Cancer Woman and Libra Man Love Compatibility

When the Libra and Cancer follow up a romantic relationship, they make a appealing but difficult combination of Air and Water. As the Cancer is very supportive and sensitive and Libra is very romantic and logical, they compliment each other well. Both of them love harmony and work hard to achieve it in their relationship.

A Libra man is a very logical man with practical solutions to almost all problems of the world. He is very enthusiastic and optimistic person with a charming smile. He cannot handle confusion and in order to maintain stability he aspires for harmony in all aspects of life. Libra invented romance so in a romantic relationship with a Cancer woman, he always proves to be a worthy mate with all the tricks of romance and love on his sleeves. Though he is very easy going and careless person which makes a Cancer woman worried regarding her Libra male but still with his warmth and charming smiles maintains the relation well.

A Cancer woman can display many characteristics within a short span of time like a glittering mermaid. She is basically very sensitive and emotional with long mood swings that bring waves of emotions in her. She has a strong determination and sense of career/money. She is usually very shy and hesitates to make the first move in a relationship due to her fear of rejection. In a relationship with Libra man, she becomes very caring and understanding companion. She has a lovely sense of humor that keeps her Libra man’s spirits high.

Cancer woman makes a stimulating partner for the Libra male with a different mindset about most things in life. She is a very devoted and compassionate mate for her Libra man who takes care of his every inch and corner. Though she is pessimistic but his optimism can balance out their lives well. She can make him smile in his gloominess and can even take wise decisions for him when he is unstable. But sometimes her indifferent attitude might hurt him immensely as he is very frank and she cannot respond positively to criticism. However, the splendid smile and the praising words of Libra man can cheer her up again making her the same jolly person who loves to make him smile. Libra man is one person who does not suffer from masculine ego problem and admires and respects her for every bit of what she is.

A Libra man becomes one of a kind, charming lover for the Cancer woman. He is deeply romantic and expresses his love with such grace that makes her feel secure and just like a princess. His attraction has purity with such openness that she can feel protected and free at the same time. She passionately adores the loving nature of him and respects him for his logical decisions and guidance. He harmonizes nicely with the fluctuating moods of his Cancer lady, making her feel emotionally secure, which in turn brings out all her sterling qualities of loyalty, patience and devotion. But with time he makes her realize that he does not enjoy being nagged continuously and wants his space. This can make her insecure and suspicious for sometime but with real cord of attachment and devotion given by him, she can be more confident soon.

With the splendid traits the Cancer woman and Libra man share, they can actually walk a long distance with each other. Both of them are beautifully imaginative and tenderly sentimentally to understand each others’ mood swings and hidden differences and work on those to bring an eternal harmony to their relationship. The optimism of him teaches her to be more free and experimental, while the pessimism of her shows him how to be cautious and escape undue troubles. He gives her the freedom with security that helps her to fly high and she gives him care with space that helps him to nurture beautifully. She has a sophisticated sense of humor and he has a charismatic smile, together they can laugh, balance each other out, make each others’ souls dance, and warm the other’s heart with love. They can sing and well verse poetry too as they both appreciate art and are heart-throb romantic.

Cancer woman and Libra man share a great sexual chemistry which might seem like a gift from the heavens, with their hearts feeling completely satisfied and blessed. Respecting each others’ feeling and understanding the depth of oneness, their physical love can be a beautiful experience of gentle pleasure, the kind of intimacy that makes them tremble just anticipating it in each other’s eyes, and brings them a new peace and contentment. He fills the air with romance and she cools their surroundings with her compassion, making their physical intimacy an experience full of passion and delight. But when she continues to be suspicious of the Libra man or he does not express his feelings frequently, they might get uninterested in their physical relationship. The moment they find the root cause of their problem, they find a solution as they both love harmony and so they can continue to have a peaceful relationship. She actually wants so much pleasure to give herself over to hum, but not allowing herself to do it until she trusts him deeply. She tries to keep still, remain quiet and passive, yet allow her sexual tension, her lustful arousal, slowly and continually builds.

Though the pair of Cancer woman and Libra man is not very easy to work on but there are very few broken Cancer-Libra relationships that can’t be mended. Once they are actually together, they cherish their relationship in one way or the other for rest of their lives. She can be a bit more possessive due to her insecurities and some more stingy too as she has a strong concern for money. But he needs to assure her of his loyalty and let her have a say in financial matters. Also she should give him the space he needs and be more positive towards his criticism as his only reason to point out the faults is to bring improvement and not to insult. Each of them should concentrate on the virtues of the other, even though those traits may be markedly different in each.

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Tawana (@Tawana) : April 23rd, 2009

I just started dating a Libra, so I will update you on our progess. I think he is a great guy. I am a cancer.

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Anthony (@Anthony) : August 5th, 2009

I’m a Libra man and I recently met a Cancer female. I like her, but she is extremely suspicious of me and questions all of my actions. While I understand her concerns, it’s hard to see this relationship going anywhere because of her deep suspicions and insecurity. She is also pessimistic and serious. I guess this is a classic example of the dynamics of a Libra man/Cancer woman.

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Lynette (@Lynette) : October 1st, 2009

I’m a Cancer female(week of persuader) and my boyfriend is a Libra(week of theater). We’ve been together over a year now and were doing great! We have a lot of things in common. We always work together on projects or tasks to achieve our goals, such as were both in college and were helping other with our homework, he likes to fix and work on cars and I’ll be helping him out with the tools etc. etc… Were a team and we have an open conservation about anything and we share our feelings together. He loves to socialize with his friends, he has a funny sense of humor, have parties, and brings me along everywhere he goes. I’m a little private but can adapt to his surroundings, giving, loving and sociable(shy at first) then after while I get comfortable with the person or them. Were the couple that the spotlights is on us all the time because (more than any other match-up of signs, this astrological pair brings a warmth and sense of stability to those around them.) <- That is so true about us! So basically, in my opinion, it all depends on the Cancer woman on how open she is with her feelings and sometimes they get suspicious of there Libra man because of there previous relationships that bruise Cancer woman heart and shouldn’t be judging there current relationship as if it was like there previous relationship.

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felicia (@felicia) : December 11th, 2009

im in love with my hubby (libra) , i am a cancer woman who is/can be very serious at times with our priorities but he loves it. I dont question where is,cause he always want to be with me, or hes out right just telling me because of our friendship. I honor his truth and love his traits, his will and his priceless determination in his morals…I love my libra…

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cute pori (@cute pori) : January 30th, 2010

i love my husband(libra)more than anything, more than anyone in this world. i never suspect him cause i know him well and i trust him more than myself. he is my soulmate.

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Tamara (@Tamara) : February 9th, 2010

I am a cancer woman…. Im talking to a guy that is a libra. I am kinda suspicious of him!!! but thats just me being a cancer….We have only been talking a little while so i will up date later!!

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Lynette (@Lynette) : February 19th, 2010

Hi, its me again, checking in to tell you I’m still with my libra man and I’m a cancer woman. We’ve been together for a year and a half now. This September will mark two years. :D I love him so much and so does he. We BOND like no other. It’s funny because without telling each other what our wants, needs and how we feel about situations we automatically just do it for each other. Were both crazy in love with each other and we do talk about future marriage & kids together. My libra man does needs his space such him going to the gym, work on cars or just basically hanging out with his guy friends. As for me cancer female I do need my space as well by being in my comfort zone which is my home, at my best friend house or one of my family members. We do have our disagreements once in awhile but we communicate with each other to come into mutual agreement. Overall with my Libra man I am one super duper in love happy cancer woman! :)

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short mama (@short mama) : March 20th, 2010

I am a cancer women I am dating a libra man for a year now. Everything is great! He is a wonderful guy, and I beleives he is my sould mate. There are times when I can wondering whats he doing, but that when I push the negative thoughts out my mind, and think positive. We have a lot in common, but there are times whean I am a bit more serious then he is, but so far there are no complaints. I am learning to express my feelings to him, and this way I will not get brother when he does not. There are times when we might disagree, but we just figure out the root of the problem, and keep going.

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abtron5000 (@abtron5000) : March 24th, 2010

we’re fine

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anthony (@anthony) : March 24th, 2010

i dont get it

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abtron5000 (@abtron5000) : March 24th, 2010

i love you anthie :)

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Lily (@Lily) : March 31st, 2010

Cancer woman here (7/11) with a Libra man (10/13). Dating for almost a year. With an evolved Cancerian and Libra this relationship is damn near perfect. Libra men are extremely romantic and loving. Cancer woman are understanding and reciprocate that love right back which the Libra loves! Both are never afraid to show and express feelings and both compromise with each other through any issues.Im a Cancer woman but im not insecure or a home body, i just want to have fun and live a good life. Hes a Libra but hes not aloof or detatched. We have fun together, good love, good communication.I will say one thing and thats that cancer woman should never nag her libra man or any man and libra man should learn not to take things personally. Overall this is a great match!

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Beth (@Beth) : April 14th, 2010

Libra man… I’m a cancer and have been dating a Libra man for over 2 years. We moved together 6 months ago, and he is great. Though when Libra is depressed it is soo bad for a cancer to deal with them. Despite the fact he strives for the best in life all the time, when they want attention cancer have to give it to them. Otherwise, it will end up awful. Libras love attention, omg, he will ask for it 24/7
Sometimes I feel like we shouldn’t have gotten together, because of his tantrums about me not giving him affection. And he is a huge jealous man. Very possessive, I on the other hand, now for sure his loyalty and won’t even consider him even looking at the other women…
Libras are great is you keep constantly giving them love, they are not necessarily will be returning it back (depends on their life situation and their mood)… I shouldn’t had moved in with mine, till I was married…

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christina (@christina) : April 15th, 2010

I’m a cancer and I have been in love with a libra man for 5 years now. We’ve had our differences and both our signs definitely show through when things are good or bad bewtween us. I believe he is my soulmate. I know he is. No matter where we go or what hardships we have in life, we always connect together on a stronger and deeper level than I’ve ever experienced with anyone before him. He is the most loving and understanding man I know (especially when my cancer mood swings like to shine), and he always gives me that logical perspective I need when I’m think emotionally. Together we balance each other out, make each others souls dance, and warm the other’s heart. I couldn’t ask for a better man. Good luck to all you cancers and libras. If you learn and understand each others needs and wants I can promise you that you will not regret it.

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so yummyy (@so yummyy) : April 19th, 2010

i really have feelings for auh LIBRA MAN , but lyk sences he so layed back i think he doesnt lyk me , even thoee i asked hym & he said yehh & we talk errydeyy i still am skared that HE DOESNT ? im falln in love w/ hym bkus we have auh great connection . .. i just dont wnta losseee em , i am very emotional . but teww keep hym i wuld jus pretend lyk it doesnt matter .

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so yummyy (@so yummyy) : April 19th, 2010

cancerr female in LOVE w/ auhhh LIBRA MAN . ..

shuld i tell hym how feel , or jus flow w/ it ?

we`ve only been talkn for lyk 2months but i already knoee whaa i wnt & its hym .

hys personality it GREAT , hys touch AMAZING , jus i kant quitee read hys feelings for me . & bkus i HATE rejection im not sure if u shuld even ask it wuld crush me .

iknoee im beautiful & he tells me all de tyme , lyk i tell hym 24/7 hes is as well , but jus bkus im beautiful i am still very sensitivee bkus past relationshipss .

evrrydeyy i think about hym , & when he text , kalls , or sees me . .. mahh hearts misses auh beat as i glance at hys lovelyy face .

we have BASKETBALL in common , & we both dresss FRESHHH !!!!

we look goodd tewwgetherr . but HELP IS NEEDEDDD ????

shuld i tell em or not ???? ayudame!!!

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Ros (@Ros) : April 29th, 2010

tell him how u feel, honesty best policy
do not waste your time – each minute wasted is less the most amazing love in your life.

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Linda M (@Linda M) : May 27th, 2010

Ok..So glad I found this site.

Just started dating a libra man and I must admit he is making me into a better person already. He is very outspoken, very postive,- which helps me cause I can dwell in the negative for long periods of time. i absolutely admire his openess about everyhting and his desire to succeed. I dont mind being his supporter in the background while he takes centre stage. Hoe it works out—only been a two weeks. Praying he is the one….

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Lynette (@Lynette) : June 20th, 2010

Well hello fellow cancerian women and libra men! Just wanted to update my status… My libra man (10-18) and I (7-13) are still together and having a great FUNtastic time :) our two year anniversary is around the corner (9-3). I have so much to say but great adventurous time we have together. Were still learning from each other and getting to know one another on a higher note :) . At times he can be indecisive which can irritate me and I end up making the decision for him. When I get into my mood swings, he says the most silliest & funniest things and he ALWAYS gets me laughing and smiling again. He has never failed on this lol… well I will update again in another three months :) or maybe sooner since I’m on summer vacation lol!!

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rajeen (@rajeen) : July 9th, 2010

i am in love with a beautiful girl and she is a cancer….. she never say that she loves me but i think she does…. but i love her whatever she is……..

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ben (@ben) : July 9th, 2010

learn to spell yummy

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Cancer Woman (@Cancer Woman) : September 2nd, 2010

I have been dating a libra man for almost a year now. He is the sweetest guy i’ve ever met! After only four months of dating he knew he wanted to marry me and proposed.We make each other laugh all the time but can also be serious with each other(hardly ever..lol). He treats like a queen and he definitely is my king!We can be open with each other about our feelings and this I love about my libra man. I believe that libra man -caner woman is a very good match!He makes me better.

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Su anne (@Su anne) : September 16th, 2010

I’m a cancer woman and have known a libra man for 2 years now.First time meeting each other,we automatically click with each other.I can say he’s the sweetest man I ever know can hold his emotion and rarely gets angry,and when he does,he like to be alone.We can laugh and joke at eachother.And we are pretty much funny couples,our friend said that.And yes he like beautiful things whether it’s a woman or whatever.But I trust him and he knows that.I’m a moody person and he’s the best person to handle it.We do talk about marriage someday.I’m hoping cause I want to spend the rest of my live with him.He’s great person and people do take advantage of him.Last but not least good luck with your libra man.

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Blessed (@Blessed) : September 24th, 2010

I’m in love with this cancer woman its so funny how we met way before we even approached each other we would see each other in the same spot everyday and all we could do was smile and that was it that lasted about a year. early in this thing I made a lot of mistakes but its like the more time I spent with her the more I felt like she was the one for me. I’m at the point now where I know that I don’t want to go a day without her in fact I hate when we go so long without seeing each other, but sometimes I feel like she doesn’t love me back. After all the women I’ve ever dealt with she gives me a feeling like no other, it makes me kind of hesitant about this because sometimes I feel like it don’t want to get to close to her because I don’t want to end up with a broken heart. I find myself on my knees praying for this woman and I all that time, the things I do for her I’ve done them for another woman. I find myself sitting by my phone just waiting on a text or a phone call from her. I’m so darn love struck that even if I wanted to break up with her I couldn’t bring myself to do it mainly cause I wouldn’t want to. I often find myself telling her how much I love and want to give her the world this woman just makes me want do better so I can give her everything that she’s never had If it’s in God’s will. I feel like I’m going over bored with my love for her but I cant help how I feel about her. I know that I’m not a perfect man but I’m willing to give all up for her, I just hope I make the right decisions when It comes to her. I can be overbearing at times but I’m just trying get her to loosen up some so we can move on from my past this is the Honest to God truth I want this woman to be my present and my future. I just don’t know how she really feels about what we have and that kills me. advise anyone

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Deresa (@Deresa) : September 30th, 2010

Advice for Blessed: I actually understand what your saying. I myself am also cancer woman and is dating a libra man for almost a year now. I have known him for 3 years and this our third time reacquainting and dating each other again. His feelings now is similiar to yours in that in the past Ibelieve he felt he made mistakes that caused us to not further flourish, but believe this third time is a charm and his ways are just as similiar as yours. The thing I can tell you about your cancer woman, at this moment is that you have to communicate your feelings with her. I know I’m not that cancer woman that is real expressive about her deep feelings for someone unless I begin to feel comfortable with you and you also start communicating your feelings with me. I also know for myself I don’t move very fast when it comes to a relationship (I can’t speak for all cancer women), I’m actually pretty guarded when it came to my feelings towards him and the reason is because he screwed up in the past and also cancer women are pretty vulnerable when it comes to relationships..I mean emotionally. Well, my advice to you is COMMUNICATION, express your feelings to her (that may actually help her to open up, it did for me little by little though.),keep spending time with her(let her know you, your personality, your character). Don’t also be hesitant to ask her questions also and let her know that you would like to know her feelings whats in her mind and if there is anything she’s worried or wondering about that she can tell you so that you guys could work it out (he always expressed that with me). It takes time, I was that same way, but the more he really put himself out there for me, the more I felt closer and my feelings growing more and more because I feel secure with him. You will be fine!!! I believe her feelings are there for you, otherwise, she wouldn’t be with you. You have to get her to express it (she’s probably just not comfortable w/ her feelings yet). Keep praying about it, I did!! and try to have to patience!!! I hopes this helps you even just a little.

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Blessed (@Blessed) : October 7th, 2010

@Deresa Thanks for all your help we’re both hanging in tough I love her so much and so Hard, at times I just really feel like giving up. All in all I love my baby I’m just trying to win her heart back over. I know she feels something because she still tells me things that nobody else knows. I don’t know maybe its me I know I dont wanna be without her

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Deresa (@Deresa) : October 7th, 2010

for blessed: Hey, no problem!! Well, believe me, it’s not going to be “peaches and cream” in the beginning esp. starting over again. But, the great thing is that you guys gave each other another chance, so that’s a ‘plus’. And more than likely, she’s trying to gain that trust back. And that’s for you, try not to think negative!! You have to give your relationship some faith. You two getting back together is a positive right there, it’s just the matter of you two working together to make it stronger. So, whatever you do, do not throw in the towel!! You will be hurting yourself even more. Have faith, be positive, and be strong!!

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Lynette (@Lynette) : October 8th, 2010

I’ve been so busy that I forgot to update my relationship with my Libra man. Well currently we are not together. We broke up a few days after our two year anniversary. We still talk & hang out once in the awhile but it’s not 100% the same anymore. My Libra man is currently going out to bars, hanging out with his guy friends and including girl friends. He always on facebook connecting with others and making them laugh with his statuses. He’s always texting his guys and female friends. Never payed attention to me when I was talking to him, or even bothered to look at me. At times he would disrespect me by saying “oh, hold that thought, I forgot to tell this person something” while on the phone. Honestly, he has so many groupies (female friends) that at times I felt I wasn’t special to him no more. I felt like I was the same level as his female friends. We argued a lot about our differences on life & friends. He’s a great guy, don’t get me wrong, because he helps all his friends out when they are in need, makes them laugh, and he is there for his friends when they are down. Basically, he was putting me second when before I was his first. It was just a lot of frustrations that I couldn’t handle no more about him. I’m still in love with him but it drives me crazy when I see his groupies (female friends) always texting him and asking him to hang out etc etc… So we both decided to end the relationship. He still tells me that he’s in love with me and he thinks about me all the time. But I don’t know what to think anymore. Honestly, I think he’s indecisive on what he wants and he’s going through this mid-life crisis thing. So as of now, I’m just focusing on myself with school and gym so I won’t have to think about my ex libra man. Well if you folks have advice or suggestions, I will glady accept it with an open mind. I’ll update again. Time from time I’ll check back on here, thanks :)

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holly (@holly) : October 10th, 2010

i’m a cancer woman recently out of a bad relationship with a libra man and honestly, i really couldn’t handle this pairing. I just found him intolerable, and i feel really selfish for it because he did so much for me. He really turned his whole life around for me, and i think that was part of the turn off. I like to feel independent but he would put me in to positions where i would absolutely have to rely on him and it made me feel very vulnerable. He was a bit obsessed with me before we got together and as we lived in different towns would visit often and send letters and gifts. I finally gave in and moved in with him, and everything changed. all that charm just disappeared and he became a bit of an asshole really. He was very jealous whenever i was around his friends, and the WORST thing had do be the sulking. He constantly wanted to talk and i just used to think “what is there to talk about right now, give me five minutes peace”! he would bitch and moan when i didn’t want to cuddle or didn’t reply to every single thing he said. he was much more clingy and needy than me emotionally!!

the thing i found the hardest to deal with was how false he was. He would change who he was and his morals for the sake of a conversation, where as my ethics and values stay the same no matter who i might offend by upholding them. It would wind me up because noone was allowed to think anything bad about him, he had to be the golden boy all the time. He’s wound up with hundreds of friends being so agreeable, but i’d rather have a few real friends.

It’s true that we both avoid conflict except we do it in different ways, i just wont talk to someone i know that i will have reason to argue with, but he just agrees with everyone all the time.

anyway, libra man? never again. i always always find them false

EG!! my flat mate was sleeping with a libra man, and he was cheating on his girlfriend and there was nothing i could really do about it because i’m in no position of authority, and my flat mate hadn’t made any promises to his girlfriend, he had. so he’s round at my place cheating on this girl who’s LOVELY and he KNOWS that i think that he’s absolute scum and he wouldn’t get out of my face with his politeness and friendliness. oh yeah, you’re a real gem. such a nice guy, here cheating on your lovely lovely girlfriend. what a joke.

uuuuuh!! libra guys are grosse and fake and cancer girls deserve better!

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holly (@holly) : October 10th, 2010

advice for Blessed : honestly, you sound exactly like my libra, and i’ll tell you something for nothing (and i’m just going to be brutally honest), all that neediness is a massive turn off. it sounds sweet when i read it, but to her, that kind of thing is a bit terrifying. she doesn’t want that much emotional responsibility so PLAY IT COOL. put your hand on the table and let her take it or leave it, because at the end of the day, she wants to be given a choice, not pressured in to being in a relationship with you because you love her so much. she wants a challenge, so back off. less is more. seriously, if my libra had tried that i think it may have been different (but maybe not, because he was… interesting..)
i’m not saying treat em mean keep em keen, but you need to give her an offer that she CAN refuse, let her feel in control, and like she better get you while you’re still interested, rather than blithering on about your undying love. save all that for the bedroom.

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JR (@JR) : October 10th, 2010

me and my woman broke up on mutual grounds a little while back she was under a lot of stress due to a lot of changes in her personal life, hell we both have and on top of that we had a typical relationship bumps in the road. ever since that day I’ve missed her now more than when we was together, I try to give her some space and not talk to her at all but I can’t help it I got to text and talk to her. I always let her known that she could call me anything, I don’t want to smother her. I really don’t know how to get my woman back I just wonder if she misses and feels the same way That I Do. This young lady has made me so much better a person and as a man, with her I was learning how fully commit to woman through all of our experiences. She made me want to do better and I’m so thankful for her being in my life. Now I’m stuck with the task of trying to win her heart back. Comments anyone

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Blessed (@Blessed) : October 11th, 2010

@ holly how can you try to give somone some advice but yet bash at the sametime its not really fair if you think about it. the differecnce is that every man isn’t the same and I really mean what I say About her.I played al those game s and I realized that playing with love is no joke thats when I decided to fully commit myself and not mess around with love.

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Deresa (@Deresa) : October 12th, 2010

I know that we have encountered “BAD APPLES” and believe me this is not the first libra guy that I have dated. The first libra guy I dated was a bad joke!!! But, you know what!!! We can’t and shouldn’t judge all libra men in all the negative ways we can think of. It really just depends on the person themselves and even sometimes,we should step out of the whole zodiac thing for a second and really look at the person. Sometimes, some of the traits that we have or obtain with can also come from other places, like our upbringing or people we’re around…whatever the case is!! And, some are just plain immature knucleheads. Maturity definitely a role as well. It’s just like also saying that there are negative cancers and believe me, I know, I am literally surrounded by cancerians and yeah, we do have a quite a personality and some that are different from other typical cancers. Well, no worries!! this is no argument and I’m not taking any sides. Just my viewpoint!!! :)

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holly (@holly) : October 12th, 2010

@blessed.. sorry i didn’t mean to offend you. I just had a hideous experience with a libra man, and he was a very typical libra. What i’m really trying to say is that less is more. I’m not saying to pretend that you don’t care, but sometimes loving someone has to mean valuing their feelings over your own, by this i mean that you should make it clear to this women that you are ready to commit and you do love her, but because you love her so much the decision she makes needs to be for her own happiness and not to spare your feelings. then leave it. your cards are on the table, and if she does decide to be in a relationship with you it will end up being an extremely happy one. My libra was all “i’ll never be the same without you love love love oh please love me back” and i was so worried about his feelings that i got in to the relationship with him whilst ignoring what i really wanted (or didn’t want). again, no offense.

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Its me (@Its me) : October 31st, 2010

@blessed – Hey even the guy Im dating [ or was dating :( ] is Libra . I just wanted to know your birthdate and your girl’s .
Coz this libra guy I have ( or had ) been with for almost an year , is really confusing me :(

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Casey (@Casey) : October 31st, 2010

I’m a libra 13 oct dating a Cancer 1st july
for about a few years and im still confusing
coz she don’t really straightforward to me
and she likes to hide it .. =( need help..

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Fuji (@Fuji) : November 1st, 2010

At the moment I (libra Man) am lovestruck by this cancer woman. The way we act around each other is as if we are going out. She is always smiling and always laughing when I talk to her. She doesn’t mind me asking her questions and she seems to appreciate the flirting and affection she has given to me. In saying this though she told me today, “I shouldn’t like me too much as I may dissapoint you”. I know she is going through a rough patch and I willing to help her out. Are there any precautions I should take when dealing with a Cancer woman in this situation?

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Shortmama (@Shortmama) : November 6th, 2010

Just by reading over the mssages. It seems as though Cancer, and lIBRAS CANNOT GET ENOUH EACH OTHER WHEN INLOVE. It seems as though once each other love, and respect each other they would be fine. Please don’t waste time viwe the negative aspects in the relatioship. Focus on the positive, and the results would be postive. By the way I am a cancer, and my boyfriend is a libra. No one will ever be perfect so just enjoy, and love each other.

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Casey (@Casey) : November 6th, 2010

but somehow the cancer(girl) that i wanted to date
seem like does’nt care.. even how much effort but after a few day i treat her , dote her and she care for me for while after like stranger -.- really no idea how to date her…

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Robin (@Robin) : November 9th, 2010

I am a cancer woman, July 21st. Cancers love very deeply but don’t trust 100% up front. You have to (in some cases) set the standard. If you want her to be open, you have to be open. If you want her to be affectionate, you have to be. We want to know it’s OK to be our natural selves….loving, caring, open, etc. Consistency is very important. If you change your approach we will fall back. So if you wooed her to start, stay that way. And sometimes we aren’t very easy to win over. You have to just be yourself and give her a minute to appreciate the person that you are. If you are good, she will love you. Yes it is confusing (at the start) sometimes because one day we can “seem” less than interested (that’s our protective shell in action) and the next day (and from there on out) we love you like there is no tomorrow! In the beginning it’s hard to read us emotionally because we want to feel safe to express our emotions. Cancers are usually very loving women. I’m in love with a Libra man September 25th. It’s been topsy turvy at times. But I know he is a man worth loving. He is good and he truly loves me! Best of luck to all of the Cancer/Libra love interest…….. I’m hopeful that my love for my Libra will last forever!!

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Casey (@Casey) : November 10th, 2010

is there any difference of the date June 22 – July 22 cancer cuz i heard that starting of july esp is very sensitive… im trying for 4 year and now i guess im a failure..

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deresa (@deresa) : November 12th, 2010

…@ Robin: you summed that up real well about how we can be!! This is exactly how I am when I am with someone. But, there are times that I wish I could be like some of my girlfriends where they can brush off a guy that they have dated and keep moving. I am strong with other aspects of myself…like accomplishments,motivations, goals, etc…but, when it comes to love I am weak. Love is not one of my strongest points and when I hurt its deep. I do get over it, but its a good while. Cancer women are wonderful women, but I just can’t stand my sensitivity to love.

…@ Casey: I did read something of it, but, I could be wrong too. But, I read up on actual birthday astrologies (if I can find the site I will send it to you here) My bday is July 7th and I have a brother who is cancer (bday is also July 1st) and we get along real well, but, he is real sensitive (more than me) and the downfall about his personality is that he’s quite reserved (I’m not that reserved) when something is bothering him he pretty much keeps it to himself, but, I know off the bat when he has something on his mind and I just ask him, talk to him and give him reassurance. Some need lots of reassurance, are very sensitive, but, some can keep things to themselves, they are not that open to express their feelings to others (soo, that’s where you’re going to have to be open with her). On the positive, they are very loving and caring (my brother doesn’t really show it, but he does…looking at the little things he would do.)

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Casey (@Casey) : November 13th, 2010

@deresa and @Robin

thank you guys for the help and the source
it really help a lot i really do appreciate it!
but for my case it really been too long 4 years and
my heart never give up.. i felt like giving up but
it hard.. i really need assist from u guys especially from cancer(women) point of view i really wants to learn more.. thanks alot!

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deresa (@deresa) : November 13th, 2010

…@ Casey: You know what, I believe that Robin really put the icing on the cake 100% of how most cancer women are esp. in love. I am definitely that way. And the only reason that trust is a strong issue with me because the guy I’m with messed up in the past. But, I think I’m wrong on dwelling on the past, but for me to trust him 100% and be in that comfort zone with him will take some time and work…and I mean some major teamwork. Consistency is also very important to me, if I notice you falling back on certain things that is the norm for you since the beginning, I do begin to wonder which can draw me to push or pull back. But, yeah!! She definitely has a great definition of how we are. Well, Casey! I will admit this to you, we cancer women can be complex individuals (and thats real), but I guess it speaks for itself in our moods. You have to be more open and gives lots of reassurance, affection, and your love. I know it sounds like a heavy load on you, but, I believe it is worth it in the end with the love and loyalty your cancer lady will give to you, probably more than any other sign in the zodiac!!!

Also, Casey!! I hope we helped you as much as we can for you to understand the cancer women personality. But, I’m going to need for you to help me out to figure out the libra man personality, which I also believe can help other cancer women better understand you guys and know what to expect. I will think of some questions for you (other libra men are also welcome to comment) along the way. :)

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Casey (@Casey) : November 13th, 2010

@deresa

Alright really thanks for the feedback!
but there’s one last thing i have not mention
the cancer(lady)july(1st) that i have met i can said that is the most sensitive and unable to read from my point of view,
why cause lets make it simple. For 3 mth we did text and was very near to get together(sweet and loving) . How i assume cause anyone when comes dating u can see it for yourself you can feel it
4 year ago (2007) i did a mistake i approach and ask her to be in relationship i was shock, she gave me a
confuse, no idea or shy away and turn back to me said not now..
well i accept it (in my heart was bleed) but i dont mind:)
i was really dump and never study about cancer thought…
and make decision on the spot.. 2008 did try to date her an yet after 3 mth lost connection but never ask about relationship ..
aww 2010 started to date her 4mth later somehow she just turn stranger to me and will never success..
well maybe im just a loser or are not meant to be right? haha..
what i did for 2008 and 2010 i never even ask for relationship i just wants to get know more about her and wait for a to hint me
but i just cant feel that way like 2007… it totally difference could it be (not her cup of tea)

im 13(oct)men
am like to get attention showing charm or shomehow
not in the sense show off.. hope u guys understand what i mean.

im very sensitive in love and somehow shy from girl
no idea why.

easily get jealousy term of of the girl that u like and somehow she have male friend of her(but will always kept in heart)

always give in when comes to relationship.. when argue i will vote out
likes to hide negative comment

can said Indecisive sometime.

hope will help u guys some of my own character

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Moon Baby (@Moon Baby) : November 20th, 2010

Hi there, i’ve been reading all your comments about your present relationship. Im a cancer woman and married to a very charming Libra man for 12 years now. Wow!!! you guys have a lot to work out, loving somebody doesn’t have to be perfect, don’t expect your partner to be perfect as your not perfect also. There will be tough times and very tough times, but this will test both of your love for each other and once you pass this then you’ll know this one is for real and lasting. Were on the different level now, we already experienced everything your saying. But remember Cancer Lady it will always depends on you, weather you want to continue or not, because fact is Libra will always be a Libra very practical in every sence of the word, we just have to keep an open mind and accept this fact and lessen the drama out of us. It’s a matter of practise to us. And last advise for Cancer Ladies if you feel that your ready to let go of your Libra man just ask yourself “If this would be your last day on earth who would you like to share it with?” then the problem solved, sometimes when loving someone you will accept everything that he is, and his imperfection is what makes him more of real person and less than an imaginary perfect man.

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in*love*with*love (@in*love*with*love) : December 4th, 2010

hi im a cancer lady and i just met a libra man like a week ago. its so funny to me that the chemisty we share is so strong. the way we met is over the internet but come to find out we know alot of the same important people…his friends are my friends…but him and i never crossed paths until now. i dont have much to say about our relationship right now accept that it just began and it jus feels so good. im going to keep u posted for sure. but one more thing this man seems like my answered prayer from God. he is everything that i asked for. God loved me so much he sent him to me just so i can experiance what true love really is. im a confident to say that this libra man will be the last and only man im with! his conversation alone is just right for me…stay tuned for more updates on this cancer woman and libra man love affair!!!

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Casey (@Casey) : December 4th, 2010

@in*love*with*love

thanks for the infor keep up to date!! really thanks alot!

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Its me (@Its me) : December 15th, 2010

@moon baby – whats ur and ur husband’s birthdates??
Im also with an amazing Libra man. He is the love of my life. I will love him NO matter what, and I will give him anything he wants . Coz he has done so many sweet things for me. i LOVE him to death. He is truly the most caring person i have ever met. We always have So much fun together. I can tell him ANYTHING and everything. I feel I can only be myself when Im with him. I would NEVER wanna leave this guy. He is so wonderful :D

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Confused Cancer (@Confused Cancer) : January 3rd, 2011

I’m a cancer July 18 and I met a Libra some weeks ago and he was just awesome and I was falling for him really fast we live in different cities so we don’t get to see each other much. We had made plans for me to come and stay with him for a night and I got there and we were so excited and so into each other then we had sex and it was great but afterwards he tottaly changed he was pretty distance and I went to grab his hand he said he wasn’t in the mood to hold hands and he pretty much asked me to leave so I did :’( as soon as I left he began to text me and didn’t want to be mad at me and told me he was in a bad relationship befor and he still feels like she is in his house and what he did was wrong I had already closed up on him but took sometime to think about it and decided to talk to him and basically he said he isn’t ready for a relationship or anything wit anybody and he didn’t want to hurt me but I told him he already did and he could have told me that before I slept with him. I’m so hurt right now I don’t even know whether to believe him or not but we arnt talking any more and this makes me sad :-( and I don’t know what to do

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