Aries Man and Virgo Woman Love Compatibility

When the youthful and highly energetic Aries soul comes in contact with a mature and defensive Virgo soul, we can witness a lively blend of emotions and practicality in their relationship. They both are helpful creatures and like to stand beside one another in times of needs but are definitely not in favor of each others’ views towards life.

Aries man is always teeming with fresh ideas and he detests anyone who tries to snatch away his glory. He has a youthful aura which is very charming and attractive. He has naïve feeling about love but those feelings may sound childish to a tactful Virgo girl. He will always find her to be very pleasant and synchronized lady with purity of love only a Virgo can provide. But at times Aries man in love with a Virgo girl finds it difficult to keep up with her practicality, which makes him outrageous.

While a Virgo woman is best known for her analytical abilities and they can easily determine flaws in anything and everything around them. She has a hard-head in realizing her mistake as she considers herself a pedant. But at the same time she has a very polite manner which is very bright and rejoicing to experience. A Virgo woman in courtship with an Aries man has never to starve for love and loyalty. But she may find him careless and immature sometimes which may disturb her emotional peace of mutual affection for some moments.

A Virgo woman is just a perfect face of delicacy with brains. She has a beautifully imaginative soul but is a butcher when criticizing the weak points of anything or person. Her modesty is adorable and her sheer love is no less than a priceless gift to people around her. Having her as his partner, An Aries man is provided with someone who completely supports all his endeavors and is always there to guide his with her bright and intelligent suggestions. Though this may sometimes challenge his male superiority but now it’s his turn to understand that this is her way to show love and concern. She always likes to be herself and wants her man to be himself; pretention is something out of her dictionary. This not only gives a sense of relief and freedom to him but also builds a mutual trust and understanding between both of them. One thing he has to keep in mind is that she has clarity of vision and can never accept herself to be wrong. She is always correct in her eyes and no one can ever do things in a better way than herself.

An Aries man always provides a Virgo woman with the energy and passion she lacks in her individuality. He is a great admirer of intellect and appreciates every aspect of womanhood of her. But at the same time he hates to be guided and dictated. This hurts his ego and his self-superiority leading to clashes in the relationship. He always supports his Virgo woman in her blues and is beside her in all ups and downs. His loyalty and courage is something that drives her crazy and she is ready to be his co-pilot in all his exciting trips which fills in oomph in her life too. She has to just avoid being bossy with him as this is one thing he can never stand. He can sooth away all the fears and worries of her and teach her to be more open and expressive at least with him. He is a jolly mate being with if treated properly and can take her to the skies of her imaginations and expectations with his passionate ways of loving and expressing.

As the earth and fire combines to make a flowery relationship, they create miracles of empathetic and standing difference with long lasting selfless love. Once they are drenched in purity of love, an Aries male defines love as unselfishness and an awareness of his Virgo woman’s needs and she defines love as spontaneous trust and enthusiasm for his dreams. Both can mend the silver cord that links them together each time it breaks with the magical healing power of their passionate love and strong practicality. After adapting to his attitude towards criticism, the Virgo woman could stop interfering while if needed he can welcome her criticism as a beneficial piece of advice. The peace and happiness of serving is equally distributed in their hearts which such contentment that earth just absorbs the fire so soothingly that even fire forgets to burn… what prevails is a forever warmth which is eternal.

These two could allow their romance to gradually take the form of a less emotionally demanding and more mutual mental respect. A lot of action and attraction prevails in the physical relationship shared by the Aries man and the Virgo woman. But he needs to give time to his lady to refresh her desires and needs. He is truly and blindly romantic whereas realism rules the head and the heart of the Virgo woman. But one thing that is common in these two is purity of love and oneness, which is displayed through their lovemaking. There is immense passion in their physical relationship as their sexual unity provides the cool earth surface with the heat of fire. He exudes a lot of passion but at the same time he is very affectionate towards her and she really appreciates these small nuances displayed by him. He should understand that she cannot match up to the level of his passion towards the physical relationship because she tends to carry a lot of baggage in her mind, and as a result her degree of devotion towards the physical part of the relationship is a bit less than him.

Virgos and Aries are on different wavelengths and though Virgos find Aries as exciting people and Aries always admire the intelligence of a Virgo; their relationship has to look forward to take up their differences in proper manner. Though Aries are very innocent and lovable but their ego and aggressiveness always dampen the spirit of a fragile Virgo. And on the other hand Virgos are no doubt very honest and polite people but their criticism and shyness always give a set back to the confident and excited Aries person. But they have a lot to learn from each other. When he starts understanding and respecting her personality, then she opens up and discusses her problems with him. And once he becomes aware that her reason of criticism is just her attitude and nothing personal, he starts taking her advice seriously.

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Stephanie (@Stephanie) : June 9th, 2009

My jaw truly dropped when I read this because it is so so scarily spot on. I get the impression that my often selfish seeming boyfriend does NOT appreciate me at all! All it would take is a thank you, “I understand”, and some sensitivity to make he completely happy! :'(

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Leye (@Leye) : September 7th, 2009

Mine does the “thank you” think waaaay too much!! Frustrates me, dunno why

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Gretta (@Gretta) : December 30th, 2009

WOW, perfect. I am seeing things differently now.

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cool (@cool) : January 25th, 2010

I think this join is suck for Aries, dont go for it!

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CJ (@CJ) : March 2nd, 2010

I love my Aries man with all my heart.

We have differences yes. But we also have mutual respect and understanding of those differences.

He is my soul mate!

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emma (@emma) : March 8th, 2010

this is very true and exactly what im going though but not sure if my aries man and this virgo will last too much longer, he cant appreciate me for who i am so i cant keep letting him bring me down this this…

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virgo girl 28 (@virgo girl 28) : April 3rd, 2010

aries man are really selfish. and the guy im dating right now really challenges my patience. its always a one sided- thingy but we are together now for almost 2 years. im not sure why im hanging onto this relationship. there are times i feel fed up and wanted to call it an off but then, he would show his appreciation towards our relationship. being with an aries man is so confusing.

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KEYSHIA (@KEYSHIA) : April 5th, 2010

I am in love with Aries man who make me shiver when make love and make my heart race faster whenever I see him. He gives me goose pimp when he touches me. He make trembling in bedroom. Are we mend to be together and why is it that I am able to get over him instead I get very closer to him?

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Mel (@Mel) : April 20th, 2010

I often feel like a magnet for aries cuz I’ve dated 3 Aries and 1 Taurus, and was engaged shortly to a Gemini. (Guess who I lasted the longest with haha.) With the Aries guys things were definitely great at first, and I could tell the most that they liked me at the beginning, but they seem to lose interest very quickly. I definitely think Virgo’s and Aries are on different wavelengths and I know that while they’re exciting people for me to be around and can get me out of my shell it can’t last. (Plus, there’s that goddamned ego. With one Aries, I feel like the one who has to tell HIM to lighten up!!! Haha) What I’ve seen is that they get bored easily. The longest I lasted with them is about 2 1/2 mos. Shortest was 2 1/2 weeks.

And when one Aries admitted that he was wrong about something, I saw it as a sign of the apocalypse.

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virgo goddess (@virgo goddess) : June 2nd, 2010

I’m now dating this Aries man who loves attention and it drives me crazy because i hate to be in the center of attention. He’s also very selfish. we argue most of the time. I admit, i do criticize him alot, but i can’t help it and he need to stop giving me reasons to. I love him alot though and when we make love, it’s like WOW! Sometimes i argue with him so we can make up and make love. Ha Ha.

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richard (@richard) : July 2nd, 2010

my chick is a Virgo. i am Aries. we have a lot of passion. with her, i dont know why, but we have a special chemistry. i am very hard-headed and her constant little comments bounce off my hard head. i don’t have a problem with her comments. she is right most of the time, but i don’t want to tell her that. hahahhaha. it is a fun relationship. and we don’t get caught up with the emotional BS of most relationships. our friendship and passion for eachother keep our relationship on the up beat. i hate the emotional crap relationships “i love you, i love you more.” BORING! i crave excitement and she is always ready to be my co-pilot. it is the best match up

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Virgo81 (@Virgo81) : July 7th, 2010

i am dating an aries for a little over 7 months now. and its crazy to say but i think i am in love with this guy. yes we argue almost every day but thier mainly little arguements b/c he is stubborn and hard headed and he swears he’s always right!! but then again . . . i’m stubborn, hard headed and swear i’m right all the time hahaha. i’ve never been in relationship like this before. it’s a challenge but i’m loving it! although we view life differently but the outdoors activity is what brings us closer. my bf loves fishing and so do i! infact we go fishing almost every day lol. mutual understanding is the only thing that can keep us together. we have to accept and understand each other’s difference. i want the affection but he’s the type to show affection only at the right time. many times i question myself why am i still with this a-hole but then again he’s done so much for me. he’s gone thru so much just to be with me. he may not be loving me the way i want it but the fact is “HE LOVES ME” and that’s all that matters!!

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andria (@andria) : September 3rd, 2010

It only lasted 2 WEEKS!!! yes and we were not even dating just texting each other!! But i soon realised he’s an extremely possesive and jealous person and this caused problems.The final straw was when he swore at me for something he got his KNICKERS IN A TWIST FOR!! GOOD RIDDENS, I FEEL HAPPIER WITHOUT HIM.

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CHARLENE (@CHARLENE) : September 28th, 2010

THE WORSE MATCH IN THE WORLD!!! AT THE BEGINNING THE PASSION IS CRAZY.BEST SEX I EVER HAD.BUT OUR PERSONALITIES WONT MATCH.WE BOTH STUBBORN WE BOTH LOVE ATTENTION WE BOTH SOME CONTROL FREAKS I NAG AT HIM AND THAT ARIES TEMPER COMES OUT..IF WE WOULDVE STAYED TOGETHER ONE OF US WOULD HAVE KILLED EACHTOTHER…

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Ms. Wright (@Ms. Wright) : November 15th, 2010

I feel like people get to caught up in the zodiac stuff. Its just for fun. I am dating an aries and we are so in love. We have a chemistry that i cant even discribe in words. Jus follow ur heart and ask GOD if ur mate is right for you. You know… Jus try it out and if it dont work move on.

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Virgo Female (@Virgo Female) : November 21st, 2010

I’m a virgo woman and he is an aries man. I am a pain in the ass (I admit it!) but he has a snap temper which I hate. He wants everything HIS way all the time and if I even do the slightest thing he doesnt like, he disapears for days with no word then comes back like nothing has happened which leaves me feeling pissed off and used.

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Tori (@Tori) : November 25th, 2010

I was with a aries man for 41/2 years, we were married for not even 1/2 the last year we were together, he was the best and the worst person I’ve ever encountered. He left me for someone else and got her preg while we were married. Though he did me badly I will always have love for him and wish him the best in his life endeavors

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Prettylady (@Prettylady) : December 21st, 2010

I was married to an Aries man for 5years and we had two children together. We fight all the time, I mean all the time. I don’t know about the great love making, we always do the same thing(the way the he wants it). When I say that I like certain things, he would tell okay we try, then nothing ever happens. We got a divorce and 7 months later we got back together. I know I am a nag, I like everything perfect and not out of place. But what is it that makes us Virgo women fall in love with these Aries men!! Knowing that they are no good for us.

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Tehflapjackle (@Tehflapjackle) : January 10th, 2011

Aries man here. Ive been in the courting process with a virgo woman for several months now. Its been a rollercoaster of emotions. As an arian, i am very quick to jump head first into a relationship, whereas she prefers to let it pass through her mind a thousand times and still not have made a decision. I dont beleive they will go into a situation where failure is a possibility. We share an absolute kindredness in which i have never experienced before with anyone (same thoughts, finish eachothers sentences etc.). I will ocassionally get highly frustrated because of the amount of affection i put forth, which i know she enjoys, but recieve very subtle cues in return. But im just beginning to learn how to apreciate the little things. Theres a high level of respect and courtesy between the two signs, as both like to go out of their way to do for others. Therefore you may find great joy in spoiling eachother. It really is an electric combination as long as virgo remembers to go easy on the critiscisms (or finds a way to tactfully introduce them to the soft ego aries), and aries should try their hardest not to rush, and just learn to enjoy eachothers company.

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trueblue (@trueblue) : January 13th, 2011

I’m reading this article after the announcement of the change to the zodiac, with a new 13th sign. I’m a virgo now, and always thought I was a libra. But now reading this, everything is spot on. Never felt like a libra, now I know why )

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sick boy (@sick boy) : January 24th, 2011

i was an aries fool selfishly involved with my own pleasures and she was a virgo too proud to divulge her feelings..she ended it after i wouldn’t move in over time. Only now(of course)do i fully realize the lucky guy i was to be with her…Kandice i miss you

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303steph (@303steph) : January 30th, 2011

yes, he loves attention and omg do I love giving it to him.. he is the 2nd aries i’ve been with and both are SO different, except for the incredible sex lol I really believe this man is my 1.. don’t leave all your decisions up to horoscopes and signs, people.. you could miss out on something amazing. God bless :)

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Gurneet Paul (@Gurneet Paul) : February 10th, 2011

I am in love with a Virgo girl. Boy!..I felt all that is mentioned even before I read it. So true! She is much too shy, independent and finds hard to express herself. The problem she’s not in love. Wish I had a secret love potion-i’d mix it in her tea!

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Gurneet Paul (@Gurneet Paul) : February 10th, 2011

Sometimes I feel she’s not at all affectionate…cold, curt and in a way shuts me out of her life.

Oh God!…I still love her though. Is that strange?

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Shriram (@Secret-love71) : May 16th, 2011
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Hi, i am aries man and i love a virgo girl,its true the personalities have differences but both has secret love.I have strong intuitions abt love frm her.
Virgos has patience and we aries get impulsive many time b/c of tht we face problems in our relationship. Still both the signs have strong desires towards eachother.I love girl she many time do nt shw and want to keep secret whereas i wantd to disclose this secret.

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Ruksana (@Ruksana) : July 26th, 2011
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Damn. He makes me shiver. If there’s anything like feeling peaceful and excited at the same time, this is it. We’ve laughed together, cried together and although we’re going through a kind of difficult time at present, reading all of the above as made me feel much better. You’re right about the silver cord, it isn’t gold, it isn’t the easiest ever relationship, but there’s something to it, unlike anything I have ever come across. The bond deepens with time.

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fera (@rachanasilpurohit) : August 16th, 2011
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@richard ..thanx , my guy wud have said the same words

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Maggie (@maggie_pear) : October 26th, 2011
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I’m in love with an Aries. The connection between us is amazing and when we make love, our bodies become one. We do have differences in the way we think and about some stuff, but if we respect each others’ opinion, I think we can get along pretty well. I just don’t like when he closes itself on his own shell and takes a while to come out – but, as I said before, if I respect and give him the space he needs we always ends up talking about it. I’m really happy I met him :).Just a piece of advise – follow your heart and if your heart says he is the right one then you should fight for it and don’t let it go because the horoscope says different. You never know the surprises you might get!

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Sonia (@Rokkson) : October 26th, 2011
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I am a typical virgo with a aries man, which to be honest is the type that I would go for. Such things would normally lead to a disaster. But this aries guy really is something else. It still early days first 5months he was so so then the last two he has been made in heaven

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virgo829 (@virgo829) : May 1st, 2012
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WOW!  i have been dating a aries man for the past year and a half.  it has been a incredible journey.  We have a chemistry and friendship of mutual respect that is more than i have ever eperienced in my life.  it is like we are both virgins with each other after we have both been experienced marriage to different people for more than 10 years each.  The sex and oneness is off the freakin chain. we are both wanting to give and satisfy each other.  Both of us are givers as we are learning the art of receiving…..More difficult for him….my aries man…he likes to be in control and feels totally out of control as I give to him in and out of the bedroom…..my point of frustration and growing pain is when he shuts down, goes into his cave to process things…..when he comes out of his cave I think things are back to normal not so as he still broods over what took him into the cave in the first place….i used to idealistically think hey he loves me im sure he would want to talk to me all the time cave or no cave….i had t kearn its not about me at all….give him his space as I do me and we come together again with our passionate intimate relationship….my satisfaction is the knowing he is giving me his best, i feel safe and protected with him. He is mature enough to mange his temper as it relates to me….Im pretty intuitive and know when he is pissed as it shows up somewhere out of our normalcy.  it has breen frustrating yet very rewarding……….OMG….

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Zandi (@Tho) : June 26th, 2012
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OMG you know Im dating an Aries Man or its hell of a drama. We fight all the times its small stuff that we fight about…. he is too selfish, he is always right and I must say yes yes to everything he says.Oh im so sick of it…. wanted to call it quits so many times bt I can…we love each other too bits. The love making part is out of this world…. but the moods cant stand it!!!

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missvirgo (@missvirgo2012) : July 11th, 2012
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I am a Virgo woman and have dated a Aeries man for 7 years. I just want to say I have  wasted my time, where was this site 7 yrs ago. Aries men are very selfish, thinks the world revolves around them. My ex was very lazy and way to laidback. Im a virgo kinda aggressive and need and want to feel a man has my back. I felt like a man in the whole relationship. Virgos need to feel loved and knows her partner has her back. Aries men are cold hearted, they say they love you..but me never felt loved. Seems like he never appreciated me.. If your a virgo woman dating a Aries run before its too late..Aries men and Virgo woman does not mix at all.. We broke up several times, after reading this im truely over him. Virgo womAN GET ANNOYED VERY QUICKLY WHEN DEALING WITH AIRHEAD LOL..  ARIES SEEMS TO BE PUSHOVER AND NOTHING BOTHERS THEM. DO NOT MARRY!!!

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virgo man (@virgo-man) : November 30th, 2012
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ARIES WOMAN AND VIRGO MANI have always loved Aries women they are smart independent ”passionate” and awesome seducers which then makes us Virgos feel good but the bad part is that Aries women tend to withdraw a lot and are too independent and don’t have a lot communication with each other. Personally to make both signs work you first have to understand each other. Google it if you have to lol. Confusion to a Virgo can occur when an Aries ignores a Virgo and doesn’t call or text back and we know your busy and always have things to do but you are going to have to put effort in order for a Virgo to commit even though you think you have him you don’t or else he would have asked you out along time ago. If you manage to win a Virgos heart he will be loyal and you will have security in your relationship. and once you get to the heart of a Virgo imagine all the passionate times you ever dreamed of like that movie ”the notebook”-applies to most Virgos-

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Dj (@D_xo) : March 8th, 2013
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My aries man and I have been together for 5 years  At times it’s a bit rough cause it seems like any little thing can make him angry. At times he could be a bit selfish too. But on his good days, he could be the most caring and loving person. At times I (virgo) don’t feel like i’m getting enough attention, and at times I feel like i’m showing him too much. We are both understanding to each other and we don’t always see eye to eye on things. The only thing I dislike about an aries is their PRIDE. An aries has way too much pride. Its only sometimes when they put their pride to the side and do some sucking up.

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sassydoll (@sassydoll) : March 24th, 2013
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when i was with my virgo man he really like me!!! like it took him 2 years b4 i finally said yes to the relationship… although i feel like he doesnt get what im sayin sometimes i felt like just running.. when i ask the airhead what problems he has with me, he’s like “i dont see flaws with u” which is really sweet but im not perfect u knw… tbh i argued with him over the small things just for the fun most of the times (for some insane reason it entertains me lol) n he would always explain to me n try not to get me mad cuz wen im mad i wud like critisize him alot. but we had fun together n he was caring on his good days but i ended it with him bcuz wen i like really needed him he wasnt there. jus bcuz i came to america doesnt mean u cant tex me jus bcuz its alot of credit!!!!!!!! WAKE UP, being in the damn relationship is better than some credit!!!!!!!

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sassydoll (@sassydoll) : March 24th, 2013
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we virgos tend to attract the aries alot. yes we are different but too much of a good thing is bad so nothing is wrong with turning the tables ;).. our differences is what makes us love eachother even more!! i met this aries guy n HE IS SO… OMG…. HE’S SO HOT but i aint telling him that to make him all big-headed lol…. he’s super nice n i’ve only knw him for a couple of weeks…

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Ciera sage (@Sexy-blonde) : April 1st, 2013
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Ok, I’m just saying …if u have only known someone for a couple of weeks, you can’t really know who they are. I Dated an aries man for over two years. He had 3 kids basically treated them like slaves. personal property, as well as he treated me the same way. Everything    Revolved around him and his wants! I would bend over backwards to please him and never got any appreciation . Said he couldn’t live without me but then the second her split he’s fb another woman ! The week before telling me that he wouldn’t ever want another woman to touch him . We fought all the time, he wanted to be the center of attention, always caused drama, where there shouldn’t be any. moot tempered hit me, got in my face, cusses at his children . I have my own children they don’t deserve to be treated in that manor. Said he would be the father for my kids I wanted him to be, not how he was with his own children ( yeah) lies!!!! Told me he never really smoked then every time he was mad he did! Used me now good luck to the next girl ! Abuser! Not nice! 

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Joan Manuel (@LadyVirgo) : April 14th, 2014
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I have been with my fiance for 7 years. During the last 7 years this has been our relationship to a perfect t. We have grown to accept and love the differences about eachother as it says in the article. It is far from perfect but we are happy and completely in love, more so now than in the begining. It was just amazing to read something that encompassed our developing relationship. all the other articles always automatically shoot down the aries, virgo relationship, but I always figured it was more to it plus having an aries mother and father i figured I had just learned to tolerate them,lol. But now I see that an aries and virgo can have a beautiful lasting relationship, as anyone can.

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Karmen Compass (@KCompassion) : July 11th, 2014
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So me and “my aries man” have known eachother for about 9 years. We’ve been best friends for about 7 years. He’s actually been my neighbor since 7th grade. No one really understood our relationship. They never understood why we didn’t “hook up” all through high school, and we didn’t really understand it either. We just had fun partying with our friends and going on random adventures. I keep laughing when the article calls the Virgo girl the perfect “co-pilot” because thats exactly how its always been with us. We showed up and left every party together and were basically inseperable. He would find the party, I would go with him, and we always entertained the crowd together. I think people even felt a little jealous about how cool our relationship was.The article is also right aboutthe feeling of mutual respect. Well we actually did have a couple drunk hookups, few and far in between throughout the years but nothing too serious, but it strangely never changed our friendship or made things awkward. I never thought I was in love with him after hooking up you know, there were no crazy flying emotions (at least on my end), just comfortable silly kissing and such. So I believe thats how he felt too. We remained great friends for years and thats how I always thought it would remain. Well, I moved half way across the country a year ago for school and we kept in contact but it wasn’t the same. He was definetely hurt and pissed and didn’t understand why I had to move so far away,he thought our friendship would eventually die out, and I felt bad but there was nothing I could do. I recently came back home for the summer. The weeks before coming home we started to talk on the phone a little more because we were both excited to see eachother again. We joked around about getting married a couple times but once again nothing too serious. About two weeks after coming home he went out drinking with friends one night and I stayed home. He called me at 3am to go to his house, get his car, and come pick him up at a friends house, I found him sleeping in the front lawn with a pile of puke in between in his legs. He really wasnt all that beligerent (I’ve seen him worse), but it was clear he needed to go home. I brought him home and we hung out at his house for a couple hours. Normal stuff. Watching TV and me making fun of him for being drunk. Well after a while he started to tell me he loved me. Like really love me. That he didn’t want to see me with any other guys anymore, that he realized it when I came back home. I could tell he was trying to convince me to hook up with him because he was drunk but I knew he also was somewhat sincere about what he was saying. It felt nice to hear those things from him so I cuddled on the couch with him for a little bit and teased about things he was saying. He seemed to enjoy my company and but he really wanted to kiss me so I eventually let him. I joked with him that he couldn’t let us have sex even if I begged him to. He agreed. Well we ended up having sex. It actually didn’t last too long. I pushed him off of me rather quickly because it was the most amazing feeling I had ever had in my life from another person that it needed to just stop. Like I didn’t even know what to do with myself. I was kind of embaressed because I’m pretty sure it was way more enjoyable for me than him and he was the one that wanted to hook up with me. I knew after we had sex that I was in love with him. It was like falling asleep, slowly, and then all at once. It just felt so right. I can’t even explain it, but I knew it. As a Virgo, its really hard for me to relax and clear my mind during sex. This usually takes away from the pleasure. But with him it was the most pure and clear my mind has ever been. I wasn’t even thinking about sex. Nothing was on my mind. Just feeling, no thinking, it was amazing. Like being in a trance. And at one point he pulled away from me and it surprised me so much because I was so “in the zone” that for some strange reason I felt tears swell up in my eyes and instantly pulled him back to me. It was like a reaction I didn’t even think about. It was SO WEIRD. I felt like I was letting go and holding on all at the same time, it was so overwhelming and beautiful and I still don’t really understand it. It sucks he was drunk because I’m sure he didn’t have feelings close to this. Well its been a week since it happened. We haven’t hung out much because we both work during the week but everything has been fine and normal. I asked him once how he felt after and he was kind of surprised that I had even asked. I asked if he was just drunk or meant what he said and he said “half and half”, which is honestly the exact answer I wanted. I honestly don’t know what to do. I know I love him but I don’t want to just jump into something when we have been so good for so long doing what we have been doing our whole lives.I also don’t want to scare him away and ruin it. I guess I’m just going to have to play it out, see how it goes. I’m just afraid that as time goes on its going to be harder and harder to hide my emotions. It’s weird that I’m kinda satisfied with just knowing I love him and having him be there as a friend and not need to feel pressured into being in a relationship or anything. I know he loves me too and we will probably get married one day but for now it is right to remain friends. It’s just annoying because whenever I see him now I get chills and I can’t stop thinking about it. I hope this post gave some of you some insight. I mostly wrote it as a diary to vent my feelings because I haven’t been able to tell anyone how I feel yet, so thanks.

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C (@Cwess36) : August 15th, 2014
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I am a Virgo woman and I was with a Aries man we could never get on the same page  we had a child together and we was together for 5 years before we broke up but I still love him even if he don’t believe me

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Nery (@Nomames9) : August 17th, 2014
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Virgo girl dating off and on an Aries guy for 7 yrs when I think it’s over he comes back into my life….I’m to the point I don’t care I tell him I love you but I’ve learned to live without you hopefully it’s not too late for him with me 

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