Gemini and Cancer Compatibility

The bonds Gemini and Cancer share are quite fascinating and interesting as they almost complement each other in everything and show different worlds to each other. But Cancer have uniquely nurturing approach while Gemini people are playful and this sometimes hurt the sensitive feelings of Cancer.

Gemini people are impossible to pin down. They are strongly intelligent but at the same time it makes more sense to Gemini to be a jack-of-all-trades and master of none simply because it might involve doing that thing forever. Gemini people like to consistently change from one idea to another, thinking that the current idea is the one they run with, until they change their minds. Their flighty antics make it hard for them to settle down onto any one thing whether it be career, friendship, relationship or any of these in combination. Their fear of missing out on something new and exciting keep the Gemini moving about. Their souls are like a mere child, letting go too quickly or holding on too lightly at times. They wander about looking for the next best thing.

Cancer are highly valued by people for their refined and empathetic nature. They are true people who never endorse hypocrisy. Cancer are determined with the capability to work even in worst of conditions and get appreciable results. Cancer loves to be in charge. They love attention and taking control of things. They have the persistence and patience to take an idea and run with it until that mere idea becomes a reality regardless of who thinks otherwise, if it were not for the fact that they worry tremendously about losing what they already have. So, their cravings and controlling efforts remain buried deep within them.

There is a pleasant compatibility between Gemini and Cancer. Cancer understands Gemini’s restlessness and can tolerate their excessive changes. With Cancer’s precision in detail as well as their ability to hold their listener captive with their imagination and humor, coupled with Gemini’s intellect and charm, they can both talk a good talk that would leave any listener in awe and wanting more. They are both quite witty and also quite the dreamer. Another similarity is their frequent changes in mood. A deeply depressed Cancer turns around and become as sentimental as an old grandma remembering back in the day. Or, perhaps, they start their day cranky as the day is long, and within the hour their mood is one of frolic and laughter. Gemini jumps from a cheery Gemini to distraught and worried then turns around and has the highest hopes and dreams imaginable.

It is not at all that amazing to see that Gemini and Cancer intertwine themselves in a relationship that is all too compatible. Their similarities in interests help as well as their comparisons in moods and abilities to change. Each can hold their own in public with their imaginations and emotions. Both are quite expert in public, they are also both inclined to capture such events on camera. Their similar love for photography comes out quite easily. Cancer feels someone out emotionally and can help Gemini settle a bit on this level whereas Gemini tests on a more mental level showing Cancer how to pull themselves up out of their one sided views and put things in more of a broader perspective. Together they can read people. They can see their body language and hear what is said or what is not said and their ability to interpret people is astounding.

With the wonderful combination of Gemini and Cancer, many wonderful relations are filled with colors of love and fun. When friends, colleagues, siblings or relatives, they share a very easily tuned relationship that has smooth flowing conversation and strong understanding. Both are ready to help and appreciate each other’s efforts and make other one comfortable in their company. Also they share some great views and interests with each other, that add to their relation and makes it more fun. Commercial venture can work somewhat well if Gemini comes out of dream world and help Cancer with their hard work and determination. Romantic relation is always smooth and joyful for both Gemini and Cancer but there can be a bit of emotional differences as Cancer are very emotional and Gemini finds it hard to handle. Parenthood is a great experience for them once they are together as Gemini people are very friendly while Cancer are very nurturing. So together they make a lovely relationship which is fulfilling and wonderful.

When in their own element, Cancer and Gemini are strong individuals with their own goals and ideas. They are individually different as much as they are together similar. Cancer wants the feel of intimacy and home more so than the public eye and is a bit taken back by Gemini’s often too light attitude about commitment. A jealous nature surfaces with Cancer when Gemini becomes too flirtatious and emotions begin to run a bit amok. Cancer needs to learn to trust Gemini in that when the Gemini needs to spread their wings and fly, they very soon after, return to the nest with no worries of what went on. Gemini must also take light Cancer’s emotions when upset or moody. They should also try to pacify Cancer. If compromise is dealt with on both sides, this relationship can be strong and long lasting.

  1. Andrew August 30th, 2020

    I have to admit that the sex with gemini has been the greatest ever! We simply love eachother! I’m cancer while my girlfriend is gemini.

  2. Krysta April 16th, 2018

    Well I’m a gemini my man is a cancer I hate cuddaling and can be super distant but he is dominant in this area and will take the lead and I just follow now. He has opened me up in the showing emotion and affection.
    My cancer man when angry or frustrated lashes out and my gemini nature says go cold and give silent treatment well I’ve learned that this is cancer biggest struggle they think geminis don’t listen partly because we wanna be right well I’ve learned to be softer with him when he’s up set to help him calm down when he’s upset I just reasure him I love him and try to listen more then speak at first. Him being cancer he knows I have to sides when I’m cold bitchy Gemini he will cook me food give me aback massage just be super sweet to put me back in a good mood he pretty much spoiles me when I’m bitchy and he loves it cuz I’m never needy. Now we have learned to talk about everything and anything as if we best friends cuz Gemini can forgive easily and cancer can understand easily. This has taken somw getting used to but we are learning to help each other when needed . I love him more then anything oh and btw cancer love how geminis have wild naughty sex and let us take control sometimes but don’t let cancers fool you they can do the same thinh and geminis want to feel loved and cancer can make love to you beautifully. Just have to take turns caring for one another’s needs and it can be amazing plus cancer is super loyal and geminis can be to as long as they switch it up in the bedrom sometimes . My cancer trusts me to hang with friend and in return I spend nights with him and cuddle and Netflix . I love him and love our relationship we work as a team and learned what to do and what not to do it just takes time and If you really love each other you’ll figure it out together.

  3. Gemini November 11th, 2017

    I am a Gemini woman that was with a cancer man and I loved but in bed he was so missionary and one position when I spoke about spicing things up and trying new things he declined because some of those things I had done with my ex and I was like but I wanna try them with you and he refused I couldn’t believe it and in many ways I began to feel more like the guy in our relationship and he would get like wicked jealous and he had so many insecurities and he had so many inhibitions in the bedroom I was getting bored and mad that he really wouldn’t try new sexual stuff with me I mean I would have done it for him if he asked me and sex is very important in a relationship it builds intimacy and the more crazy it gets the closer you feel and him being so inflexible in that department really started to kill our relationship I am very witty charismatic and funny I like the same from a guy but he wasn’t much of a talker as a result I talked more in pretty much my boredom with him grew to all areas and I broke it off and I don’t see myself being with another cancer or Virgo because I just think air and water are not a good mix but fire and air is electric fire needs air to exist and air is just as fascinated with fire think I will stick with leos

  4. Gemini November 11th, 2017

    I am a Gemini woman that was with a cancer man the first year was great I got pregnant we would talk and he’d say thing like well when we get married and I’d be like how rude for you to assume I will marry you you gotta ask first pal anyways I ended up hurting him pretty bad I didn’t cheat but happened was not done to intentionally hurt him. I was first love he wasn’t mine which why I think I had an easier time moving on but he got very spiteful and vindictive and went out of his way to hurt me and he with drew into crab shell and normality wouldn’t matter and I just would never talk to him again but we have a child together so I am stuck with him for 16 more year but who counting….me most assuredly….he makes me have a relationship with him to see my daughter we are going to court to fight over custody but in the mean while I want to see her so I kiss his you know what and I find when I am flirtatious with him that’s when we get along best but in reality I hate talking to him but I suck it up and put on a good front and God forbid I am seeing someone he makes me life miserable meanwhile he has not found another girl and I feel like once he’s finally happy with someone else maybe he will learn to forgive me and we will have a better relationship but he has major trust issues and low self esteem and it’s like he won’t give any girl a chance…and I am scared to date someone else because of how he gets its like he’s to afraid of ever being with me again or letting me in I know I must have hurt him pretty bad because I know how much he loved me but with his vindictive nature I never want to be with him again but I genuinely wish we could be friends so I continue to pray that he meets a pretty down to earth girl he can be happy with

  5. Eron September 10th, 2017

    I am a gemini man. I’m pursuing a cancer woman. She is 21 and I am 26. We seem to hit it off incredibly and I’m excited for the direction things are going. She is full of love and understanding her intellectual depth goes beyond her years and sometimes makes me forget that she is so much youger than I am..
    I am confident and outgoing I have been with plenty of partners as where she has been with very few. Iv been quite a trouble maker in my life and she seems so innocent…Indeed we are different but we also carry the ability to complete one another. I struggle to understand my emotions and I honestly have no idea what I want most of the time.. one thing is for sure tho I want her.. now here’s where I think people need to pay attention everybody is different. Iv met gemini who on the surface seem simular but get past the shell and it’s clear that we are different due to what we gone though in our lives.. gemini are quickly judged and often misunderstood. We’re very simple creatures. We are young at heart adventurous and do get bored easily. But if someone chooses to be unfaithful spitful lyes and it’s a matter of their characters not there zodiac sign. Women who are with a gemini understand this. With sex, we separate it from emotion. It’s a playful activity and can be done with someone we have absolutly no desire to be with.. but when shared as an emotional investment as well as physical. It’s like trading in a porche for a pinto. With intellect a gemini man needs a woman that can keep him excited and interested. Try feeding into the fantasy he tryes to live in use humor and onryNess to create a playful atmosphere so that he can become comfortible enough to engage in a serious discussion. Let him be a kid.. encourage it. But don’t miss understand his childlike nature for immaturity. We think logically.. our heads overpower our hearts.
    And when we dicover unconditional love and intimacy were gonna hold on. No matter how flirtatious we might seem. The security and confidence of the woman we love in concrete.

    But if a gemini man strayes for physical ventures with other women. Most of the time that’s just it. An adventure. An intising idea of something foregn.. it’s wrong and hurtful I agree but iv been the culprit in this area and it wasn’t because I wanted to cause harm I just wanted to have fun in a momen where I didn’t care about the consiquence

    • Cancer November 26th, 2017

      Wow.. How was your relationship with her now?? I read a lot of stuff that gemini and cancer were not compatible… And it was really quite a very odd pair.. Are you still together now?? Hope you reply…

  6. I April 22nd, 2017

    This seems to be inaccurate, as I am a CW and he a GM. I love to go out and be social which he doesn’t like or understand. He always wants to stay in and watch movies. Also he is very clingy at times I need my space. Alone time for me is great which he also doesn’t understand. He is flirtatious and talks to everyone but I am the same and he hates it. The physical intimacy between us is amazing, it’s sensual, passionate, innovative and fun. We seem to not be able to keep our hands off one another. He is a charmer sometimes too much where it comes off as fake and he sometimes hides his emotions as do I. When we engage in quarrels we can both display petty behavior but we end up with each other again after a serious talk about the situation which he tried to avoid the first time.Everyone is different and this doesn’t apply

    • LaToya Butler October 28th, 2018

      Omg Yes. They have trouble with the truth or if something is even wrong (which u know it is) At the end if the day the non existing problem still has to be addressed anyways if u wanna make it wit me

  7. monaloveshim November 11th, 2013

    I am a 21 year old cancer women and the “love” of my life is a 22 year old gemini man. I have been in a realtionship with him for about three years. I was 18 when I met him and been his women ever since. When I fisrt met him back in 2010 I was just healing from a broken heart, yes from a previous relationship, he was also a gemini man, but when I met my current man he made me feel so GREAT. He was also involved in a previous relationship that was not working out for him. I think that at the time we both really wanted something new, a new beggining a new chapter in our lives. We would sit and talk for HOURS! We just had this amazing connection. Like it felt so RIGHT! I knew he was the palyer type, he had girls left and right but when we really started talking more and more he cut off all those girls completly. Including his main girl that he cheated so much. I knew she was devestated when he cut her off. He told her he had met someone new (me) and he just couldn’t keep on with her. I know that breakin it off with her meant alot because over the years he played her, treated her bad but she stuck around and they would try and make it work. I guess when he met me he really felt the same vibe i did. Like that feeling being home. He then asked me to be his girlfriend, we had a awesome relationship we learned alot from one another. Our SEX is AMAZING. We try EVERYTHING. I love to please my man, but sometimes I feel as if i do more then him, like i go more then half way for him. This is going to get a little personal but I would love to share my story. I don’t worry about girls, yes I am the jelous type and yes I get mad if he “flirts” but I know he has not cheated. Females are not my problem in this relationship. This man I have my all to is addicted to herion. He has been a addict for more then 5 years I believe. He has bee in and out of jail a number of times. Since day one I been his rock, anything he needs I am there. Mentally, and emotionally and financially. I been thru a rough road with this man, trying to help him overcome his addiction. It’s hard. He tells me, don’t worry about me cheating on you I will never do that, worry about me doing herione. And I do. I worry about him, I worry about us. I know he himself has a hard life trying to overcome the struggle, but I am also struggling. I feel like I am the man in the relationship. I do so much for him, that he hasn’t even done half the things I have already done. He is stubborn. & when he doesnt get his way he throws a tantrum, trys to make me feel like im the bad guy, but i know i am not. I’m sick and tiered of him being in and out of jail, now in prison. He has been in prison now for anout 6 months. I have about another year to go so we can reunite. We talk all the time but its not the same as being in a phisical relationship. I love him and I want to help, we get along great. Our families are also great together, we have the same traditions & the same beliefs. He is seriously my dream guy, but my dream guy comes with more then just that. His addiction is a problem. Im just scared that this will seriously tear us apart. Like I mentioned before I know he truly loves me, because when I look into his eyes I feel the same feeling I had when I first met him, after three years you would think it would go away. But the same exact feeling is there. I can just feel all the love. It’s such a great feeling. Just hope that we can overcome the struggles together. . .

    • Gemini November 11th, 2017

      Dear cancer woman I am a Gemini girl that is also an addict and unfortunately when we love an addict we tend to enable them….I suggest you let him go with his addiction it has to be his decision to stop and until he does drugs will be more important than you and you can’t love someone out of addiction if you stay expect pain and lots of it if you let him go he gets sober and healthy and wants to really give your relationship a shot but I suggest he have a significant time sober because your future is on the line and drugs are very powerful even if he loves you know he loves drugs more….he lie for them steal for them and it can feel like he’s cheated on you with drugs because he will protect his addiction and do anything for it when it should be you he is protecting and you he would do anything for…..leave him it’s not worth the pain make him prove himself and get sober stop taking care of him it’s not helping him

  8. justinb113 August 20th, 2013

    From everything I’ve read this match works best with Cancer Male/Gemini Female and I’d say from all of these comments about Gemini guys that it’s probably true.
    My experience with a Gemini girl is going a little something like this:
    Me : I love you
    Her : I love you too.  Lets go to Prague together.
    Me (the next day) : Hey so about Prague
    Her : Oh I’m so sorry but I spent all my money on X,Y,Z
    Me : Oh thats ok (… secretly thinks she hates me and kinda starting to dislike her)
    Her : Why are you so quiet?
    Me : No reason.. alright, so you don’t love me and you don’t wanna come on trip with me.
    Her : Yeah, you’re right, i don’t care, thats what you think.  I told you already why i can’t go.  You’re mean.  See you bye…
    (2 days later…)
    Me/Her : I love you, I’m sorry
    That kinda repeated for the first year and now we’ve kinda got a good thing going.  I have to remember that she loves me and she just genuinely gets carried away by other things in her life, but trust that she always comes back.  And she has to pay attention and not be as hurtful when we argue.  Also she’s got better at listening when I really do have something serious to say.  We just kinda have some instinctive thing now, I tell her everything so

  9. Hattsukashi July 25th, 2013

    I have a crush on a gemini guy, and idk im so scared because he makes me so happy but i don’t know how to make him happy, i want that he notice that i care about him and i want to go out whit him, but i been reading in many pages, and even the coments here, that a relationship between cancer & gemini, doesn’t work so i have to quick? i have to given up in conquering whit him? plz someone answer me.

  10. Nelly85 March 1st, 2013

    my Gemini guy just recently left me about 2 weeks ago:( we were engaged! I didn’t see that coming. we started to have problems early in january and he left me for about a week and came back to me. we worked everything out and everything seemed fine and then next thing you know a month later we broke up again. Keep in mind both times were for no reason! ive been sitting here trying to figure out what/ where/ why we went wrong. we never ever broke up like this before and i dont know what to do! i was and still am in shock! Im not the typical home body cancerian woman, however I do have cancer qualities. I like to go out and explore and I always tried to keep my fiancé stimulated (as I know Gemini men like a woman who is sharp) if anyone can give me some advice that would be very helpful. I really want to fix things with my guy. I really do love him and we’ve been together for 4 years

  11. October 23rd, 2012

    Please remember these astrological descriptions are just tendencies. Nothing is ever black and white. All Geminis are not about money, or cruel and loving. There are good Geminis and bad Geminis, just like there are good and bad in everything out there. If you had a bad experience with a Gemini, it doesn’t mean all Geminis are bad or psychos. I’ve had good relationships and bad relationships with the same sign. Use these descriptions as a guideline, not as a dogma.  

  12. Black_Pea92 June 8th, 2012

    to  love My Gemini man ,
    you sure understand alot of your gemini man.
    i love my boy too. very insanely deep. after some struggling i manage to cope with his ever changing changes, i wont stop him him if he were to leave. just want him to remember im always here for him whenever he wants to come back. the main problem here is my parents, strongly opposes our relationship. thy never wanted to meet him or to approve him. i have no idea why. thy give me silly excuses like his salary is unsufficient to feed me n age gap n so on . im independant enough and im a woman that works! marriage is about sharing the burden, i have no idea why my parents being so conservative ! 
    everytime i think of this matter i hurts me very much. v have tried to let go many times but it end up being stronger than before.
    sigh ……

  13. I-Hate-my-Gemini-man-now February 24th, 2012

    After 9 years of crying and stressing my self i finally decided not to belive this Gemini man. no matter what!!! this gemini is just an aloof. 
    when t comes to love ther is only one word to describe a gemini is “PSYCHO” he loves hurting us. he cant stay steady with his decisions. one day he feel firl 1 is good next gay he feels girl 2 is good next day he feels girl 3 who his mother preffers is good and say a lame excuse that he loves his mother so much so he dont want to hurt her feeling so he want to choose girl 3 after 3  months he comes back to girl 1 and say “I love you more than any other woman in this world” how stuipd i am but i did it only to make my mother happy. i swear i will never cheat u again.
    after 6 months fromt hen he will be bored and wants achange so he ditch her again. 
    such a psycho, they should have named gemini as mental (simpe).
    finally decided no more hurts or tears i took him out of my heart. (he broke up 3 times in last 9 yrs. i finally accepeted that i am breaking off this time.

  14. gosserma April 18th, 2011

    Hey yall, I hope this is read.
    My name is Peyton, and I am a strong and dedicated cancerian. My significant other is a gemini. We left each other in December, 2012 and I came back like the wind in March on Saint Patricks day of 2011. It all makes sense now, and we are soon to be engaged. I am a female, cancer, and he is a male, gemini. His mother, also a cancer, is brilliant and has studied astrology her whole life… and she has cued me in on a few things. My gemini man is inconsistent. He sometimes thinks one thing then another day he may say opposite on the matter. He is quick to judge, for they have acute insight on others, and even though he may something harsh about someone else… its kind of scary how often,almost always that he is right. He is aware….very aware. He is passionate. He loves the SHIT out of me. He is truth. If you are a cancerian woman reading this, realize there is a difference between a gemini trait and a personally flaw. My gemini man of course has his own flaws but he is a true gemini and knows it… so be aware my ladies. As a cancer woman, i left him. I was fed up with him at one point and left him. didnt accept him for 4 months. Got drunk, would call him or cry about him, but sober didn’t want anything to do w him. Don’t be closed minded to your gemini. Listen. Anyways, I came back to him and it all makes sense. Relive in it, it is real.

  15. a true gemini April 1st, 2011

    “”love My Gemini man”””
    Lady you described a true gemini better than any1 could do it..??but i am so disappointed to say that not every cancer girl understand this.. if she could , i would have been the happiest man on earth..
    somebdy help me in this i have given up and living a miserable life with these over sensitive, over emotional, insecure drama queens..

  16. Melissa March 24th, 2011

    I was in a “relationship” (if you could call it that) with a Gemini man off & on for several years. He was selfish, self-centered, and (as the other poster said), all he loved was “money, money, money”. You couldn’t argue with him, because he was ALWAYS right (according to him), and could be deliberately cold, cruel & heartless. By the time he announced to me that he was ready for a relationship, I had moved on. I have been married to a Scorpio man for over 3 years now, and I couldn’t be happier.

  17. gemini's love February 17th, 2011

    im a gemini woman whose presently wit a cancer man n at first evything was gr8 but now we only talk once a day which is not usually us cuz we chat as soon as we get a spare time… i truely love my cancer man but not sure wat will be come of us….

  18. PURPLESHINE February 11th, 2011

    im a cancer girl, same with you guys…my gemini boyfriend just changed his mind one day, he said he will focus on his job, he left me saying ” do the things you want to do”. I was like yesterday he was so sweet then the next day he just threw me like he was not him.. But I still love him.. 🙁 cant get over yet.. .He left me last Jan 31..still fresh..

  19. Maddly in Love with my Gemini Man February 7th, 2011

    the PERFECT match to cancer (female) souls are the Gemini they steel our heart with their wow characters ” charming, fast, active, very romantic, intelligent” seriously Gemini man and Cancer woman will have a strong intimate relationship in the mind and at emotional level

    i have noticed something here, most of the cancer women are facing seperation from their partner in the last few years (2006 -2010) just like maryam now.

    it could be because of the saturn transist 🙁 Saturn always test people and see if they could stand. we need patience. some dont and break away.

    but at all it will reward our patience i belive that. may be have to wait untill 2012 (saturn leaves gemini’s (7yr testing period)

    wishes everyone 🙂

  20. Betty January 19th, 2011

    I am a cancer woman who has been married to a gemini man for 18 yrs. We split up last Jan and I later started dating a sag man. What a huge difference these two men were. I’m talking night and day, black and white, complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Gemini is very active, witty, charming, talkative, happy go lucky, and willing to fight for what they love! Sag…droopy, slow, not so charming, very little words, “E’ore” disposition, and very stand offish when it comes to fighting for what they love. At least this has been my experience. I absolutely felt a very strong connection to my gemini husband, where as my sag boyfriend was never able to express his feelings.

  21. Nicole January 2nd, 2011

    I am currently married to a Cancer man. Our relationship is perfect. I have never met someone perfect like him. A lot of what this states about Cancer and Gemini relationships, I see in us. We are currently having a child and couldn’t be happier.

  22. 1stcancer November 23rd, 2010

    I married a gemini man…and oh are they tricky. I WAS PROMISED so many things. and i never received any of the things he promised. I stuck around for 6yrs asw he promised to change and never did. i left him because of his cheating on the go nature…i just got really tired of fightin other women. i tried to love him but after 5yrs and no change i just cant take it anymore. so now this gemini abandon me and his child simply because i dont want to deal w his crap any more….he is the child like soul…he takes all things out on my son. so based on however our relationship isis how my son and his relationship…so im enjoying my life with my taurus..cancer ladies> taurus,virgo, scorpios are ppl u should cinsider very affectionate and they really care…….

  23. abcdefg October 22nd, 2010

    m a cancer woman in a relationship wid a gemini man…take my word,if u r a cancer den plz dont even luk up at a gemini as they bruise ur feelings wid their fickle n dumb thinking like HELL!!!!!!!!!!:(

  24. maryam October 17th, 2010

    2 be ohnest there is enough obsticls between us such as family and religion and now there is this situation,, i just think that if we can get throo this we can get throo anythink in life in our relationship before he went in prison life was good with us .
    i must say since he has bin in prison i saw a side to him dat in the last 4 years that i dident c at all wich superised me in a good way , any way wot can i do all i can do is stick with him an be there for him no matter wot even if things may not work out for us after all he is the only living lover of my life ( get back to me any one if they have some advice if u have time ) xx

  25. maryam October 17th, 2010

    yes i agree my love but like u said not every 1 has the same personalities i have known him for 4 years and i must confess at this moment of life he is going in prison for 3 years and im really scared incase if so i do waite for him it may not work out and i dont want to waste my life on something wich aint real, aprat from the bright side i do belive as cancerin girl i will do any thing to make love work but is love worth it get back if u can ( LOVE MY GEMINI MAN ) X

  26. love My Gemini man October 3rd, 2010


    1st of all you need to understand something here. when it comes to astrology not all humans and their persolalities are same. even though people born under same zodiac they still differ depending on the Ascendant Degrees of their plant. even on monthly scops not every single lines matches us. we should pick the ones that get along with our personality.

    personal messsage: looks like youa re at the early stage of the relationship (1st year)

    is ur gemini man at early 20s??? if so he will be total opppsite to what he will be when he reach his late 20s. my man spend lots to talk to me even he dare to spend his whole salary to hear me. but now?? at late 20s gosh!! he is stingy.

    even my life was so relaxed and i was out going person until I get to face the harder time. being a cancer have you noticed youself shutting ur self at home when you ever you are blue? if not may be in future you could notiice it.

    about the gemini man, he loves travel and adventure he is made like that. you cant spot it even he cant say it that he is adventure guy but when he grows older you will know. my man was with me all day around the time we got married. i see new couples go out when they get married they go on holiday. we never did. even now at weekends all e wants to do is, SLEEP!! eat then SLEEP, if he gets time he watch tv. My man just love to watch tv when he is free, he hardly gets time to stay at home he be at work.

    *GEMINI MANS favorite is MUSIC*

  27. love My Gemini man October 3rd, 2010

    Gemini poet!!

    but what to do? he is away!! normally for gemini-cancer pair their are full of love they will never could breakup still, if it does comes in your life you both wouldnt be the reason it will happen without our will. reason would be not us but others.

    he is diyng to come back but he cant!! because?? his parents dosent want him to.

    here the problem is his unstable mind which hops from me to his parents.

    for me i love him (even this line “i love him” is not enough to express or mean the love i ave for him)

    he does loves me too but the problem come from out side!! his parents.

  28. maryam September 19th, 2010

    its funny how they say a gemini man love to go diffrent places and new things put it dis way my gemini man is more like a home guy he does like to do a lot of new things but he limits them they are not all the same x

  29. maryam September 19th, 2010

    i dnt understand why they say cancers are really home buddy im a cancering girl who is with gemini guy, i cant stand sitting at home or spending most of my days indoors if so ill will go mad, i love adventure and to travel and very much, yes i have some cancering trates in me but me an my gemini partner understand eachother very well we balance eachothers weekneses and stregnth and thats wot i find very speacial with this kind of match its hard to find this kind of relationship but firstly u need to go through so much obsticals to understand each other

  30. Geminipoet September 9th, 2010

    To Love my Gemini man:

    Hey, you are a sweetheart, you absolutely nailed your personification of the Gemini Man. Whichever, Gemini man has your affection should consider himself a very lucky man!

    I just fell in love with a Cancer woman, and although I’m a man in my thirties, I feel like a school boy who is holding hands with that cute girl for the first time. Butterflies galore!

    This is my first encounter with a Cancer woman and I am absolutely enthralled and feel like I’m hooked eternally. I am eternally blessed that this love came to me now as a mature man who knows what he wants as opposed to my long time fickle and flighty ways.

  31. love My Gemini man August 6th, 2010

    A Gemini male has a dual nature, which can get extended to three-four different personalities too. His typical personality traits include friendliness, love for people and getting along with almost everyone.

    One day, he may bring you flowers, candies and cards without any occasion. The very next, he may not meet you even after confirming the meeting just an hour back. Two days after that, he may turn into your worst critic. Then, suddenly he will be the same guy he was on the first day. You will be treated like a queen and start feeling like one too. Then, one day, he will suddenly propose you and you will forget all that happened in the past and say ‘Yes’! Now comes the main part, when you have to live with a walking-talking enigma.

    If you are in love with a Gemini guy, forget terms like stability, security and consistency.You will be waking up with a different man each day (not literally!), though the change may be for the better. Just stay a little distant from him; too much closeness makes him nervous. Gemini men have a personal side, which they will never share with anyone, not even with their lover.

    The best way to extinguish the flame between both of you is to bring monotony and boredom into your relationship. He will run away. He loves, infact needs, change. Just be as curious and as interested in life, and its different aspects, as he is. He wants a female who can catch up with him mentally. A Gemini man will never mind if you defeat him at his mind games every now and then, infact he will be thrilled at getting an intelligent partner-cum-competitor. He is not an egoist and will want you to express your intelligence.

    A woman with brains turns him on. Geminis tend to move over old friends and make new ones, but that’s because their personality changes so frequently that people find it difficult to cope up with them. They love people and loneliness disturbs them. To win the heart of a Gemini male, just assure him that you are the one who will always be near him, but won’t get too close to him or lean on him. He will gladly take you with him and let you see all that he sees. He is usually generous with money, but may turn stingy at times.

    However, his basic nature includes a sharing attitude, in case of money, knowledge, happiness and almost everything. A Gemini man is too idealistic to indulge in adultery and loyalty is something you will not have to worry about. However, he may throw admiring glances at the hot babes on the beach. Just don’t doubt him; it may trigger him to do something he didn’t even think of doing before. You may try as much as you can to hide your suspicions from him, but he will be able to guess and that would make him miserable.

    A Gemini guy loves an audience, whether it comprises of males or females. However, it will never go beyond that, unless of course you doubt him. Just like he has male friends, he will have female friends too. It is better if you make them your friends too. Don’t try to bind Gemini men too much and let them have their independence and freedom. In return, they will do the same for you. They make excellent fathers, who are more like buddies to their children. A Gemini man will cuddle them with love, compete with them like a friend and protect them like a father.

    However, you will have to take over the responsibility of disciplining them. A Gemini male is not prone to jealousy and he will never be extremely possessive. He will trust you as much as he expects you to trust him. He may lack passion, but he will be full of romance. Just hear the same music he hears and see the same dreams he sees.

    Is he running? Try to catch up with him. If you get tired on the way, don’t worry. He will stop for you, hold your hand and build up your strength to run with him again!

  32. love My Gemini man August 6th, 2010

    Missed something there!!

    A Gemini man just loves Money Money Money.

  33. love My Gemini man August 6th, 2010

    I am madly in Love with my Gemini man for years after years (even after the divorce) he is the only man ever in my life and will to the end.

    Just love him for what he is. all he wants is change in anything and everything around him. but wonder how he could stay steady at job for years long. he will leave youu for a change but WILL SURELY COME BACK FOR CANCER WOMAN’S LOVE AND CARE.

    He will love you more when he see you being smart. he just cant stand mud heads or tears.

    He miss the true love by wandering around for change and end up with worsts. later he realise and comes back. but he wont guareentee stability thats the hurtfull thing for cancer but she will wait all her life for him because a cancerenian woman will be very loyal to her man onces he is committed in love.

  34. Looney June 14th, 2010

    I am a gemini man that is involved with a cancer woman and we’ve been toghether for 8months. For the first 5months things were perfect between the both of us. We were drama free, loving, and caring to one another. Now we just fallen apart and hardly ever on the same page as we were in the begining.

  35. SILK November 6th, 2009

    I am a cancer women who was involved with a gemini man on and off for 5 years, he brought out the best and the WORST out of me. Gemini’s are an air sign and Cancer is a water sign. While the air blows gently over the water it creates small ripples and seems very harmonious, but when the wind gets strong and harsh….water can turn into a TSUNAMI!!!

    This is the best way I can describe this relationship!!

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