Cancer Man and Capricorn Woman Love Compatibility

The Cancer and the Capricorn is a live example of opposites attract. This is a severe blend of Water and Earth where none is ready to mix with each other. But surely each one finds the other fascinating as they both have opposite qualities which also give them a chance to learn from each other.

A Cancer man is lovingly tender in nature. He is strongly imaginative and extremely determined person with high aims in life. As a man he possesses a traditional attitude towards women especially his woman. He is quite charming but has a very clever mind at the same time. In a relationship with Capricorn woman, he fulfills her with all the qualities she lacks making her feel complete and satisfied. He gives the warmth of love to cool surface of Capricorn woman and makes her feel more loved and secure. Though mood swings of Cancer man may sound odd to Capricorn woman at times.

A Capricorn woman is generally a very practical woman with wise opinions and generous heart that is always ready to help a needy. At one end she can be ultra-feminine and charming while at the other point she can be icy and aloof. The determination of a Capricorn woman is strong which is topped by her sensible manner. When a Capricorn woman falls for a Cancer man, she is more likely to be very serious regarding the relationship and is wholeheartedly ready to sacrifice her personal needs for her man. But sometimes her cold attitude or strong judgment makes the Cancer male sad.

The Capricorn woman can always prove to be a faithful partner with whom the Cancer man, who possesses a positive attitude can remain content in his life. She admires the qualities of her Cancer man and helps him in exhibiting them whenever needed. Though she cannot exude the amount of warmth that is required by him but she is very devoted and possessive enough to melt away all his insecurities. She can provide answers to all the questions put across by the Cancer guy. In fact she is one woman who helps him in making money and is herself not a supporter of extravagance which in turn gives him a strong financial security that is not experienced by him with any other woman. Since she is not sensitive in nature, she needs to be very careful in the presence of her Cancer man who has got delicate feelings and extreme mood swings.

The Cancer man makes a lovable and kind partner for the Capricorn woman. He has a lot of respect for his belongings and feels extremely happy to possess his Capricorn lady. He stimulates her romantic side with his lovable manner and warmth of security that he exclusively provides her with. He always respects the individuality of his Capricorn female and tries to help her in every possible way. He makes her feel loved and needed that is definitely a new experience for a practical lady like her. Though he is frequently hurt by her insensitivity but tends to forgive her as soon as she apologizes. But when he displays frequent and odd mood swings then she may get mad over these sudden changes.

True love is the royal road walking on which, the Cancer man and Capricorn woman realize that they are All and One! As the Earth of Capricorn woman gives space to the Water of her Cancer man, they enjoy the never ending blossoms of trust and oneness throughout their lives. With each passing day, the sensitivity of Capricorn female is enhanced by the tenderness of the Cancer male, while the reliability and wisdom of Capricorn woman makes Cancer man more stable and secure. They both help each other to brighten up their spirits and make life more charming with their different and sophisticated ways of concern. The differences of these Zodiac Signs support and compliment each other, helping them to discover the part they always lacked and wanted to experience in one or the other way. The proficiency they share in their togetherness is far more stable and practical with all the emotional values then compared to any other Sign duo.

Cancer man and Capricorn woman takes their physical closeness as seriously as they do everything else. Their intimacy is such an experience for them which makes everything around them look more beautiful. Their love making has though got different aspects, as for, the Cancer man physical intimacy is part of emotional involvement while for the Capricorn woman it is practically a mutual trust which takes a long time to build up before she completely surrenders herself in the arms of her Cancer man. But once they both are completely involved in the depth of their oneness the love making is unbelievably harmonious with rich and meaningful taste of love. He gives her such love that stimulates her unknown craving of wanting him more. The experience for both is extremely deep and fulfilling as being opposite in nature the attraction is certainly powerful and passionate one. In fact it is one of the most enriching physical relationships of all the zodiac signs where dreams are actually answered by reality.

There are always some of the problems prevailing in the relationship of the Cancer man and Capricorn woman as they are almost opposite of each other and it takes a long and patient process to understand each other properly. Though she always respects the cautious and determined attitude of her Cancer man and is completely flattered by his tenderness but still his moodiness and irritability makes her uncomfortable. On the other hand, he also loves the stability and wisdom of his Capricorn lady but her insensitivity and rigidity depresses him deeply. To have a better relationship, he should try to control the frequency of his mood swings and she should try to show her compassionate side more often.

102 Comments
  1. Ceecee 6 days ago

    The love of my life was murdered over 10 years ago and I have yet to get over his passing or our 9 year relationship. We were kids, but I was sure that after college we’d marry. There’s something special about Cancer-Capricorn relationships, I was lucky to have met him, he’s the best boyfriend I ever had.

  2. Tshepang March 7th, 2017

    Yaw. I’m a man. A cool type of a cancer man.

    Your crush might not like it cold, and stupidly not engaging to put in the work with someone’s worth if his raw feelings can’t be just pure & simple for the first moment of a flirt with someone he sees no future to date.

    Personally, a transformation from how we are feeling can be it to how do you make us want to feel stronger about a personal need that needs completion, or total outrageous satisfaction.

    Get this. A need needs it’s own 80% focus to get the most out of it, leaving us with a big fat smiles in our faces to show the HUGE appreciation we have for you. Put in the work gently, but beware, there’s that tendency of being tenaciously quick to play into thinking that we want it, when actually it’s that there’s more than what we claim to just want it. So we like to be soft, in a hard way inasmuch as Capricorn is hard, in a soft way.

    A cancer is pretty sensitive. Ever gave your crush a dark chocolate? Believed it or not, we may be warm but isn’t it that we hate sweet things like how we avoid a plague of insecurity? Sometimes, the best potency of anything given to us has to have that calm shot we will fully optimise to enjoy both sides of a personality, and that quality brand of the (expensive) chocolate piece. After all, I’m sensitive, but I’ll always want to prove to myself if I am worth to be taken by you, even on my darkest days would you still give me a dark chocolate to make me love you back like we first?

    That’s on his mind. He wants to find it approachable without feeling insecure, the day the favor needs to come back in full circle when you are, well, very vulnerable. Probably the most expensive moment in our lives to share a quality time.

    All. You. Got. To. Be. Is. To. Make. Him. See. For. What. Is. Your. Compassion. To. Make. Him. Fall. In. Love. With. The. Person. That. You. Are. Truly.

    I’m telling you, attraction isn’t a care to us. We just like way more benefits, without never spreading ourselves thin for anything but what we focus onto doing for 80% most of our time.

    Meaning that…

    … is there by any chance you are related to the work he does?

    … know his family?

    … know what colour makes him, well, really him?

    … know his fears? (Don’t worry, I would love to be asked this question any day. It gets me fired up for doing what I am.)

    … know what he doesn’t care!

    … know what he planned against in life?

    … know what he planned for in life?

    If he tells you, a great chance is that we’d still be sharing words through silence. I am the strong silent type. When I tell you a secret, I assume you know how I take privacy seriously.

    … Yep. That’s all in all for me, and now ask him.

  3. Summer March 5th, 2017

    I have another comment everyone has cheated in a big way or small way I have emotional cheated on one of my partners he was a Leo but come to find out he was cheating on me with my sister emotionally and physically so when it comes down to eat everyone is to not be trusted u can only trust someone if they trust u and love you enough not to question you. If you think that your man or woman is cheating don’t sit there and look stupid and call them out they name leave and let them play themselves in the long run.

  4. Summer March 5th, 2017

    I’m a Capricorn woman 😆 Im with my little baby Micah he is a cancer and I’m 16 a sophmore he is 14 a freshman we both go to the same highschool we went out before in middle school I left so we never got back together he came to my school and as soon as I saw him we started talking again and I never been so happy in my life.

  5. Ahsoka23 February 12th, 2017

    I am a Capricorn woman and I have a crush on a Cancer man. I would like to know how to get his attention.

  6. Harry January 23rd, 2017

    All women cheat just fuck marriage get laid in bangkok accept stds in life fuck the bitches and enjoy life nothing really matters. All punjabi Nurses girls are whore fuck them and dont give a fuck

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      TammimB January 23rd, 2017

      Wait Why did you say Punjabi woman I never mentioned them

    • Summer March 5th, 2017

      U must of had a bad day😕

  7. Tammimb January 10th, 2017

    I just wanted to say that no matter what this article says I will never ever trust Capricorn woman. So much cheating and adultery even when it’s unclear. I just won’t trust them at all, I have a friend who’s a Taurus and has lung Cancer. He found out his Capricorn woman cheated on him for months with his Aquarius best friend. But she is not the only Capricorn woman, I have seen a lot of Capricorns cheat and I just can’t trust them

    • Capricorn girl January 31st, 2017

      Wow! I’m a Capricorn woman and a super hot one too! I was faithful to a lying cheating husband for 24 years! Screw you! Every Capricorn woman and man I know are not cheaters and are amazing!!!!! It’s the Taurus men that are cheaters and aquarius men that are super crazy!!!!!!! Both these signs are abusers against women and narsasistic liars also!! I’ve seen it with all 6 of my girlfriends! Same pattern in these men! I personally know over 200 capricorns and they are the most caring stable of any sign! So are cancer men! I’ve been studying this for the last 8 years! Why don’t you find out the Capricorn woman’s blood type? It it’s 0 they are the cheaters! Not the capricorns to blame!!!! Get your science heath facts straight! Your pathetic!

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        TammimB January 31st, 2017

        Look I understand that you have been through enough but calling someone pathetic isn’t going to fix or do anything. Everything I said was based on my observations, I just felt like i’ve seen enough thats all. Im personally sorry for what I said, and I don’t think every Capricorn is bad I mean I think Actors like Bradley Cooper is an awsome Capricorn. Im a Cancer by the way and this one Capricorn 13 or 14 yr old looks up to me and respects me, he also told me his mother is a Cancer. Also I’ve never met you and I don’t want any bad blood between us.

    • Nia February 5th, 2017

      Yeah you sound like a idiot. I’m a Capricorn woman. And I have never cheated on a man I was with. No matter the circumstance. So to rule out a group of women entirely is just a dumb ass thing to do. Maybe it has nothing to do with the sign, you and the people around you just attract women that are fighting their own demons. Please just say you have t met a Capricorn woman that impressed you. Because all signs could cheat. It’s not a exclusive trait.

    • Peachy February 10th, 2017

      Not all Capi women are that way I might be somewhat of a flirt by nature.Ill always remain loyal and in love with my Cancer mate while he is even incarcerated❤️❤️❤️

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    sammy888 July 30th, 2016

    I’m a Cap Woman who is in a relationship with a Cancer man We met in high school in our freshman year (14 years old) and before hand I wasn’t ready for him he did nice things for me like walking me to bus stop and giving me his generosity and I felt like we had a connection but I second guessed it and that made it much harder Now we are both 21 and I’m very happy that we are togther it wasn’t easy in the beginning because we wasn’t prepared for our challenges that we faced they are not kidding when they say that cancer man and Capricorn woman have differences Sometimes it is hard and I will admit that I can be stubborn or I feel like I’m not getting enough but the truth Is that he gives me everything he has, can give me, and more and still wants to give me more we definately try to work together as a team to help each other be better people so we can grow together I just wish that he was more assertive and just told me that he was In love with me years ago but he held back bc he was scared

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    TammimB March 29th, 2016

    @rauleague Dude she’s married, don’t let her commit adultery. Cheating is wrong on both ends so find someone who is single. JUST NOT HER.

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    jonah tiemann January 14th, 2016

    What this article says is atleast 99.9% true. I\’m a cancer man and ever since I started dating my Capricorn woman, I have experienced depression, mood swings, irritability, and sadness. My girlfriend didn\’t understand my emotional breakdowns until the third month and she finally started to break out of her shell. Rn were 6 months in and me and my Capricorn woman are experiencing one of the best mutual relationships ever and we\’re both only freshmens in high school😂😂😂

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    rauleague April 19th, 2015

    I need advice FROM A CAPRICORN WOMAN!
    I fell in love or obsessed with a capricorn women at my work, but she is married. I think she always tried hinting me to look at her and tried getting my attention, but i never really noticed her or thought of her that way until after working with her for about 4 months. Then i began actually feeling butterflies in my stomach when i would see her and when i would be around her. When we speak to each other i somehow cant stop smiling at her and she would do the same. As though we had a connection. She is very private about her life, so slowly with time i began making small talk to find more about her and she has opened up more, but i still feel that i know so little about her. Her mysteriousness attracts me even more to her. Now its been about 8 months working with her. At about 5 months another male coworker of mine kept hinting me that she would say to him that she really appreciated me working with her and told him to not allow me to leave the company. Eventually i had a conversation with her and she strait out asked me if i was planing on staying or leaving the company, so i replied that if other opportunities came about elsewhere i would probably leave and she spoke under her breath sarcastically that she would hope i did not find some other position. I then began making it obvious to her that i was completely interested in her by trying to talk to her when possible without compromising her job or mine and being professional. I went far as to giving her a nice valentine card that was not out of line and i placed a hidden message using math telling her she was sexy. I dont know if she figured it out to this day. Message was very clever using trigonometry because i knew she was a math major and I am an engineering major. She even began dressing up to work very sexy, but professional . Not the her typical clothing from when i began working with her. I had that urge to dress up for her too more so than usual. I even cooked for all of my coworkers as an excuse to really do it just for her. So i told her i would cook some food for all staff which she knew it was for her. I was surprised when she told me she would bake some cookies for me too as an even exchange for my food. She only made a small bag of cookies and it was part of her lunch and offered me some. I am a cancer man and really want more with her . Something serious, but I dont know if I should continue after her because she is very mysterious in the sense that she leads me on at times more so that other times. Then when i act uninterested in her she begins signalling me again to look at her and flirt and get my attention. I need some capricorn women to give me some advice and see if she might be playing with me or she finds me attractive and just like my attention, but she is scared of an affair happening which i dont want to happen. I also feel that she is so private at times that i feel that she could be separated, but wont reveal her private life for some reason. She has me very confused. At times i have been on the verge of telling her how I feel, but i am scared of rejection and feeling awkward around her afterwards. by the way she is 27 i am 28 and none of us have kids.
    PLEASE SOME ONE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE THANK YOU!

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    Annli August 28th, 2014

    @switch071489. Hmmm she is feeling the same. Jus sit and talk to her. Its the best way. But dont be so direct that can make things worse. 

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    Annli August 28th, 2014

    Not all cancer men r same I guess.  They r moody n hard to understand sometimes.  I met this guy through a friend. It was like love at first sight.  Everything seemed perfect and beautiful Felt so complete with him. It was like all the dreams have come true. He even purposed me. N I said yes. He goes back home for vacation. Ignores me. Didn’t call me.  Didn’t tell me when he’s coming back. I was like maybe he is stressed or something. But den he blocks me on fb. But finally came to know he got married to someone.  Lol. It felt like a nightmare.  Still feels like one. I mean cappy women cant be this insensitive.  I do tell ppl. How I feel. But what this idiot did is out of my understanding. At least be a real man n tell me what happened. My boss is a cancer n we get along jus fine. Been working together for like 10 years now. N another cancer friend, all cool with him. So its hard to say. But I blv every cancer is different.  Not all r moody or cheaters.  They jus play hard jus like there shell. 

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    switch071489 August 24th, 2014

    wlive gotta sa caps are so hard to read and im at the point where im grabing my hair and ripping it out she made the first move cause i wouldent have done anythig. now its a month and a half later were not official but does she want that i know i do but she covers it up so well what am i suppost to do quit toying with me. give me something so im not so damn confused.i try to be nothing but supportive in a relaxinging enviorment we work together she comes over after a shift sits in the recliner so i sit on the floor take her shoes of and rub her feet ask her how her day went. buy her coffee when shes sleepy at work. tickled he the other day apparently she didnt like it refused to give me a goodbye kiss smiling saying that i needed to learn my lesson asked her to forgive me she said id have to find a way so i buy roses that have a card written on it forgive me. gonna try it later but ive no idea if shes as into me as much as when she first tryed to get my number i thought she was kiding she got it after three weeks. now im completely lost and im going crazy wtf do i do i go for it even though i have no idea if she wants a relationship or not whys this crap gotta be so hard to understand what exactly am i doing wrong at this point it feels like im losing it

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    CancerGman July 15th, 2014

    I’m a Cancerian Man with Sagittarius rising (fire- water) but on the inside I’m all Cancer… Who just turned 40. I have been reading all these posts… And I think there is a lot of immaturity at play with some of these posters… In the context that people can and do change with age… Like a fine wine. As a young Cancerian I went through the gauntlet of unbridled emotion… It is true, Cancers feel deep… Deeper than any other sign in the zodiac, we are naturally intuitive, sensitive, and empathic… But with time and age most of us learn discipline, we discover power over ourselves… We pick up everyone else’s garbage… And then must sift down to get to our own.
    I think… Looking back I can say… Due to the insensitivity displayed in the rest of the zodiac… Most true Cancerians have experienced the depths of heartache that only few can imagine. We are a unique Creature with a capacity to love like no other. We may have a hard exterior, or at least we may appear this way… But inside that’s just not the case. Just a fair warning to those interested in a relationship with a Cancer man… Don’t insult us, belittle us, or pick senseless fights with us… All you will plant is resentment and possible/probable defensive retaliation… You have no idea how deep your words or actions can cut… especially if we’ve let you in our heart. Remember, we are emotionally driven… And the power in our emotion is like no other sign… Most of the time when we are cranky or down… It has nothing to do with you, and if it did, say your apologies… But give us space to calm our own waters and recoup our energies. We are well aware of our moods… And the mature Cancerian will have the ability to communicate to you what he feels and needs as well as listen to and discern yours as well… But you have to have the capacity to listen… And then just back off for a minute, even if you don’t understand. Don’t ask us to look in merky waters to clarify something for you we are trying to clarify for ourselves… until we have clarified it for ourselves, our process is much different than yours… just ignore us… Its not hard… Don’t get butt hurt… It will pass, just give us reassurance of your love and then walk away, we will respond to that a lot better than if you’d kept stirring up our Waters infusing your emotion into ours. To my younger fellow brother Cancerians… You know your s*** stinks like everyone else’s… Be aware of your self and your actions.. Nothing is onesided… You cannot control others, at best you can learn to control and work with yourself and your emotional element… Don’t play the victim… Life is all about choices… While we can relate to most other signs in the Zodiac… Not many signs can relate to us… They can barely scratch the surface of your depth. With the extrasensory perception you possess… You cannot expect to be understood the same way as you are capable of understanding… If you want to be understood on deeper levels… Stick within your own sign or element… Water. If your looking for some “strange” lol… That can be fun and exciting… For awhile, until your heart becomes involved. Good luck!
     

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    Deesbaby09 April 5th, 2014

    I met my Cancer man in 1999. After being Devoriced for 4 years and not ready for a serious relationship, he confessed his interest in me which took me by surprise cause he was 24 and I was 38 at the time. I was afraide to enter into a relationship because of our age difference. And only offered friendship, which he accepted. We talked often and really got to know each other. In April of 2000 he asked if we could try dating I said okay and we took it very slow I wanted to be sure that this was good for the both of us. In August of 2008 he asked me to marry him and on October 22nd 2009 we were Married. It was the best decision I have ever made. I have someone who truly makes me happy. And after reading our compatability it all makes sense why we are together and will stay together. Thanks so much Oracle 🙂

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    Leland December 7th, 2013

    Wow as a Cancer male, reading all of these Cancer male comments are depressing. Even worse is, knowing they are true. I am no Angel and have did things that I haven’t needed to do because I felt wronged or slighted. Yes a Cap woman can be aloof and sneaky in her ways similar to what the Cancer does. She is naturally mysterious and cautious in the information she releases. Yes she will keep things from you and probably even lie, especially if she knows you’re lying. She hits the Cancer male exactly where it hurts, in our fear of being alone or second fiddle. The attraction that exists between the two signs is amazing, but it MUST be maintained or it can/will hurt bad. 

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    Elegant-eyes November 7th, 2013

    Im a capricorn woman in a relationship with a cancer man and its got to the point where i want to jus let it go..i understand that traditionally men lead but in our case i have to and he def doesnt want that domination is a big thing with us and yes he is very moody i find it very weird to see a male this way and yes its  kind of annoyin to me its like cmon man up! i try not to let my emotions get the best of me never was the type who argued but with this cancer man i find myself doing these things often hes insecure highly emotionally and controlling..call it cold emotionally withdrawn but i tell it like it is..he was sweet in the beginning and now everything has changed..im willing to let it go but he is not..we have tried to work it out to many times but there is no change to much fighting..our ways and views on things are totally different

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    marco911 September 18th, 2013

    Im a Cancer…i feel like a cancer to any relationship im in. I try to learn from past relationships, but it feels like theres no point in doing anything romantic now a days. I jst recently meet a Cappy women, and shes amazing, I feel like i could be myslef. But im so confused, IDK what she wants from me. I try to be honest and not to moody but it seems like i push people away. Dnt have the many friends cause everyone thinks im weird cause Im not into whats new or cool. Im all about my self and my work. I barely got time to go out and enjoy life. The people i meet are all into the same lame things. But she is different, i want to connect with her more but idk if she does anymore. We been talking for a month now, and idk if to keep talking to her or if she wants to keep talking. I try to spend some time to know her but she always busy. I try to takes things slow but i dont wanto waste my time. So i stop trying. but i still want to try something. can someone please advice :/

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    CancermanYO August 11th, 2013

    I’m a cancer man here, and I completely understand why people find it hard to put up with us. Lets face it cancer males and stop denying it. We are difficult. We mess with the people we love.we Are always hot and cold always sending mixed signals. We confuse and hurt so many people by are ways. Are moodiness is unacceptable yet we can’t help it. It’s terrible side to our wonderful amazing side. Once we can realize we aronion the wrong and stop telling are selfs we are right becuase we are not. We nah be to stop lying and owing up to doing the things we do. Once we can do this it will make our relationships a lot easier. I had a thing with a Capricorn girl, I think I really liked her to but I was so back and forth I couldnt make up my mind and I knew that if wet started a serious relationship my indesiciveness and moodiness was going to ruin it. I didnt want to let her down becuase she didn’t deserve it. I needed time to work on my self before I was ready for this relationship becuase.I know I don’t want to let her down and hurt her

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    @sami May 24th, 2013

    I am dating this cancerian man for off and on 6 years. We are in a serious committed relationship. The first time we broke up, it was because I found messages of him trying to rekindle his relationship with an ex. This hurt me so much. Recently I found him stil subscribed on a dating site. I asked him to delete it n he did so and accepted that it was wrong,but are cancerian men not trustworthy? How do i know this will not happen again! I’m a Capricorn, I have literally left my booming career in another city to come to his city and be with him. I feel like even though we know each other for so long he holds back from me. He is not emotionally connected to me. I sometimes feel like he does not care for me at all Because he gets so defensive n arrogant when I try to explain my feelings that its like he isn’t even listening to how I feel. He says its cos I nag and that pushes him away…n I’m like if you just emotionally connect and give some of ur time n attention I won’t nag! He gets so moody and condescending when we fight N that hurts me so much. He does not know how to make me a priority that’s the worst! How do I get him to stand up to people, especially his parents and say no! This time is for plans I have with my gf? he can also be controlling, is this something i need to get used to? i know he loves me I absolutely know that and I really want to learn how to understand him, I’m so loyal and committed to him I love him completely I want to save my relationship I want to know how to have a more harmonious relationship with him. How can i take charge of my needs without seeming to dominate him? i can’t handle a man who makes no time for me…how do I save us?

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    jan1111980 March 12th, 2013

    I am a Capricorn woman and I have fallen fallen fallen so in love with a Cancer man! He makes me feel so secure and his manliness makes me feel even more like a woman….He swept me off my feet and I find myself able to tell him things that I wouldnt normally tell anyone! At least through text but even lately, I have been opening up more and more. We just had a family outing with my daughters and his daughter which he PLANNED and suggested….I have no problem letting him be the captain of our relationship because he handles everything so smoothly and I can RELAX and not worry….I see him everyday and we cant get enough of each other…Cancer men ROCK!

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    trippleddd February 15th, 2013

    I been with a cancer man for over 16 years.I am a capricorn women.I loved this man,bore his 2 children and all he ever did was give me hell.It was and still is a love/hate relationship.It would take 4ever 2 go through the details of all went on in this abusive traumitizing fearful relationship.I will say..through it all..I stoock by his side,believing if we both gave our 100,we can actually deal with this.But he was a manwhore,he made me carry his demons.Like the reading says..Yes I had my part in calling him names,after he would leave me emotionally ,physically drained.But I still never gave up all the way.Its still hard 4 me 2 start a new relationship,cause I am use 2 his agression and control.And I hate it…I love this man with every inch of my being.And I know he has graveyard love 4 me as well,but he doesnt shile how it until we are intimate and that hurts.He had abusive issues,went 2 prison paid his debt 2 society.I waited on him faithfully,he gets out ,and becomes a manwhore.And threatends 2 kill me if I ever left.When I did leave he was scorned ..declared war on me and did the unthinkable.I dont have time in a day 2 describe the horror and torture and terror he did.I will say I turned 2 God.And God taught me 2 forgive and still love now..he is using my faith 2 still use me and use tacticts 2 keep me near.I WANT MY LIFE BACK FROM THIS CANCER Man.HE WAS 35 AND I WAS 22 when we met back in 97.he is over obsessive,he cheats and lies,he uses ppl 2 harm me.I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO OTHER THAN FORGIVE AND KEEP THIS THORN IN MY FLESH FOR THIS CANCER SOUL.HE says if I leave him he will kill himself.I TRY 2 GET HIM 2 talk 2 my pastor and he refuses…so he vents out his demons online.Well Im glad I have some awareness as 2 why our journey was so opposite and yet we still remain close lovers.ITS LIKE A STOCKHOLM SYNDROME I CANT EXPLAIN…AM I FOOLISH 4 LOVING STILL GOING THROUGH WITH THIS..OR DO I HAVE  NO CHOICE..HE WILL DO EVERYTHING IN HIS PATH 2 make it his benefit that I never leave him,Im serious.B/4 anybody critisizes u must hear the full story. This relationship had alot of phycological, mental, physical traumitizing abuse.Now its back 2 mental.Dear God I hope we can just be parents…its still not working out.Yet we still see each other nomatter how much we fight.Cancer men r pussywhooped over Capricorn women…PLAIN AND SIMPLE..I DONT SAY THIS WITH ARROGANCY..I SAY IT WITH CONCERN AND HUMILITY.

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    ret2495 September 15th, 2012

    @lockbox30
    Hi Trey,I feel exactly the same way about me and my Cancer guy. He is very shy and very emotional. But because he won’t speak to me, I become afraid of stepping out of my shell too! Sometimes, I feel that he doesn’t care at all for me. :(I’m sorry to hear that you feel as though she’s mad at you. Do you think that maybe she’s upset at you because she wants to be approached by you? From my perspective as a Capricorn, I get frustrated with the fact that my Cancer man will not approach me, but rather make eye contact with me instead. The most he has done is sit near me and even when I have started the convo, he doesn’t say much. Do you think she loves you? Because you should go for it, you’ve got nothing to lose if you know that other person shares the same feelings. I know it’s difficult to be brave and bold and take the first step, but you’ll never know unless you try right? I think as Capricorn’s we love your sweet and kind nature, but we also want some confidence at times too! I know it is hard to ask for someone to be completely different from the way they are, but if you talk to her and ask what’s troubling her, you’ll find out what’s really going on. It may be that she isn’t upset at you at all, but rather something else. Let us know how it goes and all the best!Laura. 

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    lockbox30 September 14th, 2012

    im a cancer man and im in a relationship like this we love each other but its not easy to break the ice im not even sure we did yet but it always seems like shes made at me an i go home and feel sad and i ask my self what  happen and how can i fix this because i love very much i just wish there was a way to feel more confident 

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    rhia123 September 13th, 2012

    Some advice for anyone interested: The biggest thing I’ve learned about my husband (he’s a cancer, I’m a Cap), which has helped my marriage a lot is, when he gets defensive its not because he’s being prideful, but because he is truly trying to do his best. I’ve learned to spell out for him, in very clear English -without fluff or excess feelings but just matter of fact- “here’s what I want you to start doing.” This might sound bossy, but once he understands exactly what you want, he (if he’s worth keeping) will oblige.
    Really, I think good relationships have more to do with self-respect and boundaries more than it does zodiac signs. I’m 29 ,and have noticed most 20 and 30 year olds get involved in all this drama. Its crazy. At work I have to tell these men I work with, albeit apologetically, that I do not have adiquet patients to listen to their personal relationship dramas. Healthy relationships is first respecting yourself and second, only settle for a good man, and a real man. Real men are rare, and this is an American woman’s perspective. ***By the way, self-respect includes being the kind of woman a good, real man would want to marry, –it starts there!!!!

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    rhia123 September 13th, 2012

    I have been married to a Cancer man for 7 years. What I love most about him is he tries hard to please me. Also, he has been nothing but encouraging as I’ve moved up in my career. Every career woman should be married to Cancer, who will love you through your long work hours, and spend lots of time with the children. This is a generalization of course, there has to be a lot in place for a marriage to work, but over all, you have to be married to the right person, and for me, he has been perfect for me. PS- he admires me a lot. A lot of men would be too prideful to be married to a woman who gets paid twice more than he, but not him. Good luck to everyone in finding your perfect sun sighn partner!!!

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    ret2495 September 11th, 2012

    Ok, I was hoping to make some progress with my Cancer male today, but there was no such luck. 🙁 I just want to know if he’s leading me on, because I don’t understand his behaviour at all. I need a fellow Cancer to explain his actions to me. He entered the lecture late and sat ‘right’ behind me (he has always sat near me in some way, as a way to create intimacy between us). Anyhow, I decided to say something (take the reins on this relationship), since he hasn’t been brave enough to talk to me yet and it has frustrated the hell out of me. And I said kindly, that he hadn’t missed much of the lecture, despite him arriving about 20mins late. It was true, since we hadn’t covered anything of real substance. And he was of course, a bit surprised with me talking to him. He appeared to blush a bit and was shocked. 🙂 Then, he tells me that he had decided to come, since he had missed the last two lectures. I knew this, because I had searched for him every time, in the hopes of sitting next to him and striking a convo. But I have been peeved about the fact that he doesn’t seem to commit to his studies, since I apply myself completely (unless he has been sick or something), but he neglected to say and I didn’t want to seem rude by asking why. Anyways, what really got to me was the fact that after our lecture finished, he didn’t even bother to try to pursue our convo further!!! He simply saw a girl from class (a friend) and started talking to her on the way out. Is this guy interested or just playing mind games with me? For the whole semester we have done nothing but flirt and he has gave me every indication that he’s interested by sitting near me. But he doesn’t seem to want to talk to me, even when I made things easy for him by starting a convo today! Is he just too shy??? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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    ret2495 September 7th, 2012

    @keenlam Thankyou so much for your advice! And I am open to feedback on Cancerian-Capricorn relationships in general too. Yes, you are right. We are both quite scared and nervous around eachother, which makes it hard to break the ice. And I will definitely try to maintain a positive attitude when I am around him. I really feel as though I could open up to him emotionally, which is a rare thing for me, since I am often a very private person when it comes to personal matters. I am all up for commitment and am very loyal to both my friends and family, so if I work out that he feels the same, I will be very pleased! Yeah, I have thought about what I should talk about when I encounter him and uni is definitely a top one there, since I want to know how much time we can spend together by looking at our timetables. He is currently only in two of my classes (but I am grateful that I get to see him at all this semester!). Thanks again and if you ever have any queries/questions about Capricorns, I’d be happy to help! 🙂

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    keenlam September 7th, 2012

    @ret2495
    Hi Laura.
    I am not a Cancer but my dad is and I like to think I inherited some Cancerian traits from him. Also, my mom is a Cap, so my advice will be mostly based how I see from their relationship (not my personal experience).
    Sounds like you and he both have insecurity issues. First of all, be optimistic whenever you and he have time together. This positive aura will bring some sense of security and help him open up to you. Secondly, be a planner. Cancerians are not famous for their ability to “leap without thinking” (that would be Aries or Sagittarius). Since you two are both studying, you may find it natural to talk about study plans, assignments, exams, etc. Again, this will help bring a sense of security to both party without revealing much of your intention towards relationship. 
    However, may I also suggest that you take time to figure out the level of commitment that you guys want into this relationship. As commonly agreed on in astrology, Cancerians are family-oriented, great nurturers. I find it very true, Cancerian men make great dads. So when it comes to long-term, committed relationship with the promise of children, you will be blessed to have a Cancer husband around.
    That’s pretty much all I can offer. Wish you all the best.
     

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    ret2495 September 5th, 2012

    Hi everyone!I was wondering if any Cancer males could give me (this Cappy in her 20’s) some friendly advice about a Cancer guy? I have recently met this fine and extremely handsome Cancer man (the attraction is out of this world!) and I can tell insitinctively that he is a very emotional kind of man (as indicated in the compatability article as well). However, this is the first time I’ve encoutered a Cancerian before and boy do I find them confusing, if not frustrating! I think it is because I am so traditional in the sense that I would like to be chased by him and have him make the first move. But he simply hovers near me (occasionally he has caught me by surprise in the library) and I sense this electricity between us, but he does not utter a word to me! I sense that he likes me – we flirt a lot in my lectures at uni and he has even broadly smiled at me! And I know the simple answer would be to just approach him and say something, but I am so afraid of exposing my vulnerability to him! I am scared of how he will react and whether he is just playing games with me – my last relationship with a Scorpio ended quite badly, with me having ended up quite hurt by the experience, so I am reluctant to make the first move anymore. He is clearly indicating interest in me, but I am so scared! :(Can someone please suggest a safe approach for this shy Cappy, in order to gain this Cancer man’s trust? He simply will not come out of his shell – we can’t get past the flirting stage! – and I am not usually scared (I’m quite extroverted and have a good circle of outgoing friends too) so I have no idea why I am finding it so difficult. I also keep blowing opportunities I have to talk to him, since I expect him to say something, but he never does! And I hate having the responsibility thrusted upon my shoulders! :(I would appreciate any kind words of advice!Laura

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    SassyCap August 2nd, 2012

    To Supernova
    Thank you so much for your comments on here.  I genuinely are grateful for what I have heard (breathed a big sigh of relief).
    I have been in a relationship with a Cancerian for just over 7 months and I am so blissfully happy.
    I find him to be extremely patient, gentle, considerate and kind.  Also very intelligent and thinks before he acts.  I have never seen him have a mood swing.  His ex wife says he sulks… I have never known this.
    He is the most patient and caring father to his son, and treats my son with respect and kindness.  We do not live together, and only see each other mainly at the weekends.   I used to get annoyed with him, because when we are together he is attentive and well… wonderful, but when we are apart, he seems to forget I exist.  Because of baggage from past relationships, this used to hurt me and make me suspect that he may be playing the field while we are apart.  But I no longer believe that to be the case.  I now see him as a independent and confident person.  I believe that he does need his own space and feels secure and confident enough in our relationship to have his alone time, without feeling like he has to keep shining his apples with small talk or that he needs constant contact because he wonders what I am up to.  So now, finally he has taught me to trust again and to give me enough space to be myself and to have other interests of my own.  When we are together we are constant companions and we enjoy our time together immensely.
    There are of course certain little things about him that aren’t quite what I would like, but as a whole he is so worth having in my life that I make allowances and also accept that there are undoubtedly things about me that annoy him too.
    As a capricorn woman, I tend to be a little reserved, it is always him that reaches for a kiss or takes my hand in his.  It is not that I am cool…  I would love to be the initiator, but there is something in my makeup that makes me fear rejection, so I come across as a little undemonstrative, and yet, I know when he kisses me, or takes my hand, he knows how much I welcome it and want it.  I need to overcome my “shyness” somehow, and I think my cancerian love is the one that will help me to do that.  I just hope he has the patience to help me work through it and that my aloofness does not leave him feeling like I don’t feel the same as he does.

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    Will_Rogers July 16th, 2012

    I’m a Cancerian man … We’ll teenage boy – but anyway i’m 15 my birthday is july 20 , 1997 and after reading this i want a Capricorn women when i grow up or now .

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    Lois-French June 5th, 2012

    I started talking to a Cancerian man about a year ago and weve gone from strength to strength. He’s charming, sensitive, intuitive and wise. When we talk I feel I can be open with him more than I’ve felt able to with anyone else.. Being a Capricorn talking about my feelings or weaknesses of mine is almost a taboo but with him it’s easy. He’s so positive all the time, I could be in the stormiest mood ever and he’d still make out that he is pleased to see me. I normally apologise after for my coolness and I think he’s glad I do. To be honest I havn’t seen many of his mood swings there have been some times where he’s down, but in these moment I take a leaf from his book and try and show him the positive side of things. I think he only considers us as friends and if he doesn’t I dont know whether he would say but honestly I think I have fallen for him. Now I am just stuck about whether I say anything or wait for him. Or do anything at all I value our friendship highly but I keep thinking about him as more than friends.

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    Rschneider7789 March 2nd, 2012

    @Noreen Are you done? Do you feel better? I hate ignorance. This goes out to everyone: never judge someone unless you have the mental competence to do so. Did your father not teach you to look before you leapt, Noreen? If you want to judge all Cancer men by the actions of a few, then by all means please do. That’ll help the good Cancer men like myself to steer clear of your train wreck. Cancer men prefer to deal with their mood swings alone. We go into our shell until it’s safe enough to come back out. If you try to pry that shell open and you get pinched, do you blame the animal for protecting itself? Common sense dictates you should leave said animal alone. There’s a reason we scuttle away and hide in our shell ladies. We don’t want to hurt you so we take our storm and go. If you chase a tornado and casualties result, do you blame the tornado? No, it’s your own damn fault.
     
    I’m a good Cancer man and I am ashamed of nothing! Cancer men look to their mothers a great deal. If he has a bad experience with mommy dearest he’ll see that in all women and hurt them before they hurt him. He’s scared to love! There’s a way to fix Cancer men, but it takes a long time and an intuitive and patient woman. That’s why Cancer men go good with water and earth signs. I was wicked and I’d cuss at my family and friends, abandon them like I just met them, I was a horrible person. Shattered and broken by my father who verbally and physically abused me and mistreated my mother and I became vile. I hurt my mother because my father would hiss in my ear. After a while I found out who was lying. I confronted my father offering forgiveness for his sins. He denied ever hurting me saying he had my best interests at heart. Bullshit! I threw his ass out the door and told him I was done with him. I have been healing with the help of my family. My mother is an awe-inspiring woman. After everything I said to her, all the years she has housed me and I’ve drained her financially, after all the times she has wanted to throw me out because I hurt her, she has never given up on me. My father has never apologized, has tried to buy my love, and hasn’t spent a dime on me. He has my mother fix his mess. So I give back. To the women who are truly good I lavish them with my love, honesty and respect. I protect them from cheaters and build them up emotionally. So no, not all Cancer men are horrible. I don’t cheat. I won’t so much as look at another woman even in the dating process. I’m sometimes dramatic, but I work on it. I love attention, but I hate feeling even remotely unfaithful. I am a Leo mars and venus and I NEED attention. But I’m a Cancer Sun, Virgo moon and Cancer Rising with Capricorn dominating my birth chart. So though I need attention I don’t seek it from the opposite sex too often. I get it from my guy friends or I shower those few special ladies in my life with some attention. I never let them get too close though. If they do I back off. I want to learn about the sensual arts, and even become an expert on massage for my future spouse. Nothing will mean more to me than her happiness. The reasons I will marry for are to solidify my bond with my lady love, let the world know our commitment, and let her know my commitment is forever. Yes everything I do has a motive as it pertains to my kindness. I LOVE to give and feel needed, but Cancers need constant reassurance. Is giving back too much to ask? Sorry, if I’d bust my ass to show you that nothing and no one on Earth means more to me. You’re too immature to handle a Cancer man, Noreen, other wise you’d know all this. To all you ladies bashing Cancer men, our scars run deeper than our skin. Wounds heal with time, but even faster with help and a little TLC. Don’t be lazy, if you want a great man you’re going to have to work for him. If you just want him to be perfect when you meet him then read closely: you’re looking for Mr. Right Now and not Mr. Right.

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    initro January 23rd, 2012

    Wow! I have read all of the statements that were posted before this post and 1st of all I have to say hah, hah, hah lol!!!…… Aaah! now…if we took a little of somthing from some of the statements posted previously here and pieced them together, then we could have some truth. Where should I start. I am a Cancer man and I have family member’s that are Cancer men and some of them have cheated (but no sign is exempt from this) and they’re not very moody, some Cancer men and woman might get a little upset with me but I have to share a Cancer secret one that deals with the moodiness and this is somthing that no zodiac reading ever mention or might not be aware of and this is that the Cancerian male and female that can be moody have this trait just from merely being emotionally drained. Highs and lows of emotions that run deeper than any ocean, makes this particular sign at times tapped out emotionally and when this happens the crab becomes emotionally irritable and cranky until the Cancerian recharges and then you have your jolly Cancer back so just be a little patience and show some love and the reward will be great. Just imagine being a person that often worries, this is what some Cancer’s do (because some Cancer’s love things to be perfect) this is why reassurance is in order until the crab feels safe with you, then he’ll come out of his shell. After true trust is asstablished reassurance isn’t needed in such a repeticious way. Once you have captured the trust of a Cancerian, mood swings will dwindle away and your life with your Cancerian will become as normal with a Cancer as it would with any other zodiac sign (but if the Cancer never feels secure then things can be uneasy) but once real trust is felt, a little possesiveness might erupt because you are now part of a very small privledge’d group of people that this Cancer feel is trust-worthy, and we have already established that Cancerians do not let too many people in their inner circle because of the fear of being hurt because of being so sensitive and Cancers can be extra senstive because Cancers can be extra loving and expect the same in return or will feel jipped (in other words we believe in give and take) . You must remember crabs have hard shells to protect against harm but are soft on the inside, which means a loving and warm person is alive on thee inside…this is why the crab is the representative of the Cancerian sign, hard outside, soft inside. Furthermore Cancer’s can be touchy and emotional more so than any other zodiac sign so previous interactions in life that might not have went so well makes this person more fearful of people or unsure more than any other zodiac sign, more untrusting and more uneasy to make a commitment in a relationship all just from the fear of being hurt because of what we might of percieved as being troubleling from bad past experiences. Now! with that being said all Cancer’s do not share all the basic Cancer traits just as all Capricorn do not share all of the Capricorn traits, most of the time a person might incorporate a few strong traits from their zodiac sign that they belong to. I on the other hand had all of the traditional traits of a Cancer male so this is why I can speak so easily on this. I had to work on the moodiness trait in my teens but I have completely overcome this and if I feel irritated I just take a little time to myself and communicate this to people close to me (everyone needs a little alone time, sometime no matter what sign you belong to) but as far as male Cancers being cheaters this is not at all a Cancer’s trait. Cancer men by zodiac law are the very least likely sign in the zodiac to cheat! we are family orientated, family men that only want one woman to share our lives with but there are always exceptions to the rule of coarse all different zodiac sign members have our own personal experiences with other zodiac sign members but there just that! our own personal experiences so I would never ban out a complete zodiac sign especially a sign that I am supposed to be compatible with because of a few bad apples…I hope that my post might have answer’ed some questions that needed to be answer’ed because for the most part us Cancer men are loving, charming, warm, kind hearted, attentive, old fashion men and I appreciate you taking the time to read this, my short book 🙂 Oh! and by the way I am not a cheater and I find cheating repulsive.

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    rubimarquez October 19th, 2011

    As time went by, I came to realize that there’s something in me as a cappy woman that draws them cancer males and females to me which from the very start I would never be able to see it coming… They are emotional, yes, they are clingy people but I find them very very protective.. i think one of the downsides of the cancer zodiac is that they cannot hold big issues to themselves which i find very frustrating, most especially when they got caught of their wicked sins…… they cheat alot… i know i hurt them most of the time because of my harsh judgement but i feel so amused that they seem like they can’t evr forget me…

    Just recently i met this cancer guy who charms them all and i know my being mysterious caught his attention… it’s cute that he always asks what is goin on inside my mind.. and he knows how to play my game when i try to play his …. he tried everything to seduce me but i resist it hard cause he has a girlfriend… ugh…

    To all cancer men out there…

    WE CAPRICORN WOMEN KNOW HOW TO SACRIFICE OUR PERSONAL
    NEEDS FOR YOU… JUST DONT CHEAT CAUSE WE CAN NEVER EVER TOLERATE SUCH DOING…JUST BE PATIENT AND DO UNDERSTAND THAT WE ARE COLD-NATURED CREATURES AND IT IS UP TO YOU GUYS IF YOU CAN BREAK OUR SHELL TOO… DONT THINK MUCH OF YOUR PERSONAL DEMANDS BUT RATHER RECIPROCATE THE STRENGTH THAT CAPPY WOMEN PUT INTO THE RELATIONSHIP.. WE CAN BE VERY VERY LOYAL AND DEVOTED… JUST BE STRONG AND DONT LET YOUR EMOTIONS GET THE BEST OUTTA YOU…

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    Blueeyedbrat October 10th, 2011

    @SkyyBlue Im recently involved in a relationship with a cancer man and Im a Capricorn women, I see all the things in him that your saying your man is to you and all he does for you, thank you for sharing your story, Im realy liking this new guy I found and I think you should rethink leaving your guy, if you are so good together why leave. I always say dont fix it if its not broken. If you dont know what to do…do nothing. Good luck to you and your Cancer man, he sounds wonderful. Thanks again for sharing

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    SkyyBlue September 25th, 2011

    ^Forgot to mention that yes, I am a Capricorn. I just want a happy beautiful ending….not hurting my dear Cancer man. He said he’ll be alright bc he’s been thru a lot of things, and even responded to my long text saying “I’ll always be right here for you, there’s no need for you to cry”. UGGGGGHHHH what is wrong with me

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    SkyyBlue September 24th, 2011

    I gotta say I’m pretty amazed at how much shyt-talking there is about Cancers, but then again I have been dealing with an Cancer man who’s not that young (over the age of 25). Stupidly, I recently broke up with him, but throughout our r/ship (a lil over a year, incl 8 months in jail where i stood by him in support, and no he is not a thug), I had YET to see mood swings Cancers are known for. All I’ve seen is INCREDIBLY SWEET behavior, calling me in the morning when I had early shifts, loving touches, massages when I least expected them, gifts (I hated so many gifts, but it is his nature), encourages me to go out with friends and keep my guy friends bc he trusts me, massages on my stomach when I had cramps, the BEST and most intimate kisses, and sex just made me feel so….queen-like. His friends had always been “dude are you okay? You’re bugging..” because he is soooooooo in love with me. But I broke it off because I wasn’t sure if I loved him back enough, and I had doubts if he was the one because I felt we are so incompatible in interests and drives (I love someone who is passionate about SOMETHING aside from love), and I don’t feel intellectually challenged which had always been crucial thing for me. And even after that day, when I started to cry (which is something I HAAARDLY do publicly), he asked me why are you crying and started kissing my cheek and forehead and then my lips….so I don’t know WHAT type of Cancer men some of you are dealing with, but they are sooo soooo special.

    Since this happened a couple days ago, I’ve just taken a couple days to really assess myself between tears because he’s too perfect and supportive and loving of a man to pass up. Since I PERSONALLY am a mess with my fam, friends, school/career, my guess is it is definitely my issues that are doing this. I need to fix my mind and heart (and let go of old crushes too) and tell my instincts to calm down….100% pure love is standing in front of me!!!

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    Bettiboop August 22nd, 2011

    Capi woman married to Cancer man for over 22 years. I am aloof, detached, insensitive to his emotional neediness. We really could be better off as friends. He has cheated throughout the marriage anf honestly I was willing to let him go with drama. Sex Addicts! They dont have alot of friends cause they are constantly tryin to have sex. Its the way they express themselves. Friends are secondary if they are in a relationship. To the person who said they are nosey….yes extremely. They are so scarey to step out of the box, critical and judgemental of anyone who does not fit in their world. They are a drag to go out with once they have been in the relationship for more than 2 years. They hold onto pain and drag it for the rest of their lives. Yes they have some good traits, but so do I. Predicted comments”well if hes so horrible blahh blahhhh blahhh” , the sign has nothing to do with it, your bitter n angry. No I friggin exhausted and want peace. I am like just be with a woman who likes to have her man around her 24/7 and loves to cuddle n argue over stupid things like which direction to go to get to the new store. I mean really I have told him that I would help him find a new woman….just let me go.

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    ShayCapri August 21st, 2011

    After reading this article, I don’t understand how some of you come to the conclusion of, “Now I know why my cancerian guy is soooo psycho!!!” I can see why some of these Cancer guys are getting pissed.

    I’m a Capricorn female too of course. I’ve dated two Cancer men. First one was 3-years ago and he was indeed psycho…but I’m guessing it’s because he was bipolar and a coke head. But just a guess! Yes, he was a liar, druggy, and a cheat. And somehow I was so blind and dind’t know any of it. We were boyfriend/girlfriend for almost 5-months (shortest relationship I’ve ever had). He was very sweet and charming but definitely Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde and there were times where he would actually scare me. Do I think it has anything to do with his sign? Probably not–dude had problems.

    Now I’ve been dating another Cancer as of recent for about 6-months. It’s not serious, but not super casual. He totally fits the description above but I don’t think he’s crazy in any way. Yes, he gets moody and gets his feelings hurt easily–he’s very honest and likes to talk about his past. I really like him. He’s definitely my opposite, but that’s what I like about him. I can actually talk to him about anything and he tries to understand; also, he’s very intuitive. He can be hot and cold sometimes…but let’s be honest ladies, that’s most guys.

    I think a lot of you need to remember there’s much more to a person than their sun sign. There’s a lot of other variables besides when someone was born but also how someone was brought up etc.

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    Buroni-Sr. July 15th, 2011

    Almost forgot, ily ashley regardless of what some fuckin zodiac says we controll how we make it and we’ve made it pretty damn far. I mean homelessness, a son, cheating, break ups and now a home, marriage pretty soon and a communication that is so hard to duplicate. Yeah we both have our trust issues but we’ll always have those. Its apart of being a human. But the most important part of my day is three things. Waking up next to you and Jr smiling at me, making 1 move forward in our life together to better our trio and going to sleep next to you to wake up again and see you. Everything else that’s not the trio which is me u and Jr is irrelevant real talk. Ily you both fuck everything else.

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    Buroni-Sr. July 15th, 2011

    Okay I’m a 20 yr old cancer male. Id like to state that and this is only going off what I’ve read from the capri women, you guys seem the most fucked up. Yea I’m emotional but not like that and definitely not for no reason. I been with my capricorn love going on 2 yrs and we’ve been through a lot of shit. Yeah we’ve both cheated fuck who did it first but if you must know she did. We have a 4 month old son and shits rough but that’s just about everybodies life. Yea I get a lil sad but trust me a lot of times its not for no reason. Capri women are fuckin rude and are the kind of gurls who and not all of them but most, want a man at home and a fuck on the side. I don’t think that all this emotion in me has to do with a zodiac sign but more of how I’ve lived and how everyone knows I’m loving and seems to fuck the trust up. Selfish. I’ve pretty much changed everything and cut everyone off for this capri woman I love. I mean yeah I was an ass when I was younger but I met her and she gave me a reason to ckum out of my shell because regardless of how u feel or what you say most of you capri woman don’t put in the shell breaking effort that’s needed. You expect so much and give so little. Again this. Has nun to do with every capri woman just the ones who rplied negatively. Yeah we get attached cause most capri women aren’t up front and say this is just a fuck. I’ve had some capri women do that and I had no problem wit it. Just be up front. Because regardless ur still a lot like us. Ur. Jealous. Selfish and sexually open for pretty much whateva to find that one dude or gal you so desire. So stop with the reject ass stereo types and put in some fuckin REAL effort and see what u get back.

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    Ebyu July 4th, 2011

    That was a great enlightenment! And a big relief. I was at d verge of mental and emotional crash trying to figure who had lunacy between a cancer man I was dating and myself. I hope more studies on the cancer sign will rank talking-without-thinking as 2nd to mood swings in the order of weaknesses possessed by the cancers. My cancer man looked straight into my eyes to tell me that the fact I have such a higher number of suitors is an indication I am a cheap girl, that was his way of hitting on me. On our first date he ‘quarelled’ me wit emotionally-charged voice&gestures the reason why the governor of d state he lives has not proved true to His manifestoes! He wants me to change my car&even arranged for that without consulting either me or my purse just within weeks of meeting me. His stinginess has a tang of meaness&cruelty: he would rather have me sell my house instead of providing temporary accomodation for d purpose of furnishing my house! I was drifting out from capricorn class, lamenting why caps have to work for everything til i met a cancer and d repulsions: then it dawned on me what we caps have is GOLD. To all u crabs out there PUT UR BACK&UR HEAD INTO IT!

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    lynn.logg23 June 24th, 2011

    I sooo agree with alot of the comments on this relationship. I’ve been in a relationship with a cancer man on and off for over a year…it started off as being just a fling but neither one of us were really the type to do that for very long. So for the last 7 months we’ve been going steady. yeah we have our ups and downs but it seems at the end of the day we love each other more and more…working thru every little argument. I’ve never been more connected to a man the way i am with him

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    tryittheysaid June 4th, 2011

    Let me tell you about cancer men. I am one and 51 years old and have had lots of woman and been married once.
    The whole problem here is lack of communication period and we are to blame because we don’t speak out enough in the right ways and just say what it is we want and everyone here has great things to say and that is the only reason I am even writting this but like someone said there has to be more put into this with a serious reading from someone that really understands this stuff more if you are trying to find answers to a relationship.
    I was an asshole and and did as I dam well pleased growing up and flirted with every woman I came in contact with and it was wrong because most of that time I was in a relationship. I cheated also.
    Now as an older man I see what everone is saying about cancer men and it is pretty much me.
    Age and knowledge and wisdom now sets me apart from being a typical cancer male and now I can find that special someone and not make any of those stupid mistakes that I made as a young stupid cancer male.
    I am seriously looking for a mate and am taking my sweet time to find her and doing all my homework before I jump into anymore relationships. I have figured me out and now I want someone that has her figured out. We all want true love and I thought I had it a couple of times but they left me and that’s par for the typical cancer also. We hangin there until the blood startes flowing and hoping things will get better and I even went to the shrink with one woman and the shrink told her we shouldn’t be together and she left, fuck the shrink because we could have made it work or at least I believe that.
    We hang hard and love the greatest but young cancer men take heed and listen to this for it is real. I can not believe how far they have come with the studies on horoscopes, amazing.
    They got me pegged or had me pegged I should say. Big difference between young and old cancers, wisdom, age and knowledge and I have built businesses and use to think I wanted to be like king soloman but it was all chasing after the wind.
    God bless one and all.

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    Ask Oracle May 14th, 2011

    @Michael Are you sure you are asking the right question? Your question should be — How can I experience this beautiful thing called Love with this woman?

    Simple answer is — By developing a CAPACITY and a CAPABILITY to experience a powerful Love.

    Be always willing to express your feelings/needs in a non-demanding/non-controlling ways. Being truthful, forgiving, honest, disciplined, diligent etc. That is basically being aware of what you are doing/saying and why?

    Are you in a hurry? But buddy Love takes a lot of time and patience. It will test you to greatest extremes. All the best 😀

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    vermonster777@yahoo.com May 13th, 2011

    I am a cancer man, i recently met the woman i believe to be my soul mate. my moon is sagittarius, my venus gemini. Her signs are Cap woman, gemini moon, sagittarius venus. All the other aspects (or most) are opposite. In the chart with the lines in the circle, hers is the same as mine but opposite. I met her the last 2 days i was in costa rica, i came back to vermont (my home) and am selling all my belongings to go back and find her. I have 2 weeks when i arrive to get her to fall in love with me and NEVER want to leave me. I would NEVER leave her, I really mean that. I’ve read above a lot of negative things said about Cancer men, and I can definitely see where they’re coming from. But I used to be moody when I was younger and have somewhat conquered that. I am by no means perfect, but i have overcome a LOT of my old selfish ways. What I am asking you is: Do you have any tips on how I can sweep this Capricorn lady off her feet?

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    robertknight2010 April 18th, 2011

    As a Cancer man I take some of what I read as bullcrap. Yes we can be moody or sulk, or we can be disconected at times. Yes, we have a lot of female friends, but we don’t sleep with them all. We have a pleasent nature about us that females like, It’s part of our charm and part of our sign, we like the attention. We don’t like to be hurt. We give so much of ourselfs that to be cheated on, or hurt leaves a hole. We usually push this person away from us forever once this hurt happens, and we like revenge, so we will strike back if necessary. But what you get in return is pretty special too. You get a guy who his in to you sexually, emotionally, financially (we are great at making money, most millionairs are Cancers) and is the best father you could ever have a child with. An yes Cancer’s may cheat, but if they get the from any mate the emotional security we need we would never cheat. We are emothional beings, we are the mother sign of the zodiac. It’s very simple. Keep us emotionally happy, which includes sex (we view sex in emotional terms, not physical terms) and we will give you the world. We love to give, we love to make you feel good about you, because if you do we feel good about us. I married my Cappy girl a few months back after a year of dating. She is the opposite of me in so many ways, but I like this, I learn so much from her. Yes, we have had some blow ups, and yes I’m always worried she will be unfaithful. This kills us, because we give so much we believe others should never hurt us, we think we are the best and therefore deserve more, deserve never to be hurt like this. Anyway, my Cappy girl has figured somethings out and to keep the relationship moving forward, peaceful and noncofrontational she understands my need for emotional security, just as I understand her need for positive reinforcement, encouragement, financial security and extra special kindness. I’m a few years older then her and have been married before so I think this helps me. As a Cancer I’m intuitive to the world around me and I don’t miss much. Having many female friends over the years also helps, you learn things that help out. I know what to say or the questions to ask, when a hug is necessary or whatever, and this, some say is Cancer minipulation, I say it’s using all my abilities to my benefit, help me get what I want. Since Cappy girls don’t like conflict I’m able to help her achieve this while getting what I would like too. Lastly, the sex is amazing!!! From the begenning we felt it and it is there everytime. Fire burns hot, and it helps us get over the little problems that come up. Seriously, my Cappy and me have a great relationship, I couldn’t be happier. : ) (unless she cheats, then I’m gone…)

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    Cap-woman April 13th, 2011

    I wrote earlier as cap-aquarius cusp woman and since than my cancer male has asked for a relationship comitted might I add in the same day proceeded to claim now he means an open relationship as we debate over a conversation. I don’t know weather to take him seriously or what. So no capricorn woman aren’t stupid. Clearly with cancers mood swings and not knowing what he wants id say he’s the one confused. I have tried to be more submisive and sensitive perhaps I’m doing it at the wrong time during one of his swings. Cancer men do cheat when their in their prime but I can’t help but find theses specimen fascinating to the 10th degree. Id love to get into a cancers head with anti-bias feelings to any particular topic. Keep up the mystery cancerian. We will figure you out.

  60. Spill April 7th, 2011

    i find this funny. I’m a cancer man and I never cheat abd put my all into relationships. The cap females I have dated never open up and communicate and they seem to need a lot of attention from other guys and they are usually the cheaters and liars. We are very emotional and moody but we are easy to deal with if you try and understand us. The few women on here that have actually tried to understand their cancer man have better relationships. It’s also very funny how they all blame tge cancer man for all the relationship problems. You the caps I know ate very selfish and to say I will never date another cancer is just wrong. There’s more that goes into than just a star sign so think of that before you miss the man of your dreams.

  61. cancer-leo man April 6th, 2011

    i swear that capricorn women are the dumbest of all (just my opinion) than other zodiac signs ladies. they question themselves too much and then, get confuse at the end. jeeze….
    you know, you CAN’T blame cancer man for your confusion because you didn’t ask them for answer but instead you ask to yourselves. assuming the answer doesn’t help either. then, we ask you some questions about why you want to leave us and what we did wrong and all you said is, “i don’t know. i’m just confuse.” *sighs* how disappointed. (¬_¬)

  62. BabyCap April 5th, 2011

    OMG!I feel so relieved reading this… im a capricorn women and I been dating a cancer man on and off for a year now and I think Im about to lose my mind. He has to be the most confused person in the world. One day its nothing but love between us and the next is like im a complete stranger. His mood swings are to much for me but I just cant seem to let go. Every time I try to leave he becomes competely oblivious to why I would want to leave and I feel bad leaving him there like a lost puppy. He constantly wants me to poor out me heart to him and im not the affectionate type. I got nothing but love for this boy but I feel like im wasting my time and im just stuck between a rock and a hard place.

  63. Cap-aquarius cusp woman April 1st, 2011

    My Cancer male confuses me as well. Ive been on the out skirts looking in and have witnessed him dog other woman as he attempted to do with me. He failed and we lost contact. We have recently reconected and on one note he doesn’t want a serious relationship but on the other he makes small comments reguarding (seee” if you were” my girl) so on and so forth. Says were just friends but in the same breath calls me babe for his own self benefical reasons “so he thinks” but I know what it is.. as friends he explains the kind of woman he desires and what do you know most of the traits he describes, describes me. He says I know she’s out their I just haven’t found her yet it just cracks me up. I’m fine with the friends with benefits thing but all the head games and testing makes me question if I should even continue to befriend the cancer male..get it together cancer men

  64. Cappygirl001 March 14th, 2011

    Yea…2.5 months with a Cancer man then poof, he’s just lost interest. He said it was because he only saw me once or twice a week, but then why didn’t he make an effort…total cop-out. Weak men.

  65. CapriBeauty March 10th, 2011

    There is this Cancer guy. I know he doesn’t love me the way I love him. Sometimes he looks at me like he DOES love ME. I guess he changed his mind. What do you think?

  66. CapriBeauty March 10th, 2011

    I’m in LOVE with a Cancer man. The problem is that he doesn’t love me 🙁

  67. capri women March 4th, 2011

    I’ve been with a younger cancer man for 5yrs and by yyounger I mean 3yrs younger. We have gone through the hardest times he can be so clingy at times and that just over whelms me i feel im the one controling the relationship. I can be very cold hearted because i dnt think a women should ever feel hurt and pain from her man. He repeatingly does things with out thinking plan things without thinking and it drives me crazy i think things out in many ways i like to be prepared and have answer for all the things i may come across. I’ve left him many times and all the times hes begged me ive come back. Its strange but i like the feeling of him begging me because i really feel hes nothing without me and he really does love me. All in all i love him but i dnt knw how much longer all this opposite attraction will go on.

  68. Cappygirl001 February 15th, 2011

    I am a Capricorn woman currently in 1.5 months with a Cancer man. I have never dated a Cancer and it has been an odd experience for me thus far. I make all the effort to see him and he communicates poorly when we are not together. He doesn’t talk about his feelings and when I try to discuss our relationship status, he kind of makes fun of me and says I worry too much. He makes me feel like I am completely insane for needing confirmation of what we are but when I am with him I don’t even feel the need because I feel so safe and desired…ugh, what a strange man.

  69. michelle_belle February 1st, 2011

    I am a Capricorn woman who recently started dating a Cancer man. The article above pretty much describes our relationship nearly to a tee. It helped me realize and understand my boyfriend a little better…Although the last couple months have been sprinkled with tough times, every second we’re together I feel right and safe (in a positive way!)…The moodiness and sensitivity is hard to understand but after communicating with him and seeing his emotions a little clearer, I’ve learned that I am insensitive in terms of the things I say, which in turn, upsets him. Love and relationships are very tricky, but if you work hard for what you want, the outcome has to surely be amazing! Cancer men need to see how much you love them not only by taking their feelings in to consideration, but also by the actions you take. The sex is amazing. The chemistry is great. If we keep the lines of communication open, everything will work out well <3

  70. Capi Female January 30th, 2011

    I am involved with a Cancer male going on almost a year now. What started off as just a physical relationship has blossomed into a love so powerful only death could separate us. The first couple of months were very rocky, I guess we were learning each other. We have both had to learn to compromise and I have learned a little submission goes a long way with my Cancer man. He can see right through me almost knows my every thought and desire. I love this man because he draws emotions from me that I never knew existed. He has been talking about marriage a lot lately…. I love my BABE!

  71. A Cancer Man January 28th, 2011

    Cancer always gets a bad wrap for being moody but have so much to offer. A cancer man is simple. Food, Sex, and he wants to be needed. I don’t why, cancer men love to be the knight in shining armor. Cancer men see right through you. Whatever your intentions are, let that be known upfront, otherwise there will be drama.
    What I’ve learned from a capricorn woman is to be more patient, give her space, shower her with attention and affection, and not to always be so concerned with who’s in control and not to try to win every argument.
    Capricorn is more determined, intelligent, more of a force than I ever thought possible.
    The key to relationship is understanding, an open mind, communcication, affection, to be patient, and TRUST.

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    berriesbleues January 25th, 2011

    currently in a no-strings physical relationship with a cancerian male – it has to be said they are extremely attentive lovers. and yet here i am looking at our love compatibility. something tells me i’ve overstepped the no-strings line, wouldn’t you agree? i’d definitely recommend, to any cap females who’re single and looking for just some fun, if you find a cancerian male, seriously give it a go. there is something so, so sensual about what he does. but beware, outside of the bedroom you may be completely incompatible, so don’t find yourself wanting to see him more and more the way i have.

  73. Cancerian male January 5th, 2011

    guys, let’s take heed to this advise and stop this bullsh*t sulking, and moodyness, get on with our lives, with or without the cap women we love so much, stop being so self centred and just be more rounded.

    I think that would help the cap women in our lives more than us being some damn annoyingly emotive on minuet ad cold the next.

    Cancerian man OUT

  74. Noreen December 3rd, 2010

    Cancer men are sinfully wicked, They are the worst of all signs, They cheat, they are dramatic. they love the attention and compliment from women, They will never take care of theur spouse, They marry only for their own benifit. There is always a motive for their kindness. They will use you for their own needs.Very selfish and it is only about them.

    If you are involved with a CANCER MAN WATCH OUT !

  75. Cancer Man November 1st, 2010

    Ok, I get the “sun” of Cancer and “Sun” of Capricorn. However we are not just those signs. My moon is 27 deg Pisces and my rising is Aries, So please look at the full chart of each of you to see what matches and doesn’t match, If you truly care for your relationship get a Dual Marriage chart done from an astrologist who will shed lots of Light on what will be right in the relationship and wrong with it.. Remember a relationship is a two way street. There could be another planet in your chart Capricorn that is in conflict with his, and visa versa, or perfect harmony because your moons complement each other. Please as they say “don’t throw out the baby with the bath water”

  76. TEE TEE October 20th, 2010

    Iv been on and off with a cancer man for bout 14 years.Let me tell u,THIS CANCER MAN is a dr.heckle & Mr.Hyde,very self centered and controlling.Its been hard 2 get away from him as well as hard 2 keep him away frm me.We have goodtimes,and badtimes,I dont know which outweighs which,but I know hes hurt me too many times,cheating,possessive and have the ordacity 2 want answers when I play tricks back with his emotions .I find myself playing these games that I dont wanna play anymore,AND THIS CANCER MAN,is so ADDICTED 2 the drama,hes not use 2 me continueing 2 be overly nice,them cancer men love strong back bones and they will try and play on u,if u arent up 4 the game,but for some reason,they do stick around and never leave u,they stay clammed on like the crabs that they are smh.Oh yes and I AM CAPRICORN been through it all with my capricorn man.

  77. Debbie October 18th, 2010

    I am a capricorn woman who has recently started dating a cancer man. My question is why is he not the norm guy?? In front of his friends he kisses and is affectionate with me but when we are alone I have to make all the first moves towards the affection? Can someone please explain that to me. He really is a great guy and this just drives me to the point of craziness.

  78. daisy October 18th, 2010

    shit man these guys are crap….they should be hanged to death…:(

  79. Cappadonna October 17th, 2010

    To all the Cancer men who commented on their needs: why do u guys lie so much? Why do you always have so many women that you emotionally manipulate with your sob story and then wonder why they become angry when they find out it is just clever marketing and not something you are SHARING with them exclusively?
    Most of the Cancer men I know sit around on facebook and myspace all day telling every woman who will listen their hardluck sob story to excuse the fact that they are married and looking to cheat without leaving their wives. What’s up with that?

  80. SANDY .J Z October 3rd, 2010

    I AM INVOLED WITH A CANCER MAN FOR MANY YRS. HIS LOVEMAKING IS BEYOND SPIRITUAL. I WILL NEVER STOP SEEING HIM . HE TAKES ME TO A DIIFERENT HEIGHTS IN OUR LOVEMAKING. HE HAVE THE POWER TO OF MY BELOVED PROFHET. OUR LOVE IS SUPERNATURAL AND MYSTERIOUS, ONLY THE ONE THAT EXPERIECE IT CAN FEEL IT, BUT WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT IT.
    I CANNOT MARRY THIS MAN, HE IS TOO POWERFULL FOR ME
    I AM HELPLESS WHEN I AM INTIMATE WITH HIM.HE MAKES ME WANT TO RETURN TO MY MAKER . I LOVE HIM SO VERY MUCH. WHEN IAM WITH HIM , HE SLOWLY PREPARE MY MIND
    WITHOUT ME EVEN KNOWING. TIMES SPENT MY CANCER LOVER
    IS ALWAYS OF GREAT QUALITY. HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND I WILL DO ANTHING FOR HIM …MY CANCER LOVER.

  81. SANDY October 3rd, 2010

    I AM INVOLED WITH A CANCER MAN FOR 15 YRS. HIS LOVEMAKING IS BEYOND SPIRITUAL. I WILL NEVER STOP SEEING HIM IN THIS LIFE. HE TAKES ME TO A DIIFERENT WORLD IN OUR LOVEMAKING. HE HAVE THE POWER TO OF MY BELOVED PROFHET. OUR LOVE IS SUPERNATURAL AND MYSTERIOUS, ONLY THE ONE THAT EXPERIECE IT CAN FEEL IT, BUT WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT IT.
    I CANNOT MARRY THIS MAN, HE IS TOO POWERFULL FOR ME
    I AM HELPLESS WHEN I AM INTIMATE WITH HIM.HE MAKES ME WANT TO RETURN TO MY MAKER.

  82. SANDY October 3rd, 2010

    cancer men have alot of love to give, I f you are not able to rec it. They look for someone else to give.

  83. mack September 10th, 2010

    im a cancer man, to make this real short and sweet all i want is someone to love my like i love them.. which is with everything i have..cancer men love hard because we are not people persons we have our select chosen few..so we have a lot of love focused on who we are with and noone else… accept it and return some..if you cant do that dont date a cancer man.

  84. MEla_DIva September 7th, 2010

    HI All,

    Now Now Now Ladies, Our Cancer man aren’t all too blame!!!! I’m a Capricorn/Aqua Cusp Woman who’s currently madly in love with a Cancer/ Leo cusp Man! One thing that’s true in live “Anything worth having, is worth Working For!” In every relationship, there will be trials & tribulation! But those are the things that bring you closer! In my relationship I’ve learned to, smile, relax, compromise & express my feelings a lot better! Even if this relationship doesn’t last forever; which I hope it does! I know now, I’m just as sensitive as any other woman; and can express myself without fear of rejection! I know as a Capricorn women we have very high standards on how we will allow others to treat us in close relationships! Sadly, we can be our own worst enemies ; with all the negative thoughts & assumptions!! We also have a tendency of being very selfish & pessimistic about situation. By always thinking of the bad & negative, before we see the positive. Me personally, once had very little patience for Men that weren’t all about me! I thought this was the correct way to be until, I met my cancer. He showed me, we all want to know someone cares for & bout us! Now I’m defiantly not saying we have the perfect relationship!!!!! We’ve had our arguments, concerns about the other person cheating, as well as the lack of affection shown at times! That’s when it’s your job to show how much you do care; give reassurance that you’ll never leave & will be there always! In regards to all comments made some are partially true but some aren’t! Yes, cancers can be very moody, have extreme unyieldingness , emotional personality from time to time. But one thing us Capricorns do have to remember we’re the Father of the Zodiac! So with Cancers being our opposites they naturally the Mothers. Which explains why they are extremely emotional & moody! This helped me a lot. Also if my cancer is in a mood I remember her still loves me, he just needs time to get over his self! I know this can be hard since we’re such people pleasers! But it’s all good; just relax! Also if you start to wonder what he’s up to if he affection for you fades, just remember we’re not attracted to bums or deadbeats! Let that absence allow your heart to grow fonder; sadly we only come off looking very needy & deprived!

  85. Cancer/Leo Man September 1st, 2010

    To all capricorn women above from Aug. 27th to Aug. 19th, I want to say, you are killing your cancer men there. They want a lot of attention from you and you cannot expect them to do all these things to get your attention since you should do the same in return. If you don’t, they will crawl back in their shells until they recover again because they gave away all their love to you. Also, you need to know that love are VERY important to those cancer men and if they don’t receive it enough from you, then again, you are killing those cancer men. Next, treat your cancer men with your kindness because they are senstives and cannot deal if you are angry or stubborn or rude all the time, however, you would be view as enemy. That’s why you and them are treating in the opposite, which cause confusing. Next, of course, cancer men have mood swings but the best way you can do is to leave them alone and they will calm down by themselves and they would be back to their ownself again, which might take a long time but you capricon have patients, don’t you? But here’s the problem, capricorn have patient along with gemini men and not cancer men? I don’t get it. 😐 Next, please, please, PLEASE, don’t think or assume wrong base on their actions because cancer men have respect with your decision whatever you have or make and that doesn’t mean we don’t care or not into you. It’s just that we UNDERSTAND you. Here’s another problem, capricorn keep complaining that Genimi men doesn’t understand or disrespect whatever they are doing but yet, they blame at cancer men and left them more but not genimi men??? I’m so confuse. I know this is a little off but I want to ask, why??? I’m a cancer man cusp with leo.

  86. Sam August 19th, 2010

    OMG…I have been with a cancer since i was 13. 20 years later, I agree with all of the comments above and the article. I am still confused, always having to apologize to keep the peace and getting whiplash from his mood swings. I swear, this relationship is worse than being on heroin or crack or some other awful drug. I am totally miserable with him but I can’t stand it when we are not at peace.

  87. nature love August 19th, 2010

    Hi. I have known this cancer guy since the last 2 months and it has been very difficut for me. I am a capricorn woman with no mood swings whatsoever. He keeps wooing me back when he feels I am going away, but when Iam in contact with him, he treats me like a doormat. I am in the process of breaking up with him for my own mental peace. Cancer men won’t let go and when u r close to them, they will push you away. I dont mean to be unkind as they have been born with these traits but anyone with at least some level of awareness would know if their partner is unhappy and try to adjust their behaviour at least a little, but not cancer men. They live in their own world, refusing to come out of their shells. I am sure there is someone out there for me who deserves my love and will love me back. No more cancer guys in my life, thank you.

  88. Ms. Aggravated August 1st, 2010

    Mami 4, your are not confusing him!!! They are really crazy. I don’t think they know what they want. I know I am a Capricorn woman that requires alot of attention. It’s like I will see him, we will go out, have a great time then I text him sweet nothings the next day & don’t get a response. I mean one day they are madly in love then the next they are in their shell & confused. I don’t have time & it kind of piss me off. If u r patient, I guess u can wait around but there are plenty of guys that know how to treat & woman & don’t have mood swings (issues)!!! These cancer guys are so addictive & I have gotten attached to him but I am working on detaching myself. They know how to treat a women when they are in their presence but as soon as they are not then they become invisible….I know I sound a little angry…LoL I am…Angry & Aggravated!!!!

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    mami4 July 28th, 2010

    omg I am in the same situation.. Don’t know if I should call or let him call me. Feel like am bugging him. Then it’s turns into,I have not heard from you.Very confused cause am falling for this cancer guy. I recently told him I was done. Then He could not understand why? that he was confused. because he was into me. So now we are back on again. After our little break up.It was a little tense the next time we saw each other. I am very confused, I left his house feeling like he was not into me anymore,but then again. I was grumpy on and off.Making rude comments, Wonder if am confusing him also…

  90. Ms. Aggravated July 27th, 2010

    I’m currently dating a cancer guy & think he is really crazy!!! He loves me to death when I cut him off then he ignores me when I love him. He is very moody & it’s very annoying. He shows expressions of love from time to time but I feel if u really love someone you always show it. I am a Capricorn women and it’s been a year of emotional & mental distress & I have decided to let go. I love him but can’t take it anymore. I feel like I am mentally in love w/ him
    but I also feel mentally drained. But the comments I have found, this is jus the way they are!!! I will never date a Cancer man ever again in my life!!! The 1st question I will ask is when is your birthday…no offense to all the crabs out there but I’d rather leave u in your shell!!!

  91. Capria July 23rd, 2010

    I’ve been with my own Cancerian man for nearly a year and we’re still trying to work through the persistent quirks. I find more often than not that our issues stem from an inability to understand one another. He’s a very hands-on sort of person who doesn’t really think about what he says before he says it, which often leads me to be more upset about the issues than anything else – primarily because I often feel as though he’s contradicting himself or talking in circles. I’m a fairly articulate person and while much of this article is entirely accurate to our situation, I feel as though we may both be more sensitive than this quite allows for, especially since I wouldn’t necessarily call my partner the most intellectual creature.

    At many intervals his mood-swings crop up and there are many situations where even my long lasting patience is put to a significant test, but he seems to say things in the hopes that it’ll make me happy and in trying to attain the things he says he wants he becomes frustrated in turn because he doesn’t say what he actually means, just says the things he thinks I want heard.

    I’m simply hoping that this is something that perhaps others will be aware of, as well, if they come in search of information on various situations. Clearly things won’t be the exact same in all cases (for instance I’m more of the silver-lining person between the two of us) so perhaps this will be a little insight for anyone else experiencing a similar situation.

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    For Cancer Man above –

    Love and fear(or jealousy, or anger) can’t go together. If you decide to go with your negative thoughts, you can’t get Love. If you take the Love route, you would not get any sort of pain, anger etc.

    First think, what will you achieve by
    a) Accusing your wife.
    b) Ending the relationship.
    c) Staying away from your kids.

    Probably NOTHING

    Now think, what will you get by
    a) Loving and caring your wife just like when you were courting.
    b) Loving and caring your kids.

    Probably LOVE and PEACE.

    Remember you are a friend to your wife first. And since you love her, you must stop worrying about any thing else. Just focus on how you can love her better and make her happier. NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!!

    About separating and ending the relationship, you can postpone this decision for sometime.

    Also try a make over, a new hair style or looks. This will make her think that you have come over the issues and ready for a brighter and better future.

    I can understand, loving her truly, without any expectations can be difficult but not more than the pain of separation from your kids.

  93. Cancer Man who cheated first (now cheated by Capri Woman) July 4th, 2010

    We are at a crossroads. I just found out that my wife of 8 years, has recently cheated on me (a few months ago) with her officemate. She has since resigned when I found out.

    However, despite the admission, I feel that she just admitted because she got caught. Now, I am going bonkers thinking of what to do next. My trust has gone out the window. Everytime she’s out, I dont feel comfortable and my mind just gets worked up thinking about what she’s possibly doing. To make it worse, she acts suspiciously (ie deleting phone messages, call records). We have two beautiful kids, that make the situation even more delicate. Honestly, I want the hurt to end and go away. And I still love her so much. I feel staying in the relationship will do more harm to the family, thats why I think separating will be better in the long term. Obviously, the part I hate the most is that I will be away from my kids. I love them so much.

    I have gone through the different stages: anger, fear, denial, more anger, more denial… but no acceptance yet. Maybe this is the way to go, although Im not sure.

    I have tried talking to her about it but everytime, she does not open up. I guess she never will. Thats just how some people are…unfortunately, I have to find out the hard way. Honestly, I love her and wish nothing but best, but the pain is overwhelming so much so that it has consumed me already… in work, and in everyday life. Im not my usual self anymore and seem to have lost my infectious smile.

    Hope somebody can help me to clear my thoughts.
    Btw, Im a cancer man. She’s a capricorn.

  94. Cappionia January 3rd, 2010

    i have been married to a cancer man for more than 15 years. talk about “pouting”, sulking and super sensitive. I admit am am insensitive about most of the thing he considers to be major. My attitude is “its in the past, we are in the present, what will we do now? All that going over why and the million questions drive me bonkers. They are so nosey. They should all be detectives, attorneys, number crunchers ect. The really do focus on details big, small, large & tall. It can be good to a fault. Most Capi women let other handle details. We are big on ideas and management of them. That drives Cancer men bonkers. O well deal with it :). We certainly are not huge risk takers on things that could make us look bad. That includes relationships. So if we decide to be with them we try with everything in us to keep it together and make the adjust to our ways.

  95. Joyce November 11th, 2009

    A very interesting read and yes, most of this I can relate to as a capricorn woman with a cancerian man. I feel like I’m getting whiplash with the constant mood swings and he always makes me feel I’m in the wrong if he’s unhappy with something. I have to be the one ready with the apology in order to keep the peace. But the physical relationship is great although I don’t really like to voice my feelings unless its in a physical way.

  96. sexygyrl June 30th, 2009

    I am a capricorn woman along with a cancerian man some of the comments r so true I have been thru some and still going thru them I luv him.

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