Taurus Man and Sagittarius Woman Love Compatibility

When the Taurus and the Sagittarius associate with each other in a love relationship, they make a rather odd combination of Earth and Fire. The connection between these two of may seem a bit unusual, due to vastly different styles and needs in love, but understanding and compromise can make it work.

A Taurus man is a highly private individual who is usually relaxed and even-kneeled, except for the cases when his patience is tested and then his fury is definitely something unhealthy to be witnessed. He knows how to work hard toward a goal with tireless dedication, and only requires a minimal amount of recognition from others to carry onward. In fact he is a deeply grounded person who does not appreciate interlopers in both work and relationships. In a love relationship, loyalty and commitment are absolutely essential for him to feel happy and secure with his lady fair.

Open-minded, free-spirited, and vivacious, she is interested in adventuring and searching out new philosophies in her life. Her passion and zest for experiencing new things might result is a bit of reckless behavior that can get her in trouble from time to time. But she is incurably optimistic and has an amazing ability to come out of difficult, trying situations in a short period of time. She rarely has a hint of malice to her and speaks out her mind in such a way that can make her come off as insensitive. Romance and frills are not exactly what she seeks but in a relationship she proves to be a responsible and committed partner.

A Sagittarius woman is drawn into a relationship if it seems to be exciting new adventure for her and she feels that there is a great capacity for deep companionship with a man, and definitely the Taurus man provides her with both specially if they already share a good bond of friendship. She makes a very frank and open minded partner for him. She always proves to be a great company and support in all the things and more prominently when they are outdoor tasks. She deeply admires and enjoys the reliability and stability of him but sometimes her flakiness can really get under his skin. She may also have to face his stubbornness and even his fiery temper if she does not give proper attention to household stuff.

A Taurus man, who is practical and ultimately a very safe choice for a Sagittarius woman may not appreciate her appetite for adventure, but he is someone who sincerely enjoys her company and is always an admirer of her honesty. He provides her with best love in its raw form and loads of care to keep her safe from all the worries and rough patches of life. Usually she enjoys it but sometimes she feels very much bounded and caged. On the other hand, being brutally honest about her thoughts, she gives him a sense of relief in being true to him but her words do not always ring true when it comes to promises and obligations and this can upset him in a long term relationship.

As the Fire gives its warmth to the cold Earth, a soft fragrance of love, fumes up from its core, filling the life of Taurus man and Sagittarius woman with pleasant attar of affection and togetherness. With due course of time and their ever increasing understanding, she delicately steps into the premises of their home and starts enjoying her homely adventures, while he becomes more open and learns to enjoy the world beyond his home limits with his beautiful Sagittarius lady. While he provides her with peace of life and mind, she makes him more rejoicing. They understand each others’ needs well and flourish a more promising relationship then even imagined, holding their hands to never give up or break up.

The sexual life of Taurus man and Sagittarius woman is usually an exciting one as these two sincerely focus on and enjoy the purely physical side of sex. But beyond that they both have quite a different approach to love making. He views physical intimacy as a way for him to connect with his lover on a deeper level and deepen their emotional connection while she looks at making love to her man as something that is genuinely fun part of their relationship. She is passionate and sincerely enthusiastic, but does not get bogged down with being overly sentimental. She is more likely to view sex as something casual that does not have to go along with a relationship, while he is less likely than other men to pursue meaningless sex. But once they are actually with each other both in physical and emotional awareness, they make their sexual oneness such a pleasant experience that gives them long lasting closeness and connects them in an even more beautiful relationship. She uses her fingers to softly, and equally gently, finger, caress, and tickle his body. They both feel terribly silly and vulnerable, yet also very good, very aroused. It’s important to note that these baseless fears often disrupt them from achieving a wonderful loving experience.

The relationship of the Taurus man and Sagittarius woman is not so smooth. She likes it outside, but he likes it inside. She looks on the bright side while he looks on the not-so-bright side. She wants to have lots of fun, but he cares more about being productive. While these two may be able to bring out new, undiscovered sides of each other, they simply do not have enough in common to make it likely for this to last. She is fiercely independent and ends a romance as quickly as it started if she suspects she is stifled or repressed. He might find himself growing jealous and suspicious if she spends too much time away from home. The only way this pair can work is if he learns to loosen up and enjoy venturing into new and uncharted territories and she learns to give some more devotion to home and family.

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Malee (@Malee) : August 21st, 2009

This is so true in every single way! I have a taurus boyfriend and I’m a Sagittarius =)

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Brittiany (@Brittiany) : January 9th, 2010

I can not stop laughing!!! this is exactly like me and my boyfriend im a sag and hes a taurus

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JOAN ADAMS (@JOAN ADAMS) : January 18th, 2010

im sag hes taurus he keeps me grounded in a good way,yes we argue ,move on quikly, sex is fantastic,hes so manly and strong ,i love the smell of his skin,he thinks i live in a fairyworld ,might be right dont care whatever our differences are I LOVE HIM SO MUCH IT SCARES ME ,SO YOUR WORDS ARE SO TRUE

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HUNH? (@HUNH?) : January 22nd, 2010

This says your relationship is most likely not to last, but I know of a couple where the wife is a sag and the hus is a tau and they are strong together!!???

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bebe (@bebe) : February 10th, 2010

hey that’s like me and my ex! i’m sag and he’s a taurus guy =) i loved him to death cos he gives me this sense of security when we’re physically together. HOWEVER, when we’re apart, i simply could not stand the way he communicates, seemingly distant and his words couldn’t seem to make me feel happy and loved :(

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Belle (@Belle) : April 14th, 2010

Doesn’t work. Sag female, 6 failed Taurus attempts, stifling, jelous, controlling, insecure, explosive tempers, judgemental homebodies. Only += Great intimacy.

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Aditi (@Aditi) : April 30th, 2010

M hvin mad & crazy Lover with Taurus sign & I think if the love is sincere , It’s a great combination ….

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John D. (@John D.) : May 5th, 2010

Hey “Belle:”

The only constant in your “6 failed Taurus attempts” is YOU. You better start taking a good look at yourself, because I’m thinking the problem may lie closer to home.

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Tini (@Tini) : August 22nd, 2010

I’m talking to a Tarus guy I’m a Sag woman && he is remarkable… the only thing tht they may have right is the sex… we haven’t been talking long so I hope it doesn’t turn out like this… but he is just as free spirited as me… it might b how their personality is which determines whether your relationship will work or not… <3

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Milan (@Milan) : September 10th, 2010

I’m a Sagittaruis woman and I like my Taurus Men. We really mix good with each other. I run from committment but I will change my ways for him. Am I moving to fast?

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robert (@robert) : September 23rd, 2010

Im a Taurus Man and I must say that it was very interesting reading the comments The Sag Woman have about the taurus male is great :)It gives me hope :)

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Ron (@Ron) : September 28th, 2010

I’m a 46 year old male Taurus in love with a 49 yr old Sag woman & we’ve been going strong for 5 years now. I left my long time Aquarius girlfriend for her, which was supposed to be my perfect match. True on describing the Sag lady to a tee except she is more of a homebody & prefers to be in the kitchen, with many old fashioned values I love. Sex has always been a fantasy, always fun & experimental for us both. My opinion is it depends a lot on the age of the person. We’re older & maybe more in relaxed moods now. Maybe if we had met 20 yrs ago things may have been diff since I was a short fuse & she was less committed. This time I was the committment phobe & she wasn’t ready to marry but we did, so I wouldn’t put a lot of emphasis on this. It’s all about chemistry.

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Simone (@Simone) : October 9th, 2010

I wish I would’ve looked into this six years ago. I am in the process of ending a relationship with a Taurus. He moves too slow, thinks too slow, has no morals but thinks he does. He’s content to sit in front of the T.V. all night long. Yet when we first met he was always down for the ride. Go figure.

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Sarah (@Sarah) : October 31st, 2010

I’m a 20 year old Sag gal who loves a 23 year old Taurus. We’ve been together for almost two years now and we’ve learned a lot from each other. He’s wonderful at giving me freedom and space but still keeps me close to his heart. I’ve learned to control my free-range emotions and nomadic ways and embrace some of his needs for consistancy. I’m open about everything; I have to ask him to find anything out. The key is that we’ve discovered and grown to appreciate our differences (we’re are opposites after all) and how to overcome our frustrations with them. I think that the compatability horoscopes get a bad rap. The match can work – it just takes the right two people to work. And its pretty great when it does.

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Laiza (@Laiza) : December 10th, 2010

yeah, that’s true.. I’m a Taurus and my friend is a Sag. even sometimes I can understand Him, but still he’s been a good Companion as well.

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Sagittarius Nerd. (@Sagittarius Nerd.) : December 13th, 2010

I’m a 16 year old sag who’s just gotten into a relationship with a Taurus the same age. This reads us both very well and all the things that might ruin the relationship are irrelevant due to our personalities. We have an extreme a lot in common and want the same kind of future life. He also shares my fun loving personality and likes to venture out with me to a certain extent. He is also more positive due to the way he thinks.

Also although I’m a Sag who loves my freedom I personally have a fear of being alone and although I’m all for women’s rights I happen to want to be a housewife so I think we’ll last.

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Noname (@Noname) : January 3rd, 2011

I am a sag and my bf is a taurus (we are in early 30′s) and we are absolutely perfect for eachother. We balance eachother out and fit together like a puzzle. I am very free spirited and he is grounded in his thoughts. He is my rock and I love his stability, that is something I think all sags NEED. He doesn’t say much but I say enough for both of us, lol. I know when he does finally say something sweet or meaningful, he MEANS it. We give eachother plenty of space and thats probably one of the reasons our relationship works so well. We have trust and respect towards eachother. He doesn’t have any jealously issues, but that could be b/c he is mature and I don’t give him reasons to be jealous. This is by far the best relationship I’ve ever been in (and we are past the “first 3 months of bliss” phase) and I’ve dated enough to know. My only complaint is that he isn’t the greatest communicator and often holds things in. But, we are working on it. :)

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resj0718 (@resj0718) : January 13th, 2011

Sag Woman, Taurus Man. Ohhh the sex if transcendent.

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in suspense (@in suspense) : February 8th, 2011

Ok I met a Taurus on a dating site and it was explosives going off when we met in person.He was absolutely gorgeous.He has the most cutest country accent,he is short and I dont like short men,and very arrogant! I loved all of it he was built and he drives an import and so do I (so I was laughing because I guess he thought he was going to impress me) His body even covered up was amazing and he had beautiful eyes.I was so attracted to him that I refused to hug him.What I love about him is that he has a layer of country and family oriented ways but he has no children.He answers very short and simple and he doesnt talk much but when he does he is considerate and affectionate.The sex is a scream the whole session NEVER HAD THAT! He kisses and caresses and now I am trying to be patient and just see.But I am excited .We’ll see what happens.

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babyjmiller23 (@babyjmiller23) : February 16th, 2011

This is somewhat right, but sometimes, i feel my husband and i switch personality assets on this, lol!

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Astrobuff (@Astrobuff) : March 8th, 2011

ive noticed that more evolved sags-the ones who have learned tact and how to lay their words like gold and not blunt, broken glass- have better chances of impressing a Taurus. And the Taurus who values creativity and can live vicariously through the optimistic sag has better chances of catching the eye of the sag. Remember, fire can’t exist without the grounding earth: it provides the ions that fire needs to burn.

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Cristian (@Cristian) : March 30th, 2011

I’m 24, Taurus man. I have 5 very good friends. 3 of them are Sags. One of them is a woman who’s been my friend for the past 8 years. We met from time to time, even with 1 year brake. We started as friends but then tried a short relationship for 2 weeks or so. But I’m very sensitive and she was to rigid back then, cruel. I got hurt. We never tried anything, but occasionally we both enjoy flirting with each other. We play very nice, like when we go out I tell her: “you are beautiful, can I kiss you” … she smiles. But I feel she doesn’t want too. Because last time she did I didn’t wanted to see her for a very long time. She hurt me that bad. But I was kinda of emo back then. I matured quite a bit, and her quirks and emotional moods don’t scare me, I actually love them. When she is like that I just hug her and kiss her. But we are friends, lol. We meet like every 2-4 weeks, and every time she walks home happier than she came. She always tells me: “I’m so glad we met, I feel so happy now”. Anyway we are great friends, and probably we will be more then that. But I give her space, last thing I want to do is put her in a cage. We communicate deeply and things are great. I love Sags women, they are so delicate and elegant and feminine and stuff. I’m a fire personality myself also ! but when I’m near her I become this balanced oak tree for her. I don’t know, she get me that way, and I love being an oak tree for her. This horoscope is sort of accurate. It took years to make ours work, and I know sex is fantastic, haha I told her, and she knows it also

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thoko (@thoko) : March 31st, 2011

Very true, spot on, my man is a taurus and me a sag. This really made me laugh.

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miss k (@miss-k) : April 21st, 2011
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wow 3 months ago i met this taurus man we met through a friend,i must say all i read here is true its like am reading about him and i, am hoping i can understand him a lil better now.

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Brown Sugar (@natyler) : April 26th, 2011
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I’m a sag.and i use to date a sag.it didn’t work out the relastionship and some good and ofcouse some bad but,i just didn’t work out .Now i’m dating a taurus man he is 32 as of today lol and i’m 26 when we meet it was a instant connection like i have experienced ,i’m more of the women that is hard to get, i never show a man my interest that day that i meet my boy friend i counld’nt had the interest as much as i tried ….lol anyways he is the type that is very arrogant!and that dew me more to him …..cute…. was’nt to much so he manage to give me my space it gets to teh point that i want to see him and i love my space i tend to get board easly but never is it a dull moment with use he is sooo funny and entertaining i love it and take about being on a intellectual level great and the SEX ****indescribable****** the BEST ever the vibes that we have its as though were at one with one another ….lmbo….its true ….

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BRIANA (@BRIANA349) : August 30th, 2011
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THIS IS SO TRUE I BEEN MARRIED TO A TAURUS I AM A SAG FOR 13 YEARS NOW HE LIKES TO STAY HOME ON HIS DAYS OFF FROM WORK AND I LOVE THE OUTDOORS WE BUMP HEADS ALL THE TIME IS LIKE I AM PUSHING HIM TO DO SOMETHING HE DON’T WANT TO DO HE IS A GOOD MEN THATS WHY I STAY BUT IS BORING AT TIMES NOT TO HAVE A PARTNER THAT ENJOY THE SAME WHAT U THINK

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susan (@optisag) : May 23rd, 2012
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i am a sag, nov 28, a bit older;) but i do enjoy younger men – out of the many guys i have MET (not dated or slept with) over the past few years seems the 2 i have really fallen for are both taurus – they are both gorgeous and sensitive and sweet, all traits that i really fall for – that is why i logged on here to have a look at our compatibility…

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heath (@bigguy) : July 9th, 2012
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I am a taurus man, I recently started seeing a sag woman, Ive known her forever!! and I honestly never seen this relationship ever happening. Now that it has, Its nothing but love!! This page has it to a tee though. Its like we cant keep our hands off each other! unlike other taurus though, I dont watch tv.. LOL, I Enjoy going out and doing things, and appreciate nature… (outdoors) Im not so immature to get jealus without cause though.. But can if givin a reason to be i guess.. We both have two kids, And it seems so far, im the one trying to get her out to do things!! I dont get into camping and fishing and stuff, but i love sports.. and really enjoy mma. She hasnt got to see my temper though.. I am good at holding it in.. but its true we do have a temper thats unhealthy even to witness!! I do love her though!! And I keep her safe.. thats how i won her over i think.. and im grounded, she loves im always calm and relaxed, she says she loves how i take my time. If her words are true, my loyalty is hers FOREVER!! 

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Paula (@PLandry) : July 28th, 2012
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I fell deeply in love with a taurus man 10 years ago.  I wish, to this day, that I had never ended the relationship because of silly actions.  I have been married to an aries man and the sex was horrible.  My feelings have never and will never die for the taurus.  It was the best sex I ever had.  He was very intimate, affectionate, and caring.  He always did whatever it took to please me mentally, emotionally, and sexually.  Our bodies felt as one.  I really think that taurus is the perfect match for sags.  The leos and aries just didn’t work for me.  They always loved me so much more than I loved them.  They did make good providers, but the sex was bland.  Sex with a taurus is to die for!

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Steph (@StephyBear91) : September 21st, 2012
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@Malee How do you guys make it work though? My guy is a taurus and I’m a saggie girl, we have a connection but we do have our differences as well, how do you and your partner work out in the long run?

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Steph (@StephyBear91) : September 21st, 2012
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@Tini I too have just started talking to a Taurus Man, I am a sagittarian gal, It’s a little weird though like we connect in the sence of wanting to be together, both loving affection and romance but we do have a few differences though…. We both want it to work out in the long run but because we have not met each other yet, we have doubts it might not work out once we see each other and spend time together….. 

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Steph (@StephyBear91) : September 21st, 2012
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@Ron Im like your lady too Ron, I’m more of a homebody, yes im free spirited but i like my security, i have insecurities too

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Eulalahpink (@Eulalahpink) : May 1st, 2013
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I’m a Nov.24 Sag Venus in Libra and I absolutely fell in love with my childhood friend May 3 Taurus venus in Taurus.  We linked back up on Facebook and even though I was in a relationship I left it to be with him, but he disappeared after he told me he was going to be there to support me and he wasn’t going anywhere.  He was very convincing and reassuring that he was supportive of me and my decision.  His energy was perfect for me, very grounding and assertive, yet gentle and sensual.  He would have been a perfect match for me, I have never felt such chemistry in my life and doubt that I ever will again.  I was absolutely head over hills for him.  Come to find out he was pursuing a Oct. 18 Libra that we went to school with and they ended up going together.  I swear he was the one for me and now he wants me back after I guess being undecided or playing mind games.  (I think a little of both) He realizes now how much I loved him as a friend and valued our friendship prior to me wanting him in a relationship, and he feels bad knowing that I would have excepted and loved him for him.  Oh well I guess time will tell what the future holds as of right now I am pissed to the highest level of pissivity.  Word of advice once a Sag has given you their all and you screw them over that is IT!!  Absolutely, totally turned off by the whole situation even though I believe he was my soul mate and still care for him dearly.  Aside from how the situation went down I am turned off completely by knowing who he has smashed recently.  I don’t want to know who’s leftovers I’m getting. Ew!

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Sage Von awesome (@Sage-Von-awesome) : August 11th, 2013
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I’m a Sagittarius girl who is dating a Taurus man. He is my other half and we are super happy. I’m not the super adventurous type but I still love to travel. He is actually more adventurous than I am. We’ve been friends for three years and I’ve liked him forever. He finaly had the guys to ask me out about four months ago. I thought he was joking but it turns out he has been wanting to ask me out for a few years. All my friends think that we are a weird couple but we are evidently cute together. His sister died the year we met , he is kind of depresse even today. I do my best to make him smile, but sometimes I get fed up. My best friend is always calling to check in on us, some might say that she is kind of nosy. My bf fits his sign to a T. He is sweet and thoughtfull and I love him!
 

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Kid (@Kidnotkidbutkid) : September 22nd, 2013
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It’s true, sincere, faithful & greatest love. And it can last until the end of the world :> (i’m a female Sag and i have experienced it)

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Kid (@Kidnotkidbutkid) : September 22nd, 2013
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In my case, the Taurus didn’t/ couldn’t hold my hand.. but i still feel like i will not love anyone else but him/ someone like him. 5 years passed and i am likely to be forever alone LOL it’s not so scary. Living is not just for finding a match :> 

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Pollyanna (@Pleiades) : January 18th, 2014
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Fellow Sag-females…I warn you… DON’T do it!
I have dated three Taurus men, and it has never worked out, mainly because they are so bad at communicating their true feelings. The last of the three was my longest-term relationship and it was the worst break-up I have had to date. The main reason being is that my Taurus-ex went into silent mode when tragedy struck our relationship. Taurus are not good with dealing with emotions (and the drama that a Sag woman can often provide) and tend to run-away from any form of confrontation… this is not necessarily good for a Sag woman who can be a bit of a drama-queen but always laughs afterwards. Let me tell you something now, your Taurus man will not be laughing!
(Before I continue I should say another Sag female has commented on having several relationships with Taurus men too and these have not worked out. In turn someone has commented that she should change her ways as the problem lies with her (not the Taurus men)…this is NOT true! This proves my point well, these two signs are VERY incompatible, no matter how good it looks at the beginning…) 
 
At the beginning it was so exciting with my Taurus man, he made me feel special, he was romantic and charming and he could not have been more attentive (something us Sag girls LOVE!) He also loved showing me off (like a trophy-something a previous Taurus boyfriend liked to do too!) I was included in everything (like nights out with the lads) and he was keen for me to meet his family too…He loved my natural Sag-honesty too, and how it made everyone surprised and amused…(it was sad that many years on it would be something that he would grow to despise me for and feel resentful about…) My Taurus ex also loved the fact that I was a great conversationalist. I loved chatting away and it was something that initially he admired in me. Towards the end of our relationship I think he was resentful that I was so outspoken in my ways…well, what did he expect? He was dating a Sagittarian woman after all!!
 
Less than a year on in our relationship, I noticed that the private Taurus man (the one away from his friends) was a bit of a little boy. He sulked and got depressed easily, was pessimistic and worried constantly. Worst still the women in his life (like his mum and sister) treated him like a lost little child that needed looking after (a bit pathetic when he was a 32 year-old-man)…I was surprised and found this not only emotionally draining but stifiling. Sag women are naturally optimistic with a zest for life and this man managed to wear me down…
 
A few years on we had gone through many peaks and troughs in our relationship. The most common thing I noticed was emotionally we were never in synchrony. When I was feeling happy, he was low and vice versa. None the less, I had grown used to the stability that my Taurus man provided and sacrificed having to hear his criticism towards my personality, to try and see the positive in our relationship- another thing that he was far less inclined to do. I found him to be quite selfish in his ways. If something suited him (only) he was more than happy to go off and do what he wanted regardless of how it affected me and how I felt. I started to question the longetivity of our relationship, but we did love each other.
 
I stayed on with my Taurus man as I always thought that despite our problems he would provide the future stability that I needed. I never realised how committment-phobic this man really was and how far he would go to (in terms of making statements) to avoid admitting or confronting his true feelings. An avoidance of truth is so so bad for an honest Sag woman, who needs this in all her relationships, to trust individuals and be happy.
My Taurus man went as far as proposing to me after we had been together for 5 years, but that’s when things suddenly turned. Not long after being engaged, he started putting obstacles in our relationship to deliberately start arguments…one time he announced in front of our friends and family that the wedding was on hold! (without even telling me anything first!) When my fiery personality rose to the bait of these type of actions (and in later circumstances finally submitted to pure and utter frustration) he used my outbursts of emotion to attack my personality and call me ‘unreasonable’.
I was one very sad, and confused Sagittarius woman. I felt like I had given him my all, and he had broken my heart in such a callous, and unecessarily cold way. Once he had broken my trust by doing this, I could never warm towards him again. The relationship had come to a dead-end.
The sad truth was he was too scared to admit the relationship was over (from his point of view) a long time ago. I have noticed this from previous relationships with Taurus men- they can be very cowardly. You would never know it from the outset, but when a situation is not agreeable to them they don’t have courage or integrity to admit this and face up to a situation (like a Gemini or Aries man would) they will take the easy route out and escape, even if this means turning round and blaming the other person for anything, so that they look like the victim and the other person looks like the bad person. They will also never ever admit to this (even when caught out by others) as they are proud and extremely stubborn. (I say this as even the friends and family of my Taurus-ex could see what he had done and sympathised with me, but he continued to try and make out the relationship had gone to pieces because of my nature).
 
To summarise, I don’t think (unless either the Sagittarius woman or Taurus man- has a strong ascedent sign or is born on a cusp) that this is an astrological combination that works at all.
I walked away from my relationship with my Taurus-ex and I am so happy I did. My life has been a lot better and I have learnt (after being constantly told how much of an annoying person I was) that it wasn’t all my fault, I was just being me (a very typical Sagittarian gal, who is open, honest and has ambitions in life).
Sag women are strong minded and very independent so I never took kindly to being criticised for not being more domesticated or being told I should be more passive.
For Sag women that find themselves in a relationship with a bossy, dominating Taurus man- I offer one piece of advice… get out whilst you can.
For Sag women who are thinking of dating a Taurus man I say steer well clear. You will only end up wasting your time and will get hurt.
Taurus men are appealing. They look like god’s gift (in the sense that they are calming, masculine and down-to-earth) and at the beginning, they are real charmers and can say and do all the right things, but when a Taurus man gets fedup of who you are (a Sag women who has a wonderful larger-than-life personality) he will be worn down by your energy, and will find you irritating, worst still he won’t be man enough to admit it. Taurus men are much better off with less spritely women. Capricorns and Scorpio women suit them well.
This is my advice to all Sag women who are at a crossroads with their Taurus men. Really think about it. If you are sacrificing more of your individuality than you should…AND if he doesn’t see it or appreciate it, don’t just settle as you think he is a safe bet…get out!  I hope my story has helped you.     

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(@) : February 27th, 2014
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I’d like to say that I’ve known a Taurus man for over 3 years now. In many way we have been very compatible especially with regard to the outdoors.  He is unfortunately a passive man who has spent his life trying to be pleasing to all, with an underdeveloped sense of self, and his family have enjoyed mothering him and he has enjoyed letting them do things for him (which he could have done himself).
We have had some amazing times together,and he has really felt like my best friend, but over time his passivity with sorting out his life and his inability to see his own lack of survival and strength, has made me lose confidence, as well as respect.  What has made is worse is that the more he pampers and nurtures me, the more irritated I get, as it feels like he is just trying to keep and please me.  We have had many discussions, and he is always statements that he is changing blah blah blah.  
Just give me someone direct, and honest with stimulating conversation please.  I can’t do the endless talking about minor details anymore either.  I am going to miss the good stuff we have enjoyed, and there has been lots of it,  but know I can’t sacrifice my individuality and I want my happy, free spirit back again..
I read somewhere that initially they chase you and then you realise they have you eating out of their hand, how true this has been, but it is now in the past. A rollercoaster ride which has now ended, and I feel heartbroken and miss him but relieved at the same time.

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(@) : February 27th, 2014
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PS, one also needs to watch with these charmers as they constantly say what they know you love to hear, and it is easy to just sit back and enjoy it and then suddenly you realise you are in too deep.
When they seem too good to be true, it isn’t true!  My opinion only.

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(@) : February 27th, 2014
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and PS again…
I also wanted to say to Pollyanna, that my taurus man had strong ascendant and moon signs, and I think this contributed to our compatibilities, but much of what you say I agree with.
His form of communication initially was often talking in riddles or talking as if a situation happened but he wasn’t part of it.  I started making him realise this to get to the truth of every convo, and it really got a lot better over time, but by the end of the relationship I was more of a therapist than his partner.  
He really did many considerate, kind, caring things for me and was always very loving, so I ended up feeling guilty about stating things I was uncomfortable with, and eventually I found myself getting angrier and angrier.  He did try and work at his life, but after 3 years I also realised that it was easy as an open, honest person to be strung along by someone who appears to be amazing on the surface but is actually just taking their time to sort out their life, while mine was pretty sorted and I had a lot to offer.
 It became be a game of me leaving and him as I became frustrated, then we’d get back together. Our chemistry and compatibility made it very hard to leave this relationship. It has been the most intimate I have had, and he has also given me insight into myself in new areas, but it has also been the most shaky relationship in terms of not feeling like it had solid foundations.  These guys move slowly, and can keep you believing in them for a long time, but whatever anxieties you feel deep down, listen to them as they are real.  Then decide if you want to be second guessing someone’s thoughts for the rest of your lilfe, as this creates distrust as well as you lose confidence in the person and I found myself losing my sense of joy,happiness and spontaneity.
I have realised more about myself through this – namely, the person I am with can never be passive and lacking in drive, needs a sense of fun and adventure, and his other relationships should reflect him as honest, open and with healthy boundaries.  He also needs to have other friends as mine made me his whole life, and while I still enjoyed my friends – it felt like all my spare time had to be dedicated to him. Financial security is another area I have overlooked, but this definitely adds a lot of pressure to a relationship and I plan to include this in my checklist.
This may sound like a heartless way to look at things, but in life we need to take care of ourselves to be the best person we can to everyone else who is important in our lives. If our careers involve giving and caring for others, we need this strong healthy happy relationship even more!
In my opinion I think as a saggitarian I feel love very deeply, and I am 100% loyal and committed when I am in, but my relationships are a head/heart combination, and if i feel violated in any way, I am able to see how this is going to play out in the future.
I then rationalise the value of the relationship, giving the person a chance, but don’t abuse my good nature as it will eventually come to an end.

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Pollyanna (@Pleiades) : March 9th, 2014
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Hi @ I read your last few posts and could relate to your feelings towards your ex Taurus man, a lot! Many of the things you described were uncannily similar to mine.
The ones that stand out were his ability to make you feel nutured and loved, and the intimacy aspect. I don’t think I’ve ever felt as close or comfortable with someone, and it was cosy and familiar, so it was also very hard for me to walk away from.
On the downside Taurus men are not really gutsy, or terribly ambitious and they are people-pleasers…I found this suffocating on my personality who is always honest about what I think, and I am very ambitious too- something he was not. I also think it is a sign of weakness to live life as a ‘people-pleaser’ as you only get one life, so, you should for the most part put yourself first! Very admirable of Taurus men to do that but after a while it becomes tiresome!
I cannot warn Sagittarian women against this combination enough…I personally tried really hard at it, but at the end of the day, a Taurus man and Sagittarian woman are like chalk and cheese. It just does NOT work! As much as a Sag woman can try to adapt, if she does, she’s just not being true to herself!
Sag girls you are lively and need the mental stimulation…don’t settle just because you find him comforting, (I still have hope I will find another comforting, man in a non-Taurus form!) far better to be alone, happy and in an honest relationship with yourself!
 
Best of luck!

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emster (@emsterthehamster) : April 14th, 2014
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This post truly defines what i have with this guy i recently met. How we met was pure coincidence. Then we met again the following day, apparently we live nearby! And our birthdays fall on the same date but different month. I would say that we are 180 degrees completely opposite of each other. But our differences was the key that sparked our friendship and hopefully someday, something more. I find myself liking him more and more each day as his personality really intrigues me. He’s always so serious in uni, everyone says so, but around me he’s really fun, all smiles and cheerful which made me feel even more special. I believe that the day we met, could be the prologue of something amazing. 
Whatever happens, happens :)

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