Cancer Woman and Libra Man Love Compatibility

Key Takeaways

  • Cancer woman and Libra man make a difficult but appealing combination of Air and Water.
  • They share great sexual chemistry and their physical love can be a beautiful experience.
  • The Cancer woman can attract the Libra man with her lovely sense of humor and her devotion.
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When the Libra and Cancer follow up a romantic relationship, they make a appealing but difficult combination of Air and Water. As the Cancer is very supportive and sensitive and Libra is very romantic and logical, they compliment each other well. Both of them love harmony and work hard to achieve it in their relationship.

A Libra man is a very logical man with practical solutions to almost all problems of the world. He is very enthusiastic and optimistic person with a charming smile. He cannot handle confusion and in order to maintain stability he aspires for harmony in all aspects of life. Libra invented romance so in a romantic relationship with a Cancer woman, he always proves to be a worthy mate with all the tricks of romance and love on his sleeves. Though he is very easy going and careless person which makes a Cancer woman worried regarding her Libra male but still with his warmth and charming smiles maintains the relation well.

A Cancer woman can display many characteristics within a short span of time like a glittering mermaid. She is basically very sensitive and emotional with long mood swings that bring waves of emotions in her. She has a strong determination and sense of career/money. She is usually very shy and hesitates to make the first move in a relationship due to her fear of rejection. In a relationship with Libra man, she becomes very caring and understanding companion. She has a lovely sense of humor that keeps her Libra man’s spirits high.

Cancer woman makes a stimulating partner for the Libra male with a different mindset about most things in life. She is a very devoted and compassionate mate for her Libra man who takes care of his every inch and corner. Though she is pessimistic but his optimism can balance out their lives well. She can make him smile in his gloominess and can even take wise decisions for him when he is unstable. But sometimes her indifferent attitude might hurt him immensely as he is very frank and she cannot respond positively to criticism. However, the splendid smile and the praising words of Libra man can cheer her up again making her the same jolly person who loves to make him smile. Libra man is one person who does not suffer from masculine ego problem and admires and respects her for every bit of what she is.

A Libra man becomes one of a kind, charming lover for the Cancer woman. He is deeply romantic and expresses his love with such grace that makes her feel secure and just like a princess. His attraction has purity with such openness that she can feel protected and free at the same time. She passionately adores the loving nature of him and respects him for his logical decisions and guidance. He harmonizes nicely with the fluctuating moods of his Cancer lady, making her feel emotionally secure, which in turn brings out all her sterling qualities of loyalty, patience and devotion. But with time he makes her realize that he does not enjoy being nagged continuously and wants his space. This can make her insecure and suspicious for sometime but with real cord of attachment and devotion given by him, she can be more confident soon.

With the splendid traits the Cancer woman and Libra man share, they can actually walk a long distance with each other. Both of them are beautifully imaginative and tenderly sentimentally to understand each others’ mood swings and hidden differences and work on those to bring an eternal harmony to their relationship. The optimism of him teaches her to be more free and experimental, while the pessimism of her shows him how to be cautious and escape undue troubles. He gives her the freedom with security that helps her to fly high and she gives him care with space that helps him to nurture beautifully. She has a sophisticated sense of humor and he has a charismatic smile, together they can laugh, balance each other out, make each others’ souls dance, and warm the other’s heart with love. They can sing and well verse poetry too as they both appreciate art and are heart-throb romantic.

Cancer woman and Libra man share a great sexual chemistry which might seem like a gift from the heavens, with their hearts feeling completely satisfied and blessed. Respecting each others’ feeling and understanding the depth of oneness, their physical love can be a beautiful experience of gentle pleasure, the kind of intimacy that makes them tremble just anticipating it in each other’s eyes, and brings them a new peace and contentment. He fills the air with romance and she cools their surroundings with her compassion, making their physical intimacy an experience full of passion and delight. But when she continues to be suspicious of the Libra man or he does not express his feelings frequently, they might get uninterested in their physical relationship. The moment they find the root cause of their problem, they find a solution as they both love harmony and so they can continue to have a peaceful relationship. She actually wants so much pleasure to give herself over to hum, but not allowing herself to do it until she trusts him deeply. She tries to keep still, remain quiet and passive, yet allow her sexual tension, her lustful arousal, slowly and continually builds.

Though the pair of Cancer woman and Libra man is not very easy to work on but there are very few broken Cancer-Libra relationships that can’t be mended. Once they are actually together, they cherish their relationship in one way or the other for rest of their lives. She can be a bit more possessive due to her insecurities and some more stingy too as she has a strong concern for money. But he needs to assure her of his loyalty and let her have a say in financial matters. Also she should give him the space he needs and be more positive towards his criticism as his only reason to point out the faults is to bring improvement and not to insult. Each of them should concentrate on the virtues of the other, even though those traits may be markedly different in each.

  1. CHF August 22nd, 2014

    I am a libra man married to a gemini-cancer cusp woman for 10 years now.  We have been together for 12 years.  I think gemini-cancer is very compatible with libra, but not too sure about cancer and libra.  My wife got the best of both gemini and cancer.  She is very charismatic, intelligent, witty, outgoing, loyal and family oriented.  She is an awesome mother.  However, some of the negative traits she got from Cancer can drive me crazy.  She can be bossy, moody, obstinate, and very naggy for days on end sometimes.   If I was the same person I was in my early 20s I am not sure my wife and I would last.  I had all the traits of Libra back then.  I loved to party  all the time and socialize.  I was up for anything and easily impressionable.  No way the cancer part of my wife would have dealt with that.  I think now that I am older, I have more of the traits of a Virgo than Libra so that helps our relationship.  I am a workaholic.  I rarely like to drink or socialize.  I am a homebody and I am completely happy just being at home and around my family.  My wife and I both hate drama and would be perfectly content if we had no friends at all bringing drama into our secure little world that we share with our 2 children..Not everything is perfect; we have arguments but 99% of the time it is just bantering with each other and not anything really serious.  When there is something serious we always find a way to work through it.  I do feel like Cancer and Libra can last through any hardship if they love each other enough and communicate well, bug not perfectly compatible with each other.  They both have to make some pretty big changes to there personalities/ lifestyles and put some good effort into the relationship for it to work well…

  2. drcobol2000 September 3rd, 2013


    Dump this jackass. He’s probably a Scorpio cusp and is willing to spew forth superficial comments like that. And at worse, in public, in front of your friends and family. Do yourself a favor and cut the chain on that anchor before he makes both of you a spectacle.

  3. drcobol2000 September 3rd, 2013


    You shouldn’t be so judgmental about us Libra males. I would imagine, your relationships were with those scales that were, perhaps, not tolerant of others. In my life experience (both personally and professionally), there are those who are against everything that oppose their personal values and those who are willing to try to understand others’ view of the world and, perhaps, the reasons why they feel that way. Not all of us put up a ‘front’ for others, it’s just a precious waste of time. To me, I have nothing to hide and it’s a case of WYSIWYG (what you see is what you get). In the end, everything is about communication. If you feel intimidated about asking why someone feels the way they do, you probably will be unwilling to express your concerns about why that person feels the way they do. The best way to establish good communications between people is to ask (non-judgmental) questions and have a good dialogue between both of you. There’s nothing to lose but time, but everything to gain by enriching your life by simply talking to people.

  4. drcobol2000 September 3rd, 2013


    You only regret the things you don’t try. We Libras don’t always see the forest through the trees so some motivation from ‘over the wall’ might be necessary. Granted, your Libra interest might find this aggressiveness a little off-putting, he will probably find it, albeit secretive, to be somewhat (rockets red glare, maybe?) stimulating to his ego.


  5. Letsdoit August 11th, 2013

    Libra Man here, 
    I have a son, she has a son, our sons are from previous relationships.
    We are in our late 30’s
    I’ve been in a relationship with a cancerian woman for a year and a bit, she is a stunner! As a Libran man though, attraction is very important but it would seem as though she spends more time loving herself than me. She’s a bit vein. And I tell her so, it’s one thing to look after your appearance, it’s another thing to spend one’s time in the mirror. I go for inner Beauty. I myself spend little time in the mirror. I think she likes it. We are not a natural match, our relationship takes a lot of communication.
    She is intelligent, conversation is amazing and interesting, we learn off of eachother. She is calm most of time, unless pushed which is normal. Her work ethic is strong, the way she nurtures her son is respectful, caring loving and disciplined. Sexually we light one another’s fire. She is a positive person and fun to be around.
    I’m a lucky man to be with her and she is a lucky lady to be with me.
    We have both been hurt in the past, we both have barriers, it takes time to heal from past experiences. Both of ‘us’ are not perfect. We are not a perfect match. We work at our relationship, it takes a lot of honesty on both parts, I would agree strongly, that libran men appear to insult our cancerian women but that is not our intention, our intention is to make for a better relationship, I want to have a great relationship not just an average one, I want to say to people and to one another, that “I Love ‘us'”. To get to this takes a lot of communication. Cancerian woman are strong intelligent woman, I hurt my partner unintentionally when trying to explain my anger at things. But we always find a way forward eventually. I communicate more than her, she is a ‘crab’, she hides, she plays it safe, I don’t, I have to push her to bring her out of herself it irritates me sometimes that I do initiate communication about ‘us’. But it’s worth it.
    Somehow ‘we’ work. We have a lot of laughs. We function well together. Most of the time we are a good ‘team’ together. She finds a way forward when I cannot see a way forward sometimes. Its an interesting combination the two of ‘us’
    This is all randomly put together and ‘off the cuff’
    I agree with other people on here who write about some of the cancerian women comments ( that they are pessimists ) I don’t agree with it, I think it may be geared to younger cancerians. Older cancerian women can ‘negative spiral’ but can’t we all? Generally they are very positive strong women. 
    I agree with a lot of the stuff said about our zodiac match though.
    Bla Bla Bla 

  6. Beej July 21st, 2013
    i have 4 questions and some advice ., just my opinion as a cancer woman to a libra male (I don’t know the entire situation but just felt compelled to answer :)..) 

    this cancer female that has proclaimed her love to you .. Is she a friend of both you and your current partner?  If so you should really consider the ramifications of ANY decision you come to decide to do .. As it could backfire and become a messy situation if you aren’t completely honest with all parties involved ..! 
    You stated that you do not share the same proclaimed love expressed by this woman ~> As cancer female myself ., I will tell you how I would want to be clued in on the fact that you do not share the same feelings.. ~ but first im thinking you need to sit down and think ~ is it possible you have sent unintentionally mixed vibes her way.? Resulting in her falling for you..?
    Have you been flirting or have you actually had an affair with this woman.?! Because then you will have an entirely different ball game going on .. We cancer woman tend to get attached when we give ourselves completely to a man .. I’m not talking fatal attraction but its going to be harder to dismiss her .. 
    is your current relationship is one that you plan on sticking with and are in love with this Capricorn? If so than I suggest you be honest with this Caprocorn and come clean with situation at hand ~ suggesting you do not keep secrets , if she hears about this months from now it will only cause much more drama for you ~ and who needs drama ?!? 

    Now on to my suggestion on letting this cancer woman down gently .. First tell her you are flattered and that if your situation were different (not in a relationship) you would possibly be more receptive to her .. Tell her this (but in a better way or way you would sound like yourself) “ there is a  single guy out there that is gonna be one lucky guy .., But hypothetically speaking if that guy were to me and we were together ~> you wouldnt be to happy with me if acted on someone that had feelings for me..” Tell her you have feelings for Capricorn and you could never be that guy that goes astray .. She SHOULD understand that and it will play on her conscious that she is going after an unavailable guy..! 
    Good luck , I hope it all works out for you !! 

  7. Beej July 21st, 2013

    I have to disagree on just a couple of descriptions made .. where it states that the cancer women are pessimists that can also be a bit possessive due to her insecurities and also can be stingy ~> having a strong concern for money.
    I as a cancer woman (39) i can tell you i am the optimist / glass half full 95% of the time..!! can honestly say that i am the complete opposite of stingy.. I would give my last 5$ to a homeless man on the corner , or to a stranger at a checkout line that came up $5 short ..! That is my nature .. Possessive I am NOT … I do not demand undivided  attention nor an unwillingness to share anything I already have..  if I have something you want its yours , material things hold zero presidents in my life ~ money is the root of all evil and as long as I have everything I need i.e. necessities  .., I don’t WANT anything but my family, love, music  and to be able to throw my arms around the libra man that has ahold of my heart and has me enamored and in awe of his beautiful and talented soul..!!
    it is possible these horoscope readings are more directed toward the younger cancer woman , as my daughter is also a cancer and she has shown to be a pessimist , forever doubting herself and those around her .. causing her to feel insecure.. also proven to be stingy and possessive with material things due to a strong concern with money..! But like myself I believe that she will grow out of that mind frame .. 
    in my experience i have noticed that cancer women learn quickly , taking things to heart, and really absorbing the knowledge of which is provided.. When someone talks we listen intently.!  growth comes with having an open mind and ability to think outside ourselves and realizing that this world is much bigger than us .. Taking under consideration that each individual thinks & reacts differently than the next but that doesn’t mean one person is better, smarter or more correct than the other …accepting that its just different ..! 
    being the sensitive sign , those of us who share this sign will agree we have a huge heart and conscious making it impossible to forget if we ourselves have unintentionally hurt someone .. And just the same when someone hurts us ..! In hindsight its important to remember to take under consideration the possibility that when we feel hurt by someone ., they could have also “unintentionally” meant to … 
    the rest of what i read was spot on .. and to this day fascinates me as to how accurate astrological readings are with describing an individual accociated with their sign..! I do believe these should be redone and more defined with the notion of age in mind 😉 

  8. June 5th, 2013

    Need help, plzzz! i’m a Libra man! i already in relationship with a Capricorn woman, till now a Cancer woman came along and told me that she loves me! that’s realy confusing me eventhought i don’t love her! what would i do???

  9. Compassion8 December 9th, 2012

    Ii just saw your message and thought to let you know that there is a fantastic book called ‘The Five Love Languages’ by Gary Chapman.
    It’s a book about the different love languages and how you can communicate better with your wife 🙂
    Hope you find it helpful!

  10. KristinJazz April 1st, 2012

    I recently met a libra male on an online dating site. We have only texted. No phone calls or meetings. But somehow I feel this connection with him that is indescribable. Reading the comments of others has been reassuring to me that I’m not making it up in my head. I am a cancer female who tends to be very controlling and I don’t want to Push him away. We have been getting to know each other for some time now and will hopefully meet soon. I am nervous because my emotional attraction to him is powerful. 

  11. ariane.gq10 November 12th, 2011

    wow, reading everything in here just makes me more interested in reading Cancer-Libra love story. Im a Cancer woman, and ofcourse in a relationship with a Libra man for 11 months already. I only met him in online music downloading site which enables people to meet others add and chat with them so it wasn’t really that serious at first. But then it became so much interesting when he decided to took a vacation in my country and stay for almost 6 months and doesn’t even want to leave but forced to because he must attend his brother’s wedding back to his country. Him as a lover showed so much affection to me. And indeed it was proven that Libras are very romantic and lovable. He is sweet, caring and gives dedication to our relationship. He puts effort to make me feel so secure that he will always love me and only me. But as a Cancer, there is still some doubt if everything is real or just a fantasy. I guess its just naturally a self defense for someone who have been experienced a lot of disappointment in life. But he is like a strength inside me. He teaches me all the things i think i also need to learn. As he is 7 years older than me. Patience and forgiveness, positiveness and right decision making. He gives me happiness. He treats me like a precious gem that he always want to take a very good care. Of all the man I’ve met i knew that he is definitely the one that could make me feel all the love i need. But because of this too much things he is offering me i feel like it wasn’t really real. Though it seems like it is. Truly that no one is perfect. He too committed sin and have bad personalities. But who doesn’t do or have such? No one ofcourse. We had so much fight in these months we’ve been together. Though its funny to remember all the fight we had and after all our love is still growing more stronger. It’s true that when you focus on negative sides it brings out the worst in both of you so i did the opposite. Understanding is really makes it easier for both of us to be on stable situation. Right now we are back to the old track, away from one another. In Communication sweetness, care, love and affection is still felt in our words when we talk to one another. But there is no guarantee that this relationship can step up to the next level for he is far from me and that’s making it more difficult for us. Only time will prove if our relationship will be on the next level and if our love can last life time. I don’t really want to put hope so much for i believe it only gives disappointment. So as long as he stay honest and constantly show his love to me, i can surely give him trust and all the support he need. He treats me as his strength and because of this i believe that me as a woman should also put all my effort to make him feel my love. And so i tries to put my Cancer personality as an emotional person on a positive side in my words which turns out to be like forming a poem in phrases Im sending him. He as a Libra, I believe he appreciate those sweet words that truly comes from my thoughts and feelings. Now I’m only praying that his love will grow more stronger and never end.

  12. syp7 July 22nd, 2011

    After reading so many responses. I have to say this in return, not to bash cancer women. I am a cancer, rising sun-sign Libras. I have met some cancers that are extremely aggressive, with nasty altitudes, and seem immature, and closed off from the world. Our personality are form based on how we were raised, and the decisions we made in life…ect.The astrology are helpful with reveal some things indeed but in reality we all are different but we have the same characteristics within our personality. For one if God is not a part of your life, and you failed to forgive, and to love, understand your own short coming, and understand your mate views, and respect them. No matter who you are with you will nerve be happy. Some cancer women tend to want everything to be perfect because we seek perfection. However, some cancer women must understand people being perfect are overrated, never will it happen. I have Libras friends, male females, and I am dating a Libra. @ My daughter, father is a Libra. Some cancer women tend to want to be perfect, but can’t acknowledge their own short coming. Libras have various personalities, which they can change at any time. This is one their quality in them. It’s not that they are being fake but most of them change to adapt to other people. Just as you are going to work you change your personality to adapt to you co-workers. Libras are changeable but so is Cancers. We both can change like the wind. And we have good quality within our personality. With that said if thing does not work out for me, and my love. I will not feel negative about Libras men, and I will date another. Because the fact still remain everyone is different, some people do change. Another factor people must be mature enough to handle a good realitioshp. For example, if your Libras man needs his space give it to him, call to make sure he is ok. All I am saying is that everyone have weakness, some cancer women needs to work on their, and stop only view things in their eyes, understand other people personality, and respect them. No matter what your sign is you need to always put God first, and Trust, love. My Love is loving kind, sweet. And I love him to death. We have had our up/ not many downs, but I can’t say that I would not want to change one thing about him. I honesty love him for him, for who he is and respect his views, and I listen to him. I am deeply in love with him. I nerve felt the things I feel for him. Another factor if your focus on the negative, not the positive aspect within your relationship. Your actions become just that. Communication also plays a major role in any relationship tell your how you feel. When you really love someone you will show them or tell them. I hope this help 🙂

  13. toy1 July 21st, 2011

    I am a cancer woman(7/11)and im in love with a libra man(10/6)9 years ago when we met I just knew that I would be with this man for the rest of my life. It seems like I instantly fell in love with him, after a couple of weeks. I had to see and talk to him almost daily and he didn’t seem to mind my sudden dependency of him. One thing that does bother me about the libra man is that he is friends with or knows everyone. We can’t take a walk down the street without him having to stop and talk to nearly every person we pass. We have four children together and our journey has not been easy. He has always had difficulty keeping a job and is currently battling drug and alcohol addiction. I have been ready to call it quits numerous times but something always keeps me hanging on. When times are good they are great and maybe I just in my dreamy mind of mine think that everything will turn out great. He is currently in rehab and wants to make a new start with me once he returns home. I think I will give him one last chance. I know that is his truly in love with me he always tells me and just wish he would show it better than he has for me and our children’s sake. I’ll let you knows what becomes of us!!

  14. AutumnNQ July 11th, 2011

    I’ve only known my libra man for about a month & a half. We both knew after talking just 2/3 times that we wanted each other. Its insane cuz we love each other already! He makes me feel SO good. I am a little worried that a lot of what I read says cancer-libra longevity is either rare or difficult. Don’t get me wrong I know its difficult no matter what but this pair sounds particularly rough. All I know is he is amazing at shutting down my tendency toward the “crab” insecurity, bad temper & nagging. He knows exactly what to say & how to handle me. P.S.its my birthday 2day& guess whose voice was very first in my ear this morning. Yup the 1 who knows EXACTLY how to make me feel on top of the world!

  15. Ndlovu June 24th, 2011


    My cancer spouse does not appreciate a different view. She will be actually happy if I agree with her in everything. She is not tolerant to the way I see things. Its either her view or nothing. She tells me there is something wrong with me because my views are most of the time different to hers. On the horoscope, I agree with you. Already, i stated that I dont believe in horoscopes. I dont think the Horoscope is the issue though, maybe there is some issues as you suggest.

    The only reason I survived 14 years is becuase I try to be positive and have faith that maybe things will work out. The problem with marriage is that in order for it to work, it requires the effort of both partners. Now she tells me that there is no hope and she does not even have the faith that this will ever work because there is something wrong with me, she just cant put a finger to what it is that is wrong with me. I am really growing weary of this. I am now believing her, there is no hope. I am losing the faith.

    Its true, its not major issues that we fight over. She pick up a fight over the smallest of them things. Like if I can forget a bucket at the door after mopping the floor, it becomes a big issue. She start accusing me and tell me its because I dont want to help in the house. That after I helped clean without her even asking me to help.

  16. syp8 June 23rd, 2011

    Ndlovu, Like Beauty said not all cancer women are the same. It seems to me she has some other issues becuase I am cancer woman, I appreciate when my man or anyone communicate with me, tell me when something is not right, even give me some Advice. I love advice, and I enjoy listening to other people opinion. No matter what it is.I can honestly respect the decisions, and perspective of different views. This what’s makes everyone different. Our persoanlity are different no matter what is your sign. However, there are certain traits within people personality that is not chanageable. If it’s to the point where you cannot talk to her. The best advice I can give you is let her be, and give her time to think about things. I believe you can get along with whom ever you choosen to. I don’t beleive everything I read I learn my spouse, and what he likes, and does not like, and then I will adapt with no problem. No matter what the sign is.Some people could get caught-up in these horoscopes you forget the positive things that are in your mate. Then from reading your very first post. It seems you are focus on the negative instead of the positive things in the marriage. I think you, and her should see professional help becuase you have made it with her work for 14years, and especially if the love is still there. The issues you state are not major, and could be worked out if you Both are willingly. I don’t know her personlity, but I do know that she is a kind, sweet woman becuase they are traits most cancer women cannot not hide, or change even if we tried. TO me beleiveing in these horoscope is saying “Ok” I not going to love this person because they the prediction say we can’t get along. In my opinion this saying your are living your life through predictions, and not having enough faith saying your problems cold be work out. The reality is no one can live their lives through prediction becuase not every thing, or everyone can be predicted, and lastly if their future problem resolve the problem quickly, after your emotions are stable. I hope this helps.

  17. Ndlovu June 23rd, 2011


    I did tell her how I feel, but she does not understand. It seems impossible to communicate with her.I dont believe in Horoscopes, I just ended up here because I am desperately looking for answers. I never checked compatebility before, only now after 14 years of marriage. I agree with you, its not just about when you were born. There are many factors that contributes to a relationship failure. but I must admit that these stars thing is strikingly accurate about her caracter and the fact that Libra-Cancer are no match.

  18. syp34 June 22nd, 2011

    Ndnlovu You should told her how you feel a long time ago. Never hide your feeling from her, I really don’t think it has anything to do with the fact that she is a cancer woman. Everyone is different, and many people holding on to past issues, and it destroyed thier relatioship. Most cancer woman really are more laid back rather than fusing. She has some other issues.

  19. Honey-Love June 21st, 2011

    I am a cancer woman and I have a libra man as a friend. I am so into this guy but when i’m with him, it just doesnt seem like our vibe is there. I dont feel like I can be myself infront of him for some reason. He seems very aggressive at moments and I get confused with him alot. I feel like I must compliment and worship everything about him or else i feel as if im not enough. this is crazy! When im not with him i miss him so much. i cant get enough of his charm. he is so sexy and his body is perfect. I dont really know how he feel because he dont express his feelings as well as i do. i just need suggestions on how to make the vibe between us get better instead of freezing up when im with him….

  20. Ndlovu June 21st, 2011

    I am a libran man married to a cancerian woman for 14 years now. For me Libra-Cancer is no match, it just does not work. I could have filed for dirvoce long time ago, I am just doing it for the children because they are very close to me.

    She feels that I don’t need her for anything. She wants me to depend on her. I am a very independent person but that does not mean I dont need her. We need each other one way or the other.

    She cant move from the past. I feel we are always stucked in the mud of the past. I prefere to live in the present. She always want to mother me. She always want to tell me what to do and when to do it. She even chooses clothes for me but wont take advices from me regarding clothes. She is forever suspicious of every move I make. I even have to account for being late for 5 minutes all the time.

    I am so frustrated with her, I dont know what she wants. Every discussion turn to arguments. Her way of solving issues is, who is right and who is wrong in everytime there is a problem. i do not have friends and I am not supposed to socialise. The only friends we have are a couple known to her.

    I feel she is illogical and biased. She is also revengeful. She really does get even with you. She does not know what forgiveness is.I look back and cannot understand why I was attracted to her in the first place besides same religion. The problems started in the very first year of our marriage.

    I have not progressed career wise because she is unsupportive . I hate the nagging that goes on all the time. She brought me nothing but sorrows.

  21. kaityl87 June 10th, 2011

    yes that is true i am waiting for him to come home because hes away thanks you that makes sense

  22. Author
    Ask Oracle June 10th, 2011

    @kaityl87 (Kaity Lancaster)

    You seem to be mixing past with present and spoiling both. The passion, excitement, connection are only temporary and will fade away with time. Now decide.

    I would also like to add that you should be willing to discuss this with your current boyfriend and see that if he’s comfortable with it. Its important with respect to Law of Karma.

  23. kaityl87 June 10th, 2011

    I am a cancer female and really into this libra male we were dating a couple of years ago and stayed in touch via text messages or facebook from time to time i decided to stop dating him because he didnt want anything serious, hed not long split up with an ex and we are meeting again soon but now i have a boyfriend and hes just split up with his girlfriend but i still have these feelings of passion and excitement for him like i used to is it something worth holding on to?we get on so well and we connected passionatley we when dated previously.

  24. Casaundra June 8th, 2011

    I like my friend who is a Libra Man but there are just somethings Idk if I could continue with. Like his constantly commenting toward my weight (he says its not criticism but I still dont like it). Or how he doesnt want a relationship and I do… Now there is another guy in the picture (a Scorpio) and I also Like him alot. But Idk who I should choose… They are both GREAT guys and I like them alot… I feel like I am getting pulled from both ends. 🙁

  25. aleob1976 June 5th, 2011

    I’m enjoying my Cancer Woman! she is very beautiful to me.

  26. Moonmaiden81 May 30th, 2011

    I am a cancer woman, who has recently started dating a Libra man about 2 months ago. The first night we met we were drinking with mutual friends watching hockey. I barely know him yet, and somehow we end up in an argument lol. He instantly smoothed over the situation by telling me how much he loved his mother, and that we should start again. No idea how he so intuitively knew how to make things better. We started dating a few weeks later, and I have never in my life been so head over heels with a man. He is so devoted and tender and loving. When we make love it is so perfect truly a blessing from heaven, never felt so complete before in my life. I found it strange when re-researching the Libra/ cancer relationship, that there was not more positive feedback about the combo. Glad to hear the success stories on this site. I am already in love, just too reserved to tell him yet. MAybe I will come back to this site and update in a few months, and see where this leads with my libra man.

  27. Lynette May 27th, 2011

    Where do I start… well, sad to say, my libra man and I broke up in middle of February. We both realized that we can not work out in relationship because we both have different mind set about life. We remain friends and we talk on regular basis till this day. He tells me that he still loves me and he doesn’t want another relationship because of dramatic changes in his life. Ever since his father past away, things have been different between us. He has to take care of his mother, and she’s a hand full to take care of and a lot more responsibilities that he now has to take care of. I’ve been very supported of what’s going on and being in complete understanding of his situation. At times, he runs to his friends to escape of freedom to get away from all the stress that has been a huge of affect on him at his mother house. I have lots of patience and I will always remain by his side through thick and thin, for the good and worse until otherwise.

  28. hellome1974 May 24th, 2011

    I am a cancer woman and my friend is a Libra male. We have known each other for about 6-7 years and just now dating due to the distance. He treats me with the up most respect and definately he shoot for the stars in his life. Mine and his motivation as far as goals and career compliments one another. I do feel he don’t express his self that much verbally but his actions shows he has some interests for me. I really do love him in a friendship type of way and it would be an honor to be his woman and eventually his wife. My insecurities of past relationship is really forcing me to make a point not to fall in love in fear of being hurt again. Everyone says he is an keeper but I was wondering does want to keep me.

  29. sara719 May 11th, 2011

    ps – where is my scorpio dammit?

  30. sara719 May 11th, 2011

    I am a Cancer woman (7/19) and after dating a few Libra men, all I can say is this is a bad match for me. I find Libra men to be very into themselves and emotionless. Infact, one Libra man I dated was so emotionless, I was convinced he was a sociopath (after we broke up of course). I also feel Libra men put on this front for everyone and need everyone to think they’re so great. I feel I cannot be myself around a Libra man because they are very judgmental and critical. They don’t understand emotions and view them as weak and something they don’t want to bother with. They are also ALWAYS looking for something better. What woman wants a man who she feels she will NEVER live up to his standards, and if she doesn’t, she will be cheated on? Not this cancer woman…or any woman for that matter.

  31. Sailormoon May 3rd, 2011

    I’m a cancer lady and recently got married to my libra man. I find this site very interesting, but I think relationships should not be based on the zodiac sign. They say cancer women have mood swings and insecurities but who doesn’t? that’s a common female characteristics. Everyone gets jealous, want attention, needs affection and love. The only thing I can say is that the KEY for this relationship TRUST, LOVE & CARE, like needed in any other relationship.

    My Libra man is not perfect like me, we have some differences but we don’t argue a lot because we both respect each other. He is the best mate I ever had, we are perfectly fit for each other intellectually, emotionally, physically, mentally & sexually. He stimulates my entire body & soul. We make love like it’s too perfect we don’t want to stop. I believe in true love more than zodiacs 🙂

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    Ask Oracle April 25th, 2011

    @thats-right Another name for Love is Patience. Love is also a strength and not a weakness. Love is totally opposite of fear.

    If he likes going out with other women, ENCOURAGE him to do so. Meanwhile you can work on your health and fitness. This will make you more attractive and confident. Daily exercises is a must.

  33. thats-right April 24th, 2011

    Ok…I’m a cancer woman who has recently started a love affair w a libra man. Oh its amazing. Best lover I’ve ever had! He’s always complimenting me, as I am to him. I believe he genuinely likes me. The only thing bothering me is…every damn compatibility reading I’ve read between these two signs has sucked besides this one!! Are libras loyal? Patient? I don’t want to base it off of astrology, but its not easy to forget. Man. He drives me nuts. Sexual chemistry is off the wall. Wat is the best way to not feel jealous? Should I tell him my concerns maybe later? I can tell that he likes women, as do all men. He really has me on cloud 9 but fear and insecurity is eating at me. I don’t want a self-fulfilling prophecy. I would like it to work…

  34. syp7 April 16th, 2011

    Deresa, you did the right thing by asking him. Please don’t feel as you were nagging him. In my opinion he will be back, just try not to worry, and if he does not come back move on. You have to make sure there is a clear understand with Libra, and if he tell you he is not ready for a long-term relatioship chance is he is ready, but he is not sure he can meet all your demands, no need to get stress over him if he can’t meet them just move on.

  35. DERESA April 16th, 2011

    Lynette and Sabrina, I thank you both for your inputs.

    @ Sabrina: I am also a cancer with a libra-rising sign (July 7th), but my sun is in cancer. And to tell you the truth, our personalities is kindof similiar, which he even said himself. The only difference is that I have more patience than he does and I am not all indecisive, I am direct and consistant and I have that “just do it” attitude.

    @ Lynette: I totally understand your thoughts about boosting his ego. I have not communicated with him because just like you said emotions were just everywhere. I didn’t want to end our relationship, But, I felt I didn’t know what else to do, and esp. I felt he was withdrawing himself from me. Soo, I thought maybe I just let him be. The thing is for me, is that I wanted to see if were still heading the right direction (clarification) and he felt I was nagging him about it. Maybe I should’ve just accepted his response about not wanting to be in a relationship because perhaps he needed more time and I saw it as “but we been together 14 months”. Pretty much, things was fine before I hit him with this whole “wanting to know where we”re at” disagreement. I could’ve just let things work itself out. Because he has been consistant in almost everything in our relationship.

    Again, Lynette and Sabrina, thanks so dearly for your advice and input. I’m just going to move on and keep going. I miss him though!!! And we haven’t spoken or communicated with each other since then (been 3 wks). But, maybe sometimes it just not meant for 2 certain individuals to unite. Sorry, I if this is long.

  36. Sabrina April 12th, 2011

    Hi Jerelin, I just read your post about your brea- up with a libra man. Believe me Libras feel the same way when the break-up occurred. The reason why they back-up to understand the feeling they are experience with Cancer women. It takes them some time to get use to I know is becuase my Rising signs is Libra, and I did the same to my boyfriend before when started our relaitioship. The best advice I can give you is to be pateint, and give him some time. Find somehting to do with your time. The best way to overcome insecurities issues is to FACE them such as get use to rejections. This is how I got over my own, now I view things as HOPE for the best but prepared for the Wrost. Hope this help!!! Libras, man enjoy making his own decisons so bring up a ideal one time, and allow him some time to think about it.

  37. Sabrina April 12th, 2011

    This is so accurate!!!OMG No matter what problem Libra, and Cancer have they both can get through it. A Cancer woman have to make sure she push the relaitioship forward with her ideals and give her libra man space. My rising sign is Libra, so I need space as well to think before making any decison. I am too dating a Libra, but the problems are not big enough where they cannot be work out. It just depend on each person personlity. Another factor not all libras like taking on on the phone, or Cancers. When thier are problems in the realitioshiip both just need to communincate to each other. I for one don’t nag my Libra man because I donot like being nag at all.

  38. logan April 8th, 2011

    Hi,I’m A libra Man (Oct 1st) with a Cancer woman (July 12th)I just want to say I really appreciate what we share I have never been so romantic until I met my Cancer woman she is down to earth and I thank God for her!

  39. Lynette April 4th, 2011

    Hi Jerelin,
    When my libra man and I broke-up, in the beginning my emotions were hysterical. My mind told me to move on but my heart told me not to move on. I was confuse. I always say, “In order to have a straight answer is to have your mind and heart agree with each other.” The first 2 days, I couldn’t let him go. I tried to communicate with him and all he did was pushed me away (ignoring my calls/text). My Libra guy was going out with his friends and partying to keep his mind occupied so that he wouldn’t be doing what I was doing (bugging him)& so that he won’t be thinking of me. I was a fool because all I did was made his ego bigger. So the 3rd day “finally” my mind and heart agreed that I should move on and let him go. I kept myself occupied by going to the gym, hiking, roller-skating, play tennis, hanging out with family members, hanging out with friends etc. Just doing “me” time and taking one day at a time.

    During the month we were broken up there would be times that he would text/call me to see how I was doing. I kept it short and told him I was doing great. No matter how strongly I felt for him (in love) & how good it feels to hear his voice again, I always hold back my feelings (my hard shell came out/cautious). He still had to keep in touch with me even when we weren’t together. I guess he was afraid to lose me after all the “spoiled full love&devotion” I showered him with.( Cancer woman quality) I noticed he was different with his approaches and how it made him realize what kind of connection we had together. Basically, him (libra man) constantly using his logic and he was out of balance without me being in the picture and wanted to work things out with me.

    Sometimes a young Libra man (not all) but some is all about themselves to the point of being so selfish. Once they become mature they’re love is unconditionally and will always be your best friend.

    Libra men love companionship. Libra men loves to socialize. Libra men love romantic gestures and settings. Libra men loves nice/beautiful things & people. Libra men love attention. Libra men likes spontaneous activities. Libra men can be gullible. Libra men have comical side to them. Libra men is lazy about certain activities. Libra men can be dependent on their partner.

    Hope I helped you in some sort of way Jerelin. I’m sorry for this long comment. I’m here to help answer any questions with my best advice/opinion.

  40. Jerelin April 1st, 2011

    Hey Lynette, I need some much needed advice from you, since I know that you have been through your breakup with you libra guy. Sadly, for me my libra guy and I have broken up. His indecisiveness really bothered my intuitions. Things was great in the beginning, but in the end and after about a lil more than a year he tells me that he doesnt want to be in a relationship. And, I told him in the beginning that this is what I was seeking and he wanted to do it and ddidn’t want to lose me. Then, in the end it came down to this. I talked to him about clarification in our relationship before this and it seemed like after that conversation, It was more like he was starting to avoid me, didnt call me as much and didn’t even go out as much. I couldn’t take it anymore, soo less than a week ago I decided to let go. I am pretty saddened by it and I felt he hid his feelings about our situation and wasn’t open about it all and waited all of this time. It’s like he went from “hot” to “cold”. How did you deal with your breakup? I’m just trying to get past this. Hope to hear from you!

  41. Ash123 March 30th, 2011

    @Penny Heart,
    I feel the same way! My intuition is stumped when it comes to the Libra. I would like to know why that is too!

  42. Ash123 March 30th, 2011

    I am a cancer and the guy I have been into for almost 6 months now is a Libra. We met through friends and share a lot of the same interests. Instantly we were drawn to eachother and would flirt all the time but nothing came out of it. There was about a 2 month break where we didn’t see eachother but now again I see him all the time. Our humor is so much alike, we say funny things all the time and because we are both witty and wierd, we never get bored talking with eachother. Our communication with eachother is through the roof. We can talk for hours on end and never get bored. We have become really good friends over these past few months but I want more. I always have. Just recently things have gotten even more flirty and I feel like it is finally time to say something because now we have built such a strong foundation of friendship! I just cannot help but worry that he doesn’t feel the same way as me. He is definitely long term material and is not promiscuous at all. Because he has never made a major move I worry that if I say something it will ruin our friendship. I have SUCH a strong intuition though and my intuition is never wrong. My intuition is telling me to just go for it but my insecurities are holding me back. I know if something came out of this it would be a power relationship. I want to make the move but I’m nervous for rejection!

  43. penny heart lane March 29th, 2011

    I am a 22 year old cancerian and I have had previous relationships with male saggitarius, gemini, and most recently virgo, however I find myself unconditionally and whole-heartedly drawn to male libra’s and always have been, yet I find they stunt my intuition when trying to read them. I know I have a deep connection with male Libra’s but I feel out of my zone when instigating a relationship with them, why is this????

  44. Lynette March 26th, 2011

    I would like to share my opinion and/or advice to Neshawn & Sally…
    Neshawn, how long was your Libra man single after the break-up to him being your man? Maybe, he’s still hurt from his last relationship that it’ll probably take some time to heal his heart & mind. Remember Libra men is sensitive not emotional.

    Sally, why are you suspicious on your Libra man? Do you have a guilty conscience about yourself? Maybe that could be one of the reasons? He has to give a reason for you to “act” not “feel” the suspicion on your Libra man… (cancers always goes off with the saying, “I feel” because cancers over-use their emotions). If you say he is your love of your life, then you wouldn’t be feeling indecisive and/or suspicious about your Libra man. Its either give your all or nothing with Libra men.

    Please don’t take no offense and/or defense to what I’m saying. This is just my opinion and/or advice. 🙂

  45. sally March 23rd, 2011

    i’ve been dating a libra man for two years now going on three and i am a cancer he is ready for marriage what should i do i love him very much but i am being suspicious but also he is the love of my life i couldnt ask for anything better than him. What should i do help me!!!!???

  46. Neshawn March 12th, 2011

    cancer woman so in love with a libra man. He is from my past, we met up three yrs ago. He has been hurt in the past, so he has a wall up. I’ve stuck around for almost three yrs. I finally got what a wanted, a relationship 11/15/2010. It’s so hard because he doesn’t express his feelings. He works all the time,so we hardly spend time together. He is opening little by little. I’m so impatient and I’m so tired. I totally trust him. I never had a man in my life that I totally trusted. I can’t do this anymore, he is so difficult to deal with. What is a girl to do?

  47. In love with a libra 23 March 10th, 2011

    @nisha u gonna have to give it a chance get out your comfort zone and give that libra a chance even if it don’t work out u won’t regret meeting him. Goodluck

  48. In love with a libra 23 March 10th, 2011

    Well where do I start lol we are magnets and knew from day one we were soulmates. I’m a cancer woman june 23 he is a libra man oct 8. Within this first year married and going for a baby now no matter what we argue about the libra cancer attraction is amazing.oh our arguments get heated because cancer has to feel in control lmao my mood swings were so difficult for him to deal with at first but ladies I told him how I was from day one he took on the challenge I’m so glad he stuck with it we travel together and we are only 22 and 23 I completely trust him he never had a problem with me asking where he is from day one so that threw me being suspious all the time out the window.o he’s so romantic and I just suck it all up from breakfast in bed to weekend getaways.and he black and hawaiian ssssoooo fine to me our physical attraction is off the charts. All I can say is thank u GOD. I’ve had two past really bad relationships so I’m very thankful.

  49. Austin March 9th, 2011

    I am in love with a cancer girl and she is all i need her name is judy i pray to marry her once i graduate from school. She is the B.O.M.B. bone of my bone.

  50. Vivek March 4th, 2011

    I’m a male Libra(m13/0ct) and ‘ve been in relationsip with cancerian girl. She’s right now far away from me physically. But I’ll cherish her presence in my life everyday. There’s not a single day that goes by without thinking about her.It’s been very hard for me since break up. She called me up recently to ask if i’ve moved on. My answer was “yes!!”. I wish I were true. I wish all the luck to her, and I hope she’s happily married to a gr8 guy.

  51. nisha February 10th, 2011

    well the first libra i fell in love with was when i was 17teen we dated a year i got pregant at 18teen, yhen lost my twins twins by hime sad story, to afriad at the time to show him hiw much i loved him. his mother really didnt like me. lonh stroy short.We didn’t make it, it hurt me to my core. I never love again like that a love struck puppie. I’am now 27 in 2011, but 2 years ago i meet another libra.

    This guys is the same age as the first libra i fell madly inn love with. on a online dating site, i believe its true it hard for cancer to trust libra. me being a cancer july 13,1983 and born in the year of a oig sweet navie, never the less, i never really gave niether libra a chance due to bad break ups. but the two men i have truely love have been libra’s. So he make me nervous, i afriad to let him drive me crazy because in his present i love all sense of control. I’M saying this because i have been with a virgo who is a good match for me a year and a half. and he just moved out my place but were dating but the relationship has changed. I have never lost contact or atleast he has neer lost my number and stayed incintact with me but being loyal to my men i didnt go there with him. but he had lost contact with me checking in every 3 months. he has just pop back in my life in im morr single in my life then i have ever been. i choosing my virgo men to stay in my conner for comort but it is my libra men who lights my fire. So I’m confuse who to choose. my virgo who has show me he is not 100% commited or the libra who is willing to show me everything and im afriad to go there because of comfort. there a unknown factor with him, im not afriad of heart break with him, im afriad of being happy after so many dis appiontments in my life. I’m stuck but lenin more towards the libra but security and comfort is with my virgo but he does not make me happy anymore. I Need real advice some people say give it a chance but im scared and sticking to what i know.

  52. Casey January 29th, 2011

    Hi guys!

    Most of you here are female(cancer) that interested in libra or libra(male) interested in female(cancer) in that sense wooling a cancer(female) wanted to know more thanks alot!

  53. Lynette January 23rd, 2011

    Hey people! Wow, there is 55 comments on this site. So it seems to me Cancer woman and Libra man is an magnetic power couple hahaha…. Well I’m to update my love life… My libra man and I (cancer woman) are back together again since November of 2010. So basically a month breakup. Were both happy in love and we both know were meant for each other. We both don’t plan out for our future, were just going with the flow and not rush into things such as marriage and having children. We’ve been together for 2 years and 4 months. He does the littlest things for me and shows me so much love in so many different ways. He does have the most charming smile with an awesome sense of humor =) Overall, I’m extremely happy, grateful and in love with my Libra man.

    Cancer Woman =)

  54. […] interesting read, but don't take everything at face value […]

  55. Casey January 12th, 2011

    @Iyo gratz all the best!!

    till now am still await for cancer..woman
    guess ready to give up really have no idea..

  56. Iyo January 12th, 2011

    Moon Baby, I’m a cancer woman married to Libra man too, the husband is the greatest husband on earth let me tell you lol.
    and I agree with whatever you said to the T! ^^

  57. Danisha January 5th, 2011

    @confused cancer: Don’t worry! What happened was bad but not limited to cancer-libra relationships. After reading your post – I gather that this man, a jerk, was quite disrespectful towards you. He does not deserve attention from you. On a Cancer to Cancer note: don’t trust people blindly! We are an emotional sign – and at times this blinds our sense of judgment! Good luck for your future!

  58. Danisha January 5th, 2011

    @blessed I am a cancer woman. Let me assure you that cancer women do not waste their time with men who they do not like, or love. This is simply because these women can take offense very easily. If she is with you – this is only and precisely because she loves you. Believe me, Cancerians are so straightforward and emotional that they avoid even talking to those individuals who they do not like. If she is giving importance to you – this means that she wants to take this relationship to the next level. Simultaneously, bear in mind that Cancer is a feminine sign. Feminine ego revolves around modesty! Therefore, do not expect her to make the first-first move! Be masculine and expressive. Approach her with sophistication and in a committed manner. She will certainly clear all doubts in your mind. If she loves you – she’ll melt right there in your arms. If she does not – she will quietly walk away without giving any false impression to you; sad but good enough! Once you have established the new level of your relationship – you’d find her bold and beautiful in making all the right moves! Good Luck – and don’t be afraid to express your love for her in a point blank – but decent manner.

  59. Confused Cancer January 3rd, 2011

    I’m a cancer July 18 and I met a Libra some weeks ago and he was just awesome and I was falling for him really fast we live in different cities so we don’t get to see each other much. We had made plans for me to come and stay with him for a night and I got there and we were so excited and so into each other then we had sex and it was great but afterwards he tottaly changed he was pretty distance and I went to grab his hand he said he wasn’t in the mood to hold hands and he pretty much asked me to leave so I did :'( as soon as I left he began to text me and didn’t want to be mad at me and told me he was in a bad relationship befor and he still feels like she is in his house and what he did was wrong I had already closed up on him but took sometime to think about it and decided to talk to him and basically he said he isn’t ready for a relationship or anything wit anybody and he didn’t want to hurt me but I told him he already did and he could have told me that before I slept with him. I’m so hurt right now I don’t even know whether to believe him or not but we arnt talking any more and this makes me sad 🙁 and I don’t know what to do

  60. Its me December 15th, 2010

    @moon baby – whats ur and ur husband’s birthdates??
    Im also with an amazing Libra man. He is the love of my life. I will love him NO matter what, and I will give him anything he wants . Coz he has done so many sweet things for me. i LOVE him to death. He is truly the most caring person i have ever met. We always have So much fun together. I can tell him ANYTHING and everything. I feel I can only be myself when Im with him. I would NEVER wanna leave this guy. He is so wonderful 😀

  61. Casey December 4th, 2010


    thanks for the infor keep up to date!! really thanks alot!

  62. in*love*with*love December 4th, 2010

    hi im a cancer lady and i just met a libra man like a week ago. its so funny to me that the chemisty we share is so strong. the way we met is over the internet but come to find out we know alot of the same important people…his friends are my friends…but him and i never crossed paths until now. i dont have much to say about our relationship right now accept that it just began and it jus feels so good. im going to keep u posted for sure. but one more thing this man seems like my answered prayer from God. he is everything that i asked for. God loved me so much he sent him to me just so i can experiance what true love really is. im a confident to say that this libra man will be the last and only man im with! his conversation alone is just right for me…stay tuned for more updates on this cancer woman and libra man love affair!!!

  63. Moon Baby November 20th, 2010

    Hi there, i’ve been reading all your comments about your present relationship. Im a cancer woman and married to a very charming Libra man for 12 years now. Wow!!! you guys have a lot to work out, loving somebody doesn’t have to be perfect, don’t expect your partner to be perfect as your not perfect also. There will be tough times and very tough times, but this will test both of your love for each other and once you pass this then you’ll know this one is for real and lasting. Were on the different level now, we already experienced everything your saying. But remember Cancer Lady it will always depends on you, weather you want to continue or not, because fact is Libra will always be a Libra very practical in every sence of the word, we just have to keep an open mind and accept this fact and lessen the drama out of us. It’s a matter of practise to us. And last advise for Cancer Ladies if you feel that your ready to let go of your Libra man just ask yourself “If this would be your last day on earth who would you like to share it with?” then the problem solved, sometimes when loving someone you will accept everything that he is, and his imperfection is what makes him more of real person and less than an imaginary perfect man.

  64. Casey November 13th, 2010


    Alright really thanks for the feedback!
    but there’s one last thing i have not mention
    the cancer(lady)july(1st) that i have met i can said that is the most sensitive and unable to read from my point of view,
    why cause lets make it simple. For 3 mth we did text and was very near to get together(sweet and loving) . How i assume cause anyone when comes dating u can see it for yourself you can feel it
    4 year ago (2007) i did a mistake i approach and ask her to be in relationship i was shock, she gave me a
    confuse, no idea or shy away and turn back to me said not now..
    well i accept it (in my heart was bleed) but i dont mind:)
    i was really dump and never study about cancer thought…
    and make decision on the spot.. 2008 did try to date her an yet after 3 mth lost connection but never ask about relationship ..
    aww 2010 started to date her 4mth later somehow she just turn stranger to me and will never success..
    well maybe im just a loser or are not meant to be right? haha..
    what i did for 2008 and 2010 i never even ask for relationship i just wants to get know more about her and wait for a to hint me
    but i just cant feel that way like 2007… it totally difference could it be (not her cup of tea)

    im 13(oct)men
    am like to get attention showing charm or shomehow
    not in the sense show off.. hope u guys understand what i mean.

    im very sensitive in love and somehow shy from girl
    no idea why.

    easily get jealousy term of of the girl that u like and somehow she have male friend of her(but will always kept in heart)

    always give in when comes to relationship.. when argue i will vote out
    likes to hide negative comment

    can said Indecisive sometime.

    hope will help u guys some of my own character

  65. deresa November 13th, 2010

    …@ Casey: You know what, I believe that Robin really put the icing on the cake 100% of how most cancer women are esp. in love. I am definitely that way. And the only reason that trust is a strong issue with me because the guy I’m with messed up in the past. But, I think I’m wrong on dwelling on the past, but for me to trust him 100% and be in that comfort zone with him will take some time and work…and I mean some major teamwork. Consistency is also very important to me, if I notice you falling back on certain things that is the norm for you since the beginning, I do begin to wonder which can draw me to push or pull back. But, yeah!! She definitely has a great definition of how we are. Well, Casey! I will admit this to you, we cancer women can be complex individuals (and thats real), but I guess it speaks for itself in our moods. You have to be more open and gives lots of reassurance, affection, and your love. I know it sounds like a heavy load on you, but, I believe it is worth it in the end with the love and loyalty your cancer lady will give to you, probably more than any other sign in the zodiac!!!

    Also, Casey!! I hope we helped you as much as we can for you to understand the cancer women personality. But, I’m going to need for you to help me out to figure out the libra man personality, which I also believe can help other cancer women better understand you guys and know what to expect. I will think of some questions for you (other libra men are also welcome to comment) along the way. 🙂

  66. Casey November 13th, 2010

    @deresa and @Robin

    thank you guys for the help and the source
    it really help a lot i really do appreciate it!
    but for my case it really been too long 4 years and
    my heart never give up.. i felt like giving up but
    it hard.. i really need assist from u guys especially from cancer(women) point of view i really wants to learn more.. thanks alot!

  67. deresa November 12th, 2010

    …@ Robin: you summed that up real well about how we can be!! This is exactly how I am when I am with someone. But, there are times that I wish I could be like some of my girlfriends where they can brush off a guy that they have dated and keep moving. I am strong with other aspects of myself…like accomplishments,motivations, goals, etc…but, when it comes to love I am weak. Love is not one of my strongest points and when I hurt its deep. I do get over it, but its a good while. Cancer women are wonderful women, but I just can’t stand my sensitivity to love.

    …@ Casey: I did read something of it, but, I could be wrong too. But, I read up on actual birthday astrologies (if I can find the site I will send it to you here) My bday is July 7th and I have a brother who is cancer (bday is also July 1st) and we get along real well, but, he is real sensitive (more than me) and the downfall about his personality is that he’s quite reserved (I’m not that reserved) when something is bothering him he pretty much keeps it to himself, but, I know off the bat when he has something on his mind and I just ask him, talk to him and give him reassurance. Some need lots of reassurance, are very sensitive, but, some can keep things to themselves, they are not that open to express their feelings to others (soo, that’s where you’re going to have to be open with her). On the positive, they are very loving and caring (my brother doesn’t really show it, but he does…looking at the little things he would do.)

  68. Casey November 10th, 2010

    is there any difference of the date June 22 – July 22 cancer cuz i heard that starting of july esp is very sensitive… im trying for 4 year and now i guess im a failure..

  69. Robin November 9th, 2010

    I am a cancer woman, July 21st. Cancers love very deeply but don’t trust 100% up front. You have to (in some cases) set the standard. If you want her to be open, you have to be open. If you want her to be affectionate, you have to be. We want to know it’s OK to be our natural selves….loving, caring, open, etc. Consistency is very important. If you change your approach we will fall back. So if you wooed her to start, stay that way. And sometimes we aren’t very easy to win over. You have to just be yourself and give her a minute to appreciate the person that you are. If you are good, she will love you. Yes it is confusing (at the start) sometimes because one day we can “seem” less than interested (that’s our protective shell in action) and the next day (and from there on out) we love you like there is no tomorrow! In the beginning it’s hard to read us emotionally because we want to feel safe to express our emotions. Cancers are usually very loving women. I’m in love with a Libra man September 25th. It’s been topsy turvy at times. But I know he is a man worth loving. He is good and he truly loves me! Best of luck to all of the Cancer/Libra love interest…….. I’m hopeful that my love for my Libra will last forever!!

  70. Casey November 6th, 2010

    but somehow the cancer(girl) that i wanted to date
    seem like does’nt care.. even how much effort but after a few day i treat her , dote her and she care for me for while after like stranger -.- really no idea how to date her…

  71. Shortmama November 6th, 2010

    Just by reading over the mssages. It seems as though Cancer, and lIBRAS CANNOT GET ENOUH EACH OTHER WHEN INLOVE. It seems as though once each other love, and respect each other they would be fine. Please don’t waste time viwe the negative aspects in the relatioship. Focus on the positive, and the results would be postive. By the way I am a cancer, and my boyfriend is a libra. No one will ever be perfect so just enjoy, and love each other.

  72. Fuji November 1st, 2010

    At the moment I (libra Man) am lovestruck by this cancer woman. The way we act around each other is as if we are going out. She is always smiling and always laughing when I talk to her. She doesn’t mind me asking her questions and she seems to appreciate the flirting and affection she has given to me. In saying this though she told me today, “I shouldn’t like me too much as I may dissapoint you”. I know she is going through a rough patch and I willing to help her out. Are there any precautions I should take when dealing with a Cancer woman in this situation?

  73. Casey October 31st, 2010

    I’m a libra 13 oct dating a Cancer 1st july
    for about a few years and im still confusing
    coz she don’t really straightforward to me
    and she likes to hide it .. =( need help..

  74. Its me October 31st, 2010

    @blessed – Hey even the guy Im dating [ or was dating 🙁 ] is Libra . I just wanted to know your birthdate and your girl’s .
    Coz this libra guy I have ( or had ) been with for almost an year , is really confusing me 🙁

  75. holly October 12th, 2010

    @blessed.. sorry i didn’t mean to offend you. I just had a hideous experience with a libra man, and he was a very typical libra. What i’m really trying to say is that less is more. I’m not saying to pretend that you don’t care, but sometimes loving someone has to mean valuing their feelings over your own, by this i mean that you should make it clear to this women that you are ready to commit and you do love her, but because you love her so much the decision she makes needs to be for her own happiness and not to spare your feelings. then leave it. your cards are on the table, and if she does decide to be in a relationship with you it will end up being an extremely happy one. My libra was all “i’ll never be the same without you love love love oh please love me back” and i was so worried about his feelings that i got in to the relationship with him whilst ignoring what i really wanted (or didn’t want). again, no offense.

  76. Deresa October 12th, 2010

    I know that we have encountered “BAD APPLES” and believe me this is not the first libra guy that I have dated. The first libra guy I dated was a bad joke!!! But, you know what!!! We can’t and shouldn’t judge all libra men in all the negative ways we can think of. It really just depends on the person themselves and even sometimes,we should step out of the whole zodiac thing for a second and really look at the person. Sometimes, some of the traits that we have or obtain with can also come from other places, like our upbringing or people we’re around…whatever the case is!! And, some are just plain immature knucleheads. Maturity definitely a role as well. It’s just like also saying that there are negative cancers and believe me, I know, I am literally surrounded by cancerians and yeah, we do have a quite a personality and some that are different from other typical cancers. Well, no worries!! this is no argument and I’m not taking any sides. Just my viewpoint!!! 🙂

  77. Blessed October 11th, 2010

    @ holly how can you try to give somone some advice but yet bash at the sametime its not really fair if you think about it. the differecnce is that every man isn’t the same and I really mean what I say About her.I played al those game s and I realized that playing with love is no joke thats when I decided to fully commit myself and not mess around with love.

  78. JR October 10th, 2010

    me and my woman broke up on mutual grounds a little while back she was under a lot of stress due to a lot of changes in her personal life, hell we both have and on top of that we had a typical relationship bumps in the road. ever since that day I’ve missed her now more than when we was together, I try to give her some space and not talk to her at all but I can’t help it I got to text and talk to her. I always let her known that she could call me anything, I don’t want to smother her. I really don’t know how to get my woman back I just wonder if she misses and feels the same way That I Do. This young lady has made me so much better a person and as a man, with her I was learning how fully commit to woman through all of our experiences. She made me want to do better and I’m so thankful for her being in my life. Now I’m stuck with the task of trying to win her heart back. Comments anyone

  79. holly October 10th, 2010

    advice for Blessed : honestly, you sound exactly like my libra, and i’ll tell you something for nothing (and i’m just going to be brutally honest), all that neediness is a massive turn off. it sounds sweet when i read it, but to her, that kind of thing is a bit terrifying. she doesn’t want that much emotional responsibility so PLAY IT COOL. put your hand on the table and let her take it or leave it, because at the end of the day, she wants to be given a choice, not pressured in to being in a relationship with you because you love her so much. she wants a challenge, so back off. less is more. seriously, if my libra had tried that i think it may have been different (but maybe not, because he was… interesting..)
    i’m not saying treat em mean keep em keen, but you need to give her an offer that she CAN refuse, let her feel in control, and like she better get you while you’re still interested, rather than blithering on about your undying love. save all that for the bedroom.

  80. holly October 10th, 2010

    i’m a cancer woman recently out of a bad relationship with a libra man and honestly, i really couldn’t handle this pairing. I just found him intolerable, and i feel really selfish for it because he did so much for me. He really turned his whole life around for me, and i think that was part of the turn off. I like to feel independent but he would put me in to positions where i would absolutely have to rely on him and it made me feel very vulnerable. He was a bit obsessed with me before we got together and as we lived in different towns would visit often and send letters and gifts. I finally gave in and moved in with him, and everything changed. all that charm just disappeared and he became a bit of an asshole really. He was very jealous whenever i was around his friends, and the WORST thing had do be the sulking. He constantly wanted to talk and i just used to think “what is there to talk about right now, give me five minutes peace”! he would bitch and moan when i didn’t want to cuddle or didn’t reply to every single thing he said. he was much more clingy and needy than me emotionally!!

    the thing i found the hardest to deal with was how false he was. He would change who he was and his morals for the sake of a conversation, where as my ethics and values stay the same no matter who i might offend by upholding them. It would wind me up because noone was allowed to think anything bad about him, he had to be the golden boy all the time. He’s wound up with hundreds of friends being so agreeable, but i’d rather have a few real friends.

    It’s true that we both avoid conflict except we do it in different ways, i just wont talk to someone i know that i will have reason to argue with, but he just agrees with everyone all the time.

    anyway, libra man? never again. i always always find them false

    EG!! my flat mate was sleeping with a libra man, and he was cheating on his girlfriend and there was nothing i could really do about it because i’m in no position of authority, and my flat mate hadn’t made any promises to his girlfriend, he had. so he’s round at my place cheating on this girl who’s LOVELY and he KNOWS that i think that he’s absolute scum and he wouldn’t get out of my face with his politeness and friendliness. oh yeah, you’re a real gem. such a nice guy, here cheating on your lovely lovely girlfriend. what a joke.

    uuuuuh!! libra guys are grosse and fake and cancer girls deserve better!

  81. Lynette October 8th, 2010

    I’ve been so busy that I forgot to update my relationship with my Libra man. Well currently we are not together. We broke up a few days after our two year anniversary. We still talk & hang out once in the awhile but it’s not 100% the same anymore. My Libra man is currently going out to bars, hanging out with his guy friends and including girl friends. He always on facebook connecting with others and making them laugh with his statuses. He’s always texting his guys and female friends. Never payed attention to me when I was talking to him, or even bothered to look at me. At times he would disrespect me by saying “oh, hold that thought, I forgot to tell this person something” while on the phone. Honestly, he has so many groupies (female friends) that at times I felt I wasn’t special to him no more. I felt like I was the same level as his female friends. We argued a lot about our differences on life & friends. He’s a great guy, don’t get me wrong, because he helps all his friends out when they are in need, makes them laugh, and he is there for his friends when they are down. Basically, he was putting me second when before I was his first. It was just a lot of frustrations that I couldn’t handle no more about him. I’m still in love with him but it drives me crazy when I see his groupies (female friends) always texting him and asking him to hang out etc etc… So we both decided to end the relationship. He still tells me that he’s in love with me and he thinks about me all the time. But I don’t know what to think anymore. Honestly, I think he’s indecisive on what he wants and he’s going through this mid-life crisis thing. So as of now, I’m just focusing on myself with school and gym so I won’t have to think about my ex libra man. Well if you folks have advice or suggestions, I will glady accept it with an open mind. I’ll update again. Time from time I’ll check back on here, thanks 🙂

  82. Deresa October 7th, 2010

    for blessed: Hey, no problem!! Well, believe me, it’s not going to be “peaches and cream” in the beginning esp. starting over again. But, the great thing is that you guys gave each other another chance, so that’s a ‘plus’. And more than likely, she’s trying to gain that trust back. And that’s for you, try not to think negative!! You have to give your relationship some faith. You two getting back together is a positive right there, it’s just the matter of you two working together to make it stronger. So, whatever you do, do not throw in the towel!! You will be hurting yourself even more. Have faith, be positive, and be strong!!

  83. Blessed October 7th, 2010

    @Deresa Thanks for all your help we’re both hanging in tough I love her so much and so Hard, at times I just really feel like giving up. All in all I love my baby I’m just trying to win her heart back over. I know she feels something because she still tells me things that nobody else knows. I don’t know maybe its me I know I dont wanna be without her

  84. Deresa September 30th, 2010

    Advice for Blessed: I actually understand what your saying. I myself am also cancer woman and is dating a libra man for almost a year now. I have known him for 3 years and this our third time reacquainting and dating each other again. His feelings now is similiar to yours in that in the past Ibelieve he felt he made mistakes that caused us to not further flourish, but believe this third time is a charm and his ways are just as similiar as yours. The thing I can tell you about your cancer woman, at this moment is that you have to communicate your feelings with her. I know I’m not that cancer woman that is real expressive about her deep feelings for someone unless I begin to feel comfortable with you and you also start communicating your feelings with me. I also know for myself I don’t move very fast when it comes to a relationship (I can’t speak for all cancer women), I’m actually pretty guarded when it came to my feelings towards him and the reason is because he screwed up in the past and also cancer women are pretty vulnerable when it comes to relationships..I mean emotionally. Well, my advice to you is COMMUNICATION, express your feelings to her (that may actually help her to open up, it did for me little by little though.),keep spending time with her(let her know you, your personality, your character). Don’t also be hesitant to ask her questions also and let her know that you would like to know her feelings whats in her mind and if there is anything she’s worried or wondering about that she can tell you so that you guys could work it out (he always expressed that with me). It takes time, I was that same way, but the more he really put himself out there for me, the more I felt closer and my feelings growing more and more because I feel secure with him. You will be fine!!! I believe her feelings are there for you, otherwise, she wouldn’t be with you. You have to get her to express it (she’s probably just not comfortable w/ her feelings yet). Keep praying about it, I did!! and try to have to patience!!! I hopes this helps you even just a little.

  85. Blessed September 24th, 2010

    I’m in love with this cancer woman its so funny how we met way before we even approached each other we would see each other in the same spot everyday and all we could do was smile and that was it that lasted about a year. early in this thing I made a lot of mistakes but its like the more time I spent with her the more I felt like she was the one for me. I’m at the point now where I know that I don’t want to go a day without her in fact I hate when we go so long without seeing each other, but sometimes I feel like she doesn’t love me back. After all the women I’ve ever dealt with she gives me a feeling like no other, it makes me kind of hesitant about this because sometimes I feel like it don’t want to get to close to her because I don’t want to end up with a broken heart. I find myself on my knees praying for this woman and I all that time, the things I do for her I’ve done them for another woman. I find myself sitting by my phone just waiting on a text or a phone call from her. I’m so darn love struck that even if I wanted to break up with her I couldn’t bring myself to do it mainly cause I wouldn’t want to. I often find myself telling her how much I love and want to give her the world this woman just makes me want do better so I can give her everything that she’s never had If it’s in God’s will. I feel like I’m going over bored with my love for her but I cant help how I feel about her. I know that I’m not a perfect man but I’m willing to give all up for her, I just hope I make the right decisions when It comes to her. I can be overbearing at times but I’m just trying get her to loosen up some so we can move on from my past this is the Honest to God truth I want this woman to be my present and my future. I just don’t know how she really feels about what we have and that kills me. advise anyone

  86. Su anne September 16th, 2010

    I’m a cancer woman and have known a libra man for 2 years now.First time meeting each other,we automatically click with each other.I can say he’s the sweetest man I ever know can hold his emotion and rarely gets angry,and when he does,he like to be alone.We can laugh and joke at eachother.And we are pretty much funny couples,our friend said that.And yes he like beautiful things whether it’s a woman or whatever.But I trust him and he knows that.I’m a moody person and he’s the best person to handle it.We do talk about marriage someday.I’m hoping cause I want to spend the rest of my live with him.He’s great person and people do take advantage of him.Last but not least good luck with your libra man.

  87. Cancer Woman September 2nd, 2010

    I have been dating a libra man for almost a year now. He is the sweetest guy i’ve ever met! After only four months of dating he knew he wanted to marry me and proposed.We make each other laugh all the time but can also be serious with each other(hardly He treats like a queen and he definitely is my king!We can be open with each other about our feelings and this I love about my libra man. I believe that libra man -caner woman is a very good match!He makes me better.

  88. ben July 9th, 2010

    learn to spell yummy

  89. rajeen July 9th, 2010

    i am in love with a beautiful girl and she is a cancer….. she never say that she loves me but i think she does…. but i love her whatever she is……..

  90. Lynette June 20th, 2010

    Well hello fellow cancerian women and libra men! Just wanted to update my status… My libra man (10-18) and I (7-13) are still together and having a great FUNtastic time 🙂 our two year anniversary is around the corner (9-3). I have so much to say but great adventurous time we have together. Were still learning from each other and getting to know one another on a higher note 🙂 . At times he can be indecisive which can irritate me and I end up making the decision for him. When I get into my mood swings, he says the most silliest & funniest things and he ALWAYS gets me laughing and smiling again. He has never failed on this lol… well I will update again in another three months 🙂 or maybe sooner since I’m on summer vacation lol!!

  91. Linda M May 27th, 2010

    Ok..So glad I found this site.

    Just started dating a libra man and I must admit he is making me into a better person already. He is very outspoken, very postive,- which helps me cause I can dwell in the negative for long periods of time. i absolutely admire his openess about everyhting and his desire to succeed. I dont mind being his supporter in the background while he takes centre stage. Hoe it works out—only been a two weeks. Praying he is the one….

  92. Ros April 29th, 2010

    tell him how u feel, honesty best policy
    do not waste your time – each minute wasted is less the most amazing love in your life.

  93. so yummyy April 19th, 2010

    cancerr female in LOVE w/ auhhh LIBRA MAN . ..

    shuld i tell hym how feel , or jus flow w/ it ?

    we`ve only been talkn for lyk 2months but i already knoee whaa i wnt & its hym .

    hys personality it GREAT , hys touch AMAZING , jus i kant quitee read hys feelings for me . & bkus i HATE rejection im not sure if u shuld even ask it wuld crush me .

    iknoee im beautiful & he tells me all de tyme , lyk i tell hym 24/7 hes is as well , but jus bkus im beautiful i am still very sensitivee bkus past relationshipss .

    evrrydeyy i think about hym , & when he text , kalls , or sees me . .. mahh hearts misses auh beat as i glance at hys lovelyy face .

    we have BASKETBALL in common , & we both dresss FRESHHH !!!!

    we look goodd tewwgetherr . but HELP IS NEEDEDDD ????

    shuld i tell em or not ???? ayudame!!!

  94. so yummyy April 19th, 2010

    i really have feelings for auh LIBRA MAN , but lyk sences he so layed back i think he doesnt lyk me , even thoee i asked hym & he said yehh & we talk errydeyy i still am skared that HE DOESNT ? im falln in love w/ hym bkus we have auh great connection . .. i just dont wnta losseee em , i am very emotional . but teww keep hym i wuld jus pretend lyk it doesnt matter .

  95. christina April 15th, 2010

    I’m a cancer and I have been in love with a libra man for 5 years now. We’ve had our differences and both our signs definitely show through when things are good or bad bewtween us. I believe he is my soulmate. I know he is. No matter where we go or what hardships we have in life, we always connect together on a stronger and deeper level than I’ve ever experienced with anyone before him. He is the most loving and understanding man I know (especially when my cancer mood swings like to shine), and he always gives me that logical perspective I need when I’m think emotionally. Together we balance each other out, make each others souls dance, and warm the other’s heart. I couldn’t ask for a better man. Good luck to all you cancers and libras. If you learn and understand each others needs and wants I can promise you that you will not regret it.

  96. Beth April 14th, 2010

    Libra man… I’m a cancer and have been dating a Libra man for over 2 years. We moved together 6 months ago, and he is great. Though when Libra is depressed it is soo bad for a cancer to deal with them. Despite the fact he strives for the best in life all the time, when they want attention cancer have to give it to them. Otherwise, it will end up awful. Libras love attention, omg, he will ask for it 24/7
    Sometimes I feel like we shouldn’t have gotten together, because of his tantrums about me not giving him affection. And he is a huge jealous man. Very possessive, I on the other hand, now for sure his loyalty and won’t even consider him even looking at the other women…
    Libras are great is you keep constantly giving them love, they are not necessarily will be returning it back (depends on their life situation and their mood)… I shouldn’t had moved in with mine, till I was married…

  97. Lily March 31st, 2010

    Cancer woman here (7/11) with a Libra man (10/13). Dating for almost a year. With an evolved Cancerian and Libra this relationship is damn near perfect. Libra men are extremely romantic and loving. Cancer woman are understanding and reciprocate that love right back which the Libra loves! Both are never afraid to show and express feelings and both compromise with each other through any issues.Im a Cancer woman but im not insecure or a home body, i just want to have fun and live a good life. Hes a Libra but hes not aloof or detatched. We have fun together, good love, good communication.I will say one thing and thats that cancer woman should never nag her libra man or any man and libra man should learn not to take things personally. Overall this is a great match!

  98. abtron5000 March 24th, 2010

    i love you anthie 🙂

  99. anthony March 24th, 2010

    i dont get it

  100. abtron5000 March 24th, 2010

    we’re fine

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