Aries Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility

As the thrilling Aries soul comes in contact with the sensitive Cancer soul, they make a strange combination of fire and water which provides both warmth and gentleness to their relationship. Sometimes the heat may soar up or both may experience high tides but if tackled well they make one of a kind lovely relationship.

An Aries man is just the kind of man who provides all security and protection to the lady love of his life. He is highly independent and hates to be dictated over any subject whether personal or professional. He is extremely active and hates any kind of monotony in life. Aries man in love with a Cancer woman always provides to be a stimulating companion with exciting ideas and appreciating words. His possessiveness always gives a sense of security to the emotional Cancer woman but at times his cruel words hurt her deep, making her murky.

Feelings of a Cancer woman are very tender and she gets hurt very frequently but her loyalty never let her leave her dear ones. In love with an Aries man, a Cancer woman always provides him with all the love, care and understanding but sometimes her caring attitude may seize his independence that makes Aries man feel uneasy.

Cancer woman is just a synonym to calmness, patience and love. She is such an imaginative and intellectual person who can well manage both her profession and home with her wise decisions and tender gestures. Being in love with a Cancer woman can provide an Aries man with heaven on earth as she is so fulfilling in all the demands of love and care put by the Aries man. She is gentle and always ready to be a cheerful companion, on whom he can always count, at the times of trouble. But she is extremely possessive and her caring attitude is sometimes so domineering that it can make an Aries man feel like getting dragged. The Aries man should remember that the way to keep his lady fair content in the relationship is understand her mood swings and shower her with lots of love and affection.

The Aries man dedicates himself to the relationship when he is able to believe that he is the dominating partner amongst the two. Since the Cancer woman is now tugged in with the Aries man she always needs to remember that he wants to enjoy sufficient freedom in the relationship and his woman must have absolute faith in his abilities and strengths. At times the warm Cancer woman finds him to be arrogant and self absorbed person but still he is very comforting and reassuring partner in all ups and downs of life. His fiery ways are exciting and even draining at times which brings a new excitement and zeal in her life. Aries man’s abrasiveness with his words and lack of tack with his opinions cut up a Cancer woman and she becomes insecure regarding the relationship and reacts emotionally and irrationally at times.

When these two signs absorb each other graciously, there is no love that is as passionate as that between an Aries and Cancer because this combination of fire and water lasts forever. Their unison becomes so strong that their emotions melt and become a running brook that sings its melody to the night. They wake up at dawn with winged hearts and give thanks for another day to love each other. When completely drenched in love the Cancer woman loosens her grip as she know that her alpha male will never leave her alone in stormy nights and the soothing touch of love also teaches the Aries man to be more considerate and compassionate towards his moony lassie. With every passing day their love becomes pristine and they walk hand-in-hand on the long road of life knowing their love is strong and will keep the flames alive….!

For an Aries man physical intimacy is a passion and necessity of the relationship while for a Cancer woman it is more to do with the emotions and the feeling of being wanted and loved. He has a very high sex drive but for her love, affection and mood comes first. Aries always want instant gratification and don’t have much patience but this calm maiden often requires to be gently and subtly coaxed to open up and express her intimacy. But still an Aries man is a perfect match to flame up the cool water of a Cancer woman which is enthusiastically received by her. The lovemaking between these two turns out to be as beautiful as the rainbow when all the colors of love and passion are blended with the closeness of their hearts and forms. There is an affectionate approach of sexual intimacy in Aries man which stirs up all the needs and desires of typically insecure Cancer woman making her feel safe in the arms of this sturdy man.

Aries are innocent beings with a great virtue of loyalty. Their courage is admirable and they keep blind faith in their love. But Aries also possess some traits such as egoism, impulsiveness and rudeness that make a Cancer feel insure. While on the other hand Cancer are very imaginative, kind and tender people. Some personae of Cancer that beat up the enthusiastic Aries spirit are clinginess, moodiness and possessiveness. If they manage to overcome the sensitive issue of finances, through mutual give-and-take, Aries and Cancer hold the potential of building some solid dream castles together. And a little bit more sensitivity on the part of Aries can actually help the relationship to blossom fragrantly!

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    shanaiya October 12th, 2016

    Wolimoli that’s so true

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    ladybugprincess511 February 24th, 2016

    @susieev okay. I truly love this comment. I\’m a cancer female and have a huge crush on an Aries male and this was totally inspiring, so thanks.

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    susieev December 9th, 2015

    I’m a female cancer and I have this massive crush on an aries man. I didn’t notice him at first but once I did it was hard to keep my eyes off of him. I knew that we weren’t compatible but there was always a part of me that said what if? I decided to look at our whole charts and were very compatible. I have to say though it is VERY hard to try and understand his nature and what motivates his actions. We are both very driven but in different ways. I understand that he is passionate about certain things and I will never try to change him. Sometimes it’s just hard to understand him. However, I noticed that once I put my full trust in him that’s when our relationship blossomed. By nature, cancers are very cautious and sentsitive people. But once I let that go and put my faith in him, everything changed. I became more confident not just in our relationship but in myself as well. And that was a huge step to take. I think, for this relationship, there is potential for growth if we let it. Together we both evolved into very different but amazing indiviudals. It’s the most beautiful thing to happen together though. To grow and evolve into better people. That’s all I ever wanted and this aries man helped me change the way I wanted to be changed. My mom is an aries and we are like best friends. I mess with her and we crack jokes all the time. However, her words hurt like hell. Maybe that’s just her nature. Idk. All I know is that I love her. With the aries man, I know that we are better together. I lost him once and I’m not planning on losing him again.

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    deja0721 September 25th, 2015

    I am a Cancer Leo cusp female (18) dating an Aries male (15) for six months now, almost seven lol. We met in high school through a Pisces male friend we have, and honestly it is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I dated three cancers, three sagittarians, a Taurus, and a Capricorn before him. None of them worked half as well as this one does. After only three weeks, we were talking about marriage and kids and how we want to be together forever. It’s definitely not easy. He doesn’t understand my sensitivity AMD constant need for affection and sometimes he says really hurtful things. Also, I’m a bit clingy and dramatic, so we do get into tiffs here and there. However, we always make up right away. I don’t want anyone else and I get so scared sometimes. I’m terrified that I’ll end up being hurt again because of our general compatibility. I don’t know what i would do if I lost him. I’d be devastated, because he honestly has saved my life and brought me true happiness.

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    serenity74 April 9th, 2015

    @AriesX26…so what happened with your cancer co-worker? 

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    AriesX26 March 29th, 2014

    hello everyone,
    Let me start off by explaining a little bit about myself. I come from a very disfunctional family, so emotionally I consider myself VERY strong. Especially with the fact that I grew up with only sisters who trampled on my aries pride and emotions like nothing. But with all that being done to me I’m an incredibly strong and mature Aries now. the very first girl I’ve ever talked to was a scorpio who stung me really bad, but that made me way stronger and I became my own antidote! My fire was blown out by an aquarius, and dated two pisces who were both liars and very manipulative. As of now, I’m harder, stronger, better, and wiser. I am currently in a relationship with a Leo girl and we just seem to argue so much! I feel like although I’m young at heart and my sign says I love to fight and argue, i get so sick of drama! Especially when I already come from a bad place. I believe that when the rest of the world is full of negativity, your partner should be your peace and safe haven. Me and my leo CAN get along great, but the negativity just outweighs the good times. I can deal with her negativity for 8 years, but I can’t deal with it for the rest of my life! I’ve never cheated and have never believed in it because of my morals. No matter how honest I am she thinks I’m lying. I’m a very direct person and hate it when I’m being told that I’m dishonest. I come out as a negative person, but I’m actually someone who wants peace and happiness. I’ve sacrificed so much into this that I realized I have nothing. Nothing, but “what if” questions. At work I recently met this girl who’s a cancer. She is such a graceful, pleasant, sweet girl. She’s very pretty, a lot of guys talk about her and I hear many compliments that she can pass for a Victoria Secret model. I’m not going to lie. She does look like a model, but no matter how pretty she is i’m just too faithful and never thought anything else of it. I’m pretty hard to impress. Even another cancer girl I used to talk to told me I play hard to get. (I know, I’m an Aries! I’m supposed to be a big ass jerk and approach every girl I find attractive! Well not me. Especially with how women are these days.) I have a huge thing for feminine ladys! Me and this cancer girl has been working together a lot lately and we started talking A LOT (only at work though) and I CAN NOT believe how much we have in common! Her personality is the reason why I found myself becoming more attracted to her! No matter how much negativity I’ve gone through in life, her soft spoken words, gracefullness and serenity just clears all of it away like a drop of dish soap hitting oil on top of water! I dont want to grow feelings for her though. Whenever us aries are certain about something we hold tighter to it than that of a cancer! well maybe… But all my coworkers have been noticing our vibe and energy. Everyone who’s seen it has told me that they think she likes me. Everytime I’m around we’re both laughing and we’ll catch ourselves seperating from the rest of our coworkers! I honestly feel like she is into me, but I would hate to look like a fool if that’s just how she is in general. The funny thing is, is that I’m the ONLY one she does that to. She even leaves her lady coworkers who are her friends to come and conversate with me. My friend told me that she has asked about me and wished that I worked more than often with her. She also knows of my gf. I think that’s the only reason why we haven’t taken it further. She told me that she’s also been in contact with a guy she’s been talking to for a year, but confirmed like three times in conversation that he’s “only a friend!” I’m really drawn to her. I’ve never even felt like that towards my leo. I’m really confused about all of this. I am not the typical douche bag aries, which I can definitely be, but I’ve got that in check. I’ve been disciplined my entire childhood and I’m genuinely a gentlemen. I can be loud and wild but I pick my moments. In time of need, that’s the only time I put on the cape!

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    Brownie-P March 3rd, 2014

    I am, A Cancer Woman And I’m Currently Engaged To A Aries Male I Must Say The Issue And The Answer Is Understanding That’s the only problem! 

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    thatdamnkat July 25th, 2013

    I’m a Cancer female who is currently dating an Aries male. We’ve been together for a year and we’re currently expecting our first child in October! I was really worried when we first started dating. He is a pretty typical Aries, dominanting, hot headed and masculine. I’m the typical moony sensitive Cancer female. I have to say that this is the best relationship I have ever been in. I’ve dated Virgos, Pisces, Aries and Leos. The Aries I dated before this one cheated on me. He was a total dick, walking all over me and taking advantage of my affections. Then I met my current boyfriend. He is incredibly intelligent and very witty. He matches my cool moodiness and keeps my insecurities in check. It’s rather funny to see us get into an arguement because I become very hot tempered and lash out, he steps back and is as icy as possible. We work very well together. And my goodness, ladies, Aries men in bed are fantastic. They do have a high sex drive. Incredibly high in my experience but if you give it a chance you will eventually get into the swing of things with them and they will open your world up to amazing new things. We have had an issue with possessiveness on both sides but whenever this happens we take a date night and shower one another in love. Everyone is different though so don’t judge an Aries on their “typical” traits. Give them a shot, I think you will be pleasantly surprised. 🙂

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    Love-happenes March 31st, 2013

    I hope it is not to late to let you know that people in this world have married signs that are not to be in the readings of charts.  You as an Aries man should be able to get your love one her being a Cancer to want to be with you so much that what ever sign you are will not count as much as wanting to be spending her life with you.  Another thing about the sun signs it is just to give you some idea on what the life will or might be like with one sign to another.  The saying goes as this it is a fool who is lets the stars rule their life, so go out and live it for all that it is and learn to make your known misstakes and not what someone says might happened.  You also might let your lady know that Aries and Cancer people can learn from one other and from that can work on it like other signs do.  Lot’s of luck. 

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    musicalmel1991 September 3rd, 2012

    I’m a true cancer girl, and everything about my being and persona in life is mostly true. The hardest thing to accept is how me and this guy I’ve seen for about 2 years will never be defined as BF/GF. Our DTR is “Friends with Benefits.” It was a coincidence that we met at a club and when getting to know each other we actually lived a 3 streets down from each other in my home town. I thought it was too good to be true. Sadly it was. Once I moved back home just to take time off from school we spent practically every single day together and well “hooking up”. But once he got another girl and decided to make it official with her being bf/gf, it broke my heart and I ended it. Till the break up and he came running back to me. And even though we went back to the way we were I was already at a far point wanting to be more than just FWBs. But for what a typical Aries want is to keep me in the Friendzone because he already objects that it wouldn’t work out in a serious matter and would hate to loose me completely. But after that point I dont waste time on waiting anymore. It wasn’t so easy to let go. At times I still think about him and wish things turned out the way I wanted it but hey you learn mistakes and I dont regret them.

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    _Jaaasie April 13th, 2012

    Right on! I am a cancerian moon in leo and my man is an arian moon in pisces. He once told me that he thought i am this all tough girl but when he got to know me, he only saw this little girl with a very sensitive side. I agree with him. We’ve been together for almost 4 months now and we’ve been through some minor arguments. He is very adventrous and energetic. He has a child’s heart but when we argue, he talks like a MAN. LOL. We talk about future (this always makes me blush because I LOVE to talk about family) I can’t get enough of this guy 🙂 I think I’ve fallen in love :”>

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    Danica209 April 9th, 2012

    I’m a cancer woman and I just started seeing him. I hear all the time that cancers and Aries clash but on one note my best friend is a female aries and we get along amazing she’s been my best frienda since 12 I’m 21 now. Also I had a male Aries friend from 12-18 n then we gradually grew apart but I lived him he was my best friend. But my mother on the other hand is the definition of a bitch. She’s so fuckin rude to me and my friends and she does think about what she says to people and has no regards to how it affects at times I really wanna kill her. But back to me and this guy. He’s 15 years older then me and he’s really sweet, funny, kind, and so sexually pleasing. But he can be very domineering which I wouldn’t mind in the bedroom but at times his domineering seems bossy n I can’t deal. I also wannathrow in I don’t feel like a typical cancer cuz I don’t sit there n boo hoo when my feelings r hurt. I much rather be straight up n express how I don’t appreciate it n how he need to be more aware about cruel words. But I do admit he is very domineering outside bedroll mom which I can take to an extent butmeh can take it over board n say rude shit when don’t don’t go along with it. I just hope it works cuz he is a sweet, kind, sexy, sexually driven, flirtious, adventurous, loving guy. 

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    love2011 April 3rd, 2012

    are we compatible or can we work out 
    my chart: cancer-rising, cancer-sun, aries-moon, leo-mercury, venus, mars and jupiter, aquarius-saturn, capricorn-uranus and neptune, scorpio-pluto
    his chart: cancer-rising, aries-sun, leo-moon, taurus-mercury, aquarius-venus and mars, cancer-jupiter, capricorn-saturn, uranus and neptune, scorpio-pluto

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    ms.cancer01 February 3rd, 2012

    I’m a Cancer woman madly in love with an Aries man & everything I have read on here is true his moods are annoying at times but I keep up with him everything is pretty amazing as long as the cancer woman knows what shes doing 🙂 

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    ruby13 December 26th, 2011

    @Aisha: Thanks for the hope. 🙂

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    ruby13 December 26th, 2011

    Guys, this seems like a match that is either completely positive or the worst match! Totally depends on the people involved. Im a Cancer woman and my guy is an Aries. His passion is awesome. I do find him boring in his routines, but I manage to add some new sparks and he has ways to keep me going with his love. So, it’s been ok for me until now. The worst part is that he is secretive and slow with his father, even though he has managed to reveal about ourrelationship to his mom! We have been best friends and we know each others’ weaknesses and strengths. So, it depends on us now 🙂

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    lovelychamu October 28th, 2011


    Am Cancerian woman married to Aries man since 2 years and a half. Whatever description given in this compatibility article really happened in my case. Finally my husband, who is too much practical and who is very very hasty in taking decisions has filed a divorce case on me. He didn’t like my clinging and possessiveness. I was asking for his love most of time , however he wanted to be with his frnds all the time. He was more rude and vulgar in his words and he never repented the physical torture he gave me. Even today, am waiting for some realization to flash upon him and hoping that he will stay with me again.

    However, this article says people won’t change and its a bad match for a cancerian girl to marry arian guy. Am I to lose hope?

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    CRobin September 13th, 2011

    I found myself in love with an aries man, he was cool and evasive, very passionate, but had secrets… we tried the living together and everything was fine so I thought but his secrets I could not really read him… Everything seemed perfect, but what I found out is he was a cheater, could not let go of his past and by him holding on, I had to let go or I would find myself growing angry from hurt…they are loving passionate men, which by way we really got along, however he wanted to maintain friends with his past lovers… very selfish and arrogant at times and all that combined in with the fire and water just was emotional.

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    bekahbeast August 14th, 2011

    @Kookie i agree. everyone i am destined to be compatible with bores me too. my best girlfriend is a leo (fire) and ive always loveddd aries (fire) even though fire and water arent supposed to mix…

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    bekahbeast August 14th, 2011

    this made me smile to myself because it seems sooo dead on. Every guy ive ever had feelings for was an aries, and theirs something about them that i still can’t get enough of- even though we clash. The sex was always amazing and for the majority of the time we were happy until- jelousy issues and he stopped trusting me completely.. we broke up after a year and a half. weve been broken up for almost 8 months now and he’s telling me he misses me and im really confused! we are still friends, and i DO want to be with him… i just have to be cautious of his insensitiveness and selfishness. Hope things workout this time~ Their really is no bond like fire and water (:

  35. Tini April 8th, 2011

    I am a Cancer woman married to an Aries man happily for 8 years! We are soulmates & best friends. Our love grows stronger each day, we can’t imagine life without each other. The fire & ice combo works perfectly with us, always exciting and full of love! The longer we’re together the more we learn from each other. Everything I read on here fits us, if you understand how each other are and work through any differences these two signs are one of the best relationships! <3

  36. Kookie March 19th, 2011

    You can’t really look at horoscopes and signs, every person is an individual. I would say im not the typical cancer woman, and that my man is not the typical aries man. We have an extremely nice flow, and we arent afraid of saying things that may hurt (as we mostly joke about those stuff). I think it helps also that you have experience from other relationships. I was with a man for many years who was at that time the most good-hearted man i’ve ever seen. But i became bored of him, and in he end i realized he wasnt really my type. And astrologies told us that we suited together. I think that sometimes astrologies are wrong in many ways, but some stuff are true. But it all comes down to the person himself. Just because he is an aries man, doesnt make him a cheater.

  37. Rachy March 16th, 2011

    Im a cancer women with an aries man. I can see the differences between us but he was the best thing to come into my life after my last destructive cancer cancer relationship and i love the very bonus of him and the sex is amazing. He is my best friend and is very intelligent but can cut me to the wick with a few harsh words. He is independant and i encouraged him to go out now he doesnt want to. Cancerians must try an aries partner as they are amazing and i wouldnt swop my man for the world.

  38. BEE March 9th, 2011

    I’m a cancer girl dating a aries man. He is much older than me so I think that helps out in our dynamic because he is actaully in control due to him being more mature than I. He is quite loving and tender but I am afraid that because we are so different internally we may not get along well in the future. Despite this, it is very true that opposites attract. Like opposite magnetic fields, it is extremely hard to pull a Cancer away from an Aries. I believe that every relationship is possible and not doomed by the stars. Some may be easier than others but that may also cause boredome. So far things are good with our relationship – though I do see that I am moody and he is not. Through communication though, we have been successful in trying to understand eachother’s feelings. I hope to marry this man one day so all the above comments make me confident that we will be totally in love – have our problems (that will likely keep our flame alive) – and hopefully through communication and compromise be together forever. <3

  39. Barbie March 1st, 2011

    I’m a cancer girl and i have aries boyfriend… i like him soo much but the other girl i found him looking someone else. I cried for one day long. Doesn’t matter how good looking i am, he just hurt me soo much. I’m afraid he will hurt me more in the future. And also he doesn’t talk about marriage. I do want to get married 🙁 i’m going to cry right now and i’ll be back to write more.

  40. cancer 75 February 27th, 2011

    aries78, I was with an aries man for eight years. In the beginning it was beutiful, but as the years went on he started being very insecure about himself because he wasn’t able to provide and be the man he wanted to be. I was fine with that, because I was the provider. He shortly then started cheating on me, because I worked all the time to provide for our family. I forgave him then he did it several more times and I felt as though I was being used then. He then started to verbally abuse me and have fall outs with my children I could no longer take it, so I kicked him to the curb. I still love him, but he has a lot of growing up to do. We tried everything and it didn’t work. But, I think if it’s meant to happen whether she strongly believe in astrology or not, the MAN up above has the last say so….So if you believe, he will make it happen…Just keep praying about it and go to church, both of you….I’ll be praying for you all.

  41. Bill Kinsey February 14th, 2011

    Thank You!
    I love my mate with every fiber of my being!

  42. ang January 15th, 2011

    i am a cancer woman with an aries man. we have been married 6 years and we are still deeply passionately in love. he is the best thing that ever happened to me and we are both really committed.

  43. dessy January 9th, 2011

    I am a cancer girl in love with a cancer boy, we have been together for about a year and there has been lots of ups and downs, he is passionate and makes my heart race, and at other times he is insensitive and acts as if he doesn’t care about our relationship but says he DOES care.
    I think aries men have expressive problems personally.

  44. Mark January 9th, 2011

    I am an aries man, its true that not all aries and cancers are the same, but i do have to admit that what’s missing between an aries man and a cancer female is there chines astrology, say i am an aries man but a rabbit too, and my girl is a cancer woman but a monkey one, if you combine both west and east signs you will find more indepth detail on your compatibilites, any way i am doing find with my girl and i am starting to date her and so far its a blast, any way i hope i help with my post in some ways

  45. eva_rossi December 28th, 2010

    i’m a cancer woman and i had a long-term relationship with an Aries this is what i say to all cancer women: keep away from aries men, they do not deserve it.. soon or later they get bored without any obvious reason and they would cheat you even if you look like Gisele Bunchen !!

  46. Qtee September 23rd, 2010

    I am a 35 year old cancer female dating a 31 year old aries male. We have been dating for almost four years and it has been an absolute roller coaster. I have been married and in other relationships but never have I loved a man the way that I love this man…to the point of insanity and I believe he feels the same for me, in fact I know he does.
    Unfortunately, we are your typical aries/cancer combo with just a few exceptions. I am overly sensitive, he is insensitive but doesn’t realize it because he would never purposely hurt someone, yet he hurts me a lot. I hurt him too as I am a somewhat domineering cancer and he is a very domineering aries. I am very needy and tend to pout in the corner and take away the affection he craves when he hurts me. He of course loves his freedom and is constantly on the go leaving me feeling neglected and insecure. He is a flirt, well liked in our small town, and very attractive, but like most aries, can be loyal when very much in love. He doesn’t believe I can be loving and affectionate because he doesn’t understand it is in a cancer’s nature to withdraw into her shell when scared, angry, or hurt, and that means taking all of the good with her. I, like most cancers, can be very loving and affectionate to the point of being clingy, and have shown him this side of me many times in the beginning but he seems to think that side of me is gone…it’s not, it’s just tucked in my cancer crab shell. I realize after the fact that I do this but can’t seem to help it because although I am a very logical person when I am calm, I am ruled by my emotions like most cancers. For me love, sex, and affection go with my mood…and of course I am very moody. He on the other hand has the typical aries temper and is oblivious to how insensitive he can be as most aries are so to him it’s always my fault. We use to live together but he has recently moved out although we still want to be together…I want marriage and he wants to see if we can learn to get along first. I don’t feel we should be having sex if we aren’t getting married of even living together cause if he doesn’t have enough confidence in us to get married then I doubt we will last and again, for me, sex goes with love, trust, affection, mood, and being happy. We do have financial problems and I do sometimes make him feel like I think less of him because I make more money and he is working on starting a business of his own, but I don’t do this on purpose, I never mean to but I guess it comes across that way. Most cancers need some financial stability and security so it is a big deal when we don’t have it, but like most aries he is very ambitious as well as a bit of a risk taker which scares me but also makes me very proud of him; when we met he owned his own business and although he isn’t in it anymore we are hopeful his new business will take off and prosper. We are in a catch 22, I want more time, attention,sensitivity, patience, and affection as well as marriage, but because he is out trying to conquer the world he tends to neglect me without realizing it and I in turn pull away from him depriving him of the love, affection, and sometimes sex that he craves…and He has a very high sex drive, as do I, but of course for cancers sex comes with feeling wanted and loved. we have tried many times to leave each other alone but it never lasts more than a few days…we are so drawn to each other it is insane. I don’t know what to do, it breaks my heart to be with him as well as without him. We both are really good people, friendly, fun loving, and very attractive so we get a lot of attention from the opposite sex so meeting someone more compatible would not be hard at all for either of us. I tell myself it would be best for us both in the long run to move on but then I think if only we could learn to accept and live with one another’s differences, we could be a fantastic couple. Any advice on how to work this out would be greatly appreciated because I can’t imagine my life without him but i might have to or we could end up really hating each other and being miserable, and I love him and myself too much for that.

  47. Aisha September 22nd, 2010

    Oh, and by the way. My god father is an aries man and his wife of 25 years is a cancer woman. they have two children together and are still very much in love, with no signs of parting ways.

  48. Aisha September 22nd, 2010

    I am currently married to an aries man. We have been married now for five months and at this point things are golden. I think he is the best choice I have ever made in my life. His firey ways are exciting and even draining at times, but the type of cancer i am : Libra ascendant and leo moon might have something to do with my ability to keep up. He spoils me wiht flowers and leters and can be extremely romantic. There has been times in the past where he has said some pretty insensitive and hurtful things back when we were just dating, but.. we talked about it, resolved it and together decided how best to handle the situation. Many things in astrology says that a cancer woman tends to try and smother her aries man.. In fact, I find most times he is trying to be stuck under me. which is absolutely fine, love the attention. I love this man to death, and we are currently talking about children. When others see s together they are constantly commenting on how cute we are together: this is not just because of how we look together but also the way we carry ourselves together. He makes me feel like a kid again, the way we pick and play with each other.. Very strong chemistry. If you are a cancer woman/ girl and areis man/ boy, just know that at times things may become complicated and frustrating, but this is no different from any other relationship with any other sign. sure the complications would be different, but still. And whats love without a challenge? Go for it, and leave it in gods hands!

  49. saby September 4th, 2010

    aries78 honey, fuck astrology ! go to couple therapy, if your girl is insecure aka jealous, there is nothing you can do to prove otherwise ! good luck :-*

  50. Amberly August 2nd, 2010

    I agree but also disagree. I was with an aries for six years. He had a sweet side but he was hot headed, hurtful and insensitive most of the time. It took a lot of work but in the end collapsed. I as a cancer woman couldn’t handle him. It just so happens the man ive been dating the past six months is also an aries. At first i was like “oh dear, here we go” but while he is a fellow who likes to be in charge, hes totally differentthan my ex. He’s sensitive, softspoken and is even tempered. I don’t know much about astrology but I do know not every aries man is exactly the same. It all depends on th3 person and what other signs effect them.

  51. coco July 18th, 2010

    I have been married to an Aries man for almost 14 years! I will say this: NOT EASY! Aries can be very cruel in their actions and words when they are angry and that is death for a cancer girl’s heart! But… We’ve made it so far and I believe with God’s help we are going to make it ’till the end. the truth is every relationship needs compromise and work on both parts to last.

  52. Kathleen April 21st, 2010

    I am a cancer female who is in love with an aries male. I met him in high school, we were set up by our mutual pisces friend. I went on a date with him when I was 15 and never kissed him and we went our separate ways. I remember liking him and being very attracted to him but I didn’t like his arrogance and self aborsbion with himself. He seemed egotistical to me and intimidated me with his sexuality at that age. Well 23 years later the same pisces friend hooked us up on facebook, lol. Damn pisces romantics. We fell madly in love and he drove half way across the country to see me. He seemed to love my free spirted ways and he seemed so chill. But then my moods and his ego clashed. His abrasiveness with his words and lack of tack with his opinions cut me up and I started to become insecure with the relationship and reacted emotionally and irrationaly at times. He started judging me and it hurt me and I tried to explain it to him but he doesn’t get it. His lack of compassion with my feelings really scared me away, but I still longed for him and had a great deal of trouble being apart from him. I love his laid back side so much and his sense of adventure when he decides to let go. And the passion and sex were unbelievable. He called me last night and tried to explain himself and just talking to him sent me right back to being so in love again but this time I am keeping it to myself. The physical attraction is very powerful for me cause he is so male and i am usually the dominating one and always secretly wished for a man that would take the lead in bed. It is outside the bedroom where i hate to be dominated. I don’t know what to do because this really felt like the one. I wanted to marry this man and now it is all weird and difficult. I wish he understood me better and I wish I wasn’t so sensitive. My heart is broken. I know if I see him again I will be right back in love. I want it to work out but I don’t know what he wants in a women or needs and would like some feed back from another aries male or a cancer female who was with an aries man. My sister and him share the same birthday and me and my sister are night and day and stuggle to relate.

  53. samantha March 27th, 2010

    i m falling for this aries guy…i too hve heard that cancer-aries signs is not a compatible one but i just cant help falling in love with him …though we’re just frens as of now…but this feeling inside is killing me and wanna let him know how i feel abt him!

  54. Damita March 11th, 2010

    Also, I have a friend whose parents are a aries man/cancer woman combo who have been married for over 20 years and they are still silly in love. It’s the exception not the rule, but if you have an exceptional relationship then why not you too?

  55. Damita March 11th, 2010

    I am a cancer girl and I’ve been studying astrology from several different angles for over 13 years. I am consistantly finding myself in the arms of aries boys (a close second is virgo boys, but I’ll take the aries over that any day). It has never worked for me (yet) but there’s a part of me that believes that one day it’ll be me and an aries boy. I love the complicated and beautiful male/female dynamic of this combo. I know that aries boys that are only vaguely into their partners cheat a lot, but every aries boy I’ve ever known (whether they were with me or just friends) has been totally faithful when he really digs his girl. Also, if your girl is real into astrology then she should know that your entire chart affects who you are…the sun sign is just a blueprint. Remind her that you’re not only your sun sign. It may not work, we are by nature an insecure bunch and she knows how desirable you are to other girls…just don’t get tired of reminding her that she’s the one for you and she has nothing to worry about.

  56. Delain March 4th, 2010

    Im a Cancer women and my best friend is aries we have been in love for the last 16 years but marriage is out of the question. There is no love that is as passionate as that between an Aries and Cancer , that love will last even beyond death. But Fire and Water just dont mix. It will take a lot to make this match work on both sides…

  57. Aries78 February 28th, 2010

    I’m an aries and I’m in love with a cancer girl, we both want to marry. I’ve been told and read that we are incompatible and our relationship is impossible because it’s doomed to failure. I’m really concerned that would happen one day. I wonder if there have been out there any successful love/marriage stories bewtween Aries and Cancer. I personally believe in our love, I’m crazy about her though she is moody. She believes a lot in astrology to the extent she feels no trust in my fidelity, an ungrounded doubt that I can’t explain. This kills me badly because I’m crazy about her and 100% faithful to her, I swear. I want to lose her, she means everything to me. I really feel that her obsession with astrology is killing me. I need help!

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