Aries Woman and Taurus Man Love Compatibility

Aries is a sign that needs constant excitement and craves for instant gratification in love. It is purely a fire sign with lots of eruptions now and then. While Taurus have a strong sense of commitment and purpose and are usually slow in developing a relationship.

A Taurus man is a strong headed person with all the qualities of head and heart. He is never frilly or dreamily romantic rather he takes relationships practically and seriously. He in love with an Aries woman is deeply affectionate, romantic and sentimental. Though the Aries woman may find him stubborn and possessive, but he is never jealous by nature. He is a true gentleman who always keeps his words and is never unpleasantly aroused. Patience and reliability are just the synonyms of a Taurus male with warmest ways of devotion.

An Aries woman is a very independent woman with lots of things in her mind at a moment. She is an intellectual and sharp lady who stands tall and hates to get overshadowed by anyone. She is determined to take the first step in all the aspects of her life including romance. She is an extremely private lover and cannot handle the pressure of love. She in relationship with a Taurus man is very protective for her lover and is always there to support him in all the aspects of life. The ideals of love shared by Taurus man makes her heart melt and feel so warm.

An Aries woman can bring new excitement to the Taurus man’s dawdling life. She is a totally confident lady who does not stand dominance except in the areas of romance and love. She stands tall in all the problems of life by her Taurus guy’s side giving her support and love to maintain peace in his life. He can find her a bit more extravagant but that can be controlled with due consideration from the Taurus man’s side. Tenderness on the behalf of her can go along way with Taurus man. She just needs to give the right thoughtfulness and respect to him and his feelings because once this man walks away, he never looks back.

A Taurus man can teach an Aries woman a lot from in the area of romantic involvement. Once he falls for her, it takes many moments of hurt and resentment to make him leave her. This gives immense satisfaction and sense of comfort and security to her. The fiery burst of rage of her gets no response from him; in fact he always tries to keep himself and her calm. When she begins to become emotional unstable, he leaves her alone to give her, her own space and then respond with great warmth once she is ready to accept him again with love and care. She is the initiator between the two of them in almost every field. But if she pushes him too hard with negativity she may have to deal with temper erupts of her Taurus man which could be a rage she has never experienced before.

With some efforts to adjust to each other’s differences and personal mannerisms, a Taurus man and an Aries woman can find a rare and very cozy contentment together. This lady needs an enormous amount of freedom which he is able to provide due to the absence of the element of jealousy. On the other hand, if he’s handled gently, with a decent amount of consideration for his own feelings, he sticks by the Aries female he loves through the darkest storms, like a steady rock of solid love. Once their magnetic attraction enhances its excitement and novelty, there could be immense intimacy between the two. In an ideal relationship between the Taurus man and the Aries woman, she provides the ideas and the energy while he provides the stability and security in all aspects of life.

Sex is a form of a release mentally, emotional, physically and spiritual for the Aries woman. Sex can make her feel as though all of her dreams have finally come true. To the Taurus sex is a means to ends, nothing more nothing less. Seeing how she perceives sex as a thrilling fantasy and he as an ordinary act, can cause problems in the area of sex for the two. He doesn’t see the sense in releasing any kind of energy unless its purpose is to produce something practical and useful. The typical Taurus does not regard daydreams as either essential or productive. She is fine if he does not respond to her sexual energy at first as long as he can provide her with fascinating romance. Eventually she grows cold to the lack of desire for sensual and imaginative lovemaking in Taurus man. It is in his best interest, to tame his Aries lady, if once in a while he takes the act to a higher level, and make it faster and harder. She loves it when the spasms of carnal satisfaction course through her like the pulsations of an addictive drug. This will satisfy her immensely and she would then keep coming back to him and please him in plenty of ways.

There is generally an instant spark between the passionate Aries woman and calm Taurus man yet they have to travel through certain bumpy roads to achieve a cherished relationship. Aries are acquitted and spirited but their heedlessness and impulsive reactions can make any Taurus outrageous who suffer from lack of reasoning. But at the same time Taurus are very patient creatures so the day can be saved for the couple. Both the Aries and Taurus share the common traits of possessiveness and unmatchable loyalty. So to make the relationship a pearl engraved romance there is a need to give visible proofs and flavors of love by both physical form and devotion and also have great communication to maintain the understanding.

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aries (@aries) : April 7th, 2011

This movie will always remind me off he stable Taurus with the unpredictable Aries.

http://youtu.be/flQAfFrVP1k

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ariesgal (@ariesgal) : April 7th, 2011

@aries above haha, I love it, yes a typical Aries. The stability brings us back every time.

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aries (@aries) : April 8th, 2011

I am engaged to be married to a Taurus and love him dearly. He understands me and I understand him. so love to Taurus !!

OMG that movie really gets to me too. she is so driven nothing will stand in her way from accomplishing what she wants in life that is so aries but yet one kiss from that special person will melt heart. I love my Taurus so much

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Taurus (@Taurus) : April 9th, 2011

A typical aries woman would have the motto “you will get what u put into this world” but what is annoying about aries women is that You’s claim to be tough women but sometimes let people walk over you.

Aries women are a mystery.

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aries23 (@aries23) : April 13th, 2011
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how do I get him to stop ignoring me? And meet up to talk about it? I don’t want to just show up & freak him out I can’t deal with the silence. I know he is doubting me (long distance thing) but I haven’t as much as looked at another man. I love him but have never told him this either. I want him in my life I know this now.

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Julie (@julesfordale3) : April 15th, 2011
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I am an aries woman who is coming out of depression, anxiety and an unhealthy relationship. I feel I am ready to move on and be happy again.

Im about to embark in a relationship w/ a Taurus man … am I making a huge mistake? Even though I feel strong, I know who ever comes into my life will need to handle me with kid gloves. bouts of ignoring me or cold shoulders even would hurt me to the core right now.

Some advice would be great … thx

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : April 15th, 2011
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@julesfordale3 Going into a relationship is a great thing but doubting and being fearful is not!

At this time its more important for you to get rid of anything and everything that might be limiting your CAPACITY to experience LOVE. And its easy.

Focus on your health and do daily exercises. This will make you more attractive and confident.

Keep patience and feel free to express your love and feelings in a non-demanding and non-controlling way.

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kyuubiangel (@kyuubiangel@hotmail.com) : April 25th, 2011
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my aries just talked about breaking with me… my aries said she has lots of commitments. and she is gaining rights to do alot of things that she wants to do and she will not give it up for a rs. She thinks that in the future this will hurt me. and she doesnt want to hurt me anymore becasue it hurts her too and she cannot allow her love for me to deepen anymore becasue of this. i rly want her… what should i do?

Its been a month now…
things are getting abit out of hand. she is trying to pull off the connections we have.. and she asked me wont the wait hurt me… i said no… but she said its not worth it. i shouldnt wait and there is no point in waiting. becasue in the end at some point we will still have to let go… i dunno what i should do now…

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : April 26th, 2011
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@kyuubiangel@hotmail.com To tell someone that “I am doing such a crappy thing to you because I don’t want to hurt you” is a big lie on face and you must be deeply in love that you didn’t see it happening.

As you try to cling to her and hold her from going away, she has been trying equally harder to pull away from you.

If you really want that she comes back to you in future, the best way to do that is to ENCOURAGE her with whatever she wishes to do. You need to support her in her decisions. You should say “Wow! I am so happy that you care so much for me and I think you are right.”

It can be difficult to let go of someone whom you love so deeply but this is something that’s best for you and her. Also if she had really cared for you and had same feelings for you as you have for her, she would never do that to you. Not a person to keep any contact with. Run away!

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John smith (@69ways) : June 10th, 2011
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Ok read this and tell me please please please, a bit long:
Had a LDR due to my studies and planned to move to her country soon.

4,5 years together she said I was the love of her life the minute she saw me.

Got engaged but we had minor issues over the distance and she was stressing.

Ended up fighting and I had the bad habit of breaking up with her but always sorted out after an hour or two.I know it was bad to do that.

She finally left me 4 months ago but 3 weeks after the break up we met for valentines and was perfect.She was crying and unsure about everything saying she has depression.

She stayed for 2 days instead of a week because she was hurting me she said.

She went back and told me it was over but told my mother she does not want her to loose me from her life and has feelings for me.

I surprised her a month later on her bd with 30 flowers but i only got:
You are selfish and accused even for dating other women, thing i never did, got accused for even trying to steal money from her 4 years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was soooo hurt.

After that i did not want to know.

She begged for 2 days to speak to her and fix things.

I finally gave in just for her to turn things around again.

After that I went NC but called me 2 weeks later crying without a reason and thanking me for been there always.
Is not the first time she calls, the max she stayed away was two weeks, she always calls within a few days.

A week later , yesterday , i asked her if she is with anybody and she said angry no.
She said she got angry i am making conclusions.
I told her i miss her and love her but no respond from her so I said good night.

She kept my engagement ring and she said she will send back my clothes but has not.

Last week got a photo from her with a painting.
I ignored her,she called, I ignored again.

Called back, she ignored my bit called two days later.
Told her not to call me unless she has something important to say as I love her but she is messing e up.

She was wondering why and that she tried to help me as i am having a hard time and that she wants to know how i will be doing.
She sais she never got angry when i said i love you, because she knows is hard for me.
She pointed out she needs to know how i am doing.
I said u will not.
U call me if you got anything important, even if u meet a guy i said.
Its been a week with NC.

I love this crazy Aries to death, I even say goodnight to her photos at night…….

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : June 10th, 2011
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@69ways (John smith)
What would you like to know??

Looks like a good relationship needs some direction. You would have realized by now that LOVE is such a beautiful and great experience. Then why let small things disturb and distort its beauty.

You can forgive yourself for all mistakes you might have done in the past. Then forgive her too. Its never too late to be more expressive, submissive and appreciative. Choose laughter when she says/does something that you don’t like. Mistakes are funny, aren’t they?? ;)

Understand that she too feels the pain and hurt. Know that Love is testing you both, and don’t let fears, anger, doubts kill it.

Wake up and embrace Love. Build trust and things will be fine.

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John smith (@69ways) : June 10th, 2011
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I did but she said is to late and not coming back….. I just want to make her happy and have babies…

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : June 10th, 2011
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@69ways (John smith)
In that case you should respect her decision and just be friends. No more demands, no more complaints. Get busy with life.

It is important to understand that “constantly thinking” about her is not Love. It is even more important to understand that there is no such thing as loving to death. Try a water only diet for a day and you’ll know.

If you don’t pay attention to your health and mind now, you might end up having a depression. Take up a daily body exercise routine and it will help.

There’s more to it but one step at a time… :)

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John smith (@69ways) : June 10th, 2011
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cant be friends with her……..
How can you be in love and friends.
Do these kind of aries ever change their mind?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : June 11th, 2011
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@69ways (John smith)
The Love you are talking about is only possible when both the persons are ready to give up their pride and freedom in favor of service, submission and oneness. This is called unconditional love. This is very difficult and its better that you have some realistic expectations.

Your case is a perfect example of conditional love. It comes with “Terms and Conditions”, read your posts above and think about it for a while.

Yes, you two can be just friends and listen to each other, care for each other and stuff. You don’t have to be too emotional, just give each other freedom and respect and get busy with Life.

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aries23 (@aries23) : June 13th, 2011
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@69ways (John Smith)

I found reading your story quite painful – its hard to read that two people in love are going through such a difficult time. First of all things should’nt be that hard!
I thoroughly agree with Oracle that there is no doubt you both are very much in love however your relationship needs some direction. Dont sweat the small stuff Mr Taurus. The past is the past and thats where it should stay. Definately be more expressive & appreciative of your girl.
I read that you both were very much in love in the beginning. How long did it take for you two to actually ‘become official’? Also your girlfriend sounds extremely insecure – what was the reason you would break up with her all the time? How old are you both? And did you have previous long term relationships (is there any baggage or trust issues as a reult?). Why did the relationship finally breakdown 4 months ago? Also what has given your girl a reason to think you are seeing other women? I will not even comment on the accusation because to me thats your girl just lashing out and (im sure most aries women will agree) saying something without thinking. Believe me she will not forgive herself for saying such things in the heat of the moment.
You say you did not want to know after this – but what seems to be going on here is a push/pull situation. And I quote the Oracle ‘the love you are talking about is only possible when both persons are ready to give up their pride and freedom in favour of service, submission & oneness’.
You have to look at the things you may have done to this girl to make her feel the way she does. I am not saying she is an innocent party but she is definately insecure.
I know she does not want you out of her life or you WOULD NOT be receiving any contact at all. However you both seem to have communication barriers.
PLEASE do not ignore her when she reaches out to you. This will only frustrate and anger her further. Also do not tell her you love her SHOW her. Why dont you show her you want to fight for the relationship – she will do the same.
Think about what you both dreamed about for your future and start making it happen. Are you sure there are no other issues you are maybe not considering that is adding to the pressure she is under ie financial, work, health?
Can you offer he some help in this dept as a friend and take it from there?
Why dont you offer to go on holiday? A long weekend and get to the route of the problem. There may be a lot of things she is not telling you as she does not want to burden you with her problems. And in true Aries style bottles it up only to try and deal with it on her own.
But please do not ignore her – this will only build up resentment.
Theres a lot of love between you – leave the past mistakes behind and start again. Dont forget to enjoy the experience and be happy.
The reason I can comment on your situation is because my story is very similar to yours. I had a long distance ‘thing’ (cant call it a relationship) with a taurus male. Its been going on for almost a year now. We would communication via phone and texting. And have only managed to meet up once. I think I hurt him because of my own insecurities and now he wont even talk to me. Its agonising & I think I am making it worse as I keep trying to sort it out. Anyways I am truly hurt that he has disappeared from my life. Im scared that I will shut him out completely. I just wish he would contact me and open up.
All the very best with your girl – keep us posted x

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John smith (@69ways) : June 13th, 2011
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First of all thank you for the reply.
we are 31 and 29 and both have been involved in long relationships , me in 2 previous LDR.
I tried to explain the past is the pst and that we should forget all and start over but its to late she says.
We just had a small fight and she said it was over.
She felt cold.
I used to break up with her because i needed attention, for example not answering her phone when she was out for hours used to drive me nuts.

I spoke to her about our dreams.
She said everybody makes dreams.
We are both highly educated so the level of understanding is there.
I can continue been in her life as it is eating up alive, waiting for her next call her next sms.
I am so in love with her I cant do this anymore.
I offered her to meet up for holidays, se said no because we will have a good time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She makes 10 000 usd a month and her health is great so no those are not the reasons.
She has personal issues that is a fact.
She thought i was cheating because i could remember when was the last time my ex gf was for vacation on the island i leave, guess what…. it was before i met my Aries.

I love her so much, i would not give up my pride and freedom but my right side also.
She does not know how much energy my love for her is.
It makes me sad i love her so much and i cant give it to her i end up in tears.
Yes i did some stupid mistakes but i showed i changed,its to late i get….
Dont now what else to do.
BTW its my second continues Aries LDR…i attract them for a reason.

I know one thing, this Aries took my heart and left and i have ended up having love i cant give,thinking of a woman i cant see and been afraid that i lost my sister soul, the puzzle of my lost self….

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aries23 (@aries23) : June 13th, 2011
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@69ways (John Smith)
Hi there,
I am happy to help & sincerely hope that I can bring you some comfort. I cant bare the thought of someone hurting so much. Particularly because i know how it feels. Again I am going through a similar situation but it is up to you what you choose to take from my advice as I am seeing it from your girls perspective.
You say you had a small fight, is this the first time your gf has ended it?
Also you said you would break-up as you needed attention, ie your gf not answering calls etc. Did you ever do this to her? The reason I ask is that taurus are famous for their disappearing acts. Believe me I am experiencing one now! If you have pulled this on your girl, this is not only hurtfull its agonising and so painful you cant imagine.
You say she didnt answer the phone – this tells me you were doubting her. If this is the case I cant stress enough please DO NOT let doubt & your own insecurities get in the way of the great & very rare type of love you have for eachother. Sweeping generalisation I know but most Aries females cant abide cheating. They are too straightforward to behave like that. So by doubting her you are making her feel unappreciated this in turn will make her feel like she is a disappointment to you.
Instead of waiting for her to call why dont you call her? I dont advise texting its not the answer & generally leads to more problems. Can you go and see her? Surprise her? The next time she contacts you – find out what she is doing at the weekend and surprise her.
But please do not shut her out from the feelings you have for her. Believe me aries woman love nothing more than when you open up to us – you will receive more love back.
Also can you try and learn more about her personal issues so as to help/understand what she is going through?
You truly have to believe she loves you more than life & is prepared to walk over fire for you. Equally as much you have to believe you deserve this wonderful love she has to give and accept it in anyway.
You have to believe you can sort this out and that you are capable of showing your love. You sound like a wonderful man so think about all your great qualities and how you romanced her in the beginning. Focus on the positive – show her you’ve changed for the better. What mistakes did you make? Again im sure this girl is extremely insecure. She wants/needs security & stability. Do you think it because of something that has happened between you that has made this insecurity anifest?
Rememeber Taurus can be extremely stubborn & are not great at communicating how they feel.
Please have faith in the love you share, focus on the positive, your future together and the great life you will have. Concentrate on what you can do for her and with her.
All the very best x ps keep me posted

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John smith (@69ways) : June 14th, 2011
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I never cheated and never disappeared, she is the woman of my life i would not do that.
I always answered the phone , she did not.
Yes she is insecure but I believe my absence will show her that i was the one supporting her and those are her words.
I was there for her always even after breaking up and she thanked me for this.

Surprise her you say :) i showed up with 29 flowers and one fake and i said:I will love you until the last one dies………..
3500 usd it cost me.
I was called selfish because i went to destroy her birthday….

Love like our does not come every day she said after the break up but happy endings are only in films she said.
Regarding my comms.
I told her every day i love her, every day i told her i miss her and every day i told her she is the most wonderful person that came across my life…god i am in tears writing this.
I cant do this anymore honestly….I some times want a truck to run me over and get it over with.
some will call me weak but you dont know what it means to drive and see her in front of you or play iphone videos to hear her calling you darling…..Isabelle I love you and always will

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : June 14th, 2011
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@69ways (John Smith)

I cant do this anymore honestly….I some times want a truck to run me over and get it over with.

Its very important that you pay attention to your health. You’ll be surprised to know that certain intoxicants are responsible for our sadness and you need to get rid of these toxins as soon as possible. And yes this will help you in your relationship issues too.

Detoxification of body is the keyword and it will really help you. Here are a few suggestions -
a) Fasting – Avoid solid food for at least 24 hours.
b) Exercises – Try Sun Salutations at least 12 rounds, very effective. – http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f
c) Massages – Take a full body massage and it will help you heal.
d) Breathing – Breath deeply and try to relax.

Try these and other ideas and they will be really helpful.

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aries23 (@aries23) : June 14th, 2011
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@69ways (John Smith)
I really agree with the Oracle and strongly suggest you concentrate on YOUR health.
I am truly sorry you are experiencing such pain but please believe me unless you focus on your own well being this situation may not get any better.
I also strongly suggest you relate how you are feeling and what you are going through to your close family. Even your ex – you should convey to her that you need space and time to sort yourself out.
How can you possibly give love to this girl if you are not loving & nurturing yourself? I’m am sure the people that love you most will be supportive & be there for you so please let them know.
I have been overwhelmed by the support of my family & friends. I had to be honest with them & told them that I was broken hearted and this was the reason I was not acting myself. I did not even recognise myself. All I thought about day & night was mr taurus. I couldnt believe he didnt want me. As soon as I confessed what I was going through it was an instant relief.
Its easy to say but this feeling will NOT last forever. You will be fine and only time will tell if you are meant to be with your girl.
Again maybe concentrate on healing yourself & have some sort of relationship with your girl that you can cope with. Your girl will truly be devastated to learn she is making you feel this way. But what you have to remember is that you are responsible for your own joy and happiness and contentment.
Show your girl your getting on with your life maybe write her a letter when you are feeling better and let her know she is still in your heart.
Have faith in yourself and focus on the positives of your life when you do turn things around between you & your girl be thankful for your blessings.
If you speak to your girls friends then maybe have a chat to them (with her permission) you will get a great insight in to what she is thinking at this moment.
Stay in touch – even if you have to daily please do. I PROMISE you will feel better tomorrow than you do today. With each day that passes you will become stronger.
Love & blessings to you x

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aries23 (@aries23) : June 15th, 2011
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@69ways (john smith)
Ok I am a Taurus man and I have been with my Aries wife now for over 22 years, and I wanna say it can work, but for you Taurus men out there trying to keep up with your Aries girlfriends, if you want to keep it exciting between you two, than give them there space act like they need you more than you need them, and show them this when you are out with them don’t allow anyone to talk down to them and always be first to respond when she is attacked by some one else verbally, and she will charish you and always want to be out with you or txting you while shes out cause she’ll feel more strenght that way, her friends will try to get you off her mind you but she knows if you was there you would have to offense to that statement and so she will say something to protect you, the sex will always be on her you wont have to stress that because she will want to keep you in her corner, and all Aries woman are masters in the bedroom, so she will use what she knows best, plus she k nows you enjoy bedtime more than anything, when it comes down to it Aries woman love sex, but the catch is you have to be deserving of there love to experience it on a regular basis, as a Taurus man we don’t want much but respect, love, and some attention every once in a while, other than that, dealing with an Aries is simple because they love to show attention to there lovers, but at the same time don’t like to be crowded, so again love your Aries woman but always hold back just a little because they also love the chase, once they have you centered they start to lose intrest in you, that makes you as a Taurus work harder when you don’t have to, and when you are together treat her like you are both going to die at midnight and when you’re apart at like a stranger this will keep her thinking, and as long as a Aries woman is thinking she is interested in you, also a good idea is to always buy her small gift but never hand them to her let her find them but make sure they have her name on them being they are so jealous and with Taurus absent minded approach to the relationship she will find the presents and say to herself things like how lucky she is and brag to her friends about your thoughtfullness, cause there are a lot of fights between this couple so the least us Taurus men can do is leave small hints of love laying around where she can find them, also when The Aries is mad at you ask her if she wants you to leave she want to say yes but her jealousy says why would I want you to leave, thats when you say sorry for being me and walk away, she will follow trust me and you tell her how much you love her and leave the room, she will come to you and apologize after a while, but you must remind her like a broken record that you care enough to fight with her, its when the arguements stop that you need to worry, shes gonna want to have some make up sex and you are too but this sex is suppose to be angry and violent, and last longer than your regular moments together, and if your lucky she will find was to always get that make up sex from you so watch out. and some good places to leave her gifts is in her draw, on the floor on her side of the bed, in the kitchen, in the wash room, in her car glove box, even if its a small not or a message on your mirror she can only see after she has tooken a shower, oh and edible arrangements delivers some nice treats you can have dropped off for her when shes home alone, or at her place of work, a loving Taurus man that has studied his Aries lover. oh and always listen to them and it wouldnt hurt if you massaged there feet while you are listening to how there day went or messaging her back and neck or her legs. Michael

****this was written by a taurus man hope it helps***
Love & blessings x

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loveablearies (@loveablearies) : June 22nd, 2011
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@ABOVE – The above statement is very True for Aries women. It looks like one Taurus man has defiantly done his homework on aries ladies.

@ORACLE – Why does Taurus men go distant ?? I am with my Taurus 2months now and he is starting to go very distant. I do not understand, we live just beside one another and it looks like he is avoiding me ???

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : June 25th, 2011
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@loveablearies It usually happens when he’s trying to hide something from you or may be because he has concluded that you two are not made for each other.

However, I would like to add that a healthy relationship needs an open and honest communication. Ask him out and let him go if that’s best for you and him.

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loveablearies (@loveablearies) : June 25th, 2011
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@Ask Oracle – Thank you for your response, I needed to hear that, Damn I thought he’d have more respect for me then that. It felt like I was going out of my mind wondering and chasing and wishing things would be different. Damn even if it hurts letting him go is the right thing to do.

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(@) : June 26th, 2011
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aries23 gave so many nice and truthful advise. 69ways please don’t give up on her…. love is building a bridge of chance to the one you love…

seems that it’s really all miscommunication but the love is there between the two of you waiting to be embraced… if she is very insecure she needed reassurance try not to give her reasons to feel this way… both of you seems to be waiting who will initiate contact… since you’re the man.. you have to take the lead…. open up to her and she will return it a hundredfold…. be strong

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(@) : June 26th, 2011
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i also think that if you let time pass without contacting her she will take this as a sign that you have moved on and don’t love her anymore.

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John smith (@69ways) : June 30th, 2011
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But i tried my best:Travelling there with 29 roses says a lot more than me calling her up and saying I love you.
I even wrote a letter and when tried to say again i love you she said:
Why are you saying these, you wrote them on the letter.
I told her:Call me if you want to talk about us getting back together.
This means I am here, so yes I am the man but is up to her to initiate it as I have run of ideas and have put m self esteem to the ground to sort it between us.
I do love her and will always do…but i cant make her change her mind:(
SHE KNOWS I LOVE HER……

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John smith (@69ways) : June 30th, 2011
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BTW she asked me a few times to let her go and go on with my life, so unless she is mentally unstable, she means that she does not love me and its for my own good to ket her go….

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aries23 (@aries23) : June 30th, 2011
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@John Smith

Hi glad you are back in touch.
You certainly have put everything in to tyring to fix the relationship – you clearly love your girl dearly. However she has also made it clear she cant deal with it right now.
Why dont you give her some space & time. By this I mean not making yourself so available to her? Im not advising you hurt her in any way. But shift the focus on to you & what makes YOU happy. Your girl knows how you feel & I am sure knows you would always be there for her. Its important to get on with your life & SHOW her you are doing this. If your happy within yourself this will radiate from you. Your girl in time may get in touch & if you get to meet her again she will be so impressed that you have been going forward with your life.
I think people forget we are not put on this planet to make others happy. You must fill your own self up with joy & love in order to give & receive. Again please do not try & cope with this pain alone. Speak to family, friends & trusted people in your life to help you through it. You would be surprised how the most hardened of hearts have been shattered & they got through it to tell the tale.
Think about what you want for your future & MAKE it happen. You are capable of doing anything you put your mind to. Again when/if you get to see your girl again she may come to remember all the reasons she fell in love with you before.
Start to enjoy your life without her & you may find your girl wanting to become part of it again.
Again give it time – its a great healer. I agree with you saying ‘call me if you want to get back together’.
So go & show her what your made of.
I hope you get back together with your girl. But please start working on yourself first – the rest will fall into place.
Please keep us posted.
Love & blessings xx

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John smith (@69ways) : July 1st, 2011
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Hei, thanks for the answer.She lives in another country so no way to meet her even if i am going for holidays in purpose to switzerland and staying at the city she is going out just in case we meet.
I love the city also and thats why i am going there but its finished i believe, i feel inside me she loves me but will not change her mind for her own reason.
Happiest day of my life was our engagement she said after we broke up.
God i love her so much but giving her space and time is the best for now and hopefully she will see inside her that the correct thing is to be with the love of your life eve if the road is not always straight.
I am strong and today is 27 days of no contact…
Does she miss me?
Does she want to call but she is stubborn?
Who knows….. :(

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 4th, 2011
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Met a taurus on the internet. He’s from a different country. We’ve been together for 4 months. Things were going great. He wanted me to be the mother of his kids,told me that he loves me everyday and misses me, sent me a lot of texts for the whole day and after work, would still talk on skype. Told me that he’s going to visit me and i often asked when and i didn’t get any answers from him..so i ended up nagging him about it then he distanced himself and i just felt that he’s hiding things from me. Soon we broke up. Then after 2 months i learnt that he went to visit another woman in a different country. I was so hurt but i could not stop myself from loving him. He means everything to me….am i just being stupid in doing this? When he was still with her, i still continued to text him and he would continue to talk to me too, telling me although i’ve given everything to him (whatever he wants to do with his life) he’s not happy, he tries to be happy with her but he’s not in short. They lived together for 6 months and then broke up. He sent me a lot of text just a couple of days ago wanting me and missing me and wants all of me not just physically. He comes and goes and one thing i noticed is that what one said is true here..if you force him the more a taurus male will become stubborn. I freaking hate this game, am straightforward and always feel vulnerable everytime i write long emails to him and he loves it. There are times when i want to end it and at one point i did…but you know when 2 things happen to you in one day it’s kinda feel like and it’s ludicrous but deep in your gut you feel that they are telling you something….and that is not to give up…so i sent another long email and he was kinda happy. He texted me a lot (20msgs) in just one day. He wanted to see me and blah blah…..then he disappears again…this is driving me TOTALLY NUTS and am not kidding. But i love him. i have a few more months before i get to see him…..am doing everything just to be with him even applying for a job to US. Need a lot of prep. going these past few months….there were times when i just couldn’t be bothered and wanted really to leave him for good but then i don’t know if the universe is playing tricks on me and end up making things for me and him to stay in touch….i just hate this TORTURE of coming and going on his part…….sometimes am patient and at other times am not…but thru these past 2 years, i have calmed down a bit and not pressure him….it kills and hurts me when he disappears everytime…..and come again… I need all you help here please……….please advise..

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 4th, 2011
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am not really sure if he really loves me or not….am so so confused with his ways………arghhhh….HELP!!!

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : July 6th, 2011
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@sassyaries (sarah)
Just like you are confused and doubtful, he too is in the same position. And he has no clue where is it going, just like you.

If you are not feeling good about it, then its better you take a break of a few weeks so that you can relax and know where is this relationship going. Be willing to let go of things that are not working.

Love and Life is all about seeking a Balance in all spheres of life. You can move countries but base your decision on more reliable factors, like better career opportunities or better lifestyle etc.

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 7th, 2011
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@John Smith
Hi there.
I’d say your girl does miss you but again she is clearly hurting and going through a transition and feels she requires space.
If you are happy with how you have re-assured her and shown her you love her and will always be there for her then you may have to wait (or get on with your life).
Again its important you show her you are happy without out her and basically just getting on with life – this is so important.
Why would you ask if she is being stubborn if you say you have done nothing to hurt her – is she upset with you?
Let me know if you hear from her
Love & blessings xx

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 7th, 2011
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@sarah
Are we dating the same taurus?? Ha ha.
I had known my taurus for a couple of years before things changed and we became intimate.
He was so full on in the beginning and then the contact stopped as much and it was me initiating any contact for months.
I have now not had any contact from him for the past 6 weeks. I refuse to contact him and am feeling stronger everyday.
If he comes back to me I am not sure how I will react. I am looking at your story in disbelief as you are now 2 years down the line!! I am actually one year down the line and feel like I cant cope with this nonsense for one more day.
Relationships shouldn’t be this hard. I believe if a man really wants you he will not disappear on you and want to see you all the time – our mr taurus’ behavior is toxic i’m afraid.
I dont think my guy wants to hurt me deliberately – I think ‘he’s just not that in to me’.
You however are in a different position as you have your guy there ready to make a commitment to you. Also he is open & honest with his feelings.
I wish you and your Mr Taurus a happy & healthy future together.
Love & blessings xx

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 8th, 2011
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@aries23
I hope not haha!! =D One thing i have learned about reading a lot of taurus posts on google from pages 1 to forever is this, they come and go and it made me insane. Being an aries, i didn’t have patience but because i love this man this impatience turned me to be the person i want to be (patient)and i told him that you made me learn a lot about myself, unfolding things which i thought my weaknesses has become my strength. The other day we talked for a long time and i was so happy of course even if it was on messenger. One thing i can tell you is if you really love a man of any zodiac, you will be patient enough like the corinthians..love is patient, kind etc….

I wasn’t capable of being patient with any man except him because he really matters to me. Relationships are not easy, it’s needed sometimes for our pruning to build our character. I always have to remind myself that taurus takes a lot of their own sweet time and initially i can’t do that but bec. love matters then i learnt patience…what i did was to enjoy my time with friends, family and do things on my own while he’s not there, i just simply enjoy being me. And when he comes back then he will shower you with attention. And make sure when he comes back enjoy the present moment and don’t dwell by nagging and saying why you didn’t call me coz he will totally back away….Sometimes we he won’t respond to me for a month and i jut let it be…i have learnt to just wait, we had not even talked for about 9 months but he still comes back to me….the rewards are great if you love a taurus that’s what i read and so am really hoping for the best…these men just want to be so sure that you are the one, so if you are not patient enough then you’ll be out of his list but if you really really love him then you’re gonna stick with him…

thanks for writing aries23 =)) more blessings to you too and goodluck to us =)) warm hugs!!

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velin (@secretcrush82) : July 11th, 2011
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Hello, people,
I see an awful lot of interesting opinions and emotions shared. I am a Taurus man, feeling smitten with an Aries woman, and I think things got very messy already…
It all started on a BBQ at friend, she was his friend, I really liked her, our eyes met quite a few times. I thought about contacting her, but forgot, and surprise, surprise – she found me on facebook, we talked and started meeting on weekends. Things were going quite nice, made a spa date, a lot of very sincere conversation. I eventsent her flowers at her job.
Now after a point, she started being a bit rude and brash with me – still meeting and talking though. I was being nice all the time, helped her with an exam and generally cared about her life and whats going on. She was really rude a few times and I stopped being so nice and caring, to show her she cannot walk all over me. Although she showed interest – never stopped calling or texting – there was something spiky between us. No emotional response from her though, no sign for desire for physicall closeness…
So I started getting fed up with her brashness a bit. Last weekend she came along when I was with friends (she initiated the meeting again) and we talked nice, but she looked cold again. We got up from the restaurant where we were sitting and she just decided to go home, I kindly asked to come with us to the next place, gently touching her arm, but she refused.
So it was too much for me, and 30 mins after separating I sent her a text “Well, in that case, have a nice picnic tomorrow and a lot of success in the future”, which was pretty clearly a “goodbye message”. She answered like 15 hours later (strange, no?) saying “thanks for the wishes, a bit unexpected though” and I didnt answer.
My question is: do you think she might try to contact me and ask whats happening? I have feelings for her, but I would never come back to the situation, with her showing interest to see and talk to me, but being quite brash and short to me. Therefore I am not willing to just start speaking again, as if nothing happened. She was playing games with me, for sure and I fear (as with many women) that she was testing me how much she can fool with me. Now she has seen that she cant. Do you think she might realize she took it far and call me?

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 12th, 2011
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@velin
Hi there, I have read your story and I am spotting a pattern here.
It seems there is always a push/pull relationship in the beginning with these two signs. I think each one wants to feel in control?
You say that you are smitten with this girl – did you tell her this? I have said it before and I shall say it again you will get A LOT further with an aries woman (any woman for that matter) if you open up to her and tell her how what you are feeling. She clearly likes you a lot or you would not be receiving any sort of attention.
You have also mentioned a few times that your girl has initiated contact mostly out of you both – can you consider that this is maybe why she is not at ease with you as yet? You should maybe contact her to arrange an evening out?
As for her being brash – you need to either live with that or move on to a different type of female because with an aries I am afraid they will always tell it like it is – the truth whether you like it or not.
Do not be scared to open up to this girl – you will get love & attention back ten fold. You have to reassure her that you are not a player & you are looking for a relationship.
Think you both need to learn to trust each other really.
I’d say she will get back in touch – just don’t throw the gesture back in her face or she will be very hurt.
**suggestion – why dont you contact her??** I for one would be delighted if the taurus man I adore contacted me. We have not talked in weeks and it really hurts me.

Love & blessings xx

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 12th, 2011
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@sarah
I am learning to be patient – but I miss him soooooo much and just want to see him. We are not even communicating at the moment. I refuse to get back in touch and he is just as stubborn!
All the very best!
Love & blessings xx

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 12th, 2011
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@JohnSmith
How is it going?
Hope you are feeling better.
Love & blessings xx

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avery (@proud2b-aries) : July 13th, 2011
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does long distance relationship work for tauras guys???
and also how to know if he is still interested in me???
PLS HELP ITS SO CONFUSING

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 13th, 2011
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@aries23

hi sweety…..sometimes you need to let your hair down…if you really feel that you miss him then just send him a message or call, coz as for me since we are too far apart…he’s on the other side of the world….i would send long messages on fb and he loves it. Now am just back to keeping myself busy and same as he is…he’s busy with photography…until we meet…i would just like to hold to this feeling and stay true to myself and my love for him…..i will be patient….time really unveils a character unknown to us and which can prove essential to an aries….and that is Patience =D How are doing now? How long have you not been contacting him? My man (although he’s not yet) told me once that “going against your own”… just be yourself =)) letting go of yourself by sending messages about your thoughts will somehow let him know how sincere you are…=))

More blessings to you sweety….=)) let us know ok!! cheers!! xoxo

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 13th, 2011
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@aries23…that is “going against your own stubbornness is sexy”

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aries23 (@aries23) : July 13th, 2011
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@sarah
Hi Sarah & thanks a million for the response. Yes I have been letting my hair down – my friends and family wouldnt have it any other way ha ha. I have not heard a thing from him in around 6 weeks. For the first few weeks I kept trying to get in touch with no response so I have given up completely.
I just feel that I need to demonstrate that this hot & cold behavior is not on. We have never fully told eachother how strong we feel but I knew from the start how he felt by the things he would do & say – and he must know how I feel after all this time. I just think if he feels anything for me why would he not contact me or want to see me? So part of me has to be realistic.
I know it may sound like I am upset over this situation but I am really fine. I was extremely upset months ago and would cry in private from time to time.
I have learned that no one else is responsible for my happiness but me. I must give him time to sort out how he feels (if he feels anything at all for me) and learn to have this patience that you talk about. If/when he does come back to me and tells me how he feels (i wish) then wonderful for us both.
I am in no doubt he will get back to me but my concern is that I have moved on or that my heart has hardens towards him?
Its like @velin said he felt his aries girl was cold towards him. I don’t know why she was behaving like this – I only know that I can behave this way when someone has upset me greatly or let me down. Mr Taurus has done both.
Your advice is to act like nothing has happened when he does get back to me – and I thank you for that but he has made me so mad with his crazy ways.
I have two brothers and they both say ‘he’s just not that into you’ harsh I know but they say if a guy wants to be with a girl she would know.
I am honestly done chasing him – its time he told me what he is thinking – we will become closer. I know I would open up to him if he opened up to me – I don’t think he is good at sharing his feelings or emotions at all.
But again he has made very little effort & we have not seen each other since last year!!! I did try and make plans to go and see him or vice versa but they always fell through (on both parts).
Anyways we shall see what unfolds.
Cheers hon.
Lots of love & blessings to you xx

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loveablearies (@loveablearies) : July 19th, 2011
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Damn gal, If this man really wants you he will fight for you and come to you without hesitation, when you let him go, heartbreak becomes easier. Damn gals I loved my taurus but I let go and found a Gemini man who adores me you will eventually see this too.

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loveablearies (@loveablearies) : July 19th, 2011
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It has only been one just about one month since my breakup with my ex taurus with no contact at all and I found the heartbreak getting easier and also easier to move on and be happy. Let go of him, there is plenty of men out in the world like him. Trust that….

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sarah (@sassyaries) : July 21st, 2011
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ok ladies, i found this link about taurus guys..i found myself laughing because what they are all sharing are basically the things that we go thru, got a lot of tips and it’s truly hilarious and just purely awesome, instead of getting fed up with my taurus guy, i found myself understanding him more…..jus realize that when you bein to understand a person more deeply then there’ no more need for the power struggle between an aries and taurus…so here’s the link ladies…

http://udayms.wordpress.com/2007/01/08/the-taurus-man/

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John smith (@69ways) : July 22nd, 2011
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my aries admitted she has depression and thats why she left me.
she asked to meet but as i am travelling to her country a day after she flies ALONE to mexico for holidays to find herself , is quite difficult.
She was crying all the time and said she should have asked for my help than leaving me.
she has not dated anyone she said.
So now what do I do people?
I told her i am there for her and i miss her and she cried even more

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loveablearies (@loveablearies) : July 22nd, 2011
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Thank you sarah as deep inside I was beginning to hate him and I do not usually hold resentments but I was hating and holding resentments against him as he has hurt me deep. I think this helps thank you so much

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