Aries Woman and Taurus Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Aries woman and Taurus man have a bumpy road to a cherished relationship due to contrasting personalities.
  • Sexually, Aries woman finds Taurus man's approach ordinary and lacks sensual and imaginative lovemaking.
  • Aries woman can attract Taurus man by providing tenderness, thoughtfulness, and respect.
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Aries is a sign that needs constant excitement and craves for instant gratification in love. It is purely a fire sign with lots of eruptions now and then. While Taurus have a strong sense of commitment and purpose and are usually slow in developing a relationship.

A Taurus man is a strong headed person with all the qualities of head and heart. He is never frilly or dreamily romantic rather he takes relationships practically and seriously. He in love with an Aries woman is deeply affectionate, romantic and sentimental. Though the Aries woman may find him stubborn and possessive, but he is never jealous by nature. He is a true gentleman who always keeps his words and is never unpleasantly aroused. Patience and reliability are just the synonyms of a Taurus male with warmest ways of devotion.

An Aries woman is a very independent woman with lots of things in her mind at a moment. She is an intellectual and sharp lady who stands tall and hates to get overshadowed by anyone. She is determined to take the first step in all the aspects of her life including romance. She is an extremely private lover and cannot handle the pressure of love. She in relationship with a Taurus man is very protective for her lover and is always there to support him in all the aspects of life. The ideals of love shared by Taurus man makes her heart melt and feel so warm.

An Aries woman can bring new excitement to the Taurus man’s dawdling life. She is a totally confident lady who does not stand dominance except in the areas of romance and love. She stands tall in all the problems of life by her Taurus guy’s side giving her support and love to maintain peace in his life. He can find her a bit more extravagant but that can be controlled with due consideration from the Taurus man’s side. Tenderness on the behalf of her can go along way with Taurus man. She just needs to give the right thoughtfulness and respect to him and his feelings because once this man walks away, he never looks back.

A Taurus man can teach an Aries woman a lot from in the area of romantic involvement. Once he falls for her, it takes many moments of hurt and resentment to make him leave her. This gives immense satisfaction and sense of comfort and security to her. The fiery burst of rage of her gets no response from him; in fact he always tries to keep himself and her calm. When she begins to become emotional unstable, he leaves her alone to give her, her own space and then respond with great warmth once she is ready to accept him again with love and care. She is the initiator between the two of them in almost every field. But if she pushes him too hard with negativity she may have to deal with temper erupts of her Taurus man which could be a rage she has never experienced before.

With some efforts to adjust to each other’s differences and personal mannerisms, a Taurus man and an Aries woman can find a rare and very cozy contentment together. This lady needs an enormous amount of freedom which he is able to provide due to the absence of the element of jealousy. On the other hand, if he’s handled gently, with a decent amount of consideration for his own feelings, he sticks by the Aries female he loves through the darkest storms, like a steady rock of solid love. Once their magnetic attraction enhances its excitement and novelty, there could be immense intimacy between the two. In an ideal relationship between the Taurus man and the Aries woman, she provides the ideas and the energy while he provides the stability and security in all aspects of life.

Sex is a form of a release mentally, emotional, physically and spiritual for the Aries woman. Sex can make her feel as though all of her dreams have finally come true. To the Taurus sex is a means to ends, nothing more nothing less. Seeing how she perceives sex as a thrilling fantasy and he as an ordinary act, can cause problems in the area of sex for the two. He doesn’t see the sense in releasing any kind of energy unless its purpose is to produce something practical and useful. The typical Taurus does not regard daydreams as either essential or productive. She is fine if he does not respond to her sexual energy at first as long as he can provide her with fascinating romance. Eventually she grows cold to the lack of desire for sensual and imaginative lovemaking in Taurus man. It is in his best interest, to tame his Aries lady, if once in a while he takes the act to a higher level, and make it faster and harder. She loves it when the spasms of carnal satisfaction course through her like the pulsations of an addictive drug. This will satisfy her immensely and she would then keep coming back to him and please him in plenty of ways.

There is generally an instant spark between the passionate Aries woman and calm Taurus man yet they have to travel through certain bumpy roads to achieve a cherished relationship. Aries are acquitted and spirited but their heedlessness and impulsive reactions can make any Taurus outrageous who suffer from lack of reasoning. But at the same time Taurus are very patient creatures so the day can be saved for the couple. Both the Aries and Taurus share the common traits of possessiveness and unmatchable loyalty. So to make the relationship a pearl engraved romance there is a need to give visible proofs and flavors of love by both physical form and devotion and also have great communication to maintain the understanding.

Aries Woman and Taurus Man Love Compatibility Rating

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242 Comments
  1. msmith49 December 18th, 2012

    I was dating a taurus for about 6 months it wuz great when wefirst met he spent a lot of time called me made me breakfast dinner to my job and a lot of sweet jestures. Then things started to get rocky he stopped calling as much and responding when i text we stopped talking for a while and then ran into each other at an event he had told me he cared for me when we first met so when we ran into each othrr he payed for my meal and when i text to thank him he stated that he wished things were diff n thst he kno he is confusing but it hard for him to committ after that he told me that he had been wit someone else but he wuz more intrrested in me n he wanted to see where thibgs would go but he still was acting im thinking mayb i was too aggressive and insecure that i pushed him away when he didnt answer i popped up bcuz i didnt understand y he would act this way aftr saying these things he always was so sweet when were around each other but when we were apart he would just ignore me and i would always get mad and go off n he would just say he not ignoring me i need to chill well now i found out he changed his number and kn a relationship n it just has crushed mr not only that i was angry when i found out thru social networking and we argued on the site and ended up say n a lot of hurtful things say n he didnt have to tell me anything but all i ask for was honrstly i was more than honest with him i just wonder if he will feel bad about what he did to me and ever call me again im not even sure if i ever meant anything to him for the way he did me

  2. loveablearies November 8th, 2012

    Oooo the memories ha.. Girl I use to date a taurus guy but at the end of the day i was never good enough for him he always wanted more, I loved him and yes i was more then willing to do whatever it took to keep us together and trust me i did that and I lied, I let him walk all over me and again I took to here and eventually took advice off @askOracle, it took a while to begin to pick myself back up and to start love myself once again (thats how much i loved him) my self worth was gone it wasn’t because of him waking away it was because i didn’t focus on walking away myself and finding someone that was going to make me happy I simply focused on him and how much he hurt me and to be honest it dragged me down,
    It was not his fault it was mine for letting myself get so hurt by leaving myself so open. The best advice i can give to you, as an aries woman you are a fighter so the best thing you can do for you is empower yourself deep within, if that means doing the gym or walk or run, we are energentic people and need to burn it off somehow, focus on you and not on your heartache. It works wonders:) If your not good enough for him well there is nothing u can do to change that, depression does not suit aries as we are always positive and energetic people so lift yourself back up and start loving yourself again and continue on with positivity 

  3. SabrinaMarie18 November 1st, 2012

    I’m dating a Taurus right now. I love him more than any other person I’ve ever met. We broke for two months over the summer because we were both very different. I always wanted to party and go out and have fun. He has social anxiety so it was hard to coax him out. Plus he wasn’t as affectionate or honest with me so I got really insecure. And all at once with the really shitty circumstances we were going through broke us apart. For a while he refused to talk to me and it took a long time, even when we started seeing each other again for us to get to where we are now. My best guy friend talked to him about what I’d been saying to him about how I was afraid he didnt love me and wasnt as affectionate as before. And of course, it was that simple. He’s completley the sweetest, most honest, open and affectionate guy now. But me being an aries, I never would have said anything I would have just kept hoping he’d come around. I love him so much and I know he loves me. Things can get tough and we fight sometimes but I’m more than willing to do whatever it takes to keep us together. <3 

  4. youareonmymind July 1st, 2012

    hey, i met this taurian guy frm my college 3 weeks back and we strtd tlkg on bbm..everything was going fine..like he usedto send kisses and hugs..and v used to have late night talks..but we met last sunday for a movie..there he held my hand throughout the movie..and in b/w he tried to kiss..but i pushed him away. there was no change in the way he was talking to me yet he didnt say bye while leaving..and i deleted him frm bbm on my frnd’s advice..but later i started missing him so i texted him like a million times but to no availl..and one day wen i said “jst give me one reason and i wont text you back” he replied x_x sayng dt i deletd him dts y hes nt talkgn to me..bt even aftr dt i literally begged him to talk to me..bt he never replied  and frm yestrdy i stopped..dude dese taurians are maniacs…

  5. loveablearies April 19th, 2012

    we learn threw our experiences, and move on but in my opinion “they seen to fear committing to just one person”.  They can get selfish and un-considerate to others and how they are feeling.

  6. guemix April 2nd, 2012

    I am an Aries woman, whom dated a Taurus man for about 6 months. We hit it off quickly and I was at his house, in his room, after about our 5th date. I love him, completely. I always felt he cared, although he was really reserved with his emotions. He’d never tell me he liked me to my face. Instead, he’d do little things to show me. I never really understood that was his personality until I got annoyed at the fact that this was happening. Stupid me, instead of trying to communicate with him about this situation bothering me, I ended things, hoping he’d come back and chase me. WORST MISTAKE EVER!!!!!! I contacted him after a month of ending things, only to find out he has moved on. I asked him repeatedly if there was anything I could do, to make it work. Nothing. He said, I should hope we cross paths, once more down the road. I even, admitted to him that I had fallen in love with him (stating that I never wanted to tell him that). I just thought that maybe that’s what he wanted, and it’d make him change his mind.. That guy is cold blooded, still refusing. He never even called once, to make sure I was okay, after an accident. He contacted someone else, informed himself of what had occured and hoped a fast recovery on me. I want him back, so bad. It’s like if he was the love of my life. I just can’t let him go. And I can’t begin to blame myself as to why I ended this, so stupidly and immature. Is there anything I can do so that this Taurus man, looks back, and notices me just once more?

  7. loveablearies January 22nd, 2012

    From my own experiences, friends with benifits is a bad idea, someone always ends up hurt and feeling betrayed by the other then act different because of it. It just don’t work …

  8. svelez87 December 6th, 2011

    I AM DATING A TAURUS MAN AND MY FRIEND WITH BENEFIT ITS A TAURUS THE SEX I JUST DON’T KNOW THE LOVE AND CONNECTION THERE THEY CANT KEEP UP..CAPRICORN ARE THE WORSE FOR ME..CANCER WAS THE BEST FOR ME AND TAURUS IS OK WITH ARIES NINE MONTHS LATER WE OK

  9. Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    Taurus guys are really goodlooking

  10. loveablearies October 24th, 2011

    @John Smith – It sounds like she may still love you and probably feels awkward ringing you in case there is a girl there with you.

  11. 69ways October 16th, 2011

    my aries after 9 months called and wonders if i have a gf , she even said she believes she is sitting next to me and wanted to know her name.
    She said she doe snot know why she feels this way….
    any ideas ?

  12. loveablearies October 6th, 2011

    @ask oracle – I really love this video !! It makes so much sense to me thank you again..

  13. loveablearies October 6th, 2011

    Yes it has always been there at the back of my mind, Up their with the rest of my mystery’s ha. I will watch that video.. But would like to say I have the acceptance and understanding people are prone to errors and will learn from them, I always put myself in their shoes also, but the more I understand and take him back the more it feels he is taken me for granted.

    I guess people will walk in and out of our life’s for a reason, maybe its to learn or grow. I love what you have just told me, I accept myself fully as I am, I think I keep myself so busy with other projects, people and things in life to avoid this subject. I am miss popular but inside it feels like I don’t know myself so how could any one else known me either.

    I know I am on the right path, sometimes feels lost within myself or other times as my friends say I get extremely deep but what I was doing was using sex with my taurus as an emotional release from the pressures around me and I shouldn’t.

    Love is the highest form to me, In some ways like a Temple, It gives me so much inner peace, contentment, happiness, freedom if that makes sense. I thank you so much for your video I will look at it now and I am going to learn from it.

  14. Author
    Ask Oracle October 6th, 2011

    @loveablearies I’m glad you figured it out. 🙂 That’s what I meant when I said you’re seeking Love at a wrong place. You might want to see a video on the same topic – http://www.ask-oracle.com/2011/how-to-love-with-awareness-and-relate-without-fear/

    One should be discerning while choosing a partner but at the same time also remember that most humans are vulnerable, insecure and prone to errors. Its really a matter of acceptance and relaxing with Life.

    You don’t have to change yourself, or change someone else. Its all about acceptance. Accept yourself, repeat this to yourself – “I accept myself fully as I AM”.

    You are on the right path and I would like to tell you that at higher levels of LOVE, there is peace, sex becomes unimportant and attraction fades away and there is so much of joy. 😀

  15. loveablearies October 5th, 2011

    @ask Oracle – I am very passionate about love, and very choosy who I have sex with and date as that is such a personal thing to me, but its like every man I dated, had sex with and fell in love with always played the same part. Is it because I’m so truthful,blunt and they are so impressionable, or Is it I need to raise my standards up highter.. So when it came to this Taurus, I watched his words, actions and his family and friends, sat back without saying anything to see how far he would go, it was no surprise to me. I need to dig deeper into my sole and heart and question myself on why I attract the wrong type of men, personally i think if I was to attract my dream man I would question why he is been so good, if he has a motive behind it all and so on.

  16. loveablearies October 5th, 2011

    @ask Oracle – I took time out to think about what you have said and I realise I do not love myself enough I love others too much instead, for me to be loved is for me to love myself just as much. My big mistake is confidence and self esteem. I have to stop putting other people before myself and start looking after me.. I love your truthfulness x

  17. loveablearies October 5th, 2011

    @ask Oracle – I think it is a fantastic idea to do articles about love. I will look forward to reading up on these.. thank you.

  18. loveablearies October 5th, 2011

    @Ask Oracle, you speak truly and correctly. Its my mind as my desires where not filled with him, he was cheating on me with others. I try to do the Christian thing and forgive him, when I see him my heart skips a beat he walks into my life then out also. I don’t discuss my intelligence with him, I also don’t let him know how preceptive I am towards things. I guess I like to play dumb few times then walk away when I have see enough.

    @aries 123 Thank you so much for your advice, He is this one ex boyfriend whom I take back over and over. but each time hoping for a different result. I’ve always been resilient when it comes to pain, heart ache, tears and so on. I cry for a day or two then get it all out of my system and move forward with other things in life.

  19. Author
    Ask Oracle October 5th, 2011

    @loveablearies We’ve been discussing this for quite sometime now and I will be straight and honest this time.

    In truth, love never creates any suffering. So there must be something else that’s creating so much pain.

    Actually it’s the Mind and unfulfilled Desires. The mind is simply projecting this person as a source of Love and a way to satiate desires. Unfortunately, mind itself is not intelligent and it has stuck you up with a wrong person. In simple words, this person cannot give you LOVE because he doesn’t have it.

    Just like a lemon tree cannot yield apples, this person cannot satisfy your needs. Its just a matter of understanding and seeing things the way they are. You’re simply seeking Love at a wrong place.

    We’ll be soon publishing articles which will give you a deeper understanding about Love.

  20. aries23 October 4th, 2011

    @loveablearies
    Hello there. I’m sorry to learn you’re in turmoil after giving me such good advice hon. Please, please take heed of what you know to be true in your heart.
    You see we Aries are good at giving advice but not so great at following the advice we dish out.
    What is this guy doing to you? If this person is not brining positive things to your life then you must put him out of your life completely (easier said than done I know).
    It’s taken me a long time (as you will see from this forum) & a lot of heartache but I have finally closed the door on my Taurus man. My mantra? ‘it’s not good enough’ for instance; his mixed messages, the blowing hot & cold, his mind games, the lack of respect, his lack of effort. I don’t think I need to go on. The way I was allowing him to treat me said much more about my self esteem than anything else – it’s taken me a long time to understand this.
    I know now that I deserve better & if there is anything positive to take from this situation it’s that he has taught me to take relationships slow. There is no rush (especially where Taurus are concerned). Also I will be more cautious with my feelings when I meet someone new.
    Again please look back at the advice you gave me & think about it. You deserve better than how you are being treated.
    Maybe it’s time you looked at how happy you are inside? I know I did. Once I began to concentrate on inner peace & happiness the want/need to be with this guy began to disappear.
    Try reading anything by Deepak Chopra or something similar – these books will go in to a lot more detail about inner peace & happiness.
    Let me know how you’re doing & get back to being a strong wonderful Aries woman again.
    Love & blessings to you xxxx

  21. loveablearies October 4th, 2011

    we are more intelligent then we let on to be, especially when it comes to men and being played in general. With me I use my intelligence for most things in life, body language, his words and actions, the way he treats others, the way he treats me, his family, our past and so on, its my defence magnesium in a way,but this taurus keeps insulting my intelligence. My patience is running out quickly I still do love him, he is one of these ex boyfriends that I realise every time I see him that I still hold a lot of love in my heart for him if that makes sence, but the thing is I am running out of patience with him so much, have you any advice to offer.

  22. loveablearies October 4th, 2011

    @ask Oracle – he has my head all over the place, with Taurus they seem to have their game all wrong when it comes to aries women. W

  23. loveablearies September 6th, 2011

    @aries23 – Taurus are stubborn people, don’t chase him relentlessly, try put all that passion of yours in to something that is worthwhile like your career. He will come back to you when the timing is right. He may have a hold over you now but we all seem to get bored quickly with that hold of sitting around and waiting for him and move on and I think you will soon find that out for yourself.

  24. aries23 September 5th, 2011

    I have been trying to get him to speak to me for some time now but he refuses. Maybe I pushed him too much? Has anyone else experienced this please? Will he get in touch?
    We live a long distance away from eachother which makes it very difficult. I wish I could forget about him – he is the only man to have this hold over me xx

  25. loveablearies September 3rd, 2011

    If he really loved me, he would of came back a long time ago but I did love him and some things hurt but some things teach you that lesson to move on, I appreciate your advice it has actually made me that little bit stronger.

  26. loveablearies September 3rd, 2011

    @ask Oracle – I know you are right in what you say… I get so private after i stop hurting, when it comes to things that hit me in the heart or people who I get so attached too, I do miss them or cherish them a lot, Normally I never fear anything at all, even with my ex boyfriend I chased him relentlessly as the saying goes “I tread where the angels fear”.. but this time I couldn’t understand why I was fearing. Thank you for that book I am going shopping and now thinking its a good idea to buy it and learn so I really do appreciate that…

  27. Author
    Ask Oracle September 2nd, 2011

    @loveablearies Exactly, it has become an attachment. In fact I would say it is not Love any more. It has become a disease. That’s why I asked you to pay attention to your health.

    Yes, fear will come up in such situations. Just know that all fears are baseless and based on false perceptions of reality.

    I can suggest this book, could be helpful to let go attachments – http://www.amazon.com/Cut-Cords-Attachment-Yourself-Spirituality/dp/0975253824

  28. loveablearies September 2nd, 2011

    @ask Oracle – I tried so hard to text my ex boyfriend today, he’s being on my mind lately even though I have moved on with my life and I am now happy within myself, I wanted to say something nice but cannot seem to find the words I guess fear is catching up with me for once. Am I holding onto an obsession with this taurus ??? I thought he was out of my heart and mind a long time ago..

  29. Aries2403 September 1st, 2011

    I was in a new long distance relationship with a taurus man which i ended yesterday. In the short time that we have been together i have been nothing but loyal and good to him. I was giving this relatioship a proper go but i constantly felt he was distant and was not good at expressing his feelings. I noticed that i was constanly complaining about feeling unappreciated and insignificant and that it was becoming a pattern. Whenever i expressed how i felt he would become distant and not once acknowledge that i was right to feel this way or make me feel he was really sorry or was gonna try and make me feel valued. I just feel I’ve been way too understanding and i have been giving and giving and this man has been giving me nothing back. I am so tired of chasing a man that doesn’t even try to make me feel i matter. I let go yesterday and i told myself there is nothign wrong with expecting more than what i was getting because if i give 100% of me to this relationship why should i settle for a man that gives me 20% and doesn’t even stay in the same town as me. I still love him a lot but i was just not getting what i needed from him or the relationship which was to feel appreciated and loved.

  30. loveablearies August 24th, 2011

    Thanks so much Oracle I do have good health and career but can get inquisitive as I like to learn more. I appreciate your advice at this time.

  31. Author
    Ask Oracle August 24th, 2011

    @loveablearies You may want to focus on other important things in life including your health and career. Love and knowledge are two sides of the same coin called Life. Spend more and more time learning about Love and Life. The end result will be sweet and you’ll be glad that you did it. 🙂

  32. loveablearies August 23rd, 2011

    @ ask oracle – I miss him but I will not contact him at all. As much as I have moved on with my life I find myself looking back at times to the good times we both had, but gave him a bad time at the end of our relationship because I was hurting but not now!! so what do I do ??

  33. desray August 19th, 2011

    @vcoh61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae, thank you for your advice. Im an aries women and at times i can be impatient. It’s deff hard for me when im not in control of the situation and in this case he has the last word. i say things on impulse that i regret later and i act on my emotions and it gets me into trouble. But overall he just called me yesterday =) and he said he wants to be friends for now. I’ve been writing to him and i just got his first letter. He hasn’t said Yes that it’s going to work out for sure but he also said he doesn’t know if it won’t. This is our last attempt hopefully we take things slow and steady and we make it. He also said he doesn’t know what to do at the same time bcuz he did try to work it out and we fell apart so mayb if we can learn to be good friends we can be together again? im just trying to work on myself and not be so codependent either. good life experience i guess.

  34. Author
    Ask Oracle August 19th, 2011

    @desray Sometimes things will go wrong in one’s life and the experience will result in more understanding and awareness of Love and Life.

    It can be difficult both for you and him to solve issues of Trust and Faith. A simple and fastest way is to make him remember the good moments you two had together. When you talk to him, talk about the nice days during past 4 years and when issues will come up, you can choose to apologize and make a commitment to not repeat it again.

    Another way is to be of some service to him and create some more good moments.

    Love is a game of patience. Give him at least 6 months, if things still don’t improve you can choose to let go of him and get busy in life.

  35. desray August 18th, 2011

    I’ve been married to a taurus man for about 2 years and we seemed to be happy. recently we’ve had many issues, i cheated on him, and he took me back. I left him an angry message on his phone when he didn’t return my call. He then said he wants a break. It’s been about a month and he is unsure that he wants to continue to be with me he says he loves me but he feels like he’s tried to make our relationship work and now this. He says that if we do get back together he wants to start all over so we can make it. But i have doubt since he hasn’t been calling me or contacting me that he’s done with me. He didn’t say he wants a divorce. He says he’s never loved someone like me before but im 4 years younger so he feels i need to grow up before we can make it work. I’ve been writing him …what kind of advice can you give me?? i dont want to loose him

  36. aries23 August 18th, 2011

    @johnsmith
    Hi John – you probably dont think so but I’d say you & your girl are making progress.
    The least you can take from the situation is that you both are communicating.
    I am sure that once you see eachother it will all work out. You see the distance makes people vulnerable, the smallest of issues in a long distance relationship can be magnified & blown out of all proportion.
    Let me know how you are both doing.
    I have not heard from my Taurus man for so long – I’m thinking he’s moved on…….
    Love & blessings to you xx

  37. 69ways August 3rd, 2011

    she called again recently and i asked her if she is happier without me: NO
    can you find better than me : NO
    But i have no answers now she said.
    We talked maybe meeting a weekend in the near future in Prague.
    Should i give her space now, as i text her the other day she was friendly but quickly cut me off….

  38. aries23 July 25th, 2011

    @JohnSmith
    Hi John – I knew your girl would get back to you. The poor thing clearly needs your support right now. I for one know that her telling you she is depressed is a massive admition as generally aries women are strong & independent so hate asking for help.
    Your girl is crying out for you to be with her so go to her – do whatever it takes. She obviously loves you a great deal if you are the one person she has turned to in her hour of need.
    I really feel that you both can make this work because your girl has admitted that there was not an issue with the relationship you had – that in fact the problem was in fact her inner turmoil.
    This girl needs your love & support more than ever. I can not stress enough that her admitting she is depressed is a massive deal. We aries have a lot of pride & I know others reading this will agree. Your girl has confessed that she is vulnerable &needs you. That must show you how special you are to her.
    Believe me I would not want to burden just anyone with my problems – I would rather deal with it on my own. A big life lesson for me is that sometimes you have to ask for help from the people you love the most.
    Please I hope you can get to her as soon as possible. This is where the taurus strength of character will come in to its own. You will be her rock & she will always love you for being there for her.
    Please just keep in mind that it is you that this girl has turned to – I swear she must love you an enormous amount.
    I hope you get to her fast & you both can begin to repair your relationship then live a full & happy life together in love.
    This is all your girl will be dreaming of so make her dreams come true.
    All the very best.
    Love & blessings to you & your girl xx

  39. loveablearies July 22nd, 2011

    Thank you sarah as deep inside I was beginning to hate him and I do not usually hold resentments but I was hating and holding resentments against him as he has hurt me deep. I think this helps thank you so much

  40. 69ways July 22nd, 2011

    my aries admitted she has depression and thats why she left me.
    she asked to meet but as i am travelling to her country a day after she flies ALONE to mexico for holidays to find herself , is quite difficult.
    She was crying all the time and said she should have asked for my help than leaving me.
    she has not dated anyone she said.
    So now what do I do people?
    I told her i am there for her and i miss her and she cried even more

  41. sassyaries July 21st, 2011

    ok ladies, i found this link about taurus guys..i found myself laughing because what they are all sharing are basically the things that we go thru, got a lot of tips and it’s truly hilarious and just purely awesome, instead of getting fed up with my taurus guy, i found myself understanding him more…..jus realize that when you bein to understand a person more deeply then there’ no more need for the power struggle between an aries and taurus…so here’s the link ladies…

    http://udayms.wordpress.com/2007/01/08/the-taurus-man/

  42. loveablearies July 19th, 2011

    It has only been one just about one month since my breakup with my ex taurus with no contact at all and I found the heartbreak getting easier and also easier to move on and be happy. Let go of him, there is plenty of men out in the world like him. Trust that….

  43. loveablearies July 19th, 2011

    Damn gal, If this man really wants you he will fight for you and come to you without hesitation, when you let him go, heartbreak becomes easier. Damn gals I loved my taurus but I let go and found a Gemini man who adores me you will eventually see this too.

  44. aries23 July 13th, 2011

    @sarah
    Hi Sarah & thanks a million for the response. Yes I have been letting my hair down – my friends and family wouldnt have it any other way ha ha. I have not heard a thing from him in around 6 weeks. For the first few weeks I kept trying to get in touch with no response so I have given up completely.
    I just feel that I need to demonstrate that this hot & cold behavior is not on. We have never fully told eachother how strong we feel but I knew from the start how he felt by the things he would do & say – and he must know how I feel after all this time. I just think if he feels anything for me why would he not contact me or want to see me? So part of me has to be realistic.
    I know it may sound like I am upset over this situation but I am really fine. I was extremely upset months ago and would cry in private from time to time.
    I have learned that no one else is responsible for my happiness but me. I must give him time to sort out how he feels (if he feels anything at all for me) and learn to have this patience that you talk about. If/when he does come back to me and tells me how he feels (i wish) then wonderful for us both.
    I am in no doubt he will get back to me but my concern is that I have moved on or that my heart has hardens towards him?
    Its like @velin said he felt his aries girl was cold towards him. I don’t know why she was behaving like this – I only know that I can behave this way when someone has upset me greatly or let me down. Mr Taurus has done both.
    Your advice is to act like nothing has happened when he does get back to me – and I thank you for that but he has made me so mad with his crazy ways.
    I have two brothers and they both say ‘he’s just not that into you’ harsh I know but they say if a guy wants to be with a girl she would know.
    I am honestly done chasing him – its time he told me what he is thinking – we will become closer. I know I would open up to him if he opened up to me – I don’t think he is good at sharing his feelings or emotions at all.
    But again he has made very little effort & we have not seen each other since last year!!! I did try and make plans to go and see him or vice versa but they always fell through (on both parts).
    Anyways we shall see what unfolds.
    Cheers hon.
    Lots of love & blessings to you xx

  45. sassyaries July 13th, 2011

    @aries23…that is “going against your own stubbornness is sexy”

  46. sassyaries July 13th, 2011

    @aries23

    hi sweety…..sometimes you need to let your hair down…if you really feel that you miss him then just send him a message or call, coz as for me since we are too far apart…he’s on the other side of the world….i would send long messages on fb and he loves it. Now am just back to keeping myself busy and same as he is…he’s busy with photography…until we meet…i would just like to hold to this feeling and stay true to myself and my love for him…..i will be patient….time really unveils a character unknown to us and which can prove essential to an aries….and that is Patience =D How are doing now? How long have you not been contacting him? My man (although he’s not yet) told me once that “going against your own”… just be yourself =)) letting go of yourself by sending messages about your thoughts will somehow let him know how sincere you are…=))

    More blessings to you sweety….=)) let us know ok!! cheers!! xoxo

  47. proud2b-aries July 13th, 2011

    does long distance relationship work for tauras guys???
    and also how to know if he is still interested in me???
    PLS HELP ITS SO CONFUSING

  48. aries23 July 12th, 2011

    @JohnSmith
    How is it going?
    Hope you are feeling better.
    Love & blessings xx

  49. aries23 July 12th, 2011

    @sarah
    I am learning to be patient – but I miss him soooooo much and just want to see him. We are not even communicating at the moment. I refuse to get back in touch and he is just as stubborn!
    All the very best!
    Love & blessings xx

  50. aries23 July 12th, 2011

    @velin
    Hi there, I have read your story and I am spotting a pattern here.
    It seems there is always a push/pull relationship in the beginning with these two signs. I think each one wants to feel in control?
    You say that you are smitten with this girl – did you tell her this? I have said it before and I shall say it again you will get A LOT further with an aries woman (any woman for that matter) if you open up to her and tell her how what you are feeling. She clearly likes you a lot or you would not be receiving any sort of attention.
    You have also mentioned a few times that your girl has initiated contact mostly out of you both – can you consider that this is maybe why she is not at ease with you as yet? You should maybe contact her to arrange an evening out?
    As for her being brash – you need to either live with that or move on to a different type of female because with an aries I am afraid they will always tell it like it is – the truth whether you like it or not.
    Do not be scared to open up to this girl – you will get love & attention back ten fold. You have to reassure her that you are not a player & you are looking for a relationship.
    Think you both need to learn to trust each other really.
    I’d say she will get back in touch – just don’t throw the gesture back in her face or she will be very hurt.
    **suggestion – why dont you contact her??** I for one would be delighted if the taurus man I adore contacted me. We have not talked in weeks and it really hurts me.

    Love & blessings xx

  51. secretcrush82 July 11th, 2011

    Hello, people,
    I see an awful lot of interesting opinions and emotions shared. I am a Taurus man, feeling smitten with an Aries woman, and I think things got very messy already…
    It all started on a BBQ at friend, she was his friend, I really liked her, our eyes met quite a few times. I thought about contacting her, but forgot, and surprise, surprise – she found me on facebook, we talked and started meeting on weekends. Things were going quite nice, made a spa date, a lot of very sincere conversation. I eventsent her flowers at her job.
    Now after a point, she started being a bit rude and brash with me – still meeting and talking though. I was being nice all the time, helped her with an exam and generally cared about her life and whats going on. She was really rude a few times and I stopped being so nice and caring, to show her she cannot walk all over me. Although she showed interest – never stopped calling or texting – there was something spiky between us. No emotional response from her though, no sign for desire for physicall closeness…
    So I started getting fed up with her brashness a bit. Last weekend she came along when I was with friends (she initiated the meeting again) and we talked nice, but she looked cold again. We got up from the restaurant where we were sitting and she just decided to go home, I kindly asked to come with us to the next place, gently touching her arm, but she refused.
    So it was too much for me, and 30 mins after separating I sent her a text “Well, in that case, have a nice picnic tomorrow and a lot of success in the future”, which was pretty clearly a “goodbye message”. She answered like 15 hours later (strange, no?) saying “thanks for the wishes, a bit unexpected though” and I didnt answer.
    My question is: do you think she might try to contact me and ask whats happening? I have feelings for her, but I would never come back to the situation, with her showing interest to see and talk to me, but being quite brash and short to me. Therefore I am not willing to just start speaking again, as if nothing happened. She was playing games with me, for sure and I fear (as with many women) that she was testing me how much she can fool with me. Now she has seen that she cant. Do you think she might realize she took it far and call me?

  52. sassyaries July 8th, 2011

    @aries23
    I hope not haha!! =D One thing i have learned about reading a lot of taurus posts on google from pages 1 to forever is this, they come and go and it made me insane. Being an aries, i didn’t have patience but because i love this man this impatience turned me to be the person i want to be (patient)and i told him that you made me learn a lot about myself, unfolding things which i thought my weaknesses has become my strength. The other day we talked for a long time and i was so happy of course even if it was on messenger. One thing i can tell you is if you really love a man of any zodiac, you will be patient enough like the corinthians..love is patient, kind etc….

    I wasn’t capable of being patient with any man except him because he really matters to me. Relationships are not easy, it’s needed sometimes for our pruning to build our character. I always have to remind myself that taurus takes a lot of their own sweet time and initially i can’t do that but bec. love matters then i learnt patience…what i did was to enjoy my time with friends, family and do things on my own while he’s not there, i just simply enjoy being me. And when he comes back then he will shower you with attention. And make sure when he comes back enjoy the present moment and don’t dwell by nagging and saying why you didn’t call me coz he will totally back away….Sometimes we he won’t respond to me for a month and i jut let it be…i have learnt to just wait, we had not even talked for about 9 months but he still comes back to me….the rewards are great if you love a taurus that’s what i read and so am really hoping for the best…these men just want to be so sure that you are the one, so if you are not patient enough then you’ll be out of his list but if you really really love him then you’re gonna stick with him…

    thanks for writing aries23 =)) more blessings to you too and goodluck to us =)) warm hugs!!

  53. aries23 July 7th, 2011

    @sarah
    Are we dating the same taurus?? Ha ha.
    I had known my taurus for a couple of years before things changed and we became intimate.
    He was so full on in the beginning and then the contact stopped as much and it was me initiating any contact for months.
    I have now not had any contact from him for the past 6 weeks. I refuse to contact him and am feeling stronger everyday.
    If he comes back to me I am not sure how I will react. I am looking at your story in disbelief as you are now 2 years down the line!! I am actually one year down the line and feel like I cant cope with this nonsense for one more day.
    Relationships shouldn’t be this hard. I believe if a man really wants you he will not disappear on you and want to see you all the time – our mr taurus’ behavior is toxic i’m afraid.
    I dont think my guy wants to hurt me deliberately – I think ‘he’s just not that in to me’.
    You however are in a different position as you have your guy there ready to make a commitment to you. Also he is open & honest with his feelings.
    I wish you and your Mr Taurus a happy & healthy future together.
    Love & blessings xx

  54. aries23 July 7th, 2011

    @John Smith
    Hi there.
    I’d say your girl does miss you but again she is clearly hurting and going through a transition and feels she requires space.
    If you are happy with how you have re-assured her and shown her you love her and will always be there for her then you may have to wait (or get on with your life).
    Again its important you show her you are happy without out her and basically just getting on with life – this is so important.
    Why would you ask if she is being stubborn if you say you have done nothing to hurt her – is she upset with you?
    Let me know if you hear from her
    Love & blessings xx

  55. Author
    Ask Oracle July 6th, 2011

    @sassyaries (sarah)
    Just like you are confused and doubtful, he too is in the same position. And he has no clue where is it going, just like you.

    If you are not feeling good about it, then its better you take a break of a few weeks so that you can relax and know where is this relationship going. Be willing to let go of things that are not working.

    Love and Life is all about seeking a Balance in all spheres of life. You can move countries but base your decision on more reliable factors, like better career opportunities or better lifestyle etc.

  56. sassyaries July 4th, 2011

    am not really sure if he really loves me or not….am so so confused with his ways………arghhhh….HELP!!!

  57. sassyaries July 4th, 2011

    Met a taurus on the internet. He’s from a different country. We’ve been together for 4 months. Things were going great. He wanted me to be the mother of his kids,told me that he loves me everyday and misses me, sent me a lot of texts for the whole day and after work, would still talk on skype. Told me that he’s going to visit me and i often asked when and i didn’t get any answers from him..so i ended up nagging him about it then he distanced himself and i just felt that he’s hiding things from me. Soon we broke up. Then after 2 months i learnt that he went to visit another woman in a different country. I was so hurt but i could not stop myself from loving him. He means everything to me….am i just being stupid in doing this? When he was still with her, i still continued to text him and he would continue to talk to me too, telling me although i’ve given everything to him (whatever he wants to do with his life) he’s not happy, he tries to be happy with her but he’s not in short. They lived together for 6 months and then broke up. He sent me a lot of text just a couple of days ago wanting me and missing me and wants all of me not just physically. He comes and goes and one thing i noticed is that what one said is true here..if you force him the more a taurus male will become stubborn. I freaking hate this game, am straightforward and always feel vulnerable everytime i write long emails to him and he loves it. There are times when i want to end it and at one point i did…but you know when 2 things happen to you in one day it’s kinda feel like and it’s ludicrous but deep in your gut you feel that they are telling you something….and that is not to give up…so i sent another long email and he was kinda happy. He texted me a lot (20msgs) in just one day. He wanted to see me and blah blah…..then he disappears again…this is driving me TOTALLY NUTS and am not kidding. But i love him. i have a few more months before i get to see him…..am doing everything just to be with him even applying for a job to US. Need a lot of prep. going these past few months….there were times when i just couldn’t be bothered and wanted really to leave him for good but then i don’t know if the universe is playing tricks on me and end up making things for me and him to stay in touch….i just hate this TORTURE of coming and going on his part…….sometimes am patient and at other times am not…but thru these past 2 years, i have calmed down a bit and not pressure him….it kills and hurts me when he disappears everytime…..and come again… I need all you help here please……….please advise..

  58. 69ways July 1st, 2011

    Hei, thanks for the answer.She lives in another country so no way to meet her even if i am going for holidays in purpose to switzerland and staying at the city she is going out just in case we meet.
    I love the city also and thats why i am going there but its finished i believe, i feel inside me she loves me but will not change her mind for her own reason.
    Happiest day of my life was our engagement she said after we broke up.
    God i love her so much but giving her space and time is the best for now and hopefully she will see inside her that the correct thing is to be with the love of your life eve if the road is not always straight.
    I am strong and today is 27 days of no contact…
    Does she miss me?
    Does she want to call but she is stubborn?
    Who knows….. 🙁

  59. aries23 June 30th, 2011

    @John Smith

    Hi glad you are back in touch.
    You certainly have put everything in to tyring to fix the relationship – you clearly love your girl dearly. However she has also made it clear she cant deal with it right now.
    Why dont you give her some space & time. By this I mean not making yourself so available to her? Im not advising you hurt her in any way. But shift the focus on to you & what makes YOU happy. Your girl knows how you feel & I am sure knows you would always be there for her. Its important to get on with your life & SHOW her you are doing this. If your happy within yourself this will radiate from you. Your girl in time may get in touch & if you get to meet her again she will be so impressed that you have been going forward with your life.
    I think people forget we are not put on this planet to make others happy. You must fill your own self up with joy & love in order to give & receive. Again please do not try & cope with this pain alone. Speak to family, friends & trusted people in your life to help you through it. You would be surprised how the most hardened of hearts have been shattered & they got through it to tell the tale.
    Think about what you want for your future & MAKE it happen. You are capable of doing anything you put your mind to. Again when/if you get to see your girl again she may come to remember all the reasons she fell in love with you before.
    Start to enjoy your life without her & you may find your girl wanting to become part of it again.
    Again give it time – its a great healer. I agree with you saying ‘call me if you want to get back together’.
    So go & show her what your made of.
    I hope you get back together with your girl. But please start working on yourself first – the rest will fall into place.
    Please keep us posted.
    Love & blessings xx

  60. 69ways June 30th, 2011

    BTW she asked me a few times to let her go and go on with my life, so unless she is mentally unstable, she means that she does not love me and its for my own good to ket her go….

  61. 69ways June 30th, 2011

    But i tried my best:Travelling there with 29 roses says a lot more than me calling her up and saying I love you.
    I even wrote a letter and when tried to say again i love you she said:
    Why are you saying these, you wrote them on the letter.
    I told her:Call me if you want to talk about us getting back together.
    This means I am here, so yes I am the man but is up to her to initiate it as I have run of ideas and have put m self esteem to the ground to sort it between us.
    I do love her and will always do…but i cant make her change her mind:(
    SHE KNOWS I LOVE HER……

  62. xoxoxo June 26th, 2011

    i also think that if you let time pass without contacting her she will take this as a sign that you have moved on and don’t love her anymore.

  63. xoxoxo June 26th, 2011

    aries23 gave so many nice and truthful advise. 69ways please don’t give up on her…. love is building a bridge of chance to the one you love…

    seems that it’s really all miscommunication but the love is there between the two of you waiting to be embraced… if she is very insecure she needed reassurance try not to give her reasons to feel this way… both of you seems to be waiting who will initiate contact… since you’re the man.. you have to take the lead…. open up to her and she will return it a hundredfold…. be strong

  64. loveablearies June 25th, 2011

    @Ask Oracle – Thank you for your response, I needed to hear that, Damn I thought he’d have more respect for me then that. It felt like I was going out of my mind wondering and chasing and wishing things would be different. Damn even if it hurts letting him go is the right thing to do.

  65. Author
    Ask Oracle June 25th, 2011

    @loveablearies It usually happens when he’s trying to hide something from you or may be because he has concluded that you two are not made for each other.

    However, I would like to add that a healthy relationship needs an open and honest communication. Ask him out and let him go if that’s best for you and him.

  66. loveablearies June 22nd, 2011

    @ABOVE – The above statement is very True for Aries women. It looks like one Taurus man has defiantly done his homework on aries ladies.

    @ORACLE – Why does Taurus men go distant ?? I am with my Taurus 2months now and he is starting to go very distant. I do not understand, we live just beside one another and it looks like he is avoiding me ???

  67. aries23 June 15th, 2011

    @69ways (john smith)
    Ok I am a Taurus man and I have been with my Aries wife now for over 22 years, and I wanna say it can work, but for you Taurus men out there trying to keep up with your Aries girlfriends, if you want to keep it exciting between you two, than give them there space act like they need you more than you need them, and show them this when you are out with them don’t allow anyone to talk down to them and always be first to respond when she is attacked by some one else verbally, and she will charish you and always want to be out with you or txting you while shes out cause she’ll feel more strenght that way, her friends will try to get you off her mind you but she knows if you was there you would have to offense to that statement and so she will say something to protect you, the sex will always be on her you wont have to stress that because she will want to keep you in her corner, and all Aries woman are masters in the bedroom, so she will use what she knows best, plus she k nows you enjoy bedtime more than anything, when it comes down to it Aries woman love sex, but the catch is you have to be deserving of there love to experience it on a regular basis, as a Taurus man we don’t want much but respect, love, and some attention every once in a while, other than that, dealing with an Aries is simple because they love to show attention to there lovers, but at the same time don’t like to be crowded, so again love your Aries woman but always hold back just a little because they also love the chase, once they have you centered they start to lose intrest in you, that makes you as a Taurus work harder when you don’t have to, and when you are together treat her like you are both going to die at midnight and when you’re apart at like a stranger this will keep her thinking, and as long as a Aries woman is thinking she is interested in you, also a good idea is to always buy her small gift but never hand them to her let her find them but make sure they have her name on them being they are so jealous and with Taurus absent minded approach to the relationship she will find the presents and say to herself things like how lucky she is and brag to her friends about your thoughtfullness, cause there are a lot of fights between this couple so the least us Taurus men can do is leave small hints of love laying around where she can find them, also when The Aries is mad at you ask her if she wants you to leave she want to say yes but her jealousy says why would I want you to leave, thats when you say sorry for being me and walk away, she will follow trust me and you tell her how much you love her and leave the room, she will come to you and apologize after a while, but you must remind her like a broken record that you care enough to fight with her, its when the arguements stop that you need to worry, shes gonna want to have some make up sex and you are too but this sex is suppose to be angry and violent, and last longer than your regular moments together, and if your lucky she will find was to always get that make up sex from you so watch out. and some good places to leave her gifts is in her draw, on the floor on her side of the bed, in the kitchen, in the wash room, in her car glove box, even if its a small not or a message on your mirror she can only see after she has tooken a shower, oh and edible arrangements delivers some nice treats you can have dropped off for her when shes home alone, or at her place of work, a loving Taurus man that has studied his Aries lover. oh and always listen to them and it wouldnt hurt if you massaged there feet while you are listening to how there day went or messaging her back and neck or her legs. Michael

    ****this was written by a taurus man hope it helps***
    Love & blessings x

  68. aries23 June 14th, 2011

    @69ways (John Smith)
    I really agree with the Oracle and strongly suggest you concentrate on YOUR health.
    I am truly sorry you are experiencing such pain but please believe me unless you focus on your own well being this situation may not get any better.
    I also strongly suggest you relate how you are feeling and what you are going through to your close family. Even your ex – you should convey to her that you need space and time to sort yourself out.
    How can you possibly give love to this girl if you are not loving & nurturing yourself? I’m am sure the people that love you most will be supportive & be there for you so please let them know.
    I have been overwhelmed by the support of my family & friends. I had to be honest with them & told them that I was broken hearted and this was the reason I was not acting myself. I did not even recognise myself. All I thought about day & night was mr taurus. I couldnt believe he didnt want me. As soon as I confessed what I was going through it was an instant relief.
    Its easy to say but this feeling will NOT last forever. You will be fine and only time will tell if you are meant to be with your girl.
    Again maybe concentrate on healing yourself & have some sort of relationship with your girl that you can cope with. Your girl will truly be devastated to learn she is making you feel this way. But what you have to remember is that you are responsible for your own joy and happiness and contentment.
    Show your girl your getting on with your life maybe write her a letter when you are feeling better and let her know she is still in your heart.
    Have faith in yourself and focus on the positives of your life when you do turn things around between you & your girl be thankful for your blessings.
    If you speak to your girls friends then maybe have a chat to them (with her permission) you will get a great insight in to what she is thinking at this moment.
    Stay in touch – even if you have to daily please do. I PROMISE you will feel better tomorrow than you do today. With each day that passes you will become stronger.
    Love & blessings to you x

  69. Author
    Ask Oracle June 14th, 2011

    @69ways (John Smith)

    I cant do this anymore honestly….I some times want a truck to run me over and get it over with.

    Its very important that you pay attention to your health. You’ll be surprised to know that certain intoxicants are responsible for our sadness and you need to get rid of these toxins as soon as possible. And yes this will help you in your relationship issues too.

    Detoxification of body is the keyword and it will really help you. Here are a few suggestions –
    a) Fasting – Avoid solid food for at least 24 hours.
    b) Exercises – Try Sun Salutations at least 12 rounds, very effective. – http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f
    c) Massages – Take a full body massage and it will help you heal.
    d) Breathing – Breath deeply and try to relax.

    Try these and other ideas and they will be really helpful.

  70. 69ways June 14th, 2011

    I never cheated and never disappeared, she is the woman of my life i would not do that.
    I always answered the phone , she did not.
    Yes she is insecure but I believe my absence will show her that i was the one supporting her and those are her words.
    I was there for her always even after breaking up and she thanked me for this.

    Surprise her you say 🙂 i showed up with 29 flowers and one fake and i said:I will love you until the last one dies………..
    3500 usd it cost me.
    I was called selfish because i went to destroy her birthday….

    Love like our does not come every day she said after the break up but happy endings are only in films she said.
    Regarding my comms.
    I told her every day i love her, every day i told her i miss her and every day i told her she is the most wonderful person that came across my life…god i am in tears writing this.
    I cant do this anymore honestly….I some times want a truck to run me over and get it over with.
    some will call me weak but you dont know what it means to drive and see her in front of you or play iphone videos to hear her calling you darling…..Isabelle I love you and always will

  71. aries23 June 13th, 2011

    @69ways (John Smith)
    Hi there,
    I am happy to help & sincerely hope that I can bring you some comfort. I cant bare the thought of someone hurting so much. Particularly because i know how it feels. Again I am going through a similar situation but it is up to you what you choose to take from my advice as I am seeing it from your girls perspective.
    You say you had a small fight, is this the first time your gf has ended it?
    Also you said you would break-up as you needed attention, ie your gf not answering calls etc. Did you ever do this to her? The reason I ask is that taurus are famous for their disappearing acts. Believe me I am experiencing one now! If you have pulled this on your girl, this is not only hurtfull its agonising and so painful you cant imagine.
    You say she didnt answer the phone – this tells me you were doubting her. If this is the case I cant stress enough please DO NOT let doubt & your own insecurities get in the way of the great & very rare type of love you have for eachother. Sweeping generalisation I know but most Aries females cant abide cheating. They are too straightforward to behave like that. So by doubting her you are making her feel unappreciated this in turn will make her feel like she is a disappointment to you.
    Instead of waiting for her to call why dont you call her? I dont advise texting its not the answer & generally leads to more problems. Can you go and see her? Surprise her? The next time she contacts you – find out what she is doing at the weekend and surprise her.
    But please do not shut her out from the feelings you have for her. Believe me aries woman love nothing more than when you open up to us – you will receive more love back.
    Also can you try and learn more about her personal issues so as to help/understand what she is going through?
    You truly have to believe she loves you more than life & is prepared to walk over fire for you. Equally as much you have to believe you deserve this wonderful love she has to give and accept it in anyway.
    You have to believe you can sort this out and that you are capable of showing your love. You sound like a wonderful man so think about all your great qualities and how you romanced her in the beginning. Focus on the positive – show her you’ve changed for the better. What mistakes did you make? Again im sure this girl is extremely insecure. She wants/needs security & stability. Do you think it because of something that has happened between you that has made this insecurity anifest?
    Rememeber Taurus can be extremely stubborn & are not great at communicating how they feel.
    Please have faith in the love you share, focus on the positive, your future together and the great life you will have. Concentrate on what you can do for her and with her.
    All the very best x ps keep me posted

  72. 69ways June 13th, 2011

    First of all thank you for the reply.
    we are 31 and 29 and both have been involved in long relationships , me in 2 previous LDR.
    I tried to explain the past is the pst and that we should forget all and start over but its to late she says.
    We just had a small fight and she said it was over.
    She felt cold.
    I used to break up with her because i needed attention, for example not answering her phone when she was out for hours used to drive me nuts.

    I spoke to her about our dreams.
    She said everybody makes dreams.
    We are both highly educated so the level of understanding is there.
    I can continue been in her life as it is eating up alive, waiting for her next call her next sms.
    I am so in love with her I cant do this anymore.
    I offered her to meet up for holidays, se said no because we will have a good time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    She makes 10 000 usd a month and her health is great so no those are not the reasons.
    She has personal issues that is a fact.
    She thought i was cheating because i could remember when was the last time my ex gf was for vacation on the island i leave, guess what…. it was before i met my Aries.

    I love her so much, i would not give up my pride and freedom but my right side also.
    She does not know how much energy my love for her is.
    It makes me sad i love her so much and i cant give it to her i end up in tears.
    Yes i did some stupid mistakes but i showed i changed,its to late i get….
    Dont now what else to do.
    BTW its my second continues Aries LDR…i attract them for a reason.

    I know one thing, this Aries took my heart and left and i have ended up having love i cant give,thinking of a woman i cant see and been afraid that i lost my sister soul, the puzzle of my lost self….

  73. aries23 June 13th, 2011

    @69ways (John Smith)

    I found reading your story quite painful – its hard to read that two people in love are going through such a difficult time. First of all things should’nt be that hard!
    I thoroughly agree with Oracle that there is no doubt you both are very much in love however your relationship needs some direction. Dont sweat the small stuff Mr Taurus. The past is the past and thats where it should stay. Definately be more expressive & appreciative of your girl.
    I read that you both were very much in love in the beginning. How long did it take for you two to actually ‘become official’? Also your girlfriend sounds extremely insecure – what was the reason you would break up with her all the time? How old are you both? And did you have previous long term relationships (is there any baggage or trust issues as a reult?). Why did the relationship finally breakdown 4 months ago? Also what has given your girl a reason to think you are seeing other women? I will not even comment on the accusation because to me thats your girl just lashing out and (im sure most aries women will agree) saying something without thinking. Believe me she will not forgive herself for saying such things in the heat of the moment.
    You say you did not want to know after this – but what seems to be going on here is a push/pull situation. And I quote the Oracle ‘the love you are talking about is only possible when both persons are ready to give up their pride and freedom in favour of service, submission & oneness’.
    You have to look at the things you may have done to this girl to make her feel the way she does. I am not saying she is an innocent party but she is definately insecure.
    I know she does not want you out of her life or you WOULD NOT be receiving any contact at all. However you both seem to have communication barriers.
    PLEASE do not ignore her when she reaches out to you. This will only frustrate and anger her further. Also do not tell her you love her SHOW her. Why dont you show her you want to fight for the relationship – she will do the same.
    Think about what you both dreamed about for your future and start making it happen. Are you sure there are no other issues you are maybe not considering that is adding to the pressure she is under ie financial, work, health?
    Can you offer he some help in this dept as a friend and take it from there?
    Why dont you offer to go on holiday? A long weekend and get to the route of the problem. There may be a lot of things she is not telling you as she does not want to burden you with her problems. And in true Aries style bottles it up only to try and deal with it on her own.
    But please do not ignore her – this will only build up resentment.
    Theres a lot of love between you – leave the past mistakes behind and start again. Dont forget to enjoy the experience and be happy.
    The reason I can comment on your situation is because my story is very similar to yours. I had a long distance ‘thing’ (cant call it a relationship) with a taurus male. Its been going on for almost a year now. We would communication via phone and texting. And have only managed to meet up once. I think I hurt him because of my own insecurities and now he wont even talk to me. Its agonising & I think I am making it worse as I keep trying to sort it out. Anyways I am truly hurt that he has disappeared from my life. Im scared that I will shut him out completely. I just wish he would contact me and open up.
    All the very best with your girl – keep us posted x

  74. Author
    Ask Oracle June 11th, 2011

    @69ways (John smith)
    The Love you are talking about is only possible when both the persons are ready to give up their pride and freedom in favor of service, submission and oneness. This is called unconditional love. This is very difficult and its better that you have some realistic expectations.

    Your case is a perfect example of conditional love. It comes with “Terms and Conditions”, read your posts above and think about it for a while.

    Yes, you two can be just friends and listen to each other, care for each other and stuff. You don’t have to be too emotional, just give each other freedom and respect and get busy with Life.

  75. 69ways June 10th, 2011

    cant be friends with her……..
    How can you be in love and friends.
    Do these kind of aries ever change their mind?

  76. Author
    Ask Oracle June 10th, 2011

    @69ways (John smith)
    In that case you should respect her decision and just be friends. No more demands, no more complaints. Get busy with life.

    It is important to understand that “constantly thinking” about her is not Love. It is even more important to understand that there is no such thing as loving to death. Try a water only diet for a day and you’ll know.

    If you don’t pay attention to your health and mind now, you might end up having a depression. Take up a daily body exercise routine and it will help.

    There’s more to it but one step at a time… 🙂

  77. 69ways June 10th, 2011

    I did but she said is to late and not coming back….. I just want to make her happy and have babies…

  78. Author
    Ask Oracle June 10th, 2011

    @69ways (John smith)
    What would you like to know??

    Looks like a good relationship needs some direction. You would have realized by now that LOVE is such a beautiful and great experience. Then why let small things disturb and distort its beauty.

    You can forgive yourself for all mistakes you might have done in the past. Then forgive her too. Its never too late to be more expressive, submissive and appreciative. Choose laughter when she says/does something that you don’t like. Mistakes are funny, aren’t they?? 😉

    Understand that she too feels the pain and hurt. Know that Love is testing you both, and don’t let fears, anger, doubts kill it.

    Wake up and embrace Love. Build trust and things will be fine.

  79. 69ways June 10th, 2011

    Ok read this and tell me please please please, a bit long:
    Had a LDR due to my studies and planned to move to her country soon.

    4,5 years together she said I was the love of her life the minute she saw me.

    Got engaged but we had minor issues over the distance and she was stressing.

    Ended up fighting and I had the bad habit of breaking up with her but always sorted out after an hour or two.I know it was bad to do that.

    She finally left me 4 months ago but 3 weeks after the break up we met for valentines and was perfect.She was crying and unsure about everything saying she has depression.

    She stayed for 2 days instead of a week because she was hurting me she said.

    She went back and told me it was over but told my mother she does not want her to loose me from her life and has feelings for me.

    I surprised her a month later on her bd with 30 flowers but i only got:
    You are selfish and accused even for dating other women, thing i never did, got accused for even trying to steal money from her 4 years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I was soooo hurt.

    After that i did not want to know.

    She begged for 2 days to speak to her and fix things.

    I finally gave in just for her to turn things around again.

    After that I went NC but called me 2 weeks later crying without a reason and thanking me for been there always.
    Is not the first time she calls, the max she stayed away was two weeks, she always calls within a few days.

    A week later , yesterday , i asked her if she is with anybody and she said angry no.
    She said she got angry i am making conclusions.
    I told her i miss her and love her but no respond from her so I said good night.

    She kept my engagement ring and she said she will send back my clothes but has not.

    Last week got a photo from her with a painting.
    I ignored her,she called, I ignored again.

    Called back, she ignored my bit called two days later.
    Told her not to call me unless she has something important to say as I love her but she is messing e up.

    She was wondering why and that she tried to help me as i am having a hard time and that she wants to know how i will be doing.
    She sais she never got angry when i said i love you, because she knows is hard for me.
    She pointed out she needs to know how i am doing.
    I said u will not.
    U call me if you got anything important, even if u meet a guy i said.
    Its been a week with NC.

    I love this crazy Aries to death, I even say goodnight to her photos at night…….

  80. Author
    Ask Oracle April 26th, 2011

    @kyuubiangel@hotmail.com To tell someone that “I am doing such a crappy thing to you because I don’t want to hurt you” is a big lie on face and you must be deeply in love that you didn’t see it happening.

    As you try to cling to her and hold her from going away, she has been trying equally harder to pull away from you.

    If you really want that she comes back to you in future, the best way to do that is to ENCOURAGE her with whatever she wishes to do. You need to support her in her decisions. You should say “Wow! I am so happy that you care so much for me and I think you are right.”

    It can be difficult to let go of someone whom you love so deeply but this is something that’s best for you and her. Also if she had really cared for you and had same feelings for you as you have for her, she would never do that to you. Not a person to keep any contact with. Run away!

  81. kyuubiangel@hotmail.com April 25th, 2011

    my aries just talked about breaking with me… my aries said she has lots of commitments. and she is gaining rights to do alot of things that she wants to do and she will not give it up for a rs. She thinks that in the future this will hurt me. and she doesnt want to hurt me anymore becasue it hurts her too and she cannot allow her love for me to deepen anymore becasue of this. i rly want her… what should i do?

    Its been a month now…
    things are getting abit out of hand. she is trying to pull off the connections we have.. and she asked me wont the wait hurt me… i said no… but she said its not worth it. i shouldnt wait and there is no point in waiting. becasue in the end at some point we will still have to let go… i dunno what i should do now…

  82. Author
    Ask Oracle April 15th, 2011

    @julesfordale3 Going into a relationship is a great thing but doubting and being fearful is not!

    At this time its more important for you to get rid of anything and everything that might be limiting your CAPACITY to experience LOVE. And its easy.

    Focus on your health and do daily exercises. This will make you more attractive and confident.

    Keep patience and feel free to express your love and feelings in a non-demanding and non-controlling way.

  83. julesfordale3 April 15th, 2011

    I am an aries woman who is coming out of depression, anxiety and an unhealthy relationship. I feel I am ready to move on and be happy again.

    Im about to embark in a relationship w/ a Taurus man … am I making a huge mistake? Even though I feel strong, I know who ever comes into my life will need to handle me with kid gloves. bouts of ignoring me or cold shoulders even would hurt me to the core right now.

    Some advice would be great … thx

  84. aries23 April 13th, 2011

    how do I get him to stop ignoring me? And meet up to talk about it? I don’t want to just show up & freak him out I can’t deal with the silence. I know he is doubting me (long distance thing) but I haven’t as much as looked at another man. I love him but have never told him this either. I want him in my life I know this now.

  85. Taurus April 9th, 2011

    A typical aries woman would have the motto “you will get what u put into this world” but what is annoying about aries women is that You’s claim to be tough women but sometimes let people walk over you.

    Aries women are a mystery.

  86. aries April 8th, 2011

    I am engaged to be married to a Taurus and love him dearly. He understands me and I understand him. so love to Taurus !!

    OMG that movie really gets to me too. she is so driven nothing will stand in her way from accomplishing what she wants in life that is so aries but yet one kiss from that special person will melt heart. I love my Taurus so much

  87. ariesgal April 7th, 2011

    @aries above haha, I love it, yes a typical Aries. The stability brings us back every time.

  88. aries April 7th, 2011

    This movie will always remind me off he stable Taurus with the unpredictable Aries.

    http://youtu.be/flQAfFrVP1k

  89. anotheraries April 6th, 2011

    Thanks Taurus for your advice, I questioned him and made the mistake of telling him I was interested in someone else trying to get him to tell me how he felt about me. If you know Aries so well, you will know we are the type of women that will sit about thinking of him constantly and not interested in other men at all. I was thinking may be it is too late as it has been 2 weeks now with him ignoring my text messages and phone calls.

  90. Taurus guy April 6th, 2011

    Im a Taurus man and there is no need to question a Taurus man, for some reason the longer it takes to develope a relation ship with us the longer the relationship will last. For example if you guys have a fight the longer you go without talking the more he will think about you, but what ever you do dont let him think you are lying to him or are interested in someone else. thats the best way to get him to go long periods of time Ignoring you.

    I have not spoken to my Aries girl in months, she is gone quiet now with no contact. I do know how Aries operate as my mother and sister are aries. I Know Aries females to be of high standards, and do not settle for just anyone, and do the best they can in everything that interest them, but I also know from my own girl when I need to walk away give her, her own space and then come back to her.

  91. anotheraries April 6th, 2011

    If I back off a Taurus will he want more, I miss him and really loved him but do question the way he feels about me..

  92. Aries April 6th, 2011

    @aries above – I think it depends on the aries, This site is more accurate for me personally.

  93. Aries April 6th, 2011

    ARIES ARE DEFIANTLY ONE OF A KIND. TAURUS ARE DEFIANTLY PRINCE CHARMING AT TIMES.

    The strong Aries is unforgettable. The Aries person by nature are usually aggressive, impulsive, determined and extremely optimistic. They are risk takers and expect the best out of people. They are always on the move pursuing new and exciting things. They are extreme givers and would break their back to help another. Aries don’t like living in the past with its regrets. Instead they have a competitive side and may spend their lives striving for success without compromising truths.
    A Taurus person can be viewed as stubborn minded. They will live in the past especially the hurt from previous experiences. This also gives rise to their pessimistic behaviors which in turn can generate a life of greed that lacks creativity. They want a stable life which may require being alone because they can be very self-sufficient and resentful. However, they do have a warm side that exercises thoughtful wisdom and even a sense of humor. Taurus people do require a lot of relaxation and down time to get through life.
    Taurus will tolerate the very aggressive Aries who may try to come across as composed to show strength. Taurus understands the fire behind the Aries courage and strength. But also understands the problem of manic decisions and risk taking and the overall underlying issue of Aries being very susceptible to other taking advantage of him/her. But the strong, drive of an Aries will attract the Taurus especially when the Taurus is looking for security in financial aspects as well as others. The Aries will bring forth the new creativity and the Taurus will sculpt it into results. In doing so, much caution is need as an Aries will seem too overpowering and unorganized causing the Taurus frustrations that may lead to dysfunction as the Aries sees weakness holding him/her back and the Taurus sees too much room for error and lack of stability.
    However, the Aries will examine the sensibility that Taurus offers, but secretly of course. It may benefit the Aries to have someone bring them down to earth every once in a while and defiantly keep themselves out of trouble. The Taurus may begin to ignore the Aries mighty dreams and ideas which in turn raise insecure and depressed feeling with Aries. For if Aries cannot be the worlds best champion, what good are they, in their own minds. And an Aries will leave at the thought of not being someone’s champion. If a Taurus feels too much heat from Aries, they will withdraw and issue a statement of silence to Aries which in turn will annoy Aries. Taurus may also flood Aries with negativity to drown out his emotional enthusiasm. This will also send an Aries into a fury or make him/her back up and move on. They may seem to drive in different directions at times in terms of motivation, but during conflict they can grow stronger by facing and learning traits and techniques they lack.
    Aries may question the introverted Taurus’ ways even when they are enjoying time together. Aries might convince a Taurus to open up to a social world full of life and surprises. In doing so, have the Taurus expose his/her loves and passions such as for art, music, outdoors or even a simple hobby. The Aries should not push the Taurus too hard to leave their comfort zone or assert any decisions. Taurus will not tolerate this if he/she feels too much of a push for change. But the Taurus may listen and open up if Aries gives a sensible approach. Both have a lot to teach each other if they are willing and approached in the right manner with a delicate balance of sensitivity and respect. For the Taurus can also help Aries see the negative consequence of his/her rash and impulsive behaviors. And again sensitivity is needed here because the one thing an Aries hates is being told they’re wrong or misguided.
    When analyzing the contrasting natures of Aries and Taurus, it is important to know that ones strength will be considered the others weakness. At first one may conclude that blending the two natures would serve both Aries and Taurus well, but this has its drawbacks. For one, both are set strong in their ways and have learned to live and succeed, which only reinforces their behaviors making them harder to break. To blend would be to change and both are not apt to change any time soon. It feels that a blending would denature the very diversity of Aries and Taurus. If both are to get along they must fully understand each other and not force unwanted change. Besides, both bring valuable tools to the table of life.

    http://www.ask-oracle.com/sign-compatibility/aries-taurus/

  94. Ariesgirl23 April 4th, 2011

    To Taurus April 4th – “More of an astrological question here. I’m a Taurus and dated an aries woman and may have come across too distant at times. Anyone have any advice on how to win her back? I know they’re very competitive, very focused on the chase and can also be the jealous types, which she is all three. What strategy would make her recognize me again as a potential partner?
    I did screw things up with her. We hit it off really well, just an issue of timing for her. We had actually had a lot in common, and I she loved me, but a lot going on in both of our lives. Are Aries the types that make permanent decisions or is there a possibility of a chance at some later point? I really felt a solid connection and would hate, for the sake of both of us, to see it thrown away due to timing or mistakes.”

    I lived with a taurus man for almost two years – he rented a room from me as he lived 2 hours away and came to my home town for work. He had a girlfriend when I met him so nothing ever happened (cant abide people who cheat on their partners) but I was instantly attracted to him and we formed a close friendship. He finally left after working in the town for 2 years. We lost touch and I didnt hear from him again for 5 years. So last summer (after 5 years) I had to get in touch with him regarding a tax issue and texted him he answered formally then we started flirting. He told me he was single so this grew into daily texts up to 40+ per day. Him asking me all sorts of questions and me answering. Him saying things I have NEVER heard before from a man (trust me I am very attractive and smart) but he just melted my heart. I met up with him (he lives 2 hours away) eventually, and had a great night – it was mind-blowing. The next day I was really nervous and I think he was too. I left to go home and he asked me to let him know I was home safe. I didnt. I eventually texted him a week later (having heard nothing from him). And said ‘I know you were not feeling it’ he texted back ‘I know you were not feeling it too’. I was crushed and this has pretty much led to me chasing him for almost 9 months to try and rectify the situation. I have now moved even further away (6 hours away) and have texted him religiously every weekend (mostly when I have a glass of wine). Sometimes he responds other times he doesnt bother. We have actually had fights via text message. I know now I have to let him be and stop all communication. We both need space a lot of space. For me to communicate with him ever again he will have to tell me how he feels about me & show me. And it will have to be a pretty grand gesture!! For months it has been me initiating the conversation and he just seems so uninterested. I have been in a spin for so long about this man. I know I love him so much but have no idea how he feels about me. I have not as much as looked at another man because I was simply not interested. Well it has stopped now and I am dating again.
    Basically if you are looking to get your ex back please intiate contact, tell her how you feel from your heart (dont be afraid it will bring you both closer together) & show her. If you have wronged her then assure her it will not happen again (and make sure it doesnt).
    Because I am so done with my Taurus now believe me I have waited almost a year for this guy to tell me how he feels and I can not take the mind games a minute longer. I have stopped all contact and if what taurus (March 28th) said is true and my taurus comes back to me – I hope for his sake its not too late. My heart is harder now because of this man. I never knew that an actual pain in your chest existed until now. However I have to accept some of the blame too. I love him so much and its sad that he cant see it. But I have to move on for my own sake.
    So again please – communicate with your aries lady. Tell her how you feel and you will experience a love like no other.
    Best wishes xx

  95. aries April 4th, 2011

    @ Taurus, I have to agree with Ask Oracle. Its not very often you’d see an Aries holding a grudge against someone they once loved.

    If you want her back, text her or be her friend and that will show her u really care, the rest will then happen.

  96. Author
    Ask Oracle April 4th, 2011

    @above, Work on your health, lifestyle and outlook. This will help you to gain her confidence. Also work towards having a genuine friendship, rest will happen on its own.

  97. Taurus April 4th, 2011

    More of an astrological question here. I’m a Taurus and dated an aries woman and may have come across too distant at times. Anyone have any advice on how to win her back? I know they’re very competitive, very focused on the chase and can also be the jealous types, which she is all three. What strategy would make her recognize me again as a potential partner?

    I did screw things up with her. We hit it off really well, just an issue of timing for her. We had actually had a lot in common, and I she loved me, but a lot going on in both of our lives. Are Aries the types that make permanent decisions or is there a possibility of a chance at some later point? I really felt a solid connection and would hate, for the sake of both of us, to see it thrown away due to timing or mistakes.

  98. Ariesbabi April 3rd, 2011

    I’m an aries and just met a taurus…well its funny because he was chasing me for almost 9mths lol. I finally just gave him a chance and it is awesome! He is so patient, gentle, charismatic and sweet, but only with me. I feel so exclusive in how he treats me :)) He is really nothing to play with when someone upsets him. I love that about him. He always tells me when he first laid eyes on me he instantly fell in love at first sight and said to himself “however long it takes he will be with me”. This maybe the best love I ever had! :))

  99. arieslover April 3rd, 2011

    I am a Taurus and my girlfriend is an Aries. The entire profile describing Aries female is spot on. She’s very intelligent, independent, and hard-working individual. I find Aries females to be of high standards, not settling for anything or anyone just like that. Though, I wouldn’t say that its a negative thing, sometimes I feel she doesn’t realize how brutally honest she can be, which in turn can be painful. I am always concerned about her feelings, so I am easy on her. But no one is perfect. She is short-tempered and I am usually calm, so it actually works very well for us. I know she loves me very much and treats me just as fair as I treat her. When I annoy or mess with her she in turn will retaliate, when I show her I love her she gives back 10 times more love. She is very romantic and is always doing the best she can to maintain our relationship. I know I have a true woman by my side, one I am really proud to be with.

  100. sexyarien March 28th, 2011

    Thank You Taurus. I miss him, I’m done chasing him but would like him back.

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