Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

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As the Air comes in contact with Fire, it enhances the spark of fire leading to spontaneous attraction between these two signs. ON one side where, the Aquarius love is detached but undemanding which an Aries can rejoice, the Aries love is exciting but selfish with lots of demands to be fulfilled. But both of them make amazing pair with their mutual trust and affection.

An Aquarius man is one of a kind who follows his own path. He is a bit moody but generally one can find him calm, generous, affectionate and full of good and quality humor. Though he is passionate in nature but he has the ability to control it but at times one can still find him unpredictable, weird and unconventional. It is hard to ditch him as he is highly intuitive while his good nature is one thing that is admired by almost everyone in his contact. In love with an Aries woman, he is a very generous lover. He is sympathetic to all her demands and can even control her emotional outbursts.

An Aries woman is an impulsive lady who loves all of the privileges of being a woman together with the equality with males. She is very independent and believes herself to be superior to most people around. She has clever wits and never avoids an intellectual spat. When she commits to an Aquarius man, she stays completely committed until the excitement is lost in their relationship. She enjoys his jolly nature and takes part in all his adventure with total enthusiasm. But his easy going nature with the people around him can sometimes make her outrageous.

An Aries woman is just as enthusiastic as the Aquarius man but it is her innocence that makes him fall for her. She is a dynamic partner for him with all the qualities of head and heart that he wants. Though sometimes she sounds a little more demanding but he is usually ready to give her selflessly with all his heart. She stands for him and makes him comfortable in all aspects of life. She fills in the air of newness in every part of their relationship with her creativity. She also respects his wisdom and ability to self control and is very much ready to be with him in all his actions. At times she is dominating but since he is calm enough to maintain his dignity, he doesnโ€™t minds it much. Her jealousy may though disturb him and can interrupt his freedom as he is more extrovert person and is very friendly too.

An Aquarius man is a very understanding and generous match for an impulsive Aries woman. He feels sympathetic towards her and is always ready to pull her out of the confusions. As he adapts himself to the outbursts of rage by her, he makes her feel more loved and protected and enhances the bond of their wonderful relationship. He finds the ability and zeal her irresistible, while she loves his outgoing and adventurous nature. He deals with her aggressive nature with due love and kindness putting her stubbornness and superior wisdom aside. Mostly she admires him but his extra friendly and compassionate behavior with the world makes her insecure and she suffers from jealousy. There maybe a cold detachment in him, that makes her uncertain regarding their relationship for a long term.

As this lovely pair understands the beauty of commitment and love, they excel together in their relationship in many different ways. As the Aries woman and Aquarius man share a powerful common characteristic of passion, once they are completely committed, the blaze of their affection keeps burning till eternity. They both love helping each other in all possible ways throughout their lives to bring out best of them. They are blessed with the gift of strong mutual understanding which helps them to overcome all the difference and be grateful to the sky that keeps on showering them with purity of trust. He gives her challenges that she needs to stay interested while she simply admires the soft beauty of him. He is always willing to learn, while she loves to educate him with all her knowledge and experiences for the life time.

Sexuality between the two comes in at a far distance which leaves their sex life very unpredictable. She brings out the Aquariusโ€™ tender side with her basic honesty about sexual love along with the freshness of her aura. She will have to maintain the innocence of their first encounter to keep him coming back for more. He will expect the desires from their first sexual encounter to remain through out the duration of their relationship. This is not a problem for her seeing how she expects the same form of innocence to be maintained by him. She can actually try out some crazy bed ideas and he will quite admire it and come back to her dumbfounded, wondering, hoping, if there was perhaps more to this show. He would actually love to explore her body squeezing here, fondling there, lifting, holding and cradling. This is not just pure lust but also has a lot of affection and attachment for his woman. This would actually make her feel so eager, so happy and so desiring. In turn he feels that his Aries lady is so tender, so affectionate and so innocent.

The Aries woman and the Aquarius man can usually go on fine with some compromises and adjusting to the variations in their basic traits. He strongly adores the innocence of her while she loves his jolly nature and appreciates his calm and composed attitude. But the detachment and absent mindedness of Aquarius makes Aries impulsive and confused while the selfishness of her can make him feel sad and unloved. They both need to understand their feelings and balance them to have a healthy relationship. It is important that she should lessen her selfish attitude while he should be more present both physically and mentally when around his Aries maiden.

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    AriesIndianGirl November 8th, 2016

    Suggestion Needed ๐Ÿ™‚
    Hey There,
    I happened to be in a beautiful story 4 months ago. I am PhD student and I was on my business travel in US and happened to meet this tiny sweet handsome intelligent lovely aquarian in San Francisco. It was during my couch surfing days in between the work. We were instantly attracted to each other. e is so intelligent, generous, friendly and kind. He wasn’t the one who took the initiative because afterall he was my couch surfing host. Iknew he is interested in me and I took the forst step. We had an incrdible time together. It was mre like a reality we lived together. I extended my stay from two nights to five. He took me with his to all his daily stuffs, office, his car sevice appointments and so. He constantly told me that he can’T get enough of me and why don’t I stay back forever. But I had to go to Chicago and my plan was to fly back to Germany(I work there) from New york. But I skipped new york, he booked me a flight to SF and I stayed again with him for 5 days before I returned to Germany. I was a lovely time. His gestures were so cute and lovely. Once in the supermarket he touched my heart asking whether I can give it to him. His gestures were so lovely. I love this man with all I have and I am sure he is the one for me but now being so far it is difficult to be in touch. He is career oriented, busy with his business. I have seen his busy schedule when I was around. He told me that he would have dated me if I was there in SF or Bay area. He even told me that I am so perfect as in, intelligent, beautiful and have a good heart. I will finish my PhD in 5 months. Right now I am searching for a job on SF. But the thing is he never committed to me or gave me any surety. I am an Indian(not a typical one, but comes from a very traditional family) and i am in my critical age 26(I know it doesn’t sounds that cdritical for you!) not sure whther I should do this huge step of relocating to SF just for him while he didn’t give any surety except for the strong gestures. He just text me back in a word or two and send some tech links or funny cartoons one in a while. He is 36 and is not married. I so can’t get over him. Shall I go ahead and try it with him? I don’t send him tooo many messages everyday or not even every week. but sometimes i get drunk and text in all my emotions in one go ๐Ÿ™ he never reacted badly and he just skip the word ‘love’. Shall I visit him this Christmas. Asking him whether I should come or not, is it cheap to ask him by myself? Please Aries and aquarians out there help meeeeeeeeee. I sooooo love him!

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    Takiowns July 13th, 2016

    Just made an account to share something extremely important.
    I am 32, male Aquarian doctor, still single and looking for the right woman. I see plenty of comments reflecting how much misunderstood we male Aquarians are, even by the Arians who we love unconditionally. Now, horoscopy is a pseudoscience so don’t take it for full value, but please take this into consideration.
    Aquarius males marry at a much older age, especially in western societies. The reason is simple, we Aquarius men are very intelligent and we have a profound sense of what kind of woman we are with. Aquarius marries last but marries the best wife-quality women. In other words, if you are an Aries whore, which unfortunately is very common due to their rebellious, energetic nature, Aqua is just interested in your body. And if you don’t know whether you’re a whore or not, that’s a big problem. You need to be honest with yourself and face it. Make a change, and one day an awesome Aquarius will marry you and show pure love you have never felt before. Aquarius man is friendly with everyone but never cheats to his wife. He goes immediately for divorce if he figured out she is a whore. And believe me, Aquarius figures out a lot of things much quicker than other signs, but he keeps to himself and use you as a sex toy temporarily. 
     
    Bottomline, an Aquarius will never leave a good Aries woman, but he will never commit to a whore.

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    luckyone7a@gmail.com June 14th, 2016

    A match between an Aquarius man and Aries woman sounds very well match.

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    Jasmine614 April 12th, 2016

    I need a aquarius man advice please

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    thebest October 31st, 2015

    @Angelfire70 wooow!! Lol I feel so sorry for you you are never never never going to get over him or at least that is how it is with me and the Aquarian man that I was married to.  We met in 1995 got married in 2010  and was only married for 4 years I am married someone and he remarried someone I Am Separated from my husband and now I am dating A Sagittarius and he is a wonderful person but again he is not the aquariun that I was once married to I hope you will be able to get over him but so far it doesn’t look like you are my aquariun man is still in love with me and i am  still in love with him we have been communicating for the past couple of weeks now now and he wishes that he was still married to me and I wish I was still married to him we both wish we could wave a magic wand and get back together because now we both understand and respect one another I wish you the best I hope you can figure it out because once you get with an Aquarius man there is no Everything else that everyone else is saying is so true

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    thebest October 31st, 2015

    @Angelfire70 wooow!! Lol I feel so sorry for you you are never never never going to get over him or at least that is how it is with me and the Aquarian man that I was married to 20 years but we have known each other for 20 years married for 4 Yuri married someone and he remarried someone I am separated from my husband and now I am dating vegetarian and he is a wonderful person but again he is not the aquarium and I was once married to I hope you will be able to get over him but so far it doesn’t look like you are my aquarium man is still in love with me still in love with him we have been communicating for the past couple of weeks now now and he wishes that he was still married to me and I wish I was still married to him we both wish we could wave a magic wand and get back together because now we both understand and respect one another I wish you the best I hope you can figure it out because once you get with an Aquarius man there is no other

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    thebest September 12th, 2015

    I was married to an Aquarius man, but now we are divorced. I wished I never divorced him, I knew him for 17 years after 17 years we got married and was only married 4 years if I can turn back the hands of time Iwould  . No one gets and understands me the way that he did if you are with a  Aquarius man stay with him and stick it out I did not really understand  until i started reading about zodiac signs to me this is very important and if I knew then what I know now I never would have gotten a divorce. He’s married now and I am dating a Sagittarius man he’s a nice guy still in love with my ex husband I need to get over it and keep it movin

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    thebest September 12th, 2015

    I was married to an Aquarius man, but now we are divorced. I wished I never divorced him, I knew him for 17 years after 17 years we got married and was only married 4 years feeling

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    ariesgirl28 June 15th, 2015

    Hi,
    I am dating an Aquarius guy and all of these comments helped me to understand my man a bit better. He is calling me and coming to me, I don’t pursue him but sometimes he is too detached for a warm Aries girl. It’s something I am learning to deal with ๐Ÿ™‚
    Even thought we are in a relationship and he commited to me another day he confessed that he was wondering about our relationship on a long term basis but  he considers we have a nice relationship, I am giving him a freedom and he would be sad if we break up. But then again, he asked we once when is too late to tell a person that you love him/her. This made me a bit confused together with his wondering about our relationship. Sometimes I can feel how much he likes me and cares about me but he cannot say it. And I don’t want to press him to say things… So I am kinda clueless how to behave..
    Any views?

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    Jclovingme April 22nd, 2014

    Wow reading all these comments I have just started dating an Aquarius. and everything I’m reading sounds so true we have been dating for 5 months now. I am a Aries. 

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    nacyrima March 31st, 2014

    Wow!! As I read everyones comment about Aquarius men It blows me away I’m a aries women I was lately in a 16 yrs relationship with a sagitarrius man I just started back dateing again I’m now currently dating a Aquarius man this man is laso the same man I was in love with when I was 16 teen yrs old we would spend hr’s on the phone wwe had something you would call puppy love he chase me for yrs after that wanting to be with me 20 yrs later here we are again and I’m deeply in love with him he is very good to me at times but cold  at times to I gott mad at hime once and didnt speak to him for four days he had pushed me away with is on and off personality he doesnt seem to relize that it sometimes is an issue because he so distant. at time I want affection and want to be up under him and he so far away I have to demand attention from him. Then I decided to allow him to give me that attention when he is ready but I find that because I love so much I want that attention when I want it I dont wont to wait for it I sometimes be in the same room with him and can’t take my eys off of him he makes me feel wanted and loved and appreciated I love the way he speaks to me when he is catering to my needs or offering his affection it’s undeniable he mad me cry and I thought he didnt care but he did he just didnt want to show me I knew it bothered him he hides his feeling alot when it comes to love but when he angry he has no problem showing it but I can handle it because I’m a aries and I have fire sometimes when I’m upset he listens and it tends to calm him and he laughs as if I’m the crazy one but I think it is because he knows that I’m not going to put up with that hot and cold personality I can be hot and cold to but I dont want it to be a tit fo tat thing so sometimes I just give in to him so that he knows I’m not trying to fight with him..Aqurius men can be difficukt to be with but Aries women are strong enough to deal with it if they want if we dont let our selfishness stand in the way I never consider myself as the jelous type but sometimes I’m concerned about other women I think it’s because I know how I feel about him I love my Aquarius man and I willl do what I can to make it work we will lesarn each other as well love each other

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    Angelfire70 February 18th, 2014

    Lol, I am sitting here at my desktop and I am just laughing away at most of the comments I am reading. This is all true. I was wondering which one of y’all was the fly on my wall when my situation was going on? Honestly, I am an Aries female who met a male Aquarian 30 years ago. I was young but not all dumb. He reeled me all the way in. He decided to be honest with me one week later and tell me that he was married. I felt confused but also caught up. There was this connection I felt with him that I can’t even begin to explain but I am sure you all know what I’m talking about. All I know is that when I was in his presence, I didn’t want to be anywhere else. He just took over my emotions. I later moved to another state and we drifted apart. I never stopped thinking about him. It’s like he was always there. 30 years has gone by and I will have you all to know that I have always wondered where he was and how he was really doing. My questions were answered 3 wks ago. I went to this social event with my husband. I had been there maybe 4 hours.  I am certain that he had spotted me long before I saw him or even knew he was there. I happen to look up and there he was; all over again. My pulse began to race and I felt like I was out of control. I finally got the chance to talk with him. I asked for his number to stay in touch (was that dumb or what?) He asked a lot of questions but he gave me his personal number before we departed. I don’t want to read too much into this but what does this mean? I have to remember that we both are married but something is still going on here. It feels like everything I felt for him 30 years ago has resurfaced. We have been texting each other but he does give short texts but what started out as I thought was a possible platonic conversation, has turned into something else. He’s started calling me sweetie & baby doll etc. He has promised for 2 days to call at certain times but he hasn’t done so yet. He has a company job that keeps him pretty busy. I felt like he was playing a game with me. I find myself attracted to everything about him. We can just look at each other a certain way and that’s all it takes. We don’t have to say anything. I can remember every detail from 30 years ago. I feel things for him that I know I shouldn’t but it’s like I am not in control of it. Somebody help! I need clarity on what may be going on. I don’t want to be too impulsive and rush anything but I just feel there is unfinished business between us. The attraction is too strong. I don’t want to hurt nobody but I need to know where this could have gone. He pursues me in his own little way. I find myself pursuing back. I know that I am in trouble. I need some feedback quick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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    sacgirl December 27th, 2013

    I just had to add my 2 cents (I’m an Aries)….I’ve known my Aquarius since high school (over 30 years ago).  In high school, both of us were too shy to really get to know each other.  I left town the year I graduated HS, but as the years went by, I always thought about him and he thought about me.  In the early 90’s we had one night together (both of us were drunk so it’s a vague memory).  More years went by and the few times we have seen each other (at parties) there has always been a draw….intense attraction.  Both of us have tried to forget about the other…went on to marriages, children, ect.  But no matter how much either of us try, we can’t seem to move on from each other.  Just recently we’ve decided it’s time to figure it out.  I’m not sure where this relationship will end, but it’s something that is always there.  Maybe we’ll just be friends forever….or we could find that we’re really soulmates and that’s why we keep finding outselves back at the same place we always do. 
    I find that I can tell him anything….and he has actually found himself telling me things he wouldn’t normally do.  I am generally not a trusting person by any means, but yet, I find that I trust him completely and I have no idea why.
    The Aries in me always want to know….to understand.  I can be insecure when I don’t have the cues to know he cares.  However, for the first time in my life….I get him and I understand that he is super independent (as am I) and that he needs his space (as I do).  I talk WAY more than he ever does, but that’s ok because I understand that is his way.  Although he doesn’t text much…he always sends me a text saying good morning….and a text saying good night each day.  If I don’t get one, then I know there is a good reason and I never ask him why.  I believe he cares because I don’t believe he would take the time to send those simple texts…and it shows that he is thinking of me.
    Being older I think is a plus because we both will benefit from our past experiences with life.  Our lives are very complicated, but we both believe that if we don’t find out what we are meant to be….it will be the biggest regret.

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    LegioX December 18th, 2013

    needless to say am aquarius

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    LegioX December 18th, 2013

    unbelievable
    i opened up an account just because i wanted to chip in my 2p
    throughout highschool, i was in love with an aries girl. she broke my heart by insisting we should stay friends. years later she said she would like to see me more, hang out together, go out . but i was in a different relationship now, with another aries girl, whom i loved to bits, after 5 years of relationship that ended in tears and shouts. guess what. she also insisted on staying friends. recently i ran into another (or was picked up by her?) aries girl, for one month, everything was purrfect, even her cat liked me. and then, 2 weeks later, with no prior notification, she catches me off guard by tellin me its better off if we stayed friends because i scare her and we dont match. just like that. last time i’ll ever get involved with an aries girl in my life, i swear

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    QueenAries August 8th, 2013

    @McClellan
    U can tell when a female is into you…. She’s probably waiting for you to make that move.  Aries women (at least I do) love romance…and even though we r impatient at letting some things just happen we still are ol school when it comes to love.
    Do it….Ask her!

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    QueenAries August 7th, 2013

    I had to make an account just to be a part of this convo! In the last month I hsve come to the realization that I am in LOVE with this Aquarius man I have brn involved with for quite some time. I am reading these comments and it feels like I am reading about us.  He THOROUGHLY has me confused but reading the comments shed lots of light.  I know that people have their own personality traits but again what I’ve read here sounds familiar n gives me hope.
     
    He Is so detached but then turns around n has me feeling like the most beautiful creature on earth. And for those reasons Im so open but I try and play hard….which isn’t good because my feelings r all over the place. Lol ughhhh .. He tells me to express myself but what’s the point if I dunno if its mutual???
    He is definitely a brat n never likes to take accountability for things n sometimed it boils my blood but it also keeps me lured in n on my toes…I feel like a mad woman lol
     
    What have I gotten myself into…who am i kidding I love it..n him :^) 

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    vcioffredi1105@yahoo.com March 21st, 2013

    My husband is an Aquarius and I’ve never had a more perfect match for me, (an Aries). It comes from first understanding and accepting a few things about myself. This isn’t a match for the weak of heart. He is a challenge, a brat and a prince, all at once. It’s in his nature. Something to note though, I did not pursue him. He found me, and would not stop until I was his. He’s never done that. We were friends as children. Once he saw me, it was over. Our connections were immediate and very intense, a little scary, actually. He loved me very deeply and very quickly, I think before I loved him. He’s very devoted to me, but he’s also a MAN. He doesn’t take my crap for too long and as I consider myself a queen, I can dish out plenty. We had alot more arguements in the beginning around what was “meant” by something because we were still getting used to understanding one another’s true feelings. Aquarians keep things close to the vest and in some aspects, you have to DRAG it out of them but that doesn’t mean those feelings aren’t there and they don’t exist. These are men of “doing”. You have to watch what they do. They love our openness, expressiveness and joy but they are not as visibly demonstrative as we are. When these men do love though, they love deeply, completely, and blindly in some cases. You need to be very careful about that and make sure that the love given is the love returned because these men WILL protect and cherish you. They KNOW we Aries women are prone to getting hurt and hurt easily. My husband will let me fight my own fights but when he sees I get to a point where I just can’t deal or someone has crossed a line, he can become a mean and scary man quick. They are deeply generous and indulgent of our whims in and out of the bedroom and there’s often a “polarity in reverse” when I know he’s there for the taking and he’s doing all the encouraging to take. He needs his space though and when he needs it, I never give him a hard time. He’s very generous in all other ways so it’s no big deal. I found that I had to tell him from day one what I wanted from the relationship. Plain terms, no nonsense, and be a tempermental Aries brat about it. The thing is, he  was so struck by me, I would have had it, temper tantrum or not. These are very principaled men. They don’t like liars, cheats, game players. They don’t love easily so when they do, they love big and if you betray that, you’re done. For good. They don’t mind a fight, in fact, expect to fight a great deal initially, as long as there is an understanding of deep love and joy and a strong bond between you. Do what Aries do, STAND FOR YOUR MAN….and they will be 100% yours. I love our relationship. It’s a joy, it’s a challenge, it’s never a bore and the bonds are very very strong, but it wasn’t always easy….

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    LovemyAquarius January 11th, 2013

    Oh Aquarius man, nothing is more of a turn off for an aries women then a man who does not act!..  If you want her go and get her.  Dont be afraid to be assertive or aggressive in what your want.
    I will never forget how my aquarius man went after me and it didnt matter what i did or said he wanted me and he was ganna win me over. He let me know that no matter what he will always be here waiting for me.
    Its ok to be afraid, but be couragous and ask yourself is she worth the risk?  You will have a lot more hurdles in your relationship then this :).
    Me and my aquarius have been together for nearly 4 years and are very much in love.  We started as friends, had a drunken night and he swooped me off my feet and after that I had no chance, LOL.
    You aquarius men are dangerous..lol. 
    Good luck and god bless

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    LovemyAquarius January 11th, 2013

    @CountryGirl7424
    Loved reading all the responses you got.  I cant help but to laugh.. Its soooo True.  I have been in love twice in my life and both Aquarius.  I am swarmed by them like moths to a flame, and I too them.
    I have been with my Aquarius for almost 4years.  And believe me we have had some battles but he has always worked on our issues and has always been all in.  The being aloof and distant, it is their nature.  And Yes even after all these years I know how much he loves me but I do get lonely and feel forgetten.  But dont let that scare you, he is worth the wait and battle.  When I have his attention is undivided and I’m the person in his world.  We are often at opposite time lines. Example when I want attention he doesnt, when he wants my attention I dont.  Its irritating at time but hilarious.  We have a million laughs not only is he the love of my life, he is my best friend, my partner in crime.
    Get to know yourself and your aquarius nature and life will make sense and be easier. 
    Even after 4 years and we live together, he rarely calls me or texts me and its usually short and simple. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Keep things light and airy.  Give him his space but if he’s taking too long for your give him a little nudge by texting him and just say Hi.
    Let him do what he does and plan the date.  Your a girl be a girl and let him romance you.  When you are on your date have fun with it.  Talk about what you like to do what you have done etc.  Show him how unpredictable you are or can be and it will excite him.  Aquarius love challenges and feeds off your passion and excitment. 
    We have this silly game where when he wants affection I dont give it to him, even a simple kiss.  It drives him crazy and he will try everything for me to give in even for hours. I make him work.  Its so silly but fun and exciting. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Good luck with your aquarius and dont worry if its meant to be it will be.  Dont be so scared or so quick to jump all over him.  Space is good for him and for you.  But dont be afraid to give him a little nudge here and there :).

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    Ar1es November 9th, 2012

    I have had 3 major relationships in my life. Each has been with an Aquarius. I’ve had children with the 2nd and fell deeply in love with the 3rd. From my experience, the Aquarian man can be so nurturing and good for the soul. You have the ones that are too clingy and the ones that are aloof. I’m more attracted to the aloof ones. I feel like they are a drug to Aries. Get u so high, then crash very hard when the high is over. I’m still addicted to my last Aquarian. But I have to learn to avoid them as the heartbreak is so strong. If the aquarian knew how to be more in tuned with Aries, than it can be the strongest relationship known to man as we work very well together. Unstoppable.

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    McClellan October 6th, 2012

    Hey I’m an Aquarius male and I’m in love with an arise female but for some reason I just can’t tell her how I feel. We aren’t together but I want us to be when we hang out its fun but I want more than to just be friends but I just can’t ask her out because IM so scared it won’t work out what do I do.

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    nataliesolo1980@yahoo.com September 24th, 2012

    @CountryGirl7424 HI, COUNTRYGRIL, I AGREE WITH TERRY. IM DATING AN AQUARIUS MAN. THEY CAN BE A BIT STANDOFFISH. BT, U JST HAVE TO ADJUST AND LET THEM COME AROUND ON THEIR OWN TIME. IF HE’S, INTERESTED IN YOU, HE WILL EVENTUALLY. I BELIEVE IN COMMUNICATION. I EXPRESSED THAT WITH HIM AND THERE HAVE BEEN ALOT OF GREAT CHANGES WITHIN HIM. HE’S SHOWING EXPRESSION AND EFFORT. “BABY STEPS”. IM MORE OUTSPOKEN, LOUD, AGGRESSIVE. HE’S MORE QUIET, LAID BACK, RESERVE. SO, WE BALANCE EACH OTHER OUT. HE’S COMING MORE OUT OF HIS SHELL AND COMMUNICATING MORE. IM MORE OF A TALKER. HE’S MORE OF A TEXTER. JUST BE PATIENT AND IF HE’S THE ONE FOR YOU, HE WILL OPEN UP MORE ON HIS TIME. THEY CAN BE MYSTERIOUS, NON CHALANT, EMOTIONALLY CHALLENGE. AQUARIUS ARE EMOTIONALLY PACE SETTERS. THEY DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING. VERY OBSERVANT. SO, WHEN U THINK HE’S NOT PAYING ATTENTION OR NOT NOTICING YOU, HE IS. THEY ARE THINKERS. SO, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE TO HIM MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY. GOOD LUCK!!!!!! 

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    Tezk June 7th, 2012

    @CountryGirl7424
    Hi Country Girl, i’m an aquarian male and i can tell you that is completely normal. we like the chase as much as the end result. but we dont like the chase in a bad “we’re just gonna lead you on for fun” kinda way. we want you to want us, but not be full on, but not be cold either. a bit of give and take. Be fun with it (the txt’s), be cheeky and witty. He will defnitely pick up on that and it will be an incredible turn-on.
    as for what to do on your next date, DEFINITELY do something off-the-wall. do something that is so different that it will shock him, but in a good way. He will respond well to a date like this.
    We just want someone to stimulate our minds and to challenge us. we are always after someone who will challenge us and have a war of the minds with us. but dont be too stubborn or submissive. hold your ground, but also give a little.
    dont listen to Lydia, we definitely DO know how to communicate in that way, we just dont like to. there’s not much that gets past us. our intuition leads us to know where the game is and the next best approach.
    whatever you do, do not be too full on, he will back away quicker than you can say “another Friday night alone”
    even if he isn’t communicating with you much, he is still interested in you. us being cold and distant doesnt mean we aren’t interested. it means we are needing time to refocus, re-adjust and just to recharge. we love company and people, but we need time to ourselves to to have a look at the week past and to take it all in.
    Best of Luck Country Girl. us Aquarian men are definitely worth all the work. we are very loyal and will give you everything you desire, as long as you give us the same…. remember, we need space, space, space, but we also want to know we are wanted.

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    elmickey27 March 22nd, 2012

    Countrygirl7424, I also am into a two month relationship of sorts with an Aquarian man.  We were hot and heavy every few days but now it’s an every Friday night get together.  As an Aries we want more but I’ve learned that my Aquarian man loves his freedom, privacy and family.  He wants no strings (at this time). He doesn’t like texting or hardly any communication until I get the call on Friday night when he picks me up, which is something I am learning to deal with.  The fireworks are still there and we love each others company and talk and talk as well as… but I think this type of man has to learn how to give more.  He is sweet and considerate but as an Aries woman we need so much more attention, it’s been hard getting use to.  I suggest you try and spice up the next text, see if he likes you’re new approach, if he doesn’t take the bait, maybe it isn’t to be.  They don’t seem to know how to communicate in that way, while I am texting away, he responds with two or three words, usually not in response to my text, but some off the topic comment.  If he’s worth it to you, you’ll have to figure out what he can give, it might not be enough for you, but I have learned it’s not that he doesn’t want to, it’s all he is able to.   

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    CountryGirl7424 March 20th, 2012

    Help Required Please
    I have just started to date a delicious Aquarian Man..there is lots of animal magnetism to be sure..we score very highly on that one and have had a couple of great dates but….24 hours after the end of the 2nd date when I was getting positive, lighthearted txts all looking good and things seemed to be proceeding well..we were’nt rushing into no 3 it was 9 days down the line…I suddenly get the cold shoulder and the tone of the txts really change and I suddenly feel that all the good things we had going are on the slide?
    A friend suggests that an Aquarian will usually do the opposite to what they are feeling i.e. at the beginning they get a little scared that they like you and they therefore back off….so I’ve cut the txts completely now and we are 36 hours on…I was going to leave it for 3 more days until the day before our proposed date before I contacted him again and made some suggestion about our proposed date and where we might go/meet.
    I’m feeling anxious about this because I really like this guy and I know I am going to have to learn to adapt to this ‘hot’ and then ‘col’ streak but should I just leave it until he contacts me?  I was going to suggest something quite off the wall for our next date hoping he might see this as really interesting and a challenge but not sure how he might react?  He’s very energetic and very driven in his chosen sport so I was hoping my suggestion might appeal to him rather than just suggesting some thing boring like a drink and a meal?
    Any views?

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    aries331 January 31st, 2012

    I’m an aries and I love my aquarius so much, he was the first and only person I’ve ever been in love with(im 18 years old) but let me tell you what, he is a lot to handle! It is really hard for Aquarius men to trust and accept friendship as well as lovers, and he’s done that with me. He’s SO STUBBORN! and he defiantly goes through mood swings and depression phases. One time he said I was interfering with his life too much and he didn’t talk to me for over 9 months!!! Every time we get in these kind of fights though, he always comes back to me, thats how I know he’s in love with me. When he’s sweet, nothing makes my heart melt more. Now being an Aries, I am very loud, outgoing, jealous, stubborn…etc. But I love this boy so much, all those traits go away when I’m with him. I deal with all his crazy mood swings and don’t push him any farther, you only see my good side when I’m with him :). Aquarius’s are extremely passionate and loyal though like the article said, he would do anything for me at any time and we defiantly do understand each other. No matter what happens, we’ll always love each other.
     

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    lala9091 January 27th, 2012

    @Lexasso what was the outcome?? as an Aries girl, im intrigued now! lol

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    Lind09 November 24th, 2011

    I love Aquarius men!!!!!!!!!

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    Alice-X September 20th, 2011

    All I have to say is that the Aquarian I’m seeing is the opposite of all the bad experiences no rudeness intended this guy is actually ver respectful, smart,and talkative. It’s funny how we always seem to be able to talk for hrs on end and not get tired of eachother we are so ready to meet… I know this will be great.

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    Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @ariesme Girl I so agree with you!! The sex is so great!! and even though we did not say we are together we act like it and when we go out dancing I feel like he is the only one in the room

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    Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @LostAquarian You are right because my friend got her from his marriage his wife left him for another man and now she is making it hard for him to see his kids and I have to go through all that with him.. I feel bad sometimes and wish he can be happy but it is going to take sometime.

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    Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @ Carrie, I know just wat you mean he makes me sick with his kindness!!! I really love this man but sometimes he can be so cold and I hate that he does not like to talk about his feeling but his action shows me he really care about me and he loves to be around me but I am so confuse that I really want to give up on him and move on because I am tired of getting mad with him being hot and cold

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    Sanaya29 August 23rd, 2011

    @this website)I agree with this site I am a Aries woman inlove wit a Aquarian man now for 2yrs.. He drives me crazy with the distance! But when he comes out of that he is so nice and great with me… The sex is amazing.. We have been knowing each other for like 5 yrs before we was actually talking. We were both married.. Now that we have been talking and its been hot and cold.. So he went to FL for a week an half and I decided not to contact him because I know they need there space and wat do you know he calls me twice seen he been down there.. He should be back home today so I want to know how our relationship will be since we have not been talking much

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    LostAquarian August 15th, 2011

    @Aries Girl What you fail to take into account is the experiences of the Aquarian in question…If the Auarian has gone through enough heartache he’ll know not to hurt anyone as much as he’s been heart.Our Distantness is simply a defense from the pain,there are those of us who are affected by the coldness rather then emitting it

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    bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    ARIESME…………..my reccomendation for u is to move on wt ur life trust me…he is no good for u….

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    bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    oh also ive learned bout this tooo b4 u really actually get involve wt aquarious man find out his backgrounds and what not,,,,but if his a type of a person who cant tell u nothing and not open up wt u as much as u are.and if he drinks too much and partying too much, well then i guesss thats a bad aquarious

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    bbydolly August 10th, 2011

    well some of the things that this thing saying is true and false….yes ive met some aquarious whos an assss i shall say and those are the bad ones, maybe cuz of how they way they were brought up and wther if they were taught good by their parents or not…but luckyly i did met another aquarious man who is so sincere,sweet,kind,whos there for me no matter what and regardless,his basically well mannered man,and he came from a good family. as an aries woman i am the one who wear pants occasionally in our relationship,but i too also make him wear his pant too…theres no jealousy thing going on in our relationship.he understand me for what i am and who i am.

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    bayouaries June 22nd, 2011

    oh my. All true. My aqua guy has so many female friends. It drives me crazy, cause he so damn sweet to them. They always run to him with teir problems. Sometimes I have to act a fool to get his attention. Lol but his mom loves me cause she says his past girlfriends never called him on anything. I’m an Aries baby and I got words. Then at other times when he says mami I calm down. Just like that.

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    ariesexy June 18th, 2011

    I am an aries lady in love with an aquarius man. So far it is the most natural and nurturing relationship I have ever been in. He is so non-judgmental and whenever we are together it feels like we are the only ones in the world. The detached emotional part of his personality can be confusing. The more I fall back the more he latches on and vice versa-weird…but intriguing! I can’t help it I am in total love with him and the sex is the best I have ever had in my life! If u r an aries girl in luv with an aquarian guy ur n for a great treat!

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    ariesme May 19th, 2011

    I(apr 9)have never had my emotions so toyed by anyone except by this aquarius(25 Jan)…it takes me two month before I can see him anytime…communication is usually one sided for the two months followed by then one fine day he writes back its ok to meet..then we have the most wonderful crazy time together, like we have been the best of couples for many years, then aagain the two month longing trauma again before I get to see him…It seems like stupidity on my part to even pursue someone like this, but I cant help it..he is way too interesting for me…and so.. I seem to appear like a fool. I wonder if I should just give him a piece of my mind one of these days

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    mary April 14th, 2011

    An aries woman, acquarius man combo in the one made in heaven. We like each other so much, have so much in common, independent, freedom loving, adventurous and love challenges. Iam an aries woman and I love to be with my acquarius man. We both admire each other for what we are. The bedroom is full of fun and adventure. we both enjoy our intimacy.I think an acquarius man is a good match for an aries girl

  43. gigi April 1st, 2011

    I was born 3/30 and the experiences I’ve had with aqua men have been not been very good at all. That’s why I’m here, because I’ve met this aqua man that “seems” ok but they all do in the beginning. The relationships seem mentally and emotionally draining to me and they aren’t very loyal or honest imo.

  44. roe March 12th, 2011

    I’m a aqu man an I have been with arian woman 13yrs don’t tell them anything about your personal mistakes cause they will us it to be impulsive in the wrong way in the future have own shit and stand firm when it time keep her busy and she will never be happ y with her status in life untell. She makes 2 or 3 ‘mistakes

  45. Aqua Man March 11th, 2011

    I met an aries woman recently. She is just a wonderful person. I really like and enjoy how in-tune we are with each other. The communication between us is very good, it just feels right. She is
    sensitive on one side and firey on the other. Its such a awesome balance. She also knows how to give me space when I need it so thats a good thing. She can be persistant in trying to get feelings and thoughts out of me but thats just her way to my heart I guess.

    I just fell really good around her so if your a aqua aries combo just go for it. When it works it really works.

  46. Arian February 16th, 2011

    I’m an aries woman with an aquarian man and all that I’ve read is true. It’s amazing how all of this is accurate. It’s almost like it’s describing us. I couldn’t be any happier than to be with him as well. He’s kept me happy and willing to do whatever for him to make his self esteem the best, for he’s quite sensitive toward the world, but he’s willing to protect me from any harm that I may encounter. For Valentine’s Day he got me a beautiful necklace and before made me promise not to get him anything, so then I had decided to draw him a picture symbolizing all of our love along with every word to him from my heart <3

  47. Aquarius_a_3 February 13th, 2011

    I agree wit ‘some1’, I’m an aquarius guy nd I’ve been in a relationship wit an aries girl for almost a year now. I love her nd even want to b committed to her. We argue alot about mostly everythin abt keepin a relationship. I get skeptical at times nd wonda y it alwys seem like she’s pushin herself on me, I guess it’s d fire in her nd d strong attraction she has towards me. I jst need her to know wen to tak a break off me; how to treat me wit respect; nd let me b wen I really want to b left alone. Dat’s all !

  48. Some1 January 11th, 2011

    Yes, I’m an aries born in 19 march. Some astrologers say it is pisces, but my character says the opposite exactly as Dec 27th comment. Whatever, I understand aquarians very well and I needed TIME to do so. Now, we are the best of friends and lovers. Whenever you feel that you can NOT handle that detachment anymore as many arians reach this point !, just take a BREACK for some time. Trust me ๐Ÿ˜‰ .

  49. mika December 29th, 2010

    yes..this article is definitely true!!

  50. Shhh December 27th, 2010

    I’m really a Pisces, but I was born on a cusp, because my birthday is the 19 of march, so in my opinion, I’m much more similar to a Aries than I am to a Pisces; any way! Aquarious, agh, there so biepolar! One minute there hot, the next there cold, I have many good friends that are aquarious’s, but, they have these long periods of depression, and out of nowhere there just happy and funny, in my opinion, there VERY unpredictable, and that’s kind of nerve wrecking after a while. There hard to understand. If you can get them and relate to them thats awesome, but, there SO tricky to understand !

  51. KT December 13th, 2010

    I’m an aries kiwi, he’s an aquarius swede, haven’t seen him since we were on a kibbutz in Israel the week of my 21st… after 23 years we are in contact via email. I can’t wait to meet him again some day!

  52. kiara December 8th, 2010

    well i am in a relationship with an aquarian man for 3 years now,and must say if they are committed they really are,he treats me like a goddess and being an aries girl i just enjoy that.
    aquarius men are very deep ,passionate,emotional,and romantic..

    justneed to find the committed ones and life is just perfect for an aries woman..cz as we are we imagine our dream guys to be perfect ,if ur an arian ull no wat i mean ,welook for that guy wholl pamper us be crazy abt us ,give us that lil happy ending…

    and a aquarius guy who is head over heels in love is exactly like that:)

  53. Aries girl November 26th, 2010

    i like an aquarius dude and well we started off being best friends until i tld him i liked him he said he was confused and well that being that i said ok then. after we were kinda like strangers but now i catch him sometimes lookin at me and our relationship is gettin warmer again cause it was o cold before but the thing is that i like him cause he makes me so furious and i love the way he makes me feel like so alive i love the challange and i guess he cant keep away from me either cause he is around me and well he has to find a subject to talk about i guess with time our relationship will be as hot as it was before.

  54. Aries woman November 6th, 2010

    I so agree with Aries girl “March 13th”

  55. Married Aries Girl! :) October 12th, 2010

    I married one at 18…first and only sex part. greatest guy in the world! Today..Three years later I am as happy as if it were our first day together….

    Great article!

    True in every way!

  56. Lexas August 18th, 2010

    In continuation of my post dated 12/08…guess what? He finally got back in touch and we arranged to meet again. Only this time, when I arrived, he was fast asleep on the sofa and his mate answered the door???
    It was strange, because instead of feeling let down or annoyed, I actually felt it was quite funny. I had to wait in his house for a taxi to take me back home and whilst waiting, I changed my shoes (bad choice in heels!) and put on my handy roll-up slip-ons – you know the ones girls! When the taxi arrived, in my haste I forgot my heels. Next morning, text comes through from Mr. Aquarius asking “why leave shoes…..” I explained in reply and asked that he put the shoes in a carrier bag and leave outside by his bins and I would collect them on my way home. That was Sunday. I have had no response from him and I have not contacted him either, mainly because I have been so busy with work and home, I haven’t had the time.

    The saga continues….

  57. ahkweriass teen Boy August 17th, 2010

    to the above aries grl….iv been in a relationship with an aries grl, n jus to speak on behalf ov ur bfrnd, evertym we aquarius comes to textin an aries grl! we try to think ov so many thngz to say until we look bk n jus leav it withou evn text…it hppnz to me all the time… my advise fo u is to meet hm in person, arange it dnt js shoW up p.s i love my aries, shes so open,

  58. Lexas August 12th, 2010

    I recently met an Aquarius man and I have to say, it’s been hard work and now I just don’t know where I stand with him. At first, I pursued him and he seemed interested and then he would cool off. Then out of the blue, he would respond like nothing went amiss?

    We agreed a meet and he invited me to his house. I was excited and nervous, as the sexually tension was so strong. Then we I got there, he was so cool, almost not bothered. After 2 and half hours of pleasant chatting, I began to wonder what the hell I was there for? I became impatient with the waiting to see if he would make a move and said it was getting late and I was going home. I kissed his cheek and left.

    I made no further contact with him, as I resigned myself to believe that he wasn’t that interested after all. Then out of the blue, 2 days later, he sends me a text saying it was weird how I just walked off…! I was surprised that he had even thought about it! In my reply, I stated I was sorry he thought it was weird and that i didn’t mean it to be. I’ve texted him a couple of times since and guess what? Nothing. He hasn’t replied.

    So, now I’m again resigned to think he doesn’t want to know, but I am so curious to know what he is thinking, its driving me nuts! I have to keep telling myself not to contact him again and its sooooo hard. I’m too intrigued.

    We’ll see what happens…

  59. efelia retazo July 26th, 2010

    somoetime im not beliaeve to horoscope
    why be coz me
    now i cannot feel love to all guys
    starting im getting broken hearted
    i love to my ex boy friend
    his sodiac sign is acquarius
    febuary 16 1984.and i am aries sisgn march 25 1982
    they said to the neumerologist this sign is so compatible but nothing we are breaking up

  60. Divine July 12th, 2010

    So true its scary.!

  61. daughter of aries July 2nd, 2010

    I think that the compatibility between aries women and aquarius men is amazing, if you find a committed aquarius man. After dating countless pisces men who keep putting out my flames with their water, it is so exciting and energizing to be with an aquarius man who ignites my fire. Make sure to find a committed aquarius man, and he will be a breath of fresh air that will never put out your flames.

  62. aquarian man July 1st, 2010

    “The Aquarius falls hard for the Aries woman who is filled with the innocence of a child.” I fell HARD in love for an Aries woman not because she was “…filled with the innocence of a child.” In part yes, but it was also her vitality and directness that drew me to her. We’re not together anymore. A brief relationship but looking back at it now I’m so glad to have met her and experienced all her Aries traits. If she didn’t have the baggage of a previous relationship hanging over her, we could have been a really great couple. We would balance each other out. Sigh. Miss her. Aquarius man and Aries women. Go for it. Love, love, love!!!

  63. akwa guy May 23rd, 2010

    ive dated an arian girl for 6 years now, without any breaks, but now we broke up. and although im a bit stalkerhish – ill admit – shes the one whos the most jealous. maybe because she doesnt like the idea of losing to another girl? its nothing but pride and ambition, she’s not jealous because of our lost love? she drove me crazy with her behavior after we broke up: either cold, or hot. i should be given a straight answer: stay, or go away!

  64. MooMoon May 19th, 2010

    The sexual chemistry is something else between aries girl and aquarian male but that is where it should end. Although both signs are very independent, an Aries girl is just too jealous and possessive for an Aquarian male who value they’re freedom to flirt and do what they want even more than an Aries. Sagittarius or Libra are best long term matches for an Aries girl. Have fun with an Aquarian boy but leave it there! From personal experience, they love their freedom and mates more than you and it can only go downhill from there!

  65. Arian princess 17 May 17th, 2010

    Aquarians are such jerks! They always baby talk their way. I thought I liked this Arian more than just a friend. Since he told me he liked me too but… Turned out he only wanted experience with a “good girl”… And we’ve been talking like we r going out for awhile now. But on his myspace, facebook and all says he’s SILL single. We’ve already told ea other we like ea other asmort than friends. But then y is this??? Arians bewareof a jerk who will only b trying to play u. Make sure he’s serious and will stick to it. I so wonder wat will happen with me and this aqua..

  66. yride May 4th, 2010

    I’ve loved Aquarians for years, I agree with the hot and cold aspect of their natures. We get along great, as long as we don,t try to control each other but in the end I think that we make better friends than a couple, when the sex is good is g-g-reat! That’s usually what keeps us coming back for more.

  67. cocoacreme April 26th, 2010

    I too have dated many Aquarians and I do find them to be aloof too often. One minute he can’t stop calling me and the other minute he is no where to be found. I also feel he likes everything done on his terms which I am not always comfortable with. It is such a touch and go situation I think I will leave them (Aquarians) alone for now.

  68. ARIESGAL April 24th, 2010

    I have been with my aqua ex for 17 years and yes we are compatible, in fact he was like my best friend most of the times, but we both went down our seperate roads and i’ve never looked back but he has alot. I personally think aqua’s and leo’s are most compatible with aries, as we all understand each other.

  69. aries girl March 27th, 2010

    i feel like I’m in love with this aquraius guy! he is so great! he liked me but now he doesnt. i moved away and he cried. i’m confused! we’re best friends though!

  70. Another Aries Here March 24th, 2010

    Be careful when an when an aquarius falls hard. “The Aquarius falls hard for the Aries woman who is filled with the innocence of a child. He craves her vulnerability” He stalked me for a year.

  71. Kate Aries Girl March 18th, 2010

    I am an aries woman and qquarian men are going to be great!
    So far everything is so good, any one who wants to doubt the relationship should re consider before speaking

  72. aries girl March 13th, 2010

    it’s wierd how the aquarian man is always attracted to the aries woman and just when you let them in….the aquarian becomes cold….i try to avoid them…but they just keep coming back….
    “The Aquarius man can not resist her aptitude and zeal”
    “The only way to break through to the Aries woman is with love and kindness.”

  73. aquarius December 30th, 2009

    if they learn to “comprimise” they will be just fine. i can do that. ๐Ÿ˜›

  74. Aries Girl December 26th, 2009

    I totally agreed with what is written above.

    SORRY THESE MEN ARE AIN’T FOR ARIES WOMEN. They are bound to be Aries’s friends but definitely not lovers. Don’t waste your time.

    “When the Aquarius man shuts down his good nature he tends to be cold and heartless in the eyes of the Aries woman who tends to be more sentimental, sensitive and open hearted.”

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