Gemini Man and Virgo Woman Love Compatibility

The airy Gemini and earthy Virgo make a somewhat contradicting match. There may be some personality conflicts those are easily noticeable when these two Sun Signs come together as the sensible and serious Virgo always finds the Gemini unstable and funny. But at the same time their differences make them interesting and complementing mates.

Everything is symbolic, academic or rhetorical, to Gemini man. He generally makes decisions based solely on quick impulses. Even though he is not completely insensitive, he does have a knack for keeping a distance. But of course Gemini man possesses a very strong intellect and pretensions in front of him usually fail. In a relationship, he makes a very easy going and loving mate who respects his as well as his partner’s freedom and is always ready. Never suspect about Gemini man because even if it is not expressed directly, he eventually figures it out and feel miserable for it.

Although she is her own worst critic, Virgo woman wants to serve the world and everyone who belongs in it by identifying their faults and bringing a systematic order to the confusion and disarray around them. Personal security is a virtue that she works at creating for the future. Being overly organized and efficient is one virtue she takes pride in even though it seems a bit over the top to others. Virgo woman does not have time for unwarranted emotions but she does have a need for affection. In a love affair she is adaptive and affectionate enough but she always wants her man to be well structured and planned.

Gemini man and Virgo woman are very vocal towards each other. Virgo woman becomes giddy at the new careless lifestyle she is introduced to by her Gemini man. Not much is held back in the relation when it comes to be a Virgo woman with such pure heart and straightforward feelings. The Virgo woman always respects her Gemini man and teaches him to be calm and serene, just like her. When there is a lot of love in the relationship, their words are healing to each other. Virgo woman is beautifully responsive to the needs of her Gemini man and she takes good care of him as she so desires it as well. But there is always some form of slight tension in their relationship. Sometimes the Virgo woman can be too critical regarding the work and attitude of her Gemini man and this thing disappoints him badly.

A Gemini man is always very pleased to see a disciplined and well maintained Virgo woman; in fact he is fascinated by her charms. Her feminine nature draws him in as well. In the influence of a strong Gemini man, Virgo woman slowly comes out of her insecurities and become more self confident. He always loves to talk with his Virgo woman about her insecurities and help her pull herself from them. Gemini man gives his Virgo woman the freedom she needs to grow and always tries to be there for her when she needs him. Occasionally, his distance from her when she needs him most can hurt her more than he could imagine. But in such cases the Virgo woman has to understand that his actions are not intentional. If they both are ready to hold on patiently, they can create a calm and effective love, to hold on for throughout their lives.

A Gemini man and Virgo woman though have many differences but actually that’s the reason they are so much deeply in love and find each other fascinating. Though the Virgo woman may not be a very great conversationalist but the quick witted Gemini man teaches her to expresses her well and let go her insecurities and discomforts. The Virgo woman, on the other hand makes the life her Gemini man stable and strong. She directs him the right way without stepping over his freedom or making him feel bored. They know each other’s weakness and are always ready to become their lover’s strength. The love of a Virgo woman and Gemini man is a deeper and purer form of friendship with such mutual harmony that exists in their hearts and souls forever to keep them bright and sparkling with each other.

If Gemini man and Virgo woman could base their relationship on an emotional affair, it would be a successful relationship as each leans on the other for the support they crave for. Sexually, Virgo woman and Gemini man may have some major differences and this could problematic for a long lasting relationship. Virgo woman being an earthy creature needs to feel the physical affection of her lover. She is not an overly passionate lover, but she needs to know her man is there. She needs the feel of security and confidence. Gemini man, on the other hand, is not one for familiarity. His excessive desire for change causes his Virgo woman to begin to doubt herself and his devotion toward her. She ends up retreating back to her insecurities and does not responds well during love making. For success in their sexual relationship, they both need to understand their different approach and needs towards physical love and then they can actually enjoy fulfillment which is a lovely blend of earthy sensuality and airy creativity.

The fascination of Gemini man and Virgo woman for each other goes hand in hand with their frustrations for each other but with a little effort from both the sides, they can make this work. At first, their affair appears to be new and thrilling. But after some time, the substantial Virgo woman begin to wonder if she really wants to tie herself to someone still too curious than to be tied down to just her. Gemini man gives second guess to himself about really wanting someone who is so transfixed in being with him. For her it is difficult to be with someone so unorganized and for him it is impossible to tie to a monotonous schedule. There is no doubt that they respect one another’s mental abilities, yet they may too often stifle open expressions of affection in each other. With some compromise and compassion they just might be able to make their lives a little brighter.

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nitasadhu (@nitasadhu) : May 3rd, 2010

gemini man & virgo woman :is it good for marriage

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sunshine (@sunshine) : June 13th, 2010

i like gemini men they r fun and do express there care and love in a nice lovely way, im a virgo myself ;)

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w (@w) : June 29th, 2010

i would love to get in with a virgo,im a gemini

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Sparky (@Sparky) : August 31st, 2010

I am madly in love with a Virgo woman. She is intelligent, beautiful and she knows where every button I have lives. She is challenging, aloof, sensual and just plain drives me crazy, I have driven for 3 Hrs just to see her. I wish she was less challenging to be with. I would love to shower her with affection, but as it is I am lucky just to be able to rub my hand over her back. Its been like this for nearly 6 months. I have yet to kiss her on the lips ( she is driving me mental) I have never wanted someone so bad in my life.

I suspect it is the fact that she is just so calm about everything, so organised and has an ecconomy of movement that drives me wild.

She also has a sort of inner kindness of being that is so gorgeous I can’t put it into words

I just plain love her. For all my sins I suspect that I always will – she is the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing I thnk about at night.

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zafer and praseetha (@zafer and praseetha) : September 6th, 2010

im gemini and i had fallen in love from last 04 years and married her(virgo woman). we are very happy partners and we leaving our life joyfully and our love life is very thrilling.Most importantly for beautiful life there is no such compatible signs between two hearts

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virgo_female (@virgo_female) : October 31st, 2010

What is written here, is very positively put. I wish it was this easy to make a relationship work. I’m a virgo and it makes me nervous, thinking, I might never be entertaining enough, even for the loyalest of the loyal gemini :(

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virgo_female (@virgo_female) : October 31st, 2010

……and, Sparky, for God’s sakes, do your woman. If she’s a virgo, she’s got a wild side but, very intelligently hidden from all. Use your smartness and tap into her wild side, buddy. Six months is too long a wait to kiss her on the lips. Go get her, man. Good Luck!

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lovebug (@lovebug) : November 15th, 2010

Soooo I’m a virgo female crushing on an older gemini guy this is very informative I feel so close to him when we talk its amazing

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Lunathevirgo (@Lunathevirgo) : December 3rd, 2010

I have been in love with a gemini for a long time. I hope we can be together.

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virgo (@virgo) : December 15th, 2010

virgo myself….my gemini man is extremely passionate,very intelligent,expressive and very romantic……we have our misunderstandings, the fact that we are both communicators , issues get ressolved quick and we move on fast…i love it!! life is exciting and thrilling with him, hes always on he go…very sponataneous!!! however i dont know why is he crazy about me??? i am his complete opposite…im simple,calm, collective …..

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Danielle (@Danielle) : December 20th, 2010

I was with a Gemini man, for 4 years. The first 3 years it was amazing! great we did sooo many things together. However the last year, all we did was argue, he changed into something I didn’t recognize we fell out of love. To say he wasn’t a great guy would be a lie. However when he got angry it was scary. He never hit me but he never thought twice about calling me horrible names. Then he would switch and be sweet etc like nothing happened. Eentually we just decided we didn’t get along. We could ALWAYS talk, we never got bored, however when he changed the relationship and what we wanted changed.

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Danielle (@Danielle) : December 20th, 2010

And on another note, we make better friends. Cause we are able to confide in eachother etc. I would also have to say as far as the sex went– I have NEVER had as great of sex as I did with him. We fit perfectly as far as the sex went. He thinks so as well, since he does come back and ask for it lol– I don’t and have not given into his advances since we split. Especially since he found a new gf who he is still with the day we broke up. It’s safe to say the Gemini does not live in his past, but he is willing to have fun at all cost.

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A Young Gemini Man (@A Young Gemini Man) : January 13th, 2011

I am not one who is experienced to love (at least in this life, I believe I have lived before), but I strongly believe I am madly in love with a Virgo girl. My situation is similar to Sparky’s, except I’m not sure if she feels the way I do…she’s very unusual, in a way that she can come off as cold, but is probably one of the warmest people I know…I have had hints that she feels this way, and I have had hints that she doesn’t…all I know is that the only other time I’ve felt such a strong attraction to someone was awhile ago, with a cancer…she is now basically my sister.
One big difference with this Virgo:It’s stronger. She seems to be good at concealing things(it seems like she is, perhaps), and this may have something to do with the doubt that most Virgos have…we often don’t talk unless someone else starts the conversation, and we often don’t even meet eyes when we walk past each other…for me, it’s because I love her, for her I can only guess that she may be getting that hint…
All I know for a fact is that she’s beautiful, a genius, and the best singer I know…it just worries me that, if I tell her how I feel, we may never talk again (like I said, we barely do now).

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Jaycee (@Jaycee) : January 17th, 2011

I’m a virgo woman, and my boyfriend is a gemini man. We’ve been together for only 2 weeks now, but i’ve been good friends with him for abt 5 years now. We just get one another, altough we are complete opposites. i’m quiet, conservative and he’s outgoing & he expresses his feelings for me so easily, i feel so comfortable around him, sometimes i question it all. it’s all too perfect, hehe. i’m glad we got together. ; ♥’

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BG (@BG) : January 26th, 2011

We are a gemini man and a virgo woman who will soon reunite after 30 years. We are ditching our 30th year high school reunion to be together. His romantic and fun side has convinced me that I need to come out of my shell a bit after being divorced for several years. Enjoyed reading your comments, gives me the courage I somewhat am lacking. He still remembers our first and only kiss.

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Sophia (@Sophia) : January 29th, 2011

I am a Virgo female with a Gemini partner-I can honestly say that everything I have just read is completely true. My partner & myself were young lovers- we parted then as he was a bit of a player &i was “better the devil you know!” even his friends would tell me “don’t think you’ll be the only one” jealousy? Maybe? …I chose to listen.
We separated yet I still met him on random nights out & ended up back at his- our connection intellectually was intriguing to me- also just feeling him touch me made me feel alive- I’d always find that if nothing happened between us I would regret it!-which was generally the opposite with my other sexual encounters. I then met a cancerian and had a son- I found him to be completely on another wave length & cannot point why I was ever with him to be honest, being a cancerian he would always run home to mummy-even preferring to eat at hers rather than with me (I’m medditarian so I can cook!).
I found myself looking out for my Gemini guy- seeing workmen and double looking just to “check”- then I went out to watch football with some girlie friends at a local bar-a guy starts talking to me that I do not know and my friends are surprised I don’t know him, telling me his name and surname, so I ask him how his brother is,he told me he is single & his house mate, turns out he had been talking about mevthe night before- so I take his number call him and we meet up…. Butterflies………… We have literally been together since… 6 years!!!!!!

I have to admit that “thinking” about his past & his many conquests makes me feel physically sick-so I try to avoid them thoughts, he like me found himself looking for me-above all we missed our friendship-our sex life for me just being a bug bonus. :) he makes me feel great about myself- I literally have some kind of body dismorphia so he helps me no end, and I (I believe) keep him organised and help stream his very varied thought process- I have to ask him repeatedly to do things I.e sign paperwork I have written -fir his benefit to the point where I feel k
Like I am nagging him .lol…. I believe although he gets annoyed he knows that everything I do or ask him to do is for the benefit of our family.
I will be the making of us just by organisational skills that he seems to lack-although he will not admit to this!…
We hardly ever argue,although when you do there is a major blow-up, normally down to him overlooking something that emotionally I need him for-I will get on with my organised life and he will realise that without me he gets the shakes-and unless he finds another Virgo may never have an intellectual conversation with a female again hahaha :)
Overall we have a lovely relationship :)

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doreen (@doreen) : February 6th, 2011

hey sophia….ur story is totally wat happened to me….. strange….!!!

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Tash (@Tash) : February 16th, 2011

I am a virgo with a gemini man and I cannot stand some of his ways but I love him and we work through our differences

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kesha (@kesha) : February 17th, 2011

I’m a 34yr old virgo woman, who is now seeing a gemini man, whom I’ve actually dated when I was 17-18. He was kind of a player back then, but what 17-18 yr old wasn’t!?! lol Anyway, a little over a year ago he found me on a popular social network and he wanted to rekindle, but my mind and heart was in another place. We talked and he asked me to be his wife. I thought he was joking around, so I told him, “yes!” I always had feelings for him, but never allowed them to surface. It fizzled out, because of my lack of interest, until 3 weeks ago. I decided to text him, to see how he was doing, but he didn’t respond, until a week later. After a few short text messages, he asked me again, “are we still getting married?” It was as if he knew, that we belonged together. Ive been single for 7yrs today. This has been the BEST two weeks of my life. I was nervous at first and afraid of another failing relationship, but I know, that I know, that I know, he is the one! I love you Jonathan and I want the world to know it! I am ready! I look forward to our future together! Thank You God!

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sana (@sana) : February 25th, 2011

i m virgo and i love gemini alot,but its too difficult for me to understand his mind,sometime he is tooooo loving but smetime he fully ignore me

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Kyle A. Lawrence (@Kyle A. Lawrence) : March 24th, 2011

I once knew a virgo and she was an amazing/beautiful creature of God’s green earth

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Kyle A. Lawrence (@Kyle A. Lawrence) : March 24th, 2011

and if she is reading this, i want her to know that i have never wanted anything bad between us just only empathy and trust

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Keewatinz Cat (@Keewatinz Cat) : April 10th, 2011

my gemini drives me love crazy…weve only been togetehr for 2 months so far but every moment with him is a memory ill never forget..this guy makes me feel so free and i can just be me and he accepts it all….im glad he found me cuz id probably still be in my emotional ways and having insecurities…thank u matthew..love u baby

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(@) : August 12th, 2011
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I’m a virgo woman and some of this is true and some of it is not. The reason some of it is not true is because my husband had deployed so he has gone from being affectionate to not being affectionate at all. He’s distant like crazy. & me being a virgo, it makes me second guess myself and wonder if I am good enough for him. Before his deployment, this article hit it all for him. Now, he’s too distant and quiet. We’re in marriage counseling but he puts no effort into helping the marriage. He’s also not very adventurous in bed like this states them to be. It’s actually me who wants to try new things and he backs down. Kind of weird… We had so much in common and so much fun before his deployment. So I guess this would be true for the men who have not deployed and seen stuff you cannot imagine. In his case, I can see why he has changed. I still love him and I always will, he’s got me by his side until he says otherwise.

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Cinnamone (@Cinnamone48) : September 24th, 2011
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Thats soo sweet yayyy virgos

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Naomi (@Caramel_Virgo) : October 11th, 2011
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@ Its weird because my cousin is in the army and hes a gemini and shes a virgo and something happened between them also after he came back from deployment from Irag. He would not tell me exactly what went wrong but they are divorce. He says I remind him of her. :-) So hang in there. And I hope everything goes ok.

Im a virgo and my future boyfriend is a gemini:He just don’t know it yet.

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D (@DK0528) : October 17th, 2011
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I am a Gemini male and my first love was a Virgo. I am May 28 and she was Sep 13. We first met in high school. I was 9th grade, she was 10th grade and she was well over a year older than me. We were in a relationship for nearly a year a year after that when I was in 10th, her 11th until she ended up moving. We kept in contact for a quite a while but eventually it became too difficult for us as we began to grow apart from the long distance and not seeing each other ever. It hurt for a while every day after she left…To this day ten years later after seeing that she is now married on facebook, of course I still wonder how things would have played out

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chanel (@coko_chanel) : November 23rd, 2011
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I am a virgo woman…sure I have a couple of loves in my life but none other than that gemini guy i had. At first sight there was an instant attraction . The way he looked at me… wow i use to get shortness of breath. Being with him made my days brighter. It was such a challenge to figure him out in the beginning with led me to be unsure of myself. After awhile being a Gemini that he is he let his guard down and I just got even more madly in love with him that it scared me. Its like he had me all figured out. I want him back so bad I really dont know if I will have that same feeling with anyone else….

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chanel (@coko_chanel) : November 23rd, 2011
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@ well like the article clearly states that “Gemini man, on the other hand, is not one for familiarity. His excessive desire for change causes his Virgo woman to begin to doubt herself and his devotion toward her.” So with that being said its just that he longs for change but Geminis are so wishy washy he will go back to his oldself..unfornately when he see what he has been missing. Trust me Ive been there!

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Jess (@virtualvirgo) : December 20th, 2011
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I’m a Virgo female in love with a Gemini male who is one of my best friends. Normally, this is fine since we’re not in a relationship. It stinks when he tells me about his girl crushes, but I can’t really say anything since we haven’t put ourselves out there yet. And I’m not sure that I’d want someone that emotionally closed off. He runs scared when he’s a little too honest with me. But I also appreciate the fact he reminds me to lighten up and to relax. To conquer life when my insecurities get the best of me.
I think we’ll eventually date. Just not…soon. We have a lot of chemistry, though. I’m not a prim-and-proper Virgo, either. I’m far more adventurous in the love department. 

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Tatiyana Diamond (@Tatikay) : February 28th, 2012
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@sana am going through the same thing..he is loving sometimes and the other times i feel ignore sighh but he is not a bad person

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Anupama (@Anu_shash@yahoo.com) : March 23rd, 2012
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I am a virgo 13 sep he is June 19 ..
Aaah how du I start hmm well , it’s very true tht we Virgo serve all the time and nevere think of geting severed !!
I am madly on love with him since past 5yrs so , is he..
Sumthings I feel he ignores Me n stuff lik tht bttrust Me alws when I hell at him he jus takes it does not say a word I feel I alws eat up his space and I am very dominating aaah yet with all of tis difference we hav come tis far thank god..
One key advice is pls don’t think ur guy is not rest less like u jus tht thy don’t express it and u ovr re-act thoar of time..
Giv him his space and jus c the amount of love he will shower on u..
I am sorry I complete disagree tht Gemini guys are not loyal they are very committed though at times their eyes wonder (look at gals and admire) being a Virgo I too du tht !!

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Heather (@Heather62) : June 18th, 2012
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I’m a Virgo woman and my boyfriend is a Gemini. We’ve been together for about a month, but have known each other about a year. I agree with everything stated above. Me and him are so in love it’s crazy. We are very different, but those differences are what makes us. We never fight but when we do it doesn’t last long at all. He is always the one to apologize straight away. He is super fun. I could be with him forever. He is really cuddly, and great at it. Also he is a very passionate lover. 
I think this is a great match. I don’t have one complaint about him or us. It’s rather perfect. I’d suggest a Gemini man to any Virgo woman, or vice versa. :)

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alex (@al-ex) : January 8th, 2013
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Hi guys, Well I’m a gemini male who has found a virgo female. Firstly let me say that I am a May gemini not a June gemini. Difference being is that may gems do flirt but that’s about it where as june gems sleep around. There are more differences but they’re not important here. What can I say, the virgo female blew me away, she is a lady, she is fun, she is intelligent, she is whitty, she is a whore in bed and she loves to be adored which I do and she loves to be loved again which I do and she loves to love back safely which she does. We are an amazing mach and yet I never thought id ever end up with a virgo after having known some family and work colleague virgos. My first two wives have messed up cheated etc. She will be my third and I’m so happy about it, I will be her second and we can’t wait, literally!
 
alex & christine

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alex (@al-ex) : January 8th, 2013
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@ :  ….just be there for him, gemini’s  are strong and capable of anything and so make excellent killing machines in a war, however,  they sooner or later let their guard down and then all that have   been through catches up with them, like when the stress is over and the physical costs hits youh three days later,  well imagine what war has done to your already big hearted emotional guy,  it could take a long time for him to come to terms with what he has seen and done and for him to learn how to protect u from it. hang in there and be there ready to talk when he needs to unload and you will be able to help him heel, thats when you will get your man back. =)

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Louise (@Loobie) : March 1st, 2013
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I have been with a Gemini for the past year and I instantly fell in love with him, I knew he was the one after our second date. He’s liked me since school and we are both now 36 and never did I think we would end up together. He is so much fun I just completely adore him and he drives me crazy in the bedroom department, he taps into that wild side. Then after 3 months it went sour. There’s no emotion from him, he says he loves me but I don’t see it, I get no affection, he doesn’t desire me or want me. He goes out all of the time with his mates and leaves me at home. He’s a very angry person so when he blows up its scary. I have a calming influence on him so he’s made it obvious he’s always needed me. Our connection and bond is so strong, I literally have never felt this strong about anyone. We were on the same page, wanted a family I just don’t know what went wrong. I’m organised, he’s not therefore he becomes very stressed. I help him out but he sees it as criticism. He eventually became nasty called me boring, safe, reliable and made me very insecure. A very selfish man who never considered my feelings. He dumped me 4 months ago, my world has collapsed, my heart hurts without him. I’m too scared ill never feel that easy about anyone else. I never gave up on him but he did me and I fought for it but no good. Ill never look at a Gemini ever again. :-(

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yello (@yello_lovebug) : December 13th, 2013
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@Loobie how’s everything?
 
we were fwb for 4 yrs and I cannot stop thinking about him.
not an ideal situation but we were single and needed each other.
there were signs it was more for him too but he never stepped up.
shrugs such is life ehhh

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WhatLove89 (@whatlove89) : July 5th, 2014
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I was in a relationship with a gemini man for 2yrs and it was so great. Im a Virgo woman and we broke up about 1month and a half ago because he simply wanted change and said he just didnt have time for me anymore. Simple way of getting out of a relationship, I think. Well I still Love him he was my bestfriend my confidant, my lover, my everything.  I know he still Loves me but how can i get him back if he wants space and venture out and me being a virgo am impatient And want it my way of course.  Please advise. I still have high hopes. 

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