Gemini Man and Cancer Woman Love Compatibility

In a relationship of Gemini and Cancer, Gemini always has a lot to learn from Cancer. Though it is usually a nice relationship, but when it comes to love, their needs are very different. The Cancer needs close bonds while Gemini needs air to breathe and space to keep moving.

A Gemini man has an insight that enables him to analyze people quickly. He can read any person and untangle all the knots. He is not one to hold on to the past, his belief is that time is to move on and leave the memories behind. He doesn’t belong to any one place or any one person and continues to feel this separation until he finds that one woman who can hold onto his heart and definitely, the sensitive Cancer woman is one such lady. Gemini man always proves to be an interesting mate with lots to give as well as take in the relationship.

A Cancer woman is alert and intensely aware of human nature. She may appear to be busy in life, but her mind is cautious and measured. She keeps to herself for she doesn’t like to share her inner self with others and feel safer that way. Cancer woman is a woman who is prepared for anything but past is one thing that keeps on haunting her. She is strongly attached to her family ties and is very emotional. In a relationship with Gemini man, Cancer woman is one lady who always admires his intellect and remains on his side to help him with his dreams.

A Cancer woman’s gift is the ability to hold on to her Gemini lover. Cancer woman’s quest, her dream, is to be able to completely satisfy her Gemini man and she always tries and strives toward just that. As their relationship deepens and she gets rid of her fears and undue possessiveness, she allows her Gemini man to roam around easily. With her strong sacrifices and successfully winning her inner battle, the Cancer woman hangs on to the love, and makes their relationship amazing thing even if it isn’t an everlasting one. When the Cancer woman is in love, she pours on the affection and loves to cherish her Gemini man. But she maybe an unsolved mystery for him especially her changing moods frustrate him sometimes. Her nature of holding on to the past is also something that a Gemini man finds irritating and her possessiveness can make him feel trapped time to time.

A Gemini man is a boy at heart and will always be, but still he loves his Cancer woman dearly. Even though Gemini man is clever at solving such mysteries but the deep dark secrets of his sensitive Cancer woman is something that keeps him always around her. In a heated discussion, when the Cancer woman refuses to talk, he always takes the first step and fixes the problems in their relationship. With his intellect and humbleness, he helps her to open up and become free from her fears. Gemini man is unsure of what he actually wants and this is one thing that makes Cancer woman very confused. Moreover he doesn’t show strong attachment which makes her feel insecure at time because together with this he is very outgoing and she lacks his presence.

With the close association of Cancer woman and Gemini man, each new place they both discover hand in hand becomes a garden filled with the fragrant flowers of traditions. Their sunrises and sunsets are more beautiful and lovingly mysterious for them to follow on. With the shadows of love from Cancer woman, Gemini man learns to hold and observe the prettier clouds and the moon peeping out of them, helping him to discover the hidden secrets of his lady love and Cancer woman learns to cheerfully spin and dive in the fascinating world of her Gemini man. Their souls rejoice their togetherness with the songs from heavens and blessings from angels exclusively for their happiness. The great universe and glittering galaxies lay graciously waiting for them to make a warm and welcoming oneness lasting forever with the coolest breezes soothing their lives.

When the Air of Gemini man and Water of Cancer woman mix, sexually, they form an aromatic cool breeze that keeps growing with growing nearness. The Gemini man and the Cancer woman have a strong intimate relationship in the mind and at emotional level over a physical relationship. She is tender, affectionate and highly imaginative while he is sexually sensitive and delicate with his touch. Together they form a sexual bond that works between them. The Cancer woman needs to know that Gemini man needs her. Since he isn’t really the embraceable type, this could hinder the relationship causing her to crave such a touch even more. The physical sense of the relationship would come in quite handy here. The greatest sexual recourse between the two is shared when Cancer woman steps up and reaches in toward her Gemini man, pulling him out of his dream land and into her. This could be the biggest and most rewarding fulfillment of all.

The relationship of Gemini man and Cancer woman is usually a puzzling one with many ups and downs and also with many good moments to cherish forever. Cancer woman should make it very clear that her Gemini man has an adventurous spirit. Let him use it and in fact help her out of her shell. While Gemini man can benefit her to enhance her emotional spectrum by showing her how to be happy and satisfied. This relationship can work if both are aware of their differences, and are willing to work them out. If Cancer woman can make Gemini man’s temporary stop a warm and happy one, it just may be the formula he needs to stick around and if the Gemini man can make her more assured and relaxed, he can get the secret key to her heart.

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amanda (@amanda) : May 30th, 2010

I was with a gem man for 2 yrs. It was a challenge. It was really fun at first. He was exciting and smart and made me laugh. But he was never satisfied. It made me upset to think he wanted to be elsewhere. Good for a fling.

I have a few gem friends – we have a blast but i dont trust them the way i do w some of my closer friends

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Janet (@Janet) : June 17th, 2010

My boyfriend is a gemini and I have never had a perfect partner. It did take a long time for it to be the way it is today though. It was just a fling for a long time because he didn’t want to settle. We are very different from each other but we have found a way to balance these differences.

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Nikki ann Chestnut (@Nikki ann Chestnut) : August 17th, 2010

i think it better for a gemini guy and a caner to just be a fling because they are to lose for our fragile hearts. I love my gemini man i just know we will never work out.

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love My Gemini man (@love My Gemini man) : August 22nd, 2010

they are too lovely to be with but their dual nature just hurt us to the core more often. they are not one person at all. they can be 4 different people in 1 person.

they are too sweet when they really come after us but once they get bored!!! then we’ll be left in sea of tears.

but surly they will come back. cos gemini’s mind is unstable they cant decide what they really need in their life. their mind is more like a “monkey”

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love My Gemini man (@love My Gemini man) : October 11th, 2010

gemini, they are heartless, confused, stingy, cowards.

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Moodycrab (@Moodycrab) : October 17th, 2010

Gemini male cancer female perfect sexual match emotionally draining on the moody cancer, am reading the comments above and am convinced ours will end up being just a fling but will always have love for him just realise his nature is to be untrusting of things he can’t see for himself and changeable to the point of frustration but loving tender caring and special i guess every cancer woman should give a gemini man a try but keep your shell on at all times or you will spend the whole time in tears.

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Princess (@Princess) : November 13th, 2010

HONEEEEE, let me tell you……It takes a cancer woman WITH OUTSTANDING PATIENCE to be with the dual-nature gemini man. They can be VERY SWEET and protective….BUT DO NOT GET COMPHY!! Keep your gaurd up until you are for SURE!!! AND THEN, once you are sure, LOL LOL put your guard up again! Im just keeping it 100!!!!

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amber Kuma (@amber Kuma) : November 29th, 2010

princess that was a perfect way to put it and mad funny too

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Willa712 (@Willa712) : December 8th, 2010

WOW…so on point I’ve been in a fling with a gemini male 14 yrs…..JUST A FLING!!! never nothing more!!!Being a moody cancer I just give him a dose of his own medicine, keep your WALLS up all the time. I have never had to deal with the “evil” twin bcuz I keep my distance….Gemini very unstable people!!! LOL

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michyta (@michyta) : December 13th, 2010

wether people are different. they have to have an understanding with each other. love one another at the same time give each other respect.

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celine (@celine) : January 1st, 2011

the gemini i’m with is very sexual and we clicked very quickly, but i’m afraid i can’t trust him while he thinks differently about what me being “his girl” is all about, while i think something totally different. Im very emotional towards him, and im afraif he wont stick around as much as he says he will.

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diane (@diane) : January 6th, 2011

I’ve been w my gemini man for a yr and a half and have been blissfully happy and devastated off and all throughout. For all the ups and downs though it has been the best relationship I have ever been in lol. As i’ve come to understand him and vice versa, we have found a fairly even “place”. I love him and always will regardless of how long we are together. The trick is to let him be who he is and remember who you are…then…it works.

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Broken gemini (@Broken gemini) : January 21st, 2011

Wow I’m a gemini girl dating a cancer girl, I know what I want I’ve stated out loud and clear, pulled every trick in the book to make my cancer happy, somehow i feel like im never enough….. I don’t want anyone but her and I’m sure of it…but she makes me feel like a toy she picks up and plays with when she wants to it’s breaks my heart everytime…. I don’t understand why she does this…when I just want to make her happy

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Nikki Cancer married to a Gemini!!! (@Nikki Cancer married to a Gemini!!!) : January 23rd, 2011

Ladies I wish I knew about a gemini man before my heart got broken by one!!! I have been with mine for ten years now… Married for seven and have two kids with him… I have never been hur so much in my life trying to see if he would change.. I have threatened to leave but he won’t let me go… He has cheated on me numorous times over the years while we were married and still tells me he loves me… I have no trust and have had my guard up since we met it has seemed… we only got married cuz I got pregnant now after the second he wont leave in spite of his children growing up without a father which is a good thing I thought but at what price. He is a good man and a good father but not a good husband at all!!! What have I got myself into???

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KlsyGrly (@KlsyGrly) : February 3rd, 2011

I am a Cancer (Libra moon) woman, who is getting involved with a Gemini man. I do have the typical Libran instinct to always be with someone, but I am really a person who likes her own space, and I become disenchanted with someone very quickly, and once that happens, I don’t ever look at them the same again. This Gemini man that I am talking to is SOOOO clingy. He sits around all day waiting for me to call. What’s the deal?? He does have a mercury in cancer and mars in cancer. He is cute, and I like him, but Jeez! Get a life!!

I am still in love with my ex, who I regret leaving every single day, a Pisces, and he is still in love with me, too, but I live across the country now and he is seeing a Capricorn woman because he thought I had forgotten him. Any thoughts? Can the cancer woman win out over the cappy?

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tracy (@tracy) : February 26th, 2011

I am a Cancer woman trying to date a Gemini man. The relationship was captivating when we first met. We talked for hours. He made me laugh and I did the same. He made me feel like I was the only person in the room when there were at least fifty. He wanted and got my attention all night. I had my guards up with this man from the beginning because for some reason, I was a afraid of him. Afraid to like him. He would not pursuing me. Get this, months later when I do decide to tell him how I really feel. He seems to be harsh in his speaking. I tell him all the time that he talks what I call “hard.” When he is upset about something, he completely shuts me out. I know that this is his way of dealing with things, but I’m not like that. I like to talk things through. I’m am getting this man latter years. He is in him mid-50’s and I’m mid-40’s. Is there hope for us? Could it be a little better at this age. I do believe he really cares for me, but he is so insensitive. I don’t know how to handle that because I’m a very sensitive person.

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classynjazzy (@classynjazzy) : April 4th, 2011

I’m a Cancer woman who is newly involved with a Gemini man. I believe that the key to it working is to let the man go where ever he wants to go whenever he wants to go. Don’t tie him down and make him feel trapped. In return that means you can go where ever you want, whenever you want to. This works for us because I don’t like to be tied down with rules and neither does he.

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LaFaye Smith (@75788) : August 31st, 2011
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I was with a gemini man for 10years, I am a cancer woman we was married for 6 years and have 5 kids together in whom love,they are my heart.Our kids is the only love that came from that relationship!That was the first and worse relationship that I have ever had.Now here I am 9years out of one to get back involved with another one.He is purposing marriage and I do love him,but I feel like history is repeating itself just no children with him.My gemini man is everything the planet says he is and I am everything the planet says I am so?

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Sofia (@Salander) : September 10th, 2011
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Gemini’s do not commit. It is so true. I have been with one for 13 years. Yes, truly exciting in the start as most of you mentioned here. Sex amazing. So physical and mental connections were great, but soulfully not that much. I don’t think I have met anyone else who made me cry that much in my life. Lots of tears, lots of disappointments, lots of unkept promises. By the end it became like a poisonous relationship. I knew it was not right for me, but I just could not stop it. I am glad I finally managed it, although it took many months. Cancers value honesty, stability and prefer to be always straightforward and to the point, they value truly deep soulful connections. But that is not always the case with Gemini, being lighthearted and wanting to try everything and everyone – and that would often involve cheating of course. Maybe not all the Gemini are the same as it depends on the rest of their stars in the chart of course. But it is still important to be aware of our main differences. So if any Cancer woman is reading this I suggest you be careful. Words from experience! Best, Sofia

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Mariam Ansari (@mariamansari) : October 21st, 2011
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^ What Sofia said is true. Geminis do like to try new things and people- so there is a chance they could cheat.
This guy likes me though and he tries to talk to me and he always stares at me… he’s been doing it for a month and it’s been very obvious and stuff. (im in highschool btw) Then, recently, I found out he had a girlfriend! All this time, after all that… he’s dating someone yet he still stares at me! Even once, before I knew he was dating someone, I saw him hugging some girl (who i now know was his girlfriend) and at the same time, he stared at me and looked down, looking unhappy and guilty.

I never even see them together much, like in a month, I saw them only twice together. Other than that, he is with his friends like all the time. I don’t see them chilling or talking, even on Facebook they don’t talk to each other much… and he’s looking at me soo much.

I’m guessing he is bored with his current relationship and he wants more. He seems very open-minded to dating different people, he doesn’t judge easily.. if he likes a girl, he likes them. I was shocked he was with the girl he was with, and when picture them together and stuff, something about them doesn’t click… like they aren’t meant to be together. Like two puzzle pieces that don’t fit, they look more likely to just be friends or something but still, they look awkward. but, even with good reasons to look for someone else, will he still cheat? If he got with me, and I gave him so much more, I was more compatible, gave him what he wanted, didn’t trap him cuz I’m not clingy at all and I hate clingyness… will he do the same to me (cheat or look at other girls)? I can sense and feel our compatibility in my gut, my intuition is telling me that we work out well together <3 even reading this compatibility thing, it was right on with how I can sense we both feel. The intuition we have going on is so strong, it's shocking.
I know I like him, he really likes me and we're only in highschool so, nothing serious. Puppy crushes xD I'd love to steal his heart! I feel like I'm starting to, or already have perhaps since it has been a while. Just gotta talk to each other, let him know that he has me if he wants me… I'm open to whatever he does to try to talk to me and I'll jump into it if he does. :)

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sharon wheezer (@swanni) : December 2nd, 2011
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these commenst are so true, as a cancer woman, i treasure my gemini man, but i struggle to feel any attachment. i lust for him but i feel like i am floating in a sea alone. i foolishly make myself available to him, but it doesnt seem to matter.

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John (@johnoirl) : February 13th, 2012
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I have to disagree with some people here. I am a 31 yr old gemini man. I was with my ex wife for over 10 years, she was a scorpio. all i ever wanted was to love her and make her feel loved. in which i tried in many many many ways. but i never ever felt loved back in the ways i needed.
For me i must say as a gemini i need that feeling to be felt loved and wanted, thats pretty much it. i am not a materialistic person, when i get that mental/loved/attached/wanted connection i am always commited 100%. for me being a gemini its always about wowing my partner and making her feel she is my princess, no matter how long we are together.
i do agree geminis do like to try and explore new things. yes indeed for me, i do in life like to try different things in life to explore new ideas and options. their is nothing wrong with having dreams or ideas or wanting to try something new. but not to try other people, no matter what star sign you are their is a thing called respect!!
when i am commited to a woman i am commited 100%.
you cant just say because a guy or girl cheated was because they where a gemini. 1000’s of people cheat, men and woman, but always for a reason, because they are not happy at “home” or for some reason or not.

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stephanie (@sdt71983) : February 17th, 2012
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i agree i have been dealing with a gemini man for almost 9 years now and at first we was ina relationship  but for the longest it has been just a fling and now he says one day he wants to b serious but then the next hes with the cold shoulder smh so to protect the cancer heart i just keep it as a fling

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Bongi (@cancerian) : March 13th, 2012
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All these comments are true,I’ve been dating a Gemini man, at first our relationship was super but after just 3 months he became somebody else,very unstable,never kept his promises, doesn’t call me anymore ,sometimes seems bored or uninterested when I call him, I decided to dump him without even telling him because he’s not there for me there’s no future in this relationship.

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Arabella (@ArabellaSky) : April 28th, 2012
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I have a good friend well… close friend.. and after my “best friend” had stopped talking to me for about a month it sorta brought us closer. I had begun to open up to my gemini friend before my best friend shunned me and I started to get a crush on him. He always made me laugh and we talked always talked for hours but the thing is, he lives in England and I live in the U.S. so we use skype to talk. We both don’t want to have a long distance relationship well.. he had one with a girl about a week ago but she lived in England but not exactly where he lives so yeah. He knows a lot about me and what happened when I was younger and I know some stuff about him but not a lot. My gemini friend even knows that I like him but he always told me that he would never date me because of our age difference and distance so… I guess I’m out of luck.. But I really like him, I think about him most of the time, and I’ve even had dreams about him that were sorta weird. Argh,  even in my dream he rejected me. When can this cancer girl win some love?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : April 28th, 2012
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@ArabellaSky Weird dreams with rejections? Pay close attention to your dreams, they are telling you something about what might happen in next few months.

Dreams that make us feel good, often bring good luck and good news.

Dreams that make us feel bad, anxious and frightened, often indicate that there might be some troubled circumstances in new future.

Dreams that bring mixed feelings, unclear, chaotic can be ignored.

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Vengar (@Himcules) : May 28th, 2012
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I’m a Gemini male and I don’t entirely agree with all you Cancer ladies out there. Yes it does require a great deal of patience for some of us but not all of us are little boys.
I for one would never cheat on my woman, thats like having streak at home and going out for hamburger. Right now I been dating a Cancer woman and she has been my whole world, for every part of me “we” have found love for this Cancer woman. 
This woman has inspired all my “people” and allowed me to do and creative things I didn’t think possible from me. Even if I did ever grow bored of her, she’s grown so important to me I’m willing to change who I am to adjust to her, to be flexiable for her. 
After talking to her for 4 years(once she ran away for a year) I decided to marry this woman.

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Saudia (@SaudiBaby) : June 24th, 2012
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i have to agree with the comments of the other cancer women above . i have been involved with a gemini male since this past September and in the beginning it was everything i wanted and i thought what we both wanted . he told me in the beginning that he was not “ready for a relationship” , becus he had just recently gt out of a long one (with a Leo female) , who he had known since childhood. i accepted this and deicied to continue talking to him and not force a relationship , but obviously progress and build on. To make a long story short a gemini male is a cancer womans weakness,especially with our already fregile heart. sexually,mentally and on a conversational level he is everything we want and nees , but emotionally he is detached and is not ready to settle; especially with the clingy and mood Cancer . this “relationship” , if it get to one , will have many tears , but will be you best and worst relationship at the same time .The is a undeniable bond btwn the gemini male and cancer woman tho… they love each other and are sometimes each others’ strenght , but relationship wise … we need more T.L.C than them … they’ll find this annoying though …
I myself am still trying to get over him( that’s why im on here in the first place, lol) but it is a process. it will be hard for you to leave this “relationship” becus of your feeling and attachment to the gemini but it will be even harder becus he won’t want you to leave (he wont show you this , but he will tell you . he’ll so just enough to keep you, up until the next agrument …….*never ending cycle*) ,  My gemini is currently alway involved with a Libra female, hopefully her experience won’t be as gloomy as mine…
                                                                    (18y.o NJ)

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Alecia (@alecia876) : July 29th, 2012
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Alright! I look at all Gemini’s as “Spunges”. I use the term “spunges” as i see them as having no real sence of self. Thust, thrusting over the lastest technology, latest catch phrase’s, latest name brand’s and even latest jobs to be cool! Ahh yeah so without stating the obvious ..If anything cancer girls …We are most definetly way to good for them, by far! 
Step 1 – Dont ever divulge a thing to your gemini, even who you really are, for that will be spread around the entire neighbourhood within 1 week! My mother is a Gem and she gossips about her own kids …Yes! (sad but true!) Gemin’s love gossip, especially at others expense.
Step 2 – Tell your self its not your fault. Gemin’s have this crafty way of making others feel as if its our fault, ITS NOT, Trust me!.
Gemini’s feel very threatend very easily, so if they feel as though there dating a woman who may possess more creative qualities then they have, they will NOT …I repeat NOT give you the reassurance, support that you need to continue because they don’t share the same and hey will feel threatend.   
Cancerian’s are the most creative star sign, Geminis will try to drain us of our creativity, making us question our selves. Please, as the others have said, A fling … but make sure YOU ARE IN CONTROL. Thats it! Do NOT have anything more.
Taureen’s are best suited for Cancer’s :)
 

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Alecia (@alecia876) : July 29th, 2012
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They’re Dickheads.

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Deshka (@DeshkaGrace) : August 15th, 2012
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i have dated the same gemini man twice and both times we only dated for a small amount of time . the first time i broke it up bc my parents didnt allow it plus i felt he was flirting with other girls which broke my heart . the second time (he had to move different schools bc bad grades) was long distance and he broke it off bc he couldnt stand the distance and felt i didnt want to talk to him . we still talk and hes my best guy friend i tell him everything and hes always there for me . its funny bc we seem to always spark when we hang out bt ive come to a conclusion i only love him as a brother , we just dont work as a couple :)

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Giselle C (@cantu0406) : November 27th, 2012
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I was really good friends w/a Gemini guy almost all of high school years he never tried to talk to me he and I were just good friends there was not one thing we wouldn’t tell eachother! We loved to gossip about people from school and we always saw eye to eye on things. I eventually lost touch with him when I had my son and haven’t seen him since 6 years, I recently got separeted from my fathers son who is an (Aries) and out of no-where this Gemini guy old friend of mine comes back in my life! I was shocked to hear from him when he found me on fb but I was happy! We started talking a lot, through texts and over the phone just like old times only that this time we are adults and he confessed that he always wanted to talk to me since high school but never did cause I always had a boyfriend! I was blown away cause I never thought he would consider me, he’s a very good looking and always had VERY pretty girls after him in high school. So I gave it a chance and went with it, everything was perfect, he seemed too good and sadly it was! I went with him on our first date and it was amazing i haven’t met a guy that has made me feel like him not even my son’s father… I eventually started to worry like I always do and started doubting that he was too good to be true so I told him I was afraid of getting hurt… He assured me he understood and that he was not going to hurt me! Then he stopped calling as much, stop texting, until he finally put it up there that he was afraid him self in being in a relationship, i was crushed by him in such a short period of time! and everynow and then I still out of no-where get a text and yet I’m always left confuse :( not worth the confussion! So I had to let go completely by asking him to not ever reach out to me it was just too much to handle

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Gemini Lost (@AllSpark79) : December 2nd, 2012
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This is a Gem male, who has just recovered (6 months now) from a 10-year relationship (no marriage, no kids) (which hints to my/our commitment problem I’d talk later) with an Aries woman. Now more or less I recovered, and I started feeling again. Namely, I sort of gradually slipped and fell for a Cancer woman (hard luck for us) who I think can make my life complete as I long for the deeper sea of emotions I was not able to find for a long time, with my Aries woman including. I have now “formally” started courting the Cancer woman for about 1-2 months now, and she is 24/7 working or otherwise not finding the time to meet. I can understand this hard-to-get game, etc. but her constant verbal fencing makes me weary, plus the ignoring I get, having messages unanswered, calls hung up, and all that moving sideways typical for the Cancer woman. Now the problem is that I as a Gem like some more open communication and have given her enough of space to move, plus we have been meeting for about 4-5 months now in total (no kiss, no touching hands, no sex), and at some point in time when I told her directly (which had some positive unexpected effect) that I had feelings for her, she told me she wanted to be just friends. But still on, we met and so on, I started really courting her, but she continued to meet me even in the face of me openly courting her, she did not cut me off. Now I grew tired of her not finding the time to say “Hi, how are you?” in a text, or on the phone even with her 24/7 working schedule, let alone invite me to anything, just anything, as I was the driver of this car, like 20 meetings so far. So my cup is now full, and over the brim, my patience, tolerance, pride, and understanding are overfilled. So my feelings for her started declining. And then came the Sag woman in this! Almost simultaneously with my getting tired of the steely patience/nonchalance of the Cancer woman.
The more interesting part is now that I am confused what to think and do. My feelings for the Cancer woman are still strong, we connect on a mental and emotional level – I read this every meeting of ours in her deep eyes, but the relationship is not physical. On the other hand, this Sag woman started attracting me, and we met 2-3 times, not 1-1 but in a company. I really don’t want to “cheat” mentally, I have never done so, and never will (my ascendant is Capricorn). What to do? I really dont want to start courting the Sag as I know from my Aries experience what will happen thereby losing my precious Cancer woman with whom I can have future (I am 33), but on the other hand, I am sick of this Cancer woman taking forever to even kiss (if it takes 8 months to kiss, and another year to have sex, I dont want to find out that in 2 years from now we are not compatible!) and feel like trying the Sag woman. HELP!!!

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William (@Gemini-Wonka) : December 13th, 2012
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Ladies let me give you a positive perspective from the Gemini male.  This is just a suggestion btw!  I myself did not believe in the zodiac until 3 years ago!  I’m 31.  Reading about my Gemini sign pretty much dropped me to my knees!  Explained everything about my entire life!  Answered so many questions on who I was and why I made the choices I made growing up.  My wardrobe was constantly changing.  I moved every 6 months.  I’m extremely sexual and kinky and more affectionate and emotional than the average man.  All the ” white lies ” and ” lack of commitment.
My point to all this is, now I work on all the faults to be a better person.  Not to jump to conclusions but maybe all these gemini males your dating have no idea who they are and why!!!  I advise you to have them study their own sign.  They will wake up a better GEM :-)  I promise you!!
As the BOW TIE killer from Problem Child says ” I’m not a bad guy!  I’m just misunderstood!”  
 
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William (@Gemini-Wonka) : December 13th, 2012
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@Gemini-Wonka
I just started dating a Cancer woman today btw that’s why I read this page!  I really like her so I will show you all WHAT’S WHAT!!! LMFAO :-)

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Charity (@Charity) : January 19th, 2013
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@AllSpark79 Ok I am a Cancer woman, and I’ll tell you now you will regret sleeping or even engaging with the Sag. woman. Because the Sag. woman can’t give you what a Cancer woman can. And Sag. don’t care about how you feel, you must know that!!!!!!!! One thing you need to know about Cancer women are that they need financial stability and if she doesn’t have that she will obtain it the best way she knows how ( not saying u need to provide for her, but that’s why she works 24/7). Now if you do engage with the Sag. woman, make sure you don’t ever tell the Cancer woman, because she won’t let it go and she will hold a grudge…forever. Trust me….I know. I would give it some time for the Cancer woman to come around, because 9 times out of 10 she is probably doing what she says she’s doing ( meaning working). And the only reason she is saying lets just be friends is because she can’t trust you ….yet. If she is like most Cancer’s it’s hard for us to pour our feelings out even when we have been in a realationship for awhile ( like a year or so or more).  The trust is everything and it can make us very hesitant of what we choose to do. Most Cancer women expericence bad relationships so it’s hard to trust and get us to open up. And she probably thinks “well as easy as he came into my life he can easliy leave.” If you really like her like you say you do, then give it some time and you won’t regret it at all. 

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figurelove (@figurelove) : February 20th, 2013
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I am a cancer woman and i am in love with my gemini man. It took 8 months for him to say he loves me. But i can see it in his eyes his immense passion for me. Wenever we fight which really rare since both of us are damn understandin, he’s the one who reaches out and pulls me out of my nonsense assuming typiclcal cancer woman thoughts. At first he didnt wanna commit n now he thinks of it with me. I gave up a stupid as hell taurus guy for him.. He the perfect guy for me..

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tj (@itsallaboutm3) : May 10th, 2013
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I am a cancer woman that dated a gemini man for 4 years and i must say it was awful! at first it was great but then i found out that he was cheating and we tried to work through our problems. he was a consistent cheater and liar….he told me loved me all the time….but then again he cheated all the time. i had a hard time leaving because the beginning was great…but then again, aren’t all beginnings of new relationships? we’ve been broken up for almost two years and i still miss him sometimes but i haven’t talked to him since we broke up. i refuse to. i hate him. seriously….i hate him. he drained me emotionally and i cannot stand him to this day. if i ever saw him starving on the side of the rode i would drive through a puddle just to soak him water and hopefully make his life as miserable as he made mine. yes we did have some good times, but dammit the bad times outweigh the good ones by farrrrrrrrrr! he was always breaking up with me then getting back together. nothing but an unhealthy emotional rollercoaster that was not worth the 4 years of my life. i wish i could kick him in his balls one good time and break his right testicle off! ;)

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Dwayne Doughty (@True-Experience) : August 7th, 2013
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Greetings. I see many of the comments speaking of a negative relationship between Gemini man and Cancer Woman. I have two suggestions for the women and men on this forum. 1st suggestion is to get a natal chart reading done. Astrological compatibility is much more than comparing sun signs. There are so many different factors that makes us unique than just identifying our sun signs. In fact there is no one who 100 percent represents the qualities of their sun sign. First identify the 5 personal planets and in which signs they are in (that includes the sun, moon, venus, mercury, and mars additionally the ascendant or rising sign). You may find that your traits have greater influence from other planets then you are own sun sign. For instance I happen to be a Gemini sun, Capricorn ascendant, moon cancer, mercury cancer, venus gemini, mars virgo. If you notice the pattern in my personal planets including the ascendant I have more planets in feminine signs which makes me more sensitive, intuitive and feeling, than the emotional detachment associated with my sun sign. Thus there is a balance with intellect and emotion. Also locate if any planets that are in the 5th house (romance, dating, children, and creativity) and the 7th house (marriage, partnership) to see who you might be drawn to romantically. Keep in mind the moon corresponds to your emotional needs, what you need may conflict with what you view as ideal. My 7th house happens to have a moon mercury conjunction in cancer. Thus my emotional needs deal directly with cancer (security, sensitive, nurturing). I have always attracted cancer in some form or the other. Even if it was just as friends. I am saying all this to prove that you can’t determine a connection based solely on your sun sign. To the women who have had bad relationships with gemini men, you may have had planets in your chart which may have squares to your partners chart, which creates difficulty and needs for adjustments. I know that my potential partner will be best suited as a Cancer woman, because of I need I have to connect with someone both on a intellectual and emotional level.

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Kelly Starkey (@Black-Goddess) : October 28th, 2013
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I am a cancer female that knew my gemini male 13 years before we ever did anything. see, a gemini male will be digging you and wont say anything, they will leave you in suspense. I guess that is a good thing for the mysterious cancer, plus I have a decante in scorpio so I love the occult! My gemini loves me though. I just wish he would slow down and take better care of himself. He is always in the streets and he drinks alot! but, I can honestly say that he is the most fun person I have ever been in a relationship with because he is actually a little boy at heart. he LOVES to be told what to do, how to do it, and when and I do that well!!! I want him to marry me though. not right now but eventually and I want to be able to help him accomplish some goal he may have in life. Let’s just see where God takes us because they are very God conscious, almost fanatical.

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prince avi (@mowais_37@yahoo.com) : November 16th, 2013
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in 2010 a cancer girl was admitted in my class. she had a look on me and in two weeks she found her self involved in me. she hadn’t been in any relation before. nor do i. she wanted to talk to me and to know about me,my likes and dislikes. she got my number and. i accepted her as my 1st 4nd or gf. then for consecutive 8 months she took such a grest care of me and loved me madly. that care and love lead me to make her the most special one in my life. i was then fully involved in her. we both became life of eachother.                                                        Last year she struck with some severe family problem. and without intimating me ,she………..she left chating.and now i dont know where she is? how is she doing? whats going on in her life?. but then i came to know that she has been engaged and she is so much ashamed of her self . that she couldn’t with stand the promises we made to each other.                                                                                 I tried much to know that. but no body supported me. all i know now is that i couldn’t live without her!!. And i couldn’t think of any one else ever in my life.I want to wait for her for my whole life. and i will.I AM IN LOVE WITH HER AND I TRULY TRULY MEAN THAT.
WHT DO YOU SAY??? SHOULD I WAIT FOR HER OR WILL SHE COME BACK (IN THE LIGHT OF CHEMISTRY OF GEMINI AND CANCER RELATIONSHIP??)
REPLY PLZZZ VIA TEXT OR EMAIL ME PERSONALLY
MOWAIS_37@YAHOO.COM
 

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mandz (@mandzremz) : March 10th, 2014
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I love my gemini man :)…No one understands me more than him…Everything said above was true.I have a very very sad past that haunts me until now.Everytime i think about it i just want to stay in bed and not talk to anyone,then comes my Gemini man who comforts me and tells me things to calm me down..I also adore his intellect and humbleness. I hope one day he will be the man who will totally help me forget my painfull past…

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Courtney (@Courtwilso22) : August 18th, 2014
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My Gemini man and I had beed together for four years. We have also made thing extremely difficult for one another at times. “testing” the other constantly. We know how to push one another’s buttons. The two of us have made great efforts to make our relationship work but are successful partners now. As a cancer I have to be more vocal about what I need from him and he has to be reminded that even though he’s joking in his mind it might not come across that way to me. The two can work but you have to be willing to compromise with one another or you’ll rip each other’s heads off! 

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Samera (@Sam-Santos) : August 29th, 2014
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I have been with my gemini man for 14 yrs and we have 2 wonderful children… gemini man are really loving, caring, hard working people… I love my gemini man

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Scandalise_u (@Scandalise_u@ask-oracle.com) : September 16th, 2014
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m also in relationship with gemini guy.. but he is fraud.. he making fool again and again.. i love him alot and he also know abt it.. but still ignoring me r teasing me.. he’s making a lame excuses and told me what type ov girl i am.. he is nice man but i dont know why he did this wd me.. i want my gemini man back.. i love him truly deeply and madly.. he said that he loves me also but i dont know why he left me..

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Scandalise_u (@Scandalise_u@ask-oracle.com) : September 16th, 2014
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plzzz pray for me that i get back my gemini man.. r us se shadi b ho jaeee… :p
 

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Desirae (@Aleelove) : November 7th, 2014
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Hello hello…I am a Cancer woman and I’ve dated 2 Gemini men boy were they so similar.  Always joking and it seems like they are making fun of you.LOL and us sensitive cancers take it to heart.  They need to be more sensitive to us and our needs and we also need to stop being so sensitive and take it as a joke and laugh with them.  They don’t really mean any harm.  Not only that they say they are joking but then when they are serious you think are they joking now? LOL it’s such a contradiction with Geminis it drives me nuts…but Cancers are also a contradictions.  Many tears with both Geminis…I’m so sensitive but I can see from all the previous post I’m not the only one.LOL
 
So my first relationship with a Gemini didn’t work out because we got into a big fight because we were both drunk and basically it ended up being physical…he didn’t hit me but he dragged me by my hair across the freeway…he felt so bad when he sobered up and we decided to end it but wanted to stay with each other also because we were physically attracted to each other.  I noticed my two Geminis needed to be stimulated mentally…they both smoked weed what the heck.lol maybe it’s my fault for choosing them but the 2nd one I didn’t know smoked until later.  They smoked but were both very intelligent you know not the stupid stoner type of guy.  It’s so strange because they both were super sweet esp if there really into you they will compliment you all the time but they are also very insensitive to most things.  It drives me crazy because if they just changed a little I would be so in love with a Gemini.  They make me laugh all the time and are so goofy like me and I love that.  I would not like a boring guy at all.  At times I think what do I want myself…you have this funny upbeat guy but I find it too much at times because I feel like he’s making fun of me but then I don’t want a boring guy?
 
My 2nd relationship with a Gemini, yes all above is true the sex is out of this world and I don’t think it can get better.  I feel like he knows what I want without having to ask.  Communication is a big factor in this relationship, Geminis need to know how you feel in order to deal with the situation.  Don’t be shy or afraid to tell him because honestly you will get no where being quiet and keeping to yourself.  I was at first but then when I started to talk about my feelings I realized it’s not bad at all and Geminis love that and we usually always work things out by talking.  Then you realize it wasn’t what you thought it was when the Gemini explains himself.  We are on a break right now…well actually I broke up with him because he said he was “unsure of his ex” what the hell does that mean? you have to be sure in order to move on? now he tells me I told you I’ve been over her over 100 times…that’s a lie you did not say that.  See they are a contradiction.  Cancers remember everything a man says so you can’t turn things around now.  Gemini’s like to manipulate situations especially when they want something I noticed.  Like I feel like I could trust them 100% but when they do that they seem so shady? Anywho I fully broke up with him and my phone is currently disconnected or temp out of service and now he’s calling my work and emailing me and even texted my mom.  I don’t know what to do now.  I ultimately stopped talking to him because I asked if he was talking to someone else because my psychic instincts told me so and he said yes so why should I even talk to him anymore when he said he wouldn’t? I feel like I should just move on and hopefully one day find my Pisces but now it seems like he wants to give it another chance which is what I wanted but now that I thought about everything I’m unsure.  I do love him although we didn’t say it to each other but he took care of me so how can I not? At first it seemed like he was keeping me around because he didn’t know what he wanted but knew I was a great girl now that I’m fully out of his life it’s driving him crazy.  It’s easy for someone to say just move on but when you invested your time and feelings into someone and you see potential and we both learned from our mistakes maybe it’s worth another shot? I lost most my feelings for him because he hurt me but I’m still unsure.
To everyone above good luck in love and if your with a Gemini i hope it works out and if you were hurt by one I’m sorry I know your pain.
 
 
 

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nicole (@Niki.gonzo) : November 9th, 2014
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I have been with my Gemini man for almost two years. I am more happy with him than I have ever been with my previous tauras and Libra. He respects me, he strengthens me, he protects me, we agree on almost everything and rarely fight. When we do fight its over something stupid but we are both so stubborn that we won’t give up and got to have the last word but we both understand each other so much that we laugh it off and come to an agreement. When we first started liking each other in highschool I would agree with all of these comments for sure. I thought he was a manwhore and he always stared at me with this look where he drew me in but at the same time stay away. I have had strong feelings for him for years and never understood why. Years later he looked me up and we started talking and we instantly clicked and fell in love with eachother. We stayed up with eachother almost every night not eating, sleeping, communicating with anyone else but each other and in the bed was amazing (and still is). He knocked me up a month later and that just made our connection even stronger. He works so hard to satisfy me and as do I to him. He only wants me and I only want him. I am always told bypeople I have the patience of jobe to be with him. So that is very true you need to have patience and encourage your Gemini man to be something great my Gemini man feeds off of my love for him to be a great man for me. He needs lots of love and affection which I love to give :) Gemini has a very dark angry side as well which is where all that love comes in which cools him down and makes a perfect match. As a cancer woman I have cheated which makes me very paranoid about cheating and with my Gemini my loyalty to him is 100%. But I always worry he is lieing to me about things so I’m not hurt by him. I have many dreams that he is cheating or hurting me in some way. Does anyone else feel this way? I try not to let my dreams affect me but by his past actions and two lies I have caught him in (with actually good explanations) it is hard sometimes. My love and understanding makes me ignore my emotional self and focus on what’s really important though which is keeping our love alive to make sure he has no reason to stray away.    Im very interested in astrology and it surprises me to see that the majority say that Gemini and cancer isn’t a good match…

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