An Aries is often viewed as one who is impulsive and thoughtless, while the whole time they are running around carelessly trying to gain acceptance. An Aries rushes out to meet obstacles headlong and headfirst, even when he or she must go out of his or her way to find them. Among the few who sense this, a Cancer is able to look behind the veil of rashness. They can be inconsiderate and thoughtless without realizing it. The typical Aries would never hurt anyone on purpose.
The Cancers approach to anything is deliberate, disguised and careful. They will often use humor as a form of trickery to distract a person from noticing their technique. Their strategy to win over obstacles is not head on but rather sideways. When they are hurt, they simply disappear from the scene and pout. They should not be considered to be totally impassive, easily molded or incapable of resistance. A Cancer is also abnormally sensitive to hurt. A Cancer will do what is necessary in order to get what they want.
A union between an Aries and a Cancer are more likely to consist of co-workers or relatives. Their relationship is typical business orientated. If a romance is created between the two it usually has began at the work environment. A conversation between the two will mainly be about family and work. An Aries likes and needs to win. A Cancer has nothing against winning or losing, but also likes leading. The only solution is that they can walk side-by-side, with no one ahead and no one behind. Cancers tends to compromise with less pain than Aries, so it’s usually the Cancer who must initiate the offer of truce between two. It is not unusual for an Aries to get an emotional response out of a Cancer by saying the wrong things at the wrong time.
One of the problems between Aries and Cancer is sensitivity to hurt. Aries people have little or no awareness of this particular weakness in themselves. This is no consistent with the image the Aries put forth. Therefore, when Aries is hurt, the reaction is to either immediately deny it or to become defensively angry. Cancers are however sure to display their typical reactions. Although they may learn to tolerate each other, help each other grow, evolve and learn the differences between them will be distinctly visible.
Aries and Cancer have different motivations, different approaches to life and different goals. If each will give something of his or her basic good nature to the other their lives will be greatly enriched. If they’re willing to take the time to translate the message of each other’s hearts, who knows how what mountains they can climb.
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