When the Cancer and Sagittarius connect their Water and Fire, they make a rather confusing combination. Although it has the potential to be very stimulating association if they both are ready to accept each other for who you are. There are many things that they can learn from one another, but only strength of love can make that happen.
A Cancer man is highly valued by people for his subtle and compassionate nature. He never harms anyone intentionally and is himself cautious enough to keep away from all kinds of harms. He is true gentleman who never endorses hypocrisy. He is a determined person with the capability to work even in worst of conditions and get appreciable results. In love with a Sagittarius woman, he can make a lot of sacrifices, just in order to please her. He adores her fun loving nature and is always there with her to participate in all her adventures.
A Sagittarius woman is a very independent woman with a particular charm and an outspoken nature. She respects her individuality and hates to be dictated. There are also some Sagittarius women who are inquisitive in nature and go for something without judging the pros and cons. She always falls in love with an intense passion towards her Cancer man. She makes him feel spirited and loved. Though her blunt comments may sometimes hurt him, but generally she is a fun to be with.
Sagittarius woman is swift, easy-going and up to the mark to live up the expectations of a Cancer man. She appreciates him for showing her the right path as she has the tendency of being reckless but hates being dominated. With time she will also begin to respect him for his cautious and insightful nature. But the extravagant nature of the Sagittarius female can make him extremely nervous. This can result in heated arguments which hurt the tender heart of the Cancer male deeply. However, as soon as she realizes her mistake, she apologizes for it making him, once again the same jolly and loving person.
A Cancer man is one person who makes the Sagittarius woman regain her faith in love which was earlier lost due to her association with other less sensitive men. The presence of him makes her feel secure. The way he keeps her guessing about his feelings and changing moods with a flavor of secrecy is exciting for her. He also admires her for being very courageous and straight forward unlike the women who just try to pretend things. He might get a bit stingy in eyes of his Sagittarius lady, but he makes it up by loving her passionately. Although, he might not be the picture perfect of Sagittarius girl’s dreams, but he surely impress her with his quiet gait. There may be times when she feels suffocated under the dictated guidance of her Cancer guy and needs to release herself as she hates being lead. To avoid such situations he needs to be more tender than direct and more advising then ordering.
When the Sagittarius woman and Cancer man are ready to surrender each other in the eternity of love, they get the divine feeling of unison which melts away all the ego and problems. With the warmth of Fire and the coolness of Water their home is a blend of peace and passion at the same time where laughter and happiness prevails to be never separated from their forms. As he accepts the out spoken nature of Sagittarius woman and uses her comments to improve things around, she too becomes softer and stable with the tenderness offered by him. There is always a harmony in their discussions and understanding in their actions. With such timeless love they keep on living their life with vehemence of ultimate submission and oneness forever.
When the Fire and Water make their way to intimate relationship, there is warmth that is blessed with power of sensuality and passion between the Cancer man and Sagittarius woman. The sexual chemistry between them is very intoxicating. The desires possessed by the Sagittarius female are quite fiery, he loves her passion and she likes the gentle approaches of him. He adds to the sensitive style of love making while she adds a lot of fun to their oneness. He leads her to sensuality and enchantment which has a dream like quality. The sexual expression between them can be a strong and fulfilling experience. He watches with tremendous delight, and envy, as her fingers trace little circles across the silk, slowly making their way to his body. This makes him feel so excited, so aroused. At the same time she is lost in her next fantasy and her heart pounds just at the thought of doing it. Her legs even feel a bit weak, a bit wobbly. But her Cancer man gets even more thrilled at this sight. It brings him considerable pleasure to fondle, caress, and explore her body. She feels that there is something so delicately delicious about a tender sweet touch of his hands, exploring her candy-coated curves, flirting with her to open up her luscious treasures.
As the fiery Sagittarius woman and cool Cancer man gets into close relationship with each other, they have to cross some bridges to make their relationship efficiently working. Though the cheerfulness, logical approach and optimism of Sagittarius woman vitalize the Cancer soul of her beloved man but he cannot stand her extravagance and carelessness. On the other hand, no doubt that he is one of a kind tender lover who enriches the soul of his lady love with warmth and affection but she get disturbed by his melancholy and possessiveness. To resolve the issues both need to be more patient and deal maturely with the different qualities they possess. With the passage of time, he appreciates her for showcasing her courage, and this helps them to instill a lot of faith in each other.
I was travelling to a different city in a bus when this gentleman came to sit next to me 7months ago.
When he first came in, I didn’t notice him much. He didn’t possess the physical features my eyes are mostly drawn into. So it was just like sitting next to any other stranger.
During this 3hour long trip, we started conversing about general things, each person’s life, we were just blabbing right through. We laughed throughout the trip, so much that we even lost track of time and the distance felt shorter. For me that wasn’t taboo, as a Sag it comes natural to meet a random stranger and converse as if we met years ago.
BUT! What caught my attention was how attentive he was, no matter how long I spoke. Because my stress levels were pretty high that day, so I offloaded without even realising how long I spoke, until my sanity hit back and I realized I’ve been talking for almost an hour and he was still there, listening, attentively and advising at the same time. For me this was rare. (1st point)
(2nd point) I know it sounds crazy but that very first day as our trip progressed, I felt a change in nergy. I felt so much inner peace and so much harmony while conversing. I remember the bus stopped somewhere to buy some snacks and people were complimenting us “as a couple”, and we didn’t even know each other’s names, we obviously weren’t a couple and didn’t even bother with introduction 😂
He asked for my contacts when he reached his destination cause I was still gonna travel further and it was getting late. He said he just wanted to hear that I reached my destination safely too. After he jumped off the bus, I literally felt as if a piece of me was missing. It felt as if he took a piece of me with him. It felt weird and emotional. It didn’t make any sense. I didn’t have his contacts so I was like ” whatever this weird-intense feeling is, it will pass. I need no man next to me. I’m very busy and dating is a pandemic anyway”.
He tried to check up on me an hour later, my battery was low, following day my phone was freezing, I couldn’t take any calls. I’m sure he thought I was ignoring him. During that time period I missed him every second of the day. I didn’t even know how I could miss a total stranger, but the feeling was there and intense. He only managed to successfully reach me, again for the first time, 2 weeks later after our trip. We have been inseparable since then. We spent 4months talking everyday over the phone, and met again in person 2 months ago for a week since we stay a bit far apart from each other.
He is a CANCER MALE, Our relationship so long is so harmonious, we’ve never fought even once, there was never a reason for us to fight. I’ve never cheated in any of the relationships I’ve had in the past, I know I’ll never cheat on him. He is very kind, he softens my tongue, my tongue is not as sharp as Sags are known for that flaw. I think as a mutable sign I’ve adapted to his way of talking, presenting my concerns softly cause he is a soft person. It’s true that they find it hard to open up, I feel him when he is not okay even at work and advise him to talk when he feels ready and comfortable, without being pushy, then he would just open up about his day at work and what not and I’d advise and comfort him to the best of my ability.
My work contract ended sometime 2months ago, he asked me to come spend sometime with him while searching for new opportunity, I came beginning of last month, and we’ve been living full-time together for a month and a half harmoniously. I know I’ll get to work again sometime soon and move to a different city, or get a job around if lucky. I hope when I move out he won’t be hurt. But we will communicate. He always ask me not to spend from my pocket but I still find myself buying when something is finished in the house, I love my independency I can’t help it. I love that he advised me and not dictate me. I have learnt so much from him, interms of saving and now that I’m I’ve fallen in love with him, I love his body features, he is the sexiest man in my eyes, as thin as he is…🙈♥️🤣…So handsome, calm and disciplined 😍
I honestly don’t see myself with anyone else. I trust him 100% until he proves me wrong.
Everything written above in this article is on point.
May I ask is y’all still together. ?
I want to know, too!!
My Cancer man and I (Sagittarius) have been dating off and on for 2 years. The last breakup was the most painful from him to me. But we got back together and I told him he has to prove that he loves me or this is it. I’m tired of crying over him. So far so good…it’s the first time he’s spoken about really wanting a future with me. One day at a time, but it feels more secure this time. We will see.
Are you still going strong? My cancer man and I seem to be at this road junction now
i’m a sag woman in love with a cancer man we’ve been dating for 8 years now and every time i read about our signs most of the things are accurate it even shocks me sometimes cus it feels like i’m really reading about us for me he’s my one true love he’s imperfectly perfect for me💗💎
Question: Have you guys broken up and patched up again and continued the relationship?
Yes many times I’m a sag woman with my cancer man, we break up for like a day or two and he’s like a magnet, we both come back 😂🤷🏽♀️
I am a Sagittaruis women in Love with a cancer man. I see a lot of truths in what i am read about this combination. I will tell you one thing, that Fire and Water can be Steamy, Very Steamy.
I am a sagittarius woman in Love with a cancer man since 2017 And its 2021 now…..we were in rltnshp but due to certain reasons we broke up in 2018……but still I was in contact with him bcoz I love him alot…..I use to call him at least once a year….but till date we have never met coz we live in a long distance rltnshp……he also sometimes tries to contact me…..recently this year I again called him And this time (unlike other times) we have again started a regular conversation and for me as a sagittarius woman it is very difficult to understand a cancer Man……bruh he is very mysterious ….I can never understand his moods And intentions……sometimes I feel he is good by heart but his behaviour is very frustrating for me…he is too controlling And values his words More than mine…he takes my jokes seriously And complains that I am short tempered (yes I am)….so he joined his hands And said that we can never be together with this understanding,but I Love him alot….And I guess he too loves me….I will try to make things better…. Its just that I can’t see his efforts….lets hope for the best….I want to see him as my husband…coz I Love his presence in my life…..I Love everything in him…its just that our way of handling things is too different…😔💔..
Am a Sagittarius woman am in relationship with a Cancer man for 4yrs now, to be honest the zodiac reading for Sagittarius and Cancer in this passage are very accurate 👌.
Is that in a good way?
Im a cancer male in a relationship with a sagittarius woman for almost 3 years now. And for some reason most of what I read is pretty true. I didn’t expect it because I’m not really into Zodiac but I gotta say, it was quite accurate, and I love it.
Awesome
see im a Cancer man I know and understand Sagittarius women do not like to be told what to do and honestly who does? I definitely don’t . The thing I knotice and personally have experienced being in a relationship with a Sagittarius woman is like with what was my case she always took me as telling her what to do that was where she was nothing close to being correct . Never would I tell anyone what to do were all our own person it’s not our place now on the other hand we are giving advise from experience we have been through and found the outcome to be never good and only when we have had different ways we approaced the situation to make sure it’s the only outcome . This is the only way Cancer men will give advise is by knowing there’s no other outcome possible this being giving our learned experience we paid for handed over as a gift and for care of not wanting the Sagittarius woman to go through what he knows she will without his advise that he does this out of care and is a way of protecting her being he knows if she takes it on herself she will get the same bad outcome he had it’s a very good thing being done and nothing else but just the stubbornness and lack of depth with emotion the Sagittarius takes it as telling them what to do only to jump right into this only to find what outcome the cancer man tried giving advise to keep her from having to have is exactly what he told her it would be but Sagittarius woman doesn’t see still what the true reasons and the true event of being given advise but still as telling her what to do this never learning or realizing what all the cancer man put Into this and how much care this was only about and taken as they were being bossy and the Sagittarius woman only causing herself problems aw well as the Cancer man that never had to be anything but a walk in the park for the Sagittarius woman if she took the time to understand the Cancer mans intentions and depth of emotion only for what it is and it’s nothing but for the good never for what it’s taken as all the time that’s where Cancer men keep trying fighting for the Sagittarius women to in hopes see the true reasons behind there every intention for Sag but the Sag woman is stubborn and usally never sees this putting a bunch of unnecessary troubles on the Cancer man ending up pushing him away wearing him down all over taking the Cancer wrong as well as with anything with Cancer men if ever taken as anything other than them caring it’s being taken wrong that’s all a Cancer man is towards any others caring and protecting .
I’m a sag woman in a relationship now for 6 months with a cancer male and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. The balance between us is so harmonious. I relate a lot to what was written on this post. We’ve both surrendered to each other in love and our personalities compliment each other very well. There’s a mutual respect for our differences.
How do i know cancer man intention towards me he always bossy he make’s me question our relationship every single Time and brake up occurs more offten but deep inside I trust his kind person and we end up finding each others
Exactly me every f*ckin time….it’s difficult to understand cancer men…but we Love them so much🥺
I am from Cancer, and I met a girl recently from Sagittarius. The harmony between us was very great despite the difference in language and religion and the distance between us. I dreamed about my dream girl for long years, but I did not find her, when I found my girlfriend through social media. I found everything I dream about in her. She is a unique and loving woman, I melt like an ice when I saw the beauty of her eyes. We helped each other to be happy and we were planning to get married.
Wow congratulations Yusuf, how is the relationship now?
@JAMES 1) dont listen to these women they are delusional. run as fast as you can, my friend. I am a cancer with a lot of fire elements and know-how scorned fire signs play. U have to have a backbone for yourself and stand up and not put up with any of her crap… no offense, but she sounds like a trash person who doesn’t appreciate what she got. U have to leave her for her to learn her karmic lesson, in which her next partner will be 2x worse than how she treated you. That is the how the law of the universe works. Now its completely up to yu… but i will say run… her being double sag.. she has no remorse for her actions and clearly has not developed. Love does not exist in your relationship anymore, my friend. You are suffering from Stockholm syndrome.
She is right if you even act needy we run also we don’t like being told what to do we love life and having fun.
The Sagittarian woman I married gave me the happiest months of my life 27 to 28 years ago, and everytime she smiles at me I fall in love with her again, but more and more the near certain knowledge that she will never kiss me again breaks my heart and gives me tears, last night was an example, I brought home treats and roses for her and she screamed at me “I hate roses, why did you get roses?!”, and I answered “They were pretty and I thought they’d be nice on our wedding anniversary”, she got quiet, and said “Oh” and walked out of the room, a little later she came back into the room gave me a little hug and smile and said “Sorry I forgot, you know I’m not sentimental, next time get flowers without thorns”, and then she went back to her bedroom of nine years that I’ve never slept in – it’s just never been cold enough for her to want to share a bed with me anymore.
I thought the beauty of a rose made it worth the thorns, but I made a mistake last night, and maybe almost thirty years ago as well when I was blinded by beauty, sentimental fool that I am. Judging by her mother and my father I will die first, and I keep telling myself if she holds my hand again while I’m dying it will be worth it.
Will she?
– a Cancerian man
Beautiful Beautiful read. It makes me believe in true genuine love. I’m definitely sentimental so all Saggitarious women are NOT cold natured that way. If u really love her as I know u genuinely do…dont gv up on her
Awwww 🥰 don’t be too sad she will. Me being a saggitarius I’m telling u straight. The more u leech onto us the more we run away so I suggest u play cold get her curious to why ur not being so clingy then u will be fine.
Can I ask what happened in your relationship that has made you two sleep separately for nine years?! Who lost trust for who first? Something must have happened….I am a Sagittarius Woman and I know there must’ve been some boundaries crossed…..
@Lala,
After a still birth over 16 years ago my wife was clear she no longer wanted to be romantically “pestered” so no kisses since, her two subsequent pregnancies where from in vitro, after the first live birth when I went back to work since I had a 4AM wake up time (long commute and early starts as a construction worker) I started to sleep on the couch before work days so my alarm clock didn’t disturb her and she could get some extra precious sleep, but we still shared a bed on weekends, eventually she said I snored and “moved too much” that was the end of that, I slept on the couch for years. As long as it was just the couch I had hope we’d reunite, but then she decided that I should be in a separate bedroom and more of my delusions of hope were shattered.
As for boundaries she’s pretty clear that she doesn’t welcome my touch much but I still kiss her on the side of her head most days when I come home from work, frankly without that I’m not much interested in living, I need that much to keep pretending.
Back in September I was looking at her from the hallway into her bedroom (she’s still so beautiful), and then she yelled “Stop it, your harassing me”, I went to my bedroom, and started crying – a lot, after a couple hours she came in, saw my tears, and asked me what I was doing, I told her “I’m writing you a letter” (still never sent), she then gave me a half hug and said “Don’t worry I still love you”, and then she went back to her bedroom and closed the door.This last week she bitterly said “I’m going to outlive everyone including my children”, I had gone in to see the doctor because of some still unexplained and unplanned weight loss (30 lbs less than last year) but I hadn’t yet revealed that my last blood pressure test was high – really, really, really high, but I told her the next night, I then asked her to sit with me in my bedroom, she asked “Is it more bad news?”, I said “No, it’s planning”, she sat with me and asked “Are you going to cry?”, and I said “Probably”, I then said: “I’ve been thinking about what you said last night about outliving everyone, you’re a very beautiful woman, but you may not be later, if you want me to leave so you can get a younger, healthier man while you can I will”, she then said “No, I’ll take care of you, you’d do the same for me”, she then got up to leave, and I said “Well yes, but you have options”, in the doorway she shrugged her shoulders and left my room.
So that’s where we stand, she expects to die alone, and I expect to die lonely. This last month or so I’ve collected a half dozen books on astrology and read a lot on-line, as near as I can tell I’m a Gemini “Moon”, and she’s a Sagittarius Moon and Sun, I suppose the Gemini in me made me attractive enough to her long ago, but my Cancer Sun traits are really strong – frighteningly so. I think my wife still loves me (she said so!) but her “in-love” for me died years ago, let this be a cautionary tale, our Sun incompatibility became stronger than our Moon compatibility.
Awwwwwwwwww omg🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I don’t even know what to say James..tell her what you want and would like
@JAMES 1) dont listen to these women they are delusional. run as fast as you can, my friend. I am a cancer with a lot of fire elements and know-how scorned fire signs play. U have to have a backbone for yourself and stand up and not put up with any of her crap… no offense, but she sounds like a trash person who doesn’t appreciate what she got. U have to leave her for her to learn her karmic lesson, in which her next partner will be 2x worse than how she treated you. That is the how the law of the universe works. Now its completely up to yu… but i will say run… her being double sag.. she has no remorse for her actions and clearly has not developed. Love does not exist in your relationship anymore, my friend. You are suffering from Stockholm syndrome.
Hi James, I read your comment 2years back and it shook me to my core. Im q sag women inlove with with cancer man. I can relate to your wife. I think everything would have went the same way if I had not read your comment. In the beginning I told my cancerian bf not to get me flowers,i mean why get me something that will die or is dead already,at the end of the day I don’t want to have to throw it away.i left him to figure it out ,I knew exactly what I wanted but I just wanted him to figure it out. Lol this man bought me metal roses that these craftsmen make on the side of the road. His explanation ;it will live forever. Alternatively I started taking him to nurseries and showing him the different plants I like. And eventually told him, when you want to buy flowers,buy me something with roots,something that lives something useful or medicinal,something hardy. And that day he bought me an aloe vera plant. Man I love that thing,and I made it no secret. He’s clever now,he’s figured out I like unusual pretty stuff, stuff that I don’t have to keep watering. He’s bought me a curry leave tree. So now every time we fight or take a break,I think about him when I cook curry lol. I’ve realized ,I need to be more open and ask him upfront instead of making him guess. So i give him lil hints and make him interpret it. I used to be harsh but gosh there’s is something about cancerian men. They are one of the most special human beings out there,there’s none like them. On the room front, your wife sleeping in a separate room is not shocking to me. I told my bf when we are married ,we will have separate ensuites. I want him to have his own space like myself. I wanted a simimar relationship like roomates because it would keep things more exciting. But he told me that’s not what marriage is about and he doesn’t want our kids seeing this. I just don’t want snoring and farting becoming a thing ,although I absolutely do not mind it ,I want him to be free to do it, but I don’t want him to ever be repulsed by me,it’s sound childish but for me it’s a way of maintaining mystery. I see all these relationships crumbling because people have become too comfortable with eacother .And there would be plenty of times where we would sleep next to eachother but it would be more exciting. I have had many relationships, this is the one I would sacrifice the most for,people like this are God given treasures.dont ever compare cancerian men to other men. That would be the biggest mistake ever!!!!!There is not a day he has ever made me feel unloved,even when he has alittle he will give everything to me. Because of him I am more spiritual, I pray for his prosperity because I worry about his finances all the time. Sag women if you’re reading this,don’t take these men for granted show them respect and appreciation. If he’s giving you advice, listen with an open heart, don’t be stubborn. Many a times, he has given me advice and I took it as bull but it would play out like he says ,but I have never been such a proud person,I always come back and tell him you were right. So now I realized, let me give him the benefit of the doubt and save myself some trouble. I learnt to be more cautious and careful. I actually learned alot. On a side note James, I have treated him like this before,like a cold b*tch and it hurts me so deep when I sit and think about it.I am not sensitive or sentimental as I am used to being strong and brutal. Your wife loves you very much, I am sure of it,or she would have been long gone by now. But she is still there with you. Please keep us updated on how things are.
Same here I’m a Sag and his a Cancer. We have known each other 8years. We have been dating for 3 years. Our sex life is amazing something different all the time. Anyway alot of what is being said is true. He’s more dominanted and more protective over me. We love spending time together. I love shopping he doesn’t have a problem with it as long as the bills are paid. If i have a little to spend. I’ll make sure both of us have. Troy, don’t give up on her. Sit down and talk to her. Sagittarius woman are very stubborn. Hope everything works out
Im a cancer male 51 that married a sag woman 46. We dated 20 years ago and recently found each other again on FB. I all wondered what had happened to her. The love and sex life was just the way I remembered it. HOT!!!! We got married 2 months after our reunion. Its now going 6 months of marriage and I find the personality differences are causing major issues in our relationship. My kids are grown she has no children. I find my wife is just another child of mine. Money burns a hole in her pocket. Im trying to save for a rainy day. Due to the covid 19 she lost her job. All the finances are on my back. She doesn’t understand that her lifestyle has to stop but it doesn’t. It’s killing our relationship and im about to hand her those papers and get back to doing me.
It’s weird because I am a sag but I know my spending can get out of hand. And so I watch it closely.
Same🤣
I’m a sag woman and boy are we intense sometimes. I love spending money and when I read this, I really felt your heart. I just want to make sure your aren’t confusing Sagittarius with immature. There have been times where I couldn’t spend. I was admittedly quite sad but keeping my house in order was more important. It is unfortunate to see people that love each other and not work out. If she isn’t willing to communicate then you have no choice but to leave. However, if she truly loves you then you have to work it out. Why don’t you try a budget or allowance until she at least gets back to work? I promise we don’t mean any harm. We’re just explosive personalities.
lmao your comment has me crackling! but that shouldn’t be a reason to divorce! you have to communicate that to her and let her know she needs to slowwwwww it all the way down if she doesn’t get it than maybe reach a separation settlement? idk or money therapy lol but otherwise just let her know before surprising her with papers, not really fair you know.
I am a Sag woman in a very volatile relationship with a cancer man. I am very direct and sometimes brutally honest so anything I say can turn into a huge argument and his sensitivity, stubborness and unwillingness to apologise even for the greater good of the relationship means we can go weeks without speaking after a fight.
Not talking to each other is very depressing I was married 26yrs, we both are Sags but for any little things he use to stop talking for weeks and months. I felt emotionally abused and sad. Anyway marriage ended. (ending was very hard on me for 3+ yrs but I’m happy it ended) Now started dating a Cancer guy just one month back….Yet to see how it goes.
@Olivia… i am the same way or was with my sag ex boo. You should ask him for his birth info especially time and city. You’ll find your answers there… yes when we feel we are always right we do get very stubborn and mad! and wont listen and put up a big front!! he may have a lot of fire in his chart or earth depending on his passionate nature.. .but trust this he does love u because he’s still with you. Us cancers will walk out of a potential the minute problems arise because we don’t have time for the bs. I would also say councelisng can help tremoundsly.
Maybe… because we are an older version of these signs we are compatible…
We are both free. Our definition of free is being ourselves which makes us both genuine. I am the sag and I have traveled a lifetime of travels. My whole world, my town, my neighboring town, burnt to the ground and I had to move last year. By the time I found my new town I just wanted a home. And to BE home. Which takes out a lot of the complications a sag, any sag, can bring to the table. I did make the first move and that’s all he needed for encouragement. On his side, he has learned that jealousy is ridiculous because why you anyone want to be in a relationship when you can’t trust? That gives me all the freedom I need. That we both have a positive nature helps us look for solutions when there are problems. I do hurt his feelings because I’m brutally honest. (Not my fault I blame my sign.) His compassion (to EVERYONE) is teaching me to be more gentle. His love making is very vanilla but he makes up for it with the intensity in which he performs it. (Ever been turned on by someone who looks you in your eyes and tell you he loves you over and over?) We take turns listening. Thus we take turns learning. All in all, I say it’s because we are honest with each other that we are so successful at being together.
I am a Sagittarius woman falling head over heels for a Cancer man. He told me upfront that he is looking for a commitment. Because of quarantine, we have only video dated. He has been surprisingly open and honest with me. He tells me when he needs to retreat or have me time, so I am hopeful that we will be the commitment he desires. I think I am lucky because his moon and ascendant are in Sagittarius.
Yes when moons are there makes you slightly more compatible
That’s not a good match.
I just went on a first date with a cancer man. I’m a sag. It was werid I could not read him. We also went to highschool together as well. He did not kiss me or hug me good night. I thought he was not attracted to me. So after the date I texted him. He said he had a good time. He his different then other guys. Just so dam hard to read
Same thing happened two weeks before n I got the same reason as like ur bf..I am sag woman n he is cancer..such a caring person but sometimes he wants a break n don’t tell the reason why he’s like that..I couldn’t understand..I cried..n afterall I became silent not even one word
He came to me after one week..actually cancer sign mens are more emotional n they feel guilt if they made any mistakes.
But it takes more time to realize for cancer sign people
Michelle: I would love to tell you that everything is great but sadly no it isn’t… Things are stuck with him in the same pattern, however, I am taking it as it comes and go do my own thing on the low ebb. The attraction is still there, I pulled back and he was hurt, but instead of rushing to fix it I gave him time and let him came back to me. He did, more cautious than ever… He is planning a big move away. I still do not know what would that mean between us, I am focused in the moment and letting things flow anyway they go… On my last attempt at communication, I told him that I was his whether he moved to claim me or not… I am sure he was shocked, hahaha, but that is my truth and I am not going to hide it… The ball is in his court, I have no expectations whatever will be will be… Hope you have a stroke of greater luck with your crab!
You should never confess total surrender to a man that you are new with. Often their insecurity pushes them away especially if you display too much confidence. Always play it more cool. I often give a man an ultimatum if I know that he is hiding after all my time is precious. But is all depends what feelings you have if they are very strong it is hard doing so. I am not sleeping with a Cancer too fast either because he makes me feel like his sister or someone he likes to imagine sex with he is too slow.
I’m hopelessly in love with a Cancer guy that has been hurt in the past before… As a sag I fall in love hard and fast, I can’t wait to be able to show him that he can be loved unconditionally, I understand that Cancer men move slow and sideways… Patience is most definitely not one of my vices, I have slowed down to a crawl for him and still despite knowing that he likes me, thinks highly of me, has the hots for me, he won’t take the leap… He loves it when I flirt with him and make him laugh, his eyes twinkle when he sees me and he tries so hard to keep his hands to himself when we kiss… I of course, wear mini skirts and short shorts ( he loves my legs) to tease him, while I pretend innocent intent about it, I love that game… I know I am not fooling him and he knows that I know that he knows and still humors me… despite all that, I am heartbroken that we could have so much more if only he would decide to open up a bit to the risk of being in a couple… he used to make flippant comments when I would text him a mushy lovey message, that I would take in good fun, he has a terrible sense of humor but tries so hard to make me laugh that I love him the more for it… lately, any message that shows affection like that gets the silent treatment… that’s right, no response, nothing… is as if he is trying really hard to ignore it… and I know better than to confront him or ask him about it because then he will totally go back into that shell of his and sulk… I’m a practical sag, I don’t give up but I don’t stay where I am not wanted… I would have walked away already if I were sure that that silence was a sign that he didn’t care for me… instead of something about his own insecurities… I am so thorn and hurt… I have heard that only a Cancer man can truly break a Sag’s woman heart… I pray is not so… Sags are men and women of action, sitting in the sidelines like this makes me reckless, if I knew that there was a chance for us I would wait for him forever, yeah that’s the Sag’s loyalty talking… but its true… I just need a little bit of hope… We sag’s turn tail and run when it gets hopeless, as a happy go lucky optimist is hard to get down and hit rock bottom… As you can see by reading this… I am basket case…lol and help?
Dont over think it just go with the flow n be you. Stay loyal and be patient cancer men are introverts us as sags are extroverts. We say what were thinking and how we feel they do to but at a minimum.so everything ur thinking is over thinking it trust i know im married to one so just go with the flow. Just ask him why does he do that and be genuin on how it makes you feel but be settle to the approach and consider cancer men are sensative the way u say it can rub him the wrong way be settle. Give it time and he will change it. They feel deeply so u only have to mention it once and they get the point and where ur coming from.
This sounds just like the situation I am in. Being a sag woman, it’s so frustrating when a cancer man doesn’t communicate the way I would communicate 😞
I would love to know the outcome of this relationship, now. As I read this entire comment, I couldn’t be more baffled with the mirrored situation I’m in.
Hoping for the best for you two and manifesting a response:)
i love this girl with all my heart. shes currently pregnant with a virgo so i think our partnership is doomed 🙁
I’m a Sag woman and he a Cancer man. Wow! what a gentleman and caring person. However, my biggest hurdle is the lack of communication and by that I mean he hardly ever talks! It drives me crazy. I can’t stand it, but I don’t want to lose him, but also I don’t think I can handle/accept the silence. When asked about it, he says I talk when I have something to say. Well when you call someone on the phone, do you not have something to say? I have to completely control our phone conversations…no topic, then not a word from him, so we just hold the phone…can’t stand that. I need help with this relationship.
Ahhhhh that sounds super familiar to a friend of mine’s last relationship!
The problem I have in trying to help here is believe it or not – im a INCREDIBLY talkative cancer male! Which I find is honestly uncommon in many cancers.
I definitely think you both need to make the effort to bridge that gap between you both in communication! If you truly voice to him HOW his lack of communication makes you feel and he really cares, (which id be almost shocked if he didn’t considering we tend to understand how horrible stuff like that is – Cancers = Emotions,) then he should really make an effort.
ONE THING TO KEEP IN MIND which I think the high energy straightforward kinda problem solving Sag women struggle to understand a lot, I can almost guarantee even though i don’t know toooo much info on him, that hes gonna inevitably FAIL at bridging that communication perhaps a couple of times.
What YOU need to do because of that is NOT get agitated and instead spur him on more to keep trying. He’ll be easily unmotivated to do it and feel poopie otherwise!
Honestly though, I think its pretty awesome how there’s other sag/cancer relationship going on and it really seems like you love him!!! Please, please, please, don’t give up on him just yet! He may just surprise you!
(plus I kinda want it to work in general because the combo is just amazing to me!)
I had a relationship like that. I used video chat and he loved seeing me in action. He talked a little more because he saw what I was doing while on the phone.
Its crazy to think that the girl I’ve loved all this time, even after distancing myself from her for weak reasons, (backwards reasons to avoid getting attached and losing her like another before her,) is still the apple of my eye.
After all this time, 5-7 years to be exact dependent on the way you look at it (end of relationship or talking), I realised talking to her best friend recently, I never actually lost love for her! I wanted her to have a good boyfriend ans I didn’t feel up to the task.
She was my first and longest relationship of 4 years and also the only one I felt the partner loved me… When we split, I never thought id see her again, I was wrong. At the time of writing this, two weeks ago we bumped into eacj other after all this time and the easiest way to explain it is once we had felt the connection rekindle, I also felt the warmth of her firey personality rekindle.
People who are new to her life tell me she’s changed, for the worst, even she believes it to be honest, but the way we are together currently juat as friends is exactly how I remembered it all those years ago.
The sagittarius female who I believe to be my soullmate has not changed after all that time and honestly, im glad; she does selfish things sometimes and makes terrible decisions particulary when I was gone for 5 years
Romantically? Right now im aware and supportive of the fact she is in love with another and both her and her other man know how I feel, however, both seem to understand and are glad to have me as someone who has her best interests in mind even if at this moment it doesn’t include me…
I would rather her be happy with him than me considering ive just come back into the scene as is were..
Everyone including my tarrot card readings and horrorscopes are telling me to be patient with it and you will be rewarded.
As a cancer, my biggest fault with love I find is my impatience and my possessiveness; realising this I have used my past mistakes to be the best I can be for her!
Why do I love my sagittarius female?: apart from the fact her fiery and often go lucky nature compliment mine, I feel we have a delicate bond which it seems she only portrays And always has done with me! She has a way of being unconventionally comforting towards me that I’ll only accept off of her – to others, she often appears rude and full of herself with excessive swearing and calling people names, myself included. Despite this, my gut always has a soft spot for her insulting nature and she’s actually if people listen to her properly isn’t even being insulting, she’s just being supportive with words that are unconventional yet still very reassuring.
Another thing I cant ever dismiss, is her eyes… And the fact she values natural beauty over excessive makeup. She is in my eyes gorgeous and everything id want inside and out in a girl.
Her friends hace picked up on her “peculiar” soft spot for me and I already know why thid exists – she respects and cares for me due to how she felt in the duration of the 4 year relationship. Since then she feels used and abused and in her eyes also, she feels she deserves it due to her horrible mistakes. He way I see it however ia probably why she respects me in different ways, I decided to tell her straight when she asked “how can you still love a fuck up?,” to which I simply replied, “if I honestly believed you were any of the horrible things you and people say about you, I wouldn’t be here – everyone makes mistakes, myself included, and hell, I could never hold it against you for making mistakes because it’s human, and if we’re not making mistakes, we can never learn from them. I know you’re afraid of living alone and being alone due to your mistakes, but don’t be, because honestly, if all else fails, I will be there for you – forever and always.”
Forever and always was our thing as teenagers whe we first dated which I blindly adopted to other relationships without even considering the history and origin of WHY I say that. It was selfish, but even still, she forgave me, for every wrong her; the biggest being leaving her alone out of fear of becoming attached to the point where losing her would make me lose myself.
It hasn’t all been candy and roses however, we have had disputes and her stubbornness clashes with mine, difference being with most people, they focus on the negative of these arguments – myself included in every other relationship. What makes this special for me between me and the sagittarius female I love is the ability we have to låugh together and have endless fun even at our darkest times.
She sees me for me, too my surprise, she has massively complimented me on being amazing, genuine and very rare in this world and in honesty, despite having a weak sense of self-worth, compliments from her specifically help to build me up, because if she thinks it? Then it’s true.
We also share many characteristics I found out recently, the biggest of which being our affinity and love for animals and nature in general; seeing her affection towards other animals makes me so happy!! Pretty much everything she does makes me happy.
TL:DR – Even though, she may currently be head over heels on someone else, this will not stop me from:
1. Helping her and him every step of the way
2. Being a good friend
3. Being there for her forever and always (despite my obvious and blatant jealousy.)
Also, we shared many spiritual moments together that I’ve come to peace with, will last a lifetime.
My advice to cancer males:
if you’re someone who thinks your life is over because your love has faded that you thought would last forever, don’t, we’re fighters and we’re tougher then that! Embrace your fighting spirit and instead of sulking about it away in your rooms alone or with people you’re extremely close to and comfortable being around, call up old friends, explore new opportunities, go to ecent and places you wouldn’t normally! You’re bound to either find true love or let it find you! It comes in all shapes and sizes after all!
You’re worth it, embrace your sensitivity and compassion and make sure to confidently but not smother people in that knowledge. Learn balance!
We may be afraid of it but we crave change, with me? I’ve already tried change and it hasn’t worked so far, however, the universe offered me the chance to rekindle past loves and answers unsolved. Dont let yourself be fixated on the past and hold grudges – we hate doing both of those yet we still tend too. 2018 is forecasted as a fantastic year to come out of our hard defensive crabby shells and see the world from a beautiful and peaceful perspective.
Still don’t see peace or beauty? Look around you at public places – see families with their kids and just smile; say hi to strangers and have a nice day and just promote positivity and equality to our neighbours!!
Does this mean sagittarius will be my soullmate too because im a cancer male?
Unfortunately the answer is a stone cold no, but that’s not a bad thing, go out and explore horizons and learn about your zodiac, it can help make your judgement less cloudy. GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING!!! The biggest advice to every cancer myself included. I learnt recently how accurate our gut feelings are on problems and solutions yet due to insecurity we struggle to even so much as try! Give things a go more; strike a conversation with a girl you like because you have the feeling it’ll go well – besides, you’re a charming gentlemanly individual with his heart on his sleeves; learn to change your negative tendencies and thoughts into a massive positive that’ll boost any social and financial interaction!
I’m a cancer man that is embarassed to even be replying to this but oh well.. that’s what you do when you are divorced and have a bit of time on your hands. The girl that I like is an old lover who is a Sagittarius.. and reading this kind of bums be out because it seems like we would have issues if we ever decided to give it another go. I mean I’m already divorced and I never married this one.. guess we’ll have to see but for right now we both make good friends. Just trying to not cross the line and flirt too much or be too much. That is my problem as a Cancer man. I’m too intense with women. I’m a gentleman, I care about their emotions and feelings because I too am an emotional person but I do my best to always keep my emotions in tact. I look like the bad boy type who’s really a good man inside. My only weakness is that I care too much about what people think.. and maybe I get so caught up in “love” and caring for others that I lose myself a bit I guess. Relationships are definitely confusing!!
Hey Danny,
Maybe I can be of help being that I’m a divorcee as well. From a Sag woman to a Cancer man. 🙂 Ask away. 😀
Definitely agree man! Love you’re honesty there!!
My advice of course is just to try and at least ask her if there’s something there in some way. Whether its almost physical ways to ask like kissing or generally sitting down to a nice meal or a nice coffee in a really chilled coffee shop and talking about it!
This’ll go without saying to many lovers, but environment is KEY to asking certain questions! You’ll find them fairly obvious every time unless the person is highly unreadable/deceptively almost.
I’m a sag woman married to a cancer man. I’ve been with my husband 13 years. In the beginning, he couldn’t get enough of me. He was very patient, attentive, and compassionate. He was very emotional and didn’t mind expressing himself. I, on the other hand, was insensitive, impatient, and self – observed. Over time, I softened. I become loving, considerate, and passionate about him. He, however, became harden like stone. He seems emotionless. We somehow flip flopped. He went from wearing his emotions on his sleeves to hiding them all together. I went from a real b*tch to an angel. I miss the way he use to be. I wonder if he misses the “old me”, which I can’t understand why he would, but he might. I’m so confused.
I am a Sagittarius woman and I am with a cancer man he seems to be like article only in the beginning of the relationship, but now he just hides all emotions that fiery passion and connection to always be together has died I don’t know what is up. I have dated Cancer men and loved how they adored me but this one is different
I’m a sag woman married to a cancer man. I’ve been with my husband 13 years. In the beginning, he couldn’t get enough of me. He was very patient, attentive, and compassionate. He was very emotional and didn’t mind expressing himself. I, on the other hand, was insensitive, impatient, and self – observed. Over time, I softened. I become loving, considerate, and passionate about him. He, however, became harden like stone. He seems emotionless. We somehow flip flopped. He went from wearing his emotions on his sleeves to hiding them all together. I went from a real b*tch to an angel. I miss the way he use to be. I wonder if he misses the “old me”, which I can’t understand why he would, but he might. I’m so confused.
Just like my ex husband
Never again a cancer, Sagittarius and cancer just won’t go together
I’m with a cancer man and I’m a Sagittarius, been with him for four years and I love I’m so much he is just so gentle with every single touch he gives me .. he teaches me how to even more loving!
I am a sagittarius women and my husband to be is a cancer…We had a lot to figure out in the first few months of dating…This article is dead on…I have NEVER experienced love like this before…We both knew that we were meant to be together after only 17 days and I am amazed at his ability to love me the EXACT way I need to be loved and for me to be so calm and settled and sometimes even allow him to be in control because I trust his judgement so much! He has every characteristic this article mentions except possessiveness… Maybe that is why we work.
I’m with a stubborn cancer man. He is a total ass hole and never shares his feelings. I’m also a sagittarius that becomes upset when alone. I day dream about being independent but I have too many anxieties. He always calls me too needy and wants me to leave him alone… what do I do!?
Sierra,
Distance your self from him without explaining yourself and take the time to consider if this is how YOU DESERVE to be treated.
Move on ,I was the doormat for a cancer like tbat for 18 years, he walked out 7 month ago, to explore greener pastures, good luck and good riddance. Mine called me needy and clingy, just because i like to kis and cudlle. Well now i have another cancer, completely opposite loving caring and talkative.
drop him faster then north korea dropped test bombs.
You could try .. leaving him alone. Nurture your independence and inner strength, no one, regardless of astrological sign, wants to be with a weak partner. If you are weak you will not be respected, if you are not respected you will not be desired. This is advice that applies to your life as a whole, be strong, even when it hurts, find that strength inside, and that determination will attract those things in this world that you covet most; love, wealth, or wherever your passions may reside.
Omg you discribed the man I am divorcing to the t.he is not loving and very selfish ,a cheater and a lier. The ironie is the new man in my life is also a cancer,and shares the same birthday with my ex,lol, but he is very different a selfless lover ans he is funny and talkative,shares his feelings.
Such amazing comments people , thank you . Gives me hope for experiencing true lasting love. Have just encountered a Saggitarius woman and boy am I fascinated.
We are fun and when we fall and we sagittarious women fall hard, a nurtering and fiercly loyal
Once we Sagittarius women decide we want to settle down, we look for someone to settle down with. Prior to that, however, we need our freedom to explore who we are and what we want in life. I don’t advise in waiting forever, but if she is ready to settle down, she’ll let you know.
am dying for her and i have absolutely no doubt that it’s the same with her, it’s like it’s both Perfect and horrible together (if that can make any sense and yet..)..
Not even sure if i can finally get her let along make long-term plans with her, if i take it from a statistical point of view, from what i read 8/10 sites+comments say run towards the opposite direction but again it’s no less absurd to walk away by just : a.not even trying and b.putting all the credits to astrology (i mean astrology sure is fun, sure has some validity but can you take it for 100% –let alone the fact that even from the astrological point of view sun signs are not even half of it –it’s probably like+around 20% the sun position of the whole astr.outcome-personality ) so yeah.. go figure basically
Ps. on the traits part, I LOVE LOVE REALLY LOVE how she throws herself, i mean you just CAN’T ignore the fact of her boldness and yet loving nature (back to the initial, so good and bad, together).. gosh . .
I know this is old. But try and get to know her. You need to really look Inside yourself and put emotions aside and look at the relationship as a whole.
If the situation is still the same I’m a say girl seeing a cancer man and we might be able to help each other. 🙂
Either way, I hope it works out between you both
To understand the different compatibilities of a Sagittarius woman with the different zodiac men, consider the case of the woman crying in the street. (Not to put down strong sagittarius women, but they love openly and honestly and with all of themself, and love hard and can get hurt easy)
Imagine there is a woman crying in the street, probably lying on the side of the road.
1) A Capricorn man is the least likely to feel any pang of sympathy – if no one is around he may enjoy spitting on her, thinking to himself “It’s her OWN FAULT she’s in this situation” – fail
2) An Aquarius man pulls up with an amateur film crew for his amateur internet news site, and makes a video about it. However if the woman asks the man for any help he’ll pretend he never heard her! – fail
3) A Pisces man can go either way, but he’s the one most likely to say to himself “She thinks SHE has problems? What about MYYYY problems?” – 50/50
4) An Aries man may come to her rescue, he probably sees himself as a strong pillar of the community – but it won’t lead to any romantic feelings, just a sense of duty, ma’am – 50/50
5) A Toros man definitely won’t spit on her, but he’s much like the character in Phil Collins’ “Another day in paradise” who whistles, crosses the road, and pretends she isn’t there – fail (Phil Collins is Aquarius, hence why he writes songs about it)
6) A Gemini man is likely to quickly to come to her aid, only to suddenly remember something else he was suppose to be doing and possibly disappear – 50/50
8) The leo man is quite likely to give assistance to the lady, because he doesn’t mind coming to the assistance of a damsel in distress; might focus on superficial things like giving he a foot rub rather than actually helping! – Better than 50/50
9) A virgo guy can go either way; he may have a piece of paper in his briefcase on what to do in such a situation and follow it step-by-step. Or he may even be standing there weighing up the pros and cons of giving assistance – 50/50
10) Standing next to the virgo guy who is weighing the pros and cons of giving assistance is a fidgeting nervous man who can’t quite decide whether he should help or not, and feels relieved when someone more decisive has already gone to help her – but if the libra man does help he’ll do it with utmost sincerity – 50/50
11) If a scorpio truly believes the woman is in serious trouble he will show more care to her than the womans’ own mother! Though he probably has a knife in his back pocket just in case it’s a ‘set up’ – Better than 50/50
12) A Sagittarius man is worry free and ain’t afraid of helping a damsel in distress – or he might try and see if he can jump over her on his BMX bike or skateboard – 50/50
7) BUT before any of them ever get there – even before Capricorn man can post his letter of complaint about ‘vagrants’ to local council – who’s that rushing out with utmost sincerity – complete with cup of water in his hand, maybe some paracetamol and a mobile phone at the ready, in case an ambulance needs to be called, why it’s Cancer man, the caring crustacean! – Best match; not ‘perfect match’ but best match.
Well I’m a Sag female and I’m currently “talking” to a cancer male for the last 6mon. He does get moody but I back off and he always calls me eventually. Like the article says he doe keep me guessing. Weirdly like one of my fellow sags says we can talk about anything and we laugh alot. But when it comes to feeling about me and him hes say little to nothing. I figure if I say something on text about me and him I know he wont respond but if he agrees he usually calls me later. We are not in the same city so we don’t get to see each other much. But we are starting to talk everyday. Hes opening up to me more. Its so true when it says here is a harmony in our conversation. We just understand one another. Hes going thru a hard time right now. Similar to people statements above he lost his car anf hob and house. But hes never asked me for money. Even when we did see each other he impressed me because when I pulled up to get gas he paid and pumped it for me. He has a really good heart he is alway helping someone. Although we never made it to the bed room yet. I see the way he looks at me. Its pretty hot lol we did nothing but laugh the whole time we say each other. I love talking with him. Its also right that I feel safe arpund him he just have a steong presence. I’m looking forward to seeing this unfold. I really like him and want to see where it leads. We have had an argument and it was bad. It was mostly me I snapped but I felt that we were going there but I stop that just no into going so far in an argument that you can say something you cant recover from. Wr didn’t talk for days and it was horrible. I reached out to him and we been good ever since….so to be contunued thanks for sharing eveyone good information
I’ve dated three Sagittarius girls, so I think I’ve got some say on this subject and how to make it work:
Sagittarius is easily my favourite sign (for girls) of the western zodiac. They are fun, super-intelligent, optimistic, sexual, adventurous, individualistic, and insightful – everything I’d want in a girl.
I’ve dated Sag girls at different stages in my life: one in my early teens, one in my early twenties, and the most recent one who I’m with now, and I think I have them pretty well figured out by now.
There are a lot of reasons why the relationship can work amazingly. Cancerian guys will love them for all the reasons I’ve mentioned; Sag girls will love your quirkiness, your spiritual adventurousness, your sense of humour, and they are humanitarians at heart, so they’ll love the whole ‘caring’ aspect. Sag girls are also quite lonely in a way, so your Cancerian empathy will help to fill that void – and they’ll love you for this. Sagittarius girls and Cancerian guys both have great senses of humour as well, so you’ll be spending a lot of time laughing your asses off.
These girls are like cats though, they need a lot of space to do their own thing, but just because they’re independent doesn’t mean they don’t need intimacy, it just means that they’ll come to you when they need it. These aren’t girls who want to be smothered 24/7. This is, by nature, the most independent sign of the entire zodiac, so what do you think’s going to happen if you try to hold them down? They’ll only resent you for it, and there’s no changing this.
When I was in my early teens, I was a lot less secure, and I clung possessively to my Sagittarius girl because she was my first real girlfriend, and she didn’t like this. It brought out a really bad side of me, and in the end our relationship became caustic. My relationships with Sag girls since have been amazing, however. I have a lot of Gemini in my chart which mitigates a lot of the Cancerian clinginess, and I need a lot of time to do my own thing.
To put it bluntly, if you’re too stingy, clingy, negative, or boring, you’ll turn a Sag off. These are girls that you can (and SHOULD) have fun with. Take them hiking, or diving, or horseriding, or to an art class, or to… anything really, and they’ll eat it up.
Sagittarius girls can be extremely blunt and critical, but if they piss you off, all you have to do is tell them to stop – just be communicative with them. Try to do this early in the relationship; let them know what your limits are, what annoys you etc. All it really takes to make this relationship work is letting each other know where you both stand.
(You can have fun with their bluntness by the way. You can be extremely blunt with them and they’ll usually find it funny – although it is cute seeing them get grumpy 😛 I love it.)
I recently read somewhere that we’re attracted to people who we’d most like to be like, and this is certainly true in the case of Sagittarius girls. They’ll admire your individuality, and this is something to be respected. This is a relationship where you’ll always be given space to be your own person, so use this to your advantage. Do the things you want to do, exercise, take up hobbies, go away on guys weekends. Let your cardinal energy come out, develop yourself and be your own person, but be ready to have fun and care for them as well, and this will turn them on – in every way. It sounds like a pretty good deal to me?
I swear, if you go by what I’ve written, things will go well 🙂
Loverboy, i see experience has really been your teacher when it come to how to properly handle a sag girl. You’ve got it down to the T. Well done im impressed!
Why cant we have a global posting of your blog, it would save the world ?
You truly know a real Sagittarius woman. I wish everyone knew us like this
You’re so very very right, I’m impressed
Nailed it! I am a sag girl, and have been with cancer guy for almost 7 years (married for 2.5). It is perfect in so many ways. It definitely did take some work and understanding of eachother to cross hurdles, but now it is the most fluid of relationships!
And you know what??? I am a sag gurl. A.N.D. everything you’ve submitted here is 101% TRUE. Yep. You’ve just handed out our password. lol. @how cute we can be when we go grumpy.hahahahahahaha. Loving you already.
You truly do understand and know the dog Kong’s of a Sagittarius woman. Kudos!!!
Hi..i am a sag female….i m in love with a cancer male….it has been 13 years of our relationship…bt still i find it difficult to understand him…i love him a lot…bt i hate when he forces me to do something …..whenevr i try to do something on my own…..he threatens to leave me…..bt if he agrees to me “sometimes”…..he behaves in such a manner that it either makes me feel guilty about my decision or i chnge it….i dont knw wat to do….when i share my feelings with him….i become so blunt that it hurts him a lot….i want to workout this relationship…plz suggest me something…….looking forward to your comments….
I am Sagittarius woman and I’ve been dealing with a cancer man for about a year and they are so right they are moody they are cheap but the love that they give makes up for all that they really are stubborn and they want to do it they want to do they are bossy and can be mean at times but the way they look at you they touch you they make you feel makes up for all that sex is awesome but me being a Sagittarius woman is also correct I will take it to another level far as hurtful words I could be mean and tic for TAC but he was always is always understanding I always seem to end up apologizing though cuz he makes me feel like really hurt him and they are manipulative very much so I have all these big ideas that don’t kind of work for him he likes to be home and watch movies and hang out together tell me what to do but I love him I love everything about him he is totally different from every other man I’ve met love being near him around him with him talk to him I’m freezing I just want to do everything for him
11-27-2014
Thanksgiving Day in North America
I really like Tallulah’s comments on Cancer Man and Sagittarius Woman. She reminds me so much of my future Chinese wife! SAG women? Please stay true to yourself, for you are the best bet for a Cancer Man. You help us to grow up as men and as excellent passionate lovers! We bring out the best in you too!
– Dawei
@Thave said this sound all like me wow and i ask what ur age different i am 65 and my boyfriend is 43 i am.at awe that we connect so good inspire our age differenti
Omg, thats so funny, sag women are not afraid to get younger men, I am the same way, my soon to be ex is44 and I am 55, my new guy is 47 and he is also a cancer
scopio fuck bed. connection amazing when one. scorpio man cancer woman. pisces scorpio. really carring outgoing and suitable for witch or orackle really hilarious and funy especially born 12 – 14 november. dont know special qualities maybe mariage but striky and forward. Met in woolworths for 3 years then plit becuse of my familky situation no s or mother. sss. but the relationship is eally good one. sexy. Same thing… however man and pisces where really hilarious and funny. So met again and deviantart and nightwish works anthing outy but not homeys or homey. Like swimming or rrrrrr bath or drive drive and e really good. Dream come true in regards to show movies and closenesss like mother sister. Great planner and dealer- towards tability not like a pices cancer so pisces o but cancer _ not good. saggitarious worth it. especially when hot o hot o sexy with al. sa. perfect sag decan ::::: xxxxx mwuah
Omg i totly no wat u men. i have a cancerman n hes the gratest for me cuz im a sag. Hes totally cheep n stuff but is ok cuz i luv him. He is my fire n i m his water, we r perfect for echother. But hes not tender win we r intimite i think ur wrong cuz hes actuly rely ruff. he rely likes my sagvag if u no wat i men 😉 lol thnx for wrighting this its egxactly like us.
Sorry, but I am a cancer man. We keep some things to ourself then get a gut full and get crabby. When I was younger (I am 37), I did not understand relationships and when my wife did not want to discuss things or was silent in arguments it did make me angry, I never hit her and she would try to get me angry enough any man would want to. Although I did not want to hurt her physically, I said things that would cut to the core. Things I said were true but said the wrong way. I am older and understand “life” more now. She has “passed away”, I should have not been like a father, but I felt that was my only option. She was a aries which is I think it says on here that is not a good mix.
I think that the base for a cancer man is there but how they act and who they are are influenced by how each man was raised, who they have as friends, etc. If you are taught to be a jerk, you will be a jerk. If you are a bad person, you will not be sweet and kind like a true cancer.
Pardon my spelling mistakes (Aries, beautiful, grateful etc. lol) I just got so carried away thinking about my Cancer man : )
I am a sag women with my moon in cancer and my cancer fiance has his moon is sag. His complexity, sensitivity, unpredictability at times, loving nature, out of this world awesome sex drive and sexuality, intelligence and family values to name but a few characteristics absolutely fascinate me. I could never tire of being with a person like him. Being a sag woman I can get very bored exceptionally quickly and once that happens in a relationship thats it – forget it – its dead. If I lose interest in someone its written all over my face, I can’t hide it at all.
The interesting thing in my relationship is that due to my age (I am older than he is) I cannot be bothered to suffer poor behaviour, so when it happens e.g. he is being lazy or a bit selfish I tell him out right – hey you don’t even try that shit with me – and he totally respects me for it. You need to be a very feminine woman, but with enough balls not to be a doormat. Some women who are aware of their sensitivity can take that a bit too far and be afraid to offend them, but Cancer can loose respect for you if you aren’t strong so it is a delicate balance of protecting their feelings and boosting their confidence and showing them love, but calling them out on behaviour that isn’t nice when it happens. I can see in my partner that if I was a soft touch he would let me have periods of doing more than my fare share as virtually every man would. He tells me if I am not being nice also and its good that this works both ways and beign a sag I always hold my hands up to that kind of thing and apologise.
Although I am a strong person and verbalise what I feel as I do not keep things inside, he is so relentlessly alpha male he can argue with a temper and passion that resembles a volcano. It can be a tiny bit scary at times the sheer level of his anger while knowing that I am safe and that he would never lay a hand on me. Its what a sag woman needs to know – that the man is the leader, BUT without being bossy (I HATE BEING BOSSED AROUND!) and stronger while letting us be strong also. One thing I will say though – no matter how angry he gets, he never swears at me or says anything mean or offensive which is personal or directed at my character. Even in his immense anger he is a gentleman. He has never once called me a bad name and I respect him for that because I work by different rules.
Being a sag, if I am in an argument I don’t give a damn, Im going to say whatever it takes to get my arrow in your weak spot and get you where it hurts. Make sure that you explain this to your Cancer man. I have warned my fiance about this and it has really helped, because he knows my nature and that I do not mean to hurt his feelings, its just my way of expressing myself and doing battle. Talk about everything with him. I don’t do it in a careless impulsive way – I think about words before I say them (Im not my Aires mother who blurts things out thank God). I am aware that I can really hurt him a lot, more than he can hurt me, so I say something thats bitchy, but makes him think. You can’t be too nice all the time, that will drive a cancer man mad – he doesn’t want someone who is one dimensional always agreeing with him and hanging on his every word and worshiping him for the sake of it, because he knows that is not real.
I am a very laid back sag, more chilled in nature than he is, but when I get really angry and it goes on too long I get exhausted by it and love him so much I just feel sad and start crying, but as soon as I do his heart melts. He always comes to me, holds me and cannot bear to witness me upset. Then Ill want to be on my own so Ill go in the bathroom or something and he’ll come looking for me and be genuinely sorry and make ammends. I can see he is hurt by seeing me hurt. We make up and make love and he’ll want to cook something together and we feel closer for having been honest and try to avoid the same behaviour the next time. If you try to always learn from your arguments to improve things then thats positive. It eventually reduces conflict and increases understanding.
He needs to see your pain because he appreciates the confirmation that you care, but also the tears he can relate to because he is so sensitive himself and will cry and knows what it is like to feel things so deeply. He silently lets a tear run down his face hoping I won’t notice when we watch something touching on tv or in a film. I have told him “Baby I LOVE that about you soooo much” It is the sexiest thing ever when a very manly man does that only in your presence. I find it adorable. Other men are aware of his presence and know not to mess with him.
His Mum who I adore is sensitive and so am I and if your are not that kind of woman there is no way he will trust you. By the way, if you don’t get along with his Mum or are like his mum GIVE UP THE RELATIONSHIP NOW !
We sag cancer combinations seem to be a paradox of not liking confrontation and being sensitive, but being warriors when our fires are stoked. I only every wanted all or nothing love and to be competely and utterly intertwined with my partner. I love the fact we act like kids and mess around together. Everytime we go somewhere it is like going on an adventure whether we are going to the supermarket, cinema or for dinner and I feel safe wherever we go. He appreciates my little feminine ways – like the way I say or do things or look and when I make him laugh I can see how happy it makes him. I can see how he loves to laugh as much as I do. If you don’t have a sense of humour that will also be a major disadvantage.
I can be a complex woman at times and I can be away in the clouds thinking about something – usually music of something colourful or beuatiful and he always picks up on those moments and asks me what I am thinking about. He really notices when my attention is elsewhere, but because he knows its about something usually artistic I think he also appreciates that as he is creative and musical also. Positive thinking that we saggies are so good at is a brilliant support mechanism I think for our Cancer men.
A boring woman, one without opinions, knowledge and intelligence will not do. A woman who does not want children and is not natural around them will not even be considered (I had 2 before we met). Our relationship has challenged me because I have issues of trust and my independence is strong. I have learnt that it is a hinderence to a point with us because he wants to look after me. Due to my past I never had that experience before where men really took care of me and treated me fairly and I have learnt to survive on my own. Now I know that I need to let go a bit and trust him. I will always keep my indepence in terms of my spirit and be true to myself. I know he loves me for that. I love and respect him for being that way too.
CANCER MAN SAG WOMAN = An amazing forever lasting love which just gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. Every time we make love it is like the first time. We found each other when we both thought that we would never achieve this kind of happiness, but we did. Im so gratefull.
Such an amazing post, I can tell you truly understand Cancerian man and his way of life.
As a truly Cancerian man, I wish I have what you guys have
Sag, women here, just wanted to add my two cents, I’ve been with a cancer man for five years 7months, and 25 days, it was the most amazing 11months of my 40 yrs on the planet, he was the greatest adventure I’ve ever jumped head first in to. Down the rabbit hole, in Alice and wonderland. I love him and hate him so equally now, I can’t seem to shake my self clear, he was beautiful, and the most thrilling lover in the beginning. But, we are a dangerous mixture. He’s a liar, secretive, selfish, user, that always say the lies are for my own good.. I allowed myself to be a doormat, and have tired to rid my heart of him for years… He’s all the worst a cancer , can be, no offence to the well adjusted cancers. My advice, none of us is perfect, by far, but if you know your heading in to a relationship with a wounded cancer, run away. You will want to heal, and love them back to health, but it will drain your life, or ruin it….
Omg, thats so funny, sag women are not afraid to get younger men, I am the same way, my soon to be ex is44 and I am 55, my new guy is 47 and he is also a cancer
@Victoria30 your accurate but if you find one who knows that knows that a gorgeous girl I worth more than paper Hell treat u like a queen I took my he to the beach at night on her bday and took 4 years because I’m a cancer male and I’m down to do anything my gf tells me buttt they are cheap if you open them up out if their shell their basically your slave and honestly a lot of cancers are cheap c; urs really sad.
Lol. OMG this has shocked me because I’m a sag women and I’m in love with a cancer man he’s so sweet and always wanting to see me. I met him at a car show last nov . & we laid eyes on each other and from then we really hit it off. Sometimes we would have our issues but for some reason we couldn’t let each other go. He’s very protective and doesn’t wasn’t me doing anything with out him being there lol I like the fact that he cares so much about me and I love for my man to protect me. We act like best of friends at times to. I love my cancer man he sweaped me off my feet since day 1 & I really love him. The sex is sooooooooooooooooooooo amazing he’s the best I ever had. Another thing that makes up closer is our pass relationship both of our pass relationships was a mess and now that we are together we’re trying to build a strong relationship. I think I’ve found my match cause I know for a fact that he’s never going any where I love cancers .
I am Sagittarius female , I had 4 Cancer boyfriends, longest lasted 2 years . I do want to be with Cancer man for few reasons, they seem very strong men , very sexual men , LOVE LOVE LOVE SEX with Cancer men , love part that Cancer men making me feel very feminine and so desired , lot’s of emotions, it all turn me on a lot . But longer realationship last crazier it gets , Cancer men start telling me what, when, how to do, and when I do not listen they get violent , throwing and breaking MY staff , two of them actually hit me left me bruises on my face, which was end for me. On top of it all Cancer men I been with were extrimly cheap, selfish and full of bulshit, they want everything from you for nothing in return from them, they would suck you dry till you have nothing to give and you would leave . I have another Cancer man after me right now, trying to get me to have sex with him for a year and he is never gonna get it , he is so SO cheap , I spent so much $ last time meeting him which he begged and promised pay it back , especially he makes 10 times more money then I do. He was standing next to me and already had hard-on just looking at me but he screwed up it all himself by acting like cheapest asshole I ever met in my life and was 40 minutes late. Anyways, he would never see me again . I continue communicate with Cancer men only hoping they would get it their mistakes and change with time .
Very helpful and true…. I am sag and my boyfriend is cancer.
We are together since 4 years.
I’m a young Cancer male…. and I have a really strong attraction to Sagittarius females and always seem to be chasing one. For me they’re not that easy to get, but man its so worth the extra effort. I love sagittarius women because they’re truly a challenge and they’re all amazing.
I come to the middle east for work and when i can i like to spend as many days as possible chilling/partying in Dubai. On my first visit 4 months ago i met a girl at a bar (no i was not on the scout) towards the end of the night. I still am unsure of what actually happenned but it was an instant liking for each other. No..it was more than just a liking……it was electric. I had never felt like this before and it was not the drink doing this to me. I am your true Cancerian…to the “T” but older now and a little bit more in control of my traits (most of the time). From the first night i nick- named her “Wild Child” way before i knew of her birth date. OMG how right i was. She is a Sag, born on the cusp (23rd Nov) and i am blown away at how this girl has brought out a side of myself that i never knew existed. The passion, love and arousel i feel for her is amazing. When i’m with her i am so alive and could fight the world and she is so much fun.. I have declined another job else where in the world just so i can get back here to see her which to me is no way near enough. I just wish i could spend more than just a couple of days at a time with her. I love watching her in action with her determination, commitment and out spoken attitude when she wants something. Wow!! Awesome! She also has opened up to me with personnel issues that she has never before told anyone so yes you are correct in saying that the Cancerians can give her a secure compassionate enviroment which they do love.(Mesmerizing, sensuous, beautiful, crazy n loads of fun!! I juz love being with her.. Wanna protect her from every problem she has, wanna wipe her tears everytime she is upset. I juz wanna be with her and no-one else!!!!) Well said Raj! As far as sex…. Say no more! The best i have had! She rocks my boat! So where it goes from here i don’t know but i thankyou for this web page and all who have written to it. I now understand her ways much clearer. To all Saggi females…You girls rock!:)
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I met this guy 7 months ago. I’m a Sag, he’s a Cancer. Shortly after we started dating, he stopped working and applied for disability due to constant pain he has from a serious accident he had a couple of yrs ago. I really liked this guy because he was a homebody and seemed to have the stability I was looking for. I’m 34, he just turned 40. Soon after, he started asking for gas money which bothered me, but I would only give him small amounts like $10 or $15. Every time we did something, it was on my dime, he never asked to do things, but was always game. He would constantly ask me for money for things like doctor’s visits and miscellaneous incidentals. The more I cared for him, the less I would mind. I always seemed to know his whereabouts and had no reason to think otherwise. We spent lots of time together and seemed to fall for each other quickly. Besides shelter and clothing, I was basically supporting him and was ok doing so. Around month 3, he revealed to that he had a decent amount of 401k he would be borrowing from. It upset me because I’m thinking he’s broke and he had money the whole time that he said he didn’t want to touch..wtf?!! I’m a single mom of a teenager and make under 40k /yr. Supposedly, he applies for a loan from his 401k for abt 8k and says he would pay me back for everything. Weeks later, he tells me there are warrants for his arrest and he needed 1500.00 or was going to jail. He said he was going to lay low until he got the money somehow. He told me he would be with his cousin. I wasn’t going to allow him to move in with me and my child. Come to find out, he was really living with another woman in a nearby city. I confronted him there. She kicked him out immediately and told me everything (sister power!!!). I was shocked and hurt to say the least. I found all of this out on 4th of July (gives new meaning to Independence Day). I ended it right away. He didn’t run after me apologizing like one would expect. He avoided me. I tried getting closure but he refused to give me any. His birthday was 7/12 and he had the audacity to leave me a angry voicemail saying how bad I made him feel for not calling him on his special day…wtf???! We ended up communicating again and he said he was embarrassed and ashamed of what he did and wanted to be with me but he wouldn’t talk about things in the way I needed him to. He just didn’t seem remorseful and sorry in the way he should have. His excuse? He has alot on his plate. My gut said to test him so I did. Yesterday, I created a phone # thru Google Voice and started texting him and sure enough, he failed…miserably. I confronted him and he lied saying someone must have had his phone. He must have realized how stupid he sounded and just gave up on the lie and literally RAN into his house. Haven’t heard from him. I DON’T want him back, I just want a genuine apology and explanation but I know I will never get it. How do you hurt someone who has been nothing but good to you? The most hurtful thing is we actually seemed to have a friendship, not just a relationship and he could still do this to me. I feel horrible and like the dumbest person ever. I’ve spent about $1500 on a loser and have nothing to show for it. Glad it ended when it did. I don’t know if it’s all Cancer men, but this is the 2nd experience I’ve had with one..and the worse. This guy is a user, liar and manipulator. I sure hope karma is the big b***h everyone describes her to be.
I’m a sagg woman who has been dating a cancer man for five years. Although we have lived together for these past five years, I still use the word “dating” because I now see his fear of commitment. I’m a very spontanious woman, for example, I traveled very far from my home state leaving dear friends and family to be with him. On a whim that there should be more to this relationship than awesome long-distance sexcapades. We both loved passionately and we both made sacrafices in our lives for this to work. Now, he degrades me every chance he gets and never misses a chance to make me feel so insignifiacnt or unimportant. He loves a good arguement where I panic and shut down at any sign of unease. As of lately he’s very controlling, going as far as inquiring about tracking my whereabouts via cellular phone, as if I were his teenage child. He monitors my spending and pushes to have complete control over every detail in our daily lives. He has told me in the past that he did not want a family with me, and to be honest, I felt the same at the time. Perhaps I’ve been hoping I could change his mind after these years. Needless to say, I’ve come to terms and I’m in the process of detatching myself emotionally and finacially from my cancer mate. He will no long forbid me from roaming free, he will no longer make me feel unloved or undesired. I will not allow any man control of my free will again. I will love forever passionately with or without my cancer.
I’m a cancer male in the military and currently on the outs with a sag female…..i have known her for over a year, we met through mutual friends in Korea. At the time she was datinga someone and there situation was crazy. Since returning to the US from Korea he hasn’t been in the picture but I have, being the helpless romantic emotional man that cancers can be at times and it seems to be unwanted. I do love her and sex is amazing but we argue and she calls it quits. We have the long distance thing due to us both being in the military and we have a big age difference but I try hard to make it work. I feel likemug efforts are a total waste. I once drove 13 hours on a long weekend just cause she is that addicting, last time we fought I walked out and wish she would just let my heart come home
Hi I’m a Sag woman that’s been in a 6yr “affair” with a Cancerman. At first we had a great relationship just like what’s mentioned. Then we broke up after 3 years and then he started going out with Scorpio woman. I told him them they were perfect for each other and to leave me alone. But out intense love making keeps him coming back. Its unfortunate, but I was the other woman in their relationship. They broke up after nearly 3 yrs and now were fooling around again. I’m sure he tries to go back with her. Scorpiowoman is more compatible by far. I havent been with anyone since we broke up, its been 3 years since we had the second stage of our relationship. The bond gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. Ive been in love with him througout the entire time. I find that as the years go by we find out that we keep coming back to each other. Id run away when he becomes too smothering and he runs away when i hurt his feelings. Im looking for Leo man to settle down with, but I’m afraid Cancerman is there for the long haul. Everything that I read I can vouch for. Our love is crazy, the sex is like Whoa. but I can see that this is something worth challenging myself with. The chemistry is just incredible. I’m addicted to him.
mistake 🙂 *they get too much and i dont like the baggage . maybe a sag can help them to be more true . i still think his the one if there was one . so confused .
hi , im a sag woman i seem to be attracted to cancer men oooh so handsom too but i read the internet and everywhere i read i see cancer – loving warm honest . no, no ,no. there sly .they take you into there world of mystery ( they know exactly what to say ) and people fall for it , why ? coz who can not trust a down to earth handsome guy ? hahaha a sag lol . they know how you will re-act on ever word .so when you think you can escape they play a different scene .but oooh thats what makes sex so good over and over . these men are dark they dont just play there woman like that no ! even there on the side girls you know there friends . they play them so they can be on the safe side with there woman ,cause they are commited . incase she runs, they know exactly what points to triger to make there girlfriends(yes there’s a few) there next woman . this is a back up plan ? grrrrr . they dont spend forget it. they talk about God as a sag i appreciate that A LOT . but still cant figure out why he attracts me . caus this undercover thing its just not for me . he says its caus his scared . cancer men cry and most of the time when he fights i laugh make stupid joke and later realize he was broken , for such small reasons . made me think does a cancer man love you or himself if you dont play his role correct follow the script perfect or face his hurtfull remarks or emotional drama. warning ( do not ever be dependable on this guy ) he will make sure you follow that script. maybe its a good thing for a sag if we run he will come fetch you – and we will test that. he’s so exciting and and a never ending mystery . but sadly the just get too much and i dont like bagguag
Right! I am a Canceo man, Cancer/Leo Cusp with Venus in Cancer and Mars & moon in Gemini, I was dating a Sagittarius girl type I, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Aries & Moon in Leo.
We were dating for almost 2 months, and things went banana after that. I am 32 she is 23, I explained myself at the start of the relationship and I was truly honest, and I stated my position that I want to be committed ( long term), I hate games, and cheatings. I had 3 exs who cheated on me since the age of 18. However, I never cheated and I meant by been totally Devoted and avoid what women in general hates. However, the first two weeks it was like heaven to both od us, sure we had light arguments, but then things went so crazy. Apparently, she claimed that she adores my strong personality, warm soul, caring, endless giving but she hated when I become more protective (e.g. Hold her hands when crossing the roads) she was like stop acting like a father, seriously I don’t mean it, but I get freaking scared about people in general, I mean I stopped the whole traffic to hold an old man hands to cross the other side!!! He was like 87 years old, not trying to be his father!! ? anyway, I like traditions in general, spirituality, philosophy and I do have a strong sense of values and principles and she hate that, the thing that I cannot understand why would people hate values!!?? Although, she was frank that she had many guys & girlfriends, I told her the same that I do hang out with the boys and many ladies friends, but as matter of respect and curtsy, I start to go out only with the boys and kept communication very light with my ladies friends! She was not comfortable with that, as she felt that what I want from her too to be with just with girls only?!! Truly! Yes, it’s a fact that when man likes a woman he wants her to talk to him only ( most men won’t admit that, but its true) she asked me if I am jealousy person, I said in moderate way, but I won’t like a guy to lay his hand on you even for fun!!! Whenever, she want to go out, we go out, whenever she want to dine out we do so, even though I was going through a financial crisis, she didn’t care, so I stretched my finance to make happy. If I cook for her 5 stars dinner she likes it but she complains that I will make put in weight, if I don’t make anything, she still complain that I don’t like her!!!whenever, I tried to talk about something serious related my career, family ..she’s like I don’t care! When I told her that’s not nice she just smiles!! Last time, I was concerned about my ill niece and was about to start a conversation with her and she just walked away from the conversation to wonder around cupcakes shelf, and I felt as I wasn’t exist on her sight!!! However, I encouraged her to workout: “she was like you saying I am FAT!” although she is fit, but I apologized and I said never, you are beautiful and you should check it out , a free pass for 2 months!!! Whenever I wanted to introduce her to my friends, she is never there! And I was super good to her friends and cooked for all of them!!! Gradually, she start to use offensive words “F*** off, F*** U, what A male B****”, although, I never sworn at her even with a joke or use such language with her, I asked her kindly not to use those words around me, as rudeness can drag the angry Leo side out of me! We were joking once, as I was tickling her, she threatened me that “seriously, if a knife was beside me I would of stabbed me because you tackled me so much and I hate it” I was shocked of what she said, weeks later she said that was a joke!! Well, after nearly 2 months, she dumped me! And I admittly I loved her, she told me in the face that she dose not love me. I was so clear at the beginning that when I love I love like no others and will expose my heart for you and I trust you, so don’t abuse that … but she did in a big time! At some point, she told me” I know you pisses you off and make you angry, and I see how you are good at capturing your anger, why cant you show it to me as if you would for a guy” I explained to her I don’t like that its most powerful when you know that are cabaple of harm and you let go, and that’s what I have learnt an applied when I served in the Army and wars. I added, A man not buy his roaring voice or showing muscles or even kick someone, a real man counts by his dignity, patience, caring, sacrifices he makes and anger management”, She claimed that the reason for a breakup, that she very honest and she is not worth my love, and she knows that’s she fed up of torturing me. They always says that Sagittarius are optimistic, but she was not she was always complaining and not happy, and she even complained that I am super optimistic, altruist and trying to make everyone’s happy including herself. The more that I want to get back to her …the more she becomes more rude!! But the truth to be said, I love her so much!! I wish a Sagittarius women can understand Cenceo men. Canceo are somehow different than fellow cancers and leos. Any advice out there?
ahha Jaden Smith xxx
I am at a point in my relationship where I can not take anymore from my cancer mate. He is controlling, inconsiderate to my feelings. He also loves to throw my past bad rlationships n my face. If he’s mad thn I become every name n the book except a child of God. When we met he had nothing. No car, no job, n staying with his parents. We hve been together for 2 yrs n now he’s working, got his car on the road n is living with me. Ive stood by him through it all n even hve love for his family. Buthonestly im tired of him wanting everything his way and blocking me emotionally. Its gettn old n although I love him dearly, im beggining to wish I was alone. I use to wnt kids n get married. I hve been n so many terrible
@drgnldy oops meant to say at the beginning a good friend that i have known since jr high
yes..i have a really good friend that i haven’t known since jr high and we have been talking back and forth for a while and even though we hadn’t spoke in years we picked right up where we left off like we had never separated and u know this compatibility is 100% correct…it’s correct about me and it’s correct about him…i feel more secure with him than i have ever felt with anyone…and he’s sensitive to my feelings and we can talk about anything…it just comes natural between us…he does have mood swings but nothing that can’t be dealt with using some finesse….he’s really an incredible man…when we’re together, i feel like i’m the most beautiful, smartest, most important person in the world….and he’s my best friend….hopefully more someday…
I am in love with a Cancer Man, but for my emotions, dignity and psyche, I am giving him up. Sure, it was fantastic for the first 6 mos. when we were having an affair. Which, by the way, I didn’t intend on doing, but I got so caught up in his attentions and allowed his manipulations. After a family tragedy and a few weeks to deal with that, I was available, but he was only “half-heartedly” there. He told me he loved me and I was the BEST women he’d ever had, while at the same time he was seeing and sleeping with an old girlfriend. Both of us for 6 months. During which time he was VERY moody and in and out of our relationship. I didn’t get it until I caught him… He told me he got rid of her cuz he didn’t want to lose me. Still says I was the Best Women he ever had. Now, 1 1/2 years later, more MOODY times, so I think there are other women. I just think he stayed with me for beer, cigs, clothing, going for beers, rides, and good loving “all the time!!!” I agree They ARE User’s and Liar’s. He lived with his Brother, His Brother is a Cancer too. He is sleeping with 4 women at the same time, and I don’t think they know about eachother… I met all of them during my 1 1/2 years with my Lying Lover Cancer Man. He had to keep up with his brother, so I’m sure his cheating never stopped. I was the fool for love and sex… Make sure he’s got a car, license, a decent job/decent $$$ and that you are both true to eachother or playing the field at the same time. I hope I have learned about being used from this relationship. He bruised my heart…. No more tears!!! He is out of my life, LUCKY ME!!!
Babiegirl: I am a cancer man, and I can tell you what gets to me REALLY “grabs my attention” is something really heart felt in consideration. For example I have had a birthday cake made for me (Food is awesome especially if you are good at it home cooked foods are amazing!) I have had a song requested for me…That one pulled some tears out of me and I try my damnedest not to cry but they were tears of happiness! I had a big ass personalized card that a girlfriend had left in my trunk saying she loved me. Money bought things are great but man something from the heart can play a cancer like a fiddle best of luck to ya’
Babiegirl*
I’m also a sag girl, and my advice to you is to just be yourself. Funny or not, I bet he still loves you. You’re probably already amazing, aren’t all sags? 🙂 Don’t worry about it. If he makes you laugh, then he makes you laugh, just go with it, and try not to make yourself feel like your not funny enough or anything like that for him. You’re great just the way you are 🙂 I hope this helps you.
I mean cancer* men. Pllleeaasshhh write back <3
Ohmg this article this is soooo true! im a saggitarian woman and I LOVE my cancer guy! he is the best thing that has ever happened to me so far <33 He loves me so much and I love him loads too but I just cant show it to him, he barely feels my love and wants more. I really wanna give that to him..give him so much love i wanna keep him really really happy..we've been going for one and a half years now and I just dont want to lose him . I love him a lot and im whole heartedly commited to him, only if i could read his mind and be intutive just like he is…I want to keep him happy i love my boyfriend so very much :)any tips from cacver men on how I could show him a lot of love?make him feel absolutely LOVED cause i really care for him so much! we hug and kiss a lot and i caress him often we text each other everyday he is really funny too! he makes me laugh all the time, i wanna make him laugh too 🙁 please any advice cause i really wanna work on this as for him it comes really naturally but for me ive been taking efforts and i want to see him smile 🙂
Pls girls and boys, if u have any suggestions write back
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Just do little things tell him you miss him tell him yu love him make him feel like the only guy In the world think about him when your out shopping or something nothing big can be the cheapest thing and it will make his day
Brit DON’T DO IT!!!
I just met a Cancer guy his convo is ok… But the boy dnt got no job. I CANT AND AINT TAKING CARE NO MAN. I DID DAT WIT A LEO WHOM I ADORED. SCARED TO SUPPORT A MAN AGAIN… SO D CANCER GUY IS UNLUCKY DIS TIME.
I’m a Sag Woman in Love with a Cancer Man that I’m too afraid to even be with. We’ve been on and off for 7mos. I’ve been soo hurt in the past I trust NO ONE but my heart won’t allow me to mistreat anyone. So I started helping him out monetarywise and even gave him my car to drive. He lives with his mom, has a child and no income. Instead of putting him down because of it, I wanted to help better himself but I just started to feel more and more used. I’ve gotten told by a few ppl that Cancer men are users, liars and manipulators. Don’t get me wrong he was so sweet to me in the beginning but as soon as I bring up the money issue I was every name in the book and he would put me down. Overall I still Love him and miss him terribly. Its been 3 weeks….so lost and confused. My mind tells me to let it go but my heart wants to reach out to him 🙁
I met my Cancer man 2 years ago. We hit it off real well, but due to the situation we were both in, nothing ever went further. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago and we reconnected. Talking every day with each other and found out some surprising feelings towards each other. Since we live in two different cities that are hours away from each other we are able to visit each other whenever we can. Now currently, my feelings are extremely strong for this same Cancer man and due to unfortunate circumstances, his attention is on current mishaps. I’ve decided upon myself to give him his space so he can figure things out but I’m not going anywhere. I’m not dropping him nor am I ending anything with him. But I do feel he needs to focus on what he lost in order to regain it back. And me and my over affectionate self can seem smothering to him. I’m falling in love with my guy and he’s falling for me but I don’t want too much of one thing to taint everything we’ve worked so hard for at the present time…
Been living with my cancer man for 2 years in may. Its already the longest relationship that has held my interest, for sure! However, I’m starting to get frustrated with his moodiness, and the way he keeps so many things to himself. I love him so much, but if he doesn’t want me forever I feel like I’m wasting my time. Maybe I should do my sag-self a favor and set myself free?
I’m only sixteen, but I had or have a cancer friend, who is a guy, i’m not sure what we are anymore.. Because I became fed up of all the mood swings, lies, and him not being 100% honest with me. Almost a year ago, he told me he liked me and ever since then, I thought he would at least try to get me, but he did nothing but pretend to be my friend. Before all this, we got along perfectly fine like best friends, or even brother and sister. I didn’t have feelings for him at that time, but after the whole,” I like you ” thing everything changed between us and I just want us to go back to being friends. 🙁
em a sag gal and em deeply in lov wit my cancer guy.. he daily comes to meet me in my colg tym…we r into a relationship frm the last 4 years and its like WOW… our compatibility is out of thiis world..if we are arguing on something, one of us is always quiet. we got many chances for the sex… bt we never did as my cancer bf want it after marriage..i love this fact but still i want to have itt… 😛
anywayz..i love my cancer guy madly and want us to last long… 🙂
i love cancer man even im sagittaious woman.
I am sag woman with cancer man. He is everything great you can think of. We are like two sides of the same person. He thinks the same things as me andwe complete each others thoughts and sentences. He is not over protective, selfish, or moody. I was in a relationship prior to him in which I was cheated on and this is and has been the only issue between us. My inability to trust fully and his inability to not go to his man cave when I question our relationship (what we are where we are going). My inquisitveness and eventual demanding for emotional attachment and answers pushes him away and he stays away. We do not fight like others about trivial things. We do not fight at all. We discuss then text discuss. We are friends built on that foundation. But….. although I read the cancer man loves the family, i feel that we both came from long term relationships that ended badly and I believe even tho he loves me…. it will never be more than that. He wants me to be available for him at all levels but not want to be pinned down in same breath. He knew in beginning what i wanted.. what I wanted to build and the time has come to talk about it… 3 years. He wants me but don’t want me at the same time. He loves me and don’t want anyone else but wants his space but also have me available when he wants me. I have decided that if we continue…. I will give him his half time… but it will be true half time, not his conception of half time. Or it will be over and I will no longer give him all I am, all I do, and think of us as “us”.
bruce, thanks for your input, man. What you said seems to explain a lot and it seems very true. And yes, it is important for us cancer guys to have someone who won’t run away in the middle of a storm. Funny thing is…even though I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that I don’t blame her for it (that song ‘Love the Way You Lie’ and Part 2 seem written for a sag girl and cancer boy, no? 😉 ). I think I understand sag women better now.
Well, the sag girl I was with never forgave my mistakes and I never understood why. She acts as if I’ve purposefully killed her dog, even though I’ve apologized a thousand times. Friends tell me she trash talks about what happened to us. I’m over it, I just wanted us to end on a friendly note. It’s probably the biggest blow I’ve taken both to my pride and my ego, because I really liked her and tried to give her my best.
Anyway, if money is so important to a sag girl then she understimated me, because I am very ambitious and quickly get up when I fall. Since then I’ve found another job in a different city. I will be paid three times what I got paid at my last job so what I lost in material I will make up and more. However, this time I’m giving my all to the scorpio girl I’m with right now.
I realize I carry half the blame of why things didn’t work out, but we all make mistakes right? I really did want it to work. I am also, however, glad I got out in time. Like you said – dodget a bullet.
I hope you manage to work it out, bruce. Like a lot of people have said, the trick with a cancer man and a sag girl relationship seems to be a lot of work from both sides. I’ve seen glimpses of what it could be and it really is beautiful. Good luck, man.
Daniel and mk, i read wat u have written and i would like to throw some light on ur situation…i have a sag girl, she loves me alot and i too love her alot. but u have to understand in order to be with her u have to have money in order to support her spending spree…her anger and risk taking attitude will drive u up the wall, not only that the worse part about them is that when the going gets tough they run like the wind…they just wanna drop wat they are holding and run. they will blame u for all the things that have gone wrong, but later after they have cooled off they will realize there mistake and come back and say sorry, but it will be too late.
u dont want a person like that man! a person who leaves u in the middle of a storm!! guys u are lucky, u dodged a bullet!
me and my girl are very similar, thats wat i love about her and thats wat i hate. her sense of equality drives me insane, its like if i have taken off my shirt…so can she!!!?? thats not how things work man…u cant tell a doctor to go fix a car now, can ya?
we differ in the spending part and also differ in how to handle things or situations. the people she trust are the ones who stabb her in the back and even if u warn her, she will go and get hurt anyways. in time u will stop bothering and the relationship goes cold!
best thing u can do and u shud do is be honest about how u feel, say everything and anything u like and she how she reacts, dude if she loves u she will indeed understand how ur brain ticks and if she does not understand then better let her instead of chasing a future which will never come.
i am very honest with my girl, there is no thought that goes untold…sometimes she understand, sometimes she just does not get it…but the best part is both she and i work at it and we have improved with each other! and thats beautiful!
i still dont know our future….but the sag girl of mine is a special one! real special….
let me once again remind those who are reading my stupidity, i mean no disrespect to anyone..i just merely wrote my experience with the sag girl i have for the past 2 years….have fun and think before u jump!
peace!!!
i am a sag woman and have been seeing a cancer man for a little over 2 months. i want to work towards a relationship. it is good to somewhat know that i am not crazy for walking on eggshells with him. i can openly talk to him about everything but us. when i say something that he doesnt agree with he “shells” and will go days without speaking to me. but when i pull away he comes back. it is scary and i constantly worry that he is gone for good. he does try and dictate money issues that i have and it does drive me crazy. i hope i can make this work although i am at my breaking point. why can they not just tell us exactly how they feel about us? i love hard… guess thats the sag in me. im starting to wonder if it is worth the fight! 🙁
I’m a Sag. woman and my Fin. is a Cancer man, we engaged 6 months ago. It seems very true. We passed a lot of ups and downs together, it looks like we are one person when we have ups,so great and cheerful, but downs are too ugly!! I hate when we fight, its really scary:( Now I understand why he behaves like that and I hope if he can understand me too. Finally, the article is excellent, I’m sending it to my F. right now 😉 Thx.
Same thing here, Daniel. I’m a cancer man and me and my sag girlfriend were together for a couple of months. It was great, I was absolutely OK and even supportive with her fiery attitude. To me she was a gentle intelligent angel and a freaky monkey both at the same time. But when I got in a “rutt” like you did, she dumped me. I lost not only my job, but my apartment and my car. And it seems I’m out of her life for good. Is that a coincidence? I too still have feelings for her. And it’s because I see the good in her, I see beyond her badass attitude. My advice is – get on with your life. Just like me you will probably never forget that little devil. But there are better things, things really worth fighting for. It’s called a Scorpio woman ;).
I’m not in a relationship with any Cancer man, but everything in this description sounds very legit. I have 3 cancer siblings and all very moody and sensitive. I find them very funny, because they are at each others throat one minute and then next thing you know they are all laughing and having a good time. After reading this love compatibility between Sagitarrius woman and Cancer man i hope that i can find myself a Cancer to love 🙂
One thing about Cancer men, they marry young and they ALWAYS have a home base. They might like the fun of a Sag woman and her bold sexuality but home is home. Cancers don’t break up from their families, even when they get put out or when things are absolutely miserable with their wives, they won’t leave. Just as hard as it is for you to break up with a Cancer, and you have NO ties to him, its that much harder for a woman he has children with to get away from him.
it’s realy true.
This is all so true… Kind of scary how true this is.
Cancerian here…. Oh mann…!! I juz love my Saggi woman!! Shez mesmerizing, sensuous, beautiful, crazy n loads of fun!! I juz love being with her.. Wanna protect her from evry problem she has, wanna wipe her tears evrytym shez upset, most of all I juz love her for d positivity she brings in my life wen m down on d swing 😛
I juz wanna be with her and no-one else!!!!
wow finally i got some understanding of my relationship..my man is a cancer and im a sagittarian..now i knw why he bahaves like he does sometimes…atleast now i knw m gna work
My situation is quite different. About a year ago i started seeing the cancer male. He told me from the beginning that he has two small childern, but he mentioned a girlfriend. Now the this present day i heard from the grapevine that he is with his baby’s mother. I just need to know were its going and im not sure how to go about it. He makes me so incredibly happy, even for the 7 minutes he here, and i love making him laugh, but if its a dead end im the only one going to get hurt in the end and i would like to make it less painful….Any ideas anyone!!! Hint i tried telling him but my pride wont let me say what i want to. I dont wantto scare him away…
i had a cancer friend and he is very sensuitive i said fuck u and he kicked me out of his house. he never talked to me again after that wow!was it that serious
I’m married to my Cancer male (5 years) and boy is it work – his sensitivity, and caution combined with my extravagance and fiery attitude 🙂 But it’s so worth it!
wow this is so true it’s scary. i’m a sag woman and i’ve been with my cancer man for a week already and i know i’m falling for him. he’s amazing! i feel a lot of passion for him. almost everything i read here is true! but we haven’t been in any fights yet so i’m not so sure about some of it. finally i read something about a cancer-sag relationship that really relates!
Iam a sag female and I have been going out with a cancer male for about 6 months and he is extremely moody but is so considerate and will do practically anything to please me so I completely agree with horoscope !!!!
This zodiac compatibility about sag and cancer man relationship is so true….I am a sag and yes I am so inlove with a cancer man..He’s mood swings is so unpredictable and sometimes I have to guess what he feels before I approach him or tease him hehe…Anyway if
I am in love with a cancer guy and he is hard to figure out. I know to leave him alone and he will come back out of that shell of his. he gets nervous around me lol! I love cancer men but being a Sag its hard for me.yes i do fall in love with intensity, i like the other one where he makes her blush when he brushes up against her.Yes he protects me from the bullies, and always keeps me guessing. this enlightens me but it is so true with cancer-sag relationships friends or BF/GF or married:)
Wow. This finnaly made me feel good about myself! I’m a Sag. and my boyfriend’s a Cancer … and everything that was mention in here was soooo true!