Aries Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

I met a wonderful Aries girl, the love of my life (LOML) she then 25 and me 42 in the summer of 2010, both in relationships, she had a boyfriend and I in a marriage. We met several times during the first couple of weeks, going to eat ice cream, drink coffee and pastries, and having dinners at beautiful cozy romantic restaurants. Needless to say, we hit it off. She told me I was funny and very smart plus she loved the way I dressed, very Wall St-type. I loved the way she looked at me. The relationship developed as we became very comfortable with one another. I asked her to experience something that very few people experience, the thrill of flying a private plane. She logged 33 minutes of actual flying time, and was thrilled at her accomplishment.
I made a promise to LOML I would always be truthful to her, even if the truth hurt and she agreed to be the same. I had initially told her I just wanted a “companionship” based relationship, not an intimate one. She agreed. After several more clandestine meetings, I told her that I would like to pursue an intimate but discreet relationship. She told me that to do so will create feelings that in the future will probably end up being painful. Being faithfully married for more than ten years, I did not think much about her comment but took a mental note of it and we agreed that we would break up amicably if either my wife or her bf suspected something.
The relationship soared as we made love over and over again, going away on weekends and meeting at least twice weekly for dinner and sizzling sex. We were in total bliss and she confessed to me that I was the most intense and passionate person she ever met; and she was beautiful from head to toe and I always told her I loved her; I treated her with total love and respect, unlike anyone else in my life. We kept this intense relationship until I made the biggest blunder of my life and I dont know if she still loves me or despises.
THE BLUNDER
Although this may seem like a paradox and a farce to some, I value integrity in a person; I dont like to lie or be lied to. The LOML informed me she heard a rumor that I was a flirt from a close personal friend of hers; instintively I asked who. She declined to tell me, afraid I would confront the person. But I was burning with rage at this person, and I knew someone who lived in the same building as her who was employed by one of my affiliated companies: and I told her I suspected who she was. The LOML told me she wouldnt tell me; but within minutes she verified it was the one I suspected. But the LOML insisted I give her my word that I would not confront her. Without thinking, I did. I could not sleep for the next few nights as I was pissed as to why this person told the LOML that I was a flirt, when I only had met her once or twice and only said hello in passing.
THE CROSSROADS
I had a dilemna: if I confronted her, I would find out why she said what she said, but it would ruin her relationship with the LOML and the LOML would be pissed at me from going back on my word. On the other hand, if I stood shut, the LOML would assume the rumors were true. I let me pride and ego get the best of it; and I confronted the girl and she DENIED IT until I told her the LOML had told me in a very specific way. She the admitted it, and I told the LOML and she was furious with me. To cut the story short and to avoid anyone looking at this post from knowing who we are, she broke it off with me. I tried to tell her the reasons, but she would not listen. This was November 2011.
MY PREDICAMENT
I love the LOML with all love of the world; I know that I want to be with her, that it hurts me when I see her and I know that she still loves me but that she is hurt I betrayed her trust by confronting the other girl.
Although I am calm and emotionless, inside I feel this volcano full of sadness. I know her fiance does not give her the love or affection I have given her during the past 18 months and at times I feel like teeling her to runaway with me to start a new life- thats how much I love her…
SO I ASK
Is the pain caused by my betrayal greater than the love I have given her? If so, I need to know so I can go on with my life knowing that she no longers feels anything for me. I know she feels scared that if she tells me to go away, I will destroy her her by telling her fiance about us, but I would never do such a thing-had I wanted, I would have destroyed her when she broke it off with me.
So my love, if you are reading this, tell me truth as to how you feel about me, even if it hurts me.
 
-Malbec
 
 

Greetings malbec,
    Im so sorry to hear this,  as an Aries woman betrayal is of the upmost deliberate way of hurting someone. She told you not to confront this person,  but you did anyway so in her eyes you are reckless and you are a threat to her livelihood. You need to ask yourself why hasnt she left her boyfriend for you? if this love is so true. As an aries woman myself when we feel that we have meet the right one we move almost instantly to be with the one who has our heart. Let me be very clear you are married so this is why she has moved on she feels no chance of having the life she deserves with you a shamless one she cant bring you home and show you off like us aries women love to do because you belong to someone else. That alone made her push you away basically if you want to prove anything to her and im going to be brutally honest leave your wife then and only then will she take you back and take you seriously. Because lets face you are much older than her and why should she waste her time screwing a married man when she could have someone elses total commitment and have 100% of that person verses 50% of you Aries crave alot of attention which is why she kept her boyfriend for those mean time in between times you should be more careful in your affairs especially as a married man and plus she is an aries and naturally want to do the right thing and honestly the right thing would be to leave you..especially since you confronted her c o-worker i mean wow that was stupid sorry Im not trying to hurt you I just want you to see the error of your ways
                                               Bye now and Good luck with this…
          

Hi,
 
I have read the description of the Aries Woman and Scorpio Man relationship and am amazed at how accurate it is.
 
With that said, I need advise from the Aries ladies. I am a Scorpio man deeply attracted to and love an Aries woman. We have known each other for a little over a year and a half. I feel there is mutual attraction from her side too. The energy in the air when we are around each other is stronger than anything I have ever felt with anyone else. When we look into each other’s eyes, it is powerful and we can look into each other’s eyes for a long time without either one of us looking away. We have openly flirted in front of our friends . . . Initiated by me. We see each other about once per week as we are part of a sports team.
 
The problem I have is she seems to always been involved with someone else. Either someone she is dating off our sports team or one male in particular who is on the team. When she knew I was involved with someone else, she did distance herself from the person on our team, as to lure my attention back, but is now back to him.
 
I’m not sure how I should handle this. Should I tell her how I feel? Should I let them be and see if they stick together? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
 
Love you Aries women.
 
Scorpio

hello guys am an aries girl in love with a scorpio man for past few months…i loved him truly we were very happy in our relationship(i presumed..) he broke up with me  saying that he loved a pisces girl for past 3 years and now he realised that he loves her sincerely and wats to go back to her..they had a break-up and inorder to forget her he came closer me..he cheated me very brutally but i dont know why i still love him and so desperately want him to come back into my life.. i want to know if he comes back to me or not??

I think that pisces guy are the best match for an aries girl. After that the fire sign guys. I know a pisces and he is the most amazing person ever. I have not met anyone like him. I will always love him. Pisces men love aries women for who they are and totally accept them. I don’t think that scorpios are a good match for aries. Although I get attracted to scorpios and virgos alot… But after analysing everything I think an aries girl should not be with a scorpio guy. I don’t think scorpios love aries the way aries love them. I’v seen this alot. Aries love with all their heart and soul. Aries accepts scorpio completely with all their vices but scorpio somehow don’t do the same for aries. They also always think they are right, have to win an argument and can be vengeful. The funny thing is I know a lot of scorpios who think they are the best lovers of the zodiac which is totally not true. They can however enjoy their delusion while we stand back and laugh at it. Aries girls if your scorpio guy don’t treat you right then just simply walk away. You can do much better. Aries are innocent and child-like whereas scorpios are calculative and manipulative. Try a pisces, aries, leo and sagittarius. You’re better off!

After reading Malbec’s post I felt compelled to share my own. I(Aries 20 at the time) was intensely in love with a Scorpio Man(33 at the time), he was everything I could ask for or I thought: successful lawyer, professional player, physical, insightful, sexy, wise, mysterious. There was just this intense chemistry that I had not felt before. There was only one slight problem.. he was married. At first he lied to me, he said he had a girlfriend we continued anyway just being friends. When things started to get more serious or my feelings, I asked if he had left his girlfriend. Being a lawyer and a Scorpio, he sneakily avoided the answer. of course not long he got caught, I was furious. But at that point it was too late. I was completely stupefied in love with him. I believed him when he said he was separated but he couldn’t file for his divorce yet. Being understanding I believe him and thought the process would be long and hard. We continued.. But I could not disguise my jealousy. it killed me knowing that he could be lying to me.  I could not stand his lack of attention and searched it in other men. I was never faithful, how could I be faithful to someone who was married?
the relationship went back and forth but the intensity would not leave. I would try to leave but and he would always find a way back to convince me. make up an excuse, lie more. Until “the blunder” (as malbec said) which ended anything there was.
He was always very careful and private about his life. I am not huge on social networking so as time passed I guess he was confident that I would never check his facebook profile. Wrong! I went out of curiosity of course. & there it was Albums of his happily married life. His excuse was that his marriage was over but he was trying to get into a reality show. And that was the biggest betrayal for me: He would rather be on a reality show than with me. He lied the whole time: saying how unhappy he was, that his wife would not let him go, she was alone blah blah. That was the reality check for me and finally straw.
I have no desire to be with him anymore at all. I acknowledge my error, paid my consequences(with a lot suffering). but that’s it, I want to move on and be with someone 100% that I can trust and will reciprocate my love. It’s taken me a long time to heal but I finally feel detached. Except there is one problem.
AND my question is: how do i get rid of him? this has gone on for a year now. I’ve left him, told him off, told him to go away, stopped talking to him, disappeared, everything! and he persist. He will leave me alone for sometime but he always comes back. He is always there and willing, I just want him to leave me alone and let me live my own life. 

I’m an aries girl and I have to say that pisces guys are the best lovers of the zodiac along with aries guys. The pisces man that I knew was everything that I could ever want in a mate. He knew just how to make me feel loved, protected and supported. He was very intelligent and great to be around. He was also very honest. I have never met a guy like him. He was the whale type of pisces but I think all pisces are sweet people. He left an impression and gained a special place in my heart. I will always love him. Pisces can truly feel your feelings and at times even mind read. They have powerful intuitions. My pisces always knew how I was feeling and what I would be thinking. He knew me and totally understood me. He is a great guy with a good heart and a wonderful soul. Pisces eyes are also very expressive. I have not seen such powerful emotions in anyone’s eyes as much as his. He has very soulful eyes. They are very beautiful. He is beautiful person in every single way. It is such a special feeling when he cares for you. The girl who will have him will be very lucky. Pisces make great lovers and friends. There is so much to say but I think aries and pisces make a great couple.

 
 
Um. In my opinion you are both a rediculous joke and cruelly mistreating a) your wife. B) her fiancé. You are both disgusting examples of human beings. 

That last comment was directed at Malbec. Now as for my Scorpiorelationship. 
 
I have never met anyone like my Scorpio. I am a strong woman. I spend most of my day outside. My Scorpio man is the same way. We are both really hard workers. He stays cool headed when my incinerating temper flares and cooly helps me collect myself. I am the optimist while he’s a pessimist. I help bring him up, while he levels out my exaggerations. As long as logic overrides my emotions(which happens a lot) I’m able to think my way around his odd actions. When he thinks with his heart I can easily pick up his thought train. So long as we take turns in a didacussong it doesn’t turn into a fight. 
 
I love my Scorpio and wouldn’t trade him for anything in the world. I have met many scorpio and have always gotten along with them pretty well. My ex-husband was a cancer. That was the biggest mistake of my life. 2 moody tempers should avoid each other at all cost. 

As long as we take turns in a discussion it doesn’t turn into a fight. *

I am an aries women.. and i am completely in love with a scorpio man. i’ve always been honest with him and told him everything i’ve ever felt and done. but it seems that a mutual friend of ours has told him i cheated on him with a sagittarius from my past. I have hung out with this sagittarius male but never would i cheat on my beloved scorpio. i have told my scorpio this and even the sagittarius has told him that we have done nothing, but for some reason my scorpio wont believe… i’m terrified of the thought of lose him and i have no idea what else i can do. from the very beging my scorpio were attached. and we we’ve been together since we met. i am completely in love and want to know what i can do to keep him. 

Well, I am currently seeing a Scorpio man and he is EVERYTHING! lol.  We have some of the most intense, passionate and most fun times together. We’ve known each other for years…since 2006 and we hit it off back then, but due to him lying to me about who he was seeing and who he was period at the time, i just walked away…but we recently rekindled our friendship beginning of the year around March 2012 and we have been in each others lives ever since…just recently i expressed to him how i feel about him..nothing major, but that I am digging him and really feeling him, and this was via text. Since that day, he never responded to what I said. So what do you guys think about this? Is it normal for the Scorpio man to not respond to things as such?

scorpio man here. i need a serious advice from all aries ladies out there.so it goes like this….
there is an aries gal in my class whom i am craving for. we are arch rivals in our class regarding academics (that “1st place is mine” kinda thing). we always fight (coz there is no other way i can talk to her). 2 of her groupies (a saggi and a cancer gal) like me 2 bt i dont care! she is everything i want-cute, innocent, intelligent, childish and endless qualities. i am really craving for her but i am damn afraid to propose her coz we’re just 16. i even love the way she shouts at me. even her slight touch thrills me and makes me wanna do much more to her. just 2 mins fighting wid her make my day. i seek reasons to be around her. 1ce we talked nicely whn v wr teamed 4 the same science project . but i am really possesive about her. i hate it she talks to other guys. it kills me. i am handsome, intelligent and far better than all of her guy friends then why cant she be be mine ?? i can do anything for her. i always want to be around her. so please fellows advice me for how can i create feelings for me in her heart ??

i have to say only one thing that we are curse and some of us get the love of their life and some try tooooo search for it the person they love like my self searching from last 4 years

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Aries girls the scorpio guy is not your man!
You will find your man in an aries, leo, sagittarius and pisces guy!
Aries, leo and sagittarius are innocent, child-like, passionate and sexy!You will share a zest for life. Support, understand and respect each other. A grand life with happiness, peace and love. You will always inspire each other. A very content and fulfilling life with these guys. They will care for you deeply.You will never look back!
Pisces are innocent, supportive, soulful and romantic! Aries and pisces will understand, inspire and respect each other. Again a very happy, content and fulfilling life with you pisces guy. A strong pisces guy can be your dream guy… very sexy! the right pisces guy can be all you need. Pisces can care and love so deeply that it will hurt him…. something you will reciprocate…. It will hurt to care and love him so deeply. He will always be there and take care of you no matter what it takes him.
When you fall for these guys you will fall hard!
So aries girls find someone who is worth your care, love and respect!
Most likely these guys will be… you will find true happiness with each other!
 
 

Marlena
You have no right to judge!
Aries and scorpio are one of the most loyal signs. Some people from other signs are the worst. Malbec and his aries girl have something special. People have wrote their stories and experiences. They have come out and been honest. You have no right to pass comments like that. Nobody is perfect. Some things happen.  You can disagree like many others including myself but for you to just say things like that are just unacceptable!