As the water of Cancer touches the earth of Virgo, it finds a place to settle down and help flourish beautiful flowers of love and happiness. This is one of the very caring and nurturing relationships of all the zodiac signs. There is a lot of respect between the two zodiac signs, and a feeling of security that is enviable.
A Cancer man is a very sensitive and cautiously intelligent male who appreciates his superiority with humbleness and use it properly. He is one of a kind determined person who is steadily strong and achieves success in all conditions. He is always very protective and warm towards every person he loves and especially the lady love of his life. He in relationship with a Virgo woman always admires her polite attitude towards him and gives her the freedom she needs when she really wants to be alone. Though he may sometimes try to guideline her career options but generally he is generous and ready to stand by her side.
A Virgo woman is very calm and earmarked in nature basically. She has clever wits and is a stickler who can point out flaws in almost anything but her motive is always to improve the thing and not to insult. She doesn’t look upon excessive emotion as either sensible or practical and maybe unresponsiveness to some degree which is due to her shyness. But when she is in a relationship with Cancer man, she is stirred inwardly with his loving nature and is capable of fulfilling his strong need for both sensuality and affection. A Virgo female, who finds her relationship imperfect, cut former ties easily and looks for a new love.
A Virgo woman is one mate who is quite sympathetic towards the feelings of a Cancer man making him more expressive. He finds her easy going and truly understanding. He admires her cleverness and mental sharpness and is emotionally stirred by her tender and gentle, soothingly sympathetic behavior. Sometimes, she may become a bit annoyed and critical, isolated and aloof. But he deals with this kind of situation well as he is himself well known to similar behavior patterns. He can effortlessly share his darkest secrets with her as she is kindhearted and offers him practical answers to his questions, nonetheless her simple answers to his complex issues may not be very appreciable in his eyes. But what hurts him most is her strong criticism and her interest in outer world to get love.
A Cancer man makes a Virgo woman feel very comfortable because he doesn’t control her totally like other people. She appreciates his sense of humor because it exudes the right amount of humor and sophistication. He also adores his Virgo lady for her responsible attitude and her strong reasoning. He always guides her in the field of career which may at times be uncomfortable for her but usually she appreciates his guidance and follows his path. He has a desire to lead and she finds his leadership fine in all the ways. Some amount of problems might arise in the relationship because of the possessive and insecure nature of the Cancer man.
The Cancer man and the Virgo woman are quite compatible and they tend to strike the right cords when they start understanding the deeper meaning of love and start avoiding things that would hurt the other person. Understanding and tolerance can help her to see beautiful forests for the trees with him and he gets stimulated by the gentle ways of his lady to become more open and expressive. Flowers blossom for them and rainbows come out for their harmonic melody of love. Together they build exclusively safe and cozy environment for living with each other with such love and respect that is coveted by most of other people around.
As the Water and Earth comes physically in contact with each other there are always great chances of beautiful blossoms. Both of them share a very good sexual relationship with warmth of soil and coolness of water. The sensitive nature of the Cancer man brings out the passionate side of the Virgo woman. He is often able to cause her to bloom with her own special kind of sentiments, which are pure and fine, like crystal, lacking the heaviness of extreme emotionalism. Their physical closeness also stirs their emotional oneness to a great extent. At times she might get surprised because she had no idea that she had the capability of experiencing such emotions. They both experience extreme satisfaction and fulfillment in their love-making. Sexual union is not something either of them normally views as casual or frivolous. Sally sighs with relief and pleasure as she feels his masculine, yet tender and affectionate hand sooth her worries and anxieties. The world’s tensions are now being replaced with a warmth that feels a lot like love. At the same time he has a vivid, concrete, reminder for knowing, feeling, how risky and dangerous sex could be, and that makes it even more thrilling and exciting.
Every relationship demands some level of understanding between the partners and both of them are well aware this. Usually the Cancer man and Virgo woman makes a great pair as they both have many traits in common. Moreover the way he can make a Virgo woman passionate and the way she makes Cancer man expressive is usually not possible for others to do for them. Their mutual respect and admiration plays a favorable role in their relationship but irritability and moodiness of Cancer man is not tolerable by her for a long time and similarly criticism and crankiness hurts the sensitive heart of him very deeply. But even if they end up parting ways, then also they are most likely to remain friends throughout their lives. And there will be times when they will cross paths, in the most unexpected situations.
yessss, call her. As a Virgo woman, we love when a man takes control and starts it off. GO FOR IT.
I’m a Virgo
woman and I’m in love with a Cancer man but then I doubt he loves me too
He hasn’t expressed his feelings to me yet
But then I sense we both have deep feelings for each other, it’s been a year now although we have known each other long before.
We are going through long distance communication and it’s even more frustrating because he doesn’t come out frankly, been quite long since we last saw each other,he calls me his wife and refers himself as my husband much more indirectly we usually have misunderstandings but still I’m trying my best to become more expressive,I think I’m in love but then I don’t trust his feelings and intentions for me even though I know his mum….
Should I just give up or what?
I had to check your log in name because for a second, I thought I wrote your post and forgot I wrote it! I am in the exact same situation and I wish I could trust my man’s words… I’ll follow your post for possible answers!?
Your post describes the situation I was in for the last year and a half. He recently ended it because he refuses to give into his feelings. Not only did I lose the love of my life I lost my friend. I had never felt such pain before.
Hello I am cancer man I have mate Virgo woman and talked to her once she is shy like me… I have her phone number. Can I call her or do you have any idea?
Im a Cancer man She’s Virgo , we haven’t met , she called me and somehow i interrupted her phonecall not intentionally , she holds grudges on that and stays distant , we argued , she unfollowed me , deleted my snap , still i can text her and she texted me back after the fight , saying stuff like she’s done she doesnt have time for this , she mentioned the phonecall again , but she didnt BLOCK me , anyone what should i do , im confused.
Tell her you are at fault you didn’t mean to hurt her by any means. She’ll know if its the truth. Don’t give up show consistency in that… She will give in. My cancer man is back after 30 years and then ten years ago reached out and i was still married. 25 years i was unavailable and this time he reached out and he is ready and we will be getting married. He is not willing to let me slip away again. I appreciate him in so many ways. The loyalty he will always have from me. I will love that man till my last breath
Hi, I’m a virgo woman. My piece of advice is…try to say sorry again to her about that incident. Tell her it was not your intention to interrupt her and that you are being sorry until now about it. Tell her you miss her, miss talking with her. And that you hope and wish that you she can still give you some 2nd chances. And if not..then that you hope she will meet the right guy for her and that you wish her luck.
Sometimes girls they want to hear how important they are to someone. I hope this will help.:)
Cancer man is a very very very kind-hearted man in the world.
He loves you and is loyal to you, the thing is cancer dont simply turn to hating their ex, they still care for them as a person if not as a lover, but not comparable to how much they love you, he knows the general norm is to forget about your ex completely and move on, but thats opposes a cancer’s nature, and he would love if you understand that its simply his nature and nothing more than that, assuring him this would remove all hesitations and fears he must have in opening up with you completely, also dont doubt his loyalty.
I am a pisces woman looking for a cancer man but I don’t know where the safeest place to look cos dating sites has so many scammers so if anyone can help me I it would be appreciated I have been single for 3yrs after a 28yr relationshil and I think it is time for me to move on I am 56rs old so I keep getting told that I won’t find anyone they said that I am in my 20s anymore but I don’t feel old I still feel that I am still young which I am 56 isn’t old well I don’t think it is
Age is just a number, if you feel young, you are young simple as that. Animals dont ask for birthdates, if they are young enough they go for it. Although i am a Cancer man, but i am a lil bit too young (21) lol, but i really hope you find your dream man!
I am a virgo woman married to a cancer man. This description is really fitting for us both, its unbelievable. We do not have the perfect marriage, but we are married for 16 years and together 20 years. He is a gem and I am his lady.
I’m a cancerian man who was married to a Virgo woman for over12 years, and together for 14 1/2. I even moved from the U.K. to Scandinavia to be with her, and even though we had three kids together, she was never satisfied and always expected more. My love was not enough for her and she ended up having affairs. This led her to getting depressed and we finally ended up getting divorced – a terrible, cut-throat affair for all involved, not least the kids. We don’t talk any more. I would not recommend any cancerian guy investing his life in a virgo.
I am a virgo woman in a relationship for almost a year with a cancer man. We both want it to last forever. I know the challenge to keep it exciting and fun while loving and monogamous could be there over time. Reading about your attempt to make it work is somewhat discouraging, but I love him like I have never loved another. I will have to stay focused and communicate if I need something different from him.
I am SO SORRY you experionced to be betrayed and for the children to suffer as well. As a virgo woman, it’s so hard to comptehend HOW she could go for affair, as being faithful and true is so highly valued in my mind and heart. But you know, as my favourite pastpr Charles Stanley once said; people read and are guided by «horrorscope» and they are born under this, that and the other…instead of getting born again (spiritually) through Jesus Christ and they’ll be free from all of that. To be honest, it’s true, only Christ can give us true hearts that know how to love divinely and be eternally faithful.
Sorry you experienced that with your Virgo lady, I’m married to a Cancer male and in the beginning it was hard for us due to his alcoholism. It’s unfortunate that due to a family’s members death that lead to his awakening and recovery and he realized that he could loose me and our family for good. I haven’t been unfaithful to him and don’t plan on it. He speaks my love language and breaths life into me as I continue to be supportive and try not to mold the water in a cup but show him I trust him to be him and do what’s right for him first and then our family. I’m a Virgo woman who’s not perfect but this man makes me feel complete and loved like no other has loved me. I hope you find your love that makes you think different of us Virgo females.
Damn man, i read virgo’s are known for their loyalty and commitment, i am a cancerian man and i can believe you must have given her all love you had, thats crazy she was still unsatisfied.
I’m a Virgo woman and she would not be there if she didn’t want to. Make up your mind if you want a relationship or friend, because we can do both. I have a cancer male friend we’ve been friends for over 2 years at this point in time I want him to make up his mind. Quick needs a double date or be in a relationship but I want it now stop stringing me along he’s a cancer man. Good luck in love I’m ready to give my all.
Hey I’m a cancer man and believe it or not we have to chase you the virgo. My Virgo goddess is everything!!
Hey I’m A Cancer , and I have this female friend she’s a virgo . We are very close and I only known her for a couple of months. She Spend A Night , We have some things in common , and our bond is strong . We calling each other friends but everyone around us thinks she likes me , because she’s over protective, were always together , our friendship is strong , communication etc. I’m at crossroad I don’t wanna fuck up a friendship if she doesn’t feel the same
Hey Stud ,
It is hard to tell with a Virgo woman. We are very nurturing and protective of our loved ones whether it be platonic or intimate. I know cancers don’t like rejection but unless she tells you, you have to ask her.
I’m a virgo woman, if she is single and that close she wants you make a move. Virgo don’t come so close with if they interest.
I had a cancer male friend. I’m a Virgo female, he contacted me Recently expressing his feelings he had from 10 years ago, and let me tell you, he told me the same exact this you just said. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Virgos aren’t you afraid of anyone’s feelings towards us, nothing will change and she’ll be completely honest if she doesn’t fee the same. My cancer friend said, “You have been my biggest regret for not telling you how I felt!” Good luck to you.
@Stud Louie That’s when you at the right time when it FEELS right, if you are so close like you say yall are. Just ask.
Virgo maidens are ruled by mercury…they are perfectionists.
If it helps, here’s a free 2020 Forecast for VIRGO: https://youtu.be/y6YrwFPPrpM
Iam a Virgo women and iam with cancer man.
He never hear my words.. v had been in a long distance relationship but now v r in same place.. still he never say dat he want to meet me n spend tym wid me .. and for me my life is so precious.. I need my man to love me more.. but it’s not happened wid dis cancer man.. so I have approached him about breaking ou one n half yr relationship. I wish him gud luck . Cz I dn wanna give chance.. it may ruin my life in future..
Where are you guys at now?
Cancer men don’t listen all the time. You have to make them feel and see for them truly to grasp what you are saying but the compatibility is strong. Keep in mind someones zodiac doesn’t maintain chemistry or buikd character.
being one i can tell that, cancer men are shy and afraid of rejection, asking him directly about his feelings would be better than shocking his world with a breakup news, i dont know much so i hope your decision was right.
This relationship is Divine! there is nothing like it .
I must say God must have a reason to put these two together, its extremely rare for a heart and mind becomes one in a relationship unless there is something that guides them, but before all of that to happen there is a fight, arguments, misunderstanding and a lot of frustration on both sides, It looks frighteningly odd for both in the beginning, but the end result is emotional perfection and blissful harmony. They can not escape the warmth this relationship brought on them. So its important to nurture this blessed relationship, because no one knows the deeper meaning of love other than these two i guess? the warmth this love brings is like a flame of fire that can warm our full body in the cold and rainy winter sky, its what i felt in my experience.
None in the universe has power to separate them by any means because there is DIVINE PRESENCE. Its not lust, infatuation or physical love that binds them, its pure love comes from divine connection, twin flame and soulmate connection has no place in this combination.
In my opinion, Since this relationship is divine its better and advisable for these couple to live their life by the rule of the Bible. Love, Respect and Obedience. Virgo, remember There is nothing makes a man happiest than to be respected by his woman. Cancer, remember there is nothing makes a woman happiest than to be loved, admired and appreciated by her man for her hard work and dedication.
Basically Virgo won’t fall in love deeply, its very hard for her to love someone wholeheartedly more than anything else she have ever loved, because she knows no one will give her the type of love and attention she require and deserve for the hard work and effort she is making for the betterment of the relationship. Not all but most Virgos love carelessly, because their expectation about love is very high and they find less, so she takes it more like a DUTY or DAILY ROUTINE, she do not sulk like Taurus, she is not aloof and irresponsible like Aquarius or escapist like Pisces . she will serve her partner as long as she can with all the pressure. Its a shame that most people fails to see the true nature of Virgo woman, how she looks like and what she can do at her very best. So make sure to love her purely and unconditionally because she can be exceptionally dedicated for the one who loves her this way,but who know this better than cancer.
There are two advantages of staying in this relationship in my opinion.
= It makes them both closer to God more than ever. [faith and spiritual depth]
= It takes the Virtue of a Virgo woman to the highest level and Amplify the Integrity of a cancer man.
[so what should Virgo woman do to stay in relationship or marriage with cancer man]
= Don’t judge his decision, even if its not satisfying for you.
= Never try to blame him for wrong doing.
= Let him fail, yes i will repeat this statement ” LET HIM FAIL” but be quick to get him up and support him, because without failure there is no success, so make sure you are there by his side and make him realize that he is not perfect.
= Don’t you ever try to boss him.
= Be appreciative for the things he does for you.
= Make no room for arguments.
= Be polite as much as you can.
= Consult with him. Never make a decision by yourself like he is not there at all. He might not be intellectual as you wish, but he is surprisingly wise, so ask him for his advise.
= Allow him to participate in your activities.
=Allow him to be part of your family member [mother, father, brother and sisters] encourage him to interact with them more, because cancer loves family.
= Spend quality time with him. The time you spent together is very important for cancer.
= Don’t ask a reason for his every action.
= Learn to be considerate.
= Limit too much interaction outside of relationship.
= Try to share some secrets with him fairly, he will trust you even more for doing that.[ its not common for Virgo woman to share any secrets]
= Ask him about his fears and insecurities and work on it.
= Be apologetic. Ask and give forgiveness.
= Stop what you are doing when he wants to speak to you.
= Never make yourself an independent woman [this is the biggest turn off for any relationship] in fact what is the purpose of being together in relationship ? Virgo, you have been independent through out your life, you don’t have to be anymore, because relationship is all about sharing and caring.
= Wear a dress more often. Cancer man loves a dress in a woman. Virgo, there is no feminine sign in the zodiac better than you. So use your hidden ultra femininity to make him proud of you.
= Try to spend most of your time at home after work.
= Avoid nagging.
= Show an interest in his activities. He loves to make you part of his plans.
= Sit with him when he wants to enjoy something he likes and enjoy with him. Share his happy moments.
= Don’t make yourself busy for the sake of your job when he wants you anytime.
BUT MORE THAN ANYTHING YOU CAN DO TO FIX THIS RELATIONSHIP, PRAY FOR HIM AND LET HIM KNOW THAT. WHY ? BECAUSE HE LOVE THE IDEA OF DIVINE INTERVENTION.
cancer is traditional and conservative, if he does not get some of the things listed above he will get hurt emotionally, if he gets hurt emotionally then he will loose interest and desire in the relationship, of course he will stay and be faithful in the relationship, but he will [wall you off ] which means he withhold everything that gives him emotional value including sexual appetite [MOST VIRGOS SURPRISED BY THIS] and the relationship becomes stagnant [ much worse than anything you have seen or experience]
This relationship comes to an end if cancer becomes rude or violent towards her, its not his nature actually, but its better to be careful not to hurt Virgo woman in this way specially after the relationship gets deeper or reach meaningful stage. VIRGOS PURITY LIES IN HER TEARS. she is steady, grounded and tolerant of unfavorable situations, if any bad thing happens repeatedly to take what she had built or pushed by someone beyond her limit, instead of telling someone she will cry to the Lord and her prayers will instantly be heard.
“HE IS HER ONLY TRUE LOVE AND SHE IS HIS ONLY CONFIDENCE”
No matter what happens, cancer man and Virgo woman put irreplaceable and unforgettable memory in each other that will never be repeated which can last a life time and beyond.
I am a cancer man married to a virgo woman for 10 years. Let me tell you, if you are virgo you have to be calm and quiet and know how to articulate your concern. Because cancer see complaints as the upsolute definition of unappreciation. You want to kill a cancer man and turn him into a rock do the following:
1) tell him you are independent and don’t need him.
2) after he paint the room over night come and tell him it sucks.
3) make him feel guilty everytime he wants to hang out with his friends or family or just wants to be alone.
4) raise your voice
5) constantly complain and say you always do this and you never do that when it might have been only once and most likely accidental.
6) do not demand all his love because he loves many people especially family and friends. And if you try to stop him from caring for others its equivalent of asking him to betray them….something cancer can’t do.
7) don’t give him any chance to space out.
8) make him feel that you are in charge of planning the family’s every move.
9)tell him all your love and devotion and effort towards the family is normal and expected and every man would do the same when its clearly not because you don’t know other men.
If you are the angry kind of a virgo with a loud voice . This relationship should be illegal. You will kill him slowly and you will never be happy
Mostafa Bro…YOU NAILED it….Love You for that.
Where is your part, relationship are two way street. Why you still with her if you so unhappy? Relationship is work and progress you choose if you want to put or not
I’m a Virgo women I have a cancer man he whisked my soul away our first date. We’ve only been together 4 months I’m deeply in love with him he brings out the women in me I’m never letting him go I’ve finally met my match I’m going to stay with him for the rest of my life I’m so happy. Love making with him has taken me to new heights I never new existed.
I’m a Virgo woman and I met my Cancer man just a couple of weeks ago. When I tell you that I have never felt such a strong connection before. I mean it! I was with a Gemini for two years and in those two years I did not feel as much as this Cancer man has made me feel in just a few weeks. I am so excited to see what happens over the next few months/ years. I’ll definitely be giving an update
I am exactly the same as you! I hope you give an update! Thanks
I’m a virgo woman and I love my cancer mate. He is everything that was said in this article. He truly helps me to build my trust and he is a great l listener. Sex with him was amazing. I never had this much passion with anyone else before. He makes me feel more woman and he seems like he already knows what my needs are. I’m always sexually excited around him…. never had that with anyone else! Our connection is real. Very pure as and warm…
I’m a Virgo woman , I’ve known my cancer man for seven years , we’ve recently dedcided to take our friendship and turn into something with a little more substance… our vibe is so smooth and we enjoy each other so much, mentally and physically … sometimes our emotions cause us to argue but we always work through it . He’s amazing and I’m
Super excited to see where this goes.
If he cause you to feel the way you do you are blessed but make sure it goes both ways so that it will flourish into something more beautiful than ever.
I am cancer man my question is that. The Virgo female is good match for me ya not because is faces many problems. So please tell me the right way which good for me and also her
You just need to listen to her and if you planning to something be detailed. Express yourself. Virgo don’t like to not get a full picture. Get your priorities straight. Virgo love communication and openness because it’s help her anxious to come down and look forward to life. She doesn’t want to be uncertain, in limbo so open up.
She knew the guy and was in love with him in high school,already.Back off.
Im a true cancer man ..
And i just met my virgo woman just now…
Thanks for this.. im just happy to read things like this ..
I am a Virgo, and I believe this I see true (not the part where I’ll get sick of him). My cancer man we went to high school together. I’ve always liked him, but didn’t know how he felt about me. He disappeared for like 2yrs. Just recently we met up again, I literally fell in love. I felt that he was feeling me. Which I love, and just yesterday we had a little date. Everything was perfect omg, I’ve never fell so hard for someone. I’m so happY.
S.N – the sex was AMAZING!
You just met up and you slept with him already!!!
“You just met up and you slept with him already!!!”.. I had the same exact thought!
Lol I waited guys chill, then I slept with him damn.. he was a high school crush, he was on the list to smash. Let a girl live
The Virgo girl I’m into doesn’t seem to care about my issues at all. And procrastinates a lot of time when it comes to our conversation. It seems like she just uses me. :c
Just met this cancer man…I’m a TRUE virgo…he’s a TRUE cancer…I’ve been very doubtful of our relationship… because I’m fresh off of a 5 year log relationship with a Capricorn.. but Mr. Cancer…mmmm…Mr. cancer…we fell in love the first day we met…which unexpectedly…was the next day AFTER Mr. Capricorn and I parted ways…he makes sure to tell me everyday how much he loves me..and wants me…and has dreamed about being with me…before he even knew I existed…and up until yesterday…I didn’t believe him… because of past hurt…but…he REALLY opened my eyes…oh. . .WE HAVE NEVER MET. #Aintthatsomeshit #Loveatfirstmessage #CantwaitforTHISweekend
S.n. thanks for listening…I had to get that out lol
Exactly. I am virgo and my husband is of cancer sign. Every detail is a fact.
Not dating him yet, but I am totally smitten. planning the wedding already. He is the one, never loved anyone like this; ever!!!
This is so fascinating! I’ve been dating my Cancer man for only a short while and he has spilled all his secrets to me. He is so open with me and feels comfortable to tell me everything – in return I really have to be expressive and remind him that I’m completely into him! It’s funny how we’re best friends – we actually new each other at school!! we were great friends then and we only recently met at a high school reunion! we’ve been dating since then! I have to say… he’s the most sensual, devoted lover and keeps telling me he just wants to get closer and closer. It’s amazing. I have never dated anyone like him and I’m completely and utterly smitten.
I’m a Virgo women also dating a cancer man just like you all I feel as tho he hiding things we argue it gets really bad be this kind of hate I can’t describe even while we argue he go on and on after I let it go but when we not arguing nothing but happiness the way he make me feel his soft touch his strong arms I just want to have sex with him all day but he says I want it to much but I love him
Omg when i read that i thought i wrote it lol
Hazel, instead of focusing on him focus on you. Give him time and space to figure things out on his own and time to miss you. I am not saying go out there and cheat. Find something to do like go back to school. A real man does not won’t a woman who raises hell and fuss about everything that will push him away. Even if there is something going on and you unsure what it is Just let him know you are there for him anytime he needs to talk and you are willing to listen. Don’t always be about sex be that independent woman he wants and needs you to be and if it’s that serious go get a toy from the sex store.
I’ve been with a cancer man for 4 years and I’m deeply in love with him. I’m a virgo woman and I believe we do get along. We are best friends and great parents to our twin boys. We do have moments where we argue but all that never lasts a day. He’s really sweet but I feel like he hides a lot from me and does things he’s not supposed to do when he is out there. I love him anyway and that’s why I married him
I have been dating a Cancer man and he turned my life around! He is so passionate and unpredicatble. We get on very well but he does have certain habits that will annoy me. He too hides alot from me and gets upset when I mention all the woman he has as contacts on his phone. Most of which are he’s ex girlfriends and assures me they all his friends. There is so much they do for alll the woman out there that I feel its unfair. The need to help others but when it comes to me I need to be there to help him. Overall he always comes home from a night out with the boys and on several occasions ive gone to check up on him and he is where he says he is – with the guys and no girls! No matter what i do i dont catch him with anyone else. So i feel i dont have a reason to feel cheated….still i think he’s hiding things! He never fails to show how much he loves me though. Crazy stuff!
My first love was a cancer man! I was 17 he was 18 and 10 years later I still think about this man, cry a lot coz I never experienced such love since the breakup. We dated for two years and I was off to college then we just drifted I guess. He recently married a pieces woman and called me telling me he made the biggest mistake of his life by marrying her and that we should get back together! I’m a Virgo woman and though I was touched, being a home wrecker wasn’t gonna happen no matter how much I still love him. This guy was the greatest love of my life, we’d talk all night on the phone, he’d cry a lot for me, anytime he thinks he’s hurt my feelings omg he’d be so sorry and would do anything to make it up to me. His touch was intoxicating filled with emotion I can’t explain it. 11 years later I still feel like he’s the best I ever had, too bad we can’t be together but it is what it is. I’m compelled to meet another water sign man, esp a Pisces, I think water and earth are great together. Not forgetting Taurus lol they complement us Virgo women to the T!
I married a Taurus man and got divorced 4 years later. he was a complete Tosser!! LOL I think that was more to do with his issues – I’m sure the traditional Taurus is fine for a virgo….. but this man I married was a toxic complicated unstable emotional basket case!
I’m a Virgo Woman met my Cancer Man a year ago. A rough year his emotions and my criticism did make for a good relationship at first but I can now say that it’s gotten much better through time. I love how emotional he gets and he love my critical nature. We are working through it all by not giving up on each other. He bring the passion in me. Im glad I met my Cancer don’t know what I would do without him
Why are there so many drug related incidents with Cancer men. I mean im 18 almost 19, never been in a relationship and I’m not into drugs. I mean I have a best friend thats a virgo and he was always like a side kick to me. You know because he was more shy then me about things, being around my best friend always made me turn into a confident leader like guy. His weakness made me stronger, I mean I was raised by a Leo and a Taurus so I have some confidence in me to be the leading type. Even though be crazy, wild, and random at times were still two best friends having fun adventures.
I am a cancer man, in love with a virgo woman. Only God knows what hell I am going through. We cancerians are soo emotional, soo sensitive, looks like Virgo woman will never understand. But she can read my face. She know, whem I am happy, sad or angry. Still its hell. It seems like virgo woman don’t want to be loved. I always want to be around her, but she never wants me around her. Or she wants me around her, only when she wants.
But what to do, for me she is everywhere, she is in the bath tub, she is in the soap, she is sitting next to me, she is in bed, she is singing with me, she is weeping with me. she is all around. she is in my morning, my noon, my evenings and night. she is in my thoughts, she is in my work. she is my loss she is my gain, she is my laugh, she is my cry. where ever I see, i see her, i am nothing without her.
but she will never understand. Is loving a person so bad ? I want to be loved madly, loved all the time.
i will wakeup from dead, ever her breathe falls on me. But will virgo woman ever understand this, i don’t know.
Speaking as a Virgo woman madly in love with my Cancer man, I am sorry she wont let you show her her true self. Its quite refreshing. Push off a little, we Virgos tend to mistake being loved as being smothered. She will come around. I did. Good luck I hope you two work it out this really is the sweetest most sincere love I have EVER experienced.
yes virgo woman also feel same as well you …i m a virgo woman and i know the meaning of feelings …but cancer man never open his feelings infront of virgo woman …cancer man hide there feelings .
man just give her some space she is the best partner u get. Respect her feelings , she loves u madly but she shall not show u ……… she is earth and would keep it silent …… so try to talk to her and feel her
I’m a Virgo woman dating a cancer male and I feel like this is reverse for me. Everything you just quoted is everything he is for me and all I seek from my heart but I feel like he pushes me to the curb and loves on me when he is in the mood. If he’s upset about something he finds any reason to turn the case on me. When all I want to do is be there for him. He says I’m confusing but I don’t feel I am. I feel I lay all my cards out before him. I just want him to love me deprestly as much as I love him.
Try talking to him about your concerns and ask him how the relationship is working out so for him. tell him how you truly feel about about him and see what he thinks about you, also if he’s being moody and upset just hug him and ask him what’s really making him upset. If he loves you, he knows that he doesn’t mean to turn the case on you there’s probably something that happened to him.
She loves you, she just doesn’t know how to express it. tell her how you feel, we virgos are straight forward. Her wanting to be alone has nothing to do with you, it’s a Virgo thing. otherwise, she loves you
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BEING A VIRGO, EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE HAS TO BE PERFECT (BAD THING, YES, BUT TRUE). I’M HARD ON MYSELF FOR ANY LITTLE THING THAT GOES WRONG. I BLAME MYSELF FOR EVERYTHING. THE CANCER MAN (NATURALLY INTELLIGENT) CAPTURES ANY EMOTION.
HE’S LIKE A MIND READER, NOT GOOD FOR A VIRGO. WE ARE AFRAID THAT HE WILL FIND OUT THAT WE ARE NOT PERFECT.
THE CANCER MAN DOESN’T LIKE DRAMA, DOESN’T LIKE WORRIES, DOESN’T LIKE PROBLEMS. HE WANTS TO “LIVE LIFE”. GIVE HIM A SURF BOARD AND HE’S HAPPY.
THROUGHTOUT MY 3 1/2 YEARS WITH MY CANCER GENTLEMAN I ANALYZED AND ANALYZED MY RELATIONSHIP AND CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THT IT IS UP TO US VIRGO WOMEN TO MAKE OUR RELATIONSHIPS WORK WITH CANCER MEN. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE PERECT (LOL, FUNNY BUT TRUE, THAT’S WHAT THINK ABOUT THEM EVEN WE KNOW THEY ARE WRONG SOMETIMES).
HERE ARE 10 THINGS (NO ORDER IN PARTICULAR) I DO THAT HAVE MADE ME APPRECIATE AND RESPECT MY MAN AND IN THE LONG RUN HAS MADE ME APPRECIATE AND RESPECT OUR RELATIONSHIP.
1.) DO NOT READ INTO THINGS – When he says something to you that doesn’t make sense, just kindly ask him to explain (do not raise your voice); he likes talking about his feelings.
2.) DO NOT TAKE THINGS PERSONAL – When he doesn’t want to be with you intimately, accept it – next time he does, WOW him so that he will never want to NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU. Dance like Jennifer in Meet the Millers. You can do it !!!
3.) GIVE HIM SPACE – When you see that he’s in one of his mood swings (he has many), don’t try to figure him out. Remember it’s his mood swing not yours. If need be, go for a run, get away and do something productive for yourself if you can’t get away simply turn this moment around into someothing positive for both of you.
4.) DO NOT NAG HIM – We Virgos (have to admit) are naggers, only because we want everything to be perfect we have fallen into this category. People don’t understand us. Just remember, nagging a Cancer is not good.. they do not have the patience.
5.) GIVE HIM PRAISE – The Cancer man needs reassurance. Not that he lack confidence, he just likes to be acknowledged (positive attention).
6.) DO THINGS HE ENJOYS – Forgot about what you like doing (it might seem boring to them); beside us Virgos don’t have a problem with that, remember we are the most unselfish people ever; we like to make people happy.
6.) TAKE CARE OF HIM – Pay attention to their needs, even the most simpliest needs.
7.) LISTEN TO HIM – When he talks to you about his problems, just listen to him, do not try to fix his problems – remember he has pride, too much. Trust me, he will ask for your opinion if he needs it, when he does, make sure to clarify that you are giving him your opinion per his request (make sure to use a loving tone of voice, don’t nag).
8.) ENCOURGE HIM – The Cancer man is goal oriented – no doubt. He’s responsible, reliable and a hard worker, but that doesn’t mean he doen’t need encourgaging words to help him achieve his next goal. If he doen’t have a goal, help find one. He loves having goals, keeps him busy.
9.) UNDERSTAND/ACCEPT HIM – He can be the best lover in bed, however, he doesn’t know how to be affectionate through words. Remember, actions can be louder than words. Don’t give him a hard time if he doesn’t shout “I LOVE YOU”.
10.) TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF – this Cancer man loves for his woman to look beautiful, sexy. Do not be a typical Virgo who puts herself last, not having time for herself. Take time to shine.
Im a Virgo women. Im in love with a cancer man. He every thing I want in a man. Been dating for a while now. He knows im very independent. We enjoy being together. Im ready for more. I don’t know if he’s ready for that. I wish that he was ready too. Well I guess he will be ready soon. Im not getting younger.
I’m still in love with my virgo girl, I love her so much, everytime I think about her I feel great.
I am a cancer male and was blessed and honored to have one of the most beautiful ladies love me and she was a virgo, we were like heaven,everyday i lived to see her smile and feel her tpuch she became my everybreath and 2 yrs later i still miss and long for her,she left me due to circumstances being what they were all i can say is that whoever is with her will be a better person and lucky i honestly will never love again due to never wanting to be hurt again,and i to relapsed and very well put we use to mask our feelings and us cancers have them best wishes to all and to my virgo im sorry boo and it wasnt in vein muah
hey there!! well, by reading these stories is hard not to believe in astrology at all.. my story hasn’t started yet but my love life has always been complicated and confusing.. my feelings are so changeable!! I’m a virgo sun aquarius ascendant, cancer moon and mars in gemini.. i’ve been involved with different kinds of men.. the last one was an aries,,but he wasnt very caring so i broke up with him.. SO.. i got to know this cancerian guy.. (never knew a cancerian before).. i think our connection is amazing.. we are somewhat alike in our personality, and we ‘connect’ in a sexual level very well.. the problem is i feel like he is pushing me too far on a commitment level.. and i dont feel ready to commit.. it takes me so long to commit.. i’ve been always the independent type of girl.. my only serious bf was a scorpio and he was SOOO DEMANDING AND JEALOUS that i needed to breathe.. so i broke up with him. I fear this guy might be the same.. controlling and demanding.. i like guys who show me affection.. but i dont wanna live the same story again. My mood and feelings fluctuate a lot too.. so i dont know if it may be the best union.. you think we can make it work? im sooo indecisive in love matters .
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Ok Virgo woman loves very much but from my experience I can relate to this article, they are shy they hardly show love but they do in a way that cancer man can hardly see it or notice it. The cancer man needs a partner which is confident and sure of what she wants but virgo women has problems of self confidence which may require man to built in the confidence but careful virgo ladies you have to make an effort as well we can only help so much. The love from both is huge cancer goes and off so sometimes he might be distant and sometimes loving but it doesn’t mean he don’t loves you, is just that cancer man are easily stress out, so for Virgo women screaming or being mandatory doesn’t help because cancer man gets hurt easily, cancer man likes to seat around talk and doesn’t want screaming if you start screaming he has inmidiet rejection and feels hurt like really bad so don’t be manipulative virgo women think twice when you say like “have a good they cause I won’t” trust me even if you say sorry a few min after it stays with us the whole day and well u just ruin the day. Want ur man to give you a good sex once in a while surprise wear something sexy and wear make up look desireble and that will get him to a good mood we love a woman that takes good care of herself like putting make up and look pretty but also has its limits not to look like a prostitute lol. Good side is we both have trust and love each other and cancer man when he gets hurt he makes it a huge deal, when you girls see your cancer man distant just say hey feel better lets go out somewhere and tell him somewhere he likes, if you ask him why are u so distant he will say stress, have a rough day or just like don’t worry I’ll be fine he won’t have energy to explain. Virgo women is stress out from work etc she wants man near, the man feels distant and needs a space specially if you see him stress and sees women like quiet it will be more likely to want and have a space so my advice be cheerful when he is distant and motivate him lets go out. And cancer man she likes honesty top priority of Virgo women and you to listen to her. Oh and cancer man usually are hypochondriac lol so that is my point of view in the matter hopes it helps.
This is not a perfect match. Virgo can be annoying. They cant understand your mood swing . They like to fight in public. They are not expressive in love. It was an emotional rollercoaster for me. They critisize you a lot.
Today i went on a date with a virgo woman and im a cancer man. It was a lovely first date and the last thing she did was tell me she liked the way i talked and made jokes and told me that she is looking forward to our 5th date, i replied “we havent had a 2-4 date yet” she said she knew they’d go great.
I put a lot of stock in astrology as related to relationships, but it’s more than just sun sign compatibility as many of you well know. I have been with an Aquarian, a Gemini, a Leo, an Aries, and two Cancers. Cancers are my favorite sign of the zodiac, and as complicated as they are, in my opinion they are the easiest to understand (maybe it’s my Cancer moon). One of the Cancers I was with was a friend of mind that I liked for a long time that I had a one-night stand with, and I think our reactions to how the next morning went hurt both of us. We haven’t really talked since. I would do almost anything to make amends because Cancerian men are wonderful friends. I have been with my current boyfriend for almost one year…he is everything to me. He is my best friend, my lover, my partner….everything I have ever asked for. He is also a somewhat complicated man. Since the beginning, he has had a firm rule that we do not yell and scream and fight if we have disagreements, but that we talk. I am extremely sensitive, and I came out of an abusive marriage two years ago where that’s all we did, so that was very welcome to me. When you’re not afraid to communicate with someone, it’s a lot easier to do it….it’s very easy to communicate with a Cancer. You have to pick your moments, if he’s in a bad mood or is under a lot of stress it would probably be better to wait until in the morning. Learn to read him as well as he will inevitably be able to read you so that you’ll know when to ask “wanna talk about it?” or leave him be. You’re perceptive Virgin ladies, you can do it. Don’t say things that you know will hurt him when you fight not just because he will remember them later and won’t be able to let go, but because he hurts deeply when he hurts. He may not say that, he may not look like it (my fella is the poster child of traditional, gender-biased masculinity) on the outside, but if you know him and you love him you can see the light fade out of his eyes when he is in pain. You have the rare opportunity to be blessed with his trust, and you should guard it with your life. Be a loyal, patient, and steadfast partner and he will be the same. It will be a relationship like you have never experienced, and if it is right, real love. And by God, if he proposes and you’ve already decided you’d probably marry him later on down the road, tell him your intentions. You don’t have to say “yes” right away, but don’t reject him. He isn’t joking, and if you laugh at him assuming that he is, he might think you’re laughing at the idea. If that happens, God help you because he’ll never forget it and if he asks you again, it’ll be a freakin’ miracle. In my experience, Cancers don’t put themselves out there very often unless they’re sure of how they feel and at least 95% sure about how you feel. They’re afraid of being rejected. If you don’t think it will last long term, pull the plug early or don’t be offended when they do because you will get attached. My honey has a two-week rule. If it doesn’t feel like it’s going to work within the first two weeks, he politely sends them on their way. One more thing before I finish…regardless of the compatibility between your suns or hell, even your whole charts, you have to have patience and realize that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Your relationship with a Cancer man will be challenging, but any good thing worth keeping is worth a challenge. His moody, brooding ways for as far as YOU know no reason (and likely have nothing to do with you unless y’all are on the fritz), will try to trigger all our little pent-up buttons…if he doesn’t want to talk, kiss him on the cheek or do something nice for him where you know he’ll see it so he’ll know you’re thinking of him and go read a book, go for a walk, go shopping, do something for you and you’ll feel better and more at ease when he finally does open up (oh, and he will. Have your listening ears ready). I am thankful every day for my Cancer. I thought I was fine being single and having oodles of alone time to balance out everything else. Then, I looked back over some old pictures of when it was just my daughter and I (wonderful father figures, Cancers, by the way….I would trust him with her life) and we were happy….but I remembered what it was like to have all that time alone and to date people and be married to people who just didn’t “get it” and it made me want to get down on my knees and thank God for him. My life may have been fine without a relationship, but my heart was an aching, empty, desolate place having never experienced real love or a truly good relationship. My life wouldn’t be the same without him, and I hope that we last forever. When it’s good, it’s amazing…and when it’s bad, it’s still not that bad. If your heart is in the right place, you couldn’t ask for a better mate.
Hey! i’m a cancerian
I met a virgo women a few weeks ago!
and my god, wow, i’m so in shock how deep i love her!
I never felt that kind of emotion for someone else before!
i don’t know if she feel the same for me, but after reading all you guys comments, it looks like she does!
She is in the USA right now and i’m in france, how can i do to find out if she loves me?
Hi. Im a virgo women. I dont know how to start but then right now i really think the article is true. Like others, i feel so excited. I have a friend which he was younger than me and he’s cancer. I know him for one month already. I love being his friend and sometimes i dont know why my heart pounding so hard when i be with him. I even can smile when i think about him.
I know him from my best friend who is a girl. When i didnt text him, he feel sad and ask why i didnt text him from my best friend. He even called me last time when i get angry with him. Sometimes i feel like he’s funny.
The other day, i have a shooting for my advertising and i ask his help to be one of the character in my advertising. Guess what, he come late. So, i really got angry with him. When he arrived, we quarrel. I dont know why, but we used to quarrel even though we have a lot in common. He likes to make me angry and for me, i dont want to lost if im not doing anything wrong.
Guess what, he hates me when i’m talking about other man. He says im confuse but that my opinion. When he talked about other women. I dont even scolded him. Why when i taked about other men, he’s get angry?
I still remember when he bring me and my best friend to his tournament. He open the door for me. We walked and talked about my interviews and he seems so happy. But what makes me weird is that, when it was his turn to play. He didnt even ask my best friend who he knew longer than me to hold his things. He choose me. Then he try to makes some joke in front of his friend and my best friends says likes “We sceretly likes each other, we want to hide our feelings for a while, right?” he looks at me and smile. Actually, i want to says yes. But deep in my heart, i can’t. I just make myself blurr.
This probably because, i know from my best friend that he is a player. Why does he react that way?
The other things is, when he with any other women. He never told me about it. He just tell my best friend who he with. For me, its unfair, coz if he’s my friend, he should tell me the truth.
So, what should i do then?
Hello all of my beautiful virgo ladies out there. well i have been left in AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!! LOL!! This article is so true i mean every last bit of it. I just can’t believe it still. Let me tell you one thing ladies our cancerian men love us to death. Yeah they may have their little mood swings here and there but you know how critical we can be, that’s all we have to do let them hear us out and they will understand. Believe me i have had some rough times with my lover but slowly with time he has learned how to take my feelings into consideration, trust me we are not the perfect couple neither we still have our ups and downs but it is over stupid things with no importance at all. And us virgos can not say that we are not emotional creatures in a sense, we nead to learn from one another as much as we can right, i mean the connection is there already!!!!!!!!!!!! Goodluck to all of the virgo women, cancer man relationships……… allll i now is that i love my hubby………. Muuuuuuah to u baby…. novemmber 20, 2007…………….
Hello all, Virgo and Cancer relationship are hard as we Virgo women have to understand and be patient with a lot. I have read stories of how most cancer men turn to drugs to handle the stress and emotions of the Virgo and cancer union, well my story was different, my cancer man self-medicated on women. Before I found out that my cancer man was carrying on behind my back our relationship was a bitter sweet union, we started so well I felt that I had found my soul mate and then things went bad and we started to get caught up with weekly breakups every time one of us felt emotionally hurt by the other, this resulted in my cancer man cutting me off emotionally and I was left seeking for the emotional comfort from another man although all I wanted was my cancer man. I confessed to this and it created a bigger wedge between us, more break ups and more arguments.
When I found out he had cheated on me I wondered why he had even made the step for me to be his girlfriend, I wondered why he had made me feel so comfortable with him when all he wanted to do was cheat. I just could not understand why such a connection could come with so much dishonesty and hurt, he was with this other woman before I had been cut off emtionaly I was deeply hurt by his infidelity and cut ties with him 5 months later he was contacting me through email, not apologetic but just hoping that I did not hate him and being the Virgo that I am I was forgiving. We remained friends for a while until it became romantic again, I could not deal with having to discover another woman again even though we were not serious it was not something I wanted to do so we cut ties again, I started a new relationship with another man who was an Aquarius (bad move) we lasted three months and within those three months I could not forget my cancer man, no matter how hard I tried there was no right amount of romance, care or conversation from the Aquarius that could compete with my Cancer man, cancer and Virgo are a combination that cannot be beaten. I later decided that this relationship was not right for me and I could feel that my cancer man was missing me as much as I was missing him, I did something very brave of me and I made the move to unite with my cancer man, it’s the best decision I have made in a long time, this time we are approaching the relationship with honesty, patience and understanding because neither one of us had bothered to do so before as we were both looking out for our own feelings. My cancer man has his flaws but he also understands his flaws and taken steps to understand himself with my support, I feel like I am taking down a chunk of that concrete wall he has built up every day that we are together and he has become more open with his feelings as he understands that I do not judge him for having them, I love that he can cry and admit it, I love that now when he feels emotional that the shell that he retrieves into is me because I have learnt to be supportive to his emotions. As irritating as it might be for me to be the shoulder to lean on, I rather be with my cancer man than any other. We found love, lost it more times than we can count but with each loss came great lessons of forgiveness and a pure understanding of us. My Virgo Cancer love story is still on-going I am a tough cookie to crack as he says but he managed fine because he has found my soft centre. We have our day, we work through them and the results are showing.
The happy virgo
I have to agree with everyone about this article being amazingly accurate. I’m a Virgo female and my boyfriend is a Cancer male; and we’ve only known each other a few months but it feel as if we’ve known each other for a very long time…
And during this short period of time we’ve been able to share some of our most deepest and darkest secrets that none of our family or close friends know. He has had a rough time with females in the past but ever since we’ve been together he’s admitted that he haven’t felt safe with any of the other women in his past. But with me he feel completely safe and very open with me.
I also feel the same way; he is the first Cancer that I have ever been with and the connection is awesome. I honestly can’t see myself being with anyone else and I’m a strong believer in love at first sight.
Actually, we broke up many times…but all these brake-ups last maximum few days or few weeks. And I tried very hard to cut him off for few reasons. I think I am a very hard person even with myself, as I am perfectionist. He seems quite vulnerable and helpless as he really cares about what people will think. In Our case, we are quite conservative and he especially doesn’t want any criticism from anyone. This is the major reason, and he is very impressed by my strength.
@scott and Sandra, Thank you so much for responding! I am starting to understand where he’s coming from, and don’t get me wrong I have been praying like crazy about us, mostly for patience, and to heal his hurts.But I see that there is a depth of hurt I can’t understand, or comprehend, he will repeat back things I said in the past, that cut him deep, even with all the time past, and forgiving me.
Sandra, WOw we can be the same person, you can withhold really? I can’t and he knows this, that’s what hurts the most. It’s crazy because I also met him April 2009. I’ve never fallen so hard for a man! and I just promised not to break up with him again, he doesn’t believe and is reserved. Scott, I want your specific opinion about the sex thing, is he doing this to punish me or because he wants to stop loving me? he told me 2 weeks ago that he doesn’t know if he could still love me, does that makes sense to you? Sandra has he ever told you that he doesn’t want to love you? is this to avoid getting hurt again? and I also found out that he was still giving money to his ex!! Yes I think I’m losing my mind with this guy, I’ve never cried so much for a man in my life!!!!
Hi scott, thank you for the comment and suggestion. I had cancer rising too so I have same pain and emotion like cancerian.
@Abigail668 Hey I am new here, and this is my first post/response. Since I am a cancer and a man, I can give you one piece of insight into our inner workings. Cancer men have it difficult. We feel as much as most women do minus the hormones, but we are taught that expressing those feelings, or learning how to manage them, is not really acceptable in society from a manly view. So at a young age we are not really taught how to handle acting on feelings and working through things with our hearts… and our hearts are always influencing how we deal with lots and lots of things. Especially when it comes to our mates. Knowing that we struggle with dealing with our feelings on a daily basis, these things are necessary to really be compatible with a man of such complexity: understanding, patience, compassion, honesty with feelings, and a true understanding that words cut deeper with a cancer than with any other man. We can have a thick skin, or shell, but when we expose our hearts and trust in the person we are with, we are vulnerable,and like an elephant we never forget. We may not remember all the words but will never forget the way they made us hurt and how it made us feel. We are not an easy bunch to figure out, and can be more than difficult, especially when we put our defenses up (we are magically masters at this), but the compassion, understanding, togetherness and love we are capable of is more intense and goes deeper than any other male zodiac sign. Everything is double edged sword in life, and relationships take a ton of work, constantly and consistently. Work on understanding your cancer mate, and show as much patience as you can or think he deserves. Also remember that cosmology is not a answer-all science to defining our behavior, it is only a tool for insight into possible, fundamental parts of our soul. We are all made of up of much more, and that has to be considered.
Hope this helps a little or something.
Scott
P.S. I think cancer men are more susceptible to drug use b/c dealing with emotions is a very difficult thing to handle at times, and we can become overwhelmed. Some may turn to drugs to mask or dull the pain associated with the intensity of those feelings, mainly negative ones. I do not condone taking drugs to deal, instead I would suggest meditation (really works), maybe some counseling b/c we all need someone who will listen with no judgement, and/or find a way to let out your emotions (an outlet of sorts) like writing in a journal, writing short stories, or poetry. It all helps. Thanks all.
exact situation except from sex withholding, because the one who is withholding is not him.
I am virgo, fire horse who had relationship with cancer exact 2 and half years ago, which started in 2009 april. My cancer man is three years older than me.
What an amazing sex we had..unbelievable. I never had such strong emotional, physical and intellectual bond with anyone in my life.
We fought due to his financial help to his previous woman he attached. I find it very sneaky. It really hurt me as I was away from him. I just want to cut him off. This is all I want to do.
its his nature to show sympathy, cant help it.
@Soul I need your help, Tabitha, or anybody else, who is also a Virgo woman with a cancer boyfriend. I have my boyfriend of 2, 1/2 years, I 45 and he is 43. We adore each other and we don’t doubt we are soulmates, we have been to hell and back. I didn’t know in the beginning anything about cancer men, I had no idea of how soft hearted he was. Not only am I a virgo, I am also a firehorse! yea this poor soul! The day we met was cataclysmic, he watched me dancing for an hour before I stopped long enough to notice his beautiful smile, he was there in all his tallness(6’3″) watching me. He symply said “It sure is hot in here” I said “heck yes”, he asked me if I would dance with him, we danced til 2 in the morning! He didn’t want to leave, when we went outside to our cars, fate(God) had our cars parked next to each other. We didn’t want to say goodbye!is this high school? We stood there without moving like statues, (i could not resist his beautiful mouth)I reached up, (I’m 5’4″)and gave him a very soft kiss, talk about not expecting it! He froze, I panic and get in my car, he comes to my window and says, can I have your number? anyway, we have had the most amazing time, the good has been super good, and the bad heart wrenching crying, we think were are gonna die bad. My problem is that when I break up with, cus I’m pissed about something he didn’t do, like tells me to be ready at 8 and picks me up at 10PM! or if I want to go watch a movie on premiere night, he says wait til saturday, then he doesn’t feel like it, so now I sneak in midnight showings. I don’t sweat the small stuff, just the biggies. Well after breaking up Im so pissed I don’t even want to talk to him. He will send me a text after a few days, saying he misses me and he’s hopeless without me. And we get back together. But you won’t believe how he punishes me! He withholds SEX!!!!! yes makeing love with him is awesome, he loves it so much he says its like leaving the earth, I agree! But when he has been hurt by me, he will go weeks without touching me. We kiss all the time, but he will back off when we start going deep. In June we had a huge fight, we don’t ever yell or cuss, but we say mean things. After that day we got back together, but we haven’t made love since, he says we will work up to it!!!! are you kidding me, I have stopped seeing him, he calls me everyday and stops by and we make out, but then he splits. I am hurting and trying to do my classic, see ya! but he’s different and I want him. Please can a cancer man please respond, please? David’s Abigail
I need your help, Tabitha, or anybody else, who is also a Virgo woman with a cancer boyfriend. I have my boyfriend of 2, 1/2 years, I 45 and he is 43. We adore each other and we don’t doubt we are soulmates, we have been to hell and back. I didn’t know in the beginning anything about cancer men, I had no idea of how soft hearted he was. Not only am I a virgo, I am also a firehorse! yea this poor soul! The day we met was cataclysmic, he watched me dancing for an hour before I stopped long enough to notice his beautiful smile, he was there in all his tallness(6’3″) watching me. He symply said “It sure is hot in here” I said “heck yes”, he asked me if I would dance with him, we danced til 2 in the morning! He didn’t want to leave, when we went outside to our cars, fate(God) had our cars parked next to each other. We didn’t want to say goodbye!is this high school? We stood there without moving like statues, (i could not resist his beautiful mouth)I reached up, (I’m 5’4″)and gave him a very soft kiss, talk about not expecting it! He froze, I panic and get in my car, he comes to my window and says, can I have your number? anyway, we have had the most amazing time, the good has been super good, and the bad heart wrenching crying, we think were are gonna die bad. My problem is that when I break up with, cus I’m pissed about something he didn’t do, like tells me to be ready at 8 and picks me up at 10PM! or if I want to go watch a movie on premiere night, he says wait til saturday, then he doesn’t feel like it, so now I sneak in midnight showings. I don’t sweat the small stuff, just the biggies. Well after breaking up Im so pissed I don’t even want to talk to him. He will send me a text after a few days, saying he misses me and he’s hopeless without me. And we get back together. But you won’t believe how he punishes me! He withholds SEX!!!!! yes makeing love with him is awesome, he loves it so much he says its like leaving the earth, I agree! But when he has been hurt by me, he will go weeks without touching me. We kiss all the time, but he will back off when we start going deep. In June we had a huge fight, we don’t ever yell or cuss, but we say mean things. After that day we got back together, but we haven’t made love since, he says we will work up to it!!!! are you kidding me, I have stopped seeing him, he calls me everyday and stops by and we make out, but then he splits. I am hurting and trying to do my classic, see ya! but he’s different and I want him. Please can a cancer man please respond, please? David’s Abigail
here’s my answer one decade later, lol, just talk to him in an apologetic way and that should do it.
I am a Virgo woman with a Cancer boyfriend for 1 and a half. My 20 month old daughter passed away in June this year and he loved her and raised her like she was his own. It as if he lost a child he created. He has custody of his 3 children ages 2 7 and 9 and I have my son who is 3 who calls him Daddy and he is his Daddy. My childrens real fathMy divorce from himer came around to create them and ditch them. My divorce from him who is a pisces will be complete in December. My man took me in a survior of sexual abuse and later domestic violence. He has changed my life and helps me work toward my goals. His children are as mine and we are a happy family even though we are all still greiving me and him more than the rest. This describes us to the T. I have never felt a bond or love like this in my entire life. We are both very similar and have are arguments but in the end we make up and the love only grows stronger. When my husband left for the last time I refused to contact him it was over for good that time. I decided I was going to raise my children alone that I could not handle another man. They were all the same and in my life they always were. Then I came across him one day after knowing him for 8 years but we werent close. My heart was pounding immediately I cant explain it. I walked up and asked in a voice I had to force out if I could leave him my number. He said yes shyly to. I left, never expected him to call, but he did. Im so thankful he did and so is he. We found something I think only these to signs can share and it cant be put into words. We have been through something that tears 10 year marriages apart and though its rough hes right beside me all the way. This is dedicated to you my Love im sorry for being a bitch at times even though I really dont really mean to be and your still here holding my hand, picking me up,helping me recover and loving me like no other.
my name is rosalinda im a women virgo and i have a boyfriend that is a cancer we about to be 2month together i see we have alot in commen but the only problem is that we dont have much to talk about im a really shy girl i dont know if his shy. i actmired him alot espacially when i see how hard worker he is when he took me to his job is really sweet to me he told me that he does not know how to talk to me becuase he said im diffrent from other girls he has 2 daughters and it seems his a really good father he always going to see them and buying them everything they need. but sometime i feel that things could happen becuase he probebly still have feelings for his babymoms and i dont really know whats happening meain while he over there. but i think i like him ode alot and it might turned up to love i just need him to show me more attantion and spend more time with me we hardly see eachother and he live close to me but his always tring to make me do the right thing like sometime i dont feel like going to college and he tells me go and takes me to the train station if he have to. i really need an advice i dont know if we are going to last long or a short term relationship
Wow this is so accurate! I have been involved with a cancer man for 6yrs off and on and although he gets on my nerves I love this man. I have been with other men who treat me so much better but my heart truly belongs to him. He is currently seeing another woman but still professes his love for me. Maybe one day we will be together for good.
This is frightningly accurate! I do have to say Cancers are awesome in bed. Perfect match for a Virgo. He knows all the buttons to push and loves to make me feel good. He puts out so much effort that the competitive side in me surfaces, I don’t like to be outdone. The result? “Porn quality sex” in his words haha
I’m keeping this one around for a while.
Wow..after reading these..I don’t know if I should be excited or scared to date a cancer…lol..I met my cancer friend at work…he can put a smile on my face at anytime anywhere…though he has big ears lol I still think he is soooo sexy and I love watching him work…im going through a divorce and scared to date.
So for now I just want my cancer to be a friend, and if something comes from that the better. But I do fear the whole cancer resorting to some kindof drug or addiction just because of my father. But needless to say my cancer friend doesnt do drugs and really just started to try to drink so lets hope he doesnt like it..lol I do want to have happiness again with someone,and if it happens to be with him I will be greatful. but most importantly I dont intemidate him, which means he will be able to handle me I hope lol…he can be a smart a** at times but for the most part he’s a flirt and sweet talker..
Hi soulwithoutamate,
Reading your story made me think of a story that I read recently of a Cancer guy discussing his painful break-up with a Virgo woman. He says he still loves her very much and wants her back. His name is Andreas and he posted his story on a site called zodiac-traits.com on Nov 14th…could you be his girl? I know that it might sound strange but, to a perfect stranger like me, it sounded like I was reading two pieces to a love story puzzle. I would encourage you to check out the site and go to the compatibility graph and click on Cancer man/Virgo woman and then go down all the way to the “comments” section. His post is about the third to the last. Don’t know, just thought I would try and make a stranger’s day. Please forgive me in advance if I got your hopes up for nothing and good luck to you and many blessings for your future with your Cancer man.
Lisa
I have to agree with many aspects of this article, but only as a general guide. Being a Cancerian man having married a Virgo woman, I must say the relationship was lustfully intense for many years and did not slow down. I found my Virgo wife to be attentive and caring to my needs and desires and I returned the good intentions with my squishy and sensual love with aim to please. The the last 3 years of the marriage I found myself self-medicating to relieve stress derived from the relationship. In the end, interpersonal clashes arrised and we had separated on a few occasions. There were two children to the marriage and they were used to taunt me into returning to her as she could not live without me for too long. Once I left for good she flipped out! The years post separation were the worst years of my life! Literally, it was a nightmare! Looking back now, Virgo and Cancer are very compatible providing they can respect each other and Virgo seems to follow Cancers lead, but individual personalities can sometimes over-ride aspects of the Zodiacs. Cancer will retreat from Virgo’s forceful desperation in attempt to keep her Cancer addiction going and even use passive manipulation. Once the crab’s trust has been broken however, he will crawl under his rock and not come back out. That’s my experience. I have my eye on another Virgo and fingers crossed, she will not do the same.
I am a virgo woman and have been involved with two cancerian men.I have found them both very comfortable and connecting initially,yet at the same time i could not handle the extreme mood swings,and manipulation and guilt trips.I have a son with the recent one and have separated.Unfortunately I was trying to understand his mood swings to then find out he was doing drugs and hiding it from me.I care about him,but I dont trust him.The other ccancerian ao did drugs…and he took a long time to get over.I know I have strong connections with Cancerians but at what cost to my happiness and my sons….when they are weak and turn to drugs,instead of growing a backbone
I am a virgo woman. This is so sad…Hearing these stories has hit a soft spot with me. I was, and still do love with my cancerian ex. I have never connected with anyone else in such a physical, mental, emotional bond as i did with him. He instinctively knew how to make me happy and make me feel good without me even asking him of anything. He was warm, loving, tender affectionate and funny. He was a real sweetheart. He had turned to drugs as well…especially when he broke up with me. He was the most painful one to get over…and I still am not completely over him yet. After he left me, it put a deep hole inside my heart. I knew that he was having problems and i felt so helpless. I even had a psychic dream of him before he left me and everything that happened in the dream became reality a few days later. It has taken me years to get over him….but every time I “think” i am over him, he pops up out of nowhere and proves me wrong.
a friend sent me a link to this page. i’m a cancer and i fell in love with a virgo girl years back when i was 21. it amazes me how accurate your analysis is, once we opened up to each other it was so mind blowing gut quenching intense passion yet so comfortable, easy and instinctively natural. a good chunk of our relationship was from distance and there was a lot of pressure especially since she kept saying she’s not ready yet to get married that i couldn’t deal with and ended up turning to drugs. maybe i came on too hard too fast, maybe i scared her and let her down.. she left me. my family had an intervention for me and called her, she came and held me 8 straight hours through all what i was going through then she walked out the door and vanished. it’s almost 10 years later now, i heard she married and has a child. i was in and out of rehab for a couple of years but i’m finally clean and starting my life..i’m 36 and still in love with her, I feel like I’m incomplete, missing my core, soulless… i guess it’ll take me a bit longer to get over the love of my life. reading this just felt like reading a summery of my lifes journal.
i got great respect for cancer men, im a virgo girl
Hi i am a Virgo woman an my boyfriend is a cancer as well as my lil sister and i been with my boyfriend for a little while now and he drives my crazy sexual and mental but i love every thing about him i guess you will say hes the best i never felt like this before and i know i can be very demanding and criticizing even maybe a little crazy but with him i feel free from drama and stress he lets me know hes opinion on situation and help me realize my so called best friend was using me and might i add he loves his kids ,,,,
My cancer boyfriend and I lived together for two years it was a beautiful two years the best years of my life..he ended the relationship with me just a while back said that I hurt his feelings over his two girls..If you are in love with a cancer man and he has kids of his own know that the love for his childeren runs deep as well as it does for his Mother, and even though he adores you, he expects you to share the same feelings as he does for his loved ones…so it takes alot of understanding from the virgo woman…But if you can deal with that and be extremly careful of his sensitive nature then you can have a beautiful life but remember he is the crab and that shell is tuff as nails and can’t be cracked !
These article actually is quite good and accurate. My boyfriend is cancer and I am virgo. I had almost 100% same situation.So here we go…..
Both him and I agreed that our relationship was extraordinary since at the beginning. He would tell me everything…..
I was usually very cool, diplomatic, and shy, even can say unresponsive with men, but I turned out to be very passionate, and sensual. I was stunned by my love affair with the cancer man.
(He is cancer sign and virgo rising sun, I am virgo and cancer rising sun.) This may be very important for those who are learning astrology.
We met over the internet as we lived in different country. It took at least a year and a half to fall in love between us. It was an unexpected affair, strong bond and passionate.
I later realized that he is so business minded and keep forcing me to work with him. His plan is to keep me under his supervision and makes sure everything is fine. That won’t happen, I had determined as I prefer freedom in my profession.
One day, he found a couple kissing picture in the internet and freaked out; the lady in the picture looks a lot like me. But I knew it was not me. I kept laughing because of his childish attitude. That probably hurt him…He cried while he was talking on the phone. I felt so sorry but just let him go as there was nothing I can do for him. We broke up for about one week. Then he called me desperately even though I forbid me to call my home phone.
He has been always like that…on and off.. later he would call me …a few days after he would be on phone shaking by the strong passion, sometime he would be laughing and making jokes, unpredictable with him. But I am pleased to have him and feeling more secure and deeply in love than ever in my life.
I would love to see him personally. I will see him one day.
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