Gemini Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility

I was with a gem man for 2 yrs. It was a challenge. It was really fun at first. He was exciting and smart and made me laugh. But he was never satisfied. It made me upset to think he wanted to be elsewhere. Good for a fling.

I have a few gem friends – we have a blast but i dont trust them the way i do w some of my closer friends

My boyfriend is a gemini and I have never had a perfect partner. It did take a long time for it to be the way it is today though. It was just a fling for a long time because he didn’t want to settle. We are very different from each other but we have found a way to balance these differences.

i think it better for a gemini guy and a caner to just be a fling because they are to lose for our fragile hearts. I love my gemini man i just know we will never work out.

they are too lovely to be with but their dual nature just hurt us to the core more often. they are not one person at all. they can be 4 different people in 1 person.

they are too sweet when they really come after us but once they get bored!!! then we’ll be left in sea of tears.

but surly they will come back. cos gemini’s mind is unstable they cant decide what they really need in their life. their mind is more like a “monkey”

gemini, they are heartless, confused, stingy, cowards.

Gemini male cancer female perfect sexual match emotionally draining on the moody cancer, am reading the comments above and am convinced ours will end up being just a fling but will always have love for him just realise his nature is to be untrusting of things he can’t see for himself and changeable to the point of frustration but loving tender caring and special i guess every cancer woman should give a gemini man a try but keep your shell on at all times or you will spend the whole time in tears.

HONEEEEE, let me tell you……It takes a cancer woman WITH OUTSTANDING PATIENCE to be with the dual-nature gemini man. They can be VERY SWEET and protective….BUT DO NOT GET COMPHY!! Keep your gaurd up until you are for SURE!!! AND THEN, once you are sure, LOL LOL put your guard up again! Im just keeping it 100!!!!

princess that was a perfect way to put it and mad funny too

WOW…so on point I’ve been in a fling with a gemini male 14 yrs…..JUST A FLING!!! never nothing more!!!Being a moody cancer I just give him a dose of his own medicine, keep your WALLS up all the time. I have never had to deal with the “evil” twin bcuz I keep my distance….Gemini very unstable people!!! LOL

wether people are different. they have to have an understanding with each other. love one another at the same time give each other respect.

the gemini i’m with is very sexual and we clicked very quickly, but i’m afraid i can’t trust him while he thinks differently about what me being “his girl” is all about, while i think something totally different. Im very emotional towards him, and im afraif he wont stick around as much as he says he will.

I’ve been w my gemini man for a yr and a half and have been blissfully happy and devastated off and all throughout. For all the ups and downs though it has been the best relationship I have ever been in lol. As i’ve come to understand him and vice versa, we have found a fairly even “place”. I love him and always will regardless of how long we are together. The trick is to let him be who he is and remember who you are…then…it works.

Wow I’m a gemini girl dating a cancer girl, I know what I want I’ve stated out loud and clear, pulled every trick in the book to make my cancer happy, somehow i feel like im never enough….. I don’t want anyone but her and I’m sure of it…but she makes me feel like a toy she picks up and plays with when she wants to it’s breaks my heart everytime…. I don’t understand why she does this…when I just want to make her happy

Ladies I wish I knew about a gemini man before my heart got broken by one!!! I have been with mine for ten years now… Married for seven and have two kids with him… I have never been hur so much in my life trying to see if he would change.. I have threatened to leave but he won’t let me go… He has cheated on me numorous times over the years while we were married and still tells me he loves me… I have no trust and have had my guard up since we met it has seemed… we only got married cuz I got pregnant now after the second he wont leave in spite of his children growing up without a father which is a good thing I thought but at what price. He is a good man and a good father but not a good husband at all!!! What have I got myself into???

I am a Cancer (Libra moon) woman, who is getting involved with a Gemini man. I do have the typical Libran instinct to always be with someone, but I am really a person who likes her own space, and I become disenchanted with someone very quickly, and once that happens, I don’t ever look at them the same again. This Gemini man that I am talking to is SOOOO clingy. He sits around all day waiting for me to call. What’s the deal?? He does have a mercury in cancer and mars in cancer. He is cute, and I like him, but Jeez! Get a life!!

I am still in love with my ex, who I regret leaving every single day, a Pisces, and he is still in love with me, too, but I live across the country now and he is seeing a Capricorn woman because he thought I had forgotten him. Any thoughts? Can the cancer woman win out over the cappy?

I am a Cancer woman trying to date a Gemini man. The relationship was captivating when we first met. We talked for hours. He made me laugh and I did the same. He made me feel like I was the only person in the room when there were at least fifty. He wanted and got my attention all night. I had my guards up with this man from the beginning because for some reason, I was a afraid of him. Afraid to like him. He would not pursuing me. Get this, months later when I do decide to tell him how I really feel. He seems to be harsh in his speaking. I tell him all the time that he talks what I call “hard.” When he is upset about something, he completely shuts me out. I know that this is his way of dealing with things, but I’m not like that. I like to talk things through. I’m am getting this man latter years. He is in him mid-50′s and I’m mid-40′s. Is there hope for us? Could it be a little better at this age. I do believe he really cares for me, but he is so insensitive. I don’t know how to handle that because I’m a very sensitive person.

I’m a Cancer woman who is newly involved with a Gemini man. I believe that the key to it working is to let the man go where ever he wants to go whenever he wants to go. Don’t tie him down and make him feel trapped. In return that means you can go where ever you want, whenever you want to. This works for us because I don’t like to be tied down with rules and neither does he.

I was with a gemini man for 10years, I am a cancer woman we was married for 6 years and have 5 kids together in whom love,they are my heart.Our kids is the only love that came from that relationship!That was the first and worse relationship that I have ever had.Now here I am 9years out of one to get back involved with another one.He is purposing marriage and I do love him,but I feel like history is repeating itself just no children with him.My gemini man is everything the planet says he is and I am everything the planet says I am so?

Gemini’s do not commit. It is so true. I have been with one for 13 years. Yes, truly exciting in the start as most of you mentioned here. Sex amazing. So physical and mental connections were great, but soulfully not that much. I don’t think I have met anyone else who made me cry that much in my life. Lots of tears, lots of disappointments, lots of unkept promises. By the end it became like a poisonous relationship. I knew it was not right for me, but I just could not stop it. I am glad I finally managed it, although it took many months. Cancers value honesty, stability and prefer to be always straightforward and to the point, they value truly deep soulful connections. But that is not always the case with Gemini, being lighthearted and wanting to try everything and everyone – and that would often involve cheating of course. Maybe not all the Gemini are the same as it depends on the rest of their stars in the chart of course. But it is still important to be aware of our main differences. So if any Cancer woman is reading this I suggest you be careful. Words from experience! Best, Sofia

^ What Sofia said is true. Geminis do like to try new things and people- so there is a chance they could cheat.
This guy likes me though and he tries to talk to me and he always stares at me… he’s been doing it for a month and it’s been very obvious and stuff. (im in highschool btw) Then, recently, I found out he had a girlfriend! All this time, after all that… he’s dating someone yet he still stares at me! Even once, before I knew he was dating someone, I saw him hugging some girl (who i now know was his girlfriend) and at the same time, he stared at me and looked down, looking unhappy and guilty.

I never even see them together much, like in a month, I saw them only twice together. Other than that, he is with his friends like all the time. I don’t see them chilling or talking, even on Facebook they don’t talk to each other much… and he’s looking at me soo much.

I’m guessing he is bored with his current relationship and he wants more. He seems very open-minded to dating different people, he doesn’t judge easily.. if he likes a girl, he likes them. I was shocked he was with the girl he was with, and when picture them together and stuff, something about them doesn’t click… like they aren’t meant to be together. Like two puzzle pieces that don’t fit, they look more likely to just be friends or something but still, they look awkward. but, even with good reasons to look for someone else, will he still cheat? If he got with me, and I gave him so much more, I was more compatible, gave him what he wanted, didn’t trap him cuz I’m not clingy at all and I hate clingyness… will he do the same to me (cheat or look at other girls)? I can sense and feel our compatibility in my gut, my intuition is telling me that we work out well together <3 even reading this compatibility thing, it was right on with how I can sense we both feel. The intuition we have going on is so strong, it's shocking.
I know I like him, he really likes me and we're only in highschool so, nothing serious. Puppy crushes xD I'd love to steal his heart! I feel like I'm starting to, or already have perhaps since it has been a while. Just gotta talk to each other, let him know that he has me if he wants me… I'm open to whatever he does to try to talk to me and I'll jump into it if he does.

these commenst are so true, as a cancer woman, i treasure my gemini man, but i struggle to feel any attachment. i lust for him but i feel like i am floating in a sea alone. i foolishly make myself available to him, but it doesnt seem to matter.