Virgo Man and Libra Woman Compatibility

Virgo and Libra in a relationship, share a love of balance and harmony, which can be a major point of attraction between these two. Virgo is certainly a thinker, but Libra is more given to sharing flights of fancy while Virgo’s ideas are more conservative and practical. However, both are willing to make adjustments in order to keep up the relationship.

A Virgo man is detail-oriented, analytical, and enjoys hard work that requires a lot of attention. He is such an obsessive perfectionist himself that he expects the same high degree of perfection out of those around him, which can be stifling at times. A Virgo man is a focused person and due to it he may often miss all of the other things that are going on around him, such as the emotions of his friends or lover. But basically he is a true lover with sincere feeling and strong love flames to burn throughout life. He has deep involvement in his love life and strong interest in his maiden.

A Libra woman is a very charming and wins most people over with her flattery. She is very talented with her words. She can tell anyone off and at the same time smile in their face. She can also make anyone into believing anything she wants them to believe. She is able to see both sides of a situation giving each and every one the fairness they deserve. Libra female’s social talents are paired with a sharp, logical mind. But at times she can be unpredictable and frivolous, which can land her in complicated situations from time to time.

Libra woman is one of the few who can tolerate the pessimistic views of a Virgo man, while still obtaining her optimistic views. She has the ability to bring the Virgo male around to her ways of thinking. It may take a while for him to see the downsides of this woman because she is hiding them with the flattery of her words. She can talk her self up very well; leaving anyone disappointed knowing that she never meant what she said. Her charm is so alluring that while arguing with her, Virgo man finds himself forgetting what it was that he was arguing about. Little does he know it is the flattery and charm of the Libra woman that practically hypnotizes him into seeing it the way she wants. She just does not wants to hear his judgments about her neither can she stand to unnecessary criticism.

A Virgo man is not at all romantic types but he is definitely a very devoted person who values his family and dear ones. He is very careful to express his judgment. Surprisingly, he finds that his Libra woman understands his judgment of others. She often even shares in the same opinions. She needs to be aware that restricting Virgo man’s freedom can cause him to become disgruntled. This can scare him because this is rarely done by others. They both have periods of irritability and stretches of tranquility and they both are good at escaping such uncomfortable situations. She has mastered the powers of persuasion. Still, he easily upsets her by his constant criticism of her. She needs to be radiant, and his criticism only blocks her radiance. The biggest problem is getting this man to commit to being a husband. He fears matrimony assuming/imagining it almost always ends in failure.

With increasing awareness, understanding and tenderness in the relationship, both the Libra woman and the Virgo man make up a relationship which is true at all levels of their life. They can laugh and cry, they can sink and dry and they can always make things go great for each other. The lovely Libra lady beautifully and tenderly convinces her Virgo man to choose to live a life that is happier and worry free and he gifts her with a life that has so much of devotion to be experienced with sprinkle of perfection in almost all matters of life. With careful thoughts and concerning deeds they make their togetherness a cherishing experience that lasts for years and make them a happier couple.

The airy Libra woman and earthy Virgo man has a beautiful sexual relationship with no rush towards intimacy at first meet. They find themselves being very relaxed with one another. There is a subtle peacefulness to the lovemaking of a Virgo man and Libra woman. They may lack passion but are quite happy with one another in the bed with gentle comfort and tender fulfillment. They both enjoy the excitement that a subtle quietness of the bedroom can bring. There are different levels in their physical demonstration of love and they enjoy each level with its own special dimension of joy and love. A union between the Virgo man and Libra woman can be quite calming. He is often a victim of the worries of the world. She with her slick words and charm is able to pull him away from his worries and showers him with love while he makes her feel secure and cared in his arms. Their physical consummation intensifies with time and brings them closer altogether with much more to share and have a happier relationship ahead.

Though there are many ups and downs in the relationship of Virgo man and Libra woman; but most of them surface when, he starts being unreasonable to her. She wants to hold her Virgo man but that scares him and he turns cold towards her affection. Moreover, his criticism is one thing that she cannot tolerate for a long time. Her persuasion and his criticism together increase the bitterness of their relationship and makes it worse to carry on with each other. Though they know how to escape such situations but there is no permanent solution to their problems. To make the relationship smoother, he needs to hold his tongue and thoughts while responding to his Libra woman and she needs to give him more space so that he can fulfill his desire of being a loner and then come back to her when he is satisfied with his freedom.

  1. Jay April 26th, 2017

    I am a Virgo man and I am so in love with a Libra woman. Would do anything for her and find her the most beautiful, sexiest woman oon earth. Will she ever break up w/her BF and love me like I love her???

    • Ally May 6th, 2017

      No she won’t. You are her number one, if she is with you but she treasures and needs her friendships. Her friendships are separate from her relationship with you. Alone time with her BF is like Vampires refilling at night.

      Don’t mess with that. It’s not about you.

    • Ay May 14th, 2017

      Tell her Jay


  2. danielle April 18th, 2017

    Met my Virgo at 20, was intimate after a year, I love him to dead, but I am missing passion… non romantic & I don’t see us getting married anymore… by the way I’m 30 now (〒︿〒)

    • Jay April 26th, 2017

      Really…I’m a virgo man and love sensuality, passion, love, SEX and doing anything for a woman if I fall in love. You sure he’s a virgo??

    • Ally May 6th, 2017

      I had the nice romantic warm guy and then he went all critical on me. In fact, if I mentioned I liked toffee sweets, be sure next time I visit, there is toffee everything, very sweet, as soon as we were married, flip, toffees are bad for you and unhealthy….
      Ok boss, no more toffee.

      We librans go quiet and check out slowly and it is downhill from there.

      If you stay (ask for quarterly counselling) with the view of talking about the virgo/libran dynamic. Then emotionally selfish virgo will have an aha moment.
      So when he insults you, you go, love please….. it could be fun growing and maturing together.

      My Virgo is perfect so he does not need counselling… LOL
      After we divorced, I did not hear from him. Not even to see if his child is alive or dead. Or need financial aid.
      And he is a very nice guy, but when they are asses boy are they asses.

      From my experience, my ex virgo husband does not see how wrong he is…. They are dreamers…. Say what you want, iron out a path. Get him to commit to sort out the shit before you get married.

      He will give you his all, if he is into you, if he is not, he can’t. Is he really into you, or have you disappointing him and now he feels stuck but carrying on with your plans to marry.

  3. Chatara danielle Stansberry April 18th, 2017

    Met my Virgo at 20, was intimate after a year, I love him to dead, but I am missing passion… non romantic & I don’t see us getting married anymore… by the way I’m 30 now (〒︿〒)

  4. Molly April 8th, 2017

    As a Libra woman I have been with my Virgo man for seven years. Worst time of my life! I have never been criticised and put down as much as I have with him. He makes me feel like an idiot! If I had my time again, I would have steered well clear!

  5. Morablacc April 1st, 2017

    I just started and it seems to be working it’s everything that I want and need. Hopefully it works out .I think I love him.

    • Ally May 6th, 2017

      Do let him have the information you have just read.
      If he thinks it;s rubbish then …alarm bells.
      My husband was a great boyfriend, I was too busy with my career and business to take note of the little signs I did not know about then.

      Our relationship was classic as written in the article. He parted saying he hates me. Once he worshiped me.
      Just don’t be naive.

  6. Bernice February 27th, 2017

    I just date a Virgo man a month ago. He is so excellent in writing with love romantic, he is so deep in love with me and wow, he is sensitive and so sweet that I’ve ever known. I had my relationship with an Aquarius man for 27 yrs, he passed away 2 years ago. My Virgo man got divorced with his past. And we are over 50’s of ages. I love the way he said to me on our first night that makes me go weak in my knees. He said, “Bernice…. I’ve asked God to bring someone into my life who will want me for whom I am and be good to me. And I know that there is someone out there for me because God never does anything without a reason, even if we can’t figure it out, I believe that the lord has someone in mind for me to share the rest of my life with because the lord doesn’t want us to be alone or lonely.” I cherish this one and copy this on my notebook that I will show him someday when we get married. I look forward in this last long relationship with my Virgo man. He is an amazing, so funny and so caring. He is the one for me.

    • Jay April 26th, 2017

      AWESOME…Virgo man who loves love, being romantic.

  7. Neil Shearer February 25th, 2017

    I have never had a relationship with a Libra woman so I will have to try it

    • Izzati March 15th, 2017

      Im a libra

    • Ally May 6th, 2017

      They are awesome but men misunderstand the. Be sure to get the understanding. The comparison’s are amazingly accurate.

      Although I believe that the problem is the Virgo man, and he has to realize his very nasty ways and be aware….

  8. Erica February 23rd, 2017

    Annoying cry babies virgo men are. Yuck

    • Ally May 6th, 2017


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    LibraEyez May 11th, 2016

    @genborj what??? Libra women don’t have time to play with men’s hearts. We are usually focused on working on fulfilling our life dreams. Which is a nice environment, nice material things, the right man and a family to make us feel leveled. We can’t help if men along the way are charmed by us and think there could be more. We are usually “open” about what we are looking for. We don’t play no games when it comes to our happiness. If we feeling a man we let it be known. If we don’t we will still be nice. Often times our niceness to those we don’t want like that can be taken in another way. Again, it’s not our fault, we are open in communication and can “tell” them  how we feel about them if only they “ask”.

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    LibraEyez May 11th, 2016

    @ArmyVirgo93 you say you fall quick but did you/do you tell her that? When a Libra woman falls for a man we want to want to know if the man is feeling us in the same way.  I  Virgo men don’t like to share their feelings unless they feel the woman is perfect for them. Which can take a long time and usually they are trying to figure that out “between” women. As a Libra women our harmless flirting leads to “other” possible suitors trying to get our attention. We often don’t have time for Virgo men to make up their minds so we stop “waiting”. Seems like once a Virgo man see a Libra woman with someone else, or she let him know she open to it. Virgo men finally realize what they about to lose. Sometimes it’s to late. Virgo men are a good catch and “are” very loyal once or “if” a woman snags one. The problem is its lime they are playing games. Ain’t Nobody Got Time for That, lol!

    • Kinabina January 7th, 2017

      I agree i sm dating a virgo man now and he is driving me crqzy but as soon as i make up my mind to be over it he comes back like a little puppy and we have such a good time..

    • Jay April 26th, 2017

      I’m a virgo man…In love, so in love w/a libra. Would do anything for her, never leave her, be faithful. She is a goddess..i would never, ever leave her. Wish she would break up w/her BF.

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    LibraEyez May 11th, 2016

    @whitefolks54 You just can’t resist those eyes can yah?

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    genborj April 8th, 2016

    @whitefolks54 I think she\’s inlove with another guy bro. Libra women are good at hooking a mans heart. We just collect them and play them. Because we, libra women, are very oftenly fell inlove in a serious way. But once we\’d become serious in relationship, we will give all they want and we won\’t pay attention to other guy unless you guys make us felt unappreciated.

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    genborj April 8th, 2016

    @ArmyVirgo93 I’m a Libra woman. Most of the time, we doesn’t know what we want and doesn’t want. It is quite diffucult for us to make a decisions although in a very small things. When we are mad at our partner, we will say that we hated them such as “go away from me” but we just really want to cuddle. Libra women are pretty cool. But once we declined it, you should stop it. Be sweet at her only a slight. Because we are drama-free typed of person. We just wanted a lot of fun and happy memories with our partner. All you need to do is to let her see and feel that you are proving your love at her.

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    clark-kent August 22nd, 2015

    Bro you kinda just proved her point by freaking out for no reason. 

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    ArmyVirgo93 July 7th, 2015

    Need help Libra women. I’m a Virgo man. And I’m going through a rough patch with the libra woman i love. Now i don’t know about the rest of the Virgo men. I fall quick if she is the right one and had those special things. I need to know how to save my relationship with her.. Please help me. I’m a Virgo man in love. Lol

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    whitefolks54 May 25th, 2015

    I am a Virgo man who was and still is in love witg a libra woman however it didn’t work she lies for no reason and I use to feel like she wanted me to lie to her maybe we would still be together. Not a good match the love is strong and real.

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    lukenmylissa March 16th, 2015

    I have been married to my virgo husband for almost 10 years. ..My biggest complaint!  He telling me how to drive,  yet he doesn’t want to… lol I tell him to shut up or I’m getting out and he can drive…. 9 years and he still runs his mouth every time I drive. …You’d think I learn…lol

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    Quazi February 25th, 2015

    @Libranheart As a Virgo man, I would like to inform you that beating a woman is not a trait of any sign.  It’s just the sign of an asshole.  If true, I think it would be very wise for you to consider your health and safety above what it sounds like is an abusive relationship.
    It’s important to have fun reading these, but not to take them too seriously.  From the above Virgo description, I would never want to date myself (a Virgo) either.  The point is, everyone is different, and everyone has their own excentricities.  I admit that I can be critical and may sometimes flaunt flashes of a superiority complex OCCASIONALLY, but I also do it with a sense of humor, am self deprecating, and can take the sarcasm as well as I dish it out.  I am very patient and love to help people, but get very frustrated with hypocritical leadership. And there is so much more to any person than their similarities in a horoscope.
    I think the most accurate thing in this description is the Virgos need to take thing slow and to get some space on occasion (I personally need time to work on music). There has to be more meaning in a real relationship than a couple margaritas, and I’m not talking a punch to the face.

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    Libranheart January 2nd, 2015

    @Fuckoff19071234 Superiority complex that goes extreme as to hitting me with his bare hands i never snobbed him i actually paid attention to him and boy that was a wrong move i wonder why i’m still with him after 10 years with his harsh critisms and beating…

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    Librakarma November 11th, 2014

    I love my virgo! But Everything mentioned above described me PERFECTLY ! My jaw dropped.. wow

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    browneyedgirl August 19th, 2014

    This Libra thinks very highly of Virgos.  Throughout my life looking back there have been many Virgos in my life– friends, family members ect…. and those particular personalities I have always been drawn to.  My fabulous and amazing husband is a Virgo.  I couldn’t ask for a more perfect pairing.  He keeps me grounded and I somehow make his worries more carefree.  We compliment eachothers personalities very well and we have a great deal of respect for one another.   Virgos ROCK!   So do Libras!  ; )

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    passionladyevabless August 7th, 2014

    I’m a Libra an my boy friend is an Virgo we been friends for over 6 months till now we have decided to be in a relationship and its good we both get’s along even through he always thinks he knows every thing. He is a thinker and very humble. Maybe cause he is over seas and I go an come. Living and seeing is to different thing I hope he don’t change his loving an caring self.

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    Fuckoff19071234 August 1st, 2014

    as a Virgo man let me show you a bit of my superiority complex but first saying how pethetic and butch you sound but criticing all Virgo men into your man hating stereotype that we all treat our women like shit. we tend to only treat women such as yourself that make obscene  and disgruntal comments towards us like shit. Any Virgo man that has had to deal with your snob attitude would be best served if you shut your mouth and walk the fuck away. I recommend you drive yourself back to the man hating dyke convent you came from and rid society of your comments from this point forward. we Virgo men can’t stand hearing you whine about how bad your relationships have been while blaming others for your failures. Take a moment reread your comments and try to determine why the Virgo men in your life have treated you like shit. i would guess it has something to do with the way your present your attitude toward them.  

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    Libranheart January 23rd, 2014

    The next time i marry or date i will avoid a virgo man. I can’t stand their critism not to mention how they treat you like shit they think they’re superior to others and they cheat and lie.

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    ladylibra August 31st, 2011

    Hmmm this isn’t very good. I’ve dated plenty of Virgos, and I’ve noticed something, they go one of two ways– bruised and ego trip or they’re humble and optimistic. Having dealt with both, this unfortunately is the former, read Cosmic Coupling for the latter. It’s much better and healthier. I’ve dealt Virgos who were rude and catty, we typically moved to quickly and never had anything stable, signicant or long lasting. The one Virgo I took my time with, we were best friends, we could read each other minds, we were socially charming together, spontanious, adventurous, complete equals, we agreed on the upbringing of children, he was the sharpest man I ever met and probably the only man I dated that I had the utmost respect for, and he showed me more respect than anyone, even his closest male friends. This can be a surpisingly great combo, if you can take it slow and be patient.

  26. tracy January 23rd, 2011

    This person does not seem to truly get the awesomeness of a Libra. Try zodiac-traits for a more non-biased view of the Libra woman. Oh yeah, Oracle, it is not ‘slickery’ it is diplomacy, wisdom, charisma, charm and the ability to see all points of view simultaneously…like I said ‘AWESOME’. Dedicated to my Libra friends (who I have known for a while now)

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