The Aries and the Libra bring together an extraordinary combination of Fire and Air. The attraction they feel for each other can be very powerful, mainly because each seems to offer what the other lacks. Both the Aries and the Libra are very friendly and warm in nature making each other feel comfortable in their company.
A Libra man is the most irresistibly charming gentleman of all the zodiac signs. His smile has a splendid magic that can trap anyone at first glance and his aura is splendid and very pleasant. He is basically a sentimental, considerate and intelligent man with an answer to all the questions of this world. He needs balance in every aspect of his life and is always fair with people around him. He in love is one of a kind romantic male with so much to express that his Aries woman just melts away in his charming art of loving. He is very kind and friendly towards her and usually avoids any kind of conflict between them.
An Aries woman is quick-tempered and emotional. But at the same time she is a very courageous and has a leader’s will to take any risk. Due to the impulsive nature and jealous nature of an Aries woman, she often feels remorseful while facing the consequences of her own behavior. Usually she can charm any Libra man by her passion and innocence which makes him feel excited and admired. She becomes a strong devotee of her Libra man’s charm and his efficiency to keep things balanced in life. The Libra male always respects the confidence and independence of his Aries woman and appreciates all her efforts.
The Aries woman becomes a very stimulating partner for Libra man giving him mental challenges he needs to keep himself tuned. As both are kind and friendly, it helps them to build a strong foundation for their relationship. She always tries to balance things for him and go out of proportions to support her man in every field of life. But she dislikes being the caretaker for any man and rather wants to be a companion. The thought of controversy fascinates her but he does everything to maintain harmony in life. She needs to learn to control her emotions and use fair logic to keep him with her.
The Libra man provides balance in his as well as his Aries woman’s life. He makes a firm grip on his lady with all his senses, optimism and appealing charisma. Tact and courtesy comes naturally to him, which makes her feel more warm and feminine with him. He shows her that she is irresistible and makes her feel desirable. But the blunt frankness of the Libra man can ignite the Aries woman to expose her irrational jealous nature. She must understand that when in an argument with his lady love, the only goal of the Libra man is to gain peace and justice. For him it’s not about winning or losing but about balance. As he is very well spoken and presents a very convincing argument, he can usually calm down his Aries woman. But frequent similar situations can become a source of irritation for both of them.
The Libra man’s unconquerable optimism along with the bright faith of the Aries woman, strikes a perfect chord. He has the potency and compassion she needs, while he adores her innocuous nature. As they deeply discover the miracles of bonding, she starts giving him the peace he needs, this also helps her to soothe out disappointments and fears of rejection. Both of them fill each other’s life with the friendly understanding and warmth that keeps them at peace forever. With each coming day the magic of the Libra male creates a new magic for her and her irresistible passion brings more pleasure and delight to their life.
At first their love making abilities seem like they came straight from a popular movie scene. Passion and lust fill the air as these two have a ball in the bedroom, but this does not last forever for these two. The Libras approach to sex is imaginative, light, and less intense. The Aries woman finds herself looking for anything solid to grab onto. The fragile love and aesthetic sexual response of him can leave her somewhat chilly. She needs plenty of warm affection and fiery lovemaking to feel completely fulfilled in a physical relationship. With this man she may be left feeling a little empty. He needs to comprehend that teasing her now and then, and his little exhibitionist displays, could be distracting to his Aries princess. He should better apply his creative skills to discover some abilities or strengths in her that nobody had previously realized were within her. In return, she would let him have the smooth feel of her skin and feel her in her most intimate, most feminine of ways. She must understand that it would be far more appealing, more sensual and more erotic for his Libra male if she does not hides her sex appeal but wisely use it to tease and attract him.
Competition is high between the Aries woman and the Libra man. Unless one of them accepts defeat graciously at least part of the time, there is usually no space for peace. He struggles with her scruffy behavior at times, but struggles to leave due to the amount of love she shows him. Similarly, she does not intend to be rude, and regrets hurting him. Aries are great at starting something and not finishing it, while Libra always tries to balance out everything they start in a perfect manner. In order for a relationship to workout between them, they must stay on the same team, avoiding opposing each other. This requires him to worry less about the imbalance and spend more time on “things that actually matter” and for her to have realistic expectations and laugh off the irritations and his erratic behavior.
Hi, I’m an Arises women and been married to Libra man for 22years. We have a good marriage. I feel that I struggle with him when he is mad whether it’s me or something else he shut down and he is like mad. Me the Aries I have no patience. I want to fix it now and I’m sure in his head he is trying to balance it. This is where it becomes a problem for us I feel.
? Y everything that’s usually considered not fair or unjust it’s an excuse for Libras everything they do astrologers always have a but or an explanation for it they lie not cool they manipulate not cool they people please even if it means hurting u whom they claim they love they can’t decide which is not good for anyone and it’s a lot more and yea us Aries are and can be jealous but for reasons and not because u have what we want as opposed to libra they are made because they are jealous that u decided to go to work and save for a car and they didn’t not good
Hey dj ! funny I’m an Aries woman and my initials are D.J LOL , anyways if you think she’s feeling you she is as Aries women are either hot or cold no in between . Although we are leaders she probably wont make the first move as we hate to be let down . Make this first move !
I’m friends with a Aries woman and I can’t stop thinking about her …. We met each other because of business but I feel like Everytime we are around each other it’s a strong chemistry there that I think we are both fighting based on how we met…. But damn I feel like she’s the one. I’m a Libra man by the way but I literally feel like she feels the same because she’s just as willing to see me as much I am….. Just don’t know how to make the move because of it being business and I don’t want to make things awkward
Hey DJ did you make the first move with your Aries lady? I’m an Aries lady and from experience we have great chemistry and compatibility with Libra’s.
bruh why r u pouring ur heart out on a ask oracle blog post
I’m not yo boo, I’m ur daddy💯
My daddy for life
This literally describes me and my boo
Just started talking to a Libra man on a more serious note.. we had two night stand about a year and a half ago and he recently reached out.. it feels like magic.. we haven’t even been intimate yet this go round but his aura is everything.. I love it when he talks that talk to me!! So smart* plus I’m a sapiosexual… I think this could be it for me ❤️ I don’t ever remember feeling like this
I’m an Aries woman and I’m starting a relationship with a Libra man and i must say he is so attentive and honest about his intentions, he’s divorced and he’s so loving always shows interest about how my day has been and my son (which he hasn’t met in person)
Hello I’m an Aries and my bf is a libra we have been together for almost a year but recently he has been distant we haven’t talked in like almost 2 weeks he did tell me he was going threw some stuff, do libra men tend to need there space when they feel unbalanced?
hey, i’ve had a similar problem, i’m an aries woman and my boyfriend is a libra and we just recently broke up because of the overwhelming stress he was going through. my one advice is, if he needs his space give it to him before it’s to late
I’m aeries and in love with two men (I’m Arab22) , one is a Sagittarius( white man27) who I dated for 3 years .. the second is a libra(Arab man22)who fell in love with me, and was trying real hard till I finally gave in and fell for him too.They’re both incredibly amazing. Now Sagittarius is a little too comfortable with me which I understand but some annoying habits starting to come out and I get a little too fast to be irritated which leads to a fight, he always apologises and make me feel better afterwards. the libra man is romantic, adventures, handsome and thinks the long term meaning~ marriage*as well as Sagittarius*.. should I end it with Sagittarius and go with the libra or just end it with libra!?
Hello, I’m an Aries woman and I have to say that commitment is so important to me. I want to be in a loving stable relationship so I can focus on other things. Libras are so good at making us feel safe. That said, you are young, you may get bored easily- but for now, go with the one who lets you be yourself.
Sweetheart, if the man has dated you for 8 years and cheated, he has no intentions to marry you. Its time to get Self-ish Sis with your time, energy, and vagina. Find out who you are, your value, your worth, and take action to heal. Let him go Sis!
I’ve been dating a Libra man for over 8 years.. few years back we tried to move in but it didn’t work he was cheating n bringing woman in the house whenever I’m not around, I then decided to leave his place but we didn’t break up.. keept on trying until few weeks back we decided to move in again.. things are great so far.. I’m worried thou coz I no longer trust him. Will he ever marry me?? He has started talking about buying us a land by month end. My problem is he’s getting insecure he doesn’t allow me to sleep at my mom’s house anymore.
Sweetheart, if the man has dated you for 8 years and cheated, he has no intentions to marry you. Its time to get Self-ish Sis with your time, energy, and vagina. Find out who you are, your value, your worth, and take action to heal. Let him go Sis!
I’m just starting something with a libra guy, I won’t lie I don’t want to be hurt again and I was told by my libra guy that he wants me to make him fall in love again, I don’t even know what to do about it, he doesn’t call only once in awhile, he doesn’t respond to my messages on time.. I don’t know if is a good idea to be in a relationship with him, it seems am the one pushing the relationship and I don’t like that, I don’t know if I should call it a quit or I should be patient with him, I just want to feel loved.
I love an aries woman …i can not express my love.i fear she would reject me..i am a libra.give me some suggestions.
Aries women like straightforward and honesty! Tell her in a sweet, gentle manner but also straight to the point. Basically don’t beat around the bush! Hope this helps
I think it’s a bad sign when a guy won’t respond to your texts in a timely manner. Either he is playing games or he is not making time for you. Either way, as an Aries woman you need someone more devoted. That said, spend more time on yourself and when the right person comes along you will know
I’m Female aries and I’ve always thought about things in a positive way, I never wanted to hurt my libra boyfriend in anyway, our relationship was perfect, yeah I had problems from before and I stopped all those stuffs but you know when you try too hard, its like you are being tried n I fell once n twice and I admit I was wrong but my libra just can’t forget it n to god its the only time I’ve ever messed up with him, n no matter how hard I try to make things right its just not working n I think he’s scared to leave or something, I would be in pain if that happens but I just want what’s best, sometime he makes me feel like I’m not good enough, but its not his intention, he just over thinks sometimes n get carried away with his words… I don’t know what to do those, cuz he’s watching my every move n I’m loyal as hell but he just not believing anything
Brii what can you do or can you focus on you and figure out if there is anything you can do to improve and yourself that would help the relationship? Also how old are you guys?
I’m an Aries woman and my Libra just broke up with me a few months ago, I’ve been non-stop thinking about him and I can’t let go of him, he was perfect. the reason he broke up with me was because he said he pregnant to his Ex.But i don’t believe him,I thought there is some witchcraft which forced him to stay away … would he ever turn back? is there anything i could do?
Tell him that you are pregnant too. And he is the man.
That’s abit low-key the worst advice I heard somebody. To Aires lady, my personally I would honesty try and move forward. And witchcraft thing I wouldn’t look into for your own safety followed Aires.
SB You are garbage for suggesting that she falsely claim she’s pregnant. This is why men don’t give a damn and the wall is undefeated. There are more women than men and we know this. It’s inevitable some of y’all will die alone. So a high value man is the prize.
I’m a Libra man that’s dating a smitten Aries lady. I’m taking my time but she’s pedal to the metal. I appreciate that she’s going hard for me. Aries ladies a Libra can be a great man but maturity and life experience does play a part. Have an abundance mind set. Good and bad men exist in every sign.
Work on yourself first and foremost and when a man shows you who he is believe him. The rest is up to you if you choose to deal or not just own it.
Good luck
i’m an aries sun with a libra moon & virgo rising ( i know right ) & my boyfriend is a libra sun with a leo moon and a virgo rising. our arguments get heated but he really is my other half and the sex is amazing!
I’m an aries girl 25 and my partner is a libra guy 22. We have been together for nearly 3 years now. We have definitely had our fair share of arguments, a few times they have been extremely explosive, and have ended in tears of emotion. And we settle our differences and hug it out…
My biggest issue is trusting him. He told me he loved me within the first month of being together, which I didn’t believe. Too much too soon. He was also talking to another girl from our mutual work who had a boyfriend, and it appeared to be more than just platonic. This has been problematic, however we are still working through it. And we are both determined to make it work.
The sex is insanely good. The chemistry has never subsided since we met. I feel like this is common with this astrological match. We sometimes have sex up to 3-4 times a day, and it feels just as good each time. It’s crazy!!!!
Sadly, he is awful at communicating when we are away from each other. Which drives me crazy. But when we are together/close to home it is absolute bliss. We are so comfortable around one another, and very affectionate.
I can be quite jealous with him, whereby in my previous relationship with my Leo ex, I was never jealous. However I trusted my Leo ex, through the entire relationship. Maybe the trust affects the current jealous levels with my libra partner.
It’s difficult sometimes but honestly I feel wonderful when I’m with him and lost without him. When we are good we are so loved up, and arguments are very quickly resolved. We never have the silent treatment, probably because I can’t bare to sit there in a tense environment and want to solve the problems there and then.
I am a week in with a Libra man and I am an Aries woman and the passion at first was intense and then when we are together we are totally fine he feels good when he hugs me we talk and we just hang out and the moment he leaves I text him and he takes my text out of content and thinks that I’m starting drama which I am not at all I feel that he jumps to conclusions doesn’t understand what I’m saying then he’s like I can’t do this it’s drama which totally floors me and then I go into Warrior mode where I feel like I need to fight to feel understood and to explain to him and not give up and this is kind of crazy cuz I don’t know where it’s going either but somehow he keeps staying here with me even though I really didn’t start s*** but let’s see where this road goes.
Sure he isn’t a Capricorn? Lol. Anyways, how is it going now? Or not going?
Currently had a thing with a Libra man during the holidays and everything seemed like magic during the holidays but only when we were together,when we were apart the communication was a 10 over 100 and he told me he loved me once,didn’t know if he meant it tho . Now I’ve gone back to school and we barely talk,like we say 5 sentences to each other in 2 days and recently he posted a video of us on his Snapchat (ps: we aren’t dating) he has never told me about his feelings,he never talks about it. What do I do?
Same situation here. They barely communicate when they’re not with you. I think they are always stuck in their minds and preoccupied with alot of things. My libra man tends to shut down everytime he’s stressed. Anyway, I couldn’t stand up the poor communication between us and him being too thrifty, no time for fun or adventures – So I’m definitely ending it with him. I think I’m still going to look for a Libra with the same energy wavelength with me. Whose moon sign is compatible with mine.
I’ve been dealing with a Libra male since the first week in august, we had our first fall out after his birthday. We were apart for a week, but that week felt like forever, Truth is, I thought we were done. Now, here we are, I feel we are stronger. I do not know what it is, but I enjoy my time with him. I am excited to see how it all plays out. He says he isn’t ready for nothing serious, but I noticed he doesn’t stay away for long periods of time.
Are u still together?
Well I am currently with a live a man and God knows why he brought us together. Am an Aries woman and he is very moody and flirty I really want this relationship to work but he keeps turning me off with some of his nasty ways. We been together almost a year now and he is the type of guy that likes to stay by himself things just
Keeps going on and off idk where we gonna end up.
I am quite drawn to Libra men and I find myself coming back to this post over and over again through the years! I come back to see if it’s still true and funny enough, I always relate to a new part that I had previously not paid much attention to. I have been with my wonderful Libra man for 8 months and together we have started to accomplish our dreams. We are SO strong together! We have been ready to live together since only a few weeks of even knowing each other and finally after a year we will do so in a few months. We both already know we want to eventually be married. We truly compliment each other and are strong where the other is weak and I love this about us. We fit together so naturally. He is an incredibly kind and sensitive soul with much more patience than me. He can certainly be moody at times! But we always come back together within a few hours 😁 I can be quite moody myself so I understand!
I have never been so happy in my life and it feels incredible to know I have a good solid man who is willing and happy to work with me to create a life together. He is without a doubt, the man of my dreams ♡ aries woman and libra man is really an amazing pair.
I’m an Aries woman and I’m engaged to a libra man (our 1 anniversary was 12 September 2018)
In the beginning of the relationship it was hard work, he was in a bad space and wanted absolutely nothing to do with love and I hated love also…
We started of as neighbors😂 I moved in next to him and we formed a good friendship but it turned into a love affair real quick, we did fight a lot in the beginning of the relationship but we managed to work through our differences and now it’s absolutely amazing!!! I’m still wildly and crazy attracted to him and vice-versa we are like best friends, lovers all in one. It’s truely amazing I’ve learned a lot from him and again… Vice-versa we still learn new things from each other everyday.
On the other hand I always had a soft spot for libra men… My ex best friend (male) was is also libra but tge best friend thing turned into a steamy hot sexual relationship (this was when I was still single) but I was too scared to go into a relationship with him because he is flirty af…
My fiance isn’t flirty… Or I don’t see it tgat way is a very social kind of person and i am too we are both friendly and we understand tgat the opposite sex can take our friendlyness as flirt or so but I know he’ll never cheat he is very very loyal so loving and he supports me mentally Emotionally and physically he helps me a lot
I am truly lucky to be engaged with such an amazing libra man.
hi there 34 year old aries woman I have been dating a 38 year old libra man for roughly 4 months, the sex is amazing the bond gets stronger by the day. no doubt he supports me in all aspects of life mentally physically where I am weak he is strong where he is weak I am strong, I think we are headed toward marriage, I have never meant a guy who I was so compatible with. I wish I could have tried libra man out much earlier in life.
I met this aries girl I know less of her yet but she keep exchanging poems with me. She expressing her feelings thru simple lines and I noticed it. I always chat her and phone her till i feel the same way with her. Just like the said libra above I pick every word that I tell her to avoid any conflict.
I’m an Aries teen and I had this crush on this Libra guy for about 2 years, and he made it obvious that he likes me. There’s a couple problems with this though. One of which is he’s so flirty towards other girls. It really annoying. I remember him saying he liked me but then going out with this other girl. They’re not dating anymore but still. It made me feel like I should of made a move and stop being so stubborn. Then there’s the other thing. I’m afraid he wants sex if we date. I’m made a promise to myself that I wouldn’t have sex at least till I’m ending or out of college. I really like him but I don’t want to get into this relationship and then he dump me or something. Would a Libra do that?
libra men are very loyal.they support you in every issue.He is a personality who does’t bother you had past elation or ex or crush.the most that matters at the moment is you care him and he get jelouse very fasy if you didn’t pay attension to him.Libra’s are generally introvert by nature.Libra dosn’t filrt they intract diplomaticaly .His natural charm causes the for attraction to opposite sex.Notice if a libra walks in silently into a room he becomes center of attraction in few secods (its not his intention but it happens most of the time he personally hates it).For exp. imagine if you are fresher at a collage in first induction class everybody notes few people higher chances are he is libran.i hope you get it .he dosnt flirt the situation arises that might seem he flirts.I bet you that every single girl in class has a small percetage of attraction towards him but he is selective to talk to them.HE WILL INTRACT WITH FEMALES TO THEM MOST OF THEM ARE IN FRIENDZONE. CARING HIM IS THE ONLY WAY GET HIM CLOSSER TO YOU.BE STONG TO SHOW YOU LOVE HIM.HE WILL REALLY SHOW YOU BACK THE LOVE. TRY YOUR LICK
SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH.IM FROM VIETNAN.IM A VIRGO AND HAVE LIBRAS AS CLOSE FRIENDS.ITS THEIR COMMON BEHIVIOUR.
ONCE AGAIN SORRY FOR BAD ENGLISH.PLZ FIGURE IT OUT.
I’ve been talking to a libra man for a few weeks now and I like him a lot but he stays in Texas will this work?
Depends. Where do YOU live?
Im 54 and this is my 1st time dating a 66 yr old libra male we’ve been dating for a several months he’s been i interested in me for a couple yrs we work together and we’ve been sexually active for 2 months we care for each other but her lately its been a little different ? In the beginning we would go on dates , talk , hold hands we both have grandchildren some co.patable in ages we’ve even taken them out with us to basketball game. Long story short it just seem like since we’ve went to the next level things have changed a little and the sex was great it had been a while for the both of us should we had waited, am i over thinking
Yes you are overthinking it. Just enjoy it! Don’t think! Feel the love in the air. What is there to think about?
I really believe this it’s just like me and my husband. Great post. We still have our differences overall we are a powerful couple
I’m on a dating site. Me Libra and I met on there. We both looked at each other’s profile and got this very hopeful feeling.
On the first date I admired that he was so punctual, conversation easy, and when silent, I still felt comfortable.
Then he said you can put your arm in mine ( as we walked to his ride) Then before he parted he leaned down and said: ” little kiss”.
That kiss was so sexy!! I said out loud how good it was! Later he said, in a text, that I was fun and yummy!
We met 5 days later and we had sex. It was so good! After a few of these sessions. There was an upcoming gap in when we could meet again.
So I, the independent but jealous one, ended it because I felt insecure.
I could not stop thinking about him and craved him.
So I painted a nude shot of him and used that painting promise to contact him.
He received me eagerly.
We have plans to meet again and this time film us having sex. For me to paint!!
So sexy!!
He does so many little things that I adore.
Like videoing the blooming flowers around his house.
I have to give up my need to define, control and having expectations.
If I can smoothly ride this one out, it could be a beautiful ride!!
I’m Aries and my boyfriend is Libra. There’s this struggle between us that makes us quarrel all the time. I for one likes being independent, I like being free like a bird lol and on the other hand my boyfriend is tryinna shape me into someone I don’t like. He likes giving out others in the relationship and wants me to be Perfect. We quarrel over my mistakes and makes a big deal out of them. Honestly I’m getting Choked up! For Aries and Libra in a relationship is just not Working…!
Wow! I’m an Aries girl dating a Libra guy. We are very different but the same in a lot of ways. I sincerely believe him and I compliment each other. We have known each other for about 15 yrs, very attracted to each other still at 46 and 49 years old. We are not perfect but accept each other for who we are and mistakes we made. Our friendship is strong and real. But I love him and I don’t know how he feels or how important I am in his life. We aren’t young. We both have been thru good and bad relationships. Over time what matters most to me is that we will always be there for each other. That I can believe in!! What happens from there is in Gods hands!
I was married to a libra man at a very young age. We were only together for 6 months when he asked me to marry him. We had the best sex life ever!! We are divorced, but even now, after 20 years, we’re like fire and gasoline when we’re together! When we touch or kiss it’s explosive!!! We have the best sex life ever, but we can’t make it as a couple because we have trouble living together, too very different lifestyles. We’ve tried over the years, but so far it’s never worked. We can just sit next to each other, and smile like there’s no tomorrow, it’s sickening to other people….lol
libra guys are just slaves of capricorn hoes. PERIOD!
So vain and passive.
So true
Hi I’m a aries woman I just met a libra man and I thought he was lovely still is but very very full on and intense and too touchy feel too soon is this just how libra men are and if I tell him will he back off a bit and let me decide if I actually want to b with him or not without tryin to ram it down my throat!? I did really like him until he got so full on its putting me off abit
I’m a Libra man and this girl I work with who’s only been on the job a couple months is an Aries. It seems like we made an instant connection and I can definitely sense a lot of heat in our chemistry the way she gravitates, talks to me, and her soft touch. I’ve been single for about 3 years and honestly, I want to see where things can go with her, but don’t want to fall too hard too fast.
This is so sweet. Did you get the courage to make a move?!
I am a Libra and have dated two Arian girls in the past. The attraction is very powerful indeed but you must maintain your play-hard-to-get character in other to keep her wanting you and treat you well without contesting with you. I will recommend you read about the basic things women really need from a man (see https://www.fishersgate.com/essential-articles/what-women-really-need-from-men/). All the best!
I have been with my libra man for 11 years and when I say this sums us up to the “T”. With me being an aries I always want to be in charge and him a libra well let’s just say that it never goes over to well. I love this man unconditionally and he loves me the same . We definitely have our ups and downs and sometimes I just want to walk away but I realize I wouldn’t know how to live my life without him pissing me off everyday. And in the words of his mom ” I am his headache and his happiness” which I totally believe.
My boyfriend is a libra we have been together for almost a year and i can tell you we have had our ups and downs in just a little bit of time. But the love between us is amazing, Sex is THE BEST! He makes me feel good about myself when im around him.
My Libra man makes me feel so good! Then sometimes he can make me feel like leaving, I think he needs more stability he needs to learn how to take responsibilities bills daily life things me he makes me feel good so good it’s just that one piece responsibility
I liked a Libra guy in college. He would appear to like me, then he would ignore me – over and over again. He was very standoff-ish, so I would assume he didn’t like me that much and I would ignore him. Then he would come around, but only if we were drinking. He did this for a year until I had enough. I told him once I was ready to give up on him and he said don’t do that. We ended up in bed once, but it was like he was not really there. He should have been chasing me, not the other way around. No thanks to another Libra. Too many games.
Omg! I am going through the exact same thing with a libra guy and I’m an Aries. What is it with them playing hard to get?
I met a libra guy around my age but month gap. I like him this year but my friends says that he like me back I don’t know why and when I try to ask him something he just can’t make direct eye contact to me just straight which is giving me creeped-out and I have been wondering why. My friends says that he is shy because he is a MAN (wtf) and I tried to talk to him but he is so hard to make eye contact in me I don’t even know if he likes me or not and I am guessing that he don’t like me back and it might be a tease from my friends
I met a libra man last year September 8th first sight he likes me. He is 54 & I’m 49 aries and we liked each other going to marry. We both from same country different states, now he is settled in Other country. My visa is under process to his country where he is staying. Now daily hours together we will talk will share our thoughts…still we didn’t start our sex life.I’m eagerly waiting for our marriage.most probably next month we will be together…I want togive him a happy and comfortable family life. I was not happy with my ex.
Anyway more I will let you know later.soon I want to be with him???
@SimonXLagann
Im a aries 22 year old and my friend the libra is 26. We’re just good friends met him about 2 month ago..omg iwant him so bad!! Yea we get into bcuz he’s jus so blunt and play hard to get ..he act like he dont like ? but ithink he do he’s jus not ready for a relationship he say things “like im not goin to get whip” “yu cool .ilike yu and been thinkin about yu” but he jus dont give in .we talk sometimes whn he want to nd make it complicated whn iwant him to come ove. Its like he’s not tryin to get to attach..huh ithink im startin to grow love for him but dnt wanna b rushin.yu kno us aries are very unpatient..yes my wild thinkin come to alert but he secures me..but jus ACT FUCKIN HARD TO GET!!! Iwant him!! Last nite was our first time sleeping togetha n cuddling ifelt so warm n comfortable ..ihad been out a bad relationship dat had me scard to get comfortable wit nething body else but he jus brings it rite out of me .!! Iwish he could jus b mines???
I have to say, at least IMHO this is a most difficult match, I the libran male, who abhors conflict and my ex the aries female whom to me she lived for a fight, now I must admit, I loved her dearly and still have strong feelings for her now, but after 5yrs of the on and off battle royale, I could go no further. My aries she was as stubborn as a mule and believed she was always right, and I do believe she liked to stir up arguments just for the thrill or excitement it gave her, now on the positive side, in the bedroom wow!! Her stamina and drive were unmatchable, anytime anywhere my aries was always ready;-) I could wake her up in the middle of the night and she’d be all for it. When it’s good its good but when it’s bad, wow is it bad when it comes to this match, in the end the conflictwas just way to much for me, we still talk and are good friends, but in a rrelationship just don’t see it.
yeah it just doesnt work with these two. Trust me i tried I’m an Aries and he was Libra.
I have been with a Libra man for almost 5 years now, and we are very happily married. When we first met, things were all passion and fire. We were attracted to eachother from the very start-his rare charm stole my heart! However, we quickly developed issues between my stubborn nature and his need to fix everything (damn those Libras and their balance)…we actually ended up seperating for close to a year. Then, after some personal growth we ended up back together.
There are times our polar personalities can be an issue, but at the end of the day he is my rock. While I may get caught up in my driveness or outlandish emotions, he has always been my voice of reason that redirects me to take a break and regroup. On the other hand, my firey push has encouraged him to take leaps on dreams or opportunities that he may not have on his own. In the end, it’s all about balance, love, the surrendering of prides, and LOTS of communication. If you can master that, you can find a meaningful relationship together…oh yeah, and the sex is STILL passion fueled and amazing. 😉
It’s hard for an Aries woman like myself (who is used to having gotten healthy attention from my past 2 long term partners) to now be with a Libra man, who (while charming, intelligent and interesting) seems secretive (like he’s hiding things from you) and attentive at times, then totally ignoring you other days, and being all cutesy all over again after seemingly forgetting you existed.
Um, yeah. That seems actually quite disbalanced and unstable to me. Just don’t know what to make of it. I’m trying to be understanding and open-minded, but don’t want to be someone’s “convenience” either.
I completly agree to all of this I am a young 20 year old male Libra and my hot sexy fiance is a 22 year old Aries. Like no lie But its been hard growing up not knowing when love will actuallly come by and say he Im bossy but fair, sexy and have a lot of problems and needs a strong indeicesive man to give me that unfullfilled lifestyle i needed inside of me. When I tell you this No other woman can match a female Ariese , They are so strong and so cute when they get mad, That I just wanna hold on to my girl and tell her she’s made my life like a living hell at times, but brings me back to hevan and makes me feel like Im the most important thing in the world,she give me crap but makes sure to praise me when I do something wrong, and I help her show more of her emotions , while also driving her up the walls(But only in a good way…. and in the bed room if you know what I mean) But I think without Libras in the world I think things would go bad shit crazy, and I think with out Ariese in the world as well, I think libras would never find a soulmate who loves us just for who we are. Im proud to give up everything and anything to be with this woman no matter the age diffrence, I love my Ariese Goddess and I will never love no one but her.
I AGREE W/ ALL ABOVE, IMA ARIES 24 YRS OLD & MY HUNNY A LIBRA HES 55 MAJOR AGE DIFFERENCE , IM SO IMPATIENT , I BREAKUP WITH HIM 24/7! IM BLUNT HES SUBTLE, HES PATIENT WE R COMPLETE OPPOSITES AND ILOVE HI,√ HE MAKES ME FEEL SO GOOD , IMISS BEING W/ HIM I B DOGGIN HIM ALL BECAUSE IBEEN HURT IN THEE PAST ETC
hmmmm indeed, and I am a 24, libra man dating a 33 year old aries woman, and i do agree with the post. I met my aries girl friend, and I must say got fucking damn i am happy, i must say i have not been this happy in a long time, and yet so fast too. My exwife never made me fell this way in the years we been together, my aries woman makes me feel really fuckin special, and shit. she won my heart in only a few days of us talking, and with her i can be 100 percent myself, i can cus i and say what ever out my bad mouth and she just laughts and shit. she won my trust twice has fast than my ex wife, with her i feel so warm and special. I feel like a little kid when i am around her, and i must say my sexy spicy aries woman cares good fucking care of my ass. she is a strong hard working woman, that makes my ass want to be stronger, and better and shit. i love her beautiful ass so dam much, i love her ass so much i am writing a post on this website site she showed me aint that some shit.
i started dating a libra man a little over 4 weeks ago. i haven’t dated a libra EVER…and this is the most fantastic relationship i have had in a very long time (i haven’t had this strong of a connection since my ex-husband). i really didn’t think i could have those strong feelings again. i met him online…on a dating site. i almost didn’t go out with him because he was a total charmer and i thought for sure he was not going to be serious about a relationship. he is more committed and serious about me and about us than any other man i have ever dated. we were committed within 3 dates and he is in the process of moving in…and should be in by the end of the month. he’s even talked marriage and for the first time i am not scared of any of this. it all seems so right…he seems so right. we seem so right and the romance and sex is off the charts!
i love reading about astrological signs and compatability. he doesn’t believe in any of it, but this description of an aries/libra relationship fits us to a T. he can’t deny it. i look forward to many more years of happiness with this guy.
I totally agree with the posts here. There is something about the Libra man to us Aires ladies. I am 54 and met a young guy on the internet, 31. Just for a little fun. Well, he blew me away the first time we met. I couldn’t get enough. Saw me the next day and then the next week. I started thinking, how can I make this work? Silly lies we tell ourselves to make it OK in our minds. Then, that was it. I got jealous and accused him of meeting other women, (probably is/was), probably someone his own age, who could blame him? Completely unrealistic to think there could have ever been anything serious between us, but it sure was good when we were together. He still communicates with me after a month of not seeing him, but I have no expectations I’ll ever see him again. It’s the lack of showing emotions that I cannot understand. I was with another Libra the first of the year, same type of guy. No emotion, no expression whatsoever of how they feel about you. In the mean time, I’m spilling my guts in emails and they came back with: “Well, have a good trip.” (I travel for my job.) lol Oh, well, I guess at my age I’ll never learn. Have fun while you can ladies.
Im an aries woman and ive been dating a libra guy for almost a month now. I like him but i dont understand him at times. Hes possessive sometimes then suddenly he says hes not expecting anything from me. He calls me a lot. And when im out with my friends he suspects that im doing something wrong when he hasent even told me what he really wants from me. When im with him and his friends, he ignores me like 90% of the time. Only gives me attention when im drunk. Hes frustrating but i like him. Help!!!
I’m a 23yr Aries woman, I just met this 26yr Libra man, and at first glance, he is charming, a gentlemen, funny, and did I mention charming. I do agree with the fact that they can be a bit mysterious. We met at the texas relays and we just started to hang out, I absolutley love his spirit and his charisma, but I hate the fact that he might be hiding something. Its hard to tell if its going to be real or not, but I’m so tired of Sagittariuses, suppose to be our most compatible to an aries woman, but fuck that,.. anyways We have long conversations, I’m simple, blunt, but tactful. But I will proceed on with all the positive energy I’m getting from this post.. So wish me luck with my new Libra Man.
Aries Woman vs Pisces – leave him alone, too weak for you.
Aries Woman vs Sagittarius – supposedly our MOST compatible which is true, but too many excuses, things not adding up, and he isn’t very good at showing you the attention an aries woman deserves
Aries Woman vs Gemini – always has to have things there own way, not much room for compromise
Aries Woman vs Cancer – lies exceedingly
Aries Woman vs Leo – If you can learn to hold your ground, then yes it might work
Aries vs Aries – won’t work, aries men are completly different from the aries woman, Aries men have no respect for another woman( especially aries)
Aries vs Scorpio – sexually.. hell yea.. committment- no way (scorpios are freaky but stubborn will always second guess you) you will never get the benefit of the doubt with this one.
Aries vs Aquarius – very borning, unstimulating, un interesting
The point I’m making don’t waste your time with the men you don’t have a connection with from get go, it always ends in disappointments.
I loved reading everyones posts and comments. Thank you for putting a light on my new libra target. (The first and hopefully only)
I’m an Aries woman in a relationship with a Libra man. The reading gave me insight as to my relationship with him, and will help me sort out a few things about my behavior.
Thank You.
L’sa G’bnz-
Well I am a Aries Woman and I started back talking to my head start sweetheart who is a Libra Man never actually had a serious committed relationship with a Libra Man I am scared every man I have been with have left because they say I fuss to much, his mother want us to get married!!!!! I do not want to let her down at all, he sweet he knows how to keep the conversation going, I just do not want to mess things up, I am 31 years old and I am finally ready to settle down and have a family!!!! Please help me what are the do’s and the don’t with this Libra Man!!!!! I know I can keep him happy, but I also have a Pisces man that want to date me too, I am going to pray about this hard also but I would also love some feedback!!! Thank you
I am married to a Libra man & i can say that the sex is great!!!!!! 🙂
you’re lucky I find they are very prudish and introverted during sex. The roles were completely reversed with this Libra guy. I acted like “the man” and he acted like” the girl.” UGH
Im a aries women dating a libra man and omg this is so true! its silly we meet in a club and the only reason I approched him was his smile. he’s attracted to my craziness and we havent argued (yet) but im trying to change that about my self. He’s sooo charming almost like what you would see in a movie =D
My first love was a libra 🙂
oh i forgot i am an aries woman he is a libra man.if we break up i will never never never date another libra man as long as i live. They are to difficult. I need and want a man to show me he loves me
Wow! where do I start. He says he loves me but it is hard to believe him. Because he is not affectionate aaaaaaaat alllllll, and it gets on my nevers. we have sex but he dose not cuddle and he says he wants to marry me. I love him but i just won’t him to stop being so miysterious, because it is pissing me off!!!!! and yes i do tell him i want to cuddle he says ok and go to sleep. I told him i am leaving him, he said i am not because i love him.
– how do you think an Aries man and an aries woman would try out?
so true!
I am an aries woman in love with and libra man. He happens to be my best friend. we talk almost daily and can sit on the phone for hours at a time. We are just friends nothing more, however the very thought of him sparks so many different emotions inside of me. he has been there for me through some of the most difficult times in my life. We have a very strange relationship. although we are just friends, there is a strong, lustful, sexual attraction between us! We can never carry a conversation without sex being a topic. for almost 2 years we have never been physically intimate, however we have been mentally. the strange thing is , he will not admit to the attraction. he currently has a girlfriend, in which I recently started dating 8 months ago. during this time he was single, I expressed my feelings towards him. he did not believe me and brushed me off. recently about a month ago I told him that I was in love with him. again he brushed me off. however he told me that he did not want our friendship to end and he continues to make sexual comments and gestures towards me. he ask me a previous conversation what do you think we should do about my feelings concerning us . I would always say nothing for fear of rejection……now I am in a place to where I don’t know what to do. When I look into his eyes and when he’s in my presence it’s like the world does not exist around me. I can’t shake this man because he’s everything to me . I share ALL of my problems and issues with him; he always patiently listen and give me the greatest advice. I don’t know is he just enjoys my admiration for him, but I never hesitate to tell him how he is the greatest person I have ever met and how much I admire and adore him. This article is very true, and I would not change my experience with a libra man that I have found! he and I may never cheers t va va friendship into a full blown relationship , however he knows he is stuck with me for life! 🙂
@Ask Oracle: He lives in Texas I live in California so theres not way for me to look attractive for him lol. I’m simply trying to get over him and move on. I’m still praying that he comes back into my life and I feel like as long as I keep hanging onto that I will never move on. But its so freaken hard to move on when I was so sure that I had found my soul mate = (
@butter1
Things will be fine. At this time pay more attention to your health. Take up a daily body exercise routine and it will not only keep you healthy but also make you look more attractive to him.
The beginning of my story is posted above on March 3rd. I finally flew to Texas to see my Libra guy in person for the first time. I flew down on my birthday week and stayed 5 days with him. It was amazing. He did so much for me and made my birthday a week I will never forget. We connected very well, and both felt very comfortable around eachother as if we had known eachother for years. He was such a gentlemen. Opening the car door to let me in and out of the car, pulling out my chair at a restaurant. His southern hospitality blew me away and melted my heart. On the last night of my visit we sort of got into an argument because I was pushing him to tell me if his feelings about me had changed or if he still felt the same as he did over the phone before we met in person. He got pretty upset and said that his actions should tell me my answer. It was hard for me to go on actions alone. He said so much over the phone, that after my feelings for him were confirmed and I knew I still felt the same, I just needed to know if he was on the same page. I was upset with myself that I allowed that little issue to sort of ruin our last night and hoped I didn’t ruin our relationship for good. It seems like, once you get on a libra’s bad side, it hard to cross back over lol. When I made it back home in California our relationship took an ugly turn. His family was effected by the Alabama tornado and it put our relationship on hold because his family needed him. I compeltely understood the situation and knew things would change between us, but I didn’t know he would push me so far away. There were times that I made comments that made me sound selfish, and that I didn’t care about what was happening to his family. Which is completely the opposite of who I am. They came out completely wrong, and out of fear of losing him. Once again I apologized to him for my actions but still don’t think he truly forgave me. He said “I understand you didn’t mean it, but you said it and you can’t take it back.” At that moment I realized I was pushing too much and not letting him lead, so I started backing off. As things began to get tougher and tougher for him regarding his family, job and school I knew I was going to have to back up and give him space to take care of business. Believe me it wasn’t easy for me but I did it. We spoke less and less and now don’t talk on the phone anymore at all. He’s going through so much now that he has completely pushed me away. I wish I could be there for him, I wish there was something I could do to make him happy again, but there isn’t. All I can do is pray for him and his famiy. Things are are pretty much over with us, but I’m still having a hard time getting over him and letting him go. Not a day goes by when I don’t think of him. I think of him daily, I miss his gentle voice, the sweet things he use to say to me, the way he made me laugh, the late night phone calls when we fell asleep with eachother over the phone. The sweet text messages went sent to eachother through out the day, the butterflies I got in my stomach every time he said my name. I never told him but I nearly fell in love with him after seeing him in Texas. In fact I do love him, but never said anything because I didn’t want to rush anything or put any pressure on him. I’m glad to report that I cry less and less about him but still get tears in my eyes when I think of the future I was sure of having with him, or when a friend or family member of mine ask about him. I big part of my heart is praying that after things get better in his life that he’ll come back around and we can pick up where we left off. But that other part of me tells me its over and I need to move on. If he could read this I would want him to know that I miss him sooo much, and that I apologize if I ever seemed selfish and didn’t care about his family or what he was going through. I only had fear in losing him, and hope my actions didn’t push him away. I want him to know that I hurt when he hurts and I wish I could be there for him during this difficult time in his life, and that I pray for him daily and if there was anything I could do to make his life better I’d do it in a heart beat. I hope he knows that I’m always here if he needs someone to lean on and even if we never speak again, I will always hold a special place for him in my heart. He will always be my biscuit and I will always be his butter. WOW I’m trying so hard to hold back these tears and feel that huge umcomfortable lump in my throat. It feels like I’m finally saying good bye and letting go.
@hay (Hali)
Human mind is a great phenomenon, it will create problems even when they are unreal and not related in any way to us.
You need pay attention to your health. Take up a daily body exercise routine and it should help you get over this.
WOW… I can’t believe how down to the very last detail this article defines my relationship. I’ve been dating a Libra for 4, almost 5, years now, and this article is the epitome of every aspect of our relationship. This helps me to understand so many things– I don’t even know where to begin! I’m so happy to know that we always compete because it’s our nature to– sometimes it really does get annoying haha.. Lately, for like the past year and a half, we have been arguing a lot. Not like full on fights, but bickering here and there and it drives people nuts. I can’t help it– apparently he can’t either, but he hasn’t had a job in a while.. I just can’t stop thinking about it all of the time– am I wrong to pester him to look harder for a job? I’m out night and day practically if I don’t have a job and he only looks here and there. Why can’t I get it off my mind and stop thinking he’s extremely lazy??
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– @Ask Oracle: Yessss you are sooooo rite thank you for everything 🙂
@jasmine21 There is nothing wrong with what you have been doing so far. Almost everyone is chasing one or the other thing. But a wise person chases things which are permanent and that which benefits others also. A good healthy body is a must to enjoy things that life offers us.
– @Ask Oracle: thank you so much that really helped. but does it seem like im chasing?
@jasmine21 What you wrote above simply indicates that this person doesn’t have a healthy mind/body. To experience a happy joyful relationship healthy state of mind is a MUST.
Unfortunately by constantly thinking about him you have caught the same disease of mind. You need to keep him at a distance and yet be friendly. Basically you need sometime to focus on other important things in life and stop thinking about him.
Please take up a daily body exercise routine, it will not only make you healthy but also help in having a clear state of mind.
– hey im an 21yr Old Aries woman and i been talking to an 21yr Old libra man for 2yrs. i met him march 09 and i had a boyfriend at the time. so i never really paid attention to him. but he got locked up like 2 or 3 months after we met. so me being a good friend i start writing him. we would talk about me and my boyfriend and the stuff he was going through and it just turned into something else. next thing i know he comes home and me and him spends the night together and we just cuddled all night and it felt soooo beautiful. but the more i spent time with him the more my feelings for my boyfriend faded away. but he wined up getting locked up again so i jus focused back on my relationship. so i just continued writing him. After a years and sum months he came home and we started chilling again. i went with him to court one day and after we went to my house and it happened. Lol 🙂 i felt sooooo GOOD and deep in my heart i really felt bad for my boyfriend because it was even better then his. but after we had sex it was a wrap. everything was so perfect , i met his mom , he met mines and we was just always together. but then he went back to jail and im like wtf.. but i still cared so i still stayed around. sooo he came back home, i dumped my boyfriend and we went back to what we was doing b4 he left. thats when i fall in love with him. at first i didnt wanna tell him cause i didnt know how he was going to react. so i waited and he wined up telling me first and for the first time in my life i was gald i waited. Ok soooooo months, months and months go past and everythings good. until i told him i wanted to be his girlfriend. he said he wasnt ready and i respected that because he could have just said yeah and cheated on me. then he out of no where he stop calling me as much and i was hurt cause i couldnt understand why he just fall back like that. but then i thought maybe cause i scared him when i told him i wanted to be his girl.. but then he came back around and said the reason he fall back was because he needed space and i told him he could’ve said something instead of just doing it the way he did it. he got locked up again and i was dere holding him down and he wrote me a letter like a month b4 he got out saying he didnt wanna mess with me nomore and i need to just focus on me. i was upset but excepted it. it really was nothing i could do but take it like a man. he got out of jail and didnt call me or nothing and that shut hurt me sooo BAD! i was hearing about him clubing and basicly doing everything in the book but checking up on me. i was really crushed. then i hit him up on facebook and didnt respond. i took for me to curse him the fuck out for him to respond and it still wasnt the response i wanted!! a little after that i called him and he came and we had sex and everything was fine after that. Lol’ but then he recently got locked up again and im still here because i love him. but on my bday he told me he wanted to be my boyfriend. so march 09 til april 5, 2011 we was unofficially together. on my bday he told me he love me and he wanted to be with me. but mind you he still in jail. so i said yess and everything was fine then he hit me with the “i aint really to be in a relationship rite now cause of the situation im in rite now” and that was after a month so you know i got mad as hell!! i cursed that man the fuck out yall and everybody keep saying he just using me cause he in jail but he not because i really dont do anything for me to use me. the most i do is write him and go see him. but this morning we was texting and he basicly was telling me he want me in his and he love me but just not as a girlfriend. so what should i do yall ? i love this man and i know he love me back. i think that he wanna show me he cares but he scared that i might hurt him. plzzz i need advice BAD .
They will hold u in place because they think the other side is better but when that fades because they don’t like loneliness ao he keeps the door open for u so all in all if he’s not a libra whom things or life has happened it’s neva gonna be stable I’m speaking for intellect and experience girl something’s u can hope will turn but it’s jus is what it is sorry u had to go through that
FYI
As well he might be into me a lot of libra men are bi u said he’s always in jail real shit
@ Jerzzgirl: I say go for you. You’ve got nothing to lose. It might turn out to be the best decision you’ve ever made. I’m so excited. I’m flying out to see my libra man for the first time next friday. I can’t wait to see him. It’s been long over due.
I started my freshman year of college back in 1989. I am the Aries and my recent re contact with my collge friend March 2011 is uncanny. We reconnected n facebook. We were both divorced! Wow! I am turning 40 this year and me and sum girlfiends are vacationing in my Crush’s hometown! How is that for ironic. He made it no secret that he is interested in pursuing a future with me. What should I do???
Im a 21yr old aries woman who just started datin a 23 yr old libra man not 2 long ago it seems like everything happend so fast…at first i wasnt really payin attention 2 him as he was paying attention 2 me we was at da same party together n i guess thats where he noticed me at. We started talkin to each other more den 1 thing lead 2 another im dating him lol. Our first dat was perfect he ompletely swept me off my feet i was smiling the wholetime!Everysince then i want him around libra men defenatly have charm there charm is super hard to resist. Our first sexual expiercne was WOW lol..he brought me to places i neva been & the tiger n me…ofcourse i have some doubts because he has a child him n his babys mother are decding to go there seperate ways but im scared that she or he might try to mess it up between us. I can see myself with him as a boyfriend & a husband aries we dnt even think about marriage until its really serious. But im trying to be positive im goin to defenately take orcales advice on this article cause i really want this 2 work…Wish me luck people.
Im an aries woman who has been “really good friends” with a mysterious, secretive, Liba man for two years too long. He has charm, intellect, wit, and intellegence. It just occurred to me that I’m not special to him. This sign just needs a captive audience to talk endlessly to. Aries Ladies, drop the zero and move on.
He just knows how to make a strong woman feel fluffy, but its for his edification. we are so easily replaced with these guys….
I’m a 30 yr old aries and I’m talking to a 32 yr old libra man. However we have never met eachother in person. We met over the internet 3 years ago. I nearly fell in love with him over the phone. He lived in North Carolina and me California, the distance between us tore us apart so we ended our friendship. And 3 yrs later I decide to sign back onto the same dating site and he found me ounce again. This time he lives in my home state Texas and even though I live in California, I would move there in a heart beat for him. Keep in mind we still have not met in person, but the passion between us over the phone is so over whelming I know in my heart it’s going to work out with him. I feel I’ve found my soul mate. A lot of what I read above is true and I know as long as I allow him space when he needs it and learn to control my own emotions, we will work out just fine. I long for the day that he holds me in his arms for the first time. OMG I CAN’T WAIT to see him.
I’m a 25(will b 26 soon) year old aries woman and there is a 22 year old libra man interested in me. His been eyeing me for 4yrs now! so he says (but he has been troubling me fortrue!). We went on a date once and for some reason i did enjoy his company,we speak over the phone for mins into hrs(tonight was 2), He can really keep a conversation; but Sadly i dont have feelings for him. I ask him to be friends and he agreed–so balance and understanding!.There are 3 factors including the no feelings i have leading to this decision. He is soooo open up (which i love makes me melt.lol), he express how he really wants me to give him a chance and will wait. But i told him that it wont work out bcuz of the factors( hope im not being too shallow :O).Yeah :(. So we are friends for now. I honestly wouldnt being more considering im single but *sighing*…the factors of (low job,low salary and age) plus no feelings and attraction…yeah its cutting it short for me. Im i being shallow?
I’m an aries woman who was married to a libra man for 43 years. We had our ups and downs but we made it. He just passed away in July 2010 and I Am talking to a libra again and he has the same birthday as my late husband what a coincidence. Iam going to pursuit it. Hang in there gals it does work.
I would like to say that I am a 24year old Aries woman who is dating a 32 year old Libra man. We balance each other so well its crazy. He finds ways to make me desire the patient quality that he naturally possesses. I find that he does most of the compromising but I learn to compromise too. I hope that I am able to wait. He asked me to move in with him after three months of unofficially dating, then we became official about a month before he asked me to move in. He can be erratic at times but I love him. However, I do know that the bedroom part is true because sometimes I just want to get down and dirty while he wants to tease, romance and seduce me. That’s all fine and dandy but sometimes I just want to get to the getting. And the getting better be good! LOL! I love him, I hope it works. 🙂
Sadly to say it didn’t work and It didn’t end good either. Is so hard when Libra man don’t show their feelings even when is obvious. He is too mysterious most of the time I don’t know what he is thinking even when we argue he analyses me. And he thinks I am bipolar by nature lol. Ohh well Thats my story.
i’m an aries girl i do like a libra man he is so deamn charmin he say to me he finds me so cute but i’m actually crazy about hem want hem to feel the same about me and the problem is he is too mystrieus to get hem i don’t know if he is intrested on me or he deosn’t
I would just like to say that libra men are a little stubborn but as an aries woman i agree with ally’s post because that is my problem too and i have also chated with just about every sign as well… i just met a libra man and he is very sexy, conversation is great he just makes me melt. on the flip side he talks to a lot of women and just does what he wants to do he said he tried to be with just one woman but it just didn’t work out for him. They don’t like arguing @ all what so ever so aries ladies try to keep as much peace and space as possible he also loves beauty from your face to your clothes, heels, etc… stay fly if you want to keep a libra man and as far as sex goes… slow and lots of passion light candles and things they are big on romance and also rub their back in a slow lite motion. Elegance and class they love this is what i learned so far about my 32yr old libra man and i’m 21. well he’s not mine YET! lol KEEP THE PEACE OR HE”S OUT THE DOOR PERIOD but they are very understanding and easy to talk to… great listeners… you will love a libra man but knowing the “aries i am” you’ll just have to learn to control the attitude and LET YOUR MAN BE THE MAN. they think and analyze a lot of things before jumping into it but us we’re outgoing and all for what ever. we kinda balance each other in a weird way… he’ll help me with whatever and sometimes just give me money for GP but not all the time they are smart about saving money too. i’m already head over hills only if i could get him to be with just me! :/
I’m an Aries woman and it doesn’t matter who we are with…WE are probably the most agressive bi-polar sign out there and it’s a comprimising struggle with whoever as we are just way too independant but needy at the same time. I have dated a variety of signs and the only one I ever even considered marrying was a Libra..If your Aries girl can think logically and try SOME patience…I think this CAN be a match made in heaven…If she’s fully independant, she’s probably hard to get along with period but what a fun girl to be around 🙂
omgg i absolutely love this article. im an 18 year old aries woman and i have the biggest crush on a 19 year old libra man. we both go to the same college and the first time we had a real conversation, i freakin loved it. we have so many similarities when it comes to logic about life. i felt like i could tlk to him 4ever. the only thing that bothers me is how mysterious he can be at times. like i feel like hes feelin me, but doesnt really wanna show it and it drives me crazyyyy!!!! there is a definate lust for him and boy, it is off the charts!!! lol i feel like if we can have a little alone time, jus me and him, and jus tlk and put evrything out in the open between us, it will be a beautiful relationship. i can get a little irritated because he doesnt pay the attention i want him to, but i try reallyy hard not show him that. hopefully we get to chill this weekend cuz we were suppose to las weekend. im crossing my fingers and my toes that evrything goes tha way i want it to! lol im such an aries. 😛 haha wish me luck!
I am an Aries female and I am exactly how this articles says. My daughter’s dad is a Libra and we been together for 4 years we love each other so much but the competition is on, On everything we do. We are trying things one more time but he does not want to commit yet.I am very Impulsive and impatient by nature. I hope it works because we love each other.
It just means that for a Libra male, love making is more imaginative and dreamy. But for Aries woman, fun lies in the real action. It doesn’t talks about attractiveness being a factor in making out.
Hi ..I don’t understand this passage: “The Libras approach to sex is mental, light, and airy. Once the Libra feels comfortable enough he will express his desires for erotic expression that often fly right over the Aries reach. When he gets going it is very hard to bring him back to planet earth. The Aries woman will find herself looking for anything solid to grab onto. The ethereal love and aesthetic sexual response can leave the Aries woman somewhat chilly” .. I’m an Aries woman, and admit to having a hard time with ethereal things, though I love fantasy and spirituality .. But could someone explain how this passage is describing the Libra Male? E.g. What’s an aesthetic sexual response? Could it mean that, if the girl’s not attractive enough to the Libra male, he’ll lose interest? So he decides when & where etc.?
I’m interested because I’ve my eye on a Libra male 😀
I am an aries woman and I don’t think all of this article is true. I think the following quote :”Show her that she is irresistible and she will be yours. This will make her feel desirable. An Aries will not chase the attention of a man. If you are a man looking for a woman to replace your mother this is not the one for you.” is true. I dont agree with “Tact and courtesy comes naturally to the Libra man, but such consideration for the other people can be hard for the Aries woman. She does not intend to be rude, she just does not thinks twice before she speaks her mind.” i am blunt but i am very tactful. however i know a libra man who is not tactful. I think for the most part Aries women rock…for the most part we are very outgoing, i am not selfish at all and we love our men deeply and support them until they mess over us…then we let the horns come out.
I’m a 53 year old libra man dating a 47 year old aries woman. This article is spot on, however, we have reached a great balance that allows us to really complement each other. She is the first woman I ever kissed on the first date and slept with on the second. Our passion is overwhelming at times, but so great! I have dated a lot and been married twice, but this is the best relationship I have ever had. I keep her grounded and she finds new ways to keep me stimulated. We can talk for hours and we still hold a record for the longest telephone conversation I have ever had at 4 1/2 hours. It is a great union and while it requires some work, it is far less than other relationships I have been in. I give two big thumbs up for Aries women!
well, i agree with this article and its sad too because its true !! I’m dating this libra man past 3months and we have seen so much of ups and downs, i think librans are stubborn and maturely i compromise on everything. Though it hurts my ego but, i love him alot !! Keeping fingers crossed and hope it works ! 🙂
Tiarra: Wow i have a similar relationship goin on here.. I am aries with a pisces venus…. and i have been “unoffically” lol seeing this libra man, its been almost 3 months and we are still on the fence about making it offical (both of us are) he is libra sun and mercury with scorpio ven/mars, i feel his double scorpio has enough strength to keep me from running circles around him and he totally dominates when he wants to, which makes me like him so much more, but then there are his super romantic, easy going days that he does whatever i say!!! we laugh so much together, are very touchy feeling towards eachother…. but after 2/3 days we are sooo ready for some space, we dont even have to explain ourselves, its like wake up, he gets in the shower and i say ok im goin home call me later… i actually think we are funny, no one before him that i have dated has been this easy, but confusing at the same time, i see myself with him sometimes but then i say we are great buddies other times…. and the same goes for him too, i almost feel we are both scared to cross the line maybe cause we have TOO much fun together that we dont think the other is serious enough about it…..or maybe we are testing eachother, he will say things like “oh i told alex you were my girlfriend last night” but then says he likes this other chick…. so i end up shutting him down to defend my self, like “you told alex i was your g/f, why?” and it goes round and round….anyways i totally relate and even after reading everybodies messages, i am still so clueless about this guy…. will i ever know…probably not, but at least we will always have a close friendship if things dont happen!!!!! p.s. oh a sexually it was great in the beginning, now i feel as my emothions are getting involved, i dont want to be intimate anymore because he is so light and airy, it scares me…..and when i shut him down in bed, i no it hurts him 🙁 why so difficult? anyways if anyone has a response i would love to here it!
I am a 31 year old Aries woman; my love interest is a 29 year old Libra man. I find the article to be half accurate as I don’t have all of the “typical” Aries woman qualities. My Libra interest is very strong, outspoken, articulate, and very challenging. The challenging side of him frsutrates yet equally excites me. However, he tends to be more combative than I and I am taking down to keep the peace in this the on-set of our relationship. It is more work than I desire at this stage but I can’t walk away.
I like this article very much. I find that everything in this compatiability is true betweeen libra man an aries woman,not one thing was said wrong. I am a aries/pisces woman an I am talking to a libra man we are unoffical to be official due to we need our space an we would rather build a foundation before getting into a serious relationship. Now you may wonder why are they not in a relationship it’s not because of lust, just for the fact we need to understand and observe one another before going into something serious, that may last a life time.every man I ever talk to I always had the pants an ran things but ever since i met him things are very different.It make’s me more attractive to him because he does not always give me my way, well at least not all the time. Since aries woman are very spoiled we like to get our way sometimes it sparks the relationship more if you got a challenge. It also just takes that man to know us on our inside an outside, if you know what I mean!
I’m an Aries woman, I’ve never dated a Libra and one is trying to date me. I’ve only been with Pisces men. But yes, we are very much like this article says but we are worth every bit of the struggle.
well I found this compatibility study true in all sense, i found one
I found this compatibility study true in all sense. There are more than chances when the relationship will not survive. I found Aries women impulsive. The only compatibility is in sexual relationship.
im a libra man. i had an aries girlfriend. we were both really in love with each other. the only reason why we broke up was because she moved back to her country. she was a foreign exchange student. we were both in our early 20’s. so, if it says that a libra and aries are not compatible. it is not true. we actually got along great. yes we had arguments and what not, but don’t all couples do that?