Capricorn Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility

As Capricorn is earth and Aquarius is air, they make a rather uncommon combination with little to share in their habits and attitude. The Capricorn is always very responsible in nature while the Aquarius sounds indecisive and undependable frequently. While the Capricorns have their stability in everything, Aquarius is always looking around from new things.

A Capricorn man has great ambitions in life which he pursues fiercely. He believes in permanence and self-discipline. His determination is followed by outstanding patience. He appears to want to be alone but longs for admiration and acceptance from people just like everyone else. This man falls short in the areas of expressing and generosity. He does not handle change well at all. He is very structured and follows a strict routine and becomes irritable and uneasy when his routine is changed. He is a traditional lover who can over look the negative qualities of his lady.

An Aquarius woman is often detached from the rest of the world. She is also very flexible and able to change into many forms. She is very intuitive and often scary psychic. If it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it will be her intuition telling her about anything wrong. Good luck lying or trying to withhold information from an Aquarius woman. Innately an alarm goes off inside of her telling her instantaneously something is not right. Many people are caught off guard by the Aquarius female by thinking she is only living in a dream world.

The natures and personalities of a Capricorn man and an Aquarius woman are very different. These two have very little in common and that is what attracts them to each other. Though a Capricorn man likes traditional lady but he also senses that she has a great amount of wisdom and he quietly admires her for that and her sweet submission in love which makes him feel a complete man. Being an intelligent Aquarius woman in love with a Capricorn male, she would cherish his family and she presents her arguments suggestively and calmly. With this approach, she always wins nine out of ten times. But her aloofness may humiliate him, especially when they are in a public place.

The Capricorn man’s main focus on the relationship between him and the Aquarius woman is on the basis of home life and family. But she enjoys roaming freely. A relationship between the two leaves her feeling that she is missing out on something. Both of them are concerned with money and financial security. He protects and care for his Aquarius lady and provide her with financial security too. If the Aquarius lady gets what she wants, she remains happy with him. He also understands her desire to be respected as an individual and appreciates her acts. On the other hand, she is one of the few who can tolerate the moodiness of a Capricorn man and make him feel comfortable in the worst of the situations too.

As the unusual association of Capricorn man and Aquarius woman deeply involve with each other, they learn to understand their partner and fulfill the needs with smile on their face. He learns from his lovely Aquarius lady to become adaptable and ease out things in life. She also gives him an open space to fly and feel the dreams. While she learns to become more stable about life and dear ones and take responsibility with determination. They understand their difference and respect each other’s qualities that not only bring newness to their lives but also complement them. Her love is soft and his is determined, together they weave a lovely nest of warmth and happiness where dreams come true and love shines brightly in their eyes.

The sexual relationship of Capricorn man and Aquarius woman is full of many different vibes. When it comes to making love, the Aquarius woman can have many different moods. She is very feminine during love making, while also adding a sense of masculinity with her ability to control the situation. He is very turned on by this at first and he feels strong physical connection with his Aquarius woman. Love making is more imaginative and mental to the Aquarius than it is to the Capricorn. He finds lovemaking to be physical experience that is enjoyed by the bodies and felt by the heart. His resistance is gone during her submission to him. For her, it can be such intensely pleasurable torture. He doesn’t really want it to end but the ending would be always so sweet. Together they create a fulfilling experience of sexual intimacy which is full of all physical display of affection and soft and dreamy expressions of love and romance. He presents his love in most physical ways and she fills colors to their love making with her imagination. They understand each other’s needs in long term and give their best to make the experience satisfying.

A Capricorn man and an Aquarius woman both have to put forth a great amount of effort in order for their relationship to work as they suffer from lots of differences that are difficult to cope up with at times. He is quickly turned off by her who does not get along with his family. She also has to learn how to keep her mouth shut during certain times. While he needs to understand that she is not a lady who will always work according to his will. She is very individualistic and loves her independence above everything. She may also sound fizzy to him. But if they both want to maintain a relationship then, he will ultimately respect the Aquarius woman for her mysterious wisdom and she will also learn how to deal with his moody behavior and spells of depression.

  1. Mercedez Santua December 24th, 2022

    Capricorn men are my best friends not lovers 🥺 that’s why sometimes I’ll told them not to have a relationship with me 😅

  2. bre November 17th, 2022

    i’m an aquarius woman and lately all i seem to attract are capricorn men. a little over a year ago, i met an (january) cap man. we instantly clicked, he was so sweet and always knew how to make me laugh, and was very honest & upfront about any and everything. (i like that in a person). at that time we wasn’t fully ready to be in a relationship and although we’re no longer together, we remain friends. i literally come to or talk to him about anything. earlier this year i’m january i met another cap man (december). in the beginning, as it always is, everything was perfect. he spoiled me with conversation, quality time and financially. he always made sure i was taken care of in all aspects of my life and loved me in my love language(s), (which are acts of service, quality time and physical touch). overtime he started opening up about his past traumas and issue he was currently facing. i feel like all of that was weighing on his mental health, and also started to play apart in our relationship. arguments started surfacing (on his end, im not really one to argue). not too long after, in june, our relationship ended. i don’t have any ill feelings towards him, i just continue to pray for his mental health, healing and well being. after him, i took some time out and focused on myself and journey. got a new job, place and hobbies. repairing my mental state and spirituality, then boom lol, about a month ago met another (january) cap man. we’ve actually been knowing each other for some time, he added me on social media, we’d talk here and there but never really sparked a full conversation. by far, he is the most romantic, intellectual, refreshing, beautiful, down to earth person i’ve ever been with. we talk about everything and nothing at all. most times we don’t even have to talk, just being in each other’s presence is enough. since our first time meeting in person, we’ve been stuck at the hip. there’s never a time he doesn’t want to be around me, even after working 12 hour shifts. even when he’s working, he’s constantly checking in on me, making sure i’m okay, im fed and i gotta lil money in my pocket if i need it. i don’t care for the money, im not materialistic, im very financially independent, so the fact that he knows this and he still chooses to do for me.. says a lot about the kind of man he is. i never have to open any doors, pick up any tabs (i still do, but he lets me know that i don’t really have to. but, i like to show my appreciation for the things he does for me). we’re taking things slow, dating each other before we commit to a relationship (which i love), so i’ll be back with an update in a couple months 🙂

    • Marii July 9th, 2023

      Update Ms.mommas

    • Lin August 8th, 2023

      I love this for you 🤞🏾

  3. Christie August 20th, 2022

    Am a Aquarius woman and to be honest i always thought of capricorn men as boring , closed minded and very predictable. When I first met my boyfriend whos a capricorn i told him it wont work out but than he didn’t wanna hear a thing …he was patient with me and made his intentions very clear , i love how the relationship moved so slowly .i was gotta attracted to the way his disciplined , i lack that sometimes, his always come n independent …i sometimes feel like am not his number 1 😥on his list …but wen i need help his always there ,plus he talks to me daily …the painful part is that he doesn’t talk much about his feelings and i tend to do that too because i can feel him shuts down when ever i try to open up

  4. Kabelo December 22nd, 2021

    I Art A Person (Obviously) Discovered That I Can Classify Self Into Caps. (Verily Identifies With Self, I The Soul)
    South African, Sotho Tribe, Alpha Male 22 Years Young.

    First I Like The Sound Of “Caps”, Cause Darn It ‘We’ Can Be Such Captains Man.

    Oh Yeah. So The Universes Have Revealed To I This Xhosa Aquarius Omega Of A Lady, With A Sotho Surname (I Art Sotho).

    First Time I Saw Her, Indeed, Then It Was Purely Lust. Well… She Kept Me Waiting Yet Pointed Me To Her Friends Back At School.

    Met Later In A Neighbourhood Groupchat And She Had Not Forgotten Me After 2 Years. We Talked. Mostly I Did, She Listened And Reacted.

    I Said Quite A Few Things That I Really Mean, So Much So Approx 5 Years Later 2 Years, I Remembered Her Hence “The Universe Has Brought Her To The Surface”.

    In The Early Years She Was As She Is: Verily Social, Chilling With The Cool Kids. Now She Stands For Course So Great I Can Identify It Not, And She Is So Individual About It… Yet She Is Doing It For ‘THE WORLD’. Honestly I Feel As If T’Challa From Black Panther When Seeing Nakia. I Think I Might Freeze.

    I Feel She Has The Ability To Save Me From My Self And I Can Open Up And Down To Her Be It She Sympathises Or Not. I Just Want To Surrender To Her. MIND AND BODY. Too Support Her In Her Aspirations For I Feel That Hers Verily Accomplish My Verily Own.

    Indeed. As A ‘ Cap ‘. I Art Alone, Yet Permit My Inner Happiness To Suffice. I Art Spoken Of As Crazy Just To Shut Me Down Since I Art Battling The Cappy Shut Down By Self.

    To Advocate The Rest. Cappies Art Moody Not. They Give Motion To Emotion [They Allow]. If Angered They Become Angry. If Happy Become Happy. Basically They Pretend Not. I Mean ‘If Happy Might You Be Angry?, No, You Will Allow Happiness.

    So Everyone Else Should Just Say To Themselves ‘ I Do Not Like His Mood Today. ‘ Or It Does Not Synch To Mine.

    As I Were, I Have Not Spoken To Her Yet. She Is Instagram Famous. And That Being The Only Probable Method Of Reinitializing Communication. I Feel As Though She Might Take Me For A Fan. I Mean ‘Darn It’ I Presume She Has The Entire Male ‘Species’ Sliding In Her DM Like Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly) Whereas My Lady ‘I Art Yours Kamikaze’.

    I Have Pre-Written For Her My Battles And ‘Cries’ Yet Being Emotional And Not Wanting To Be Crushed I Know Not How To Deliver.

    Option 1: Copy And Paste To Facebook And Grant Full Access To Read.

    Option 2: GranT Her Complete Access And Control Of My Personal Google Accounts And Drive. For Her To Read All That I Have Scripted To Her, About Her.

    Option 3: Be More Patient That I Can Be Not. AND!… Halt For Her Numbers And Just Pours Out My On A Phone Call.

    Option 4: ALL IF THEE ABOVE.

    Option 5: Self-Defeat, Freeze Like T’Challa And Watch Her ‘From The Shadows’ Do Her Best (Creepy Though Ey).

    Option 6: Completely Clueless Hence I Ended Up On This Beautiful Site. For Angelic Encouragement Like ‘Hey You Guys Art ‘Perfect For Each Other’ Even The Universe Agrees And Proof Is Found There’. Which Is How I Feel So…

    Darn It I Art Talkative 😰


    A Little Advice Might Help.

    Anyone Willing To Walk Me Through (I Plea) Do Contact I On +27 81 301 3257 (Whatsapp, SMS, Voicemail, Call)


    All Thanks In Advance.

  5. Kabelo December 22nd, 2021

    I Art A Person (Obviously) Discovered That I Can Classify Self Into Caps. (Verily Identifies With Self, I The Soul)
    South African, Sotho Tribe, Alpha Male 22 Years Young.

    First I Like The Sound Of “Caps”, Cause Darn It ‘We’ Can Be Such Captains Man.

    Oh Yeah. So The Universes Have Revealed To I This Xhosa Aquarius Omega Of A Lady, With A Sotho Surname (I Art Sotho).

    First Time I Saw Her, Indeed, Then It Was Purely Lust. Well… She Kept Me Waiting Yet Pointed Me To Her Friends Back At School.

    Met Later In A Neighbourhood Groupchat And She Had Not Forgotten Me After 2 Years. We Talked. Mostly I Did, She Listened And Reacted.

    I Said Quite A Few Things That I Really Mean, So Much So Approx 5 Years Later 2 Years, I Remembered Her Hence “The Universe Has Brought Her To The Surface”.

    In The Early Years She Was As She Is: Verily Social, Chilling With The Cool Kids. Now She Stands For Course So Great I Can Identify It Not, And She Is So Individual About It… Yet She Is Doing It For ‘THE WORLD’. Honestly I Feel As If T’Challa From Black Panther When Seeing Nakia. I Think I Might Freeze.

    I Feel She Has The Ability To Save Me From My Self And I Can Open Up And Down To Her Be It She Sympathises Or Not. I Just Want To Surrender To Her. MIND AND BODY. Too Support Her In Her Aspirations For I Feel That Hers Verily Accomplish My Verily Own.

    Indeed. As A ‘ Cap ‘. I Art Alone, Yet Permit My Inner Happiness To Suffice. I Art Spoken Of As Crazy Just To Shut Me Down Since I Art Battling The Cappy Shut Down By Self.

    To Advocate The Rest. Cappies Art Moody Not. They Give Motion To Emotion [They Allow]. If Angered They Become Angry. If Happy Become Happy. Basically They Pretend Not. I Mean ‘If Happy Might You Be Angry?, No, You Will Allow Happiness.

    So Everyone Else Should Just Say To Themselves ‘ I Do Not Like His Mood Today. ‘ Or It Does Not Synch To Mine.

    As I Were, I Have Not Spoken To Her Yet. She Is Instagram Famous. And That Being The Only Probable Method Of Reinitializing Communication. I Feel As Though She Might Take Me For A Fan. I Mean ‘Darn It’ I Presume She Has The Entire Male ‘Species’ Sliding In Her DM Like Vaseline (Petroleum Jelly) Whereas My Lady ‘I Art Yours Kamikaze’.

    I Have Pre-Written For Her My Battles And ‘Cries’ Yet Being Emotional And Not Wanting To Be Crushed I Know Not How To Deliver.

    Option 1: Copy And Paste To Facebook And Grant Full Access To Read.

    Option 2: GranT Her Complete Access And Control Of My Personal Google Accounts And Drive. For Her To Read All That I Have Scripted To Her, About Her.

    Option 3: Be More Patient That I Can Be Not. AND!… Halt For Her Numbers And Just Pours Out My On A Phone Call.

    Option 4: ALL IF THEE ABOVE.

    Option 5: Self-Defeat, Freeze Like T’Challa And Watch Her ‘From The Shadows’ Do Her Best (Creepy Though Ey).

    Option 6: Completely Clueless Hence I Ended Up On This Beautiful Site. For Angelic Encouragement Like ‘Hey You Guys Art ‘Perfect For Each Other’ Even The Universe Agrees And Proof Is Found There’. Which Is How I Feel So…

    Darn It I Art Talkative 😰


    A Little Advice Might Help.

    Anyone Willing To Walk Me Through (I Plea) Do Contact I On 27 81 301 3257 (Whatsapp, SMS, Voicemail, Call)


    All Thanks In Advance.

  6. Mukhtar abdulhameed indege September 17th, 2021

    Am a Capricorn man and has been lonely since 2018 but just found an Aquarius lady and she shows she loves me but we are on a distance relationship so we haven’t get close to know each other well yet….

    • Angela Mainer December 2nd, 2021

      Hi I am in the same place with the man I am dating. We are four hours apart and its not easy being away from each other. I am trying to be patient but I really miss him. Good luck to the both of us.

  7. Andrew Rickard July 31st, 2021

    This is some very good information and insight to the relationship I just got into. Divorced 40 year old man. All CAP. Mind of a maniac but in a good way. Although in this case Capricorn man-40 is with an Aquarius woman -28 years old. So everything is intensified. For anyone that may read this ,I’ll be back at some point with an update on how it’s going.

    • Diva October 29th, 2021

      I’m here for episode two. Been meeting a lot of Caps lately. I’m an Aquarius woman 38.

  8. Aquarius May 29th, 2021

    We’ve met recently…I see the emotional distance & anger in him. He is driven and a loner, I know I read that there are moments I need to learn to listen but so far my forwardness has left him guessing what I’ll say next. I’m slowly working on peeling back the emotional baggage he carries. I discovered he is an orphan and isn’t a fan of family. I’m worried he will bounce before I can make a positive impact on him.

  9. Crazy Aquarian Chick April 10th, 2021

    I am an Aquarian woman in a relationship with a Capricorn man. I have to say that what it is said about me is true, I can tolerate his mood swings upto a certain level, but the things that are being said about him is not completely true, he hasn’t introduced me to his friends or family and it’s been 6 months, we’ve been rocky because he’s been shutting me out since the last 3 months and I have no idea why and he hasn’t been giving me an explanation. I love him but he changed from the way that he used to be with me. He used to be loving and caring, but now he’s not even bothered to ask how my day was. I’m having such a hard time letting go as I fell hard for him. I don’t know what to do about him anymore

    • Kiam May 22nd, 2021

      I’m a man Capricorn he doesn’t feel love some where if you guys had a fight or something he might feel like he might have really hurt you or him so he shut down.

    • Mthuthuzeli August 21st, 2021

      Caps do more listening than talk. I advise you to express yourself to him, e.g. tell him how much you love and care about him. I’m a Capricorn in a relationship with an Aquarian woman. I know we are too different in everything, e.g. I do things according to plan & she doesn’t. I tolerate her the way she is. We love each other a lot. We fight sometimes, not physically. You may fight but mind your words because what you say may leave a permanent mark in someone’s heart. Aquarius & Capricorn were not meant to have a romantic relationship but that doesn’t mean give up.
      Let communication be your weapon to fight for love. I use it a lot

    • Angela Mainer December 2nd, 2021

      Give him time and be patient with him. When they are going through things they tend to get distance and quiet. Although, I have met his family, I am not sure why he hasn’t introduced you yet.
      If I were you I would have a conversation with him. Good luck!

  10. Elizabeth Owens March 20th, 2021

    Pretty spot on! Other than the grammatical errors.

  11. Troppi Bella on Etsy November 27th, 2020

    Please edit your writing. Really, “out of shorts”? The correct term is “out of sorts”. And there are so many other errors…

    • Author
      Ask Oracle November 30th, 2020

      Thanks for the feedback. Fixed this one and will go through rest.

  12. Elaine July 5th, 2020

    We were better as friends. He left me crying. The scheduled life and harshness to his words. I felt like I could not breathe.

  13. Emmalee November 24th, 2019

    I love my Capricorn man…very masculine, dedicated, loyal. He brings out my inner feminine goddess! I got this free love reading and it was helpful:
    I hope it helps xoxo

  14. ALisha July 8th, 2019

    Do aquarius guy loves his girl in traditional look or western look more?

  15. Sara March 20th, 2019

    This is spoken so well I’m an Aquarius woman and a Capricorn male. I’ve know him for almost 20 yrs before this but due to being with others I never looked at him before this. I can be such a flake and in my own world but I always look at the bigger picture and seen the real him. He can be emotionally distant and so can I. It makes me feel like I can open up with no restrictions you feel when getting into a relationship. I’m a free bird and ain’t nobody special enough to chop my wings off. Like he said I’m let you do you as long I’m the only one you with. I respect that cause Aquarius females when committed will Always stay loyal even if it ain’t reciprocated. I’ll always treat my man like gold cause if ya don’t ya never deserved him. He makes me one happy woman 🥰🥰🥰❤️

  16. EbEb March 12th, 2019

    My guy told me everything he thought i wanted to hear that he loved me he made love to me serveral times then vanished blocked my number my social media everything 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • Marcy March 14th, 2019

      Girl leave him😂😂😂do and post everything SEXY❗❗❗❗❗

    • Aquarius April 10th, 2021

      Yea, same

  17. Retta May 26th, 2018

    Dated my cap guy for almost over a year. (I’m an Aquarius woman) totally a blast in the beginning!! Adventures and all. Great guy all around. Went to high school together didn’t talk to each other but knew of each other. Meet again after high school. Started off as friends then got together. Then things went downhill lots of arguments and me telling him to leave so he would. Then we’d work it out and he’d come back. He didn’t really come back the last time but he’d come over we would get intimate we’d go to breakfast lunch and dinner movies etc. and then he stop coming around and told me to move on and that he didn’t wanna be friends. As far as I know he’s not interested in anyone else told me throughout our relationship that I was his first and his last. He said he wasn’t interested in anyone else or being in another relationship. I just can’t get over him but I know that’s how it usually goes especially after it being my first relationship but I truly still love this guy and hope and pray everyday that we could make things work again for the best. Even if he says he doesn’t want to. Some advice pleaseee?

  18. Lisa Pickett May 7th, 2018

    When he said, If you don’t like your position than change it. He’s saying move on. Sorry fellow Aquarius. What is meant to be, will be.

    • Marcy May 8th, 2018

      since than he’s been calling my friends, telling them to tell me to continue to plan the wedding, showing up at my house, changing his clothes and leaving but won’t take his things with him, telling me to give him 30 days, he’s confusing me like crazy

  19. claude April 23rd, 2018

    This is (aqua-girl in mental dis stress)
    to: smoothluver69 – that is great to know a cap can be like you – the one i have drives me mentally in-distress – i don’t get him every 6 months he is in a mood -i am at my wits end with this shut down mode and passive aggressive attitude – i just want to walk away and say fuck it!!!!

    • Maureen April 23rd, 2018

      Aquarius woman with Cap man – I can’t tell you how many times I have closed the door and said the same thing – “F*** it, I’m done!” And yet, when I calm down and see him again, it’s still good enough to continue. I wonder if it’s his way of keeping distance in the relationship. But I fantasize about a relationship that is not so much angsty work. An easier relationship. His moodiness forces me to stand on my own, remember which side of the street is his, and what is mine ( as in: my responsibility). It’s strengthening me to not be co-dependent.

  20. molly April 23rd, 2018

    I have been dating my cap man for almost 7 years, and I just found out that he cheated on me with a cancer girl, he hasn’t been home or call or text, he knows I’m angry and can’t calculate my moves when i’m angry, we was planning on getting married Oct 18th, it hurts like hell, he keep saying to others he wasn’t happy but we was just together, enjoying each other 5 days before I found out, shoot he just went and got my name tatted on his left rib about 2 weeks before that, I asked him several times are we ok or are you happy and he always say yes, I really think that’s his way of justifying what he did because he know he hurt me, and that I’m angry so he don’t know how I’m going to react so he scared to come home, I’m hoping that he does, but I don’t know how to take him, he told his brother that he been told me to park(I’m guessing that means end) but he’s lying and he was with her, this whole time he been telling me he gonna make it up to me, or he gonna make it right, or I’m not giving up on us, or we need to get a understanding, now this week its over, I ended up making text contact with him, letting him know I was over it now that he finally said its over but then his response was well if you don’t like your position change your position, and I’m like dude you just said it was over, I’m trying not to over react because it might push him further away, I don know what else to do, like could he have fallen out of love with me that fast, or is this 1 of his disappearing acts, now I’m getting info saying the girl posting stuff on facebook like they a couple and she moving there with him and etc., but he not posting nothing about her and when asked he denies it, help me understand this cap guy, his birthday January 8th

    • Maureen April 23rd, 2018


      I was sad to read your email, it is certainly hard to find out that the person you love is interested in someone else.

      If you re-read you email, I think you can see that you have tried to communicate in honesty, and they have responded with lies and put-offs ( putting off a decision). In my experience, this will not change going forward.

      Move on and find someone who respects you . I understand the disappearing act… my Cap man does it too. They are hard to deal with, and I find myself constantly checking in with myself – am I happy with the way he is treating me? Do I feel loved and cherished?

  21. Kristen March 23rd, 2018

    Aqua female here dating cap male they are very down to earth and this guy really turn me on … I was about to date a lesbo when This cap guy entered in my life and he makes me highly sexual and I find men more interesting after dating him … so handsome and he knows how to turn me on … never felt that with any men

  22. Loius February 23rd, 2018

    As a Capricorn I think an aquarian girl is perfectly fun loving girl and I like her energy and detached attitude , in fact even if she socialize she is good and make lots of freind but rarely cheat I hv spied on her but I found aquarians to be very loyal yet fun loving , I love her very much and sexually she is energetic I cannot even began to tell you unexpected tales of her arousals , she is very loving and will do anything to love however the only thing that’s a problem for me is she is very unpredictable in anger at times I feel she is very calm but suddenly becomes hyper which is not normal but overall this is a good compatibility

  23. marsel September 29th, 2017

    I’ve been with my Capricorn for 7 years and its been wonderful but this last year it seems like all we do is argue, like everyday, but I love him so much! he’s my rock, my protector, and he’s a good provider…. he hates that i’m friendly but i’m a aquarius and we are free spirit but he calls it flirting and being too friendly,

    • elle November 5th, 2017

      haha the same thing happened to me when I was dating a Capricorn. Capricorn men are very drawn to us though, you just have to put up with their inner insecurities which was too much for me to handle in the end.

    • Maureen December 14th, 2017

      I love(d) my Capricorn man – we are not talking at the moment because I was too friendly and he calls it flirting and “putting myself out there” – But that is such a big part of who I am. I try to reassure him: stand by him, touch him, etc, but he can not accept that it is not taking away any love from him. it is so good to see you have had the same experience – but also NOT good, if you know what I mean! And just as Elle says, it’s his insecurities that will eventually be the end of us. He and i have Trust issues. And he expects the relationship to always be good / perfect – VERY high expectations , but life hits bumps, and you work thru them.

      • Hy October 12th, 2018

        I’m dating a cap man and I feel this insecurity issue coming on. He never believes what I say and thinks I have multiple men. I’m single but I want him. Ugh I’m so attracted to him and like his laid back attitude since I’m super hyper and ready to live life he calms me down

  24. Darren August 25th, 2017

    Interesting 😉

  25. Susan August 1st, 2017

    I’ve been with my Capricorn Man for almost 16 years, Married for almost 11. We were friends first before anything else, that’s very important in any relationship, we work so well together because above all else we respect eachother. Yes we’ve had our ups and our downs over the years but we’ve always approached any problem together in a cool, calm, and collected manner. Communication is the key!

  26. Sharon June 20th, 2017

    I love my Capricorn, and no we don’t always agree with each other but then who does? After all I am Aquarium and we are a difficult and somewhat cold sign (or so I’ve read, I don’t think I’m that difficult but my other half might disagree 😉 ). What we do is we talk, it’s amazing how much you agree with each other when you discuss topics and see things from each others points of view. if we still can’t agree about something we just let it go. Better that than going to bed agree with each other.

  27. C June 15th, 2017

    Where do I begin… I have been with my Cap for 7.5 years and it’s been a ride. We literally have nothing in common (very little, for real). To the point where I hear him say something that I fully agree with and I’m just like whaaaat? And yet it works. He makes me think about things in a different way and I think I make him think very differently as well. Humor is everything. Nobody and I mean nobody makes me laugh like this dude. We are evil to each other and we love it. If anyone heard, they’d call the police lol (not that bad really). So many fights early on, really emotional ones, but those have subsided as we’ve gotten older (started dating at 23, 24 and now we’re 30 and 31). Bought and are rehabbing a house together currently… brings out the differences for sure. I still love him though, I think I will forever. Best wishes to all, no relationship is perfect. I hope this helped someone relate!

    • Luna July 7th, 2017

      Hi there, I’m with a Cap for 6 months now. Boy has it been tough! The fights were so emotional and a bit physical from his side {i pushed him once} We both understand eachother when we speak about life.. as for our views, not so much.
      It took me a time to get his humour, but now i love it, i never knew i could say mean jokes to someone and not feel so guilty.
      Do you like your Cap’s family?
      …havent met his yet… shit

  28. Keau May 8th, 2017

    Good Luck to those existing aqu-cap. I never thought to be with him, he was my friend for like 9 year. We’ve been together going on 12 years but we sure have had our ups n downs. Though, we are soon to be married hopefully this year. So all in all we love each other.

    • Mira May 12th, 2017

      OMG, This gave me hope. I really appreciate it. I’ve really been looking into our horoscopes and it says were a mismatched match, but also marriage material despite the ups and down. But Thank you for the little bit of hope, I slowly keep losing

      • marsel September 29th, 2017

        girl this was me too…. god it seems like i’m losing hope as well, and we been together for 7 years and this is the worst year ever!!!!! but this gives me hope as well

  29. Dashea April 16th, 2017

    I am an Aquarius woman and I’ve been in a relationship with a Capricorn man for almost a year now. It has been so amazing and the best relationship I have ever had. Before I met my Capricorn man (at work), 4 years prior I had a 6 year relationship with a Sagittarius. Though it started out beautifully, the last 4 years were hell. My Capricorn man is from Cameroon and I am an American girl so everything about us is completely different, but since I love an adventure, this drew me to him. I love the fact that we are so different because our relationship is always interesting, I never get bored. I am always in awe. We balance one another so well. I must admit, 90% of the things stated in this article are completely true in regards to both of us. We have had many disagreements (about 6 or 7), 2 of which caused us to break up for a short time (no longer than 3 days) but we were only disagreeing due to us forgetting to allow one another to always be our authentic selves. Now that we have that understanding ingrained within us our relationship has been perfect. I have never felt so understood and so deeply cared for. He is so patient with me. I love his dominance because it is not overwhelming but I am sure to submit to him when need be because he needs it, and honestly, I love it. I can’t be more grateful that the universe has blessed me with such a beautiful and unique match. It is truly a dream come true.

  30. Humphrey April 2nd, 2017

    I am a Capricorn Güÿ and I’ve known this Aquarius girl for a few months now. This girl has definitely shown me that she can be unpredictable because when I first met her and later tried to have a conversation with her, she gave me a cold shoulder. She made sure she gave me a vibe that seemed like she doesn’t like me and don’t want anything to do with me. But somehow I had a feeling she liked me but was trying to hide it but I let her be then after a few weeks, she saw me walking by and called my attention and we had a good conversation. It’s very clear now that she actually likes me as she gets quite shy on seeing me and I feel like she tries as much as possible to avoid my company. I like her too but I don’t want to rush things in order not to threaten her personal space and freedom. The zodiac astrologist presume from scientific theories that cap and aqua are not a match but I personally think that cap and aqua have a lot of common traits like the aloof and detached nature. We caps are pretty much aloof too. However, the only threat on a relationship between these signs is the cap’s controlling nature which can worked on too.

    • Mira May 12th, 2017

      Thanks for the piece of hope, from a man’s perspective

  31. Umbreeaha March 31st, 2017

    Im an Aquarius woman and i was in a relationship with A Capricorn man for 5 years. IT DID NOT WORK! Too many differences.

  32. Charsity February 2nd, 2017

    I have been with a capricorn man for almost 4 years now. Just started reading into these things. And this is on point.I am an aquarius woman. We were friends for years before we even became an item.

  33. Destiney January 19th, 2017

    I’m an Aquarius and have been dating my Capricorn for about 9 and a half months we are great we are really different and those differences do scare him have even made him question us a bit but I know I love him and that he loves me and I always tell him that even though we are different we are still more a like on the inside then he realizes and it always works. We never fight ever I’ve been beaten and yelled at by quite a few other exes mostly Sagittariuses but never by him we talk about any issues on our mind. Communication in this kind of relationship like any relationship is important but I tend to keep ideas to myself but the communication that me and him have with each other it helps keep everything alive and in tune honestly I don’t think I’ve ever been this happy with anyone else.

    • Dashea April 16th, 2017

      Destiney I relate to your experience so much. I am also an Aquarius woman and have been with my Capricorn man for almost a year. I’ve never been happier with anyone else either. Congrats.

  34. BRI CHERI January 22nd, 2016

    Well whats the update now lol?

  35. MS.-Ross March 26th, 2015

    Hi everyone. I’m Shika Boo an Aqua an I just started dating my Cappy. We just started like 2 months ago. So far it’s been good. He has open up to me about so much letting me in on his life.  I was shock and felt if he could open up to me on certain levels then he really must be feeling me.  His parents are not in his life an from my understanding has never been.  So I feel like I don’t have no worries when it comes to him trying to please his family. We spend our off days together an in such little time we have done so much it’s crazy lol.  This is my very first time trying a Capricorn. Im really feeling this dude.  I just pray I don’t run into some of the issues I’ve read from others In the comments above. All I know is I’m liking what me my Capricorn have going on.  But I will keep u guys updated as I move forward into something serious with this man.

  36. kaybie January 13th, 2015

    What do Capricorn guys love about Aquarius females?

    • Chako February 13th, 2017

      The part she is totally opposite to him.. how she lives life with no boundaries or limitations but gets what she has to do at the end of the day.. (but waaaaaay late.. coz i’m pretty precise with time..) im a cap guy by the way.. ohh and the immense love and enthusiasm she has for every single thing.. the beauty in it.. even something as small as ordering an ice cream.. i fall in love with her all over again..

      • Dashea April 16th, 2017

        Chako, that is so adorable. My Capricorn man says the same thing about me. He says I speak with so much passion in regards to everything and he loves that about me most.

      • Marcy April 21st, 2018

        I need some advice from you

      • Maureen April 21st, 2018

        What’s up< Marcy?

  37. karmain19a November 10th, 2014

    I’ve recently met this Capricorn guy online. Hes a soldeir and boy oes he drie me crazy! He is sweet , sexy , texts me everyday, i havent met him yet in person. He is so emotonal and sensitive , my goodness one day i said something “rude” according to him and he went mental. I ended up being confused.. I then became submissive and started,,, we are in our 30’s but we behave like we are teenage lovers! lol. Anyways he wants to test me and i want to test him. he is my soul mate i know it! I fell into depression , he too, we met on an online support group and thats how we became friends. After we met each other , we changed drastically for the positive. We both are happy but my gooness is our iteraction like a roller coaster ride. He is visiting me this month and i know i will melt in his arms.

  38. Rama14 November 9th, 2014

    I have been married to a Capricorn man for 20 years and feeling so lonely if it’s not for our kids we would never last 
    this article is so right about Aquarius I have cought him cheating so many times just by feeling something is wrong tells me he is doing it and when I foll my hart i always  find him cheeting not the best compilation I wish I have ended our relationship befor it’s too late

  39. Smoothluver69 July 15th, 2014

    I’m a Capricorn guy. My exwife was an Aquarius. We were together for 10 years. We had known each other since I was 14 and she was 11. Three years later she was my gf’s best friend. It’s funny bcuz I couldn’t stand her back then. She  was extremely annoying. My gf who was her best friend was a Virgo and we were together for 5 years. Quite a long time for teenagers.  When my Virgo started cheating I left her, and I left town. When I came back a year later I saw my future wife at a party. She had changed her hair color from blonde to black and was wearing it straight with bangs, my favorite style. When she turned around and I saw her it was like I’d never seen her before. She was stunningly gorgeous (french-indian). We started seeing each other regularly, even though she was living with a guy she was supposed to be marrying. He was a Cancer, and I knew he didn’t have a chance after I decided she was mine. Our relationship was practically perfect right from the start. We never spent one single night apart in the first five years we were together. The sex was so intense it was unbelievable somtimes. We fit together like a hand in a tight glove. There were times when she had me so extremely turned on I could not move a half inch without losing it. It took an enormous amount of concentration to function normally on those occasions. We lived together for about a year, then one night I said “Hey…let’s drive up to Reno and get married tonight”. She immediately agreed and several hours later we were married and enjoying our little honeymoon feeding the slot machines and flipping blackjack cards. Doesn’t sound like a Capricorn you say?…..When you take into consideration that I have an Aries moon and a Leo rising, plus other planets in Sag then it makes more sense. I’m not your typical Capricorn in hardly any of the ways commonly referred to as negative. I’m not moody at all. I’m very open about my feelings and things happening in my life. I’m definitely not conservative. I don’t hoard my money. I LOVE to go shopping and watch my girl model lots of outfits then take the best ones home. I’m always more talkative and outgoing than my girlfriends. I constantly tell my girl how much I love her and how much she means to me. The only reason I broke it off with my exwife was bcuz she started drinking heavily and would get belligerent and want to fight. I went to 3 marriage counselors during the last two years, but she told every one of them the same thing……  “IT’S ALL HIS FAULT”. I finally had to tell her to leave bcuz she would fight in front of our two girls. I kept the girls and raised them all by myself, the youngest was still in diapers. I loved buying them the cutest dresses I could find and dolling them up. I had my own business at home so I was never without my girls. I loved showering them with gifts on Christmas and their birthdays and any other occasion I could find. One went to college, and the other is still there. When I read these profiles of Capricorns I can see I have all the positive traits, but none of the bad ones. So not all Caps are the same.Some of us are very different.

    • Marie April 5th, 2017

      Was your ex wife a aquarius woman ?

  40. mbraun16 March 25th, 2014

    I am a Capricorn male attracted to an Aquarius woman. Met her in Washington D.C. (NIEA ’12) in 2012.
    We’re quite different in some aspects as far as I know. I came to realize that she was an Aquarian and reading about the sign and fitting her personality as one. So far it seems pretty accurate. 
    I totally agree on Aquas and Caps being the oposite of each other. She is from Arizona (Diné, most known as Navajo), and told me that she doesn’t like the cold. I’m from southcentral Alaska (Dena’ina tribe and white) and I’m not a fan of the heat. But then again, we each find one another’s homeland quite beautiful. A weird but cool thing, Aquarius are of water and my matrilineal clan system on my mother’s side is ‘Nulchina’, the Sky Clan. Meaning my clan is opposite of the water clan, ‘Tulchina’ in my culture. Because sky is the opposite of the water. But on her Diné side, they all have various clan systems compared to the limited clan systems in my Dena’ina tribe. Arizona= hot, Alaska= cold. They’re opposite. Which totally makes sense for us. Another thing, my Dena’ina language has the same dialects as her Diné people does. In both of our language, our respective tribes are known as, “The People”. 
    Anyway, just had to get the cultural part out of the way and what not. I’ve expressed to her that we shall be together some time, but only matter of time that I make my way down to her, rather her making her way up here. 
    My older brother is going to school it down in Phoenix here in the next few months. So with that being said, I think it’s a sign that I go down and visit him, it will give me the oppurtunity to meet up with her one day after I have a little ‘family time’, hopefully if it all plans out. Then finally connect with her physically instead of talking on the phone, text messaging, social media. 
    When we finally see each other, I think it would be start of something special in the future. 
    Chin’an for your time. 

  41. keau October 24th, 2013

    I am very happy with my capricorn man. We get along very well and he is a good support for our family. I enjoy his everyday responses. And I couldn’t ever imagined of us not being together .  I’ve met him in 1996 and we started dating January 2006 and moved in with each other August 3rd, 2006 and became intimate August 25, 2006. So we’ve been together over seven years. And still going strong, I would never leave him even if I wanted too.

  42. Oh@lilThick August 12th, 2013

    I was so excited reading all the good news! I am the aqua & my lover is a capi and he is very amazing! the thing i notice different about us is we do have alot in common, we share the same hobbies, want the same things out of life, he hasn’t been moody with me, but i would shy away from him at first, instead he’s been very patient & understanding. When we met, he fell for my mind & beauty, i fell for his ambition & spontaniusm, i have God in my life a little stronger then him but the more we grow the more our bond grows, he makes me feel like everything going to be okay, & i make him feel like he can acomplish anything. Overall, Im excited to see whats in store, one thing about me is i am a fighter, i accept you as you come or i don’t deal with you at all, i never been the one to turn my back on someone unless i was forced! then we’ll….. i’ll throw my hands up & continue to enjoy this beautiful life! but love is love! Good luck everyone.

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  44. avirex-taylor June 24th, 2013

    Alright Im a Capricorn boy and i have an Aquarius girlfriend we have only been together for two months but known each other for two years. She is my life i honestly know for  sure that i want to be with forever she is honestly amazing and i love her to death and would do anything for her 

  45. arianacsir May 31st, 2013

    Im an aquarios im in a relationship with a cappy for 5 months now he is the best thing thats ever happend to me ….i never felt this way about a guy this way ….he has given me cards saying that he loves me with all his heart but our relationship is more like a secret relationship …..sometimes he is a bit moody ….his my best friend and i hope that life wants us to keep going on

    • Lulu March 27th, 2017

      How was it. Update please

  46. pigglebumps April 21st, 2013

    Aqua girl here married to a Cap for the last 13 years and been together 15, known each other 17 years.
    Yeah he can be a moody ass but he gets over it after I’ve stopped shouting him out of it lol.
    We get on really really well.  He gives me freedom and I give him confidence to do stuff.  I am fizzy headed but he loves me for that.  
    My dad was a Cap too – same date and I got on with him really well too.  
    Relationship wise I am the more dominant and more adventurous out of the two of us but I just taught him how to be more outrageous and relaxed about stuff in the bedroom.  Works for me 🙂

  47. crc March 29th, 2013

    Wow Why wouldn’t you be the best thing for her?

  48. crc March 29th, 2013

    Wow, SamTheAloofer, that’s just what I’m going through with my Cappy, he doesnt want to break his Gem’s heart, but we took that leap of faith anyway for two years now after breaking up. We are in it too deep now. I’m the Aquarian and have tried to end it a thousand times but we keep getting back together. We have a bond that no one can break. I think you should be with the one who got your heart. When he’s not with me trust me he’s sad.

  49. crc March 29th, 2013

    I dated a Capricorn man in 2007 we broke up in 2008. We had a bond that was great, it heated up fast. He cheated a lot. The next time I saw him was 2010, two years later. He was with someone and so was I. I saw him again in 2011, and he was married. It was heartbreaking, but the sparks were out of control. His wife was at this function, but I never saw her, this was a big convention. We talked for hours and we both knew it wasn’t over. We have been seeing each other since April, 2011 and our relationship is on fire, baby!!!!  The sex is out of this world, I’m excited know just writing about it. As IndianPrincessDiamond stated the Capricorn will date for status and to please his family. I helped him get on his feet and with his bouts of depressions, always made him feel better. He married this woman for security and family approval. How dare he tell them he still loves his EX. His family loved me and I loved them but our relationship ended with the  We do have a lot of differences but we get along better than ever, I know how to deal with him and he knows if he step out of bounds the other side of this Aquarian will show and he is scared of her. He will not leave her cause its not the right thing to do and I dont want him too. He will never forgive me for that. It has to be his absolute decision. He has never meantioned his marriage or wife. I do know he wish she was me. I think??? I do know I truly love him and I know he’s getting his cake and eatting it too, we will see. Thanks for all the comments

    • Hailey March 6th, 2021

      I dated a Cap man for 4-5 years. He initiated our initial friendship turned relationship. At first I was apprehensive bc we were so different and he eased up and came back around when I least expected it and we hit it off as a friendship first. Over time we began to develop feelings for each other and we started spending more time together. He would take me on trips, finance my livelihood and be overall a dependable man when I needed him. Things went south once I got too deep in the situation and I saw his other side come out. He started to become very controlling and possessive once we started having consistent sex and spending time together. Me and this cap are polar opposites but we had a very magnetic energy whenever we were together and would make love. I found myself thinking about him during the day and he would call me in the middle of work day to check on me and tell me he loved me and I was on his mind. The sex was AMAZING! Once we started having sex and once our feelings got involved it became a dangerous situation. I ended up leaving him bc he was too controlling and a bit crazy. He didn’t want me talking to other men and he was older than me so he felt I was naive regarding certain aspects in life I hadn’t experienced yet. Those 4-5 years with my Capricorn man were truly special and I’ll never forget it but it was definitely a lesson learned!

  50. Leelee1968 December 23rd, 2012

    totally agree, been with my cap husband since I was 19 and been married since 2000. He’s very moody,but I just give him his space. And yes it has been hard at times, but I love this man with all my heart. I don’t know if we’ll last forever, but I truly hope so. 

  51. anette22003 October 22nd, 2012

    I`m an aquarius female who has now been married to a capricorn man sure we have our ups and downs but somehow seem to work things out.As for his mother she did try several times to interupt our relationship several times but my husband had the will power to stand up to her and told her not to interfer with our relationship I was with him since I was 18 and he was 28 I am now 38 yrs. old he 48 and we still love each other sure he could be very cranky at times this is when I just leave him where he is and get my fredom and alone time I need.I do make sure I still give him plenty of compliments and tell him he is the best Caps love to hear this sort of thing just as he still gives me compliments on my knowledge and understanding.It did however take us some years before marriage we were together for 5 years before I finally decided to settle down and marry him.With Caps they love for you to play hard to get I have noticed this as well.We married in 1998 after being together as a couple since 1992 now its 2012 and we are still together and have 3 children one 18 one 10 and one 8 years old.We wouldn`t have it any other way Capricorn Male & Aquarius Female I hope this helps some of you who thought well he`ll never marry me not true at all with Caps you just have to back off play hard to get and he`ll beg you for marriage atleast this is what happened to us anyway Good-Luck

  52. Nyomi June 24th, 2012

    I am a aquarius female and I will say I have a new outlook upon Capricorns. I myself has deep feelings for one now. We started out as friends first and grew into something more later. I didn’t like the Capricorn’s need to argue all the time but the more I got to know him the more I am learned. He has helped me truly understand more in to deapth the things I didn’t like about Capricorns and why they feel so strongly about them. This has made me love him more and respect him. On the other hand who says that two people needed to be exactly alike to compliment each other. Him and I see things much the same but I didn’t realize that we did until we talked about things. I have come to understand that the things you don’t like about a person can simply be because you don’t understand them so now I don’t bite my tongue when he feels the need to argue as I use to before. I use to ignore him and not speak with him until he let me know debates can be healthy lol. As one has already said before an aquarius we can be merciless when it comes to our mouths so now I have no problem letting it rip to debate with my capricorn. Much kater I find myself laughing about too.. oh gosh… the feelings of getting it all off your chess.. great lol.. I love my Capricorn ♥. He brings something new into my life, I learn different things from him and that’s what I appreciate about him. We have great conversations and always laughing. Why do I need someone who is identical to me? I don’t because that can get old and boring..

  53. Philip Camps June 2nd, 2012

    I’m with an aquarius, known her for nearly 2 years and the connection is very harmonious. I’m a capricorn male, our emotions are strong but the differences make it challenging. But it makes the relationship grow in a way others may not understand. My advise is respect the differences and let your aquarius feel comfortable. They dislike confined spaces.

  54. Logicthemadcappygoat March 12th, 2012

    I wouldn’t say family trumps everything. My family can’t stand my Aquaa and sometimes I can’t either but my life would be completely empty without her. I fight my siblings, cousins and both parents on my decision to stay with her harder than I would be willing to fight for most things. Like I’ll really beat ya ass over it typa thing. She got a set of jaws on her though and they are merciless. 

  55. Aqua129 February 2nd, 2012

    You can’t solve that problem because u cannot control a capricorn, or did you know that? They are capable of thinking for themselves and it’s you who needs to get on his page or leave him alone. If you don’t know what he means by saying he wants his parents to be happy then ask him what exactly he means by it. A cappy’s family will always trump his relationship. I have to accept that with my cappy because I love him. It’s not like he doen’t want to marry you or be with you, just give it time. They are very complex people. But worth the wait I guarentee it! 🙂

  56. Aqua129 February 2nd, 2012

    Hi Sam,
    Sounds like an tough situation. I have been seeing a cappy for the last 4 years off and on. It has been far from perfect. We don’t have alot in common but thats what i like about our relationship, its never boring. Our life is fun, we have such interest such as playing video games together, we both sing so we harmonize together (my 1st love is singing), but we have good conversations also. I understand u dont want to hurt the gemini but thats ur nature. u dont like hurting people. I have learned about cappy’s and they always know deep down the right things to do. u still like ur aqua girl because she brings a diverse environment around u. I think you guys should give it another try because me and my cappy have been off and on and we keep trying until get it right. we love each other because we care enough to keep making it work. when we are together, we are great. when we are apart, we act like we are ok but we are miserable on the inside. Give it one more try and if u can’t make it work this time then go your seperate ways. But i think this time it will work. the desire is there…act on it.

  57. SamTheAloofer January 27th, 2012

     I really do like this girl (aqua girl) but I just don’t know what to do.?

  58. SamTheAloofer January 27th, 2012

    I used to be with a aqua girl but me & her got into a conflict & ended up going our own ways. I still like her & I still see her around & I know she still likes me, and maybe I think she wants to try it again, me too but I’m with a gem girl & she is everything I wanted in a girl but something just tells me it’s not right but I don’t wanna break my gemni’s heart. Please Reply.?

  59. moongoddessdivine19 January 8th, 2012

    Its nice to hear that you gave space to your Aqua girl..Because as an Aqua girl myself, we tend to hate being too enclosed. Anyway, I think you need to ask her again…Well, if she sees you as an important friend, she might not answer clearly as she doesn’t want to lose you friendship. But that is unfair for you, I feel you wanted more than friendship…The problem may be that you Ms. Aqua is still with her Saggy BF. Which is…well, Aqua girls like me share our smile with everyone but our heart to only one…so…if you are not the one who weighs more to her heart, its already confirmed…anyway, just be positive and keep communication open…who knows, she might eventually see a realization 🙂

  60. CapVirginFishArcher December 18th, 2011

    I’ve been interested in an Aqua girl for a while now, we get along great, ahng out alot, and have great conversations. Lately, I’ve been caught in my push-pull routine, because she seems too good to be true and also, I can’t read her as easily as other girls (which I love).Now she’s caught in a conflict of interests between myself, a leo and her saggi boyfriend. I’ve left her space, while letting her know I’m there for her, I appreciate our friendship alot. I just never got a direct answer in whether she is or isn’t interested anymore after I asked, she knows she can be straightforward with me, but I got no clarity.Any insight?

    • fancyface February 17th, 2017

      I think she doesn’t like you.

  61. Mikey December 17th, 2011

    I have been with an Aqua girl for 14 years and like all relationships it can be ‘swings and roundabouts’, but overall it has been and still is FANTASTIC. I’m guessing that over time people forget to communicate. This combination can work really well – keep talking people, it works wonders.

  62. busayo August 22nd, 2011

    i feel the exactly the same way , i wish someone will help me out nd tell me why this is happening..@BlueBirdShake

  63. BlueBirdShake May 10th, 2011

    I’m an aquarius (female) that’s been interested in a capricorn guy for some time now and after reading this I understand why. Although, I always knew why I liked him & now it’s just irritating because I CAN NOT get him out of my head. He’ll be absent from my mind for weeks, then all of a sudden he’s back! We always got along greatly, & I’ve known him for years. This is just getting harder & I really wished I never met him. A common aquarius trait must be falling for a capricorn guy & it sucks especially when you know it would never work.

    • Maureen December 14th, 2017

      That’s what I am afraid of, to fall in love, truly, for the first time , true love, and yet it just wont work cuz we keep getting n these situations, where I am too friendly or flirty or not paying enough attention to hm… it’s getting maddening, and each time we break it off, I’m like ” I’m better off without him, I will be happier without a boyfiried,… just me, myself and this amazing incredible life…”

  64. CapricornMale April 15th, 2011

    This is a most definitely a tough match to make work.

  65. anothercappy April 11th, 2011

    well, sometimes we feel like that it is the best to find someone who our families like. We do have a heart, but we tend not to show it. I am not speaking for every guy, but I will do anything that’s best for my aqua girl right now, even if it means pretending that life is good when I am with another girl just so she won’t take me back because that would be the best thing for her.

  66. La Toyia Laws March 17th, 2011

    I was really good friends with a capricorn man, and he would have spells like you all have mentioned where he would be depressed and uneasy many times. He felt as though he had to control everything around him at all times. I don’t think their could ever be a great relationship between these two signs because of the “Complete Opposite Cliche”. A Cappy man is too serious, uneasy, controlling, selfish, and family driven to understand the ways of an Aquarian. I found true love in a Saggitarius man.

  67. gina burnett February 22nd, 2011

    I have this to say, depending on your age and level of wisdom, You cannot take everything so literally, when it comes to astrology signs,everyone really are individuals, aside from there astrological signs.My experience thus far, is this, I am an Aquarius and my guy is a Capricorn, It is the ying and the yang at best, his birthday is Dec 22 and mine is Jan 21st,we were born the same year, 1961. he finishes the year and I begin the new year, Enough said, it is ultimately about compromise, in any relationship.And it is on, like hot butter popcorn. LOL

  68. Vicky January 3rd, 2011

    I have been with my cap guy for 2 years, we got married late last summer but we’ve known each other and been friends for many years before we got romantically involved.
    At first our relationship was a rollercoaster especially due to his mother not liking me right away (she’s warmed up to me since), but after a couple of months we found a groove that worked for us and have been crazy happy ever since. Because of the fact that we’d been good friends before we both knew each others personalities pretty well and were aware of the differences between us we always knew what we were getting ourselves into. I knew he would always be who he is and he knew I would always be who i am. That gave us only one option; to accept each other.
    Though alot of people say that the personalities of a Aquarius and Capricorn won’t mesh I have to dissagree, I feel my man and I compliment each other quite well. He’s stable and traditional and I’m free-spirited and a little bit aloof, I help him let go of his inhibitions while he helps keep me grounded.

  69. Cecilia Perez January 1st, 2011

    I have been with my Capricorn man off and on since 2005 and when we 1st meet it was an instant attraction. I quickly learned he was very protective over his family and we had issues raising kids together from our other exs including our own two kids was also hard to each an agreement. Over time I ended our relationship due to all the lying and drama. I moved to TX in 2008 only for him to follow me here. Since the move we have been better to each other and to our kids. We got married July 2010 and we are staying strong. I must admitt I would of never seen myself marring this man due to all our hardships but in time we grew up and stayed together in love. We are a good match and he is an excellant father. I’m happy we worked it out

  70. Beatriz September 18th, 2010

    I was daiting a capricorn man off, and on for 10 months. Every 2 months he would shut down on me. I had fell madly in love with him. I loved his 4 kkids like if they we’re my own. He wasen’t financially stable so from time to time i would help him. I was the one to take him out of his depression, and always making sure he was happy. Went above and beyond for him and at the end he ebded the relationship for no reason. From having the best weekend together, tonot calling me for 3 days and ending it. I will never date another capricorn again!!!! They are depressing, liers, ungrateful, and selfish.

  71. IndianPrincessJasmine June 11th, 2010

    I’ve been with my Cappy for over 6yrs now. I’m the Aquarian. We just ended our relationship 2 months ago. Never fell so hard in love before. The Intimacy was out of this world!!! Don’t know if I’ll ever experience that again in this life. Gave my whole heart to him. I ended things as an aquarian we are quite intuitive and naturally have some psychic ability.

    I felt for sometime that he was lying to me about not being with someone that his mother had chosen. Although a man of Capricorn sign may fall in love with you he will be quick to do what looks best for his social image and family. BEWARE!! I couldn’t imagine life apart and now I’ve been left standing here watching him live a life with someone else… he totally just did what looked right. Not sure if these Cappy men have a heart at all when it comes down to it. I was the one that helped everytime he got depressed I’d shake him out of it. Now he seems depressed all the time but it was his own doing!

    Good Luck girls! These men are unpredictable and heartbreakers for sure!

  72. Rachel April 14th, 2010

    I am an Aquarius and my guy is from Capricorn. i am with him since 2 yrs. he will enjoy being with me, but when it comes to marriage he avoids me. he just says that he wants his parents to be happy!!! how could i solve this problem. i cannot imagine my life without him….. 🙁

  73. Lindiwe March 2nd, 2010

    I have been dating a capricorn man for 1 year 5 months and he’s totally amazing. He understands me and gives me the freedom that i need. I’m so happy with him and i can’t imagine myself with someone else but him.

  74. Sherice December 29th, 2009

    Hey baby, read this when you
    get a chance

  75. Boss Lady912 November 30th, 2009

    I have been dating a cap guy for five months now but have known him for about 13 years. He is a very amazing guy but tends to be very moody and goes into this depressing phase which I am starting to have a problem with. He can be them most amazing guy one day then the next he turns into a total ass. I have come to love him but I am now starting to question our relationship.

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