Libra Woman and Capricorn Man Love Compatibility

Though, the relationship of Libra and Capricorn is not an easy one, still the mutual respect and commitment helps to maintain it beautifully. Libra’s willingness to adjust and adapt to things brings a definite strength to the relationship, and Capricorn always appreciates and acknowledges this quality of the Libra partner.

A Capricorn man is quite sentimental, adores the arts and music also. He is also extremely opinionated, grounded in his beliefs and stubborn as an ox. He doesn’t have much of a sense of humor but he is highly dependable and never lazy. His strength and self discipline creates an appearance that he is not a warm creature but deep inside he is very warm and loving person and very protective towards his dear ones. He is very stable and does not appreciate changes at all. In a relationship, he is a truly committed lover with strong qualities of caring and protecting his lady love.

Libra woman is innately positive and lives to pick up the ones who are down, radiating warmth and cheer to everyone around her. She loves the art, attractiveness and the comforts of life. She is charismatic, delicate and has this warm nature that is so sentimental. Being a woman of independence, Libra woman has a hidden drive in her that coupled with her warm smile cajoles almost any man into willingly doing things the way she thinks they ought to go. In a relationship she usually proves to be a perfect match because she gives her man the supreme power and stays beside him to love and support his deeds.

Libra woman has an inbuilt softness and charm that makes Capricorn man feel easy in her presence. He needs to feel her gentle touch and sense her warm temperament to be able to let go of the things that make him self conscious. She gives him the love and respect he craves for and introduces him to new prospects of life bringing joy and spark to his life. She gives him the freedom he loves and supports him in all areas of life. She makes him understand the importance of interaction and makes him more social than he ever before was. She is just like a cool breeze in his life with all new fragrance to light up his personality. But Libra woman can be sometimes bossy or masculine in her attitude that is not appreciated by her Capricorn man. But to pay this honor to her in return of what she gives is always a good deal for him.

The initial attraction that Libra woman has for Capricorn man is not normally a good one. It is full of negativity in that she sees him as stubborn, dull, no sense of humor, a lot like others see him, depressing, opinionated, cold and disheartening. Since she is intelligent and decent woman, however, she won’t stop there. She looks deeper into him and sees just what this man is made of. His good virtues could outweigh the first impressions and results in a wonderful lover and husband. Libra woman soon realizes he is not a selfish man, nor is he impulsive or impetuous. Deep down he does have a sense of humor. He is very protective and loving towards her, who may be the first person to actually understand him. He gives his woman everything she misses in her personality making her feel complete.

As the days of life keep drifting with love and bliss, the Capricorn man and the Libra woman truly accept the others’ way of thinking and functioning of their relationship becomes cozier. She teaches him to be a bit more easygoing and he teaches his lady to be more dependable and strong. Together they make a wonderful bond of understanding with the colors of both love and friendship sparkling elegantly with a harmonious tune to make them feel closer. As they walk through the woods, enjoying their elements of Air and Earth on summer days their spirits talk and their minds become peaceful with the trust in their heart of everlasting togetherness. All their wounds and bad memories are healed by their unconditional love and life reveals an open path for them to walk on each other’s side forever.

The sexual relationship of Libra woman and Capricorn man is a blend of Air and Earth which is indefinable the first or second time as is their initial main attraction. Capricorn man’s reserved nature influences his style of lovemaking and may cause her to question his love for her as she feels a sense of rejection. He, in turn, reads her rejection as detaching herself from him. They both need to read less into the others actions or reactions and be more persistent in what they want and in what they feel. Her initial response to his reserved nature at first irritates her, but with a second look her curiosity gets the best of her and she wants to delve into the depths of his being to figure him out. Libra woman never completely do so, nor does Capricorn man ever completely figures out her true desires, but the process of it all can intensify their relationship as long as the frustrations of trying to figure each other out does not dominate. And as a result they can altogether have a wonderful sexual intimacy which is fulfilling in many ways.

The relationship of Libra woman and Capricorn man has a few problems to be taken in consideration. He may seem to be cold to her as his emptiness looms on his expressions though he longs for her to fill that void with her affections. He may not even realize himself just how much he needs his Libra woman. His initial attraction to her enthusiasms — later tends to irritate him — and her initial love of his stability — later grows stagnant to her. Moreover, the domineering nature of Capricorn man and light nature of Libra woman can create tough times for them. The relationship between them is the one that can go either way. But with some compromise, especially on the part of the Libra woman since she is more flexible, the bond between them can be strengthened. She has to blend her personality with his to find the peace and harmony needed to love longer and stronger.

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Lara (@Lara) : September 30th, 2009

I’ve recently begun a relationship with a Capricorn man. As a Libra woman, I’ve found it refreshing in every possible way (he’s the first Capricorn I’ve been with) and he’s incredibly patient, kind and loving. I have never felt better-suited for a partner. I feel as though he understands me – and wishes to understand me – like no other man ever has. He is gentle and very affectionate, sweet and tender – not extremely expressive with his emotions – but definitely says what needs to be said when it matters most. I’m completely in love!

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Laura (@Laura) : October 28th, 2009

I am a Libra woman who was married to a Capricorn man for nearly 27 years. He was the son of a Libra woman, and he had a zest for life and fun which made the marriage incredible in the first few years. He was a master at hiding his feelings, and it would take all of me to pull out of him what he was feeling, for me or for anything else. Sometimes he would surprise me and confess his love, but he was such a cold and unemotional man; I came from a family that was very loving and expressive. After our son was born, I was able to teach him more about being more open with his feelings, which he gravitated toward easily. Many times, I felt loveless, however, I know that in his own way, he did love me, and it was just difficult for him to express it. Our marriage ended with an affair on his part, which broke my heart. In the midst of us getting divorced, he was killed in an accident. While we were separated for two years, only DAYS before he was killed, I met another Capricorn man who resembled the exact same traits as my husband, however, at first glance, he seemed somewhat different in nature, particularly with his ability to share his feelings. I soon learned that in many ways, he was EXACTLY like my husband; I adored the parts of the new man in my life that reminded me of my husband, but I also feared that I was getting into another “loveless and unexpressive” relationship. I am a touchy/feely type of woman that is very expressive and I enjoy being a woman and I enjoy catering to the man that I love. While the new man in my life adores this about me, there are few rewards and reciprocations on his part, just because of who he is. I have decided that the new man in my life is definitely the man that I will marry next, however, I am teaching myself to love the things about him that he cannot change, and embrace who he is and the other things that I love about him. Zodiac relationships usually report that Capricorn Man/Libra Woman matches can be disasterous, however, I disagree. Because of our nature to adapt and change and work on making relationships work, it is completely up the the Capricorn woman on whether or not the relationship will flourish. For this reason, I am staying with my Capricorn man, and I will marry him someday. I strongly believe that my marriage prepared me yesterday for the relationship that I have with my new man today.

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Jessie (@Jessie) : January 24th, 2010

I am a Libra woman who has been friends with a Capricorn man for over 10 years. He is a very good friend of my ex husbands. We’ve been divorced for 2 yrs. We have always had a mutual attraction & recently ran into each other at a party. He confided in me how much he has always admired me & what a good wife & mother I’ve been. I then confided in him how gorgeous I have always thought he was but obviously never put out any signals as I was a loyal wife but now that I’m single……..I am definately interested! What followed was a few texts in the midnight hours he even told me he has always loved me!!! My heart pounded & I became weak in the knees. The next day however I felt him pull back as I think he is afraid of the fact that he is friends with my ex husband even though my ex husband is in a relationship!!! I don’t know what to do….I have pulled back til he makes the next move but I don’t know if he will :(

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Anonymous (@Anonymous) : February 19th, 2010

I’m a libra woman dating a capricorn man and things seem to be going pretty well. The only thing that gets me is that I’m so afraid to trust him. He’s cheated on every girlfriend he’s ever had and I’m scared he’ll do the same to me. Can capricorns be trusted? and if not, can a libra woman make them stay faithful?

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Chevonne (@Chevonne) : February 23rd, 2010

Dear Anonymous, there is nothing that you or anyone else can do to stop a person from doing what he/she wants to do. If that man wants to continue cheating he will.

On that note I dealt with a man born on Dec 23, he was my heart’s desire from the moment I laid eyes on him and partially continues to be which is kind of sad. There are so many things I can say about 5 yr dilemma/relationship/whatever. It was exhausting, intense, complex, passionate, feverish, dangerous, brutal, empathic, deep all of it. The Cap that I know has potential to be a great guy….he is not living up to his potential at all. He is a contradiction and manipulative. He has problems making genuine connections.

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Rene (@Rene) : March 2nd, 2010

To all you poor libra ladies involved with a cap man, I to dated a cappie for 8 years. Talk about taking things slow, it took him almost 3 years to profess his love{which was a little frustrating}for me but when he did it took me for a loop. That was the happiest memory to me in our relationship {there were many many others]. Im not gonna get into how it ended, but it wasnt pretty. I dont know what it is about ALL of these cap men, they seem to have the same characteristics. If you Surf on the other astrology sites the stories are all basically the same, its just a different cast of characters, its pretty scarey really. I was very much in love with my guy, I would probably have to say now that is was my fault{in a way} that we didnt last. I think I loved him so much that I spoiled the hell out of him, which in turn made him take me for granted.Thats just {or used to be} my way of showing I care. Well, here are a few words to describe him, and not necessarily in this order: extremely selfish, couch potatoish, mean words,lazy lover{maybe twice a mo. if I was lucky?} cold, emotionless{except when mean} uncompimentary, bossy,etc… But the most annoying one of all, tell me if im wrong girls, the cold shoulder treatment. Isnt that the worst? After an argument, which was always his fault whether it was over his jealousness or just being mean for NO reason, he would go days, weeks, even mos without contact. I always had to be the one to break the ice, with lots of phone calls and love letters, begging him to talk to me, boy did I make an ass out of my self. But, we broke up about a year ago because guess who didnt call or write. I was done at that point, tired of being the only one in the relationship! I will tell you this, that was my first cappy boyfriend and my. One is all it took, I dont have in me to go thru that again.

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fifi (@fifi) : March 16th, 2010

I think the thing that attracted me initally a year and a half ago, was he was ‘take charge’ and intelligent and very good lover. But at times I feel he is controlling now too and I liked that he was skilled worker at his trade, but I find he tends to lean towards work alcoholic now, a bit more of a lazy lover now that he has me. And I do like that he is practical, but I do like to do fun things sometimes and its hard to drag him along, as it is a ‘waste of money’ or he is working etc. Often the things that attract you in the beginning are the things that repel you in the end…lol. But he is a good partner and I dont find him romantic at all!!!!! And not kind and gentle, but I KNOW he cares and loves me, its just a more practical, perhaps capricorn way. Not sure if we will last forever or not. I still feel sad and miss my ex husband sometimes, we had a more comfortable connection. He is a scorpion. But we broke up because of other issues, and it was in my best interest to leave that relationship.

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Mark (@Mark) : March 17th, 2010

I would like to point out a few things to all these poor neglected Libran ladies from a cold Capricorn man.
Firstly I love libran girls,initially. They are beautiful,sexual,bright,bubbly etc
Conversely I find them fickle,indecisive (maddeningly so),contradictory,moody etc.
The mother of my daughter is Libran,my current beau is Libran and I have a few friends (girls) that are also libran and not one of them has been able to handle my cold aloofness,my detachment,my decisiveness and desire and love of working.
Every one of them has compromised themselves to the point of losing sight of who they really are in order to make a relationship where she is madly deeply in love and he/me am not that sold on it.
I think if Libran girls removed the Disney Rose coloured glasses they might see that Capricorn really is not that consumed with gossip or stories,they`re more interested in the here and now or in the distant future which is where they fully intend to reach whether through hard work or sheer stubborn determination.
No offence libran girls xx

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cartoon_autopsy (@cartoon_autopsy) : June 8th, 2010

I don’t know what all this talk about Capricorn being unloving, cold, skeptical or untrustworthy is about.

My boyfriend is a Capricorn. He was quick to profess his love of me after we dated a month. Usually I would define only one month of dating as too soon to say ‘I love you’ but it was perfectly fine, considering how compatible and well-suited we are.

I’m not trying to claim perfection–at times there are minor obstacles I face with him–he can be inconsiderate whereas I am eternally patient with him.

All in all, this experience is a testament that not all Cap-Libra relationships follow the same dismal path.

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Libra (@Libra) : June 17th, 2010

My boyfriend is a cappicorn. & i’m a libra women myself. At first he was a smartass..kinda rude…& never listen’d to me. But ithouqht he was just flexinq so ikeep talkinq to him. After awhile ifound out he was lovinqq, funny, smart, freakyy :D , & so many more. He treats me so qood. But lately i’ve been havinqq second thouqhts cause there is another man ( aquarius ) & ireally like him. & known him for years. But idon’t wanna break the heart of my boyfriend. I feel like he is much a qreat boyfirend. & i’d b stupid to break it off with him. But my heart wants the aquarius man. Idont no what to do.. D :

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riche (@riche) : June 23rd, 2010

i suggest u should listen to ur heart n go to the aquarius man…also libra n aquarius can be great together….:)

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riche (@riche) : June 23rd, 2010

i wanna to add-on bit!!! are you sure that you are having his heart??? because you are talking something about breaking his heart…..other-way-round, he may become more happy man….:) if you are gone….don’t mind my saying; Libran girls are famous for their charms, but on other-side are also famous for their indecisive, confusing and fluctuating personality….:) which i can see in your quiry too……n please don’t make this point that he treats you good, because capricorns, in general are good natured, neutral, harmless persons and treats everyone nicely…..i’m sorry to say that your boyfriend is clever enough to give his heart to a correct woman…….whatever the sign is, just remember that boys will be boys……:)gudluck with your aquarius man.

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Cbeauty (@Cbeauty) : July 6th, 2010

I am a Libra woman and dated a Cap man for 10 months. He said he loved me and treated me so nice for the first 6 months then he started to disappear for the smallest disagreement. I would reach out to him in everyway possible and for whatever reason he would return. Just a month ago he just left and never came back. When he finally answered my begging calls, texts and letters he said he had someone else. I’m not sure if I believe this but if it is true he was never honest about what he really felt. I lashed out at him and insulted him in many ways and I am sure that he will not call me ever again, but then again I feel like he will! I’m so broken hearted and don’t know how to get over it!

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Naquia (@Naquia) : July 11th, 2010

I have been dating a cap man and he shares his feelings for me when I ask him what he feels. This relationship is going well. Every relationship has their down falls but I feel like this one is a winner :)

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Angelica (@Angelica) : July 14th, 2010

Im a libra who was engaged to a cap, about 3 years ago….i think we were both madly in love with each other, and he went far and wide for me, but things were goin too fast, and i wanted to so things that 19 yearold girls do, he was very progressive and already sure of himself, and me? i didnt know what i wanted, i ended up cheating on him, it was the biggest mistake ever, im not one who cheats, but we have kept in contact and still talk, he married a year after our split and is now divorced, and there may be something still there between us, he’s successful at work as usual goin down the path he’s always wanted, and im starting a new career path as well….thinking that maybe our paths might cross again, we have talked about “second chance” now that we both know what we want from a partner, i just hope he’ll accept my baggage….and my child, but if not, we can always be friends, he’s the only man i’ve dated that has so much ambition and drive, and lives…he lives…i love it

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libra inn love (@libra inn love) : July 26th, 2010

i have never been 1 for capricorns but this one has got me head over heels!!! the way he talks to me like hes inside my head, the way he touches me like im the most delicate and beautiful thing in the world…the way he treats me is like im the most important thing in his life…i have never been treated this way before…its exciting and breathtaking….but we are so far apart…hes in the army and im still here…. i kno he wont cheat on me…but im wondering can it last???? we’ve never had sex yet but what we have dun is was just AMAZING…he wasnt to rough or tough gentle….but now he comes back in a couple of months and we’ve tlked about making love to one another….does he just want to get in my pants or does he really want to show me how much he loves me??? he is the first one to tell me he loves me and really MEAN IT!!! is this a sign of marrige??

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ALi (@ALi) : August 6th, 2010

I’m a Capricorn male and i fell in love with a very good female Libra friend of mine… We started off on a social networking site… In fact, she approached me randomly there… I never started it (as the basic traits of Cappy guys reveal)… After a few days of interaction wit each other, i realized that she was a very gentle, mature and decent person… but she hardly shared anything with anyone in her life… She shared a lot of secrets with me and trusted me… I just couldn’t stop falling for her because of similar issues / past that we shared…

after a few months, i expressed my feelings for her… and she was AMAZED… I got so much hurt when she said that “We’re only good friends,I can’t be your shoulder…” This statement really broke me… I gave her everything she needed, my time, my sincere suggestions etc etc… at times, she appraised my supporting behavior but she never realised that i have special feelings for her… Now she says that she’s committed with another man… and it was a disaster for me… I just don’t understand where did i go wrong… she never hid anything from me but her current relationship was a surprise for me… I just couldn’t accept this… she wants me to be her good friend… but it’s not what i want… but i don’t have any option left… i can’t see her in trouble… i know the person she’s involved in is not the right one / sincere with her… but she doesn’t seem to understand this… i really don’t quarrel / insist with her for this she’ll feel that i’m jealous……………….. I’m just afraid of losing her… n i can’t see her in trouble………. really don’t know what to do………………………………

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BARRY (@BARRY) : August 8th, 2010

Hi to all here and thanks for your comments.

I am a cap guy and i met this libra girl and i think she is awsome so far. I can feel her sincerity although we have only went on two dates. She feels good in my arms and i love making her guess what i will say and do next!

I taught her how to play darts and she kicked my butt the second game!!!

Contrary to what the others are saying, i love being honest about how i feel and i am very affectionate with my woman.

I think if we all can get around our personal expectations and desires and just recognize and respect the inner being in our loved ones…we can all be successful in love and life.

My libra is not ego driven and she gets the best of me.

Other guys only see body type and think that if its not looking like what they see on tv and magazines its not right!

My heart has eyes and it see’s the love radiating from this venusian goddess…my only thing is to help her see beyond my personal limitations and hers so we can keep this thing fresh!

This is my first official libran gf but it has sparks like no other i have entertained and i want it to last!

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ANNONYMOUS 2 (@ANNONYMOUS 2) : August 13th, 2010

Hello to all- Ok I am currently seeing a Cap man and I am a scorpio!Well i’m on the cusp of a Libra and a scorpio and let me tell you!!!!First his woman is a Libra!yes i said his woman~However he is not loyal to her at all…Well maybe when it come to the family life…But anyway he and I have been seeing each other for 3 years…we only hook up for sex!!!and wow its the best i ever had…He did come off very distant and emotionless at first however when i see him he now tell me he loves me and never want to loose me as a friend.The damn capricorn men are very hard to figure out!But they are the best lovers you want to meet!!!!!!!Good luck to all of you!

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Robin (@Robin) : October 3rd, 2010

Love is not base on signs and what sign is compatible with another. It’s based on compromise and willingness to love a person dispite their flaws. If you got into a relationship with a person because of their zodiac sign you are missing the person. I have a cap boyfriend and we were friends first, this gave me a chance to see him for who he is and not what I want him to be. I am a libra full libra no cusp and I am very difficult, indecisive, stubborn, passionate and naive. My man is stubborn, hardworking, compassionate and emotionless. Capricons are not talkers they are doers, libras are both talkers and doers. If people would stop expecting them to communicate with their mouth and pay attention to their actions they would see how they feel,and that is what my man do he shows me. I always thought talk was cheap any way and perfered a doer.

Love is not zodiac signs, compatibility test, horoscopes etc. it is compromise,patients, understanding, the ability to standby your partner through anything. No one can tell the next person how to be their self, so good luck and be open and willing to love dispite flaws.

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wishy (@wishy) : October 10th, 2010

I have known a Capricorn through a social networking site.since then I have a feeling, I could never meet another guy like him.HE is amazingly practical,focused,single minded,positive and determined.., I lack all those in me!and he gives so much of attention and strength, I cant stop admiring his qualities.I have fallen in love with him, though have not met him in real.But I still hold a fear of rejection, and dread seeing him wondering if the whole thing changes when we get to see.
Anyways,All the luck to all those lucky librans who are with Capricorns!!

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Miriam (@Miriam) : November 23rd, 2010

I am a Libran woman dating a Capricorn male for the past 1 1/2 year. We were friends for a year who got to know each other very well when suddenly, he expressed his love for me. As friends we did everything together and really got along handsomely. He wanted to spend every moment with me. Now that we are together, we have been through a really rough patch of issues. He is at times, inattentive, a loner, unaffectionate, selfish and appears to be uncaring. He is money hungry, materialistic and a work-a-holic! He is not very sociable and would rather stay at home with his dog and watch tv (minus me),and is not very expressive when I need him to be. However,we get along on many levels and have a lot of fun together. He is not as affectionate as the men I’ve dated in the past and doesn’t always express his feelings as much as I would like but, somehow it works out! He may not overtly confess his love for me but, he does really nice things for me and my children and never fails to tell me he loves and needs me. Whenever we have a disagreement, he is usually the one who apologizes first and promises to work to make things better and I happily accept. Although, there are many times when I will apologize and lean to him just to keep the peace. I am a typical,straight to the script, Libran and his picture should be next to Capricorn male. But, we work, because we work at it very hard, consistently. We are not perfect but we love each other and make concessions and are devoted to making us work so that we stay together. I believe very much in astrology because much of their descriptions/characteristics read accurately. However, just as life is what you make it, so are the relationships in which we choose to be. He does not believe in horoscopes but that is fine with me, I’m a realist. Besides, he looks exactly like the man from my 20-year recurring dream, so I’m gonna go with it! Good luck to all you hopeless romantic Librans out there in love with love, don’t give it…love is real!

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Maureen (@Maureen) : December 31st, 2010

I’ve been married to a capriconian for about 25 years now and Find him so dependable and he has always been ther for me, stood by me throughout my travails. Although at the initial time he did put me off by his unappreciative and depressive moods.He was always critical of me and always felt intimidated by every initiative I took for the progree of the family. When it comes to romantic love and being ecstatic, elegant, regal , warm, romantically loving, charming, artistic with interior deco, having very good clean environment, etc, a capriconian is no a goob blendfor a libra woman. Capriconians are usually argumentative and always want to prove they are more knowledgeable. I do not know why I find some of them very irritable and sickening. I cannot deny the fact that they very energetic and hard working.

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ivanko (@ivanko) : January 12th, 2011

Libra Ladies,Astrology has nothing to do with real life. There are many homemakers/housewives who are capricorns,while there are many successful people who are libras.You can see many successful female politicians who are libras such as Margaret Thatcher…I know it`s different situation,but I read it from magazine article that says Lyudmila Putina(capricorn)has been waiting for Vladimir Putin(libra)for 2 hours on metro station when she was young.Isn`t libra considered charming,soft,smiley,marriage oriented? Do you think he is innocent and sweet? I know it will sound quite funny,but unfortunately astrology is not always true

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angel (@angel) : January 31st, 2011

Hi everyone.
I don’t know if I am at right place to seek advice.
I don’t know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I am writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story.
OK. I am 24 yr old South Indian Hindu gal and the guy I have issue with is 21 yr old a Catholic from Kerala. We both are in Canada. I have described about this guy in one of my last paragraphs.

In 2006, I started a part-time student job at a restaurant as front staff. Then this guy started working at the same place in 2007 as part-time student too. In the beginning, we were just friendly to each other sometimes jokes, arguments, teasing each other etc. Then after a year and a half or so, he changed his attitude towards me like talking less, showing kindness, sometimes smiling, sometimes serious or sometimes just staring. Then one day while i was just talking with one of his friend who is also my co-worker slipped out of his mouth that this guy has crush on me. I just heard it and went away from there. I didn’t take it seriously at all as I thought it must be like one of his stupid pranks. I pretended as if I haven’t heard it properly. Even though if it was kinda true still I didn’t wanted to accept it. I have explained the reasons for this in one of last few paragraphs. Then, as usual the same attitude was continued.
Then I went to India for a month of vacation. When I came back from India, I noticed some kind of happiness on his face when we saw each other. Even myself. I don’t know why. And he continued the same attitude again. Yet, I was behaving normally with him as I used to. Then, whenever I had a shift to work and he doesn’t, he started staring at me sometimes from outside the store through a glass window where he used to park his car at distance in a parking lot right across the window. Days passed away like that.
I don’t know exactly what he meant for his staring whether as a joke or serious. I have to admit that he hadn’t any bad intentions with that staring. Coz, much against my wish, I eventually get lost in his eyes whenever we make an eye contact. At that time, my heart falters in doubts of hope and despair. Wish I cud read exactly the language of his eyes.
Then, sometimes we used to have shifts at different days and different timings. At those times I started having this strange feeling. Like i used to miss him, eager to see him. When I see him I used to be happy. And sometimes when we used to work together, I used to ask him to help for silly things. Despite of that he still used to help. But, Still we didn’t communicate with each other that much.
Then in 2009 beginning of the summer, I got admission from a university(which is very far away from that place) to start from September. So I informed my manager about it that i have to quit the job in two months. Somehow all the staff came to knew about it including him. Then I noticed that he seemed so upset. He didn’t try to show it but i kinda read his face. Everyone were asking questions about me leaving them but he didn’t utter a word. He started taking night shifts and I used to hardly see him at work. Then on the last day of my job, everyone came to the workplace to say me bye even his friends. I was looking throughout my shift if he comes and says bye to me. But he didn’t. I thought he just has no courtesy to say bye. My shift was over , my dad came to pick me up. And as i stepped outside, what i see is, he is sitting in his car next to my dads car, just seeing me leaving. That last eye contact continuously for like a min was extremely painful for me. I couldn’t speak to him coz my dad was next to me.
It always questions in my mind that if he was along with his friends on that day then why did he come inside with them to say me bye. Instead he sat in his car until I left and watch me going.
But when we had an eye lock moment at those last few minutes was breathtaking like I almost stopped breathing for a moment. As hard as I try to describe what I saw and felt in His eyes, I fall short every time. I heard nothing, said nothing. Yet, why I was restless at heart?
ABOUT HIM: Basically, as far as I know him at workplace for like 3 years, what I came to know gradually in these 3 years was that he is sort of a different guy among his friends. He and his friends are well known to my other coworkers. What i came to know from them was that, while all of his friends have girlfriends and always talk about girls and etc. etc., he doesn’t even have one girlfriend. But he is normally very friendly and helpful to everyone as I noticed. And always cracking jokes sometimes silly.
Now at present since i have come here so far. Its been a more than a year and, I keep thinking of him always, dream of him, his eyes. A strange feeling torments my heart. But I cannot contact him neither can he as i don’t know his phone no. I cant even go and meet him as I live so far now.
REASONS: At one side I wanted him but at the same time I didn’t want to fall in this pit as :-
1) our relationship will not be accepted at all by my parents coz of age difference and different religion.
2)I don’t know if he still likes me or not and if he does is it more than just a crush or not?
3) I have no clue where to start from to know about this. I don’t know if he is still working there or not.
4) I had this thought in my mind that even if i accept him now, it will be fine for sometime coz we will be together as wanted. But, later on, when it is time to tell our parents about us, they wont accept it. And the pain that it will give of falling apart will be more painful than it is right now.
But now i am helpless. Why I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him? I feel like something is dragging me.
Can this be love or is it something else?
please give me suggestions.

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Janie (@Janie) : March 27th, 2011

Ive been in a relationship with a Capricorn man for about 2 years now. I use to avoid them, though always seemed to attract them. My current boyfriend is very much a Cap in every way possible. No one seems to understand his personality, very cold, rarely smiles, he is a flirt at times, but he is very controlling, and unemotional. There is something about him I love, he is a good man with same ideals as me (Im a libra). I couldnt figure him out for the longest time, but I was insistent (I saw a good man under his cold exterior), Im still learning about him and we both believe our personalities can eventually work well together as long as we compromise, communicate and be open to each other and our differences.

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libragurl (@libragurl) : April 8th, 2011

Do astrological signs define us, or do our experiences define us?! It’s the age old question of nature vs. nuture. As for you Mark, not all Librans are that indecisive. Sure sometimes it may take me awhile to come to a conclusion, but once I have made up my mind, you’d be hard pressed to change it.
In my humbled opinion, I believe that if you want it to work it will! If you second guess the strength of the relationship, it will fall apart. We create our own reality and even our thoughts and feelings play an active role in determining the outcome.
I may have rose-tinted glasses on, but why can’t we all have a happily ever after?…as long as we understand that it will take alot of work and dedication. I am new to a Capricorn man, but so far it has been the most incrediable experience of my life!! I have complete faith that he and I will work, and be able to stay strong. Besides, it’s what we’re both seeking. Our common goals and interests out weigh what our zodiac sign dictates…….

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Nate Siege (@Prolific) : June 1st, 2011
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It’s really not as hard as people think to figure a cap male, out. If your having problems with with the male counterpart look at you. A relationship, courtship with a cap male is like tatical game of chess, if you fold your king we have no respect for you because your will didn’t protect your loving nature the queen. We absolutley hate cryers, whiners, people who give up and people who say they forgive us but it seems like it takes the other decades to get right again. we can take things on the chin and if we hear a truely sincere apology and they explain in full detail why there sorry everything will be at peace again. If we hurt you we will give a sincere apology. If you don’t believe it was sincere-everyone’s perception is different or maybe he is lying. In which case try to ultimatley make it work, if it can’t be done then tell him straight up no holds barred. For us it’s more damaging to us to not hear the whole truth. We want to the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth, even when it will hurt. I hurts less to tell it like it is, if you want to shame on evil tell The Truth. We are so serious even when were joking, because we seriously joke.

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kimberly (@libra43lovescap35) : September 26th, 2011
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I can truly relate to what you are saying because my relationship with my cap is a new one and i have never dated a cap before. We worked together several years ago when he was a teenager and I did not even look at him twice then. We are also seven years in age difference,me being his senior and because of so many things we have in common we know it was meant for us to be together since we have reunited after all of these years,by coincidence i might add or maybe not? but i have fallen in love with him and he has told me today for the first time after dating for less than a month that he loves me and wants us to spend our lives together. we know and appreciate that this was fate and not just coincidence and I really do love everything about him and believe that if you want something bad enough and work for it, you will achieve it,and that includes love also. Good luck with your relationship! coincidence@cartoon_autopsy

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