Aries Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Aries woman and Virgo man compatibility is difficult due to their contrasting personalities.
  • Physically, they are compatible with each other, with the Aries woman providing passion and the Virgo man providing stability.
  • To attract the Virgo man, the Aries woman should remember his good qualities and avoid getting irritated by his lack of spontaneity.
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As the Fire element of Aries mix with the Earth element of Virgo, it makes a difficult combination, but with certain merits of its own. Aries need stimulation and excitement while Virgo needs safety and security in the relationship. These two signs can be quite active together and pour some energy into activities they perform together.

A Virgo man is a very practical person with strong intellect and detailed information of all the aspects of life. He is usually success hungry, and takes short, calculated and precise steps to reach the desired destination. He can easily analyze a situation and can be quite critical regarding it, if needed. When angry, he never becomes rash rather he keeps the feelings deep inside to hide them from people around him. He in love with an Aries woman gives her tender affection and stability with no strings attached.

An Aries woman likes to live in the moment and make most out of it. With this aggressive nature and restlessness that dwells inside her, she may sound exciting and very active to most of the people around her. She can be irrational at times and do not bother the cautions to be taken. In love with a Virgo man, she gives a lot of excitement to their relationship and teaches him to fly high and breath free! She also admires his considerate nature and bright mind with strong passion.

An Aries woman always gives a Virgo man the energy and spark, he lacks in his individuality. She is an inordinate devotee of his intelligence and appreciates every aspect of planning and working. She always supports him in his blues and is beside him like a solid rock in all ups and downs. Her reliability and courage is something that drives him crazy and he is ready to be her partner to fulfill all her exciting dreams which fill enthusiasm in his life too. He has to just avoid being bossy with her as this is one thing she can never stand. She can sooth away all the fears and worries of the Virgo male and teach him to be more amicable and expressive at least with her. She is a jolly mate and can take him to the skies of his imaginations and expectations with her passionate ways of loving and expressing.

A Virgo man is one person who gives his Aries female the richest and sincerest form of love throughout their lives. He is very trustworthy and considerate. She always appreciates the nature of a Virgo man to work towards finer perfections and plan everything down to the last detail. This gives her a sense of relief and security in life. He is always willing to edify her, while refraining from competition. He makes her hidden Aries anxieties and secret fears of inadequacy melt away and bring peace to her life. The extreme nature of Aries woman never intimidates him and he admires her strong will and passion. Though she may feel bored sometimes due to his passive calm nature but her impulsive behaviors fill up the air with much excitement around both of them but this time rather more sensibly.

The union of Aries woman and Virgo man seems to have been made in heaven. They can find a strange comfort in their relationship when their paths cross. Their oneness brings a lasting satisfaction of all the possible outcomes through this blending of the two divergent natures. He seldom interferes with her freedom and she becomes more stable and finds patience in the arms of her Virgo man. All the squabbles are washed away in the tender care and unconditional love given by these two souls to each other. He always sympathizes with her faults and has faith in her dreams. While she understands that though he is not demonstrative but his chivalry and honor is worth loving and adoring. The love, of this unique combination last forever, making their life very beautiful, and providing them with the truest and purest form of oneness.

There is a strange sexual connection between the Aries woman and Virgo man. They both are compatible physically pertaining to expression and desire. She provides passion and blaze to their love making while he provides stability and harmony in their oneness. It is a strong union where they both believe that lovemaking is bringing together the body, mind and soul. Kind of like a trinity. The Aries woman is sexually mysterious to the Virgo man and that keeps him excited and looking forward to future love making sessions. On each occasion they are renewing themselves. They create an oneness together during their lovemaking. When they are finished they are physically fulfilled and emotional at peace with in their souls. There is a strong magnetic attachment in their physical intimacy which lasts for long time and makes them desire each other more every time they get together. One could not ask for a better union. The only downside to this union is that the Virgo man may not be spontaneous enough for the Aries woman. It would be wise on her part that instead of getting irritated she remembers his other good qualities which make her feel so loved and blessed.

Together the Aries woman and Virgo man have contrasting personalities. They are totally different from each other in almost every way. He is very careful and attentive person while she is a careless bird. He likes everything to be perfect and neatly organized. She is more interested in adventure and excitement rather than any boring plans. He lives in the future but she lives in the moment. Her spontaneity may clash with his tendency to remain calm and organized. Though it is very easy for these two to be drawn together but the strain is experienced in keeping the spark alive.

Aries Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility Rating

Relationship Feedback: Satisfactory
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216 Comments
  1. bay July 14th, 2021

    okay, so i’m a aries woman and i’m talking to a virgo man, and i don’t know if he wants to be with me. it’s nice when where together and we kiss and make love but i want more. i want to feel more from him but i don’t know, HELP.

    • T July 15th, 2021

      If he is not saying anything, give it a little bit of time and then trust your inner voice and instinct. Then do yourself justice, and communicate. Simply let him know that you want to know how he feels, ask him face-to-face and sit back and watch him speak. Life is short, do yourself a favour, pit your nerves aside and get it done

  2. Jana April 23rd, 2021

    I am with a virgo man and i am older but it works bc he is really invested in my every whim.He is less affectionate than me but im hoping we will fix that…

  3. Mina March 7th, 2021

    I have feelings for a virgo man for the past 5 years, we’re friends but we weren’t talking all those 5 years. Whenever we talk again It feels like we never stopped to begin with. I feel a strong attraction towards him but never expressed it , I always thought he doesn’t know. Lately we started talking again after almost 2 years of being away the same thing happened I’m still so into him and the more I talk to him the more I feel for him it’s getting on my nerves. I thought once about actually telling him about my feelings but I didn’t. Well, I always knew that we can’t be tough cuz of the age difference ‘ I’m 6 years older ‘ and this time it won’t work simply cuz I’m engaged to be married in few months, I know it’s really messed up. I try so hard to keep it just friends but it’s overwhelming so I’m avoiding him not knowing what I’ll do

    • Joanne March 15th, 2021

      Wow! I nearly feel like I’m in the same boat as you. I am friends with a Virgo man for close to ten years now. We were work colleagues at the start but by the time I started to have feelings for him, he had started seeing another girl. I thought right, I’m not going to interfere in that, whatever will be, will be. Unfortunately, he was with her a year and a half when she got pregnant. That was it for me as I knew he wouldn’t leave her but stayed friends with him. Being in touch, more times than others. He did admit that the relationship was coming to an end when she got pregnant but that was it. However, they did break up last year (nothing to do with me, thank God) when she found something out that she thought he was keeping from her and then he didn’t really put up a fight for the relationship. They would have been together about 6-7 years. When they did break up, I was supportive of him as a friend. I didn’t spend all those years waiting for him, there has been others and then there was a man last year who I was getting close to but didn’t work out. However, the feelings have cropped up for the Virgo man again recently but I would be 6 years older than him and feel like the other woman still has too much control over his life and would be using the child to do it. I would accept the child but don’t really know how he feels and not sure about her having that much power over us, even though she shouldn’t.

    • April March 21st, 2021

      I am with a virgo man in almost 2years now and I’m. Older than him and it really works with our relationship. I’m happy that I found him.
      😉

    • ♑♏ April 17th, 2021

      I am a Capricorn (sun, rising, mercury, mars) woman & I read the comments on this article because my aries sister is with a virgo guy, and avoid commenting myself. But I had to, on this one. I had been listening to those reddit audio stories on youtube about cheating partners for the past 3 days. What a coincidence, I come back to this site after a few months & the first comment is also NO DIFFERENT than those stories. What you are is called BEING BORED of your current partner & nothing else. It ain’t love, but only lust. Had it been a new relationship, may be then it would have been understandable(only to a certain extent), but jeez you’re about to get married & this is what’s going on in your head. Where’s your f**king loyalty!? No man reading your post would like it if the woman he’s about to marry is thinking of cheating throughout all these years. Poor guy doesn’t know how everything about you towards him is FAKE. Assuming you have been in a healthy relationship as to come this far to decide to marry, and even if you haven’t, it still doesn’t justify you leading on the whole thing to reach the marriage point,.. why not break up with your partner & fOLLoW yOuR tRuE lOvE, even if the age gap thing doesn’t let it work, at least you’ll be true to yourself as a person, at least you’ll be glad to stopped PRETENDING & didn’t hurt your current partner for life, but NO…..It’s about using your current partner as a backup or safety deposit, isn’t it smh!!?? Break up with him if you don’t feel it anymore with him or if he has done something wrong in the past like CHEATING… Dude’s about to share his money & everything with someone he considers a real person, but little does he know she’s gonna cheat anyway, if not now, then for sure in future and when caught, she would cry i cAn eXpLaiN

      I met my Scorpio husband when he was 14 & I was 17, such teenage flings seldom work out, but here we are after 12.5 years, still madly in love & loyal af to each other. Do we meet other people who we find attractive? Sure…..Is there a possibility that we might get bored with each other? Yeah….. But we respect each other enough to VALUE what we share, which instantly stops both of us from getting carried away in being attracted to others.

    • Sag moon virgo guy April 18th, 2021

      Cringe. Either now or in future, she’s gonna cheat. She has probably been fantasizing how it would feel with the virgo guy🍆…. I know 3 women who were in similar situations, one of them was my best friend’s partner. For my best friend’s gf & one of those other two women, when the guy they cheated with wasn’t what they fantasized about, then they came back to their partners telling them **~how it was always them who they really loved and not the guys they cheated with.~**

      The third one kept cheating repeatedly for 3.5 years, until she was caught & then began her crying drama on her partner of **~I can’t live without you, it has always been you, and that it wasn’t supposed to end like this.~**
      She begged him to not end their relationship by suggesting him to hook up with as many women he would want & that she would stay faithful.
      All three of above relationships were long, and were either in pre-marriage stage or (seemingly) happily married stage.
      Two of those women were hardcore feminists LOL.
      I have also known a guy who cheated on his WONDERFUL of a human being gf.
      OP’s comment about her virgo crush reminded me of all 4 of those people. It’s always the same story 😂😂

    • Gan26 April 25th, 2021

      I wish her to-be husband knew about this or reads this, but poor guy won’t be able to. He’s just a backup for her. She’s gonna cheat someday lol & when she would realize what she did, she might get into feminism or man-hating stuff LMAO

  4. Dab September 16th, 2020

    lol the people here making ridiculous comments about specific sun signs being dumb. Astrology has nothing to do with education. It’s a framework that you’re born into. From there, it’s environment and biology. If you have good role models, educated parents who encourage your own education, it’s not going to matter what sun sign you are.

    -Virgo Man

  5. Nerak August 24th, 2020

    I loved a Virgo man for 3 years. It was 50 percent full happiness and 50 percent rocky. But still it was a beautiful union. It can leave an imprint of hurt when you’ve trully loved them and it has to end.

    I tried to escape this relationship 5 times coz when it’s bad it’s trully bad. But in between those tough days, I find Virgo’s love so pure and comforting for a high octave aries spirit. It’s like a tranquilizer. On the 5th times I ask him to break up with me, he finally gave up.
    He became tired of my childishness, and irrationality. However me as an unstable aries, I still want us to reconcile and go back to being couple again.

    I know I won’t be able to win him back. I still love him and will always love him. When a Virgo man gives up, it’s like being hit by an ice cold air.

    Virgo men are nearly perfect for Aries until the time they can be lowkey controlling and can be sneaky and secretive.

    I thought I can endure those traits because I love him but the more I endure them the more I feel like I’ve detached my self from my true self.

    To my Virgo Man, thank you for the love that felt like heaven. Thank you for your gentleness and for being so helpful when I need you. I guess we’re not just compatible. But that doesn’t mean this Aries Woman will stop loving you.

    • Cipta August 26th, 2020

      Ive just broken up Sunday 3 days ago with my aries woman, after 5 years we had been together, we broke up exactly 1 week before my birthday and 2 days after my birthday is our 6th anniversary. she is my world, she has done everything for me, she is always there for me whenever i feel stressed out, feeling down, whenever i ask for help she always there, i cant control my own anger back then and i have an attittude, but she changed me, to be a better person, but now i screw up, after all i did and then she chose to broke up with me, she cant handle my overreacting, overjealous, overthinking even she said that she cheat with other man once by doing s*xting with him, but still i love her and want her back by my side, i love her so much that i dont give a d*mn about all of that, i just want her back by my side, i really felt all of this happen because of me. we just broke up like 3 days ago but it feels like years, i miss her presence, our little talk about anything, shared our stories together, cuddling all day, watching and listening music with her, god i miss her so much, i love her so much, i cant think anything except her. this break up really hit me like a truck, it hurts that even no words cant explain how it feels, i learnt manything from her and from this break up, i love her.

      Dear My Aries Woman, you said that eventually i will forget you and find another love, but deep down, you are the only love that i wanted to feel, your love complete me and this is really killing me.
      Thank you for all this years, all this time we spent together, the memories, this is all ive ever dreamt off, thank you for always being there for me, always helping me when i need you, this Virgo Man was really happy for being in your lofe for 5 years. I wont forget all the things that we do, all the things that we shared, we laughed together, we cried together, we jokes together, and here i still hope that we can be back together again, i know it is against her principles to get back after broke up but i cant give up, i still hoping for that, always, forever.

      Dear my Aries Woman, thank you for all the things and memories we have spent together, this Virgo Man wont stop loving you until the day he close his eyes forever, love you dear my Aries Woman.

  6. Elizabeth June 28th, 2020

    It’s been a long while that I’ve actually met a good guy. So many dates & nothing. I remember being so reckless & crazy in my early 20s. Then, at the age of 26,I met my future husband. A Scorpio. I was a typical tomboyish aries. Never cared about my “womanhood” because I was always one of the guys. I was more of a “bro” to my guy friends than anything else.

    Then, on a wintry night, in a charity event, it happened. I saw him. That single look from him & I felt something from within. “Wtf. Who’s he looking at? Me? Why? Did I do something wrong? Wait, it’s different, it’s something else. I can’t explain this feeling. Is he like…..checking me out? Wtf? Romance? Me?”

    He didn’t look at the edgy, tough bro persona of mine. He saw right through me. He was directly looking at the woman in me. And just like that, he decided to enter my life & rock my world. Believe me, if a scorpio, evolved or not evolved, enters your life as a friend, lover or friend or something else… It’s never going to stay the same. Say goodbye to your old self. I came across a universe of new knowledge. Learnt a plethora of new stuff, which I never cared for or even thought before. Most importantly, I became a tougher, kinder, more intelligent & a better human being. I gained wisdom. Real wisdom. I learnt to really live life & value it. I had plenty of relationships before that, but never knew what real love was. Man, scorpios will stay with you, whatever relationship you have with them, not matter what. They’ll really sacrifice themselves for you. I was happily married at the age of 31 to him. Then, when I was 34, our world came crashing down. It was an accident. Just like he decided to make me fall in love with him…. the idiot decided that my life was more important than his… and just like that he decided to exit my life. Forever. He had a Physics event the next day. It was THE DAY for him, he had worked so much to reach this far. He was just 35. Funny how life changes in an instant. It all started with that deep soul penetrating look. It also ended with him looking right into my eyes, in his last moments. Why!? Why did anything have to happen. That fool shouldn’t have met me in the first place. None of it would have happened.

    I guess this was my life’s Pluto transformation. I have stayed single since. The concept of love just doesn’t interest me anymore. Funny how people like it when I talk & ask ME for advice. They say I seem like the person who knows right & wrong. While all I do is just think of what my dead husband would have said & done. I recently met this virgo guy. He’s not like most people. He’s a rare one. A trustworthy, compassionate & honest soul. He has had his own share of ups & downs. He was married for 4 years to an Aquarius female. They both loved each other, but circumstances made their lives difficult & they had to end it. He still loves her. I see that in his eyes. His best friend died 3 years ago. He tries to burden himself with work to distract himself. But this solution doesn’t work, does it?

    We both have become really good friends in a short span of time. When I talked to him the first time, it was supposed to be just a casual formal conversation, but ended up being a two and a half hour long conversation. I laughed for the first time in a long while. I felt happy. I was thinking this thing while talking to him, when he told me that talking to me has made him feel happy after a long while. He said that right after I thought of it. We love each other’s company. I have started to like him. We both could be together, we are highly compatible, but I know that his heart lies with his aquarius ex wife. And you know what’s the funny part, I’m fine letting him go because that’s where his true happiness lies. This is something what my scorpio would have done, I know it. I won’t reveal my feelings to Mr Virgo, he’ll most likely feel awkward. And I can still love him from afar & wish well for him.

    It feels better to write it all here 😉

    • Rhea July 23rd, 2020

      Oh my god I loved your story. I really admire your decision to respect the boundaries of your virgo guy’s life. You inspire other aries women like myself to be stronger & become true to my sign. And about those damn scorpios haha, there’s something about them isn’t it :’), it’s impossible to picture your life without them being there, doesn’t matter if they are your lover or best friend or share some other special bond with you… they WILL sacrifice themselves for you, quite literally. And when that happens, it’s like a part of your soul also dies.
      Stay well my friend, you’ll find someone else or may be your virgo might come to know about your feelings( even though that’s not possible with these cute hermits :p.. but we can always hope)

    • ♈Tracy♈ August 21st, 2020

      Is it a thing with virgo guys that their best friends die??? I can’t believe how often have I come across such cases. My husband for 6yrs also lost his best friend in an accident. He was really close to him….It did change him, made him into a man from the scared shy boy he used to be. This article has perfectly described my relationship with my husband. I love him to death. He’s my strength, I’m the fire he needs. I hope you find the happiness you deserve. Your love for your late husband made me emotional & sad. I haven’t had strong scorpio experiences personally, but I have heard that they come into your lives for transformational reasons. At least that’s what happened with my two Capricorn friends, both have scorpio husbands. Both used to be typical cold hearted Cap women. But they behave so different with their husbands, laugh like little girls, their cheeks BLUSH & the pure happiness drips from their faces, it’s VISIBLE. Both changed drastically in short time spans, my girls are actually in serious love, which I would never have expected from them🤥🧐😂

      Thanks for sharing & I wish you all the best in life.

  7. Tyra June 5th, 2020

    All aries women are so foolish lol. So full of themselves so stupid lol can’t manage us intellectual smart virgos, we way outta their league. VirGo men deserve better, someone like us virgo females🤗… not these aries girls. We virgo girls are analytical smart people. Aries girls are no match, I say it with surity that aries f virgo m is not gonna work not a chance, they are all the same. Those of you happy in this pairing relationship need to know that it will soon crash lol. This comes from a beautiful perfect virgo. Spread peace & positivity 😇😊✌️

    • Sabrina June 15th, 2020

      That’s not very positive and rather rude.

      • Erika July 4th, 2020

        I thought the same thing.. musta got burnt by an Aries 🤣

    • Jess June 17th, 2020

      That is absolutely rude and out of sorts. Aries may seem impulsive, irrational… but remember they are the gods of war, that comes with a tact no other zodiac can master. Seeing as there was no tact in your comment. Being the head and first born can come with responsibilities that are only felt by those in suit. As well as giving a compassionate understanding. To lead Is not always to dominate and I believe teaches more care. I assume your lover left you for an Aries female? No one zodiac is better than the other. We all compliment each other and need to work as a whole. Something an Aries will understand. Bring the head and best parents of the zodiac. Sounding like an unruly child, possibly you need an Aries in your life. Try and be more understanding.
      Thank You , from an Aries Woman

      • Ingrid June 21st, 2020

        Spoken like a true Aries. From a fellow Aries. When it comes to leadership and understanding we never disappoint. #ONELOVE

      • Karen June 22nd, 2020

        Im a Aries woman and i love the way you break it down to that virgo woman,Aries woman is very easy going kind warm and outgoing alot of these other zodiac signs cant keep up with our bubblely energy and that’s what makes them angry towards us, i have a huge crush on a virgo man because he’s very smart and driveng he’s a go getter and thats what attracts me because im also a go getter he’s well balanced and not because Aries females are full of energy we also have a time we relax and take things serious i couldn’t ask for a better zodiac sign to rule under im full of happiness and love and whats killing most these other zodiac females all we ask for is love and res because that’s all we give 💕.

    • Elka Tolhoek June 17th, 2020

      Lol please tell me you’re claiming to be smart when your comments is riddled with errors both in spelling and grammar. Try again, sis. I’ll keep fucking your Virgo men happily xx

    • AriesQueen June 20th, 2020

      Its too bad Virgo female is not excitable enough for Virgo man huh lol or else maybe something like that could work

    • Cynide June 22nd, 2020

      This bitch 🤡🤡

    • Virgo Man June 22nd, 2020

      This female Virgo had me dying. I felt organ failures all over as I read every cancerous statement. Honestly, as a Virgo man any sign can be compatible with whomever. Some relationships will be easier then others be with understand and compromise everything tends to work out perfectly. I can tell right off the bat that this Virgo female is young and immature. Only someone with such limited understanding can boast in such an unattractive manner. Aires females, in your mature state you’re absolutely amazing. We work together like gears in a clock, one names the adventure the other plans it out. The biggest common goal you need to work towards to understanding and compromise, as once you have that down you life in all aspects is just golden. You grow together and admire each other, always communicate no matter how small you may think the matter is and you’ll realize how much you really treasure each other’s input.
      😉

    • April June 23rd, 2020

      Your comment is definitely not smart. And what’s with virgo women always being present in places where they’re not invited. I’m married to the best husband on earth, virgo, & also happen to know many good virgos… That’s the only reason why I’m giving you a pass. You’re immature & not an evolved virgo. I can’t believe how many times I’ve seen exactly similar kinds of comments from virgo females on so many other platforms. Even the bad female Virgos I know in real life act the same way. InTeLLigEnT viRgO my ass… You guys are no different than those stupid geminis. No surprise you’re both ruled by mercury. WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS SO BITTER. RELAX & CHILL. Enjoy the quarantine. And I’m not stupid to call my sign better than others. No person is one sign. You’re equally or actually more like your moon sign for half of your life & there’re other things also in the chart, so NO, I won’t call “my” sign the best. Yes we are gods of war… Yes we are the leaders, we always want to be first.. but I never let that get over my head. Scorpios make aries look like pu**ies and guess what, I DON’T FEEL JEALOUS LIKE YOU. I RESPECT THEM. So, get your act together & try being a less bitter soul. Stop embarrassing other virgos.

    • Danni June 26th, 2020

      Tyra, I see you needed to try to reassure yourself. Don’t be intimidated by us (Aries Females) the Virgo Man will always be attracted to us. This I know because even 30 yrs later a Virgo Man is still crazy in love with me an Aries Woman. Are we a perfect match in a relationship, could be but we’re both very outspoken. The Aries Woman and Virgo Man attraction is like cloud 9 fireworks and all. Don’t try to downplay the Aries Woman especially when your Virgo Men can’t get enough of us !!!! I guess a Virgo man you liked desired an Aries Woman so you don’t like us. We are so unbothered by you. But I have Virgo friends that are not as jealous of us like you are. Get over it because the Aries Woman and Virgo Man connection lasts a lifetime 😉

    • Tushar June 27th, 2020

      I am a Virgo man and as a Virgo, I am not proud of the comment you just made madam. One can not stereotype people based on sun signs.

    • Jaz June 29th, 2020

      Lol .. I am an Aries and girl u must of had ur man taken by an Aries for u to be hating on them so … perfect ??? Then why are U here on earth ? If ur so intelligent u would know we all came here to learn lessons we are not of the body but of soul and u haven’t reached perfection yet or u won’t be here in ur physical earthly form , so please refrain from allowing ur ego to blind u , u sound truly dense and egotistical..

    • Jaimar S July 5th, 2020

      That’s funny because by your comment it sound like you are the foolish one that is way into herself. What’s that matter an Aries woman stole your man? Ummm I wonder why? Spread peace and positivity.

    • Paris July 31st, 2020

      Lol I’m an Aries woman and you sound ridiculous. Nothing about that paragraph was positive or peaceful. Your delusional.. And possible a hater🤣 or 🤡.

    • Sol August 14th, 2020

      I have to disagree with this. I met an Aries woman who turned my life, a virgo man, into an exciting adventure. I was crushing on her so hard and when her and I did finally get together. It was my OWN actions that messed it up. Even us Virgos can screw up and lose someone. These two signs are so opposite they attract each other. If I had the chance, I would go for it again and make sure to be smarter about it.

    • Tina August 21st, 2020

      You contradict yourself because at the end of your statement you say “spread peace and positivity” but you are doing exactly the opposite! and btw I’m an Aries woman who has been married to her Virgo man for 12 yrs and we are still going as strong as the day that we started dating!

    • Somesh October 3rd, 2020

      Why do you Virgo women have this superiority complex as if your shit dont stink? This is exactly the reason why Virgo men rarely go for Virgo women. Humility is great. Get some.
      PS I am a guy born in Virgo Libra Cusp, I cant stand Virgo women. I find them petty nagging annoying.

    • Max July 15th, 2021

      from experience it isn’t always the virgo women- Virgo Man

    • Somesh January 14th, 2022

      I am a Virgo man, I can tell you in my entire life of 57 years I have got to know 5-6 Virgo women and out of those only one I have really liked because she is a very sweet kind hearted woman. She is my married sister-in-law. My cousin sister is Virgo too. She is 20 years younger than me, she has literally grown up in my lap since childhood.I was fond of her then but since adolescence her arrogant pride fuelled by her deeply rooted insecurities has broken my patience.As for Aries women, I have encountered 3 Aries women in my life, and all of them became a devotee of my spiritual and intellectual nature. I am married to a Scorpio though.I have found Aries women to be decent human beings, far better than Virgo women.

  8. Nur May 11th, 2020

    My virgo guy also need a lot of time alone. I fear that he likes being by himself more than being with me. This is a trait I personally cannot relate to and he would literally say ‘leave me alone’. This really hurts and seems like a rejection of me. I get so anxious about what he is up to while I reluctantly leave him alone and my brain goes into overdrive with suspicions/what ifs. When i disagree, he would say that im selfish but him going off into silent mode is also selfish tbh, especially when its not clear how much time he needs. Waiting around feels really foolish of me and i just cant stop thinking that maybe someone out there would love to spend more time with me 😢.

    • ramgirl May 11th, 2020

      You need to escape before he drives you insane. Why dont you try taking a break? Get to know some other fire sign or capricorn guy? See how you feel and if you still miss him then? I suspect you will come to realize lots of other guys out there will treat you right

    • gracie November 4th, 2020

      I am dating a virgo man and I’m a Sagittarius woman with Capricorn placements. So I am patient when building relationships. The best thing to do in this situation is to focus on yourself or date other guys! The key is to detach yourself from him as much as possible. Start hanging out with other guys like going out to dinner or spend more time with your girlfriends. Show that you have a life and you’re also busy. My virgo man started to pull away from me and became distant. I then kept asking him if he was free to hang out and he rejected me literally four times. I was getting annoyed by this and started over thinking everything. Like why he didn’t want to hang out, is he interested in me, what if he’s playing games. So what I did was hang out with my girl friends every weekend and post it on instagram stories, kept myself busy with my studies, going to the gym and also went out for dinner with my guy friend. When I posted on my instagram that I went out for dinner with him and tagged his instagram account, my virgo man came running back to me and keeps asking me to go out for dinner with him or hang out. I’ve mastered how to do this trick and it has worked so well for me. I used to be the girl who got mad and over thought whenever a guy didn’t want to spend time with me and it used to drive me crazy.

      If a virgo guy (or any dude) out there is puling away and acting distant, the best thing to do is to also pull yourself away from him as well. Show him that you’re having fun without him and that you’re busy. Trust me it works wonders.

      I just came home from going on a date with my virgo man.

      LOL if he wants to play games with me, I can play the game way better and make him come back for more.

  9. Aries Aria May 5th, 2020

    I am in a relationship with a virgo man for close 5 years now. He is like my other part, he has helped me a lot with everything. Since we are together we have really changed in a good way and matured. He brings the best in me and has thought me a lot. His calmness and reliability is like a gift. Sometimes I even ask myself what did I do to get to know this beautiful soul of his. We love each other endlessly.

    People in the comments were saying the virgos they met were controlling, I can’t relate to that statement. Maybe controlling like he wants to know what’s happening and what will happen like when making plans. But in our relationship, he trusts me with everything and as an aries with free, adventurous spirit it is great.

    If anyone is doubting this compatibility, it’s a mistake. Go for it, you won’t regret it, never! Now that I think about it, I would never want to imagine a life without him! It would be like someone is ripping the other part of me away! Yes, the connection is real guys😅 Anyways every person beside his astrology sign has his character and personality and that plays a part for sure. The only little problem that you may experience is sometimes when in a fight, you can’t really get the same view and there might be a misunderstanding. But in the end with a good compromise everything works out.

    Thats my opinion and experience! One last thing I want to say is that I will try my best and won’t let this great man out of my life never!

  10. M April 23rd, 2020

    Hi Virgo guy here, I’m going to say yeah Virgos are critical and I don’t like it either, but I’ve learned to tone it down by being respectful when I bring something up because I know she (Aries woman I talk to) will take it the wrong way and I will just say okay darling. I honestly feel like I know her very well and I can treat her with emotional care and love by cuddling and dinners, walks in the park, and also spending time away from each other at work. I feel like she knows I treat her physically well and emotionally well and this calms her fire and let’s her know that she can come home to someone that will be attentive to her needs.

    • AprilAries April 23rd, 2020

      I wish my boyfriend will do the same. You really are doing well. 🙂 Keep it up Mr.Virgo!

  11. Nur April 7th, 2020

    Guys, Why does everything have to be so hard with these virgo men? Why do we need to endure the conflicts and heartaches when we can go out and find a dotting, more compatible sign that will worship the ground we walk on 😫 because lets be honest, Aries need that to thrive and shine! Somedays i feel so drained, demoralised and i lost count how many times we called it quits. And yet cant seem to break away! Is it toxic or is it meant to be? What’s the difference right? The most frustrating yet irresistible r/ship i’ve ever come across.

    • FilipinoAries April 7th, 2020

      This is the accurate statement for this ON-OFF relationship!!

    • ramgirl April 22nd, 2020

      @Nur its hard because we are not compatible with virgo men, please save yourself the heartache. It will be much easier to get out now rather than later. Virgos are too critical and controlling for us, we dont like the manipulation. We are more suited to capricorns or fellow aries men for long term compatibility

      • M April 23rd, 2020

        Hi Virgo guy here, I’m going to say yeah Virgos are critical and I don’t like it either, but I’ve learned to tone it down by being respectful when I bring something up because I know she (Aries woman I talk to) will take it the wrong way and I will just say okay darling. I honestly feel like I know her very well and I can treat her with emotional care and love by cuddling and dinners, walks in the park, and also spending time away from each other at work. I feel like she knows I treat her physically well and emotionally well and this calms her fire and let’s her know that she can come home to someone that will be attentive to her needs.

  12. HeartBrokenAries April 7th, 2020

    Me and my virgo man has a deep love for each other. The moment I said I had enough of our incompatibilities, he was devastated. And so Am I. I can’t explain why I hated him that much but at the same time my love for him is so immense. I am so torn between getting over him or chase him back myself. I was never loved before the way this Virgo has loved me. The only thing that gets in the way is their controlling attitude. 💔 Other than that he is my heart and soul.

  13. HeartBrokenAries March 25th, 2020

    Me and my virgo man has just broken up. We got tired of our fights and constant misunderstandings. Me as an Aries it has been stressful and heart wreaking. I think even though It can be a cloud 9 with a virgo man, I still feel insecure and restricted with my choices. Especially if the virgo man you chose is rigid and controlling. I still love him though but I’m not sure if we still got chance to reconcile. Maybe as friends. 🙁

    • ramgirl April 6th, 2020

      Trust me, this is for the best!!! And believe me, he will try crawling back to you – maybe in 2 months or maybe in 2 years. Do NOT take him back, this is not a good match. Virgos are too critical and controlling for us. We are more suited to capricorns or fellow aries men for long term compatibility. Stay strong!!

      • Precious April 13th, 2020

        I am in a relationship with the second Virgo and they are exactly the same! Tell me they love me so much, spends do much quality time with me, home body, hard working men. But, they love to go out and get drunk every night with friends. Then, out of the blue, there is some type of mind game and it always ends in a disagreement, then I’m accused of cheating. I begin to think the guy is extremely bipolar! The first guy was a sex addict and we did it so much, I thought he was satisfied. That is until I looked on his cell phone and saw plenty of texts back and forth with another chick! Then, this new guy actually records Live videos at every party he attends. He is so drunk (in the videos) that he speaks inappropriately for a guy in a relationship. They both spoke of marriage. The love is so good, but everything else is terrible! I do want to get married, I will just have to develop lots of hobbies so I won’t sit around waiting for him or arguing.

      • ramgirl April 22nd, 2020

        @Precious girl you need to get out while you can, virgos are not a good match for us. Dont let these men drive you crazy, its not worth it

      • Virgo guy April 23rd, 2020

        Every Virgo is different we are not all the same. I’m not controlling, just remember to call me if there’s any problems and that’s it. Trust, communicate and we’re good.

  14. Annie March 3rd, 2020

    Was with a Taurus earlier. Didn’t work out. He was an a**hole…. Recently met this virgo guy. He’s so witty and intelligent, I try to keep up with him and a lot of times I surprise him with my wit… because usually he’s supposed to be the smarter one. I must say that virgo men are usually better when compared to virgo women. Not generalising, but I’ve had mostly bad experiences with them. ANNOYINGLY & UNNECESSARILY CRITICAL . But that’s just virgo sun sign… virgo moon is the worst.. Be it men or women (until let’s say its effect is being countered by other placements). But again, that’s just my stupid opinion.
    Me and my “sort of bf” met on a trekking kind of thing. He was attracted to my extreme competitive spirit (well that’s just my real self)… We were talking & were together during the whole adventure. i liked him more n more with every word he spoke.. the way he gently, but firmly speaks… his voice so soothing… he doesn’t have to try hard to take the lead, it’s just so natural that he becomes the centre of everyone’s attention, without making others feel less important… And even if he is not, then he doesn’t really care or crave that attention (like my Taurus ex did). I don’t know but Geminis & Virgos have a way with words. Reading & writing sort of things are quite important to almost all of them ive met in my life. I’ve met other Virgos who’re smart, but my guy is in a league of his own. May be it’s because of his libra moon. Libra moons are so different than libra suns. All the libra moons I know are like superior intelligence kinda people. Or it could be because of other stuff in his chart. Btw I’m a sag moon, have a lot of capricorn & aries in me. I’m not the typical dumb aries, my brainy stuff probably impressed him the most… Hope it all works out, no problems so far.. I think I’m falling for him 🙂

    • Elle March 15th, 2020

      Wow this means you found a good one girl. By the way, aren’t libra moons kinda too lazy types. Though them being intelligent also isn’t wrong… Smarter than libra suns or idk.. are air moon signs more emotionally stable & intelligent because they are able to handle the moon’s crazy emotional ups downs? And it seems from your story that he’s a nature lover. So do all Virgos share that interest?

      • Alannah March 24th, 2020

        Libra suns are dumbbb. They’re more fake/manipulative rather than intelligent or smart & even that manipulation isn’t clever like a pissces or scorpio would do, but just too obvious & vague. I would say it’s more like “going-up-the-ladder-for-selfish-motives-only” smartness. They do have the quality to be the self proclaimed mediator or manager. They love pleasing others, which makes them so superficial. Libra moons are a different story, they also strive to achieve a balanced “liking” from all sides, but it’s real & they actually do care for people & try their best to create peace. Libra suns intentionally create errors & problems, usually for fun or selfish reasons, only to end up acting the “beloved peacemaker”…Now im not implying all sun & moon Libras are like that. These are just my experiences, somebody else’s story might have a libra moon person who’s the biggest fool.
        About the air moon signs, i would say gemini suns are usually really smart(yeah they good at math & METH), gemini moons on the other hand are just like happy souls, super fluctuating emotions people, but they’re also smart. Not many experiences with aquarian energy, but the aquarius suns I’ve known don’t fit the “godly intelligence” description. More like annoying, but they aren’t bad hearted as such. I did a search about most intelligent zodiac signs just to entertain myself, and found out scorpio & aquarius to be the most intelligent signs, then came virgo & gemini. Don’t think the aquarius suns I’ve known fit that bill in ANY WAY POSSIBLE. Aqua moons are interesting, only met two persons ever of this moon, both were real smartasses, like seriously good *@__@* ~~ would make my comment super long if i go on talking about them

      • Cardinal-Fire April 14th, 2020

        @Elle I’m an aries woman, married to my virgo for past 9ys & have also been studying astrology for past 5ys

        1) Yes, virgo suns or moons or those with _dominant_ virgo energy have a super special place for nature. Not saying that others aren’t nature lovers, i too am, but with virgos, it’s more like studying plants, indulging in plant related activities regularly {^^& often religiously^^}, talking to trees, experimenting in the garden etc. They also love playing with cats n dogs.

        2)Yes, Libra moons tend to be lazy, just like other libra suns or libra dominant folks. Though as the above reply said, libra moons are your best bet if you’re bound to choose libra energy. Despite being a true Aries, I’ll try not be biased against them, but if you’ll search “dark side of libra” or something like that on web, then the results you’ll find might cross check with almost all Libras in your life, whether good or bad. This doesn’t usually happen as dark side is supposed to be #_specifically** for the lower evolved people. For example, from what I’ve observed, scorpio seems to be most popular sign & you can find a huge range regarding them, people either really hate them or they straight up worship them. Well surprisingly, you’ll find more comments on dark side of Libras & Virgos than you’ll find for scorpios…yup,as hard is that is to believe. I would say that from cancer to libra, the “drama queen” characteristic becomes quite prominent. It begins in gemini actually. But Libra moons are def smarter, tend to have better rep, but they too try to please others. Initially it might not be as obvious like sun libras, but they too give over importance to “what others think of them”… Think of the libra sun, their insecurity is apparent, but with libra moons, it might not look insecurity, but something like seemingly low self esteem or their allowance to let others walk all over them just to “stay on good terms”.., Regardless, virgo sun libra moon combo from the above case is a great blend.

        3)Moon is an emotional body, so yeah, having an air sign kind of balances it, but that’s only true if you don’t have too much air in your chart. Similarly, moon in a water sign might give one crazzyyyy out of control emotions, but that might not be true if the sun sign or rest of the chart balances it, say having a cancer moon with saggi sun. But really, it’s way more complicated than such simple labels. imo based on personal exp, libra moon is highly intelligent, rational but also at the same time quite innocent which often gets misused by others;; gem moon not as much as a gem sun, more like “forever curious entertaining child” & aquarius moons extremely intelligent & full of wisdom, for sure way more than aq/us suns or anyone else. Again, this ain’t some fixed categorisation, I’ve known stupid libra & aq/us moons too.

        4)Also, what do you really mean by intelligence, is the question. Gemini & virgo have the stereotypes to be intelligent, but until & unless they’re highly evolved folks, usually these two come across as #lacking self awareness#. What use does that “intelligence” have if one’s not even aware of something obvious. Or is “intelligence” supposed to mean just the bookish knowledge virgo has or half knowledge from many diff things like gemini does(which they combine & quite easily shit talk their way through anything)? Both fear emotions, tend to deny reality when they get in real trouble(not that true in case of sun virgos), correlating to the drug abuse characteristic both these signs have… , virgo being too dumbstruck to even notice the actual important stuff, while gemini makes a run for everything. My husband had to go through painful life events, alongwith patience n help from my end for him to become the saintly virgo he is now. Interestingly, gemini is more likely to emit the gifted genius perception, but there goes the dual nature of it…you’ll have plenty of dumb bhevaiour on their part to know that they’re not so smart. In contrast, I’ve seen scorpios to be good at both intellect & emotions. Don’t remember where I read that, but it was something like “no other sign is able to manage & master both intelligence n emotions like that, but they somehow do it”… That difference between literacy & education seems to metaphorically fit both gems& virgos well. Literacy being the skills n abilities, while edu concerning the actual overall development as a person. Gems n virgos tend to get struck in the former. It’s funny how no one talks about saggis & capricorns intelligence. Also, your sign doesn’t necessarily define intelligence, some people are just born gifted, although having dominance of certain signs might emphasize priority to either intellect or emotions.

      • Aries Sun,Rising,Venus & Cap Moon May 14th, 2020

        @Elle gemini moons are NOT EMOTIONALLY STABLE. Aquarius moons are the most detached people you could ever meet, the ones I know are like time travellers or quite old soul grandfatherly type «outer space beings» who’ve gone through many many “human” lifetimes & it’s as if they remember each one of them…. I can only imagine how it must feel, “detached” is too insignificant of a term to describe their situation. Aquarius suns are nothing like that, my two best friends have that sun sign, but they’re extremely emotional. I think it’s because of their moon signs, because that’s “the real you”.. Sun sign is what you strive to become. Libra moons are totally different from libra suns. Libra suns are more likely to be cunning, aggressive, biased, cheaters compared to libra moons. Libra moons oh my god… THEY’RE TOO INNOCENT… Oh sure they are super intelligent, but that doesn’t mean they are clever. They CAN’T GET OUT OF THEIR HEADS & you can’t even imagine how extremely “nice” they are. They worry a lot, extremely cautious… would avoid conflict at any cost, which usually costs them their respect. I KNOW so many of them inside out & I can understand that to others, why they look like pu**ies who are scared of everything. Do them bad & then talk to them nicely or even just a vague “sorry” would be enough… They’ll jump right back to being on good terms with you. And often, in their case, much more than a mere sorry is required, but it seems that they’re such soft babies, who NEVER WANT TO FACE A CONFLICT, emotionally or otherwise, doesn’t matter. Until & unless they’ve other things in their chart like a scorpio or capricorn sun, they are NOT GOING TO FIGHT for themselves, even when it’s necessary. If I have to describe how they come across, then it would be like “OOPS WOOPS HEY EVERYONE IN THE WORLD, OBVIOUSLY ALL OF YOU ARE AS PURE HEARTED AS ME, OOPS WOOPS OKAY PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO, I CAN’T SURVIVE WITHOUT OTHERS TELLING ME & ADVICING ME ON EVERY SINGLE SHIT, OOPS WOOPS MY CLOSE ONES SAY I’M A VERY MUCH CAPABLE PERSON & DON’T NEED OTHERS’ VALIDATION, BUT HEY WORLD COULD YOU TELL ME IF WHAT THEY SAY IS REALLY TRUE. OOPS WOOPS I ONLY USE MY PHILOSOPHICAL SIDE WHEN I FIND A BETTER COUNTERPART, OTHERWISE I PREFER BEING A MACHINE THAT CAN BE EXPLOITED BY EVERYONE OOPS WOOPSSSS”

        You know that common gesture of “thinking”, where the person puts their fingers on their chin, alongwith a “hmmmm”, their heads tilted slightly down as if looking at floor, but actually in deep thought. That right there is libra moon to you. That’s also a virgo sun gesture. In the OP’s case, her bf is virgo sun libra moon, I can guarantee he must be the “pure soul” as I described so far. They are very much into being philosophical etc but it’s not a conscious hunger like a sagittarius moon or aquarius moon has. They also tend to over emphasize or never let go of the rational state… Say, an aquarius moon (not the unevolved types), is way more capable of being like that, but most commonly I’ve seen them CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSING to not be like that, but instead acting like a clown or just doing crazy stuff, always funny, they seem to like everything. Obviously they too avoid getting over emotional, but that comedy is only by choice, & then there’s a sudden uranus moment with them & BAMMM they switch to the God mode. It’s not a switch, rather a permanent state, just that when they’re being not so serious, others don’t notice their wisdom side. Sagittarius moons are on this quest of higher realities, which others view them as being stupid, but it’s like when they meet aquarius moons, all the effort paid off & the latter says “finally we met, come I’ll take you to a journey through time :))”…. Libra moons are ALSO CAPABLE OF BEING LIKE THAT but they are kinda lazy or too much into their heads that they end up just forever thinking of how to make up their minds. Gemini moons, although curious, don’t really care for all that, they tbh just wanna have fun, very selfish. Virgo sun libra moon is excellent combination from the intelligence aspect, but I doubt this person would be dominant like a scorpio/aries/capricorn.

  15. Maisie February 5th, 2020

    I love my virgo so much. He’s my everything…i really want us to work. At times I feel like he doesn’t need me 🙁 but then his warmth makes me want to be a better person, reassuring me that I mean at least something to him. Are all virgo men so cold or is it just my virgo? He has some leo presence in his chart(moon&venus), but overall he’s a total virgo(sun, rising, mercury)…. I don’t know if he even realizes how lucky he is. Most of us don’t even have even a single true friend, my virgo has has four. Two sagittarians, a scorpio & a piscean. These five have such a strong friendship that it’ll melt your hearts. No show off, just actual friendship, it’s a totally different vibe when I’m with these people(they get crazy happy when together, super funny 🤣) … One thing I have noticed is that it’s always someone else who will maintain the contact with my virgo guy.. Like I haven’t seen him ever actually calling any of them.. It’s always his friends who do that. The sags usually call him or would make plans to go somewhere… his pisces friend is similar, but doesn’t make plans & is a bit more all over the place. His scorpio friend regularly calls him every ten to fifteen days, but I can’t help but notice my virgo never doing it. It’s pretty obvious, looking at them that their friendship would stay the same even if they didn’t stay in touch for long… And yet the catch is that those four still do maintain the rhythm, not my virgo. He behaves the same way with me too. When his friends, let’s say, don’t call or something, then I often tell him “hey it’s been quite a while that you talked to your friends, why don’t you call them & ask wassup”… His answer most of the times is that “they will call(*or something like that*) , they do it regularly…may be they’re busy”…..
    I do see that it isn’t an attitude problem, but I doubt that he’s even aware that all of us are busy all the time, we TAKE OUT time to do such little things because they matter. He doesn’t do that. I think they’re all used to this whole situation cause this is how it must have always been, but blame it on my scorpio moon that I see seeds of later issues, there will come even busier times when his friends won’t be able to be as frequent and what will happen then? Because he expects them to be the ones communicating.. What then when they stop? Most likely my virgo will be like “oh they’re busy with their lives, why should I disturb them”… I’m the one in our relationship always taking the lead, making plans & initiating communication. He seems to be overly chill with me, more like indifferent. We work & live 2.5 hours away from each other’s places… I’m the one usually calling or texting him.. When he actually does call or text, it’s pretty much always the same vague stuff he asks. To me it often feels like he doesn’t really care… At least talk to me about how was your day or week, he’s just so in that zone, idk what he keeps on thinking. Are all Virgos like this?? I asked his scorpio friend about his behaviour, he said he knew what I was talking about, and that he never “expects” my virgo guy to do all that because then it would hurt him & might spoil their friendship, so basically he tries to ignore my virgo’s low participation, to let their bond stay the same… I don’t know if I’ll be accepting this situation for long. Have tried telling him indirectly, but I don’t think he gets it that way – _ –

    • Intuitive talks February 6th, 2020

      Wow!!! I envy you….at least he communicates somewhat with you….but Virgos are like that….like a priestly type of behavior.

      • zolen February 8th, 2020

        Hi, how long have you been together with your Virgo Man? I suggest you communicate this with him. Be honest with it . Tell him that it bothers you. Virgos usually appear aloof and doesn’t care but deep inside its the opposite. It’s worth a try to let him know that it matters to you how he communicates. Sooner or later this virgo man might compromise. Hopefully he will. Just be honest with him. If he truly loves you he will take it with kind consideration. Best of luck my fellow Aries Lady!

      • Intuitive talks February 10th, 2020

        Hi Filipino Aries,

        Thank you so much for replying to my comment, I appreciate it. This Virgo man in question is not even my man. We have never dated…we met about nine (9) years ago in a class that was not even part of my major. The first time I saw him was through the corner of my eye and it was because he laughed with his friends at something and I was just immediately turned off by him and without seeing him correctly.. in that same half a glance at him, I could tell that I hated his personality. I also thought he was ugly… mind you, he was sitting all the way at the back and I was sitting close to the front. The teacher asked us to introduce ourselves so when it came to my turn I tried to give eye contact to everyone, which was hard for me because I deal with anxiety and I panic easily… so when I looked at him his eyes was shining so bright like a torch light it distracted me…. I had to pause with my introduction to catch myself….and in that same glance, I could tell that he had been staring at me the minute he laid eyes on me…I found myself rejecting him already and saying in my mind…that I am not your mother. Anyway, the next time I saw him in class he sat in front and I was in the middle of the class. and every time I would look at him…I felt like a magent was pulling me to him…from then onwards I knew I had a crush on him and it was very awkward for me because, I was in a relationship at the time….so even though I started to have a crush on this guy….I was running away from him at the same time because, I felt him chasing me eventhough I couldn’t prove it…. after that class, we would bump into each other occasionally and it was always awkward for me….but, within a year my boyfriend at the time really said something insensitive to me….and out of nowhere I started to think about that guy in my class and I started to feel happy….so it became a habit….I would think of him and instantly feel better….till I started to catch myself thinking about him all the time….so I tried to shake him off but I couldn’t…that’s when I knew something was wrong…because I started looking for him and I don’t think I’ve ever done that and it became my last semester in school and I couldn’t concentrate on my studies because I thought about him constantly….I managed to pull through my last semester, (which was very difficult by the way) with straight B’s in all my classes…after I was done with all my classes and graduated…. I found out that my only job was to think about that Virgo man all day long…. I decided to look for him on social media… (it was the worst move ever)… I found a website like this and I spilled all my guts out… and not only that…. I sent that same message to him. He did not reply, but the worst happened, my then boyfriend turned into fiance read the letter I sent to the virgo man….I was very explicit in that letter so it was beyond humiliating for me to understand that my love read that letter… in the letter, I was telling the Virgo man how I wanted his 🍆so bad that I’ve totally lost my mind over him. Bottom line my ex told me to delete and block him… I did but it took a while…but I also could not stop thinking about him…. I sent him another friend request and he accepted….and I started pouring my mind and my knotted brain cells on him through messages….,most of time he would barely respond with three to four words…. I would write paragraphs and a whole book to him…,at a point….I even thought he was my twin flame or even a false twin flame…. he tried to be nice and understanding to me but I couldn’t help what I was feeling..,, to the point he had to tell me not to send him any messages anymore….it was so hard for me not to send him messages but I kept pinching the nerve not to send him messages… I was successful for about 3 to 5 yrs…then I sent him a message telling him that I wish him the best but I still think about him all the time….he responded within 4 to 6 minutes and I sent him that message very early in the morning….I sent him that message to let go of him…,but I always think about him,.,,I always want him around and most of all I really feel that I need to have sex with him…but I’m just trying to piece together this phenomenon of this Virgo man and why I feel the way I feel about him.

      • Intuitive talks February 10th, 2020

        Hi Zolen,

        Thank you so much for replying to my comment, I appreciate it. This Virgo man in question is not even my man. We have never dated…we met about nine (9) years ago in a class that was not even part of my major. The first time I saw him was through the corner of my eye and it was because he laughed with his friends at something and I was just immediately turned off by him and without seeing him correctly.. in that same half a glance at him, I could tell that I hated his personality. I also thought he was ugly… mind you, he was sitting all the way at the back and I was sitting close to the front. The teacher asked us to introduce ourselves so when it came to my turn I tried to give eye contact to everyone, which was hard for me because I deal with anxiety and I panic easily… so when I looked at him his eyes was shining so bright like a torch light it distracted me…. I had to pause with my introduction to catch myself….and in that same glance, I could tell that he had been staring at me the minute he laid eyes on me…I found myself rejecting him already and saying in my mind…that I am not your mother. Anyway, the next time I saw him in class he sat in front and I was in the middle of the class. and every time I would look at him…I felt like a magent was pulling me to him…from then onwards I knew I had a crush on him and it was very awkward for me because, I was in a relationship at the time….so even though I started to have a crush on this guy….I was running away from him at the same time because, I felt him chasing me eventhough I couldn’t prove it…. after that class, we would bump into each other occasionally and it was always awkward for me….but, within a year my boyfriend at the time really said something insensitive to me….and out of nowhere I started to think about that guy in my class and I started to feel happy….so it became a habit….I would think of him and instantly feel better….till I started to catch myself thinking about him all the time….so I tried to shake him off but I couldn’t…that’s when I knew something was wrong…because I started looking for him and I don’t think I’ve ever done that and it became my last semester in school and I couldn’t concentrate on my studies because I thought about him constantly….I managed to pull through my last semester, (which was very difficult by the way) with straight B’s in all my classes…after I was done with all my classes and graduated…. I found out that my only job was to think about that Virgo man all day long…. I decided to look for him on social media… (it was the worst move ever)… I found a website like this and I spilled all my guts out… and not only that…. I sent that same message to him. He did not reply, but the worst happened, my then boyfriend turned into fiance read the letter I sent to the virgo man….I was very explicit in that letter so it was beyond humiliating for me to understand that my love read that letter… in the letter, I was telling the Virgo man how I wanted his 🍆so bad that I’ve totally lost my mind over him. Bottom line my ex told me to delete and block him… I did but it took a while…but I also could not stop thinking about him…. I sent him another friend request and he accepted….and I started pouring my mind and my knotted brain cells on him through messages….,most of time he would barely respond with three to four words…. I would write paragraphs and a whole book to him…,at a point….I even thought he was my twin flame or even a false twin flame…. he tried to be nice and understanding to me but I couldn’t help what I was feeling..,, to the point he had to tell me not to send him any messages anymore….it was so hard for me not to send him messages but I kept pinching the nerve not to send him messages… I was successful for about 3 to 5 yrs…then I sent him a message telling him that I wish him the best but I still think about him all the time….he responded within 4 to 6 minutes and I sent him that message very early in the morning….I sent him that message to let go of him…,but I always think about him,.,,I always want him around and most of all I really feel that I need to have sex with him…but I’m just trying to piece together this phenomenon of this Virgo man and why I feel the way I feel about him.

      • Intuitive talks February 10th, 2020

        Hi Filipino Aries,

        Thank you so much for replying to my comment, I appreciate it. This Virgo man in question is not even my man. We have never dated…we met about nine (9) years ago in a class that was not even part of my major. The first time I saw him was through the corner of my eye and it was because he laughed with his friends at something and I was just immediately turned off by him and without seeing him correctly.. in that same half a glance at him, I could tell that I hated his personality. I also thought he was ugly… mind you, he was sitting all the way at the back and I was sitting close to the front. The teacher asked us to introduce ourselves so when it came to my turn I tried to give eye contact to everyone, which was hard for me because I deal with anxiety and I panic easily… so when I looked at him his eyes was shining so bright like a torch light it distracted me…. I had to pause with my introduction to catch myself….and in that same glance, I could tell that he had been staring at me the minute he laid eyes on me…I found myself rejecting him already and saying in my mind…that I am not your mother. Anyway, the next time I saw him in class he sat in front and I was in the middle of the class. and every time I would look at him…I felt like a magent was pulling me to him…from then onwards I knew I had a crush on him and it was very awkward for me because, I was in a relationship at the time….so even though I started to have a crush on this guy….I was running away from him at the same time because, I felt him chasing me eventhough I couldn’t prove it…. after that class, we would bump into each other occasionally and it was always awkward for me….but, within a year my boyfriend at the time really said something insensitive to me….and out of nowhere I started to think about that guy in my class and I started to feel happy….so it became a habit….I would think of him and instantly feel better….till I started to catch myself thinking about him all the time….so I tried to shake him off but I couldn’t…that’s when I knew something was wrong…because I started looking for him and I don’t think I’ve ever done that and it became my last semester in school and I couldn’t concentrate on my studies because I thought about him constantly….I managed to pull through my last semester, (which was very difficult by the way) with straight B’s in all my classes…after I was done with all my classes and graduated…. I found out that my only job was to think about that Virgo man all day long…. I decided to look for him on social media… (it was the worst move ever)… I found a website like this and I spilled all my guts out… and not only that…. I sent that same message to him. He did not reply, but the worst happened, my then boyfriend turned into fiance read the letter I sent to the virgo man….I was very explicit in that letter so it was beyond humiliating for me to understand that my love read that letter… in the letter, I was telling the Virgo man how I wanted his 🍆so bad that I’ve totally lost my mind over him. Bottom line my ex told me to delete and block him… I did but it took a while…but I also could not stop thinking about him…. I sent him another friend request and he accepted….and I started pouring my mind and my knotted brain cells on him through messages….,most of time he would barely respond with three to four words…. I would write paragraphs and a whole book to him…,at a point….I even thought he was my twin flame or even a false twin flame…. he tried to be nice and understanding to me but I couldn’t help what I was feeling..,, to the point he had to tell me not to send him any messages anymore….it was so hard for me not to send him messages but I kept pinching the nerve not to send him messages… I was successful for about 3 to 5 yrs…then I sent him a message telling him that I wish him the best but I still think about him all the time….he responded within 4 to 6 minutes and I sent him that message very early in the morning….I sent him that message to let go of him…,but I always think about him,.,,I always want him around and most of all I really feel that I need to have sex with him…but I’m just trying to piece together this phenomenon of this Virgo man and why I feel the way I feel about him.

    • Lana August 24th, 2020

      @Maisie MY VIRGO IS EXACTLY LIKE THAT WTF. Has a few great friends, never calls them. My virgo’s best friend calls him like every 20 days or every month, considers him family. Initially into the relationship, the impression I got was my virgo just being polite to this “friend” who’s always quite happy to talk to him. Then I was told that they were best friends & after knowing that, this was exactly my first thought. HOW DOES ONLY HE CALLS HIM, WHILE MY VIRGO DOESN’T CARE SHIT ABOUT HIM phewww !!!!?? I’m pretty sure if his friends start to not care like him, then it wouldn’t bother him much. If they too started behaving like him, then it would be just 3calls a year smh.

      Majority of the credit goes to your virgo’s friends that their friendship has remained strong so far. I think I understood what his scorpio friend meant. These are fixed signs my fellow fire queen, they make sure that the bonds stay intact coz in my experience, mutable signs don’t EVER REALIZE when they change paths & hurt them close peeps. I need some leos & scorps friends for me. Hopefully they will be true friends like those your virgo has. That scorp knows alright,.. can’t be a chance in hell that he DIDN’T NOTICE THAT SHIT. Coz he knows if he changes his behaviour… starts to be like your virgo, then they will all NOTICE THAT. TRUST ME I KNOW THAT FEELING. You could be on the other side of the planet & talking to them scorps on the phone AND STILL YOU WILL FEEL THE ENERGY IT’S CRAZY. He knows that the moment he starts to talk to your virgo as less as your virgo does, their friendship would change or end. The magic would be gone. I think this is what he meant. Tell this to them geminis & Virgos smh😤.. they need to learn to value what they have & focus on the NOW, instead of running around like the useless analysts they try to come across. Some things need to be just LIVED, FELT & ENJOYED.

  16. Jane January 26th, 2020

    As an Aries woman who was married once to an Aries man for 17 years.

    The Virgo man I have is priceless. He is truly the ying to my yang.

    The article above could have stated we are the worst match ever and it wouldn’t matter.

    Compatibility and Love is based on the people involved.

    Take what you read like a grain of salt.

  17. Jane January 26th, 2020

    As an Aries woman whowas married once to am Aries man for 17 years.

    The Virgo man I have is priceless. He is truly the ying to my yang.

    The article above could have stated we are the worst match ever and it wouldn’t matter.

    Compatibility and Love is based on the people involved.

    Take what you read like a grain of salt.

  18. Shina January 24th, 2020

    Aries girl here. I say this pairing can work if the right aspects are touched on. I’m happy with my virgo man, we have our issues, but that doesn’t stop anything. Both of us have grown so much. Before him I dated a sag, a gemini, a taurus and a scorpio. With the sag it felt more like a sibling relationship, both fire signs competing in god knew what race it was. The gemini was too fluctuating and unreliable. A lot of geminis I know behave like that. They think themselves as extra intelligent, wanna be intellectuals. I’m saying this coz I’ve also known evolved geminis, who fit all the good traits of the sign, who aren’t like that at all. One thing both good & bads gems have in common is that they tend to be good at maths, like really good. Only seen a few virgos and scorps who matched them(and may be some libras). The taurus was a bad experience, cry baby and narcissist. Then there was the most different person I had ever met, the scorpio. So calm and yet so dangerous at the same time(along with the crazy laugh & of course those eyes). Aries are powerful energies, don’t think anyone could handle us at all, other than those scorps. They know how to put people in their places. I completely changed as a person(for the better) after we mutually ended our relationship due to career issues, our work didn’t allow us to give time to each other. I would say I didn’t know what real love was until the scorpio. And now I’m with my virgo, his patience level oh my godddd, how the heck can someone be so easygoing. I tend to annoy him so much for unnecessary stuff, but I can’t remember him EVER getting angry. After a while, I started to feel ashamed of myself for being like that.. Which made me to BEHAVE much better. Our communication has become way stronger since then. Here’s the thing about aries virgo relationship, the virgo has a one dimesional approach. He’ll look at your faults and will “tell” u that you are wrong or something’s wrong. He’ll explain it like ” heres how u r wrong” and that would often make the aries woman feel stupid. Add to that, aries would want passion, which might be a problem with virgo. It’ll help if u r aware before hand that they lack self awareness (along with gems, mercury beings). No need to complicate things here , they just AREN’T AWARE. And you on the other side would probably feel that they’re doing it intentionally. Well that might be true sometimes, but most times it’s like I said. A scorpio would know immediately within first few minutes of meeting u as to what kind of person u r and which kind of approach to take to teach u lessons coz they have it very clear that the “need to change” has to come from within. They’ll tell whats wrong with u, make u feel how valuable that thing in your life is, rightly deserving for u to work on improving it, and usually the other person never THOUGHT of it in that way & they go like WOOHHHHH GODDAMN. They’ll make u feel like shit & yet for some reason, u are thankful to them for bursting your bubble. It stays in your mind & u FEEL IT next time if u do the wrong thing or if u try to stay the same u. With Virgos, well, they just tell u, often again and again. It’s commendable on their ends as to how they don’t get irritated with u not understanding something simple. The problem would be that the aries personality just won’t get it or doesn’t want to get it. At the same time, thinking that the virgo is just dissing them. While the virgo’s thoughts are “this is really annoying, what is it that she wants & what doesn’t she get, I’ve been so cooperative in telling her whats the problem”….He isn’t in awareness that this method won’t work. I don’t think virgo men are necessarily nitpicky like virgo women. They’re actually chill, even if u tend be the messy one, just don’t take that for granted & DO NOT TEST THEM. They’re the nicest men u will ever have the pleasure of being with. Just try putting effort from your side & just say the passion stuff or whatever that it needs his attention. Then u will see the typical virgo male “hmmmm” with those smiling eyes and u will know that it’s a thing with them, they often miss the bigger picture. Do that and see one of the most beautiful moments of your life.. such a pure hearted human… Will make u wonder how can someone be so good.

  19. Virgo men smarty January 17th, 2020

    I’m a virgo man. Due to my possesiveness ( third person) i behaved little rude with arise woman, from that incident
    I tryed everything to compromise her ,but at the end she broked up relationship wth me,

    I tryed suicide attempt also but it turned not use

    Now she is being with that new friend gemini man ,who is the reason for my breakup,

    I can’t come out from my past sweet memorys.. I loved her from past 11 years from child hood,
    She loved me last 5 years..

    We had a beautiful &happy relationship, we were like husband and wife… So many things happened

    Now she is not littlemuch worrying at all..

    I think I will have a beautiful married life her ….

    I don’t know she will come to me again…

    I’m dyeing every day with her memorys..

    Don’t know what going to happen..

  20. Emma November 24th, 2019

    Omg I dated a couple virgos and it was a little nightmare… nitpicky, so controlling, and everything has to perfect at ALL times. Exhausting. I got a free love reading and it was helpful: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
    Hope it helps xoxo

    • ramgirl April 6th, 2020

      I agree with you 100% this is not a good match. Virgos are perfectionists + aries dont like being controlled = recipe for disaster

  21. Aries Woman September 23rd, 2019

    I am currently in relationship with a Virgo male and its been pretty difficult for the last few months, hence why I am on this website. Don’t get me wrong, when things are good, they’re REALLY good and its probably the most beautiful relationship you’ve ever witnessed, but when things get bad, its almost impossible to get through to him. We’ve been together about 2 years now I want to continue this relationship but I’m mentally drained of how I am being treated. I know I am not perfect and I know he is not perfect, but I want to work towards a relationship with this Virgo man simply because I love him and see a future with him. I read that Virgo men tend to hold in their problems and release it all at once, which is one of the biggest problems we have. I love this Virgo man with all my heart and simply want the best for him and for our relationship. We’ve had many beautiful times and I want more of those but I am having trouble. What can I do on my part, as an Aries woman to make this work? I’ll do anything. Help.

    • Kamsamida September 28th, 2019

      How does he treat you generally? Coz virgo men are so hard to read. Being cold and fussy and judgmental will always be part of them. Onmy part when he gets overbearing I will tell it honestly. We fight a lot. He hurts me a lot but With this man I know my future is secure. I’ll have a bestfriend for life. A good dad to my future children. He causes me headaches but he makes my heart flutters some days. My relationship with him since 2 years ago has been conflicting yet beautiful. I hope you get to communicate with him regarding your concerns and hold on a bit more..

  22. A January 21st, 2019

    This was/is so me and my ex….we were together for 4 years…but he felt like he wasn’t good for me and broke up with me. A year later, he admits he is still in love with me and he knows God is telling him I am the one for him…but he is scared. I am completely in love with him still…but I can’t wait another 4-5 years for him to even marry me. I am 40…..still no kids. and I was so angry because I felt like he wasted my time knowing my desire to be a mom and get married. Now I have so many walls up….I just want us to be us…but better. No issues with other women (he didn’t cheat, but desired them), or me doing what I always do….waiting on him to make any moves….and put myself on the back burner. I’m so conflicted. We can’t seem to get it together…

    • Kitchen March 1st, 2019

      I too was in a relationship with a Virgo man for 4 years and he also recently broke up with me, I have no idea why I feel like my time and energy was wasted and I’m afraid that he is going to come to me and tell me how much in love with me he is and I’m still very much in love with him now but not sure about how I would feel about him later

  23. Quianna Washington January 18th, 2019

    Take it slow with her she wants you also just scared to get hurt again. I myself is an Aries Woman and was once with a sag who broke my heart too! Crazy! But yes just give it time and be there

  24. mimi October 17th, 2018

    I am getting married to a Virgo man in two months. Our relationship has been off and on for the past 14 year. This article describes us well. he is protective , very calm and love peace. I never really though he could handle my hot head Aries, but I wouldn’t change this for anything in the world. he is exactly what I need in my life. he is trust worthy and committed to me. I can wait to say I do. Honestly it was very hard to have a common understanding , but am glad we worked through it. Don’t give up on a Virgo man. They are simply the best.

    • Karen October 18th, 2018

      Yay congratulations. I agree with what you said. They might be a little naughty but they are just trustworthy especially when they are truly in love. They can be quite hard to read but will understand you to the very core. I am now on a long distance relationship with my virgo man and i missed him alot. Fingers cross, I want to marry this man. There were days that I want to end the relationship already but he would convince me not to. It’s hard on most days , but when it’s good it’s heavenly. Our sex is always satisfying as well. He’s worth every distance and miles between us. I love my virgo man.

      • Mimi January 22nd, 2019

        No seriously this is creepy af 😩 now that I just read your reply to her comment, me and him are also in a long distance situation. Omg what a coincidence. I would love some advice from you as well follow me and dm me as well 😊

    • Mimi January 22nd, 2019

      Omggggg your comment just really shocked me. I’m talking to a Virgo man now that i really like and can see myself falling for him and I wanted to see other people stories. You said your hot headed like me and he too is calm and too my surprise he handles me very well and is patient. Then I look to read that your name is Mimi like mine, that caught me by surprise 😆. I would love some helpful advice from you since we are still fresh. My ig is @MelaninMagicFashion 💖

  25. Austin October 15th, 2018

    I’m a Virgo man and for the past maybe 4 or 5 years I’ve just been awe stricken by this Aries woman. We dated once and had a pretty long sexual night once but that was a couple years ago and we haven’t really talked since until just recently. I just got out of a relationship with a Pisces who was great for me at first but as we grew there was this undeniable disconnect. I know this Aries woman is perfect for me just based on the way she talks and her sense of humor and how understanding she is of my viewpoints that differ from hers. We hung out for a couple hours last week just sitting in my car and talking because is was 9pm and there was nothing else to do and it was just amazing. We had no trouble in keeping the conversation fresh and interesting while we listened to classic rock and it just felt perfect. A few days later, however, she told me that she wasn’t looking for anything other than platonic and I’m perfectly fine with that but eventually I think I’m going to want more. I know she got out of a relationship she was in with this Sagittarius guy who is just a waste of space in my opinion. He would start arguments with her about anything whether it was worth it or not. He’s just a whiney, self centered snake who is “always” the victim. This was her first serious relationship too. So, she told me that she didn’t like dating because she doesn’t want to be responsible for someone else’s happiness and that got me thinking. Dating shouldn’t be like that anyways. You should be happy as yourself and the person you’re with should just be the person who takes it to the next level. I want to explain that to her and let her know that I’m absolutely nothing like her ex. I’m perfectly fine with taking things slow and just being friends first so we can build trust but I know she’s the one I have to be with so I can’t stay friends forever and I can’t let her go. Apologies for the incredibly long comment but this is just really important to me. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do or say?

    • Kitchen March 1st, 2019

      Omg where are I really love Virgo men y’all truly light up my life if you reply back I’ll explain everything to you

  26. Sannu September 8th, 2018

    I am a Aries woman and this really describes me. I just got out of a relationship with a libra. We moved in together and since then everything between us got so boring. He didnt really want to do anything or go somewhere and didn’t give me enough attention and we picked on eachother a lot too. So i thought that he is not the man i want to be with for the rest of my life and I’m only 20. I broke up with him. I met a virgo when i worked at a grocery store. He left his credit card there and i wrote to him on Facebook. And since then he kept chatting with me. I was still together with the libra but he was cool with it. I’d never cheat on him or anyone. So since i broke up with him the virgo guy started chatting with me more often. We started sexting a little and sent eachother dirty and sexy pictures and gifs. He just seems so interesting and not like the other guys. So he invited me to a party and we kissed a lot and he touched me just the way i like it. He made me felt so good, like he knew exactly what my body wanted. But we didn’t get to sex. But we talk about sex a lot and I can tell that we want each other so bad. Sometimes i don’t get him, he has his problems from the past but he says don’t worry and that I should be brave with him and not to be afraid to ask anything. And since i just got out of a relationship, we have talked about being friends with benefits. I love the idea. And I feel so free and protected with him. And he is so bright and calm and mysterious, i love it so much. But he is a busy guy so every day we talk, i dream about him so much. I can’t get him out of my head. I have told him that and he said that it feels so good that someone wants him like that. I know if I’m patient with him and keep things exciting, we will start having great time together. But not sure if I’m ready for a relationship just yet and i think he doesn’t want one too. We’ll be just friends who use each other for company and sex 🙂 can’t wait to see how things work out between us

    • Austin October 18th, 2018

      A tad late on the reply but whether or not things worked out between you and this guy, would you care to give me a little advice as to what I should do in my situation with this Aries woman? I have my own comment explaining the situation. She’s unlike anyone else I’ve ever been with and I really want things to work out between us. What are some of the things that made you and this other guy click?

      • mimi October 18th, 2018

        Well first you have to understand her needs and don’t ignore them. Show her love, care and comfort. Aries women like to feel love, they like to be assured that you love them. Give her space sumtimes. When she is upset , just try to be nice to her and console her. I hope it works out for you and the woman. Just don’t ever ignore her feelings .

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        Hey.

        We’re still not sure what we are. Last time we saw eachother was 16 days ago. He’s so busy but he’s coming over to my place tomorrow.
        And I think what made us click is that we’re both adventurous, like to keep things interesting and try new things and do something. And the fact that we don’t see eachother often is a good thing i guess. Even though it kills me, because I’m so impatient and tell him i want to see him everyday but he just can’t find the time. But I love that he is so calm and tries to show that he wants to see me too and show me he cares. And I love that he doesn’t want to hurry with sex. Most guys have sex with a girl the first opportunity they get. We’ve had the chance 3 times but we haven’t got to sex. We’ve only done oral 😀 he wants me to get on the pill and he wants us to be sober too. (We’ve smoked weed and tried acid once) I think it will take a lot of time for us to get to the point where we talk about what we are. But I will keep you updated if you want 🙂 and if you have any other questions, ask away!

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        Not sure if my last reply worked but for us it seems flipped. I’m always asking to hang out and she’s always busy. We hung out once and she said she had fun and was looking forward to doing it again but we just haven’t gotten the chance. It seems like she tries to ignore me but whenever we do get to talk she looks like she has a good time. She FaceTimed me unprompted last night and when I answered she looked as if I had called her and she was annoyed by it. It’s really confusing sometimes. It’s almost as if she’s wearing a mask that says, “I hate you” but as we talk and carry on she can’t help but laugh and the mask just crumbles away. I’ve asked her a couple times if she actually does hate me and get seems annoyed by it and just says something like, “Dude no.” This has put me in a weird place because she’s so hard to read but I like it. A lot of things say that Virgo men and Aries women have too many differences but we seem to enjoy each other pretty well. Anything different in our personalities or whatever we just make fun of and laugh about it. The thing with sex though is that it doesn’t matter to me when it happens. If we do have sex I want it to mean something. I want her to trust me and do it out of more than just lust. I want her to know that I will always be there to care for her during bad times and that I will be there to make the good times better. I really want to tell her that but I don’t wanna scare her off.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        It worked. Perhaps you’d like to chat elsewhere?

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        I think I have it down. I just have to use my email.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        As you wish 🙂

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        So based on how I described it, is this going in the right direction? Should I keep pushing to hang out or back off?

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        You should try hanging out with her and talk to her about your feelings. I am not sure if it will help or if she feels the same way but atleast you tried. If you give up and don’t try, you might start feeling guilty and think what if you did try, but then it will be too late.

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        We had a long FaceTime that ended in us talking about a relationship and she said I got her thinking. She went to bed and I sent a message explaining that I wasn’t trying to take advantage of her and that everything I said was the truth. Hopefully I was able to show her how it feels to have someone truly care about her.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        That is good! I loved that my virgo made me look at life differently and got me thinking many times as well. Let her think for a while and when she’s ready to talk, she’ll write to you. I hope everything works out for you!

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        Thank you. I appreciate all the advice and hope everything works out for you as well.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        You’re welcome, I tried to help as much as I could 🙂 let’s stay in touch and keep eachother updated!!

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        That sounds great. Would you rather have a different way to communicate than this?

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        We can try. What do you use?

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        The only thing I have is Snapchat. Probably be good to just keep updates.

      • Sannu October 19th, 2018

        That works. Give me yours 🙂

      • Austin October 19th, 2018

        Mine is afizz60

      • Austin October 18th, 2018

        The thing seems flipped with us. We hung out one time and she said she had fun and was looking forward to hanging out again but she’s always busy. I find it really hard to tell if she likes me back or not. It seems like she tries to ignore me but whenever we do get to talk she really seems to enjoy herself. Almost as if she’s wearing a mask that says, “I hate you” but as we talk it just crumbles and she can’t help but laugh and whatnot. Honestly, that’s like the best feeling I’ve ever felt. But it’s just so hard to read her sometimes, especially since she’s not a big texter and I am. I know most of the qualities that make Virgo men unattractive to Aries women aren’t really me. I’m not sensitive or shy or anything. And the thing with sex isn’t really a big thing to me with this girl. I mean, yeah she’s incredibly attractive and I would love to have sex with her but I want it to mean something. I want her to know that I want to be there to care for her during bad times and be there to make the good times better. I really want to say all this to her but I’m afraid I’ll scare her off.

      • Sannu October 18th, 2018

        She seems complicated. I feel like me and her are complete opposites. But when I don’t like a guy, I do try to ignore him but when he texts me, I always text back. I think she’s texting you back so you won’t feel bad or you won’t think she’s ignoring you. She doesn’t want to be mean to you. Atleast i do that to guys that i don’t like. I think my only advice is for you to talk to her about your feelings. Ask her if she feels something towards you and does she wants to be friends with you. Because if she doesn’t text and so won’t you, she won’t do it anyway. It’s not hard for Aries to ignore someone but they hate being the ones who are ignored. And try to meet up with her as much as you can! Because I hate texting with him because sometimes I don’t understand what he wants to say and I don’t see his emotions and reactions. But it’s positive you make her laugh and you two have interesting conversations. It’s important that she doesn’t get bored with you

  27. Laughnowcrylater July 14th, 2018

    Well I am a Virgo man everything was as good as it can get after 11yrs with a arias woman I love her with all my heart but just recently found out that everything I knew about her was a lie and that she had cheated on me with two different men we are still together because I still love her with all my heart and we have a family together but with all that she had done I don’t think I will ever trust her again her lack of trying to make the situation better and me being the only one trying to fix what she broke makes me want out the things about her that made me respect her now seem annoying like the way she never took shit from anyone is now like WTF stop acting like a child looks like she wants to get in a fight with everyone her laziness her inability to multitask is just they say arias need to feel adventure looks like the drop the ball on her IDK just need some advice

    • Erika September 7th, 2018

      I felt sad reading your comment.Betrayal is so hard.Never understood how people can do that to another.Incidentally,I am an aries female(moon in scorpio) and I think cheating is shitty.If you love her and both are willing to try then counselling might help.Best of luck 💚

  28. Arvind January 16th, 2018

    i am virgo man . I like one aries women. I am single .She is just married. We know each other for last three years. I like her very much becuase of her qualities. But after marriage she is not responding me in the same fashion which was earlier.The main thing is that i was interested in only and only friendship before and after marriage . Again we are having almost 20 years age difference. I am elder. But she could not under stand me. What is the solution.

    • chantal March 19th, 2018

      move on, she can only love one man at a time. some relationships are not long lasting and your relationship with her is over.
      you can find another woman, there are many out there who are also looking for love.
      best of luck, and know that the lucky woman that you find will be so happy with you,

  29. FilipinoAries November 17th, 2017

    I’m an Aries and the love of my life is a Virgo. Dating for 10 months now. We fight a lot when we’re together due to contrast of personality. Him being so sarcastic whenever I become short tempered and I being so insensitive and harsh sometimes. But apart from those conflicts and differences, if you get passed them and just always look for the good in each other, It can be very beautiful, loving and perfect. I never knew love til I finally agreed to be his girlfriend. We were special friends way back highschool. He courted me but I wasn’t ready yet during those years to be in a relationship. He kept courting me on college but still said no. He pursued a Pisces woman instead but they didn’t make it after 3 years. When we found each other again in facebook and agreed to meet one day, all was casual until I, the prideful woman, breaking those emotional barriers, let loose and embraced my special virgo man in my arms again.. Then the casual yet special friendship flourished into something more. After 12 years, I said YES. Best decision ever.

  30. ramgirl November 1st, 2017

    fellow aries gals; how do you handle communication problems with your virgo men? seems they can be very difficult with talking

    • FilipinoAries November 17th, 2017

      I went through the same phase especially when the relationship is new, he barely opened up and doesn’t really express well. I raised the issue to him in a respectful and playful way. Told him it’s hurting me (and its true) because openness and communication mattered if we want to take the relationship into next level. Virgo seems to be detached because a lot is going on in their mind but that doesnt mean they care less about you. They are seriously hard to figure out anyway. Be patient on him. Ask directly and gently whenever you can’t seem to get his way of communicating. Good Luck. 🙂

      • ramgirl November 26th, 2017

        Thanks for the advice, best of luck to you guys as well 😊

    • ramgirl April 6th, 2020

      Came back to say it did not work out and I dont think this is a good match. Virgo men can be psychotic/scary if they do not get their way. Beware aries girls, stay safe!!

  31. Gracie October 30th, 2017

    I honestly fell in love with a Virgo friend. I am an aries. We where just so comparable with how we acted I dont think either of us realized we fell in love. We never had a relationship though because I moved. but I will say he defiantly knew I had feelings for him and never made the move.

    • Gracie ine day if you’re in town just reach out to him, but definitely no pressure. Let it organically happen. This combo is delicate, but beautiful.

  32. Hansura May 12th, 2017

    I’m vigro male and i have relationship with an aries women we still love each other and there is nothing stop us to keep doing this b/c we discuss and killed what thing’s that are make our relationship surivive anyways i’m excited being with her b/c no one like her that why i loved her

  33. Mary C April 20th, 2017

    I am Aries woman. Reading these comments I realize the Aries woman don’t get any long-term commitment (marriage) from their VIRGO male.

    SO it makes the Aries woman wonder: WHERE IS THIS RELATIONSHIP GOING???
    I never found a Virgo male anything more than just a friend. Why this is…. because of the lack of any kind of commitment on they’re part and lack of spontaneous.

    That doesn’t make them a bad person. Just makes it hard on a relationship with an Aries woman.

    I am with a Leo/Virgo male. I get the positives and negatives of both worlds. With communication and hearing each others truth. That is how we make our relationship work.

    • Hal May 1st, 2017

      I am a virgo make and look forward to a commitment with my Aires female ..she is the one afraid no the commitment…I look towards the future ..she lives in the moment

  34. raj March 13th, 2017

    I have been dating an Aries women very preity,sparkling,and honest and clever. They don’t know what to do very immature takes wrong decisions in life inspite of advicing severely to be on safeside.She is her own decision maker and always do things way she likes to do. good from heart but if she want to tailor revenge she will do sweetly. Only thinks about her her and her ambition never get worries about the Virgo men who is there around her.if annoyed with ego she will stop communicating and do thinks with plan. Pretends that she don’t know anything.she will never let you to be superier to her she want to be bossy and she can change her promises accordingly with situation she pretends to be truth in front of you and will take all your available help but when its get turn she will show U professionalism simply by avoiding she is not very perfect lady for Virgo men please avoid this compatibility.aries is dangeriously clever to cheat the Virgo men with ust and attraction and put them lots of rumour and bad image in front of other.aries women looks for fucking sex and Virgo men looks for long lifetime relationship.

    • SpiritualMinds May 16th, 2017

      I believe that you are dealing with a broken Aries Woman. Maybe her heart was broken in the past and she has yet to repair it. There is no real telling on how she was broken. Being an Aries Woman myself and have been through that stage of my life, looking back on it I was very broken after my first relationship I had ever had went bad. At the time I didn’t really notice I was being as cold as ice and had all of my feelings locked away. And by all of my feelings I mean ALL of My Feelings. In love and even friendship. No trust, No remorse, No feelongs of guilt, & Any type of affection was not given unless it was physical and any being giving was ignored. The last thing you ever want to do is try to get into a relationship with a broken Aries Woman. Aries like excitement and one thing that is very exciting for her is sex. She’ll do it whenever she pleases because she knows that she can and tends to have that immature mindset of “I get what I want, when I want.” So commitment will be one of the hardest things to get her to do if It isn’t already with one who is not. Attention is also something Aries Woman need, sometimes more than usual. And since Virgo men have pretty low emotional levels that can be a problem. Aries women also do not dig as deep to find out emotional problems as opposed to the Virgo male. If you don’t say much chances are she’ll play it off as you are fine or that you’ll simply come and break down to her whenever you are ready.

      If not then she just hasn’t grown out of her wild life stage or you haven’t really shown her what she wants to make it work.

  35. JD February 22nd, 2017

    The article above describes me quite well as a Virgo. Reserved, shy, bottled up feelings, very analytical and worrisome.

    I was with my Aries girl for almost 4 years. When we first met as friends, she was very bubbly and playful to a point I find it quite annoying. She started pursuing me after she broke up with her ex and tried pretending to be as a friend for 2 years. Being a Virgo, I was quite reserved and didnt even dare to propose to her and she being an Aries(strong and confident), proposed to me instead. We coupled up and awesome time together. We did have our small and really huge fights but no matter what, we end up being together.

    Our sexual life was awesome, she likes it alot and most of the time initiates it. She is very pretty and has a hot body. She likes exploring new stuff and was more wild than me on bed. Being in the bed with her was actually my favourite time together, not because I am a sex addict but because i felt very connected with her.

    However, there were times when we were quarreling, she burst out shouting she needs her freedom. This was really weird because I gave all the freedom she wanted. I have never restricted her from doing anything she wanted to do and she wanted to meet. Perhaps she wanted freedom from me, I am not sure. She kept mentioning to me she wants adventure, maybe bungee jumping, scuba driving or some outdoor activity. Being a Virgo, i turned her down because not my cup of tea.

    Then 3 months ago, i notice she started paying less attention to me and was always on the phone messaging someone. I didn’t bother because i trusted her. However it became very obvious that she was more interested being with that person in the phone than me. Later I found out it was another guy, her colleague and he is quite the adventurous a**hole and this attracted her.

    I got very jealous and at that time not believing in horoscope, believed that forcing her to stop any communication will stop her from doing so. She started meeting him behind my back and despite catching 5 times(i know, i have a problem), she still feels it was ok to lie to me because they are just friends.

    Now i realise although I gave her all the freedom she wanted, she didn’t want to be controlled in any way. Her Aries was just trying to escape her all this while.

    I broke up with her and till today she still wants me back but she destroyed my trust in her, the most important foundation in a relationship.

    I am going to avoid Aries in the future.

    • lisa June 20th, 2017

      So sorry that happened to you. Your Aries girl was very immature.

    • Bambi July 20th, 2017

      Hey, I’m an Aries and I don’t think you should discredit our whole sign bc of her. The fact of the matter is, she did you dirty but us Aries’ are actually very loyal typically, sometimes to a fault. The issue with you guys’ relationship it seems, is that you didn’t explore enough with her. I know that you said the wild stuff isn’t your cup of tea, but have you ever tried meeting her halfway? Like, taking her to an amusement park or ziplining or something? Hell, even to just explore new places she’d never been like a state park hike or something. The key to keeping Aries’ attention is to in fact, hold our attention. As odd as it sounds, we are very child-like in our desires most of the time and we need entertainment bc we get bored so easily. If you ever encounter another Aries, just try to step out of your comfort zone and be more adventurous.

  36. Yvonne February 20th, 2017

    Am an aries woman I’ve been dating for almost 3 years a virgo man, very controlling, inconsiderate is not generous but loyal good manners and is polite saids he loves me.bit I don’t see him doing anything for our future or the present.
    So confuse

  37. Donna February 13th, 2017

    I. Am an Aries woman married to a Virgo man for 40 years and this is so accurate the way you describe Virgo man Aries woman I swear this is how our lives went so far thanks

    • Esme April 12th, 2017

      What is your secret I must know! I love my Virgo man but we definitely need to work on our communication! I just feel like I’m the only one doing that..

      • Cleo August 26th, 2017

        @Esme .. I found out the secret to late, but it’s patients.

        Don’t force for emotions. Don’t beg… Just go with the flow with no pressure and know if he wasn’t interested that he wouldn’t be there. So never guess.

  38. Ariana December 27th, 2016

    The sun signs alone do not tell you perfectly how your relationship will turn out but also the moon signs, because they are your emotional self while the sun sign is your basic ego

  39. Jkr December 26th, 2016

    I’m an aries woman, married to a virgo man, and this is not an accurate description at all. My marriage is a constant struggle. This fails to describe how it’d be if you have a controlling, condescending virgo.

    • Anonymous February 17th, 2017

      Im an aries woman with a virgo man also and its a huge struggle…

  40. Grace1234 April 13th, 2016

    The description I so the money for both signs! Only one word of warning, Aries woman will need to be able to handle the  Vergos moody ness and dismiss them! He can push an Aries to frustration which usually results in agitated outburst! Avoid this at all cost, he’s expressing his frustrations on the one he love the most. I usually calm this by telling him to quit being Ugly or fussing at me! His usual response is an apology followed by hugs, kisses, and cuddling! On the other hand as an Aries I am quick tempered, he recognizes this and knows the right time to be quite,and give a huge caressing hug and kiss that would put out any fire! It takes effort and understanding on both ends!

  41. Joy-Ful October 14th, 2015

    I looked this up because of moon positions – 1st house/6th house – I’m 1st house. The above description sounds so fantastic it is almost unbelievable. My 6th house moon-man was extremely romantic and kind, but he was so withdrawn and quiet that I didn’t trust him. Early in our relationship the trust factor dissolved. We managed to maintain the relationship off/on for 4 years, but we could never get to that point where we could really trust OR depend on each other. It was like we were in a ball being tossed around with the hope that we would stick together by velcro or something. Very frustrating. I would love to have developed the kind of relationship described above because I really did (and still do) love him.

  42. SerenaQuaye April 17th, 2015

    I’m an Aries gal. I once dated a virgo man. We met thru mutual friends. Well, as a setup. At first, I didn’t know what to think of him. He seems sad, passive, and holding on to past issues. When we talked it was if I was at a meeting with a casual friend than a potential date. The romance was far. Yet, I tried to keep an open mind. After out event, while walking hkme, he reached out n held my hand..never thought he could..then I learned from him later, he thought I was easy that he could getucky the first night. I looked at him n smilled. Nver bother to waste my time on a statement with no essence. But boy, moving forward was the hardest thin of my experience datin men. My virgo was always moody, imagine that. Whenever I did something nice, it was why u did that? Or u spend all day doing that?  He felt impossible. He never really argue though out interaction was difficult. He likes to play bossy which is the worse thin with an are is woman. I would get mad at him easily n never knew how to handle it. We were like two beans trying to play fish, polar opposite. One day, he called and broke up with me. I was like oh well. I felt bad a Lil but was glad it was over. Hopefully the next virgo I meet, we will understand each other better. 

  43. 7003260152084 January 29th, 2015

    I am an Aries woman I loved an Aries guy when we were at high school, he was the most intriguing person I have ever known and I fell in love with him. I never knew how he really felt, he didnt tell me, his friends claimed that he did but he seemed too shy, but I always saw it in his eyes when he looked at me, the love was there. Unfortunately he left high school before I did and he moved on and married someone else. We still kept in touch, it was always me being the initiator. I also had to move on and married a great guy, an Arian as well, so the fire keeps burning, but I always loved him (Virgo) so much. There were many guys who wanted to go out with me but he was always the one, yet I couldnt have him. I now have three children, all grown up. He is married with grown kids as well as grandchildren. We always kept in touch, however, he kept me at arms lenght, at all times, I on the other hand would have indulged in a secret affair with him if given the chance, however, I doubt that was ever on his mind. We recently had a bit of a fallout and I feel that he has judged me without seeking the real story. No matter how much he has hurt me emotionally, I always found my way back to this compelling man, I have now made a decision in my heart to let him go because it is just the best thing for me to do. He is and always will be the love of my life and I always live with the hope that someday he will tell me that he did love me and that I will always be in his heart as well, even though we have seperate lives….

  44. samantha12345 October 24th, 2014

    I have been with a virgo man for well over an year now and this is such an apt description of how we are. We had loads of fights and I had so many difficulties in understanding him as to what he wants. He didn’t seem to understand my emotions and I didn’t seem to understand how he never expresses his love. This did bother me but somehow I could never doubt his love. He is loyal and committed and you see that side all the time, even in his non-expressiveness. Be assured that he is devoted to you as much as you are

  45. lannocc June 13th, 2014

    There is a lovely Aries woman who has been occupying my mind as of late. She’s independant and driven, which I really admire. She looks great and takes good care of her body. I’ll tease her a little, because she is covered in tattoos and yet I am totally naked. Known casually for years, we are now just getting to know each other outside of the local music scene. I wish her welll and now seek advancement between us, despite my complications and her obligations. So I test these waters with hopeful trepidation…

  46. Wallacesgurl May 16th, 2014

    I am a true Aries woman and met my Virgo man by chance one day, and every since we have had very special moments, intimately and emotionally.  He works, A LOT, and I work half as much as he does, so we have that understanding of that being part of our lives.  One comment I read about being close with family is very true, and I learned early to allow him that space, also in matters of something he says he will do, he is going to but with his busy schedule my “do it now” spirit has to be patient.  He has a spiritual side that he is trying to nurture as well and that we also have in common.  He has commented that he likes talking to me, even to the point that he does most of the talking, but that is okay because I want him to get r-e-a-l comfortable sharing and expressing with me.  We are most compatible intimately and I think that is why he has times that he is “busy”, but when he was getting to know me he made time.  In his defense though, he did get behind in business which is not good so we’re leveling out into a easy going, gradually developing, long term, REAL lifelong relationship and it is so fantastic, I thank God for it everyday!
     

  47. mariah232 March 31st, 2014

    I don’t like vigro man.They are not romance. They don’t work out arguement. I dated vigro. He played me like a fool. He didn’t believe God. He wasn’t sweet to me.Vigro man not helpful.He didn’t care about me and my feels.He didn’t treat me like I was special in his life.

  48. mariah232 March 31st, 2014

    I am aries woman. I dated vigro he broke up with me. He wasn’t romance.He didn’t care about valentine day. He didn’t care about making things special for me. He broke up with me after valentine day.I told him I wanted celebrate valentine day with him. He didn’t care about what is important to me. He only care about his ex girl friend and not me. I was fool by him. I cried over him.

  49. miss_jane January 11th, 2014

    I am a spunky, firey Aries so in love with my VIRGO! He doesn’t know it yet, or at least I haven’t told him. Reading this bio of the two signs made me feel so happy and excited.  I hope with every fiber of my being that it plays true.  Good luck to everyone out there who reads this. Happy New Year

  50. laflare June 27th, 2013

    I’m an aries and I’ve been dating a virgo for almost a year now. He’s the exact opposite of me.lol. He’s calm,patient and very laid back.I never would have thought i could be so compatiable with someone who was so different from myself but he really balances me out. I have a quick temper and he knows just what to do and say to soothe me. We met through a mutal friend and at first I wasn’t attracted to him.It really turned me off that he was so quiet and reserved,I thought he was sneaky,but I was very wrong. I also thought that my loud,over the top personality would drive him away but he says it’s one of the things he loves most about me. He doesn’t say much,he just observes everything. He brings a lot of peace,stablilty, and comfort to my life.He’s more of a “show&prove” kind of person. He does keep a lot of his emotions bottled up but we are working through that, but on the other hand he is very open and honest about how he feels about me. He’s very attractive but he never lets that go to his head.It doesn’t bother him that i get a lot of attention from other guys,he kind of likes it because he knows they can’t have me.He’s protective,not jealous or overly protective but if you get too close he has no problem handling the situation.lol He’s a humble and beautiful soul to be in love with. He’s the only man that I’ve dated that knows how to handle my “red hot” aries personality. Virgo males make great lovers. They will stop at nothing to please you in every way. I’m fire,he’s ice but we make a great team.

  51. gzddd May 14th, 2013

    Well thank u for saying what was on my mind. I think we may be the same cuz I swear I was about to write this same thing just I don’t work with the guy

  52. Mjbear08 March 3rd, 2013

    Erbear Did you read that shit ,. its the truth. I am scared..Ain’t nobody got time for that..lmfao

  53. Erbear December 2nd, 2012

    I am an aries woman and I met a Virgo man about a month ago. I want to be in a relationship with him so badly. He’s funny, and sweet and caring. Seriously, haven’t wanted anyone this badly in a long time. We text a lot but it’s hard for me because he is very closed off with his feelings. He just got out of a bad relationship that messed him up pretty badly. When I see him at parties he doesn’t really talk to me much until later in the evening. Recently we were cuddling in his bed and then we ended up kissing and stuff. Now I don’t know if it’s just a hook up for him or if he actually likes me. I haven’t heard from him in 2 days… That’s the only thing that bothers me about him. I just want to know what he’s thinking especially because I am so incredibly straightforward With my feelings for him. 

  54. KattyRM November 23rd, 2012

    I’m an aries women and i recently met a virgo guy. Everything in this reading seems right of what i know about him and i am a true aries. Hes 7 years older then me which makes it even more difficult because hes at that age where he seems ready to settle down and well… i’m not exactly there yet. On the other hand i think that if something was to happen between us I would be willing to settle if thats what he wanted, i guess thats what it meant about having to change a bit. Hes really quiet, and i actually found out how he feels about me from one of his friends, while i’m way more forward about it all. Always joking with him and he just laughs. Sure hes passive but so sweet, and sometimes it even seems like he is trying to be a little more forward, he will ask me to lunch and stuff like that, but it doesn’t seem like a date because there are always other people there. I should probably mention that we work together…. i know its not a good idea but I really don’t care. He also gave me his number but made it like it was for work, but since then we dont text about work, its pretty much just us talking. Obviously i’m really impatient and i read way to much into things he says and does (i usually see things negative….) I just hope something will happen.

  55. mjahre September 21st, 2012

     I just went on a first date with an Aries woman and the chemistry was just beautiful. The potential for a long term relationship had me coming here to check out our astrological compatability. I can’t believe how accurate the description is. It fits us to a tee. Now I feel more confident in going forward, knowing that this union can actually succeed. I feel so intense and wonderful around her…and I know she also really digs me. OK..so coming back to reality for a second…what do I see as the pitfalls? Very simply, the Aries woman might be too airy fairy. They are like hot air balloons that just float with no grounding. That can be a turn off for a Virgo guy because it makes it hard to relate. Yet, I found that my Aries woman is also extremely bright. She seems to get me and when I converse with her, nothing goes over her head. That’s a very good sign, indeed! As long as we can converse and our communication is effective, I’m sold! Aries woman has given me reason to move forward and abandon my hesitancy. I trust her completely and have much to learn from her beautiful ways. I sense she adores me, my grounded and practical ways yet still romantic and alluring. Perhaps we both mystify each other and that is just how I like it. I wouldn’t change my  Aries woman for anything. I like her just the way she is! 

  56. LadiiSteph August 23rd, 2012

    I am a Aries woman. I’ve been dating an Vigro man, on and off, for almost 5 years. We have a child together. This article describes us perfectly, though we are not together. We have that magnetic energy. Everytime we see each other, there’s a need to reach out and touch the other. We can look into each others eyes and know exactly what the other is feeling without saying any words. He has expressed his love for me in so~ many different ways. With those expressions and feelings aside, Virgo’s are realists. He flat out told me, if we were to work towards a relationship, this is how it’s going to be. I wasn’t ready for what he wanted. One of his requirements was that we moved in together. Being a young Aries, in college, I need my space and alone time to focus on my studies. Am I ready to be around him 24/7? My Virgo man can be selfish at times and only think of himself. When things aren’t right between us, he abuses alcohol, drugs, and has sex with other women. After that passes, guilt and shame sets in. One thing I love about him is that he sincerely apologizes for what he has done and tries to resolve the problem. When I first met him, his personality was kinda out there but the more time we spend together, I can see him maturing. He says, I bring out the good in him. And I agree.

  57. Flux30 August 21st, 2012

    I am a Virgo man and I can love an aries woman dearly. I have not had the chance, but being a Virgo I look for the out going signs… Aries, Aqarius, Leo, Libra… You get my hint. I do this because I want someone who is not a safe player like myself. I don’t speak for all Virgos, but opposites attract.

  58. nubnqn2004 August 8th, 2012

    My Virgo man and I have been married for 29 years and dated 3 years prior to that.  For us, the above description is perfect.  It’s almost scary to see us described so accurately, but I love it! 

  59. Miss_T May 15th, 2012

    I started dating a Virgo man back in Dec. I have never had anyone click with me so well. We meshed in so many different ways. Neither of us dropped the L-bomb, but the energy between us was intense. The above description was pretty much us. Just recently he moved back east because his mom got pretty sick. The last month before he left, he shut me out and didn’t want to see me. We did see each other once before he left. We’ve been in contact since he left and I know that our jouney together isn’t over. This being patient and waiting is killing me though!  From everyone’s comments, it looks as though I just need to hang in there….UGH!!! This sucks!

  60. WowingAries May 12th, 2012

    I am an Aries woman married to a Virgo man and I must admit it was a fight in the beginning. We have pulled through for 15 long years after our bitter, sweet struggles with our personalities. I can’t help but wonder if that’s the very part that keeps us together, tho.  There is never a dull moment. I am constantly trying to figure him out but I can’t LOL, and I still am learning him. His calmness use to passoff to me as arrogance and unconcern, but I’ve learned that I was wrong. He is analzying when I think he doesn’t care. He’s trying to think of a plan to make it better. No, he’s not outwardly emotional, but inside he truly is more emotional than I’ve yet to learn. He is a great father, and works outside of his characteristics to be romantic and sometimes that can even be fun to watch. If you can appreciate the gentleness and loyality of a virgo man, you can get past the rest. A relationship with a virgo man is really worth discovering.

  61. Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    They should be called Birgo for Boring :p

    I get along with the girls they are fun but the guys are always worried.

  62. ariesaries November 19th, 2011

    well,the virgo man….what can I say…I dated him for a year..then off then on..I never tried for a man like that…but like someone said before…they only like people from who they can benefit in any form… from outside he is good friend, caring, he’ll do anything for you, mister know it all…ALL FAKE…perfect from outside, but inside…sad story
    I saw his real face and I couldn’t stand his acting roles with other people..
    He was faithfull,interesting,dependable,you can talk to him…
    but maybe i’m more -little less conversation, little more action please-

    I wish him luck, I think he will have great life..
    but I can’t stand personality like that…
    only thing that makes me sad, that my direct approach to him has resulted in better manipulation of others…

    if there was someone I don’t like, that person knows it, and if i attack it is face to face..
    while virgo tries to manipulate with words..and if he doesn’t win that person, he tries to manipulate others to do dirty work for him..so he would always look perfect…

    I prefer real world rather then illusions of utopia..

    I think that virgos should be politicians…

  63. Lastar91 November 13th, 2011

    I am an aries lady. I have been dating my virgo man for 2months now. my first time seing him was amazing. I will have to say it was love at fisrt sight in my senior year in high school. I was madly into him and wanted himto be my man, my first and only one but things didnt work out that way. After two years, we got together.At first,things was going very well between us. He took me to so many nice and romantic places. We fell in love quickly . I can see us in the future happily married. But he is kind of scared of my young age and thinks that my feeling can change anytime toward our relationship.he is a very caring,strong,handsome and lovable man but cant be sometimes. He definatelly recommands his space and timidity which deeply kills me. I want to be there for him in any circumstances. Most of the stuff I read here are mostly our relationship. sometimes,his actions make me think that he dont care and dont love me but I be patient and wait for him to come back to his sense. Im very impatient and talkative, but Im learning to be patient with him to save our relationship…I love him more than anything in my life and I hope things out between us. He is the best lovemaking ever. I feel free safe and protected when I am with him. I wish he stop doubting me so our love can happily last which was my wish for 11/11/11 at both 11:11:11:11. By the way im 20 and he is 28. I Love u babe k…..

  64. nataliecorozco September 14th, 2011

    I am in a relationship with a virgo man right now and I couldn’t be happier. So far, I have enjoyed every second of everyday with him. I actually feel happy and I hope we lasts a long while.

  65. neeharika1317 September 7th, 2011

    @jdmoreira yeah I agree making love with him is awesome heavens under me.

  66. neeharika1317 September 7th, 2011

    It was 4 years back when I was 20; first saw my man of Virgo, at that stage where I never knew that all these signs influence the match etc… But his words n acts started capturing my heart soul gradually never wanted to be away from him even for a second.
    At times was getting irritated by his acts but like sum magnetic pull dragging me towards him. Then I was a young dashing fiery girl of Aries who considered me practical. But this man made me realise the dream love world’s beauty. Since then his has been the only man in my heart.
    But unfortunately I was forced to marry a diff person, but still n still this man is in my every single cell, and also I believe that he will be my man in nearing future n I want him whole heartedly. As it’s just n just him who can make me feels complete, in all d acts of life.
    I agree to it 100% it’s the match made in heaven. I consider myself luck to have met him in my life.
    Guys please do pray for me n his reunion ASAP….. Life without him is like exactly like body without soul (dead body)

  67. jdmoreira July 12th, 2011

    It’s been 15 years… the tides of a lifetime of loves, loss, heartache and sorrow found me one day on a boring date in a bar where my Virgo was working. I never forgot my Virgo – sweet, noble, loving, considerate, masculine and sexy. I was 24 the rash, impulsive, beautiful Aries everyone thought was a catch – he was 30, sexy, aloof, dangerous, unattainable to everyone – and the only man who drew my eye so many long lost nights ago. We fell in love quickly: making love, battling and remaking love so many times my head spun. I was young and totally unprepared to trust the all-consuming love that my Virgo felt for me:afraid I trusted everyone else’s condemnation of what we had. I walked away, and every once in a while I remembered him even reliving those passionate moments secretly while in someone else’s arms.

    Fast forward 15 years and my Virgo stands before me with the same love in his eyes – he sees no one but me and with him I feel safe, protected, loved and appreciated. He never forgot the finest details of our time together: the room we first made love in, the songs I loved, even the birthdays I spent without him. I am stunned, honored, and humbled by his enduring love that to this day patiently sees the lost span of years as a brief moment vs., a bitter loss. He was and is what a Virgo represents – steadfast love, loyalty, patience, consideration, caring to fault and responsible to a tee.
    Ladies look out! There is no other man who can love like this but a Virgo don’t underestimate the muted tones of his affections because they run deeper than you could possibly know and to this day even so many years later making love is heaven!

  68. sancee March 31st, 2011

    im seeing a virgo man now he is a beautifull man and i fell in love with him so quickly. he makes me laugh and has taken me on many adventures and shown so much kindness generosity, goodtimes and love. he loves in a different way then im use to though. he defenately needs his space which i find extreemely hard to give to him because he is always on my mind and im constantly raving his body against mine. the sex is the best sex ive ever had too. weve been together 2 weeks but he seems to be alot more casual about the relationship then me and he freaks out when i want to talk about a future between us. im a little confused as im letting it consume me . he seems to have a comunication problem and all of this stuff sometimes takes over the good times .im feel sometimes i might be smothering him. the more i do the more he pushed me away and the more that i feel i need him to be there for me emotionally. i hope we get through it as the tenderness he shows is bliss.

    i copied and paste cause it is exactly to the t…wut i am going through wit mine

  69. sancee March 31st, 2011

    i recently started seeing a virgo male nd it wuz amazing(love making and connrction)but it seems now i am to much for him and it sucks cause i fell for him and fell for him hard

  70. ana March 21st, 2011

    It’s true, my Virgo man is an oppotunist, does not express himself, is selfish, but also tender, caring and makes a good family man( not necessarily a good husband) also very stingy, but wants nice gifts. Remembers what you’ve said a year ago, but is no fireworks this guy- If you want stimulation, excitement etc, look elsewhere!He loves me but it’s not enough I know what I want and this is not what I want.

  71. Julie March 3rd, 2011

    It’s a perfect description of me and my virgo mans life,yes I am a aries woman. Me and my virgo man have been best friends for about two years. On Valentines day we got together and ever since then I’ve just been amazed and so very in love! It’s just so different from all of the other men I have dated.But yet,so perfect. I love how he calls me “his princess”. But I love it anyways. He said to me that he loves me more than anyone would know. It was just so sweet! Whenever he is having a tough time in life I’m always there to cheer him up and make him feel much better. He respects my space when I need it.Also,I love how we are always picking on eachother and just playing around with eachother. The only negative thing is I used to get very impatient with him,but I learned how to be patient with him. I learned that one of things you need to definitly learn how to deal with him is being patient,especially since we aries ladys are very impatient but it’ll pay of eventually. I really do thank it’s a match made in heaven! 🙂

  72. lisa barber March 1st, 2011

    It’s a perfect description

  73. Just Me February 27th, 2011

    I love this! i have dated several cancers (even married one) and could never make it work. and so far the two greatest loves of my life have been other aries, but i’ve been seeing a virgo for about two months now and it’s completely different than anything i’ve tried before. he is not remotely my type at all and i think it’s his reservations that drive me craziest. i love the challenge of trying to catch this guy, and i really think it’s gonna pay off for me…

  74. Nick February 24th, 2011

    I am a Virgo man, dating an Aries woman for about almost a month now, and its going good. She is a very beautiful girl that always makes me happy. Yet sometimes our plans goes to dust.. as a Virgo man, I respect my Aries space and privacy. Yet sometimes worrying about it it bad. Yet I care. Almost half of what I read is true, and being to wonder. Also my Aries cheers me up and makes me happy though my rough times. ty lord!! 😀

  75. John January 29th, 2011

    I’m a Virgo man, falling very weak to an Aries woman who I recently started to work with. I’m reticent because we work together and I’ve had bad experiences with that in the past, but she’s special. She’s not a pushover and definitely not needy, something I respect, but most of all, when speaking to her, she has this sincere honesty (which she makes no apologies for) and gentle nature that shakes me to the core and crumbles my gigantic walls like no other. We’re not even dating, but I’ve never felt this weak — to the point of crazy self-consciousness. Right now, I couldn’t even be bothered by another lady… I only want her, I have such a hard time moving forward due to the circumstances, which is eating me up inside.

  76. Osage Dior January 19th, 2011

    Well…I am an Aries and I have had an on and off again relationship with a virgo for several years…He always surprises me and knows just what to do to pull me back in…However, we are different-I love to be spontaneous and he loves to plan…I feel sometimes I am more aware of it than he is…but he is always willing to try…I am excited to see what 2011 will bring to us…something more committed or the continuation of this casual affair or the nice goodby and thank you…Yet I am a sucker for the way he makes my heart flutter…

  77. Steph January 17th, 2011

    I’m an Aries woman and i’ve honestly never tried to put in as much effort into a relationship with ANYONE as i’ve had to do with my virgo man.
    Patience has never been one of my virtues but it’s something i’ve had to learn with him.
    Three months after we met, i left ‘cos i couldn’t deal with it.
    He appeared most of the time to be very cold and detached and would only loosen up ONCE in a long while.He was critical and very blunt. spoke his mind with little or no consideration of how the other person might feel.
    When i tried to be caring and nice, it would only push him away ‘cos of his fear of commitment.
    When i decided to give him his space and act unavailable, he accused me of being with other guys and that even drove him further away. It was like i couldn’t win either way.
    He was also a very private person and not a great communicator.
    To be honest, I went back to him not because i cared much at the time but because as a Aries woman, i have a strong passion to win and i saw this as a challenge. I wasn’t gonna give up.
    It’s been six months and i’m deeply in love with him. under that icecold demeanor, he’s very loving and sweet…and very sensitive..he’s opened up to me a lot and even though he may not be the most expressive person i know he loves me… if you’re looking to keep a virgo man, you’ve got to be PATIENT. trust me,it pays off

  78. Mrs.Virgo January 14th, 2011

    I have been married to a Virgo Man for three years. I am an Aries woman. The above match description has been our life to a T. He has not been without fault and neither have I for that matter but truly I am amazed at the perfect description of our life.

  79. Maddie January 6th, 2011

    I have been on and off with a virgo man for about a year and a half. At first the relationship was just sexual, and now it has turned into something bigger than I ever imagined.
    The claim that virgo men are terrified of matrimony is very true. It took him a year and a half to realize he loved me and wanted me in his life offically.
    If you put time and effort into a virgo man and not push him to any decisions, but just tell him how you feel every once and awhile, he will fall for you.
    He just told me last night he loved me more than anyone he has ever loved before, and that I am the first girl that cracked his wall down.:-)

  80. Me December 30th, 2010

    .. Virgo men are the most Uncompromising beings on the Planet

    They only want a woman they can profit from

    They love no-one but themselves

  81. Me December 30th, 2010

    …Leave Him

    And all those other Virgos who are making all you women feel the way you do

    Who do they think they are .. treating people in this cold clinical detached manner

    we all have feelings and get hurt and need ‘alone ‘ time, but not all of us treat people in such a disgraceful manner.. they’re just ‘ men ‘ but more like living Wimps

    where is your self respect girls?

    get tough get serious and tell them to GET LOST!

  82. A December 28th, 2010

    I admire my Virgo because of his organizing abilities, gentle character, truthfulness, loyalty, and sexiness. Whenever I am offended, he apologies, explains his point of view, and kisses me. That formula always works on me. Knowing that I like the impulsive, passionate encounters, he planned these instances into his day, pretending to act impulsively, in order to keep me interested in him. Because I am critical as well, he understands my point of view when I criticize him. Knowing how sensitive I am, he is always tactful when addressing concerns. He is an excellent communicator.

  83. Lola December 5th, 2010

    Oh and hes hardly the virgo described, he’s always centre of attention , rather rude and spiteful to even his closest friends , mocking them for a laugh.
    Hes loud and well plain confusing :S

  84. Lola December 5th, 2010

    Im an aries female , but always find myself displaying pieces qualities aswell.I think im a cusp. Well anyway there’s this virgo guy and well ive noticed him for quiet some time , but always have pushed him to the back of my mind . So recently he seems to have taken notice of me. But lo and behold , it seems like disaster, my presence seems to make him uncomfortable and he glares daggers any time im near and he refuses to speak to me. I really dont understand. Ive never wronged him. Is that a virgo thing? What goes on in his head when im there, im worried he hates me! Of recent i keep catching his eye and bumping into him , and he wears a blank expression. Anyone care to interprete this? I might be developing feelings for him but dont know what he thinks of me at all, i think it could work im quite the listener and am fine with sitting still and am rather thoughtful. But does he hate me?!

  85. Jeff December 2nd, 2010

    The Leo that I’ve got locked in my closet, by that I mean my heart, is one of the most beautiful women that I’ve ever met. And, she let’s me do WHATEVER, and I mean WHATEVER, I want to her. Not only is she a kind, affectionate, and free-spirited but she also never shuts up. I mean this woman can talk. One day I caught her talking to a telephone pole, and when I asked her why she was talking to an inanimate object she said, “Everyone needs some attention, even when they can’t talk back.” Well, I think that pretty much sums up how accurate, and effective, astrological directives can be to inordinately attractive people.

  86. lauren December 2nd, 2010

    I’ve been with my Pisces man for a little over a year now. He’s absolutely wonderful – intelligent, thoughtful, funny, easy-going – and the sex is s-t-e-a-m-p-y, though he first felt weird about getting tied up and stuff now he just LOVES it!!! He really is the best lay I’ve ever had and I want to marry him for now and forever. He is my one true love and i MEAN THIS!!!

  87. lee October 20th, 2010

    im seeing a virgo man now he is a beautifull man and i fell in love with him so quickly. he makes me laugh and has taken me on many adventures and shown so much kindness generosity, goodtimes and love. he loves in a different way then im use to though. he defenately needs his space which i find extreemely hard to give to him because he is always on my mind and im constantly raving his body against mine. the sex is the best sex ive ever had too. weve been together 6 months but he seems to be alot more casual about the relationship then me and he freaks out when i want to talk about a future between us. im a little confused as im letting it consume me . he seems to have a comunication problem and all of this stuff sometimes takes over the good times .im feel sometimes i might be smothering him. the more i do the more he pushed me away and the more that i feel i need him to be there for me emotionally. i hope we get through it as the tenderness he shows is bliss.

  88. Jhonny August 30th, 2010

    A was searching the net about aries (mex) woman and male (me) virgo, is nice and entretaining read all this,in ,y case im dating a great but stressful women ,the chemistry was good for the
    First 4 monts ,.now since I moved to her place its thought! Her temperaments are out of blue , I as virgo very detailist try to treat her as a princess but actually I’m not on her life exept as a.server,asd but true . I dont where we are going into…this has changed into a caos. Good nites

  89. Marica August 20th, 2010

    I dated a Virgo from 17 to 20. We clashed like crazy but other times we had fun.

  90. Michele August 9th, 2010

    I have been friends with a Virgo man for many years, since we were kids. I’m a natural Aries woman so most of what I read about myself is true, and I am proud of that! (Imagine that) This friend of mine and I have been going on dates for years…he took me on my first date when we were 16, and he took me to a high school dance. We’re nearing 30 now and both single at the same time again. Neither one of us has settled into marriage, but for some reason I always come back to this Virgo man, whether that be as a friend or more. I have always felt he wanted more but my wild side, or independency have intimidated the heck out of him…however he’s hung steady. He makes me set times for things, and dates. It’s a slow process but he could be the one that centralizes my focus without filling my head full of the garbage most do because they fall in love in five minutes without really knowing me. An Aries woman wants a man to take his time and get to know her. Our exterior may be tough, beautiful, strong and demanding but on the inside…there is a softness to us that whoever reaches it could hold the keys to our hearts forever. So far, my Virgo man has kept his hormones to himself and worried more about dating me. Men, take note…learn to date again. I promise you, it will pay off in the long run.

  91. Neicy July 30th, 2010

    Im an aries woman currently engaging a relationship with a vigro man. So far the zodic compatibility about us is half true and half not. I would have to say we could have good conversations bt sometimes can get to the point where were pointing out falses instead of working around it. He also saids things that makes me question his feelings towards me. Like he’ll mention about how much he miss me and wants to see me bt he doesnt show me enough attention or affection which i tend to feel implusive. Although we haven’t been conversating, more like siting in eachother’s presence in silence or cuddling together.
    He’s always think im not hearing him out. Im more of a listener than a talker so iont always know what to say bt listen and agree. I tend to worry more of how he’s feeling and thats what makes it complicated because he puts up this act as if he’s to hard of a guy to puzzle.
    He also seems to not be appreciative about the favors I do, then he will throw a fit as if he cant be satified for what he gets. On the other hand I’ll feel unappreciated and mad as hell about it and he’ll be over it expecting things to be cool between us. Another thing i peep about is aries are impatient! He tends to do things on his own pace,Lol.

    Besides all the negetivty I’ve pointed out there is a spark about him that just keeps me on edge to want to know him more. I mean we kiss and cuddle theirs chills that runs through me like no other!! Theirs not to many that can make me feel like this. Depise our disagreements he can break the silence by being really goffy which would spark everything back in place!

    Thats just my imput on aries woman and virgo man. I hope it is resourceful to you! much love!

  92. Ardra July 13th, 2010

    I just started talking with a Virgo man on June 8th and our conversations have been very interesting. With me being an Aries woman I know how my temperment is but in talking to him I am noticing that Virgo men do need their space and are very active with their families. I can find myself loving him but I just want to make sure it’s right and what he is saying is the true deal. He tells me he can see us together for a long time, so this is the time at 43yrs old that I am going to have to learn patience. Wish me the best!

  93. eric July 3rd, 2010

    but we have come to an agreement. I trust her deeply and my old vulcan type ways are being a little more submissive to respect her and comfort her. I have learned that virgo women and aries men are my choice both dangerous and intelligent. An aries woman though can come across as a little more naive and prejudice but a virgo woman has too much scheduling for work and shit like that so you can never have that quality time with them. I like that an aries woman has little to do. It allows me to be a man or feel like one at least.

  94. eric July 3rd, 2010

    I am currently dating an aries woman. I am a virgo man. I will say to some degree that aries women feel that meeting some one “half way” is actually means you agree with everything they do and must not disagree with them. I am captured by her beauty and I’ve liked her for over a year always seeing her with men of other signs that were lame. Finally though we hung out one night when I came back from seattle having a good streak of one night stands with amazing beautiful women of all types. I don’t want that anymore though. I’m a virgo not a whore. Im almost 30 also. I can’t be doing that. I was captured by her hips and she can cook as well. Its amazing but now shes modeling and its driving me mad. Her body is a temple. So is mine! Not eveyone should have access.

  95. Matt June 19th, 2010

    Interesting – Now I know a wee bit about this Virgo guff. I am a Virgo but only about half of what I have read today is true, more than not I guess. You know I cant remember if I ever dated an Aries ? Im 38 now and have been for the most part a bachelor, and thats just a choice I have made on the whole. The Aries Virgo thing is intriguing reading ! I think it must depend a lot on youre culture of origin and the way you were raised too, but I see Astrology as a good template to begin with, for sure and hello all you Aries Gals !

  96. Melinda May 30th, 2010

    I am wanting to be with a Virgo man so badly. I am an Aries,and i am in a relationship with a cancer,but i don’t really love him. I care,and that’s not love.This Virgo was in my class,from elementary to high school,and I have always watched him secretly,and he ,me!but we never got together or anything like that. He was afraid I’d turn him down,and when he saw me on facebook, he sent me a message,and his number. I immediately answered.I wouldn’t have turned him down. My God he was so darling in school to me,and BUFF!!! Geesh!And still is,and he says I would have turned him down. I let him know that that would not have happened,and now when we talk to each other over the phone he just keep saying he missed out. But he hasn’t. I still want him,and we live miles apart. There is a class reunion coming up,and i am trying to wait until then to see him,..it’s hard though. He was so shy in school,and now he says he isn’t,I’ll see. But I do not want to run him away with my forwardness though. I have this tendency to want something so badly,and don’t,or can’t wait to get it. Any Arien know what I mean here?I was married to a Virgo,and i loved him,until he caused the breakup over infidelity on his part,and a lack of communication.But over all it was great.And that was when I was younger. I feel now that I can do this again with another Virgo,and this time make it stick.I want him,ya’ll!!

  97. adriana May 9th, 2010

    i knew this virgo idiot like 2 months ago,i took care of him nicely,wash his clothes,cook for him,even shove him his shoe and put on his socks,and guess what he told me,please dont take care of me this way,this is too serious,as an aries,that is how i show my love and care,but this dumb virgo is a real dummy i left him cold,coz guess what im sensitive too.i know virgos are beautiful people,but this one is a black sheep,sorry to all the virgorians reading this,i hate him not you guys..

  98. Kristy April 7th, 2010

    I have had an on and off relationship with a virgo man for MANY years, and as a person I love him deeply. There are aspects of the relationship that are incredible, such as–trust,loyalty,and sincerity. When a virgo man says he loves you he means it..and means it in a big way. The idea of safety and comfort has brought me back several times throughout the years. However, as an Aries woman, I feel if things become too settled or clingy, I’ll find myself on the next fight out. If you are truly ready to settle down in a relationship, this is a FANTASTIC and loving match. However, if your true Arien nature is burning, and you crave freedom -be careful with a virgo man. For he may fall hard for you, even though your feelings may not be as strong. Because once you’re in this relationship, the virgo man is expecting the long haul.

  99. Libby October 17th, 2009

    I am an aries woman who recently started dating a virgo man. I love his chivalry and honor. he is very trust worth and considerate. I am very happy that i do not intimidate him and he admires my strong will and passion. So far the only problems have been his passive calm nature can come off indifferent rather than simply reserved, and my impulsive nature can come off inconsiderate rather than impatient. So far so good. I worry that i could fall for him harder and faster than he would fall for me.

  100. Terribia October 11th, 2009

    My new-found Virgo is a total match! I really am sooo feeling him. I feel the sense of restriction that the reading refers to, but I know that his intentions are to have an upstanding relationship. He’s sooo worthy of my respect and admiraation that it’s crazy. I’m willing to see where this goes long-term. God is so good!

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