The relationship of Scorpio and Aquarius can be rather tempestuous at times, but exciting nevertheless. They both admire each other’s strength of character. Scorpio’s nature is intense and personal, and very passionate. While Aquarius is easy going, open and frank with not much to display emotionally. They need to be quite truthful, diligent and honest to have a long lasting relationship.
An Aquarius man lives his life in a dream state. He is highly independent and stands behind any decision or promise he makes. He is not one to hide himself or his emotions, which makes him easy to read but does not easily commit himself to anything or anyone if he does not care to. Aquarius man is a bit moody but generally one can find him calm, generous, affectionate and full of good and quality humor. He is always a very generous lover towards his lady. He is sympathetic to all her demands and can even control her emotional outbursts.
A Scorpio woman is a totally poised lady with alluring charm in her persona. She is a complete woman with seducing exquisiteness and adequate fascination to make the heads turn for her. She is the master of her soul. The constancy and passion for love in a Scorpio female comes inexorably. She is highly possessive and quite suspicious of all of her relationships. This woman provides a lot of affection both emotionally and physically to make her man feel secure. She is a wonderful lover but jealousy may arise when she finds other girl around her love making her feel uncomfortable.
Aquarius man appear to be detached and somewhere out of focus when it comes to reality but the Scorpio woman who loves him sees this as a breath of fresh air and sees it as contributing to her otherwise down to earth and practical lifestyle. Since she tends to suppress any emotion, refusing to give it up for the rest of the world to read and he is a plethora of excitement, dreams, ideas and antics, together they seem to mold to each other giving the perfect qualities to a bond well formed. She can read others quite well while keeping her hidden until the time comes to where she feels the need to reveal all or part of herself and that’s definitely when she meets her Aquarius man. She can also show him to be a bit more self-controlled when it comes to losing his cool. What happens in the end is as unpredictable as the future but with her patience and his co-operation they can always make a good relationship.
Aquarius man has to step up and make the first move to capture his Scorpio woman’s heart. He can always make her some different person than what she is when she meets him. He can teach her to be a bit freer and not such a stickler when it comes to putting her foot down with suspicion and possessiveness. There may be times when Scorpio woman let a bad past experience get in the way of their path together, but her Aquarius man’s ability to go with the flow of things helps her get around such blocks and continue with he man as they skip down that path hand in hand. She may tend to go down a certain path because of the way a past experience has worked out, but this is rare as she is more than patient in waiting for the right time for every decision she makes and this helps even her Aquarius man to get stable in life.
As the relationship of the Scorpio woman and Aquarius man gets mysteriously interlaced, they can read the unspoken messages through each others’ eyes making their intimacy astoundingly beautiful. She holds him with her beckoning secrets of her eyes and he binds her strongly through the indefinable mystery of his existence. Their dreams are shading with lilac and sparkling silver that makes their realities even more vivacious and flamboyant when they are together. He becomes more stable and responsible with time while she learns to be free and less suspicious. Their love has a delighted sensation that brings out all the daintiness of the Scorpio woman and binds her Aquarius man so strongly with silky threads of affection that he just leaves all his mysterious odds and falls in the never ending eternity of oneness with his lady love.
The sexual life of Aquarius man and Scorpio woman is not very smooth, especially in the beginning. Her need to be close during sexual intimacy is not easily found in Aquarius man. He appears to be detached from her and in the situation when he is physically present; still his thoughts are merely up in the clouds where they feel at home the most. She should know that he does not do this because of her. He is merely happier this way. This causes her heartache which, in turn, causes a rise in her suspicion and jealousy. Scorpio woman’s best bet would be to show her Aquarius man she can be as close a friend as she can be a lover. This gives her a better lover in him who is verbally as well as physically more expressive. On the other hand, as he shows some more sincerity and trusts his Scorpio lover, his thoughts will no longer hover around and will be too busy being focused on her making their sexual union more devoted one. This can help them to uncover their deepest emotions and follow their bliss in making love.
Problems arise between the two when Scorpio woman tries to bind her Aquarius man from his freedom, something he feels is his given right to have. He rebels against these ties and hurt her feelings. She, in turn, shows anger, jealousy and rage and even goes along through life as if he does not even exist. Scorpio woman draws her feelings back and hide them deep within her and appear to not care as to whether he does what he wants to do or not. This breaks the intensity between them and spoils the relationship. Without proper communication, they won’t be able to come to terms with the problems that arise in this aspect. In a mutual bond between the two, they can each learn from the other one. Aquarius man’s weaknesses are Scorpio woman’s strengths as her weaknesses are his strengths. They can always complement each other and make their relationship finer.
Hey. I am an Aquarius man(22 years old) Here to give advice to both Scorpio women and Aquarius men.
Scorpio women, Just because he behaves detached or aloof doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, the last thing we want is Someone pushing us to Reveal our emotions, in which we tend to close off even further.
Sometimes we just like to be left alone and I promise you it’s nothing to do with you, if we have a problem with you we will be very straight forward about it because we prioritize solutions to keep us going forward. Also, try not to control us. I know it’s something you do involuntarily and that’s okay, but next time you prepare to Bombard him with questions about where he was last night, who he was with or what he was doing, or even attempt to make assumptions think about this piece of advice first. As an Aquarius man we’re bound to tell you all about it. Getting an Aquarius man to like you is one thing, keeping him is another. So while you may be Hot(literally) and have a nice body or whatever, we really do appreciate a show of mental Strength too. Tell us about your passions and your goals in life, tell us how you intend to accomplish those, as an Aquarius man we tend to Visualise things a lot and by telling us about these goals(no matter how ambitious they sound) you provide us with an opportunity to envision a life with you, and if your goals align with ours, you’ll unlock a totally different side of us. One last thing(if you’ve made it this far) we’re natural problem solvers, so anything that bothers you we are the first to talk you into a solution, and if a solution is not what you’re looking for tell us beforehand.
Now for my fellow Aquarius gents. Please understand that No matter how mysterious or cold a Scorpio woman may pretend to be, she is a very emotional person, and her emotions are valid and need to be considered, if not you shouldn’t be surprised if she snaps at you randomly. Also please tell her everything, the last thing you want is a Scorpio woman finding out something that you haven’t told her because her sentence will start with a nasty “so when were you going to tell me?”. A Scorpio woman Also needs a ton of Assurance, and you need to be ready to meet that assurance with valid actions. Furthermore please understand that you’re speaking from a logical point of view and she’s speaking from an emotional point of view, so it doesn’t hurt to exchange lenses and look through each to get a better understanding of each other. Now I understand as an Aquarius man you try to remain as covert as possible and that’s okay, it’s our work ethic. But keep your Scorpio woman informed. Tell her where you’re going to be, who you’re going to be with and let her know you’ll call her to check in(AND ACTUALLY FUCKING CALL BECAUSE I KNOW HOW FORGETFUL WE BECOME), this will reduce her likeliness of her controlling instinct from kicking in and boxing you into a corner.
In conclusion, an aquarius and Scorpio pair is relatively unlikely to work unless if both Sides take my advice into consideration, trust me, I’ve dated a Scorpio so I know what it’s like. I am no longer with her, that’s my fault, and if my Scorpio woman finds her way to this comment, I really am sorry. All Advice I’ve given you guys is advice I wish I took back then, but I don’t have a figure in my life to teach me these things so I end up learning on my own(the hard way).
Thank you for reading this.
Dear friend I feel you I am also an aquarius man and I know exactly how deeply you love her
Wow, your words are like you’ve read me like a book. I’m a Scorpio woman and my ex was an Aquarius man. He seemed very avoidant and because of his work ethic, he was emotionally unavailable. I try not to take it personally, but he called me names behind my back, I was way too “needy” for what was comfortable for him, especially with his high stress work days. I decided it was time to end it because he felt the need to punish me for addressing unmet emotional wants and needs. A lot of it was like he was recreating toxic the dynamic between his mother and father.
Thank you for the great insite! Also best wishes to you finding your love!!
I am a scorpio woman dating an Aquarius man. This is nothing too serious, BUT it can be. This article definitely made everything make sense especially the intimacy. Im such a passionate lover in the bedroom.. i need closeness, touching, foreplay all the above and he’s just like.. not that lmao. Just like the article says.. its not me.. its just his personality. Maybe i can work through it.. idk.
I am a scopio woman dating an Anquarius male for 7 months I have read alot of articles on this and am so amazed at how right on these articles are. From my feelings to his logic. We have had issues because I am a emotional based person and he is more logic. To where I have felt he is emotionally absent. But we have worked through them through understanding are differences and communicating. Something I am realizing is that Aquarius’s man do think differently I will never understand the way he thinks but it usually will make sense in a way and if I can accept that and love him for it which I do then we always get through it and we have made each other grow. I won’t lie when I feel he is detached and doesn’t feel the way I fo it does hurt and make me mad but I take a minute and relize everyone feels different just because I am super emotional based doesn’t mean he doesn’t feel the same it just means he doesn’t show it the same which is ok because he shows it in ways I lack.
I’m a Scorpio female, with an Aquarius bloke. We have a deep connection. It’s just such a shame he supports a rubbish football team.
Thanks for your experiences guys they will help me so much in my new relationship.I am a scopio female I met an aqurius male 2 weeks ago its all fireworks between us at the moment, I met him online it’s a long distance relationship. I feel he is the one already …and he can’t wait to see me.
same here am a Scorpio female
but most things am reading s discouraging
but this Aquarius man can’t wait to see me and get married to me
That’s great! I love this. I am a Scorpio woman too and met my Aquarius man in 2019. It’s definitely been a journey to say the least. I guess the biggest advice that I could give, especially early in, is to not get in too deep. Take your time, relax, enjoy what you have. Making big asks or conversations about the future especially early on is a quick way to make him retreat. Understand that even if you feel that he is committed and you’re on the same page about what you want or how you feel, don’t set expectations as if you’re in an official relationship. Commitment or feeling like someone is trying to force commitment will make him retreat. I would say just live in the moment, if he’s interested (which it sounds like yes bc that’s how I felt too!), trust me, he’s interested and probably is completely unwilling to give anymore of his time to other women so jealousy is unnecessary. Focus on yourself, hobbies, friends, etc. share interesting and cool things about your hobbies or adventures, if he drops off in consistency with communication don’t take it personally or get immediately upset, worried, or defensive (this will make it worse). Live in the moment, tell him how you feel in the present and continue living your life and little by little he’ll invite you in more and more. Good luck!
As an Aquarius male, I can tell you’ve put time into learning your partner. This is right on the nose for anyone sharing the Aquarius male/Scorpio female dynamic.
I do agree with you 💯
As an Aquarius man, I will say everything you said was on point. Give us time & freedom to grow with you and we’ll make sure you’re taken care of forever.
That was pretty dammed spot on. We’ve been together for over 5 years
I’d say you both should follow your feelings and if you’ve loved each other this long make it forever but give it time if need be you both still have plenty of life to enjoy together marriage isn’t the only way to commit. Being engaged for two years could be a promise too.
Hi am a scorpio teen(16) and mi boyfrnd an aquaris (17) .weve been 2gether for 2 yrs. Our parents know each other.do u think we’ll stay in luv till were old enough to get married.
Highly likely, no but this is mostly because you are still growing and there is no guarantee that you and your bf will grow at the same pace and so you may even out grow each other. Or worse, you may lose yourselves in each other and not know who you are in outside of the relationship which may frustrate you both.
Yo lady. Im an Aquarius male (24) and i have a Scorpio female (25) and trust she is Hot! So please don’t be alarmed of our actions its just the way we are we wonder about things when we linger off in space and have fun with otbers… He is definitely not INTERESTED in any other woman but you 😉
I am a Scorpio woman my ex from 17 years ago is an Aquarius. I can never get rid of him. He broke up with me in 2005 while he was in Iraq. It killed me I was terribly sad. In 2007 he came back to the states and heard I had moved to Northern Virginia. He got in touch with me through email and asked that we meet in DC for dinner. He was so happy to see me until I dropped a bomb on him that I was engaged. I knew it hurt him but I had to let him go. Throughout the years he would email me, Facebook me however he could reach me. He got stationed overseas but came back to the states and asked if he could see me by then I was in Atlanta 2013. We had an amazing weekend but he dropped a bomb on me that he was married. I never followed through with my ex. He moved to Atlanta 2020 and he reached out to me. I had just gone through a bad break up…I thought he was the one. This Aquarius has interesting timing…needless to say he is now divorced and he paid for me a weekend getaway. Of course he showed up to surprise me and check on me. We talked and really enjoyed catching up. We had a night of passion and now in July it will be a year of us hanging out and sleeping together. We recently went to Mexico for a getaway with one of my friends. I thought we would have a good time but something in me was off. The way he laughed and smiled with the group he never did that with me. Its always me and him in our bubble of romance. I couldn’t understand why he doesnt see the friend and fun side in me. I was turned off and annoyed . Hes been remorseful since we left and professing his love to me but also he said he’s struggling with making things serious with me bc the love and marriage he had with his ex wife. I told him he needs to go reconcile but he claims he doesn’t want the marriage or a romantic relationship with her. He said 10 years of marriage makes it hard for him to step out. I feel I need to end it before I get to involved. I’ve been holding back my feelings and its interfering with our sex life. I can’t connect because I am in love with him. Always have been but Ive been protecting my heart so long from him. I wasn’t looking for a relationship because his divorce was fresh and my break up was too. But when he tells me he loves me I feel it. I brush him off a lot but what he doesn’t know is I never stopped loving him. I grew to want more over this time spent but I do not think we will get any further then what we are. I was 18 he was 22 we are now 35 and 39. Any advice…I know this sounds a mess
Yo lady. Im an Aquarius male (24) and i have a Scorpio female (25) and trust she is Hot! So please don’t be alarmed of our actions its just the way we are we wonder about things when we linger off in space and have fun with otbers… He is definitely not INTERESTED in any other woman but you 😉
Walk away it’s too toxic, you deserve better….🙏🏽 You gave him too much without a title “
if he Can get the Milk without buying the cow he’s not gonna Buy”
hi bts fans! I’m kim namjoon and have a Aquarius friend with a Scorpio woman,and this is so true about their relationship!
I am an Aquarius male and my ex is a Scorpio female, I don’t have much to say, other than the fact that a Scorpio female’s love is so pure and honest, I just have some advice for the Scorpio women(or any other women that reads this), please give us space. Us Aquarius males require tons of space to function properly, please don’t take it like we don’t love you or we are turned off by you(you probably will). Please allow us freedom, the last thing we want is someone always trying to control how we spend our free time, in such a case we will retract. Also, if there is something your Aquarius man is doing that is bothering you, Sit him down and explain how his actions bother you, he only needs to be told once for him to understand and remember.
Now this part is advice for fellow aquarius men, Please consider being more open and emotional with your Scorpio woman. I understand it’s hard, but if you want to keep your Scorpio woman from stressing and being agitated around you. Make time for her, Allow her to be vulnerable and emotional around you, the last thing you want is a Scorpio woman protecting her feelings by exerting her masculine energy(trust me) because she can’t trust that you feel the same for her the way she feels for you.
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My best friend is a Scorpio male by whom I have known for little over a year. When we first met, there was almost an instant connection. We have fun, we love to play around and joke with each other. It honestly surprises me how comfortable we are with one another. We did date last summer for about a month but he connected with his ex and she messed up everything between us. She broke up with him out of the blue for no reason and left him without closure. When I came in, I fixed him in a way. He tells me I have done more for him that anyone has ever done. Over the last few months, things have been shaky. His ex is present in his life as a friend only but I cannot bring myself to trust her because she is honestly bad news but I remain civil to keep the peace. I truly do love him and want him in my life and I know he hides the same feelings for me however I am afraid we will never reconnect romantically again. I am beginning to think he may not be good for me despite the fact that I want him to be.
Are you an Aquarius female?
Me and my Aquababe just celebrated out 12th anniversary. Hooked for life. Nothing’s come close to what I’ve found with this amazing, sexy, deep-thinking human. (And I had to kiss a lot of frogs, believe me!) We didn’t have the easiest start. I had to work on him a little.Detached is an understatement. Lol. Once we found our rhythm and learned each other’s language, it was a dream. Communication is key!
Love this, I’ve been with my man for about 3 years now and like you said detached is an understatement lol in the beginning. We had a lot of rough patches early on while we were transitioning from hanging out, seeing each other, dating, to official relationship. Communication is still something we struggle with at times but I’ve grown a lot in harnessing my emotions and he’s grown a lot in compassion and empathy. Excited to see what the future holds for us!
I have known my Aquarius man for 28 years. Almost married him then, but didn’t for some reason. We are married now going on 8 years. This article is our life to a tee! I love him so and want to be with him. I know he loves me, but we must find the middle ground. We fight all the time. Trust and emotions are our biggest problem. Thanks for the article.
I am married and happy with my aquarius man we have been together for ten years I must say it was harder at first we were at each others throat more than in each others arms, but we finally found our ground and inseperable, I found my soulmate
Me and my Aquarius man didn’t make it. He couldn’t stay faithful.
My Aquarius boyfriend sent me a link to this because we are going through the same problems as listed here and I’m just surprised
Wow this is so helpful for finding my mate I’m a scorpio girl I’m 12 and love well finding love
This is not for 12 year olds. Comeback when you are 18+.
I’m scorpio woman and lost my aquarious man. I’m heart broken. I love him. Wish we really could have worked.
Its life and thats the pride you must pay for finding love dear trust me.
Go get him and love him
This will actually help me in my relationship with my girl (she is a Scorpio & I’m an Aquarius) & she has been mad at me for a while but after reading this I can finally fix what I have done. so thank you
I’m learning lol
Umm but how can I show my crush I like her??
Sup man wanna be freinds??
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Aquarius men are a bit free-spirited for Scorpios, but they can balance me out sometimes… it’s a matter of connecting deeply with their intellects, like passionately playing a mental game of chess with them. I got this free love reading and it was helpful: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
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I too have fallen HARD!! Scorpio female Aquarius male. I haven’t felt like this for 21 years! He has awakened me sooo sexually!
I did everything wrong in trying to get him! I chased him hard! It was all 100% true Scorpio woman going after what she desires! I think of him nonstop. I have always known right away if I’d want a man or not.One kiss.. if it travels down to my center of desire, I’m all in. It isn’t just a sexual desire… I know my heart. If that’ chemistry isn’t present, I move on. My sister who has 3 Degrees.. says I can love someone without that spark and lust. NOPE. I can’t give someone my heart until I feel that deep intimacy from within.
I’m seeing my Aquarius tomorrow! I have seen him 2 other times so far! I told him I loved him. I can’t bottle up my passion! It’s hard to contain it!
This man and I had a VERY intense one night 37 years ago! First time I cheated on my Gemini boyfriend! I HAD to have him! He remembered everything about that night also! If I’m within a foot of this charismatic man, I honestly tingle from head to toe. I’ve lost 15 pounds, because I’m sooo happy.By the way, I’m 62 he 57!!
So kiddos out there… you can and will fall in love when u r older! I want to hear him tell me how much he loves me. Patient Scorpio.. I’ll wait forever!!
PEACE
This is fucking bullshit, whoever writes this stuff; psychic, witch or whatever is attempting to make relationships work that really don’t. Plus it seems like this site has changed some of what was on here from before. My advice, if something doesn’t flow naturally leave it and the person the duck alone.
Who hurt you? A scorpio woman or an aquarius man? Because when the moon is in Uranus and the planets align with the stars of Pluto, a powerful connection is coming your way. Blessed be.
POWER COUPLE ALERT. So much chemistry but also a lot of fights!
If you are the type of scorpio woman that can win an aquarius man’s heart, you will know it, and you will actually see the moment the light comes on in his eyes and fire lights in his soul. Yes, it hurt in the beginning, but I love the security of knowing NOT JUST ANY WOMAN HAS THIS EFFECT ON HIM. I love knowing that it takes a lot of work to get to this side of him. Sexually too. It was a little off at first. He wasn’t fully there in the beginning, really in his head and not focused on me, but as we grew deeper in love and the connection became more solid, I saw a part of him wake up and he is the most intense sexual man I have ever had in my life. I burn for him. I love that it took so long… and looking back I actually love how detached he was in the beginning, it makes me feel more like this is a connection he only has with me, and if god forbid we ever split, I will always be in his heart. I have had exes that fell for me quickly and gave me their whole heart very fast… and I thought I was the only one, but I saw after me how fully they were into the next girl… and the next. I feel like my aquarius will die without me.
So… the chemistry is out of this world, and the fights are too. But he actually never leaves me alone after a fight, he is the one that chases after me and tries everything to make it right. The first time he did this I CRIED. I never felt so wanted in my life. Yes, we fight over the dumbest things but they bring us closer. I know I need to hold less grudges and give him more space.. and he could be better about voicing his feelings! He is actually more jealous of me than I am of him. It just make sme love him more. He is SO possessive and I love it! I hate when he gets wrapped up in his work and ignores me for days. Well, he still answers my calls but he barely talks and just gives me one word answers… but when I stop calling he always calls me and asks why i didn’t call lol! I love this man so much! I appreciate how hard he works. He always tells me he wants to build an “empire” and spoils me materially a lot. i never asked for it, he just does it randomly.
This is my relationship to a t. Im Scorpio he is the aquarius. And I could describe it any better than this. Our love is nothing I have ever felt before. We have been together for 13 years and married for 9 so happy and still in love and our love has only gotten stronger and two beautiful children later. don’t get me wrong we have had major ups and downs but we are now stronger and happier. I grow more and more love with him everyday. And
this couldnt describe my relationship with my aquarius any better
couldnt describe it any better
This balancing out between a scorpio and aquarius is absolutely true. I’m a scorpio woman very happily married to an aquarius for many years. He is my best friend, and friendship was the foundation for us. My other best friend is a fellow scorpio, and that friendship with him (on the cusp with libra) reads much like the scorpio and scorpio romance compatibility on this website including the enjoyment of someone capable of equal intensity and depth, just without sex, of course.
Thanks for your comment! I’m a scorpio woman too and i’m about to date an aquarius. When I saw all these web sites saying that scorpion woman and aquarius man is a bad combability I was verry affraid. But know I see that you’ve married an aquarius and you are verry happy. This gave me some hope!
I agree but still it maybe could work well for me cause me and mah cookies will make my crush live me cause me 12 bit like you guys age
Hello, I am a Scorpio woman married to a man Aquarius. It has been the most consumed relationship in my life. If I could go back, I would never look at an Aquarian man again. They are not what they promise and they show to be
Hi my husband who left me is aquarious. Scorpion women’s have great communication power and that’s where she can trap anyone. But Scorpio are very possessive in nature just so much loyal and expect the same. Scorpio can me bitter too. To whom they love they will love no matter what the heck and to whom they hate they will hate like curses…. Aquarious don’t like possessive people they are not so empathatic and they feel tied up and controlled. Aquarious sign is one I m so afraid of as they can easily detach themselves whereas it’s next to impossible for Scorpio. So if u think you can be fine with her I m sure she will love to be loved. But make sure she will not tolerate you with someone else even as a friend even if she says she is fine with trust me she is burning inside. So all the best.
I met a Scorpio woman about 3 months back, I love everything about her except one thing. Whenever we have a quarrel or some of sort of an argument. She wants to leave without talking it through or let us at least try and make peace before departing to our homes. I don’t like that at all, I tried talking to her about it but it happens every time.
Juju its scary but I am just like your woman. I don’t stay to finish a quarrel because it exposes me the more.. She might say certain words and regret in the morning.. I don’t know how she react the next morning but as for me, I call the next morning to let my husband understand that we are OK and yesterday had been forgotten each time I walk out on a quarrel. Truth be told, I don’t forget a word he says and I sting at the right time….
Thanks..
My aquarius always calls me a hundred times just to try to make it up. Of course I ignore him but I secretly love that he is doing it. He just calls me over and over and over until I pick up and says “hello” like it’s nothing lol! Of course I am still angry but the stupidity of this situation just warms my heart and I am back in his arms again.
I’m sorry to hear well read that you’ll live it love it hurts but if you love someone it’s the price you must pay
I am an aquarian man and my best female friend is a scorpio. We have been friends for over 20 years and she is the one I trust more then anybody else. Two years ago we had sex and some days later she told me she work as a sex worker…In the beginning I had a kind of shock. Today I just respect her. She has bordeline and can’t work normally. She does it to have food on the table for her and her son. She phone me 5 times a week and we do also go hiking together and have fun. I admit I am in love with her. When I meet “normal girls” they are boring and it is just like we are meant to be.
I never feel jealous about her job. We are not a couple but i dream about it. I have not told her I love her and are afraid to loose her. What the heck am i gonna tell her ?
Tell her how you feel. Im Scorpio im pretty sure she feels the same way about you
True I am with my best friend know we have been married for over 8yrs we have our challenges but we love each other n I am a scorpion. So tell her we turn to fall in love with some1 we have known for ever.
i have an Aquarius husband and everything here is true. we had problems at first but not now. the union is sweeter and it feels like there is no where better. Scorpio woman and Aquarius man make a good match , just a little compromise.
I’m Scorpio and im falling in love with an Aquarius man we met 2months ago but he seems so detached i wonder if he even thinks of me
As an aquarian man you need daring to be in love with a scorpio woman, cause she is all the woman any woman can ever be; I know from experience. I’m the aquarian man, who has a a friend(Scorpio) who is also the best lover.
She is the ultimate muse 🙂
Omg yes! Scorpio(Girl) x Aquarius (Boy) makes the bestest couple. Scorpio woman are very romantic and Charming, very enchanting. There the perfect mates. There as romantic and creative and colorful as Sagittarius, but more loyal and dosent abandon you when the concept of loyalty gets stale. And there as loving and caring, passionate as a Pisces. But are not secretly sour witches like most Pisces. Scorpio woman are also shy cute enduring and caring as Cancers, but not having a cold hard shell like most Cancers. They virtually are the perfect woman to date and marry. But please never ever betray them. Of all the perfect qaulities the will express towards you, the only thing they want from you is always be truthful and never break there hearts or make them feel insecure.
EVERYTHING YOU SAID RINGS TRUE!!!! YOU MUST BE A ORACLE…. LOL BUT SERIOUSLY THATS A PERFECT DESCRIPTION OF MYSELF SCORPIO WOMAN THROUGH AND THROUGH…
Yes, I’m a Scorpio woman and all they want is honesty and truth and loyalty then they give you everything. Cross them and you will wish you hadn’t got involved. Be dedicated and they will make sur all your dreams come true. They are deep and sensual lovers.
Same here..
I’m a scorpio woman and this is soooo true….
I’m a scorpio and my husband is an aquarius. We’ve known each other since I was 12 years old and hes only 9 months older. He’s not only an aquarius but his family is very sexual and no one has ever been in a lasting relationship. We’ve had a lot of struggles and he had a really hard time committing to me, he actually has a sexual addiction but he doesnt make an excuse for it. We got together in my junior year (finally!) and we’ve been together ever since. It took two years for him to open up to me and there he started to work on being the man I needed. Today he still struggles but he is so open with me that he doesnt feel like he has to come to me and be committed but he wants to and I still struggle with my jealousy and wanting to hold him down to me but letting him decide to commit and love me helped him come to me. My honest response is be friends. Distant friends. I fell in love with my husband 9 years ago but nothing started until he persued me and I let him. You have to let an Aquarius decide and I am the only girl he has ever taken on a date because I decided to put my crazy emotion aside and let him chase me. I know its hard to watch the man you love go from girl to girl, but its not worth chasing a man who doesn’t want to be chased. I’ll tell you, when you can find the balance, every part of an aquarius-scorpio relationship is the most intellectually, physically, sexually, spiritually intense and loving relationship you will ever be in.
Wow, beautiful story thank you.
It resonates
Agreed Rita, I hope the same will come from my relationship with an Aquarius man, we’ve been together almost 3 years now and by far this is my longest and healthiest relationship. Every other relationship I’ve been in by this point everything is stale, boring, and in a steady decline. Haven’t felt that yet and hoping this will continue.
I’m a Scorpio. I met a ambitious, smart and hardworking aquarius guy. We were together for a few months and broke up with me recently because he say he is not ready to be committed. We are still seeing each other now and he still tells me how much he likes me and how much he wanted to be with me but he has to take his time to sort out his internal feelings and being detached in a relationship is a problem that only he can resolve. While doing that he want me to be free from him. I like him a lot and I’m willing to trust and compromise to his need of freedom. It’s a hard situation knowing that we both like each other a lot, and he don’t want to be with me. It breaks me so much that I don’t know what I can do anymore. I hope to get some good advise.
This is the same situation I had with my ex. I’m a Scorpio same story. It’s not worth it. He’s going to forever keep that up. My ex is still confused. I’m over it. It’s a never ending cycle.
I’m a scorpio girl in love with an aquarius guy, we have known each other for 6 months now and it has been one of the most intense experiences I have had, I was depressed and used to have casual sex before I met him, after 5 years of shallow relationships I feel romantic love again… The more we spend time together the more we seem to become very close friends, we are protective of each other, have a lot of fun and our conversations go deeper… I’m willing to give everything to make this last
I have not always believed in astrology but this compatibly of me, a male Aquarius and my Scorpio wife hits home on so many levels. The mystery of our connection which doesn’t make sense “on paper” but is so strong. Her magnetic quality and intense beauty. My calm easy-going nature with my head in the clouds and my unemotional yet easy to read feelings is spot on. And the last part where her weaknesses being my strengths and vice versa I have always noticed. So many things I was never able to articulate but are so true for us.
I’m a scorpio woman (21) nd i love an Aquarius man (20). All d things u mention matches between us. I thank u so much for giving very useful info. Yes i get too much possessive nd jealous when it comes to him. Our relationship is going really good. We love, adore, respect each other very much. I wanna marry him in future. Can u suggest some really Good things to improve our relationship nd to make each other more happy ?
I am a scorpio women 55 currently talking to an Aqua man 61 and I find him to be very attractive intellectually. He rarely texts because he prefer to call and we are on the phone for over an hour talking everytime he calls. He takes the time to talk to me when I call and he tells me where he’s been and what he’s being doing. I don’t call him much because I’m still trying to figure him out as well and he knows that I refuse to do all the work in building a friendship. He is very honest and up front with me and it scares me sometimes because he has this authoritative tone and when I hear it I take a deep breath and prepare myself for the hurt that he may cause me. I also tell him this and he often says “Why do I think like that” He knows I have some bad relationships in the past. He often tells me that he would like to date a person for a while and get to know them before he makes a commitment and I am ok with that. We both mutually like each other and enjoy our morning and nightly conversatations although I am the one that always has a subject to talk about which I think he likes. lol
Wow that’s intense
I am an Aquarius man’ I have dated and are also are very dear friends with several Scorpio woman. They range in age from mid 20’s to late 50’s the younger woman’ I have as very dear friends. I have found that the zodiac predictions of our compatibility is only the general rule. Each of these beautiful woman are unique in every way’ in-fact the only thing In my
humble opinion that they have in common.. in order of appearance # 1 piercing warm eyes that cold melt the Artic # 2 natural charisma and sexiness ‘no man or woman can resist # 3 true devotion to things that are close to their hearts. I give the Scorpio woman that I have met a rating of 10 for all around perfect example of Goddess’ Queen or Warrior Princess……..they are 100% the essence of Womanliness’ bring your A game or don’t even try’ she will see through your transparent intentions…..Little boys and immature men need not apply……
Your comment was very nice.
Could not have said it better..I’m a Scorpio woman
I’m a Scorpio woman and I’m with an Aquarius guy. Everything in this article are so true for the both of us. We do compliment each other, but the thing is, he has a long-distance girlfriend. Me and Him insanely go along so well. I’m more of a girlfriend to Him compared to her girlfriend. i know it’s really bad to be in this situation, but every time we end our connection, we always get back into eachother’s lives. 3 Years. Our Actions that has been seen from the both of us by our friends shows our deep feelings for each other. It’s hard. I guess it was my fault, because during our first encounter, I told him not to Fall in love with me or say the words I LOVE YOU. I’m too scared to take risks. What should I do? 🙁
I’m a scorpio girl and feel currently attracted to an aquarius guy, sometimes it seems we don’t have much to talk about but still he texts me everyday and I long to spend time with him in person, he’s kind and sweet but I’m not sure whether he sees me as a friend or a potential mate… I’ll wait and see where it goes
Just ask him. He sounds fantastic. He probably thinks you’re kinda great
I feel the same way it’s somewhat frustrating but I still wanna be around him
MAYBE, YOU SHOULD BE NOT TOO DISTANT TO HER…AND BE AFFECTIONATE
This is cool
Its funny they say that Scorpios are possessive, but every Aquarius man i ever talk fall in love with me and are clingy af, Im engaged with a Aquarius now hes like an other Scorpio lol he gets jealous and hes possessive.
This Is All So Truue .
@rinor, i feel u. im an aquariusmale pursuing a scorpio female as well so i kno the fight very well. for the most part mekel is on point but still kinda far off. the article above is very accurate as far as my relationship with my scorpio. shes ur oppposite and ur hers. tell her how u feel and be open with her. its just as it says, shes intense and personal. let her learn to b comfortable by showing her how u feel. tell her the way u think anf feel but also keep urself withdrawn. remember its our mysteriousness that profounds them. in time shell open up but u will have to make the first move.she wont show it in a way ull recognize but she might be scared. scorpios are deep and keep themselve hidden and gaurded. if ur not in it for love u wont make it with her.
@rinor While your dating her, just take her to the beach. or to the movies. or just go home and snuggle and watch twilight.
Make sure you show her lots of love, don’t be too distant.
@rinor just tell her how you feel, if she feels the same way I’m sure she would love if you would just confess your feelings. that Scorpio woman is probably thinking of a way to tell you that she likes you. but just go for it and I am sure she will say yes.(sorry if my English is not the best, i am not at all American)
Hi im an aquarius man and i have a crush on a scorpion woman but i still didn’t show her my feelings.I kinda know that she likes me too, now can someone give me a piece of advise what scorpion women like the most, so when ill date her ill make her very happy.
M a scorpio woman. Just Start a conversation wid her. Nd date her in 1 or 2 weeks. Take her to watch some movies or take her to beach. Nd express all ur romantic feelings on her. She will definitely love it.
I dated a aquarius man most my life on and off for 16 years he didn’t want to commit cheated and still was trying to this ending statement is so true… I def treat him like Jeff doesn’t exist but that’s hard because we have 3 kids… I’m curly saying another guy that an aquarius and I’m so scared because of my past expense with one .. I can’t lite though he seems different. but I’ll seebhowbthisbgoes. we aren’t in A relationship but I kindavwant to be… but no rush our force . thus gives me more time to evaluate the situation …
I am a scorpio woman who has been dating an aquarius man and i have to say…He is moody and difficult all the time. It has only been a couple of months and Ive already had to beat him down to the ground a couple of times. Hes like a new puppy without a leash. I think he just needs to be house broken and then everything should go smoothly. I dont really mind his need for “freedom” it seems to work well with my need for “independence” that he keeps trying to take away from me. When he tries to get in the way of my independence is when the arguing occurs. And his smart mouth is another reason for the arguments. He always seems to say the rudest thing anyone could ever say and then say im sorry like thats the cure for it. Buuuut when he’s nice hes really nice and that is the only reason stay around. I do ask myself what the hell am i doing with this jerk but than again i believe this is the only man that can deal with my sarcasm and not let it get the best of him. Im still contemplating on rather or not i should kick him to the curb but if some how he manages to keep me around until summer I will know that he is a keeper because I plan on giving him lots of freedom while im at the gym working on my summer bikini body that my sexy scorpio frame carries so well instead of wasting my time trying to figure out what it is i like about him. I will say Im hard to please and can be demanding but that is only when im stressed out. but if he takes his time and really gets to know me… he will see that will do for him the same things that he does for me and if he can be nicer to me it would be easier for me to deal with his irritating personality traits. The friction that goes on with this aquarius man and I is minor. I can honestly say i havent had a dull moment with his jerk.
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hi, i am jennifer n i am cusp b/w scorpion and saggitarus and i like a guy who is also a cusp b/w piscean and aquarias……i seriously like this guy but he appears not to get out of his stupid breakup……though we are good friends i don’t understand how to go about the whole thig…..i believe i am a staunch scorpion so can’t pofess my love to me…what should i do….n how will be or compatibility?
@Becky
ironically enough, I’m fairly sure that’s what my fiance thinks about me. There is one major difference between you and your Aquarius, and me and my Scorpio though, I lack an ego completely. In place of most males of the human race who have an over-prominent one, I completely lack one. She has yet to figure this out, and in our case, SHE is the one with the ego, though that’s not entirely bad, seeing as that means I can just inflate it further. 🙂
Being a male Aquarius myself, I agree with nigh all of this, though seizing as I’ve been engaged to a Scorpio now for three years (and this was within a week of having begun to date her) I’d say that not ALL of us are quite so reluctant to join them. The only reason she and I aren’t married yet, is because we got engaged, and I am aware that this is probably a terrible idea to post online but oh well, when we were 15. I am the younger, though that didn’t stop me from asking. In fact, quit the opposite. She was wanting me to from the first day. I will admit this, I was reluctant to propose though only because we had just met. Within a week however, she got me to, and as of June 23, 2015, she and I will be married. Why wait so long you ask? Neither of our parents really care all that much for the other. 🙁 but beyond that, she and I have had absolutely no problems yet. Famous last words, I know, but oh well, nor however do either of us see any in the future, even despite all of these “predictions of doom to come”. Thank you this taking the time out of your lives to read this.
Yep, this is pretty spot on. The reason I searched for this is because I worked alongside a married Scorpio woman. She and I hit it off quickly in a bland workplace no less, and had so much fun we made other people jealous because we laughed all day. As days turned into months, we texted eachother goofy funny stuff, pictures, jokes. Then we started texting as friends outside of work. Around this time, I noticed she was quite flirty, and because she is very attractive, and now, looking back on it, has that typical scorp allure, I was spellbound before too long. I think I read into things too deeply, as my overly analytical Aquarian brain does often. So our friendship became a rollercoaster as I became increasingly dependent on her affection, and from time to time she would put a wall up in defense. We never could stop communicating though, as one of us would wind up texting the other eventually. As things changed at work, and I was moved from sitting next to her, I had trouble letting go of her. She quit that job a couple weeks ago, and we parted ways on good terms, as I gave her a drawing as a sort of gag gift and she gave me a card telling me ahe wouldnt have made it at that job a whole year had it not been for me. That made me feel good. It was nice to leave that kind of imprint on a woman. Especially a scorpio woman now that I have more insight into their nature. I dunno what it is about them, but they are irresistable. To this day, there were some things that made me wonder about her, or if those thoughts were just my natural instinct to think too much, but one thing is for sure, I miss her like crazy, and will more than likely never come across such an awesom lady in the workplace again. I got on here, because just like this articel pointed out, she helped realize some things about my nature, just being friends. The few deep conversations we had were heartfelt and insightful, and now I know why Scorps are generally very private people. If I ever get a chance with a single scorp female, maybe now i’ll have a little better idea of how to approach and handle her!
Orks,
It seems you may have decided not to respond-Lost your email to login. It is okay I have done the same. Now, i was also with an aqua man that broke my heart; with not helping financially, nor not helping around the house. I do believe that a man and a job- living with me should contribute half of the house/rent. He didnt do that; and then also, very lazy * not helping out around the house and into his video games. He did win me over with an engagement ring and was very romantic at first. yes- was dating his representative at first-lol However, women no matter what sign needs a “real man,” not one that puts a ring on it gets great sex, clothes washed, dinner cooked should be at least paying 1/2 rent.I work full time also, so not helping me out with housework; just pissed me off! I could only take so much and after many talks nothing worked so asked him to move out. So after a week he asked my bff-girl out. Then after the turn down he went back to texting me saying he misses me. REALLY?-I see a big lack of morals here- so ignoring his text because i am not wasting my time on replying. If anything he was in love with the idea of a commitment; but didnt do his homework to do what it takes to make one work. And ironically, my household bills went down-:-) imagine that.
Hello. My question to orks-aqua man posted May 4th 2012 is what did ended the relationship? Was it your inability to commit to your Scorp?
Well, here is some male perspective on the subject – I’m an Aquarian, who has fallen in love with a Scorpio woman. And she broke my heart few times in a row over the years. And when a say broke, I mean it. You can imagine how it was, finding me reading such sites to get some reason behind all this. I met her several years ago. At one point, she developed a huge crush on me. I could not reciprocate at all, informed her right away and I tried to push her off as gently as possible. But she persisted and persisted. Then I gave up a bit, then some more, then even more – we finally had a relatiion, which I planned to terminate, once her feelings ware off. She was all over me, all the time – messaging, texting, calling. The problem was, it felt so smothering, at one point I felt I can’t breath, literally.
And here is some hint about this breeding space that Aquarius needs – by nature we are intrugued by the ‘big picture’ of things. You can picture it as the Aquarian being a kite and the Scorpio being the kite holder. The Aquarian likes to be hold tight (otherwise they lack ground) and the Scorpio likes to have someone who can tell how things look from afar. If you pull the kite too close to the ground, it will fall off (as it lacks the wind) and you don’t need a ‘fallen’ Aquarius, it is too pitifull. On the other hand, if the kite flies too high, the Scorpio starts worring constantly should it not fly off. Learning to maintain the right distance is not easy, but here is a hint girls – there is no question an Aquarian man wouldn’t answer. We run by simple logic – if there is reason to it, it deserves an answer.
Few thoughts on the detachment thing – it is true that we are not very efficient in the emotions sector. It took years and years for me to master that and I’m still no close to what Scorpio can do. Scorpios are gifted with all the facilities to manage emotions the way they feel. Aquarians, on the other hand, have no controls in this sector – and if an Aquarian falls into his emotions – he simply does not know what to do or how to react (it’s like trying to breath when some one is pouring buckets of water over your head). That is why we retract – cause we need to get away from the source of confusion. We need some time to find a reasonable explanation to these emotions.
Also, Aquarians are ruled by Saturn, there are simply times when we switch off – and it is not only relationships, it could be work, chores, hobbies, anything. Patience is the key to such periods. If you stick to your Aquarian man through this period (provided you ask him if he has something else on his mind) he will appreciate you even more after wards. As to Aquarians being hard to comit – it is true too. But there is an explanation for that, as well. Aquarians are well aware of their ‘windy’ nature. We know this, because we experience a great deal of mood change, choice change, emotional change, more often than any other sign (I think).
But Aquarians are also very responsible people, by nature. So you can imagine that there is a complicated system of check ups (of our own feelings and emotions) trough time, to make sure we can be with someone. We need to find some deeper levels (which are much more stable) we can link to, before we can say to someone – I want to be with you. And it takes time. But above all – ask all the time. Ask the most direct and blunt (to your view) questions – you can rest asure you will get (in most cases anyway) true answers. And from there you can make you mind.
Now having said all that – it did not help in my case, but my ‘rollercoster’ was very transforming. And this is what you can expect from such a relationship – both of you will change for the better in the long run. And it does take effort and energy, but no matter of the end result, it is worth it. In my case, a Taurean man (and you can read to comments on this relationship in the site) will reap the benefits of this transformed Scorpio women I still think about a lot, but hey – if she is happy, I am also happy. Cause no Aquarian will feel happy, if the person next to him is unhappy. So – things either work out or they don’t (no rocket science in that). But if they do – the amount of effort you have put in, will come back doubled at the end. If they don’t – you will have learned much more about yourself and about the world in general. And for a Scorpio, this could mean a lot. If it sticks and does not go anywhere – sit down and discuss it. Emotional fits look very immature to an Aquarian, as they lead to nowhere and the Aquarian man starts to wander if this is a mature person he is dealing with. Think of us like Vulcans. Startrek fans will fill in the rest.
Finally, few more things to watch out for – we are both fixed signs and this translates into a lot of stubborness on both ends. You need to discuss a plan how to deal with such situations. Also, you may not notice it Scorpio girls, but you are a lot about power and control in the relation. With some Aquarians that may work, but with some it translates into a power struggle. Coupled with stubborness – you can easily lose sight of the real things that connect you. Make a plan for that as well – like impose a one day silence rule. There is great chance the next day your Aquarian man will not remember what was all that about. And find some common projects, hobbies or shared interests. This is where you well see the real potential of this not easy, but very electrifying combination. Hope this long post brings some more sense to your experiences.
I’m an Aquarius and my ascendent is gemini, so I act and appear as a gemini. I know aquarius likes space…because after a lot of repetition and social activity I like it when I’m alone better. My boyfriend is a Scorpio…he’s not my first scorpio, scorpio guys always liked me and asked me to be there girlfriend since I was 9 lol. Anywho…last I checked they wear this facade like they don’t want me to know their workaholics and that they like my feisty side…the sex is amazing. But it’s been good with Virgos and Aries too. I like scorpios because they always seem to make me there crabby princess…I once read in article that celebrity scorpio girls have this thing for aquarius guys…hmmm interesting. Well as an aqua gal I want to be the boss and scorpio thinks that’s hot…to top it off they claim I’m the sexiest girl ever, I have never been smothered by anyone more than scorpio guys…Also I think it depends on the astrologer on what he/she thinks. Because I’ve read different opinions from different astrologers.
But yes aquarius and scorpio for the most part intrigue each other, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher? Well that was hot and steamy wasn’t it 😉
I’m a scorpio girl and am talking to an aquarius boy. The distance is way too big so it pretty much sucks, but I accepted the fact that he lives far away because when someone means so much, distance means so little right ? Anyway, I’ve been talking to him for almost 8 months before it all went a mess…BUT to be honest, when we first talked I’ve never had so much fun talking to someone, he’s super sweet, and has told me things that no one has ever told me before, We’ve webcammed, we’ve tried finding ways to text eachother but failed at it haha, We listen to the same bands, And he’s just so good for me. I’ve never felt so loved by someone before i’m just like “Damn, I can’t believe somebody loves me” He sort of gave me hope. My past relationships were shit so yea. I think he was crushing on me hard cause’ he messaged me every night then I started messaging him and when he would be busy he would apologize why he wouldn’t reply and I was okay with it. We started talking more then he would secretly give me little hints that he liked me and he really did. So, We both started having strong feelings for eachother. Aquarians do make you feel lucky! but then I guess he needed his “space” and I didn’t know that so as a scorpio I was a little suspicious and i’m also not really good at these things so I started asking friends advice and they would always say negative shit so I got scared and fucked up because I wasn’t “trusting him” and he got upset with me…we made up everything was better now, but since aquarians always need their “space” He went away for like a week or two and they’re kind of confusing cause sometimes one day they can be like “baby <3” and the next they would act like such assholes I don’t know they’re weird. Anyway, that’s where I started freaking out and I made a bad move and we sort of stop talking…I know he’s mad and disappointed in me because I thought he had moved on and I thought I should too, but couldn’t let go cause I really fuckin’ love him and I know he loves me…I never stopped trying to talk to him cause I wanted answers obviously. Now by reading all these comments I should’ve just waited for him to talk to me first and not assume shit. I sort of started doing my own thing and he would get pissed off or jealous. I don’t know what to do anymore. I just want to get on good terms with him. Communication is the key I just don’t know what to say. Help ?
I’m a Scorpio woman that has been with an Aquarius man for more than eighteen years…Most of what you read on these sites is true, in my experience.
The biggest issue being: a gap of emotional levels, …hmm, at least the expression of them.
The next biggest issue, would be his need of independent freedom. For it to work, the Scorpio woman has to learn to not take it personally and understand that it is just his nature (I still struggle with that sometimes). For him, that he is still around and desires to go do things with you, is like a great big “I’m in Love with You!”
The last thing I have found, is that the foundation in this relationship, is a profound friendship. Even when things are crumbling at their worst, even if the romantic part seems gone, there is a true friendship there that you can rebuild upon.
My Aquarius guy…He is unique.
…This is a macho guy whose recreation is shooting BBs at other macho guys for sport, crawling over desert mountain rocks with other macho guys in jeeps, watching monster trucks, he’s not uneasy when seeing a medical show that’s kind of gross…
But then, when I have no one else to help me, he is helping me highlight my hair pulling strands of hair through the cap, helping me make jewelry, (impressing himself with new experiences, without assigining gender or significance to them) he is going to parent-teacher conferences, doing grocery shopping and cooking…This surprises people when I tell them because he looks like a great, big lumberjack, all rough around the edges and his fingernails are usually stained with grease from fixing things. There are no gender roles with him. He can cook and I can take out the trash and it doesn’t matter becasue we are intellectually equal as far as he is concerned (although this is liberating, Sometimes, the flipside is that he comes across as unromantic–Why should he pull your chair out for you when you are perfectly capable of doing it yourself? After all he knows you moved that dresser to the other side of the room?)
… He loves science, medical shows, Sci-Fi, TLC, History Channel (not so much history itself though, unless it’s about weapons, things like that–the past is not as interesting to him as the future–although the Scorpio in me sees their connection to each other) I ask him my science questions and answering them, for him, is as easy as it is for me, to define an emotional issue. A scientific, logical kind of mind…Tolerant temperament (sometimes you hate this, other times you are thankful for it) While I am shouting, emotional and passionate, he is the one who is going to calm it all down so we can both get back into our minds lol. Arguing is a waste of his time (on the flipside, the Scorpio in me finds it hard to connect with someone who isn’t impassioned or inflamed by much.)…
He likes simplicity when I thrive in complexity, he is comforted by the surface while I long to dive to depth… He is very stubborn! Very stubborn… He is stable and dependable, and I am emotional and excitable. At our best, he brings me calm and I lend him excitement. He creates a secure environment when I can play like a girl, which amuses him and makes him smile and continue to maintain that sort of environment for me.
Anyway, it really all depends on the couple I guess. Lot of power struggles, both are fixed signs. One is about thought, the other about feelings, a hard road…. But Aquarius is unique. You have to engage in the mind before anything else I think. You have to be able to be his best friend, above all. And when all else fails, you start again from that.
(My Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, and Mars are in Scorpio and my rising sign is Taurus…His stuff… is all over the place lol. We are both Tigers in Chinese astrology. Tiger is likened to Aquarius of Western Astrology I believe…)
im a scorpio women…who fell in love with an aquarius man. It was amazing, he was the calm to my storm. He was intelligent, sweet, romantic, always thought of my needs and wants. It was blinding we were so in love, I was never jealous which is a first because I knew he didnt see anything past me. The sex was amazing, it was always about my needs. We were best freinds at the same time as lovers, we shared most things…but he did lack in the emotion department when it came to expressing things other then his love for me. We ended up spending to much time together, he really did need his space…but would never say anything about it. Being a scorpio I was always straight up when I thought there was a problem and he would laugh and say it wasnt an issue or that we would talk about it another time. There was alot of romance though, he opened the car door for me and kissed me on the cheek before I got into and out of the car. waiting outside my house in the dead of the night because he wanted to see me. laying in bed listening to music and just talking about anything and everything. I was lost in a dream world that came to an end. which broke my heart and left me very confuse as to what happened. Though he broke it off, he left me with an explanation to the best of his ability….which I still till this day respect him for. He still sends me songs that I might like, or tells me how much he misses me and loves me…but even though he says these things he never acts on it…just empty promises.I love him still, being a scorpio has its down falls because I dont think I will never let him break my heart again. Plus I see him differently now I realized our relationship was not perfect, I was the adult in our relationship where he was kind of immature. If you find the right aquarious its worth the try to be with them, they will open your eyes to a different world, a world where your more at peace with everything and everyone. Its amazing, adventurous…give them their space, and be open with them. Enjoy them because you can learn alot from them.
I am a scorpio woman who fell head over hills for an aquarius man. We were together for 3yrs. I loved him from the moment we met. Our chemistry was crazy & intense. The sex was AMAZING! We connected on such a beautiful level. I was so blinded from reality because I was lost in love. I thought he was perfect in the beginning. As the time went on I realized it was all part of his manipulation. He wanted his freedom but he didnt want me to have mine. He was disrespectful where other women were concerned. I didn’t see it at first but once I looked back he had been that way from the start. He needed other women to feed his ego as he made me look like a fool. He was over friendly & opened the door for alot of unnecessary bs. He did all the right things for the first yr & 1/2, so I let my guards down. I was hesitant on marriage, but he would constantly bring it up. When I agreed then he would make excuses. He had an excuse for everything. I had given my all & opened up my heart completely, before I even realized it. Once he knew he became worse. He was mean with words & actions. He literally put me through hell. I admit I took him back time & time again, but it was just a game for him. He walked out after 3yrs because I valued respect to much. He told me I would have to lower myself to be with him & let him do whatever he wanted while I did what he wanted me to do. He cheated & so much more & claimed it was all justifiable. Needless to say I finally woke up & seen him for who he was “A REAL JERK”. It’s crazy I think I stayed so long because I was hoping the passion that had once brought us together would come back. This relationship was a rollercoaster ride of emotions that seemed as if it never slowed down. As odd as it may seem I still love him & miss what we once had. Now not all aquarius men are this way, I just eneded up with the wrong one. Don’t be blinded by his niceness or good words. Just pay attention to the little things & watch how he acts around different people. Don’t be a blinded fool as I was…..
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Im a scopio n he an aqua.he jst drive me crazy n smetime he dnt txt nor call me n zat doesnt mean he dont love me its because he is stresed or in a prob.Wait 4 him n hav faith he will cme back 2 u.U jst need 2 b very patience wiz zem .My aqua man make me laugh n smtme cry.Bt in all he loves me lodzzzzzzzzz he is a real sugar n i can wait yearsssssss 4him.we both we r stubborn bt i bow myself infront of him to make our relation works. And never separate zem wiz zer frnds. Patience work best here.
Hey Rony, just tell her. Scorpio women (myself included) can really appreciate a man who can express his feelings.
Go for it, I know i absolutely love the aquarian man that approached me. He was unlike anyone i have ever met for sure.
HI LADIES IM AQUARIUS GUY IM DIEYING FOR THIS SCORPION IM JUST GETTING MY HEART MELT IM INTO HER ALREADY BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HER ANY HELP!?!?!?
I am a scorpio living with my aquarius man! Yes we have had our ups and downs but he makes me laugh more than anyone. Hes always full of surprises, but yes hes very slow to commitment. Weve been living together for a year and 5 months now, and he finally gave me a promise ring for Christmas, he still doesnt want a full on commitment, but he doesnt want me to be with anyone else either.. If he would ask me to marry him today I would say yes, but I am a very patient person, and I intend to wait for my prince charming when hes ready….
wow, am surprised with all the above comments..indeed so true that these aquarian men tend to be distant and treats us like a barest minimal in their life at times. im in love with an aquarian man. I met this guy., to be precise, met him at my NEIGHBOORHOOD!! I have met that amazing man. We live just a block away from each other. He was weird yet attractive. Immensely! Before I knew it, I fell for him 10years ago. So right now, after waiting for over ten years for him to notice me. He finally manages to notice me. This perfect stranger is that guy whom I have dreamt about. The faceless man, whom now i found an identity to. From the time I realized I have fallen in love with him, I have been made to feel that I wasn’t worthy of this man. He was the first male to make me feel inadequate. He was also the first male that made me want to get him. The journey was bumpy, and it still is. but the wait was fruitful the moment I got a clue to his identity. I got the clue to this man’s identity. Finally! It was exhausting.. The only thing that I don’t know is, for how long do I have him in my contact? For the past 1yrs after i got to know him,he has been soooo ignorant. Or he is simple playing hard to get. N around last year december bumped into him when i was with my best friend. thats when my friend and i plan to approach him to get a clue to his identity. so somehow my friend striked a conversation with him. as much as i thought he wasnt friendly, he proved me wrong. he was really nice and friendly. somehow i spoke to him as well. i was so happy for the fact that i atleast managed to get his name after 10 years of waiting for him to notice me. he even gave his email ID. which seem useless, cos he hardly replys to mails. i’ve dropped him a few mails but NO reply. after that a few times,i managed to see him around when i go over to the school he is teaching, with pretext to work. then he seemed friendly too. he speaks well in person..he even gave his mobile number. but when i call, he is normarlly busy…and tells me he will return to my call. but he never does
What surprises me is that, despite knowing him after 10 years, i happened to know that we share quite abit of similarities. we both were from the same primary school..but never noticed each other then..n we both stay just a block away..and a few other similarities. the kind of relationship i am having with him, is kind of nothing now. Its not a friendship, a fling or a relationship. We are still like 2 strangers who by chance crosses path.his nice. i dont know if he ever felt what sadness is really like. i really like him. I dare say I loved him for the past 10 years and till today I am loving him. his more like the guy whose not at all existent. he exist in the world, also a block away from me, but his world is not anywhere near mine and mine near his. half the time it seem that his entirely in love with himself and no one else matters to him. Just recently, out of the blue we started going to work together. He is a gem of person in reality,jus that he is simply not cut for a relationship now. Ive confessed my feelings to him. And true enuf,he was honest enough to say he prefers starting it off as friends. He msges me once a while and at times he totally doest his MIA acts (i agree its just his nature of the aquarius.) The scorpio in me tries so hard tame the anger tho i will send him vexed msges when i am mad. He is the man i have stretched my patience with. I hope someday he wil reciprocate my feelings..cos i understand how family oriented and loving an aquarian guy can be after marriage. 🙂
im also a scorp he aqua, we have been together for 2 years. hes in the navy so of course fits right into his needing his space. its hard im needy. right before he deployed this last time he proposed. it was awesome in the middle of his deployment i visited him for two weeks and he is coming home in 2 weeks….he just told me that he needs space even if he is half way around the world right now. he said he does not know how he feels right now…i think its cold feet. but now after reading this website i think its just his nature of the aquarius…so i feel a little better. i told him i will respect his space when he is ready to talk to me im here but i will not bother him. i do feel much better after reading this website
I’m also a scorp female talking to an aqua man for about 3 months. I must say it can get confusing at times. I totally adore my aqua though and he’s incredibly sweet. He is very independent and likes his freedom; he is the slow to commit type. One pointer I will give is, you have to have your own life outside of him. When he gets distant, you get distant as well and do your own thing. You will always find a way back to each other. I personally love my freedom and independence, so I completely understand my aqua’s need for space. I also understand his need to be cautious when entering into a relationship because I am the same way. You can’t tell if someone is going to be right for you within the first six months of dating (whether you were friends at first or not). So why try and rush things…? This is how aqua’s view commitment.
I’m a scorpio woman and have been with a aquarian man for the past 20 years, we married 17 years ago and it is never dull. What is written about these signs is to true, they need their space and individual independance, they can be unattached at times which makes our life a very very unhappy time. Rollcoaster is not the word as far as I am concerned, sometimes it can be worse than that, but the upside to this is that I wouldn’t have him any other way, he’s my rock and my friend. When things are good they are extemerly fantastic but when they go bad its like living in hell.
I’m a scorpio woman and I’ve recently become involved with an Aquarian man and the connection in incredibly intense. We’ve been seeing eachother for about 4 months and I find I have the opposite problem! He wants to be around me CONSTANTLY. Not to the point of being controlling or creepy, just a lot. He needs me to spend every night with him and gets upset when we don’t see eachother…I kinda wish he was the typical aquarian as I’m the kind of girl that really likes my space…
i started dating this aquarius guy, but we kind of rushed into things and he knew i lived far when we started it. once i went back home he realized the distance was tougher than he’d thought and reality of distance finally hit him. now i feel like an idiot, because i had a feeling of being unsure from the start. i need some advice on what to do he says he wants to be friends.but now i don’t jsut want him as a friend, because i got a taste of how sweet he can be.im confused.
WOW! I am a scorpio woman. I met an Aquarius man 4 months ago. We had great conversation, he mailed me beautiful cards, emails, poems all of the time. I finally met him in person after 3 months because we live thousands of miles away from each other. Our first weekend was beautiful. He proposed to me and gave me an exceptionally unique engagement ring and a pearl necklace. Since i returned home he has been extremely distant. I asked him if everything is ok and he said “his feelings are the same for me and nothing has changed”. But it’s just so different from how things were when we first started communicating months ago.
I text and him just to say good morning and sometimes he will not even respond.
i just do not know if i should wait for him to call or text me
instead of texting him.
YIKES! I say to myself why would he give me an engagement ring if he wasn’t serious. It’s even harder because of the distance. When i read the comments on here i feel a little better about it being somewhat of a characteristic of an Aquarius Man. This is going to be an emotional challenge for me.
Wow! I thought it was just me. I met this Aquarian man in June, but I went to high school with his family members. I gave him my number for business, but he did not call until August. I thought he was not interested. He asked me was I going to this concert that was a few days away and I said that I was thinking about it. Then I asked him did he want to go. Every since then we have been doing something almost once a week, but it is like pulling teeth. I feel like he likes me and he kind of says it. But as soon as it seems like we are going to get closer, he pulls away. I want to leave him alone, but everytime he calls, I just giggle and say he not so bad. When we are together, he treats me like a Queen. I think that is why I miss him when he does not call or come by for a few days in-between. I can relate to all you ladies.
I was married to an Aquarius man for 17 years. Independence was a huge must for him and he would take himself off all weekend to do his own thing. He was very grounded, steady and loyal but by god he was frustratingly picky about the most smallest of issues. He exagerated constantly and I found this to be irrational at times and extremely irritating. He always had to be right and was actually quite arrogant. He would fly off the handle at the drop of a hat and then insist that his point of view was right. The sexual side was pretty uneventful too – cool, selfish and uninteresting. I would never entertain another Aquarian again. After 17 years of marriage – I would of got less doing time for murder!
I’ve been married to my Aquarius for almost a year now. I see the aloofness and detachment but I don’t need reaassurance every second of every day to know that he loves me. If he didn’t he wouldn’t be with me, married or not. We’ve been together almost two years and are inseperable. We’ve only slept apart three times since meeting and that was bc of work and a hospital stay. He enjoys his freedom but I’m always a part of everything he does. When the chips are down and I need him he’s always there to help me through difficult times, no questions asked. Couldn’t ask for a better husband. This is also my first Aquarius relationship.
I am a Scoprio woman and there’s an Aquarius man that I’ve known for about a year. We’ve only hung out a handful of times and talk occasionaly through txt and IM. One time he called and asked me to go have coffee with him and found it cute that he actually called me. Now I am finding myself more and more attraced to him everytime we hang out. How do i deal with the aloofness? I understand he values his space and often it is about two weeks or more when we see each other. and he asks me where I dissapear to and I ask him the same thing! But now i’m finding it hard to deal with all the space…sometimes i feel like finding someone who will be there more. I know he is attracted to me, and he told me it starts as friends first. But I dont want it ot be only sexual so that is why I hae not slept with him.From what Ive read m scared of getting hurt or used. Should I be patient and give in to him or should I just leave and not waste my time?
I’m a true Scorpio female and there’s this Aquarius guy who likes and cares for me and to be in a relationship with me. He saw me at his cousins bday party few months ago and has been asking about me. Just the last 3 weeks we have been talking, texting every day every sec. I know he sincerely does care for me n wants my happiness whether with him or not. I’m beginning to have feels but after reading what everyone have said its scaring me go forward with it. I’m surprised by everyone’s comment about get slow to commit cause he’s ready he opened up to me right way n poured his heart out his past present n future first. So now I don’t know if I wanna move forward cause I don’t want any more drama or rollercoaster relationship.
I’M A SCORPIO WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN WITH A AQUARIUS MAN FOR A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS,BUT I MET HIM ABOUT 7 YEARS AGO….I CAN RELATE TO ALL THATS BEING SAID,MY AQUARIOUS IS SUCH A HARD NUT TO CRACK,MEAN WHILE I AM THE EMOTIONAL ONE WHO ALWAYS NEED AN EXPLANATION ON WHERE WE STAND…HE NEVER EVEN ASKED ME OUT,I HAD TO FIGURE OUT WE WERE TOGETHER.HIS NON-CHAULANT WAYS ARE SO HIGH ITS TAKING SO MUCH ENERGY TO BREAK HIM IN…I DNT USE FORCE I JUST USE MIND POWER..I GIVE HIM HIS SPACE AND LET HIM FIND ME WHEN HE IS READY…DO U KNOW HOW HARD IT IS NOT TO BLOW HIS PHONE UP AND SAY HOW I REALLY FEEL!….THOSE DARN AQUARIOUS DNT RESPOND WELL TO EMOTIONS AND PRESSHA.ILL THROW SOMETHING OUT AND SEE HOW HE RESPONDS TO IT…THE FUNNY THING IS U WOULD THINK HE IS NOT INTERESTED BUT IF HE REALLY FELT THAT WAY HE WOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH U.THEY DONT FAKE THE FUNK!IF THEY WANT U IN THERE LIFE U WILL BE IN IT…BUT IF UR WORTH NOTHING THEY WILL LEAVE U WHERE U STAND.IM ALSO A TOUGH NUT SO I AM ENJOYING FIGHTING FOR HIS HEART…OH YEA AND ONCE THEY HAVE BEEN HEART BROKEN…U HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF WORK TO DO…THE KEY TO A SCORPIO WOMAN V.S A AQUARIOUS MAN IS PATIANCE.
WOW, OMG, I can’t believe this is normal for this type of signs getting together. I am a scorpio women with Aquarius man for the last 7months, but I have kinda known him for 6 years. It drives me crazy the shyness to commit, we (for sure me) need to communicate better. But everything above is true, strange how could this be? But i hope it works out cause I really like him
I am a true scorpio for the most part and in a relationship with an aquarius man for almost 3 years. However, I can say rollercoaster is an understatement for wat we been through. But our chemistry is CRAZY!!! I mean we are really connected mentally and physically. Although, Aquarians are not supposed to be very affectionate, he is VERY affectionate with me and actually is jealous. Believe it or not with him I’m not jealous at all considering he DEFINATELY wants his freedom. I let him have it and just dismiss at as no big deal so I don’t get mad or insecure and it works. And also when it comes to tempers, believe it or not I’m the less tempermental. However, I tend to be the more responsible and I guess demanding type which kind of causes conflict between us.
Saundra, Girl go for it. Its very difficult to have an aquarius come to this point all by himself, as they do fiercely guard that side of them. Just remember that he is your best friend first and everything else after, give him his space and you would always be his focal point. Blessings to you both.
I am a true scorpio and I am hesitant on whether or not I should date this aquarian because all the compatabilities said it just wouldn’t work out. He is really adament about getting into a relationship with me and speaks daily about taking care of me and potentially a family. I was going to just leave things alone but after hearing all these comments about the relationship surviving I think I may give him a shot 🙂
Aquarius men are sooooooooo sexy! I am very attracted to one that needs his space. I need mine too. We have this in common which makes it difficult for us to have a relationship but I am all for understanding this man to accurately communicate with him so I can keep getting that good stuff! I love the way his mind works. We communicate through music too.
I am also a Scorpio woman involved with an Aquarius man. We have known each other for about 2 years, but have only started getting serious about 6 months ago. Communication is definitely the key to making this union work and also understanding that unlike us, the Aquarius man treasures his space. Always remember that when he dissapears, it has nothing to do with you. That’s just how he’s made up. Once he feels that you wouldn’t judge him based on that, he will be more open to you.
I Am a Scorpio Woman and I’ve been with a Aquarious man For 8months now. We are crazy about eachother and have a really strong connection. At times things get rough but if you take the time out to try and understand eachother and work together in making it work the relationship will be a success. Stubbornness on both ends is always going to be an issue but you need to understand your similarities and differences inorder to move forward together and make it work!
well im 100% scorpio nd im madly in luv wit an aquarius man.we have bheen tewgetha for 3 months nd counting.Yea sometymes dha dings dhat he does makes mhe jealous.Yea we had our problems in the past.But, one thing that is bothering mhe is our communication.I feel at tymes dhat he avoidin mhe bt i ghot ova it.I also agree 100% with the statements above everything that the paragraphs above say reminds mhe of mhe nd mha boifriend.
Well.. i can’t disagree on above as me being a total 100% scorpio in quality and attitude and having a man of Aquarian over 10 years with a relationship. I’m always the one who needed to be assured of our relationship status and the bond and he is a guy who’d always grounded and too cool sometime makes our self get in to trouble but as i look back. It’s not needed. And the same time i was always ready to communicate the needed details to resolve the issues but my aquarian is so hesitant in talking about the problems face to face. But we do share a very strong bond which kept us both together this far and because of his cool type it was him who always accept me when i calm down after a storm. Also, it’s very true that he takes a long long time to make a decision and nothing can influence him other than his own decision. He’s SLOW TO COMMIT but a family type. Scorpio always has this strong feeling for aquarian and i feel this can be a best relationship if both knows each other and fairly communicate one another..
this is so true i have been with a scorpio woman and let me tell you its been a headache. theses been a few good times with alcohol in place other than that i have thatx relationship 2 thumbs down
Sure just be your self don’t be pushy mean harsh think very deeply about what you sa uh tibher or him okay trust me if you were me you would have a black hart like mine my hart us fully a rock no one can make it love again unless someone truly loved me like I dod I got my Gary broken by living him an her