Aries and Gemini Compatibility

Aries and Gemini are both very fun loving and active people. They both remain high at enthusiastic energy but Gemini being intellectually stronger can make things boring for an Aries. Also living in the moment certainly infuses a sense of playfulness and fun into the relationship they share, but their relationship may not always feel dependable.

Bursting with much creative energy, delightful smile and passionate ideas, Aries are extremely attention grabbing at any of the social gatherings that they attend. They are very emotional beings and believe whole heartedly in each cause they fight for, eventually achieving victory with little effort. An Aries insists on being the head of the table — leading and challenging people – on every step. They love taking risks because they feel the benefits outweigh the costs. Coupled with a short term memory and the tendency to overlook negative consequences, Aries tend to find themselves in trouble, especially financially. This seems to play into their ability to live with little or no stress. They accept just about any idea, sound or unsound, that appeals to and arouses their emotions.

The Gemini people are cool and collected bunch of intellectual beings who love fun and enthusiasm. They are also quick and alert. They are not the ones to hold on to past and seldom waste time on things they find unworthy. One can find them either whistling a happy tune or belting out with a cranky attitude. Their approach to life is through mental ambition. Gemini are very logical and rational beings. They often lack practicality. They need their space and fear anything that confines their spirit. One can never find a Gemini fighting for a leadership role. This helps them remain free of obligations and responsibilities. It allows them to explore many avenues in live and leaves them open to meeting new people. They love to travel and try new things.

An Aries and a Gemini love fighting for a cause, and share the same talent for creative persistent salesmanship. These two can perform fantastic feats of ingenuity together. They also share a casual attitude toward accumulating great power or money, which may be why they fail as often as they succeed. Nothing holds the interest of either of these zodiac signs for longer than a moment. When Aries and Gemini blend their natures as neighbors, friends, business associates, relatives, lovers or mates it doubles up their individual drives for freedom. They look younger and act younger, which makes them often behave like children. Both the Aries and Gemini are honest, but these two can fool themselves until they forget where honesty ends and self-deception begins. A Gemini understands Aries reckless impulses and the Aries understand their need to talk and display their wisdom.

Nevertheless, they realize that their own best course is to avoid becoming emotionally entangled, whenever possible. Fortunately, the typical Aries senses the duality of Gemini and is usually willing to give it room to make the relationship extremely beneficial to the Gemini as well as themselves. Aries and Gemini are basically good friends and typically remain friends in any relationship they are bound formally. They are able to communicate very efficiently even in the stormiest of fights. These two spend most of their time goofing off with one another. Even though these two have a level of compatibility, it would be a good idea for them to stand apart at a far distance to take a look at one another. It clears away some of the smog that is bound to accumulate between them and make their relationship ratty. Together, rather than alone, they have a better chance of reaching their goals than most people.

Every relationship cherished by an Aries and a Gemini has a smoothness of friendship and strength of understanding. They always look at the bright side of life and give each other the energy and enthusiasm to keep up in all their endeavors. Siblings, friends and colleagues are rather the best of the best buddies of each other. They have so much in common and so much more interesting to share in their differences. Their relationship is usually positively charged to its extremes and they cherish each other for everything. Business ventures can be equally a good as well as bad idea for them as together they can achieve even the impossible and sometimes nothing at all. Love relationship is always colorful and fun filled as both love adventures and freedom and give each other ample space to be what they are. Parenthood comes a bit tacky for them in the beginning but with time they become their children’s best friends and teach them to live life to its fullest!

With this enthusiastic pairing come some unavoidable unwary problems which they both have to face from time to time. They both react to each other very impulsively, and neither of them is given to setting goals for their relationship and takes the responsibility. Moreover, an Aries needs a lot of devotion but Gemini being a social butterfly never gives much importance to this need of them. Also Gemini finds Aries sometimes being selfish or too boastful about them and this disturbs them as they feel themselves to be superior. Their conversations are usually easy flowing but they may even become boring for the Aries if they find it out of their area of interest.  The key here is to stay active with each other, being careful not to ride too high on the enthusiastic energy. If they are ready to slow down once in a while and enjoy each other rather then the materialistic things, this relationship can be both invigorating and rich.

31 Comments
  1. Emmalee December 7th, 2019

    Aries are so strong-willed and fiery.

    If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for ARIES people:
    https://youtu.be/CqEC–5_VP4

    xoxo

  2. Iesha Martin July 24th, 2018

    I’m an Aries with a Gemini been over 18 months and with any relationship you will have ups and downs but with great communication, respect, love and understanding of one another we can get thru any obstacle as one. I’m 36 and she’s 41 and we love each other to forever and love we have such great faith that if God bring us to different things and situations then he will definitely bring us through it all. Don’t give up on a great thing. Keep fighting and know that trouble don’t last long. Good Luck!

    • Victorious May 1st, 2019

      Interesting, I am a Gemini and he is Aries, just like you, I’ll be 45 in 6weeks and he is 40.
      We’ve just been on for 1month, I’m looking forward to having fun😊

      • Iesha Martin May 1st, 2019

        I wish you the best unfortunately we are no longer an item but there’s no bad blood just took it’s course which great memories I will always keep near and dear to me wish you nothing but the best 💯❤🤞💟

    • Caroline June 8th, 2019

      Oh that’s so sad to hear. Anyways I’m a last degree Gemini sun (June 20th) Born in the Gemini Cancer cusp and I have my Moon in Aries. My Aries man is older than me, by a lot. There is a huge age gap between us but that doesn’t bother either of us, in Synastry (romantic astrology my Moon in Aries conjuncts his Sun in Aries) a common connection found in married couples. I’m turning 24 in 2 weeks so yep. He’s a 50 year old man. Not that I mind it. Although, I know some people will judge us immediately just by our age gap alone. His Uranus in Leo falls in my 7th house of relationships so it’s natural that people are going to find our relationship odd and unorthodox in its own way. Anyways we make each other happy and have been talking about getting married. 🥰

    • Mamiilovegem September 19th, 2020

      Thank you for this comment. You’ve given me so much enthusiasm to keep faith in my situation with my Aries. He is honestly the greatest love of my life. But I think my jealousy & insecurities have made him rethink being with me all together. He keeps telling me he needs to find himself & im trying to be understanding and let him do him. I feel in my heart he will come back. But two things I’m scared of is losing him for good. Whether it’s him never returning or me moving on before he does. I know one thing about my Gemini self for sure. Once I let go. Your gone. Period.

      • Iesha Martin September 19th, 2020

        Good luck to you ❤🙏🏾

    • Tiona Lauder December 22nd, 2020

      Exactly the same here nearly same ages to I’m 36 he’s 40 and we are totally in love .I’m an Aries women hes a Gemini man …he told me he’s head over heels …and in love with me but …I’m still holding an element of doubt so that it will be easy to say f**k this and f**k him when I’m ready.. 🤷🏾‍♀️I do totally love him to bits

  3. Joy del Rosario January 25th, 2018

    I have been married to an Aries man for a quarter of century already.I am a Gemini.Our relationship gets better n better.I love my husband’s ability to make me smile n laugh without trying to.He has his own unique way of being humorous…and he still adores me including my quirkiness n swinging moods.In fact,he finds them amusing.

  4. Mr. Write September 18th, 2017

    Christina I think what youre saying can apply to any person rather than only a male gemini. Its unfortunate that your relationship hasnt worked out and I feel for you there. Being a male gemini all i can say with confidence is that people suck. It’s not gender specific nor is it constellation specific.

  5. Christina August 30th, 2017

    What a bunch of bullCrap in the comment section. Does anyone notice the amount of ARIES women who have been dating a GEMINI man for more than a few months? I’m with a GEMINI man for 6 years now and it has been the worst time of my life! Glad I’m getting out of this relationship. GEMINI men tend to lie a lot, to get what they think its best. Even when you tell them what you like and do not like. They do what they want and when you are an ARIES woman/man you really, LIKE REALLY do not like it when you feel mistreated, ok? That’s the trueth and when you feel otherwise, you are just an Aries lost on its way.

    Aries women are selfish but Gemini men are worst, because Aries women still feel everything and feel guilt in their actions, Gemini are not capable of such things!

    • Hayley September 17th, 2017

      Love your post absolutely correct

  6. Apro March 12th, 2017

    I am an Aries woman I’m in love with a Gemini. Its been such a rollercoaster. I feel so sad because I’m not sure we’ll make. We make the perfect team its such a waste!

    • Storm July 15th, 2017

      Just stick with it, if you can, “Apro”: I’m a Gemini man in love with an Aries woman, and I can tell you that her devotion and constancy have been the greatest blessing in making me feel secure in the relationship. This has calmed me, too: no more rollercoasters for me — I think!

  7. faizan0009 October 31st, 2014

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  8. GeminiSkyeXOXO February 15th, 2014

    My first love was a Aries and he is the most amazing person I could ever ask to know. He’s quiet but intelligent and can match me to par on every level. He can be jealous when I get too close to old relationships but we push through it by having a understanding that we are with each other and that’s all that matters.

  9. Owly February 7th, 2014

    My first love was an Aries, and it was an ideal relationship to me. We had a lot of passion I haven’t quite experienced with another sign. It takes a lot for an airy Gem woman to experience red hot intensity in a relationship, but an Aries man will do that for ya. When I meet an attractive Aries man, I instantly feel that push-you-up-against-a-wall and rip-your-clothes-off kind of chemistry. Underneath some of their ego (like any fire sign) they are very adoring and romantic. I’d definitely date another Aries man. And even marry one if I could. 

  10. LeClair44 December 24th, 2013

    I’m a Gemini man and OMG I love those Aries ladies I’ve been with just about every sign but nothing compares to an aries girl! The only time I actually fell in love was with an Aries! First one was my high school sweetheart lost our V-cards to each other, best 30 mins of my life lol dated throughout highschool then college came and we broke each others hearts. I cheated then she cheated so DO NOT cross an aries they get crazy and will probably get you back 3 times harder.. We are still good friends talk buddies but thats it. After her I kinda became a one night stand kinda guy.. But 6 months ago this flaming hott aggressive Aries beauty swept me out of the game and caught this ice cold heart on fire!! it truly was love at first sight.. We do everything together Its amazing just from experience I know Aries are hot heads but deep down they are innocent sweethearts that loves being babied and being the boss which is fine with me I love being manipulated lol if your really into an Aries girl compliment her everyday and make sure you work out shes literally attached to my hip everywhere we go. give lots of eye contact, attention And back rubs. I hope she loves as much as she says she does, I truly think she’s perfect but shes been in alot of bad relationships b4 me..I would walk over a mountain barefoot just to hold and kiss her.. It’s been 6 months and we still kiss every 5 seconds 

  11. yunasangel15 May 1st, 2013

    I am a gemini woman dating a aries man. We been dating over a year and it is a very wonderful relastionship. I do see his compassion and his love for me. I love him and I am glad we are getting married soon <3

  12. Sundragon11 April 16th, 2013

    I am an Aries woman and I have been with my Gemini guy for over a year. He is the best thing that ever happened to me, Love him so much! Definately a great match. 

  13. AriesForLife July 22nd, 2012

    I’m an Aries woman and agree with this post accept for the Jealousy part. Being an Aries, yes I am naturally jealous and possessive at times however the Gemini man I am in love with now happens to be the more possessive and jealous type. Checkes in on me often. Doesnt like me having guy friends. Will fight over me easily. Gets very offended even when I say I think a celebrity is attractive. Same with the last Gemini man I fell in love with. Anybody else experience this?

  14. Kaylalab May 12th, 2012

    I am an Aries woman with a Gemini man, we just started seeing each othago about 2months ago. Being that it’s a long distance relationship it is extremly hard to get close to this Gemini as he doesn’t trust anyone and is very jaded about women. Between his distrust and my Aries need for love confirmation and reassurance it has made it very difficult to get to know each other. Along with my natural aries tendancy not to trust anyone. How do I break his shell and help him to open up and trust me? If all I could get from him is the reassurance that he is interested, I would be satisfied but his Gemini ways cause him to be stubborn and hard headed! 

  15. Spraypaintchic September 5th, 2011

    Im a gemini woman with an aries man.. There are to many wonderful things to list so ill just keep it simple.. Thank you God for bringing us together!! I think cupid had something to do with it as well. ~Perfect match~ 🙂

  16. Jatakiss March 5th, 2011

    I just started dating my Gemini man and so far he is sweet. Our conversation is wonderful. He is a great listener but does not know how to cook. Lol! But I do:)

  17. keci March 2nd, 2011

    iam aries woman and have been with my gemini woman for 9 months… There was an instant connection and i just loved the fact that she understood me better and faster then anybody i had previously met. Within the first month we were living together and since the very first day we have been together non stop literally i just knew she was what i wanted for the rest of my life… We have basically mapped out the rest of our lives together. Even though i could be unbarely bossy sometimes she keeps her cool with me. We work great as a team and i love the support and love she gives me. She could sometimes snap back into her stubborn geminis ways but i maintain patience. Shes my best friend, lover, mentor ect… This is just one person i cannot picture not having in my life.

  18. HMarie February 7th, 2011

    I’m an Aries and have been with my Gemini man for 5 months. We were instantly a perfect fit in all aspects- might be because we’re older (50) Deep conversation has brought us to feel like we’ve been together for years. We make each other smile all the time, see into each other’s hearts and support each other in all aspects.As this age, we know what we want in a partner and it sure seems like we’ve found it. We feel like teenagers again!

  19. Sassy January 19th, 2011

    I am soo in love with my aries mate. He’s been my best friend for ages and we love each other deeply. He’ treats me like a queen and adores me. he can be stubborn sometimes but when he does that i learn to be patient with him .
    its a match made in heaven

  20. Missy October 15th, 2010

    I am in love with my Gimini guy. He is sooooooo what i want. We communicate well verbally and non-verbally, and he just turns me on on all levels.

  21. Missy October 15th, 2010

    I am in love with my Gimini guy. He is sooooooo what i want. We communicate well verbally and non-verbally, and he just turns me on on all levels.

  22. clara August 15th, 2010

    I have been with my aries man for thirteen years. We have two children together. I love very much we get along very well. The only thing is that he is jealous, and tries to keep a tighthold on me. Never the less we get through it and the make up sex is ouit of this world!!!!!!!

  23. Lee September 22nd, 2009

    Match made in heaven!

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