Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

Help Required Please
I have just started to date a delicious Aquarian Man..there is lots of animal magnetism to be sure..we score very highly on that one and have had a couple of great dates but….24 hours after the end of the 2nd date when I was getting positive, lighthearted txts all looking good and things seemed to be proceeding well..we were’nt rushing into no 3 it was 9 days down the line…I suddenly get the cold shoulder and the tone of the txts really change and I suddenly feel that all the good things we had going are on the slide?
A friend suggests that an Aquarian will usually do the opposite to what they are feeling i.e. at the beginning they get a little scared that they like you and they therefore back off….so I’ve cut the txts completely now and we are 36 hours on…I was going to leave it for 3 more days until the day before our proposed date before I contacted him again and made some suggestion about our proposed date and where we might go/meet.
I’m feeling anxious about this because I really like this guy and I know I am going to have to learn to adapt to this ‘hot’ and then ‘col’ streak but should I just leave it until he contacts me?  I was going to suggest something quite off the wall for our next date hoping he might see this as really interesting and a challenge but not sure how he might react?  He’s very energetic and very driven in his chosen sport so I was hoping my suggestion might appeal to him rather than just suggesting some thing boring like a drink and a meal?
Any views?

Countrygirl7424, I also am into a two month relationship of sorts with an Aquarian man.  We were hot and heavy every few days but now it’s an every Friday night get together.  As an Aries we want more but I’ve learned that my Aquarian man loves his freedom, privacy and family.  He wants no strings (at this time). He doesn’t like texting or hardly any communication until I get the call on Friday night when he picks me up, which is something I am learning to deal with.  The fireworks are still there and we love each others company and talk and talk as well as… but I think this type of man has to learn how to give more.  He is sweet and considerate but as an Aries woman we need so much more attention, it’s been hard getting use to.  I suggest you try and spice up the next text, see if he likes you’re new approach, if he doesn’t take the bait, maybe it isn’t to be.  They don’t seem to know how to communicate in that way, while I am texting away, he responds with two or three words, usually not in response to my text, but some off the topic comment.  If he’s worth it to you, you’ll have to figure out what he can give, it might not be enough for you, but I have learned it’s not that he doesn’t want to, it’s all he is able to.   

@CountryGirl7424
Hi Country Girl, i’m an aquarian male and i can tell you that is completely normal. we like the chase as much as the end result. but we dont like the chase in a bad “we’re just gonna lead you on for fun” kinda way. we want you to want us, but not be full on, but not be cold either. a bit of give and take. Be fun with it (the txt’s), be cheeky and witty. He will defnitely pick up on that and it will be an incredible turn-on.
as for what to do on your next date, DEFINITELY do something off-the-wall. do something that is so different that it will shock him, but in a good way. He will respond well to a date like this.
We just want someone to stimulate our minds and to challenge us. we are always after someone who will challenge us and have a war of the minds with us. but dont be too stubborn or submissive. hold your ground, but also give a little.
dont listen to Lydia, we definitely DO know how to communicate in that way, we just dont like to. there’s not much that gets past us. our intuition leads us to know where the game is and the next best approach.
whatever you do, do not be too full on, he will back away quicker than you can say “another Friday night alone”
even if he isn’t communicating with you much, he is still interested in you. us being cold and distant doesnt mean we aren’t interested. it means we are needing time to refocus, re-adjust and just to recharge. we love company and people, but we need time to ourselves to to have a look at the week past and to take it all in.
Best of Luck Country Girl. us Aquarian men are definitely worth all the work. we are very loyal and will give you everything you desire, as long as you give us the same…. remember, we need space, space, space, but we also want to know we are wanted.

@CountryGirl7424 HI, COUNTRYGRIL, I AGREE WITH TERRY. IM DATING AN AQUARIUS MAN. THEY CAN BE A BIT STANDOFFISH. BT, U JST HAVE TO ADJUST AND LET THEM COME AROUND ON THEIR OWN TIME. IF HE’S, INTERESTED IN YOU, HE WILL EVENTUALLY. I BELIEVE IN COMMUNICATION. I EXPRESSED THAT WITH HIM AND THERE HAVE BEEN ALOT OF GREAT CHANGES WITHIN HIM. HE’S SHOWING EXPRESSION AND EFFORT. “BABY STEPS”. IM MORE OUTSPOKEN, LOUD, AGGRESSIVE. HE’S MORE QUIET, LAID BACK, RESERVE. SO, WE BALANCE EACH OTHER OUT. HE’S COMING MORE OUT OF HIS SHELL AND COMMUNICATING MORE. IM MORE OF A TALKER. HE’S MORE OF A TEXTER. JUST BE PATIENT AND IF HE’S THE ONE FOR YOU, HE WILL OPEN UP MORE ON HIS TIME. THEY CAN BE MYSTERIOUS, NON CHALANT, EMOTIONALLY CHALLENGE. AQUARIUS ARE EMOTIONALLY PACE SETTERS. THEY DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING. VERY OBSERVANT. SO, WHEN U THINK HE’S NOT PAYING ATTENTION OR NOT NOTICING YOU, HE IS. THEY ARE THINKERS. SO, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE TO HIM MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY. GOOD LUCK!!!!!! 

Hey I’m an Aquarius male and I’m in love with an arise female but for some reason I just can’t tell her how I feel. We aren’t together but I want us to be when we hang out its fun but I want more than to just be friends but I just can’t ask her out because IM so scared it won’t work out what do I do.

I have had 3 major relationships in my life. Each has been with an Aquarius. I’ve had children with the 2nd and fell deeply in love with the 3rd. From my experience, the Aquarian man can be so nurturing and good for the soul. You have the ones that are too clingy and the ones that are aloof. I’m more attracted to the aloof ones. I feel like they are a drug to Aries. Get u so high, then crash very hard when the high is over. I’m still addicted to my last Aquarian. But I have to learn to avoid them as the heartbreak is so strong. If the aquarian knew how to be more in tuned with Aries, than it can be the strongest relationship known to man as we work very well together. Unstoppable.

@CountryGirl7424
Loved reading all the responses you got.  I cant help but to laugh.. Its soooo True.  I have been in love twice in my life and both Aquarius.  I am swarmed by them like moths to a flame, and I too them.
I have been with my Aquarius for almost 4years.  And believe me we have had some battles but he has always worked on our issues and has always been all in.  The being aloof and distant, it is their nature.  And Yes even after all these years I know how much he loves me but I do get lonely and feel forgetten.  But dont let that scare you, he is worth the wait and battle.  When I have his attention is undivided and I’m the person in his world.  We are often at opposite time lines. Example when I want attention he doesnt, when he wants my attention I dont.  Its irritating at time but hilarious.  We have a million laughs not only is he the love of my life, he is my best friend, my partner in crime.
Get to know yourself and your aquarius nature and life will make sense and be easier. 
Even after 4 years and we live together, he rarely calls me or texts me and its usually short and simple.
Keep things light and airy.  Give him his space but if he’s taking too long for your give him a little nudge by texting him and just say Hi.
Let him do what he does and plan the date.  Your a girl be a girl and let him romance you.  When you are on your date have fun with it.  Talk about what you like to do what you have done etc.  Show him how unpredictable you are or can be and it will excite him.  Aquarius love challenges and feeds off your passion and excitment. 
We have this silly game where when he wants affection I dont give it to him, even a simple kiss.  It drives him crazy and he will try everything for me to give in even for hours. I make him work.  Its so silly but fun and exciting.
Good luck with your aquarius and dont worry if its meant to be it will be.  Dont be so scared or so quick to jump all over him.  Space is good for him and for you.  But dont be afraid to give him a little nudge here and there .

Oh Aquarius man, nothing is more of a turn off for an aries women then a man who does not act!..  If you want her go and get her.  Dont be afraid to be assertive or aggressive in what your want.
I will never forget how my aquarius man went after me and it didnt matter what i did or said he wanted me and he was ganna win me over. He let me know that no matter what he will always be here waiting for me.
Its ok to be afraid, but be couragous and ask yourself is she worth the risk?  You will have a lot more hurdles in your relationship then this .
Me and my aquarius have been together for nearly 4 years and are very much in love.  We started as friends, had a drunken night and he swooped me off my feet and after that I had no chance, LOL.
You aquarius men are dangerous..lol. 
Good luck and god bless

My husband is an Aquarius and I’ve never had a more perfect match for me, (an Aries). It comes from first understanding and accepting a few things about myself. This isn’t a match for the weak of heart. He is a challenge, a brat and a prince, all at once. It’s in his nature. Something to note though, I did not pursue him. He found me, and would not stop until I was his. He’s never done that. We were friends as children. Once he saw me, it was over. Our connections were immediate and very intense, a little scary, actually. He loved me very deeply and very quickly, I think before I loved him. He’s very devoted to me, but he’s also a MAN. He doesn’t take my crap for too long and as I consider myself a queen, I can dish out plenty. We had alot more arguements in the beginning around what was “meant” by something because we were still getting used to understanding one another’s true feelings. Aquarians keep things close to the vest and in some aspects, you have to DRAG it out of them but that doesn’t mean those feelings aren’t there and they don’t exist. These are men of “doing”. You have to watch what they do. They love our openness, expressiveness and joy but they are not as visibly demonstrative as we are. When these men do love though, they love deeply, completely, and blindly in some cases. You need to be very careful about that and make sure that the love given is the love returned because these men WILL protect and cherish you. They KNOW we Aries women are prone to getting hurt and hurt easily. My husband will let me fight my own fights but when he sees I get to a point where I just can’t deal or someone has crossed a line, he can become a mean and scary man quick. They are deeply generous and indulgent of our whims in and out of the bedroom and there’s often a “polarity in reverse” when I know he’s there for the taking and he’s doing all the encouraging to take. He needs his space though and when he needs it, I never give him a hard time. He’s very generous in all other ways so it’s no big deal. I found that I had to tell him from day one what I wanted from the relationship. Plain terms, no nonsense, and be a tempermental Aries brat about it. The thing is, he  was so struck by me, I would have had it, temper tantrum or not. These are very principaled men. They don’t like liars, cheats, game players. They don’t love easily so when they do, they love big and if you betray that, you’re done. For good. They don’t mind a fight, in fact, expect to fight a great deal initially, as long as there is an understanding of deep love and joy and a strong bond between you. Do what Aries do, STAND FOR YOUR MAN….and they will be 100% yours. I love our relationship. It’s a joy, it’s a challenge, it’s never a bore and the bonds are very very strong, but it wasn’t always easy….