Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Gemini and Scorpio make an absolutely odd couple. Since both of them are often gravitated towards challenges, they try to tame each other in their own ways. Gemini infuses a lot of lighthearted fun into the relationship while Scorpio’s love nature is intense. Learning to blend these distinctly different styles and values can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

A Scorpio man can handle, solve, win and conquer seemingly all impossible situations. He can handle pretty much any situation on his own and is tolerable of most. He is a strong individual, full of mystery, who is constantly looking for power and is quite loyal to his loved ones. He is intense, suspicious and quite a jealous creature in any relationship. If he finds his partner to be genuine he will be loyal to her till the end. However, get him angry and most likely one has to suffer the wrath of his sting.

A Gemini woman is many personalities bottled in a single woman. Her dual nature allows her to be someone different throughout her life. No commitment, no settling, no one personality. Though she is a very clever and intellectual human being but her mind never settles, and her thoughts are always in a fantasy land. She wants someone fun, someone exciting, and someone who can stimulate her imagination. This makes it difficult to convince her to become deeply involved with any one person. But at the same time she is very romantic and brightly sensitive person who can manage to show affection with ease.

The initial contact of Gemini woman and Scorpio man throws sparks and cause captivation. He falls for the Gemini female’s bubbly charm and intellect, her clever conversations and the delicate nature she gives out. After the newness wears off he begins to reevaluate how much he really adores her charm and bubbly attitude. His awe of her starts to be replaced with jealousy which causes her to rethink such a relationship also. Although she feels that her he is constantly trying to pin her down and control her every move, she must realize how deep rooted his love for her really is. He may also cringe at her frivolous attitude towards money and her ever changing ideas about what she thinks and she wants. But she can always figure out how to form the lovely bond and Scorpio male is the one who can fix the cracks and strengthen that bond when they become a threat to their relationship.

A Scorpio man attracts the Gemini woman from the first time she takes a glance of him. His stability, his firmness and self-discipline is irresistible for her. These two would not be worried about falling in love and will focus more on staying in love. The mood changes, little tempers, personality changes and inattentiveness of Gemini woman toward her Scorpio man are treated by him with patience and endurance. He also understands when it seems as though his Gemini woman is scrutinizing his integrity and self control. But when the Scorpio man feels that his Gemini woman is trying to change him from the very deep leveled roots he was born with, it becomes very difficult for him to take it. In such a situation, he just needs to understand that it is just her whimsical ways of trying to tell him to back off and let her have some room.

As the Gemini woman and Scorpio man intensely desire and rediscover the purity of their love, their unison becomes miraculous and they retain the brightness of their hearts. They both share enthusiastic affection and long lasting devotion mixed with memorable parts of classic fairy tales. She is full of feminine wile and guile– teaches him to be more free spirited — while he teaches her to take things more seriously in life. They both enjoy promising love and always honor and cherish their relationship in the heaven of passion and romance where angels sing for them and fairies shower them with glittering stars and soft blossoms.

As the airy Gemini imagination, and watery Scorpio passion, blends for sexual unison an interesting beginning is experienced by both of them. Her playful side always comes out in her sexual relationship. She looks at it like a game, a pleasant pastime, nothing too serious and definitely not something that should be dealt with on a deep level. Keeping things light and fun is the way she likes it to be. Scorpio man, on the other hand, feels strongly reaching the deep levels of passion that are so important in a relationship. He is a person who takes physical love to a spiritual level and makes the pleasure of sexual intimacy, an eternal unison. If she can reach these levels with him and fulfill his deepest desires she need not worry about infidelity within him. If Gemini woman genuinely loves him, there is a possibility with some teaching and charm that he can show her what it is that he so desires in his lover and can even put flame to her passion. She may just be able to reach those overwhelming desires he so craves and actually make their sexual union eternal!

The relationship of a Gemini woman and Scorpio man can be no less than a bumpy ride around a smooth road. She needs to work hard in staying calm and level headed when her Scorpio man shows his stubborn streak or becomes violently emotional over her light and delicate attitude toward things that mean so much to him on such a deeper level. She has to understand when he needs her close, to show him that she should be devoted and faithful to him and only him when all she wants to do is spread her wings and fly. He also needs to get used to her occasional bouts of devotion and game playing as well as her wandering mind that wants to take her away from him for a more social atmosphere. If treated cautiously, the initial love and power of these two is enough to form a strong bond between each other with enough effort on both the sides.

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    scorpiodave 3 years ago

    I’m a Scorpio dating a married Gemini female.  We have been dating for several months now and we are on fire with passion.  Our biggest issue seems to be that we are also both empaths.  This means when one is mad the other gets even madder and we end up in a downward spiral.
     
    I trust her fully, something I’ve never really done in a relationship.  I’ve given her my account info for Facebook emails etc.  She offered me hers, but I won’t take them.  I have no desire to check up on her. 
     
    The sex is amazing.  Granted I’ve always been good, but I try so much harder with her.  The biggest problem I have is the games.  She “tests” me…  at first it was to see if I would drop her name, then it was to see if I would go on a date with another woman.  Then it was to see if I “really loved her” she even did a psychological “intake” on me (she’s getting a PhD in psych)
     
    Our worst fight…  when I even shocked myself with the “Scorpio sting” was when she told me she couldn’t see me again because she told her husband about me… I had no idea there was even a possibility that she wouldn’t choose me over him.  The pure shock to my system made me snap.  I scared her.  I gathered up all of our hotel receipts printed off every message (48 pages worth) and was going to bring them to her husbands work I was going to force him to swing on me…  and then demolish him.  Have copies made and put them on the cars at her church.  I had his parents address. This plan of attack included escalations such as calling the DEA on the pot plants of her husband.  Telling CPS to check the video footage in their house for the fathers abuse on the son.
     
    None of that ever occurred.  She came back to me the next day.  I have been far more pessimistic about our relationship since. I know that I would have destroyed her, and it scared me to death.  I never want to hurt her.  Not hurt anyone like that.  But I know I am capable of it.  That was a couple months ago.  We still see each other everyday talk non stop, and she is again talking about leaving her husband.  When she brings it up I stop her.  I tell her I don’t want her to talk like that unless she is 100% sure.  I know I can’t let her raise my hopes.  I love her, I’ll take what I can get.  

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    SkylarLiar 3 years ago

    @scorpiodave You sound so much like the Scorpio man that I’m in love with. I’m a Gemini, and I’ve found that I’ve made quite a few mistakes when it comes to going about being with a Scorpio man. I left absolutely no mystery about me, since, being a Gemini, I talk so much about anything, including myself. He doesn’t try to read me at all, already knowing everything that matters, while I know next to nothing about him, even though we’ve been good friends for over a year now. When I fell for him, I told him straight up. Left nothing to discover for him. I kissed him on the first date, as well as many other things, but we never had sex. Through it all, he insists that we are good friends. That I matter to him, and that I’ve helped him with so much. Then, a couple weeks ago, he told me he had a girlfriend. And I kind of went ballistic. I was hurt and confused and wasn’t able to accept it. He had become a bit of a fixation for me, having put up such a thick barrier around himself, piquing my curiosity even more. To know that I’d been going about pleasing him all wrong, so much so to the point that he’d found someone else, well… I was more mad at myself than him. I was hurt, all the same, but I didn’t blame him for it. I guess when I saw your comment I saw an opportunity. You are a Scorpio man with a Gemini woman, and I was wondering if you had any advice about getting out the friendzone. Oh, and I guess I should mention that his relationship didn’t last very long. He ended things with her just last night, and now he wants to see me, saying that he needs company. He’s made it very clear that I shouldn’t get the wrong idea when I come visit him, and that we are just friends. He was in love with her, and now he needs comforting. I’m happy to do this for him… maybe too happy. So maybe you could help me out? What should I do, how should I act when I go to see him in a few days? Thanks for listening.  

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    Will I get married again? Will it be Richard?

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    paradise2106 2 years ago

    my scorpian man took me in when my daughter and I was homeless. We’ve gone through changes. He had pressure from his brother. Because I’m black and he’s sicilian. His prejudice brother is married to his cousin. He is angry cause I am very protective of my Tony. We were friends for years and for 11 yrs we’ve been husband and wife. This man makes me free and I can let go of all the abuse I endored growing up. He’s my gift from God. He doesn’t pressure me at all. I make sure he comes home to a clean house and everything is prefect. I have medical problems. He understands that and goes to doctors appointments with me. he’s been there for all my surgeries. The love of my life.

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    Carly449 1 year ago

    I am a gemini woman who just went out on a first date with a scorpio man. Just sitting across from him at the restaurant i felt some type of way. The chemistry was so strong it was scary! I found myself wondering what it would feel like being wrapped in his arms. Now, get this…I am over 50 years old and so is he. I felt like a giddy school girl. We talked or texted every day since and it’s like we’re doing a mating dance or something. I haven’t had sex in a while so I’m wondering if that is what the attraction is. Then i realized that other men don’t have that affect on me. I do not live by horoscopes but i thought i would check out some horoscope websites for some insight. A lot is clear to me and i think i want to explore this possible union. Scared as heck but i am curious.

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    Ashyjaycs 9 months ago

    Im a may gemini; my boyfriend of 8 months is a scorpio. And when i say this man is passionate he is passionate. Our first date he gave me the most mysterious sensual glare in my eyes and that moment i knew i had to have him. It was really odd somethinflg about him really caught my mind and fascination. I never was the type to be tied down but he made me feel like i belonged to him and i really loved it and it made me turn into this sensitive submissive woman that ive never been. he literally pulled it out of me. He is so masculine and mystically mysterious. Every time we make love It is magical and he makes me melt. He is very protective over me kind of like a father. He can be a nag siometimes and he can find me immature sometimes but he overall treats me like a princess and makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world how he looks at me. Plus he is like my bestfriend. I am a gemini but my venus is in taurus and says that im more sensuous and territorial of my lover due to it. He is my baby and he told me he is going to put a ring on my finger someday and we will start a family when we are older. I never felt so serious about someone. I thank god he put such a sexy lovely man in my life he really keeps me sane and understands my bad nerves and spazzness ha ha
     

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    Scorpphi 5 months ago

    Scorpio male here; Im in love with my Gemini friend and I don’t, I mean, never want to hurt her…She sez she’s in love with her boyfriend an Aries guy, but will spend the whole day with me, without flinching. She’s intelligent, kind, Witty and smart, and I love every single bit of her…She says she hates me in a good way, and I really dnt knw what to think…she would tell me a lot of peronal and secret things, and I sure do try my best to demisify her any conflicting, hurting or difficult thoughts and feelings, well, at least I think I do, cos after the talks she gets some of the happiest I’ve ever seen her,don’t want to get my hopes up though. Recently, she got drunk with friends at a party(held at my place), which I had to close down before any her drunkiness could surface, however because I felt she was too drunk to take the walk home, a short walk, cos of her repute in the area, I  let her sleep it off at my place, resulted in her parents seriously lashing out. In her drunkiness she did repeat her saying of “she really hates me in a good way, however she added that, she does this, cos she loves me too much to hate me in a bad way”, I feel it was jst the alcohol speaking or she basically means “loves me as a friend or brother”…I had never seen her get this drunk, however, ofcos im totaly not offended by this cos i believe stoping her from drinking and having fun wouldn’t reveal the dangers of drinking, however, her getting to a safe limit in a controlled environment will reveal a deeper understanding of herself and limits. Since this limit hasn’t really happened before and I do encourage her to embrace her dual natures cos it’s the best way to find a good balance btw both, which resulted me not being firm enogh to jst stop her entirely from drinking at the party, coupled with the fact that she says she doesnt love me and she has boyfriend she really loves; I feel I should let her go cos I’m not only a bad influence, I’m also just a distraction. Reading about all this Scorpio-Germini incompatibilities and some of this pair relationship experiences, wich in some cases eventually results in the Scorpio star becoming less caring unlike the beginning of the relationship, I’m scared I’d stop loving her as much if I stay on and she does eventually likes me….Please I need advice…I honestly will really appreciate it, cos though, I’ve had oda sparks with other stars in the past which might actually seem better if compared, I honestly really feel very strongly for her and don’t want to live with out her. What should I do please?

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    lifeisaGEM 4 months ago

    @Scorpio-Man your comments are from 2011 but they sound very similar to my past with my ex Scorpio…
    I have a Scorpio ex that I don’t believe I will ever get over in my life. A part of me will love him until the day I die, and even after. We grew up together but as we got older he moved to another town in which we then went to different schools so we never saw each other and lost touch. He was always always always in the back of my mind since I can remember (he is still and I am afraid always will be). I remember I used to go to a friends house near the track all the time, especially on weekends just to hear the race knowing he was racing in it. My heart would do a happy dance every time I would hear them announce his name and especially when he would win. Finally got the courage to go up there and watch one night with a friend. I found myself, once I spotted him, just obsessively staring at him the whole night even though I don’t think he ever saw me, but never got the courage to go up to talk to him since we hadn’t seen each other in so long. The years passed since that night and with the wonders of the internet and social media we finally reconnected. At first we just exchanged casual conversation since I was dating someone else at the time (a Leo, never again… He was a cheater). A few months passed and me and the Leo broke up. Within a week or so the Scorpio messages me seeing about meeting up for a drink and getting my number so we can catch up. I will never forget that night as long as I live. I was at at a friends house hanging out when he texted me to meet up at a bar with him and some friends (all guys). I left my friends house and went to the bar. I remember exactly how I felt walking up to the bar from my car. My heart was thumpting and I felt like I wanted to vomit I was so nervous. After that night we hung out several times before he started a strong pursuit of me and by strong I mean I start getting texts to the effect of “I want you so much…” and things of that nature. I was terrified to death to be with him because of our history so I tried so damn hard to brush off his advances as long as I could until I literally fell weak in my knees and succumed to them. I have honestly never in my life gone so “rounds” of being intimate with someone in one night than I did with him. It just felt so right… As a few months went a long of just pretty much dating things starts to unravel. We both early 20’s still trying to figure life out that I think I wasn’t “secure” enough for him even though he kept saying he didn’t want anything serious. I’ll be the first to admit as a Gemini I am ridiculously flighty, completely unpredictable, and sure as hell have a hard time EVER apologizing. I know those traits I will probably carry with me to my grave, its just instinct for me. Where everything turned sour was he got with another girl one weekend when I wasn’t around, and he decided to move on rather quickly from me since he apparently felt like he was “done” with me. It hurt me so much that he did that, I literally laid in bed and cried for an entire weekend. I was so upset that actually did like Scorpio-Man commented about with the “character assassination” starting with the girl he dated before me, mutual friends, and then the girl he was moving on with. I will forever regret spreading all malicious gossip, even tho much of it was truth, but that I should have just kept to myself even with a broken heart… He has yet to ever speak to me to this day… I have tried to contact him numerous times casually to break the ice so we can talk about things and try to mend things, but he still refuses to acknowledge anything I say at all. I had since moved on from him and thought I let go but the past few months, I am not kidding when I say he is all I can think about. To the point it is driving me crazy. I tried reaching out to him twice during this time, once to even semi-apologize for what I did when my feelings were hurt all those years ago. I won’t go into a full apology until I KNOW he is willing to listen. BUT Still nothing, as he continues to stay silent. I honestly don’t know what to do. I miss him so much sometimes its like my heart hurts in my chest. Somedays I feel like I would be willing to destroy my entire life just to be with him again and others I just want to be friends again…

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