Air and Water mix to give a challenging combination of Aquarius and Cancer. The styles and needs in love of both the Zodiac Signs tend to be at odds with one another. The Cancer wants a relationship that is very personal and committed, while the Aquarius is more inclined to look for a classic friendship in any love relationship.
A Cancer man is very dependable man with strong intellect and tender heart. He is attached to the quintessential family life and does not have any qualms in experiencing the wide array of emotions. He is highly imaginative and extremely determinant to change those dreams to reality. He is always on lookout for a partner who would resemble his mother in terms of the perfection exuded by her. In love with an Aquarius woman, he enjoys her friendly nature and provides her with long term happiness and security.
An Aquarius woman is very friendly in nature with transparency in her attitude. She hates diplomacy and is never mean in her approach. She does not like to display her compassionate nature easily to people instead she likes to shower most of her empathy on serious causes. In relationship with a Cancer man, she enjoys his fascinating dream world and even love to be a part of it as she herself is a wool-gatherer. But her less sympathetic behavior can make the Cancer man feel insecure at some part in the relationship which may in turn make him cold and unconcerned.
The Aquarius female can prove to be a strange concoction with the Cancer man as both of them have different aspirations in life. She is one of those rare people who would help him to discover many new facets about himself that he was not initially aware of. She makes several attempts to convince him to let go of his immense attachment towards memories of the past and discover new enthusiasm in life. There is a strong attraction as both of them have different or rather opposite interests. She loves freedom whereas he is purely in love with materialistic things. She keeps on searching for new things in life while bound to his cautious nature; he takes every step carefully. But he is completely in awe of her spontaneous nature as he himself abhors monotony in life.
The Cancer man always gives a special treatment to his Aquarius woman. The sense of humor exuded by him proves to be very gracious for their relationship. He provides her with a protective and concerning love with lots of wise advice which can safe her from unwanted troubles. But his act of convincing her to do things in an appropriate way might not go down well with the Aquarius female, as she does not like to follow someone else’s instructions.
As the naughty Aquarius woman and jolly Cancer man decide to walk hand in hand for life time, they create an aura of happiness around them. Their smiles are more quixotic and their words are more loving for each other with every passing day. He now understands how to give up with the past and look around for new horizon with his lady love and she now gets to value love more than even, understanding the tender and soothing effects of it. The humors of Cancer male fills their life with rejoicing moments to be cherished forever and she always brings about freshness to their unison with lots of fun and frolic to be admired throughout. Their romance is natural with all the smoothness of Air and coolness of Water. They now accept their differences to complete their existence and enjoy their togetherness with such passion that even angels envy their devotion and love.
When the elements of Air and Water come in physical contact with each other it can be either very smooth or dreamy depending upon the approach of both the Aquarius woman and Cancer man. While he takes physical intimacy as most important part of the relationship, she finds it funny in the beginning. For making their romance a real passion, they both need to be emotionally very close and open with each other. The Cancer man with his loving attitude and tender touch makes her realize that sex is a necessary ingredient for the success of a relationship. As she understands his touch and understands love making, she begin to enjoy the joys of their physical life by completely surrendering herself in arms of her Cancer male assuring him of her love and loyalty. The natural urge of closeness displayed by him serves as an icing on the cake making their physical expression more passionate and fulfilling. Since both of them have an excellent power of imagination, they have a fervent rendezvous through lovemaking.
To gain harmony in the relationship of Cancer man and Aquarius woman is some what tough but not too difficult either. There are a lot of things that they both appreciate in each other. He loves friendliness and originality of his Aquarius lady but her absentmindedness and easy approach to romantic relationship makes him sad. Also she esteems the determination and cautious nature of her Cancer man but she hates the way he clings on past. To make the relationship better, she should respect the fact that he is a private person and she should give him sufficient space and try not to encroach in his dream world. While he needs to understand that it is futile to trap her with rules, as she is quite confident about her decision making ability.
My mom is an Aquarius and my dad is a cancer and they’ve been together for more then 30 years. My mom recently gave my dad on of her kidneys.. true love right there folks !!
Awwww beautiful
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Thanks for the reply. Idk why but I’m going to update again. So this last week has been the most amazing week of my life. Words cannot describe just how happy I am and it is directly related to her. We finally dealt with the “elephant in the room” as she called it, and that was sex. It turned out, like what always seems to happen with issues like this, that we each had the wrong idea of what the other was thinking. Another truly great example of how communication is king in any relationship. No need to go into detail but we got to the bottom of it. Let me just say the sex is out of this world for both of us. I know how difficult it is for aquarius women to Express their feelings especially when it can make them extremely vulnerable. So when she did regarding the amount of pleasure it brought her I truly felt special. It’s very easy for me to express myself and I believe me doing so frequently and with compassion has taught her in a way to be more open with it. I truly love her with all my heart and I think she does to. I want to tell her so badly. The intimate moments we share are so visceral and intense it seems like I would be a fool to think otherwise. However my fear of saying it without it being said in return is inhibiting me from doing so. Everything I’ve read, as far as signs an aquarius is in loves with you, seems to say with out a doubt she does. But I know how she fears being vulnerable as well.i just dont know if I should wait for her or how I should approach it. I ask only cause my approach with sex was so stupid. If I had not been such a wimp it would have happened months ago. But this is obviously another big step. I know there is no exact road map to every aquarius’ heart. But I’m hoping a little advice will point me in the right direction. Thanks in advance. I truly appreciate the comments.
With my man I said it first. I was more then sure I. Saying but it was me who said it first. And he did not say it right away and I was okay with that because of our situation behind his divorce and everything. Yes I have a hard time expressing my feelings and talking about them as well. And yes it will drive you crazy and may lead to fights witch I have experience in the last few days as you know cancer man are all about the feelings and talking.
So you have two choses is wait for her to say it or say it an understand that it may take time for her to say it back. It’s not that we don’t want to but we need to be 100% sure before we open up to someone. We are stubborn that way. Cheers and best of luck. Happy for you
Well everything is great. I brought it up and it was reciprocated. But I had already known just based on her actions. It’s funny cause I read that an aquarius woman will never just “move in” they will leave things here and there at your house till before you know it they have moved in. Well that was 100% accurate. It’s funny cause I had mentioned that I was interested in how people (for the most part) match a lot of the characteristics if their signs. Obviously noone is exactly what their sign says but I find that there are more similarities than differences. It’s funny cause she has a twin and her mother is aquarius. Her sister and her are not alike, but her sister still has a lot of traits that match up. But back to what I was saying. She went online and read a little bit about our compatibility and of course saw that we are not classical matches. However I was able to direct her to some stuff I found that says yes typically we are not, but when both work at It and there is a match it usually is a very strong lasting one. Its awsome cause this is the most open a relationship we have both ever been in. She has been cheated on and not treated well so she appreciates my loyalty and the way I treat her so much. She comments all the time about it and it’s really nice to hear. We had a couple amazing nights where we both opened up and poured our hearts out to each other. I know how difficult it is for her so it was amazing to see her putting that kind of effort out. I know if she didnt really truly care she wouldnt give a shit. She stated that until me she came to the realization she never really loved anyone before, even though she thought she had. Anyway things are awsome and it just makes everything so much better when you have someone that makes you feel whole. I hope everything is better for you, and I’m sure it is. Just remember we (male cancers) often say things in haste we dont really mean. I know that once it comes out of your mouth you cant take it back, but he is just probably trying to get a reaction out of you, as I’m sure you can appear closed off at times. Hopefully that is the case and your both able to remember how much you care about each other and get past it.
Yes things are going well and yes there are some things I do have to work on and so does he. But we do truly love each other and He is my person. And I love him to bits. I know there will be times that we will butt heads it is all how we Handel it right? Glad things are going well for you and your Aquarius women. We are a puzzle but love someone who can figure us out.
As a Aquarius woman I agreed with this !! Me not being able to express my feelings always is a problem.
Hello guys i can see y’all are going through this i am not alone i recently met a cancer man i had a huge crush on him and when i thought it was just a crush it’s not i have deep feelings for the guys and i told him and then blocked him fear of rejection. Cutting story short we talked and had sex it was out of this world i don’t regret it at all. I love the man how do i show him that bcoz it is hard to crack a cancer man you never know what his thinking.
Ok so I’m going to update. When I first posted I was unsure of the relationship. Needless to say it was my own mind playing tricks on me. It is absolutely the BEST relationship I’ve ever been in. I truly love everything about her. My ambivalent approach to sex was completely thg wrong way to approach her. What had happened was a while back I made an advance and was shut down. I then told myself I wasn’t going to push it j would let her chose when she was ready. She was on her period and was just embarrassed to say. Me being a cancer male I analyzed it every wich way. Again a mistake. It didnt matter though csuse we have forged such a strong relationship it wasnt necessary for me to be having sex to want to stay with her. I truly love her. Anyway it finally happened the other night and was f****ng amazing. She blew my mind and I “pleazed” her more timed than she could count. The build up to finally having sex was part of what made it so amazing. Turned out she didnt even remember denying me and thought I wasnt physically attracted to her. Lol jesus it blows my mind how shit like that happens. Where you think you know what a person is thinking/feeling based on one event or interaction. When in reality you are completely wrong. That is a reminder of why communication in any relationship is so important. I keep reading how bad of a match cancer and aquarius is, but that if a connection is made it can be one of the strongest. I believe her moon sign played into it as her moon is csncer. Rather than get upset by her independence I have learned to embrace it but also start applying it in my life. In turn I notice her making a clear effort (and succeeding) at expressing herself emotionally to me. We have made each of our strengths help each others weakness. Any relationship takes work and compromise. So dont listen to the bullshit that cancer and aquarius are not good matches. If you care about a woman/man you will make whatever chance necessary for the relationship and in turn your partner will also. If two people put the same effort out any relationship will work. Sorry for rambling on just wanted to update.
That’s amazing. I love my cancer man to bits. As I’m the Aquarius women. It works so well. Yes there are some hard bits but like any relationship you need to work at it. And the sex is amazing every time.
I am a 38 year old cancer male in a relationship with a 26 year old aquarius female. We are both sicilian and love our heritage. I have never been more intrigued with another woman in my life. I struggle with her lack of physical intimacy and would love any suggestion in how to approach this with her. Wr have been involved for a few months and actually have yet to have sex. I never thought I would be ok with this but care so much about this relationship it’s worth it to me. She spends the night once or twice a week when we are lying together she is constantly embraced. I dont want to push her away so have told myself i would not push it until she initiated sex. I feel that there is a little apprehension on her end as she may feel her lack of experience with actual love making
She has had only had sex with 6 different men. And she made all wait. I’m starting to ramble but would love any advice. I love her but have yet to say it. I am fairly sure she feels the same. I know that once the sexual door has opened this relationship is going to explode with positive passion. I truly believe I have met the woman I want to spend my life with. Any advice is strongly welcomed. I could go on for hours with this but will stop for now. Thank you
Hello Chris I am 64 and my Aquarius fiancé is 49. She needs to know that we are friends first before she will give herself totally. Rest assured she knows everything about you so you need to be totally honest with her.She is an investigator and if she doesn’t think your totally honest and committed she will be gone. It takes time because they have to think things through. I have learned that she also needs her independence. That is hard for me but because I am totally in love with her I have accepted the way she is.Our sex life is amazing actually perfect because I make sure she is satisfied physically. I love pleasing her and she makes sure that I am satisfied in return. We are now engaged and live together. An Aquarius women Is like finding a treasure on the bottom of the ocean and when you open the box it looks like it’s filled with gold but when you put your hands into it it’s actually all liquid so you can never really totally possession it. It just flows through your hands.
Are you a CANCER?
Aquarius are so dreamy, but can benefit from being more communicative.
Here is a free 2020 Forecast for AQUARIUS: https://youtu.be/_03vt77-SZE
I hope it helps.
I’m with a cancer man and we are 19 years different and I love him to bits.
He has helped me so much as my past relationships have not been good. But he has shown me to open up and love again.
Would not change him one bit.
I am Cancer man in love with a Aquarius and we have been living together for 6 months. I adore her even though we are different in many ways. She needs her Independence and I have learned to give her the space she needs. This is not natural for me however I understand that she needs freedom and I have accepted that fact. I totally trust her and know that she is who she is. A great friend to many. A hard worker and a loving intimate partner with a great sense of humor.Its funny but my love for her seems to grow more and more as each day passes.Sometimes I get frustrated but always seem to let things go. When we are together things are great its when we are apart for whatever reason it can be a problem. I am 63 and she is 48 and its not a issue. I guess being a mature Italian is helping our relationship because at this time in my life I can be more understanding and accepting .My hope is for us to be together for the rest of our lives.
I was with a cancer man. He was a hothead, and a crybaby. It was scary and he had violent tendencies. He always made excuses on why he can’t work hard enough to get us an apartment, and we were 7 years apart. After two years of trying to break up with him. I finally wiggled away. We have a baby together, so I will never be fully away from his life. Damn: (
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I wtoteita
The cancer man that is with an aquarius woman with me right now
Things are very good like about 80%
He knows how weird and very realistic yet fun type of a girl i am and that i hate to feel tied up or just feel like im lacking my own privacy it’s weird
Theres something weird going on lately which is about trust ive discovered that he’s hidden stuff on my thats got to do with girls that he works with and i guess he hidden the fact they speak in work and hes on his social media and i discovered that by my self ( i got mad because be told me whenever a guy talks to you tell me about it or whenever you call our coulleges let me know n thats what i do and thats what he didnt ) so i only gave myself this permission to accept this weird rule n now hes not really following it?
We spoke about that point
Hes a very jealous type of a man he doesnt get jealous from my really close boy bestfriends but thats only because hes getting along with them lately and hanging out n stuff
But the part about trust with other guys that i know real well is weird .. he gets like what whos he whos that whos dis wtf n acts a bit jealous
Hes really nice and understaning we get along very nice but i just feel like this part is irritating to our relationship
I admire how sensual and sensitive he is
Everything is so intence n mutual when we’re talking about love or imagining stuff
One weak point for this is that im really realistic and all by logic when it comes to real stuff
Like if theres trust? Okay but all shit behind
There is a problem? We will solve it out in the end
There anyhing weird vibes happening or anything? Okay we will find a way to see how it goes
I really wanna write alot but all whats pissing me off is this weird rule and why he thinks that i would get mad of a girl he met or smth!? Like nig im so confidenet n i wouldnt mind if u told me ur gettin to know a girl that youre working with or anything?????ً
Im sorry You’re gett upset. I’m a cancer man and that rule is only convenient for him. You obviously have caught on to it. Take a step back and analyze.
I agree with Ignacio. His rule seems out of convenience for him. Perhaps a personal flaw, maybe something more. Taking a step back to re-evaluate the relationship should do you peace of mind. There are red flags.
Im solid objective. Therefore im confident in what im saying 100% more true. Its rare and special
The cancer man is back, and he is heaven sent, this man is my hero. Beginning to desire him, He is everything i desire. Everything written is true. I think im falling in love and im very enthusiastic about this, which is going to happen.
Im sorry You’re getting upset. I’m a cancer man and that rule is only convenient for him. You obviously have caught on to it. Take a step back and analyze. We have great hearts but prior to maturity we are idiots.
I m an aquarius n ma bf is a cncer n yesterday i think he wanted a brkup…..
But when i went to see him his freind told me tht he wanted a brkup but when i turned n looked him bck he was hitting n punching his freind for saying tht….. wht do u think he wnts frm me
He feels deprived of something in your relationship. He has probably tried to get it out of you with no success. But, he still has this intense hope that he may still get it (whatever it is). As a Cancerian, he will open up if you are brave enough to speak to him (tenderly though) about what he truly wants. He will respect that.
Esther, I would bet money that your ‘bf’ is absolutely sick to death of reading your lazy emails and texts to him, every one of which signals that you value him so little that you can’t even take the trouble to spell out your words for him, and as a result he has to fumble over your obnoxious gobbledygook to decode what it might mean and hope he doesn’t get something wrong so that some kind of misunderstanding happens.
This match for me is the worst match ever!! Cancers are stubborn abd emotionally draining!! They are sulkers and emotional manipulators. They never take accountability in their actions and swear everything is their mate’s fault,. Never again!!!
Hahaha…. you have never been with a Aries…
Are men…. sorry they lie
Not all cancers are like what Andra states. Its called a relationship, not a onepersonship. In other words it takes two, to dance.
A relationship with cancer man… is the best I every have… Her makes me feel special… N he speak highly of me… N I don’t miss the other relationship …we have a lot in caiman … We are both loving … N we love attention… And it never a duly moment in love making …many people will never understand what we have… It is a match made from god… Even though we don’t agree on things… But always find a way to make things right…
Hey aqua girl what you have to do is play hard to get in a sweet way, like when he calls you up and wants to do something, tell him you already made plans even if you didn’t ,cancer men want what they can’t have, so he willpursue you even more. I really don’t want to tell you what to do but you’re going to have to play games a little bit, but not too much just enough to get him more interested in being with you, take it from me, I am an experienced cancer man and I learned from my mistakes. Good luck and God bless you yours truly Marco
Ugh… thought of playing games is repulsive! However, if that’s what it will take to have my Cancer man be mine only so be it. Let the games begin!!!
I am a Cancerian man but have never enjoyed ‘games’ at all. As sensitive, manipulative (when I don’t get what I want) and clingy as I am, I only want my girl to approach me sweetly and ask me what I want and then give it to me.
I totally agree with you I love my cancer man and the games get on my nerves but I know how to get him now thanks for confirming this
I have been in a relationship with a cancer man for over 10 years and they haven’t been easy years by any means, aside from this astrological definintion of a cancer man and aquarious woman I believe the way you are raised has a lot to do with your characteristics and personality, so only some of this is true with these two signs together. I an aquarious woman am very independent, I am not clingy, I am not very affectionate, and I am not insecure. I do not believe that I need to be clingy and affectionate to prove my love or to make you feel love, I am with you for a reason. Communication I need the most and my cancer man knows nothing about that. I am out going, I love people and friendships. I love to do things all the time. I don’t mind being busy and my idea of spending time together isn’t always having to be laying down watching a movie. Being in the same room as your doing different things is considered spending time to me as long as we can have conversation with each other, we do not need to be in each others throats to prove anything. On the other hand my cancer man is opposite, we have to be all over each other in order to spend time together or sitting side by side. I see it like this, even if we are so busy and we only get to talk for 60 seconds that’s still time for each other. its not the amount of time its what you do with that time. My relationship has to be a partnership and most of all a friendship. I don’t do well with insecurities. I’m independent, and I am very supportive and would love the same in return. Yet my cancer man is opposite of me so I sacrifice a lot, to me that isn’t fair but I guess it goes back to the way I was raised, so in a sense I settle and the traits posted here don’t say an aquarious woman does anything like that. I don’t mind cooking and cleaning and laying down relaxing but I can have that as an everyday thing without feeling a little lost with myself cause then I am not being myself. I feel their is time to rest later in life, and not doing those things doesn’t define my interest in my relationship with the cancer man. you just have to let me be me.
sincerely the
aquarious woman 🙂
I’m an Aquarius female and dated a Cancer male for over a year and we had the best relationship because we were nurturing towards eachothers needs. We created an Aura wherever we went well were electric and we couldn’t keep our hands off one another in the bedroom. What changed he was way too emotional and clingy to a fault and would always use time apart as our biggest problem because we lived 45 minutes from eachother. Eventually we both decided to go our separate way and we have moved on respectively. We continue to have great conversation two years after the fact. I guess our timing was off but we figured out how to recover and just be decent to one another after the fact. I hope this helps.
I have met a cancer man over a year ago.. we were friends and Did the same workout class.. about 8mths ago he asked for my number.. I had no love interest at all just friends.. he ended up asking my to go out I didn’t feel like it so I declined.. a few days later I asked him to meet me at a club.. he did we danced and talked I was to buzzed to drive so we went back to his place and had a few more drinks.. he kissed me and things lead to another real fast.. surprisingly I did hesitate with any of that.. we had fun and it was amazing.. since then 8mths down the road we are getting extremely close… he has stood me up, not texted for days, all that great stuff pretty early on. But we still are friends who sleep with eachother and hangout.. I dumped all my feelings early on and still till this day I do… he said he dont want a relationship last week so I told him I understand but that I have to move on.. I didn’t contact him nor did he try to contact me for 5 days.. ( for the past 8mths we text allday everyday) on sat I got a text from him asking if Its gona just be like that me ignoring him.. I replied No.. 3hrs later 12am he texed wyd? I didn’t respond then 3am he called and texted a few times I didn’t answer.. I replied in the afternoon that I wasnt ignoring him… no response.. lately when he knows I ignore him he will do the same to me.. he never did b4 .. I decided to call him blocked so I can chat because over all I care and miss him.. he answers and everything is good.. he called me later about 8 to come hang out.. I did.. but what I didn’t kno was his whole family was there.. mom, brother sister,aunt uncles, cousins. Etc….lolol.. he introduced me to all of them.. they all were really nice and made me feel comfortable.. I dont speak lots of Spanish but it didnt stop me from introducing myself or trying to talk ?… im just confused.. I’m in love with my “friend” I want to be with him.. he said he dont want a relationship then turns around and introduces me to his family?? Why?? We been in eachother life 8mths … is he stringing me along?? I dont kno how to go about this… somebody please help me make sense of this.. I wana be a team with this man..
Correction….. I didn’t hesitate….
I’m a cancer male and I know my emotions take me on a roller coaster ride that usually ends in a train wreck due to my own decisions. You should read up on cancers.. we are confusing until you figure us out then we are completely predictable.. I hope he isn’t stringing you along. But the best thing to do would be to read up on his sign, then cross examine that to his actions lately. Then ultimately sit down and talk it out.. with your new found knowledge you will probably see right through his words and actions.
If he doesn’t want to commit don’t let him string you along. He will either move on or regret his actions and come back.
Cancers are our own worst enemies and we tend not to see it until the end. We are OUR own worst enemies NOT OUR lovers.. we can make great companions to the right understand person.. I hope this helps …
hes trying to use you if you have any advantages, or use someone who speaks English and let them translate you what he says and feels about you, i mean who can speak English and Spanish “very well” If he loves you, well its you!! if u love him, take it slow, very slow…and stop meeting his family, it makes things complicated, trust me, and if u are confused about the feeling for him, just be friends and ask him for your privacy, beacuse a confused feeling for someone alwauys turns out to be a disaster! “defacto”
Aquarius woman, few months and I’ve fallen for the cancer. Cancer man is masculine, strong, super attractive, over protecting, kind, gentle, sensitive and wow! He won’t leave you alone eyes mind and heart is constantly on the person he’s interested in! I don’t mind as I’m a lover of loyalty! Finally I met someone with quality and character!
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@bronster are you sure he is a cancer because most cancers don’t party and this is the first time I am hearing an Aquarius having a shell
@LovesDJC0708 Thank you for being the first Aquarius woman I hear that loves and wants to be around a cancer. I’m cancer myself and I’ve always heard that Aquarius people don’t like being around us cancers because they think all of us are super emotional
Not true, great friend for 21 years is a cancer we talk every week, another great friend for 15 years is a cancer and we talk also every week. Ex boyfriend is a cancer and we have been good friends for the past 15 years too. The guy I’m seeing is a cancer. We started talking in Feb and we had our first official outing with friends 2 days ago. He pulled me on the floor and danced and sang to me. He made me feel so special. I’ve never felt like that in front of a group of people. We were the only ones dancing together on the floor and there were 45 people there. 6 were close friends of his and my first time meeting them. 20 were friends of mine and 2 very close friends. Before I met him I gave up on love. We pray together and we talk, I feel so secure and safe in him. I felt like the luckiest woman that night. I’m tearing up now because I was afraid to fall in love again.
Finally a more accurate description of an Aquarius woman. I’ve read several other horoscopic descriptions about her being revolutionary/radical, and that being the primary reason why Cancer and Aquarius don’t make a good match, but I just can’t see that in the Aquarius woman I know. Personality-wise, she’s very similar to me (quiet, gentle, calm and collected, caring, friendly, simple [as in doesn’t make things more complicated than they should be], etc.), but also has differences (more intuitive, a better problem solver, more forward-looking, more critical and outspoken rather than an adaptive crustacean like me). She also isn’t as emotionally open or affectionate as some other zodiac signs, but deep down, she does have feelings as any other person, which can be seen from her actions and changes in voice pitch. I’ve come to appreciate her as a person through observation and conversation — to me she seems to be one of those few people who either doesn’t have any weaknesses or hides them really well. I’ve thought about our relationship developing into romance, and I think it could potentially go far if that development happened, but I’m not too optimistic. Sadly, there are too many factors that prevent this from happening, at least at this point in time. But she is the first woman who I didn’t think was beautiful or my type until we spent time together; then, I discovered these admirable personality traits and finally, day by day, started seeing her physical beauty.
Wow man. You r so accurate…
I think u hv fallen in love with her… Cuz most of the cancers are attached with Scorpios so we feel neglected by that way…
And u know what… Our characters are also judged with negative aspects… Like we are cold but it’s not that…
Alright, I going to tell you a secret about cancer men. You have to crack the open shell, be prepared for what is inside, which only an Aquarius woman can handle that degree of craziness in my opinion. Make him secure in knowing and reassure him constantly that its okay…don’t get distant, judgemental or shut him down. Accept what you find. Appeal to all of his senses, and, if you didn’t already know, you will though you might not understand. The result will be a deep sensation and connection that you open up and it requires patience. But the reward of what’s inside will far exceed your expectations. Do your part and you will have unquestioned loyalty like a golden retriever, the best of best friends, a selfless partner and a mind altering lover that will respect your Aquarius needs beyond no end.
Why does it require your initial effort? Because only a key fits into a lock and can open it, not the other way around. Do you want to see the treasures inside?
I was married to a Cancer man and this match, unfortunately, was not a good one. I got married young, and I felt as though this was the type of guy I should go for. But the lack of compatibility was evident as time went on. He was very controlling and did not trust me. He restricted my personal growth, and I changed a lot of myself to make him happy. In the end, it caused me to fall out of love with him. I know this match can work if the two parties are willing to do so, but he never stood up to me and talked out our issues; he would walk away if things got too intense. He wanted a family and I wanted to sit a few years. He wanted to settle down and I still wanted to do new things. He would bottle everything up inside and accuse me of being too open about my own issues. And we used to argue a lot because he would always try to get me to do things his way, and I wanted to do things my way and hate being told what to do.
i will say it again: this match can work. But I will not be attempting it again, unless something really crazy makes me change my mind.
Im 26 and turning 27 this coming January and im a full grown Aquarius woman and I can say that im a very lucky one (to my sarcasm). I was in elementary when some high school boys send me letters and admitted they have crush on me, but I dont write back because im too young to even care at that time because I was only 10.. When I was in high school, there are few guys and my two guy bestfriends court me but I turned them down because I dont have feelings for them and i only seen them as a friend. I dont know but i dont fall easily, so i dont go for blind dates, it’s totally a No, Nooo for me.. I rather play with my dog and cat, or just surf the net, read books, go to beach, mountain climbing , spend time with my niece and nephew, go out with my girlfriends or just eat a pint of ice cream alone at home, to me flirtng with boys that you’re not even attracted to
is just a waste of time (Eeeww!). I have only 3 ex-boyfriends, first one, a gemini. That’s when I was in college, we only hold hands and kiss on the cheeks.. he loves me but he didnt fight for me because he was young and afraid. We separated because he migrates in US and we have different nationality, his father is a racist he doesn’t want his only son fall inlove with a filipina.. The second one, i met at work he is one of my colleagues, his an aries. We only lasted 1 year and 4months.. I give myself to him, he was my first time.. we never fight, maybe because his older than me we were happy and contented with each other, until I found out he’s already married and they have a son.. he said he doesn’t love the girl, they only see each other because of the baby. I love him but im not stupid, i felt betrayed and anger consumes me. I really dont want to ruin a family and hurt a baby so I broke up with him, but he dont want to let me go.. I really blame myself, so I went to a place where I can hide and heal my heart for five years.. i tell every guy who want to court me and want me to be part of their life that im not ready and I dont want to, then I met this Cancerian man, we have this chemistry that I cannot explain.. it was like a feeling that’s totally new for me.. the very first time we met, we kissed and slept together, I know its wrong but I don’t care.. it was more like a one night stand, our love was amazing and crazy.. after his work, he always come to my apartment every morning at 7am. We talk, eat breakfast together, laugh and make love. He make sure that every saturday we spend time together, like going out, watch movies, go to the mall, we talk nonstop about things and people.. and we will make love and love and love until the sun comes up (usually sunday morning). He always kiss me and gives me compliment but sometimes tease me so we would always end up laughing, he always makes me smile. He make sure he calls me in his breaktime and whenever he gets home or before he go to sleep. He always tells me what he was doing and that he miss me and tells me funny stuffs. He loves to cuddle and make eye to eye contact when where having a conversation. He hugs me and tells jokes. My friends likes him, even my guyfriends. He always tells me “iloveyou” and he said he falls head over heels with me. He was everything I needed, everything i want and maybe i LOVE that much, i know i fall inlove the first we met, but I was having a hard time with myself, I was afraid to admit it to myself that he brings me joy. He told me many times that he wants me to meet his parents, I told him no, he said he will wait until I was ready. Then he ask me if I want to go out with him and meet his friends and coworkers but again, I told him no.. then, there’s a time when he was sick he calls me and ask if i can go to him but i didnt want to.. i broke up with him many times, he’s always the one who put up an effort to get back us togeher.. Aquarian hates drama, but I was creating a lot of drama myself.. I know im stupid right, I dont know what have gotten into me.. I regret it, if only I could turn back time.. Now I really missed him, we’ve lost contact and im sorry, but there’s nothing I can do..
HELLO MY NAME IS CUPCAKE I REALLY HAVE BEEN ON AGAIN OFF AGAIN WITH THIS BOY I OVE HIM LIKE HE IS REALLY SWEET AND FUNNY BUT HE GETS IN ALOT OF TROUBLE AND I HATE THAT HE MAKES ME FEEL GUSHY LIKE WE GO WITH OTHER PEOPLE BUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS DONT WORK OUT AND WE END UP TALKING BUT I REALLY LOVE HIM I JUST DONT WANT TO GET HURT I HAVE BEEN THREW ALOT BUT HE ALWAYS MAKES ME FORGET ABOUT THE BAD THINGS DOES ANYBODY THINK I SHOULD GIVE IT A CHANCE AND RISK HIM MIGHT BREAKING MY HEART LIKE EVERYONE ESLE?
@Sarahlee
hi, when I read your comment, I felt that I have a similat problem. It’s so weird that my cancer ex-bf are ao different. He’s got a gangster background, didn’t finish high school and I’m a typical kind of goodie girl who finished university. I just don’t understand how I can just love him even though he cheated on me before, many times. He two-timed me, he always flirt with other women behind my back and I always accidentally found out. i was always angry and yet I forgive him each time I see him. He always avoid answering my questions, and doesn’t want me to know anything bout him. He hates me for asking too many questions. Yet he doesn’t say he doesn’t love me anymore. He always say “I don’t know” when I asked him if he still loves me. And when I finally decided to give up and walk away, he told me that he still loves me but he doesn’t know how to show me that he loves me. That is so confusing isn’t it? And worst part is I can’t walk away from this bad relationship. In 2010, I broke up with him jst after being a couple with him for 5months, and after that, we had been on and off, even tried out as sex partners but I didn’t like it as sp because I love him not for sex only. I tried to really patch up with him this year, but I just couldn’t accept his cold manner. He always just make me feel that he didn’t care about me at all. I have decided to block him in all ways, I think he doesnt feel anything at all. I know I’ll suffer more if I continue to be with him, someone so secretive and not willing to share with me about his stuff bcos I’m jst over caring towards him. 🙁 so sad that I still love him But had to force myself to leave him. Does he even care?
i’ve been with two cancers. The previous relationship was full of passion but really isolated. He was very gelous, possesive, but at the same time caring, great lover, took care of me. My actual relationship with another Cancer(the father of my baby) is a bit different: we don’t think the same, we argue a lot, we split a few times. We don’t talk a lot now, there is no passion, but I still feel I love him. Neither one of us would let go, even though we are so different.
Why helloooooo everybody! I’ll probably be one of the only males to post on this site, and at that I’m a Cancerian Male. I’m 26 years old, and I’ve just met an Aquarious woman, a beauty from which I’ve never seen a likeness. She’s friendly, she’s open and extremely intelligent. As a cancer I know I have a tendency to be controlling, and as cancers can be, even manipulative. I’d like to think I’ve overcome such qualms of my character. Shortly after kissing this beauty, we slept together, it was simply put, amazing!! recently she has gotten out of a relationship and pretty much given me the friend card, with the continuous benefits of sleeping together and cuddling. Normally I would be put off by this and move on, but I understand her, I respect her. I will be patient, and as she doesn’t know yet, I will secretly Love her. I’ve realized that us cancers can be jerks, reveling in our popuparity and ability to make people laugh. I think all it takes for you Aquarian woman is to find that Cancer man who has overcome his weaknesses. In the end, you’ll find a Love that will yes…. Even make the Angels jealous.
@carmen30823 My web name is Ramilux, I am a male triple cancer, which is rare and most people are more than just cancer, if you know more about astrology. But Carmen, the Cancer side of him would like to control the raising of his children perhaps above all. Maybe this is why he has a great relationship with his son. And I’m sure it is something very special. And I can tell you want this for your son too.
A Cancer man has a shell and I’ts hard… lol. duh… Seriously when you push them and they don’t want to be pushed that way, and they resist and you keep pushing.. that shell can come up, and may stay up for a while, and if they feel you may push them that way again, they might not let it all the way down. This sounds like classic Turtle shellitis. Trust when he feels like you all are a safe and secure family he will take care of the whole family. I think so
Love
we have only been together 2 and a half years
ok so i am an aquarius dating a cancer man.. at first it was good things are still good but i feel like we are always competing against each other he has his kids and i have mine. often times i get jealous of the bond he has with his son that he doesnt have with mine. i understand thats his son and first child but what about my son. we have problems with the whole whos keeping who thing he thinks like a women and so do i. i have told him plenty of times that i am to selfish to give the kid to him every other week if the baby could just stay with me n he could come visit he said no why cant it be the opposite. constantly were arguing about my stepkid and his stepkids im tired of competing can this change im to emotionless he has all of the emotions for the both of us. what do i do…
I am an aquarius female and have been married to a cancerian for 17 years. We are very loyal to eachother and have a strong, solid marraige. It’s not sparky and passionate, but we have a deep strong and intimate bond and have learnt to navigate very successfully around the security/freedom issues that are discussed above. Our children have definitely benefitted from my husband’s love for the family and my love of knowledge. Cancerians build very peaceful and caring homes. Very good fathers. I can say I am a typical aquarian, and he has allowed me to do my own thing graciously. I travel overseas once a year on my own to do my thing while he holds the fort at home.
I would say if you are an aquarian and you are considering marrying a cancerian, you can’t go wrong. You will have a wonderful home life and a very strong bond of loyalty, honesty, respect and trust that not many other signs can hold a candle to.
I agree then I dont….who cares really. leave me lone!!!
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Hi. Im an aquarius woman who has recently (well not too recently) dated a cancarian male. I only met him earlier this year and he immediately caught my eye, but i kept quite drawn away because I dont really like to put myself out there with dating. I suppose he noticed me out a few times as well and became curious as to what kind of person I am. Eventually he traced me on fb and we talked and got along very well and hung out for coffee every now and again after a few weeks. We started hanging out every day and were trying to keep things platonic for as long as possible.. We spoke for hours when we were together and shared opinions on life and I had a very amazing time with him and when we didnt speak i was at complete comfort with him as well and he mentioned feeling very comfortable talking to me about things in his past etc. Slowly we became a little more affectionate after a few months. I remember us not having kissed yet and if i was lying next to him and he simply just touched my side or arm i was lost in the moment of some other world as cheesy as it sounds.. One night we finally kissed and got so lost in the moment we wound up sleeping together and the next night we could hardly get to it fast enough. The next day i didnt hear from him like i usually do and he spoke to me less often. I confronted him about it because it almost felt like he was avoiding me and he told me things were getting too serious too soon for him and that he thinks we should be friends for a few more months. After that he spoke to me even less and I started asking him about it more. Eventually i came to the realisation that something im doing is driving him away.. Words cant describe how i feel about him and how i feel when im around him. Its hard for me to think that i should bite down and let fate take us away from each other or wait until he comes back or for me to get some sign that i should make a move later on and try get him back. Ive been in many relationships and ive walked away quite easily from some of them but this is different and i dont know what to do. Can anyone give me some advice?
The same thing is happening to me. I meet this guy about 4 months ago and right away he cought me eye, I volunteer at a hospital and he’s a security guard and I always see him and I am always around him , he’s different around me. I asked one of my friends to ask him what he thinks of me . a couple weeks ago she asked him and he said he sees me as a friend, but the way he is with me says more than that,he always smiles at me,and is a gentlemen. But I kinda think she scared him off asking all those questions. Yesterday I went to volunteer but he was acting weird around me. I need advice plz. Someone give me advice . I need help and I don’t know what to do
I forgot to add: He messages me on instagram and told me he’s heard from people that I have a crush on him and that he’s not interested in that way and he sees me as a friend but, before that his actions said different. we used to text every night on instagram. But since he told me that we haven’t messaged eachother, I see him online all the time he always looks at my stories, but I guess I’m to scared to message him because I feel like I’m bugging him. BTW im gonna be 20 this month and he’s gonna be 22 in July.(Idk if that has anything to do with it. just trying to give whoever is gonna give me advice to know.)
@BetsyBoo
Betsy Boo how are you?:) thanks for should an encouraging blog and I hope number two is doing just fine?!
@LovesDJC0708\
Tasha I’m curios how you made out with your cancerian. Are you two still together.
@TammyDM
They are emotional and I learned that what they say in anger…is really their feeling of something that was done to them or not done. If they are very mean saying something that you should improve take it as a warning sign that ….that area is driving them away from you if you dont address it. But if you can address their concerns and let them have their tantrums without hurting their feelings …you’ll do good with them. I really recommend doing the love dare with them.
I am a Aquarius woman who was dating a Cancer man for the past 2 years. This has been the most intense relationship that I have ever experienced. We clicked amazingly, we were bestfriends & lovers. Overall we just loved one anothers company 24/7, the relationship was so relax and comfortable. My Cancer man however, was very controlling, wanted all my social networks gone. He threw tantrums if he didnt get all of my attention, and was quiet needy; always wanting lots and lots of affection. I would have to say, “hey, let me be the girl in this relationship sometimes.” I have learned that Cancer men are quite emotional, they have temper issues, and they can be complete sluts. He was spiteful, quick to blame me for everything he did wrong, and never took responsibility for his actions. He is 24 and will be 25 this year, so I suppose he has a lot of growing up to do. For my other Aquarius woman dating a Cancer men, you will end up changing a lot to suite him, because they are so demanding. I went from a woman who never liked to share her bed with anyone to sleeping next to my Cancer man every single night, because he had to “sleep next to me every single night”. On the up side you will have a man who loves you unconditionally, he will be very affectionate, and he will make you a priority. But not every woman can grab his heart like that, but when you do, it will feel like you are each others soul mate. I once read that Aquarians and Cancers can have the type of love that even the Angels are jealous of.
@nanoo_95
So, its been over a year and this relationship got the best out of us. At least for me. I’m the aquarius here and I’ve changed so much for the Cancer man that I completely fell in love with. But, unfortunately, this description above is right. A cancer male and an aquarius woman are not compatible. Although, I’ve always believed that we were going to last forever. Yes we fought, and the problem is, the problem would continue to escalate because of how much we panic. We ruined something that was so beautiful. We’ve been broken up for a few days, because of other reasons as well, and all i can try to do is accept this. It’s hard to move on from “the perfect one”; it’s hard to let someone that’s been a part of every single minute of your life for over a year go; i know that in my life, i will never find someone like him. I feel like I’m going to be single and lost forever without him. It’s quite stupid. I’ve been trying to keep away my sad feelings from showing, and I’ve been smiling and laughing publicly. What hurts the most is knowing that he’s COMPLETEY ok with moving on. See I don’t think he ever loved me like he claimed. And it breaks my heart. I don’t know what to do. I’m trying to just trick myself for a while and believe that this is temporary, and somehow accept is completely later. I just wish it never ended… or started if this was our fate. I love him and I know i will never stop loving him.
I need some advice people. I was dating this cancer man since Nov. I knew him from long time ago and we used to like each other but for the reason that we both were in relationships, nothing else happened. This was over 10 years ago…well it turns out that this guy found me in FB and we’re both divorced and found out we have so many things in common. I felt this guy was crazy for me. He was a charm. He’s from one city and i’m from another one (4 hrs apart) but the following week, he came to see me and spend the night with me. Of course we had sex…a week later he came again and it was one of the most beautiful nights of my life but then here comes christmas and he was suppose to come down and didn’t because he’s kids stopped him, i got so angry and showed my ugly side and that scared him off. He started pulling away. Calls and text were less. I asked him if he wanted to continue with this and said yes..several times, but things have been so wrong since then and I realize that i feel so much more for him than before. He even talked about future plans with with my us, his 2 boys and my 2 girls, the 2 oldes and the two younges same age. Isn’t that a wierd. I’ve been so sad and crying and can’t get over it. He makes me think that he cares for me but doesn’t text much and hasn’t called since Jan 4th. I was told I was pushing him aways with so many questions and messages. If I stop and don’t let him know about me, will he come back to me.
hi, im an aquarious female born on the year of the snake and is also capricorn influenced. have currently been dating a cancerian tiger who is 3 years older. he is amazzing but arfter reading all the star sign stuff im getting a little worryed that it will end badly. its only been a month and a half but so far he has made it very clear that he is in charge (wich is fine) but im worryed that he will put me back in my shell. also that he is verry bizzy with not just work but he goes to alot of parties and dusnt ask if i want to come too, wich is sorta what you do in relationships, wich puts stupid ideas in my head that he may not actualy like me, know im being rediculess cos i see him way more then any of his friends and when i know hes out and i dont text him at all he will send a random text just saying hey. and tonight he kissed me and sed “i have alots of effection towords you” lol 😛 guess the insecuritys are because we arnt in a offical cupple yet .. and havent relly been intimate..
am i waisting my time?
@LovesDJC0708 I think you should stop pressuring the fact that he feels the same love you do. me being a cancer male I’m almost sure he loves you the same cancer males fall in love easliy and were very fun to be around.
I’m a aquarius woman and i’m deeply in love with a cancer male it hasn’t been that long since we been together but i feel like i can grow old with this man he completes me makes me feel wanted and loved but somehow i wonder if he feels the same although i’ve asked plenty of times and he said he does but i guess that’s not enough for me. but it’s kinda complicated at the moment but i hope we can make this relationship turn into marriage one day and have fun cause he makes me laugh and i smile everytime i think of him…
@theloner123 : lil wayne- i feel like dying. i get stoned by choking myself 🙂 i appreciate the person who told me that that is possible
wtf are you talking about? and ewww, calves on a girl. unless you play basketball, cuz thats hawt. and uhm, what grapeleaves and what fork? okay your obviously stoned right now. now im just waiting for the site to block us.
@theloner123 :
1. no im middle handed
2. i am a bitch, but u dont have me
3. i have calve muscled
4. NO ITS POWNED. y u so smart
5. you’re hawt..
6. i might be blinded ^
7. dont tell/ command me (what to do)
8. i LOVE okra.. cheese .. blekh. JOKES
9. no i am perfect. parking up on curbs is professional, especially while on the phone
10. appreciate the grapeleaves 🙁 and the fork
1). arnt you right handed
2). i get me bitches all the time
3). my jack off muscle is still…a muscle=buff
4). you say “PWNED” not “POWNED”…the original word “pwned” came when people kept making typos by hitting the ‘p’ on the keyboard instead of the ‘o’ when they right “OWNED”
5). you dont know how i look
6). im just trying to reach ten comments at this point
7). now that i think about it, if i reach ten, they can be like my own ten commandments
8). do you like cheese?…or are you more of an okra person?
9). do you fail at parking cars (outta curiosity..no sexism intended)
10). make me a sandwhich….cuz i know you will. id do it for you at least…
@theloner123 : he’s purrr buff. unlike you, the only muscle you have is ur jack off muscle.
and ur sad face muscle because you’re always getting POWNED.
humanity lost faith in right handed people like you 🙁
just call me a punk? thats pretty lame 😛
@theloner123 : im not forever alone 🙁 I found the perfect guy. and stop talking to me that way or my cancerian male will get pissed off and call you a punk.
p.s. i love it when he does that 😉
and no he’s rich. he has an ipod touch.
i love how if you scroll up and read the serious romantic talk…and then scroll down….you lose faith in humanity
besides….im pretty sure a). the guy is poor so good luck taking that ENTIRE $5.51 in his bank account that he was saving for a night out at McDOnalds on his b-day
or b). your FOREVER ALONE!
@theloner123 : just go date your pen is. you are a loner… FOREVER ALONEEE.
ew….sorry i dont get with hoebags
@theloner123 : good, i can take all da money later awn, and then i can go be with you 😉
did you know, left handed people die 9 years earlier on average. SUCKS FOR YOU!!!
hey slut, how come your not replying?
@theloner123 : haha very funny… i only need left handed people in my life. so sucks for you.
haha jokes jokes, dont get excited now. my only commitement is to my right hand 😉
@theloner123 : only if you stay online for at least 30 minutes :p
hey you should totally ditch the loser and get with a real man like me 😉
@theloner123 : yesyesyes 🙂 in the winter though
@nanoo_95 : only pink
vant rishta?
@theloner123: wow, you do too. who are you? :/ you sound familiar
also, i bet you wear lipstick
@Negs : you sound like a fajj
@theloner123 I’ve been in the same situation as you, coincidentally ;). The best guy in the world and I have fought so much, usually over the silliest things. We’ve had our lowest downs and our highest ups, and I honestly am 100% sure that the ups beat the downs. The best thing between us, that helped us survive for so long, was communication and, I guess, patience. We both knew we wanted each other more than anything in the world. I realized that being with a Cancer man for so long has helped me become less emotionally distant. He showed me that showing affection and love is ok, and that I won’t always end up getting hurt. I think I showed him that it’s ok to talk about the things that are bothering him, even though he claims that whenever I try to help, i end up doing the opposite 😛 Sometimes, when he tries to give ME advice, he makes me feel like I’m stupid and that’s when i get moody with him (or when he states the obvious 😉 ) but we’ve both learned that we don’t always have the best days and need to cope with each other. When he’s angry or annoyed, I can say with full confidence that the only thing bothering me would be him not being happy and not that he’s not all fun with me. I KNOW that he has made me a softer person and I’d never believe that could have ever happened. I do and will continue to love him forever. <3
@Shaq Try straying away and if you have always been there for her she will wonder what she’s done and call. Then don’t be to revealing just tell her youve been tied up and she will want to know details. Let her know you’ve been talking to others and how your enjoying getting to know different people. She will want your attention back on her then. I know I am a true Aquarius female.
I don’t believe any of this really. I am an Aquarius woman and he is a Cancer man and we have the absolute best time together. We laugh and cut up and he knows just when to give me my space and I know just when to let him in a little more so he doesn’t feel like I am running away. We talked about what our likes were when we first started talking and so far we have not made it an issue, rather a way of making each other happy so we don’t smother one another. He knows that giving me a little space allows me to miss him and show my affection so much more when I do get to see him and since he is already very affectionate it shows even more. He hasn’t yet once seemed upset or mad about not being able to see me. We have never fought and if we don’t agree on something we find a way to make a joke about it and one of us just starts laughing…and we are in our late 20’s so it isn’t like we are teenagers with a crush.
Hi guys,
I’m an aquarius sun/scorpio moon/mars in cancer and one of my closest guy friends since middle school is a cancer sun/pisces moon. He is very sweet. Sometimes he does have his mood swings, but i know it’s not on purpose so i don’t hold it against him. I’m usually very comfortable talking to him and he always calls me for advice and just to talk. We are not romantically involved, but somehow we love each other. He said we were probably in the same family in the previous life or something 🙂 But all i’m saying is that in my experience i never had a problem with cancer guys.
It’s funny how accurate this is. I am an Aquarius, and the last guy I was with is a Cancer. He was all about the emotional aspects, and it made me really uncomfortable. Every single thing mentioned about Aquarius could not be truer for me, and every single thing mentioned about Cancer could not be truer for him. Probably why we didn’t work out…
I’m a cancer MALE (last i checked ;P) and I love the aquarius girl I met more than anything. we get into arguements often mainly because I have mood swings because I feel insecure although she does get moody at times too. We starteed out as bffls and we still are, however ,I feel there is something more deep down. But after every arguement we get into (today being an example) I feel like im going to lose her and although she claims that she does, i honestly never feel she even likes me back (i often need that reassurance normally through a simple hug). Im dreading the day i EVER have to leave her and i feel like throwing up after every agruement. I havnt know her that long but i feel like we wil be close for quite a while (hopefully forever). I do feel we both kind of balance eachother out because when either of us are PMS’ing, the other tends to provide support/reassurance. I find most everything in this article to be true about our personalities (except for me being materialistic). I can honestly say though, that i Do love you boo and i hope we never break apart this friendship <3
I am a Cancer man who has been with an Aquarius woman for almost a year (4/20, to be exact!). We have been through a lot, and definitely our differences show at times. There is never a dull moment, that’s for sure! We laugh a lot together, and accept each other for who we are. there is a great sense of balance between us, because we are so different, but each time we overcome tough times, our bond gets stronger. I can honestly say I can see this Aquarian Goddess as my life partner. Perhaps it’s my Aquarian moon that makes it work, or, just true love. 🙂
Well I am a cancerian male and I’ve been talking to an Aquarian woman for about 5-6 months and things have been starting to get better lately slowly but surely we’ve been talking a lot more and anytime she comes to me with a problem I do my best to be there for her we aren’t together or dating yet and I really like her but I’m not completely sure where I stand with her it’s confusing because I want to ask about me and her because she knows I want a relationship with her but I don’t want to annoy her by constantly asking about it or by feeling like I’m rushing her and reading horoscopes I see that we are not the best in compatibility but after reading all of these comments I am hoping I could end up with her but I wanted to ask since you are all Aquarian women how do I really go about approaching her to better my chances if any of you could advise me?
I’m an Aquarious and this is the first relationship I’ve had with a Cancerian male. We’ve been together only a few months but I see a lot of the problems in communication that have been mentioned here. Through past experience with other signs I’ve found that as an Aquarius my outgoing nature and stubborn personality keeps the two of us together. When I want to give up he tells me why he would never let me go. When his ego is bruised and he wants to cave into himself I tell him he’ll always be all right with me. There’s a balance. It may be hard to achieve but with any relationship it takes time and patience.
I would also like to add that this reflection of aquarian and Cancerian behaviors should not be followed by the book and is just one of the many observations found.
I am an Aquarius and I just started seeing a Cancer guy…he does have a silent side..does lot of pouting.A lot of things I just wont put up with that just annoy me I absolutely hate to be annoyed..But I am going to try it out He’s already called me a rebel.lol I hope we will handle every bump with maturity…
IM AN AQUARIUS TOO N IVE BEEN CASUALLY SEEING THIS CANCER GUY FOR ABOUT 1YR AND WELL SO FAR WE HAVE BEEN GOOD WE CANT GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER AND OUT OF THIS WHOLE YR WE HAVNT REALY HAD A FIGHT… ITS LIKE IF HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND WE GET ALONG SO WELL… AND EVEN THOUGH HE IS OLDER THEN MY BY 8 YRS IM ALWAYS HAVE A GREAT TIME BEING WITH HIM.. IVE MEET HIS WHOLE FAMILY.., AND THOUGH HE HAS KIDS AND LIVES FAR FROM WERE I LIVE WERE VERY CLOSE AND UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER… I KEEP READING EVERYWHERE THAT AQUARIUS AND CANCER ARE THE WORST MATCH EVER DESTIN TO FAIL BUT SO FAR WE HAVE BEEN GOOD…. SINCE THE BEGINING EVERYTIME WERE TOGETHER IT FEELS AS IF WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOREVER…
I lived with a Cancer man and we broke up 3 years ago. He calls me once a month and recently just told me he had a new girlfriend to make me jealous. He is hard to get over and I am attached but he just as bad for someone emotional than he is good.
Ok… So I have been reading everyone’s comments, and it has gotten me thinking, for many of you are all saying the same thing. I have recently met a Cancer man, infact, last week Thursday. It is still early days, but I can see a few things like the fact that he needs that little reasurance now and then, and it is not like he demands it or even asks for it, I just pick up that he needs that, which is fine. It could be due to the fact that he is a Cancer man, and is needy and clingy OR that maybe due to his past and bad history with women and how he has been treated in the past, he needs to be reasured. Point is, everyone is an individual, with past personal experiences, which molds one into who they are today. I think that the horoscope is important in the fact that it can be the “base” of someone’s personality, but it is most certainly not the be all and end all! I am a typical aquarius most of the time, a little weird, a little out there, and I get those spells where I want and need my own space, but there are a few things that is just “not” aquarius at the same time. I have dated a Gemini before, and Aquarius and Gemini’s are sapose to be “good matches” were as he just annoyed the living shit out of me! and from the word go as well. I have now found this loving wonderful cancerian man, and he is so thoughtful and caring, yet manly and strong, and I am loving it! I am happy to say that I am excited to see where this goes… lets hope I will not be back here in a few months to tell an epic fail story to everyone on here… but so far… I can tell you, that just by being with him, I would MUCH rather be with my cancer man, than the gemini… and that is already going “against” the horoscope per say. Makes one think… doesn’t it. We are all masters of our OWN lives!
surely here is a rift in this relation.never try it.you will be in trouble
Ladies please get a grip. Now I am not against horoscopes (in fact I think people have similarites in horoscopes). However, if he is acting like he doesn’t give a cramp then most likly he isn’t! Don’t stay in a relationship because you read a zodiac sign descripition. Please love yourself more.
Wanna add something else… my first love.. July 5th.. First husband July 16th. Relationship after that marriage failed after 9 years…was with a man I spent 5 years with..July 18th. After that I fell for another Cancer whose birthday was June 30th. Finally….. after all of been through, my eternal lover…..that I’ve known for 14 years…July 18th.. Not the same man as the other whose birthday is the same date…excluding the year. My life has been an adventure……. I know Cancer men as a second nature, believe that. I understand the mood swings, how they’re sync with the moon… I know everything about this sign… moreso than I know about my own. Strange I know….. but I believe its the key…to my past lives….to everything. So my journey to understanding myself…I know will be an enlightment to me….in every way possible.. (even the impossible). Blessed Be..
…..I’ve accidently ended up with Cancer men. My first love, first husband……first one to take me to my first concert…….first camping trip… All my experiences have been through Cancer men. Again I will say, by accident. I never planned such. Freaks me out everytime. 5 Cancer men…. alongside this one Aquarian Goddess… all at different times. This particular time…. I’m not the only one labeled unique. The man who I’ve Handfasted with…(my first time experiencing this. He isn’t even Wiccan. I am. ) is equally unique… I’ve known him for 14 years……but never imagined we’d end up lovers… As each day passes…..I see him and I were bred for each other. We don’t fight/argue much…. Its something experienced a few times a month. Each of the Cancer men I’ve shared my life with…lacked in important traits… except the him… I concluded a long time ago….for some reason I’m destined to be settled with a Cancer. Odd I know….. I’m still in shock.. but thankful. Our union is rare…just like him and I are as individuals.
I have just left a marriage of 10yrs to a Cancer male and am now in a relationship with another Cancerian male. Marriage was all about sex money and control for him. For me that completely quashed me and he was so negative about my dream world.. never encouraged to fullfill my dreams but knocked and scoffed that it would never happen so whats the point of dreaming. But now I am with a completely different Cancer male, who is loving kind and concerned only slightly about security and wants homelife but without the jealousy and possesiveness I had before. He lets me be free and shows me he cares with caresses and cuddles without the groping coldness of my previous Cancer male. All I can say is I love the cancerian male but you have to find the right one for your type of Aquarian. When you do the match is amazing.. when you have that slight offness in the match.. it is destructive and will just drag you down. My advice is… if its amazing and great continue.. if the cancerian traits are getting you down and the communication and understanding isnt there.. you are on a no win…he will never change.. only get worse and more stubborn as he retreats in his shell.. It becomes intollerable and eventually you end up splitting up.. but he still will have that emotional hold on you but the reality of being together is just so not right. Find the right cancer male (as I have) and you will flourish and fly in his strong and protective care xxxx
Ladies,,Just for a moment remove the zodiac signs and look a little deeper at how you communicate. Communication is key to an everlasting relationship, don’t get upset and communicate through arguments, look your partner in the eye and tell them what‘s on your mind. Cancerian men are good communicators and even if it looks as though they aren’t listening trust me they are, it just takes some time for them to process it. Men in general don’t like long lectures on how you need more from the relationship but hit them (not literally) with short requests like I’d like us to spend more time together or lets spend the weekend on our own. Put your partner on the spot and ask him every now and then if he loves you, every man dreads that question because they feel a women shouldn’t have to ask. It may seem as though you’re teaching a child how to walk but its common in men full stop.
A short request in the morning and another reminder in the evening will convince your partner something is missing and things need to change. If you love someone then don’t give up so easily. It’s the simple things like a walk in the park, you’ll be amazed at how a walk in the park holding hands can build a stronger relationship as theirs little distraction from the everyday hustle. Hope it helps..
hmmm. gals, all i can say is cancerians ar lovable but when it comes to decision making they inese to insist what they want as far as im concerned then that time the aquarian will get away from it coz as they say aquarian got the right decision if the cancer got to be in a matured mood they come to realize their wrongs and that time you can talk to them frankly………they will listen too if they want too thats why i love my cancer man though dont ever be with them when they are aggressive they will ruin you…God blesss
Brittany, im in exaclty the same situation i cannot believe how much alike it is!!! i love him soo much but there are times that i feel like im annoying him or he goes quiet and so i leave him alone. this isnt how i want the relationship to be!. is it possible that he doesnt actually have a problem with me but more so ust in a bad mood?
omg everyone above me is so true on everything they have said…i have given up on the Cancer Man Because i feel as if he Doesnt care…but my feelings won’t let go of him! thats what keeps me stuck its times when i think he care then times when it feels as if he pushes me away..why i dont know but seems the more he try and puch me away the more i want to be with him but with my STUBBORN ways i often feel as if im doing to much so i ddrift away that way i feel as if im giving him what he wants…and thats to not be with me
i really find this site so insightful and also comical as to the accuracy….for all you aquarius’s please note that a cancer man is very loving when they want to show it..and they also like to put you as a person on hold like putting a barbie doll away..until they want to play…but if you could get by the silence, ignoring, temper tantrums then you have a really good friend in a cancer man but aquarius women have to be more on a mature nature to make this relationship work. They are also good providers and they put their mates on a pedestal. They are very very passionate when considering love making and if yours is not it is a matter of showing him and he will experiement and give it to you.
i have been with my cancer boy for almost 3 years, we fight everyday, and argue about the stability of the relationship, i get annoyed because it seems like he doesn’t care about anything apart from his social life, and interest for material items, though i may come across to him as “bitchy” and “controlling”, it’s only because i strongly feel that his way of dealing with things, is either wrong, or is the longer road, when it comes to task’s, i like to get them perfect, and done as fast as possible.
there has been times when i question the relationship, and regularly i check my horoscope to see if i need to tred lightly around him.
i currently see no future with him as talking and communication is something i strive for, and he doesn’t, the only aspect he seems sure on, is the sex, and frankly that isn’t enough for me, not to mention, i think it’s pathetic.
i honestly don’t think i can continue fighting for someone who doesn’t understand me at all, i am confused and hurt by him all the time, he constantly wants reassurance that i love him, and that gets really annoying considering i have to beg for attention from him myself.
honestly i don’t know what to do.
do i make it work and forget about the signs?
or do i just accept that he will never understand me and move on?
HELP!