Gemini Man and Libra Woman Love Compatibility

The pair of Gemini and Libra is rather a lively combination in which communication doesn’t just flows, it bounces and leaps. However, Libra focuses on the excitement of togetherness, while Gemini is not so specific in the needs for stimuli. Nevertheless, this relationship can contain markedly less of the jealousy and disputes.

A Gemini man is a wanderer of sorts, charming the ladies on his journey, weaving his way in and out of things whether it is in his career, socially with friends or in romance. His charm and silver tongue gets him out of almost any situation he doesn’t want to be caught in, even making it seem as though it is other’s fault. Make a Gemini man angry and his language becomes harsh and sharp, but it is very temporary. Long term is not in Gemini man’s terminology. In a love association a Gemini man seeks more fun than stability. He loves his individuality and respect the independence of his lady as well.

A Libra woman is a sweet, charming and pleasant lady masked with a smooth style that enables her to pounce when her predator gets close. Resistance is futile against her clever and indisputable logic. Often a Libra woman does almost anything to get her way. She uses her feminine antics and even stoops to a helpless nature if need be. A Libra woman hardly ever goes for a man who is intellectually beneath her. For her, all is fair in love and war. Being in a relationship makes a Libra woman a very devoted and helping partner in all walks of life.

A good relationship between Gemini man and Libra woman will be filled with romance, travel, music, flowers, children and love. They are quite the compatible couple in more ways than not. There is a tremendous amount of respect from one to the other in their thoughts, their privacy and their individual freedom. A Libra woman is just so very much appealing to him when she helplessly convinces him that it was his idea to finally settle down with her and create a future that is more stable. She provides her Gemini man with a strong support and gets her way any how. The Gemini man can always count on his Libra woman. She creates a balance in her Gemini man’s life and makes his life more organized than he ever had.

Gemini man is quite irresistible to Libra woman when his charm flows over in convincing her to leave her stable life to fly with him into a future of uncertainty. He can temporarily lose his cool, but eventually sees into what his Libra woman is doing and turns things back around to his benefit. Libra woman acts hurt and astounded at her Gemini man’s antics but no one can truly trick a Gemini man. He is far too witty and intellectual for that. Libra woman has a difficult time in deciding on a true love and is, more than likely to rush into a marriage or long term relationship with her Gemini man before she has realized the futuristic consequences of such a big step.

The graciously harmonious relationship of the Gemini man and Libra woman is smooth sailing unison on sparkling water that is so flowery and exciting that it can puzzle the others and sometimes them too. They both know where to being but to stop is a real mystery for them. As the light of love dances in their eyes and they look over each other’s flaws to melt in essence of romance, they create a magical world of their own where happiness is reflected through Gemini man’s eyes and Libra woman’s charming smile. They are way too generous to take care of each other and bring some lovely changes to make the life more worthwhile. As the music flows through the air with mild fragrance, the Gemini man and Libra woman blend all of them beautifully to bind for ever and make an eternal relationship with joy and peace hovering around!

Being on a more romantic level than a physical one, the sexual relationship of Gemini man and Libra woman is more peaceful in nature. Though a lot of passion is not involved, but the haunting relationship between the two is enough to keep both of them fulfilled and happy. When engaging in each other on a sexual level, there is always some of aloof romance between the Libra woman and Gemini man. The bond they have is of an emotionally romantic interlude filled with beauty that saturates their intimacy. The art of love making between Gemini man and Libra woman is one that is taken carefully, indulging in the exquisite nature of each other, refining the art of it all and keeping it delicate and beautiful. There is no room for erotic appetites or vulgar moves in their sexual intimacy. This may be, if any, where the voluptuous Libra woman could get a bit offended. Although Gemini man feels the same as Libra woman in the state of sexual bonds, his desire for a bit more variety may cause problems in the relationship.

Libra woman is more intrigued in attracting her Gemini man in the beginning of their relationship and twisting him into a temperament that makes him angry and argumentative later on. She takes pleasure in taking his witty conversation and turning them around to use them against him. In their financial equation, Gemini man and Libra woman tend to have similarities as well as differences in how they feel about their money. Although it isn’t the main importance in either of their lives, Gemini man goes spending it as fast as he can make it. His thought is that money is only important when you don’t have any. For Libra woman, money is important to keep up on her lavish lifestyle she likes to partake in. But that is pretty much the extent of it. This relationship is not one to be taken lightly and should be thought through thoroughly but with the mindset of Libra woman and Gemini man, this is more than likely not happen.

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Starr66 (@Starr66) : December 19th, 2010

You are absolutely, positively right!

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gemmi (@gemmi) : February 26th, 2011

hi,i m gemini and this is totaly a pure,true,satisfied story

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gemini (@gemini) : March 9th, 2011

really? i’ll try a libra and see if its true.

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libra woman with an ex gemini man (@libra woman with an ex gemini man) : March 24th, 2011

Your English is so deep. I cannot really understand it all. I have been with a Gemini Man for 6 years. He really has two personalities and I get confused if when is the right time to come into him at any situation. Sometimes he makes me feel very much loved. Sometimes he despices me, sometimes he annoys me, sometimes he chases me. It’s like he has so many personalities and my two hands of weighing scale cannot take this anymore. I understand him all the way and yet he is the one who had given up.

gemini:really? i’ll try a libra and see if its true.
My answer for you: please, if you saw that Libra woman make it a serious relationship because i know, Geminis are like a magnet to Libra women. But please take care of her and goodluck to your relationship

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Libra woman with gemini man potential (@Libra woman with gemini man potential) : March 28th, 2011

I’ve never dated a gemini man, but kept hearing how “compatible” we’d be. I just got set up with one on a date and one thing I’ve noticed is that he’s moving way to fast for me. He asks way too many questions and wants to know too much too soon. I like the slow chase, the intellect, the bits of conversation that leave you “wondering” and seeing where it goes eventually. The dream is usually better than the reality… He’ll find he can’t move this Libra too quickly…

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Katelyn Helm (@Happy-Libra-Woman) : May 9th, 2011
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This is my first time dating a gemini man and it’s really working out! We have been dating for eight months and I’m really enjoying it! I’ve dated a lot of guys before, but they all bore me in less than a month in the time we dated! But it’s true about the us never getting bored with each other! We haven’t gotten into any fights and I’m kind of used to it when he gets into his moods, because I’m like that too sometimes. I really enjoy his need to change and I was attrached to him, by his intelligence and his communication skills. The only problems we’ve had is communcating with each other. Like sometimes we don’t know what to say to each other, but we’re working on it. I don’t think you really have to worry about him settling down, because my gemini man was already talking about us getting marry! Anyways, I wish all my fellow Libra’s good luck with their relationships.

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : May 10th, 2011
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@Katelyn Helm Communication shouldn’t be a problem. In fact you don’t have to work on it and there are other smarter ways.

Did you know Love is 1000 times powerful in Silence? That you are just happy in presence of a lover.

Try out eye gazing – http://www.oflove.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=7

Caution: Eye gazing can be a very powerful experience and one has to let go of all doubts/fears while practicing it.

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Libra (@Libralee) : May 10th, 2011
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I fell in love with a Gemini man and he hurt me deeply. His moods changed so often. Our relationship was one like no other for me. When we met he was head over heels for me and I played it cool not to move so quickly. We had great communication and laughed so much with each other. He treated me like an absolute queen. I broke up with him unannounced and about 2 years later we got back together. He told me I hurt him and he said he was going to hurt me too if not more (he said this jokingly) and you know he there was so much truth in his joke. He really broke my heart once he found out I was deeply in love with him the second time around he just began to treat me harshly. We broke up and lost contact and found each other once again. I forgave his actions and he were back at our love relationship again and ONCE AGAIN he hurt me so much. He constantly says he loves me then he changes his mind and says there will never be an “US” he says he does not exist to me and I believe him. Yet, I love this man. I have told myself walk away and I do but we always end up reaching out to each other and telling each other how much we miss each other. I can’t take it anymore so this time it is really over. I have never dated anyone like this. When we are around each other we can’t get enough of each other but when we are apart it’s like he hates me. I will never date another Gemini in my life. I hope to get over him soon and sometimes wonder if he will ever love me again or even miss me but the Libra in me can’t hold hatred. I wish him well and he is long gone and has my heart with him. I wish I could make him miss me but he doesn’t seem to miss me either. Oh well….Healing is a process and this pain shall pass.

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Libra (@Libralee) : May 10th, 2011
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God just writing that hurt…I really love him how can I make it work between us. He never really got over me leaving him so abruptly and un announced.

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : May 11th, 2011
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He treated me like an absolute queen. I broke up with him unannounced and about 2 years later we got back together. He told me I hurt him

You both were at mistake here. You see you broke his heart and he could not handle it well. He could have behaved normally and forgive you but he couldn’t. Deep inside he doesn’t trusts you. Probably your own present state of mind is no different.

I can offer a few suggestions for both you and him:
a) Take a pillow and hit the pillow like it’s the person/thing you are angry at. Hit it harder and harder. Yell and cuss at it as well if that helps to release that tension. Keep doing till you start feeling better. Ask him to do the same. We’re trying to release anger/hate here so that unwanted emotions are taken care of.

b) Take up a daily body exercise routine, again this will make you feel better and healthy. You can try 12 rounds of Surya Namaskars – http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Sun+Salutation&aq=f

c) Can you control your own breath? Can you control time? Think about it for a while and you’ll realize that most things are beyond human control. This should help you be more forgiving and care free.

d) Love only cultivates in presence of truth, honesty, forgiveness, diligence, laughter etc. See this – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LfUvi1bof8&feature=related

All the best :)

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Libra (@Libralee) : May 12th, 2011
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@ oracle, thanks for the encouragement. I know that only time will heal how I feel about him. I have decided to just walk away and never go back to him anymore. I can’t play back and forth all the time when I am the only one who seems to be affected by this emotionally. I wish him well.

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kc (@DMC-queen) : May 19th, 2011
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I am a libra woman with a gemini man..so far so good we have been together for four months on the first and we both feel head over hills for eachother I do see the personality changes in him a lot but that makes him diffrent to me an I love it!! he makes me feel loved an special I hope to have one of thoes happily ever afters that’s my dream!! I hope that’s what god has planed for us!! ;-)

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kaci (@kaci) : May 27th, 2011
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Oracle??? Is it true that most geminis are unfaithfull???

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : May 28th, 2011
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@kaci We only find what we look for. If we choose to look for flaws, errors, problems we see them in plenty. Just look, this website has so many problems ;)

To me, nobody is unfaithful. Its all about basic values like keeping promises, being truthful, honesty, integrity, diligence etc.

Instead of answering your question, I would say just look for “good things” in you and others. Nothing else matters :)

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kaci (@kaci) : May 28th, 2011
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That’s a good way to look at it..an I’m going to try looking at the good and see how it goes…every article I’ve read about geminis it always says geminis can be liars and cheats and I just hope not to find that in my gemini..the way I met him is at my job but he also had a girlfriend and left her soon after our friendship got stronger so that lead me to think the same would happen to me if he thought he has found betta in a woman..I also feel he has been faithfull to me and I really hate to question it..so another question if I found out that he has been unfaithfull would it be right to drop the relationship and move on or call it a mistake an move on with our relationship???

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : May 29th, 2011
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@kaci I will say, love, happiness, peace, laughter can only exist in absence of fear, anger, criticism, control, manipulation and other such things.

Qualities like forgiveness, truthfulness, honesty, service, appreciation, respect fill our lives with Love and Happiness. These all are actually synonyms of Love.

It doesn’t matter what the other person is doing, but for our own good and well-being we need to cultivate qualities that bring more and more Love to our lives. It can be difficult at times, but just remembrance of Love will be very helpful.

Now to answer your question -
He must have done good things too for you, and in light of this truth you can choose to ignore a few mistakes. Of course, just like good moments and happiness brought you closer to him — mistakes too will leave their impact. That’s how it is.

Whatever he does or doesn’t in his life is not your problem. He’ll always do right things at right time if he really Loves you and enjoys your company.

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Shawna Burke (@shawna87rv) : September 18th, 2011
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@Libralee Your story sounds exactly what i am going through this my gemini man. We met in 2007 and got to gether. he said we were forever. he dumped me a year later. we were separated about a year and found eachothers love again. he promised me it was going to be forever this time. We were to gether about 5 months moved to the town I grew up in with my family and he changed his mind again.. Left my stuff on the front porch and moved back to were we came from.. Now I am here going to college. Not to much time passed, he left me new years 2010 and he called and wanted me back in march 2011. and i havent gone back to him but damn I want to, even know the outcome wont be different but I have enough hope to fill the grang canyon. He has a successful business now and he promises a life a good and wonderous things for my daughters and I. I kinda wish he would just do something really horrible so I could hate him.

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Jai (@Gem2madd) : September 21st, 2011
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@shawna87rv From my experience with a Libra woman, I’m willing to bet you share an amazing connection. However,I feel Gems and Librans can only go so deep emotionally. Have fun but don’t look for any stability here. Besides, your relationship’s track record speaks for itself.

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jayme (@jaymelou) : October 20th, 2011
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My gemini man is a true definition of “man” and the best thing so far…I have ever known

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white horse (@white34) : November 1st, 2011
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I agree with following statement: Libra woman is more intrigued in attracting her Gemini man in the beginning of their relationship and twisting him into a temperament that makes him angry and argumentative later on. She takes pleasure in taking his witty conversation and turning them around to use them against him.” I did this in the middle of the relationship and now we are no longer together. I sent him breakup texts letters every 2weeks and we always talked it out and worked it out somehow. So, it’s been a week I haven’t contacted him and have realized what an idiot I have been for doing all this nonsense. I told him my ex-contacted me and we where together for 4 yrs and after it being over with him I told my Gemini I promised my self a long time ago that I wouldn’t feel anything for anyone again and with him it has been very difficult to do this b/c he showed up out of nowhere and did show me what a man who really cares can be like. He said he doesn’t know what to believe what I’ll do next one day we are together and next we aren’t. He said he has bent over forwards and backwards for me and been more than accommodating.Which is true and I got scared and it’s my fault that I pushed him away. He told I will have to work very hard that this relationship is dis-functional. I told him I will then when I started to explain the ex story he goes I feel like their are wholes here. I said I gave him a summary. He said we all have our problems but we can’t let it destroy our lives we have to learn to live with it. I remember hugging him in the kitchen kissing his check what seemed like forever and telling him i’m truly sorry and from here on out i’ll be honest with him. He sighed and then I let him go and just looked at me and I said what he said: go fix yourself, i’ll be ur friend, and then maybe when it’s fixed we can try again. He told me multiple times he wanted to be my rock but with the break up texts and letters I pushed him away and now I miss everyday. It is as if part of me is gone and how do I get him back? Do I let fate its course or do I call him? I know that if I stopped the nonsense we could have been great together. I got scared b/c he has all the qualities in a man I hopped to find and I didn’t think I ever would he made me feel as if I was walking on clouds everyday. Now, it’s gone due to my own stupidity. How do I fix this?

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Mezzie (@Mezzie) : January 29th, 2012
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I wanted to comment on this statement:  “Jai (@Gem2madd) : September 21st, 2011

@shawna87rv I feel Gems and Librans can only go so deep emotionally. Have fun but don’t look for any stability here. Besides, your relationship’s track record speaks for itself.
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I think this is pure rubbish.. Gemini’s and LIbra can go as deep as any other coupling.  What some overlook is a persons maturity level.  People aren’t cookie cutter produced.  We each come from our collective experiences and a whole array of factors too long to list here.  If you don’t care to take the time to get to know your partner well.. whatever sign you get together with, you’re going to get sucker punched emotionally.  Most of my experiences with Gemini men have been deep, loving and passionate.  No more or less moody than other men.  Libra women are moody too.. sometimes fickle, loving and loyal.. and whoever said she wondered if her Gemini man forgot about her?  No they don’t forget the love given them. 
 

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Libra (@Libra10611) : March 25th, 2012
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Im a libra and me and  my boyfriend been going out for
6months and 19days so far our relationship is GREAT even though some days are hard but we both get through our problems we have. I notice that he has mixed personalitys. Some days my Gemini boyfriend is not in good moods and wants to commit suicide but i talk to him but sometimes he is serious and others he is joking.My Gemini Boyfriend and i talk on the phone alot and do alot of risk for each other because we love each other . He is not my first love . Im not his first love either . Our relationship is the longest i ever had . The longest relationship he has ever had is 6years . My boyfriend and me always talk about our future . Our goal is to get married and etc. I love him but next year he goes to , a other school but he goin to love in the same nieborhood he lives real close . But since he goin to a diffrent school can i trust him ? In our relationship we have been having trust issues but we made a deal not ti lie to eachother 

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aneestipu (@aneestipu@hotmail.com) : March 28th, 2012
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@libra woman with an ex gemini man
May be you could never understand him, perhaps you never wanted to. I think you have created a space in his life which can never be filled. Infact libras are never loyal. You gave up, it was not he.

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MissLibraLove (@MissLibraLove) : April 28th, 2012
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I cannot talk from my own personal experience, however my grandfather was a Gemini and my grandmother was a Libra.
They had nine children together, they were a handsome couple. As the story goes from my aunts and uncles, grandad had wandering eyes and hands and due to that had four children with another woman and my grandmother stayed with him- or the other woman did’nt want to be with him- who knows.
I do know this as a young Libra female, we are a sucker for love- it’s not correct to say that all Geminis are cheaters- that all Libras are dreamers- that it comes down to more than star sign obviously.
However funnily enough majority of the time, I will always be swept off my feet by a Gemini, Libra or Taurus man. And let me tell you- each one was magical- but a recipe for disater.
 
 

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Maria (@Libragrl) : May 7th, 2012
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I had a Gemini boyfriend for 4 years in my teens. It was rough but I always find him at my door step late at night with love. I broke it off, he did not take it seriously. He thought it just other threat. I was dating other Gemini, I just packed up and moved in my new Gemini. I had to give my new Gemini LOTS OF ROOM! All of are friends and family got divorced. They can’t figure out our secret!!!! We got married and have a kid, 12 years going on 13. I want to grow old with him and see what the next life brings us.

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classy queen (@dilselibra) : July 24th, 2012
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i am a libra girl and dating a gemini man. it was a spark and we cudnot think we will be this attached to each other. but i always found he was not willing to commit but perfectly expressed his love. i never could get what was on his mind. although everything was perfect as said but suddenly he broke contact.i got to know he already had a girlfrnd but he wasnot happy with her. she is a scorpio. he was again dating a capricon girl being in relation.he broke up with her as well. and then after a few months he contacted me back. but he never will keep continuous touch with me. seems he likes me to chase him. on the other hand he doesnt want me to move forward and have boyfrnd. he would feel jealous when he gets to know m dating or if by chance we met when i am with any male frnd of ours he would openly embarass the guy. i dun understand what he wants. i want him back in my life. what sud i do? will it work?

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Synnovea (@Synnovea) : November 7th, 2012
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I just stumbled this article and read all the comments. 
I think libran women are intelligent but mostly have a hard time identifying true love.
I am a libra and I am in a relationship with a gemini man for 7 years already. We broke up few months after we started dating because he wanted me to see another guy while I have him.  I asked him if he is breaking up with me but he said NO, just to check if I really like him when I see other guys. I told him that if I was really interested with other guys, I should have done that during his absence and since I don’t want to be a two-timer, it’s either I break up with him and find another one or we’ll forget we talked about it. But he kept on reasoning and my logic tells me that it is irrational and against my principle. So I broke up with him over the phone since he wanted me to have another relationship with another guy while I have him. I think that he wanted me to do that so he wouldn’t feel guilty anymore after cheating on me as we started our relationship. I broke up with him over the phone and he got back to me 6 months after and we are still together now.
Things started to pick up slowly like we just started out. It is not romantic and we are not pda. He introduced me to his clan and I was glad when I found out that I was the first to be introduced to them but he would always find excuses not to meet any member of my family. I think he was not ready yet.
I felt like I was always doing the chasing in our relationship. I felt like I was the male and he is the female. I understood him and his personality that I got used to it and I can’t be swayed no matter how my friends disapproved of him. Our relationship was so private even to our friends and family. We would meet once, twice or thrice a month and he would communicate with me more often but I held on it. I was the one who always make the initiative.
I felt taken for granted and taken advantage ‘coz I felt that he would see me or communicate with me when he needed something from me or my help. I never voiced it out ‘coz I don’t want to hurt his feelings. I also noticed that when we are far from each other, he would always communicate with me and that made me think that our relationship is most better when we are from far from each other especially when I am in a temptation island for a work or in another business trip.His friends told me that he changed after he met me. I am proud of that and what he has become now because I am very patient with him and his mood swings, I understood him and I always boost his esteem and would throw positiveness in him when he is in negative mode even though we both know that it is likely impossible to happen. I am always there for him. I was the male in our relationship and he is the female but I never complained. I am a martyr. I acknowledge that now.
He comforted me when I found out a dark secret of my father 4 years ago and showed positiveness about it that I started to live that  that secret was never found out by me. I was in denial until just recently, my father’s decision to divulge it to the family released my long buried hurted emotions.
My gemini guy was never there when I asked him to come and hug me ‘coz I badly needed one that time. I badly needed a hug to comfort me but he made such lame excuse that I was too tired and wounded to argue. I ended up hugging myself and crying myself out. 
I thought about the past, my relationship with him, my family and my friends and myself. One conclusion popped out in my mind that time and that was, since my principle includes never asked anyone to love you the way you wanted them to love you or expect anything in return when you give something, I have concluded that I can only depend on myself and God because even those people you love or close to your heart can hurt you the most and the worst. Since I was a kid, I’ve always drawn strength from being alone and I guess that’s one of my qualities.
Lately, I began to waver in everything especially in my relationship. I tried my very best to stand onmy ground and never waver but my heart is telling me a different thing my head is telling me. My heart is telling me to let go of him but my head tells me another thing.I guess my heart is in love with a prince from a “different world” and out of my league and sounds impossible. But I always believe that what your heart and mind aspire, the universe will conspire to make it happen and I trust everything in God. 
So for now, come what may.

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Synnovea (@Synnovea) : November 7th, 2012
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I have this personality that when I asked someone for help and know that that person can help me but would find excuses not to help, I would never ever ask help from that person again even if that person will always ask help from me. It’s better to give than to receive. And oh, my long time ex told me that I am an idealistic person but I don’t think that I’ve lived that idealistic world ‘coz in reality I don’t. But that certain prince is my ideal guy but he belongs to my idealistic world in my dream and not in reality. Who knows what the future will bring. I might have my idealistic world a reality someday…but then who knows…

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goodnight (@althearatu) : November 30th, 2012
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I’ve always been attracted to a gemini man. I’m only nineteen and libra but so far I’ve dated 4 geminis men! We always have an instant charisma that draws us so quickly. I find Gemini man is really attractive, funny and smart. They never bores me.
BUT, the longest relationship with them lasted only 2months! They changed their minds like a flash light. One day they can be really lovey-dovey and treat me as if I’m the most beautiful and special girl he ever met. And the next day, they can say such rude things and make excuses to leave me.They tend to move so fast too which is scaring a libra but intriguing at the same time! 
The WEIRDEST relationship I had was with one whose 24, married and has 2childrens. We met at the prefecture when I was asking for the extention of my study-visa and he’s the guy who looks after my documents. I forgot certain documents so he gave me a favor to come back the next day with an exceptional appointment. He’s so hot and has a charming attitude. The next day, He found some reasonable reasons to contact me by phone and then started to asking me if we could have a personal relationship. He told me too that he was married but separated so I thought that one date wouldn’t hurt anyone. It was a really nice date, He could engage no matter what subjects we’re talking about, and he likes to add some humour in the conversation which was very interesting for me. we were really connecting to each other but things went really fast and I told him we could not have farther relationship then, he left me. 
 
 
I always think that every gemini men has some bad intention to a libra, because he found us so attractive and sexy so sometimes I feel just been taken advantage by them even so, he always find a way to attract us especially with words and he is really good at treating us. but now, I will stay away from them, we just have a CHARISMA and nothing else. LIBRA is way too hopeless romantic which is scare them away because they just CAN NOT COMMIT.

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randy ulibarri (@beardad) : March 7th, 2013
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i am gemni man i am in love with libra woman what you have said about us two are absolutley right we live for the moment with eachother our sex life is absolutly wonderful full of explosion and heat our compatability is nothing to blink at we are as one there are many relationships that dont work but ours works we are best of friends we do need space once in a while and it is respected as for the money situation i do spend as i make it although i do save and have a savings i cant help but to spoil my libra as best as i can i do live to love her she is the right one for me we have children and one on the way and that will be loved as much as the universe has stars………..  flowers are a almost daily thing with us i cant let my libra go without such beauty.

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karina (@nightmarekarina) : March 29th, 2013
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@oracle I like this guy his a gemeni and I was attracted since the first time I laid eyes on him. I am a libra. He is 24 and im 19 I take my relationships very seriously thats why i think im single anyways I like this gemeni guy but I try not to be to forward because im afraid to scare him away or he his going to think im a stalker by talking to him to frequently. I want to get to him like have a actual conversation in person and hang out and go to parties and music festivals but im afraid and yeah i dont know what to do. what if he wont like me or find me attractive what if his standards are very high i dont know help anyone?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : March 29th, 2013
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@nightmarekarina Love is all about courage. There is no such thing as high standards or anything remotely near to that. Its about confidence and feeling good about yourself.

The best way I know is, assume that you too are already great friends and start doing things that gr8 friends would do. Like you could ask for his help/support for your lil projects and let him know that you are always there to support him. Or, straightaway tell him that he’s coming to that party with you (I mean you are not asking his permission, gr8 friends neva do dat)

Also take up things you are passionate about, so you would feel good.

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karina (@nightmarekarina) : March 29th, 2013
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@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae ok so if I just assume lets say oh we are going to a party tonight or for a coffee would he oblige?would he feel weird that im too straight forward? I like him a lot but he doesn’t know that.. his my boyfriend except he doesn’t know that either haha kidding so I sould just tell him like be straigh forward about it?

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karina (@nightmarekarina) : March 29th, 2013
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@oracle ok so if I just assume lets say oh we are going to a party tonight or for a coffee would he oblige?would he feel weird that im too straight forward? I like him a lot but he doesn’t know that.. his my boyfriend except he doesn’t know that either haha kidding so I sould just tell him like be straigh forward about it?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : March 30th, 2013
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@nightmarekarina All I am saying is that most fears are imaginary, self-created. And if its imagination, we can always imagine something good, something positive — love.

Actions speak louder than words. He must see the confidence, the charm in your eyes. Kick out all thoughts like — what if he feels weird, and all other ifs, thats, buts.

Love is an overflowing energy, if you resist it, you lose it. Taking no risk is the greatest risk of all.

See things from his perspective — May be he’s equally confused about the situation and wonders if you like him or not. So you are trying to make it easier for both of you. That’s your love for him.

You don’t have to be too direct, I mean force things upon him but its also not like seeking their permission. So lets say if he’s good at something like sports, or music or tech, you can ask him to guide you through that and get to know him better. Later you could suggest him that there’s good food joint nearby.

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rebecca-jasmine (@rebecca-jasmine) : June 6th, 2013
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I am Libran girl and married to Gemini man. So far so good, we met in internet at 2006 and we brooke up for 7 months but after that he looked for me and said “Sorry, for his mistake” and I fogive him and we married in 2008 untill now. In our married really so much laugh. 
I think (if I am not wrong) Gemini sign and Libra sign are match. Gemini with 2 diferent personality and Libran sign is scales. so we can make everithing is balance.

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Patrice (@Libralover) : June 10th, 2013
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I’m a libra woman and I felt very hard for a gemini man. The moment I saw him, I knew I had to have him. He was very charming, witty and very sociable, something that really sparked my interest. Several times we have lost contact with each other but seem to reunite years later everytime, like there were never space in between us. Although we had a sexual relationship, we also had a bond that only we could understand. I have date different zodiac sign and no other sign, I feel is compatible or equal to a libra like a gemini’s. The only down fall, you never know which twin you are deal with lol!!

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Patrice (@Libralover) : June 10th, 2013
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@rebecca-jasmine I agree. Those two unbalance scales and those two faces

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Catherine Cantu (@LibraLoveLoyalty) : August 3rd, 2013
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I have a rather intersting story to tell. So i am 22 years old and dated my first Gemini when i was in 7th grade… Ive always been mature for my age though and this was the first love of my life! We dated from 7th grade to sophmore year. We had a special bond and love like no other that i felt almost compelled not to give up on us… our love wass cuz short due to our lack of experience and age that we knew our love was real but we had wandering eyes because of our skepticism. He we went on a bit of a love and hurt war for a few months until i realized he found someone to love him better than i could. Till this day we can sit and reminisce and know we were meant to temporarily be a part of eachohers lives and instead of being resentful we look passed our differences and can appreciate what we taught eachother about love. We were ahead of our time with an undying unconditional genuine love for eachother.
Next is my childrens father who is also a gemini.. he pieced back together my heart from my first gemini and blessed ne with 2 children. We had a good run of 7 years together full if excitement, joy, happiness and good times. We had a huge group of friends that seemed interested in our relationship and causes conflict for us with my geminis insecurity issues. We fought and argued a lot towards the end until eventually i learned the more we “tried” to make it work the more i would hate him and resent him when it would fail.. more and more everytime and i hate to carry hate in my heart, thats just not me.
Lastly, but the best is my current boyfriend who weve only been together for a month and a half, felt an immediate love at first sight experience. When we laid eyes on eachother our hearts literally feel pain like it was a deeper soul connection instead of sexual attraction or passing it off like it wasnt that serious. From day one we addressed the issue at hand and agreed to live like bonnie and clyde. Hes my soulmate and i know it. Of the 3 geminis ive spent so much of my emotions on i know this is it! Im 22 and hes 20. Were so genuinely and deeply in love that i finally found peace in my heart to forgive my childrens father and let him go to find the ultimate love that i have found. I feel so good and at peace like my world is so in balance and it makes me strive to encourage others to do the same. I want to save the world now that i have found my true happiness. We dont talk much about marriage or children yet but our living situation is making me want to make that step forward and say i do. I honestly feel as if hes Adam and im the Eve created by his rib. I hope everyone can experience this type of elation! Thank you for reading any posistive comments would be grately appreciated! I wish all you libra geminis out there the best! Dont give up on geminis…. maybe your like me and need to experience a few before you find home with the right one.

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Laura (@Lauragav1) : October 22nd, 2013
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Thanks so much for sharing. I’m a Libra who is about to marry a Gemini man. They really are a piece of work. I went to school with my gemini, we lost touch for some years after high school, but found ourselves in the same circle of friends in 2001. We began to get acquainted in 2003, after a year we backed away for a minute. The passion and the connection was out of this world but at the time he was married but separated(I wasn’t feeling that). Once he got divorced, we picked back up and was closer than ever. I thought we were on the same page, but in 2006 it surfaced that he was involved with another chick and I was over it!!! He tried to get me back and expressed how much he loved me but I was too hurt and I walked away from it. It hurt like hell because I really loved him and couldn’t believe that he did that. Fast forward, he married the chick that he was seeing(but it didn’t last)! We were always so connected. He came to me and repeatedly apologized for what he did. In Dec of 2012, we began rebuilding our relationship and we will be marrying soon. I love my multi personality, moody Gemini, I’ve learned to just give him space when he navigates between twins, I no longer let the shift (b/t the good/bad guy) drive me crazy! #LoveMyCrazyAssGemini

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Jo (@RakRoc) : October 26th, 2013
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My first gemini boyfriend lasted for about a year in high school.  It was a very laid back relationship.  He was very sweet and bought me nice gifts, and didn’t care about the strictness of my parents lol.  All Geminis have that “evil twin” and his was excessively FLIRTY.  A few months into our relationship I found out he was a little too flirty with women at a party and he grabbed a girl’s boobs.  I forgave him.  Then he finally told me he wanted to break up using the it’s not you, it’s me excuse.  I was a virgin back in high school and I knew he just wanted to have fun with other girls in which he did after we went seperate ways.  Still today he may pop up wanting to get back with me, apologizes repeatedly, regrets what he did, but a flat out refuse…everytime!
 
My current Gemini boyfriend is completely opposite from my first.  We have been together a little over a year.  He also is sweet, kind, generous, loves to spend money on me.  But his evil twin is excessively CRAZY.  He has moments of splurtting out the loudest, sometimes rudests comments and it leaves me in disbelief at times (as the article mentions lol).  I’ve learned to ignore him most of the time in which he hates and then he straightens up hehe.  We are two peas in the pod, enjoy each other’s company, give each other enough space, always having fun, and he is extremely intelligent in which I love.  Wish me luck with this one!

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Glenda (@caramelgfl) : April 10th, 2014
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I am Libra and i just met a Gemini man and it was love at first sight. the experiance is beautiful i have never felt like this befor. just getting to know him and him me. i feel like i have met my soul mate. Two years ago i was told that i would have to choose between two men one  pisces and the other Gemini. It came to pass and i made my choice. The only problems is he is always so busy. 

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Aliyaa (@ButterflyWise) : May 17th, 2014
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Hello, I have a question that I would really like an answer to if possible, so yep. I am a Libra girl and a guy I know is Gemini. It has been almost 2 years since we were interacting with each other but I somehow can’t get him out of my mind.
We stopped talking to each other, maybe..due to my ignorance and careless attitude towards him. We met in summer back then and I knew he is quite a flirt according to my friend’s saying and my own observence, so I hadn’t took his attention towards me seriously.
As you already said in the article, I did find myself winning arguments with him and how amazingly he was attracted to me. He suddenly bought me candy and gave me some plastic flowers, haha. When I was mad from him once, he chased me right after he knew and kept waiting on his toes so we can like, have no hard feelings between each other. I liked his humor and respect to my side, which made me feel pretty much different than other girls he talks to. I believe he treated me differently, which made me feel special. Our relationship was more as a funny chase, which didn’t develop at all..x]
So, I won’t make this any longer, I showed him several times before that I don’t really share the same feelings; that I am not really interested (which I actually wasn’t). He didn’t take this as a no, but eventually, he gave up and started to date another.
Strangely, I slowly began feeling a bit of attraction towards him that maybe was hidden or something right after I heard that news. I felt pretty much ignored and, I suddenly missed him. So yep, I do feel that he still maybe, likes me? Or that he is..I don’t know, lol. I just heard that he didn’t like his girlfriend (his ex. gf now) and that I am mostly the only person who lasted with him long enough. I ignored all these sayings since when I was with him earlier (from 4 months maybe), he pretty much treated me like anyone else..if not no one at all. x]
But, I suddenly, which is recently, hear from my mom and brother that he came up to them and said hi and greeted each other. Now, my mom is assuming that he still likes me, my brother says he might does. And I am very confused and in denial lol. Are Gemini guys are complicated that much? If he still likes me, why is he looking in other directions? And are geminies really forgetful, or can they still remember somebody if they felt good with them?
And yep, sorry this was long x]] But I would really like any tips, advices or answers for my confusion. Thx.
 
 

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Jo (@RakRoc) : June 14th, 2014
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@ButterflyWise  Me and my Gemini boyfriend in the beginning were doing that dance.  We sat across from each other at work and chatted all the time, even took lunches together.  I wasn’t interested AT ALL, but he was.  It actually took a co-worker who exchanged our numbers for us lol!  He never contacted me.  But I decided to give it a shot.  I text him asked him to the movies.  After the movies he asked me out to dinner.  We laughed, joked, and were very candid with each other.  I told him I liked him, he said the same.  Two weeks later we were in a relationship (I actually think our relationship started after our first date).  Now we can’t keep away from each other, and even strangers already think we are married!
He actually told me later in our relationship, he was never going to call or text me since he already knew I wasn’t interested.  It doesn’t seem like he is going to chase you anymore.  So GO FOR IT.  Call or text him, ask him to the movies or something.  There’s really no other way, no more games anymore!  Good luck!

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