Gemini Man and Libra Woman Love Compatibility

You are absolutely, positively right!

hi,i m gemini and this is totaly a pure,true,satisfied story

really? i’ll try a libra and see if its true.

Your English is so deep. I cannot really understand it all. I have been with a Gemini Man for 6 years. He really has two personalities and I get confused if when is the right time to come into him at any situation. Sometimes he makes me feel very much loved. Sometimes he despices me, sometimes he annoys me, sometimes he chases me. It’s like he has so many personalities and my two hands of weighing scale cannot take this anymore. I understand him all the way and yet he is the one who had given up.

gemini:really? i’ll try a libra and see if its true.
My answer for you: please, if you saw that Libra woman make it a serious relationship because i know, Geminis are like a magnet to Libra women. But please take care of her and goodluck to your relationship

I’ve never dated a gemini man, but kept hearing how “compatible” we’d be. I just got set up with one on a date and one thing I’ve noticed is that he’s moving way to fast for me. He asks way too many questions and wants to know too much too soon. I like the slow chase, the intellect, the bits of conversation that leave you “wondering” and seeing where it goes eventually. The dream is usually better than the reality… He’ll find he can’t move this Libra too quickly…

This is my first time dating a gemini man and it’s really working out! We have been dating for eight months and I’m really enjoying it! I’ve dated a lot of guys before, but they all bore me in less than a month in the time we dated! But it’s true about the us never getting bored with each other! We haven’t gotten into any fights and I’m kind of used to it when he gets into his moods, because I’m like that too sometimes. I really enjoy his need to change and I was attrached to him, by his intelligence and his communication skills. The only problems we’ve had is communcating with each other. Like sometimes we don’t know what to say to each other, but we’re working on it. I don’t think you really have to worry about him settling down, because my gemini man was already talking about us getting marry! Anyways, I wish all my fellow Libra’s good luck with their relationships.

@Katelyn Helm Communication shouldn’t be a problem. In fact you don’t have to work on it and there are other smarter ways.

Did you know Love is 1000 times powerful in Silence? That you are just happy in presence of a lover.

Try out eye gazing – http://www.oflove.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=7

Caution: Eye gazing can be a very powerful experience and one has to let go of all doubts/fears while practicing it.

I fell in love with a Gemini man and he hurt me deeply. His moods changed so often. Our relationship was one like no other for me. When we met he was head over heels for me and I played it cool not to move so quickly. We had great communication and laughed so much with each other. He treated me like an absolute queen. I broke up with him unannounced and about 2 years later we got back together. He told me I hurt him and he said he was going to hurt me too if not more (he said this jokingly) and you know he there was so much truth in his joke. He really broke my heart once he found out I was deeply in love with him the second time around he just began to treat me harshly. We broke up and lost contact and found each other once again. I forgave his actions and he were back at our love relationship again and ONCE AGAIN he hurt me so much. He constantly says he loves me then he changes his mind and says there will never be an “US” he says he does not exist to me and I believe him. Yet, I love this man. I have told myself walk away and I do but we always end up reaching out to each other and telling each other how much we miss each other. I can’t take it anymore so this time it is really over. I have never dated anyone like this. When we are around each other we can’t get enough of each other but when we are apart it’s like he hates me. I will never date another Gemini in my life. I hope to get over him soon and sometimes wonder if he will ever love me again or even miss me but the Libra in me can’t hold hatred. I wish him well and he is long gone and has my heart with him. I wish I could make him miss me but he doesn’t seem to miss me either. Oh well….Healing is a process and this pain shall pass.

God just writing that hurt…I really love him how can I make it work between us. He never really got over me leaving him so abruptly and un announced.

He treated me like an absolute queen. I broke up with him unannounced and about 2 years later we got back together. He told me I hurt him

You both were at mistake here. You see you broke his heart and he could not handle it well. He could have behaved normally and forgive you but he couldn’t. Deep inside he doesn’t trusts you. Probably your own present state of mind is no different.

I can offer a few suggestions for both you and him:
a) Take a pillow and hit the pillow like it’s the person/thing you are angry at. Hit it harder and harder. Yell and cuss at it as well if that helps to release that tension. Keep doing till you start feeling better. Ask him to do the same. We’re trying to release anger/hate here so that unwanted emotions are taken care of.

b) Take up a daily body exercise routine, again this will make you feel better and healthy. You can try 12 rounds of Surya Namaskars – http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f

c) Can you control your own breath? Can you control time? Think about it for a while and you’ll realize that most things are beyond human control. This should help you be more forgiving and care free.

d) Love only cultivates in presence of truth, honesty, forgiveness, diligence, laughter etc. See this – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LfUvi1bof8&feature=related

All the best

@ oracle, thanks for the encouragement. I know that only time will heal how I feel about him. I have decided to just walk away and never go back to him anymore. I can’t play back and forth all the time when I am the only one who seems to be affected by this emotionally. I wish him well.

I am a libra woman with a gemini man..so far so good we have been together for four months on the first and we both feel head over hills for eachother I do see the personality changes in him a lot but that makes him diffrent to me an I love it!! he makes me feel loved an special I hope to have one of thoes happily ever afters that’s my dream!! I hope that’s what god has planed for us!!

Oracle??? Is it true that most geminis are unfaithfull???

@kaci We only find what we look for. If we choose to look for flaws, errors, problems we see them in plenty. Just look, this website has so many problems

To me, nobody is unfaithful. Its all about basic values like keeping promises, being truthful, honesty, integrity, diligence etc.

Instead of answering your question, I would say just look for “good things” in you and others. Nothing else matters

That’s a good way to look at it..an I’m going to try looking at the good and see how it goes…every article I’ve read about geminis it always says geminis can be liars and cheats and I just hope not to find that in my gemini..the way I met him is at my job but he also had a girlfriend and left her soon after our friendship got stronger so that lead me to think the same would happen to me if he thought he has found betta in a woman..I also feel he has been faithfull to me and I really hate to question it..so another question if I found out that he has been unfaithfull would it be right to drop the relationship and move on or call it a mistake an move on with our relationship???

@kaci I will say, love, happiness, peace, laughter can only exist in absence of fear, anger, criticism, control, manipulation and other such things.

Qualities like forgiveness, truthfulness, honesty, service, appreciation, respect fill our lives with Love and Happiness. These all are actually synonyms of Love.

It doesn’t matter what the other person is doing, but for our own good and well-being we need to cultivate qualities that bring more and more Love to our lives. It can be difficult at times, but just remembrance of Love will be very helpful.

Now to answer your question -
He must have done good things too for you, and in light of this truth you can choose to ignore a few mistakes. Of course, just like good moments and happiness brought you closer to him — mistakes too will leave their impact. That’s how it is.

Whatever he does or doesn’t in his life is not your problem. He’ll always do right things at right time if he really Loves you and enjoys your company.

@Libralee Your story sounds exactly what i am going through this my gemini man. We met in 2007 and got to gether. he said we were forever. he dumped me a year later. we were separated about a year and found eachothers love again. he promised me it was going to be forever this time. We were to gether about 5 months moved to the town I grew up in with my family and he changed his mind again.. Left my stuff on the front porch and moved back to were we came from.. Now I am here going to college. Not to much time passed, he left me new years 2010 and he called and wanted me back in march 2011. and i havent gone back to him but damn I want to, even know the outcome wont be different but I have enough hope to fill the grang canyon. He has a successful business now and he promises a life a good and wonderous things for my daughters and I. I kinda wish he would just do something really horrible so I could hate him.

@shawna87rv From my experience with a Libra woman, I’m willing to bet you share an amazing connection. However,I feel Gems and Librans can only go so deep emotionally. Have fun but don’t look for any stability here. Besides, your relationship’s track record speaks for itself.

My gemini man is a true definition of “man” and the best thing so far…I have ever known

I agree with following statement: Libra woman is more intrigued in attracting her Gemini man in the beginning of their relationship and twisting him into a temperament that makes him angry and argumentative later on. She takes pleasure in taking his witty conversation and turning them around to use them against him.” I did this in the middle of the relationship and now we are no longer together. I sent him breakup texts letters every 2weeks and we always talked it out and worked it out somehow. So, it’s been a week I haven’t contacted him and have realized what an idiot I have been for doing all this nonsense. I told him my ex-contacted me and we where together for 4 yrs and after it being over with him I told my Gemini I promised my self a long time ago that I wouldn’t feel anything for anyone again and with him it has been very difficult to do this b/c he showed up out of nowhere and did show me what a man who really cares can be like. He said he doesn’t know what to believe what I’ll do next one day we are together and next we aren’t. He said he has bent over forwards and backwards for me and been more than accommodating.Which is true and I got scared and it’s my fault that I pushed him away. He told I will have to work very hard that this relationship is dis-functional. I told him I will then when I started to explain the ex story he goes I feel like their are wholes here. I said I gave him a summary. He said we all have our problems but we can’t let it destroy our lives we have to learn to live with it. I remember hugging him in the kitchen kissing his check what seemed like forever and telling him i’m truly sorry and from here on out i’ll be honest with him. He sighed and then I let him go and just looked at me and I said what he said: go fix yourself, i’ll be ur friend, and then maybe when it’s fixed we can try again. He told me multiple times he wanted to be my rock but with the break up texts and letters I pushed him away and now I miss everyday. It is as if part of me is gone and how do I get him back? Do I let fate its course or do I call him? I know that if I stopped the nonsense we could have been great together. I got scared b/c he has all the qualities in a man I hopped to find and I didn’t think I ever would he made me feel as if I was walking on clouds everyday. Now, it’s gone due to my own stupidity. How do I fix this?

I wanted to comment on this statement:  “Jai (@Gem2madd) : September 21st, 2011

@shawna87rv I feel Gems and Librans can only go so deep emotionally. Have fun but don’t look for any stability here. Besides, your relationship’s track record speaks for itself.
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I think this is pure rubbish.. Gemini’s and LIbra can go as deep as any other coupling.  What some overlook is a persons maturity level.  People aren’t cookie cutter produced.  We each come from our collective experiences and a whole array of factors too long to list here.  If you don’t care to take the time to get to know your partner well.. whatever sign you get together with, you’re going to get sucker punched emotionally.  Most of my experiences with Gemini men have been deep, loving and passionate.  No more or less moody than other men.  Libra women are moody too.. sometimes fickle, loving and loyal.. and whoever said she wondered if her Gemini man forgot about her?  No they don’t forget the love given them.