Cancer Woman and Capricorn Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Cancer woman and Capricorn man are compatible due to their shared qualities and admiration for each other's differences.
  • Their physical relationship is deep and long-lasting, with the Cancer woman adding a sensitive and imaginative dimension.
  • The Cancer woman can attract the Capricorn man with her graceful appeal and independence.
Continue reading for our in-depth analysis on Cancer Woman and Capricorn Man Love Compatibility and get insights from 146 experience reports shared in the comments. Also take a look at our dating guide tailored for this astrological match. Your thumbs can unveil hidden aspects of your relationship dynamics, check them on our Thumb Compatibility page.

Though the Cancer and Capricorn are just opposite to each other but still if it’s a pair of Cancer woman and Capricorn man, then it works rather well. They both compliment each other and understand the importance of lasting relationship. Devotion and affection comes to both of them easily and generally they make a happy duo!

Capricorn man is an ambitious man who is strongly determined to reach the top with his efforts and undoubted courage. He is conservative and domineering in nature and his most endearing quality is his dependability in times of need. Once out of his serious course, he is very tender and gentle with a soft smile. He is basically strong and serious and at the same time shy too. In a relationship with a Cancer woman, he is incurably romantic and he admires his lovely maiden for her devoted nature and family loving qualities.

A Cancer woman is full of delicacy and sensitivity with an ultra feminine touch that makes her irresistible. She has the capacity to adapt to all situations and be patient and very composed especially when she is emotionally and financially secure. Peace of mind and security are some of the most important things for her. She reciprocates the true love of Capricorn man by being sympathetic and loyal towards him, in fact she always proves to be better than women of all other zodiac signs once her basic needs are taken care of.

The Cancer woman is one lady, who can easily attract a Capricorn man. She has such a graceful appeal that he senses it vividly as soon as they meet. She is one of a kind independent woman who is capable to do almost everything and hates to be dominated but being dominated in a love relationship with him usually never hurts her, if he proves himself to be a good provider. He is deeply respected by her as he is dependable and strongly ambitious which makes her both financially and emotionally satisfied. He can find an escape from his seriousness in the rich and refreshing humor of his Cancer female. But she seeks constant change in her routine life and he might find it difficult to comprehend the need for such changes.

The Capricorn man may have a stern external appearance but once he comes in contact with the lovely Cancer lady, he displays well his gentle side. She always finds her safe home in the domineering, tender, and affectionate Capricorn male. So it all works out in a favorable manner for both of them, in most cases. He specially admires her for being a family bird and a conservative because even for him family matters the most and extravagance is something he cannot stand. From day one, this couple develops appreciation for each other and this strengthens their relationship constantly. But there are times when he just concentrates on boosting his ego which is not be appreciated by her. Sometimes he may even turn cold and unresponsive both physically and emotionally showing his selfish side, this makes the relationship terrible, if not taken well in consideration.

The Cancer woman and Capricorn man makes a lovely pair as they both have same qualities or the different qualities that are admired by their counter part. His love has such endurance and magnificence that she feels blessed to have such a comforting and dependable man in her life. While she has got that magical key which can unlock the emotions in his heart and help them flow smoothly and lovably. Like a glimpse of eternity, they both have wonderful rewards waiting for them in their relationship. They both have such a magical chemistry that even their unspoken needs are fulfilled by each other. Their home is always a warm hearth where each family member is taken care of well either elders or little ones and where they both rest peacefully in each others’ arms, admiring their accomplishment and qualities forever.

The physical aspect of Cancer woman and Capricorn man is a beautiful blend of Water and Earth, which can tenderly be made in a garden of graceful blossoms with strong love and its right expression. Since both of them take relationship very seriously and look out for permanence, their physical mating is also deep and long lasting. The sex life of a Capricorn man ranges from frankly erotic and sensual to tender and affectionate. He is capable of a deep and steady sexual expression and physical intimacy as his sex drive is never halfhearted making the Cancer woman to enjoy the physical relationship without the presence of any kind of fear due to the stability provided by him in his physical expression. But he may lack the kind of sensitive imagination that makes mating between two people a trembling, ecstatic kind of sharing of themselves and this is a sexual dimension that she adds to their relationship, and the Capricorn man feels touchingly grateful for the enlightenment. Their physical relationship develops and strengthens with time when the Cancer woman finds more and more sufficient emotional security from the Capricorn man and when he gets the much needed romance through her. And this physical relationship helps them to stay together for a lasting time.

The problems between the Cancer woman and Capricorn man are numerous, but essentially minor, none that cannot be softened and healed with a little more understanding, a little less selfishness on both parts. He has the propensity of using people for his own need without taking into consideration their feelings, this can make the Cancer woman upset as she may find even herself to be a victim of this at times. Capricorn man should try to set himself loose when he is with his Cancer lady. She works at a different pace and is faster than him. When he does that he can see much more growth and success, both in his profession and personal relationships that he has ever seen. Both need to be more patient and humble while dealing with the emotions of each other.

Cancer Woman and Capricorn Man Love Compatibility Rating

Relationship Feedback: Needs Work
49%
Ask Oracle Rating: Avoid
20%
Relationship feedback is based on the evaluation of experience reports and self-assessments submitted in the comments.
146 Comments
  1. Capricorn October 19th, 2022

    Hello everyone your Capricorn man here. It’s a bad idea if you comparing me with others. First, I really don’t care with people who are not humble. I know Cancer, they are big mouth. Don’t raise your voice while talking to me especially in public. and I’ll make the distance but it’s not because of you. I just want to calm down and relax and staying peaceful. So if you don’t respect me, be gone. Love make me so weak like I’m your servant oh girl hope you can play my role and believe that the Almighty Capricorn will protect you at all cost.

    • Mena November 3rd, 2022

      Are you from the Arab world somewhere??

      • Mirja November 24th, 2022

        I am king of Capricorn but never used Almighty Capricorn while introducing myself😹

    • Almighty Capricorn November 25th, 2022

      Chill man… calm down 🙂

    • Somer May 3rd, 2023

      Dude you sound like a selfish Capricorn. Yeah we don’t like to be yelled at because we like to live in peace and harmony. We are not known for causing or being in drama. Just out of respect of any woman regardless of their sign, don’t ever humiliate them out in public. We are also known to be very protective, so don’t think any of the other cancer women reading this won’t have my back.

  2. Tamara October 9th, 2022

    Mine can get fucked, the sex mostly because I’m such a sensual woman and he is so manly that this is explosive but his moods are such a roller coaster that he becomes emotionally selfish insensitive and can’t think of anyone but himself and this is not sustainable for day to day living. No one can sustain the constant moods and lack of security that this man provides. It’s like the revolving door of a returning child. I wish he would just finally grow up and stop being fearful and step into the man that I love just as he is. Sadly this is his journey and I cannot ask that if him. He will either step up and grow or continue to be with those who temporarily fill the gap. I want a loving solid confident man and life partner who can block out the white noise and trail blaze a worthy loving relaxed and happy life with me. I wish him well on his path as painful as this is. Thrive my love xxx

  3. Maria March 12th, 2022

    What I have read is so true. He is a Cap, he has been trying to break up but we end up back together like nothing ever happened. I’m a Cancer. He is an amazing man, I have never loved and been loved like this before…it’s explosive. Consistant love for almost 2 years now. We just love each other but the challenge is when he gets cold and shuts down. But I so love this man.

    • Alice Baron April 26th, 2022

      I have had the same problem with my Capricorn for 32 years, they shut down and wont let you in.
      And to a Cancer Lady this is the worst thing you can do.
      As you say they are amazing men, he is my soul mate and I love him dearly so its well worth persevering. But its a hard slog sometimes to lift those horns up and make them see you.
      Good luck

    • Joy June 23rd, 2022

      Ive been on this roller coaster for a year and a half now. He will swear he never broke up but my heart has been crushed many times. And we get sucked back into the vortex where only we exist once again. Right now he is on a break to think about things again and this time I’m not as heart broken because he always comes back. But I fear one day he won’t.

      • Cancer Lady June 27th, 2022

        Girl wake up , you get people to respect and love you by how you love and respect yourself . your not a toy in men’s hands they break up with u whenever they like a d come back whenever they feel too and you spend the time feeling scared they wont choose you again like wth

  4. Suga February 7th, 2022

    Wow, I read these comments about Capricorn and I cringe. Ive been with my Cap for 22 years (married 19 years 4 kids). He is the greatest man I’ve ever had. It didn’t start like this even tho we had been friends for many years. He was hot and cold, secretive, wasn’t very romantic and so on. It took years to break through that thick ole ice wall he had up. But baby, when I tell you he is true gem!!!! Yes indeed!! I love my Capricorn and Imma Cancer

  5. Louise August 14th, 2021

    I have not long come out of a relationship with a female cap which was probably the worst relationship but I am now talking to a cap male but I’m worried they’re just going to be the same

  6. Lady girl July 8th, 2021

    I’m talking to a Capri as friends but in relationship with a Leo . Been with leo for 3 years and we’re not compatible we can’t even talk without argument but my capri friend when I see him I can’t breath all of sudden and I’m excited he’s sweet he’s understand me but most importantly we big on trust and I’m a cancer

  7. Chantia June 16th, 2021

    My fellow cancer babies being with a capricorn man isn’t worth it I’ve wasted 5 years of my life don’t make the same mistake i did, stay away from them.

    • Nicole January 1st, 2022

      What happened?

  8. Samantha June 1st, 2021

    To all fellow Cancerian women… Capri Man and Cancerian Woman make a great couple is my experience…I have been married to him since 5years now. He is chivalrous, considerate, and caring and I am fun, loyal, and without insecurity. His previous Virgo girlfriend was always insecure, jealous, and over possessive. My Aquarius ex was always emotionally unavailable for me. My husband being a Capri is natural at tender and loving support. The Capri Cancer wavelengths match rhe best.

  9. Romero james April 13th, 2021

    Stay single Cancer ladies

  10. Moon Girl April 2nd, 2021

    To.my Cancerian sisters who love super super hard.. Few years ago I had written about my experience with Capricorn man… It’s been seven years since we first started with each other. Here’s my advice to you all. These men are not worthy of us. There are many many women , like Librans and Leo’s and Aries who are good for this men who are extremely self obsessed and selfish.. But not for us. The disappearing act is just too much. We are delicate women with strong mind. We don’t run away from problem we stay and face it. Capricorn men actually not the brave nor chivalrous. You’ve one life, live it for yourself and stay happy. Note: I found a Piscean man and oh boy !!! Yeah — the difference is – he treats me like a person and not an object. He care for my sentiments. He includes me in almost all decisions.. He makes me his priority… We have difference in opinion on many matters. But we respect our differences and find a middle way. He never ever disappears. My final words – If you want a fairy tale magic with no assurance , be with a Capricorn. If you want a real life with real experiences and real romance , stay away from a Capricorn.

    • Moonlight April 8th, 2021

      I totally agree based on my experience with a Capricorn

    • R E May 14th, 2021

      The fact that you actually believe that bullshit says a lot about you. There is a lot more to a man then what day he was born on. Zodiac matches are fun to read but thats about it. Your past experiences and upbringing shape the person you become. I’m sure there are a lot of douchebag Pisces murderers and rapists in jail. I’m sure they’re the perfect man for you because the stars say they are.

      • Moon Girl May 15th, 2021

        Well, there are murderers and rapist falling under all zodiac. One can visit murderopedia website to verify that. What I quoted was my experience. It is understood that the upbringing impacts too. Generally speaking Capricorn is not ideal for a sensitive Cancerian woman. Capricorn man needs power. And power over a woman keeps him feel special. This is good with strong women. But with a sensitive woman like a Cancerian this is like torturing a bird that’s at one’s mercy only because it loves too much… One day the bird will be done and they’ll go away and will never return.. There’s no point in then sulking and grieving for her… A Capricorn man never appreciates the innocent and honest love, he’s more interested in his own ego and his own feelings. Even in love he stays in love only because HE IS in love and not because the other person loves him. That’s the difference between a Piscean and a Capricorn. A Piscean accepts the love and is touched by genuine love and respect. And the relationship grows. Capricorn man loves to “own”. Pisceans and Cancerians feel..

    • Lucy August 7th, 2021

      No Pisces man has ever been worthy of me. The only man to not cheat, lie, and treats me like a princess is my Capricorn husband. Your experiences do not represent everyone!

      • Moon Girl August 7th, 2021

        Just as my experience do not represent everyone, your experience with Pisces men also do not represent everyone.. I’m glad your man treats you well.. I just shared my experience. And I know I came here when I was heartbroken and to see if I could try to put senses into it. If your life is perfect you need not visit this forum to prove it.

    • Kate April 20th, 2023

      I believe that there is ways to make the disappearing act go away. If you make it so he has no choice to depend on you and you have your life together, always set up new goals, he will always want to follow ur way and keep u close to him. I have been with a capricorn man for a few months, a lot of time he told me he would go away for months or go back to his country and I always encouraged him to leave and supported him. Never showed any type of weakness and he stayed. If you show that you need them too much it might scare them and they will find u as another stressful thing in their life

  11. Godwin January 21st, 2021

    Well, he didn’t push you away, he was pushing you for it . sometimes our lack of expression hoping the female will get what we can’t express is our topmost weakness . am a Capricorn man.

    • Mara Althea March 9th, 2021

      I met a cap man online. I am attracted. He is attracted. He is sweet… then cold. After weeks of disappearing he messaged me again last week. Then after few days he is cold again. I am confused. Is he scared to fall inlove or really not serious at all? We are both focus with careers but I font like being treated like this. He can atleast tell what he is up to than doing this hot amd cold behavior. Im confused. Im cancerian.

      • Rees April 2nd, 2021

        girl even i faced the same problem as you n i sometimes still do as Capricorn men can be really hard to predict or understand. But tbh i would say as a cancer we must be open abt whatever we think and tell them. like even my man didn’t confess i had to do that and i had to ask him why is he behaving in a certain way which wasn’t his regular self that’s when he told me his problem so u see they don’t know how to express or rather they still don’t believe in us or sometimes just want us to initiate n keep asking if something is wrong. So i would say just go n ask n if u like him tell him you do this makes them to accept their feelings towards us

      • Pia Carola April 2nd, 2021

        Girl! This man is no good. Specially if he is out of sight for days and keeps coming back.
        You deserve someone who is going to feel the same about you and be thoughtful of your feelings.
        You met him online, you can meet someone else who will appreciate you and wants the same things you do.

      • Moon Girl April 8th, 2021

        Not worth it. With a Capricorn man it is very simple. The only thing in the world that’s important to him is he himself. And nothing and nobody else. For example, if he’s in a relationship it’s because of how much he wants the woman and not because how much the woman loves him. We Cancerian women want our man to acknowledge how much we love them and want them to cherish us for that. Capricorn man is not tuned to this emotions. Please dont waste your time. I’ve done that and gave over seven years of my life. But he will still play the hide and seek game. He’s best suited for the women on high horse like a Leo or a Libra who will challenge his ego. We cancerians only know how to love so they treat us as submissive slaves who wait for them when they need to feel good. Be single or find yourself a Taurus man or a piscean or a Libran or a Cancerian man or even a Scorpio. Capricorn men are not worthy of the unconditional love and dedication of a tender Cancerian woman.

  12. Andrea August 11th, 2020

    Been with a Capricorn man for over 10 years now. It truly is a love story for the ages, ones you only hear of in a fairytale of 2 people destined to be together.
    The one thing I would say is that as a cancer woman – the “stoic” side to the Capricorn male can leave me feeling icy at times. The sensitive cancer in me will shut down.
    I know every relationship has problems, but even if we weren’t together romantically he would still be my best friend.

  13. Joji - Run (song) August 2nd, 2020

    Ladies, in order to make it work with a cappie man, you need to be pursuing a reputable career or you’re filthy rich. These men tend to be unfaithful if their needs are not met. I’ve dated two Capricorn men before, they’re either really ambitious and business oriented or self-destructive and depressed. Luckily for me, I only experienced the former. Being Cancer, we care about stability which is why money is important. And people often mistaken that being a gold digger. We want stability and we want our needs taken care of — same as Capricorn.

    Unfortunately for me, my experience dating Capricorns don’t last longer than a year. When I was young, I partied a lot and I did not take school seriously, and graduated late with mediocre grades. After college, I had difficulty finding a job to kick start my career. I struggled for about 5 years bouncing one job to another. For this, the two capricorns I met, were turned off by my lack of goal and planning. I shared deep emotional and physical connection with them both like no other. The love making is always intense and orgasmic. While they were both cappie, they were different but their hunger for stability and success are the same. Because my future was looking bleh, they always put me on the back burner.

    Recently, I landed an opportunity at a major company. Made my bank and I started to day trade on the side. Its my best year yet, but I am still single and guess who still hits me up, one of the capricorn exes. I’m not sure if its the covid shutdown, but I’ve been chatting with him often. And now, he sees me in a better light. I wish he gave me a chance when I was struggling. I’ve always been ambitious after college but he pushed me to the side to date other women. I’ve dated around but I don’t share that strong emotional connection like I do with him. While I like him, I kinda lost interest. Should I fight it or should I let him in? He has everything a cancer woman could ask for, a beautiful home in the hills with an ocean view and stability. He owns a successful business and he’s a top executive for a big company. Also he’s hot – Christian Grey hot. It sounds too perfect, but I feel resentment that he wasn’t there for me when I struggled to kick start my career. He discarded me, to find a better woman… my gut is telling me he’s not the one. I’m going with intuition and keeping my options open.

    • Cruz Daniels October 25th, 2020

      Im going though the exact same thing you went through lol

    • DiamondJ January 7th, 2021

      I felt this running thru my Blood! I have to have the best of the best! But it’s really for the both of us! They don’t understand! #Cancer:)

    • Jess February 12th, 2021

      You are a flourished cancer women who now knows her worth. We love strong. You deserve someone who fulfils your desire to be truly admired and appreciated for your genuine love. Unless you can forgive him and know you will not store that resentment into a future relationship with him then maybe it could be wonderful. But only you know if that is possible. My heart goes out to you, congratulations on your growth. Love a cancer sister x

  14. LoverLover January 13th, 2020

    I am a Cancerian Woman and I do have to say that I’ve never met a man like my Capricorn.
    We met in the summer of 2016 through a mutual friend. Our first date was really intense because we opened up to each other like a book.. it was crazy. I’ve never been that open with someone before. I noticed how serious and cold he was toward others but when it came to me, all of that flew out the window. He had a really soft spot for me and everyone could see. We were inseparable to say the least. Our first sexual encounter was one I will never forget. The passion and connection from both of us was amazing. We still speak about it 4 years later…
    Well we lost contact for some time because he had to tend to business elsewhere and we couldn’t keep the relationship going. I met someone else and tried to make it work but I just couldn’t do it. Dated around after that but No one made me feel the way he did …
    Fast forward to now. We have reconnected recently and it’s just as intense as it was when we met, only better because we both have grown in our own respective ways, I pray to god that this time will last.
    He tells me often that I am his soul mate, he wants to build with me, raise a family, all of the things that I want. We both are very traditional in that sense.
    He is extremely business oriented but this time is different because he now attempts to include me in his decision making instead of what he did in the past, which was just breaking it out and focusing solely on his successes. All of my weaknesses are his strengths and vice versa. We truly balance each other out. He understands that I am trying to finish school he is my number one cheerleader. I understand what he is trying to do business wise as well. We both agreed to wait until I’m done with school to make any serious moves with each other. I am happy with that for now because nursing school is stressful. I can see myself with him forever. Hopefully he is a keeper only time will tell!

    • kate July 17th, 2020

      Ahhh that is so lovely to hear and yes ive met a capricorn man. I find myself beable to tell him my deepest emotions and hes still there for me.
      Its early days yet but it does feel like a soulmate already.
      I was with a capricon man for 18years and know there loyalty and total commitment to a relationship.
      Im still on the start with him but hes so amazing it can only get better. One thing though hes 19 years younger than me lol.
      Well im lucky x
      Good luck with the nursing im a nurse so understand x
      Love and all the happiness you can find in each other
      Kate x

      • Maria March 12th, 2022

        Good luck, sometimes age is really just a number. Enjoy the experience my cancer sister xoxo

  15. Emma December 9th, 2019

    Cancer are so emotionally in tune, but they have to realize their shell is their oyster.

    If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for CANCER: https://youtu.be/akFgKKUjzos

    xoxo

  16. Anonymous November 30th, 2019

    I met my capricorn on facebook last year, I didn’t really pay him any mind because I was dealing with someone at the time.. turns out that was a very toxic relationship and we ended up splitting. But me and my bestfriend decided to go to the club one night for drinks and I was rather tipsy/drunk. A guy from my past was trying to get my attention, my capricorn comes up and sits on the stage where the DJ is right next to us.. they played one of my favorite songs and I just went for it. I sat on his lap and gave him a 3 minute lap dance, YUP! the whole song and I loved every bit of it. He grabbed my body differently than other guys would when I danced with him, its safe to say that his sensual touch caught my attention. This was April of 2019. We agreed to be friends with benefits, but here we are almost 9 months later still going strong. There’s no title but I’m okay with that, I’m in no rush and neither is he… which is one of the reasons I find it hard not to fall for him. He helps with my kids, my bills, anything I need he takes care of for me. He’s the only man I’m seeing and I’m the only lady he is seeing.. (far as I know) I have no reason not to trust the things he says to me. But reading this describes me and him to a T! Also, we may be expecting, which seems to have strengthen our bond. I’m not ready for another, but everything happens for a reason. My cap is so stern on the outside but he is such a soft sweet teddy bear, and he takes very good care of me and my feelings. He is still learning the crazy emotions of a cancer, but he is patient. I truly believe this is the man I’m going to marry.

  17. R The Cancerian Girl August 19th, 2019

    im a Cancer girl who loves my Capricorn man so hard. anyway, he died 2 years ago but i do still love him and i always wonder if i could meet someone like him. his existence in my life made me know what’s best for me and what’s not. he made me believe there’s such thing as love. he didnt say a lot about how he feels about me, but he showed it and it felt SO good ohmyGod. Caps dont say much but they show a lot more than you expect. And now, i finally found another Capricorn man but unfortunately, he’s a professional actor in my country. We’ve met 2 times. He got a girlfriend but i dont know why somehow i feel this kind of strange yet very strong connection between me and him, its just exactly how i felt to my died Capricorn before. i hope someday we’ll be together..

  18. Kandy April 17th, 2019

    I’ve been speaking to this Capricorn man. I’m a Cancer woman, he’s 5 yrs older than me. I’m not sure if its because he hasn’t matured completely yet (he even said he believes he’s more immature but he’s a solid person whatever that means) but we always bump heads he’s so serious about the craziest things and it blows me. We aren’t talking because I called him mean from an interaction we had previously. I think he’s bipolar but if we never speak again I’ll be cool with that because I may end up strangling him this is the most draining experience I’ve had in awhile. I usually stay far away from Capricorn’s. If we do speak again I won’t be as nice as I was before cause clearly Capricorn’s don’t enjoy nice they need a rough ting.

  19. Keihani February 27th, 2019

    My cappie is 2 years younger than me. He is former runway model, very tall and very very handsome. He turns heads, he is that beautiful. I met him through bodybuilder forum. One night, out of boredem, he wanted to video cam via skype. I was nervous because he is incredibly gorgeous, I’m naturally very self-conscious and I wasn’t exactly “fit” or “hot” like the women he is used to dating. We webcammed for FOUR hours. We talked about everything. He opened up about his family, struggles with money, difficulty juggling his model career and school at NYC. He told me he never opened up to a stranger so quickly. The entire webcam session, he smiled a lot, he was obviously very attracted to me. It felt good, feeling wanted and desired. Being a typical cancer, I had my guard up. He is too beautiful, he’s going to cheat on me anyways. I thought to myself, he’s a good one night stand. There’s no way this will develop more into a relationship. Boy was I wrong!

    A year later, he moved back to California, his family lives 20 minutes away from me. Thank you Lord! HOW CONVENIENT! We met in person for the first time. That night, we spent an hour kissing, teasing tossing and turning in bed. It was hot, unreal and steamy af. I wanted him so badly to f**k me. He refused, told me he likes me too much to do it. We eventually did it a month into dating and it was very intense and passionate. He would always know the right things to say, to make me feel beautiful and wanted.

    Fast forward, we dated for a year. Sex was amazing, the chemistry is unreal. He got caught up starting his company. We barely spoke to each other, that was the reason for our break up. When I broke it off, his voice was trembling over the phone. He didn’t want it to end. I couldn’t date someone where we would only see each other once a week. I need more. We’re friends now, he hits me up every now and then to see what I’ve been up to. He tells me he misses me and he still loves me. I love him too. Even though we’re not together, I will always have his back. I hope we get back together in the future and rekindle the spark we had.

    • Naikaru July 15th, 2019

      Omg! He’s ur soulmate!

  20. cr3do February 26th, 2019

    I’m a young cancerian woman who had fallen for an older cappie man. We’re 13 years apart. He is very wealthy and successful businessman. The man is loaded, unfortunately he is looking for someone with his wealth and status, thus constantly seeking what’s better around the corner which has left me in the dust. During his separation with this soon to be exwife, we met at a bar and talked for 2-3 hours about south park to health to politics. I enjoyed our conversation, the connection and values we shared.. and the sex that night was beyond amazing! One of the best intense sex I have ever experienced! I never wanted it to end. That night, I don’t think it can get better than this with anyone else.

    Recently, after 5 years staying in touch (we dated other people during this time) and we’re both single, we reconnected. I’m reaching my late 20’s. I have an established high paying career and I want to start a family within the next 5 years. He wants the same. Although our feeling for each other runs deep, I can see it in his eyes and the way he makes love to me, the way he looks at me, the way we text each other, the nice gestures he makes during my shitty days, the way he listens to my struggles and offer advice/mentorship. I have fallen for him. But he insists on being friends (partly because I rejected him, I was afraid I wasn’t good enough for him and he could do better ). Here we are, friends, who hang out often and hook up on occasions. I have no idea how he feels and I’m afraid to ask. I know he wants to date a woman with wealth and status… I can’t give him that, I don’t care the amount of $$ he has, I just want to be in his presence, enjoy his company, make love to him, be with him, be his queen through rich or poor. But he is so insecure that women are only after his money. I don’t know how to convey that our emotion runs deeper than that.

    So here we are, I’m stuck. Part of me wants to tell him how I feel which will either break us or make us. Another part of me, wants me to leave, run for the mills because we will never happen.. I can’t be that wealthy successful person he wants. Instead of focusing on our predicament, I should focus on my career and MBA education. He will always be someone special to me, someone I loved. But unfortunately, we are on hold until one of us have the nerves to determine where this thing we have is going. Thanks for reading.

  21. frajoh December 7th, 2018

    im a capricon man im in a relatioship with a virgo woman im so loyal nd my dreams since when i was a kid i wanted to be loyal for one girl nd give her everything she had ever dream of.. but problems always comes when i meet a cancerian girl they are my weakness smetyms i think like i should go for one so that i can never be weak bt that will mean i have to let go of smeone who have been so special to me for three hard years of my life(virgo woman) i once cheated with cancerian woman nd too bad now im in friendshipwith a cancerian woman nd im thinking abt her everytime i feel guilty bt i cnt stop my self i wish there was no such a thing as astrology bt its there nd i cant escape this….
    please anyone telme wat should i do atleast to make my current relationship work out as if i was datting a cancerian coz they really got everything im looking for.. PLEASE REPLIES!!!

  22. Lyn March 27th, 2018

    I met a Capricorn man last year when he was about to move to other destination for work and i was about to split up with my current bf at that time. We got along very well, things speed up very fast during the last 1.5 months before his departure. We spent most of the time talking on the phone. Right after few days he left, i found out that he already had a girlfriend and was devastated. He was sweet and caring, family oriented person, but he lied that he was single, giving false promises. Things ended up in the most nasty way, his girl came back to him, i moved on. Few days ago i got a text from him out of the blue after almost a year, asking how i am doing, he apologized for what he did, and told me he already broke up with his gf, he wanted my forgiveness and if i permit, he wants to make it up for the pains he had caused me. I am so confused, i was very angry, i am still angry when i think about that time, about what he did, but when i saw his message, instead of ignoring it, i replied. We have been talking for a few days now, but i am still not very comfortable, i dont want to get hurt again, and i dont trust him. Some of my friends are telling me to let it go, he cheated once, he can do it again, but some said just take my time to get to know him more this time. The problems with Cancerians are we are prone to trust and get attached to ppl very easily thus get hurt very easily too. I was emotionally unstable last year and thought of relying on him would make me feel better. But after a year, i have changed so much, too much of emotional attachment would bring nothing good. I dont know what to do?

    • Hannah June 13th, 2018

      Do what you think is right. Sometimes we have to take care of ourselves first and I think you should take this as a lesson. But if you feel like you are at a secure place in your life where you won’t react emotionally then you should give it a try. Also, don’t put all of your eggs in one basket and know that you are more than the choices that he made.

  23. Terri March 25th, 2018

    I am amazed at the accuracy of what I have just read. I am a Cancer woman who has fallen hard for a Capricorn man. We are currently friends with benefits. Both of us have come out of long term relationships and are both wary and careful to keep our guards up. But I feel both of us slipping sometimes, especially when we are being intimate. I used to feel so awkward when a guy wanted to look into my eyes during sex, but this Capricorn man has completely changed that. I was determined that I didn’t want a relationship again for a long time but he’s the opposite of what I usually go for, and I love everything about him, even though he can be a tad egotistical and tactless. I know I come on too strong when I fall for someone and I’m trying to keep it under control but it is so so difficult when all I want is him. I find it so hard to let things take their natural course when I really want something, but I am determined not to scare him away! I’m trying to keep my distance but also remind him I’m still here. It’s driving me mad, trying to keep the correct balance. Any advice would be so welcome and appreciated right now ❤️

    • Serena March 25th, 2018

      Well, first of all, friends with benefits is already difficult to begin with especially if one party starts to catch feelings while the other doesn’t feel the same way. Outside of horoscopes, I think it’s gonna require a lot of work to make this work. He has to feel the same way and you both are gonna have to work through your past together.

  24. Karen March 23rd, 2018

    Hi I am married to a Capricorn for past 10 yrs and he is the best man I have ever met … so much calm and patient … the only thing I don’t like is when he doesnt share his feelings and it always makes me wonder whether he loves me or not but once in a week he does something surprising like an unexpected dinner or taking me out and his actions says that he will be with me no matter what … he is the father of my kids and I respect his responsible attitude towards family … he is indeed a good friend …

    • Godwin March 9th, 2021

      If you haven’t any respond yet, am writing you to let you know your Capricorn man loves you. He truly do love you. Those gestures are ways of expressing what he can’t express in words. We would rather cook and lay the bed and open the doors for you than to look you in the eye and say, we love you. And we would rather make love to you passionately than to say you look sexy in that dress ..and would rather be angry and quiet or expressive when we a jealous than to say, we are jealous of such a relationship you having with this or that person…. Now, Get to know God and get to know your man, any woman dating a Capricorn man will need the spirit of the living God to understand him a little ..Jesus is Lord!

  25. Tom February 23rd, 2018

    Hi I hav dated a cancer girl and it was the most turbulent relation for me as a Capricorn, if this relationship is set in Mid East where women’s are bound to be with men then this relation has the highest compatibility… for me intitally it was very exciting but then her untrusting nature and mood changes were so complicated I loved her so much and she too but the relationship was more of a punishment for both of us … I would recommend only if this is relation happens in traditional setting then it’s good

    • Moongirl2018 February 24th, 2018

      Tom, why would you say that this relationship will survive in the Middle East setting ? Because of the Male dominance??

      • Tom March 22nd, 2018

        Hi Pillai , Cancerian womens change every now and then and thats a red flag for us a Capricorn we love stability …. What I did like about cancerian womens is that they share same family values …

        When I say this relation will survive in Mid East doesnt mean male dominance …. I like her feminine attitude and whenever she wanted to be independent i liked itinfact I support her in career choices and otherwise … when both Cappy and cancer are in traditional family environment they will do well but in independent environment it will not last long bcoz Capricorns need constant assurance that their partner is with them and so as cancerians but when they both go in different paths it will be hard for them to be together …

        Only Cancerian and Cappy couples will understand what I am talking about … they both need assurances and safety … they can either be best or worst for each other depending on situation …good luck

      • Moongirl2018 April 9th, 2018

        Hi Tom,

        I get what you are explaining. The fear of unrequited love kills both Cancerian Woman and Capricorn man. Cancerian woman is a water sign and she is like a fluid, constantly need change, but doesn’t want changes in her Capricorn man or her feelings for him or for their family or their values.
        I come from a very traditional Hindu Community. Relationships are precious for us, we remain loyal to our spouses. Most people are aware of how romantic Scorpio, Piscean, Leo men are. Though they had revealed their feelings, I was stern with my views. I have never been disloyal with my feelings or my words or action to my Capricorn man. I believe it is not specific with any signs, but how a woman feels about a man. The truth is when a Cancer woman falls in love with her Capricorn man, it creates a very deep, passionate, loyal, soul-filling relationship. We fit each other like the perfect glove we have been searching for the whole of our lives. The Capricorn man is the perfect combination of the Sponge that takes in her insecurities and excessive emotions yet the modest man who never is disloyal to her with either his deeds or thoughts. It makes a unique and beautiful relationship between two givers. All other relationships for these two end up in a give and take relationship. But when these two come together, they fight to give more and more for each other. If any woman feels that her Capricorn man is egoistical, it only means that he is not in love with her the way he is capable of. Love conquers him totally. Love alone brings out everything real and tender and honest of him. Capricorn man is not for the outgoing, gregarious, flirtatious females.

  26. Yari January 21st, 2018

    I am a 33 yr old cancer women completely in love with a 48 yr old capricorn man.
    The article above was exactly on point with how this man makes me feel. His differences and strength makes me more drawn to him. Only difference is he doesn’t know I’m inlove with him and I’m afraid to tell him. We both have children from previous relationships and are goal driven. I’ve never felt such chemistry and admiration, sexual connection
    with anyone else like I do with him.. Everyone is different I suppose no matter the sign.

    • Destiny February 12th, 2018

      I can so relate to this! I’m turning 21 this year and am also a cancer woman with a 42 year old Capricorn man, but the first day web hung out we clicked like no other. I hadn’t felt like I do with anyone for a long time. We’re now in a relationship and are both happier than we’ve been in a long time.

  27. Moongirl2018 January 16th, 2018

    Well, in real world all the mentioned above is so not true. Here is what a Cancerian woman is – Very lively, great humorsense , very classy, quite shy, don’t go for one night stands and casual flings, very traditional, great friend , worship family. On the downside , they need a lot of love , from the lover , from friends , from pets , from family , they’re very emotionally dependent , they’re confident but want to get the approval from her mom or friend or her man. She is moody, but a word or a kiss or a flower or a chocolate can lighten up her mood. All she wants is that the other person let her love him/her. She is a giver . Here is the Capricorn Male – Very elegant , extremely classy, totally respectable , bit shy, doesn’t like crowd, very respectful towards others , gentle and kind to all living beings , very very hardworking , very polite, a very peculiar kind of humour sense , extremely charming . Now what happens when this moon girl and the Saturn man meets ? She doesn’t get involved because she knows he’s emotionally unavailable . She just keeps it friendly . He’s not satisfied . He goes all the way, chase her, pursue her, show her the kind of love and affection and care that nobody in the universe ever showed her before . She opens up , shares her vulnerable soul with him , she is elevated to such a position where in she cannot find her older self . She’s in love and the kind of love that stops her heart is she were not be with him . Then what happens ? She opens up , shares her fantasies , gives him such physical intimacy that he has never known before and never knew existed . She goes into his soul, she gets into his skin and brain . And they become one . Then what happens ? He, being the most self sufficient human on the earth walks away . Because he knows he can’t be successful in leading his life his way if he were to be with a woman . He doesn’t want any emotions over powering him . He doesn’t want anything to make him change his decisions that he made twenty years ago. He doesn’t want to come home to her. He wants to be a wanderer and he doesn’t want roots . So, he leaves her. Nobody is at fault here . He did what he does the best , to be free from everything. She did what she does the best . To love with an honest and pure heart . This two are never meant to be together , that is why they are placed opposite to each other so that there is no way one can compromise himself or herself for the other . There is no way these two can be together and happy . Anyone who thinks it’s a successful relationship is just someone who’s not a true Capricorn and not a true cancerian .

    • Susan January 21st, 2018

      To be honest, as I started reading your comment I thought you couldn’t be more wrong but as I read on I thought this was so true. You explained everything about me in detail and explained everything about the capricorn man in detail that I couldn’t help but question the cancer/capricorn love duo. I think everybody has their differences and their is a lot more to look at than their sun sign, but , ,generally, these differences are what attract and break up these two. I have yet to meet a Capricorn, but the ones I’ve befriended have been amazing. It would be interesting to see how this would play out if I got into a relationship with a Capricorn.

    • Riri Montgomery February 18th, 2018

      Well from 💯 % cancerian i can tell you what they wrote is so true all of it specially the bad parts but also as female cancer I know that we have habits of denial

    • Bonnie December 17th, 2018

      You had a bad experience you cannot say these star signs are not meant to be together maybe you did move too fast and threw all your emotions on the table there has to be a balance on both sides understanding one another’s flaws is also the key so rather than fight the flaws work along side them I truly believe timing in both lives in a vital key to when these two signs will align … Once they do it really is a truly magical happy ending

  28. Saphia November 21st, 2017

    I’m a cancer lady fully complicated even I don’t control my emotions ,by the way in 2010 he been my boyfriend and suddenly we separated I actually forget the exact matter but might cause of my flying mood and cap’s insecurity because I been so young and beautiful, and was not in mood to get marry, yesterday we met after 8 years and was just waiting for me and im just damn shock.. And obviously it happens when stay single among toi many option so im just shock

    • Suzy December 11th, 2017

      I’ve heard that they’re more compatible as they age. And what did you say to him?

  29. Cryssmoonchild232 October 24th, 2017

    Im a cancer female, I met my cap last year he was very persistent in courting me, I declined several times using my hectic work as an excuse. reason being he is younger than me by 6 years. Well I finally gave him a chance things were smooth yet He treated me as a friend more than anything the romance was NOT there. Later to find out he was on a dating website which I called him out on one night after dinner. Im a very calm and collected cancer surprisingly, I wasn’t upset at him due to being more understanding of his age and his need to explore his options, we ended things there however, I did let him know I was more disappointed at the time wasted because I did like him which Is why I pushed him away because my gut told me NOO he’s too young. Well months went by he contacted me and went on another date it was great however he remained stand offish. Later on this year in june He returned back in my life took me on an amazing date and really opened up to me stating how much internal changes he was going thru and how I was such a positive and secure person in his life that short time we dated and he would like for me to please give him another chance due to him having to find himself first, and thanking me for being understanding. As a cancer, a woman in general, a woman who has been hurt MY WALLS ARE UP!!! however I could not deny the way my feelings were when I was with this man so I said yes and since that day It has been a beautiful 5 months with him. I am blessed and happy to have a good man who treats me so well. It took him time and losing me to find out thru searching to find who he was he knew having me was something he could not let go. Ladies, If you give it time and learn to manage your cancer emotions and show him that you care thru your actions and positive encouraging words of affirmation your cap man will respect you and make you a priority. He told me the “L” word last week and I told him that I love him too. I am his strength when he is weak and vice versa. our relationship just gets stronger with each month that goes by and Im thankful to God for my capricorn man. Encourage his dreams and be ambitious in your career and goals in life as well and I promise you that this is a relationship that only gets better with time.

  30. NyZa August 16th, 2017

    I am a cancer and my new man is a capricorn. He is the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. He treats me like a queen. Even though i had my doubts because we are zodiac opposites,i still gave it a try and im glad i did. We are planning on moving in together with our kids and starting a new life together. He could possibly be my soulamate.

  31. Jocelyn August 1st, 2017

    Cap men take an interest in women who take an interest in them. If the woman shows little interest in what he admires or his hobbies than how can he connect with you. I’m a cancer and I’m dating a cap guy. It’s been the best relationship. But like any relationship it takes both of you to work at it. To the cancer woman who wrote that long message about how there all so bad, did you ever take into consideration what he has gone through. Sure it gives him no right but when cap me have been hurt they take there anger out in a different manner. Im sorry it didn’t work out but don’t bash every cap man.

  32. Okhearwego July 6th, 2017

    Stay AWAY from Cap men. These guys are the scum of the earth in general and as far as dating a Cancer Woman is concerned. They’re cold, distant, sometimey, manipulative, and will only show interest if you ignore the insecure, paranoid, sullen, boring, arrogant pricks.

    I met one at my gym, we struck up a convo but never exchanged numbers even though I thought he was cute. I’m a Cancer (super feminine) and so I’d never ask a guy out. He asked me out on in a private message on Instagram, we exchanged #s and he seemed thrilled every time we talked. His convo was boring, basically about his love for golf and ice skating but I ignored it because I thought, “Well maybe there’s more to him and he seems nice.” Turns out there is something more, HE’S RUTHLESS. We went to a late dinner for our first date and at the end of the night he didn’t even walk me to my car or text me to make sure I made it safely. (IT WAS PITCH BLACK outside and my car was a long walk away.)

    He would call at odd, late hours (I eventually figured out it was because he was bored & he was using me as filler time,.) I saw him at the gym as I was finishing my work out & heading out the door one day (he hadn’t even bothered to stop and say hi) and he turned and saw me behind him and scurried to his car as if I was following him. WTHeck, I’m a Cancer so very intuitive and caring, this not only hurt but I could tell that he was actually running away from e like I was some kind of stalker.

    So I never initiated any text messages or conversation with him again. Surprise, Surprise Capricorns LOVE to be ignored, they LOVE to be treated like crap because that’s how they treat everyone else. They LVOE to feel like they’re chasing someone above them, and when they get them they cheat on them or treat them like trash. I’d literally be talking to friends at the gym and this guy would come up and interrupt my conversation to say hi. I’d just say hi politely than turn back to my conversation and ignore him.

    He had the nerve to seem confused that I wasn’t jumping for joy to see him. I heard weeks later that he got a new girlfriend. Good riddance…I still catch him staring at me from time to time. Not a surprise, Caps are also cheaters and always looking for the next best thing.

    CANCER WOMEN, STAY AWAY FROM CAPRICORN MEN. Only tolerate them if they’re family.

    • John of Doe July 9th, 2017

      Who hurt you…? As a Cap man I strongly disagree with your pessimistic and hateful comment. This proves that cancer women are emotional and passionate, which isn’t a bad thing because some people don’t show their emotions. I could easily go on for hours on end about my horrific relationship with my ex, who is a cap also, or my other expenses who is a taurus. But I am not a immature teenager.

      • Mack July 25th, 2017

        Said what needed to be said. Anyone else imagine a shallow, self important, bimbo feverishly typing out that drivel?

        Yes I’m a Capricorn. No I don’t care enough about a random internet strangers diatribe to let my bias as a Cap spout back at her..

        All in all..meh..she’ll be single for a while no matter which sign she settles with..

    • Nicodimas Lucero October 20th, 2017

      I’m sorry for this prick to treat you like that, but not all caps are…. Those words you claim us to be. I for one am the total opposite of what you described the prick, excuse my French, but I do hope you give a cap another chance. You know as a woman what to look out for, but as a tip, if a guy doesn’t walk you to your car or show any respect towards you as a woman, move on. Good luck and hope you might give another Capricorn a chance, you might be surprised!

  33. Ms. Bell May 8th, 2017

    I’m deeply in love with a Capricorn now.. I have been since I was younger.. Years went by we finally met again in 2012. We started a relationship but at the time I was in another relationship with a leo. I wasn’t happy in the 1st relationship with the Leo. I tried many of times to get out of it (Leo) but he just wouldn’t leave. So fast forward to 2015. Me and the Capricorn was still together and so was me and the leo. I know it was a mess. But one thing I can say is that every body knew about every body. I was woman enough to tell both men what was going on. The Capricorn was shot in 2015 and was in the hospital for a yr and some months so by the time we actually seen each other again was March of 2017. Oh how my heart was happy I was so excited to see him.. I had went up there to the hospital to see him it hurt me so bad to see him like that. We talked for a long time and he expressed how he felt towards me and I did the same. I’m no longer with the Leo we broke up almost a year ago. Me and the Capricorn is still talking but it’s so hard for him to get pass the past. He holds my past against me until it’s time to have sex then he’s all in.. I love this man Alot and I know he loves me to. Why can’t he move on from the past when he was out there doing his thing too.. Me and the Capricorn has history together I been knowing him since I was 7 yrs old. Feel in love when we use to play hide and get it.. lol now I’m 32 yrs old and still can’t leave this man alone.. He has the key to my heart I’m just waiting for him to take it…

    • Suzy June 1st, 2017

      Show him you love him by staying by his side and taking care of him. Stay loyal and let him know every chance you get that you love him. It’s not easy to get over something like that. It seems that you two love each other very much but he can’t seem to shake off the past. Just show with actions how much you love him. I hope you two can get past this.

    • Everyseason September 16th, 2018

      OMG I met my cap man when I was 12 hiding behind a tree something in his eyes placed a memory in my head I will never forget fast forward 5 years later I ran into him he was having issues with his relationship shit I jumped out of mine instantly because I’ve dreamed of being intimate with him we did I got pregnant he cheated with the one he previously was with but then left her we worked out our issues I clamied him he’s mine I didn’t let up 9 years later everyday he tells me how beautiful I am he loves me and he’s going to make me so proud of him here I am in a 5 bedroom house one kid and still in love girl you gotta go all out act like a Scorpio but play like a Taurus to the cancer is me emotionally but everyday it’s different slut stripper teacher lawyer a bitch I’m all that think me later EverySeason

  34. D February 28th, 2017

    I met a Capricorn back in September of last year and at first everything was going great and so you know we will get along he has children you know he was really big on that making sure that they were the first and for most so the months went by and we had 5 dates maybe one of mine he wasn’t really open to spending a lot of time with me because he had a whole bunch of other obligations like working he was in a band and all this stuff the kids excetera but when we got together we had a lot of fun this month came as a surprise to me he friend-zoned me and said that he didn’t want to be anything more than friends with me I hadn’t done anything wrong it hurt my soul cuz I really liked him and didn’t understand why he did that Valentine’s Day sucked he stated that his brother would hang out with me for Valentine’s Day because he couldn’t he had to work late he doesn’t call me anymore he doesn’t text any more really like if I text him he’ll say something that and I don’t know what went wrong and he won’t talk to me about it but he’ll regret it he’s going to lose a good person here this Cancer woman is a good woman and he will regret that he will pick up piece of crap who doesn’t give a damn about him and I’m not going to worry about it cuz I’m finding me something better he hurt my feelings real bad

    • Mr. Man May 9th, 2017

      He is probably afraid you’re too emotional…I am sorry..

  35. J January 22nd, 2017

    Tell me what you guys think:

    I met my cap in June and it was like magic. He told me I looked like I’d been hurt before but that I was healing. He seemed like he wanted to know my thoughts and feelings, affectionate, lots of words of affirmation, always checking on me… well we get to six months and in the 6th month he’s laying his love on hard. I thought it was weird but enjoyed it a lot. Turns out he was cheating on me with his ex that he cheated on before… I was so shocked. I didn’t suspect a thing. We LIVE together. He’s been expecting me to come to his house since month 2. He’d call me every day after work saying “when are you getting home?” So why would he have cheated on me for two months?

    I decided to give it a try. I really love and care for him. I’m honestly too tired to try Dating again. I’m 25 and have been cheated on by so many of my partners, even abused mentally and physically. I thought Capricorn was supposed to be loyal. He was calling me his gf like week 3 of us dating. I’m hurt because I want to marry him and carry his child and just give him a good life but I don’t see how this can work when he lied about doing something with someone who supposedly hurt him. Should I give him another chance? Do you think he really had a change of heart? His ego is so large. I hate it.

    • Chn January 28th, 2017

      Then cheat too.
      I know it’s not us cancers thing and also bad but you know, you have to prove to yourself that you can play his games too.
      Find you a Scorpio or Taurus.

      That’s what i would do if my cappy man cheats on me.
      He’s on courting me level but same as you a like this cap too A LOT. I can sense that we will be together soon.
      I really hope this cap won’t turn out unloyal because im fallin’ hard on him. *sigh*

    • db January 31st, 2017

      I think capricorn men sometimes may not have completely committed to a relationship yet but he seems quite nice to you. And if you really like him, maybe you should have a conversation with him and see if he is really serious about you.

    • db January 31st, 2017

      I think capricorn men sometimes may not be able to make a complete commitment to a relationship in a relatively short period of time but he seems quite nice to you. And if you really like him, maybe you should have a conversation with him and see if he is really serious about you. Good luck, J. I hope you can put an end to being mistreated in relationships. Cancer girls can do better!

    • Wiseguy February 11th, 2017

      A fellow Capricorn man here. I am truly sorry to read. All I can say is this, you have a choice it is your life not just his in this relationship. Team work a two way street. You have said you have been fooled already by this man, you know where you stand in the relationship but seem really unsure of his, so I say move on, take time to yourself. Heal and learn to one day love again. I know I have after several heart breaks of my own. Best of Luck

    • Mr. Man May 9th, 2017

      I think you should be more career oreinted, that would help you more, give you more respect and get his attention more…that’s what gets him..independent woman..he would support you though.

    • Suzy June 1st, 2017

      Not all Capricorns are loyal just like every other sign isn’t what they say they are. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I’m not experienced with dating, but I’ve had my fair share of guys who I thought liked me only to find out that they were messing around with my best friend behind my back. It’s not worth it. Leave it in the past and move on. It’s going to be hard but it will save you the heartache later on.

  36. Latisha Little January 18th, 2017

    That was very interesting and on point. I have been experiencing all of this from my Capricorn man. At first I used to always ask myself why is he cold and distant towards me. Now I know that it’s not me but just him and his make up. This article has given me a whole better understanding of the Capricorn man. I appreciate that, thanks…..

  37. Anum December 20th, 2016

    Thank God! Relaxed after reading it..

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  41. heartdesire March 1st, 2015

    can ihave your email.. there is something i want to ask.. thank you.. i really need your help.

  42. sweetdebz65 January 14th, 2015

    This is crazy! I am a cancer and my ex husband is capricorn and we are still very good friends.  He has remarried but tells me every chance he gets that he still loves me.  We just married too young! I am now involved with another capricorn and it seems as though we have known each other forever.  This describes us to the Tee.  I am normally pretty shy when I meet people for the first time but something about this guy made me feel very secure. From the day we met, my cap has been drawn to me like a magnet.  We saw each other every day for the first 60 days and we didn’t get sick of each other.  He went away for the holidays and called me twice a day every day. I missed him so much.  He also expressed to me that he has never been this open with a woman.  He says “I can’t explain it”.  I think I will let him read our about compatibility.  This explains it all!

    • tae December 22nd, 2016

      I am a cancer woman and I am with a Capricorn man. There are very few things that are true like opposites we have very little in common. He is very selfish, hard of hearing he does not budge. He is slick and sneaky.

    • Mr. Man May 9th, 2017

      Yep!, let him read it..it will give him more understanding and you’ll both have a peaceful and happy relationship.

  43. kittycatloves September 30th, 2014

    I’m a cancer girl and my boyfriend is a Capricorn. This is my 2nd Capricorn relationship. First one lasted two years, but I was always very doubtful with him. I longed for marriage and babies my whole life, that’s all I’ve ever wanted since I was 7 years old (now 20 I know I am so young for marriage and babies but I am such an old soul. My mom and older sister always tell me that.) With my first Capricorn bf I was never completely sure if he was the one. We broke up March 12th 2014, and TWO weeks later, I have met my 2nd Capricorn male and he is my soulmate! We started dating exactly two months after we met. Met March 25 and dated June 25. I am completely and utterly in love with our story. From day 1, we were completely taken by one another. since the first day we met, we have been completely inseparable. We are so proud of one another and love each other passionately. I can agree with this article, in that, I always nag him about how he doesn’t express his feelings like I do and now I see why. We are still learning one another and he doesn’t get my sensitive side all the time. It hurts but we need to communicate on that. He’s like no man I have met and we are both so deeply in love with one another. As a cancer women, we think love makes the world go round. Atleast that’s what I think. 🙂 I feel so secure with him. He makes great money and has his own house. I feel so at home with him and me being SUCH a home body, I’ve always wanted to wait until marriage to move in with someone, but with him, it feels so right. Every few days we send one another very heartfelt text messages reminding the other of how grateful and thankful we are. He is my man and I have only dreamed of loving someone as much as I love him my entire life. Thankful for my cap man!!! I type this as he sleeps and snores beside me. He’s the one. 

  44. sweettropicalpeaches August 7th, 2014

    I am a cancer female and i am currently with a capricorn male….. and all this very accurate…. he does has serious appearance but deep dow  sweet,gentle,hilarious,and devoted…. We have  been in a relationship for a year nd  8 months nd it has been amazing…. I love his easy goind, charming, and calm personality

  45. cchin July 21st, 2014

    I read all of the comments and OHH MY GOODNESS! There was soo many cutee stories and you know it did give me hope. Obviously there were ones which ended terribly, but reading through all the post I seriously was in thee best mood ever. Because I am in thee best mood ever I shall share my story. I’m a cancer baby and I just met a cap a few weeks ago and he lives about an hour and 30 minutes away from me. We see each other like every wednesday, but we actually had a real convo last week. So while i was in town on saturday (where he lived) I decided to throw a party. I asked my cousin to invite him since they are like Best Buds but sadly he left early ): so i didnt have the chance to get to know him in person.. Later on that night he messaged me on facebook and was like ” I didn’t get a goodbye hug” Of course i got flutters in my stomach but i was just enjoying the single life and all of sudden this cap enters and changes everything. I replied and we ended up talking till my phone died. The next day we just started talking and throughout our whole conversation we were flirting. He definently got me to laugh and smile a bunch. I’m not one to really believe in the zodiac signs, but somehow him and this post it just makes me want to explore this journey with him. Is that crazy? Am I crazy? I hope not lol. 

  46. HARMEN SHERGILL February 11th, 2014

    I AM A CAPRICORN AND MARRIED TO CANCER LADY WHICH IS THE BEST THING HAPPENED IN MY LIFE MARRIED FOR 22 YRS WE HAVE TOGETHER 3 HEALTHY BOYS.WE HAVE BIG DREAMS LIVING THE BEST LIFESTYLE…SKY IS THE LIMIT FOR US 

  47. PEANUHBUTTAH July 15th, 2013

    @moiysrialila81323 
    girl i can tell by tha way you responded 2 dhis U is a real Cancer

  48. Queenvee September 3rd, 2012

    Wow! Was having self doubt about a Capricorn guy I met but reading this really made sense of all of wut is going on between us this really made me think twice n I know he is a keeper. Im glad I found this web site to help me reassure myself and to persue this relationship! This was so so true about both of us! Amazing how this stuff hit straight to the heart!! Thxs again 🙂 
     

  49. moiysrialila81323 August 26th, 2012

    aha!! this just made my day, i’ve been trying to figure out why we like each other a lot, im a cancer and his a cappy. yep he doesn’t show his emotions right up but i know there is something there, those eyes when he looks at me, oh geez, they’re amazing. we were friends, ans still is, but even when we were still on the friendzone i felt special around him. he’d pick me up on our group dates even though i was in a relationship with his ol’time buddy.( our buddy, we were all classmates during gradeschool) after that relationhip, we always hang ut, he always picks me up and bring me home safe. and that didn’t rang a bell though i knew that who ever he is with is so lucky to have him. and now, i have him. i feel that we’re both looking forward to be together for the longest time ever we could be. we laugh and play like kids, fight like adults, trust and defend each other like a brother and sister does. and he just beeped me, saying that he is so blessed to have me. i am too.. =) love my pare. 🙂

  50. Rubilee5 June 1st, 2012

    Im a Cancer Lady and my mans a Cap && this article fits us like a glove (clear down to the business aspect of it)!!!!!! Its to crazy to because until I read this we really could not figure out why we just get along so well. We started as best friends and now we are in love 🙂 Hes always telling me im a wild child and im always telling him hes an old man!

  51. heaty007 August 1st, 2011

    @CHINEDU Bro this is crazy man!!! I’m a Capricorn man and that’s me to a tee. My ex wife said I didn’t share my feelings but I loved her like crazy. Now I just met a cancer woman and she is the most amazing woman I have ever met. This is the crazy part, ever since I met her I have started becoming awesome at everything I desire. I workout, I cook, my business is making more money and whats crazy is this article is like me and her. She move and drives at high speed and I go the speed limit all day. This is crazy but I am already imagining a long future with her. I simply just stopped talking to other girls and didn’t even care, she got me. I’m whipped!

  52. Nina July 22nd, 2011

    i wanna noe abt d caps..my bf is less expressv as evry cap is..n yeah less emotional..less devoted..at least dts wt i feel..n actly m made to feel..
    ever1 talks about being patient in this relation..so if i do keep my patience..is he evr gonna change?? i mean adjust to my needs?? my expectations??
    ryt nw if i ask im..he says no..he won’t ever.
    n never expresses anything..which leaves me completly heartbroken.
    what should i do? i dun’t wanna end our relation bt m too damn frustated..please tell me whether or not he’ll ever understand me and be my perfect man.
    please reply

  53. Nina June 24th, 2011

    thnk u fo the advice.!! 🙂

  54. Author
    Ask Oracle June 16th, 2011

    @Niti Well just like everything in his life was around you, he wanted/needed that everything in your life be around him too. I mean a balance had to be there. But it looks like because of fears and bad past you took a much longer time to trust him and reciprocate him well. That hurt him and he started withdrawing to balance it out.

    This is just a guess, he should know better. Anyway I wanted to bring it to your awareness that fears and insecurity do no good to us. They do not protect us, in fact they kill whatever good we have in our lives.

    Face your fears and remember that they are not being helpful to get you want you want. Make it very clear that the fears are not based on reality.

    About this relationship, looks like its adjusting to more realistic levels. Let the things settle down on their own and give him his space and time. Meanwhile you can focus on your health and take up a daily body exercise routine, this will not only make you more fit but also more attractive to him.

    All the best 🙂

  55. Nina June 16th, 2011

    i m in a relatn wd a cap..its my 2nd..frst one ws very rough n dt cmpletly shook off my belief frm love..dn he came..he made me believe again..its almost 8-10months..its diff nw..earlier i was d world fo im..evrythn in his life was around me..nw d priorities ve chngd..n i ve realized it completely. d worst thing is dt wn i confess him al ds..hez very cold..i express him my feeling..all the way..n hes like..i dun ve an answer. wht d hell..m damn frustated. aftr all the failures i ve had in luv..he made me believe agn..n nw..m hanging alone. y?? i noe caps re nt expressive..bt if dts so..he ws very affectionate in d begg..suddnly wht happend?? it makes me mad..i dunt noe wht to do..i get very insecure with such behaviour of his. dun want to b hurt all the time..while he is njoyng himself out..cz m da emtnl freak. dts wt he has made me believe frm a long time.

  56. SadCancerian June 11th, 2011

    I’ve read all these comments, and the whole article. I am a Cancerian woman with a Capricorn man. Been together for 11 years. I regret all of it!! If your wish is to be lonely and depressed, you’ve found the right man, a Capricorn! They don’t show much love at all, let alone affection is not there at all. Get a pet, it’ll make you much more happier than a Cap! Btw, Pisces men is where it’s at for a Cancerian lady. They know how to fill the gaps that come with a Capricorn.

  57. jannikki06 April 29th, 2011

    I recently started talking to a capricorn man i met online. I really the chemistry and everything. He was so amazing and i couldn’t believe myself meeting someone like him.And i am starting to fall for this guy and we decided to be on relationship that soon. then suddenly he changed. He told me that i deserved better. He thinks i was not happy.That we were not really in relationship and relationship should be someone you can kiss or touch and hold. and that i needed emotional relationship. and now im hurt. He left me deleted me from facebook and ignored me totally… 🙁

  58. lilo-anmonaliza April 24th, 2011

    yes …i really love my capricorn man,its really a magic between us .very amazing feelings .

  59. thinkingofher January 24th, 2011

    Im a Capricorn male. I spoke to a Cancer woman today on the phone that I met online. We immediately seemed to hit it off. We were both really giggly on the phone with each other. When she began to speak her voice hit a soft spot in me and made me smile! She immediately brought out a side of me that I only show when Im with someone for a loooong time- kind of like a cuddly side. We quickly arranged a date to see each other. Even before we meet this week I feel its a match! Funny thing is even before we spoke I’ve been thinking about her alot. What a connection.

  60. CHINEDU January 23rd, 2011

    I’m a capricorn man, truly I do find it hard most times to express my true feelings so fast, because I would want to be sure of my stands before submitting my true emotions, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love the woman. One common thing about capricorn is that we are ambicious people and don’t like any form of distraction at any time we are working on a particular future pursuit. I think thats where others misundstand us, we are nice, loving and caring people, matters of the heart get us down easily and thats why its as if caps a very careful with emotional issues. We work hard so as to sustain a brighter future for ourselves, family and friends and I don’t think if there is anything bad with that. By clear observations cancer women are the ones that perfectly fit for every capricorn man. Cancer women have the natural abilities to understand, love, tolerate and live happily with capricorns.
    I’m going to marry a Cancer Woman.

  61. priyanka January 18th, 2011

    well m in a rltnship since last 3 years and i and my bf wer together in colg 4 6 months then he went for further studies to a far place and i dnt knw he changed in his behaviour completely-he loves me but will never xpres, he participated in college roadies and he proposed a girl the way i did to him . whenever i call him he will be like i am busy. dnt have time and dnt irritate me but he has time for watching movies all night and always hanging out with friends n so on .. got 2 go.. i hope u rep soon .

  62. Lulu January 17th, 2011

    Feel free to ask advice… I feel like I’ve had great success with dealing with these men.

    Love- LULU 😉

  63. Lulu January 17th, 2011

    I love my boyfriend and I’m going to marry him. I’ve always been with capricorns (without knowing it) and they’ve all been great relationships… With tragic endings. These ended because of circumstance not by choice. But I’ve never loved and adored anyone like my current boyfriend, although we don’t say it. I know I need to take things slow with him… Even though all I want to do is shack up and have like 10 kids. He was extremely hard to understand when we were first together but I pushed myself to be understanding and patient with him because I knew that’s what he needed. This is what I recommend in any similar relationship, because recently idk when I feel like I woke up and after a year he made perfect sense. And because now I really understand him, none of it’s scary anymore. Recently he appreciates me more than ever because of this understanding, which is hard to come by for him. I know well get married, I know well have kids, because neither of us could imagine our lives without each other. I love him so much and I’ve never been so compatible and walked through life with someone as one.

  64. Samantha January 16th, 2011

    I’m a cancer female and my boyfriend is a capricorn male. We started dating a while ago and right off the bat we connected. We both took great interest in each other. Months later, we are basically EXACTLY what this article explains. I absolutely bring out the “snuggly bear” in him. We make each other emotionally stronger and more loving. We are both very physically attracted to each other! I love him and we are both very happy together.

  65. johnny January 16th, 2011

    im a capricorn male n i believe alot of this. im with a beautiful cancer(female) and the sex life is remarkable. we are both loyal and that is what gets me going about her. shes remarkable inside and out. she brings the romance out in me. im known as an alpha male but she brings me to her level. we argue somtimes but our love overcomes any quest that is in store. im rough, shes sweet. its like a devil and an angel i bring the naughtiness out in her in the sheets!

  66. Dee January 15th, 2011

    I am a cap male but very emotionally expressive at least in words by this usually comes some time after developing trust.Ive been told that I have a great ability to express my feelings well.I am a romantic but it takes awhile to get pass my head but once I pass that place there is no turning back unless i sense that the affection isnt being return..then the cold guy comes out.I melt quick at any sign that she gives of hope.I met a cancer lately and you guys are right the chemistry is high.The weird thing though is that I think I call more than she does but If choose not to call she goes crazy and I am left puzzled….You dont call but if I dont you get upset.She is great though but I like attention now…i used be the Hero…but now id like a Shero..lol..Seeing all of this is interesting..I usaully dont go for zodiac signs.

  67. Keni January 8th, 2011

    Ima cancer and my guy is a cp. We’ve been togeter for 7 yrs and have a son together. Its been a rollerrcoaster but I’ve learned a lot about the personality of a cap and about him over time and I think he’s THE ONE. I appreciate everyone elses comments. Especially the one about patience. Waiting patiently for the big transition.

  68. Miska December 11th, 2010

    Man reading these entries I don’t feel so nuts anymore. My cap man has been a friend for fifteen years and has always said we would be great together. Long story short we had the opportunity and gave it a go and it was amazing but then silence! No call visit I actually thought he had had an accident. Finally heard from him and it was like he thought no time had passed and we should just pick up where we left off. No mention of the fact that during his sabbatical he had stood me up for a new years date! Needless to say I was confused and haven’t really spoken to him over the past year. Recently our paths crossed and again we came together I still don’t know why I let that happen again. When we ran into each other it was like none of the past ever happened and the way he is when we are face to face the love and passion is palpable. Now I’m in that lull again this emotional roller coaster can’t be normal. How can someone have so much love for someone yet not know that this behavior tears there heart out? Love utterly confused crab

  69. moon December 8th, 2010

    Well, the only time i was involved with a cap man he turned out to be a nasty son of a b. Period. The man is a nut case. Worst mistake of my life. He completely shattered my heart and soul. Never again!!!

  70. kristine November 27th, 2010

    i love too capricorn male

  71. nagla fahim October 25th, 2010

    hi… i’d like to share this with everyone here.. i am in deep and true love with a cap man . he’s simply my hero.. what i miss is being with him ages ago as i am now about 38. to me he counte everything and everything is him. being with him makes me feel alive and capable to function otheriwse i just hope for another day on which i could see him and feel my existance . ahmed i love u and wont ever stop loving u . u nourish my soul and make me cost that much

  72. k-love October 10th, 2010

    Oh Lord, this Capri man is something else. No one tugs at my heart like he does. I always feel like daddy will take care of everything just be patient like others have commented. As I shake my head just thinking about his love! his ways are so beautiful!and yes cancer women do go crazy from their lack of calling and he wants me at times to do all of the contacting, but sometimes I`m so unmovable I won`t do it. We`ve wasted so much time that we could have been together but instead he taunts me with moments that to tell you the truth can carry me a lifetime but keeping it real, of course I want him for a lifetime and yes the chemistry, I could eat him up!!! cancer women/capricorn man= bottomless love… hang in:) k-love

  73. I am a cancer and my bf is a cappy...after reading all the posts it surprised me to read that cappy males are not emotional. This is because my bf is extremely emotional and very attached! I've read that cancer's are usually more clingy and emotional but September 30th, 2010

    I am a cancer and my bf is a cappy…after reading all the posts it surprised me to read that cappy males are not emotional. This is because my bf is extremely emotional and very attached! I’ve read that cancer’s are usually more clingy and emotional but in our relationship its reversed. My advice for other cancer girls is don’t let these men walk all over you, be assertive and let them come to you…

  74. Finncap September 19th, 2010

    My girlfriend is a cancer and I’m a capricorn. We’ve had our ups and downs, the relationships been going on for 1,5 years. We’ve been through a rough patch now, and are on a little brake (we live in separate towns), but I’m allready dying of yearning, and can’t wait that I can see her sweet self again. I just hope she feels the same. I can relate to the text, but I do show emotion, maybe even little too much sometimes. It’s maybe because I have so much fire in my chart. I love my own cancerian so much, and can’t wait to get her in my arms..

  75. cherry valence September 9th, 2010

    well ive been with my capricorn guy for about 2 months. hes my first boyfriend and hes just amazing! we do get in little arguments but 5 minutes later were all over each other lol. he doesnt have trouble expressing his feelings hes can express them better then i can lol. somtimes i can be mean to him too for no reason and he thinks im kinda annoying lol. i feel so happy with him. he spoils me rotten and he always wants to take care of me and he wants the best for me. he does talk about how how wants to be financially stable and buy all these things for me but im not into material things. but so far hes my soul mate and i love him to pieces i have a feeling were gonna last forever……well if i play my cards right.

  76. Nancy September 1st, 2010

    I’m a cancer woman and my bf is a capricorn. We have been dating for almost 2 months and I have to say that it is my best relationship. Yeah he isn’t really the emotional type and he has never said that he loves me but I know he does. I can tell by the things he does and says and how he treats me. I mean it took him almost 2 months to get around to finally telling me he misses me. But, he text messages me all day everyday. Even when he is sitting in class or at work or he’s out with his friends. We talk about anything and everything and we are so completely comfortable with each other. He tells me about his family and actually plans on taking me to meet his brother in Italy soon. Don’t get me wrong, I would love it if he was more open about his feelings and emotions and was more touchy feely, however I know that when he does tell me something like he misses me then I know he really means it unlike some guys. He loves it when I support him and tell him how happy he makes me. It’s funny though cause he is the only person I have ever been able to sleep next to. I have never felt comfortable enough to sleep next to anyone and have been known to literally kick people out of my bed while I’m asleep but with him there are no problems. I fall asleep easily next to him and I wake up the next day feeling wonderful. Course by some weird coincidence the very first day we met we were in the park together just sitting under a shade tree and talking and we saw 4 separate wedding parties go by. Not sure if that means anything but it was kind of freaky weird.

  77. Artia August 2nd, 2010

    I have been dating my cappy since March. He works in Canada mostly eventhough we both live in Vegas. A first it was just a friendship, but as time progressed he had said he was falling for me and wanted more!! He proposed to me on my birthday on July 8th!! He is still very much involved in his career and although it was hard at first, I have gotten used to his personality!! We also have 10 years between us, me being younger.. I know he loves me and when he says it he means it!! He is the most amazing man that I have ever me, and cant wait to spend the rest of my life with him!! Patience and devotion is definitely the key to winning a cappy mans heart!! Btw….he is the sexiest man I hae EVER met!!

  78. Dyna Mite July 30th, 2010

    I have been in love with a Capricorn man and i can say i have met my dream guy.He is the best thing that have ever happened to me. We have been in a relationship for sometime now and he never hesitates to show me off the his friends,he calls me all day long,he brags about me all the time, he surprises me when the time is right, he is ambitious loving caring and never afraid to cry.I love him with my everything but i dont tell him how much i love him he always tells me that i dont give him the attention that he wants.Whenever he is about to make new plans he always incorporate me and wants to hear my input.He is a family oriented person and is very loyal but he hardly ever say the word “I LOVE YOU” freely only when he means it, it is said.He hates to be rejected and he always put u first. We laugh together, we cry together we have our ups and downs but its very minor things.if i need to sum up the negative to the positive the positive always out-weighs the negative.in the bedroom he delivers.Only one thing i might have to complain about is that i dont really conversate well on the phone with him and our conversations are way too short before having nothing to really say.In a nutshell he knows how to be the perfect dominating,loving,family oriented,financially stable dream guy.I will wish for every woman to have a CAPRICORN MAN like mine.

  79. Kendall July 20th, 2010

    I am a cap male and i have been in some relationships where i found it difficult for me to express my true feelings but when i met my cancer gf, i found it alot easyier to tell her how i feel and we connected so fast on so many levels and i feel so comfortable around her and talking to her. the only problem that we have in the relationship is the distance and i cant see her as much as i want. we just met not too long ago but i already feel like she’s one of my closest friends. && the sex is great and when were together, its like she reads my every thoughts and its so magical.

    as for advice for other caps and cancers, patients is the key and cancer woman i been readin some of ya’ll post and my advice is to make the capricorn man more cofortable with expressing themselves to you because i think caps will sometimes close themselves up if they think ur moving too fast for them so ladies try 2 take it slow and make sure the capricorn is ready before u try to take it to the next level but with understanding and commitment, this match can be perfect. I wish u all the best of luck.

    – Kendall H.

  80. cancerwoman July 10th, 2010

    i have been in a relationship with a cap man for a month now. everything was perfect. he even told me he was falling for me after only a few weeks. we went out last night and we both had a few too many drinks and i totally lashed at him over something petty and wanted to break up. he dropped me off and left. i realized i was in the wrong and told him so..i even went by his house shortly after but he wouldnt answer the door ??? he won’t call or text me back. i have apologized profusely but still no response. after one fight and us telling each other that we love one another and getting along so great…is he going to call?? i heard cap men hold grudges and once its over with them its over. but after one big fight and so many good times ??? not sure what to do. should i quit calling and give him space ??? help me cap men 🙂

  81. Sweet May 30th, 2010

    We both think we’ve abadoned each other if we dont call for days but still flow well when we call. I never seem to be excited over her and i know she hates it but wont tel me. My cancer girl makes me have mixed feelings of REJECTION and FLIRTING on our both sides but we know we love each other. In a nutshell reassurance is all that matters.

  82. T May 28th, 2010

    Yess I am a cancer women and everthing that I read was true. I am in a long distance relationship wit a cap,its been goin on for 6 months but he has been tryn to get wit me for a year before this.(He is my friends cousin) finally I gave him a chance and I love him sooo much he is everything I hav been lookin for! In september I am suppose to move to GA wit him (I’m a jersey girl)to get married and hav children.We do hav our little arugments but never say upset cause u know us cancer women are moody but he makes me laugh and I’m over it so fast!(Wow) jus pray for me that everything work out guys!

  83. cancerwoman May 26th, 2010

    Hi, I’m a cancer woman and had my 1st relationship with a Capricorn man for 2 and a half years which was the best years of my life. due to education it drove us 5hours apart and we wasn’t able to see each other more than once a week, so we broke up. since then every relationship in the past 5years hasn’t worked… hasn’t even never past the 4month mark due to me always comparing my 1st love (cap) to other guys as they dont seem to treat me like he did. now Ive had this next Capricorn guy in my life for 2years now and have come to realize he is the spit of my 1st love and wont stop at chasing me! which makes me feel like I’m number 1, he is always there when i need him even when we dint talk for a couple months and i became ill he found out and was there in a flash dint even hesitate and it made me wake up a lot now I’m gona give it ago and hope it works out better than the first 1 😀 x

  84. Braams May 4th, 2010

    I am a Capricorn man and based on what I know about myself I can see how certain issues could arise from not being as emotionally open as we should be. I have recently met a Cancer Woman and she is probably the greatest woman I have ever met. She makes me want to express my true feelings in a way that I never have before. She is so loving and nurturing, qualities that I yearn for in my life and I feel blessed to even have met her. I would love nothing more than to be with her whole-heartedly and to start a family. If she is an example of how Cancer women really are, then I think all Caps should have one by there side, but only if they are willing to open there heart and provide her the much desired affection that they deserve. Caps, if your reading this looking for advice I can leave you with this… Take the time to learn what makes your woman tick. Once you get a better understanding of who she is and what she feels inside, you will be able to avoid causing unnecessary heartaches in you mate. You must learn how to equally focus on your career goals while at the same time nourishing the relationship with Cancer Woman. So unless you are OK with losing your woman to a fellow cap like me who IS in touch with and able to express them freely, I suggest you take the necessary time to understand and appreciate this type of woman. Also, take the time listen to some of HER career goals, you might like what you hear. You know what we can do when we put our minds in action. Use that power to establish and maintain one of the greatest relationships you might ever have in your life. She needs to know that you love her as much as she loves you. So get off the Internet and go let your girl know how you feel about her b4 somebody like me takes her from you.

    As for my Cancer ladies, your amazing and I Love you! You deserve love, affection, attention, fidelity, security, companionship, and a man that will give you all of those things and more. If your man is not providing this for you, don’t sell yourself short or waste your time. Leave him and find the man that will.

    Braams

  85. restorelo April 28th, 2010

    I love the CAPS!!!…as i affectionately like to call them. They are my favorite men of the zodiac…great chemistry, conversation, vibe….I would love to marry one.

  86. Jonquil April 28th, 2010

    Wow, reading all the previous posts has been comforting to say the least. I am a Cancer lady involved with a male Capricorn who gets on my darn nerves. Loving him can me so frustrating at times. I am constantly seeking security in our emotional growth but he stunts it with his lack of emotional depth. Although, there are moments when he lets the “cat out of the bag” ever so briefly to remind me that its there I just need to be patient with him. His love is such an enigma and yet it isn’t at the same time because I recognize it for what it is. One minute he’s hot the next he’s cold. Its as if he’s this young boy dangling a piece of hershey’s kiss in front of me and I’m the young girl at his mercy wanting to receive his hershey’s kiss. Taunting me, saying look what you can have if you allow your self to grow with me and let go of your impatience. My stubborness and controlling nature refuses to let him win. However, the challenge of conquering his heart won’t let me give up. The stakes are high and the thought of losing or not even trying at all is way to much for me to let his love sail away.

  87. Dametris April 14th, 2010

    I am in my second relationship with a Capricorn man, and I must say that our chemistry is trully intense. Sometimes I do feel like I am more in love with him than he is with me, but, he always finds a way to reassure me that his love is as deeply felt as mine. One of the greatest things about Capricorn men is that they pay attention to what makes Cancer women happy, and they are always there for us when we need them. And though Cancer women are used to being the dominant one in relationships, the Capricorn man will allow her to step back and let the man take the lead… which is usually what us Cancer women want anyway.

  88. svhart88 April 7th, 2010

    I started dating a Capricorn male back in February. No one makes me laugh or feel like he does, and this is coming from a cancer girl who use to be obsessed with Leos! But the last few weeks have been tough…mainly due to the fact that I feel like I like him more than he likes me. An earlier post talked about going a week without texting…I’m in the same boat. I kind of withdrew a bit, feeling bitter, but now I realize its in his nature. He doesn’t say it, but he shows it…he’s a secret cuddler!

    To all the cancer girls, patience and understanding are key.

  89. mmo March 10th, 2010

    im a capri and i was with a cancer lady for 6 months and as summary i can say it was the best i had with some1,we were flying because of happiness and totaly commited ourselves to each other,,her love warm me and inspire me and give me power to present her the best as paying back but unfortunatly we get beated to distance and couldnt met while we love each other so much and it can already be the only reason to break up,but we are still in contact and i love her,its truly working:)..

  90. Olamide March 8th, 2010

    I am currently in a relationship with a Capricorn man…..although its been on for about three years….it hasn’t gone without its ups and downs.He feels i am damn well too demanding and i always get the feeling that he is so emotionally non-expressive. Despite our little and funny conflicts,we still can’t help but always want each other. I feel i cannot stand any other man but him….and everyday our bond keeps getting stronger. We are just like twins and it is amazing!No one but him…warts and all.

  91. mona March 4th, 2010

    hey
    I am a cancer lady truly falling for a capricorn he is totally deep charming smart and makes me feel so happy i love being with him hate his luck of feelings’ expression, although i see passion in his eyes but it’s not enough for me to go on to the next level i agree on most of what’ve been said and on the amazing chemistry

  92. Miss Marietta February 16th, 2010

    I’ve recently started dating a Capricorn man and he’s the most wonderful person I’ve ever met. He steps in right where I need him, without my asking!!! I love it and any conflict we have is quickly resolved. When there is a break down in communication we simply sit in silence for a while, cool off, and somehow end up working it out peacefully. I’m already thinking about marriage and babies!!

  93. Brad January 16th, 2010

    I am the Capricorn man they all speak about, and yes it is true, I am hard to show or express my feelings of love, I feel that she should see in my eyes my love for her. I am a very sexual man and very sexually expressive with my women, I am now very interested in the Cancer lady, I have read so much about this women and feel she will most suit me and my sexual needs as a capricorn.

  94. Kelli July 28th, 2009

    I am in my 2nd relationship with a capicorn male – the chemistry/connection between cancer and capicorn is truly amazing. However, I will have to agree that they have a hard time expressing their emotions or feelings. And us cancer woman need that security – so if you are mindful about how these capicorn’s are and understand them – it will be well worth it. Truly amazing connection!

  95. Melissa July 15th, 2009

    I am a Cancer woman dating a Capricorn male and when we’re together or talking on the phone its the best, but becuase of our own separate lives when we’re not together he hardly calls me or tries to check up on me. I mean we can go a week or so without him calling me & when I finally call him he acts like its only been acouple of hours since we last spoke. I hate that! Im worried that I think about him way more than he thinks about me. Its true, its very hard 4 them 2 show their true feelings & extremely hard 4 us to understand their lack of comunication. We usually think that if they care about us as much as they say they do then they would show more interest, but its important 4 us to know their heart. We’ve only been talking for a month or so but we both feel are relationship is growing stronger. Just be sure to know patience is key.

  96. Dymond July 3rd, 2009

    My husband is a capicorn and Im a cancer our relationship is wonderful I loves him

  97. Kat May 5th, 2009

    i think this is kind of right, one thing though is that capricorn is very difficult with showing his feelings which kind of hurts sensitive cancerian. it often makes me feel like he doesn’t love me

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