Virgo Man and Capricorn Woman Compatibility

Since both Virgo and Capricorn are earth signs, the similarities between their needs in romance and partnership are obvious. Security in their association is a shared value, and each of them takes responsibility for their share of the relationship. They have plenty of mutual respect and appreciation circulating between them in their relationship.

A Virgo man is a perfectionist. He is usually success hungry, and takes short, calculated and precise steps to reach the desired destination. He is a very practical person with strong intellect and detailed information about all the aspects of life. He is very analytical and can find out even the tiniest flaws in anything. Being sentimental is not the cup of tea for a Virgo male and he avoids commitment in love, so it takes quite some time for him to get involved in a relationship. But once he is there, he always proves to be a dedicated lover who is strongly devoted to the lady love of his life.

A Capricorn woman is practical and focuses on what is important to her and pursue it with superhuman level of dedication. She is often seen having a natural beauty and a strong loyalty. When she makes plans she is dead set on keeping them. She is a very goal oriented and enjoys climbing the social ladder which allows her to feel important. To top it she also has a flawless skin requiring very little makeup. The older she gets, the younger she seems to appear. Love is always a serious matter for her and she looks for a man with real substance who can make her feel special.

The decency and sophistication of Capricorn woman is the basic reason for which Virgo man feels attraction towards her. She is a very calming and soothing person who is a great listener to her Virgo man. Together these two can almost succeed at anything due to their diligent planning. They both take the time needed to make good sound decisions. She has many interests causing him to stay alert and have much more to work on. Both are loyal which provides a good start to their relationship. It is common between these two to drop issues before any resolution has occurred. Sometimes this approach helps and but actually it makes things worse for them. But if they both are submissive, they overcome all problems to make a perfect match.

Though Virgo man is not a prince charming who makes a fairy tale romance come true but he is very dedicated and concerned for the woman he loves and this is the stability that the Capricorn woman craves for. There are no mushy talks and everyday romance between these two rather their love is very stable and sincere one where they both are always there to support each other in all walks of life. He can easily analyze a situation and can be quite critical regarding it but she is one person whom he admires with all his heart and loves to share his feelings with. When angry, he never becomes rash rather he keeps the feelings deep inside to hide them from people around him and it’s his Capricorn woman who can actually understand and pacify him. But to keep her happy, he has to be soft while dealing with her emotions and prove to be a strong person.

Capricorn woman and Virgo man makes one of the best possible pair with great compatibility and warmth that is both emotionally and intellectually very intense and rich. As their love grows and they soar high with each other and experience an undoubted confidence in their relationship, she gives her complete trust to him and he grants her with the gift of appreciation and admiration, which he never gave to anyone. Life is the flower for which love is the honey. And they both understand its true value. She helps him to discover his core personality and charm with her unlimited devotion and tenderness while he removes all the fears out of his Capricorn damsel’s heart and teaches her to fly high fearlessly with his undivided attention and care for her.

As the stability and sensuality works equally for both, the Virgo man and Capricorn woman has a wonderful sexual chemistry that is magnetic between the two of them with rich and meaningful. Their relationship starts off slow and speeds up over a considerable amount of time. When making love there is a soft sensitivity that gives their love making the meaning a Virgo man needs to stay interested. They both know exactly how to provide peace and contentment to each other through sexual union. For both of them love making is an emotional as well as passionate experience with deep and stirring involvement. Virgo man and Capricorn woman always keep their soft sensitivity to their lovemaking a private matter between the two of them. There is a natural innate understanding between the two of them that keeps their relationship full of energy and excitement. They both don’t need to teach one another about intimacy and love, it existed from the first time they met but with experience and time with one another it grows to be more than just beautiful and gives strength to their relationship.

Even the best of relations come with a few flaws and so does the relationship of Virgo man and Capricorn woman. She typically finds people whom she can mold into what she wants them to be. He does not tolerated this behavior. Though they both converse quite frequently, but not about what is truly on their mind. The lack of open and proper communication between the Capricorn woman and Virgo man leads to issues between the two. Once a relationship has ended between the Virgo man and Capricorn woman there is still a sense of trust and loyalty between the two. Whether they are together or not there still remains a connection lingering between them. They have a much happier relationship if they learn how to communicate properly and talk openly with one another. Once they have fallen in love with one another, the love lasts forever and they make best partner for each other.

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Charlene (@Charlene) : July 15th, 2009

That hits everything on the nose. I just recently got back into contact with my ex from highschool and he is a virgo and i am a capricorn. Sparks flew between us then and with us talkin again the sparks are comming back along with the love that was never lost.

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Crystal (@Crystal) : August 19th, 2010

I’ve personally never felt a connection more strong, or pain that hurt so deep. I tried to fix every flaw he threw at me in return, he slipped away and told me I changed everything he fell in love with… I hope its true that he doesn’t forget. Oneday he think about me again. – ME(Cap) Him(Virgo)

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Robert (@Robert) : September 26th, 2010

i find myself too humorous in articulation and character. And that let me attractive to some Shes on-the-spot. But i to be seem more rigid somewhere to an extent that when i try to create that intimacy` things fall apart. Some there say i`am too principled and soild in values.However, no one of them i did ragged off from me. Instead, there keep remembering me (some say i am too sweat to meet a bad person in this regard). Tell me: may be there is somewhere i can improve…..

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Cap (@Cap) : November 22nd, 2010

I, capricorn, took the initiative to address issues. Each time, it went over his head. And when he finally responded, it was a critic review of my my personality. Sadly,this escalated time and time again and he felt no reason to deal with it. He dropped me like a bad habit as if love is not worth the trouble. It’s hard to understand that someone would be so fast to quit.

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Miss Cappy (@Miss Cappy) : December 12th, 2010

This is so true it’s scary. I met my Virgo man a little over two years ago, and right now we’re at the point where he’s finally beginning to realize he’s as flawed as I am. He never hesitates to point out everything that’s wrong with me, but the second I put up a mirror for him he shuts me out. Then in my desperation to fix my flaws, he told me I changed so much that I’m no longer the woman he fell in love with. Now we’re so lacking communication that a friend of ours acts as a therapist and gets us to talk to each other about our feelings. I certainly hope this works.

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capricorn m (@capricorn m) : February 8th, 2011

virgo for some reason is a drama queen/king… they are nice and all however controlling and jealousy is not good… and always they pretend to be the victim and its a no no to Capricorn… Capricorn ladies are far more stronger than them come to realize it… we are soooo realistic… and we see clearly… recent virgo i encounter is toooo needy and loves me to be beside him all the time… I stayed home and boy that was a mistake…. he tried to control me even more and his mouth runs like a woman and wow… I will never have another virgo again… they complain toooo much… OMG!!!! Capricorn woman we are so capable of anything… we are stronger than them and they know that tooo… we dont need drama… virgo begone!!!!

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Nicole (@Nicole) : February 9th, 2011

im a capricorn just getting out of a rela. w/ a virgo. Boy are they charming. Thought our love would last forever, but he too dropped me like a bad habit. He acted like he was God’s gift to earth. These are not the flower sending type men. Might’ve taken me shoppin, but that’s as romantic as we got. Never called just to hear my voice. He was very analytical, very critical, easy to point the finger but let me point it back and he shuts me out. He’s ALWAYS the victim. Capricorn women are very patient and understanding, but he was not. Will never date another virgo, but maybe some are different.

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Nicole (@Nicole) : February 9th, 2011

im a capricorn just getting out of a rela. w/ a virgo. Boy are they charming. Thought our love would last forever, but he too dropped me like a bad habit. He acted like he was God’s gift to earth. These are not the flower sending type men. Might’ve taken me shoppin, but that’s as romantic as we got. Never called just to hear my voice. He was very analytical, very critical, easy to point the finger but let me point it back and he shuts me out. He’s ALWAYS the victim. Capricorn women are very patient and understanding, but he was not. Will never date another virgo, but maybe some are different.

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paul (@paul) : February 25th, 2011

Maybe you capricorn women are too stubborn..always says ohh capricorn woman are strong, patient and blah blah blah!!!well, not all of you are like that!!!i met a lot of capricorn in my life…they are greeeeedy!!!hoker, they sex everyone for a money!!!..now you know who u are!!Hypocrites capri!!!!

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debbie (@debbie) : February 25th, 2011

I was in a relationship with a virgo for 10 years and this describes our relationship to a T. Except he was not exactly ‘loyal’, after 10 years I got pregnant and he got a new girlfriend. He bought me flowers one time in 10 years and he didn’t even have them delivered, he brought them to me…how romantic is that? He blame’s me for every problem we ever had. I spent alot of that 10 years just listening because it did me no good to voice my opinion because he knows everything. he is very arrogant. The really stupid thing is, it’s 10 years later and occasionally, when I see him, I do still feel a connection lingering. But, it will have to remain a distant connection…I’ve learned my lesson. This is to Paul…typical virgo male…pointing your finger; sounds like you date trashy, trampy women and there are some of those in all the zodiacs.

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Love (@Love) : February 26th, 2011

Well This really Does Come In Handy,,My Virgo boyfriend also ended it with me, on our anniversary :( He said that he had came into the relationship for the wrong reasons and so did I, But what shocked me was how fast he ended the relationship even though not to long ago he had jus told me he loved me for the first time. It really puzzled me , and now i want to try and get him back , but i dont kno how. Any advice would be helpful .

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Victoria (@Victoria) : March 2nd, 2011

Interesting to read all the responses. There is definitely a common thread in them. Some sites say virgo men and capricorn women are a match made in heaven and based on the traits described…sounds like a match made in hell. As a capricorn woman, I need to deal with issues right away otherwise they linger in my mind and accumulate in to frustration. If I’m wrong, I will admit it, if a man is wrong, he needs to say it and then I can let it go. Someone who does not deal with issues and lets them linger, or worse points out my own flaws and shuts down when I point out his own would infuriate me to no end. As a dedicated and cautious love partner, a capricorn woman would be patient to get this kind of man if she feels he is worthy. So being dumped suddenly after putting so much effort and finally opening up would definitely hurt and confuse me and make my analytical mind race to no end about what went wrong. I can certainly understand why it would hurt more than all the other….hmmm Maybe I should re-think my upcoming date with a virgo.

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Mrs.Lovely Capricorn (@Mrs.Lovely Capricorn) : March 15th, 2011

My fellow lady Caps I appreciate you posting your relationship experiences with the Male Virgos!!I have never been so shocked and amazed in my life as to how on point everything I read on this post was.I was with my Virgo since 2006 and boy was it a rollercoalster ride.He was charming,had many friends but never could stick to one thing..and even worse he would never ever ever admit to anything he did wrong and just when I would think that we were over and done he would call me and tell me how much he loved me as to try to keep me from disappearing for good..but on a positive note we did share so many of the same interest but the lack of positive communication ultimately lead to us finally parting ways about 2 weeks ago.Too bad we couldnt grow old together and go on more paddleboat rides like we used to but just know your Ex Cap will always love you.Peace

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caprius (@caprius) : March 19th, 2011

the chemistry is amazing but the virgos always slip away after an exciting phase at the beginning. They are very good at lying and cheating, meanwhile remaining innocent faces.

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Heather (@Heather) : March 19th, 2011

I am a Cap woman,35 years old,stubborn as a mule,always “in control” (I like to think),always try to lead with my head rather than my heart until I feel safe-like a typical Cap. My ‘soulmate’ is a Virgo man. I say ‘soulmate’ because over the years (12 in total) of ups and downs,he is my absolute most best friend I have ever had in my life. We truly have admitted to each other we cannot exist comfortably without being in one another’s lives. We kept coming together over the years,and finally made it work. He is a dreamer,he withdraws within himself often and shuts me out,driving me batty. He is very creative and talented,and the love I have with him is beyond description. It makes me feel whole. I feel the happiest I have ever felt in my life. I feel like I could burst with love. He is very romantic and loyal to me,he tells me and shows me every day how much he loves me and appreciates me being there for him. He is a romantic man,despite what the description says. Caps don’t tend to be romantic,but he makes me a romantic hopeless fool. I lavish him with romantic gestures because he makes me feel so loved. I cannot put into words the level of happiness and absolute true love I feel with him. He was made for me. When we had problems and took a break,we were both absolutely miserable. I felt no reason to move on and find love with another because he always had my heart. We found our way back to each other,and again we feel like we are supposed to be together. Sometimes you just KNOW when you have found the one you were put on this planet to be with,and I have found mine. He makes me absolutely blissful,and I hope and pray you other Cap ladies find and feel this kind of love someday. :)

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wajee (@Wastuf39) : July 19th, 2011
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Imma Cap, intelligent laid back, strong minded, goal oriented. Virgo man , he is the only man who has come across my path that was able to wilt me(i jus made that up…but he does that for me.)like Heather, 14 years going strong, on and off but stronger each time around…NOONE HAS MATCHED VIRGO’S CHARACTERISTCS FOR ME…its strong like a love spell.

Ladies i mean things like coming home from work and
he had dinner ready after he got off work, 3 girls sitting doing home work, hearing babe you can can chill. everything done. his responsibility and commitment to home.. You have to as a cap woman, have a real true virgo man.

Its an experience.Its a feeling of constant security , always feeling safe when they are around, not a care because life couldnt be better without him.

Intimacy, for him and I ,it was love, we yearned closeness. We couldnt sit and watch a football game without touching a cap woman and a virgo man.

All the time,spontaneous, and never got tired of each other. Each day (we lived together)I wake up to see him, and I melt …for 16 years. we are away from each ohter right now. i have dated a few guys …

Nothing like my virgo and they wined and dined me..I miss it, I miss him..I miss his comfort and reassurance. He has a natural nurturing, and if you respect him, dont be a loud talker in public kind of woman and love him back…Girl please.

WE ARE GETTING MARRIED…IN TIME.

Well thats enouf for now..but 14 years ladies, and and i havent met another man like himIm still in love with and Thank God he is still in love with me.

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wajee (@Wastuf39) : July 19th, 2011
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More about me and that virgo..G..
G was courteous around my family ,,all the time , they loved him…if i mention him anytime, they still love him.

G was at the cheerleading competitions for our girls.routing for em..helping with ,,the homework, he cleaned too.he wasnt lazy, and always seem to have some sort of project to work on, and heavy on football..

And can dance, he likes to dance..
U know a man by how he treats his mother..She made me wait 5 weeks before she would let me step foot near her house and only on the steps.so we waited and saw each other other ways, he never fought it, he said my mom, you gotta give her time, i never mentioned it again,and it gave us time too.

I actually liked that he had respect for his mother, like that..

After time, momma loved me, called me and the girls over for sunday dinner…Shoot, every womans dream a mother that likes u and loves u for their son and u like her…

He had his select group of friends, but i was their friend too, and his friends were made to treat me like i was his queen.RESPECT!! thats important to a virgo man,

and when the world begins to weigh on them, dont forget their love, and ENCOURAGE THEM!! like they would encourage you….

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John (@johnnylegard) : September 16th, 2011
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I (virgo) was really into a Capricorn woman about a year ago. Within the first week, we couldn’t be away from each other, then one day wouldn’t respond to my calls. A few days later I had happened to catch the flu and on Facebook it said she had gotten back together with her ex. Then all my other friends went to a party that I couldn’t go to only to find that she was with him. I was heart broken and humiliated.

Several months later, we happened to be on the same subway and she approached me, saying sorry, she was off for summer and forgot to tell me. Then proceeded to follow me off my stop and ask me out. She then randomly called me for months after.

I’m not mad that the events happened the way they did — things were going fast and that could be weird. What insulted me was the fact that she acted like nothing happened during the dozens of times that she tried to contact me before. If there’s no honesty, there’s no trust. This was just my experience, hopefully she was just an outlier.

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B.Sully (@famswyfe) : November 19th, 2011
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I met my Virgo man 11 years ago. I took him for granted and thought he would always be there but he left town in 2003 and didn’t come back until 2005. We made a unspoken pact never to leave each other again. Now that we’ve both turned 30 our relationship has changed. He is more patient with me and I feel like I can open up to him more. I love my Virgo man.

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Alexsaundra (@Alexsaundra3) : December 16th, 2011
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I am a typical capricorn women. I can be hard on myself and I close all of my emotions up inside of me. Almost everyone I have dated has unknowingly been a virgo. The first one dropped me after a month because I didn’t fit his upcoming plans I assume. He was selfish and lets just say he liked women..a lot. The second one was a great guy. The failure of that one I would have to blame on my capricorn nature. I was too hard to crack mentally that I ended up leaving him in the dark about all my feelings. The virgo I am with now is the epitome of charm. I met him in middleschool and we got together over a year ago. He is perfect. despite how difficult I get, he is always there. I can’t explain how much he means to me. He is extremely loyal and reassures me constantly how much he loves me. He is extremely romantic and smart. I come home to find flowers on my doorstep with a note expressing his care for me and how we will spend the rest of our lives together. Obviously, I’m not one for fairytales, but I can’t image meeting another person on this planet who treats me the way he does. Yes, we fight. and he forces me to communicate with him. Which is frustrating to me because he knows how difficult that is for this Cap. Despite the trouble we encounter, he never walks away. He doesn’t try to change me, probably because he knows I won’t let him. He has been with more people than me and he admitts to have had a play mate additude. But with me, he takes everything slow and is constantly holding me or touching my face or staring. He is my world. Ladies don’t throw virgo men out the window so quickly! Yes, some of them aren’t worth a dime, but that moment when you find that priceless virgo.. It is truly magical.

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mo (@MissFit) : February 11th, 2012
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I am a capricorn woman and recently just met a virgo man, but before him I was dating another virgo man and he was annoying the hell out of me. For some reason, he thought he could control me or sometimes he thought he could think for me. I had to get rid of him so I told him to lose my number but he still tries to keep in contact with me. But, I totally disagree not all capricorn women and virgo men are a match made in heaven. Anyways, The virgo man I recently met is definitely a keeper for now. I havent connected with someone so fast in a long time it seems unreal and he feels the same. He is such a sweetheart and he keeps me smiling everyday. Also, there are times I’m not as open with him as he is with me so hopefully I can break that cycle. I’m really looking forward to our future that god has in store for us. 

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John O'Donnell (@virgo64) : February 21st, 2012
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What a great story. I want that.
 

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fazzy (@Virgo_88) : July 15th, 2012
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i am a virgo male & recently i got to knew a capricorn female… i mean she liked me at first but then quickly changed her mind.. she hesitated to say it  because we all know what an alpha male is …  so i saidto her that i like her(which i actually did i found her interesting too) so when i confronted her the next day while she was walking and i stopped her to say hi she didnt even responded neither stopped, i asked her what the matter, whats wrong what is your problem & she responded in a very offensive way.. i mean she didnt like me all she could had just said it , whats the big deal cant we all be mature about this but she had to disrespect me which really made me flipped..after sometime we talked again but this time i made sure that i wont let her near me anymore even the look of her makes me disgust and puke,to me capricorns are the worst nigtmare for virgo’s from outside they are too damn self proud but from inside we all know what they are weak n pathetic  the one trait i hate about capricorns are they are too damn stubborn and virgo’s cant tolerate stubborness… i differ with the oracle’s views capricorns are not ideal match for virgo , match made in heaven nooo way maybe in hell i mean there is attraction but nothing compared to whats i have seen with pisces.in my experience pisces was the best when it comes to mega-collosal attraction.

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Patti Lee (@patti133) : September 21st, 2012
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I am a Capricorn and for some reason have always been attracted to Gemini’s. They surround me like the black plague.  I even married one – that ended badly.  While I was still married to a gemini – I met my virgo friend.  He was instantly drawn to me and immediatly asked me out, in which I politely turned him down.
We became great friends.  He was loyal, steadfast and never again over stepped his boundries.  I had never met someone that I could be so completely honest with.  I found that it didn’t matter what I said to him, his feelings never got hurt.  And it didn’t matter what he said to me (if he was being critical) because I understood him.  Its like, I understood his soul. 
When my marriage ended, we started to see eachother.  We took it very slow at first.  He was so patient and waited so long to be with me.  Since than, neither of us have looked back.  I have never been so happy.  He is so kind, so understanding and so affectionate.  I instantly know what he is thinking and can tell how he is feeling.  It is true, he can be withdrawn and quiet…but he is also so kind and so thoughtful.  We have same interests, same political views, same morals, same ethics and we work so well toghether.  When we fight, it is usually b/c he is withdrawn and doesn’t communicate well.  But we easily pull out of it. 
Early on in our relationship, I would make him recite each night what he liked most about me and than I – in turn would recite what I like most.  This helped him to open up and talk more about his feelings.  I found that now, he is able to communicate more easily and isn’t as afraid to express himself.
I have never had this kind of chemistry with anyone!  Each time we are toghether it is electric!  We just recently got married (6 months ago) and it is still hot and steamy – yet very stable and safe!  I am so happy and am convinced that I found my souldmate.  I have never felt this kind of closeness with anyone.

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sasha (@sashac1) : November 10th, 2012
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I am a cap (woman) and have a child by a Virgo (man). I must agree that the Virgo male is not the must romantic person in the world (but he is a provider) I must say they are one of the most success-driven people that I have ever seen next to myself. The hungry that the Virgo male has for success is such a turn on for me. I love his ambition to make things happen and not to wait around for hand outs.  I am a cap (woman) that likes planning and devotion and I love the fact that my Virgo (man) is a planner. Like the article above stated “We have a great sexual chemistry that is magnetic between us and it very rich and meaningful.” But out of 18 years, and one 16 yr old child; Time has never been our strong point. When we are together we are together. It like we have never being apart.  But for some reason we can never get to together as one.  We can go months without talking to each other or seeing each other, but once we are together it like we were never apart.  Not sure if we are a match or what???  Not sure if the chemistry between a Capricorn and Virgo is all what they say it should be, because we can’t never seem to stay together. We also can’t seem to stay away from each other as well.       

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swomacks (@swomacks) : January 3rd, 2013
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There were a few things in reading the article stood out to me,   She typically finds people whom she can mold into what she wants them to be.  He does not tolerate this behavior…
As a capricorn lady i can identify with the statement and over the course of our marriage have learned this to be true.  The thing I enjoy about the truth of it is we are better for it.  The art of the relationship is But if they both are submissive, they overcome all problems to make a perfect match.
I feel that my husband and I are very different personality wise, my closest family members agree but somehow our differences are very complimentary.   it was very simple for us.  My first priority was long term value and investment.  The characteristics of a Virgo man have been very helpful to me in the long run.  Though Virgo man is not a prince charming who makes a fairy tale romance come true but he is very dedicated and concerned for the woman he loves and this is the stability that the Capricorn woman craves for. There are no mushy talks and everyday romance between these two rather their love is very stable and sincere…
Knowing that my husband isn’t going anywhere allows me to be very patient and removes stress from our relationship.  Over the years he has repeatedly explained to me that the wisest thing I have done for him is given him his space to work out his own shortcomings.  Very rarely do we talk about “us” and when we do its when he initiates.  I listen and offer encouragement.  It may be very difficult for capricorn women to hold such a relationship because it can be very challenging.  My suggestion is to share your frustrations with your girlfriend and give the hard working man a break and maybe your relationship will go further.
Good luck
P.S.  In regard to the lack of mushy romance that isn’t there just remember the flash in the pan is the first to go out

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joycapri (@joycapri) : February 24th, 2013
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I love virgo’s where both on the same page both loyal and understand the full value of eachother 14 years as my bestie I could never compare him to no one else…where not even together but he fully supports me!!! Love that about him x

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Chuy (@Chuuuy) : March 6th, 2013
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I know many virgos as friends, and they are not all the same. Some are more gentle and less controlling because they’re more understanding. Some are more reckless and just don’t think before they talk, and they can be superly opinionated that it can be offensive and childish to a Capricorn.
However, I usually have a better connection with the more emotional and gentle virgos. They are so much more understanding, down to earth, loving, and caring. I have a great friend that’s super intelligent and sweet. I don’t have that kind of feeling for him though, however, dispite that fact…we always have a close connection in our heart that we could turn to each other for help or advice whenever. And I could trust him, just like a brother.
I am dating a virgo man for about 8 months now. And like my friend, he is also one of those gentle virgos. I can see how those ‘bad traits’ that scares off and angers a Capricorn are in him, but I can feel that he is actually aware of it and tries his best to control himself. That’s what I really admire about him. He self evaulate himself always wanting to better himself which is great because that just cancels out the cockiness a virgo could be…which impresses me, the Capricorn!
When it comes to me, he never wants to make me feel sad. He always wants me to talk to him about anything that bothered me about him or anything. He told me he would fix it, for me. I feel like he is open to doing this for me because he feels the same way. It’s like we have this natural trust for each other and way of wanting a committed relationship is so similar that we don’t even really have to talk about it because it’s already there. 
When a Capricorn is hurt, she gets really scared. I dated a Gemini for a long time and I’m quite attracted to them (as perhaps most of us are) because of their free spirit that brings out the best and fun part of us, we could also talk to them like we couldn’t to most signs, and we actually sort of like that about them. However, that’s not really who we are and we find the conflict to be that as well as feeling like our Gemini cannot connect to our emotions or our desires as deeply as we’d like making us feel like there is a gap that didn’t satisfy our deep emotional side. So that, ended. It took me a while to actually really open myself to my virgo, but he waited for me because he knew it would be worth it. I feel like he took my experience as well to somewhat justify what kind of person I am in a relationship. I was really committed, and he saw that and liked it. He dated more than I have, but from his relationships, he never cheated and all his guy friends knew how committed he is. He knows a lot of people and is very close to them, so I took their words and saw through him that the words are true.
Virgos are charming, but it can be frightening that they can like women a lot, however, the right virgo that finds the right Capricorn, will desire love and committment more than anything. He would be smart enough to know not to throw that away if he knows what’s good for him. I have found him and he’s perfect to me. He knows that I acknowledge what he does to be committed, and we encourage each other about it since we both believe in it and want to live with having that committed relationship/partner.
As a Capricorn, we are very patient especially when we’re gone in love. I find myself doing a lot for him, my time, money, because of it, and I won’t call him being demanding or controlling because he usually have a reason for it, it can be quite the work and the Capricorn, who is helpless in love, will find it hard to tell him off when she knows he would have something to say, usually something smart. For my virgo, he understands better when I try to tell him something if I create some sort of senario and let him answer for himself what would be the better answer instead of me pushing the answer through his can be arrogant mind. If he figures it out himself, he’ll acknowledge what you are trying to tell him more because he won’t feel like you’re looking down on him. They are quite prideful, but doing this I feel like he understands that I’m not trying to make him completely go on his knees over some arguement but just for us to be able to make peace. So he could respect what I have to say and not feel like he has to save his pride. 
These guys can be hard to love because it may seem you have to lower yourself for them, however, at the same time, it’s not that way because what you give them, they’ll also return with lots and lots of love, affection, and care. So in the end, for me at least, we both give and take our own way…we both are satisfied with what we give and take for each other and we’re willing to do them too.
Virgos could appreciate you if you just understand them too. They can be understand, just with the right approach and they’ll respect that and approach it the same way to please you as well. I do think virgos are a great emotionl match for a Capricorn. Just got to find the right one. <3
 
 
 
 

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Tsubasa (@rayvenn) : April 25th, 2013
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Everything in this was spot on for me (a virgo)…in a way.  I dated my ex for a few years until she (a capricorn) cheated on me and gave me 2 STD’s at the same time (which is how I found out she cheated on me, being that she had been the only girl I had slept with for our entire relationship).  
 
I guess there are always some deviations from the norm I guess…

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Tiffany (@MissTiff73) : July 8th, 2013
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I am a Capricorn woman, & he’s a Virgo. We’ve been friends for the better part of 20 years. I always knew he had a crush on me, as he’s always reminded me of this throughout the years. We lost contact for a while, due to our lifestyle differences and love lives. There was always chemistry between us but never the right timing. We reconnected this year in January, week after my birthday, and he explained his feelings yet again. This time however, I was open and able to receive his advances. We started out talking, texting and really enjoying getting reacquainted. He was VERY supportive while a difficult situation had arisen. It seems as though, he was my saving grace. However, I’m not really sure if it’s just my imagination or what but, it appeared that once the crisis was over, he wasn’t as attentive anymore. He did however tell me that he loved me and that he wanted to marry me. Yes, it confused me and excited me all at the same time. Shortly thereafter, I started noticing the text messages and phone calls started slowing down. When I brought this up he said “we’ll you didn’t call or text me either.” Understand, he’s 36 & I’m 40, so chalk that up to maturity??? We talked and got past that moment. Then I started seeing how stubborn he REALLY is because, he repeated the same behavior and when I approached him about it, he got defensive and well, we stopped talking for a few days. I had to know what was going on so, I called him to find out what the deal was and, he said that “cooler heads had to prevail and that his intentions are never for us to break up. So with that and deeper convo, made up. Now it seems that we can’t find time to spend together and when I tell him that this bothers me, he says I know, we have to remain consistent, find time to spend together and just keep talking to each other. That would be great IF HE WOULD ACTUALLY DO IT!!!
He is also very goal oriented which I love, but hate at the same time because, he doesn’t let me in. We need to communicate, but he feels as though he should just be left to his tasks and I should just “know” that he’s taking care of things for our future. When I get upset because we don’t speak for 2 or 3 days, or when the weekend comes, we don’t do anything together. If we make plans to get together, something comes up, and we never have a make-up date. I tell him firmly but gently that this bothers me and then he always gives me his famous line, no matter what the issue…. “We’ll be fine.” It drives me insane!!!!! After every make up we have, he maintains that he still wants to marry me but I am so confused because if we’re going to get married, don’t we need to spend time together now? I hope I haven’t confused or bored anyone to tears but, I REALLY need to know if I’m crazy, over thinking this or should I begin my disconnect because, I have NEVER dealt with ANYTHING like this in my life. And being a Capricorn, I need order and this is a mess!! Is there a way I can get through to him to make him understand how I feel or do I just give up? He always says “I’m not a quitter and I’m not going to abandon you.”! Please someone, HELP ME!!!!!

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Ash (@mindlessthinker) : November 30th, 2013
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@Crystal
Oh come on.  You’re talk like a sappy Cancer.  You’re a Capricorn, show some backbone!  You all want to know the secret to keeping a Virgo guy happy?  I’ve had plenty of them chasing me and I can tell you this about all of them: you need to be selfish; you need to talk back; you need to give them as much bite as they give you.  You can’t be a wimp.
Virgo men love to give you “advice”.  Just smile politely, nod your head, then keep doing whatever the hell you wanted to do, because their advice doesn’t mean a thing to you.  They want to control you.  But you are your own person.  You don’t take shit from anyone, especially not from some know-it-all.  If he doesn’t like it, well that’s his problem not yours.  He can mind his own damn business, thank you very much.  These Virgos won’t believe you don’t listen to them and their sensible ways.  They won’t believe how stubborn you are.  They’ll want to know why you tick the way you do, and why you’re too stubborn to listen.
This is why Capricorns are the best match for Virgos.  Cappies are the only sign who can put Mr. High-Horse in his place without giving in to any of his bullshit mind games.

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Ash (@mindlessthinker) : November 30th, 2013
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@MissTiff73
I wouldn’t continue with this guy.  You gotta ask yourself: if he’s driving me crazy now, am I willing to marry him and put up with this for the rest of my life?
My answer to myself would be: No, dump him before he makes my life a mess.  He’s driving you insane now with his lack of communication; imagine having to live with that for another 80 years.

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Yesenia (@xSeNia14x) : February 18th, 2014
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@Ash 
it seems like u know a lot about virgos and i agree with you 100%!!! virgos always play the victims, they know how to lie GOOD, and they always giving u advice to play mind games with you …i had a virgo and he was a 2 timer (-___-) i didnt wanna be with him cuz of that, so he moved on with the gemini girl …but at the same time it seems like he cant NEVER forget about me always looking for me trying to keep me in his life and poping out of nowhere in my life since 2008 …im getting sick of it cuz its hurting me MORE and making me MORE CONFUSED, he thinks what hes doing is right and is wrong …idk how that gemini stole his heart but all i know that im a CAPRICORN and with me hes him self we have a good connection and so much in commen.. and with the other girl he acts different but i BEEN moved on cuz hes just waisting my time 

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Yesenia (@xSeNia14x) : February 18th, 2014
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@mindlessthinker
it seems like u know a lot about virgos and i agree with you 100%!!! virgos always play the victims, they know how to lie GOOD, and they always giving u advice to play mind games with you …i had a virgo and he was a 2 timer (-___-) i didnt wanna be with him cuz of that, so he moved on with the gemini girl …but at the same time it seems like he cant NEVER forget about me always looking for me trying to keep me in his life and poping out of nowhere in my life since 2008 …im getting sick of it cuz its hurting me MORE and making me MORE CONFUSED, he thinks what hes doing is right and is wrong …idk how that gemini stole his heart but all i know that im a CAPRICORN and with me hes him self we have a good connection and so much in commen.. and with the other girl he acts different but i BEEN moved on cuz hes just waisting my time 

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katie (@katie0517) : May 20th, 2014
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i went on four dates with a virgo man on the first 2 dates he didnt show much interest , we talked like we were friends and i kept it cool. i didnt think he was interested in me i thought i was theonly one growing emotion for him. he is a big flirt and knows how to get what he wants. on the third date we kissed and he seemed so into me. on the fourth date he didnt show much interest we went on a walk in the park and we sat and talked but the whole time he was texting and kept saying he was tired, he didnt do anything like the 3rd date. he walked me to my ride and gave me a peck hugged me and left. i feel used by this virgo, he only looks for me when he wants to hangout and our texting conversations dont last. i got to open up to him about past relationships and old flaws of mine and he opened up to. i feel like hes only interested when he wants to.  i dont know what to do anymore my emotions for him grew, since the first time that i saw him and met him i knew i was going to feel something big for this virgo. but right now i feel destroyed and used .

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Scotty (@WooleyS) : June 27th, 2014
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Reading this makes me think of how accurate This really is. It blew my mind how everything about me (Virgo Man) is true. But if anything, I have a personal bad tendency to bring myself down more than I should, but the girl that I’m with who is a Capricorn always brings me up and helps me through everything. :) 
I have been with this girl for almost a year, and it honestly does not feel that way. The only thing that is wrong is that it is long distance, which honestly really sucks. :( but to make a year long distance work how perfectly we are, it’s worth it. It is truly a beautiful thing.
I love to think of her as my Soulmate, we understand everything that their is about each other and I put strong faith in this girl more than anything in my entire life. 
The only thing wrong is that I don’t get enough attention:( but I know she tries as hard as she can(: it’s scary and amazing how accurate this is, I already knew that she has amazing natural beauty and by far the greatest girl I have ever met. :) 
And 3 months from now, I hope I can finally be together with her and makes this relationship last for the rest of my life. :)

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