Gemini Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility

When the Airy Gemini and Watery Cancer fall for each other romantically, their relationship may have some ripples and rough stages but soon it will be a peaceful association especially in case of Gemini woman and Cancer man. She admires his chivalry and he loves to cherish her multiple personality display.

A Cancer man is very courageous and money minded person. He lives in his sensations, emotions, and imagination. His love for the chivalrous and noble grace makes him happy. A Cancer man is very intelligent and cautious regarding every matter of personal and professional life. When in a relationship with a Gemini woman, Cancer man cherishes his past and share this with his Gemini woman lover, making his biggest dream come true. His devotion to her is steady, solid and long term. His sense of security is driven by the need to invest and the fear of not having that security when it is needed most.

A Gemini woman is a lady with single soul and many aspects. She can entertain herself as well as the people around by her different skills. She is intelligent and easy to make friends with. Investing is not her cup of tea and she spends money like water goes through a fountain. Mind games are popular with Gemini woman as she loves creating as well as solving puzzles. She changes her thoughts faster than anyone can. Her sentimental gestures and charm keeps her relationship with her Cancer man alive and her display of affection keeps fire in the romance. She never bores her Cancer lover; rather she delights and amuses him most of the time.

A Gemini woman is like a star filled summer night sky with one shooting star that only a Cancer man can see. She wants to travel her Cancer man’s world, as it is a Gemini trait but so does the Cancer man, as he wants to see the world with his Gemini woman and they both want to share their experiences with each other. She tends to show her love through gifts and small items that are admired by her Cancer man but sometimes makes him upset due to such insane extravagance. She goes from miss happy go lucky to a total wreck and then turn around and engage in intellectual conversation showing her abilities and surprising Cancer man. Gemini woman charms her Cancer man with her qualities but never feels that attachment and this is one thing that makes the Cancer man feel insecure and unattended at times. For keeping it smoother, the Gemini woman needs to be a bit more absorbed with her partner rather than wandering around continuously.

Cancer man knows how to treat his lovely Gemini woman like a true lady. He shows his Gemini woman that chivalry is not dead. She is thrilled at such lovely make-believe of a gentler time and usually behaves accordingly. He is the first person who ever shows his lady love, true passion and makes her feel like walking on air. Cancer man’s strong bond with his Gemini woman doesn’t surface alone. His need to possess her comes shortly behind and cuts into their relationship quite maliciously. He does have mood swings but Gemini woman forgets whatever he was venting about two minutes later. When she has her mood swings he just stays quite or consoles her, depending what the situation is. But to realize that his lover is not just a woman who craves to be protected by him but is also one to wander when she feels the need to spread her wings and fly is not too easily digested by him and this can create some small problems.

As the sensitive Cancer man and sparkling Gemini woman conquer the problems in their relationship, they become more compassionate and devoted to each other. They now have their time of wonderful bliss and romantic interludes, leaving all the jealousy and confusion far behind. Attachment is a small word compared to what they both feel for each other and their mutual ‘Walkabouts’ have romantic wandering through their minds! Each sees the unspoken wish reflected in the other’s eyes and does the level best to make the partner happy and fulfill all the dreams. Since both have moods and imaginative mind, they fill their lives with wonderful colors of love and compassion and from beautiful creation of their thoughts they prepare such a wonderful room in their hearts that the other one never wants to leave.

The sexual relationship between Gemini woman and Cancer man is quite inspiring and extremely enjoyable to both. Cancer man’s sensitive nature is likely to mix well with Gemini woman’s ever changing ideas. A Gemini girl is one for having sudden ideas. She may have some changeable ideas about passion. He is quite capable at changing to her needs, making this union one that is easily understandable and quite strong as time passes by. Their love making is usually irresistible as their passion is unbeatable and the satisfaction they get in their oneness is above anything experienced by them in past. Constant change benefits them both in that there is never a boredom of repetition. He may even throw in a little surprise or two of his own. He feels special when she portrays her need for his affection and when he makes love to her he shows her a warmth and protection that her child like heart melts to.

The relationship of Cancer man and Gemini woman has some nasty faults to be taken care of. Gemini woman shall try to persuade her Cancer man into pretty much anything she is interested in, especially when it comes to travel. She may leave if he restricts her on a flight of fancy while her lover waits patiently retreating into seclusion. Cancer man sulks and draws himself back as he craves to have her back in his arms. He needs to be tolerant of the Gemini faults of restlessness and detachment and she should cultivate virtues of patience and sensitivity. They can find their share of happy together, but it will take patience on her part and some adaptability on his.

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  1. […] Gemini Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility | Ask Oracle – Hi everyone (and especially to Gemini women), I’m a Cancerian male and what is described in the compatibility article seems true. I haven’t dated a Gemini woman … […]

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    ShannyT August 13th, 2015

    This is COMPLETELY TRUE. In my relationship WORD FOR WORD! It’s scary trUE!!

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    Wilmay August 5th, 2015

    hi! Above article or whatever you call it is true for me. Like wow! He’s like that and i’m like that. hahaha! from beginning to the end, mostly describes us and our ongoing relationship. Especially with the “They can find their share of happy together, but it will take patience on her part and some adaptability on his.” I have good patience before and i didn’t know i have a lot of it as he found we and as we go along in a relationship together, our relationship right now have been testing my patience “as in to the highest level”. While him?he really need to adapt patience on his part because he is quite an impatient one. hahaha! There were moments before that kept on waiting for me for hours until i get back from my work, and yes, he waited but he is mad too sometimes..not to me, but to my schedules at work and at school. hahaha. I miss him so much. With this, it’s true “He is the first person who ever shows his lady love, true passion and makes her feel like walking on air.” . I just love him so much for just the way he is. 😉 Thank you for this. I enjoyed it and i can’t keep the giddiness in each and every exact words you wrote. 😀

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    Solidusraven August 2nd, 2015

    @KingCrab40
    Met this gemini love first sight lots of romance, kissing, and even though I am in my 30s and she is in her 20s I can handle her very well. She is wanting to take things slower which I am ok too. Beinga male cancer I am willing to work with her. 

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    Meeukee1 July 29th, 2015

    Hello,
    I have met a Cancer male and would like some help.  I’m wondering if I should keep trying to make a connection with him or if I should move on. 
    At first I was very attracted to him, but because he rarely interacted with me, I assumed he wasn’t interested.  I know Geminis are suppose to be moody but there are times I cannot read him.
    Because I am very sensitive, it’s beginning to wear me down.  When he is wonderful, I am the happiest girl in the world!  He’s kind, sophisticate, and open.  But when he is not, he can be hurtful, withdrawn, and avoids answering any questions I may have for him.  I’m not sure if he’s testing me or not, but regardless, I miss the man I first met. 
    Will he ever be upfront with his feelings towards me?  I can take rejection well, mostly because it helps me move forward, but I feel he won’t do that with me.  How can I differentiate if he wants me to stick around or not?  I completely understand if he needs time to figure it out but I’m nervous that I’ll miss my opportunity to be with a great man! 
    In the past, the men I have dated ALWAYS plea for me to give them a 2nd chance.  Since I usually move on, I always wonder if I’ve had missed opportunities to have a relationship.  I can understand that we all make mistakes. 
    I guess I’m curious, but when is a Cancer male completely done with you?
     
     

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    railroadthai April 19th, 2015

    I’m Cancer who had a five year relationship with a Gemini, we have a five year old baby girl together who is a Scorpio. Honestly I love my daughter and wouldn’t had changed anything from the past, but the truth of the matter, it was the worst relationship I ever had. I wished I would had researched the ways of a Gemini from the start but went into the relationship obliviously. All I can say is that I am thankful for the beautiful lil girl we have, but dating a Gemini was a hard lesson learned and a word of advice to both signs, get as far way from each other as possible. Your in for a rough ride if your thinking of getting together.

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    KingCrab40 September 1st, 2014

    I am a cancer male and fell in love with my Gemini woman the moment I saw her. I am meticulous and picky as is she. I am very intelligent with a good job as is he. After our first date,we spend all our time together in bed making love non stop hours and hours on end. We are both in our late 30’s but feel like teenagers when we are together. I feel like i was with her before as do all of our protective mutual friends. We have a natural affinity towards each other and we miss each other everytime we are apart. She is the typical Mrs Independant and I admire that strength about her. She knows what she wants and puts her family first which lines up perfectly for me as these are some my stongest suits. The article mentioned that we may struggle if i try and ground her but actually we are quite the opposite. Other signs of zodiac grounded her and took the wind from beneath her. I will return the wind to her because I want to and never felt anyone deserved to be happy more than her. I tells me I am her everything, I tell her she is my air and together we will conquer all. I love you O-
    Geo

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    FORTUNATE1979.OK February 20th, 2014

    i am cancer guy and i need advise on who and which sign to marry

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    justinb113 August 19th, 2013

    Cancerian male and reading this was like reading my relationship in all honesty.
    Times are good or bad.  When they are bad they are very bad.  Yet give her a few days and no matter how bad something was, she is sorry and feels bad about it.
    The big problem we have is when things are bad I want to fix it right away and she needs space and time.  This makes a bad situation worse.  She understands I’m sensitive but if she snaps she’ll right out tell me she doesn’t care.  She does make friends easily and gets a lot of attention which can be annoying and causes most of the drama with us to be honest. 
    But when things are good they are amazing.  We are best friends, I can tell her anything and easily.  She does so many little things like bring me food so I’m eating properly and tons of little gestures she doesn’t even see as a big deal.
    Gemini woman + Cancer Male = nice people at the end of the day.  She needs her own individual space and time, and I need my reassurance and love but in general the good far outweighs the bad.  Very special lady.

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    BJMoon August 17th, 2013

    Wow, i am doing it, the gemini woman brings a smile to my face evertime i see her. but is this relationship easy? no, is it worth it? yes.You hve to hold on and be there when she needs it but give her some freedom at the same time. i have never opened up to someone like i can do with her, She makes it so easy. When she looks into my eyes, i can easily get lost. But when the times were bad the primal emotions came forth and i had to quickly get myself under control without her knowing the emotional hurricane i was currently in,,,I think she knew anyway but choose to se how i would handle it. I am not her to agree with evrything or disagree. The romance has been the best of my life.

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    naz1207 July 22nd, 2012

    Hi everyone (and especially to Gemini women), 🙂
    I’m a Cancerian male and what is described in the compatibility article seems true.  I haven’t dated a Gemini woman before, but I can say that the best women I have known so far in my life were Gemini’s.  How I get to know these Gemini women occured usually in the workplace.  For the past couple of years that I worked at a few companies, there is at least 1 Gemini woman I have known at each of these companies and each time I meet them, we have so much in common when we discuss topics, what are ‘likes’ and ‘dislikes’ are, etc.  I haven’t worked directly with them (until now) but I usually meet and chat with them at lunch or social events organized by the companies.  I enjoy their company the most and I get the feeling they enjoy my company as well.  It is quite strange.  I promise you that meeting them in the workplace and getting along well with them is purely coincidental.  Upon meeting each of them, I never asked for their birthday or star sign (because they are cheesy pick-up lines, right?); only when their birthdays are announced do I find out that they are Gemini.
    Up until recently, I have never worked with a Gemini woman directly and my meetings with them are purely informal (at lunches and social events).  However, for the past couple of months I have been working with a Gemini who is great. We work well on a professional level and when we have informal conversations at lunch or social events, it is really incredible how much in common we have.  We really enjoy each other’s company.  She can be a bit funny and unpredictable sometimes (which I like), but at the same time, she does display the serious and intelligent side of her. 
    The one common scenario I have with all these women is that my association with them are only limited in the workplace i.e. I don’t meet with them outside of work e.g. meeting them on weekends.  Two reasons why I never dated them is a) I usually don’t date women in the same company I work (it can become awkward if it doesn’t work out with them) and b) even though getting along with Gemini women on a friendship level can be great; I’m not entirely sure how it will work out on a relationship level.  With regards to the current Gemini woman I am working with, she is definitely off limits; because a) we working with each other and b) she is getting married next year (to someone else).  Now, I admit that the Gemini women I have known previously I have had a small crush on, but I never realy made a move on them (because of the reasons above).  Also, I have also lost contact with them after I have left these companies.  With regards to the current Gemini I am working with, I promise that I have never made any move on her. 🙂  However, I admit that, if we weren’t working in the same company and that she is single and not dating, I might have asked her on a date.
    Even though I am a Cancerian man,  I don’t have the natural tendencies of being clingy or jealous like the typical Cancer (although I can be moody sometimes :)).  I have also come to understand that Gemini women do need their space sometimes, and that they do not like to be smothered all the time, and I don’t have any problems with that. 
    Do any of you have any advice for me on dating Gemini women, in case I do get lucky and meet that special Gemini person? 🙂
    Thanks and apologies for the long comment.  Again, I think Gemini women are awesome. 🙂
     

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    Cori12 June 30th, 2012

    This is so crazily true! My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, and I being a Gemini know I have put him through some tough times. I was 16 when we started dating and had the constant feeling that I wanted to experience more with my dating life, even though I loved him. One second I’d want to marry him and the next I was ready to break it off. After a while of that he still wasn’t willing to  let me go, and I am so thankful for that! 
    Even though he knows I’m crazy and change my mind about everything and my ideas don’t always make sense, he always listens and encourages me to do what I need to to make myself happy. He really is the light in my life, and we’re constantly making each other laugh so hard!! He’s kind of a serious guy but when we’re together he’s so goofy and my day is brightened just by his voice, I truly hope everyone has a love experience like mine, it is truly like no other. 🙂

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    Latoya February 18th, 2012

    I’me a Gemini female in love with a Cancer guy for over 16yrs, snce the first time I met him. I must admit the first time we saw each other I he was involve with another female and I do kinda feel bad for that. But I culd not resist. I had butterflies in my stomach from the first time I ever saw him and everytime I hear his voice, see him or read his messages since.
    He is amazing……I have never felt this way for another man and as long since I have met him. He never noticed me at first and when he did I was never sure of what he thoug of me. He was my first and even after many bf in between he has also been my #1 earthly choice.
    Can never seem to get him off my mind. Theway he touche me, his voice, his scent, lol…the ball in is throat…..lol, his eyes, his thoughts, his strength, his work ethics. I am just n love with ever aspects of him that I know of so far.
    This the major BUT, we both live on different sides of the world for the past 8 years and although he says he loves me too. I always feel as if he just tells me these things to spare my feelings, cuz he knows that I am head over in love wih him.
    How can I tell if he really loves me?  I mean really love me and is just not tolerting me. I’ve been completely honset with him about my feelings an heseem to be honset with his as well. But till I feel as if there is something more to it. Why cant i get him out of my heart even after all these years and I’ve even moved on to different relationships in between times and a daughter as a result of one of them.
    I know that I have just been babbling on, but my real questions is how do I know that what I’m feeling is love and not just infactuation? How can I tell if he loves me back? If it is infactuation and he doesnt love m and rather like me, how can i finally get over him?
    They say that cancers are clingy, but i think in this case, I am the one that is clingy and loving. He is the wonderer …..I really do need advise. Would really appreciate some feed backs.

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    Chelsea456 January 31st, 2012

    This sounds exactly like me and my boo, I met him 4 years ago in grade 11 and we both hit it off immediately and started dating.  We did have our flaws at first, me being a Gemini felt as though he was a little clingy, but I learned that he was just showing his love for me.  He being a cancer was prone to depression but I got over it and always found new ways to cheer him up in new ways.  4 years later and still going strong; I really couldn’t picture my life without him. 
    P.S. gemini’s you really need to stop your flirtatious nature under control if you really love and want to be with your partner.
    #teamgemini

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    jonnnybravooo September 23rd, 2011

    Sorry about the extra post , I wasnt sure if the first one went through ..

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    jonnnybravooo September 23rd, 2011

    @crissy42o Im sure everything on your “date” will go smoothly , if he does his part .. Find it in your heart to forgive him & have a good time tonight ! & thanks btw , Im not sure she realizes that just yet ..

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    jonnnybravooo September 23rd, 2011

    @crissy42o Im sure everything will go fine , if he does his part . From what your telling me , it seems he does care about you & hopefully he can focus a little more on what you two share in common , instead of your differences .. Have a great time tonight ! lol..& thank you , Im not sure she realizes that just yet .

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    crissy42o September 23rd, 2011

    Jonathan, thanks so much for your reply. I agree that there are a lot of differences between Cancer and Gemini, but at the same time, there are so many similarities. It seems as if my Cancer only focuses on the differences sometimes and forgets all the things we share that are the same.

    I do have some good news though. He has taken his time to think, and asked me out on a “date” (even used the word date when he asked). He has been emailing me a lot to talk about our shared interests (lots of compliments, smiley faces, etc). When I didn’t answer the phone the other night (was in the other room and didn’t hear it), he called back three times. A little worried I might be with someone else perhaps? 🙂

    Now I have to decide if the hurt he has caused me is something that I can forgive or forget. I am a little scared now to let him back in and the trust in our relationship has been damaged. I’m hoping when I express these feelings to him tonight that he will understand and be reassuring towards me. He is not much of a romantic, but I am expecting some sort of proof that he really does care about me and sees a future with me, especially after how cold and cruel he was to me when he broke my heart.

    Good luck to you and your Gem. She is a lucky girl to have a man who loves her so much 🙂

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    jonnnybravooo September 22nd, 2011

    @crissy42o if he thought as if he had no future with you he wouldnt waste his time thinking it over … once a cancer male is hurt, he will have strong unpleasant feelings towards the one who hurt him .. we hold grudges better than most but can forgive once one has recognized their own mistakes & apologize for them .. I am a male cancer btw lol,hope it helped.

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    jonnnybravooo September 22nd, 2011

    @crissy42o Firstly ,Im only 17 . I too happen to be w| a gemini female who gets bored w| just about anything w| rapid succession ..I havent shed a tear in years for anything ,but just this morning I was thinking about my relationship w| this girl & everything I love about her ..the bare thought of us seperating brought tears to my eyes supisingly .. Ive always been a sort of player but whenever I settle down to one girl ive gotten hurt . Somehow I manage to brush it off, but this girl does something to me …If anything is of my concern being in a relationship or not its keeping her happy .. If leaving her to wonder,& taking the worries of my emotions off her shoulders would make her happy , then I would do sos no matter how much it would kill me..however I would have a hard time just letting her go like that..its possible he was doing the best for the both of you . Cancers & geminis are indeed different ,but despite that their good at doing what it takes to satisfy eachother if you both have mutual feelings …
    I pray everything goes accordingly w| both my relationship & yours to come . Just let him know everything your feeling & apologize for anything youve done to hurt him . If he truly loves you , he’ll accept the both of your differences , giving it another go.. try to be considerate of his feelings..youre is world, he can see something in you that he cant see in anyone else .. same applies for you, theres no other sign as passionate as a cancer male is capable of being.he will adapt to you, give him time ..

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    crissy42o September 15th, 2011

    @marketh So glad to hear things are turning around for you. I wish I could say that my Cancer and I are still together and happy and in love, but I can’t. He came to my house last week to end it with me. He was so cold to me. I almost didn’t recognize him. It was as if all the love had drained out of him between the time I had last seen him and the time he showed up at my house to talk. He told me he didn’t see us getting married or having children. He told me we are too different. He completely gutted me and broke my heart into a thousand pieces, then drove away as I cried. Two days before this happened, he told me he loved me more than anyone he has ever loved. Needless to say, I am heartbroken and confused.

    Now we have talked about the issues he has with our relationship, and he wants to take some time to think. He is regretful of how he ended things with me. In the meantime, I am to sit around and wait until he decides if he wants me or not. I am a mess. I love this man with all my heart. He is the best I have ever had. This time I am sitting around waiting for him to decide if I am good enough is killing me. Somehow I feel like if he truly feels there is no future with me, no amount of time or thinking is going to change it. I have never felt so rejected in my life.

    If any Cancer men can tell me, is it normal for you to go cold as ice on someone you love, either to protect your own feelings or to make something easier on yourself? It felt like he was a completely different person. Even his eyes changed colour it seemed like. I didn’t recognize him when he told me these horrible things. I am so heartbroken 🙁

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    allyally August 19th, 2011

    Hi
    I have to address Marketh, but first I wanted to say that this site depicted Gemini quite accurately.

    Back to Marketh’s story, alas I’m afraid it’s just not going to work. I see myself all over that, and she’s really just being a Gemini by being your friend.
    There is not one guy I have ever dated that I cannot call. I can call all of them and they will always be excited to take my calls, but I already know this before I call.
    Additionally, I have never dated a guy that didn’t try to get me back.
    It usually takes about 3 months for me to be bored with a guy, though I rarely ever ‘breakup’, I just pretty much carry on with my life while he gets the coldness.

    There have been a couple of times that my hand has been forced to confront ‘what’s going on’, because he MAKES me do it. It’s hard because we don’t really want to hurt you.
    This is a double edged sword because, even though we now get what we want- relief from the obligation of YOU, while you get nothing basically. Well not all true since we leave you with a ton of memories that you will try to forever recreate

    Of course this is not on purpose, it’s just the way some of us are. After we are bored we really just want to be friends, and the confrontation makes us revert to being who we were when you fell in love, but now thanks to you and your wanting to sort it out, we no longer have to pretend any more…more importantly we no longer have to treat you badly ( when a Gemini treats a guy badly, it is really only an attempt to keep the emotions that you have at bay because we are not feeling you anymore.

    So…all of this that she is doing is quite normal, and the only way for you to find out if it will ever get better, and incidentally the only way for her to know how she truly feels about you is for YOU to be totally aloof with her. You have to act disinterested and go on with you life with another woman. Here’s what this does:

    Even though you may only be pretending to move on, you have to be believable, because if she sees one crack in that veneer she’ll go right back to treating you as the adorable friend that she just loves as a friend
    As weird as this sounds this is the best thing for you, because it helps to prepare you for the inevitable since you will never get her back.

    Anyway, she’s either going to realize that she indeed misses you – quite unlikely as a Gemini is quite idealistic and if you had lived up to her fantasy she wouldn’t be giving you the cold shoulder.
    Usually she has thought long and hard about her decision way before she started to act cold. The coldness came from getting tired of the acting because you have so disappointed her.

    Not to worry she really does like you as a person, but you have somehow killed the romance. She’s already looking to fill that spot with another and as soon as that happens, you will be history, of course until the inevitable breakup and then your phone will ring and you will talk like old times again.

    Most of the times a reunion only works when a Gemini gets much older and wants to settle down- these are the times she will reevaluate and decide which of the ones she shouldn’t have let go, by then you will be married, but not to worry this fantasy is only in her head, because had you been available she would remember why she ditched you in the first place, but don’t think that that will prevent her from calling you.
    with a Gemini be very careful
    I’m early 40’s and never been married, and I’m still wanted by most, but I’m always looking for that elusive sweep me off my feet and keep me in the clouds forever type of relationship.
    I get bored with all the men I meet and I reminisce about the ones I never gave a chance.
    Interestingly the ones that are married I have decided that they are the ones I would have given the chance again if they were only single, while all the available ones I can remember their faults vividly and would never date them again- unless I’m really bored.

    The good thing about Geminis is that they really mean well, they wish you were the one who would fulfill their fantasy, they want you to be perfect because they are, or where they lack they make up for it in charm and in our book, you can’t buy that- really.

    Ok, I did ramble, but this is the first time I have ever commented on one of these forums. I did this to save you Markett- you’ll thank me later.un for your life!

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    garden-lover July 31st, 2011

    @pinkgeminigirl

    UR SOOO RIGHT!!! THANK YOU FOR BEING THERE WHEN I NEEDED YOU!

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    Ask Oracle June 3rd, 2011

    @ghager Desires are blind and they cannot be relied upon for happiness, peace and love. The “wantingness” and “neediness” often blurs our decision making abilities and we end up grabbing nothing.

    Awareness is the keyword.

    Only approach her with a sense of service and respect, in return you should not be expecting any favor from her. All the best 🙂

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    ghager June 2nd, 2011

    I am a cancer, and badly in love with a Gemini girl, we are in same university, but in different departments. when she comes in front of me i keep on staring at her , i cant stop me self. we do have some hi hello through some common friends, and she have caught me staring at several times this is happening since 1.5 yrs. she some times passes smile with a hi! and i think that now she is equally interested.

    but the problem starts here, we both belong to different religions and my family specially parents will never agree on that. That is the only reason i never approached her. I cannot force her to change her religion and cant go against my parents as i love them and dont want to hurt them.

    Even if i take a chance i am not sure that is this relationship going be a successfully one or not.

    she is a very cute, beautiful and innocent girl. and want her badly. 🙁

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    marketh May 31st, 2011

    oh thanks, lulu. glad you are doing well. my gem’s birthday was yesterday, may 30, so I baked her a cake and took it to her before she went to work. she seemed utterly delighted. I have noticed what i feel is her heart softening up a little toward me. she has been quite sweet and it reminds me of how she was. I am truly back to the feelings of utter adoration I had when we were doing well. just knowing what was going on and the answers to all of the questions that were plaguing me has truly set me free and I am more in love with her now than ever before. I have so missed being able to show affection to her when we get together. when I brought her the cake she told me it was the nicest thing anyone had ever done for her and then she gently slid her arm around my back and caressed me for several moments that I wish ccould have lasted forever. she then wrapped her hand around my arm at the elbow and softly ran her fingers over my skin which is one of the things she always did when she was feeling good about me. i was in heaven. i have missed her so much. it almost felt like a kiss was coming on but small steps are fine with me as long as we keep making them. i sang happy birthday to her and she ran and got her camera and had me take a picture of her as she blew out the candles. she even took a picture of me by my the cake (it was my first baking experience:) and insisted on getting one with both of us in it. we got close and i held her camera at arm’s length and immortalized the moment digitally. i was on cloud nine. I am trying to show her by my actions and demeanor that I want to work on things rather than just talking about changing. she has been upbeat and vibrant again and i have been in a good mood from feeding off of her in turn. I feel like we are really enjoying eachothers company again. I still can’t stop thinking of her. I just want to keep being positive and ride this to where it goes. I am trying to show her that the hopeless romantic still lives in me. he just needed to dust off his book of tricks and rise from the rubble that has been covering him slowly over the past few months. the magic is still here. it just needed to be awakened. and our love can still grow out of this ground as long as we both make it fertile together. thank you

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    crissy42o May 30th, 2011

    @marketh – Just want to say that I was really touched by your post. The thing about Gemini women is that we easily fall head over feet into love with someone, and just as easily climb back out of love and walk away unscathed. We also have no problem keeping ex lovers as friends; in fact, we would even prefer that over not speaking to an ex at all, or even worse being enemies. I don’t know your Gemini so I can’t say for sure, but it sounds as if she really has gone off in her own direction. You sound like an amazing man who truly loves her, so it’s really sad for me to think that she might wander for years without ever finding that same kind of devotion that you’ve shown her. I posted above about my Cancer man that I met as a teenager, and I can tell you that even 10 years later, I remember so clearly his loving nature, his care for other peoples’ feelings, his sweetness and his devotion for the people that he loves. These are things that every Gemini wants in a man. Your Gem sounds confused, and I can only hope that she snaps out of it before she loses you forever.

    I wanted to update because the compatibility between my sign and Cancer is something really close to my heart. As I said back in October, I was so afraid of falling in love with my Cancer again, because the last time I did I ended up a bit broken hearted. I sometimes wondered if I would ever be able to get over how much hurt I felt when we were teenagers. As the months have gone by though, I realize now that Mr. Cancer and I are really not the same people we were as kids. Much has changed, but one thing that hasn’t is how much we really like each other friendship-wise, and how compatible we are in relation to our moods, our interests, the way we connect physically as well as mentally, and how damn cute we think the other is 🙂

    Mr. Cancer told me when we made things official about a month ago that he fell in love with me the second we kissed. We kissed in November of last year! I was shocked but then touched that he really wanted to sit on his feelings and weigh them out before presenting them to me. I value that kind of consideration so much. So many people are quick to say they love someone, but it takes an introspective and mature person to realize that feelings can be flighty and love isn’t something you should ever take lightly.

    Okay, rambling now. This was only supposed to be an update! Lol. Cancer + Gemini = <3

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    Ask Oracle May 27th, 2011

    @marketh 😀 Now you are asking the right questions 😉

    My suggestions may sound absurd but I’m telling you the shortest sweetest path to experience and enjoy Love and create lots of happiness.

    I am trying to show you a way where you would not have to “worry” about who she is with and what she does in your absence. At the same time you would enjoy magical moments of being in Love. And since she’s happy with you because it feels so great with you, she would not see anyone else. Why would anyone bargain a diamond with pebbles?

    You need to look at things from a different perspective. A shift in thinking and practicing it is all that’s needed. I can understand it can be difficult and takes some time but worth it!

    The theory is that human body is a complex phenomenon and our experiences greatly depend on thousands of external and internal factors. For e.g. weather, temperature, oxygen, food, healthy body, blood, breath, hormones etc. All these factors are constantly changing and beyond human control 🙂 Think about it for a while.

    Then there is this thing called FEAR which kills Love entirely. I’m telling you to be FEARLESS that’s it. Easiest way is to face them to get rid of them.

    Sit down, relax, recall things that you fear, like she being with someone else. There will be sensations in your body, feel them experience them completely, and you’ll be normal after sometime. Just look, nothing happened, everything is fine. The fears are basically baseless and a false perception of reality. 🙂 Ask for more 😉

    The truth is you can only enjoy with her by being fearless. The fears and worries are the worst enemies. That’s what I meant by “Encourage her in whatever she’s doing”. One can only encourage when there are no fears.

    There is more to it, but one step at a time 🙂

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    marketh May 27th, 2011

    encourage her to see another man? and how am I supposed to do that? that is the most absurd advice you could give me right now. I am just going to have to forget about her because as I look at the situation,I see she isn’t right for me. I can’t be with a flighty soul who I have to worry about leaving me over and over again throughout life. i am afraid hI will never understand her. if she has a need to for multiple men in her life than she can have at it but I wont be one of them. luckily for me she is a woman of faith, who also was influential in inspiring me to that end, and is not promiscuous sexually or else I would be obsessing over who she is with when I am not around. so it sounds as if you are basically telling me to forget about a reconciliation? her paying attention to me means absolutely nothing does it? she would be perfectly fine if I just quit talking to her period wouldn’t she? that is typically how I have handled my past relationships. once they end they may as well have fallen off the earth, but I can’t get over this one.

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    Ask Oracle May 26th, 2011

    @marketh What you wrote above is simply a case of lack of understanding and communication problems. Something that takes a very long time to work upon.

    Best you can do is forgive yourself first and then forgive her for anything and everything. Express your gratitude to her without any demands. Get busy into other things important in life including health, hobbies and career.

    Encourage her in whatever she’s doing, including seeing another man. Can be difficult, but that’s what Love is.

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    marketh May 25th, 2011

    cancer man dating a gemini girl. well, i was. i have to say i knew better than to go into this relationship based on things i have read about the compatibility factor between the two of us, but for a time she proved me wrong and of course my sappy self fell deeply in love and later began entertaining seriously the idea of “as long as we both shall live” for the first time in my life. she told me she did too. oh i guess i should mention that prior to me she had been engaged and about to be married. dresses bought, fully planned, booked, plane tickets bought, and she just decided that she didnt want to be married to this guy. after two years of “love” and ideas of forever?? seriously? tell me i wasnt a fool for thinking i would be the one to quench her thirst for whatever it is these types thirst for. in my case it seemed sudden to me, but as it turns out i was just ignorant and didnt realize i was supposed to maybe get the hint by her cold interactions with me that she had moved from i love you to i don’t love you anymore and i cant be with you and we are done. over the last two months of the relationship i waited for the warm and loving girl i initially fell in love with to resurface. i tell you she really blew me away. loving and tender. sweet. just amazing. she gave me everything i needed and thta is a tall order. i guess maybe she didnt enjoy it. i was so happy she accepted me. in the end as if in an instant she grew cold, bland, and distant which broke my heart. i was thinking she would come out of it and i waited as patiently as i could. my feelings of sadness surrounding her sudden distance and iciness made me begin to question myself, my appearance, my soul, and the feelings of being unloved by this woman whom i had loved and adored with all of my heart prior to her retreat took their toll on my mood and my wellbeing. cancer moods are already hard to understand without any outside events contributing to their bipolar fluctuations. i later got blamed for my mood instability as being a factor. she “never knew what i was going to be like.” there was no way for me to feign happiness and project positivity as my baby withdrew and left a hole in my heart. she told me she just felt as though she couldnt talk to me about things? funny that a great communicator like gemini would fail to communicate. one day i finally asked her what’s goin on? and then the end ensued. all i had to do was open the door for her and she let it flow and it was done. i thought we were taking a step toward working out whatever it was that was troubling her but she was totally unwilling to attempt to take the information we exchanged and the ideas and concerns that went unspoken and try to move on. just try? nope. done. i was amazed that she could just dismiss the past year and ten months of good things and the growth of our bond because of a few waves that developed. rough spots are inevitable. all relationships take work. none are perfect to the bone. i guess i have been in enough relationships to understand how good i had it and she just hasnt. she believes in the ideal situation that only exists in fairytales. or maybe she is just a gemini who is as advertised. unable to commit. if i hadnt asked her what the problem was on that fateful day we probably would still be “together.” i would be sitting there longing for her love to return and she would be sitting there going over her mental list of all the things she couldnt accept in me. once the flood gates were open i learned that she had basically recorded date time and hour of anything i ever did over the course of two years that hurt her feelings. i thought cancers were the sensitive ones that held on to hurt?? she listed things that were indeed quite plausible, and things i agreed and apologized for,and other things i felt quite petty and trivial. it honestly felt as if she just turned into another person out of the blue. i had heard of the supposed unappealing gemini traits of lack of willingness to commit (which was blatantly evidenced right from the jump in the fact that she told me she had broke off an engagement and didn’t regret or have any feelings for the guy she was going to live with forever. hello dummy, run. run. run!) and their fickle and flirtatious nature, and their cold emotions but she tricked me for a bit. we talked about marriage, and she had me on cloud nine. i thought she accepted me but later she listed off everything she just couldnt get past. really upset me. i honestly thought we were just getting things off of our chests and learning what we were each doing wrong or were thought to be doing wrong by the other and that we were going to move on with this new knowledge being that we could be mindful of things that were causing conflict. people can change. we have to. especially when it is something important like love. i am back to fully adoring her again now that i can see and understand all of the things she didnt express to me that i needed to know. i am no longer growing resentful of her because she was drifting away for reasons i had no idea about. i feel as though i am back to where i was when i first fell for her. but now it is too late. and yet she still allows me to visit her. we still talk daily. we text from awakening to bedtime. she takes interest in my life and activities. she just wont show me any romantic affection. i hate it. it is killing me. i want to touch her so badly but i can’t. all the while it is utterly baffling to me that she could just turn everything she was supposedly feeling off. i keep hoping that maybe she is just trying to make me wake up and realize the legitimate wrongs i have perpetrated. well i have. i just regret that she didnt give me a chance to address things and at least attempt to work things out. i have a feeling she is already talking to another guy. she claims not and she is not a liar. i fear what i will do when that day arrives. i won’t be able to continue my “friendship” with her. as it stands, i feel like i havent put closure to this as we still talk and visit and it feels like maybe she is enjoying me again or maybe it is wishfull thinking on my part. i have mourned and cried but the death of the relationship and the ultimate complete separation hasnt happened yet and i cant bear the thought of it. the day when it is really over. when hope dies. when my love for her ends and contempt will seap into my heart. i dont want that. i love her so. here i sit still trying to believe she will let me back in. it seems as though she has no problem throwing everything away. that is something i fail to grasp. is that just a gemini. do i have a chance? she is acting sweet and like her “old self” to me again and she participates in keeping communication open just as much as i do so i am not forcing myself on her. she is so confusing. i even tried ignoring her for a whole 6 hours to see if she would give up but she persisted until i responded. i wish i was strong enough to walk on, but i still love her and it is impossible. any thoughts would be welcome. it has only been a month and i guess since i just wrote a novel about it i am not over it. what does a guy do. is my gemini going to love me again? i miss her so much.

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    Ask Oracle May 19th, 2011

    @missmia (elena)
    While it has been a rough ride for you but lets only talk of things that might help you with this situation and make you feel better.

    To make this work you will now do the exact opposite of what you have doing. For e.g. instead of arguing him and pointing out his mistakes, you will be more appreciative of him, for whatever good qualities he has.

    Instead of “demanding”, you will be more on the “giving” side. Be grateful to him for whatever good things he did for you etc. You are not doing all this for him but for yourself. Hopefully things will sort out.

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    missmia May 16th, 2011

    Can anyone relate to the same situation am goin through

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    missmia May 16th, 2011

    Am a Gemini girl and ex bf was a cancer. At first we were doing great we would always hang around together.Then we had became parents to a lil bby girl.after we had her thats wen he had changed to the max, he would go hang around with the friends,we would argue everyday,he tells me he loves me, he would lie to me but at the end he would tell me the truth.so he broke up with me on mothers day because he said he wanted us to go through the same routine of arguin everyday. I love with him and his parents cause i have no where to go. His family and i came home from the beach thinkin that he wont be home cause his step dad locked the doors wen i seen my ex i seen a hickey on his neck thats wen i realize that he didnt love!:(..he would tell me he does but i realli dnt know wat to believe anymore..are geminis and cancer were meant to be?

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    Trulymadlydeeply May 3rd, 2011

    All i can say is, I’ve loved my Cancer man since I was 16, we parted ways and now nearly 20years later we are seeing each other again – he’s had/has a hold on me that no man has ever had…yes it’s true; the discription is spot on…I am truely hooked by the mystical, sexual, inspiring energy he brings to me. It is true there are times when it has to be his way, then there are times when it’s my way. I think like all realationship there is a give and take and also there is a need for room to just be. Sometimes there is an instant click, this also happens if your both in similar places i.e doing similar things career wise or at least heading in the same direction. Then sometimes there isn’t an instant click, however you are drawn to eachother – sometimes it is what it is, embrace it, love it enjoy when someone is giving you time and energy. Sometimes too many questions are asked and that can be confusing. So to all you Gems & Cancerians, communicate well, show love, enjoy love with eachother and be good to each other (this applys to all stars). Live life, love life!! Forever inlove Gemini.

  38. Madly in love with My Gemini man March 14th, 2011

    It would be such a wonderfull pairing up between cancer adn gemini IF this wanderign minded geminis wont messup!!!

    they always makes us (cancer wait) and they never realise what they are doing to us and come back one day with the dialogue ” only one life ” but they still dont realise nothing and keep playing around. we are just a toy in their hands.

  39. Lavender March 1st, 2011

    I am a Gemini girl in a relationship with a Cancer man and this is so accurate it’s almost scary.

  40. gemchicccc February 20th, 2011

    I’m a young Gemini chick (20’s) dating an older cancer male…..I’m bored. But something about him keeps me around. We have almost nothing in common that I can tell (except a sense of humor), but the physical attraction is strong. It gets irritating sometimes and I just want to do my own thing, but I can’t stop thinking about him. Ugh. I don’t know anymore. Being a gemini can suck so bad sometimes.

  41. Flyer February 17th, 2011

    My boyfriend he is a cancer and i love him dearly. the first time we met we had a connection.but we just had to take baby steps to see how we are going now till this day. i am still shy of telling him how i feel, but he just let me fly.and be myself.

  42. Eacans January 30th, 2011

    Cancer Man I am.

    My first love and girl friend, born on 11th June, Gemini. I was willing to commit to her but deep down knew we did not have a connection. She broke my heart and left me three years down the road. Well Fuck her.

    Anyway, exactly 5 months after the break up. I meet this other girl. We get along amazingly well in our very first week of acquaintance. Guess what, shes born on 11th June. But this one was different. Automatic connection, no need for tuning into her frequency.

    So the conclusion is, fuck astrology. Theres a lot of other factors out there.

  43. Vix January 29th, 2011

    Im a Gemini female and I have known a Cancer male for a good six years. We first met and instantly I was drawn to him. He had a girl then and I didnt think he would like me at all. I didnt try but I would go to places he would go to just to be around him. We became pretty good friends and we could make eachother laugh plus we could talk about anything. Then he told me one night about his feelings towards me but mind you he was still with his girl (that he didnt want to be with in his words). I didnt feel right about it but he kissed me and nothing mattered at that moment. I was stupid and young and one thing led to another but it was amazing. He still wanted wantes me after that but it felt as though it was just sex and he still didnt leave his girl so I left. We always kept in contact sense then and we would always be with someone else at the moment so it was never more then just friends. Finally now 6 years sense we first met we are talking again. Again I am letting my heart fall for him but I have also hurt him in the past too (not on porpose). I only live one life though…right? I know he can trust me to not mess around (never have)plus Im actually a introvert now that Im older and really dont go out. And yes I trust him too. And if I am wrong and he hurts me then it will be one of those many “I told you so” moments my brain tells my heart. The “L” word scares me…but I dont know…maybe I do love him…

  44. Jaik November 29th, 2010

    Just gotta say this, i met a girl named rachel (gemini) and im a cancer.
    well we hit it off fast, fell in love. well as insecure as i am thanks to past relationships i didnt trust her and that fucked alot of things up. but at the same time she would never accept being wrong for example if she said the sky is yellow. in her mind the sky is yellow and no matter what you say, it wont change her mind. and if you tried to show her the sky, she wouldnt look at it. that stubborn. and like the gemini cancerians are very intelegent. so its a bickering match!
    but we broke up. she said “i dont love you anymore.” i said ok, we shouldnt be together bye. but four months later shes coming back. not only that but she wont stop trying, which makes me happy and shows she cares. but what upsets me is that she says ” i love you sooo much and i miss you and i dont know what i had” ect. and well quite frankly im scared of being in a relationship with her again because i feel that she is flirty. not only that but when she wants me is what matters to her, not when i do. we only see eachother when she wants to, and she goes off to social events, mainly without me.
    well she has been swearing that she has changed and that she’ll do anything to be with me. but i feel as though she kinda wants me because she does not have me. and sureeee US CANCERS love to be loved which gemini’s do. but shit dont be selfish.i mean honestly a cancer would always think of his girl. wondering how to please her. but he still has his life to look at too! but A gemini female is self indulged too much. selfish.just as much as we have to put up with you CONSTANTLY WANTING THINGS YOUR WAY(geminis) a Cancer will want it his because in the mind of a cancer A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE EQUAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  45. Indi October 17th, 2010

    I met my cancer man and was instantly swept off my feet its so warm in his arms i feel so safe with him but then he is gone to leave my poor gemini brain to wander i love this man im crazy in love with him but the timing is wrong you see when he opened up i rejected him 🙁 but he also has told me im not the only one but i dont care i love him im scared he is pulling away i will hate to see him go but nomore will i stop him i have to keep my sanity it seems he is never available and he is never around when i really want him to be and there is only so much i can take he has dissapeared again and now i am consumed with him ughhhhhh cant wait until i find someone new but noone seems to be able to catch my attention im still hooked on this cancer man for he is not my own

  46. Lulu October 12th, 2010

    I am a Gemini woman who has known a Cancer man for about 9 years, since we were teenagers. He was the first person who ever showed me true passion and made me feel like I was walking on air. I wrote him poetry and love notes. He could never give me a commitment though, and it seemed like nothing aligned in our lives so that we could be together. He strung me along for years, all the while seeing a multitude of other girls. When I caught wind of this, however, I was quick to forget him. I moved on, although kept a rather distant friendship with him that was mostly casual chat over the internet.

    7 years later (age 23), he contacts me to pour his heart out, apologizing for the way he treated me and feeling remorse for any future relationships that may have been affected by the way he acted. I blew him off. He asked me how he could find a girl just like me, and again I blew him off and continued on in my life.

    Now (age 25), I contacted him for moral support for something, because I knew he would know just what to say, and he has responded with open arms and kind words. I’m scared to fall for him again in case I end up getting hurt. I will come back and update this someday to let you know the outcome. My advice is, be cautious. Cancer men are hard to pin down. They are changeable and easily hurt. But they will also be your best confidants, your oldest friends, the ones who gives you butterflies…

  47. Lolita October 6th, 2010

    Please Geminis and cancer do not mix…Yes the Cancer man has a charm and will make u fall in love but the nonchalantness that a Cancer posesses is ATURN OFF.tHEY ARE ALSO LIARS Male and Female Cancers.They have good hearts and will do anything for u if it benefits them but they are sneaky and just dont mix with Geminis.They are not loyal

  48. vishwas September 19th, 2010

    I am a Cancer boy in relationship with a Gemini girl. We are together since last 4 years. I love her very much. And believe me she is perfect. I dont want to love her by making her feel like she is in prison. I want to give her freedom. But how?? Should i engage myself with some other girls (not sexually). And i m jealous too. And wht abt my emotions?? Should i opt for some exercises. Bcoz i have seen that after doing exercises especially after i run for say half an hour i can somehow control my emotions!! Can anyone help me a bit????

  49. pumpkin September 12th, 2010

    I’m a gemini woman and Ive ben separated from an aries man for about three months and I’ve been having this wierd relationship with this cancer man since then and for some strange reason I think I love him. It was just suppose to be fun and that’s it. you know, sex without committment but it’s turning into something more and I don’t know what todo. I am in love with this aries man, but it;s something about this cancer man that’s diffrient. I don’t like it but I can'[t stop seeing him. i wish i didn’t like him soo much. What’s even wierder is that he’s not even my type. i guess gemini’s and cancers do get along. i have the best of both worlds with my aries man and this cancer man. What the aries man is missing i get from my cancer man and I like this because i can deal with both. But i’m afraid that they are eventually going to see eachother and the meeting won’t be nice. i know sooner or later i will have to make a choice. this i don’t like. i’m just going to play this out until I’ve had my fill and if worst comes to worst I’ll have to let them both go. HERE”S TO THE GOOD TIMES!!!!!!!!

  50. Blanca Caraballo August 18th, 2010

    I can actually relate to all the articles on here… I am a gemini girl and my ex is cancer, and I could honestly say that my relationship with him was one of a kind.. Sex was incredible.. The way he would make me feel and the stuff he woud say to me was unbelievable… I am still in love with him, and at times I crave for him. We have a little boy 2gether, and he says he still loves me, but I can’t be with him. I feel like I am in prison when I’m with him, and I love my freedom, but I love him tooo..

  51. pinkgeminigirl August 9th, 2010

    I cried when my cancer bf brought pastries on our 2nd date and fed me with his hands…3rd date .. fruit salad ….1st date.. banana split! the first kiss was intoxicating… never felt so much warmth before..its been 5 years.. i have made so many stupid mistakes and he keeps forgiving me, i love him to death…I see a mother in him! so caring and protective and why would I mind all that attention? yes a bit too much estrogen for a man that he has does make me a bit nervous at times…but its all good when I melt like a little kitten in his arms … he cooks for me, keeps the house clean, and not him but i’d be embarrassed when he massages my shoulders after the movie in the theatre..everyone is watching! but he doesnt care… How i love him!!! 🙂
    ..its been 5 yrs, now we have fully learned whos turn it is to keep quiet…
    they used to say there is a lot of friction in a gemini-cancer match.. but the truth of the matter is… the childlike gemini heart needs nothing but the motherlike cancer warmth …
    Girls!…just dunt use the forbidden words in his dictionary, and you’ll be fine, also never ever make him jealous, you CANNOT wear revealing clothes if he doesnt like it PERIOD!!! he has to know that you are the most loyal person he can ever find on earth! … and for the guys…just think of yourself as a mother and her as a little kid! i know you guys are jealous and always anxious if she will ever cheat or something! but don’t keep saying it…you might scare her and she’d feel you are nailing her to the floor and she might feel suffocated! Remember! Gemini is the Air and the Cancer is the Water, a little wind blows and you guys are full of ripples…disturbed over petty little things (which are not small in your head), so please learn to be forgiving that you already naturally are! shes gonna make childlike mistakes…but she never means to hurt you.. its out of sheer innocence! you cannot believe how much a gemini woman generally is amazed and thrilled by the fact that someone cares about her SO MUCH!!! she wont wanna let you go! dont assume she will figure out why your mood is blue! u have to tell her what bothered you, and when you withdraw in your shell and she knocks from outside and says sorry..dont act too much lol! come out quickly!
    And girls… he really thinks you are the most beautiful girl he ever met! if you can just assure him that he will never ever find you flirting around and cheating on him and that you are exactly the type he likes… then you will have yourself a faithful, family oriented man who is very likely never going to cheat on you! A protector for you, your family, and your kids..What else on earth do you wish for? (Think evolution!) 🙂
    The article, and all the comments from all these beautiful people above are quite true!
    All the best to y’all =)

  52. Jon June 14th, 2010

    Your article is to the tee. It was a shock to look into each others eyes for the first time. It was as if we have known each other all our lives but the duelness of the lovely Gemini is sometimes confusing to us home body Cancers. That it why I searched this site to find more info to keep our relationship positive. Thank you!

  53. BANDULU June 9th, 2010

    When I was 19 I was totally bowled over by a very shy Gemini girl.When she came to visit I spent hours making my place look neat but not too tidy,I waited on the platform at the train station way before her train was due,we always laughed and cuddled and her softness melted every icecubed emotion I had.Everytime we made love it was like the first time,even if it was minutes before-imagine that!
    Then I left,for no reason,we had never argued or squabbled.Now 31 years on,we’re meeting up on a bridge in Paris in 3 days from now.She says she has never loved anyone like me,and I have never been in so deep with any other woman in my life since her.The meeting will lift us so high I don’t think we’ll ever come down.4 days later we’ll part,as we both fear even the meeting,the separation could prove very tearful,but I would not let anything impair our rendevous.Gemini women are like a starfilled summer night sky with one shooting star that only I can see,my Gemini girl.Vertigo is a small word compared to what I feel about her and our mutual ‘Walkabout’ we have wandering through our minds!

  54. Kimmy April 15th, 2010

    As a Gemini women I always felt Cancers were too sensitive and clingy for me, but now that I am older I respect the fact that they are very loyal, family orieneted, and sensitive. Deep down many Gems are the same (even if its latent). We can be especially sensitive when we lack control in a relationship. Dating my Cancer gives me the opportunity to feel as though I have the emotional control, but not to the point where I dont respect my partner. Its a happy balance of power, and yes the sex is perfect, and we compliment each other. Its a great formula for a successful relationship.

  55. Dawn March 17th, 2010

    Im a gemini female and there’s this guy that’s a cancer. I would like to commit to him but I have no idea how he feels about me cause Im too afraid to ask. Though he has displayed some jealousy…He once told me that he’s seeing lots of women and I should be glad Im with him. I immediately gathered my things and left. I think Im more sensitive than he is.

  56. Kathleen March 7th, 2010

    This is all very true. I am a Gemini woman dating a Cancer man and he had me fall in love with him very very quickly. He has an old charm about him where he respects me and treats me like a lady. He makes me feel loved and safe in his arms. He always tells me that I am the best thing that has ever happened to him. We can see us together for a long time and always talk about getting married in a couple of years. I do have sudden ideas and change my mind quickly but because his interests are so much like mine we never argue over what we want to because we almost always are feeling the same way. If I don’t feel like going out and just staying home and relaxing so does he, all that matters is that we are together.

    I want to travel he world, as it is a Gemini trait but so does Mr. Cancer. He wants to see the world with me and we want to share our expriences with eachother.

    He does have mood swings but I will forget whatever he was venting about two minutes later. When I have my mood swings he just stays quite or consoles me, depending what the situation is, and than we will forget and get on withour fun day or our lay low at home and cuddle day. I think we compliment each other and because we both have mood swings we know how to deal with eachtoher and when we are angry it wont last long at all.

  57. bobby March 2nd, 2010

    i am a gemini girl and my mans a cancer, we are 2 peas in a pod, this information is pretty much spot on and i am absolutely gob smacked at the accuracy of this.

  58. Julie February 19th, 2010

    OMG. My ex-boyfriend is a Cancer and he made me fall absolutely in love with him. However, it was the most pathetic relationship I think I have ever been in. We fault a lot and he took a lot of the things I said to heart. I care about him and I hope that he will be happy, but I am NEVER dating a Cancer again.

  59. Nye January 21st, 2010

    Ive been dating a cancer man on again and off again. Now I really see what our issues are. He wants me to do things on HIS time and Gemini women do not do that. We must wander and feel like we’re able to go when we need to go. And by “go” I’m not talking about the relationship. I’m talking about social events..etc. He couldn’t understand that and I’m not that great about feelings but this explains why he keeps coming back and why I don’t stay around.Even though I miss him and love him. I’m done with him for good. I can’t let anyone take away my freedom.

  60. Sarah January 21st, 2010

    Oh, and I’ve seen that chivalry thing with him too! He pours me wine at work dinners, lets me walk ahead of him, and is just generally sweet and considerate. It definitely makes me act like a lady!

  61. Sarah January 21st, 2010

    I’m a Gemini in love with a Cancer man (that I can’t have), but I know it’s mutual. There’s something really magical about our connection; I feel almost hypnotized by it. We make each other laugh whenever we’re around each other. And beyond that, I feel weirdly tuned into him. Sometimes I’ll get these flashes of knowing what he’s thinking, or that he’s listening to every word I’m saying to someone else, while he’s engaged in conversation with another person. Magical, indeed.

  62. Cancerman January 13th, 2010

    I’m a Cancer Man, and my Woman is a Geminibird. The sex is amazing. We both cry and cuddle each other. And sometimes she leaves me at the middle of the night to wander the streets while I scream out of the window calling Gemini!!! GEMINI!!! Come back!!

    But seriously, we’re not all big pussies like Hari Ashok Banerjee. Seriously! The love making is great. We both compliment each others virtues and faults wonderfully and I have learned to adapt to her ways as she has mine. <3 Gemini!

  63. Hari Ashok Banerjee January 7th, 2010

    I am a cancerian Guy and hv fallen in love with the gemini Girl.Iam unable to find alternative than her,she seems to me the most beautiful woman in this world.At the beginging she agree nowshe denied .But I don’t want to give up she meant everything to me.I agree with whatever you it is said in your writing and I am deeply influenced by our both relation.Now She lead everything,at the beginging I was aooried but now i hv compromised everything but can compromise to give her up.She know it very well.

  64. cher August 26th, 2009

    my experience with cancer (crab) was interesting. but i was bored with all the dramatics in bed and emotions. im still not sure if he is gay or straight. too much estrogen for a man!

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