Gemini Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Gemini and Scorpio make an absolutely odd couple. Since both of them are often gravitated towards challenges, they try to tame each other in their own ways. Gemini infuses a lot of lighthearted fun into the relationship while Scorpio’s love nature is intense. Learning to blend these distinctly different styles and values can be challenging, but with success, very rewarding!

A Scorpio man can handle, solve, win and conquer seemingly all impossible situations. He can handle pretty much any situation on his own and is tolerable of most. He is a strong individual, full of mystery, who is constantly looking for power and is quite loyal to his loved ones. He is intense, suspicious and quite a jealous creature in any relationship. If he finds his partner to be genuine he will be loyal to her till the end. However, get him angry and most likely one has to suffer the wrath of his sting.

A Gemini woman is many personalities bottled in a single woman. Her dual nature allows her to be someone different throughout her life. No commitment, no settling, no one personality. Though she is a very clever and intellectual human being but her mind never settles, and her thoughts are always in a fantasy land. She wants someone fun, someone exciting, and someone who can stimulate her imagination. This makes it difficult to convince her to become deeply involved with any one person. But at the same time she is very romantic and brightly sensitive person who can manage to show affection with ease.

The initial contact of Gemini woman and Scorpio man throws sparks and cause captivation. He falls for the Gemini female’s bubbly charm and intellect, her clever conversations and the delicate nature she gives out. After the newness wears off he begins to reevaluate how much he really adores her charm and bubbly attitude. His awe of her starts to be replaced with jealousy which causes her to rethink such a relationship also. Although she feels that her he is constantly trying to pin her down and control her every move, she must realize how deep rooted his love for her really is. He may also cringe at her frivolous attitude towards money and her ever changing ideas about what she thinks and she wants. But she can always figure out how to form the lovely bond and Scorpio male is the one who can fix the cracks and strengthen that bond when they become a threat to their relationship.

A Scorpio man attracts the Gemini woman from the first time she takes a glance of him. His stability, his firmness and self-discipline is irresistible for her. These two would not be worried about falling in love and will focus more on staying in love. The mood changes, little tempers, personality changes and inattentiveness of Gemini woman toward her Scorpio man are treated by him with patience and endurance. He also understands when it seems as though his Gemini woman is scrutinizing his integrity and self control. But when the Scorpio man feels that his Gemini woman is trying to change him from the very deep leveled roots he was born with, it becomes very difficult for him to take it. In such a situation, he just needs to understand that it is just her whimsical ways of trying to tell him to back off and let her have some room.

As the Gemini woman and Scorpio man intensely desire and rediscover the purity of their love, their unison becomes miraculous and they retain the brightness of their hearts. They both share enthusiastic affection and long lasting devotion mixed with memorable parts of classic fairy tales. She is full of feminine wile and guile– teaches him to be more free spirited — while he teaches her to take things more seriously in life. They both enjoy promising love and always honor and cherish their relationship in the heaven of passion and romance where angels sing for them and fairies shower them with glittering stars and soft blossoms.

As the airy Gemini imagination, and watery Scorpio passion, blends for sexual unison an interesting beginning is experienced by both of them. Her playful side always comes out in her sexual relationship. She looks at it like a game, a pleasant pastime, nothing too serious and definitely not something that should be dealt with on a deep level. Keeping things light and fun is the way she likes it to be. Scorpio man, on the other hand, feels strongly reaching the deep levels of passion that are so important in a relationship. He is a person who takes physical love to a spiritual level and makes the pleasure of sexual intimacy, an eternal unison. If she can reach these levels with him and fulfill his deepest desires she need not worry about infidelity within him. If Gemini woman genuinely loves him, there is a possibility with some teaching and charm that he can show her what it is that he so desires in his lover and can even put flame to her passion. She may just be able to reach those overwhelming desires he so craves and actually make their sexual union eternal!

The relationship of a Gemini woman and Scorpio man can be no less than a bumpy ride around a smooth road. She needs to work hard in staying calm and level headed when her Scorpio man shows his stubborn streak or becomes violently emotional over her light and delicate attitude toward things that mean so much to him on such a deeper level. She has to understand when he needs her close, to show him that she should be devoted and faithful to him and only him when all she wants to do is spread her wings and fly. He also needs to get used to her occasional bouts of devotion and game playing as well as her wandering mind that wants to take her away from him for a more social atmosphere. If treated cautiously, the initial love and power of these two is enough to form a strong bond between each other with enough effort on both the sides.

  1. Shari 4 hours ago

    I too am in love with my first Scorpio. I’m a mature Gemini female and my male Scorpio counterpart and I have had a very, very rough road the first year. I find out that after reading this sign it was probably a test on his part to see how and if I would continue seeing him but he was also facing 8 months away from society for something he regrets. So I am waiting for him and I know that he appreciates and is blessed to know that i am here for him. If this isn’t the ultimate test in showing someone especially a Scorpio that you are here for them regardless and when they come home to you then I don’t know what is. He tells me he loves me all the time and I’ve seen his possessiveness and jealousy a lot lately. He asks me all the time what am I doing where am I going who is this person who is that person, as wonderfully communicative as Geminis are we do have a knack for soothing the trust issues and calm down our Scorpios because he stops and moves on from his initial self-inflicting wounds of jealousy. I’ve even sent him articles on his sign and he never knew about himself so it was an eye opener for him. I have NEVER needed or wanted to listen to or be controlled by a man of any sign except for a Scorpio. I think because on a deeper level that we can’t even comprehend we know that they are there for us with every last breath in their body and they utterly devote themselves to who they love and trust. It is definitely and absolutely a love that you read about and watch in operas. It is a feeling, a deep rooted soul binding feeling that I’ve never got with anyone else. I’ve come close with a Sag but he was involved with someone so I wasn’t going to allow it to go further but the love of a Scorpio is without doubt the strongest I’ve ever felt. Geminis are knocked for being superficial, I get that, but because we’ve never been around a sign that we can replicate. See, we are skilled at feeling what other signs feel and Scorpios are so deeply emotional passionate about what they feel we get that and understand them on a level that we can relate to and reciprocate that. It’s difficult for a Gemini to allow someone into their soul, because we have to completely trust you with our heart first. We are such an air sign and we live in a fantasy world and I think that gives us the depth that Scorpios need since we are fantasizing with what’s right in front of us and Scorpios are living in the depths at that moment it is a very spiritual connection. Something that I can’t even explain. It just is. And when he hugs me, omg, he reaches my soul, his touch with one finger touches parts of me that I never knew could be touched and when we make love it is the most cosmic epxerience I have ever felt. I have yet to let myself go with him because the depth of this love is so surreal that I even have a hard time grasping. He is patient and I told him that I will open up more to him but it takes time and I think that’s what helps drive him too. Knowing that he will have all of me in time and I ensure him that I am all his and he has nothing to worry about and that I am not going anywhere. I think our gift of communicating works well here as I’ve read on other sites that Scorpios are immune to such things, but I believe that if a Scorpio truly loves and trusts you your words mean more to them than you think. I’ve defused situations with my words of loyalty to him and we can only say such things to someone if we mean them. We will not and cannot fake what we feel for someone and because we both believe that we deserve the best out of a relationship than I believe we are each other’s soulmates. There literally are not words to describe this love. As a natural flirt as I am, i tend to not be as much because of him. And I would never flirt with another man while he is around me but unfortunately it’s a habit that I’m trying to break. It is completely harmless and I find his jealousy to be quite comical. But it’s good that a man gets jealous I think and is possessive, that means to me at least that he really loves you. Maybe not so much in a Scorpio’s case but he’s not going to feel this way about someone unless he is sure about them. Otherwise, why would he waste his time, heart and soul on something he is not sure about. I do agree with that aspect of this sign because it makes sense since they love so deeply.

  2. Dez June 19th, 2017

    I’m a Gemini who dated a scorpio and we only dated a couple months but we fell so hard for a each other. After the break-up we still basically acted like a couple. There would be month-long arguments and then he’d come back and we’d be fine. We got in another and now it’s been 2 months of nothing. I’m STILL sprung. What do I do?

  3. Stacy April 24th, 2017

    I am in tears. This is exactly what I have been feeling. He is my first Scorpio and we love each other so deeply and it’s all happening so fast.

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      Rusty May 3rd, 2017

      I’m a Scorpio who’s been blindsided by a Gemini. And not just any Gemini, she was my sister’s best friend growing up. Regardless of what is said here, I’m interested in seeing where it leads. No one else has drawn my attention at all. She snuck up on me lol.

    • Dee Dee June 18th, 2017

      Omg…ME TOO!!!!

  4. wildflowersandglitter March 3rd, 2017

    I’m a Gemini woman who has only fallen in love twice and both times was with a Scorpio man. I honestly believe that all (or at least most) Astrology sites/books get it wrong when it comes to understanding Gemini women. While it is undeniable that we are mutable and change frequently, it is so incredibly far from reality to assume we are unemotional or not deeply emotional and I’d even go as far as saying that we have the deepest emotions of all the signs put together. However, you cannot and will not ever recognize this, unless you are also a Gemini woman yourself. In fact, it’s exactly why we remain eternally in a state of imagination and fantasy daydreams, because it’s the only way we can handle the depth of what we feel. Staying almost permanently inside the daydream is our only means of reducing the intensity of what we experience moment to tiny moment. This is also exactly why we tend to fall so deeply in love with Scorpio men, because they give us a safe and stable place to rest and anchor ourselves in peace. If I visualize myself, it’s like I am a butterfly that needs to fly constantly but because I’m in a perpetual state of danger of having the wind blow me too far, I can only be safe if I tie myself to a stable place and the only thing I could trust is a Scorpio man. Sadly, because we Gemini women also feel so much and think so much and because we see and relate to the duality in all things, Scorpio never recognizes that he is the only thing in our lives that we could never be swayed on, and it’s our love for Scorpio, and our behavior toward all other things in the world cause Scorpios to believe we see them the same as we see everything else, but it’s the exact opposite. I love both of my Scorpio men in ways they’ll sadly never know. I know more about who they are, about what they feel and why they feel the way they do about everything that means anything to them. They feel as if no one understands them, and they are so extremely private they appear to be living vaults with their thoughts and feelings locked eternally inside themselves. And for some strange reason, Gemini women don’t need to find the key like other women, to know what’s inside them. This is because we ARE the key, the living breathing key that naturally unlocks the living breathing vault of Scorpio. This is why Scorpio loves Gemini woman and he doesn’t even know why. Both of my Scorpios opened up to me in ways they never did with anyone else. And it was natural for them and I honestly believe it actually scared them. Because typically they opened for no one. And they never understood that I never even tried to turn the key, I *was* the key, so never needed try. They also both felt a need to protect me and keep me near them in ways that only a Gemini woman never ever needs. Gemini woman is and will always be a complete mystery to them and the tragedy is that although it’s nearly impossible for us to ever love deeply any other Sign, the Scorpio is the Sign we couldn’t stop loving if we tried. Love, for us Geminis, is unconditional when it’s pure and never ever depends upon reciprocal feelings. We can love despite their hate or even complete apathy. And because this is something that most people of any Sign cannot begin to understand, most don’t recognize it at all when it’s right in front of them.

    My first love was my (now) ex-husband, and although I no longer love him in a romantic way, I will love him in another way, a special and true way, that even I can’t explain, until I die because of what we shared, and he will never know. My second love, who I still love romantically, is my soulmate and only I know this. He pulled away from me and despite pleading with him to acknowledge my continued letters asking him to come back to me, he remains as silent as could be. No words at all. No sign that he even reads them. Although he’s said crueler words to me than I thought I could ever stand or survive, I still love him as deeply as I ever have and will never be capable of loving him less. This is because when the heart of a Gemini falls in love, it’s a love that is so deep and so true and so pure that it defies explanation and even the Gemini woman herself cannot understand it. Its because a Gemini woman loves beyond the flesh and the mind and we love the very Soul of our Scorpio men. We love outside and beyond the physical manifestation of the world. We love what our Scorpio was before he was born and what he will return to after his death. It’s most definitely a Spiritual Love and it’s hard for even us to understand. If we cannot understand ourselves, no one else has hope of understanding us either. But this is simply the painful irony of a heart that loves so few. It is so rare that we even have a chance to love deeply, so when we do, the love is something that is undefinable. And when we lose our loved one, it changes us on a fundamental and spiritual level, and the damage done is permanent. We are mutable and easily adapt to anything the universe throws at us, but Scorpio cannot figure us out and Scorpio is used to figuring out everything. But as I said, if we cannot understand ourselves completely then Scorpio certainly has no hope in doing so either.

    I most certainly will never heal from losing my Scorpios, and as strange as it sounds, and despite the fact that neither will speak another word to me, I have this feeling that they will both love me till the end just as I will love them. They will never ever say it but it’s true regardless. They will never believe or realize my eternal love for them, but I will believe and realize our eternal love for each other. I would literally give my Scorpio the sun and the moon if he asked for them. πŸ™ I will never be the same, and as painful as will be, I would gladly live my life in pain from his loss than to live without pain having never known him at all.

    • Micah April 10th, 2017

      So true!!!

    • Nikki April 12th, 2017

      Wow I couldn’t have said it any better. I am a Gemini woman and I am the exact same way. I loved 2 Scorpio men. He first was the love of my life 12 years ago and I love him the same to this day.

    • anon April 15th, 2017

      This is honestly the most accurate analysis I’ve ever read. I’m a Gemini woman and my first love (still boyfriend) is my everything and I can’t even imagine life without him. It’s sad. But i feel like losing him would be detrimental to my emotional health. People always have this perception of geminis where they feel we come off as egotistical and emotionless when it’s the exact opposite. Not saying that some common characteristics aren’t true but for certain that one isn’t. I don’t know why I’m so attracted and attached to my Scorpio male but honestly I hope it stays like this forever and I’m afraid that after him I’ll never be able to love again. He’s the most independent, strong, loving and goofy individual I’ve ever met and I can’t get enough. I really don’t know why almost every article I read says that Gemini’s and Scorpios aren’t such a good match b/c overall I feel like we really are. I think what they mean it that sometimes Gemini can be unsure of themselves and Scorpio loveee someone that’s strong and confident in who they are and don’t like their love being doubted, as geminis tend to do sometimes. I’ve definitely tried to work on myself for our relationship and he’s done the same. I hope that our love never dies. I’m a Gemini woman and I love my Scorpio man to death.

    • Sarah April 27th, 2017

      The above post so so accurately written. Loved to read it and felt i am not the only one feeling those depths of my personality while being misunderstood and at times accused of being flaky and shallow. I love my Scorpio man deeply and I hope that i can succeed in making him see that πŸ™‚

    • Dayna May 2nd, 2017

      Wow, thank u for speaking this into existence! This was an amazing read and so incredibly true. I felt as if I could’ve written it myself!

    • orchidsandthoughts May 10th, 2017

      Wow, this made me cry because I know exactly how you feel as a Gemini woman. I fell in love with a Scorpio as a teenager and we stayed together on and off for about 3 years. I’m just now entering early adulthood and I still love him even though we no longer communicate. I know he still loves me and will always love me because I knew him on a level no one else did. I am currently in a situationship with my male best friend who happens to be a Scorpio. The love we have for each other is out of this world and he makes it so safe for me to be myself. We are so similar in so many ways. Each situation with a Scorpio has brought so much pain but I am so happy I’ve had the chance to love them.

    • Shari May 24th, 2017

      I absolutely agree. I even pull levels of my Scorpio male deeper into himself. We are very deep creatures indeed and I am really impressed at your understanding of this. I’m so glad I am not the only one who feels this way as I am a mature Gemini woman and I know exactly what I want and us being in a mental fantasy state is because we haven’t reached those depths with anyone to fulfill except with my Scorpio.

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      magda.olivier123 June 13th, 2017

      Wow @wildflowersandglitter
      I am also a gemini woman and I felt everything you said.. Never has anyone understood.. Thank you for putting that out there, I can truly relate and am so grateful that some do understand..

    • Shari 4 hours ago

      why did you guys break up?

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    lifeisaGEM August 17th, 2016

    @Scorpio-Man your comments are from 2011 but they sound very similar to my past with my ex Scorpio…
    I have a Scorpio ex that I don’t believe I will ever get over in my life. A part of me will love him until the day I die, and even after. We grew up together but as we got older he moved to another town in which we then went to different schools so we never saw each other and lost touch. He was always always always in the back of my mind since I can remember (he is still and I am afraid always will be). I remember I used to go to a friends house near the track all the time, especially on weekends just to hear the race knowing he was racing in it. My heart would do a happy dance every time I would hear them announce his name and especially when he would win. Finally got the courage to go up there and watch one night with a friend. I found myself, once I spotted him, just obsessively staring at him the whole night even though I don’t think he ever saw me, but never got the courage to go up to talk to him since we hadn’t seen each other in so long. The years passed since that night and with the wonders of the internet and social media we finally reconnected. At first we just exchanged casual conversation since I was dating someone else at the time (a Leo, never again… He was a cheater). A few months passed and me and the Leo broke up. Within a week or so the Scorpio messages me seeing about meeting up for a drink and getting my number so we can catch up. I will never forget that night as long as I live. I was at at a friends house hanging out when he texted me to meet up at a bar with him and some friends (all guys). I left my friends house and went to the bar. I remember exactly how I felt walking up to the bar from my car. My heart was thumpting and I felt like I wanted to vomit I was so nervous. After that night we hung out several times before he started a strong pursuit of me and by strong I mean I start getting texts to the effect of “I want you so much…” and things of that nature. I was terrified to death to be with him because of our history so I tried so damn hard to brush off his advances as long as I could until I literally fell weak in my knees and succumed to them. I have honestly never in my life gone so “rounds” of being intimate with someone in one night than I did with him. It just felt so right… As a few months went a long of just pretty much dating things starts to unravel. We both early 20’s still trying to figure life out that I think I wasn’t “secure” enough for him even though he kept saying he didn’t want anything serious. I’ll be the first to admit as a Gemini I am ridiculously flighty, completely unpredictable, and sure as hell have a hard time EVER apologizing. I know those traits I will probably carry with me to my grave, its just instinct for me. Where everything turned sour was he got with another girl one weekend when I wasn’t around, and he decided to move on rather quickly from me since he apparently felt like he was “done” with me. It hurt me so much that he did that, I literally laid in bed and cried for an entire weekend. I was so upset that actually did like Scorpio-Man commented about with the “character assassination” starting with the girl he dated before me, mutual friends, and then the girl he was moving on with. I will forever regret spreading all malicious gossip, even tho much of it was truth, but that I should have just kept to myself even with a broken heart… He has yet to ever speak to me to this day… I have tried to contact him numerous times casually to break the ice so we can talk about things and try to mend things, but he still refuses to acknowledge anything I say at all. I had since moved on from him and thought I let go but the past few months, I am not kidding when I say he is all I can think about. To the point it is driving me crazy. I tried reaching out to him twice during this time, once to even semi-apologize for what I did when my feelings were hurt all those years ago. I won’t go into a full apology until I KNOW he is willing to listen. BUT Still nothing, as he continues to stay silent. I honestly don’t know what to do. I miss him so much sometimes its like my heart hurts in my chest. Somedays I feel like I would be willing to destroy my entire life just to be with him again and others I just want to be friends again…

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    Scorpphi June 27th, 2016

    Scorpio male here; Im in love with my Gemini friend and I don’t, I mean, never want to hurt her…She sez she’s in love with her boyfriend an Aries guy, but will spend the whole day with me, without flinching. She’s intelligent, kind, Witty and smart, and I love every single bit of her…She says she hates me in a good way, and I really dnt knw what to think…she would tell me a lot of peronal and secret things, and I sure do try my best to demisify her any conflicting, hurting or difficult thoughts and feelings, well, at least I think I do, cos after the talks she gets some of the happiest I’ve ever seen her,don’t want to get my hopes up though. Recently, she got drunk with friends at a party(held at my place), which I had to close down before any her drunkiness could surface, however because I felt she was too drunk to take the walk home, a short walk, cos of her repute in the area, I  let her sleep it off at my place, resulted in her parents seriously lashing out. In her drunkiness she did repeat her saying of “she really hates me in a good way, however she added that, she does this, cos she loves me too much to hate me in a bad way”, I feel it was jst the alcohol speaking or she basically means “loves me as a friend or brother”…I had never seen her get this drunk, however, ofcos im totaly not offended by this cos i believe stoping her from drinking and having fun wouldn’t reveal the dangers of drinking, however, her getting to a safe limit in a controlled environment will reveal a deeper understanding of herself and limits. Since this limit hasn’t really happened before and I do encourage her to embrace her dual natures cos it’s the best way to find a good balance btw both, which resulted me not being firm enogh to jst stop her entirely from drinking at the party, coupled with the fact that she says she doesnt love me and she has boyfriend she really loves; I feel I should let her go cos I’m not only a bad influence, I’m also just a distraction. Reading about all this Scorpio-Germini incompatibilities and some of this pair relationship experiences, wich in some cases eventually results in the Scorpio star becoming less caring unlike the beginning of the relationship, I’m scared I’d stop loving her as much if I stay on and she does eventually likes me….Please I need advice…I honestly will really appreciate it, cos though, I’ve had oda sparks with other stars in the past which might actually seem better if compared, I honestly really feel very strongly for her and don’t want to live with out her. What should I do please?

    • PerfectGemini April 4th, 2017

      Hi @Scorpphi.
      I am a Gemini girl. First it’s been a year since your comment, I hope things might be good for you.
      As about your dilemma. I think you must confess to her your true feelings for her to know, what she really is to you. You both desrves it.

      From what you have let on I guess you are her special someone. True that geminis are very talkative but they Never let others know their secrets. If she shares stuffs with you it means you mean a lot to her than you can imagine.

      May be your friend is struck between her crush and love kind of dilemma. She likes her boyfriend a lot but she loves someone else i.e. you.

      She might be shy and afraid to confess her feelings towards you. She might think that you don’t feel same towards her. She would rather endure pain of unrequited feelings than totally loss you as a friend too.

      Please tell her. If not much, you will get a closure.
      I hope and wish you best πŸ™‚

    • Shari 4 hours ago

      I would tell her how you feel but this all depends on her maturity level. She might not be ready for the depth of a Scorpios love. Unless she is willing to move on with you and have a serious relationship, it’s best you move on if you can. Or be her friend and be there for her. Believe it or not, being a friend will eventually lead her to look at you in a different light down the road. We want the long haul and Scorpios are willing to give that. Be patient which I’m sure you can be; it will pay off. You guys are very intuitive. So keep me posted on how it went. I’d love to know and hopefully, as a Gemini myself, I can try to help you the best way I know how.

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    Ashyjaycs March 3rd, 2016

    Im a may gemini; my boyfriend of 8 months is a scorpio. And when i say this man is passionate he is passionate. Our first date he gave me the most mysterious sensual glare in my eyes and that moment i knew i had to have him. It was really odd somethinflg about him really caught my mind and fascination. I never was the type to be tied down but he made me feel like i belonged to him and i really loved it and it made me turn into this sensitive submissive woman that ive never been. he literally pulled it out of me. He is so masculine and mystically mysterious. Every time we make love It is magical and he makes me melt. He is very protective over me kind of like a father. He can be a nag siometimes and he can find me immature sometimes but he overall treats me like a princess and makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world how he looks at me. Plus he is like my bestfriend. I am a gemini but my venus is in taurus and says that im more sensuous and territorial of my lover due to it. He is my baby and he told me he is going to put a ring on my finger someday and we will start a family when we are older. I never felt so serious about someone. I thank god he put such a sexy lovely man in my life he really keeps me sane and understands my bad nerves and spazzness ha ha

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    Carly449 October 25th, 2015

    I am a gemini woman who just went out on a first date with a scorpio man. Just sitting across from him at the restaurant i felt some type of way. The chemistry was so strong it was scary! I found myself wondering what it would feel like being wrapped in his arms. Now, get this…I am over 50 years old and so is he. I felt like a giddy school girl. We talked or texted every day since and it’s like we’re doing a mating dance or something. I haven’t had sex in a while so I’m wondering if that is what the attraction is. Then i realized that other men don’t have that affect on me. I do not live by horoscopes but i thought i would check out some horoscope websites for some insight. A lot is clear to me and i think i want to explore this possible union. Scared as heck but i am curious.

    • Shari 4 hours ago

      it is well worth it. Trust me. I’m 46 -year-old Gemini and my Scorpio is 40. The arms and the holding is the best feeling in the world. I loved when he held me at night and I would have to get up and use the bathroom his arms would be wrapped around me so tight i would just smile. He even said he knew when I would leave him during the night because he would tell me in the morning that I left him. I felt heartbroken. It is a love to die for. The sex, omg. I can’t even begin to explain it. But I will give you one word of advice. Take him seriously, very seriously and open up with your soul to him and hide nothing. Not only will you get the best love of your life you will be transformed. But remain who you are. My Scorpio says that he loves that I keep him on his toes and I’m always making him guess and he can never figure me out. Good luck. And enjoy it.

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    paradise2106 October 2nd, 2014

    my scorpian man took me in when my daughter and I was homeless. We’ve gone through changes. He had pressure from his brother. Because I’m black and he’s sicilian. His prejudice brother is married to his cousin. He is angry cause I am very protective of my Tony. We were friends for years and for 11 yrs we’ve been husband and wife. This man makes me free and I can let go of all the abuse I endored growing up. He’s my gift from God. He doesn’t pressure me at all. I make sure he comes home to a clean house and everything is prefect. I have medical problems. He understands that and goes to doctors appointments with me. he’s been there for all my surgeries. The love of my life.

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    Traceymap62@yahoo.-Com June 25th, 2014

    Will I get married again? Will it be Richard?

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    SkylarLiar June 1st, 2014

    @scorpiodave You sound so much like the Scorpio man that I’m in love with. I’m a Gemini, and I’ve found that I’ve made quite a few mistakes when it comes to going about being with a Scorpio man. I left absolutely no mystery about me, since, being a Gemini, I talk so much about anything, including myself. He doesn’t try to read me at all, already knowing everything that matters, while I know next to nothing about him, even though we’ve been good friends for over a year now. When I fell for him, I told him straight up. Left nothing to discover for him. I kissed him on the first date, as well as many other things, but we never had sex. Through it all, he insists that we are good friends. That I matter to him, and that I’ve helped him with so much. Then, a couple weeks ago, he told me he had a girlfriend. And I kind of went ballistic. I was hurt and confused and wasn’t able to accept it. He had become a bit of a fixation for me, having put up such a thick barrier around himself, piquing my curiosity even more. To know that I’d been going about pleasing him all wrong, so much so to the point that he’d found someone else, well… I was more mad at myself than him. I was hurt, all the same, but I didn’t blame him for it. I guess when I saw your comment I saw an opportunity. You are a Scorpio man with a Gemini woman, and I was wondering if you had any advice about getting out the friendzone. Oh, and I guess I should mention that his relationship didn’t last very long. He ended things with her just last night, and now he wants to see me, saying that he needs company. He’s made it very clear that I shouldn’t get the wrong idea when I come visit him, and that we are just friends. He was in love with her, and now he needs comforting. I’m happy to do this for him… maybe too happy. So maybe you could help me out? What should I do, how should I act when I go to see him in a few days? Thanks for listening.  

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    scorpiodave May 8th, 2014

    I’m a Scorpio dating a married Gemini female.  We have been dating for several months now and we are on fire with passion.  Our biggest issue seems to be that we are also both empaths.  This means when one is mad the other gets even madder and we end up in a downward spiral.
    I trust her fully, something I’ve never really done in a relationship.  I’ve given her my account info for Facebook emails etc.  She offered me hers, but I won’t take them.  I have no desire to check up on her. 
    The sex is amazing.  Granted I’ve always been good, but I try so much harder with her.  The biggest problem I have is the games.  She “tests” me…  at first it was to see if I would drop her name, then it was to see if I would go on a date with another woman.  Then it was to see if I “really loved her” she even did a psychological “intake” on me (she’s getting a PhD in psych)
    Our worst fight…  when I even shocked myself with the “Scorpio sting” was when she told me she couldn’t see me again because she told her husband about me… I had no idea there was even a possibility that she wouldn’t choose me over him.  The pure shock to my system made me snap.  I scared her.  I gathered up all of our hotel receipts printed off every message (48 pages worth) and was going to bring them to her husbands work I was going to force him to swing on me…  and then demolish him.  Have copies made and put them on the cars at her church.  I had his parents address. This plan of attack included escalations such as calling the DEA on the pot plants of her husband.  Telling CPS to check the video footage in their house for the fathers abuse on the son.
    None of that ever occurred.  She came back to me the next day.  I have been far more pessimistic about our relationship since. I know that I would have destroyed her, and it scared me to death.  I never want to hurt her.  Not hurt anyone like that.  But I know I am capable of it.  That was a couple months ago.  We still see each other everyday talk non stop, and she is again talking about leaving her husband.  When she brings it up I stop her.  I tell her I don’t want her to talk like that unless she is 100% sure.  I know I can’t let her raise my hopes.  I love her, I’ll take what I can get.  

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    cgonzales700 April 14th, 2014

    Malaki Strauser and Candace Gonzales

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    Phillygem526 September 1st, 2013

    @Phillygem526 I meant to you *why don’t scorpio men…

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    Phillygem526 September 1st, 2013

    @Scorpio-Man….I see your post was from March 2011…did you ever apologize??? What happened between you two? I’m curious… Why you do scorpio men don’t like to apologize? You have to get past that…

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    Geminiareawesome July 6th, 2013

    @josh maybe there a reason she broke up with you from your last comment something tells me u wouldn’t really be sweet to her slut I hate you really from this something tells she needs someone better than u

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    Geminiareawesome July 6th, 2013

    @gaby people don’t tell u who u are u tell them 

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    Gemini91 January 5th, 2013

    I’ve been with a Scorpio man for over two yeaRs. I love the guy but i don’t always like him. I have a Sun in Gemini , moon in Aries, and Venus in Leo. So being a Gemini in generall i am like a butterfly who likes having intelligent conversations. I dont really like changes but i dont like to be bored or people aroud me to get bored. Before i met my scorpio guy i used to date so many guys, even at the same time. Sometimes i found it fun and sometimes i used to get home feeling sad because i needed a soul-mate. Someone to complete me fully; emotionally, intellectually and phyisically. So at tht time maybe people thought i was being a playful girl because i am fun but not commited in one person. When i met my scorpio guy , i became myself ; loyal and also jelouse. i also need lost of attention from my scorpio man (probably because i have a leo on my venus). I sic attention and affection. At the moment I’m not very secure with my scorpio man but he is my first love (im 21) and i can’t not picture myself being with someone else. We tryed to break up many times but i am scared to let go of him so i always try to work it out. He lives far away from me , i will move in London near him in 6months so hopefuly things will get better. Right now our relationship isnt that secure but i let him have everything he want just so i dont loose him. I love him with all my heart, i have hopes for him and i pray that we will be together forever. 

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    rudegirl2013 December 25th, 2012

    I’m a gemini woman and I have been with a scorpio for the past 11 months now and boy it has been a ride. Like all relationships it started off so amazing… We saw eachother every other day, talked on the phone all day, lol we got sick when we couldn’t be around eachother but after a while that all ended… He started getting very jealous and controlling and the relationship got a bit aggresive… Now it’s to the point that we argue every other day over the simplest things… Most of the time the arguments are caused because of me but we never really solve anything… Our communication sucks cuz he always feel that he is right and never wants to hear the truth…  We could be arguing and i’ll listen to everything he has to say but as soon as it’s time for me to talk and speak my mind he hangs up and say that I always say the wrong things…  He’s very stubborn and arrogant and that urks my nerves… Sometimes I sit and wonder do he really love me and my heart tell me he do but sometimes I just don’t see it… But it’s strange cuz when we’re together everything is good but as soon as we get apart shit just go koo koo crazy… lol… I can say that the sex is AMAZING though… I don’t know what it is with gemini’s and scorpio’s when it come to sex but daaaaamn(THAT SHHH IS THE BEST)but anway now he is going through this phase where he insist that I need tough love… Which I hate cuz why do he feel that he can make that decision… I just wish I had a better understanding about everything… One thing I can say is that I’m a good example of a crazy gemini… Lol I tend to do childish shhh like find ways to piss him off just so he can show me some attention, or say crazy shit to him then turn right around and tell him how much I love him and I much I want to be with him… I really don’t know what have got into me cuz I was never this crazy… They say that love make you go crazy and do things you never thought you would so I guess it’s true… This is my first time ever being in love so I just want to know is it really worth fighting for? At times I sit and think and often regret falling inlove cuz he hurts too bad or is it just I’m not ready? Can someone help me out?

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    Sweetiecharm November 10th, 2012

    Im a gemini woman. Ive known a scorpio guy, who was a classmate of mine since 3rd grade til 4th year highschool. Yes, it was that long but, we never talked that much within that span of time. I never liked him because he was arrogant, but he’s really intelligent and good looking too. I can still remember that he was a very mysterious person, he is a strong speaker, when he’s got something to say, people would really listen and he was a math genius!  That’s what made him famous in school and a lot of girls fell for him. We never saw each other after hischool. I went to college and finished my degree. And, surprisingly, after 4 years, our lives crossed. He got my number from a friend and I was surprised he called me. We talked and it was wierd because we were never that close. I knew that he had a girlfriend so I asked him about her, he said they were still together but he’s in a shaky relationship with her. Since then, we became close friends. I told him my problems and I liked that he listens to everything I say. Well, geminis are really chatty, right? So I kinda enjoyed the company. As time went on, I found out that his girlfriend for 6 yrs left him for another guy and he was very distraught. I could feel it. He told me he almost destroyed his life by slashing his wrist, not eating and taking drugs because he really loved the girl. After a few months, he started to ask me out. But, I had a boyfriend then, so I kinda prevented myself from seeing him that often. I realized it was wrong to go out with him because my boyfriend might find out about it and  I dont want rumors spreading so I cut all communications with him. For 4 months, he would always call me but I would turn off my phone, he would txt me but I wudnt reply. It so happened that me and my bf broke up because he chose his career over me and left town without even telling me his plans. I wasnt even sure if he’s coming back so I kinda felt that being loyal to him was up to no good. So when Mr. Scorpio guy called again, I picked up the phone, we talked and I was surprised when he said HE MISSED ME SO MUCH. I explained the reason why I avoided him and he understood. We started going out again and after a month, he finally told me he really had feelings for me and he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I was scared and skeptical at first but I came to realize how long he has been there trying to know me better and wanting to be with me and our personalities just clicked so I gave it a shot. We’re together for 6 months now and I have always been happy. I don’t worry that he might see another woman because I can feel how much he loves me and he has always been honest with me.. Our relationship has been with ups and downs but we always work on our differences and we adjust with each other’s preferences. I know that we have a long way to go and we don’t know what’s gonna happen next. Six months is just a short period of time but it seemed to us like we have been in this relationship for a long tym. I  truly believe that he is my soulmate and I love him very much!!! πŸ™‚

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    Hanibanani November 9th, 2012
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    LuckyFlowerBomb31 October 9th, 2012

    i met my scorpio on facebook, he asked me out. we went out late. like 12a and had a few drinks and some food, and never n all my 31 years of living have i wanted to jump across the table and wear the furr off a man!!!!!! sheeeeesh! he is everything masculine, he is talented, driven, succesful, honest, believes in chivalry, paid for the food, kissed me good night…. damn dream!!!! but the next day, today…is even better….almost in a very eerie way, he knows how to deal with me, and that is aaaaaaahhhhlooot of KNOW HOW cuz us Gemini womeeeennnnn!!!! goooood grief lol lol so its new, and he seems like such a keeper, this site and all this awesome a$$ comments just put some brownies in his pan ;0)

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    Nessa_Z August 16th, 2012

    @poopstick666 gemini women can be the most loyal and give their all if they know they are doing the right thing. Usually (as far as I know) the most wandering around gemini women are too distracted and too interested in many things around. But a gemini still has strong personal beliefs in many traditional things, it is only the stay that she can not promise (but she will stay if she feels it is right). It is only up to the man if he wants to pin down his dream girl, or let her fly around… and the best men are always the ones who let us geminis fly – personally me always will love my lovers who got my nature in its own ways.And I can make a right guess whether a man will try to change my ways and close my windows of my flight. If i feel this, then this is it. In such case gemini can be less thoughtful less considerate less logical and very much keen on walking! So for a scorpio i think there is only one way to make her bored – not to let her fly around. If a scorpio lets her do it, she will be loyal without dating. And flying can be anything from hobbies to funny time together at home! As long as the scorpio is interested in maintaining such relationship πŸ˜‰ of course, I am only a gemini woman, what would I know… I am no psyhic here :)) best of luck!

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    Nessa_Z August 16th, 2012

    I am a girl gemini and met a scorpio man a week ago. We are sparkling fireworks when we meet, our eyes can’t stay calm when we are close… think of it as a storm, we fight for nothing and for the sake of fighting, we even fight for fun! of course then one of us gets serious and goes for some quiet time. Until the next time we see each other. When we are intimate, he totally inspires me to go extra lengths, but seems to need more ”intensity than play” which is not my field of a game πŸ˜€ but we both love the time together when we are tired… I dunno whether I should call this a chemistry or a disaster, because he seems not to be bothered but keeps trying to pin me down, and I am always missing him to death but wanna go away when i we spend more than 15 min together. THIS IS A MAD CONNECTION! πŸ™‚ still can’t decide if i like it or not… might take a while… hahah πŸ˜€

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    poopstick666 July 16th, 2012

    will geminis get bored when the scorp needs to gain their trust? but when it comes to true love with gemini will they be loyal even without dating?

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    poopstick666 July 16th, 2012

    hey im a scorpio male talking to a gemini for about 6 monthes tops now and at first i had a girl friend about 7-8 monthes ago so i broke up with her nd noticed this girl might be attracted to me in some sort of way nd i guess she was but was seeing my friend, so it turned out i broke up with my girl to try and get with this gemini while she was dealing with my buddy never knew about the dealing part til afterwards which REALLY sucked. so i started talking to her cuz it turned out he played her nd started doing stuff with his ex gf. so me and her wen’t out and had a good time and drank and i didn’t want to try to get too close to fast or anything, basically wanted to show her i want the real thing or nothing. so i kissed her before she left into her friends house and i know she loved it cuz shes the one who wen’t in for the kiss. so after that i asked her like i don’t think you like me…i never said that and she said im going to blah blah and we can see each other when i come back. then she wen’t to some place outside canada and got drunk and fucked some guy…. and then she came back, i found out and i thought we were atleast talking or seeing eachother, but after i found out i was pretty bummed off life, like i snapped on her completely called her a whore, then the next day i apologized and i felt like a dick. so then thats where it started we started on and off fighting not even seeing each other basically.. just texting and phone.. so she all of a sudden starts talking to one of my other buddies cuz she was hanging out with him alot then i find out then i was soo bummed again, so then i started talking to her in  front of the guy she was seeing but i dont think it was all tooo serious… soo i guess from then and there we kinda been talking alot more clearly and more meaningful/ understanding.. so i have not had sex with this girl and i want it to be the right time and not forced or anything… but after that i started trying to talk to her and stuff and she been enjoying me for sure and i want to be able to trust her but she has partys nd stuff at her hyouse nd i am not able to go over because i have a broken collar bone so i have been just sitting at home.. but she called me the other week and was talking to her and telling her some deep stuff but i dont think she oculd handle “deep”.. so we hung out at my buddies just me and her and some friends and it was amazing i knew we had such a connection and i think she kinda feels overwhelmed with my emotions maybe. but yeah now she hasn’t talked to me or anything but she puts in her status like “been thinkin bout you” and “hard to wait for someone when things may never happen, but its everything you’ve ever wanted… but now she has’nt talked to me or anything probably cuz she needs her freedom… but im still getting into the trust part , and i havn’t really tried to have sex yet cuz i wan’t it to be real… i just want to know how long does it take for a scorp to trust a gem usually and how long do geminis need freedom and what you guys think of my position? does she wan’t me and me only? even when shes at party’s cuz i know that geminis are iffy about settling down until its the “RIGHT” partner?

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    LuluRane April 20th, 2012

    I’m a Gemini Woman married to a Scorpio Man. Wow I can tell you the first 4 to 5 years of our marriage was quite a ride. We were both right out of high school when we married and this August we will be married 17 years. We have managed to find “Our Own”. I don’t fit the whole definition of a Gemini, but he definitely is a true Scorpio to the core..
    I can however tell you that if you are in love with a Scorpio man it can work and it is well worth it. The sex, well it can definitely blow your  mind. I’m creative and love spice and he likes to “be in charge”, and has this stamina, WOW. It can make for some interesting and steamy things.
    Because our road was so bumpy in the begining, we didnt have children the first 6 years of our marraige. But we have been so very blessed with 3 wonderful children since. Our marraige is very unique and we have had to have constant communication. He is my true soulmate. It takes a lot of hard work, but it can work.. It has definitely been an interesting ride for us. But well worth it!!

    • ANDYVE137 March 15th, 2017

      Wow thank you soo much for this post ..really needed this ..I’m a Scorpio Man and I’ve been in a relationship with a Gemini woman for 3 years now ..and she’s really starting to get to me with her constant change of mind ..I didn’t believe in horoscopes till now ..and I understand her better now ..but I still think we need someone to counsel us ..I really want to make this work and possibly end up marrying her.

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    Millennium Flowerchild April 18th, 2012

    Being a Gemini woman and accepting the flighty essence a Gemini woman has, I have met a Scorpio and am in love.
    Past relationships with different signs-including the signs that (by the book) compliment me, I am honestly flattered with how our signs fit together.
    The “sting” of the Scorpio is refreshing.  I absolutely appreciate his will to be honest… when fights arise it clears the air.  It puts my jealous love at ease due to the fact that when we have our altercations I realize how petty and little my insecurity is and he strengthens me. (or us I should say)  It also helps me let go.  He is loyal, with absolutely nothing to hide, and this attracts me to no end.
    Being a Gemini as well, apparently, I am not completely close with family (which is true in my case, but perhaps not in others).  He being a scorpio aids me in learning how to be closer to my family and melts my heart to see how close he is with his.
    I am the luckiest woman alive.  Thank you for your comments.  I had been a tad on the wayside (due to past [this including Aries, Libra, and Leo signs] and due to how strong I believe in Astrology)  but seeing how other Geminis fell for Scorpios with luck helps me know that his honest and loyal nature is the real thing. 
    Love my Scorpio

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    lizardlovely March 23rd, 2012

    I am a Gemini woman, I have been with my Scorpio man for almost 4 years now. I truly believe he is my soulmate. I am a true Gemini, exact. And he is a Scorpio to the core. He grounds me, and I make him a little less serious. I love him so much. He has never cheated on me, and I will never have to worry. Sex is incredible. & our 4 year relationship has been honestly magical.

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    GeminiGirl7june November 18th, 2011

    Boy oh boy!! I am a Gemini Woman and I have been in a relationship with a Scorpio Man For 2 years and we recentely broke up. First I met him I was the good looking one but I really liked his personality .I really liked talking him , flirting ,kissing and loving. But they are so evil! After 6months I started to be jelous because I really loved him (like a very sweet baby). After six month i trusted him and knew that he disliked me checking on him so I let him do what he wanted. I than found out that he lies to me he was keeping secrets from me and that’s when I get really uppset and angry and say horrible stuff to him. Lots of extreme argument but later we kiss and make up after he promises me that he won’t do it again. But again he made me so weak extremly angry cos he never used to pick his phone up and still lyeing about stupid things . So I never trusted him , I tryed to but he never changes. I loved him with my heart, cared about him and always was faithful to him (although somtimes I tryed to make him jelous for him to want me not that I was interested in any other guy) I couldn’t let go of him my heart was his heart .. He always made me cry but still love and wanted him .. Until when I witnessed that he cheated on me with a random girl from his Uni. At the time we weren’t talking with eachother for like a week, he made an excuse that he was drunk and hurt. After that he broke my heart but never answer his phone calls or anything . I can’t even listen to his voice or see his eyes ..not that I just loved him purely but I also always helped him with money I looked after him like a baby. Trust me Gemini ,sex is too good ,you will have a good happy time with scorpions but please stay away they will break you heart and you won’t be able to move on because they are good at munipulating. If you think ‘oh he seems sad now , he probably regrets wat he did he will change’ NO!! He is just tryin to control your life he is tryin to munipulate so he can Win. I hate scoripon but this certain person still has my heart… HOWEVER, I NOW HAVE UNTI-SCORPIONS CELLS ON MY BRAIN THAT WON’T ALLOW HIM ON MY LIFE EVER AGAIN!! I hope someone like a easygoing Leo personality will come along . I need a honest balanced relationship with No secrets (I’d rather know the painful truth) ….. Hate you scorpion u hav a good heart tho just hate ur head.

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    maddyrockstar229 September 20th, 2011

    m also a scorpion guy n i cn understand dat its not easy to handle a gemini women…..n thier crazy moods???????????as i was in relation 4r 6 years.with her but i wont be able to continue dat…..

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    Gaby September 10th, 2011

    @Denise stop being so narrow minded, dont assume something to be true without giving it a chance,i bet even it ended up being true, you would probably be ignorant to admit that it could be accurate, and what are you doing here anyways? so get out, shutup, because in my opinion this is so damn accurate,it couldnt be anymore accurate if i tried,sorry,open mindedness promises more opportunities no room for norrow minded like you =P

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    SuGaG July 19th, 2011

    Hi!!! loving this comparison… I AM A GEMiNi WOMAN!!! i am EVERYTHiNG it says iM and MORE!! πŸ™‚ i have recently started dating a Scorpio MALE… 1st date was awesome!!! && he caters to myy EVERY WiSH… HOLD on, im not easily impressed doe. he did as me the famous question. “Do you believe in love @ 1st sight?” i blew it off… needless to say, sex game is on point, and i normally find sex as a game of “i WiN” he appears to be pretty cool.. it tooo soon to see if we’ll run off into the sunset together, but he’s fun to be around and the energy is there… thanks for the insite!!! GO GEMINIS!!!!

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    Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    As far as your Scorpio. Well I understand the self destructive phase he is in. We are creatures of death and rebirth. In order for us to be reborn and become better people we need to burn ourselves to the ground before we are able to rise from the ashes. He is stuck in that phase, and he is tied to you and your kid at the same time. He’s burning but has no way out (its a painful self inflicted phase that is necessary for us to grow. I really do not know how to explain it to others, but we need to do it). Something happened between the two of you that you are not talking about and I’m sure it is a much longer story with many complications. He is angry and yelling when he sees you because he still LOVES you. Sounds weird huh? Just remember, you can’t hate that much without caring. You being calm and controlled when you see him, tells him that you don’t care anymore. He loves you to death and can’t deal with the lose of his true love and the lose of his son. He’s trapped in a tortuous purgatory and will fight it through until it is resolved or die, which ever comes first. He doesn’t know how to explain it to you, and will not ask for help. That doesn’t not mean you can’t be his guiding light. It’s your choice. Being a single mother is a humbling life experience. It will make you so much stronger than you once were. I wish you well, and empathize with the ruff road you must walk.

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    Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    I know she still likes me, because she can’t hide her emotions from me. I’ve never met a person I could not read in an instant. I guess thats why people think we (Scorpios) are psychic or get in their heads and others think we make grand assumptions. Then you pile on the tell tale give aways of her friends body language, giggles, overhearing them talking about how she still likes me, and her emotions that could only be produced by a girl that is deeply in love and if that’s not obvious than I don’t know what is. The thing is while I do want her back, I only want her back if she shows me that she can deal with conflict in a healthy way.

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    Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Catherine, I did try and work things out with her when things started to fall apart. She was too scared to face her problems and ran away. The ball is in her court now, and she has the game of her life to play. I hope she plays well. So I did apologize first, you are reading me wrong.

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    Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Nicole, you worry about instant love with a Scorpio, but you shouldn’t. We read your body language and emotions so well (gemeni girls are so transparent to us). It also makes us susceptible to emotional contagion which sucks at times, but it just comes with the territory. We know more about you than you probably do. I was in a similar situation with my gemeni girl. I felt her before I even laid eyes on her. I knew as soon as I walked through that door I was going to meet someone that touched my soul. She got scared and ran away too. I assume I’m in that faze the two of you where in. She ran away, boxed herself in, stopped communicating, and dug herself in to such a hole you wouldn’t believe it. I would love to rescue her, but she has to show me she is willing to put in some effort to climb out herself first. Reciprocity is a major factor in all Scorpio relationships. We need to know that you care about it just as much as we do, and you are willing to put energy into it.

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    Scorpio-Man May 29th, 2011

    Nicole, don’t be scared. I can understand where you’re Scorpio is coming from and the fact that you were the one that reached out to him, and fixed things, showed him that you are mature enough to be in a deep relationship with him. It showed him you are willing to reciprocate his effort. That when conflict happens, you are willing to work at things (that you will not run at the first sign of trouble). He definitely loves you now that you have shown him that.

    I think that is our (Scorpios) biggest obstacle with gemeni girls. Girls in general do not like to apologize, and gemeni girls are even worse at that. Like little kids they RUN from problems (cute at times). Their two sides kind, warm, carrying, care free, smart, passionate conflicts with their psycho, temper tantrum trowing, bullheaded, deceitful, dark side. When we meet your dark side (girl brain), and then the next time we see you, you give us the care free nothings wrong side it comes off as passive-aggressive. Which means we need to test your fatal flaw to see how bad it really is and test ourselves to see if we can manage it.

    Good for you that you showed him that you can work things out. We will always work things out with those we love and are loyal to the death. When we can love someone we know instantly. We look far and wide for the very few people we know we can love. When we find them it is SO obvious to us that we can fall in love with you, and that you can fall in love with us and we don’t really understand why you don’t get it. We are ready to skip most of the crap with girls we know we can love because that is where it will be down the road, we just want to skip of the bs and pain. Keep It Simple Stupid (KISS) and fall in love.

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    Swam-away May 28th, 2011

    You won’t get her back believing you are the best thing since sliced bread..acting as though getting to know a Scorpio is a privedge and a gift. I knew a Scorpio. When I became pregnant for him and he didn’t want it HE tried the character assassination routine. He told people I bribed him to have sex with me, that he wanted to beat me until the baby was dead, that he only lasted 30 seconds because he wanted to get away from me. RIGHT!!>>For the FOUR years we were together he only lasted 30 seconds at a time. Ok so the second round would be an hour I won’t lie. And it was the best sex of my life. But that does not excuse that he is an immature, childish, arrogant(as all Scorps are) ass. And I’m being nice here. I am not a Gemini. I am a Pisces. He told me he loved me more than any other in his life. And then I became pregnant. And I saw him for who he truely was. You might wonder what I am doing on this board. My father is a Scorpio, my mother is a Gemini. When they met my father asked my mother if she believed in love at first sight. They are still married 50 years later and love each other. But I do know my father. He is a know-it-all. Definately arrogant. Thinks that others should cater to him. If he doesn’t get what he wants he throws a fit. Thank god my mother is a patient kind wife who has waited on him hand and foot all these years, cooked, cleaned and taken good care of the children(me). My father is highly intelligent and that may make the difference. My Scorpio was dumb as a brick. Didn’t make it to highschool. From a bad family. He has issues. BUT I would do it all over again for that kind of love. Where you Scorps falter is letting people know how great you think you are. And then believing it yourself. You’re not. And some are actually only showing you pity..that is unless they stay to realize it is a cover of insecurity for some truely remarkable and indescribable traits that you yourselves do not even know how to control. Your emotions are your poison. You will sting yourself to death if you don’t get ahold of your feelings and arrogance. Trust me. All those people my Scorpio talked badly about me to came to me and told me what he had said and that I should exact revenge. I did not. At first. Until his pride got in the way of his responsibility to his child…meaning he would rather make ME suffer even if it meant his child would too. So I filed for child support. He is and has been seething with anger. When we talk he is screaming and shouting, I am calm and serious. Let me ask you, as a Scorpio knows best, would someone responding in an extremely calm manner to your angry rants piss you off? I hope it does. You are right his revenge has torn me apart at my very soul, but he did not do it in silence. His revenge was misplaced and had no rhyme or reason. I was good to him. Too good. He made the mistake of underestimating me. Thinking I would never hold him accountable because I loved him too much. That, dear Scorpio, is where you falter. Scorpio Man, you may need to apologize first. You are not better. And sometimes it takes a stronger person to realize that. Good luck. To be honest I am truely amazed at Scorpios depth of emotion and vulnerability. When they love, well, it is like no other. But they could use a dose of humility.

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    Scorpio-Man May 28th, 2011

    I had a run in with an amazing gemeni girl, we were totally into each other, and it was very intense. When things fell apart, she tried the character assassination routine on me as well. I overcame all her childish nonsense without breaking a sweat. Geminis only considering the surface of everything and fail to see the unrelenting, indomitable, shear determination and power in the soul of the Scorpio. You gravely underestimate us.

    When I see her now, she radiates remorse and sadness and suppresses intense emotions that bleed out in every body language possible. I wish she would find the courage to apologize and put in a little effort. She’s the only girl I would be this patient with, and be willing to mend the cracks of such a messy relationship. Don’t ask me why. I can get any girl I want, but for some reason I want to give her another chance, and want her to just stop hurting.

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    Scorpio-Man May 28th, 2011

    HaHa gaby, you know gossip is something gemeni girls do best. As a Scorpio Man I don’t believe your story for a second. Our sting/revenge is far more painful then pointless gossip. A quote that comes to mind is when thinking of Scorpio guys and gemeni girls is:

    Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.

    Our revenge tears people apart at their very soul, and last a long time if not a life time. It truly is poisonous and hard to stomach.

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    Gemgirl May 24th, 2011

    I don’t understand why so many people say this combo won’t work. I’m a Gemini female and I’m seeing a Scorpio male. Sure, he’s intense and possessive to some degree, but it’s not unbearable. We are totally devoted to each other and to making what we have work. I have been with Libra, Aries and Leo men — all of whom are suppose to be my perfect matches — yet they were some of the worst relationships of my life. I fall more and more in love with my Scorpio man everyday; he accepts me for who I am, and I him. Plus, no other sign can satisfy me sexually the way he can, and vice versa. With a little effort, this combo DOES work.

  44. farrukh April 10th, 2011

    i am scorpion and i love my gemini wife

  45. Denise March 21st, 2011

    I think this horoscope stuff is a bunch of boloney
    what makes you think that you are what someone tells you,we are from god and most important more than mear words, we are human, feeling, loving, and kind. no matter what that in the end is love. no horoscope can tell you what is ment to be. wise up!!!

  46. Nicole March 1st, 2011

    Im involved with this Scorpio male who I am very much into…. We have been dealing with eachother for months(met on fathers day 2010)…. Even planned to move in together back in November but decided the time wasnt right… So i was kind of hurt and backed off from him for some months… but I couldnt stop thinking bout him…So I reached out to him and he was so excited tht I was communicating with him again… because I was ignoring his calls and texts… Anywho on Saturday he told me he loved me and I was to shocked to reply… I dont want to put myself out there again… But I really love him too… Its scary because this (love) happened in such a short time…

  47. liz February 7th, 2011

    as u say we’re d most hard to know sign and i dont think we even know what goes on in each others minds when we meet a fellow gemini..but i dissagree with the female g’s always in fantasy land comment.. and the two faceited rep..i try 2 see things from both sides.. its called empathy

  48. 808Gemini January 30th, 2011

    I’m a Gemini girl true to the heart and recently developed a relationship with a Scorpio. I have yet to learn the dynamics of our relationship..Totally intrigued by him yet he can be a little to clingy for my liking. I’m hoping we can have a fun aspiring serious relationship that only bring out the best in each other!!!

  49. josh January 10th, 2011

    you whore i hate you and hahahahahahahaha STOP telling people u played me when i was the one who sweet talked you into thinking i actually liked you and thaught you were beautiful ahaha i think you are fucken ugly and you grose me out and i never want to see you again and talking to you was a big mistake i hope you finally realize that and stop calling me and texting me pretending to be someone else you bitch i hate you =D ….

  50. gaby January 10th, 2011

    i am a gemeni and my ex-boyfriend josh well yeah we were kinda going out :\ lol well yeah me and him would flirt alot and then one day he texted me saying and i quote “i really like you” and i texted back yeah i really like you too but a week after that he asked me out and i told him that i didn’t mean what i said and that i didn’t like him that way im guessing the poor guy got bootytickled slash heartbroken so he started telling his friends what i had done to him and his friends told their friends and their friends told their friend and so on and in the end i heard that people were saying i was a slut and that i messed around with guys too much.that is what i call a typical scorpio move getting someone back by revenge…

  51. Mario December 7th, 2010

    I’ve met this Gemini girl that I truly want to be with, but she takes this “horoscope compatibility” thing too serious. I just enjoy her time and company, but I’m learning to understand that she has to be independent sometimes. Which is kind of good, because I don’t like to feel pressured nor insecure. But I guess it’s more like a don’t ask, don’t tell type of thing. So I’m just waiting it out right now.

  52. grgsgeminigrl December 3rd, 2010

    I’m a Gemini and my fiancΓ© is a Scorpio and I will tell you this, Scorpio men are very loyal & calm. I never have any doubts in my mind that he will cheat on me, and the fireworks in bed are awesome! People laugh at me when I tell them that he makes me see stars! I am the moody & aggressive one and he is the calm one. Very hot & awesome mix. Oh and the Scorpio men are very affectionate and passionate. Love him!

  53. camila abraham November 22nd, 2010

    i am a gemini girl and recently have met a scorpio mail …. he semeed really nice … he invited me for dinner ..dinner went on well .. we decided to goclubbing afterthat … he got really pissed at me for stepping on his feet …. they do get annoyed for silly things … but when we got home .. i was ready to leave … eventually he saud he wanted to know me … i melted …. i am not in love with him …guess i m gullible … we gemini girls are for the moment

  54. maythirtyone November 2nd, 2010

    this is so nice πŸ™‚ a lot of websites would tell that i am compatible with an aquarius, leo or libra when in reality i never had true friends under those signs. the icing on the cake is, my first bf, an aquarius, gave me a hard time (to hell with that womanizer)! we broke up the worst kind of way.

    strangely though, most of my friends are scorpios with birthdays from october 31 to november 17 so in these weeks, my wallet suffers hehehe. there are a lot of scorps in my life the people in the office i trust the most; the 4 male mountaineering buddies i can trust with being cramped in one small tent to spend the night; my former boss, who saw his daughter in me and treated me like his own even though i resigned a year after; 3 of my childhood friends… i haven’t have an intimate relationship with a scorpio male but i’m thinking it’ll be a great one knowing how wonderful the scorps are in my life

  55. vivash October 31st, 2010

    im in love with this gemini girl ……..but she is always so fidgety….cant seem to understand what she wants. πŸ™ wish gemini women were a lil bit less wandering…dunno what to do coz i love her so.

  56. syb October 20th, 2010

    Im deeply in love with a Scorpio man. Im not your typical Gemini woman. Im like a hermit and need lots of solidtude. I have very deep dark thoughts often. However Im shallow as well, just not often. This scorpio man I love, says he loves me back. But has had many obsatcles with following through. The last and final barrior is my precious daughter. He never planned on being w someone that has child w someone else. And this is enough to stop him dead in his tracks. I see the despair it cause him to turn me down. And I feel his sinsere emotion when hes with me. He has ignored me for over a month now and I think blocked my w phone and facebook :-/. He needs his solitude from me to grow and be who he his. I love him, and want every part of him. Even his mean neorotic ways. I hope for the day that he’l change his mind and come for me. Even if im withsome one, if i still feel this intense about him, I will go with him…..we will see. I feel like like im always waiting for him.

  57. dominique September 24th, 2010

    I love my scorpio man…..he Is very intensive, he knows how I’m feeling before I know……the arguments can get pretty intense…..but the thought of being without him drives me insane…..I love him past our life span on this earth…….he completes me, protects and loves me like no other…….I love that man!!!!

  58. dee-jayy August 4th, 2010

    i lovee my scorpio man even though he is ah jealous person i never ahd ah boifriend tht cared so much 4 me he’ll do anything 4 me thts y i love em sumtimes he has ah sort of ah temper but wen we are together its freaking amazing i love yu hunnie bunz!!

  59. Audrey April 22nd, 2010

    I’m a gemini girl, my best friend is a scorpio girl. They say the friendship is either never a friendship or a friendship to reckon with. We have the strongest friendship I’ve had with anyone in my life and I have an attraction to this scorpio guy. I like them scorpios! They in some way complete me. (: Calm me down too. Scorpios and Geminis, I like the idea. haha

  60. buddy April 12th, 2010

    anne frank and peter van pels were gem girl and scorp man. awwww. <3 rip <3

  61. D.J. in Tacoma March 2nd, 2010

    …end quotes.”

  62. D.J. in Tacoma March 2nd, 2010

    Well… Sun Signs work for men, but I use Moon Signs for women. Sun (and Moon) signs alone are just not enough information to say how any couple will do together. So, make that Mars and Venus, but in which signs and houses? Etc. Thanks for the opportunity to “voice” my opinion. I’m a Gemini female, and have been with Scorpio men. Past tense. Even with my natal Mars in Scorpio descending in the 7th House, I can’t stay there… love them as I do.

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