Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

The combination of Virgo and Aquarius is quite a typical one. Aquarius gets off on visions, possibilities, and opportunities while Virgo is most concerned with making a relationship work. Mentally, both might have much to share but their physical aspects and worldly needs are very different from one another.

A Virgo man’s life revolves around himself. He is very analytical and pessimistic and expects perfection from those who surrounds him. He spends a lot of time pointing out the flaws of the others instead of looking in the mirror and finding the flaws within him. He is a focused person and due to it he may often miss all of the other things that are going on around him, such as the emotions of his friends or lover. Surprisingly, Virgo man is able to excel at carrying out the duties of a husband but the problem is to get him committed.

Aquarius woman is generally very friendly and sweet lady who is not just intelligent, but often genius. She may seem detached from the rest of the world but actually she is extremely alert, never missing a fine detail. She is very intuitive and often scary psychic. She is born with a fine tool that many others seemed to lack. Innately an alarm goes off inside of her telling her instantaneously something is not right. Love is not a very good idea for an Aquarius female in the beginning as she confuses it with friendship. But gradually she learns to care and feel.

Aquarius woman is very bubbly and friendly lady with an impressive intelligence to make a Virgo man fall for her. She loves to dream and admire her dreams and her fancy dream world. Nothing can ever stop her, not even her stable Virgo man. She brings a new spunk and excitement to the life of her Virgo male and shows him the horizons he has never ever dreamed of. Though it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it is her intuition telling her that awakes her when something goes wrong or when he needs her helping hand. When she finds love that is fulfilling emotional, mentally and physically which she receives from her Virgo man, she is ready to head to the altar to get properly engaged. But sometimes she can be very cold and detached which can make him insecure.

A Virgo man is sincerely devoted to his woman and this is what makes him a great match for Aquarius woman. Though, he needs a great amount of time to ponder before making life altering changes, even if he is completely madly in love but once he decides then he is the most dedicated and loyal partner. He and his Aquarius woman do not really bother each other with their natures, but they rarely have much to do with one another. The timing between a Virgo man and Aquarius woman is typically off. She has the ability to show many people how wrong they truly are, which does not suits well with to him. Once he smells his own stench of failure, usually pointed out by his Aquarius lady, he shuts down and no longer wants to communicate with her. Together they lack the communication needed to keep a relationship thriving.

As the twinkling eyed Aquarius woman solves the silent mystery of her Virgo man and brings in new dimensions of excitement in his life, they both enjoy the warmth and fun of life with unconditional love and stability that is a rare thing for Aquarius woman to experience. Their love has all the expressions of enthusiasm and romance and yet has a silent serenity. With her expressing face — having a flashing quicksilver exquisiteness for her Virgo man — and he having all the care and substance to give to his Aquarius woman — they make a perfect togetherness with blissful thoughts and deep intellect. Their achievements and accomplishments are so very delightful for them, that they always bring home the trophy of success when they work shoulder to shoulder supporting each other. Together they discover the inner beauty of hearts and relations and understand the oneness that keeps them close forever.

Sexual intimacy between Virgo man and Aquarius woman cannot be awarded as a very good experience. Virgo man has intense desires and way of expressing love while Aquarius woman takes love making for granted. She is one of the few women of the zodiac who is able to have a sexual relationship with a man while not being romantically involved. She can return to her own world of ideas and dreams with no strings attached. While the Virgo man has very different point of view regarding physical intimacy where it is both on emotional and physical level giving complete gratification to both the partners. If the two have any type of relationship it would be a friendship that from time to time involves meaningless sex. He requires a relationship to have some meaning. Therefore, the lack of empathy between the two may lead to an uninteresting love making where either one or the other feels unsatisfied. The one way to make it better is to understand each other’s need; Virgo man should be more creative in his physical expression while Aquarius woman should be more sincere towards their intimacy to make the relationship better.

As problems creep in the relationship of Aquarius woman and Virgo man, they get to move on in opposite directions more quickly then couple from other zodiac signs. When she finds that he has made a mistake that breaches their trust and loyalty she instantly becomes detached from the relationship. It is not that she is unable to forgive; it is that the purity of the relationship has been tainted with. She requires a pure clean connection with a man, so once the connection becomes fuzzy she disconnects and moves on to a new man who is able to provide her with purity. These two typically have a doomed stricken relationship. The only thing that can prevent destruction between the two would be true love. They may be able to find love in their intellectual worlds they both seem to live in. They both have to work very hard in order to keep a happy healthy relationship between the two.

Also See:

Find Out When Will You Marry - Fast and Easy

  • Get to know when will you marry and start preparing for it right away.
  • Try Now »

There are currently 40 responses to “Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility”

Why not let us know what you think by adding your own comment! Your opinion is as valid as anyone elses, so come on... let us know what you think.

Your name (@Your name) : August 2nd, 2009

I’m the aquarius woman in this story, and even though i was never really planning on marrying my Virgo boyfriend it still makes me kinda sad that all odds lead to imminent doom

Reply
love (@love) : March 26th, 2010

ha ha i agree with the above comment about it ending in doom lol……but iv read other info that gives you info on the virgo, so that it does not lead to doom…but yes-all the info on him as an individual sounds correct, along with my sign and me :)…. but i have to much faith in love to believe him and i would not work if we want it to :)

Reply
shayton (@shayton) : July 8th, 2010

im an aquarius and was with a virgo for almost 4 years. we recently broke up. reading this now… just makes me laugh. it’s pretty.. i mean, its scary accurate – actually.

Reply
Kortnee (@Kortnee) : August 24th, 2010

Its funny that Im reading this on the day of our 5th year anniversay. Im the aquarius in our relationship and I trying my best to find reasons to stay with my virgo but reading this just makes me understand more why the thoughts of this being our last anniversay might just come to light.

Reply
LA (@LA) : November 5th, 2010

This is so accurate. I am the aquarius here and its becoming clear I need to walk away from my virgo.

Reply
amanda (@amanda) : December 30th, 2010

i’m an aquarius female, and both of my last boyfriends were virgos, the one i was with for 4 yrs was the worst thing ever. he turned out to be evil. & the last boyfriend just ended because hes a self centered douche. this was so accurate.

Reply
marie (@marie) : January 3rd, 2011

hahahaha okay so my cuzzin is a virgo and im an aqaurius female and we definetely do NOT always get along or see eye-to-eye..so i met this guy and he is a virgo ..by reading this im guessing i shouldnt even pursue this relationship ..i dont have time for conceited people, and from what im hearing thats all virgo mean are rude, concieted and selfish !

Reply
Keri (@Keri) : January 11th, 2011

I think this is a little bit sad because a friend of mine that has recently come back into my life (which I have known for 11 years) with the potential of being a romantic and committed relationship is a Virgo male. After reading this I have found that everything that is said about the Virgo male on here is 100% completely opposite from how he is and who he is. With that in mind, does anybody think that, as this says, he and I will still “not work” together?

Reply
Cindy boo (@Cindy boo) : January 27th, 2011

I ben wit a virgo for 3yr. This info is on da money.I ben thru hella ups & dwns.But he held on.And me @ my best as an aquarius helpd him.We never gave up he wants wat i want.We are that 2% that hav true love. Auquarius ladies if they worth it stick it out teach them that communication.Things will work out if u can stop him from shutting down. Cindyboo and im outtie 5000.

Reply
Shelly713 (@Shelly713) : January 29th, 2011

I’m in Aquarius been wit a Virgo for abt a year, and all of this that says abt a virgo is soo not true in my Virgo boyfriend, We are so inlove, we are intimate in every level, he’s amazingly careing puts so much effort in this relationship it kind of scares me sometimes but I love it. How it says how Aquarius are so unemotional and dettached that’s not true I’m very emotional and loving, I believe that opposites do attract, that’s what makes the relationship soo interesting I love my Virgo I wouldn’t trade him for anything

Reply
cherryb (@cherryb) : February 7th, 2011

i am an aquarius woman, that has just ended a relationship with a virgo. i can’t believe how accurate this is.

Reply
Classy (@Classy) : February 8th, 2011

This is so wild,, I’m a Aquarius, and my 1st love, his a Virgo after 30 years of not seeing each other, we had a secret meeting and Lord knows he still drives me crazy and I will always Love him madly, but i was glad to come home too my Mr. Cancer.

Reply
sativa (@sativa) : February 23rd, 2011

all of mi siblings are virgos. though i am an aquarius female (so is mom & dad). i have never DATED A VIRGO male but just recently on mi birthday i met a male virgo :). INSTANT EYE CONNECTION & we found ourselves holding hands for ovr 30 seconds the MOMENT WE MET! we do music together nd its been 1 month today. but i do have small commitment issues. i just hope mi experience w. virgos means i was training for this day!

Reply
may (@may) : March 3rd, 2011

The moment I saw my Virgo friend I fell in love with him .he was gorgeous in every way. I think this is somewhat true however this does not apply to every Virgo because each individual is different.I miss my Virgo,he recently moved and I have not seen him in two years. I am still wishful that he will be the man I marry regardless of the distance and relationship status

Reply
RKS (@RKS) : March 15th, 2011

TO the contrary of one reads “The only thing that can prevent destruction between the two would be true love”.. so it will always works..
Am a virgo guy getting married to a aquarius woman…

Reply
BWS (@BWS) : March 15th, 2011

Im a virgo male. I have been on and off with an aquairus woman for 3 years. Im NOT a perfectionist on every little thing. But i will say a virgo male is always trying to solve other peoples problem before their own. My girlfriend is amazing but when she comes across a problem i always offer advice to help. Being that the aquarius is stubborn it does make us butt heads. Overall i am happy with us because we balance each other out. As much as the horroscope can be accurate its not 100%. Not everyone has problems with this matchup. Im happy with my woman. Remember women. Not all virgo males are the same. It takes awhile to get to our heart but its worth it.

Reply
Pavithra (@potra) : March 16th, 2011
Avatar Image

sadly, i am the aquarian in the relationship… god knows if i can even call it a relationship. its like we are business partners or something… but, sigh… he is worth all the trouble. i intend to make it work. even if it might break my heart, i cant give up right away. and the part about not having enough coomunication, i must say thats not true.

Reply
girly (@girly) : April 2nd, 2011

ok tottally bummed and torn…but i can try see what happens i want this virgo hes gorgeous im thinking hes the one ive known for maybe 3 years n swear i see him everywhere ladt time i got his number n he likes stuff bout me n what not but like turns his phone off at night i dont know im thinking im good at wiithdrawing so im just going to check it out if we can ever get together maybe tomarrow i hope lol im sad

Reply
fzs7* (@fzs7*) : April 5th, 2011

ok I am totally in love with this bright shining forehead aquarian girl and although I want her badly but it has always been a restrictive and puzzling for me, I know that that she wanted me three years ago(I wanted her more than she liked me) in school when it all started but she didn’t know the whole story, I tried telling her my ways and she don’t like it at all. I goof off from time to time and I don’t know it brakes my heart but that’s how it is. May be we can never be together or may be we are meant to be together I don’t know! age difference, background difference, style difference so many differences and difficulties? hmm….. I guess that’s why love is called blind!

Reply
Carla (@Carla) : April 6th, 2011

I’m the Aquarius woman and I’ve known the Virgo for 2 years as a friend (was great!) and been involved for 3 months (a nightmare) he is high strung and needy and nasty and selfish and is so miserable with his life that he tries to take me down with him..but I wont go cause his neurosis is not my fault…I am on the verge of leaving him for good but I see that he is so frazzled and making dumb decisions that he needs someone clear headed to help him think clearly…its that Virgo dissatisfaction with his own failure that makes him unbearable but he wont fix it. Plus he’s a flirt and gets very spiteful and nasty like a woman which turns me the fuck off…

Reply
Danielle (@dwils02) : October 4th, 2011
Avatar Image

I agree with a previous poster that horoscopes are not 100% accurate but it is pretty accurate. Even when the advice is something that is hard to hear like being incompatible with someone you have spent years with. I have been married to my husband for almost 2 years and have been dated him for 5 years before that. I can honestly say as an Aquarian woman that his Virgin critcisms drive me up the wall. And alas, for us, it wasn’t love at first sight and we have both been trying to make it work anyways. I know he will never leave me but we are simply not healthy together. The best and worst thing about this kind of combo is you can either bring out the best or the worst in one another. Good luck to all the couples who are making it work.

Reply
Eden (@echidalgo) : October 18th, 2011
Avatar Image

this is so accurate. i am the aquarius woman in the relationship, and im dating a virgo man. i’m emotionally detatched, but our connection was immediate. were best friends, and lovers. i can honestly see us beig together for a long time. and the sex is amazing hhaha.

Reply
Ann (@Annsplace) : October 20th, 2011
Avatar Image

I am an Aquarius woman in the beginning of dating a Virgo man. I have dated one before, however, he was just boring! No conversation, not affectionate unless he wanted sex (which was horrible) and we were just very different. My new Virgo man is September born, intelligent, witty, loves to travels, loves to cook, an animal lover, stable, neat (air-force trained) uplifting, positive, great listener and so very kind & kind hearted. He seems to love with no pretense or expectations. He’s very different from the August Virgo I date over 10 years ago. I have shied away from Virgos since that time until now. I know me…I am comfortable with me and will leave without hesitation if my “NEEDS” are not being met; especially my emotional needs. That is crucial for an Aquarian!

Reply
aquariusgal (@gbella) : November 20th, 2011
Avatar Image

my two cents:

TRUE
“Aquarius woman is generally very friendly and sweet lady who is not just intelligent, but often genius. * :)) * She may seem detached from the rest of the world but actually she is extremely alert***, never missing a fine detail. She is very intuitive* and often scary psychic*. She is born with a fine tool that many others seemed to lack. Innately an alarm goes off inside of her telling her instantaneously something is not right. Love is not a very good idea for an Aquarius female in the beginning as she confuses it with friendship*** (definitely. happened to me, and I just recently figured out that I was so in love with my best friend from high school. even through him telling me, I couldn’t get my head around it. Until a couple of years after hs. I’m an idiot). But gradually she learns to care and feel (yup).”

TRUE
“Though it is not her ability to pay attention to fine detail, it is her intuition telling her that awakes her when something goes wrong”

Yes, maybe. True.
“She is one of the few women of the zodiac who is able to have a sexual relationship with a man while not being romantically involved. She can return to her own world of ideas and dreams with no strings attached”

BUT after falling in and out of love (kind of still, IN love) I can say that it’s not true, all of the emotional detachedness. When you make an aquarius fall in love with you, OMG. Well I can speak for myself, it’s been almost a year now and my heart is still there with him. And the stupid thing, I NEVER EVEN TOLD HIM. Cause I was so outside my element, when I spent time with him, that I could not bring myself around to doing it. :) Which brings me to my next point:

“She requires a pure clean connection with a man, so once the connection becomes fuzzy she disconnects and moves on to a new man who is able to provide her with purity.”

^^This is why I was able to be so detached from everyone before; this is really true. This is why I’m still hung up on that guy because things were soooo pure. I felt something amazing for him. And that’s why I’m still looking for that pureness, but I’ve lowered my standard. Or I’ve grown up, whatever you want to say. And I’m much more tolerant, even when things get fuzzy. Cause I know we’re all human… things are going to get fuzzy.

That is all I wanted to say. I’ve never been with a virgo before. Oh yes I have. A long long time ago. Hmmm, I’d say this is definitely true then. Except the guy ended up dating this girl that is not old fashioned at all. She was kind of slutty… and they’re still together. But now she’s like old fashioned. It’s weird how people can change people. Or love can change people. Anyway, peace and happiness and love to all <3 <3

Reply
Divina (@moongoddessdivine19) : December 28th, 2011
Avatar Image

I am married to a Virgo guy…after 1 year of marriage, he threw me out of his life because he said he was frustrated. I was trying to reason out  with him about his still strong connection of his ex-gf (Gemini) for 8 years. Asking him kindly if he could give me atleast 2 months to adjust with the situation and the Indian Culture, but he was so stubborn. He slapped me on the head and made me cry.  And though it is ridiculous to be coming home 1 am in the morning with the sister of his ex-gf after gym training, it is rather disappointing that his sense of fault- finding made me feel a worthless woman (as I am an Aquarius woman who won 150 pounds: Jury’s choice Award in a contest to which I only submitted my ideas. And I was the one who was willing to support my Virgo husband financially when has asked for it) I was really devastated when in May 31, 2011…He just pushed me out of India…wrestled my arm, made me cry for 3 months. telling me that he will just accept me if I only follow him.But I was told that a man who truly loves a woman will never hurt her in anyway…
After the months had healed my heart, all I can say is – it is my Virgo Man’s lost…because he got an Aquarius woman who will clean his house like a house help, cook his meals, caress him at night, willing to give him wonderful children (But he said He will never ever make me pregnant because I will find support from our children and we will leave him- he is so crazy!), work for him and allow him to control her earnings, plan a nice future for him, for their family, accept his mother and make sure his mother grows old cared for, and even die for him….but he threw this Aquarius woman away…Thank God…there are other Zodiac Signs who wanted her and appreciates her uniqueness.

Reply
sherraine (@Aqua--Bull) : February 8th, 2012
Avatar Image

This is 100% accurate as my moon sign is aquarius i lean towards that way when in relationships and find this site to prove what ive always thought was true ‘ just cos u get along dosent mean its gona work’ some people are just better off as friends. 

Reply
lolagets100 (@lolawantslolagets) : March 29th, 2012
Avatar Image

I am an Aquarius woman with a virgo man for 3 years.  The only thing that I can truly say that is in our favor is the fact that he’s 52 years old.  I know for a fact that if he were at least 10 years younger, he wouldn’t put as much patience into this relationship.  Out of all the explosive arguments we’ve had, if wasn’t living with me, and had his own place, he would have been left.  He is a good provider, but he is mean and I’ve called him cocky on several occasions, because he has an arrogance about him.  He pisses me off a lot because he just seems so well put together and even though we have love for eachother, I believe he’s sneaky….I’ve checked his phone and basically confirmed my own suspicions like for instance, his niece sent him a picture which made me feel very uncomfortable as his woman because it was provocative ( her legs open, on the floor, with an extremely short skirt and high heels) so when I told him I felt that was out of order, not only was he harsh towards ME for FEELING the way I did, but he condoned her actions.  And this is another thing that I don’t like about him, he doesn’t understand my feelings right away, we always have to argue first and later he’ll understand.  I’m just tired of the relationship and honestly, I wish I would have gotten to know him better before allowing him to move in with me.  Now I’m 41 years old, engaged to him and feel as though I’m in too deep.  We argue a lot…..I’m not happy the way I’m supposed to be. I feel very misunderstood by him.  It always takes a lot to get my point across to him….:-(

Reply
Ahad (@Ahad) : April 18th, 2012
Avatar Image

I am an Aquarius woman and two of my ex were Virgo.
I liked my discription (aquarius lady), all positive and written in bright colors while Virgo male were portraid very negative, and may be thats why it brought a lots of negative thought/comments on compatilility of these two star signs.
Two Virgo men that i dated were really different, its not just about star sign but also an upbringing, culture, value etc. One treated me like a princess but something was missing for me, while othe did stragle with communication and commitment (i think he was just scared). One thing that this two men had incommon is that they both scared me when we broke up but breaking up is not a happy times anyway. I said to myself i’ll never date Virgo man again but ‘never say never’!!!!!!
I just met another Virgo man and me being open minded, optimistic, positive aquarius woman going to give another chance to a Virgo man as they do have a good characteristics like family oriented, caring and supportive!!!!!!
Happiness is in our hands :)

Reply
(@) : May 30th, 2012
Avatar Image

I am so amazsed at the Author of this?  I am an Aquarius woman, and have been with a Virgo man for 17 years now!  He is great, yet – as I has his faults!  And every personality traits the author has given us both is so right on!!!!  I would love to share more of my 17yrs of experience if interested?  Because if I could do it over?  I would never choose a Virgon again!

Reply
cornbread (@angel53209) : June 8th, 2012
Avatar Image

I am the aquarius woman in a sometime emotionless relationship with a virgo man. Virgo men are very self centered and are lighting quick to point out others mistakes and runn like a chicken %#$@ when their faults are on the table or has come too the light. They are horrible in relationships and are drama kings.

Reply
cornbread (@angel53209) : June 8th, 2012
Avatar Image

Virgo Virgo what is the difference between an august virgo and a september virgo?     

Reply
Flux30 (@Flux30) : August 16th, 2012
Avatar Image

I am a Virgo man and I love how this site just trashed us haha. I fell in love with an Aqarius women and I was her rock. She seemed to put me in me place and when she did that I was so turned on. We could have some real heated arguments, but our make ups were to die for. I had so much fun with my Aqarius woman. I think opposites attract and the only way for this relationship to work is for both sides to get over themselves and f%#%# live already.

Reply
Ruku (@mareikura2) : February 17th, 2013
Avatar Image

Ive recently started seeing a delicious Virgo man…I mean delicious mentally,physically & emotionally! We’ve both received wounds from past long term lovers & have high ideals for the potential… He has lived alone for years but with his charismatic wit & intelligence had no probs roping in the Aunties:) I tend to enjoy being a freedom loving individual & enjoy being naked around my man…sometimes he’s ok with it & sometimes he thinks I’m an exhibitionist..I’m confused!! He’s so sensible I feel that I have to hold Mack emotionally at times….but damn he excites me & makes me feel like the most desirable woman on the planet….after a long term drought , my thirst is now being quenched!! ;)

Reply
Alex (@Alan-Grae) : March 24th, 2013
Avatar Image

I met this Aquarians girl I really like and she is indepenpent, smart, beautiful and outgoing and me being a virgo, am very pessimistic, but i want this potential relationship to work. I am not nitpicky or a nagger but I admit I have flaws. I am willing to to do very tho g in my power to make it work I’m 18 and she’s 17, only a few months younger. Any advice

Reply
Alex (@Alan-Grae) : March 24th, 2013
Avatar Image

Everything in my power

Reply
William Ma (@Roadcruiser1) : December 30th, 2013
Avatar Image

I often find myself smitten with the intelligence of Aquarius women, and I am a Virgo man, but I haven’t dated one, and reading this makes met not want to really risk it, but I will if I found the right Aquarius lady………

Reply
jamy (@jameelatoensmith@gmail.com) : March 22nd, 2014
Avatar Image

Wow so damn true the aquarian woman here, 11 yrs with this virgo because of my stubborn nature and the fact that give up easily comined with my small heart been searching for reasons as to why what and hw, but after this conclusion thers actually no hope its a dead street, so nw its tym for me to sit down and figure out hw wen and where gona call it quits

Reply
L.A. (@LA3) : April 21st, 2014
Avatar Image

Updating my opinion since 2010; my virgo man is amazing. He’s sweet and understanding and let’s me be me. We both appreciate our differences and we still have a spiritual connection. He’s my best friend and I am his. 

Reply
Aquarius Woman Dating Virgo Man | Dating Around Me (@Aquarius Woman Dating Virgo Man | Dating Around Me) : September 20th, 2014

[…] Virgo Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility | Ask Oracle – Love match compatibility between Virgo man and Aquarius woman. … I am an Aquarius woman in the beginning of dating a Virgo man. I have dated one before, …… […]

Reply
Share your thoughts
You must be logged in to post a comment. Please Log In » or Create an Account ».
close [x]