Aries Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility

When the watery Cancer soul and flaming Aries soul come in romantic relationship, there are equal counts of burns and tranquility. Aries ride high on spontaneity, and is quite open in the expression of feelings while Cancer tends to take time when it comes to both expressing feelings and moving forward in a relationship.

A Cancer man is usually a shy person who minds his own business. He loves money, fame and recognition and mostly has all these in long term with his determination and hard work. When he falls for an Aries woman, he loves to be possessed and passionately loved by her. He is basically loyal and faithful and is often admired by his Aries woman for his ability to stick it out through the bad times. But he is very sensitive to hurt and is sometimes offended by the careless nature of the Aries woman.

An Aries woman is an impulsive and sovereign lady. She meets all the obstacles headlong and headfirst, even when she must go out of her way to find them. An Aries woman may seem inconsiderate and thoughtless but she would never hurt anyone on purpose. She can actually find a real gentleman in her Cancer man who is able to look behind the veil of rashness and admire her innocence. Though she really needs to mind her fiery temper as it can often cause depressive state for her Cancer man.

An Aries woman complements a Cancer man well by allowing him to feel strong and masculine. She has got such a great optimist approach of winning that it helps him to give up his hidden fears and move up in life even more confidently. The protectiveness and possessiveness shown by her makes him feel loved and needed enhancing his sentiments and attachment to his lady love. But the secrets kept by him can be stressful on a relationship between the two. This attitude of him can make the mind of his Aries female to wonder causing outbursts of frenzy in her nature. While he may need to deal with the outrageous and self-centered attitude of the Aries woman sometimes by reminding himself that she doesn’t mean any hurt and is herself unaware of her behavior.

The Cancer male typically proves to be a prince charming to an Aries woman who admires him passionately for all the emotions and affection he has to offer to her. She is thrilled by the feeling of being courted by him who makes her feel desirable as a woman. He brings laughter to him which shines a light on her. He brings out a personality in her that others cannot resist. She feels at peace around him because she can finally be herself. He continues to adore her throughout life as much as he did the first time they met. But she always needs to consider the moodiness of her Cancer man and give him appropriate space when needed by him. Also he needs to keep up his spirits and emotions even if he finds his damsel aloof and running at times because all she needs is her space and nothing else.

With the unusual blend of Fire and Water, together these two can create unbelievable miracles in their relationship. The Cancer man always cherishes his sentiments and makes the Aries woman feel more feminine. He fulfills the entire child like needs his Aries woman makes and keeps her cozy in the protective blankets of his tender loving care, which he can provide to her forever. On the other hand, she makes her Cancer male feel a lot loved and care with the devotion she gives to him and the determination with which she stand by him in all the ups and downs of life. She makes him feel more enthusiastic and optimistic and fills his life with lot more passion. They hold a fairy tale love story with him as Price Charming and she as Cinderella who keeps on chasing her dreams and finally finds herself gratified in the arms of her dream man.

The physical intimacy between the Aries woman and Cancer man is just like that of fire and ice. They both compliment each other so well that their love making is always a long lasting pleasure for them. As time passes these two get intimately close in their sex life. He makes her feel cherished and emotionally secure. The Cancer is clever and imaginative when making love. This gives a lot of excitement to the Aries female who is full of blaze. Her vulnerability in the sack stirs him deeply. Her ability to bring innocence to her love making, regardless of her past, gives him enormous emotional security. She loves fiercely and passionately. This makes him crave for her more passionately and lovingly. When he leans his face in closer, and she reached out and pulls him the rest of the way, so that he could bury his face in the security, the warmth, the lusciousness of her deep, full breaths and body in rhythm. But at times, he can tend to be moody causing distance in the bed. When he refuses to respond to her advances, it is hard for her to remember their once strong compatibility in the bedroom.

As the Aries woman and Cancer man set to start a relationship, they both enjoy it mutual desire of loving and to be loved. For both of them love is most important but while for Aries it was more of a demand, for a Cancer it’s more an uncertain sentimental feeling. Though Aries admire the care and tenderness of Cancer, they become upset of the ever fluctuating moods of the Cancer. Aries always provides Cancer with the sense of confidence and security by their optimistic approach and possessiveness but their impulsive behavior can hurt the sensitive Cancer heart very frequently. Money often tends to be the biggest problem between these two as she likes to spend money, while he is a saver. When these two learn to properly line up their communication, they work wonders together.

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(@) : December 13th, 2011
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So I am 19 year old female Aries who is currently talking (kind of dating) a cancer guy. We’ve been talking for over a month now and things were almost perfect at the beginning but now I feel like he’s just not interested anymore. He takes FOREVER to reply to a text message and he says that he doesn’t like phone calls because he doesn’t like “talking into a mic”. We live about an hour and a half away from each other too so it doesn’t make things any easier. I try to to talk to him on a serious level but it’s almost impossible. When we’re together things are so perfect though and it’s so hard to just avoid that fact. I feel like he is just so reserved and us Aries woman do not have any patience when it comes to keeping emotions in. I tell myself to have patience with him but it’s so hard when he never puts any effort into having a serious convo. Even though I try really hard not to think about him or talk to him I find myself sending him the first message of the day. I kinda called him an ass hole and he definitely wasn’t quick to even react on that till the next morning. I felt bad about it but I’m a very stubborn Aries. Another thing that really bothers me Is that even when I am back home (which is near where he lives) he still doesn’t make the effort to see me. I don’t know what to do! He’s drivin me nuts! Should I just give up on him? Maybe he’s talking to multiple young women?

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Daniel (@DirtyDan213) : December 30th, 2011
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Well, I’m 20 years old, and a cancer man. I mean, I don’t really believe in these signs, but I found it interesting, because I’m dating an an Aries woman, and we’re having some of the same problems people here are having. We do fight a lot over petty things sometimes, but we make up for it and everything is peachy. She does have an anger problem, and at first, I ignored it, but then I started using the same logic she does while fighting, and it’s gotten even worse. When we fight, she says that she much rather have me unleash my anger so we can get all of our frustration out, but the fights are just as bad or even worse. I tried ignoring the fighting, using logic while fighting to solve it, and unleashing my anger with fighting, but everything I do, we fight no matter what, lol. I don’t know if that’s because she’s an aries or something, I thought it was like that throughout most relationships. Anyway, our relationship is still going strong, I love her to death and hope to move in with her, there are some things that I don’t agree with about cancer men, like us being emotional, I’m not emotional at all, haven’t cried in years, I don’t have mood swings or different personalities.. but I am a romantic, and been the same way throughout our relationship, which has lasted for one year. Anyway, hope everything work out with cancer men and Aries women. Cause I love this girl to death, compliment her everyday.. and say I love her several times a day.

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Onyecheme Isioma Nene (@nenecherry) : March 30th, 2012
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hello, i am an aries female curently dating a cancer male who is 2 yrs older than me and we love each other so much. he is like the best thing that has ever happened to me. he makes me laugh and he’ so romantic with me.he’s never afraid to tell how much he loves me and mostly makes me feel good as a woman.although he flirts with the girls alot but he let’s them know that i have his heart and his body and i know he belongs to me both body and soul.he hugs me and holds my hands when we are on the streets and can’t keep from kissing me , infact i think alot of girls envy me because he puts me on this special pedestal and is not ashamed to tell the world that i am his girl. athough he has his moments when he gets moody and all but he eventually comes out of it and is well again. cancer men are the best in bed especially if you are the romantic type. we have a sex life that knocks the breathe out of me, it’s just like a dream come true for me. As an arian i usually hide my emotions because i’ve been hurt alot in my past relationship but since meeting my cancerian lover it’s been like a healing session and i am not afraid to express my feelings of love for him. i love him so much that i won’t mind having his baby because i know he will make a good father to my kids.

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(@) : April 5th, 2012
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 I am a Aries female. I have known my cancer male best friend for over seven years. I have always liked him more as a friend, but never thought it would go anywhere.Finally we have a expressed our love and like for one another, and our love is stronger than ever. He is currently incarcerated. We talk all the time and continously express our love for one another. Sometimes he can be distant. I just let him have his space. He comes back around. We talk out our problems, good communication is key. We have never had a fight, maybe some misunderstandings.He keeps me grounded. He is a great man, im glad he is my best friend and man.  

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cherrybflower (@cherrybflower) : August 1st, 2012
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oh myy goodness! lol okay, i am an aries girl 20 yrs young currently in a relationship with a cancer man 27 yrs old (hehe i always mess with him about his age). So tonight i was so bored and decided to look up our signs to see if i could understand him better. I was SHOCKED and AMAZED by how i cant even find the words lol it just tells it exactly like it is reads us to a T. so i said i must sign up and comment!
So we always have a argue about something stupid but i just say babe ugh what ever lol and try to move on but his attitude stays stuck on what ever we argued about. I try to change the subject or mention something but when i do, i do it with such an excitment just to grab his attention lol even though im not sure what im going to say my self and i end up just telling him how much i love him hehe. I find that he helps me grow as a person and that means the world to me because not everybody can do that and to have that especially in a relationship is such a blessing and i wouldnt trade it for the world. Although we have our ups and downs we love each other very much. I give him his space when he needs it but i notice that when i assume he needs a minute he gets mad lol like why do you want to get off the phone?! so i change it up really quick! but the thing is he sometimes stays quiet and doesnt respond so i think okay maybe he doesnt want to be on the phone or something and i end up being super wrong! Another thing is about the money MY GOODNESS curse the money! lol i know my ideas tend to be expensive but i dont mean to come up with them on purpose they are usually just a thought, but my cancer man loves to be in charge of the money but he tends to spend it a lot on things that aren’t even needed!! and it drives me bonkers but i let him be. I know i can be the same way sometimes.. One thing i dont like though, is him judging me. Thats one thing that hits really hard :( i dont  like that one bit because im already cautious enough of myself as it is.. he says he tries to motivate me! but i dont get motivated by you judging me i get motivated by you helping me and being positive! Something that has never happened to me in a relationship until now is.. i end up shutting my mouth because im stuck or hurt and rather be quiet. i dont like showing my emotional side as far as sadness.. is that a bad thing? he told me that if i cry all the time it annoys him so i cant cry. but the thing is i dont cry over any little thing! if i cry it is because i am either really upset or really hurt. And i cry in silence. suck it up and keep moving. the pain tends to linger around for a little while but with time i forget it was even around.. I really love him to pieces and i tell him all the time.. he seems to not believe me though :( and i asked him if he trust me and he never answered and that worry’s me.. i text him after getting off the phone saying that i love him blah blah blah but then i put that it hurt me that he didn’t trust me and i wish he would and i told him i was his ride or die chick till the end and that i pinky promised. he ended up calling me a couple of minutes later singing and joking as always.. no response to the msg but it was like, he read it but he called to let me know he is here and he cares.. actions speak louder then words..

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cherrybflower (@cherrybflower) : August 1st, 2012
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actions speak louder then words but words a sometimes needed…

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joseph david (@cancer79) : August 27th, 2012
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I’m a cancer who’s been with an aries woman for six months now and I honesly have never been happier in a relashionship than I am right now. There are a couple things about us that I think are important to note for other couples like us. One thing is that as a cancer I don’t always like to talk about whats bugging me, and when that happens I wear my emotions and become very quiet. Well, my aries woman reads me like a book and wants to know what’s wrong, and she refuses to let it go till I tell her, and my advice would be to talk to her. Our communication is huge in our relationship, it’s the reason that we don’t fight, and it’s the reason that we’ve become so close and so intimate with each other. And one thing that she does is to remind herself that even though I’m very open with her, in social situations I’m a very quiet person, and just because I’m not talking doesn’t mean I’m upset.
But all in all our relationship has been amazing, we can be out in public, a bar or a baseball game, and when she looks at me, we are the only two people in the world. I can’t help but be in awe of her, she catches me just looking at her constantly. With her our love is not work, it seems to come so naturally, so easy, and yet I always want to show her how much she means to me. I want for her to never have to wonder how I feel about her or for her to ever be jealous of another woman. No one else has more of my attention or my affection as she does. I mean there is no dought in my mind that she’s the one for me, I’m in love with every little bit of her and I’ll tell anyone that, whether they want to hear it or not.

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Crazyaboutariesfemales (@489435) : October 18th, 2012
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Aries female is most beautiful and sexy woman of all 11 other signs together.If any aries female read this she have my soul.All this bullshit that aries and cancer is not good relationship this is suck.All i now is that aries female is 100 better than any cancer or scorpio or pisces or libra or any other sign who supposted to bee the most beautiful.Aries female is number 1 in anything !
 

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shakemia (@shake3) : November 20th, 2012
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I really just wanted to say “Thank You” This Is Me Im An Aires….. :) And i’ve been talking to this boy name jordan he’s an cancer and we do this all the time i cant help that he a very emotional person and im’m unstable so you have moody and unstable people together so just image how thats working out i really care about but i hold back alot because he is so damn wishy washy i hate that shit,lol really i do but i like/love this guy i tell him all the time how much i care about him but he thinks im cheating or talking to someone else he says “I’m Too Out Going” i say rude things all the time and he says it hurts him but, and i brush everything off which makes him feel like i dont CARE. DAMN! JORDAN I DO CARE ABOUT YOU…………………. I LOVE YOU.

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nobody (@hellme) : December 19th, 2012
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I’m a cancer boy in love with an aries girl but not anymore…and i believe in all these signs.She is the best thing that ever happened to me.we’ve dated for a few months.I love her more than anything.she told i m freaking her out.And i never meant to do that but i did because i was losing her.Hope she realize how much she means to me.

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grace (@grace-m) : December 28th, 2012
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im an arien lady and very bubbly ,i recently met a Cancer man, i asked him about his personal life and when he reached his house he texted me that he didnt like my questions and i asked him which questions in particular he just said to me he would speak to me after he had taken a nap its been a 3 weeks now he doesnt reply my texts or wattsapp messages and i see him online so does it mean that if i meet him somewhere he will ignore me or he will pretend nothing has happened

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Charisse (@Lifeisinthemusic) : March 2nd, 2013
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So, I am not sure how much faith I am willing to put into astrological signs and the outcome of a relationship…But some of the things mentioned in both the main explanation and comments persuaded me to search for some advice.
I am an Aries woman…”under-developed” in a sense as well. I recently started talking to a Cancer man a few weeks ago and I lIke him VERY much and think the relationship can definirely proofread into something great. And as an FYI, he is about 9 months younger than I am. I’m 24, he is 23. 
Anyways, he has said in the past that he takes relationships slow and tends to put family and friends before a new relationship….totally understandable. My ISSUE IS…(and I’ve already told him that I tend to move fast and am workin on slowing myself down), how much pushing is TOO much. I am the type to always let someone know how I feel…like I’ll use the kiss emoticon to remind him that I’m still interested in that way. If he says he is going to be playing COD with a friend then I’ll be like cool, go have fun and he will get offended almost like I don’t want to talk to him…which is SO not the case at all. So I know that he has some feelings for me, but I can never tell aside from when he is calling me sweetheart and babe and stuff. Am I being a paranoid Aries? Should I just let it be? Am I pushing to hard with the emoticons? Should I let him make the first big moves? I want him to, but will he even if he is interested.
What I don’t want to happen is for me to ask all these questions and scare him away (even if he feels the same). Keep in mind that we have never met. He texts me everyday and somerimes I’ll ask he is able to call (works A LOT), and he usually does. Sometimes I’ll think to myself why doesn’t he do it on his own? Sigh. Hard to know what he is thinking…don’t want to offend him with my bluntness. 
Any advice on how to proceed, given his nature, would be great. I’ve never dated anyone like him before. 

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Terry (@Terry_Cherry) : March 3rd, 2013
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@Lifeisinthemusic
Hey, I’m an aries woman (21) and my bf is a cancer (23) and we’ve been together for 2 years. I love him tremendously, some of the things you’ve said I can completely relate to. With this guy you’re talking to, I know he tends to be slow in giving you the type of responses you need, in most cases than none, you will have to make the first move. Because when him and I met, I had to make the first move. He showed his interest by doing sweet things and saying sweet things but I had to let him know look, this is how I feel do you feel the same? And we’ve been inseparable since the very first day we met. Though arguing   over petty things every now and again. But honestly, this is one of my best relationships. Just be patient with him and try to be considerate towards his sensitivity. Let him know how you feel! 

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Keri (@faeriespirals) : March 10th, 2013
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I’m an Aries woman married to a Cancer man. We’ve been married for almost 12 years. I would say that a lot of the information and comments here have been accurate for the long haul. We’ve had our ups and downs, as I’m sure most relationships do, but I still have a really hard time being patient and dealing with his moods. I have to admit that I know I shouldn’t be so straightforward and harsh in dealing with them, but I can’t help myself. I would say to anyone in this same kind of relationship who are considering marriage… move in together and live together for several years before tying the knot. As much as I love my Husband, if I had to do it over again, I might make a different decision and I’m sure he would say the same. That said, we’re in it for life and neither one of us wants a divorce, for one we have three young children, and another, we are both very stubborn in our own ways. I always try to stay positive and hold on to hope while he cannot help but be negative. It’s very hard for both of us to understand where the other one is coming from because we are so different. I believe, this is also why we’re still together. He puts up with my ferocity and I can’t stand his moodiness, but we love each other with a burning passion, at times, lol.

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neesha pradhan (@needarsh) : October 4th, 2013
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i too face the same differnces between us in our relationship but…..whatever it may be… I will definately make my relationship the most amazing one……

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Lauren (@LWorley56) : November 25th, 2013
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My boyfriend and I are both 16 years old. He is a Cancer and I am a Aries. I have never really got into horoscopes but I find this article very interesting. My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months and have been best friends for over a year now. This article pretty much decribes us both perfectly. We have been through more fights and breakups than anyone can imagine, but somehow we are still together. I guess between being best friends and falling in love we have never let go. I have read this article twice, and each time it seems more true.  When I was yonger I created a list of what my perfect guy would be and now I have it, despite the crazy mood swings, and almost constant fighting of course. But I guess anyone who can deal with an Arien woman needs some form of release every now and then. 

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Lauren (@LWorley56) : November 25th, 2013
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My boyfriend (a cancer) and myself (an aries) have had the same problems as many of the others on these coments and in the article. Cancer men take forever to make their minds up on anything… not just opening up to someone. It took my boyfriend 6 months to just tell me he liked me, even though we were best friends. But when we stated dating, boy did my life changed forever. The protectiveness/ possessiveness talked about in the article above is shown on a daily basis between my boyfriend and I. Even though we have our blowouts, no I do not mean fights, we are still together happily. He always knows how to make me smile and laugh even when I have had a horrible day. He is the sweetest and most gentle man I have ever known. Even though he has his days like the rest of us, he still manages to put up with me on a daily basis. To anyone who is going through the same thing, I feel for you. I have finally realized and came to the conclusion that when he is having a mood 180, no not a mood swing, that I need to back away to a safe distance. That way I don’t have to let my temper slip. 

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Ann Marie Bliss (@MrsBliss) : December 27th, 2013
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I am an Aries woman who just married a cancer man. We have known each other since we were 12, but he was too shy to speak to me. His family knows what little family I have and still he couldn’t get the courage to speak to me. Well we just started talking one day when we were both 29 and instantly we clicked. We talked for almost 24hrs straight. Within 6mo I flew across the US to be with him. I moved in with him before we even had our first date. As the description says, I’m hot headed. I scream, fight and run when I feel like something isn’t right. With him, he had his moods. He was very emotional and depressed all of the time. After a year I had moved out on him 3 times and even gave him a black eye, but he hung in there. He stood by my side. Helped me become more caring and I guess I helped him to become a stronger person emotionally. He hasn’t had an episode nor have I since we really just had that instant where we both needed each other so much it evened us out. So many things have happened in the last 2yrs. We are married, lost some family, got arrested together lol and now we are having a baby together and I wouldn’t change us for anything in the world. He completes me. He is the calm I needed in my personal storm. If you can hash it out, be adults and gain common ground an Aries woman and a Cancer man can be the relationship you always dreamed of. 

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Fynness (@Irish-Red) : August 4th, 2014
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Out of curiosity I checked out the comments and the description for this combination. It is accurate. My cancer man and I have been in love for over 20 yrs. now. He loves the fighter in me, I love his devotion and caring. I have always felt protected by him. Don’t let that fool you, cancer men can rip people apart, but when the two of us are together, it’s difficult to describe. We calm one another, in a sense feed off one another, the energy we give one another is amazing.
There are moments when I blow up, he knows how to read me and waits. I’ve learned when to give him space and let him go into his “self preservation mode”. This works for us.
The water-fire statement is all about the Steam we conjure together and learning how not to get scalded but keep it at a comfortable level we both thrive off of together.

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Gypsy (@TrippyGyptian) : August 18th, 2014
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Wow I’m so glad I stumbled across this page i’m an aries woman and have been dating my cancer partner for a few months now but we’ve knwn each other for about 8 years I’m very straight forward and he’s more laid back about him feelings and emotions sometimes I feel like im too much for him. I love the fact that he is gentle he makes me feel special and i truly feel so comfortable around him and i can be myself we laugh we joke and mw makes me smile. I hate that i can be a little rash if we go through something i can say hurtful things to him and he never disrespects me some how we always find our way back to each other even with my aggressive personality he gives me a since of calm and i never have to doubt how he feels about me even though he’s very quiet about his feelings everyday he let’s me knw I’m on his mind no relationship is perfect but some are worth the effort and there’s no other place i’d rather be than with him❤❤❤

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