Aries Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

The Aries and the Scorpio makes an unusually exciting pair with Aries to provide lots of enthusiasm and Scorpio to provide commitment in the relationship. Aries are direct while Scorpios are more circuitous in expressing love. Moreover Aries have fluctuations in their behavior, whereas, Scorpios are stable and steady.

A Scorpio man is a superhuman being with a blend of passion, intellect and a magnetic attraction that is challenging to avoid. His mind is sharp, critical, cautious and skeptical making him unique and interesting. He is a perfect picture of will power and stability. When in love with an Aries woman, he gives her love and care with all the passion of this world and the other world. He is one of a kind shielding lover and is always by the side of his lady to protect her from the cruel world. He is very tolerant and gives his Aries woman complete freedom to enjoy her individuality. But if he is pushed, he never backs off but waits for the right time and take revenge.

An Aries woman is defensive in behavior and tries to protect her sensitive nature from hurts and pains. She is a bit confused person who responds with fiery rage and is usually left not knowing how to extinguish the fire. She is quick minded and able to see through manipulation easily, this makes her admire her Scorpio man who is truly sincere. She appreciates his loyalty and provides him with equal passion in the relationship. At times Scorpio man may find her to be selfish and egotistical. But once this woman is committed she is extremely sentimental and loyal regarding the relationship.

An Aries woman makes a quick impression on the Scorpio man with her pleasant purity and strong courage and blind faith in his love. Emotionally she is on the same level of attraction and vigor as that of her Scorpio man. She is one of the few women, to whom the Scorpio is willing to reveal his unexposed side. In fact he is one of the few males, she allows to dominate her. She brings new enthusiasm and changes in his life to make him feel more regenerated. She deeply respects the loyalty of Scorpio male and feels secure around him which gives her new energy to try exciting things in her life. But to keep an Aries female committed, excitement has to be kept on its pace because an Aries lose interest quickly if relationship has lost its excitement.

The constancy of a Scorpio man attracts an Aries woman strongly as she herself lacks it. He is a perfect man for an Aries lady who wants her womanhood to be admired and her individuality to be accepted. He is one of a kind loyal person who does not show any interest in outer world once he is actually in a committed relationship and is satisfied with his lady. He is one person who accepts the aggressive attitude of her and is tolerant to her fiery temper. He always gives attention to all the interests of her and is always by her side to support her and make her feel protected. But the suspicious nature of the Scorpio man can put her on a trail with many questions pouring on. This can make her furious and can create differences in their love life.

There is a depth in the love between Aries woman and Scorpio man that is seldom equaled for sheer passionate, devotion and spiritual closeness. Mentally they may be two different worlds but their emotional closeness brings them in an ecstasy that lacks in most of the usual couples. As their love reaches deeper emotional levels, she smoothly manages to tolerate his superiority, infuriating silence and deep wells of secrecy and he also calmly overlooks her flows of jealousy, financial extravagance and frequent demands for attention in an immature emotional approach. As they both overcome their differences with their strong bond of trust and attachment, she receives enduring happiness with her Scorpio man and he becomes the man of her dreams for whom she gives up all her egos and selfishness. Their oneness create an angelic peace in their existence making them fall in love with each other more and more with each passing day.

A sexual relationship between the two is very fulfilling. He provides her with the feelings of eternal love she needs. Sexual attraction lasts for a very long time for them. The passion between them is extremely strong giving both of them divine physical and emotional satisfaction which brings them closer every time they make love. When she is in full submission to him, he feels her so much more pure this way, so much more vulnerable, exposed, and open. His intense desires in make her feel so full, so fleshy, so wet with arousal. Their physical intimacy becomes stronger with time developing more trust and faith in their relation. The only area where sex can cause problems between them is her tendency to exaggerate his strong appeal for women into accusations of unfaithfulness. The Scorpio can also cause problems by reading the Aries free and friendly manner as flirting with other men. It would be wise for him to realize that she’s too honest and full of ideals about love to commit adultery without extreme provocation, and even then, she confesses it almost before it happens.

When an Aries woman and a Scorpio man are attracted towards each other, the attraction is very mutual both emotionally and physically having long-lasting bond. The reliability and protectiveness of the Scorpio man always clicks her while her individuality and innocence makes him fall for her instantly. Both of them share the common emotion of passion which is raw in Aries and ripen in Scorpio but still they enjoy each others’ sides well. But the envious, selfish and controlling attitude of Aries is hard for the Scorpio to match up with while the Aries hate the mysterious and doubtful nature of the Scorpios. Both of them need to manipulate their personal tiffs and perceptual creations to maintain harmony and improve their relationship.

  1. Gail Bhai 2 days ago

    I am a Aries women and have been married twice both men were scorpio.I will never consider having another Scorpio man in my life.They are very secretive and very selfish,in my experience both men were also very irresponsible.No No-never again.

  2. Ramscorp December 17th, 2016

    @ someone_famous
    What a load of sh&t! I am an Aries female, and one thing I do well is trust people, but only when they are proven to be trusted. Only an idiot would trust people so easily. Trust takes time to build, no matter what sign a person is. I have been close friends with a Scorpio male for 7 years, and we have a bond like no other, and he tells me absolutely everything. The trouble comes when the other person is sheepish and cagey, When they are not direct or won’t look you in the eye. Scorpio themselves find it hard to trust and are paranoid and suspicious of every damn thing, so don’t talk about Aries inability to trust without looking in your own backyard first. I am currently involved in a great new friendship with another Scorpio male I met, He made it clear the other night his feelings run deeper than that, but wants us to take things slow, and that’s because neither of us are teenagers anymore, and we’ve both been down the road of despair when it comes to relationships. We both know trust is important, and neither of us want to ruin what we have. So don’t take the ram by the horns if all you’re going to do is mess with the head. Because that is why we become argumentative. Not just for the sake of it. I am also a very faithful and honest person, who totally gets the space a Scorpio needs. If both are honest with each other from the get go, then there will never be much to argue about. I think the two signs connect rather well, and not just on a sexual level. I think they go much deeper than that, but only when Scorpio opens up and is honest. If he starts playing mind games, or goes silent simply to test a person, then they don’t deserve the love or trust of a loyal and loving Aries, or anyone else for that matter.

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    ramgirl October 3rd, 2016

    I am an Aries woman. Seeing a Scorpio man over three years. We both are married and having this intense affair.  I’ve tried many times to break up this relationship cos the intensity of it is driving me mad. He refuses to let me go. The passion we share is scorching. I love him very much. This relationship got tested many times but we come back stronger in our love whenever we apart. He does love me. I am an emotional wreck when I dont hear from him. Being the strong women that we are, this man is definately my weakness. I even surprise myself that I give in to him so easily which is typically not me.
    Please advise as I dont think I can go on anymore with these feelings. I rather have him all to myself or let him go. Love has no middle ground.

    • AriesndaRain December 23rd, 2016

      Guuurrrll. We love hard and bore easily. Of course you love him, 3+ years is a long time ma’am. But those Scorpio men are hard to resist! Sheesh!

    • arieschick February 17th, 2017

      are u still seeing him?

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    queenbee23 March 13th, 2016

    @ariesgal1 girl i love my fellow aries because we think just alike lol i love pisces alooot they calm my fire down lol but  i do believe depending on how  the scorpio was raised he could be a great match for an aries but ive never dated one soo.. 

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    moonlove December 19th, 2015

    My first love (and only love so far) was a typical Scorp. We were farming together on a program and he pursued me with such confidence it was hard to ignore. I tried to take things slow, but of course being an Aries girl that didn’t work at all and within weeks we were inseparable. His controlling nature drove me nuts, but I have a lot of cancer in me and I was able to handle his mood swings and obviously I liked feeling so needed by him. We basically spent three months rolling around in a tent together and got to know each other in an incredibly deep way, physically and emotionally. Despite being incredibly sensitive and romantic and passionate when he wanted to be, he didn’t always treat me right. I thought I was strong willed and stubborn, but he was so gosh darn manipulative he could get me to do anything. He turned me to mush, and he loved that he could do that to me, haha! We were so in love. We understood each other without words, in a way I had never experienced before. Unfortunately he was young and immature and still in school and at the end of the program we decided that a long distance relationship would be too hard (and by we I mean he) but that we would always be friends no matter what. Of course being the Scorpio that he is he decided to go all cold on me. He opted to go completely separate ways by ignoring me, even on my birthday. I gave him all my heart and he completely broke it in two. I was so hurt and felt like he wasn’t honest with me about wanting me in his life. I went through many stages of anger and sadness and it took me years to truly forgive him. As crushed as I was, he was the most passionate lover I’ve ever known. I hope to find another love like it from an older, more evolved Scorpio… or maybe i’m better off with a sign who won’t try to turn me into such a submissive partner. 
    If you can get past all the secrets and mind games and give yourself fully to him, a Scorpio man has the ability to make you feel like the most loved and appreciated woman that has ever walked on earth. Just make sure it’s the right timing and that he is in a healthy place mentally to commit to you. As sexy as they are, an immature Scorpio is quite a handful. Good luck Aries ladies! 

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    Diamante October 19th, 2015

    I am an Aries female who fell madly in love with a Scorpio male 28 years ago. We had a fantastic relationship, but we lost each other due to family circumstances. We found each other again after 26 years of absence and the feeling we both had for each other never faded! He is absolutely amazing!  And I am still madly in love with my Scorpio man!

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    Goddess101 May 4th, 2015

    Well, someone famous i am sorry about your negative view on THIS Aries woman. Sounds like she may have been born on a cusp, LOL. Also, seems like you got this woman during the WORST time in her life. One thing I have realized is our signs seem to be somewhat subjective. I hate that when i get to meet someone, i shortly ask them what day is their birthday! Most of them just respond without realization of what i am doing, lol. I am a Aries Woman born on April 10th, ive been told I am the epitiome of a Aries woman. Which I use to despise because of my more masculine nature and being overly ambitions and somewhat of a empath. Im awfully smart and EXTREMLY DEEP. I have been told this on a number of times, which also prevents myself from freely running in and out or relationships or others beds. I do have a talent to write, which is conjured up from dramatic that build up in my head and the best outlet is poetry. /ive also been told that I have many layers to me. In addtion to this, I have a twin sister. We are so diffrent it drives me crazy! I wish she were more ambitious and goal oreiented like myself. I decided to  post one of my poems, which is a common thing for me, in hopes of changing your mind on this aries thing that is going on.

    A treasure chest representing my chest
    And the key was all along your hands.
    Diamonds and gold are within my soul
    Blinded by the light ill allow only you to see

    Look in my eyes and get lost in my thoughts
    Like a trance you will fall so heavily
    Listen to my words and ill caress your thoughts
    Any limitations we’ll pass so regardlessly
    We stand far apart time and space in between
    But when we connect we become the secluded
    We started out as two but then the space disappeared
    And soon the word us was included                
    Looking for something we thought we never find
    We fell in love and discovered each other
    Quenched a thirst that we could no longer bare
    But we tipped the cup for one another
    Looking for a fountain that never existed
    But the youth we discovered in each other


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    RaychelC April 11th, 2015

    Astrology is very interesting and I find it accurate on many levels where basic traits are concerned, but obviously we need to be careful not to pigeon-hole everyone by their sign alone.
    I’m a very Aries woman, and in the last 12 years, I have been in 2 relationships, each lasting about 6 years. First guy was a Virgo, second was a Taurus.
    I did not cheat on either of these men, though I will say I was a bit hard on the Taurus. He was a little slow and liked to ask me the same question 10 times a day, which burned through my patience and led to some outbursts on my part.
    This notion that every Aries will bail the moment things cease to be a thrill though? Come on now. We’re dismissing the loyal, devoted nature of the Aries woman when she actually loves someone and has decided to be in a serious relationship.
    We’re nothing if not loyal and honest.

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    DJJ65 March 30th, 2015

    I was with a Scorpio woman last year for 2 months and she was just the most amazing person I’ve ever met in my life and i’m 49. I blew it because I had demons i needed to clear up from my marraige. We split up and I really hurt her. If i could change it I would. Now i’m in a better place if i had the chance to make things right, i would.
    Us Aries men are so immature at times and our insecurity kills everything that’s good. If we can overcome these problems then we are the most faithful and loyal of all the signs (in my opinion). 

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    Alpharies January 29th, 2015

    Reading all these posts about the mutual love between our signs makes me so happy! Except that sag female who went off about us… Just stop, you’re an embarrassment. Any who, I love my scorpio! He loves me for everything I am and everything I have yet to be. He’s encouraging and sensitive and affectionate. He does get flirty and my jealousy goes through the roof but he assures me I have his heart. I’m not going to lie, we’ve really had issues And because of them I have been unfaithful.. With other scorpios and a Capricorn. May I add Capricorn men are seriously horrible humans. But Robert, you make every day worth living. Eternally in my heart, soul, and mind. Thank you for being a once in a life time man and loving me when I cannot. 

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    sister11 January 26th, 2015

    Scorpio sounds like you were burned by just one woman.. you limit yourself by saying all aries women are like her. maybe you wrote this out of anger.. in case you have a thing against women in general, as far as emotional, psychological, intellectual, spiritual depth, what does Abraham Maslow, joseph campbell, milan kundera, garry kasparov, rene descartes, harry houdini, vincent van gogh, akira kirosawa, william wordsworth, muddy waters and heath ledger have in common? they are all aries..  we are all reaching for similar things in our own way.. for an aries, if it or he/she is going to be part of our lives, there has to be room for spiritual growth, deeply rooted emotional bonds, soufulness, we are well aware of what it takes for two people to enter into such a bond and most of us understand what is at stake without ego, when we join our lives to another, it is usually with eyes wide open.. so maybe you didn’t give what she needed, she saw that and pushed you away, you obviously weren’t very interested in what she had to offer so you left.. it’s that easy. I would say this applies to every sign, but who you fall in love with is as important as how much in love you actually are in.. Aries women are not simple creatures, they are looking for the same thing you are, for their soul mates, the one love of their life, not just a social financial contract, a ring on their finger or a sperm donor.. they are very thoroughly looking into you as well as at you, if it isn’t there, it just isn’t there.. just shut up about how she didn’t fall for your silly trick and keep it moving.

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    someone_famous October 20th, 2014

    Now, I’m about to be in your face and tell you that they say “Scorpio, you’ve met your match in an Aries.” You’re shitting me. It’s far from the truth. Scorpio is too deep for Aries to even understand the surface of. Aries distrusts too much for Scorpio’s liking. No matter how committed a Scorpio is with his Aries woman, she finds silly reasons to doubt this man’s integrity. Eventually, she does realize how ridiculous her anger is most of the time, but by then it’s too late. She’s hurt the Scorpio too badly, and he doesn’t want to be with her anymore. Scorpio eventually gets tired of the daily anger and uncontrolled mean behavior and finally decides to cut ties ruthlessly. That’s when the cold side comes into play—the “I give no f*ck” feeling. It’s not an action—it’s a response. Aries cannot handle Scorpio—just too miserable around a Scorpio. Period. 
    I’m a Scorpio and if you’re an Aries woman, either learn to trust or find yourself someone “trustworthy.” Real trust and honesty is not your cup of tea.

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    ramgirl October 17th, 2014

    I am an Aries woman. Worked for a Scorpio boss for 7 years. During this time i fell in love with him and did not confess to him. Eventually I decided to leave work cos I could not handle this emotional feeling I had for him. We both were married and I knew it was a dead end situation for me. 5 months later after i left work  I still could not get him out of my mind, in fact my feelings were more intense. So being the aries women that we are to make the first move, i plucked up the courage to call him and ask him out.  He agreed to see me. The intense attraction between us was amazing. All along he was feeling the same towards me but never confessed to me. …..we are now four months into this on/off relationship and we have seen each other 3 times only. When he is on his emotional high he tells me how much he loves me …but most of the time when i want to see him, he says he is busy. When I ignore him for a week or so, he gets all emotional and pours out his heart to me then.  The following day hes back to his cold self.  I love him but should I hold on to this man. I think he is afraid of his feelings for me. I cant see myself going on like this continously as I am more miserable than happy. Even though I am strong headed I am really vulnerable to this man. When he says he loves me he shows it with so much intensity and I get all weak. The next day when i call him he sounds like we are just casual friends like the love he confessed the previous day did not mean anything. oh God….I am really losing my mind. please help me…….

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    AriesBlonde October 1st, 2014

        If a man is physical with a man, he is lying to himself when he is trying to be with a woman. He probably cares for you, but I think he is gay honey. You may want to look elsewhere.

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    AriesBlonde October 1st, 2014

    I need some advice. I am an Aries woman, completely in love with a Scorpio man. I have known him for 18 + years off and on. We have recently rekindled and starting dating for the first time. It started it off with alot of romantic talking and sweet dates. Now we are physical. It is amazing everytime more than the last. However, I am very aggressive when I know what I want. He seems to be pulling back. He wants space, but when he sees me he acts like I am his. I am really confused and don’t know if I should continue this. 2 months in.

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    kokoa September 20th, 2014

    I am and Aries female and I’m dating a Scorpio male. He told me he likes me a month a ago when we went out for drinks. After he told me he likes me he also told me he has had sex with male and females and was also in a relationship with a male. Before hearing this information I got to really know him first. I really like him his personality is great and I love being around him. We also work together. After I found out this information it bothered me but it didn’t bother me the way I think it should. Still love being around him, and we spend a lot of time together. But I’m used to a manly man. There are things do and ways he acts that throws me extremely happy that he was honest with me. Because he didn’t have to tell me that information. But a lot of my coworkers have asked me if he is gay. And that really bothers me. I really like this Scorpio male. We haven’t had sex. We are taking it very slow. He also hasn’t had sex in two years because of a traumatizing situation which was with a girl. But we do kiss and make out and touch. lol……..what the hell do I do.

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    Ss-forever July 25th, 2014

    I am aries girl. I met scorpio man almost 2 years ago. Iwas 22 yo, and he was 32 yo. We met as senior and junior in our workplace, he was flirting on me. I’m wasn’t interested first cz I think he was married. He hang out with his friends, looks like a bunch of married men. From his looks, I think his age was 27 or 28 yo. But then, he starts to ask me out. He told me that he was single, and 10 years apart from my age. I never dated much older guy before, so I’m not sure I want this relationship or not. Considering that he was single, than I’m agreed to go out with him.
    It was turned out amazing. He is amazing man. We matched so well. He is wise, he gave me everything, his time, his love, his attention. I felt comforted, safe, and joyfull. After 8 month of our relationship, I knew that he is an orphan, and all of his sibling already married except him. Then he asked me to met my parents. Seems like my parents agreed of our relationship. I was happy, my life seems so perfect with him. We already talk about marriage, and planned our future together. Every single day he proposed me to become his wife. Really, he made me as the happiest girl in this world.
    Then came a disaster. Someday, when I was eat with my friend, she told me that there was someone who need to talk to me. A woman came to me, she started telling some story, about my scorpio man. She said that he is married and already have a child. He never go home since met me. His wife live in another city. Sthen she showed me a picture or his wife and his child.
    I was so heartbroken then. My heart was so sick that I couldn’t stop crying, I couldn’t eating or sleep. I’m so mad at him. I told him that I knew everything oabout him, that he lied. I’m so desperate and I even think about kill myself.
    For few days I felt like a zombie, no matter what I did, those hurt feeling always there. Then he met me, he tried to explained everything. He apologized to me.he told me that he was married 3 years ago, but it wasn’t a happy marriage. He saw that his wife was cruel to him. She pushed him everyday to make lots of money, not allowed him to met his friends anymore, and it become worsed when his wife was pregnant, she was easyly get angry, then she hit him, bite him, even kick him out of their home. Until someday when his wife bite him, he hit his wife. That was the first time he said divorce to his wife. They was separated few days, knowing this their family tried to get their back together. He thought about it, considered about his little child then he choosed to go back and tried. But his wife never changed, she looks like good person outside with other people, but at home she acted like she was. That’s why when he get an opportunity to work in another town, he took it. That’s when he met me and never look back. The only thing that he regrets is he left his child. He love his child so much, want to take her to live with him, but his wife won’t allowed it.
    He told me that I have very different personality from his wife. That’s why he can’t leave me, he wants me and ask for another chance to built happy family with me if I want.
    That time, someday his wife came and want to met me. I was alone back then, didn’t want to see him or his wife, or anyone. But his wife keep tried, even come to my house. I was so annoyed, I went to his house told him that his wife annoying me keep telling me that he is bad, that he is impulsive and like hit people. And suddenly, he went to his wife want to divorce. That night he really submit the divorce paper to the law court. He proposed me again, but I couldn’t answer it.
    My feelings get better day by day. He still want to marry me. We met sometime, hang out together too. But I’m affraid to start again. I want to give him second chance. Its true that he is impulsive, easily get mad over little things, kind of perfectionis guy, a bit ocd. But I’m never talked back when he was angry, that’s why her angry quick dissappear. He will apologise to me cz he mad. He never hit me. I’m a sloppy girl he knows it, seems like everything I do is bothered him cz he is perfectionis. But he accept me just the way I am. And I knew back then, eventhough he lied about his background, everything that he did to me and his feelings that’s true.
    But I’m too affraid to take him back to my life. Until now, he won’t give up to marry me.. What shoul I do?

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    Aries418 June 23rd, 2014

    Hi im a Aries girl only 23 but seeing a scorpio and me what i think you did expressing your feeling was not a bad idea so dont even allow yourself to think that… Thats what aries want for a man to express how they feel about us we love attention man i wish i can get my scorpio guy to tell me how he feel its like hes scared or something…Ok wen a Aries love or like we like hard in theirs nothing that will stop us from giving u us a @

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    Aries418 June 22nd, 2014

    Hi im a Aries woman and i met this guy about 2 1/2 weeks ago and we hit it off  right away and at the time i was some what trying to figure out if i wanted to be with my shitty ass ex Libra…so i told the scorpio man all about me and the Libra and he was ok with it  and i have never been so quick to like someone like i like the him (Scorpio) So i was at home one day chilling with my scorpio and my ex (Libra) called and said that he was coming to get some stuff he had left at my house so i was like ok cool come get it and when he came to my house i let him in and that was the worst thing i could ever do because we got to arguing right in front of my Scorpio friend which made him very uncomforable an left an my ex did not want to leave my house so he ended up staying the night but that night all i can have on my mind is scorpio friend an it made me relieaze that i want to give us a try and sex is AMAZING between me and Scorpioand one day i go to his house to get my clothes i left over there and i see him and another chick laying down with each other my first thoughf was to get out before i loose it and what i dont get is he dont talk about his emotions or how he feel it like pulling muscles from a shell And i dont know if really like me or not because one minute he this way next minute he that way so i dont know but what i do know he not use to a girl like me im honest an straight forward an another thing he normally date older chicks and i really want to be with this guy we make mistakes and we both for gave each other so someone give me their feedback

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    Mistyc810 June 22nd, 2014

    I have been married to two scorpios in my life. I’m 51 now. Both marriages have been rocky and miserable due to how controlling scorpio can be. The LOML was Pieces, by but he left because he couldn’t take my spontaneity and fiery temperament. I have no answers except that Aries woman are hard!!
    aries woman

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    Scorpio84 June 7th, 2014

    Okay, so this is embarassing to me as I typically don’t ask for advice because of my pride, but I need some advice from an Aries lady. I’m the typical Scorpio man. And she the Aries woman. I’m 29 and she is 20. We started a relationship about 2 months ago. And I have to say that me being the typical Scorp male, I instantly fell for her and she for me. The first couple of weeks, everything was great. Constant texting, talking and flirting back and forth. The sex was absolutely amazing. She submitted like no other woman that I’ve come across. I met her family and she told me that she loved me and since I had met her family that she was going to keep me. Then everything started to fall off. Her texts came less frequently, and she became more distant and independant like an Aries woman is. I knew something was on her mind, and subtly hinted to the fact that I knew something was bothering her. I knew slightly about her past relationships with different men of different signs. Apparently the biggest difference was that I was not what she expected me to be, which is obnoxious and immature like most of her past love interests. Then came the weekend that she told me that she didn’t know what she wanted. Even though before then she told me that she was very happy with me, and had even told me that she loved me after only a month of being together. She told me that we spent too much time together even though we were only able to spend the weekends together. And told me that we were moving too fast. Even though she had told me she loved me and honestly stole the words from my lips. These last couple of weeks or so, she has rarely spoken to me, and when she did it would be one word answers. Though I was able to get from her that she was scared to be in a relationship because her fiance before me cheated on her and she wasn’t able to adopt the child that she was trying to adopt. So she had been very hurt about these things. I’m not sure how long ago this was. I told her that I understood this and wanted to show her that I wasn’t going anywhere and would never hurt her intentionally. One minute she was intensely happy, and the next minute, she overthought and secondguessed her happiness and now only wants to be friends. We spoke for the first time tonight in a week when I asked her what her status was about on a social media site. I understand her issues and reservations of being in a relationship, and want to help her through them by showing her that I’m not like any of her past relationships and will not hurt her intentionally by any means. I cannot help but think about her daily, and even looking at her/our pictures in my phone only increases my love for her. I am in love with her, and I don’t want to frighten her and try to push. I do want a relationship with her more than anyone else in the world as she has stolen my heart. But with her second guessing and over analyzing herself, her insecurities, and reservations, I don’t know if this is possible. She said tonight that she doesn’t want me to expect anything or get attached because she doesn’t want to hurt me again. As I obviously was when she ended it. Though I’m already attached, even more than she knows. How can I get her to let me in? I feel like she is running away and there is nothing I can do to stop her…

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    Scorpio84 June 7th, 2014

    Okay, so this is embarassing to me as I typically don’t ask for advice because of my pride, but I need some advice from an Aries lady. I’m the typical Scorpio man. And she the Aries woman. I’m 29 and she is 20. We started a relationship about 2 months ago. And I have to say that me being the typical Scorp male, I instantly fell for her and she for me. The first couple of weeks, everything was great. Constant texting, talking and flirting back and forth. The sex was absolutely amazing. She submitted like no other woman that I’ve come across. I met her family and she told me that she loved me and since I had met her family that she was going to keep me. Then everything started to fall off. Her texts came less frequently, and she became more distant and independant like an Aries woman is. I knew something was on her mind, and subtly hinted to the fact that I knew something was bothering her. I knew slightly about her past relationships with different men of different signs. Apparently the biggest difference was that I was not what she expected me to be, which is obnoxious and immature like most of her past love interests. Then came the weekend that she told me that she didn’t know what she wanted. Even though before then she told me that she was very happy with me, and had even told me that she loved me after only a month of being together. She told me that we spent too much time together even though we were only able to spend the weekends together. And told me that we were moving too fast. Even though she had told me she loved me and honestly stole the words from my lips. These last couple of weeks or so, she has rarely spoken to me, and when she did it would be one word answers. Though I was able to get from her that she was scared to be in a relationship because her fiance before me cheated on her and she wasn’t able to adopt the child that she was trying to adopt. So she had been very hurt about these things. I’m not sure how long ago this was. I told her that I understood this and wanted to show her that I wasn’t going anywhere and would never hurt her intentionally. One minute she was intensely happy, and the next minute, she overthought and secondguessed her happiness and now only wants to be friends. We spoke for the first time tonight in a week when I asked her what her status was about on a social media site. I understand her issues and reservations of being in a relationship, and want to help her through them by showing her that I’m not like any of her past relationships and will not hurt her intentionally by any means. I cannot help but think about her daily, and even looking at her/our pictures in my phone only increases my love for her. I am in love with her, and I don’t want to frighten her and try to push. I do want a relationship with her more than anyone else in the world as she has stolen my heart. But with her second guessing and over analyzing herself, her insecurities, and reservations, I don’t know if this is possible. She said tonight that she doesn’t want me to expect anything or get attached because she doesn’t want to hurt me again. As obviously when she ended it, I was very hurt. Though I’m already attached, even more than she knows. How can I get her to let me in? I feel like she is running away and there is nothing I can do to stop her…

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    Ariesastrolady February 24th, 2014

    I would like to comment on the first post from Skorpioux which I find nonsensical, laughable and hard to even sympathize with.
    I hope you don’t expect any of us women to actually feel sorry/and/or sympathy with your plight after you have said that in your opening line you have met the “love of your life” and you preface that with, “you are married and she has a boyfriend.”  How sickening.  If this were true, you would not be married and carrying on an affair with her and she with her boyfriend. Neither of you would be wandering off to the outskirts for flying and great sex in secret or making pacts while hiding your relationship from those you had made actual commitments to.  This is a sham to more than just your direct partners, but also to your selves and each other.  This is a fantasy and you go on to say “you would always be truthful to her.” You start your relationship on LIES! Yikes!  This, whatever it was was built on lies so countdown to self-destruct in T-minus 10 seconds No matter what the astrological signs! Oh and Mr. Scorpio..clandestine meetings..say it all! (ie.Not real/lie/phoney relationship. ) To finish, and i’m sorry but words like integrity and love of my life don’t belong in your pity message.
    Words like emotionless, ruin and destroy do. And finally “broke it off” after she realized you were a FRAUD! Glad one of you had some integrity after all and it wasn’t you, claiming to be truthful Skorpioux.

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    2nd-decan-Aries January 2nd, 2014

    Stay away from Scorpio men my Aries women! Don’t fall for their manipulation and tricks. Scorpio men are liars and love playing games.  Save yourselves some heartache and always doubt their intentions! Scorpions are forbidden fruits. They are very tempting and provocative. Don’t allow yourself to be poisoned by them! They are equivalent to sagitarrius men who are wishy washy once they have a catch. They will fish all day and throw the fish back into the sea. They are masters at pouring out sweet seductive words and desires as bait to catch you. Never truly appreciating and cherishing what they have unless you are a master at playing the game to eat his bait and releasing yourself to swim back in the sea. He will be disappointed and try to intensify his baits again to catch you then fry you. They will in ways imply promises of eternal romance but dont count on that aries ladies. Scorpio men are less than honest and open. Once again, forbidden fruits that are nice to look at and should be yeild with caution and protective armor. Respect and preserve your innocence. A warning for the sake of Aries innocence!

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    ariesana December 30th, 2013

    aries woman 29 madly in love with my scorpio youngsta 21 yes i know imacougar!! lol i honestly dont know what i would do without him!! i been with sagittarius & theres just something about my scorpio!!’ i read alot that the attraction between our signs has alot to do with our eye contact which is true!! it sets off some kind of spark that will always stay lit between us!! i love looking into his eyes & the passion that he makes me feel is beautiful!!! no guy has ever made me feel so free!! i love my scorpio!!

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    JaeSmitty November 19th, 2013

    I’m a Scorpio male(20) and I’ve dated an aries female(21). Our relationship was a long distance relationship, and it started off like any other scorpio – aries relationship, we hit it off big time. Let me try and example how unique this experience was for me. At first I wanted to take things very slowly, like just try and get to know her and feel her out or whatever, but that wasn’t the case. After a few days of doing nothing but talking to her all day I found myself have intense feelings for this person. There would be sometimes where one of us would say something that the other was thinking( Like Idk why but all I want to do is give you all my attention and love). For a few months things were solid, we both were so inlove with one another. It was like the love I was looking for, and I would do anything to keep it. Things started to calm down between us, but we had intensity in our relationship just not so much of it. She was becoming more distant because of her job, she got a promotion and we couldn’t talk as much anymore. I understood how her career comes first so I wouldn’t get upset, I just do my own thing til we could spend some time together. Now before I move on with my experience I need to give you guys this one good piece of information. Before we got so serious I asked her if she had a facebook or anything and she said no she’s too busy for things like that and they cause too much drama. I found that odd but i left it alone. I begun to find her being so distant because of work kind of suspecious. She use to always spend me photos of her. My iphone tells me the location of which photos were taking. So I search the locations of which her photos were taking and i ended up finding her on facebook. It turned out she had a different last name, was still in high school(so she lied about her age), and she was dating someone else( she was dating this person way before we started talking). I was devastated when i saw this. I never felt so betrayed in my life. so I waited awhile to see if she would come out and tell me herself about who she really was. That never happened so I ended up telling her myself that I knew. I sat to myself for ahwile thinking about what I wanted to do and do I still really want to be with her. So I told her even after knowing what I know i still want to be with her and still deeply love her. After i told her all that I needed to say and All that i knew she wouldn’t talk to me. She wouldn’t tell me how she felt about the whole situation. It was like she completely shut me out. So one day I had enough of being ignored so I told her, I was unhappy and I felt like she was unhappy and all i wanted is for her to be happy so I feel like the only to fix this is for me to get out of her life. That night was when she decided to talk to me, we fought but she ended up changing my mind about leaving, but yet still refused to tell me how she felt about the situation. She continued her thing of not talking to me. I soon felt like I was not important to her at all. Well my birthday came up and I was really hoping to hear something from her, but it never happened. I was devastated again so made the decision again to call it off, but this time I was not gonna let her talk me out of it. So it happened i broke up with her but i still love her and yet my feelings are growing stronger for her and it sucks because i know right now we cant be together but all i think about her. If there is no way this can be. Can someone shed some light on this to help me see things in a clear perpective because I’m very confused. I’ve also started dating someone else and i cant give her my all if it’s left with someone else and I want to be true to this person, but my feelings for this aries is just so strong.

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    Ariesinthesun October 29th, 2013

    I am an aries in her forties I spent 20 wonderful years with a Capricorn man… He passed away several years ago. I have dated a lot of men but none captured my attention or heart until a year ago. I met a scorpio man.
    We met on an online dating site and had sex on our first date… not sure how it happened…I am a firm believer in monogamy before sex.. 
    He lives  2000 miles away most of the year and owns a vacation home near by.
    We spent 3 months together. What started as a purely sexual relationship eventually turned into friends with benifits. Right before he was heading home for 6 months things started to change. Our superficial conversation turned into sharing more intimate and personal things. After sharing details with me about his divorce, family ect., he took a huge step back and I didn’t hear from him for a week.
    I knew I was developing feelings for him and decided to end whatever was that was going on Between us. He went home… I moved on, dated a few men, and eventually decided I was going to give up dating to focus on other things. I hadn’t given the Scorpio a thought  for 6 months…    
    A week after proclaiming I was not dating… I had 3 past men contact me. I ended up seeing the aries and quickly remembered why things ended….and you guessed it….heard from the Scorpio.
    He was coming for a visit in 6 weeks. We had a few conversations that consisted of small talk about things going on in our lives. He arrived in town, we met, had great conversation, and I made it clear we wouldn’t be having sex. We spent the night together fully clothed and actually just went to sleep…
    .A few days later we repeated the evening but talked about our past relationships, he told me he was planning to permanently move here in a year, when his last child was in college. We had another sexless sleepover and spent the next day together.  
    We had the most intimate conversations ever… We chatted about our families, my late husband, spiritual beliefs and what we were looking for in a relationship. He shared a lot of personal info. with me I witnessed him cry after receiving good news from his son. We never discussed “us” though. He commented on how great of a day we had and said he never had a conversation like that with exwife in 15 years of marriage. We had sleepover #3 with no kissing, touching or sex. When I left in the morning we hugged, he kissed my cheek, said he would call me later, and made tentative plans for that night… I didn’t hear from him until late in the day…he said he was tired and going to bed… The next day he didn’t call at all… He flys home in a two days and has made no attempt to spend as much time as possible with me.
    He is  coming back in a few weeks. I have no doubt I will hear from him sometime between now and when he comes back. I am not sure if he is interested, but pulls back after sharing emotional intimacy…. Or “he is just not that into me”
    I am uncertain if I should have patience or let him go from my life. 
    I am a text book aries women with one exception…. I am an organized neat freak!… I can’t figure out if this Scorpio is trying to play me or if I am just witnessing his traits… In a true aries fashion. I need his full attention and if I don’t get it… Can find it somewhere else. Any comments welcome(:

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    AforAries October 20th, 2013

    @TheScorpioAngelhi, I’m sorry to hear about the whole situation…being an aries..we can be a little weird about not expressing ourselves through words…but through time and space….what is probably going through her head is that she may be concerned about her freedom and independence. We tend to cling on to those two concepts the most. I guess because we like our space to be ourselves without feeling like we are limited to being told what to do and how to live our lives. Since your still in your mid-twenties… your best bet , if your still interested in being more than friends, but are willing to take it slow…which I know sounds weird considering we can be impulsive…but the secret to us is that when it comes to matters of the heart and living forever with someone that’s a whole different matter…. That is something we take our time with especially when it comes to marriage. At least by my point of view… We love to be loved and adored, that’s a given… but you have to take it slow. This is her test for you perhaps…give her the space, don’t push it and I know its hard but try not to dwell on it..enjoy her company and take things slow… think of it as a test of your enteral love…she could be testing to see if it’s true eternal love or just a crush… you have to prove yourself, she not just gonna hand over her heart to you. You have to show and prove to her that you are more than capable of guarding her with your life, willing to give all of yourself to her…and protect her in your arms for the rest of her life with all of your being and all of your true unconditional and eternal love to her and only her until death due you part of course you must remember that is only if you are the one for her. If you are willing to wait and slowly prove to her how you will always be there for her regardless, then there is a possibility of her being swept of her feet and completely wrapped up in your arms willingly… but you must still remember she is naturally a independent, freedom loving individual who loves to be social and loves to be loved and adored.  There is no need to ever be jealous or insecure once an aries is in love they are devoted partners. Dont stress to much and dont stress her… just romance her, go on simple causual dates, talk and make her laugh and smile all the time. Help her to relax and know she can be her complete self around you. Share some of who you are with her…dont be too distant because she’ll feel insecure and put up a wall. hope this helps and good luck…   

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    TheScorpioAngel October 15th, 2013

    Any Aries females who can give me some advice or viewpoint on my matter?
    I just need to know from their viewpoint what I should do 🙁

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    TheScorpioAngel October 15th, 2013

    I honestly don’t know because everyone’s situation is different. Your alot older than me, I’m only 22 (23 soon) and she is 24.
    But in my case I think she has already moved onto another guy…. even though I did nothing wrong, except for telling her how I feel.
    People say once you hurt an Aries they are done forever but I’ve read some of these comments and they say otherwise. 
    It probably depends on how it ended for you 2 and if she still cares about you and is willing to give it another go you cannot force her to but maybe wait and see I would send her a message saying you miss her though and about the good things between you two because I don’t think she would send first but if she doesn’t reply then maybe she is done.
    But don’t take my advice completely because honestly don’t know since I cannot give both sides of view.
    I would prefer an Aries female to give their opinions on the matter because I want to see if from their point of view if there is still hope in my case because I have done nothing wrong. She might end up with this guy and just knowing this kills me but even though I know that it could happen I would still wait for her… if it didn’t workout between them I would be still there for her. It’s just the way I am….

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    Scorpiusdeus October 15th, 2013

    So are you saying that even though she claims she has “fallen out of love with me” and that she won’t even speak to me now after two months that there is still hope?  I should just let her be and let her come to me?  Give her time and she’ll come around?
    It ended very badly between us and I’m loosing hope, but I so badly want to belive there is hope.

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    TheScorpioAngel October 15th, 2013


    I can not get the Aried love out of my head.  my heart feels like she is the only woman I will ever love the way I loved her.  My heart is broken and I fear it will be broken forever.  I feel like my life’s dream of a total and true love has passed me by.  Scorpio men, don’t ever play with an Aries woman unless you want heartbreak.

    2nd update and this is how it ended for me….
    I gave her everything my heart/mind/body/soul and I even was willing to regret my family for her but she completely went cold at me and instead of telling me the truth as to why she did not want me anymore she just made up excuses when none of them made any sense to me. As scorpiusdeus mentions I also don’t think I could love anyone else as much ever again she will always belong to my heart…
    My advice to any scorpio male that is in love with an aires woman would be not to tell her how you feel about her but be there for her giving her space now and again and make sure you are honest and open about yourself but don’t say everything at once. She will eventually unfold to you and will make the first move, don’t not make the first move let her. Also being patient with an aries woman is a virtue even though she is impatient the relationship will work better if she has the control.

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    ariesgal1 September 25th, 2013
    A relationship between an Aries and a Scorpio is very passionate and energetic because they are both active and dynamic. Aries and Scorpios can both be quite full of themselves and have strong sense of individuality. This could either build the relationship or tear it down. 
    One of the main problems between a Scorpio and an Aries is mutual anger and a natural quarelling instinct. For a Scorpio, managing the anger is nearly impossible because they are stubborn and do not like to forget issues related to their emotions and heart while an Aries is willing to forget it after sometime. However, Aries and Scorpios make a very good team because Scorpios love the aggressive nature of an Aries and Aries adore the secretive and passionate nature of a Scorpio.
    Scorpios are drawn to the Aries self-confidence, strength, and aggressiveness while Aries are drawn to Scorpios passion , sense of adventure and excitement, and sexual appeal. The fact that Scorpios tend to be extremely mysterious baffles an Aries and leaves them determined to discover more. 
    The relationship completely falls apart when it comes to Aries want to control everything and Scorpios insanely jealous nature. Fights quickly arise due to Scorpios raging jealousy. In many relationships, Aries women are victimized by Scorpio men due to the fact that he cannot handle how close the Aries woman is to other men. 
    For the relationship to work: Control aggressiveness and jealousy, try not to dominate one another.
    What will tear them apart: Aggressiveness, Jealousy, Domination, and Lies (Scorpio males tend to lie a lot).
    Side note for Aries women: Scorpio men are EXTREMELY power thirsty and seek total control of their spouses. Many times, these relationships can become mentally/emotionally/and even physically abusive. Scorpio men are very charming which will lure you in. However, it is quickly shown that these individuals are normally jealous, possessive, and dominating. 

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    ariesgal1 September 25th, 2013

    After reading some of these posts… I can see that scorpio and aries fall hard for each other but at the same time are easily hurt by each other. This was my instinct with this combo. I dont think each sign can truly describe the extent of the pain, anguish and hurt that comes from each other. In my observation I have truly seen aries women give their everything to a scorpio man- one of the few men who she gives totally everything to. I find that scorpio men can not see that because of whatever insecurities they have and most of the problems in the relationship are created because of their dramas. Aries woman are of sound character. The fire signs are the most decent and dignified of all the signs. This is a very objective, honest and unbiased judgement. The great qualities of the sun are expressed in aries, leo and sagittarius. The sun is dignified in leo and exalted in aries. The fire sign people are of a good moral character most of the time although there can be strong influence of other signs in the natal chart. I was and maybe am deeply in love with a Pisces guy who had alot of aries placements in his chart. I think his ascendamt is in scorpio but am not 100% sure but I think he has scorpio rising. I don’t think I’ve ever felt soo much for someone and I knew he felt very deeply for me.  He was a strong, confident and powerful Pisces. I think he had a strong scorpio influence as I could feel that energy. He had the bold, courageous and innocent Aries in him but there was also the powerful presence and energy of scorpio. I can relate especially when it comes to the depth and passion of feeling that is present. However, his sun was in Pisces and moon in Aries which allowed us to smoothly feel and relate to each other. Aries sun and scorpio sun might have a stressful relationship unless there are other influences in the personal charts. I related to my Pisces on a level that I don’t in all honesty think I will ever relate to anyone. Our relationship was innocemt, special and deep. I don’t think I will ever love anyone the way I loved him as he has the most precious part of my heart. Its his and will always be his. If I do love someone it will not be like the way I loved him but in another way. I can understand that when you truly love someone then no matter what happens that person will always have a special place in your heart. I relate very well to the fire signs and feel a strong connection with thesr guys. There innocent, childlike and postive nature draws me in. For the aries and scorpio combo I think the scorpio needs to swallow his pride, give the aries woman her freedom, be open, honest and fair. As for the aries woman I think you could give your reassurance to the Scorpio man. Scorpio please be honest and stop the manipulation! Remember an aries woman can give her true love anything… she will do anything for her man… she will be happy to do so no matter what it costs her. Though earning her love, respect and trust is a must! If you screw the relationship  then her heart can never truly belong to you cos after that she may never ever feel that something for you which made her put you above all rest, be willing to do anything and everything for you!

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    TheScorpioAngel September 24th, 2013

    Follow up:
    So I gave her few days of space but when I tried to talk to her again she just kept on ignoring me probably because she wasn’t over what I said, I even asked her if what I said changed anything between us? She said nothing has change but the way she talked to me just didnt feel the same so I decided to give her 1 week of space to see if she would eventually would come round. After the week had past we started talking to each other like we used to but the only problem is it feels like she doesnt want to talk to me as much, she says she busy in the afternoon now so doesn’t have that much time anymore but she is always talking to this other guy now… like us Scorpios we get jealous and it’s hard for me to know this is happening.
    Is this guy competition now?
    Should I try harder to win back the Aries woman who I love?
    It feels as though I won’t be able to move on from her without knowing for sure how she feels about me.
    Anyone have any advice for me?

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    Scorpiusdeus September 23rd, 2013

    I figure I should give you guys an update.  We went back and forth and it just got worse every time we talked.  We didn’t speak agin for almost two weeks and I was takign her advice to “move on”.  I had a date scheduled for that Friday night, out of the blue I start getting texts from my Aries love with wild accusations about me turning one of her friends against her.  I did nothing of the sort and I got pissed.  I went on the new date with an aquarius that Friday night, about 2 hours into the date the Aries shows up with her Ex boyfriend that she cheated on to be with me.  It ruined my night.  About midnight, I went classic Scorpio and sent her some horrible texts and emails.  I was so deeply hurt by seeing her out with her Ex I was insaen with rage and anger.  Long story short I pretty much nuked the relationship.  We’ve both said bad things about each other to our family and freinds.  I don’t see any chance it will ever go back.
    I’ve been seeing the Aquarius since and it’s…  challenging.  She’s a wonderful, beautiful, accomlpished woman and she is crazy about me, her kids adore me and it is all good except….  I can not get the Aried love out of my head.  my heart feels like she is the only woman I will ever love the way I loved her.  My heart is broken and I fear it will be broken forever.  I feel like my life’s dream of a total and true love has passed me by.  Scorpio men, don’t ever play with an Aries woman unless you want heartbreak.  They have tempers to match our own, but they are childish and can be brutally insensative.  Bad combo for a Scorpio, but one you are in their web, you can not leave without losing a limb or your heart.

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    TheScorpioAngel September 11th, 2013

    I am a scropio male I had been friends with a Aries female for about a year and a half now. Only in the last 5 months we have gotten so close to one another and trust each about anything, we pretty much can tell each other everything about our lifes and love each other’s company.
    However I recently told her how I felt about her about how much I like her and wanted to spend my life with her but it seems like she has gone distant from me because of this and doesnt seem to be spending the same amount of time with me anymore and she never really talks much back to me anymore.
    Is there a way that we can work our relationship out? Should I wait and give her some space and see what happens or is this relationship doomed because I told her my feelings about her?

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    AforAries August 23rd, 2013

    I’ve liked scorpios before, but its frightening to see the compatibility…. love as it is, is frightening or can be… I’m an aries by the way… I tend to over think almost everything…. ok yes everything… I get worried about… everything and stress a lot… but I love the idea of someone just being there for me, protecting me and loving me for who I am.. I know love is not easy and finding it is like finding a needle in a hay stack sometimes… I’m the kind of person that would rather think of a way out of a emtionally messy situation logically rather than analyzing how I really feel. I’ve been down the play it safe track… boring… don’t get me wrong I really do admire how the virgo is so loving, and funny… the tauras so sweet and caring, the saggitarius so outgoing and free spirited… but you just can’t compare how it feels to say I love you to someone who you know really means it from deep inside… someone who will go to the ends of the earth for you, someone who will make you blush and smile just by looking at you… I love when someone can make me laugh, think about what I need to improve on to make me a better person, love me unconditionally, tell me when we need to talk, let me know what’s wrong and want me their when he needs someone to talk too… please let me know if the scorpio is the totally wrong direction…

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    AforAries August 22nd, 2013

    Don’t be sad, she loves you but your too sensitive right now. Talk to her even if she says no, send her flowers, love cards, romance her with complete love. Do not mention the wanting to be married, just accept what she wants. I understand you want to be married, so does she I suppose, but don’t give up on being with her. You love her, then be in love with her,don’t force her to marry you. Don’t ask or push it she’s already devoted to you, if she is, she’s never gonna leave you. Just accept what you have and maybe someday she’ll be open to marriage again. Marriage for an aries woman is so deep, and hurts to know when it doesn’t work out. Betrayal is the ultimate NO, whatever you do do not sleep with anyone else. No matter how hard it gets don’t give up, I can’t tell you how it may go or if it’ll work out. But when it comes to love its all about chance. Take the leap, aries women love that it’s like living in a fairytale I don’t care what age you are, pure true love is something that can over come anything. Just listen to your heart and be gental with her.

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    AforAries August 22nd, 2013

    Hi, I know this must have been like a really long time ago, but I still think that it’s important to know that when you want an answer from a girl like an aries you gotta make the first move… you flirted with her first you have to step up and ask her on a simple romatic date.

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    Scorpiusdeus August 21st, 2013

    Yes IF and only if you have not dated anyone else since.  If you’ve slept with even one other guy Scorpio is DONE with you forever and he will probalby be a very angry enemy for life.
    If you have not seen anyone else and really want your Scorp back, you have to woo him back, be loving and compliment him.  You are going to have to swallow some of that Aries pride and submit to him emotionally as a Scorpio desires to possess your sould, but as you’ve obviously already learned, it’s good to be possessed by a Scorpio.  🙂

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    Scorpiusdeus August 19th, 2013

    Passsion Passion Passion, a double edged sword.
    I’m a Scorp male, she the Aries.  Total magnetic attraction at first sight.  I was in a relationship with a Leo her with a…  Sag.  We started out friends, but we were just putting off the inevitable.
    FF to now.  We have been dating seriously for 2 years now.  Sex is off the charts and when we are together it’s magical and perfect, BUT…
    When we are apart I miss her horribly, while she who is very driven, can go longer without seeing me.  We started off tlaking about marriage, she’s wavered back and forth.  Last week after a visit with her sister who is in a horrible marriage, I’m told that she no longer wants to get married.  I was heart broken.  She wants to date forever.  She’s 43, I’m 45.  We both have kids from previous marriages.  I want marriage BIG TIME!!!  
    I did the typical Scorpio thing and retreated to brood.  She, decided to let me twist and after five days (we see each other or speak daily) basicall said, she was fine with not hearing from me.  I, again, got super hurt and pissed and ended the relationship.  I immediately regretted it and tried to walk it back…  Now she’s pissed and I’m on the defensive.  Basically it’s only been a couple of days, but I feel like I’m dying inside.  She is my life’s dream and I’ve screwed it up.  
    We really blew up at each other verbally.  I both profess love, but immidiatly exchanged hurtfu barbs like it’s some damn WWF contest.  This is rare for us, but it’s happened before for the same reason.  
    Will she come back?  If not, will I recover?  We agreed to not speak for awhile, I think… I’m not really sure where we stand actually.  Taking a break?  I’ve never felt such feelings of love and rage all at teh same time.  Please advise.

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    ARIESCHICK July 28th, 2013

    us Aries like DIRECT displays, if you wait too long, or play it too safe you will be friendzoned lol
    I once had a very attractive Gemini man grab my hand in a club, drag me through the place and after talking for a few min. and sharing a cigarette he kissed me- a virtual stranger. I was astounded but it was amazing. I didn’t know whether to be pissed off or turned on! it was ballsy that was for sure and I appreciated his no nonsense approach. he was engaged (still is) and we still talk ONLY as friends we never did anything but I’ll never forget that. Most guys don’t have the confidence to pull that off but I appreciate when they do. that being said, you need to be honest with her. stop bs’ing. The Scorpio guy that’s into me has pursued me for months and told me from the beginning that he wanted me. all we have ever done is kiss (initiated by me actually) but he liked it 🙂 I know he wants a relationship but I am not single but still, I love him to death so i don’t know what to do b/c my heart aches for him at times and I feel passion with him even though we have never had sex. TELL HER. More passionate the better, we LOVE passion and love feeling revered. I gotta tell you, I am not normally submissive but for this Scorp I might be. he makes me feel very secure and adored and in return, I let him get away with things I wouldn’t normally consider with other guys, I guess I trust him more. he tells me everything and we are good friends. with us Aries, I think trust and friendship are VERY important so you are already on your way  but you need to step it up and SOON! gl
    Aries woman 🙂

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    ArianRose July 26th, 2013

    Hello All,
    I’m a younger Aries woman hopelessly infatuated with an older Scorpio man. He and I work for the same company, and have been flirting with one another for months. When reading the article, I noticed very similar traits in mine and his situation. This particular Scorpion, is the most infuriatingly attractive man I have ever meet… Unfortunately, he and I are in relationships with other people, and have a significant age difference between us… 23 years to be precise… Which is his primary concern. I’ve hinted to having drinks some time, and his reply was “I’m old enough to be your father.” This doesn’t bother me, but is a justified concern for him. I have also read other articles stating the Scorpion can be very interested, and lose interest very quickly. I don’t believe this is a “one-sided” situation as he tells me how “hot” he thinks I am. We also have very candid conversations at times. He has told me, on a couple occasions, that he will miss or missed me over the weekend when we’re not at work to see each other. I find myself very attracted to him. I’ve been trying to avoid him lately, to spare being hurt, but it is VERY difficult. The attraction is so magnetic that I find reasons or stupid questions that I can ask in order to be around him. It’s so frustrating! I’m trying to get over this crush, but the pull he has is dangerously alluring! If his main concerns are my age and our relationships, then why does he continue with his flirtatious nature towards me? He does flirt with others as I have seen, but I’ve never heard him say or do things he does too me to others. Help! 

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    sugar-and-salt May 30th, 2013

    aries chicka (39) scorpio man (35)… we met at work he was my boss at my previous job.. i was serious with a Sag guy! i’ll just call my scorpio man ‘boss’ lol.. okay.. boss couldn’t keep his eyes off me at work.. and i can feel the sparks coming off of us, we can’t be in the same room, we can’t look at each other for any length of time, we can’t even accidentally touch because every time i got close to him for WORK the heat between us almost melted our clothes off. he was extremely attractive. Aside from this Boss and me get along well as friends on IM and email, we had a ‘decent’ friendly chemistry outside of the physical one, but boss seemed interested in mostly one thing. then one day I requested a document for him to sign in his office alone and his hand accidentally brushed my hand and that was it! His arms wrapped around my body and he pushed me between his desk and a extremely hard place! His mouth and hands were all over me and mine on his!!!! We couldn’t stop until we were both satisfied and we didn’t even have the decorum to stop because it was AT WORK! my screams could be heard I’m sure past his office door!! I thought we would get in trouble but thankfully nothing.. I felt ashamed because I was seeing a good man and boss wouldn’t hear it! He refused to let go of my hand took me home with him that night and he had me climbing the walls until the sun came up! I took the next day off from work with him and it still wasn’t enough. I felt joined at the hips! I called Sag and told him the truth, he was hurt like I predicted and took it hard and unfortunately (for me) I never heard from him again.. Boss tried to move into my house immediately, even though his place was nicer than mine.. he wouldn’t let me leave my house for a week! I wanted to move slowly but everytime I made the effort for the next 2 months it was fight after fight and then followed by the most passionate, crazy bed gymnastics (I couldn’t get enough of that but it was getting out of control). It made me feel like I got on the crazy train and needed to find my emotional balance again.. boss sensed I had a problem and started freaking OUT!!!! Suddenly the mind games started, my fb was monitored day and night, my phone calls were screened, he’s tracking my movements and when he’s not pissing me off he’s making me forget what he did… and even my family and friends are treated like murder suspects!!! I tell him my fears and he got quiet.. like I don’t know where this is going quiet. I wanted him to share his fears and frustrations with me, we end up breaking almost all of my dishes and then afterwards he finally opens up to me. It was a breakthru and i felt a connection and it was beautiful then at the end he flippantly mentions he was LIVING with someone?! what!!! I realized that’s why he was freaking out so much, but why was it a secret? He was holding me when I called Sag.. There’s more but it’s too much to get into. Once he realized I wasn’t trying to run away from him, the monitoring stopped thankfully. He told me he came from an abusive home and I instantly wanted to protect him. This amazing crazy scary hot relationship lasted all of 4 years then I decided I can’t take the rollercoaster anymore, I couldn’t get anything done! Sure he looked like he had it together, he was very secure on the outside and so amazingly powerful, his virility included, and we were so in tune with each other but I couldn’t ‘heal’ all the damage from when he was a kid, all the abandonement issues, the abuse situation, the mental instability, I got him to see a psychiatrist regularly and he started taking meds, but still even then, with my nurturing, the love of my family and friends, the whole time there were volcanoes, earthquakes, tornados and tsunamis going on inside him, it was still almost too much. He ended up cheating on me with a 50+ year old woman, THEN he tried to put a ring on it after but it was time to walk away for sanity sake. Scorp man will always be ‘my boss’ (we both got tattoos), and I will always deeply love him– at a distance, (because he managed to steal it a couple more times).. but I’m glad i didn’t get pregnant and sometimes… I wonder what might have been with a saner man.

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    ariesgal1 December 17th, 2012

    You have no right to judge!
    Aries and scorpio are one of the most loyal signs. Some people from other signs are the worst. Malbec and his aries girl have something special. People have wrote their stories and experiences. They have come out and been honest. You have no right to pass comments like that. Nobody is perfect. Some things happen.  You can disagree like many others including myself but for you to just say things like that are just unacceptable!

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    ariesgal1 December 16th, 2012

    Aries girls the scorpio guy is not your man!
    You will find your man in an aries, leo, sagittarius and pisces guy!
    Aries, leo and sagittarius are innocent, child-like, passionate and sexy!You will share a zest for life. Support, understand and respect each other. A grand life with happiness, peace and love. You will always inspire each other. A very content and fulfilling life with these guys. They will care for you deeply.You will never look back!
    Pisces are innocent, supportive, soulful and romantic! Aries and pisces will understand, inspire and respect each other. Again a very happy, content and fulfilling life with you pisces guy. A strong pisces guy can be your dream guy… very sexy! the right pisces guy can be all you need. Pisces can care and love so deeply that it will hurt him…. something you will reciprocate…. It will hurt to care and love him so deeply. He will always be there and take care of you no matter what it takes him.
    When you fall for these guys you will fall hard!
    So aries girls find someone who is worth your care, love and respect!
    Most likely these guys will be… you will find true happiness with each other!

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    6076868 November 11th, 2012

    i have to say only one thing that we are curse and some of us get the love of their life and some try tooooo search for it the person they love like my self searching from last 4 years

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    @dksharma October 27th, 2012

    scorpio man here. i need a serious advice from all aries ladies out it goes like this….
    there is an aries gal in my class whom i am craving for. we are arch rivals in our class regarding academics (that “1st place is mine” kinda thing). we always fight (coz there is no other way i can talk to her). 2 of her groupies (a saggi and a cancer gal) like me 2 bt i dont care! she is everything i want-cute, innocent, intelligent, childish and endless qualities. i am really craving for her but i am damn afraid to propose her coz we’re just 16. i even love the way she shouts at me. even her slight touch thrills me and makes me wanna do much more to her. just 2 mins fighting wid her make my day. i seek reasons to be around her. 1ce we talked nicely whn v wr teamed 4 the same science project . but i am really possesive about her. i hate it she talks to other guys. it kills me. i am handsome, intelligent and far better than all of her guy friends then why cant she be be mine ?? i can do anything for her. i always want to be around her. so please fellows advice me for how can i create feelings for me in her heart ??

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    nanabe44 October 15th, 2012

    Well, I am currently seeing a Scorpio man and he is EVERYTHING! lol.  We have some of the most intense, passionate and most fun times together. We’ve known each other for years…since 2006 and we hit it off back then, but due to him lying to me about who he was seeing and who he was period at the time, i just walked away…but we recently rekindled our friendship beginning of the year around March 2012 and we have been in each others lives ever since…just recently i expressed to him how i feel about him..nothing major, but that I am digging him and really feeling him, and this was via text. Since that day, he never responded to what I said. So what do you guys think about this? Is it normal for the Scorpio man to not respond to things as such?

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    Arieskitty October 1st, 2012

    I am an aries women.. and i am completely in love with a scorpio man. i’ve always been honest with him and told him everything i’ve ever felt and done. but it seems that a mutual friend of ours has told him i cheated on him with a sagittarius from my past. I have hung out with this sagittarius male but never would i cheat on my beloved scorpio. i have told my scorpio this and even the sagittarius has told him that we have done nothing, but for some reason my scorpio wont believe… i’m terrified of the thought of lose him and i have no idea what else i can do. from the very beging my scorpio were attached. and we we’ve been together since we met. i am completely in love and want to know what i can do to keep him. 

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    Bighappymomma September 17th, 2012

    As long as we take turns in a discussion it doesn’t turn into a fight. *

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    Bighappymomma September 17th, 2012

    That last comment was directed at Malbec. Now as for my Scorpiorelationship. 
    I have never met anyone like my Scorpio. I am a strong woman. I spend most of my day outside. My Scorpio man is the same way. We are both really hard workers. He stays cool headed when my incinerating temper flares and cooly helps me collect myself. I am the optimist while he’s a pessimist. I help bring him up, while he levels out my exaggerations. As long as logic overrides my emotions(which happens a lot) I’m able to think my way around his odd actions. When he thinks with his heart I can easily pick up his thought train. So long as we take turns in a didacussong it doesn’t turn into a fight. 
    I love my Scorpio and wouldn’t trade him for anything in the world. I have met many scorpio and have always gotten along with them pretty well. My ex-husband was a cancer. That was the biggest mistake of my life. 2 moody tempers should avoid each other at all cost. 

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    Bighappymomma September 17th, 2012

    Um. In my opinion you are both a rediculous joke and cruelly mistreating a) your wife. B) her fiancé. You are both disgusting examples of human beings. 

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    ariesgal1 August 26th, 2012

    I’m an aries girl and I have to say that pisces guys are the best lovers of the zodiac along with aries guys. The pisces man that I knew was everything that I could ever want in a mate. He knew just how to make me feel loved, protected and supported. He was very intelligent and great to be around. He was also very honest. I have never met a guy like him. He was the whale type of pisces but I think all pisces are sweet people. He left an impression and gained a special place in my heart. I will always love him. Pisces can truly feel your feelings and at times even mind read. They have powerful intuitions. My pisces always knew how I was feeling and what I would be thinking. He knew me and totally understood me. He is a great guy with a good heart and a wonderful soul. Pisces eyes are also very expressive. I have not seen such powerful emotions in anyone’s eyes as much as his. He has very soulful eyes. They are very beautiful. He is beautiful person in every single way. It is such a special feeling when he cares for you. The girl who will have him will be very lucky. Pisces make great lovers and friends. There is so much to say but I think aries and pisces make a great couple.

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    lilaBADU July 20th, 2012

    After reading Malbec’s post I felt compelled to share my own. I(Aries 20 at the time) was intensely in love with a Scorpio Man(33 at the time), he was everything I could ask for or I thought: successful lawyer, professional player, physical, insightful, sexy, wise, mysterious. There was just this intense chemistry that I had not felt before. There was only one slight problem.. he was married. At first he lied to me, he said he had a girlfriend we continued anyway just being friends. When things started to get more serious or my feelings, I asked if he had left his girlfriend. Being a lawyer and a Scorpio, he sneakily avoided the answer. of course not long he got caught, I was furious. But at that point it was too late. I was completely stupefied in love with him. I believed him when he said he was separated but he couldn’t file for his divorce yet. Being understanding I believe him and thought the process would be long and hard. We continued.. But I could not disguise my jealousy. it killed me knowing that he could be lying to me.  I could not stand his lack of attention and searched it in other men. I was never faithful, how could I be faithful to someone who was married?
    the relationship went back and forth but the intensity would not leave. I would try to leave but and he would always find a way back to convince me. make up an excuse, lie more. Until “the blunder” (as malbec said) which ended anything there was.
    He was always very careful and private about his life. I am not huge on social networking so as time passed I guess he was confident that I would never check his facebook profile. Wrong! I went out of curiosity of course. & there it was Albums of his happily married life. His excuse was that his marriage was over but he was trying to get into a reality show. And that was the biggest betrayal for me: He would rather be on a reality show than with me. He lied the whole time: saying how unhappy he was, that his wife would not let him go, she was alone blah blah. That was the reality check for me and finally straw.
    I have no desire to be with him anymore at all. I acknowledge my error, paid my consequences(with a lot suffering). but that’s it, I want to move on and be with someone 100% that I can trust and will reciprocate my love. It’s taken me a long time to heal but I finally feel detached. Except there is one problem.
    AND my question is: how do i get rid of him? this has gone on for a year now. I’ve left him, told him off, told him to go away, stopped talking to him, disappeared, everything! and he persist. He will leave me alone for sometime but he always comes back. He is always there and willing, I just want him to leave me alone and let me live my own life. 

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    ariesgal1 June 15th, 2012

    I think that pisces guy are the best match for an aries girl. After that the fire sign guys. I know a pisces and he is the most amazing person ever. I have not met anyone like him. I will always love him. Pisces men love aries women for who they are and totally accept them. I don’t think that scorpios are a good match for aries. Although I get attracted to scorpios and virgos alot… But after analysing everything I think an aries girl should not be with a scorpio guy. I don’t think scorpios love aries the way aries love them. I’v seen this alot. Aries love with all their heart and soul. Aries accepts scorpio completely with all their vices but scorpio somehow don’t do the same for aries. They also always think they are right, have to win an argument and can be vengeful. The funny thing is I know a lot of scorpios who think they are the best lovers of the zodiac which is totally not true. They can however enjoy their delusion while we stand back and laugh at it. Aries girls if your scorpio guy don’t treat you right then just simply walk away. You can do much better. Aries are innocent and child-like whereas scorpios are calculative and manipulative. Try a pisces, aries, leo and sagittarius. You’re better off!

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    chirp March 25th, 2012

    hello guys am an aries girl in love with a scorpio man for past few months…i loved him truly we were very happy in our relationship(i presumed..) he broke up with me  saying that he loved a pisces girl for past 3 years and now he realised that he loves her sincerely and wats to go back to her..they had a break-up and inorder to forget her he came closer me..he cheated me very brutally but i dont know why i still love him and so desperately want him to come back into my life.. i want to know if he comes back to me or not??

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    ScorpioScorpioScorpio March 7th, 2012

    I have read the description of the Aries Woman and Scorpio Man relationship and am amazed at how accurate it is.
    With that said, I need advise from the Aries ladies. I am a Scorpio man deeply attracted to and love an Aries woman. We have known each other for a little over a year and a half. I feel there is mutual attraction from her side too. The energy in the air when we are around each other is stronger than anything I have ever felt with anyone else. When we look into each other’s eyes, it is powerful and we can look into each other’s eyes for a long time without either one of us looking away. We have openly flirted in front of our friends . . . Initiated by me. We see each other about once per week as we are part of a sports team.
    The problem I have is she seems to always been involved with someone else. Either someone she is dating off our sports team or one male in particular who is on the team. When she knew I was involved with someone else, she did distance herself from the person on our team, as to lure my attention back, but is now back to him.
    I’m not sure how I should handle this. Should I tell her how I feel? Should I let them be and see if they stick together? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
    Love you Aries women.

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    Sexingmeright84 February 28th, 2012

    Greetings malbec,
        Im so sorry to hear this,  as an Aries woman betrayal is of the upmost deliberate way of hurting someone. She told you not to confront this person,  but you did anyway so in her eyes you are reckless and you are a threat to her livelihood. You need to ask yourself why hasnt she left her boyfriend for you? if this love is so true. As an aries woman myself when we feel that we have meet the right one we move almost instantly to be with the one who has our heart. Let me be very clear you are married so this is why she has moved on she feels no chance of having the life she deserves with you a shamless one she cant bring you home and show you off like us aries women love to do because you belong to someone else. That alone made her push you away basically if you want to prove anything to her and im going to be brutally honest leave your wife then and only then will she take you back and take you seriously. Because lets face you are much older than her and why should she waste her time screwing a married man when she could have someone elses total commitment and have 100% of that person verses 50% of you Aries crave alot of attention which is why she kept her boyfriend for those mean time in between times you should be more careful in your affairs especially as a married man and plus she is an aries and naturally want to do the right thing and honestly the right thing would be to leave you..especially since you confronted her c o-worker i mean wow that was stupid sorry Im not trying to hurt you I just want you to see the error of your ways
                                                   Bye now and Good luck with this…

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    Skorpioux January 29th, 2012

    I met a wonderful Aries girl, the love of my life (LOML) she then 25 and me 42 in the summer of 2010, both in relationships, she had a boyfriend and I in a marriage. We met several times during the first couple of weeks, going to eat ice cream, drink coffee and pastries, and having dinners at beautiful cozy romantic restaurants. Needless to say, we hit it off. She told me I was funny and very smart plus she loved the way I dressed, very Wall St-type. I loved the way she looked at me. The relationship developed as we became very comfortable with one another. I asked her to experience something that very few people experience, the thrill of flying a private plane. She logged 33 minutes of actual flying time, and was thrilled at her accomplishment.
    I made a promise to LOML I would always be truthful to her, even if the truth hurt and she agreed to be the same. I had initially told her I just wanted a “companionship” based relationship, not an intimate one. She agreed. After several more clandestine meetings, I told her that I would like to pursue an intimate but discreet relationship. She told me that to do so will create feelings that in the future will probably end up being painful. Being faithfully married for more than ten years, I did not think much about her comment but took a mental note of it and we agreed that we would break up amicably if either my wife or her bf suspected something.
    The relationship soared as we made love over and over again, going away on weekends and meeting at least twice weekly for dinner and sizzling sex. We were in total bliss and she confessed to me that I was the most intense and passionate person she ever met; and she was beautiful from head to toe and I always told her I loved her; I treated her with total love and respect, unlike anyone else in my life. We kept this intense relationship until I made the biggest blunder of my life and I dont know if she still loves me or despises.
    Although this may seem like a paradox and a farce to some, I value integrity in a person; I dont like to lie or be lied to. The LOML informed me she heard a rumor that I was a flirt from a close personal friend of hers; instintively I asked who. She declined to tell me, afraid I would confront the person. But I was burning with rage at this person, and I knew someone who lived in the same building as her who was employed by one of my affiliated companies: and I told her I suspected who she was. The LOML told me she wouldnt tell me; but within minutes she verified it was the one I suspected. But the LOML insisted I give her my word that I would not confront her. Without thinking, I did. I could not sleep for the next few nights as I was pissed as to why this person told the LOML that I was a flirt, when I only had met her once or twice and only said hello in passing.
    I had a dilemna: if I confronted her, I would find out why she said what she said, but it would ruin her relationship with the LOML and the LOML would be pissed at me from going back on my word. On the other hand, if I stood shut, the LOML would assume the rumors were true. I let me pride and ego get the best of it; and I confronted the girl and she DENIED IT until I told her the LOML had told me in a very specific way. She the admitted it, and I told the LOML and she was furious with me. To cut the story short and to avoid anyone looking at this post from knowing who we are, she broke it off with me. I tried to tell her the reasons, but she would not listen. This was November 2011.
    I love the LOML with all love of the world; I know that I want to be with her, that it hurts me when I see her and I know that she still loves me but that she is hurt I betrayed her trust by confronting the other girl.
    Although I am calm and emotionless, inside I feel this volcano full of sadness. I know her fiance does not give her the love or affection I have given her during the past 18 months and at times I feel like teeling her to runaway with me to start a new life- thats how much I love her…
    SO I ASK
    Is the pain caused by my betrayal greater than the love I have given her? If so, I need to know so I can go on with my life knowing that she no longers feels anything for me. I know she feels scared that if she tells me to go away, I will destroy her her by telling her fiance about us, but I would never do such a thing-had I wanted, I would have destroyed her when she broke it off with me.
    So my love, if you are reading this, tell me truth as to how you feel about me, even if it hurts me.

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