Taurus Woman and Cancer Man Love Compatibility

The strong Taurus and sophisticated Cancer can always make an interesting duo with a perfect blend of Earth and Water. As both of them share common interests and needs they are quite compatible, with Taurus a little more stubborn and Cancer a bit more moody, this can cause occasional tiffs but usually the association is peaceful.

A Cancer man is a very ambitious and strongly gritty person. He has big dreams and enough courage and cautious nature to fulfill them. As a person, he is deeply nurturing and caring but at times he can be seriously moody and critical. He is generally nice, quiet, and shy, preferring to stay in the warm atmosphere of home than go out. In relationship with a Taurus woman, he enjoys getting pampered by her and return gives her a lot of respect and admiration together with all the tender loving emotions. Family is very important to him, and he doesn’t allow many people to get close to him.

A Taurus woman is one of a kind elegant and peaceful woman who is usually very calm, cool, and collected. She is powerfully practical and does not allow petty emotions to get to her. But the stubbornness of Taurus female is as strong as she herself. On a few rare occasions she is finally pushed past her emotional limits and it is not good to witness her in her extremities of any emotion. She wants a strong man who she can be proud of and Cancer man always suits her choice of a mate as together with these qualities, he is quite compassionate and understanding also.

The Taurus woman becomes committed to her Cancer man to an extreme of loyalty and love, once she is completely sure that he is truly worth her time. This relationship often picks up slowly and gradually develops into deep trust and understanding. She is always humble and patient with his mood swings and support him in his rough days. When the days are brighter the Taurus woman also admires the jolly nature of her Cancer man and enjoys each bit of his sophisticated and well mannered humor. Her pampering nature keeps on reassuring him, which makes him feel comfortable in her company. But she is very possessive and stubborn to an extreme. So to maintain a healthy relationship, he needs to take care of her demands and will and should be himself very expressive in matters of love.

A Cancer man is a very compatible partner for a Taurus woman in almost every way. He gives her the respect and love that she craves for and guides her in her problems whenever needed. He can easily resist the stubborn nature of his Taurus lady and usually keeps her calm enough to just enjoy the tenderness of their relationship and avoid all possible arguments. He displays his love both verbally and physically in so many imaginative ways that it keeps the spirits of his romantic Taurus female on a spark. But for him, the family ties come first and his lady second and this is usually that hurts her deeply as she always wants to be the best thing of her man’s life.

There is a great potential for success with the relationship of Taurus woman and Cancer man. Basking in the sunshine of love these two develop such an intimacy that melts away all the distances and differences to make them one forever. She becomes less introverted, more emotionally giving, and less stubborn. He becomes more secure and hence more ambitious; make more decisions based on logic rather than emotion, and like his lovely Taurus damsel, also be less introverted. Both of them share such a pleasant blend of Water and Earth that their roses always remain red and their daisies always smell sweet. With the warmth of Cancer man and passion of Taurus woman their unison becomes so pure and supreme that they continue to live in it with never ending compassion and romance.

Sexually, Cancer man and Taurus woman is very well-matched and provide each other with a happy and healthy sex life. They both make a perfect example of ideal blend of Earth and Water where one needs the other to complete itself. The Taurus woman’s needs are fairly uncomplicated, with an emphasis on the physical and sensual side of things. Both of them need attention, lots of reassurance and affection and treat each other with care and sensitivity in the bedroom. One fundamental difference between the two’s approach is that Taurus desires a healthy dose of passion while Cancer needs some emotionally charged displays, but these two things naturally develop as their closeness increases and complement each other over the time. As the sensitivity and passion increases in their love-making they experience a complete satisfaction and oneness that does wonders to their relationship. She is easily satisfied and does not have any hidden fantasies or complicated needs, which is very encouraging to him, who can have a whole slew of hidden insecurities. These two provide everything the other needs for long-term sexual satisfaction.

In the relationship of the Taurus woman and Cancer man though most of the things are smooth and flowery but sometimes their little differences create a long term issue or even forever breakdown. She is always admired by him for her patience and strength to deal with situations but her lack of reasoning makes him furious and though she appreciates his determination and great art of loving but when she finds his closer bonding to his home, she becomes gloomy and over-possessive. When the two get into an argument, she can prove to be painfully stubborn while he responds by retreating into his shell for long periods of time, making it even more difficult for the two to resolve the issue. Communication is the best way out for these two to have a healthy and long lasting relationship.

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sweetpetite (@sweetpetite) : April 29th, 2009

The taurus woman and cancer man can have a beautiful relationship once he decides that he is actually ready for a relationship.

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TaurusEmerald (@TaurusEmerald) : July 21st, 2009

I am a Taurus female, and I have dated a few Cancers in my life. I find that I am more compatible with (June-First Decan Cancers) than I am with July Cancers. Maybe its because I am a first decan Taurus!

I will have to admit, there is a great potential for sucess with those two. The Taurus will have to be less introverted, more emotionally giving, and less stubborn. The Cancer will have to be more ambitious, make more decisions based on logic rather than emotion, and like the Taurus, also be less introverted! If this can happen, this will be a mtach made in heaven!

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TaurusEmerald (@TaurusEmerald) : July 21st, 2009

….And by the way….THE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY between these two is off the METERS!

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AfricanQueen (@AfricanQueen) : January 20th, 2010

I am a Taurus woman in a relationship with a Cancer Man. We have been together almost 4 years, and have a pretty satisfing relationship. However, I wanted to touch on the rough patches. When times get tough, (and boy do they) Im usually the one lashing out, and he’s the one running back home to his family for weeks at a time. We never sit down and really talk about what the fight was about, we just have sex, which is OFF THE CHAIN!! After that, things are back to normal until the next argument (which is usually when I’m going through PMS, cause he tends to get on my nerves) Our relationship is satisfing, and we’ve been together for a while..yet I feel I have so much more to learn about him, and much more that he can learn about me…when I’m ready to tell. He buys me gifts, and I gave him a family. Great match!!

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hammany (@hammany) : January 25th, 2010

im a ”cancer” man and I”ve been in love with my gf ”Taurus” for 4 years…
the issue here is sometimes i feel that im too emotional for her..!
i dunno is it cuz she is a Taurus or wut!?
i do love her… however it sucks when u are more emotional than ur gf..!
any suggestions =)

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angel (@angel) : February 6th, 2010

I (a taurus) have been in love with a cancer for 10 years. 10 years we have played a cat and mouse game of catch me if you can. There tends to always be some obstacle in the way the prevents us from actually being together, however the passion never fades. In the end we always come back to one another. The passion, the intensity, the only word to describe it is BREATHTAKING.

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Mel E (@Mel E) : March 9th, 2010

I (Taurus female) am dating a Cancer male and in the beginning things were SO AMAZING! I was single for several months before we met, got out of a long term relationship with a Leo prior, and when I met my Cancer I was soooo grateful. He spoiled me, made me breakfast everyday, and gave me massages all the time. I was hesitant to let him in b/c of my prior relationship baggage and I wasn’t looking to settle down or get hurt for that matter but, he made me feel so secure. I didn’t consider marriage or commitment but deep down I will always be a relationship type girl. He wooed me, almost like he was trying so hard to get me to be his- he knew I had a wall up! Well, I fell for him, and we’ve been together for about 4 months. I feel like now he doesn’t give nearly as much effort, the attention is there only when it’s convenient for him. It is like a cat and mouse game. He is very sensitive and I am VERY stubborn! I want the love and affection he gave in the beginning, I crave it. When he doesn’t give I feel insecure and angry. When he does come around I act stubborn and put a wall up. I hate to feel rejected- it’s a pride thing, it has nothing to do with him. Maybe he’s just not the right Cancer for me??? Thoughts?

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fireceLOVER88 (@fireceLOVER88) : March 25th, 2010

just met my cancer man, and its like…hes the one Ive been missing for so long…hes a june cancer so naturally im attracted to him, he remins me so much of my gemini (the man I was with and in love with before) but somehow he has made me forget all about him…its like hes what Ie been searching for my whole life.. I threw the whole thought of “marriage” away after what my x libra made me feel like awhile ago, and I never knew someone could actually put the thought back into my head. I want to take things slow but when Im with him, I want to let everythign go.. I think he”s the only one whos ever deeply understood me,…I want to have sex with him badly.. but I want it to wait,..I dont think we even need that until later and Ive came with him to this thought, and hes agreed with it, I just want his time…I JUST dont know if I can even keep that whole “thing”,..because Im a taurus female AND I HAVE THE HUGEST appetite when it comes to sex. but only when love and some kind of feelings towards the other person,..and I already feel it with him,..and Im scared of it…does anyne know if me haing a child really deeply bothers hm I cant tell.. and thats important to me obviously..

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Lady Jai (@Lady Jai) : March 25th, 2010

I (taurus woman) just started talking to a cancer man. He seems just what I am looking for. So far he seems like a hopeless romantic and he wears his heart on his sleeve from the past realationship experiences that he has told me about. I believe what the Zodiac says about Cancer men doing things or making decisions based on emotions and Taurus woman being more practical and thinking before they make decisions. I mean why would he open up a joint bank account with a girl who tells him that she can’t get an account, then get’s upset when she overdraws the account. If it were me, and someone said something to me about not being able to open up an account it would have sent red flags. He seems very affectionate and genuine, but it sucks that he went around showering his past girlfriends with gifts and was pampering them like they were queens and each and every single one of them doged him out in the end. So he has trust issues just like me.

The fact that he did not have a mother in his life, I think has made him go around looking for love in all the wrong places. That is how he whined up getting hurt in the end because he was just giving his heart out to anyone. The same thing almost applies to me. I did not have a father growing up, so I was/am always looking for that attention from a man and whind up getting dogged out in the end or getting my feelings hurt.

I have always wanted a manly man that can take charge and protect me and he seems like the type of guy who will do so. He has a little jealous streak, which is fine with me.

I think that we will make a good match or couple. We are still going through that get to know you stage and I just want to take it slow. Plus my mother likes him and that is good because she does not like anybody.

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taurusgal (@taurusgal) : March 28th, 2010

I’m a taurus gal, and I always end up being attracted to cancers. For example, there was a total stranger who played some eye games with me at my university library… acted shy..it was unbelievably cute and very amusing for me to watch. Turns out he’s born on July 8th.
Not everyone captures my fancy…but if they do, they’re probably a cancerian. :D

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TaurusEmerald (@TaurusEmerald) : April 28th, 2010

To Hammany—

Taurus women love your sensitivity. But sometimes emotional meltdowns make us uncomfortable. Be strong when it’s needed in terms of stability, emotional support, and security. Be our rock, and we would love you to death! But trust me , we love the benefits of being with a Cancer man such as great sex, great kissing, and cooked food!

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brown (@brown) : May 17th, 2010

i met my cancer man last yaer,and it felt like he was the one ive been waiting for all this time even though we did not agree on lots of issues we still love each other with passion and soul.i felt like i just met my soulmate and i realised that he was the love of my life.but he left me for the pregnant ex and i keep hoping that he will come back one day as love like this is hard to find,because what we shared was special and he also used to say it he was everything i ever wanted.he was a good cancerian man of my dreams.

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Cancer... (@Cancer...) : June 1st, 2010

i’m a cancer male and my girlfriend is a taurus.. we started dating 2 months ago, we had lots of things in common. her mother always had negative thoughts about my family, so her mother doesn’t approve of me being with her daughter.
because of this, me and her daughter took things a little bit too fast considering our age(we’re both teenagers).

now, i’m having some trust issues concerning her male friends at school considering that she goes to school 45 miles away even though she lives in the same town as me…

she is a type of girl who isn’t certain of what she wants to do with her life, she is afraid and is paranoid about our relationship.. she fears that my trust issues with her might ruin our relationship…

i have trust issues because of my past relationships… they always ended up with the girl breaking my heart, it has really matured me mentally…

i don’t really know what to say, before i met her, i knew for sure that i was not going to give my heart to a girl that easily..
but its as if i unwillingly let her have it…
Now, i know for sure that i love her, but if my thirst emotional needs is not quenched, it might ruin our relationship…

what i need to do is to have more trust in her, i need to be able to not worry about being cheated on..
you taurus girls need to be able to guarantee your cancer man that if he gives you his heart, you wont cheat him, that you wont break his heart, that you wont use him. Prove to him, that you have a future together, show him that if he loves you, he’s on the right path.

Alot of comunication, trust and security is needed if you are going to make this relationship work.

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Jim (@Jim) : July 7th, 2010

Hey! your assessment is so accurate that I feel I must comment. I am that cancer male and just as you wrote: I dont want everyone knowing how I feel :P

please keep in mind we cancer men are infact just as you would assume.

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craven (@craven) : September 23rd, 2010

I am a Taurus girl who thinks she is love with a cancer man …the only problem is every time i think i am getting close to him some how i end up taking a couple of steps bck…..he has been so hard for me to get to no me n to b honest i am thinking of giving up as i carnt take the whole saga of guessing how he feels….cancer man are so secretive and I ask myself y havent i walked away n everytime i do he just finds a way bck….so i dnt no if cancer n taurus actually work n if so i think its after many years.

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ThatDude (@ThatDude) : September 30th, 2010

Im a cancer man and im really feeling my taurus woman…this assesment is so on point it dont make no sense lol. I think my taurus woman caught me at a point in my life where life has molded me into the man that she was waiting on. We compliment each other so well and even though I hate to admit it I can get a lil sensitive at times but she just rolls with it and the love making is chart breaking!!!

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Seriously (@Seriously) : October 6th, 2010

This could not be more bang on! This is me and my fiance down to an art I cried almost every line i read because its like someone was righting out our relationship, we could not be more happy together… we always get comment about how good we are for each other and we work so well not just as best friends but as a team together in this world!! I could not have asked for a more perfect man!!….He is at the end of july, and i am in the middle being born may 11th… I always know how to make him smile, and he always knows what to say to bring me back down to earth!

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TaurusQueen (@TaurusQueen) : October 7th, 2010

Now I am a Taurus female and it is so true what this says…… Right now I am fighting an emotional battle with a cancer man…. He is so hard to read….. When we are not together its a argue…. He is extremely jealous and every guy im with he think its my man. Now I never really asked about his passed relationships to really understand why he is the way he is. When we are together he’s romantic sometimes . He would hold my hands just sit and stare at me and sometimes just hold me if we are laying together….. I know I can kiss a great kiss so it turns him on extremely so he tries to avoid kissing me with tongue outside especially around his friends… If u know what I mean.. ;-) …. The sex is good … He wants to get me pregnant but I just cant seem to understand why?????? But I really like him a lot but don’t feel the security ….. His secret ways make me feel like he is hiding something and snooping around my back!…. And I feel that way because I have heard from people that he doesn’t know I kno see him with other females …… Cancer men are hoes fair to say, because they try to avoid anything which requires them to open up and a Taurus possession will try to force them to which sometimes can cause them to run away!……. When me and my cancer man argue he ignores me he doesn’t even respond to me at the moment until like late in the day when he might think I’m over it and calls me and talk all nice on the phone and act like we didn’t just have a argument…. I feel like giving up on many occasions but IM trying to put effort into something because Taurus are veryyyyyyy prideful and have one heck of an ego!!! I love a challenge and I think that is why I’m still here with him and I am going to conquer …… I love the thought of knowing I have ur mind body and soul and if a guy is not giving it willingly it makes me want it even more….. I don’t like guys who I can easily get and guys who are a sucka

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TaurusQueen (@TaurusQueen) : October 7th, 2010

Now I am a Taurus female and it is so true what this says…… Right now I am fighting an emotional battle with a cancer man…. He is so hard to read….. When we are not together its a argue…. He is extremely jealous and every guy im with he think its my man. Now I never really asked about his passed relationships to really understand why he is the way he is. When we are together he’s romantic sometimes . He would hold my hands just sit and stare at me and sometimes just hold me if we are laying together….. I know I can kiss a great kiss so it turns him on extremely so he tries to avoid kissing me with tongue outside especially around his friends… If u know what I mean.. ;-) …. The sex is good … He wants to get me pregnant but I just cant seem to understand why?????? But I really like him a lot but don’t feel the security ….. His secret ways make me feel like he is hiding something and snooping around my back!…. And I feel that way because I have heard from people that he doesn’t know I kno see him with other females …… Cancer men are hoes fair to say, because they try to avoid anything which requires them to open up and a Taurus possession will try to force them to which sometimes can cause them to run away!……. When me and my cancer man argue he ignores me he doesn’t even respond to me at the moment until like late in the day when he might think I’m over it and calls me and talk all nice on the phone and act like we didn’t just have a argument…. I feel like giving up on many occasions but IM trying to put effort into something because Taurus are veryyyyyyy prideful and have one heck of an ego!!! I love a challenge and I think that is why I’m still here with him and I am going to conquer …… I love the thought of knowing I have ur mind body and soul and if a guy is not giving it willingly it makes me want it even more….. I don’t like guys who I can easily get and guys who are a sucka…… Ok that’s a lot lol

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mahogany (@mahogany) : October 8th, 2010

I’ve been speaking to a cancer male for 7 weeks now i’m taurus female, we met online and have both signed of the site. We seem to share a lot in common. I like this guy – but- the communication between us seems slack to me, on his side anyway. The emails and texts take ages for him to answer, and you’re talking about maybe twice a week or less! He asked to meet up and we set a date and at the last minute he couldn’t make it (family issues or something). I understand that but why the lack of communication between us? I want to get to know him but his unresponsive moves towards me make me doubt his loyalty. Am I asking too much? Or does he like me so much he can’t speak? None the less I’ve sent him a text to let him know I don’t want to be seen as chasing his ass! I’m looking for balance in my life. Put it this way I know he likes me I’m different to the women he’s had before I am what he’s looking for, and him me. But this cat and mouse game has to end soon my pride wont let me take much more disrespect i feel from his side to go on any longer. So if he doesn’t ring me by tonight I’m deleting his number and email address from my thoughts. it’ll be slightly hard on my side but someone has to make a stand soon. If he wants me he’ll have to tell me, but there’s only a few hours left. I’m not angry just disappointed, I need a man!!

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LOLA212 (@LOLA212) : November 3rd, 2010

I am a taurean woman whos 24 born 8TH MAY hes a cancer born 2nd July
I feel like i have met the one
we just clicked
We’re alike in many ways

we understand eachothers humour and both are very much home people and lve our family.

He told me straight away hes never met anyone like me thats so intuned with him, i told him i feel the same.
We want the same out of life
Match made in heaven
I feel like my time has come….they say u knw when u meet the one and u do!

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Alax (@Alax) : December 2nd, 2010

Hello guys :( I am cancer man fall in love with taurs girl in very very first look I meet her on internet strange thing this I have meet many many girls befor her I & I am very flirty guy but after this girl she changes my life & thinking now I hate flirting even if I see any girl I feel I am cheating with my girl we are togather now for 4 years she is taurs & I am cancer & I am extream careing person well thing is fot her I have change my self alot but till now she don’t know did she love me which is sadest part of my life in all 4 years I wait for just 3 words form her ( I love you ) till now she naver say me this but my love for her pure & I can wait as long as my taurs sweetheart wants

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never mind (@never mind) : December 4th, 2010

im a cancer men . im in a relationship with a taurus girl . i like her a lot and the relationship is working :) thanks god i have her ! we oftenly had fight but it emds with SORRY

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Chery (@Chery) : December 11th, 2010

I hate cancer for being flirt we had already relationship but he always flirt with somebody how can i trust cancer man huh!they are not faithful!

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sweetspot (@sweetspot) : December 12th, 2010

@Chery! Please don’t worry about Cancer flirting. If he is serious about you, that flirting will always be a distant second place and won’t threaten your relationship one single bit. If you tell him, “I want to be able to trust you. Can you please make this simple for me?” and give him a deep, meaningful, reassuring kiss, he will respond – IF he is serious about you. Or else, you have not won him over yet.

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Fonny (@Fonny) : December 29th, 2010

I met a Cancer man 4 years ago and fell in love with him on sight. He was married so I put him out of my head. This year we met again and he kissed me. I was startled because I was sure he was married, he told me he was. I told him to stay away, he didnt, he pursued me every day and told me he loved me. He left his wife and moved in with me. Now he has moved back to his old house to spend time with his children. I dont know what to think or what to do. We talk, but when it comes to really telling me whats going on in his mind he clams up, and makes decisions without me.
He was my perfect man, now I am not so sure.

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Marlene (@Marlene) : December 31st, 2010

Okay, my only fear to be with this cancer guy that has been trying to get me to tell him “yes” is that he’s whole attitude towards me would change, as in he’ll be less interested, and not wanting to show how much he wants me anymore, would that happen with someone such as a cancer????

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nokuthula (@nokuthula) : March 7th, 2011

my cancerian broke up wit me ystday witout giving me a reason nd im hurt dont know wat to do cos i dearly love him. Hes not ansaring my cols.

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tatbantank (@tatbantank) : March 19th, 2011

I am a cancer man (july 14th) and i am so so so deeply in love with my taurus woman (may 14th)yes i know we both have birthdays on the 14th hahaha but anyway, my story is very different from the ones above. I first met my taurus woman in school a few weeks before summer break, when we were in school kind of sort of talked but it wasnt much, it was more of a “hey” talk. So fast forwarding to summer break, i commented on one of her statuses on facebook which lead to us taking more on facebook. Well i finally got the courage to ask her for her number and she gave it to me. so now its the week after my birthday and i texted her…. i was sooo amazed at how quick we connected, it was almost like i already knew her. so after a few weeks of talking to her, me being a cancer i fell for her quick, no matter how hard i tried i just couldnt get her off my mind, we would text each other all day from morning to night (sometimes i would call her at night after i got off work). so now we’re talking on the phone more often and this is making fall me fall for her even more, she was telling me about absolutly everything about her life, past relationships and how her previous boyfriends did her wrong and this is were i REALLY fell in love with her, but then one day she dropped the “B-Bomb” on me, she had a boyfriend. When she told me that i felt like giving up because we had so much in common and i really really wanted to be with her. but it was just something about her that i made me stay. Usually when a girl tells me that she has a boyfriend, i stop talking to her, but this taurus woman had my heart and i just had to keep chasing her because in my heart i knew that she was the one for me. fast forwarding to now, we’re talking like we used to in the summer and my love for her is more stronger, but there is this one thing that still bothers me and that’s her good for nothing boyfriend, they are always argueing over the things that he should be doing as her “boyfriend”. he doesnt half as mush of the stuff i do for me her, i always make her smile, laugh, and make her feel good, all her does is make her mad and for some reason she’s still with him. I’ve waited 9 months for her and now im just starting to think that im waisting my time, all the girls i’ve talked to about my situation has told me that im a GREAT AND VERY ATTRACTIVE GUY and if she doesnt realize what she got by now then i should leave her, but i love her sooo much i just cant and we both love each so deeply, the only thing thats holding us back is her stupid boyfriend. if she really loved me she would be with me but i guess that’s not always true. all i want to know is what do you all think about it my situation and can you give me any advice?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : March 20th, 2011
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@tatbantank, its not what you call Love. Its just attraction full of pride and arrogance.

If she can drop her boyfriend for you, one day she will drop you for someone else. Respect her and her choices and stop wasting time.

Focus on other important things in your life.

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tatbantank (@tatbantank) : March 21st, 2011

@Ask Oracle, i’ve tried so hard to leave her alone but i just cant, just like i said before, it’s something about her that just keeps pulling me back. And i dont want to her to leave him for me, i just want her to see that im different then the other guys and the current guy she’s dateing now. The so called boyfriend she’s with now i know doesn’t love her as much as i do cause 1. she’s to me all day everyday 2. he doesnt even call her or text her like a real boyfriend should 3. they are always argueing over something stupid because of him. One more thing i forgot to add, she’s only going with this guy because he looks good to her (stupid right) he has no personality at all, he’s just there to be there. One thing about me, i actually have a personality, i make her laugh, smile, comment her on how beautiful she looks to me, he doesnt do any of that stuff. I am so sure that she is the one for me Oracle, i just came at the wrong time :( , but do you kind of see what im saying though, even you can agree with me that i would be a better boyfriend for her, you might as well say im her boyfriend without the title, but then again, i cant wait much longer on her, i’ve been waiting since july a i refuse to wait another year for her to realize that she has a man that will actually treat her like a girlfriend should be treated.(anymore advice that you can give me?)

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tatbantank (@tatbantank) : March 23rd, 2011

can someone please give me some advice on what i wrote before this one?

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TGirlT (@TGirlT) : March 26th, 2011

tat I had a similar situation, Im a T-Girl and I met this Cancer guy after my boyfriend and I broke up. We were just friends and talked a lot on the phone, but spending time together was like, it wasnt in the cards, like once he came to my house attempting to surprise me. I never even heard him knock. Then we made plans to get together and something very officially imporant came up and ended up taking him longer to do than he expected, that very same day my ex called me out of the blue and wanted to get together. I agreed and the ex and I ended up getting back together. It wasnt that I didnt REALLY like the Cancer guy, it was that I didn’t know that we would ever be more than friends despite what I felt. The ex and I broke up again and this time the Cancer came and staked his claim. We really took the time to get to know one another and spend some time together and it was magical to say the least. I started pushing for a definite commitment and it seemed like he went way back and forth with it, sometimes professing devotion and plans for the future, other times seemingly mocking my feelings for him. I think he did this because of the ex situation. In his heart he never trusted that I would be all his and I guess in his heart he never wanted to be all mine. Interestingly enough, when I asked him one time how he felt about me, he squarely stated that “I’ll always come back to you”, to which I answered “I dont want you to always come back, I want you to never leave”. We’re not together now, we probably never will be together and Im in a relationship. My relationship is functional, I cant say if it will last, but I can say that in my mind, I always go back to him.

Im not saying Im right, but I am admitting and being honest about how I feel. Few things in life are permanent. I wouldnt badger her to be with you or even speak ill of the boyfriend, but if they do break up, respectfully give her time to get over it while letting her know that you do want her heart. Until then, patience and logic.If she isnt showing mutual interest then try to let it go.

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Bellbellz (@Bellbellz) : April 1st, 2011

I am a taurean female and two months ago I met a cancerian male online. Everything in the above mentioned analysis is so true and spot on it is scary!! The physical attraction and passion I feel towards him is unbelievable. Unfortunately he is just too hard to figure out so I’m giving up! He says he is this elusive with everybody, and that may be true, but it feels like he is making me chase him and playing games with me. I feel I am investing so much emotion into him and trying too hard to make him connect with me on an emotional level. Shame because it sounds like we are a great match!

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teeshajackson50 (@teeshajackson50) : April 1st, 2011

I was recently intoduced to this cancer guy whom they say is really sweet. We havent spoken since we were introduced but i always catch him staring at me from the opposite end of our table in our schools cafeteria, and i think he has figured out by now that I liike him. So now he comes over to me and my friends and says hi to the girl who introduced us, however he has been extremley affectionate with her, to the point where shes like whats up with him. I know he puts on a show for me, but why ?? Do immature cancers try to gain attention this way, and does he want me to chase after him because I definately wont be doing that. Does anybody have any advice??

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POO BABII!!!! (@POO BABII!!!!) : April 6th, 2011

I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT A CANCER MAN IS REALLY LIKE A DREAM COME TRUE, THEY ARE SO CURIOUS AND GET TO THE ROOTS OF THINGS THEY WANT TO KNOW. THEY ARE VERY SECURE CREATURES. THE CANCER MAN I AM TALKING TO IS AMAZING I CAN SEE ME DOIN EVERYTHING WITH HIM.. HE MAKES ME SO HAPPY. WE HAVE SHARED ARE BAD TIMES BUT ALWAYS SEEM TO OVER COME THEM…. I AM WORKING ON GET HIM BACK LIKE HE WAS TO ME.. SENSE HE BEEN LOCKED UP FOR 7 AND HALF MONTHS. SO WE ARE DOIN ALOT OF CATCHING UP. OVERALL I WANT TO TAKE IT FARTHER INTO A RELATIONSHIP HE DO TO, BUT HE JUST DONT KNOW THAT WE ARE ON THE SAME PAGE. HE WILL HAVE TO JUST FIGURE IT OUT ON HIS OWN, BUT I WILL CONTINUE THROUGH HINTS OUT THERE!!!!

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Talisha (@MRS.CORBIN) : June 23rd, 2011
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IT IS SOMETHING ABOUT CANCER MEN THAT JUST DRIVR ME CRAZY. ME AN MY BOYFRING HAVE BEEN WITH EACH OTHER FOR OVER 2 YEARS AND IM FALLING HARD FOR HIM. HE MAKE ME FEEL GOOD ABOUT MY SELF WHAT EVER I WAN HE GET IT FOR ME WE FIGHT FOR A MINET OR 2 BUT AFTER WE HAVE GREAT sex I LOVE MY CANCER AND HE LOVE HIS TAURUS…….SOW IN LOVE……..:)

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Peter (@Hightower) : July 9th, 2011
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I’m a Cancer male, I have a friend that is a Taurus female (Didn’t know this until 2 months ago).. I’ve known of her for about 7 years. She worked at a sandwich shop years back, we talked while I was waiting, I was interested in her but being a Crab I hid in my shell and never said a thing to her, plus I figured she had a boyfriend because she was beautiful.

Fast forward to now, we work in the same building and get along great. Some people think that we had something going on just because of the way we are around each other. Several of my co-workers have said that she only talks to me in a different way then she does to them. The times we have been out with groups from work, people thought we were a couple, I always playfully replied “She wishes we were together”.

About a month ago she broke up with her boyfriend of one year. He constantly wanted her with him every day she had off. She wanted him to go out with her and her friends since he was unemployed and had nothing else to do. I believe he always said no, I think it was because he is 6-7 years older then she is. She had told him a couple of times that we would meet to talk or go out with common friends for drinks and he would get PISSED! At just the mention of my name… NOTE: I had only met him once about a couple months into their relationship; he had a “know it all” personality which didn’t go smooth with me. I never said a thing to her because she was happy.

Now that she is single, I’ve started to become more interested in her. She has also been asking me about guys I know at work if they are single. I’ve built up the courage to ask her out, but don’t know if I’ve been put in the “Friend Zone” or when I should do it because of her recent break up. I stuck between cutting board and a shell cracker… I want to see things progress because we get along so well.

Does anyone have any Suggestions?

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : July 10th, 2011
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@hightower (Peter)

Your romantic relationship with this woman has not yet begun and the confusion has already set in. :P

Love is a game of patience. You must give her some time, may be 6 months or more, to get over her past relationships and to look at things and you in a different way.

Meanwhile you can learn more about Love and Relationships. You can also take up a daily body exercise routine, this will not only make you healthy but also raise your confidence levels. All the best :)

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lovestrucktaurus (@lovestrucktaurus) : August 1st, 2011
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I am madly in love with an incredible Cancer. I of course am a Taurus and am defined by all qualities Taurean! We both are married. He is somewhate older and very attractive having appearance qualities that I have never been attracted too in my past. I am married to a very special man that unfortunately cannot stay faithful to me. We have two wonderful kids whom I raise pretty much alone due to my husband’s job nature and travel time. My cancer love interest happens to be my mentor and I was caught by surprise that such passion for him began. Perhaps its a coping mechanism following the development of apathy in my relationship with my husband and his sex/porn addiction/infidelities, I dunno… but I welcome the apathy for it has replaced pain and emotional lability that used to leave me in deep depression. These now 6 month old feelings for my Cancer man used to be a wonderful retreat for me emotionally. I looked forward to such feelings even, however now, I am distanced from my Cancer love due to work and our relationship cannot grow unless someone comes forth with obvious effort. With my Cancer love interest, I feel safe, secure, and we amazingly have so many things in common that makes this connection even more strong which is hard to get over. He is an amazing man, very accomplished, kind, gentle, and adores his family. The attraction is definitely mutual however I’m doubtful he would consider being unloyal to his wife and family. I can’t shake these feelings. We spent lots of time together in a medical work environment requiring some close contact at times and much alone one on one time. None of which makes these feelings leave any faster. I’ve actually prayed for the feelings to simply go away, but they keep lingering and its become an obsession. I know that I love him in the purest of ways… a love that makes me know that I should let this go because I genuinely adore him and do not want to cause him any pain and to be in a relationship with me with simply do that – cause pain to him family, therefore causing pain to him. We have not directly discussed our feelings, however I have invited him on a few occasions to publicly/casually spend time with me but no progress other than some spoken interest on his part. I truly want to discuss our feelings however I believe it could end our friendship which I also want to be longterm. I admire him a great deal. I have never experienced anything like this and it honestly took me by surprise and now I’m stuck with feelings that I can’t shake and honestly want to grow. I want to be with this Cancer man. We would be very happy together and passion would be endless.

Undeniably,
Lovestruck

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VenusGoddess (@VenusGoddess) : August 5th, 2011
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I am i Taurus girl…not exactly a woman yet lol and well im having this trouble forgetting an old cancer crush…this article is spot on about us but… it was like 3 years ago i liked this guy then suddenly i look him up on facebook and i see his picture and now I CANT GET HIM OUTTA MY HEAD!!! i mean i even moved from tht town!!! >:( i tlked to my friend about it and she said tht i might be in love…so i said I CANT BE IN LOVE DAMMIT! IT WAS 3 YEARS AGO!!! i thought i had lost all feelings for him but some how…somethin happened… i no he used to like me but.. im not sure if he feels tha same way and even if he does.. i dnt even live anywhere near him :’( (any adivce on how to deal with this..or any answers about what tha FUCK is goin on!) (oh and i’m only a teenager so maybe its just hormones?.. hopefully )

@ seriously oh and we have tha same day!!! :D …just wanted to say tht :)

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : August 5th, 2011
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@VenusGoddess You are right about Hormones but then why just one particular person??

Its not even Love, because ‘thinkingness’ and ‘fantasy’ is not what we call Love.

A simple way out of this situation is, take up a daily body exercise routine. Focus on your health and fitness. Whenever thoughts/feelings come up for this person, know that they are false perception of reality. You can even Laugh and make fun of it, as the entire situation is actually comical and there nothing so serious about it. All the best :)

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kasie (@cakssienm) : October 16th, 2011
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i have to say,cancer men are BIG BABIES. i did an acting lesson with one, and everything he does is for him to get female attention, his moroccan and MUSLIM, and seems to think this make him special. CANCERSlove to PLAY MIND GAMES. one time i was speaking to him ( I called him-stupid thing to do), and he said Taurus women are controlling , because his MUM is Taurus. I often get the point, that he wants me physically, but is not sure emotionally about me. I know this for a factin one of our acting lessons, he was stanind b ehind me and he had a HARD ON!, i was shocked by this and he quickly dashed to the toilt, I guess to releave himself, and I tried to stay away from him, but he kept sitting nexdt to me. His about 30yrs old now, and I think being the person Iam, im passionate, loving and caring and some what quite at times. I and he knows we could be goodor even great for each other sexually/emotionally. I just believe he would be a waste of good time and my love, because he can not emotionally connect with me , without it being sexual on his part. There are several times, he’ll catche me on my own and start saying , “we have a connection “, like his expectig me to get on my knees and bow down to his every command. I know being tauurs that I deserve ever lasting love , that is true and genuine. I know that he can not give that to me. so Ysen if your reading this connect to yourself emotionally, and maturally and you might experience true life in your life time. lol

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kasie (@cakssienm) : October 16th, 2011
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i seem to have bad experiences with cancer, everything is very much on thier time schedule. one cancer name samual, stood me up by an hour, and only told me he would be late, when i was waiting 30 mins for him. Said somthing about his mother. CANCER BOYS ARE MUMMIES BOYS. THE second one told me vis text to get a vibrator, since i texted him, at 1030pm staing i was bored, and and my so aclled friend who is a miserbale bitch and has a bastard child out of wedlock, told me i deserved that commit. and then oddly that same guy rang me at 11am woundering what i was doing, his a fucking bastard, and I hope he marries a muslim fucking moroccan bitch and she atkes all his money and will to live when she divorces him. He is the most, selfsih, egostical person i have ever meet. he needs a brain transplant and should slep with his mother because he is so connected to her. so ladies if you ever come acroos a msulim MOROCCAN GUYS who is BSM Driving instructor who lives in PADDINGTON , AND HIS NAME IS YSEN, YSEN. RUN IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION!

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kasie (@cakssienm) : October 16th, 2011
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PLSU I KNOW THIS CANCER GIRL CALLED ABENS WHO IS GHANIAN I NVER MEET SOMEONE WHO LOVES TO TALK BEHIND OTHER PEOPLES BACK, AND THEN ACT LIKE SHE LOVES THEM, WHEN SHE MEETS THEM THE NEXT DAY. CANCERS OFTEN like to make yourlife and theirs complicated, because they are emotionally unstable, and have no real concept of reality of love. everything wiht them is MIND GAMES. THEY EXPECT YOU TO GUESS HOW THEY ARE FEELING , instead of stating what they are feeling toward you, like CHERYL COLE who is a CANCER, they are good at MASS EMTIONAL MANIPULATION. NEVER GET INVOLVED WITH THEM. THEY ARE BIG TIME TROUBLE MAKERS.

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Kat (@Feather) : October 23rd, 2011
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Im a taurus girl who met a cancer guy nearly 18mths ago, we hit it off from the word go & had an intense but short dating period, we had both come out of long term relationships 6mths previously that were very similar in hurt/wrong doings by our ex’s. He wasnt ready for a relationship at the time, so it was just “casual”, but it ended shortly after, but we’ve stayed friends since, even though we didnt physically see each other, we kept in regular contact on facebook. 7wks ago we started to see each other socially, the first few wks it was once a week, then it got to once every 3wks, each time ive noticed he’s been quite nervous around me, a side of him i hadnt seen previously when it was casual & has been very considerate while out going for a drive a few times, such as am i hungry, is the a/c too cold, asking how my day is etc, which i thought was really sweet of him. As nothing physical has happend since last year, He got quite flirty in a txt msg saying he’d like to kiss me, so when i saw him next & the kiss didnt happen, i sent him a light hearted cheeky txt after he left about the kiss, he joked back saying that he wanted to but felt a bit shy & that i could always make the first move, so i said that id keep that in mind when i saw him next. That was 3wks ago, i seen him the other day, but i didnt try to kiss him as he seemed distant. Though each time i see him, he wants to know everything about my life, my living arrrangements, what ive been upto that day, notices my nails if ive had them done etc. Im at a loss as to whats happening here? i dont know whether his feelings are getting stronger & thats why he’s slowed things down to think about it or whether he’s not all that interested anymore? If anyone could offer some advice or insight into this id appreciate it, thank you :-)

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venus_babe (@venus_babe) : November 3rd, 2011
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I am a Taurus woman who has a Cancer dude who has been chasing me for more than a year now. Yes, they are emotional. Perhaps, too much for me. I like a solid, reliable, ambitious man. A man’s man. This dude is unreliable (never does what he says he will), always late, is manipulative, way too clingy (to the point that he stalks me by driving by my house at night), dated women and slept with them in an attempt to try and see if I would get jealous (lol, in his wildest dreams). He does have many good sides to him but unfortunately they negatives outweigh the positives. I need to be with a man who I can respect. He has very few attributes that I look for. Though he says I am perfect for him. He calls me whenever he needs business advice, even gets me to look over his books for him. Not a bad dude in that he would not be unfaithful if one dated him, but I simply cannot bring myself to overlook his clingyness and need for constant validation. I almost feel like he needs a ‘mother’. For me to mother him. Which I have no inclination to do, simply because I do not see him as a ‘suitor’. For those happy in Taurus – Cancer combos, good on you. Bless you all xx

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lucas King (@themicroflyer) : November 17th, 2011
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@Feather
Cancerian men find it hard to say how they are feeling, which in the end can either drive women away or mad. He likes you, but rather being straight with you, would rather play games (Its a trait unfortunately) but mellows out with age.
I’m sure if you start not being so co-operative, he will realise and shower you with gifts.

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lucas King (@themicroflyer) : November 17th, 2011
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I met my Taurian fire snake almost 16 months ago. We work for the same company and would always say Hi and exchange pleasantries and nothing untoward.
Over the course of a year and a half working for the same company, my long term relationship fell apart and with ex and I.
I casually asked my taurian friend if she wanted to come out one weekend and smell perfume, but this was an innocent gesture. We went out and had a great time and started doing things together over the course of two months. I was not looking to get into a relationship as my last one lasted for five years and was pretty cut up why it ended. Anyway, I then realised my Taurian friend really liked me and would tell me that she had for a while.
We quickly got involved and the relationship became intense and we fell in love with each other almost immediately.
She is totally affectionate, loving, caring and the most amazing cook. But something happened very early on in the aspect of, that she can be extremely vicious with her words and always wants things her way and when she doesn’t, woe betide me.
I am a sensitive cancerian, probably too sensitive, but thats how I am and wear my heart on my sleeve, whereas she can be quite cold and harsh and carry on as usual.
We have split up so many times and I am always the one trying to make it better. We always get back together after her locking off gets tiring, but our last and current break-up seems to be the one.
I love very much, but have spent the last two weeks trying to work her out and understand why she is so vicious towards me. I don’t have the strength anymore to make the effort, but just wish maybe once she would say sorry and make the effort. Taurian women should I just leave it?

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Kat (@Feather) : November 18th, 2011
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@themicroflyer . . Thank you for your reply on my post about my cancerian guy, i appreciate that :-) we have made progress recently & have spent our first night together with him staying, which was nice to spend that quality time, a little anxious as to whether it will go any further from here now, though i did recieve a txt message within 3hours of him leaving to check if his snoring may have kept me awake, cute :-) so am hoping this is a positive sign :-)
In relation to your taurus girl, being one myself i can only offer some advice as to why she may be reacting that way with you based on why i would do that myself. Maybe she is feeling vulnerable, as strong & tough as a taurus girl can come across, we are very sensitive & soft hearted under it all, though we dont always know how to express any hurt we may be feeling from another, no matter how minor it may be, so we tend to become aloof, distant & sometimes a little snappy. I personally have been guilty of this myself, & dont mean to be. Even if you ask her if there is something you may have done to upset her, being a taurus she will most likely dig her heels in & be stubborn insisting nothing is wrong, but try not to give up, just gently & genuinely push her a little more & be as sincere as possible, that you truely care for her & how she feels & that it hurts you to know that you may have offended her in anyway & that unless you know if you have done this, you arent able to “correct & fix it”. As simple as it sounds, taurus women can be very stubborn & sensitive all at once & in their hearts just truely want to be reassured that your love is genuine & stable, out of fear that they may have their hearts broken too. I hope this helps a little, & i wish you both the best & hope you are able to work things out, it sounds like you have an amazing connection :-)

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