Gemini Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Gemini man and Aquarius woman have a fun and exciting relationship with shared interests and mutual understanding.
  • Gemini man and Aquarius woman have a satisfying sexual relationship that is more about friendship and mental connection than physical passion.
  • Aquarius woman can attract the Gemini man by being understanding and giving him freedom and independence.
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The combination of Gemini man and Aquarius woman is definitely one of the easier pairings with lots of fun and exciting moments. Certainly, they stimulate each other, enjoy being together, and find plenty of common interests. Both of them love to talk, finding a partnership that is growth-oriented and mentally stimulating is a plus.

Gemini man has a fickle mind which is always changing. He is an extremely friendly creature by nature and wants no pain in his life. Gemini man invented the art of satire, sneaking words into his conversation not ever meaning what they say. His words are mere antics used to charm or sweet-talk his listener, or perhaps they are used as a weapon to hurt, tease or mock them. But in a relationship, he is definitely a very good partner with all the fun and excitement to be shared with his lady. Listen to him, try to pick through his words, but don’t cry in front of him. It is one thing he cannot deal with.

An Aquarius woman is very flexible and able to change into many forms. Her tolerance is high and effortless having unprejudiced attitude which draws a plethora of friends. An Aquarius woman is often detached from the rest of the world and is also set in her ways about values in life. She is very intuitive and often scary psychic. If it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it will be her intuition telling her about anything wrong. An Aquarius woman is without a doubt very devoted and loyal lover for a deserving man but her detachment can cause her to get away for some fresh air, time to time.

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An Aquarius woman makes a good match for a Gemini man. Even if romance does not bud much in their relationship, their friendship does. With conversation flowing like water, they have so many things to teach one another as well as making mistakes together while trying to grow their relationship. Gemini man expects his Aquarius woman to put up with his silly little lies and she can be angry with this as the love game they both play is not an uncomplicated one. No one really understands his dreams, he is judged unfairly and he is considered unreliable. This is how Gemini man senses everyone feels about him, that is, everyone but Aquarius woman as she understands him well and is ready to support him in all his deeds. When hurt, both Gemini man and Aquarius woman digress back to the emotionally solid state of their friendship, knowing that this will never break.

Both the Gemini man and Aquarius woman like to play head games and so the company of such a man is bliss for her. They are the only ones who know the rules and can work out the quirks. Aquarius woman tolerates her Gemini man’s wit better than most. They both combine the love and friendship aspects of their relationship; perhaps because they often confuse the two and with their ever developing relationship, Gemini man and Aquarius woman remain close friends as their interests remain quite similar. Their friendship is a wonderful and strong bond they have together, but sometimes it leads them to give up a love that could be strong. Being more spiritual and wiser in a subconscious level Aquarius woman knows she has to give more of herself in the relationship. But at the same time she also admires the co-operative nature of her Gemini man and feels grateful for the freedom and independence he gives her.

Together Gemini man and Aquarius woman can perform miracles such as melting the snowy beams of imagination into silky silvery reality. Their bond is such an enchanted one which shares feelings and madness at the same level to make them feel accepted in all dimensions by each other. Mysticism between the Gemini man and Aquarius woman binding them with a shimmering thread of love, connecting their souls, make them a true mate for each other. Their colored wishes and dreams bring vibration to their relationship which is both consuming and exciting for them to continue in a new direction hand in hand helping each other to pick their wishes and have fun. They can always have something weird to share and something out of the box to manifest.

Gemini man and Aquarius woman makes for a very happy union with the same physical needs and pleasures. A passion in their minds is much stronger to each than a passion of the physical sense. The need for a strong sexual relationship is not as important as is the need to be friends with each other. But when they actually involve in love making it is mutually satisfying for both with cheerful and light feelings in their hearts, but there is not a lot of intensity or craving in the sexual act. The well mated Aquarius woman and Gemini man enjoy the real physical consummation, which is both electrifying and beautiful for them. A look, a steady gaze, a simple touch and there one can feel the magic of love with this spiritual connection that they both share. They basically are able to read each other and know what is to be expected. Yet, each night they experience the unexpected desires and some new exciting moves in their sexual relationship. Their togetherness is highly gratifying for both of them.

With a beautiful relationship, come some different understandings between the two. Gemini man needs to understand that although his Aquarius woman is showing one emotion, another perhaps two lie just beneath the surface. And Aquarius woman needs to let go of her Gemini man from time to time with the understanding and faith that he will be right back in her life soon enough. She claims she is honest as the day is long, but Gemini man can see right through his Aquarius woman and then he calls her on it and she acts hurt and upset. Gemini man and Aquarius woman need to have a simple relationship or else there is no beginning to be had. They are too business-like and have no reason to waste time on anything else. They like to listen it straight away and then they enjoy the moment in their day dreams. Once that is done, a strong bond can be formed.

Gemini Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility Rating

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  1. Ara December 9th, 2023

    I was friends with benefits with my gemini man for 7 years without ever telling him how much I really loved him while he got into relationships I sat back & waited to see if it was meant to be it will happen naturally. I’m so glad I waited because he came back to me so much more mature & aware of himself & what he really wants. He reminds me everyday how much he loves me & makes me feel so beautiful & like a real woman. It was a long wait but now being where we are now it was worth it all.

  2. Peter August 24th, 2022

    I have a good friendship on an Aquarius woman. I am on the Gemini side of the Gemini-Taurus cusp, so I am steadier than your usual Gemini. This is the easiest and most natural relationships I have ever had, even though we meet only once a week. We pick up from where we left off every single time, and our minds seem to move through the same arcs. She has a knack of knowing what I am thinking before I do, and we rarely have a significant difference of opinion. She also gets me to focus, and not disappear into the fog. I also have someone who can endlessly draw me into the taking an interest in topics I would ordinarily pass over. It is a shame it has to be a friendship only. I’m married; she is much younger.

  3. Neptune January 3rd, 2021

    I am a Gemini and my wife is an aquarius. He has no control over it. Believe it. He doesn’t know that he is doing that. Try to play along. Don’t get sad , when he does that. Try to avoid arguments, let him win. You can later on slip in ur thoughts. He will understand it.

  4. yu August 4th, 2020

    the most frustrating thing about my gemini guy is his need to always play devils advocate. he jsut likes to argue, he doesnt usually mean what he says or really whleheartedly believe in the things he argues for. once I learned this I became much happier with him

    • Niel January 3rd, 2021

      I am a Gemini and my wife is an aquarius. He has no control over it. Believe it. He doesn’t know that he is doing that. Try to play along. Don’t get sad , when he does that. Try to avoid arguments, let him win. You can later on slip in ur thoughts. He will understand it.

    • Jennifer Jones December 21st, 2021

      Let him play devils advocate! My husband does the same and at this point I just let him .. it’s actually interesting once you play along as a debate for both sides. Just remain calm and don’t let the debate become an argument

  5. hnsu June 22nd, 2020

    It’s the perfect relation for the right ones. Gemini man aquarius woman combo is good if gemini man is more of a sensitive and quiet thoughtful type of gemini, oooor the aquarius woman is more detached easygoing and forgiving. All the people that have problems in this relationship its because of this. My gemini is not very crazy or needs a lot of stimulation all the time. He knows what he likes and he has a lot of deep consideration for me. My ex h is also a gemini and he is more loud, easily made to be upset or excited and he changes his mind every day and has little tolerance. It might be a maturity thing. My gemini now is much more mature. He had lived his fun and interesting life and is ready to settle down with me. I was always a careful girl even when I have fun, so he feels secure that he can have a good future with me while also having someone that can keep him safe when he doesnt know where to draw the line. Despite being the one that was always careful, I actually lean on him more than he leans on me I think! I depend on him. He does everything he can for me, without me ever asking. He treats me so well. He surprises me with sweet gifts and we go on dates every week. He likes his routine and he gets cranky when it is interrupted but he also likes new things on the weekend. We are hoping to go on vacation to bali whenever we are able to again. I am more physical with my love and he is more with words. I wonder if this is an issue, I know even though he is less touch inclined he still loves me too much, but I wonder if he knows I love him too much even though I am not great with saying beautiful words like he does. Anyways. I love my gemini man with all my heart, body and soul. He is my soulmate and everything that I need.

  6. hurtingheart June 20th, 2020

    I love him but he picks fights bc hes bored under quarantine. A bored gemini man is a nasty person. He knows how jealous I get so he will show me photos of girls just to see how I react or make jokes that hurt me. I am exhausted. I don’t even want to hear his voice anymore. He is so cruel sometimes. I just feel completely broken down.

    I just want to tell him “None of these girls would give you the time of day. youre lucky even I put up with you. but if you think you have a chance with someone that is out of your league go try it, I won’t be waiting when you com crawling back.” But I always hold back because I don’t want to be mean.

    Truth is I wasn’t physically attracted to him at first, and many people have said I am out of his league. I’ve even been laughed it. It was a little embarrassing but I really liked him and his personality so I grew to find him attractive in his own way. And love does blind me, I don’t even notice more attractive men anymore. I’m starting to think aquarius is too loyal for gemini anyway. I need to stop caring so much and just enjoy him when he is good, and just disengage when he is bad. Keep my options open. Life is too short to suffer so much.

    • AquaGirl20 November 11th, 2020

      im aquarius in 2020 i definitely realized ppl are undeserving of my loyalty. especially the gemini man. he actually turned down my sweetiest day gift. 🥺 They seem to not understand a woman’s emotions to well.

  7. :( May 17th, 2020

    I hate him. All we do is fight. And his love is not satisfying enough for me to feel like it is worth it. But why do I stay? I wish I could get rid of these feelings of love for this man so I can finally leave.

    • hurtingheart June 20th, 2020

      Same here. Interesting how you say his love is not satisfying enough. I know what you mean. I dont feel full from his love. There is still a hunger. Gemini men have nice personalities and are fun to be around but they are shallow and not romantic. I love my gemini man but I feel like something is missing.

      • Robert February 5th, 2021

        I don’t think Gemini Men are Shallow, I Think Aquarius Females or Women mostly can just be Overbearing and Irrational in their Desires and Emotions…I heard An Aquariuz Girl complain of her Ex Boyfriend a Capricorn, who was so Romantic and all but she complained the Relationship lacked Substance and was just. Clouded in Nice Actions and Nice Words…
        She Said, A Gemini Man isn’t as Romantic but has the Right Emotional Depth and Mental Understanding to know what exactly is important in A Relationship and that’s Friendship…
        If you feel something is missing, you can leave and go and search for that which you think you’re Missing, he might also feel incomplete too…especially if u view him as Shallow..means you are not equipped to understand A Gemini Man fully

  8. sara April 29th, 2020

    I love my gemini man to death. He makes me feel so good and no matter what happens I feel I will love him forever. However he is so friendly with women. He says this is just his personality but it makes me feel uneasy :/ I know geminis dont like restriction but underneath my cool surface I have a big soft heart 🙁

    • hurt June 20th, 2020

      This is what I hate about gemini. He is too interested in women. He is curious about every woman, what they look like, what they are doing, if he hears a womans voice he will turn his head! Just breaks my heart every time. At first it would hurt me deeply, now, every time this happens I just feel like I am slowly falling out of love with him.

      I used to worship the air he breathed. I saw him as an amazing perfect man and I was hopelessly devoted. He kept hurting me and hurting me in this way, now I just dont care as much. I see him as flawed now and our relationship damaged.

  9. me February 24th, 2020

    I always end up with a gemini. There is a lot of attraction between aquarius and gemini, but not all geminis will be the right one. Right now I am with a gemini again and I am hoping he will be the one. The truth is, he is so amazing in every way and if it were up to me we would be together forever. don’t know if he wants future for us the way that I do because I know geminis are known to be fickle… I really hope he is on the same page as me though. For now I will be patient and see. I am not one to force my feelings onto someone so even if I feel so much about a person, I always give them their space to figure out their feelings themselves. I know a lot of times this causes confusion and they might think I dont want what I really do… and I feel my gemini is the same way. Also we are both scared of rejection I know it. We talk about marriage a lot without actually saying that we want to be married to eachother. Does this mean anything to a gemini? To me it means yeah I already am picturing a white picket fence lol

    Anyways. I love this man so much. Gemini and aquarius belong together

  10. Ethan December 9th, 2019

    Aquarius are so dreamy, but can benefit from being more communicative.
    Here is a free 2020 Forecast for AQUARIUS:
    I hope it helps.

  11. happy July 17th, 2019

    So weird. A few of you mentioend the aquarius woman being invovled with or attracted to some pisces man. It’s funny because I was just getting out of a terrible relationship with a pisces when I met my gemini. We had JUST broken up and I was at a bar nursing my wounds and thinking I will miss this man forever…. when I was approached by this handsome gemini man. I was still mouring the relationship but I figured why not, I’ll give him my number just to have someone to talk to while I heal. Well, I got over the years of the relationship with the pisces man when I got to know my gemini! So for those of you who are caught between a pisces and a gemini please go for the gemini. For you gemini who are dealing with an aquarius who is chasing a pisces, just stick by her and know that if you start to use your charm on her, you will always win her. For years I was longing for some kind of spark with the pisces, I think I was with him because he made me feel secure in our love and we aquarians despite being lively people, like stability and routine in a partner. In the short time ive known my gemini, I got all the spark and romance I’ve waited for for YEARS with pisces. I think aquarius women do end up with pisces men a lot, but there is always a feeling that something is missing, and aquarius woman is left wanting more. With gemini man… I just feel complete. I feel he could be my other half.

    • Leslie Grady February 14th, 2020

      I am a Aquarius woman who have been involved with my gemini male for over 38 years.l know that he has been my best friend my, my spiritual mate,and the father of my child.We leave each other and always are pulled back to each other like magnets within that span of time that we don’t even bother to fight it anymore.He gets that crazy side if me and accepts it gladly.And l accept his need to be understood and also his need to just step back and allow him with all our flaws to take each other as we are.

  12. lovesiiiick July 17th, 2019

    I’m falling hard for a gemini man. I can’t sleep. I am completely captured by this man. We met by chance, and grew closer. I have had relationships with other signs, who usually don’t give me the butterflies in my stomach, or they try to rush the physical stuff before I have actually fallen for them, but this gemini man is the same as me. We got to know each other, let ourselves fall in love, and now I am just waiting for the next step. Nobody has ever caused so much excitement with the smallest gestures. I don’t know what to do. It seems like geminis like to flirt and chase, and it’s taking everything I have not to just tell him i want his babies lol. Geminis? What should I do? He sometimes doesnt initiate conversation is he waiting for me to or does he think I am desperate?

    I’m just scared about everything about astrology saying gemini men like to flirt and that they like to have variety in women… I am sensitive deep inside and have a lot of insecurities. I don’t want to be hurt by this man. Are gemini men loyal? I really hope he will always only have eyes for me. And I want intensity in love. I wonder if the intense way I feel is enough to spark it in him..

    • Superman December 26th, 2019

      He is waiting for you to make the move. I’m a Gemini man, and we sometimes don’t realise that we’re flirting. It’s just the way we are. But when we have eyes one girl, that’s it! She’s the one. We probably will unknowingly flirt with others but we never take the next step with them. Flirting ends there. Go ahead and intimate conversation, he’s expecting it.

    • Gemeni March 12th, 2020

      I’m Gemeni male. The ones who hurt me and I will never date are Pisces. I cannot stand them but I met aquarius. We’ve been together for 20 years.

      Yes, we like to flirt but that’s our personality and just because we flirt doesn’t mean we will suddenly drop the woman we are with for some chase, sex.

      If you understand Gemeni personality, then you’ll discover and come to a realisation that allows you to see that all he wants is to be understood. He is very sexual, so be sexual. He is flirting, so be a master flirt, he loves fun so be fun, and he doesn’t like planning relationship future. He likes to first…..experience…you in everything before that.

      So no talk of babies, marriage, and forcing things but instead show him by experiencing with him so he sees that anyway. Any woman who has talked about marriage, babies with a Gemeni before he has experienced her in physical, romance, sex, overcoming struggles together will fail.

      Any who are possessive, insecure in such a way that she got to have him communicate all time due to her fear she will lose him, and he WILL see through her no matter if she tries to hide it, and creates drama, conflict which makes his other personality step in to withdraw, will fail.

      So forget talking about these big plans if you haven’t yet shown the Gemeni man you’re great at sex, you are feminine, you are not jealous to hound him on why he’s talking to women and you show you can trust him.

      These doubts you have, if he finds out, it’s over.

      Gemeni’s are tired and had enough proving to women who fall for these stories that they are fickle.

      They are not fickle. They just are not stupid and naive to suddenly fall in love with anyone because they desire compatibility and to know that the one is compatible, they got to experience all of her for sometime.

  13. Anonymous June 1st, 2019

    I’m a 23 year old Aqua female and uh.. yeah that sounds rough. Not all aquarians are the same. My moon is in cap, I have an aqua ex with his moon in leo and I know an aquarius guy with moon in scorpio. I have trouble with the scorpio personality, so nothing is happening. Moon sign per example already plays a big role in what type of Aquarius/Gemini you are.

    To get to the point, she f.cked you over. Not all Aquarians are the same. Just because she was like that, doesn’t mean all of them are like that. I do understand and sympathise with your trust issues though. At some point I saw a gemini man who got really terribly hurt by his ex. Like really shit tier hurt. Take your time to heal and to get over that stuff. Again, you got f*cked over, and it’s probably not your fault. Sometimes people are terrible. You date a person, not a zodiac sign.

    I know emotions make you feel uncomfortable, but they should be felt, not shoved under a rug and hidden behind a smile, in the safety of your own home of course. Geminis are secretly more sensitive; allow that to exist, instead of fighting it. Emotions don’t make you less masculine, trust me. Trusting girls will always remain a problem. But in the end, if you don’t want to end up alone: at some point you’ll have to trust people again, unfortunately blindly. But heal first. I know I’m late to reply, but I sincerely hope it helps someone who’s reading this. And uhm, take care.

  14. tgwycko May 2nd, 2019

    Dude, an occasional gift is fine but sounds like you’re trying to buy her love with things.
    Being present know something about her award her for being special not with a material thing. Give her a hug! It goes way further.

    Sure they’ll thank you for a gift , guess they see it as controlling and they think a little less of you each time. Dude it makes you look needy.

    You can verify this by going on YouTube. It’s a turn off.
    It shows you as a insecure male. A confident male is is more interesting and fun.

    Flirting? Hell I ballroom dance I’m flirting and making women laugh all night long. Yeah my girlfriend does that to. I am confident that she just wants them to feel good as well. I am not threatened by it at all. See the difference?

  15. christine January 30th, 2019

    Wait, you gave the Legos to her son, and NOT TO HER? OMG. That’s it right there. Never give an Aquarius woman 50 red roses. Way too romantic, obvious and controlling (unless they are landscape roses in nursery pots, all ready to grow, and she wanted to a hedge to keep out the neighbor’s chihuahua).
    Take her to a native plant sale and buy her potted herb plants, so she can use them in her cooking as a chef. NO fertilizer pellets!
    You are going to have to really disengage that entirely romantic stuff going on in your head and understand the scientific iconoclast sitting in your crosshairs. Don’t persuade her with emotional arguments. Emotions are fleeting, in her book. She can’t trust them. Have a nice debate with her about the chemistry of cooking, over a regular cup of joe while watching the sun set over a newly opened restaurant. Have her explain what the proteins in an egg white are doing while she beats them into soft and the hard peaks (this is actual cooking talk, not soft porn, OK?. Do your homework and actually learn a little something about the chemistry of cooking, so she doesn’t sniff out romantic manipulation going on. Steer clear of romantic escapades. Dull down that romantic jazz in the background. These things make Aquarians uncomfortable. We think you trying to manipulate us, and we start inventing reasons to go home early.
    Good luck. You got a lot of work ahead of you.

  16. Christine January 30th, 2019

    Something does not make sense. Geminis like to wander and investigate (anything – yard sales, members of their favorite sex, museum openings, etc.). Aquarians are very curious but not mindlessly disloyal. They launch warning shots over the bow. If they don’t like you anymore, they will tell you beforehand and leave you and take up with the next person (or go meditate alone, to get relief from humanity). So when you say she was flirting around on you and you were home quiet as a church mouse, to me it does not add up. Pieces of the whole story are missing. Unless you have some very sedentary planets in the rest of your cosmic makeup, I can’t believe you were just sitting at home, and she was the primary gallivanter.

    • Charles February 9th, 2019

      It’s been a long time since I thought about this post, or even this situation. I haven’t spoken to her since June 2017. Anyhoo, I’ve learnt that the abusive Ex was still back in the picture, so it is what it is. We’d been friends for 15 years, so I still wish her the best.

      To answer your question, My moon, Mercury, Rising is Taurus, Venus is Gemini, Scorpio Mars. I found out last week, Saturn left my 8th house the first week of Feb 2019. I’ve learned a lot more regarding planetary placements this past year.

      As for her placements, I found out she was going through her Saturn return. Her moon is Aries. But like I said, water under the bridge. I wish her well.

  17. Ryan November 11th, 2018

    Hey guys, Gemini male here. So I have a huge question to ask. My girl who was an Aquarius just left me. It’s sad honestly since we had everything compatible to a Tee. I’m Afaird she is gonna totally forget me. What has happened is that. Her friend who was also my friend joshua. Who is a Virgo may I say are now dating. This girl had gotten everything from me. She was spoiled to no end. I would surprise her day in and day out with stuff.
    When I went to sleep and woke up after I told her I love you and gave her a kiss. We were kidding around talking about the dog I just bought her. Talking about if I loved porcha our pup I got her. I said yea until she can be a butt.
    Now when I woke up that morning everything was wiped out clean that everything she had in my house. I woke up scared, confused, and troubled. Since I had no idea on what I did wrong? Ya I had trust issues Bc she played me once before and came back. After I was worried I was gonna be played again by her since her and a guy were always talking and I’ve came to accept they were just friends. Well I woke up seeing a note saying “ thank you for everything you have done but our relationship has been done for awhile now Rhode Island bound”

    So I read the note and tried to contact her and she blocked me on everything possible at that moment so I had no way reaching out to her. Well found out she wasn’t in Rhode Island after all that she is dating a Virgo in GA. Pretty pathetic honestly since I just bought her an Apple Watch for Christmas. I still love her still and ya we played Xbox a lot since she had me as a friend on there till I raged out on her on the messages. Now I’m blocked on there now but I just don’t understand why she did this to me. I’m hoping she sees her life choices and tries to come back or something. We had great sex great laughter and everything! I just bought a house for us in all. I just don’t understand. Then after she reached out on me on xbox she said I was a regret and that broke me in pieces. I know she’s playing mind games. I’m 27 she’s 23… can anyone help me out..

    • Evan November 17th, 2018

      Dude get the fuck over it find a freaky Virgo or Sagittarius or Scorpio they will suck your dick all night I know u a freak too you Gemini

    • Sara December 6th, 2018

      I am sorry that she ditched you but if u wanna talk to me I am an aquarius too i can send you my email

    • Chioma Alice February 18th, 2019

      I am sorry that she ditched you but if u wanna talk to me I am an aquarius too i can send you my email

    • tgwycko May 2nd, 2019

      Dude, an occasional gift is fine but sounds like you’re trying to buy her love with things.
      Being present know something about her award her for being special not with a material thing. Give her a hug! It goes way further.

      Sure they’ll thank you for a gift , guess they see it as controlling and they think a little less of you each time. Dude it makes you look needy.

      You can verify this by going on YouTube and listen to women share dating secrets. They all say the same thing that I just mentioned. Hope this helps.

  18. Ryan November 11th, 2018

    Hey guys, Gemini make here. So I have a huge question to ask. My girl who was an Aquarius just left me. It’s sad honestly since we had everything compatible to a Tee. I’m Afaird she is gonna totally forget me. What has happened is that. Her friend who was also my friend joshua. Who is a Virgo may I say are now dating. This girl had gotten everything from me. She was spoiled to no end. I would surprise her day in and day out with stuff.
    When I went to sleep and woke up after I told her I love you and have her a kiss. We were kidding around talking about the dog I just bought her. Talking about if I loved porcha our pup I got her. I said yea until she can be a butt.
    Now when I woke up that morning everything was wiped out clean that everything she had in my house. I woke up scared, confused, and troubled. Since I had no idea on what I did wrong? Ya I had trust issues Bc she played me once before and came back. After I was worried I was gonna be played again by her since her and a guy were always talking and I’ve came to accept they were just friends. Well I woke up seeing a note saying “ thank you for everything you have done but our relationship has been done for awhile now Rhode Island bound”

    So I read the note and tried to contact her and she blocked me on everything possible at that moment so I had no way reaching out to her. Well found out she wasn’t in Rhode Island after all that she is dating a Virgo in GA. Pretty pathetic honestly since I just bought her an Apple Watch for Christmas. I still love her still and ya we played Xbox a lot since she had me as a friend on there till I raged out on her on the messages. Now I’m blocked on there now but I just don’t understand why she did this to me. I’m hoping she sees her life choices and tries to come back or something. We had great sex great laughter and everything! I just bought a house for us in all. I just don’t understand. I’m 27 she’s 23… can anyone help me out..

  19. Aquarius Realness September 24th, 2018

    we fear commitment and are too independent. Its going to take a special kind of guy to KEEP OUR INTEREST AND domesticate the LONER WITHIN. Only true love, presence and constant reassurance will do the trick.

  20. Alexandra0506 September 7th, 2018

    I had an ex who was a Gemini several years ago (teenage years, I’m now 33). I’m an Aquarius. I am a year older than him and we’re still friends. As i recall, he was too stubborn. When we were in high school, he had to court and woo me quite a few times, even though i’d already told him no and that i was only all about being friends. To be honest even if i did exclusively date him back then, i just didn’t like his talkative side very much. I just hated it, that he’d act like a kid (maybe a goof) every now and then. And since we were kids, i thought maybe if i gave this guy a chance, he’d go away eventually. Lol. But no, he was too in love, and i must admit he did have a hard time with me. We did get along though, but to an Aquarius, you just don’t really know where you stand with them. It’s like you’re friends, but then you’re not just friends too?? I’m sure Aquarius people will get this. Lol. Anyhoo, a couple of years ago, I met a Gemini guy who was 4 years younger than me. We flirted a bit, and it was fun. But then after a while, it was the same situation, same observation i got from them– They’re just interesting until they’re just too much! Too much talk, too much hanging out.. they just tend to bore me out eventually. I don’t know why. Libra men are more engaging (to me at least).

  21. sad aqua May 17th, 2018

    I let a gemini go and I still regret it a year later. I still had feelings for a pisces, so I didn’t feel right letting things progress with the gemini so I was very cold to him. Truth is, I had such a good time with him and really loved the time we spent together. His flirty ways really lit me on fire. I kept blowing him off and he eventually gave up, as he should. I deleted his number and I think he deleted mine too. I hope somehow we run into each other again, but I dont know how this is possible.

    • Rockycruz August 17th, 2018

      Doubt it even if you meet again. One of things we hate is someone not valuing our time and acting aloof. Even if it’s someone’s personality who Illawarra communication is subtle like most Pisces,, which I would never date no matter how hot the woman is or attracted too.

      Even as a Geneni man a woman did that and I saw her later on social media I wouldn’t bother making contact. If face to face I will say high but not flirt and make excuse to leave fast.

      Reason being is when that happened, the magic is gone. I now know that part of her, that she acted cold, made me feel feelings I didn’t want to feel and so, I will now see her that way.

      Attraction phase is fickle with everyone. If such things like that happen to Gemeni mani where you created uncomfortable experience for him,l by acting cold and aloof, then we will remember it abd treat you same as the rest who did that and think they can do it again. We act cold back and slam the door shut.

      Gemeni men can because we can easily flirt with other women, are fun, outgoing though we like our mental freedom and personal space; and have the confidence to approach many women while most cannot due to low self esteem, lack of confidence and the social conditioning of shame.

      How would you feel if you showed interest with someone abd they later acted cold on you?

      It’s not a pleasant feeling and unpleasant feelings are stored in memory and remembered more than good positive ones that replays in Gemini’s mind.

      From a Gemeni Man

      • Mia November 1st, 2018

        I can’t say I agree. In my experience with Gemini men, they will always come back, they’re those people who come back time and time again, and like the chase. If she rejected him, chances are he’ll come back because they’re the types to want what they can’t have.

    • Mia November 1st, 2018

      My ex was a Gemini and I acted aloof and I think that’s what enhanced is intrigue, is that he had to chase me. A common thing I see in the comments of any Gemini and Aquarius thread is that the Gemini does often come back, especially when there’s no closure.

  22. C.S. Oliver July 14th, 2017

    If you all think that the male Gemini and female Aquarius is a perfect match, just wait ’til you see what this dynamic duo can create when they belong to compatible Chinese zodiac signs, e.g., male Goat and female Pig or male Goat and female Rabbit – in a word, unreal.

    Best Regards,

    • G December 25th, 2017

      Check out your Venus sign compatibility.

  23. jaz June 25th, 2017

    I meant I’m in love with a gemini who has kids but their mother is an aquarius and i am an aquarius also. I feel like i will lose reguardless

  24. jaz June 25th, 2017

    im in love with a gemini who kids mother is an aquarius and so mean i so feel like im in a lose lose situation

  25. Charles May 13th, 2017

    Aquarius women, I need some advice, opinions, suggestions, ANYTHING, really, lol.

    I’m Gemini 32 years old she’s Aquarius 29 years old and we’ve known each other for years (12 actually).

    Been attracted to her for about 9 years, but I finally acted on my attraction last November, 2016. We had a period where we lost contact (several years actually), but she hit me up over Facebook one evening and we met up. She said that she had missed me and she wanted to see me.

    We went to dinner several times, and a movie, before I acted on my attraction. Really, really didn’t expect her to share a similar feeling toward me, since she’s always had a long list of male and female suitors that always wanted/tried to get with her (some real jerks, manipulators). Never thought I’d have a chance to, what’s the word, catch her attention I guess?

    After two great months, she kinda… ran I guess. Froze up. Threw me for a total loop.

    She had been in an abusive relationship which ended in September (the jerk was a Cancer). We had reconnected in November. From everything that I know, I’m probably the only guy that’s treated her good, like she deserved. She said as much.

    After everything that I’ve read about Aquarius after she froze up, I’ve come to the conclusion that she wanted it as bad as I did, but she didn’t stick to the typical behavior of an Aquarius, which would be that long term courting. Since, we’ve been out many times to movies, dinner, but I had to reel the affection back in. Though I do continue to spoil her and her 8 year old son with gifts (always random and unexpected), I still don’t know where I stand long term-wise.

    She told me she wanted to focus on herself, her son (the lil tike loves me) and a new job (one that I actually helped play a part in her getting) and she almost sometimes act like what we shared in November and December and early Janurary never happened, though I know better. She wanted a year to get things in her life organized. I told her I respected that, and I wouldn’t push, and that she holds the keys in this race.

    This is probably the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do in my life, cause I can’t figure it out, and I’ve looked at it at every angle before I even looked at Zodiac traits, and now I’m even more lost. We see each other now, at least once, maybe twice a week, we text (due to our jobs and different work hours; I’m an AM worker, she’s mostly afternoons/PM. I’ve even babysat her son twice when she was forced to work late (and she doesn’t let just ANYONE babysit him).

    We’ve gone out to several bars and such to hang, but while I’m at her house waiting for her to finish getting ready, she’s done things that make me question, why is she still running from what could be a really good thing (another thing she admitted to). She’s done things like, walk into the room, only wearing pants and her bra while I’m sitting in the chair, or only have a shirt, socks and underwear on, while searching for pants to wear. All while knowing that I’m sitting right there on the sofa. Almost like a test.

    I’m a patient enough guy though. I respect what she asked of, and the year she wanted.

    Ya’ll Aquarius women, smh, lol. She’s worth it though. Just wish I could get some kinda, confirmation that I’m still in her sights like she’s in mine. Because there are still several other individuals that still are pursuing her, despite her telling them that she’s not interested, that they will only be friends… she never told me that. Then there is all the stuff I mentioned that she’ll do before we go out.

    It’s kinda hard to figure iut. I’m taking the mentality she may be carrying from her previous relationship into account, but she is an Aquarius woman to the tee. I mean, everything that I’ve read, she fits it entirely (I’ve only just recently got into astrology/Zodiac stuff as a way to distract myself; figure this out).

    Can you ladies give me some insight?

    • Nikki May 13th, 2017

      Aquarius women never want to think that 5- 6 Years from now in a minor argument after all is well that you will bring up what you did for her. . She is scared that you may use it as the reason she must stay. Just make her know and believe that she will turn around so fast. We r usually in left field. Makes no sense but we get so happy when people help us as few do that it forms a bond like a line …. And sometimes we get scared and would rather mess it up than you because the memory of you being so awesome is there. Petty but true

    • Nikki May 13th, 2017

      I mean assure her it was from your heart… everything.. dates .. time. .. all the help May may have to say it 7 times in a row we like repetition.

      • Charles May 15th, 2017

        Okay, thanks for the insight. I wish I had came back and read it two days ago instead of today, lol. I’ll use this for future reference; taking it to heart.

        I actually took her and her son out for Mothers Day yesterday, and we all have a great time. I kinda waited till the end of the night, and brought up that I hope she didn’t mind me giving her and her son gifts (example, yesterday for Mother’s Day, I had 50 red roses and a pair of purple and green earrings for her, and her son, I had a box of Lego Minecraft Legos in the backseat of my car waiting for him when we went out…). I told her that there was no other motive, just me wanting to do something nice for the two of them, especially since I don’t think any of her exes never really took her son into consideration. I used that as a doorway to talk about other stuff; such as reassuring her that I’m not pressuring her, but I still have pretty strong feelings for her.

        I reassured her that I support her in her wanting to get things in her life in order, and if she ever decided that she didn’t want to be nothing more than friends (honestly, I was really trying to give her an out of she really was looking for one), that all she had to do was to let me know, whenever she finally figured out what and where she wanted to be, in which she pretty much repeated that she has no idea at the moment. I get it; having to deal with the abuse from that jerk would give anyone the desire and need to reevaluate their lives.

        I wish that I wasn’t a coward all those years ago.

        Either way, we parted ways last night with me pretty much in the same boat, not knowing where I really stand. I gave her an out… but she didn’t take it. So I’m thinking that she is still holding onto me, just at a arms distance. Everything we talked about at her door before I left, I’m sure she knows it came from my heart. I’m pretty articulate, but I started stammering like a high school kid all over again, lol.

    • Kelley June 1st, 2017

      Well, there is more to someones’ sign than just sun sign, there’s the rest of the planets too. Those planets have different signs and different meanings, so you have to take a look at those two as well. I’m an Aquarius, and I’m currently doing some research on the rest of the planets. If you’d like and still. come back to this page, I can help you figure out the rest of your signs as well as hers altogether soy can see a larger picture from only sun sign.

      • Charles June 6th, 2017

        Kelley, hey, yeah, that works. I would like that. I’m kinda in a pickle now; cause that has been a more recent development. So any and all, would work, lol. I’m trying myself to learn more stuff about all the planets, transits, retrogrades and such, but it is all so much to take in.

        What kind of info would you need from me?

    • hagar June 3rd, 2017

      Here’s the thing .. we aqua women want a long relationship with someone we feel loves us as much as we so .. so being in a shirt relationship means she needed more love and reassurance and we actually like to get asked out .. it’s like you guys broke up or whatever because she felt like it was one sided love since she practically asked you out and didnt get all she needed from her relationship with you .. so i suggest you ask her out again and tell her you want things stable this time and make sure to take care of her job as much as she does .. give her space and don’t stress her into doing something when she is trying to focus on her job

      • Charles June 6th, 2017

        Okay, yeah. Thanks. In the grand scheme of things, she wouldn’t have nothing to need much more reassurance now…. she knows where I stand as of last Friday. We persay; weren’t actually dating-dating; we were taking it slow, as per her suggestion, as she got out of a bad abusive relationship last year (I agreed, though I will admit, it was hard to reel in at times, lol).

        But yeah, here’s what happened. To make a long story short; she was looking to buy her son a day-bed from off of a Facebook yardsale group. She asked me if she and I could use my truck to go pick it up. Before we even could get it that afternoon when I got to her house, she found out that the vendor sold it. That upset her.

        So, what did I do? I spent the next two weeks, looking around myself. Found the same one, only better on eBay. Purchased it and surprised her with it. Had it shipped to her house. We had agreed that I would come over on her day off and put it together for her son (ironically enough, her day off was also the day if arrived by the mail service).

        Now, the day prior, she had a crummy day at work. It carried over to the next day, her day off. She used her day off to take care of all she had to do, bills, everything. I got to her place when I got off work and saw that she was in a mood. I gave her her space and we decided that I would come back another afternoon to put it together, that following Wednesday, two days later. Now is here where I messed up…….

        I texted her on Wednesday afternoon when I got off work. Turns out, her schedule changed and she was now working that afternoon. I told her, okay, always at her convenience. She sent me back a rather, run-on text, that I will admit. I misinterpreted as pretty much, try again on Thursday. So Thursday afternoon after work, I hit up her up, and I got a pretty sharp, nasty retort back, about how she told me that they changed her schedule and she’ll get back to me when she’s available.

        Very first I’ve every gotten from her. So I was like, “okay, her week has not gotten any better. I will just let her be. I texted back, okay, hey sorry, I misinterpreted your text from yesterday. Have an smooth night at work. (she’s a chef, btw).

        Three days pass and I don’t make contact, nor does she. I give her, her space. That Sunday is my birthday, so I kinda expect her to call or text (I’m not that big on my birthday. Never really celebrated it growing up and all), but she never did. I knew she had to work, so at first it didn’t bother/register to me, but when several of our mutual friends hit me up over Facebook telling me Happy B-Day, and I saw her green on Facebook during her break, well, it kinda stung. But I didn’t text or call. I waited till the next day to hit her up to basically check in on her and her son and continue giving her, her space.

        No reply back.

        Okay. So, now I’m like in, ‘wait, what did I do’ mode? She couldn’t be possibly upset that I misinterpreted a text right? One that I even apologized for, right? So I decided to just keep giving her space and spent what little free time I had from my own job looking up Aquarius traits on the net, ‘what does it mean when an Aquarius woman ignores you?’

        Ya’ll don’t make this easy. At all.

        I didn’t expect that I could possibly annoy her with so little. All I can think of, is that, on top of all that I have done to show her of my affection for her and her son. I’ve been very careful of the past few months to honor her take it slow approach, because of her previous abusive relationship, because I know its sensitive ground. I’ve told her this. I’ve hinted toward stronger feelings, without flat-out stating the L-word, and I’ve flat out stated that they have been lingering around for years.

        So, last Friday. I went ahead and ripped the band-aid off. Knowing that she probably wouldn’t answer a call or a text, I merely sent a rather lengthy text (may has well as been a short story…) laying my heart out. Putting everything out there. And I ended that, I know that she’s got a lot on her plate, and that I support her in all things, but I since I’ve apparently upset her, I’m going to give her all the space she needs and that I will be around if she needs me.

        That said, she knows how I truly feel now (which I’ve been hinting at for weeks now). Fully. For her and her son. Everything I’ve been holding back, to not influence her at all, while going at it slow, for her benefit, I’ve put it all out there.

        So, I get it. I do. Apparently, I musta stressed her, on top of already mounting stress from work (or whatever issues) in regards to me getting her text backwards about the day-bed put together. She’s pretty much ignored me since May 24, my birthday the 28, to now. And after my confessional letter-text, which I ended that I “know its a lot to absorb, so I probably wont hear from you for a while, so you and your son be easy,” it’s probably gonna be a good minute before I do hear from her.

        What more can I do I guess during this period of letting her have her cooling off period/space? I mean, other than not calling, texting, or even showing my face. Do I just go dark? I know she checks my SnapChat ( all I ever do on that is post goofy pics of my cats and take quick pics my gym stats from the treadmill when I get done running… so I know she is checking in on me… that or just being nosy…).

        Ya’ll dont make this easy, lol.

    • AnonymousDoll June 6th, 2017

      I’m an Aquarius woman, Feb 5th. I tend to meet a nice guy, hang out with him several times and have this beautiful love connection but I just can’t seem to commit. I feel like I’ll miss something “good” when it’s right there in front of me. Also with a man that I know would be good for me sometimes I get scared and run. And in my mind all I could think is “All though I would love to love you, sometimes I think I don’t deserve you.”

      • Charles June 6th, 2017

        Hm. OKay, I can understand that. In my situation right now, I’ve seen the guys she’s dated in the past, and while I’ve tried to distract myself with what’s going on now (such as turning to all this Zodiac stuff to make heads and tails of things), all of her previous relationships where with signs that were really not ‘compatible’ with her.

        I’m a May 28 Gem and she’s Jan 23. And to double that, Chinese-Zodiac, I’m a 84-Rat and she’s a 88-Dragon. So, we’re double compatible. I don’t get why she’s running from me so, lol.

    • Mahalliea Paz June 13th, 2017

      She definitely wants you. I’m an Aquarius woman, and I’d say she wants you to pursue her. Just make sure you give her her space, support her goals and priorities. It seems like you’re going about it right! Also, make sure that you are bold at moments. Just make the move! She’s giving you every opportunity to.

      • Charles June 14th, 2017

        I don’t know now. On June 9th, the daybof the Full Moon, she removed me as a friend on Facebook and on Snapchat. I haven’t dared tried to call or text. And several days before she did this, she started sharing these memes and videos on FB about Dating Single Moms and Whoever likes this Post would date a Single Mom.

        Now, like I said; I’m a Gemini. My mind is already going a mile a minute trying to figure out, what is going on? Is she extending an olive branch? Fishing for an reaction? Or have I been played the last 8 months and she’s fishing for other male friends in her friends pool to see who has it in for her?

        After like two or three of them are posted, Friday morning I made a jokingly comment on one like, “well, when can interest individuals drop there resumes off for an interview?”

        After all, it’s been close to 4 weeks of silence. Now I’m unfriended on Snapchat and Facebook.

        I have this gripping fear that I have been merely an “option”, while someone that she may have been interested in wasn’t available and then suddenly became available, and this was someway to cut me off. That’s not her character, and to let me get close to her child; that’s not even like her. But now I’m blocked from those two communications. I dare not try to call/text.

        I waited a day, hit her best friend up and asked her friend to relay a message saying, “okay, I guess I get the hint, I’ll back off and let you handle you. Take care of yourself and the lil guy; if you need me you know where I’m at at and how to get in touch with me.”

        After everything she’s been through I dare not go to her home or job. Those are her safe places, I’m not going to violate those places.

        I’m at a loss at what to do. With no information to go on, I’m starting to lose a lil sleep now. I still want to give her all the space in the world to handle whatever she needs to do, but this is so delicate, bringing in the situation if her ex’s abusive behavior to her and her son. That and this new fear that I may have been playey, though like I said, that’s not like her at all.

        Times like this, sucks to be a Gemini. I’ve done ran over every scenerio I can think of, and each possibility makes me feel worse since I cannot get no information, and her friend is not talking either (nor do I expect her friend to, after all, that’s her friend….).

    • Trinia June 19th, 2017

      Cut her loose. If she wanted to be with you she would. Walk away from her and force her to check herself as she thinks this behavior is acceptable by you. Don’t let it be. If she wants you and wants something real, make her give it to you. She knows what she wants and if it isn’t you, look for your own.

      • Charles June 22nd, 2017

        Thanks for the advice. Taking it to heart. I’m stepping back, and let the dice roll where they roll. Just from our history, and how everything seemed to play out, putting all this behind me is going to be hard to do, but I will do it to give me a piece of mind.

    • Marya July 14th, 2017

      She is enjoying the positive attention she is getting from you and doesn’t want it to ever go away. So by not entering into a relationship (keeping it simple/ you never really having to live with her faults or whatever she thinks are her faults, you’ll always have this desire to be with her. She likes you but Doesn’t want to screw it up by sticking a relationship in there. You may have to get to a point where you Give her an ultimatum. This gets Aquarians thinking I’m the right direction!
      (Take from a textbook auquarian female who is used to having men pursue me.. well I’m married now with a baby, but my former life!)

      • Marya July 14th, 2017

        Didn’t read all the comments inbetween my comment. Had only read your initial story.
        Now hearing the latest, yah, cut her loose, she’s got too much baggage and she needs to focus on herself and her son.
        Timing in life is everything. Find another but know something will transpire in the future (could be years) and you will eventually get the closure you deserve.

      • Charles July 18th, 2017

        Yeah. Its breaking my heart all over again to have to loose her twice now. But, it is, what it is, I suppose.

        Thanks all for the input.

    • Josephine October 2nd, 2017

      Don’t get to disheartened.. he sounds like a Nice Aquarius female. You’re right we are loyal and do want long term relationships however don’t forget that we are known to be scared of commitment sometimes and we really do treasure our own space and freedom. If it’s meant to be she will come to you ☺️
      I hope it works out for you

    • Yo Yo November 1st, 2017

      Have you ever tried to come on to her, sexually? Maybe she’s just waiting for you to make a move on her….if you never have at some point she maybe felt like u were not I treated in her in that way or don’t find her sexually attractive because you never tried. That’s what I get from her walking around with no pants and so on. Do something really different that youve never done to grab her full attention back and just secure her with the feeling that she is all you want and need and different from her ex

      • Christine January 30th, 2019

        I don’t recommend this at all. I am an Aquarius female, and I wouldn’t let a guy see me in a bra if I wasn’t interested, but have some male foist himself on me is not my cup a tea. I’d at least never be alone in a private place with foister ever again.

    • Aquarius woman November 23rd, 2017

      She probably will not take you 100% serious until you pop the question. Even then she will be hesitant bc it sounds like she has a past. If you want to marry her then wait, if not move on with your life.

    • Brittles January 14th, 2018

      I’m an aquarian woman. She may be afraid of being “locked in” again or to commit. With me, I have a couple guys I love to pieces, but I can’t openly say that because I can already tell they would be lifetime partners. I’m not sure if I’m ready for that commitment.. yet. Especially after a horrible relationship (cancer), sometimes it’s hard to get back into relationships. We love our freedom. It sounds like she enjoys and cherishes you.. I’d enjoy it everyday, let her know, and when she’s ready, she will jump in. Just don’t push her or she will run.

    • Nicole March 11th, 2018

      She’s not 1000% sold on the idea of commiting. I think you may be too open for her. Aquarius women has to feel like we are the one making all decision in our life everything has to feel like it’s our idea. So you have to just ease up and you should see a change.

    • Rockycruz August 17th, 2018

      I know this was posted while back but man, you acted like some nice guy. She wanted new excited, and moment you acted like a nice guy abd later a provider, she saw she can get that anyway so she is never going to commit to you.

      She will be thinking “mmm I will miss something better and far more exciting.”

      You needed to show you got what she cannot get from where she is but nice, acting pally, like some nice guy provider, is what she can get anyway.

      I am Gemenii Man who has dates with many Aquarius women.

      You needed to show masculinity, sexual adventure, fun rather than what she already get from her boring reptitional life.

    • Christie January 30th, 2019

      Aquarians want autonomy. She doesn’t want you giving her stuff/help. You might trick her into dependence, and she’ll be stuck, like she was with the abusive predecessor. Don’t let your good will make her feel like she’s being trapped into loyalty again. Let her feel like she can come and go anytime. Let her live in her own place, where she can tell anyone to come or go as she pleases. Don’t crowd her. When she gets mad or scared, listen to her, then tell her that she is smart and will figure out a way that suits her. If it takes a couple of tries to figure that out, well, it takes a couple of tries. No big deal. Don’t hover. Don’t stand by, waiting to catch her if she falls. She needs to know she’s making her own way. Always offer her a safe place to be, but don’t let her feel that’s conditional. I’m an Aquariuan TIger and I’d never let someone else take care of me.

  26. Katrina March 13th, 2017

    I agree, I’m an Aquarius women, knowing that someone loves me enough to support my hustle would mean the world to me. Being there for her when she needs you, making her laugh, keeping things fun and light will keep her coming back to you.

    • Charles June 6th, 2017

      That’s good to know. Once this currently huddle is cleared past that I seemed to have gotten myself in (see my response to Hagar above), I’m really going to have to show her that my support is unwavering.

      I mean, I’ve been there non-stop for her since she’s invited m back into her world since November, but from everything that I’ve read, isn’t that part of my problem now? Everything that I’ve read states that Aquarius live by/demand freedom (which hey, I get and respect. totally do). But it almost seems like, now its kinda like slapping back the helping hand. Which I know is not her personality. She is very independent… that much I know.

      I feel like I’m in a bad Tyler Perry Movie sometimes, lol.

      • Jefinner November 11th, 2018

        Jeez leave the girl alone! Aqua woman here and I’m getting alarm bells! You’re seeking her out at every opportunity, know everything about her life that she doesn’t want you to know! I call narc on this! You are stalking her and she has blocked you out of life pretty much! Go get your supply elsewhere picking on a vulnerable woman and kid!

      • Aqua girl April 22nd, 2022

        Aquarius woman here! I’ve been on both ends of this kind of thing- feeling obsessive about someone who didn’t return my interest, and being the object of someone’s obsession. I’m going to be honest, if she’s blocked you on anything, she’s not interested. I hate to be this blunt but I’ve had to learn this lesson too- unfortunately, just because you give someone time and effort (and in this case money) it doesn’t mean they owe you anything in return. People can’t control their emotions or desires but they CAN control their actions. I had a guy spend all his time with me, say he was in love with me and then ghost me- sometimes for us air signs (and for people in general) the experience of the chase, lack of closure and being unsure can get us HOOKED. But that doesn’t mean it’s meant to be- closure is nice but we aren’t owed it. We don’t know what’s going on in someone’s life and no matter how much we gave of ourselves to them they don’t owe it back, although it’s good to have an outlet for our own emotions in this situation, separate from the person. Give them space and don’t expect them to return, they in all likelihood will not, do not wait for them, move on with your life and take care of yourself.

        She seems to feel uncomfortable, and I think doesn’t want you in her life anymore, even if she considered you as a romantic option before, she’s changed her mind now. Although when I fall in love I know it can feel like the man *made me feel that way, the truth is my feelings come from me, right?

        It might feel like she made you feel a certain way or lead you on, but honestly her life sounds complicated and she’s probably just doing her best, maybe liked you romantically at some point and then changed her mind.

        Unfortunately, your feelings for her and your pain are not her fault, they’re about you. That’s how it is with unrequited love. And I feel your pain, I really do. But unfortunately the best thing you can do is focus on yourself, put your money and your time elsewhere. You made your decisions, this woman has her own life, personhood, story outside of her involvement with you.

  27. Jon February 15th, 2017

    Myself (Gemini, 33) and the Aqurius lady (33) in my life is the only woman I’ll ever want. We took years to me having seen each other on public transport for years.

    Everything was great, neither of us to want to date anyone else, we have told each other that, and that we love each other. She started such a demanding job that it has taken over her life atm, she says she doesn’t want a rship right now, nor the foreseeable.

    I’m gonna stay around as a friend, give her space time and get back to basics between us, making her laugh talking like we did without the affection right now, good choice? Will she ever come back? She said we are in different places, (career wise yes, but mine has literally just taken off) and want different things, but we’ve never spoke about that yet, are these her making reasons for herself for now?

    • Brianna February 21st, 2017

      I would wait. As an Aquarius, sometimes work is just so much and we get wrapped up in it and know we won’t give something else our all. It’s frustrating when we can’t find the balance. Maybe just remind her why you worked so well in the first place. Show her you’re on her page and will continue to be. We just want to be better with someone. Good luck!

  28. bobbie January 26th, 2017

    I am an Aquarius female. Give her some freedom! But don’t be hurt when she runs, because she will run right back to you.

  29. Paras January 17th, 2017

    I am gemini-male…nd i was in a relationship with an aquarius female…we broke up aprox 20 days back….I cant understand her..She just wants to continue as freinds…but i dont want to because it just dont feels right…i love her…nd i feel like i m changing but i dont want to…

  30. Britney Williams January 9th, 2017

    I hate my Gemini so much that I might love him for all the reasons above. Can’t stand the fact that this is all true ugh

  31. Max January 4th, 2017

    I have feelings for an aquarius girl since 2 years. I am gemini. We are in a group of 4 close friends. We have a very good friendship and i dont want to ruin things and make it awkward. But at the same time i love her alot and its breaking me from inside to keep it in. Once ,a year back she was ignoring me a bit so after she broke up with her boyfriend i talked to her on chat and tried to tell her it hurted because i liked her but she told me to not go in like and stuff,so i told her that i said as friends to cover up. But it was a year ago and i didnt tell i loved her. And now our friendship has become stronger. And its really hard keeping my feelings in.
    So please give me some advice i really love her..Tell me how should i approach or react. Also we both are 17 and 12th std having exams next month..(Shes attractive i.e many boys may want her 🙁 -from India)

    • Liza January 20th, 2017

      Hi Max
      I’m an aquarian woman I’m 46 single mother of 2
      I’m from the other side of the spectrum to you in sign and age but the question you posed was very moving for me as I am in love with a Gemini man. I first saw him 7 months ago at a bus stop. I was with my children and some other friends/ family from their school. Out of the corner of my eye I spot an extremely handsome man waiting at the bus stop. He smiled and I was taken aback with a huge wow! For the next 5 mins we exchanged glances and smiles and he watched how the children were playing, we rode the same bus and he came and sat down on the seats opposite but we never spoke he just kept smiling and what a smile ! every time he smiled I kept thinking if only a man like that could be my partner and smile upon me in such a way I would be in love for a life time!
      Myself and the children got off the bus and this man rode away still smiling but we never spoke
      I spent the next 6 weeks looking out for him (whilst kicking myself for not being confident to have spoken to him)
      But then by chance on my way home from work (on the bus) who should suddenly appear by my side but this same man and he got off the bus at the same stop and he kept looking and smiling and I just looked at him and I smiled and then eventually he said hello.. And that was it, for the past 6 months we have been getting to know each other we hang out only as friends
      He spends time with me and the children and they adore him (more than their own father at times) and he in turn adores them we kissed once before Christmas but then he suddenly became cold and said he wants us to be just friends which hurt so deeply that for days I just kept bursting into tears
      But I resigned myself to being just his friend because if that was the only thing on offer then I would at least have him there in my life and I could still love him even from afar
      3 weeks ago I agreed to go on a date with another man (a Virgo) and he was great we gelled well and he was attentive, a good communicator and he had passion and great strength
      So tonight when my friend (Gemini ) came over to see us I told him about my dates with the other man
      His reaction was to kiss me .. And I’m so glad he did because I know in my heart that this is the man I want to be with and we will together work all this out.
      So I say, pick your moment but do say how you feel, be confident in what you offer her because at the end of the day when you go through life not only do you want a partner you want a friend who will love you, respect you, nurture you and accept you . There will be many ups in life as well as downs and it’s friendship that gets you through all of that. I know from my own experience of what life can throw at you
      Aquarians are romantics at heart deep down we want the fairy tale so take her some place fun outdoors play at kicking up leaves just let loose and when we you laugh and mess around get closer and when your so close you can smell her just lean in and kiss her….. Sweep her off her feet, romance her
      Don’t drop the I’m in love with you until you know for sure how she feels but take it slow she knows how you feel trust me we have great instincts we just need romance so instead show her, we are not materialistic by nature we care about the small things the gestures so show her that you care and love her Good luck

  32. daniel December 31st, 2016

    I’m an Aquarius male, just finished my first date a while earlier, and I can’t sleep. It was so amazing. First time ever meeting and connecting on a different level and man was she a beauty to behold to. Pure perfection. Its been a year since I’ve been with anybody sexually. And she straight up came out and basically said I want you tonight. And me really liking the girl and not wanting it to just be one night said I think we should give ot another date or so and not rush ot. She agreed. But said she’s still gonna want me regardless. And I wanna be with her too. I just I’m nervous. Ive never hooked up so fast with anyone and wanted it to be more than that and I’m confused about what to do. But I damn sure dont wanna lose this opportunity. She’s the girl of my dreams and I couldn’t get any luckier. But I want it to last. So help me please. And yes. I’m a real man. Seeking a females advice BEFORE I act.

    • Tami January 3rd, 2017

      I think you did the right thing. Don’t rush take your time and enjoy one another when it’s the right time for both of you

  33. Tori December 28th, 2016

    I… the aquarius woman and him the gemini man are two peas in a pot sometimes. Other times all that i feel we could have dwindles by the waste side. The love making is so passionate and electrifying I sometimes wonder if he can feel my heart always panting. He doesn’t want a commited relationship (his words) but i certainly don’t want to share him. I wanna stick close but i wont lose my sanity. Will he realized im all he needs someday?

    • Tami January 3rd, 2017

      I think you should keep you options open, date other people, do other activities, don’t always be readily available for him.

  34. FamousInTheShadows November 16th, 2014

    I am a Gemini male, recently met a very attractive Aquarius female. She goes to my school. We started chatting, and we have a lot in common. I feel that this simple friendship could possibly go somewhere, but im going to take it slow and hope for the best. Thank you ask-oracle for the boost in hope!

  35. 11306 October 30th, 2014

    Ok guys I need your help. Me (moon in aquarius female) Him ( moon in gemeni Male) Us both taurus sunsign. Where do I start? I meet this guy online. The emails became more and more as time went on. Then we started communicating on kik. We chatted so much that we eventually exchanged phone numbers. We finally saw eachother in person and the chemistry was amazing. We were obviously both attracted to oneanother and we went on several dates. Restaurants, movies, pool, then his house eventually. He has a really nice bachelors pad. He is independent and very sharp intellectually. His only things. He had a child with a woman 4 months ago that and he advised me that the relationship was over. Ive meant his daughter on a few occasions. He seems to be a good father. I definitely am the one to understand having a child by someone your no longer with because I have a eight year old son with my ex. But moving on. We were so in to oneanother. There was no pressure for anything. We touch, kiss and caress eachother all the times. Eventually a month and a half later we got busy!! It was bound to happen. When two people are into one another sex is part of the equation. Anyways. Two days later the textes and calls slowed down to a complete stop. I sent him a picture text stating “I wonder if you think about me and say dang i miss her,” two days later. His text “YES.” My text “Prove it.” He called me and said theres your proof. That conversation was short and sweet. And it was also two and a half weeks ago. I havent contacted him since because Im not very clingy. But I am so hoping to here from him. I feel like we would be good together. We dont know eachother well but I definitely dont want to be a stranger. So im patiently waiting on a call, text, or something. WHy did this gemeni man disappear? Do they ever come back?

    • Rockycruz August 17th, 2018

      Because you went on relationship mode and tried too hard in trying to make him feel he got to validate you when he is not around..

      “Prove it.”

      The first one was bad enough but to the play a transactional game with..

      “Prove it”

      Showed you will never respect his mental freedom or his personal space and try to guilt trip him to “prove it”

      Though he did reply, that part S. Gemeni Man, was the nail in the coffin.

      Next tine don’t do these conversational games. Instead focus your messages to be arousing, stimulate his mind from the masculine world, lure him with an adventure, excitement, be fun, role play rather than getting validation.

      From a Gemeni Man

  36. Bonnie.The.Aquarius September 12th, 2014

    Im an aquarius, hes a gemini. I live him dearly but things dont seem to be smooth between us all the time. We have trouble expressing our emotions, and feelings with one another. Either everything between us is warm and loving, or its distant and cold.  Either we talk everyday or go weeks without contact. Hes just so all over the place, and me being the moody Aquarius I am I cant deal with it all the time, but I try because I love him. But I do have suspicions of his messing around with other women. Hes very flirtatious, and not committed. He doesnt want a relationship. In my head I dont either but in my heart, I do.

  37. Aquariusgirl August 24th, 2014

    I am an aquarius girl and recently i’ve met a gemini man
    we smiled at each other and had a connection from the very beginning
    it was so obvious, as if aome magic dragged me to him, im completely in love with him. Same with him about me.and it was all so intense. I cant agree more with every single statement in this article!
    the only thing that breaks my heart is that we are now far away (i met him in a trip), and surely i know i ahouldnt text him much because it would be annoying, but i can hardly manage not to text him!!
    and actually guys.. I feel so heart broken without him
    i know him for such a small time but feel as if someone teareda part of my soul out of me – thts how bad i feel without him. He can read In my heart! He could touch my soul, like no one never before…. In love …:))

  38. JesusB July 2nd, 2014

    Hello everybody,
    if anyone reads this post I appreciate it and I hope it finds you well. After reading the article and all of your posts I completely agree. Aquarius women seem have a special bond with Gemini men. I am a Gemini man and I really really like and I am beginning to think I love a beutiful Aquarius woman. I met her at my previous job about a year a few months ago. At the beginning I would only smile at her and she would smile back. One day I saw her in the break room and I started talking to her. We continued talking a bit more and I would try to find more things about her without being too forward. Wanting to find out if she was taken one Monday I straight up asked her how was her weekend with her boyfriend. With a somewhat shy smile she responded “what boyfriend?”. Taking a step back I continued to say hi and talk to her almost everyday. The day that I really started liking her was when we had an office meeting and she won an “Employee of the Month” award, for some reason she started crying. I was happy for her, I had heard that she was a really hard working woman and the fact that she got an employee of the month award in an office of 300 plus people proved it. My position at the time was in another department but sometimes we would reach out to other departments when needed, including hers. I was dealing with a situation that I really needed help with and I decided to walk up to her desk to ask for her for help. With a very welcoming smile she said that she was going to help me. I thanked her and walked away. Later on she sent me a message through the internal messeging portal (IM for example) stating that she was not able to help me but she was going to find someone to help me. I was shocked that she didn’t say no when I first went up to her. My interest for continued to grow. The days continued to go by and I looked forward to at least seeing her from a distance. One thing that always stood out was that she always looked tired but always had a smile. Those blue eyes always seemed sad but again, always had a smile on her face. The interest continued to grow. On mother’s day I decided to send her a message through the messeging portal simply saying “happy mother’s day”. Later on she replied with a “thank you”. It turned out that she was a mother! No wonder she always looked tired! However, she definitely always looked beautiful. My new discovery did not alarmed me since I recall her saying (or at least implying) that she did not have a BF. Time passed and I finally got her number. We texted and spent more time at the office. My interestest for her began to develop into feelings. Throughout our conversations I figured that she had a bad experienced with her daughters’ (two) father. How can a man let her go or do something to such gorgeous and beutiful woman!? Knowing that she was hurt and obviously did not want to talk about that aspect of her life, I never asked anything. My interest for her continued to grow. As we spend more time I decided to let her know about my growing feelings. Not wanting to freak her out I decided to be old school and wrote a letter. By that time she sat closer to my desk and I gave it to her personally. I think she already knew my interest for her. Later on she texted me thanking for the letter but I could tell that she was not taking me serious, most likely due to the fact that she thought I was just another guy trying to “hit it and quit it”. In one of our conversations she stated that tried to date another guy after what happened to her but he acted like a jerk. Not wanting to give her the wrong impression, I was and continued to be nice and respecful to her. I still continued to show my interest and feelinds in various ways. I finally decided to ask her out but her schedule always seems busy. I respected her. We continued to talk and text a lot more and speak on the phone every now and then. I continued to ask her out but she never had the time. On her birthday she finally had time to go but it was a group thing, she really emphasized that she wanted me to be there. I showed up to the place and by that time she was already drunk and having a good time. She looked so happy and of course gorgeous. Of course, a lot of guys were trying to get her attentiond. I hung out nearby and to be honest it really hurted me seeing her dance with other guys. I figured she was simply having fun and deserved it since she never really got to go out. At one point I decided to start dancing with another female since I was not going to just stand there looking at her dance with other guys. As I danced I noticed that she seemed to get jealous but I didn’t think to much of it. I continued to try to enjoy my night since I could not stand the idea of seeinf the girl of my dreams dance with other men. I don’t recall her dancing in any provocative way. Wanting to numd my pain (I was hurting hehe) I kept on buying drinks. At one point I was walking back from the bar to the spot where she and hers friends were and I noticed this random buy standing by the dance floor. He also seemed hurt, sad, but calm. I took the liberty of asking him what was wrong. “That is my girl over there”. As I looked towards the dance floor I noticed the girl grinding and making out with another guy! I felt bad for the guy and tried to make him feel better. He then asked me if I was there with anyone. I told him that I was there for the girl that I liked birthday’s celebration. When he asked me where she was at I have to admit that I feared that I would see the Aquarius woman making out with another guy! At the same time some part of me wished that I would see her like that since by this time I had had feeligs for her for a while and wanted to stop. When I pointed towards to the spot of the dancefloor time seemed to slow down and in the middle we saw her, alone. I will never forget this moment due to all the events that had happened throughout the night and the fact that this woman (being somewhat short) was visible in an sea of people! He then told me to go talk to her. I did but by that time it was time for her to go. The next day she texted me stating that she was really drunk and didn’t remembered much. I admitted to her that I was hurt and that was when she told me that she could not respond to my feelings due to what had happened with her daughter’s father. She offered to continue to be great friends. I accepted. The months went by and every now and then I would remind her that I was still interested in her and that I would be patienly wait. She continued to tell me that she did not want any relationship because she needed time for her and her daughters. I respected her. We kept contact even after she left work to work about another place. I actually encouraged her to apply! We still keep contact. Every now and then she mentions how I am a great man and she appreciates my friendship. On my recent birthday (June 8th) she stated that I make a big difference in her life. Understanding that she is always busy I noticed that she is a bit more distant now. After all this time interacting I am wondering if I bothering her? I have asked her but she said no. I do believe that we have a special bond and friendship. I do see myself with this woman. I do feel like those feelinds have turned into love. Ever since I met her, I have not stopped thinking, caring, and wanting all the best for and about her. Am I obsessed? I recently staring looking at this astrology thing and that is how I ended up in this forum and writing this post. I literally took a “am I obsessed?” quiz and ot 50%! I have decided to stay away from her because I really hurt and get mad at how much I care about her thinking that she doesn’t feel the same. Although she has stated that she doesn’t want any relationship, I sometimes feel like she wants me to be there. As you can see, this is a very long post! I have not included a lot of things because I realize that it is 11:38pm on a Wednesday night. Some people say I should let her go and move on. Others say that I should keep on trying because I will be with her. Wanting to be with her and respecting her time, I will try not to respond to her texts and/or social media to see what happens. To be honest, I don’t think is healthy for me to be like this. I am still optimistic that she will be my Aquarius woman and we will fulfill what the article describes. This is by far the longest post! I just wanted to express myself and hopefully get some feedback. I really like, and I am sure I love her, and I do think she is worth the wait. I think about her when I sometimes interact with other women. Every song reminds me of me. La quiero, estoy seguro que la amo. Pero espero tener una mejor idea en lo que tengo que hacer. If anyone actually reads this and has any advise, please let me know! Good luck to all of you!

    • Christine January 30th, 2019

      Hmm. So being the only one standing by, being nice, can get a bit boring. Why don’t you ask her to show a little bit more effort than just accepting your good intentions? Tell her you are lonely, and want to find a person who will be a partner, that won’t make you feel guilty for wanting a partner. Mainly let her know you are available, but also that the clock has been ticking a while and if she’s really interested in you she needs to take a few steps closer, also. If she keeps the same distance as always, then don’t keep waiting. That’s what I think.

  39. hearth_gem March 11th, 2014

    Hey there Aquarius ladies, I am a gemini man. I met a beautiful aquarian about 6-7 years back and we became very fond of eachother very quickly. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend. Brought together by fate, we were also quickly seperated by fate. So, I hope we see each other again some day. At the same time, I am hoping to just meet a single and available aquarius woman. Somehow, I just always imagine that my best match will be with an aquarius. I love you ladies, you are the best.

  40. pooper February 5th, 2014

    I met this aqua girl some 4 months ago online, didnt knew she was aqua untill recently/didn’t beleived in astronomy untill recently :p .. And creepy magical things started happening.. Freaking telepathy like communications, like saying same things same time .. knowing what she/me going to say.. It is beautifull, amazing hillarious our conversations.. Hours and hours we can talk about random shits.. Didnt used to give darn about astronomy and likes, then she introduced me to it.. And i was like haaawww can someone wrote things about me that no one knows.. I m totally crazy about her right now.. And am definitely not gonna let her go away.. feels like soulmate to me 🙂  

  41. sugandhsaurabh November 13th, 2013

    As a matter of fact, I’m seriously in love with an Aquarius girl. The girl seems to be attracted to some piscian man. We are friends but only casual and there’s nothing going on between us. 
    She is truly an aquarius girl but I’m a little serious contrary to my basic geminian attribute. I was considered serious, intellectual and introvert from my earlier group of friends. But many things changed when I met this girl. I became more talkative, extrovert, flirty and generated a lot of sense of humour. My new group of friends would take me as a true Geminian but my old friends still considers me a quiet individual. Even my family considers me quiet.  Many a times, I have to downplay or shift personalities to meet expectations of my old friends and family.
    She has joined Air Force with some ground duties and I’m pursuing my higher studies in Computers (although, I was once a Mechanical Engineer). She seems to be difficult to approach now as she is not in contact with me anymore eversince she joined Air Force. Also, she is not contacting anyone from his casual friends circle. So my chances are almost zero.
    Please suggest me on how to keep up myself emotionally with this girl? I really love her and would want to start a life with her.

  42. sushibar July 15th, 2013

    This website is very accurate about gemini man and aquarius woman.As I am an Aquarian woman myself married to a Gemini man.I think a gemini man and aquarian woman can fall in love very easily and quickly they dont need much time to move ahead in their relationship.They take weeks instead of months or years if with other star signs.I think they are a perfect match.But both can be very stubborn at times and neither one of them want to bow down to the other.But f there is enough love small fights can turn into laughter in no time as they cannot function without eachother.I am glad i found my gemini match I am sure which was made in heaven.My life feels so complete with him.I think he brings out emotions in me i thought didnt existed.

  43. tee-praise June 26th, 2013

    Am an aquarius woman,I hate to be left alone, once you leave never come back againWhy would they have to leave and come back, it crazy when

  44. Habibi2 June 7th, 2013

    I met my Gemini in Feb online .. The connection was instant..we spoke, emailed, webcam.. For almost 4 months… We were on opposite sides of the world but felt so close. I flew out to finally meet him and the comfort/connection/passion was amazing from the moment I saw him at the airport. We spent 5 amazing days and are now looking forward to our next meeting … All I can say that the connection between these two signs aid definitely real 🙂

  45. truaquarius May 30th, 2013

    I usually just go over my own horoscope, but this article is too on point not to comment. I met my Gemini man when I was 18. It was instant chemistry. we would sit in the park til the sun came up just talking; no relationship or physical interaction. We would smile at each other and talk about everything. We started a relationship months later but he was a new father and didn’t know how to handle the relationship without it being any tension between the two women (of course no tension from me, I’m an Aquarius, we adapt to all situations), so we decided to be friends. We stayed in contact; would check on each other once in a while; moved on and had other relationships, but found ourselves back together 15 yrs later. We have been together ever since and will be getting married. There is no other person that has ever made me feel the way he has, and I had actually gotten married to someone else (wouldn’t work because my heart was with Mr. Gemini). We understand each other and agree to disagree. We have known each other for 18 yrs, living together for 3 and have never had an arguement. Gemini men and Aquarius women are the real thing I see:-)

  46. princessangel April 20th, 2013

    I am aquarius woman and i have met gemini man in online. I love him madly feel like without him world means nothing to me. He too accepted but i am scared at some point whether we will get apart. 

  47. geminiStarchild April 15th, 2013

    The best sign for our sign is Aquarius no doubt in that 

  48. geminiStarchild April 15th, 2013

    A Shout From Gemini : Love to all aquarius women !!! (:

  49. divine11 April 5th, 2013

    Yeah, Gemini man here.  I met an Aquarius woman almost 4 years ago.  What can I say?  When we met, my life changed.  My whole world changed.  We met online by chance and have never met in person and we never even talked about love, but ever since we met, she has been the most important person in my life.  I try to pretend she isn’t because she was in a relationship when we met.  I never thought about Astrology before.  I never thought about a lot of things until that day.  I still wake up with her on my mind.   Still spend a lot of time every day convincing myself I don’t need her.  We have this connection I’m sure and even though we’ve never discussed it, I know she feels it too.  Even if she denies it, I know she feels it.  But I am a gentleman and I won’t push her.  So I’ll just keep smiling and keep on going and I’ll tell beautiful woman after beautiful woman (who all seem to want me now, why now?) that I can’t, that is isn’t them, it’s me and no I’m not gay and yes you are beautiful… but sorry.  Because my heart is somewhere else and none of them deserve the mess of a broken heart that I have left.  It’s hers anyway.  She didn’t ask for it and I didn’t decide to give it.  It is what it is and nothing has changed in all this time.  I just want so badly to have her close, to hug her and tell her I love her and for it to mean something to her.  I’ve never felt this way about anyone and no, I’m not young.  I know people say I should date other women and I do have fun and do things with them, but what people don’t understand is that dating any of the women I’ve met would be akin to buying clothes as a remedy for heart disease.  The part of me that was broken by this woman is beyond the reach of the rest of them.  I don’t walk around depressed.  I would even say I’m happy to an extent.  I laugh and have a good time as much as I can, but there’s a lingering pain, a constant irritation in my soul that goes from a slight discomfort all the way to an open wound at seemingly random times, but it never leaves me.  There’s the grief of having lost a loved one whom I’ve never met, a shortness of the breath, an emptiness in the chest.  How I wish I could change things.  How I want so badly not to live in this world without her.  Just as no means no, nothing can’t mean something.  I have many Aquarius friends and not every Gem/Aqua combo is a match made in heaven, but I know of a pair that in my mind could reach the stars if only fate would allow it.

  50. GreyByrd211 March 26th, 2013

    I am an Aquarius woman and was in a relationship with a Gemini man. When we were together it was a connection that couldn’t be broken. I would do anything for him. Well he broke up with me on our year anniversary and me being 17 at the time and with him being my first official boyfriend I was crushed but we agreed to be together just not with the title and even though I felt uneasy about it I did it because I really cared about him. Eventually I found out that he was seeing other people and while we were still messing around (having sex) he was having sex with other people as well and that crushed me. So after months of dealing with that, the person that I talked to about my feelings was a close friend of ours and after a long period of crying and feeling hurt I started to have feelings for our friend (mistake but I went on how I felt at the time). He was mad and after all the immature feelings it was said that he understood why it happened and that he was sorry for what his part and that he felt llike he messed up. We decided to be friends but we couldn’t do that idk why then but looking back now I feel it was because we didn’t know how to handle a friendship when we already took it a step further and we were young. So After a few months from the situation I started dating our friend. At first it was great but then things started to whine down, things started to happen and I didn’t feel like myself. I wasn’t completely satisfied but I kept telling myself I was. He was a scorpio and our differences showed a lot even with the similarities we had. I cared for him a lot but something was missing. More stuff started to happen and I broke up with him. He was angry but I knew I had to leave so we didn’t talk for a few monthsand when we started talking again it was like where we left off and thats how I knew it wasn’t right. Nothing really changed we were just happy to not be alone. So eventually we stopped talking again and he realized that he had to let me go. Now we are at the point where we say hi and bye and maybe a few extra things to see how we are both doing but nothing big. I lost feelings. Sometime after that I see my ex. I was on the bus on saw him walking past and I was shocked that he was so close to my house and since that moment he traveled through my mind. I couldn’t stop thinking that if he was more honest and I didn’t have feelings for someone that was close to us we would’ve been together. So I thought that was a one time thing until I seen him again and I walked straight past him. My heart was pounding because I didn’t know what was going to be said. I mean we haven’t spoken in three years. A week or so later I got a random text saying that that was him and he wanted to become reaquainted with me. Of course I asked Y and everything but eventually we got on the phone and talked for hours non-stop. Jokes, questions, stories just everything. What made us get off was the fact that I had something to do other than that I couldve talked longer. While talking to him…. I felt completed. I mean talking just felt right. Idk if it is because I am alone but it’s like it didn’t skip a beat with us. That is a scary feeling. Knowing myself eventually if we start talking and being friends again, I might start having feelings for him. I dont trust him but I know that I could love him and not trying to be dramatic but is there something the universe is trying to tell me?, are we meant to be in each others lives?, is he it? Idk but I would love answers lol

  51. Ecstacy-Teaze February 6th, 2013

    I just recently partnered up with a Gemini Man, and it is going great. He always tries to make me smile and our conversations are endless. He is everything this says. I was worried at first cause I felt we were falling in love too fast, but this would explain why.
    I’m glad I went on a date with him. I’m glad I said yes to his question “Will You Be Mine?”
    I’m happy 

  52. pepsicola211 January 11th, 2013

    as a gemini:
    i dont back to someone i loved,
    that who thinks me, i’m only just a friend.
    >i realize, my life needs to be spend, to love someone.
    (dont just be friends…)

  53. ladylike0202 December 3rd, 2012

    I am an aquarius woman and i met a gemini man about three months ago, at first we used to text all the time but now we barely text and wenever i wanna c him he is always saying he is busy or he is doing homework.  i feel like im the only one dat is crushing here. he show me no type of affection. When we together like once a month we always laughing, we can never get enough of each other lips. My main issue is the fact that he is always saying that he is busy or he doing schoolwork that’s why he can’t never text me. I just know he doesn’t feel the same about me but mi heart is saying different! what do i do.. WE NOT TOGETHER but i am geting feelings for him but i don’t even think he looking for a gf.

  54. alexon2008 October 25th, 2012

    Wow! I am a firm believer in astrology but never before have I seen such an on point article! I am a aquarius woman and I recently met a gemini man, we have such a connection I just couldn’t understand it at first, we manage to forge a friendship but now we are lovers and I think I am falling really hard for him. The trouble is, my instinct says I should not trust his sweet words when it comes to matters of the heart and even though we established that we would always be honest to each other no matter what; it’s emerged that he’s already lied to me on two(2) occassions. he is also six(6) years my junour (dating younger men being totally new to me) but I am willing to overlook that due to our strong connection. Not sure where this one will lead but I get the feel I will want him in my life, regardless of the capacity, always and forever….

  55. sarjosowepcv February 4th, 2012

    I was in a year long relationship with a Gemini man. We got along great and i was going to spend the rest of my life with him, have his child. He was older but i didn’t care about that. He was verbally abused as a child and still carries that with him (he won’t see a therapist for any of his problems). In the end, everything came out, his verbal and emotional abuse, manipulation, cheating, lying… I feel like it could have been a beautiful thing but I’m not sure when everything was based on lies. He broke my heart and I had to leave. I’m over him but sometimes I still get angry all the mean things he said. He was good at that.

  56. LA.agua.Bearer November 18th, 2011

    I met my Ex(gemini)Boy”friend” over five years ago. We were instantly attracted to each other and would always flirt. We were both 18 and right out of high school. When we started dating it was like we were little kids all over again (although we pretty much were still kids) being super cute with each other. Making out for hours and not wanting to go home. He would always spend money on me and pick me up to go hang out the mutual friends that we did have. We communicated very well and intellectually got along amazingly. When I asked him if he was a virgin he said that he wasnt but i ended up finding out 2 years later that he actually was a virgin and the first time we had sex i was deflowering him. I think the only reason he didnt tell me was because he was embarrassed and didnt want to bruise his own ego… or maybe he could just sense that i didnt really want to be the one to deflower someone! haha idk but anyhow we didnt end up doing the deed for about 2 or 3 months but it was still so fun before and even more fun after. We ended up moving in together about 6 months into our relationship and thats when we began to have problems. I think because it was our first time on our own it was stressful. I noticed that he was always so concerned with money and being able to have fun. I started to lose interest and i really dont know why i did. I moved out and then moved back in lol he was already hooking back up with his ex but she had a bf (she was a geminilady too) *ugh* so when he told me he would stop seeing her we decided to stay together and never broke up again till the last time we did. He was very loyal the times that we were together but if we ever got in a fight i would leave for a couple days to my fams house and by the time i came back he was already talking to another one of his exs haha so what does that show you… well the relationship was definitely a turbulent one that left a lot of scars in my heart and body. As an Aquarius its not easy for me to hold grudges and i forgive everyone for the wrongs that they do. I became i completely different person with him, more emotional and needy for his love. I would tell him that he doesnt love me the same as back when we first me and he would say that it wasnt true. He had the worst time at dealing with his emotions and also had a very strong dependency on MJ. Im not typically an emotional person but when it came to the last year of our relationship i was such a weak little girl again. He wanted a baby with me and i wasnt ready. after i had an abortion i could tell he looked at me differently but i was just doing us both a favor. He hated to see me cry and would tell me not to but i would only cry because i felt i couldnt get my love through to him and i felt that he was losing love for me everyday (which now i know he was) I couldnt find a job in 2010 and he hated that i would just sit at home all day. I would clean the house and he would come home late everyday after having a few drinks. I became jealous that he didnt want to spend anymore time with me and i only got to see him when he already had a few drinks almost every day. He didnt want to tell me to leave but finally he did and i didnt want to. I was heartbroken. I moved out and he stopped talking to me. Then after a while he let me come and see him more and more (at least once a week for a couple days) that lasted for 6 more months then the last time i saw him i was already getting sick of going there and he was trying to tell me that he wanted to date other people AND me TOO! haha i was like NO WAY! Who do you think i am! ive been with you for almost 5 years and i just will not share you. that was when he became emotional (would cry) and he knew he had to chose and it wasnt going to be me… I dont blame him though because we were so young when we met and he just wanted to explore life. I left but he wouldnt hug or kiss me goodbye so i told him “this is going to be last time you see me” and he though i was full of it!
    I went to my car cried and drove home and was fine once i got there. I got a new bf not to long after which was short lived but did get calls from the ex. (I NEVER CALLED HIM) he would say he misses me and i would be like yea i know duh! He told me he had a gf and i didnt feel jealous at all… He was such a child and since him i have met so many more MEN that take life way more seriously and can have fun too! i am getting to explore life now the way he wanted to and of course he is still in a relationship. He cant be alone and always needs something to stimulate his mind or body. He was selfish and although he didnt lie he would omit things. (with my Aquarius intuition i could ALWAYS tell when something was up) He didnt like being confronted and would get angry vey easily at the smallest things (eg: the can opener not working right). He was a VERY sexual person and I am not so much so i know that pist him off. I might have been if he had put more effort in the whole communication thing which he didnt so i didnt, but when we did it WAS magic. His good points were his confidence (although i know he had hidden insecurities) how well he spoke (very smart) how friendly he was with new people (we could meet people at the same time) when one of his personalities was in a good mood it was a great mood! he would joke about EVERYTHING (i eventually stopped laughing though and after thought i shouldnt have stopped since i loved him so much) I had to really leave him alone when he was upset because he didnt want to deal with anything and especially not interacting with someone else. he was intense and aggressive sometime in the way he talked and acted but it was pretty sexy to me. after that last time we spoke I left him alone for about 3-4 months before he started trying to talk to me again. I told him that i dont feel comfortable that he has a gf and that he should be faithful. He tells me that he still loves me and that we were best friends and he wants to see me! I know that it is not a good idea and i am actually not really willing to so i keep telling him that im busy and i cant, which is actually true. I tried to go without answering his text but he just keeps texting and then calling then calling the next morning. i tell him i cant see him and wont through text then he just says things to me to make me want to see him! so manipulative! *ugh* well i miss him a lot but know that in the end we parted ways for the best for both of us and that we can always be friends i know he loves me and that he wont ever be with anyone like me and i him (especially since i make it a point to very rarely interact with Gemini men at least in any way that might show im interested) He will be the last Gemini i ever date! they can be crazzzy even more than us Aquarius woman (they are reckless and dont care about peoples feelings unless it will directly benefit him)

    Anyway point being THEY ALWAYS COME BACK TO US!

  57. SexyWaterBearer September 28th, 2011

    I have read this compatibility chart many times to remind myself who I’m dealin with! It is so accurate it’s almost scary. Imma Aqu woman and am fallin in love with a Gem man. We can be open w/ each other no matter the subject and he is truly a good friend. I get impatient w/ his fickleness but I know he’s my soul/spiritual mate so I’m learning to overlook that. Thx Ask-Oracle!!!!

  58. Gem2madd September 21st, 2011

    @Hollywoodman My friend…if her bday is April 11th, you have an Aries on your hands.

  59. marie0903 June 17th, 2011

    Im an Aquarius woman and Im deeply in love with a Gemini man we’ve been on/off for 6 yrs and havin our first child later this year I dnt knw wat it is about him but I cnt leave him alne….together or not hell always be my best friend

  60. Hollywoodman May 1st, 2011

    I found out Geminis and Aquarius are a good match, which pleases me as that is now three things I have in common with the woman of my dreams. she is an actress, I am a photographer/Director—She was born Greek, I have become an adopted greek and love the culture, and her birthday 11th April, Aquarius, mine june 17th. We are both hopeless romantics, havent met yet! havent found love yet on different sides of the continent. And both love nature, the beach, think the same creatively. I am just waiting on the universe now to see if it will happen.

  61. harold April 11th, 2011

    I’m a Gemini man, yes we are difficult do deal sometimes, both we very cool and friendly, kind and happy, y meet my Aquarius 14 years ago and she broke my heart, and she find me again and now we are getting married, she is difficult and very sweet and i love her to death!! if I have write my destiny over and over she always will be on there@@@ i jut perfect for me !!!

  62. BB April 5th, 2011

    i’m a complicated twist of a off beat relationship with a picses guy i’m in love with….or have love for. anyway, i’m in love with the idea of being with a gemini guy. can you see my problem. gemini guys seem so perfect for me. witty, sexy, intelligent, funny, cool….just too perfect. and thats what i want/need! and so i’m left confused b/c i’m in a complicated relationship with a non-gemini. i feel unsatisfied in a way. i dont know if i should stay with him or drop him for what i “wish” and “dream” for….a future gemini guy. keep in mind, i’m still in Highschool. any advice?

  63. tasnim fatima March 20th, 2011

    I am aquarius woman. I married a Gemini guy. He was talking too much. He doesn’t like to stay with me. I don’t what’s his wrong?
    But I think he will come back soonly. And apolize to me.

  64. nicole betlach March 14th, 2011

    i played with castor and pollux x2. sun-moon-gem. i’m moon in gem, i already know how to talk. now i don’t cry. when he gets done with my sister and his in-laws, in-laws, i’ll have to thank him.

  65. juan March 9th, 2011

    I’m a gemini male, last week by total random met a aqua girl I feel the connection from my side but not sure she feels it to she does make simple remarks about wanting more in life how can I win her by not pushing her away? I feel like instant connection and want more of her!

  66. leeroy March 4th, 2011

    iam a gemini man,i broke up wht an aquarius woman about a yr ago.the thng is i still love her like crazy.dnt udrstand why?

  67. jessica February 22nd, 2011

    I am a aquarius woman and my heart tells me my gemini will never go anywhere whether we are together or friends….as lng as he is in my life…Im happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  68. Michele February 7th, 2011

    I am an Aquarius married to a Taurus/Gemini man(he is on the cusp, May 21). We have been together a total of 11 years and I gotta say he is my best friend. I want nothing more than to run him through with a dirty spoon sometimes, but the man gives me the tingles still after everything we have been through. He lies without thought, he can be such a dreamer I wonder how he stays on the ground. But he gets me like no one else ever has and I get him. Even if this doesnt work out we will always be friends-that and we have two sons (Scorpio and Libra) so we need each other for back up!

  69. Elisa January 16th, 2011

    I read my horoscope as entertainment but readings like this just makes me say WOW!!!My relationship right on the nose.We just reunited after 25 yrs and our love for one another picked right up from were we left off.Always friends no matter what.We love each other and I’d say we both want that deeper in love relationship.Theres lil annoying things each of us do that gets on our nerves but the love we do have keeps us together.Because of his health the sex is as physical as it is mental.The desire is still strong and I am committed.I was 19,he was 33 when we met.Now 44 and 58.

  70. Maria January 2nd, 2011

    Message to Grace: Do not call/sms your gemini man. the above information states that gemini men need to be left alone “she needs to let go of him from time to time with the understanding and faith that he’ll be right back in her life soon enough.” Even if relationships end, friendship will ALWAYS be there. Do not force it, if it’s meant to be; it will happen.

    I also agree. This is pretty true. My boyfriend and I have known each other since I was 16, I am now 21 and we just started dating this year. We recently moved in with each other last month. I also believe that friendship plays a big role in our relationship because I have never felt so comfortable and happy with anyone else.

  71. Grace December 15th, 2010

    Im also an aqaurius woman.i breakup wth my geminine man so badly.he dnt call nor sms.i want hm back.i wander should i sms askin 4 friendship?

    • Rockycruz August 17th, 2018

      Avoid throwing salt on his wound. You don’t say to a gemeni to be friends after romantic or sexual experience happened.

      Instead give him his space. We like our mental freedom and mental space.

      But it is not true that after a breakup that didn’t go to well or ifvattrwction faded that we return.

      That’s not true for all Gemeni men because awakwardiness is what we avoid and uncomfortable situations.

      This is why it is crucial for women wanting longer lasting relationship with a Gemeni Man to avoid creating uncomfortable situations and any mind games.

      Most can be extremely sensitive and won’t forget the hurt they experienced with someone.

  72. Sophie November 18th, 2010

    I think this is quite true as i like somebody and he does think he is judged unfairly etc..
    I have almost the same problem as the response above, and i am uncertain of what to do..
    among other issues, i’m just not sure.

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