Cancer Woman and Libra Man Love Compatibility

@blessed I am a cancer woman. Let me assure you that cancer women do not waste their time with men who they do not like, or love. This is simply because these women can take offense very easily. If she is with you – this is only and precisely because she loves you. Believe me, Cancerians are so straightforward and emotional that they avoid even talking to those individuals who they do not like. If she is giving importance to you – this means that she wants to take this relationship to the next level. Simultaneously, bear in mind that Cancer is a feminine sign. Feminine ego revolves around modesty! Therefore, do not expect her to make the first-first move! Be masculine and expressive. Approach her with sophistication and in a committed manner. She will certainly clear all doubts in your mind. If she loves you – she’ll melt right there in your arms. If she does not – she will quietly walk away without giving any false impression to you; sad but good enough! Once you have established the new level of your relationship – you’d find her bold and beautiful in making all the right moves! Good Luck – and don’t be afraid to express your love for her in a point blank – but decent manner.

@confused cancer: Don’t worry! What happened was bad but not limited to cancer-libra relationships. After reading your post – I gather that this man, a jerk, was quite disrespectful towards you. He does not deserve attention from you. On a Cancer to Cancer note: don’t trust people blindly! We are an emotional sign – and at times this blinds our sense of judgment! Good luck for your future!

Moon Baby, I’m a cancer woman married to Libra man too, the husband is the greatest husband on earth let me tell you lol.
and I agree with whatever you said to the T! ^^

@Iyo gratz all the best!!

till now am still await for cancer..woman
guess ready to give up really have no idea..

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Hey people! Wow, there is 55 comments on this site. So it seems to me Cancer woman and Libra man is an magnetic power couple hahaha…. Well I’m to update my love life… My libra man and I (cancer woman) are back together again since November of 2010. So basically a month breakup. Were both happy in love and we both know were meant for each other. We both don’t plan out for our future, were just going with the flow and not rush into things such as marriage and having children. We’ve been together for 2 years and 4 months. He does the littlest things for me and shows me so much love in so many different ways. He does have the most charming smile with an awesome sense of humor =) Overall, I’m extremely happy, grateful and in love with my Libra man.

Cancer Woman =)

Hi guys!

Most of you here are female(cancer) that interested in libra or libra(male) interested in female(cancer) in that sense wooling a cancer(female) wanted to know more thanks alot!

well the first libra i fell in love with was when i was 17teen we dated a year i got pregant at 18teen, yhen lost my twins twins by hime sad story, to afriad at the time to show him hiw much i loved him. his mother really didnt like me. lonh stroy short.We didn’t make it, it hurt me to my core. I never love again like that a love struck puppie. I’am now 27 in 2011, but 2 years ago i meet another libra.

This guys is the same age as the first libra i fell madly inn love with. on a online dating site, i believe its true it hard for cancer to trust libra. me being a cancer july 13,1983 and born in the year of a oig sweet navie, never the less, i never really gave niether libra a chance due to bad break ups. but the two men i have truely love have been libra’s. So he make me nervous, i afriad to let him drive me crazy because in his present i love all sense of control. I’M saying this because i have been with a virgo who is a good match for me a year and a half. and he just moved out my place but were dating but the relationship has changed. I have never lost contact or atleast he has neer lost my number and stayed incintact with me but being loyal to my men i didnt go there with him. but he had lost contact with me checking in every 3 months. he has just pop back in my life in im morr single in my life then i have ever been. i choosing my virgo men to stay in my conner for comort but it is my libra men who lights my fire. So I’m confuse who to choose. my virgo who has show me he is not 100% commited or the libra who is willing to show me everything and im afriad to go there because of comfort. there a unknown factor with him, im not afriad of heart break with him, im afriad of being happy after so many dis appiontments in my life. I’m stuck but lenin more towards the libra but security and comfort is with my virgo but he does not make me happy anymore. I Need real advice some people say give it a chance but im scared and sticking to what i know.

I’m a male Libra(m13/0ct) and ‘ve been in relationsip with cancerian girl. She’s right now far away from me physically. But I’ll cherish her presence in my life everyday. There’s not a single day that goes by without thinking about her.It’s been very hard for me since break up. She called me up recently to ask if i’ve moved on. My answer was “yes!!”. I wish I were true. I wish all the luck to her, and I hope she’s happily married to a gr8 guy.

I am in love with a cancer girl and she is all i need her name is judy i pray to marry her once i graduate from school. She is the B.O.M.B. bone of my bone.

Well where do I start lol we are magnets and knew from day one we were soulmates. I’m a cancer woman june 23 he is a libra man oct 8. Within this first year married and going for a baby now no matter what we argue about the libra cancer attraction is amazing.oh our arguments get heated because cancer has to feel in control lmao my mood swings were so difficult for him to deal with at first but ladies I told him how I was from day one he took on the challenge I’m so glad he stuck with it we travel together and we are only 22 and 23 I completely trust him he never had a problem with me asking where he is from day one so that threw me being suspious all the time out the window.o he’s so romantic and I just suck it all up from breakfast in bed to weekend getaways.and he black and hawaiian ssssoooo fine to me our physical attraction is off the charts. All I can say is thank u GOD. I’ve had two past really bad relationships so I’m very thankful.

@nisha u gonna have to give it a chance get out your comfort zone and give that libra a chance even if it don’t work out u won’t regret meeting him. Goodluck

cancer woman so in love with a libra man. He is from my past, we met up three yrs ago. He has been hurt in the past, so he has a wall up. I’ve stuck around for almost three yrs. I finally got what a wanted, a relationship 11/15/2010. It’s so hard because he doesn’t express his feelings. He works all the time,so we hardly spend time together. He is opening little by little. I’m so impatient and I’m so tired. I totally trust him. I never had a man in my life that I totally trusted. I can’t do this anymore, he is so difficult to deal with. What is a girl to do?

i’ve been dating a libra man for two years now going on three and i am a cancer he is ready for marriage what should i do i love him very much but i am being suspicious but also he is the love of my life i couldnt ask for anything better than him. What should i do help me!!!!???

I would like to share my opinion and/or advice to Neshawn & Sally…
Neshawn, how long was your Libra man single after the break-up to him being your man? Maybe, he’s still hurt from his last relationship that it’ll probably take some time to heal his heart & mind. Remember Libra men is sensitive not emotional.

Sally, why are you suspicious on your Libra man? Do you have a guilty conscience about yourself? Maybe that could be one of the reasons? He has to give a reason for you to “act” not “feel” the suspicion on your Libra man… (cancers always goes off with the saying, “I feel” because cancers over-use their emotions). If you say he is your love of your life, then you wouldn’t be feeling indecisive and/or suspicious about your Libra man. Its either give your all or nothing with Libra men.

Please don’t take no offense and/or defense to what I’m saying. This is just my opinion and/or advice.

I am a 22 year old cancerian and I have had previous relationships with male saggitarius, gemini, and most recently virgo, however I find myself unconditionally and whole-heartedly drawn to male libra’s and always have been, yet I find they stunt my intuition when trying to read them. I know I have a deep connection with male Libra’s but I feel out of my zone when instigating a relationship with them, why is this????

I am a cancer and the guy I have been into for almost 6 months now is a Libra. We met through friends and share a lot of the same interests. Instantly we were drawn to eachother and would flirt all the time but nothing came out of it. There was about a 2 month break where we didn’t see eachother but now again I see him all the time. Our humor is so much alike, we say funny things all the time and because we are both witty and wierd, we never get bored talking with eachother. Our communication with eachother is through the roof. We can talk for hours on end and never get bored. We have become really good friends over these past few months but I want more. I always have. Just recently things have gotten even more flirty and I feel like it is finally time to say something because now we have built such a strong foundation of friendship! I just cannot help but worry that he doesn’t feel the same way as me. He is definitely long term material and is not promiscuous at all. Because he has never made a major move I worry that if I say something it will ruin our friendship. I have SUCH a strong intuition though and my intuition is never wrong. My intuition is telling me to just go for it but my insecurities are holding me back. I know if something came out of this it would be a power relationship. I want to make the move but I’m nervous for rejection!

@Penny Heart,
I feel the same way! My intuition is stumped when it comes to the Libra. I would like to know why that is too!

Hey Lynette, I need some much needed advice from you, since I know that you have been through your breakup with you libra guy. Sadly, for me my libra guy and I have broken up. His indecisiveness really bothered my intuitions. Things was great in the beginning, but in the end and after about a lil more than a year he tells me that he doesnt want to be in a relationship. And, I told him in the beginning that this is what I was seeking and he wanted to do it and ddidn’t want to lose me. Then, in the end it came down to this. I talked to him about clarification in our relationship before this and it seemed like after that conversation, It was more like he was starting to avoid me, didnt call me as much and didn’t even go out as much. I couldn’t take it anymore, soo less than a week ago I decided to let go. I am pretty saddened by it and I felt he hid his feelings about our situation and wasn’t open about it all and waited all of this time. It’s like he went from “hot” to “cold”. How did you deal with your breakup? I’m just trying to get past this. Hope to hear from you!

Hi Jerelin,
When my libra man and I broke-up, in the beginning my emotions were hysterical. My mind told me to move on but my heart told me not to move on. I was confuse. I always say, “In order to have a straight answer is to have your mind and heart agree with each other.” The first 2 days, I couldn’t let him go. I tried to communicate with him and all he did was pushed me away (ignoring my calls/text). My Libra guy was going out with his friends and partying to keep his mind occupied so that he wouldn’t be doing what I was doing (bugging him)& so that he won’t be thinking of me. I was a fool because all I did was made his ego bigger. So the 3rd day “finally” my mind and heart agreed that I should move on and let him go. I kept myself occupied by going to the gym, hiking, roller-skating, play tennis, hanging out with family members, hanging out with friends etc. Just doing “me” time and taking one day at a time.

During the month we were broken up there would be times that he would text/call me to see how I was doing. I kept it short and told him I was doing great. No matter how strongly I felt for him (in love) & how good it feels to hear his voice again, I always hold back my feelings (my hard shell came out/cautious). He still had to keep in touch with me even when we weren’t together. I guess he was afraid to lose me after all the “spoiled full love&devotion” I showered him with.( Cancer woman quality) I noticed he was different with his approaches and how it made him realize what kind of connection we had together. Basically, him (libra man) constantly using his logic and he was out of balance without me being in the picture and wanted to work things out with me.

Sometimes a young Libra man (not all) but some is all about themselves to the point of being so selfish. Once they become mature they’re love is unconditionally and will always be your best friend.

Libra men love companionship. Libra men loves to socialize. Libra men love romantic gestures and settings. Libra men loves nice/beautiful things & people. Libra men love attention. Libra men likes spontaneous activities. Libra men can be gullible. Libra men have comical side to them. Libra men is lazy about certain activities. Libra men can be dependent on their partner.

Hope I helped you in some sort of way Jerelin. I’m sorry for this long comment. I’m here to help answer any questions with my best advice/opinion.

Hi,I’m A libra Man (Oct 1st) with a Cancer woman (July 12th)I just want to say I really appreciate what we share I have never been so romantic until I met my Cancer woman she is down to earth and I thank God for her!

This is so accurate!!!OMG No matter what problem Libra, and Cancer have they both can get through it. A Cancer woman have to make sure she push the relaitioship forward with her ideals and give her libra man space. My rising sign is Libra, so I need space as well to think before making any decison. I am too dating a Libra, but the problems are not big enough where they cannot be work out. It just depend on each person personlity. Another factor not all libras like taking on on the phone, or Cancers. When thier are problems in the realitioshiip both just need to communincate to each other. I for one don’t nag my Libra man because I donot like being nag at all.

Hi Jerelin, I just read your post about your brea- up with a libra man. Believe me Libras feel the same way when the break-up occurred. The reason why they back-up to understand the feeling they are experience with Cancer women. It takes them some time to get use to I know is becuase my Rising signs is Libra, and I did the same to my boyfriend before when started our relaitioship. The best advice I can give you is to be pateint, and give him some time. Find somehting to do with your time. The best way to overcome insecurities issues is to FACE them such as get use to rejections. This is how I got over my own, now I view things as HOPE for the best but prepared for the Wrost. Hope this help!!! Libras, man enjoy making his own decisons so bring up a ideal one time, and allow him some time to think about it.

Lynette and Sabrina, I thank you both for your inputs.

@ Sabrina: I am also a cancer with a libra-rising sign (July 7th), but my sun is in cancer. And to tell you the truth, our personalities is kindof similiar, which he even said himself. The only difference is that I have more patience than he does and I am not all indecisive, I am direct and consistant and I have that “just do it” attitude.

@ Lynette: I totally understand your thoughts about boosting his ego. I have not communicated with him because just like you said emotions were just everywhere. I didn’t want to end our relationship, But, I felt I didn’t know what else to do, and esp. I felt he was withdrawing himself from me. Soo, I thought maybe I just let him be. The thing is for me, is that I wanted to see if were still heading the right direction (clarification) and he felt I was nagging him about it. Maybe I should’ve just accepted his response about not wanting to be in a relationship because perhaps he needed more time and I saw it as “but we been together 14 months”. Pretty much, things was fine before I hit him with this whole “wanting to know where we”re at” disagreement. I could’ve just let things work itself out. Because he has been consistant in almost everything in our relationship.

Again, Lynette and Sabrina, thanks so dearly for your advice and input. I’m just going to move on and keep going. I miss him though!!! And we haven’t spoken or communicated with each other since then (been 3 wks). But, maybe sometimes it just not meant for 2 certain individuals to unite. Sorry, I if this is long.
*Jerelin*

Deresa, you did the right thing by asking him. Please don’t feel as you were nagging him. In my opinion he will be back, just try not to worry, and if he does not come back move on. You have to make sure there is a clear understand with Libra, and if he tell you he is not ready for a long-term relatioship chance is he is ready, but he is not sure he can meet all your demands, no need to get stress over him if he can’t meet them just move on.

Ok…I’m a cancer woman who has recently started a love affair w a libra man. Oh its amazing. Best lover I’ve ever had! He’s always complimenting me, as I am to him. I believe he genuinely likes me. The only thing bothering me is…every damn compatibility reading I’ve read between these two signs has sucked besides this one!! Are libras loyal? Patient? I don’t want to base it off of astrology, but its not easy to forget. Man. He drives me nuts. Sexual chemistry is off the wall. Wat is the best way to not feel jealous? Should I tell him my concerns maybe later? I can tell that he likes women, as do all men. He really has me on cloud 9 but fear and insecurity is eating at me. I don’t want a self-fulfilling prophecy. I would like it to work…

@thats-right Another name for Love is Patience. Love is also a strength and not a weakness. Love is totally opposite of fear.

If he likes going out with other women, ENCOURAGE him to do so. Meanwhile you can work on your health and fitness. This will make you more attractive and confident. Daily exercises is a must.

I’m a cancer lady and recently got married to my libra man. I find this site very interesting, but I think relationships should not be based on the zodiac sign. They say cancer women have mood swings and insecurities but who doesn’t? that’s a common female characteristics. Everyone gets jealous, want attention, needs affection and love. The only thing I can say is that the KEY for this relationship TRUST, LOVE & CARE, like needed in any other relationship.

My Libra man is not perfect like me, we have some differences but we don’t argue a lot because we both respect each other. He is the best mate I ever had, we are perfectly fit for each other intellectually, emotionally, physically, mentally & sexually. He stimulates my entire body & soul. We make love like it’s too perfect we don’t want to stop. I believe in true love more than zodiacs

I am a Cancer woman (7/19) and after dating a few Libra men, all I can say is this is a bad match for me. I find Libra men to be very into themselves and emotionless. Infact, one Libra man I dated was so emotionless, I was convinced he was a sociopath (after we broke up of course). I also feel Libra men put on this front for everyone and need everyone to think they’re so great. I feel I cannot be myself around a Libra man because they are very judgmental and critical. They don’t understand emotions and view them as weak and something they don’t want to bother with. They are also ALWAYS looking for something better. What woman wants a man who she feels she will NEVER live up to his standards, and if she doesn’t, she will be cheated on? Not this cancer woman…or any woman for that matter.

ps – where is my scorpio dammit?

I am a cancer woman and my friend is a Libra male. We have known each other for about 6-7 years and just now dating due to the distance. He treats me with the up most respect and definately he shoot for the stars in his life. Mine and his motivation as far as goals and career compliments one another. I do feel he don’t express his self that much verbally but his actions shows he has some interests for me. I really do love him in a friendship type of way and it would be an honor to be his woman and eventually his wife. My insecurities of past relationship is really forcing me to make a point not to fall in love in fear of being hurt again. Everyone says he is an keeper but I was wondering does want to keep me.

Where do I start… well, sad to say, my libra man and I broke up in middle of February. We both realized that we can not work out in relationship because we both have different mind set about life. We remain friends and we talk on regular basis till this day. He tells me that he still loves me and he doesn’t want another relationship because of dramatic changes in his life. Ever since his father past away, things have been different between us. He has to take care of his mother, and she’s a hand full to take care of and a lot more responsibilities that he now has to take care of. I’ve been very supported of what’s going on and being in complete understanding of his situation. At times, he runs to his friends to escape of freedom to get away from all the stress that has been a huge of affect on him at his mother house. I have lots of patience and I will always remain by his side through thick and thin, for the good and worse until otherwise.

I am a cancer woman, who has recently started dating a Libra man about 2 months ago. The first night we met we were drinking with mutual friends watching hockey. I barely know him yet, and somehow we end up in an argument lol. He instantly smoothed over the situation by telling me how much he loved his mother, and that we should start again. No idea how he so intuitively knew how to make things better. We started dating a few weeks later, and I have never in my life been so head over heels with a man. He is so devoted and tender and loving. When we make love it is so perfect truly a blessing from heaven, never felt so complete before in my life. I found it strange when re-researching the Libra/ cancer relationship, that there was not more positive feedback about the combo. Glad to hear the success stories on this site. I am already in love, just too reserved to tell him yet. MAybe I will come back to this site and update in a few months, and see where this leads with my libra man.

I’m enjoying my Cancer Woman! she is very beautiful to me.

I like my friend who is a Libra Man but there are just somethings Idk if I could continue with. Like his constantly commenting toward my weight (he says its not criticism but I still dont like it). Or how he doesnt want a relationship and I do… Now there is another guy in the picture (a Scorpio) and I also Like him alot. But Idk who I should choose… They are both GREAT guys and I like them alot… I feel like I am getting pulled from both ends.

I am a cancer female and really into this libra male we were dating a couple of years ago and stayed in touch via text messages or facebook from time to time i decided to stop dating him because he didnt want anything serious, hed not long split up with an ex and we are meeting again soon but now i have a boyfriend and hes just split up with his girlfriend but i still have these feelings of passion and excitement for him like i used to is it something worth holding on to?we get on so well and we connected passionatley we when dated previously.

@kaityl87 (Kaity Lancaster)

You seem to be mixing past with present and spoiling both. The passion, excitement, connection are only temporary and will fade away with time. Now decide.

I would also like to add that you should be willing to discuss this with your current boyfriend and see that if he’s comfortable with it. Its important with respect to Law of Karma.

yes that is true i am waiting for him to come home because hes away thanks you that makes sense

I am a libran man married to a cancerian woman for 14 years now. For me Libra-Cancer is no match, it just does not work. I could have filed for dirvoce long time ago, I am just doing it for the children because they are very close to me.

She feels that I don’t need her for anything. She wants me to depend on her. I am a very independent person but that does not mean I dont need her. We need each other one way or the other.

She cant move from the past. I feel we are always stucked in the mud of the past. I prefere to live in the present. She always want to mother me. She always want to tell me what to do and when to do it. She even chooses clothes for me but wont take advices from me regarding clothes. She is forever suspicious of every move I make. I even have to account for being late for 5 minutes all the time.

I am so frustrated with her, I dont know what she wants. Every discussion turn to arguments. Her way of solving issues is, who is right and who is wrong in everytime there is a problem. i do not have friends and I am not supposed to socialise. The only friends we have are a couple known to her.

I feel she is illogical and biased. She is also revengeful. She really does get even with you. She does not know what forgiveness is.I look back and cannot understand why I was attracted to her in the first place besides same religion. The problems started in the very first year of our marriage.

I have not progressed career wise because she is unsupportive . I hate the nagging that goes on all the time. She brought me nothing but sorrows.

I am a cancer woman and I have a libra man as a friend. I am so into this guy but when i’m with him, it just doesnt seem like our vibe is there. I dont feel like I can be myself infront of him for some reason. He seems very aggressive at moments and I get confused with him alot. I feel like I must compliment and worship everything about him or else i feel as if im not enough. this is crazy! When im not with him i miss him so much. i cant get enough of his charm. he is so sexy and his body is perfect. I dont really know how he feel because he dont express his feelings as well as i do. i just need suggestions on how to make the vibe between us get better instead of freezing up when im with him….

Ndnlovu You should told her how you feel a long time ago. Never hide your feeling from her, I really don’t think it has anything to do with the fact that she is a cancer woman. Everyone is different, and many people holding on to past issues, and it destroyed thier relatioship. Most cancer woman really are more laid back rather than fusing. She has some other issues.

Beauty,

I did tell her how I feel, but she does not understand. It seems impossible to communicate with her.I dont believe in Horoscopes, I just ended up here because I am desperately looking for answers. I never checked compatebility before, only now after 14 years of marriage. I agree with you, its not just about when you were born. There are many factors that contributes to a relationship failure. but I must admit that these stars thing is strikingly accurate about her caracter and the fact that Libra-Cancer are no match.

Ndlovu, Like Beauty said not all cancer women are the same. It seems to me she has some other issues becuase I am cancer woman, I appreciate when my man or anyone communicate with me, tell me when something is not right, even give me some Advice. I love advice, and I enjoy listening to other people opinion. No matter what it is.I can honestly respect the decisions, and perspective of different views. This what’s makes everyone different. Our persoanlity are different no matter what is your sign. However, there are certain traits within people personality that is not chanageable. If it’s to the point where you cannot talk to her. The best advice I can give you is let her be, and give her time to think about things. I believe you can get along with whom ever you choosen to. I don’t beleive everything I read I learn my spouse, and what he likes, and does not like, and then I will adapt with no problem. No matter what the sign is.Some people could get caught-up in these horoscopes you forget the positive things that are in your mate. Then from reading your very first post. It seems you are focus on the negative instead of the positive things in the marriage. I think you, and her should see professional help becuase you have made it with her work for 14years, and especially if the love is still there. The issues you state are not major, and could be worked out if you Both are willingly. I don’t know her personlity, but I do know that she is a kind, sweet woman becuase they are traits most cancer women cannot not hide, or change even if we tried. TO me beleiveing in these horoscope is saying “Ok” I not going to love this person because they the prediction say we can’t get along. In my opinion this saying your are living your life through predictions, and not having enough faith saying your problems cold be work out. The reality is no one can live their lives through prediction becuase not every thing, or everyone can be predicted, and lastly if their future problem resolve the problem quickly, after your emotions are stable. I hope this helps.

@Sabrina,

My cancer spouse does not appreciate a different view. She will be actually happy if I agree with her in everything. She is not tolerant to the way I see things. Its either her view or nothing. She tells me there is something wrong with me because my views are most of the time different to hers. On the horoscope, I agree with you. Already, i stated that I dont believe in horoscopes. I dont think the Horoscope is the issue though, maybe there is some issues as you suggest.

The only reason I survived 14 years is becuase I try to be positive and have faith that maybe things will work out. The problem with marriage is that in order for it to work, it requires the effort of both partners. Now she tells me that there is no hope and she does not even have the faith that this will ever work because there is something wrong with me, she just cant put a finger to what it is that is wrong with me. I am really growing weary of this. I am now believing her, there is no hope. I am losing the faith.

Its true, its not major issues that we fight over. She pick up a fight over the smallest of them things. Like if I can forget a bucket at the door after mopping the floor, it becomes a big issue. She start accusing me and tell me its because I dont want to help in the house. That after I helped clean without her even asking me to help.

I’ve only known my libra man for about a month & a half. We both knew after talking just 2/3 times that we wanted each other. Its insane cuz we love each other already! He makes me feel SO good. I am a little worried that a lot of what I read says cancer-libra longevity is either rare or difficult. Don’t get me wrong I know its difficult no matter what but this pair sounds particularly rough. All I know is he is amazing at shutting down my tendency toward the “crab” insecurity, bad temper & nagging. He knows exactly what to say & how to handle me. P.S.its my birthday 2day& guess whose voice was very first in my ear this morning. Yup the 1 who knows EXACTLY how to make me feel on top of the world!

I am a cancer woman(7/11)and im in love with a libra man(10/6)9 years ago when we met I just knew that I would be with this man for the rest of my life. It seems like I instantly fell in love with him, after a couple of weeks. I had to see and talk to him almost daily and he didn’t seem to mind my sudden dependency of him. One thing that does bother me about the libra man is that he is friends with or knows everyone. We can’t take a walk down the street without him having to stop and talk to nearly every person we pass. We have four children together and our journey has not been easy. He has always had difficulty keeping a job and is currently battling drug and alcohol addiction. I have been ready to call it quits numerous times but something always keeps me hanging on. When times are good they are great and maybe I just in my dreamy mind of mine think that everything will turn out great. He is currently in rehab and wants to make a new start with me once he returns home. I think I will give him one last chance. I know that is his truly in love with me he always tells me and just wish he would show it better than he has for me and our children’s sake. I’ll let you knows what becomes of us!!

After reading so many responses. I have to say this in return, not to bash cancer women. I am a cancer, rising sun-sign Libras. I have met some cancers that are extremely aggressive, with nasty altitudes, and seem immature, and closed off from the world. Our personality are form based on how we were raised, and the decisions we made in life…ect.The astrology are helpful with reveal some things indeed but in reality we all are different but we have the same characteristics within our personality. For one if God is not a part of your life, and you failed to forgive, and to love, understand your own short coming, and understand your mate views, and respect them. No matter who you are with you will nerve be happy. Some cancer women tend to want everything to be perfect because we seek perfection. However, some cancer women must understand people being perfect are overrated, never will it happen. I have Libras friends, male females, and I am dating a Libra. @ My daughter, father is a Libra. Some cancer women tend to want to be perfect, but can’t acknowledge their own short coming. Libras have various personalities, which they can change at any time. This is one their quality in them. It’s not that they are being fake but most of them change to adapt to other people. Just as you are going to work you change your personality to adapt to you co-workers. Libras are changeable but so is Cancers. We both can change like the wind. And we have good quality within our personality. With that said if thing does not work out for me, and my love. I will not feel negative about Libras men, and I will date another. Because the fact still remain everyone is different, some people do change. Another factor people must be mature enough to handle a good realitioshp. For example, if your Libras man needs his space give it to him, call to make sure he is ok. All I am saying is that everyone have weakness, some cancer women needs to work on their, and stop only view things in their eyes, understand other people personality, and respect them. No matter what your sign is you need to always put God first, and Trust, love. My Love is loving kind, sweet. And I love him to death. We have had our up/ not many downs, but I can’t say that I would not want to change one thing about him. I honesty love him for him, for who he is and respect his views, and I listen to him. I am deeply in love with him. I nerve felt the things I feel for him. Another factor if your focus on the negative, not the positive aspect within your relationship. Your actions become just that. Communication also plays a major role in any relationship tell your how you feel. When you really love someone you will show them or tell them. I hope this help

wow, reading everything in here just makes me more interested in reading Cancer-Libra love story. Im a Cancer woman, and ofcourse in a relationship with a Libra man for 11 months already. I only met him in online music downloading site which enables people to meet others add and chat with them so it wasn’t really that serious at first. But then it became so much interesting when he decided to took a vacation in my country and stay for almost 6 months and doesn’t even want to leave but forced to because he must attend his brother’s wedding back to his country. Him as a lover showed so much affection to me. And indeed it was proven that Libras are very romantic and lovable. He is sweet, caring and gives dedication to our relationship. He puts effort to make me feel so secure that he will always love me and only me. But as a Cancer, there is still some doubt if everything is real or just a fantasy. I guess its just naturally a self defense for someone who have been experienced a lot of disappointment in life. But he is like a strength inside me. He teaches me all the things i think i also need to learn. As he is 7 years older than me. Patience and forgiveness, positiveness and right decision making. He gives me happiness. He treats me like a precious gem that he always want to take a very good care. Of all the man I’ve met i knew that he is definitely the one that could make me feel all the love i need. But because of this too much things he is offering me i feel like it wasn’t really real. Though it seems like it is. Truly that no one is perfect. He too committed sin and have bad personalities. But who doesn’t do or have such? No one ofcourse. We had so much fight in these months we’ve been together. Though its funny to remember all the fight we had and after all our love is still growing more stronger. It’s true that when you focus on negative sides it brings out the worst in both of you so i did the opposite. Understanding is really makes it easier for both of us to be on stable situation. Right now we are back to the old track, away from one another. In Communication sweetness, care, love and affection is still felt in our words when we talk to one another. But there is no guarantee that this relationship can step up to the next level for he is far from me and that’s making it more difficult for us. Only time will prove if our relationship will be on the next level and if our love can last life time. I don’t really want to put hope so much for i believe it only gives disappointment. So as long as he stay honest and constantly show his love to me, i can surely give him trust and all the support he need. He treats me as his strength and because of this i believe that me as a woman should also put all my effort to make him feel my love. And so i tries to put my Cancer personality as an emotional person on a positive side in my words which turns out to be like forming a poem in phrases Im sending him. He as a Libra, I believe he appreciate those sweet words that truly comes from my thoughts and feelings. Now I’m only praying that his love will grow more stronger and never end.

I recently met a libra male on an online dating site. We have only texted. No phone calls or meetings. But somehow I feel this connection with him that is indescribable. Reading the comments of others has been reassuring to me that I’m not making it up in my head. I am a cancer female who tends to be very controlling and I don’t want to Push him away. We have been getting to know each other for some time now and will hopefully meet soon. I am nervous because my emotional attraction to him is powerful. 

@Ndlovu
Ii just saw your message and thought to let you know that there is a fantastic book called ‘The Five Love Languages’ by Gary Chapman.
It’s a book about the different love languages and how you can communicate better with your wife
Hope you find it helpful!