman hampers his liberty making him feel uncomfortable and bounded. Though she also esteems hid level-headedness, his carefree nature makes her feel unwanted and unprotected leaving her cold and detached. To make the relationship actually work he has to be more considerate and she needs to leave her fears behind to fly freely with her cheery Gemini man.

  1. Kimberley C Bass March 26th, 2019

    I wish my Gemini would love me more.

  2. Aries women lose her trust.. February 22nd, 2019

    I have been in a relationship going on 4 years with my Gemini man. When we first started dating it was like Magic we both couldn’t get enough of each other. We also were living 5 hours away from one another, so when we seen each other we only had so much time to share. He ask me to move in with him after 7 months of dating long distance. But when I did my world had change not in a good way.. I started to find out he had a lot of ex girlfriends, and I guess you can call friends with benefits that we’re texting, messaging him on Facebook. I also found out he will message them when I was not around, in a flirting type way. It not only hurt but broke me.. I did confront him about this and as a Gemini he changed his addicted toward me and denied everything. He started pushing me away emotionally, and physically. I was so In love with him I dealt with every obstacle that came at me. I started to realize if I just leave him alone and not be pushing for love and affection he will come back to the person I loved. And I was right he did, but in my heart I still feel this hurt not to let myself go again. things got better we have grow stronger, but he still flirts with women on Facebook. I know because he always is on Facebook, and carries his phone every were with him. He also get weird in a way when I try to be around him he will push me away, by making me think I did something wrong. I try to think he has customers calling or texting because he is self employed. When things are great he will show me his true side, and he will talk about marriage, and having a family. But can I trust him? I know Gemini’s are big flirts, he had always told me he will never and had ever cheated on me. But why flirt with other women. I’m a very active Aries, and love adventure, I also will do anything for him.

    • G April 17th, 2019

      Hi, I seen the comments and decided to respond about gemini’s.
      I don’t know how old you are, probably a little older than me if he’s flirting on Facebook. But, like him I like to flirt too, talking to women is just fun. I’ve never cheated but, men do, so do women. Is he still flirting with women on Facebook? I guarantee it.
      Should you stop him? Probably. I he might just flirt to flirt, but wouldn’t bring it to cheating unless the other woman knew he was cheating, and he thought he wouldn’t get caught.
      Should you trust him? Nah we will leave you for one of those women at the right time.

  3. Brandy W May 22nd, 2018

    I’m a Aries woman and I’ve known my Gemini man since we were teenagers, he actually dated my friend which was the way we met. When I seen him as an adult in a bar it was like I seen the halo sent from heaven. Over the decades now that we are much older we have grown so closer no other man has the effect on me that he gives me. At 34 yrs old he has chosen me to possibly be the mother of his first child. I know it’s not a damn ring lol, but I honestly think it’s a start to what our future holds.

  4. Wayne Rhodes September 21st, 2017

    Gemini man Aries wife for more than 38 years never ever had any problems you people are having. Wow we never have anything that resembles a fight. Just pure love love for one another. Don’t get so fixated about the signs between you and other people. It will ruin your relationship, pure love can get along with any sign

    • karen February 25th, 2018

      That’s so lovely to hear. Gemini husband & me his Aries wife. <3

  5. Robin Wrenn Fiore July 3rd, 2017

    Dear GM,
    I am an Aries female just like your (hopefully not forever) ex. Believe me, she is still in love with you. Aries women (especially first deacon, like myself) cannot walk away from a Gemini man. The chemistry is unbelievable. Your letter was so heartfelt and insightful. Go (re)capture that Ram! Word of warning, it may necessitate “lighting yourself on fire,” metophorically speaking-of course. Seriously, though, be a Knight on a Steed and prepare to get slightly singed.
    Good luck & Godspeed
    As Aries as They Get

  6. Alan May 30th, 2017

    Gutted Gemini,

    I am a Gemini, I too suffered…u have to realise and u will, ur chasing ur own tail, just like we always do. It’s all in ur mind my friend, it’s part of who u are. There is something out there called the red pill…go find it, it can ground u once u get beyond the shallow hurt people have suffered, the opinions and the straight forward ignorance. It is the principle…go now, become a man and realise u still have alot to offer…alot to give and someone out there my friend, u wil fill her soul to the brim and she will love u. Always remember, if u ever run out of the air of which ur made…there will be nothing left and u will end up here, again…just where u started. Happy travels, good luck!

    • Andy June 5th, 2017

      Aggressive Aries dreamer here,

      Don’t do it Gem. The red pill will shatter her little dream world. She needs it to survive. You will shatter her soul. That love we crave you are just not capable of. We both know you cant give her what she wants anything less and she will burn both you and herself. Like the mother of dragons she truly is, she will rise again and you will be left with nothing but scorched earth on which you once had built a dream that was never possible.

      We try, well I really do try so hard with your type. Ive had a few of you it always starts the same full of passion, then drama, blowup and finally a drawn out torturous ending. Once we have made up our minds there is no stopping us. There is a scale in our heads weighing the good and bad and by the time we walk the table has been tossed and it just looks like a hot mess not worth sorting out. We are impulsive and when that rage flares up there is no reason or ration that will prevent us from destroying our targets.

      Leave her be, she has to come first to someone who can give her the attention she needs. You are to wishy-washy for out type anyways.

      • Linda Mccallister August 18th, 2019

        What is the red pill yall talk about here?

  7. Gutted Gemini May 1st, 2017

    Gemini man here. Just got left in a huge apartment after my Aries mate bounced after a huge blowout fight. She’s already with another guy she met with 3 days after she left me, I’m crushed cause I know they are doing the deed. I’m demolished. She did what she accused me of/was afraid I was gonna do for our whole relationship. Ladies, since you don’t know me please allow me to share my thoughts on what could have made it better. If I am with someone I am with them. I am a loyalist. Some days are good for me and some days my brain is on overdrive. On those days, I love you just as much as any other day, but my mind is so busy and we are all internally infinite, so it is a lot to process. A Gemini male may seem like he doesn’t have goals like non gems , but I can assure I attach my goals to a quality of life and for strong relationships. One of the things that really always bugged me about my ram was that she was constantly rocking the boat. Constantly mad at something and this left me feeling unbalanced and threw my passion off for her. Ladies if you really love your Gemini man, and I know you still do no matter what, be a foundation for them, let them weather the mental storm, and know that they will be there, loving you even deeper as the years go by. My ex was the best sex I have ever had. We had a moment where I felt like I had never been deeper into the soul of someone when we had sex on molly. I literally felt like I was swimming inside of her soul. Her eyes are ice blue but still yield so, so much fire. I know passion is a priority for you ladies and all you have to do is remind your Gemini that they don’t need to put on a performance every time. I really feel like if she was just there for me and didn’t blow up, we could have worked out anything. We had this huge connection through music. I write music as a hobby and have been trying to finish songs about her for years. We don’t even talk right now and it’s been one of the worst months of my life, but I am finishing these songs, I am gonna give them to her with the hope that I will shatter the shell of resentment and pierce into the heart I know still has fire for me. Ladies you are not a flame or a fling, you are the sun. I hope that she feels the passion through this work that I am making in her honor and finally sees what she really means to me. I would take her back now, even after the other guy. Even after all the fights. Even after the mortgage I am paying all by myself for an apartment that is now the tomb of what was. If she would come back I would put her on the affection pedistool she wants and deserves, if she just give me the freedom to be me and gives me space when needed. I’ll always come back.

    • Ladie Xeven May 1st, 2017

      Hey. I wonder if all Gemini Men are like this. I am an Aries woman n am still so deeplie in love with my ex Gemini man. He n i spilt n it killed me. I was the insecure one n it pushed him away. I want him back. We r finallie talking n though i want him back i am not pushing. ((Which isnt me)) i want him to say he wants me

    • mylife326 June 7th, 2017

      That’s all great to hear but did you tell her all this? Aries women are very understanding as long as you communicate, it’s when you don’t that things get bad. But don’t think saying all this once or twice is enough. As you can’t show it all the time you need to use your words which, as a gemini should come really easy to you. As an Aries woman, I’d advice you to say this as much as possible until she believes it. If she is worth it then show it (if not with your actions then with your words). And don’t forget to tell her how much of a duck you can be…but that’s just how you are. If she can take up that challenge, the reward will be great for her. She’s a bit of a kid no matter how maturely she acts. Keep trying and be patient. Know that when she gets upset it’s cos she loves you and doesnt want to lose you so just remind her that you love and want only her and can be a dick and things will hopefully get better.

      • SoppyrockheadedGemini June 10th, 2017

        Wow. You’re words are exactly how I want to be with my Aries lady ex. She’s so incredible. We split 4 months after my brother passed unexpectedly. At the time I didn’t realise the effect it had on me and in turn how I was treating her. After a while we split. About 5 months later she gets back in touch. Then again after 2 months, I wish her happy birthday. And he asked me out to coffee. We’ve spoken and she is adamant she wants to be just friends. But I think she wants more. She never pulls away when I run my fingers through her hair, she never pulled away when I kissed her forehead the first time we met. She calls me and texts regularly. More than “friends” should. But she blows hot and cold. I just want her to tell me exactly how she feels … oh I am a Gemini man btw

    • Mili December 24th, 2018

      Tell her this

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  9. aRIESwOMAN August 17th, 2015

    @Jenitza  Hej you Aries friend you make me feel so good..,,,..because I am an aries woman dating gemini man…We are best friend for 5years and dating for 2years…Could you give any adwice to me….

  10. aRIESwOMAN August 17th, 2015

    Gemini man favourite qoute is ”this is me,..I am comming I am going”
    This is what I hate the most on him…,..what makes me feel cold in front of him,…vanish my fire…We are best friend for 5year and we have been dating for 2year.,;..We both are studing medicine.Could you share with me your experiences,…While I was reading the describe for love compatibility it was so dam true,..and your comments were a  little bit scary but you mister electrophibical makes me have faith that I can deal with a gemini man..,..The best of all is that we aries women have a lot of projects and gemini man like this…, gemini does :$….He likes that I am always working on something except college,…He sais to me ”you can do everything”’….
    I would like to know  how to keep his light on ..,..would you mind to give any idea of suprises or presents these things….,…..Sincerely Aries 

  11. Electro@ May 4th, 2015

    I am a Gemini man in a relationship with my Aries Lady for 5 months now. I can truely say it was long last remarkably love at first sight. We completly click, as are bond is powerful and strong for each other like no other…like soulmates, the bestest friends and faithful lovers. We had it all for each other. I feed her flames full of compassion, knowledge, caring, and with so much love strengthening the relationship and forever I shall. As she has given me confidence, a sense of direction, and positive lead in life. I Couldn’t be thankful enough to have her by my side. We have so much crazy lovin energy for eachother that it’s an endless spark of romance and companionship because we have been through all the aspects in are life that there is so many things in common that we share. Even at are worst days possible we comfort eachother. I calm her hot headedness all the time since she does have a temper. My positive gestures and cheery enlightenment speeches calms her anger flames all the time. Even at her sad status, I’ve given her the motivation & guidence she needed to keep her on feet again. And she attends to make me feel special to her and ONLY her. Which is all this relationship is all about… “A give and take & given back” cycle countinously strong. The most of you can ever ask with an aries womens heat of passion/desire and gemini mans Winds of change/adapt compadibility for this is an energetic cycle that requires it’s sources and needs to fuel each others satisfaction and happiness for. Most of all were very loyal for one another and trust is the biggest thing that it’s part of. But to all the other Aries & Gemini’s follow you’re hearts for the right person who can worth being effort for if you are going to find your true love at most of it find the person that makes you what it’s worth being for never giving up. We were made for each other to keep going what we wanted to have eachother for. My goals and hers were to live a better life together once I’ve retired from Navy (fulltime) 4years into a career field while shes finished her college majors in bachelors PT. It’s all about working together to make dreams happen for me and her because when we have eachothers backs were just an unstoppable force to be. 🙂

  12. groeschley November 11th, 2014

    Air and fire is symbolic of the relationship I had with my Gemini ex.  
    Like hot air rising, I helped him reach greater heights.  Like air blowing out or intensifying fire, he made me feel hot and cold.  It was an exhausting 7 years of an on-and-off roller coaster ride.  We were both each other’s firsts, but even that meant nothing at the end of the day.  
    His “desire for freedom” as stated above makes him an unstable partner–he doesn’t truly know what he wants out of life except to do what he capriciously desires.  He is too carefree and is never mindful of how his actions will affect others.  
    My dear fellow Aries ladies, if you want to experience feeling unwanted, unprotected, and your love unrequited go for a Gemini man.  No matter how great the amazing times are, it is a battle you will never win and a battle not worth losing yourself over.

  13. bridget-71 October 31st, 2014

    I seriously couldn’t believe what i have just read as described me the Aries woman perfectly. I have just started dating a Gemini man and yet again couldn’t believe what i had read and how true it was. I have alot of insecurities through past relationships and as a rule tend to put up this front where i come across maybe rude but definately aggressive and tend to push people away by this behaviour or constantly worrying and questioning things . It also said Aries women fall in love quickly and despite denieing it this is also true and being gullable get hurt often which is when the front comes back and being aggressive.

  14. Southern-girl July 22nd, 2014

    This is very true of both personalities.  I have fallen for two Gemini’s, one just very recently.  I had to break it off or I was going to worry myself sick over where he was and who he was with.  Great sex, though, wish it could have been more.  But he wasn’t interested.

  15. Lilianne June 4th, 2014

    I actually think this is the perfect match! Gemini men are who you really want Aries woman. Fun, happiness, joy, and a man you can chase???????

  16. Tracymum January 2nd, 2014

    I’m Vietnamese. I just have a relationship with a Gemini German man. This is the first time I love a foreign person so it’s quite strange for me. I thought it is normal until i read this post. It’s so true to what i think right now. He makes me think that i am in a game of love…I can not understand and i still try to know him more.  

  17. mintychoco August 7th, 2013

    I am an Aries lady in love with a Gemini man. He and I were in a relationship for 5 years.  I created this account to express how relatable the compatibility report is about our relationship—as well as some of the comments written by other Aries women.  
    Without delving into too much information, I feel I suffocated him with my passionate personality, and he didn’t know how to handle the situation so he fled.  Moreover, he made me feel so insecure and made me feel that the whole relationship was a game of tug-of-war. (He was sometimes close and very loving which is what I loved about him, then he was aloof and very fickle which made me feel more insecure.)  Ironically, out of the two, I feel that I was more level-headed and intellectual than him; I did more of the thinking.  He was the one who acted thoughtlessly and acted in a way that ended our relationship. 
    I know our love is true.  And as foolish as it may sound, I know I love him enough to forgive him and possibly get back together with him despite his faults (and despite the protests from those in my life).  He was good and bad for me at the same time.  But we both brought each other to a high level of bliss and cherished memories. 
    We’ll see where life takes me and him.  For now time will be the only one to tell. 

  18. Brandihuggins August 1st, 2013

    This is all very true, which means so is the part of making Aries feeling unwanted and unprotected. I am a female Aries engaged to a male Gemini. We have a baby together now, and I don’t know what to do. I’m so unhappy all I ever do is cry. We are scheduled to get married mid October! We have a child together now which makes it all that harder. I’m trying so hard to stay for the sake of our child (I grew up with my parents divorced and I dont want to put her through that). I don’t know what to do, I  love him very much but I feel so distant. All he ever does is sit on his computer or play Chess on his phone. I feel like I’m going to explode any day. Do I leave or do I stay? Sad thing is, I know if I left he wouldn’t chase ask me to stay. I’ve never felt more alone in my life. Im almost positive he doesn’t want to be with me anymore and I’m starting to feel the same about him….. Dear lord please help me! Aries and Gemini don’t make the best match, or atleast in my situation. 

  19. aireyfairy June 13th, 2013

    Thankyou…. you may as well have written about my relationship, this has helped me (us) immensly. This has provided more insight and understanding than I could have ever asked for. Once I read your comment something changed and has shifted in me, I no longer second guess us being togther and often re read this for the support and in those times of frustration….

  20. delimeat7 May 8th, 2013

    I am an Aries woman and I have falling for a Gemini man. It has been the most emotionally draining relationship I have ever been in. He makes me feel so bad at times but good at others. He is charming, bright and so cool and calm. Not me at all. Nothing I say or do effects him it seems. I asked him how he feels and he offers me nothing. For the life of me, I don’t know why I put up with. I don’t ask for much from others but there are a few things that are ‘Non-Negotiable‘ respect, honest, love and loyalty. Because best believe it’s what you’ll get from me.

  21. aries1993 April 6th, 2013

    no sweetie i dont think you should stop just because some people on here relationships ave gone south doesnt mean tat yours will if we all thought like that then hell there wouldnt be any love in the world but if its going good for you than you should continue it and just live life and be happy with were you are in life because honestly could it e any better?? and if you give up on it what shall i think i havent even started te relationship i want wit the gemini man im in love with and yes i do admit that a lot of these scare the shit out of me as well but what is life without taking chances ??? i am going to take a chance that can cause me to lose some of my family for a very long time but ive had to ask myself if i love him and he loves me than is it wort it?? go live life the way you want to and if you see him as a part of it let it happen and be happy with it..

  22. aries1993 April 6th, 2013

    i am an aeris women and am in love with a gemini man i met him when i was 13 and wen he was 17 he is also in love with me and always has been but we have never tried being together so i looked up our compatibility and all this is spot on even around him without speaking or any contact with him i feel so different i feel like ive never felt before with any other man and ive never been with a gemini before but i can say when we talk when i see him i feel so much energy from him and i want to  be with him but have been so afraid to act upon those actions for many reason but reading this and reading everyone elses response including Gemini1976’s reply has helped me a lot and i think and hope that he is the one and i will hope he takes me as i am and i will forsure be back on here to let everyone know how it works out

  23. justforfun April 2nd, 2013

    Seems as though a lot of relationships went south with this pairing because a Gemini man can drive an Aries woman insane (and vice versa). We’re all or nothing and very confident in what we decide, us Aries ladies, so it can be hard to be with someone who can have such mood swings and changing thought patterns.And it’s funny to read how every comment said something like, “It was a connection I never felt before or since.” Exactly how I feel about my Gemini! Aries, we want boundaries and a framework to move within (perhaps just to break them down and create new ones). But I’ve learned Geminis don’t understand those concepts, or at least abandon them entirely! Should we get angry when a Gemini is aloof and hard to understand? I’ve learned that it’s a waste of energy because it’s like yelling at the sun for rising. Understand that first, and I’m sure some of the problems you may have with a Gemini will disappear. Take on a Gemini like a challenge with lessons to learn, and it will be very satisfying. We are much more connected to our hearts, which can scare a Gemini. However, Gemini likes to understand things (which can probably explain the bipolar aspect. They can’t accept that some things cannot be understood with the mind). That can make him seem disconnected to emotions (and perhaps he is), but I know I have the intellectual power and courage to show him that living by my heart is what made him attracted to me in the first place. So, he may not understand how I can live that way, but with each day he respects that about me more and more. And when a Gemini grants you respect, it is quite the compliment.If you’re sure of Gemini, let him know you’re not going anywhere, and he won’t need reminding of that, and he’ll appreciate that you’ll stick by him even when he can’t trust himself. You have the steadfastness of heart he lacks. So if there comes a time he needs more space, rest assured he’ll get up close and personal again, if you provide it. So, when he comes out of his “cave”, you’ll be the first person he confides in his discoveries. How exciting! And remember, he’s loyal in his own way, not the way you want him to be, which can be equally maddening and absolutely exciting. Let him know what crosses you, (chances are he may have already picked up on these things, but we just feel better when our motivations are clear to others). We feel passionately, so enjoy his light-heart that seems impossible to find elsewhere. We can get lost in our emotions at times, so Gemini’s quickly changing thoughts can be quite the blessing if we allow it to be.A lot of comments say the lack of drive or “all talk” attitude was the most annoying aspect of the relationship. Which I totally understand! We’re women of action, and someone who appears to dabble too often can be quite the turn off. However, with my Gemini man, I have enough courage for him and I both. I find it very fulfilling and quite the ego stroke because I motivate him for success and make him see the joy in going out there and just doing it. So when he accomplishes something, I truly feel that I am in his achievements as well. And because he is a smart man, he knows those things would not have happened if not for me. Perhaps he arrives at appreciation and shows it in a much different manner than I do, but I can rest easy that I touch him in a way no one else does or ever has. I know I’m the best thing to ever happen to him, so I am quite smug about that and prevents me from smothering him (although it is very tempting). Remember, a Gemini can give your fire strength and teach you how to tame it. You don’t want someone that goes along with everything you say, so enjoy the challenge a Gemini is and you will not be disappointed. And a BIG tip, accept that you will never understand what exactly is running through his mind. That’s why he’s so intriguing, and trying to figure him out will leave you exhausted and bitter (I speak from experience, of course). Just be happy he creates intellectual adventures for you to go on. He will teach you how to laugh, and you will teach him how to laugh at himself.Just thought I’d throw some hope out there after reading all the negative feedback!

  24. NothingNew February 17th, 2013

    From my experience, and just speaking from mine, my gemini was anything BUT stable and after what he did to me I would take stable and boring anyday now.  I’ve had a girlfriend tell me the same…that gemini’s are shifty and has vowed to stay away from them. Heck! I’d take Forrest Gump after what this man did to me!  All men are controling to some extent.  If your gemini man said “please don’t loose your feelings for me” that is and indication that that has happened to him before from other women.  Men will confess there reletionship failings if your brave enough to listen and see the red flags.  For me boring is not a good reason to leave a relationship after 20 years.  Look inside yourself first.  I would step back and try to mend your marriage.  Not go looking for fun and excitement elsewhere, you may be in for more than you bargained for.  In my opinion, this man your with is playing it safe with you, the married woman.  He doesn’t have to be responsible for you in anyway. Your husband of 20 stable years doesn’t deserve the dishonesty.  What I wouldn’t give to have a stable man!  Does your husband know of the affair?  PS ALL relationships are dysfunctional to some extent and is still no excuse for cheating.

  25. minasov24 January 20th, 2013

    I broke my marriage of 20 years with the Aries man (as me as well), because I fell crazy in-love with Gemini man. My broken marriage became extremely boring and somewhat dysfunctional. My Aries husband was way too possesive and jelous. I had to think his thoughts, see through his eyes and had no door to outside door or room for growths.
    Gemini man brought sudden feel of strong passion and connection on deep, unexplainable level and sex, with orgasms, like I never had before. We know each other less than 3 months and it is like a magnetic draw to each other. He is way older, than me. And all he tells me, please, don’t lose your feelings for me and everything going to be alright. I can’t get him out of my mind. He became my air, I breaths.
    Now after reading all the above comment, it is scaring the sh..t out of me, on what I all that is true and in this case, what did I get myself into. Plus, let go boring and not moving forward marriage, but which was at least stable. I am afraid and scared, and after reading all of comments, especially from Aries woman, I have doubts now and want to take steps back. It is frightening…. 
    What should I do? Should I give it a chance or just stop it?

  26. ariesgal1 December 12th, 2012

    Geminis are mean, selfish and manipulative! Be wary!

  27. ariesgal1 December 12th, 2012

    I think that geminis are good for a laugh… nothing more… they do not have have will, drive, ambiton or commitment for a relationship. Gemini man said that aries women are weak at heart… i find that to be be the case with geminis not aries… in fact aries are very courageous… Aries girls try an aries, leo, sagittarius or pisces and you will most likely find happiness… there will come a time when you realise it’s not worth fighting for a gemini… fight for somebody who is worth your love, courage and commitment… Best to treat geminis as someone to joke around with and nothing more… Find someone else who is worthwhile and deserves to be taken seriously… i have analysed geminis and found they are bad judges of character, air heads and mediocre… Reserve that special place in your heart for someone else… pisces are a great match with an aries… you may find in him the man you always seeked… the right pisces is a dream come true!

  28. NothingNew November 30th, 2012

    You are spot on about these traits.
    We all have the negatives of our subsequent personalities especially if we aren’t willing to meet each other in the middle.  I feel madly in love with my Gemini man at 18.  We dated for almost a year and things were stagnant so I broke it off with him before he left for a brief AirForce class in Indianna.  He came back three months later married.  I went home and weeped like a death occured.  I sensed a deep connection to him.  
    Fast forward 20 years we reunited in 2009 and married.  I was in bliss so happy and finally felt that we were headed for great things until the dark side of his personality stared coming out: he got fired from his job for violent threats to a coworker (my how the excuses flew out of his mouth), he punched a hole in a door, then got in my face with scary rage. He then got a letter from a meddling woman stating he had a 23 year old son. I did not handle that well but my mom set me straight and we got through it.  He then would mock my son’s speech impediment (which royally pissed me off).  
    There are so many other verbal and behavioral issues he exhibited.  Suffering anxiety, OCD, heart problems, and other physical complaints.  Took to drinking, sleeping pills, and antacids.  The list goes on and on.  His verbal barbs were extremely wounding and is as the depiction goes of an Aries and how we can be really hurt.  He threw me under the bus and would go to his mother and sister over things that should have remained between us.  Then after tending to him for a week after plumbing surgery I decided to go out to the farmers market with a friend.  He DID NOT like that at all.  When I got home he was visibly pissed.  I called him out to grow up and grow some.  He lept up out of bed and ripped the towel from me, called me a “f’in fat b’tch” and proceeded to back me into a corner.  The next day I asked him to leave.  I filled for divorce.  
    He asked for my wedding ring back several times while asking if we could be “friends with benefits.” I’ve been nothing short of constantly appalled and shocked by this man.  While we were separated there were a few on and off moments attempting to reconcile.  I sensed a deeply troubled man.  He needed me at times and would flash in brief moments of sincerety only to revert to obstinace.  The hardest thing for me in getting over him has been those moments of playfulness and intimacy, a deep soul connection like I’ve had with no other.  It is sad.  
    So many other aspects go into one’s personality like their upbringing. I will use extreme caution in considering a Gemini ever again.  My last straw was when he showed up at my church unannouced to confront me and started an arguement in the parking lot.  Just a few days after telling him I was done and it was over he is on OkCupid perusing.  He even has the gall to post a photo of him and my dog to arouse unsuspecting women’s “awe” factor.  Being a patient has nothing to gain with such unbalanced and unstable souls.  As with all characters of the zodiac watch for RED FLAGS.  I told him a few times after his lame excuse “well, I am a Gemini” I spouted back “yes who has an evil bi-polar twin.”  

  29. shyShelly November 17th, 2012

    II’m An aries woman and had never dated a gemini man before…wow..been dating for almost two months now….and it felt like this instant attraction between us…our first date we talked for hours at the park…after our second date, I was in love lol…had to force myself to take it slow…when he got distant(it seemed) I took control and let him know how I felt…he made me feel like a fool…because he told me and showed me…how much I’m on his mind…we just show it differently…I love it! He gives me the space I crave and he gets his…I am comfortable enough with him to let my guard down and when I did he accepted me without judgement or criticism…he is so sweet, caring, and free…and did I mention sexy lol be encouraged people…communication and respect is key…the rest will follow 

  30. jiji November 15th, 2012

    hi everybody i read your comments and i absolutly share the same feeling towards my gemini man i m an aries and  in a relation with a gemini . the same problem i feel that he s so cold sometimes selfish and rude in expressing his thoughts especially when we argue about something he directly blames me and then starts putting everything to his sides and considers me to be the mistaken one… or simply refuses to continue the discussion and turns his back to sleep i m really confused and i keep trying to talk to him but i feel that he doesn´t even make an effort to understand me which is really driving me crazy lately i wish i can find someone who can really help me figure this out

  31. AriesAllDay September 25th, 2012

    That is so true, but we can become extremely agreessive in bed. i am a aries and i have a long distant relationship and my boyfriend is an gemini

  32. March 1st, 2012

    I appreciate this advice:
    To make the relationship actually work he has to be more considerate and she needs to leave her fears behind to fly freely with her cheery Gemini man.
    I found this advice very relevant and applicable in my relationship with my wife.

  33. aries-gal January 25th, 2012

    @Geminian1976 I loved reading your post because I feel thats how my gemini man may feel. At the same time I don’t want to live in an illusion. I hate that I have to put a wall up with this guy because he holds himself back so much, or perhaps he doesn’t know how to express himself. I’ve expressed my concerns with him and I’ve seen slight changes but I hate the fact that he gets so lost, aloof, and distance with me, it makes me detached and cold towards him. Actually I feel unwanted. I sense insecurity within him but I don’t know why. I give him space and don’t smother him.
    Sorry I derailed but I appreciated your sincere comments!
    *aries gal

  34. aries-gal January 25th, 2012

    I’ve been in a relationship with a gemini man for over a year now. Initially we were friends, he asked me out and honestly I had no interest in the guy due to getting out of a long term relationship. I coudn’t see myself being with him at that point. I finally agreed and I slightly regret it. I must say this article is on point. The first few months were great, we have great conversations however when it comes to lovemaking I feel like he lacks in that department. Im not use to this from a lover. I’ve found myself settling to keep pace with him, but I admit Im tempted to find a lover who will pleasure me in ways that my gem bf can’t or won’t. I know Im more of a physicall and affectionate lover but my gemini bf lacks this, he is more a conversation guy and ‘wants to know and get to know me more’ kinda guy (ugh boring). This only irratates me and bores me to death cause he tends to be all talk and I tend to be about action. We’ve broken up before, well he did actually, which left me relieved honestly. Only to find that were back together. I give him all the space he needs as I love to have my own space as well. I feel like he is cold emotionally and distance himselfs quite often when an argument arises. I like to handle arguments immediately so its no longer an issue but he tends to run away which really pisses me off. He acts like things are ok the next day. At times I feel like he is unsure of himself and has a difficult time making decisions on his own. I want to be with a man who holds himself in high esteem and at times I find that trait to be cowardly. I do enjoy his company and perhaps its best that we become friends and no longer lovers.

  35. keikei December 11th, 2011

    My Gemini Man is:
    Selfish, Absent minded
    Rude, crude, impolite
    Careless, insensitive
    Bipolar, split personality, “tri-polar”, confuse,

    *Aries women who are impatient and have no tolerance, should stay Far FAr FAR away from Gemini men.

  36. Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    Never met a gemini guy…..

  37. doodlestrudel September 15th, 2011

    I am also an Aries woman in love with a Gemini man. We were together for a little over a year, and then he broke up with me. A few weeks went by and then he contacted me again wanting to get back together, and we have been since. (About a month and half.) Everything described in this article explains us and our relationship so well. We’ve always had issues with his reserved behavior/acting like he just doesn’t care and my constant desire for him to express his feelings for me and not giving him the space he needs. It’s also long distance, which I admit does put that Aries jealousy into overdrive, which he hates. A lot of what the article/what people on the comments are saying is so true to me. I fell in love with my Gemini incredibly quick, which I’ve never done before. I also truly believe in my heart that this is the man I will marry one day. It’s not always good, we have problems with the things I mentioned earlier, but he interests me and makes me feel like no other man I’ve ever been with has. It’s truly a very worthwhhile relationship.

    Also, to Geminian1976, what you said makes me feel much more relieved about my Gemini. I’ll always have to remember what you said and take that into consideration the next time he seems to be in one of those moods. 🙂

  38. pragyan.nayak August 23rd, 2011

    i am an aries woman , in deep love wid a gemini man,.. n i hv found this article vry tru.. n m moved by wat u said.. i feel dat he s saying all dis 2 me thru ur note.. v wer ( n r) in luv wid each othr.. but due to caste problem, v had 2 b apart.. still i want him bck.. i convincd him.. bt he s afraid dat it wud create problems in future… so he s avoidin me n getting himself hurt.. but m supportng him.. n hopin dat evrythn turns out well.. i want him share his pain but he s avoiding.. cudnt understn wat 2 do.. as u r a gemini, u must b knowing the general tendency of a gemini man.. so plz suggest wat sud i do 2 make things go well

  39. lovely23 June 19th, 2011

    i was currently n a relationship with a male gemini.Recently he broke my heart n left me with no explaination.He lied n said he jus wanted to
    be alone.Then recently after found a letter to another woman n me bnnothinless thn n aries woman i ripped it up n burnt it..i felt unappreciated n used.but now im talkin to a libra n i always leave him confused bcuz some nights i find myself wakin up cryin bcuz i miss him even tho i really like libra its hard bcuz for a year n a half i built myself to love n care for him n i dnt kno if he is jus runnin frm how he feels or if i truely did something relentlessly wrong its hard lovin a gemini bcuz even whn they show emotion they dnt show it like theyre hidin something n that makes this page so true to me

  40. lovely23 June 19th, 2011

    i was currently n a relationship with a male gemini.Recently he broke my heart n left me with no explaination.He lied n said he jus wanted to
    be alone.Then recently after found a letter to another woman n me bnnothinless thn n aries woman i ripped it up n burnt it..i felt unappreciated n used.but now im talkin to a libra n i always leave him confused bcuz some nights i find myself wakin up cryin bcuz i

  41. lovely23 June 19th, 2011

    i was currently n a relationship with a male gemini.Recently he broke my heart n left me with no explaination.He lied n said he jus wanted to
    be alone.Then recently after found a letter to another woman n me bnnothinless thn n aries woman i ripped it up n burnt it..i felt unappreciated n used.but now im talkin to a libra n i always leave him confused bcuz some days or nights i find myself w

  42. lovely23 June 19th, 2011

    i was currently n a relationship with a male gemini.Recently he broke my heart n left me with no explaination.He lied n said he jus wanted to
    be alone.Then recently after found a letter to another woman n me bn hurt

  43. Geminian1976 May 20th, 2011

    As a Gemini man I can easily say that my greatest, and most cherished relationship was with an Aries woman. Granted the relationship went south, but I assure any who read this, it has nothing to do with astrological compatibility issues… we were VERY compatible in that sense. The demise of our relationship can be blamed on personal circumstance. No more no less.
    Anyway, for all the Aries women out there in love with one of us Gemini men take this overview to heart. If we see, distant and cold is most likely means we’re deep in thought, and focused on our relationship with you. We want to make it better… the best it can be. We simply want to do what’s absolutely right by you. Believe me we love you! We love you more than I’m sure you can imagine. You’ve brought something(‘s) to our table that most, if not all other women couldn’t dream of ever bringing.
    Aries women if your Gemini man inadvertently makes you feel unloved or forsaken please sit him down immediately and talk to him about it. I have a damn good feeling that what you’ll discover will put your mind and heart at ease (even make it soar).

    Love to all,
    This Gemini Man.

  44. Blasmar May 3rd, 2011

    I can truly relate to z above.i am an arian woman and i met this great gemini guy in january at a was connection at first sight like telepathy.we reminice quite often about that night.i cud feel his energy towards me & he z same,like electromagnetic.he is attractd to me physically and intellectually.we hav common interests & hobbies but i tend to b very cautious with him.he is extremely sexy& handsome,a gentleman yet thugy.he is a risk taker like myself & i love his fearless persona.i know he is outgoin so i give him his space but sometimes i think he wants mine as well.i care 4 him hasnt reach z love stage 4 me as yet…takin it slow…

  45. Roxanne April 12th, 2011

    I am a aries woman who has kept a on going relationship with a gemini man for twelve years. We met in jr. high school at age 14 and were assigned seats next to eachother the first day of school. we fell in love and experieced the realization of “life” together. We broke up at age 18 but stayed in contact always. He left for the airforce for four years and made it home in october 2010. We are more close and connected now, then we ever have been.Our frienship is amazing and our chemistry is un real. We feel like teenagers when together. I have believed all along that we share something rare and that he is my ONE and always will be.

  46. mandy April 6th, 2011

    Just met a gemini man, well wev knwn each other since last year october. Wn eva he would call me I was always rude to him.
    But now wev talked and I must say I feel bad 4 being rude to d guy.d guy is constanly in my mind.

  47. Nacaise March 11th, 2011

    Me and my Gemini have been together for almost 6 years this May 8th. This sounds all to well like us, so I am going to show him this to try to get our relationship back on track, after having problems with arguing about what I dont do or what he does ect..

  48. Lisette February 23rd, 2011

    I am an aries woman and my ex is a gemini man. this doesn’t sound like us at all. He seemed great in the beginning then after a few months he was jealous, constantly angry, EXTREMELY competitive in everything, never calm, very clingy, did i mention constantly angry? always yelling. it completely fell apart. i felt like i was always the collected one trying to calm him down. he was so clingy the relationship felt like a prison. i’m now with a libra man and things are fantastic. everything is fun and exciting and hes always so calm and relaxed. i’ll never date a gemini again.

  49. Molly February 15th, 2011

    I am an Arian woman in love with a Gemini man. This is the second Gemini I’ve been involved with and they always make me want to throw caution to the wind and go all in so soon. The one I’m seeing now is older and I am sooo attracted. It’s so true about them wanting their space, which I don’t understand!! But realizing this is something they need, helps me keep my emotions in check and back off when needed. I’m trying not to smother him, it’s just that I want to be with him all the time. Working on making this a healthy relationship!

  50. Emily February 8th, 2011

    this is a very true thing me and my boyfriedn of 4 monthes are quiet like this and we are quiet happy with a few mis happs he gives me the attention and space i need and i give him the freedom he needs to spread is beautiful wings he doesnt hurt me magnificent ram ego and loves that i am head stonrg and plunge into everything head firts with out thinking and can tadmitt defeat (:

  51. Jazzie January 27th, 2011

    I love this personally!!!this describes me nd my boyfriend to the T. Im going to have him sit down nd read this. <3 it

  52. Willow January 4th, 2011

    I feel that Aries woman and Gemini’s are compatible. I think emotions can get the best of anyone involved in a serious relationship. It is about communication and respect for one another.

  53. Randy December 8th, 2010

    I have had four Gemini relationships one of them I married but didn’t work out. One of them almost killed me. Its true what they say about the jealousy. Geminis drive an Aries women insane. I have been seeing a Gemini man for the past month and it was really hot for awhile; but now it has faded out for him or at least he is trying to say it is burning out. I find that the two can’t leave each other alone unless they find someone new. Maybe if the Gemini didn’t talk so much and take so much time explaining every little feeling they have, and maybe if the Aries would not be so consumed with love and being made love too they could stand a better chance. Ive always said with these two signs “When it’s good it’s really good but when it’s bad it is as bad as it gets!

  54. me November 5th, 2010

    I’m an Aries, was (still?) madly in love with a Gemini. He was my best friend. I read up on Geminis when we met because in the past they were crazy about me, but I’d never liked one back… they seem to lack passion and steam. Still, it didn’t work out between us and I met another Gemini and learned he was the best lover I’d ever had–so giving. it was like making live to air. doesn’t sound appealing, but any Aries girl would love this, trust me 😉

  55. tritri October 21st, 2010

    i am an aries woman and been married to a gemini for 12yrs now. we have been seperated for a long time and recently reconciled. i cant say i believe everything it says about an aries woman. i can honestly say im not a jealous person. although i do tend to jump and make quick decisions. my husband is the one who wears his heart on his sleeves and tends to smother me if i dont let him in on how im feeling. he’s the jealous one. very jealous. so is he really a gemini or is the status of the gemini not so true?

  56. Salgirl October 17th, 2010

    I’m a Aries Girl and was once married to a Gemini our first year was filled with love and butterflys it was wonderful BUT now it’s been 7years since the divorce and it ended really bad due to he grew distant and he just lost interest and i become crazy jealous. WHO WOULNDn’T if it goes from hot to cold it sux!) and it’s soooo true what they said about our “Love Compatibility”. Well I have met a new Gemini and he seems soooo in love with me and he has won my heart…but im soooo scared he will lose interest and leave me out in the cold just like that last.

  57. Rejodru October 9th, 2010

    I am an aries woman in love with a gemini man.we are having the best times of our love life really we are both grounded and respect each other no unnecessary jealousy or madness.We are crazily in love,both honest,down to earth and both crazy in bed.We know how to control our emotions.I think its not about stars its about love and respect and humbling yourselves.

  58. Mspee August 27th, 2010

    I am a aries women and I met my gemini wen I was 17 I had other guys b4 him but none like him, I have always felt like he was my true love still do we didn’t make it I let him go 9 yrs. ago but could never get over him, resently he came back into my life and for me it as if he never left all my feeling are the same if not stronger. He’s been married twice and he also knows that I am the one, but he’s fighting it. I like wat is wrote about use aries ruling head and gemini the mind thats us

  59. Jenitza July 20th, 2010

    Ouch… the message above me [Me & My Life] kinda scared me lol. I am an Aries woman in love with a Gemini Man. He now lives very far away and will be moving with me soon. We have been together for less than 5 months, but we feel so connected. Have visited one another frequently and I feel that this man is my soul mate. He’s so perfect for me. When he’s wrong, he admits it, and he is just SO caring and sweet… I love it. We are going to get married someday. Hopefully I can come back on here and let you know my progression lol.

  60. Me & My Life May 4th, 2010

    ” I am a Gemini and married to a Aires. It’s totally true that the Aries doesn’t think in advance (future) and always makes wrong decisions. She feels to be weak in her heart but she doesn’t admits it. I am having a hard time in my relationship and I don’t know how to solve these mis undrestandings between us. It’s a lesson for thoes who are going to get married with Aries.”

  61. lebo dee March 25th, 2010

    everything that said here its true , i’ve never dated an aries grl i often read the love match before stepping to a relationship with someone .. im a gemini im afraid of what i dnt knw n i dnt have a room of hurt in ma heart ..

  62. Lamer December 29th, 2009

    This is just too spot-on. I found all elements to be true and applicable to my relationship as an aries gal with a gemini man.

  63. audrey December 2nd, 2009

    I found alot of points that has opened my mind too alot of things, there is alot of misunderstandings in my relationship, with a Gemini man and it becomes confusing but eventually makes sense and this just clarifies alot of what i was thinking..looking to have that rare relationship between the two that works out and not a disaster

  64. Sushmita November 1st, 2009

    Truely explained . Being an Aries woman and in love with a Gemini, I feel it’s aptly portrayed in this website.

  65. sukhi September 16th, 2009

    i found this web site to very true and helful

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