Cancer Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Cancer man and Cancer woman are a deeply compatible match, finding comfort and support in each other.
  • They understand each other's emotional and physical needs, leading to a fulfilling sexual connection.
  • A Cancer woman can attract a Cancer man with her gentleness, empathy, and shared appreciation for security and emotional connection.
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As the sensitive Cancer man and woman fall in love with each other, they make one of the most amazing pairs. The element water mixes so well that they usually live a very cozy and comforting life, supporting and understanding each other in all aspects of life.

A typical Cancer man is a gentle person with lots of emotions and sophisticated mannerism. He is one person who works hard with determination to achieve success which is more a synonym of money for him. Though he is known for his flirtatious nature but once he is in a serious relationship, he proves to be a very caring and loyal partner. While Cancer woman is usually a delicate damsel with soft eyes and friendly smile. She cannot handle rejection and criticism and is herself also never rude or arrogant. She too is a very possessive lover and can suffer from unknown insecurities and fears at times. Both the Cancer man and Cancer woman finds money to be most integral part of their lives and extravagances is a crime in their eyes.

A Cancer woman is definitely a great match for a Cancer man who seeks same level of security and love as she does. She is basically a humble lady and hardly shows her aggressive side to anyone. Though her shy nature prevents her from taking the plunge but she is still strong enough to stand for her family and loved ones. She is a deity of love and concern and she hold enough affection in her heart to give to all people around her. In love with a Cancer man she finds a mate to whom she can easily deliver her sentiments as he is equally sentimental and ready to love all the time. Sometimes she may unnecessarily brood over mundane issues or get drowned in inferiority complex, but, if treated with affection and care she is just a jolly bird, twittering around making things brighter and happier for herself and her Cancer man.

A Cancer man is a great combination of brain and sentiments who is admired by his Cancer woman for both his wisdom and his ways of expressing love for her. His cautious nature makes him and his lady love feel protected in the outer world, which all Cancer people tackle with care. Both the Cancer man and Cancer woman may have their different mood swings leading to some small arguments but generally they share a very strong bond. Only a Cancer man can find the right words and manner to calm a Cancer woman. Marriage always appeals to both Cancer man and woman as they both believe in permanence and emotional security plays a great role in their lives. Marital tie-ups usually are common in a relationship where both the people are Cancer. Where on one side the Cancer man provides economical security, his Cancer maiden makes a cozy home for both her Cancer man and children.

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Both the Cancer man and Cancer woman enjoy a good relationship as they help each other in times of need and be cordial with each other and never lose their calmness. Their unison eradicates all the secrecy and mysteries of their lives making them one. The harmony that abounds over a Cancer home is more romantic and poetic then compared to any other zodiac sign. The warmth and protection provided by him vanishes all the worries and insecurities of her and the care and devotion given by her makes him stronger and more resistant to mood swings. They both generally have angels singing for them once they feel financially enough secure, which a Cancer man makes sure of. Their oneness has the brightness of fire, softness of silk and calmness of water that lasts for them throughout, making them a happy and satisfied couple.

Both the Cancer man and the Cancer woman love to play sexual games because they are scared of rejection or think that their partner might not respond positively. But when both the signs are Cancer, they understand well each other’s emotional as well as physical needs and respond well to each other. Though none of them is desirous of handling, a demanding sexual passion but still they enjoy their oneness to a great extent. Physical relationship for them is way to display their affection for each other. Be it the Cancer man or the Cancer woman, both of them expects to spend some time together after consummation as this makes their bond stronger. Romance and their mood is a vital part of the physical relationship shared between them. If any of them senses being ignored throughout the day, then the things may not turn out beautifully during making of love. But generally as both the Cancer man and woman are humble such issues does not exists for a long time and they generally share a very warm and deep physical relation which not only brings them physically close but also strengthens their bond of attachment and provides them emotional security.

Generally a Cancer man and Cancer woman go very well with each other. They both sympathize one another finely and also appreciate each other’s sense of humor. Their beautiful imaginations bring bright colors to their lives and keep them intact with their mate. But at times they may have some problems when one of them goes through a bad mood swing or becomes dominating and possessive about the other. There may be times when some kind of uncertainties prevail in the Cancer relationship and result in some sensitive tears for both. They should try to avoid any kind of secrecy in their relationship to maintain the trust. And since they know each other well, they usually cope up with the bad days to bring the laughter and security back to each other.

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  1. Reece July 31st, 2022

    These Cancer women are Lowlifes Attention seeking mofos. They want is Attention they don’t care who they get them from and also they are dumb as pile of rock. They are controlled by emotions

    • Jasmine November 11th, 2022

      Damn who hurt you lmaooooooo

    • Tds April 16th, 2023

      Wow that’s harsh

      • Batman April 21st, 2023

        I am a cancer man and I love all cancers specially the female version of us. if you love her, you would give her more than her needs of attention, I mean why not?!

    • Heather Robinson October 8th, 2023

      You are a real jerk. I’m a cancer woman and I am not dumb. Keep your opinions to yourself.

    • Reece October 13th, 2023

      Yes you are and you know it don’t fight it. That’s the way you’re created.

      • Cancerian December 10th, 2023

        Lol ” way you are created” then you just menitoned your self twice.

  2. Quest June 20th, 2022

    She may not want to leave you, but she doesn’t want you either. And by that I mean, if she wanted you solely for you you wouldn’t have these issues. I cancer is a cancer is a cancer and there’s no getting around that. And, understanding just how a cancer acts when they feel loved / you will get the love that she deserves. So now you need to make a choice if what you’re getting is enough for you or will you continue to give her what she wants while she continues to search for what she needs..

  3. Amis Reece March 31st, 2022

    I’m a Cancer man dating a Cancer woman. I’m similar to all other Cancer men: Shyness, Hopeless Romantic, Super Moody, Insecure Introverted( interested in building deep connections with few friends I have. I met this Cancer girl we bonded to fast, we love and understand each other, we are both super clingy with each other. She deeply cares about me and assures me she loves me. I was willing to give her 100% commitment. Until I realised she has lots of male friends and gives them same attention she give me which is a huge turnoff for me. I was really insecure. I would get mad jealous when I see her in the midst of 3-4 men talking with them. I started giving her cold attitude because I taught she’s meant to understand but she didn’t. I had to tell her one day and let her know. She said she would change for me. The next day I went to her workplace I saw her with another guy. I walk past as if nothing happened she noticed and called me to explain but I wasn’t interested. I was just down and insecure because I really love her and put her in my future plans. To stop my insecurities I had to put her off my mind and just treat her has a friend cuz I don’t want to get hurt

    • Han May 24th, 2022

      Maybe you need to talk to her, she probably loves talking. And even does it for a job or living too. Maybe the only way to be with her or deeply connect with her is to talk.

      • Amis Reece May 27th, 2022

        I did talk to her though. But what I figured out is that all she wants is attention instead of Connection and she’s willing to get it from anyone. I’m just fed up. Told her I’m not interested but she doesn’t want to leave me

    • Aria Tnai Cote June 29th, 2023

      I understand where you’re coming from I had the same issue. I’m a cancer woman that was dating a cancer man. I was head over heels for him and it was nothing I wouldn’t do for him and one day he cheated. I just separated myself from the equation. Now I don’t even communicate with him anymore because in relationships we forget about ourselves and become consumed in are relationship.. I wasn’t upset with him, but I don’t respect him and I just felted he’s probably wasn’t meant to be in my life. Crazy thing I still miss him deeply. But as a cancer I know I did everything I could to make him happy and don’t look at it as a bad thing; look at it as a stepping stone into your next relationship. It’s someone out there for you. You did the right thing.

      • Amis September 5th, 2023

        Thank You so much. I’ve moved on with my life. Trying to be a better man for my next relationship.

  4. LaRueski March 8th, 2022

    I am a cancer woman who dated a cancer man for the first time recently. The connection started strong and passionate. We shared mutual philosophies on love, life, friendships and business. But as fast as it started it went bad, I couldn’t handle his first mood swing as it threw me completely off guard. I didn’t react or address it and maybe that’s what I did wrong. Unfortunately, his mood swing affected my everything with him afterwards and I retreated back into my shell. I am stubborn to a fault. As much as I want to talk it through and try to fix it my pride won’t let me. I feel like he is worth the work but I just can’t let my guard back down so I ghosted him smh

  5. Angelbaby1 February 23rd, 2022

    I am a Cancer woman who had a very drawn out relationship with a cancer man. 11 years. We were high school sweethearts and spent most of our moments outside of school on the phone talking. We went through lots of growing pains as most humans do. Overall he was a perfect lover. Very emotional and compassionate. Very willing to explore and make things interesting in the bedroom. He was a hopeless romantic. Always buying gifts, giving me money, taking me on beautiful dates that stimulated my senses. I would say he was very insecure though. We never got engaged because he never felt financially secure enough to provide. I’m also a Sagittarius rising and have a very smart mouth and a quick temper. We still will chat every blue moon but he’s moved on since and I have too. But I have never felt the same bond of trust or friendship since with any other guy.

  6. Alvina October 28th, 2021

    I met my cancerian man we share the same birthdate 22nd of July, I don’t know how to describe my life at this point but ever since this man entered my life everything changed for the better, he knows me inside and out we clicked since day one, we shared the same interest as children and we share the same interest as grown ups this merely sounds impossible but it’s true. When I talk about it the sound comes across as a comic book but this is real life this is my actual life at this stage, yes we have our off days but that is something we sort out easily because we are so much alike, it’s like we were twins in another lifetime.

  7. Ardis October 2nd, 2021

    I am a cancer women who just met a cancer man I can’t relate to the insecurities that’s something I’m not and I never feared rejection, always confident but to no avail we get along so well looking forward to see where this is going.

  8. Nicegistblog July 27th, 2021

    I’m a cancer man. The sense of insecurity has left me single for a long time. I’m always afraid to approach my crush even when the affection is high. I keep having feelings that my request could be turned down.
    But everly, its not like been on top of a high horse, cancer zodiac sign is very influential.

    • Sara August 15th, 2021

      Cancer female here, we also have insecurities and fear rejection but if you give yourself a little courage to make a move and let someone get to know you, you might find someone who keeps you on your toes with love.

  9. Keita Garrison July 6th, 2021

    I am a Cancer woman dating a Cancer man. I absolutely adore the way he support, understand, and cares for me. Our communication between one another always starts and ends with laughing. We both have the will to learn and share knowledge with each other. We will always have a great friendship.

  10. James January 19th, 2021

    I’m a Cancer man and I remember only one Cancer woman that I’ve dated [the others who’s signs I remember have been 2x Aquarians (who saved me from deep depression), Capricorn (my first and strongest love), Scorpio (almost just a physical relationship with less friendship), and Sagittarius (who I married)]
    The Cancer I dated was charming, hip, and strikingly beautiful, we only had a few dates together but I had my fantasies of more, by accident she became one of only two women to have met my father and not just my step-father.
    The last time I saw her was at a mutual friend’s party, I could speak to her briefly as a man was with her who stayed close to her side and stated daggers at me all night (in retrospect he could’ve been her brother, they looked enough alike), she looked sad that night and I never saw her again as shortly afterwards she took her own life.
    I mourn her still.

    • Emma March 6th, 2021

      How sad… seemed like you really liked her..

    • Megan July 29th, 2021

      I know you don’t know me, I know this won’t make much sense… But I’ve googled cancer man cancer woman a hundred times before and never read this link..It was the very first option when I typed in my birthday and a cancer man I met tonight’s birthday… I did it for giggles to reread that we wouldn’t match… The article struck perfectly to how I felt and your comment was the first I read… I suppose it’s easiest to admit the most hidden self truths via words to a complete stranger so here goes; even as vague the description be, you easily could have wrote about me and it broke my heart… The most striking cancer woman always seem to adorn wide sad eyes and a bright smile… In the most unbeknownst way imaginable you sharing the memory of her reminded me to hang on through the sadness a little longer… To be more than a memory… Just wanted to say thanks and I hope you never forget her 🖤 also the only cancer man I’ve ever loved (it’s not easy loving someone just like you) was named James lol its the little things… Be well 🖤

  11. Elizabeth Durbin November 26th, 2020

    I am a cancer woman who has been dating a cancer man for a year and we are planning to marry soon. His wife passed 3 years ago and I have been divorced for 7 years. We met in church, he is a retired engineer. I have always worked from home. He is the most generous and understanding man I’ve ever met. We both have grown children, I am 70 & he is 71. We feel like teenagers again! We have so much in common and I can’t imagine ever being with anyone else. I hope God blesses us with long healthy lives.
    We have such love and respect for each other. I love letting him be the strong man for I am very domestic and love home life. He makes me feel secure and safe and God will always be first in our marriage.

  12. Maryann October 18th, 2020

    I have being with a cancer man close to 2 years now, it’s being wonderful but he is to insecure, things must be done his way if not no other way, he wants you to push him and encourage him but he cant do same for me, he leaves me to do all on my own and says if he does some certain things for me, it kills his integrity towards me, I mean tdf. What of my own integrity? He just wants me to be his slave love. I am also a cancer woman. Being with this particular cancer man has been difficult maybe because he is the last born in this family. The other cancer men I have been with were first born sons and they were more than awesome.

  13. Maxipaci3 June 8th, 2020

    I am a cancer woman with a cancer man of10 years As he’s constantly full of promises. He is insecure. Angry and aggressive. If I say something he doesn’t like I get a tirade of abuse and he doesn’t speak to me for days. Our relationship is over for me and I shall never go with a cancer man again. They are way too sensitive for me. Bad match in my experience

    • Jah July 7th, 2020

      Wow I am sorry you’re going through that, I am too something similar, but we are trying to work it out. We been together 10 years, tomorrow is our mutual birthday & wedding anniversary. He has already told me he didn’t get me anything, which hurts because he used to be so caring. Tired of the anger, sensitivity & drama like you said… But we still love each other & have a Capricorn daughter. Wish us luck!

    • Anthony Smith December 4th, 2020

      Seems like you’re lumping all cancer men into one bucket because of this singular experience. That’s unfair.

      Sure, I can understand being hurt, however the thought process you’re using if applied to riding in a vehicle equates to, if I were in auto accident, I’d never ride in another car again.

      Learn from the experience, while applying a pragmatic approach to the next situation.

      Zodiac signs are not the arbiter of an individual’s complete persona. Past trauma(s) play a more significant factor than a zodiac sign.

  14. Ethan December 14th, 2019

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  15. Brittany Harris November 30th, 2019

    I’m a Cancer woman who is in love with a Cancer man. He makes me feel wanted and loved. I always thought it would be a problem dating a Cancer man because I’m so use to dating Pisces men, but a Cancer man is a keeper

  16. Mookie October 10th, 2019

    I’m a Cancer woman who has a crush on a Cancer man, and I believe the feeling is very much MUTUAL, but he’s super shy, stubborn, and “proud” to admit it. First time dealing with a Cancer male. Any tips?? Thank you.

    • Eddie October 12th, 2019

      As a Cancer male myself, his shyness may likely come from being burned by a recent relationship that has made him appear on the outside somewhat aloof. Let him know how you feel, hold his hand, smile and offer him a long hug and watch that aloofness melt.

    • DeWannda Sayles April 14th, 2020

      I hope things have furthered in ur friendship. If u feel it it’s there. If u 2 remain friends things should progress naturally. The bond between 2 Cancers is sooooo strong.

  17. Oxygen July 23rd, 2019

    These two same signs are very attracted to each other .
    Very good looking male and female with the same good heart. But, sometimes it takes sparks which one will have to provide.If the two ignites at first sight.
    They will have a long lasting charismatic flame.

  18. GLORY AMAKA October 20th, 2018

    it took me time to undertstand him but now i love my can cer man wit all my being and am sure he feels exactly the same way. i have never feel so complete in my life till now. every cancer woman should get herself a cancer man. at first their will be challenges but u will find the best love of ur life in him once he begins to open up

  19. June October 4th, 2018

    I’m a Cancerian female who has fallen for a Cancerian male and it feels so good after all the profound sadness I have previously experienced, very early days….

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  20. Telly July 12th, 2018

    16 years now together…
    He is a Cancer man JUNE.30th. and I too am a Cancer woman JUNE.30th.
    Same birthdate…very rare i think. But neat. And also we have a little one.

    • tynia July 21st, 2018

      omg how does it work out? im june 22 my bf is june 21

      • Telly pruitt July 25th, 2018

        Alot of effort, compromise from both, and LOYALTY.
        I think relationships is the hardest hurdle in life.
        But very blessed to have him.
        I was 24.he was 30 I am 40.he is 46

    • Desiree May 30th, 2019

      My Birthday Is July 11 And The Guy I’m Talking To (Our Relationship Right Now Is Complicated, We Act Like A Couple But We’re Not And He Has Confessed That He Likes Me) Also Has July 11th As His Birthday

    • Julie September 17th, 2019

      My cancer man and I are both 7/7 Cancer.

  21. cwab February 16th, 2018

    i wuv fellow cwabby

  22. Loo October 26th, 2017

    Ek is verlief op n cancer man en ek is n cancer girl…ons het al 3 jaar wat ons saam tyd spandeer en ek het lief vur hom geword… hy is als wat ek wil he… maar hy is getroud

  23. Nikki October 12th, 2017

    I met a guy at work and he’s a cancer. We still work at the same building. He said he’s been wanting to talk to me since he first met me:) And when I first worked there I honestly thought he was cute.. & I would get soo nervous to even speak to him. long story short. We ended up talking more, we were hanging out, and we have so much in common. I feel so happy with him. And he makes me laugh! We are taking it slow but it sure feels good;D

  24. Seveneleven September 11th, 2017

    I a Cancer woman and a guy who I went to school with finally told me that He has always had a thing for me. But he didnt think I was interested. Without knowing that it was always something about him that was in my heart. Long story Short. He is a Cancer Man and its like instant love etc. Im in love with me!!! CancersRock!!!

  25. Vizo July 9th, 2017

    Im a cancer man in love with a cancer woman. Im planning to give a try..

    • mannat October 22nd, 2017

      its gonna b a hard one.. I am a cancer woman.. take it slow boy.. she will like it that way

  26. Bill July 4th, 2017

    Been dating about a year , both are cancers . She married a cancer but divorce in five years later. I just wondering if she could fall in love with another cancer. I am older at 73 she 67 . Both has homes separate by 22 miles apart. She likes her space too.

  27. Niasia July 1st, 2017

    My babe Is July 8 im the 18th. Im older than him, but he treats me like no other. Im not scared to invest time and help him succeed cause he had my back 100%. This is my second cancer relationship and honestly June cancers are a little harsher and self absorbed. I don’t need a competing partner, I need someone who will be my partner. And I found him. Good luck guys

  28. Lena June 20th, 2017

    My cancer man and I, 18th and 20th, waited 10 years to be together. He started drugs and then another woman who provided the drugs 10 years younger. He violated his probation and now serving jail time. He is the love of my life and I have not gotten over him yet. A tragedy occurred, my heart is broken.

  29. Bettie June 13th, 2017

    I have met a Cancer man; we have not been out on a date yet, because he works a lot. We did go to the park and he was such a gentlemen. He did tell me that he like me and wanted me to know that. I praying that all will go well between us..

  30. Amber May 17th, 2017

    I am a cancer woman July 14 dating a cancer man July 19. What they say about cancer compatibility is so true, my cancer man showers me with sweet texts,compliments, and is the sweetest man I have ever dated.

  31. cancer mate April 22nd, 2017

    I’m a cancer woman and I’m currently dating a cancer man and exactly what it says there about them is so true. he showers me with praises and always willing and ready to please me. In fact we share the same birth date .

    • Telly pruitt July 12th, 2018

      Hello..i was just curious how long have you been in the relationship?

      Cause 16 years is how long ive been in mine,
      I too am a cancer woman with cancer man with the same birthdate.

  32. Kalina February 6th, 2017

    I was dating a cancer man for a month and he told me he was in love with me and obsessed! He had gotten us a place for the 1st of March and said he could see us together forever. ..from one day saying he was in love with me, to the next day breaking up with me … saying he spoke to his counselor and sponsor and they said it was unhealthy how fast he was moving. He won’t even speak to me and blocked me on Facebook! I’m left sad and confused … I had never felt so close to any man in my entire life ?

    • MAD WORD April 3rd, 2017

      I’m a cancer man and I’m 99% sure this is what happened….. He was in love with a woman but she wasn’t ready to commit at the time and they separated. She decided she now wants to be with him(probably not for long) and he went back to her. He gave you a bullshit excuse because he didn’t want to hurt your feelings. I think this because I’ve done this to women more than once but now the Off and on waste of time relationship is over and I regret the way I treated the women who loved me because the one who didn’t got what she never deserved.

    • Jenn April 12th, 2017

      Same exact thing happened to me. Was wonderful one day, then shut completely out the next.

    • Damien June 24th, 2018

      Poor baby .. sorry he got to emotional

  33. MoonMoneyMonotony November 1st, 2016

    I love and adore my Cancer man. He’s not just my soulmate, he’s my best friend. I’ve never loved anyone so much or so deeply. No one has ever had my back like him.

  34. Doublecancer July 18th, 2016

    I’m Dave July 11 my wife of 10 years July. She is 5he greatest thing that ever happened to me.I’m so into her were I wish we could share the same body and our spirit becomes one.I have met my mate for life and if I could give up everything to turn the clock back I would,all  the material and families. I would give it back I even wish we could be bury in the same casket. If she passes on first I will lose all will to live.I wouldn’t commit suicide but I DON’T want to live without her.She is the love of my life The light of our marriage and Even the light at the end of the tunnel. With just one creator in my heart she stands beside the creator!

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  36. aquia123 March 1st, 2016

    @aquia123 Greetings I’m sorry 😀 

  37. aquia123 March 1st, 2016

    Greating Cancer lovers 🙂 i am a cancer woman age of 18 and i know its a little young to actually feel as if you love someone. I always felt it was something wrong with me because time and time i think alot about my future and the dream man. I’m full aware of the diffrent personalities and mood swings that the other lover may have. Recently i connect with a Cancer who i didnt realize was a cancer until some time now (DONT JUDGE ME) me and him have real conversations and its not always about sex its serious real life conversation and at times i have to ask my self is he in my head but this cancer is a little diffrent. He looks like the Instagram famous type of men, with women throwing there self at him, and little old me is a beautiful girl but im not Angelina Jolie or Nicki Minaj. Our relationship dont feel steady and its not even a relationship, basically hes my partner Emotionally but i want it to be Phisically i really adore him. I also have my head on my shoulders i work a goverment job and things are really looking nice my me i just wish he would ask me. The problem i do have is im slight territorial but i dont show that side and hes not constant with communication i refuse to double text or call someone. i just really want him to see the big picture our conncection is already strong we sit and talk for hours and not even feel that erge to want to have sex and etc. If you know who partynextdoor is then you can use him as an example of his lifestyle. hes known for the night life. 

  38. TammimB January 8th, 2016

    @lilliepowell Well I’m a cancer man and I think I know what you’re going through but not in a romantic way. See I have a sagittarius little brother and best friend. See I’ve done some research and well sagittariuses are always confused about cancers like us because we’re so random.See Im more wild and adventurous then them. Like I show more compassion than them. I’m pretty sure youre husband loves you but he probably isn’t good at being compassionate towards you 

  39. Aly720 October 1st, 2015

    @eric607 Im a cancer woman and my ex is also an aries, the worse years of my life was when I was with him, he messed me up mentally, so I hear u and feel your pain lol hope u find you cancer woman soon, good luck

  40. TeaRose0 September 24th, 2015

    I am a Cancer woman with a Sagittarius moon, my boyfriend is a Cancer man with a Cancer moon. Instantly I was attracted to his romantic, chivalrous nature, it was very easy to fall in love and from the beginning there was this cozy bubble of security and understanding that follows us everywhere. Communication is easy, fun even. Word games, innuendos, a way of speaking that is our own. Mutually knowing when to say nothing at all and just sitting together is blissful understanding. Sharing an intense love for music, in our more melancholy moods we can communicate through music. I wouldn’t say that we tell each other every detail of our lives but I would say there is zero secrecy. Which makes trust a very natural, and organic experience that is in and of itself very rewarding. It’s very true about security. Sharing ideas for the future and making goals is an everyday part of life for us. Everything from building our own home in the future, to opening or own business, to where we want to retire when we get old. I never question his love or loyalty. I feel it in every fiber of my being and I hope that he feels the same. I’ve never felt more compatible or safe with anyone. 

  41. eric607 August 23rd, 2015

    Well Cancer woman wish you were my woman.  I deffinately know how to show my emotional affection.  You aren’t being selfish to want an emotional connection with the one you sleep with every night.  Look at that a little more in that way a rational way.  It’s hard for fire and water signs to communicate on an emotional level.  They don’t communicate like us.  One of my ex’s was an Aries.  She was the worst for me emotionally.  I haven’t dated any fire signs after here.   even get a long with a changeable air sign much better.  At least they are willing to listen and change their ways to try to understand you.

  42. sthem April 3rd, 2015

    What I read its so true, I am involve with cancer man and I am cancer what I find very strange I always fall in love with cancer man are there any possibities that cancer attract other cancer if that so its owesome neh

  43. sthem April 3rd, 2015

    What I read its so true, I am involve with cancer man and I am cancer what I find very strange I always fall in love with cancer man are there any possibities that cancer attract other cancer if that so its owesome neh

    • Pri October 20th, 2018

      I m a cancer lady…had met a cancer man, felt so comfortable as colleagues n each time got impressed by him….but I missed him out as I did not carry it more than friendship….

  44. wicancer November 1st, 2014

    Hi, I realize this is an old post but it spoke to me so much that I created an account just to respond.  I was feeling the exact same as you do and going through the exact same cycles with my ex-leo-man for 2 years. We would argue so much that outsiders would question why we were even together. Everything after the first year seemed to go gradually downhill but I loved him and knew he loved me….so that was enough to always re-kindle and take to heart the “I promise to work on things” every few weeks it came down to that again. I too felt as though I was being selfish or wanting too much but finally realized that I wasnt asking for much (we had a very comfortable lifestyle material-wise) but his affections and to be treated t as a priority…to be heard and comforted instead of feeling ignored and left behind. Whenever I’d try to talk to him and tell him how I was feeling his defenses would go up as he thought I was attacking him (though that wasn’t the case at all). I couldnt understand why my feelings seemed to not much matter to him and when I would ask for more sensativity, he would pull further away…both of us raising voices and no one ending up happy. Over and over again this happened. We weren’t married (although he asked a couple times, just as a non-chilant….we should just get married, not real proposal & usually just after  a fight) so I can understand how our situations differ but my honest opinion is that it’s never going to change. We as cancers are very emotional/sensative people and in turn can show that empathy and support to others instinctively but if we are the ones in need and aren’t shown this support by our parter….watch out. Some men have that way of comforting and some just dont…and I think it helps if he is a sign that has that tender intuition which by the sounds, unfortunatly he’s not. On that note, the dating world is tough…I want more than anything to be settled but I am personally not willing to settle for a life like my ex-leo and I had. Just too stressful. Never up until recently understood the saying “sometimes love just isn’t enough”…but now @ 34 years old it makes all too much sense. I’ve recently been getting to know a fellow male cancer and he too has read in depth into astrological love compatability (something my leo-ex would’ve scuffed at) and as it’s way too early to tell if this man and I will go anywhere in the future, it’s given me sort of a validated feeling to know that he not only considered this thought as I had brought it to topic but he was on the same page- agreeing and contributing his thoughts…. tells me that life can be so much easier with a partner who is understanding of me as an idividual and how I view the world. Hope things are better by you and that maybe some of this helped… at least in not feeling as though you are the only one feeling this way. 

  45. carlos1969-westine October 5th, 2014

    A Cancer Man who knows a Cancer Woman… Both born June 24th… And you know what? I wonder!

  46. carlos1969-westine October 5th, 2014

    I’m Also a Cancer Man… Born June 24th and I know a Cancer Women… Also born June 24… And you know what? I wonder!

  47. RimaniAmor June 6th, 2014

    My cancer man and I enjoy eachothers conpany and thoughts . We love talking and expressing and listening to eachother’s stories , we disagree often though and bud heads . But we always make up afterwards . Our connection and attraction was imminent since we firsr became friends , now we cant stand to be away from eachother . He’s a great guy , very honest , romantic , and understanding . We both have our crazy mood swings , with extreme tempers , but he knows how to get me calm and keep me that way . We genuinely love eachother and he lets it be known often , plus the sex is great 😉 its like we just ‘click’ 

  48. ebabsy November 16th, 2013

    @cancer-man good for you! I am a cancer woman, and I think what you’ve said is so sweet. You’re a very lucky man. Love her with all your might 🙂

  49. ebabsy November 16th, 2013

    This is true! But sometimes, the cancer man can be selfish. Only thinking of himself. Cancer-cancer relationship can work if both people are ready to love each other regardless and willing to forgive any wrong doing.

  50. oracleadvisor October 21st, 2013

    Well depends on how the cancer man feels for I I’m considered very romantic . But some are considered “nonshells” or broken cancers that been through so much they change who they are thus making them lack their respect for women

  51. lilliepowell August 28th, 2013

    Hey, I am a cancer women married to a sagittarius man.
    I love him dearly and have about 99 pecent of what any women would want. Home car etc, but I am often left to be lonly and blue.
    There is no spark in our relationship, no passion. We have never truly made “LOVE” emtionally I mean.
    at least one week a month (during my cycle) I can not stand the  empty feeling and the loniness any more.
    I cry and get really mad. We do the same dance as always and then we get over it and begain a gain. Him promising to “work on it” and me saying to my self “I am selfish”
    Sometimes I feel like a part of me is dying and the other times  I think have so little to complain about ateast he loves me and is faithful.  
    He can spend hours on the computer  or watching Televison whle I talk to friends on the phone. I would prefer to spend time with him. He is a kind and good man I love him very much.
    any words of advice?

    • Carla October 8th, 2019

      I too was married to Sag and he was everything any women would want as far as being a provider and being faithful. However, he was not affectionate at all!!!!!
      I finally did the unthinkable and left; I’m now with a cancer man and my love life is the absolute best!

      • Telly pruitt October 8th, 2019

        I am a Cancer woman with a Cancer man…. (Same birthday even) for going on 17 years. We had a baby girl, 15 years ago today as a matter a fact. She is amazing and has a good heart.
        My Cancer man is very manly and also loyal. That alone stands on it’s own.
        Being loyal is simply rare to find.
        I personally think relationships is the hardest hurdle in life and keeping it together is even harder. I just want to say that no matter what their is pros and cons in every relationship. Their is not one that will be perfect period. No one is perfect. But if you are lucky to come across one that happens to be special or different from the rest, then be thankful cause you are blessed to be able to have that expieriance that some never get.
        And try to give it your all. That’s love.

  52. cancer-man November 11th, 2012

    iam acancer man and i love acancer woman ..that is so true i cannot describe how we understand each other or how deeply we commuincate ..we  talk for hours without feeling bored ..her sensitivity and big heart are amazing .the love and compassion in her heart can fill the whole world  ….    she is so beautiful and feminine         i love my cancer woman so much …i had arelationships with many cancer women and sure they are different but i didnot love any one like i love my wifethey are always so beautiful ,sweet ,sensitive and  visual creaturesi found my dream woman now it is your time to do 

  53. bk478 September 11th, 2012

    U can find a cancer man easily

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  56. ronda April 6th, 2011

    I honestly would love a cancer man to be as you described. I have run into cancer men that don’t know what they want, are sadly careless, and don’t Know how to treat a woman. That does not mean all cancer men are like this I have met some good ones but, seeing how I am a cancer myself I know how difficult they are. Either way I love all the zodiacs.

  57. rajendrassr March 1st, 2011

    It’s really amazing prediction

  58. Oz April 29th, 2010

    I wish this could be true for the Cancer boy I’ve been in love with. He’s one of my good friends, and we’re both so alike. We even share the same birthday. But he’s got a seriously steady girlfriend. It hurts so much, I want nothing more than to be with him, but I don’t want to ruin our friendship or his relationship, because he’s so in love with her.

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