Aries Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

As the Air comes in contact with Fire, it enhances the spark of fire leading to spontaneous attraction between these two signs. ON one side where, the Aquarius love is detached but undemanding which an Aries can rejoice, the Aries love is exciting but selfish with lots of demands to be fulfilled. But both of them make amazing pair with their mutual trust and affection.

An Aquarius man is one of a kind who follows his own path. He is a bit moody but generally one can find him calm, generous, affectionate and full of good and quality humor. Though he is passionate in nature but he has the ability to control it but at times one can still find him unpredictable, weird and unconventional. It is hard to ditch him as he is highly intuitive while his good nature is one thing that is admired by almost everyone in his contact. In love with an Aries woman, he is a very generous lover. He is sympathetic to all her demands and can even control her emotional outbursts.

An Aries woman is an impulsive lady who loves all of the privileges of being a woman together with the equality with males. She is very independent and believes herself to be superior to most people around. She has clever wits and never avoids an intellectual spat. When she commits to an Aquarius man, she stays completely committed until the excitement is lost in their relationship. She enjoys his jolly nature and takes part in all his adventure with total enthusiasm. But his easy going nature with the people around him can sometimes make her outrageous.

An Aries woman is just as enthusiastic as the Aquarius man but it is her innocence that makes him fall for her. She is a dynamic partner for him with all the qualities of head and heart that he wants. Though sometimes she sounds a little more demanding but he is usually ready to give her selflessly with all his heart. She stands for him and makes him comfortable in all aspects of life. She fills in the air of newness in every part of their relationship with her creativity. She also respects his wisdom and ability to self control and is very much ready to be with him in all his actions. At times she is dominating but since he is calm enough to maintain his dignity, he doesn’t minds it much. Her jealousy may though disturb him and can interrupt his freedom as he is more extrovert person and is very friendly too.

An Aquarius man is a very understanding and generous match for an impulsive Aries woman. He feels sympathetic towards her and is always ready to pull her out of the confusions. As he adapts himself to the outbursts of rage by her, he makes her feel more loved and protected and enhances the bond of their wonderful relationship. He finds the ability and zeal her irresistible, while she loves his outgoing and adventurous nature. He deals with her aggressive nature with due love and kindness putting her stubbornness and superior wisdom aside. Mostly she admires him but his extra friendly and compassionate behavior with the world makes her insecure and she suffers from jealousy. There maybe a cold detachment in him, that makes her uncertain regarding their relationship for a long term.

As this lovely pair understands the beauty of commitment and love, they excel together in their relationship in many different ways. As the Aries woman and Aquarius man share a powerful common characteristic of passion, once they are completely committed, the blaze of their affection keeps burning till eternity. They both love helping each other in all possible ways throughout their lives to bring out best of them. They are blessed with the gift of strong mutual understanding which helps them to overcome all the difference and be grateful to the sky that keeps on showering them with purity of trust. He gives her challenges that she needs to stay interested while she simply admires the soft beauty of him. He is always willing to learn, while she loves to educate him with all her knowledge and experiences for the life time.

Sexuality between the two comes in at a far distance which leaves their sex life very unpredictable. She brings out the Aquarius’ tender side with her basic honesty about sexual love along with the freshness of her aura. She will have to maintain the innocence of their first encounter to keep him coming back for more. He will expect the desires from their first sexual encounter to remain through out the duration of their relationship. This is not a problem for her seeing how she expects the same form of innocence to be maintained by him. She can actually try out some crazy bed ideas and he will quite admire it and come back to her dumbfounded, wondering, hoping, if there was perhaps more to this show. He would actually love to explore her body squeezing here, fondling there, lifting, holding and cradling. This is not just pure lust but also has a lot of affection and attachment for his woman. This would actually make her feel so eager, so happy and so desiring. In turn he feels that his Aries lady is so tender, so affectionate and so innocent.

The Aries woman and the Aquarius man can usually go on fine with some compromises and adjusting to the variations in their basic traits. He strongly adores the innocence of her while she loves his jolly nature and appreciates his calm and composed attitude. But the detachment and absent mindedness of Aquarius makes Aries impulsive and confused while the selfishness of her can make him feel sad and unloved. They both need to understand their feelings and balance them to have a healthy relationship. It is important that she should lessen her selfish attitude while he should be more present both physically and mentally when around his Aries maiden.

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CountryGirl7424 (@CountryGirl7424) : March 20th, 2012
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I have just started to date a delicious Aquarian Man..there is lots of animal magnetism to be sure..we score very highly on that one and have had a couple of great dates but….24 hours after the end of the 2nd date when I was getting positive, lighthearted txts all looking good and things seemed to be proceeding well..we were’nt rushing into no 3 it was 9 days down the line…I suddenly get the cold shoulder and the tone of the txts really change and I suddenly feel that all the good things we had going are on the slide?
A friend suggests that an Aquarian will usually do the opposite to what they are feeling i.e. at the beginning they get a little scared that they like you and they therefore back off….so I’ve cut the txts completely now and we are 36 hours on…I was going to leave it for 3 more days until the day before our proposed date before I contacted him again and made some suggestion about our proposed date and where we might go/meet.
I’m feeling anxious about this because I really like this guy and I know I am going to have to learn to adapt to this ‘hot’ and then ‘col’ streak but should I just leave it until he contacts me?  I was going to suggest something quite off the wall for our next date hoping he might see this as really interesting and a challenge but not sure how he might react?  He’s very energetic and very driven in his chosen sport so I was hoping my suggestion might appeal to him rather than just suggesting some thing boring like a drink and a meal?
Any views?

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Lydia (@elmickey27) : March 22nd, 2012
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Countrygirl7424, I also am into a two month relationship of sorts with an Aquarian man.  We were hot and heavy every few days but now it’s an every Friday night get together.  As an Aries we want more but I’ve learned that my Aquarian man loves his freedom, privacy and family.  He wants no strings (at this time). He doesn’t like texting or hardly any communication until I get the call on Friday night when he picks me up, which is something I am learning to deal with.  The fireworks are still there and we love each others company and talk and talk as well as… but I think this type of man has to learn how to give more.  He is sweet and considerate but as an Aries woman we need so much more attention, it’s been hard getting use to.  I suggest you try and spice up the next text, see if he likes you’re new approach, if he doesn’t take the bait, maybe it isn’t to be.  They don’t seem to know how to communicate in that way, while I am texting away, he responds with two or three words, usually not in response to my text, but some off the topic comment.  If he’s worth it to you, you’ll have to figure out what he can give, it might not be enough for you, but I have learned it’s not that he doesn’t want to, it’s all he is able to.   

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Terry (@Tezk) : June 7th, 2012
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@CountryGirl7424
Hi Country Girl, i’m an aquarian male and i can tell you that is completely normal. we like the chase as much as the end result. but we dont like the chase in a bad “we’re just gonna lead you on for fun” kinda way. we want you to want us, but not be full on, but not be cold either. a bit of give and take. Be fun with it (the txt’s), be cheeky and witty. He will defnitely pick up on that and it will be an incredible turn-on.
as for what to do on your next date, DEFINITELY do something off-the-wall. do something that is so different that it will shock him, but in a good way. He will respond well to a date like this.
We just want someone to stimulate our minds and to challenge us. we are always after someone who will challenge us and have a war of the minds with us. but dont be too stubborn or submissive. hold your ground, but also give a little.
dont listen to Lydia, we definitely DO know how to communicate in that way, we just dont like to. there’s not much that gets past us. our intuition leads us to know where the game is and the next best approach.
whatever you do, do not be too full on, he will back away quicker than you can say “another Friday night alone”
even if he isn’t communicating with you much, he is still interested in you. us being cold and distant doesnt mean we aren’t interested. it means we are needing time to refocus, re-adjust and just to recharge. we love company and people, but we need time to ourselves to to have a look at the week past and to take it all in.
Best of Luck Country Girl. us Aquarian men are definitely worth all the work. we are very loyal and will give you everything you desire, as long as you give us the same…. remember, we need space, space, space, but we also want to know we are wanted.

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AriesAtHeart (@nataliesolo1980@yahoo.com) : September 24th, 2012
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@CountryGirl7424 HI, COUNTRYGRIL, I AGREE WITH TERRY. IM DATING AN AQUARIUS MAN. THEY CAN BE A BIT STANDOFFISH. BT, U JST HAVE TO ADJUST AND LET THEM COME AROUND ON THEIR OWN TIME. IF HE’S, INTERESTED IN YOU, HE WILL EVENTUALLY. I BELIEVE IN COMMUNICATION. I EXPRESSED THAT WITH HIM AND THERE HAVE BEEN ALOT OF GREAT CHANGES WITHIN HIM. HE’S SHOWING EXPRESSION AND EFFORT. “BABY STEPS”. IM MORE OUTSPOKEN, LOUD, AGGRESSIVE. HE’S MORE QUIET, LAID BACK, RESERVE. SO, WE BALANCE EACH OTHER OUT. HE’S COMING MORE OUT OF HIS SHELL AND COMMUNICATING MORE. IM MORE OF A TALKER. HE’S MORE OF A TEXTER. JUST BE PATIENT AND IF HE’S THE ONE FOR YOU, HE WILL OPEN UP MORE ON HIS TIME. THEY CAN BE MYSTERIOUS, NON CHALANT, EMOTIONALLY CHALLENGE. AQUARIUS ARE EMOTIONALLY PACE SETTERS. THEY DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING. VERY OBSERVANT. SO, WHEN U THINK HE’S NOT PAYING ATTENTION OR NOT NOTICING YOU, HE IS. THEY ARE THINKERS. SO, YOU HAVE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE TO HIM MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY. GOOD LUCK!!!!!! 

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McClellan (@McClellan) : October 6th, 2012
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Hey I’m an Aquarius male and I’m in love with an arise female but for some reason I just can’t tell her how I feel. We aren’t together but I want us to be when we hang out its fun but I want more than to just be friends but I just can’t ask her out because IM so scared it won’t work out what do I do.

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Marie (@Ar1es) : November 9th, 2012
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I have had 3 major relationships in my life. Each has been with an Aquarius. I’ve had children with the 2nd and fell deeply in love with the 3rd. From my experience, the Aquarian man can be so nurturing and good for the soul. You have the ones that are too clingy and the ones that are aloof. I’m more attracted to the aloof ones. I feel like they are a drug to Aries. Get u so high, then crash very hard when the high is over. I’m still addicted to my last Aquarian. But I have to learn to avoid them as the heartbreak is so strong. If the aquarian knew how to be more in tuned with Aries, than it can be the strongest relationship known to man as we work very well together. Unstoppable.

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LovemyAquarius (@LovemyAquarius) : January 11th, 2013
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@CountryGirl7424
Loved reading all the responses you got.  I cant help but to laugh.. Its soooo True.  I have been in love twice in my life and both Aquarius.  I am swarmed by them like moths to a flame, and I too them.
I have been with my Aquarius for almost 4years.  And believe me we have had some battles but he has always worked on our issues and has always been all in.  The being aloof and distant, it is their nature.  And Yes even after all these years I know how much he loves me but I do get lonely and feel forgetten.  But dont let that scare you, he is worth the wait and battle.  When I have his attention is undivided and I’m the person in his world.  We are often at opposite time lines. Example when I want attention he doesnt, when he wants my attention I dont.  Its irritating at time but hilarious.  We have a million laughs not only is he the love of my life, he is my best friend, my partner in crime.
Get to know yourself and your aquarius nature and life will make sense and be easier. 
Even after 4 years and we live together, he rarely calls me or texts me and its usually short and simple. :)
Keep things light and airy.  Give him his space but if he’s taking too long for your give him a little nudge by texting him and just say Hi.
Let him do what he does and plan the date.  Your a girl be a girl and let him romance you.  When you are on your date have fun with it.  Talk about what you like to do what you have done etc.  Show him how unpredictable you are or can be and it will excite him.  Aquarius love challenges and feeds off your passion and excitment. 
We have this silly game where when he wants affection I dont give it to him, even a simple kiss.  It drives him crazy and he will try everything for me to give in even for hours. I make him work.  Its so silly but fun and exciting. :)
Good luck with your aquarius and dont worry if its meant to be it will be.  Dont be so scared or so quick to jump all over him.  Space is good for him and for you.  But dont be afraid to give him a little nudge here and there :).

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LovemyAquarius (@LovemyAquarius) : January 11th, 2013
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Oh Aquarius man, nothing is more of a turn off for an aries women then a man who does not act!..  If you want her go and get her.  Dont be afraid to be assertive or aggressive in what your want.
I will never forget how my aquarius man went after me and it didnt matter what i did or said he wanted me and he was ganna win me over. He let me know that no matter what he will always be here waiting for me.
Its ok to be afraid, but be couragous and ask yourself is she worth the risk?  You will have a lot more hurdles in your relationship then this :).
Me and my aquarius have been together for nearly 4 years and are very much in love.  We started as friends, had a drunken night and he swooped me off my feet and after that I had no chance, LOL.
You aquarius men are dangerous..lol. 
Good luck and god bless

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vcio (@vcioffredi1105@yahoo.com) : March 21st, 2013
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My husband is an Aquarius and I’ve never had a more perfect match for me, (an Aries). It comes from first understanding and accepting a few things about myself. This isn’t a match for the weak of heart. He is a challenge, a brat and a prince, all at once. It’s in his nature. Something to note though, I did not pursue him. He found me, and would not stop until I was his. He’s never done that. We were friends as children. Once he saw me, it was over. Our connections were immediate and very intense, a little scary, actually. He loved me very deeply and very quickly, I think before I loved him. He’s very devoted to me, but he’s also a MAN. He doesn’t take my crap for too long and as I consider myself a queen, I can dish out plenty. We had alot more arguements in the beginning around what was “meant” by something because we were still getting used to understanding one another’s true feelings. Aquarians keep things close to the vest and in some aspects, you have to DRAG it out of them but that doesn’t mean those feelings aren’t there and they don’t exist. These are men of “doing”. You have to watch what they do. They love our openness, expressiveness and joy but they are not as visibly demonstrative as we are. When these men do love though, they love deeply, completely, and blindly in some cases. You need to be very careful about that and make sure that the love given is the love returned because these men WILL protect and cherish you. They KNOW we Aries women are prone to getting hurt and hurt easily. My husband will let me fight my own fights but when he sees I get to a point where I just can’t deal or someone has crossed a line, he can become a mean and scary man quick. They are deeply generous and indulgent of our whims in and out of the bedroom and there’s often a “polarity in reverse” when I know he’s there for the taking and he’s doing all the encouraging to take. He needs his space though and when he needs it, I never give him a hard time. He’s very generous in all other ways so it’s no big deal. I found that I had to tell him from day one what I wanted from the relationship. Plain terms, no nonsense, and be a tempermental Aries brat about it. The thing is, he  was so struck by me, I would have had it, temper tantrum or not. These are very principaled men. They don’t like liars, cheats, game players. They don’t love easily so when they do, they love big and if you betray that, you’re done. For good. They don’t mind a fight, in fact, expect to fight a great deal initially, as long as there is an understanding of deep love and joy and a strong bond between you. Do what Aries do, STAND FOR YOUR MAN….and they will be 100% yours. I love our relationship. It’s a joy, it’s a challenge, it’s never a bore and the bonds are very very strong, but it wasn’t always easy….

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AiNorr (@QueenAries) : August 7th, 2013
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I had to make an account just to be a part of this convo! In the last month I hsve come to the realization that I am in LOVE with this Aquarius man I have brn involved with for quite some time. I am reading these comments and it feels like I am reading about us.  He THOROUGHLY has me confused but reading the comments shed lots of light.  I know that people have their own personality traits but again what I’ve read here sounds familiar n gives me hope.
 
He Is so detached but then turns around n has me feeling like the most beautiful creature on earth. And for those reasons Im so open but I try and play hard….which isn’t good because my feelings r all over the place. Lol ughhhh .. He tells me to express myself but what’s the point if I dunno if its mutual???
He is definitely a brat n never likes to take accountability for things n sometimed it boils my blood but it also keeps me lured in n on my toes…I feel like a mad woman lol
 
What have I gotten myself into…who am i kidding I love it..n him :^) 

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AiNorr (@QueenAries) : August 8th, 2013
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@McClellan
U can tell when a female is into you…. She’s probably waiting for you to make that move.  Aries women (at least I do) love romance…and even though we r impatient at letting some things just happen we still are ol school when it comes to love.
Do it….Ask her!

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LegioX (@LegioX) : December 18th, 2013
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unbelievable
i opened up an account just because i wanted to chip in my 2p
throughout highschool, i was in love with an aries girl. she broke my heart by insisting we should stay friends. years later she said she would like to see me more, hang out together, go out . but i was in a different relationship now, with another aries girl, whom i loved to bits, after 5 years of relationship that ended in tears and shouts. guess what. she also insisted on staying friends. recently i ran into another (or was picked up by her?) aries girl, for one month, everything was purrfect, even her cat liked me. and then, 2 weeks later, with no prior notification, she catches me off guard by tellin me its better off if we stayed friends because i scare her and we dont match. just like that. last time i’ll ever get involved with an aries girl in my life, i swear

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LegioX (@LegioX) : December 18th, 2013
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needless to say am aquarius

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Angel (@sacgirl) : December 27th, 2013
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I just had to add my 2 cents (I’m an Aries)….I’ve known my Aquarius since high school (over 30 years ago).  In high school, both of us were too shy to really get to know each other.  I left town the year I graduated HS, but as the years went by, I always thought about him and he thought about me.  In the early 90′s we had one night together (both of us were drunk so it’s a vague memory).  More years went by and the few times we have seen each other (at parties) there has always been a draw….intense attraction.  Both of us have tried to forget about the other…went on to marriages, children, ect.  But no matter how much either of us try, we can’t seem to move on from each other.  Just recently we’ve decided it’s time to figure it out.  I’m not sure where this relationship will end, but it’s something that is always there.  Maybe we’ll just be friends forever….or we could find that we’re really soulmates and that’s why we keep finding outselves back at the same place we always do. 
I find that I can tell him anything….and he has actually found himself telling me things he wouldn’t normally do.  I am generally not a trusting person by any means, but yet, I find that I trust him completely and I have no idea why.
The Aries in me always want to know….to understand.  I can be insecure when I don’t have the cues to know he cares.  However, for the first time in my life….I get him and I understand that he is super independent (as am I) and that he needs his space (as I do).  I talk WAY more than he ever does, but that’s ok because I understand that is his way.  Although he doesn’t text much…he always sends me a text saying good morning….and a text saying good night each day.  If I don’t get one, then I know there is a good reason and I never ask him why.  I believe he cares because I don’t believe he would take the time to send those simple texts…and it shows that he is thinking of me.
Being older I think is a plus because we both will benefit from our past experiences with life.  Our lives are very complicated, but we both believe that if we don’t find out what we are meant to be….it will be the biggest regret.

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Angela (@Angelfire70) : February 18th, 2014
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Lol, I am sitting here at my desktop and I am just laughing away at most of the comments I am reading. This is all true. I was wondering which one of y’all was the fly on my wall when my situation was going on? Honestly, I am an Aries female who met a male Aquarian 30 years ago. I was young but not all dumb. He reeled me all the way in. He decided to be honest with me one week later and tell me that he was married. I felt confused but also caught up. There was this connection I felt with him that I can’t even begin to explain but I am sure you all know what I’m talking about. All I know is that when I was in his presence, I didn’t want to be anywhere else. He just took over my emotions. I later moved to another state and we drifted apart. I never stopped thinking about him. It’s like he was always there. 30 years has gone by and I will have you all to know that I have always wondered where he was and how he was really doing. My questions were answered 3 wks ago. I went to this social event with my husband. I had been there maybe 4 hours.  I am certain that he had spotted me long before I saw him or even knew he was there. I happen to look up and there he was; all over again. My pulse began to race and I felt like I was out of control. I finally got the chance to talk with him. I asked for his number to stay in touch (was that dumb or what?) He asked a lot of questions but he gave me his personal number before we departed. I don’t want to read too much into this but what does this mean? I have to remember that we both are married but something is still going on here. It feels like everything I felt for him 30 years ago has resurfaced. We have been texting each other but he does give short texts but what started out as I thought was a possible platonic conversation, has turned into something else. He’s started calling me sweetie & baby doll etc. He has promised for 2 days to call at certain times but he hasn’t done so yet. He has a company job that keeps him pretty busy. I felt like he was playing a game with me. I find myself attracted to everything about him. We can just look at each other a certain way and that’s all it takes. We don’t have to say anything. I can remember every detail from 30 years ago. I feel things for him that I know I shouldn’t but it’s like I am not in control of it. Somebody help! I need clarity on what may be going on. I don’t want to be too impulsive and rush anything but I just feel there is unfinished business between us. The attraction is too strong. I don’t want to hurt nobody but I need to know where this could have gone. He pursues me in his own little way. I find myself pursuing back. I know that I am in trouble. I need some feedback quick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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nacyrima (@nacyrima) : March 31st, 2014
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Wow!! As I read everyones comment about Aquarius men It blows me away I’m a aries women I was lately in a 16 yrs relationship with a sagitarrius man I just started back dateing again I’m now currently dating a Aquarius man this man is laso the same man I was in love with when I was 16 teen yrs old we would spend hr’s on the phone wwe had something you would call puppy love he chase me for yrs after that wanting to be with me 20 yrs later here we are again and I’m deeply in love with him he is very good to me at times but cold  at times to I gott mad at hime once and didnt speak to him for four days he had pushed me away with is on and off personality he doesnt seem to relize that it sometimes is an issue because he so distant. at time I want affection and want to be up under him and he so far away I have to demand attention from him. Then I decided to allow him to give me that attention when he is ready but I find that because I love so much I want that attention when I want it I dont wont to wait for it I sometimes be in the same room with him and can’t take my eys off of him he makes me feel wanted and loved and appreciated I love the way he speaks to me when he is catering to my needs or offering his affection it’s undeniable he mad me cry and I thought he didnt care but he did he just didnt want to show me I knew it bothered him he hides his feeling alot when it comes to love but when he angry he has no problem showing it but I can handle it because I’m a aries and I have fire sometimes when I’m upset he listens and it tends to calm him and he laughs as if I’m the crazy one but I think it is because he knows that I’m not going to put up with that hot and cold personality I can be hot and cold to but I dont want it to be a tit fo tat thing so sometimes I just give in to him so that he knows I’m not trying to fight with him..Aqurius men can be difficukt to be with but Aries women are strong enough to deal with it if they want if we dont let our selfishness stand in the way I never consider myself as the jelous type but sometimes I’m concerned about other women I think it’s because I know how I feel about him I love my Aquarius man and I willl do what I can to make it work we will lesarn each other as well love each other

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Jclovingme (@Jclovingme) : April 22nd, 2014
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Wow reading all these comments I have just started dating an Aquarius. and everything I’m reading sounds so true we have been dating for 5 months now. I am a Aries. 

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