Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

The combination of Virgo and Scorpio is a blend of practicality and emotions — all in one. Both of them work hard at making the relationship work, especially Virgo and that is truly cherished and appreciated by Scorpio. Neither of them is frivolous about being committed, and if once they commit to each other, this pairing is hard to break.

A Scorpio man is an invincible person. He is an extremist with calm and steady surface and smoldering passion within him. He is very intense; he can reach levels of intensity that other men don’t even know exists. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpio man lays his subtle strategies to enhance his career and personal life. He is one person who loves luxury and comforts immensely. He goes to any length to keep the ones he loves safe and sound. He is very loyal and faithful to the woman he loves. When he loves a woman he completely gives his entire heart to her.

A Virgo woman’s most outstanding characteristics are efficiency and her critical nature. A Virgo lady believes that she is extremely competent and organized and that is usually right also in most of the cases. She is also highly loyal and works unselfishly for the good of the ones she loves. She doesn’t think the world or the man of her life owes her anything and that makes her self-sufficient. One of the Virgo female’s most shining virtue is her gentle and unselfish devotion to the man she loves. She is a born homemaker with a great imagination and splendid creativity.

A Virgo woman and a Scorpio man make a beautiful connection. She has much respect for him. He understands imperfection and knows that no one can be perfect. Seeing how the Virgo woman listens to her Scorpio male, he is able to convince her that striving for perfection is a waste of time. He helps her to understand that everyone has imperfections and one needs to love one another with those imperfections, and not for what other wants someone to become. They are like a poetry in motion. They deeply respect, love and cherish one another. He is known for his integrity, and makes sure that he lives up to what others expect of him. Virgo woman and Scorpio man have great communication, but without her knowing, the Scorpio holds things back and keep to him in his ever lying depth.

In a romantic relationship, a Scorpio man is typically very loyal. Even if he wanders for a moment he quickly returns to where he belongs. He makes for a very passionate lover towards his Virgo woman giving her all the love and support she wants. He is faithful, true and devoted and always provides everything that a woman of his life deserves. Scorpio man is a protector by nature and never allows his Virgo woman to face the world alone. He is not the typical man; his love goes much deeper for the people he loves including his family, friends and the lady of his life. He never waits around for his woman as he is self confident and lives by his rules which are sometimes hurting for his Virgo woman as she feels dejected by such attitude of her man.

As both the Virgo woman and Scorpio man discover the reality of love, they rediscover their soul and oneness in such a form that their odds become good and they unlock the gates of their hearts to be loyal and devoted towards each other forever after. They give an exciting glimpse to all the possibilities they share in their life and also have the power to realize a satisfying approach for their once seen dream. He understands the critical nature of his Virgo lady and his fineness and tenderness always help her out of miserable conditions while the magical presence of her makes him more open. They both encourage each other and magnify each others’ virtues. They bring out the liveliest stellar and most flamboyant rainbow out of their romance, walking side by side, and remaining close forever.

Both Virgo woman and Scorpio man are more or less introverts. Due to their shyness it is hard for these two to openly confess their feelings of love for one another. But they always know how they feel about each other and it is just hard for them to open up until they feel safe in each other’s arms. Once they feel safe they are able to introduce themselves and communicate freely. In sexual nature the Scorpio man is like two sides of coin. One side of him believes wholeheartedly that sex is a sacred spiritual union between two people becoming one. Then there is the erotic side of the Scorpio man who needs to release his lust and passion in the bedroom. He changes things up quite frequently, which makes for a very exciting sexual partner. A Virgo woman makes love in an unsophisticated manner. There are moments of awkwardness between them while making love. The solution occurs once they feel more comfortable with each other. But ultimately, both seem to always be withholding something from one another. Both have to make some changes in order for the love to flow freely in the bedroom and feel the ultimate satisfaction of physical intimacy.

Though Scorpio man and Virgo woman share a very beautiful relationship but there are some characteristics that are troubling for both of them. She can sometimes be very critical of him who never appreciates it; in fact it creates differences between them. On the other hand, the world famous depth of Scorpio man troubles her as this gives her the feeling of dissatisfaction and uninvolved in her own man’s life. Such situations can create long term troubles as well if they do not communicate and resolve the issues. But if taken seriously and understood they can make up even the biggest of problems. The Virgo woman’s independence allows these two to have a very manageable relationship with one another. Scorpio man’s self-confidence and his Virgo lady’s self-sufficiency create a golden foundation for a good relationship.

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VeryVirgo911 (@VeryVirgo911) : March 31st, 2011

@ IntenseScorpio ~ Wow, thank you so much for telling the beauty of a Virgo ~ Scorpio relationship! I am a 30 year old Virgo woman and I have been in a relationship with a Scorpio man for 3 years now, it has been the most amazing relationship of my life. In him I have found more than a husband, I have found my best friend. Both Virgo and Scorpio are very loyal and love hard! We keep a very open and honest relationship. We work together as a perfect team, well almost perfect. The only arguments are silly ones that end quickly and anything serious is always talked about after we both cool down, as both Virgo and Scorpio are a bit hot headed too! My Scorpio is very loving, caring, smart, strong, loyal, dependable and a true leader! I can’t imagine life without him! He supports me and always knows what direction to take us in business or life. If I am not sure, he is and he instills confidence in me! He is amazing in so many ways!

Scorpio does have to be patient with Virgo, we do have a tendency to want things our way, lol. We can be tender hearts too, even if we don’t show it. Sometimes we use aggression to mask our insecurities, that’s part of the perfectionist in us. We are a bit submissive to the right man but still want to be able to speak our opinion and be validated. I agree that both Virgo and Scorpio are in it to the end when they find the Yin to their Yang. I love my Scorpio and I look forward to many many more amazing years!

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Seth (@Seth) : April 9th, 2011

Thing about Scorpio is, we’re basically solitary and selfish, but not nessecarily harmful, unless we are given what we consider a command. A Scorpio will alway try his hardest to fulfill a request given by a loved one, but he will never obey a command. He may carry out what was demanded, but know this, we are always keeping score. It’s not something malicious, it’s as natural as breathing to us, and the only logical way to make sure we’re getting a fair shake. You never find a Scorpio in a grey zone, he is good, or evil, and nothing in between. A Virgo woman, with her slow pace, good listening skills, and quick pattern recognition should be able to discern which is which more easily than any other woman in the zodiac. Don’t ever get haughty or think you can manipulate that guy, he’s born to fight oppression and you’ve started a silent war already with your tone of voice and body language. He DID notice that the inflection in your voice being condescending, no matter how subtle you might think it was. Watch being judgemental and you just might end up with an angel that uses that agression to fight for you instead of that devil you can conjured to fight against you. Virgo is the most healthy woman for a Scorpio to be with because she mitigates the worst traits he has naturally, without scheming to change him ( rest assured, his worst fear is being controlled, which is why unevolved scorpios try to beat people to the punch and control them first) . the Virgo woman is the perfect jungian archetype for a scorpio man. Virgo ladies, if your Scorpio man starts with his bullshit mind games, turn the conversation concrete with facts and figures, there is no counter to that, and don’t let him pull you into that subjective emotional ocean and drown you. Don’t ignore red flags and call them yellow

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jamie (@jamieask) : May 6th, 2011
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Many of you are spot on about scorps! except for the one who said he showered her with gifts!!! This is far from accurate, I am a virgo woman that just ended my 2yr relationship with a deceitful, manipulative,cheap, vindictive scorp! Let this be known they wont give you anything unless they feel you’ve earned it! Scorps start off great, thats how they get you..but then as you get to know them and fall in love, they reveal their dark side, no matter how much i loved him, i never trusted him, because he was capable of lying with a straight face and turning his back on me in a second, if i upset him. I gave him all the loyalty, love and attention, in the world,(thats true virgo nature) and got nothing but lies, mind games, punishment and empty promises in return. He was a taker not a giver! He would keep everything from me, his thoughts, his feelings, you never knew what he was thinking, and when i would catch him in lies, he would become verbally abusive and then punish me by not speaking to me for days. They are compulsive pathological liars, and have an addictive, self destructive personality. He would always turn things around and make me feel like i was imagining things, even when i had evidence!! He was completely selfish, self absorbed, and would always make me feel like i didnt matter to him at all. He would lie his way in and out of everything. They are very controlling,mean, abusive and selfish when they want to be. In 2yrs he only bought me 2 gifts and only because i had to ask. and whenever he did anything remotely nice for me he would say “dont get used to it”. One thing he did do was tell me he loved me everyday, but you cant believe anything they say because there is usually an alterior motive. I never caught him cheating but i accused him and he never denied it. They are sneaky and always doing things behind your back. You have to be quick and always look out for yourself, because they will take advantage of you if you let them. If you show any sign of weakness they will use it to their advantage.
My scorp would constantly punish me, whenever i upset him or we had a fight, he would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word! Someone commented about how to get rid of them, by giving them a list of everything thats wrong with them or that they do that hurts you and you wont hear back from them. That couldnt me more true. I had a fight with my scorp and of course he punished me by silent treatment for 5 days, this was typical of him. so finally i had enough, i wrote him scorp a very long email about all the hurt and pain he contiuously causes me and if he refuses to speak to me, i will have no choice but to end things, sure enough i never heard back from him. Gone just like that, after 2yrs, without a goodbye. They never communicate and they never break up with you, they just turn their back and avoid you!

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jamie (@jamieask) : May 6th, 2011
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Sorry to all you good scorps out there! I had a rotten one, and most of my girlfriends have too!

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Bana (@Powerofthe4) : August 12th, 2011
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@VeryVirgo911 I feel the same exact way…its really amazing…we’ve been together for about 6 months

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San (@san03) : September 9th, 2011
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@jamie- I am totally agree wid u and every single word is correct.I felt that u r narrating ma story. I am virgo female and ended my 2 yrs relationship wid a scorpion man.Same situation n same prbs.Dey r gud liars and punish u only. He would abandon me and our relationship for days and disappear without a word. N den back wid his lies n fake storys. Sumbdy tell bloody scorps dat virgos r nobody’s fool.He ws nt a giver,but want everythng.In 2 yrs, he gave me just 1 red rose when we met first time.He used 2 sleep arund evry single women he met. For him lust is love.Dey just knw hw 2 use u and play wid ur emotions.

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Manuel (@Scorpio1984) : October 11th, 2011
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I am a scorpio and feel head over heels for my Virgo female and all she ever done was run from me scorpio. We been together for almost a year. Just the other day she Virgo told me not to communicate with her Virgo anymore. Yea it was in an argument but still all I scorpio have been trying to do is love her Virgo and have her stop running. Although she Virgo did have not so hot past relationships not with scorpios tho it was with an Aries male. I scorpio got her virgo many gifts even sent her Virgo money while she Virgo was on these trips. So you virgos back off us good scorpios. In my intense nothing was good enough my scorpio love my scorpio caring my scorpio nurturing my scorpio non judgmental ways. Still to this day I scorpio male love my Virgo female but I scorpio am still dumb founded to what I scorpio have done wrong to my Virgo female to never get replys to texts return phone calls or anything from the Virgo female. All she virgo ever did was critique critized and ran from me scorpio. I tried having her virgo stop having such a negative out look on her Virgo past. No body is truly perfect no zodiac sign is. We all zodiac signs make mistakes it’s life you plural life learn and grow. I scorpio male love cherish yearn desire and want back my Virgo female back in my scorpio arms. Now you female virgos please tell me what I scorpio male am or doing or did wrong. I scorpio male have tried all my magic charms tricks the whole shoot and match. Through all her Virgo adventures or trips I scorpio have been loyal honest and did nothing but try to comfort her Virgo. Just to get ignored or treated like a monkey who flew pooh across the dining room and the pooh landed on the generations of passed down luxious china set of dishes. To all you Virgo females is it just me scorpio male who fell flat or short of my luck with her Virgo or is it the Virgo female cuz virgos stay stuck like chuck on bad past experiences and don’t give a true lovely likable lovable caring nurturing compassionate non judgmental scorpio a fighting chance. I scorpio male say the past is the past leave it there leave it alone and just grow from it move on. I scorpio male love you because you Virgo female are were you Virgo female are in life. Not I scorpio male love you because of your Virgo past. We all zodiac signs have a past either good bad or indifferent. It is still your all zodiac signs past just pick yourself all zodiac signs and grow from it. It’s not a past if you all zodiac signs keep going back to it or not learning from it.

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allie94 (@allie94) : March 13th, 2012
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I find this article to be very accurate. I’m a virgo girl and I’ve been with my scorpio guy for about 4 months. There was instant chemistry between us when we first bumped into each other at a bus stop, I noticed him right away! At first he walked right by me, although I knew he noticed me too, and suddenly he turned around to come back and talk to me. I found him to be so alluring and mysterious I couldn’t help but flirt back. There was just something about him. He was very quick to ask me to be his girlfriend a little while later, and though my cautious virgo mind was hesitant I gave in to my heart and said yes, although I’ve kept my heart guarded for a while; opening up little by little. 
He is a very loving and loyal guy, going to such lengths as to ride his bike hours to come see. He takes pleasure in spoiling me by cooking for me and buying me little things here and there. He always calls me in the night or webcams with me on facebook randomly, saying he just wanted to see my “beautiful” face or hear my voice. I have to say he is slowly but surely getting under my skin, in a good way of course! 
However he does have some typical scorpio traits. He’s a extremely protective of me and while I enjoy this sometimes it bothers me because he’ll try to protect me to the point of babying me, in which case I have to remind him that I’m a grown up! He also can be very jealous and suspicious sometimes, and when we do argue (which is rarely) he’ll give me the silent treatment. And when I get angry, I tend to shut down too, so it’s hard for both of us to communicate. I think that is the key to a scorp/virgo relationship, both sides have to put everything on the table. Because we can both be quite secretive (for different reasons) we need to make an effort to communicate what we are thinking and feeling. 
Nonetheless, I love my scorpio! :)

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Nick (@platoniczombie) : April 6th, 2012
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I find what a lot of people have said about us male Scorps troubling. I just hope all of you out there with negative experiences know that there are two types of Scorpio’s: unevolved, and evolved. And judging from a lot of the posts, there are a lot of experiences with unevolved Scorpio’s happening in this world. Hang in there, and don’t let one experience ruin a chance at happiness.
My story (hope this helps reveal a few things to nonScorpios, and assure those Scorpios still trying to figure stuff out):
I don’t profess to be the perfect Scorpio. I try to be, but – as any Scorpio being truthful about themselves will tell you – we have a lot of emotions bubbling around inside, many of which are hard to pinpoint which means next to impossible to understand. Now, recently, I have found myself falling hard for a Virgo female. We met through a mutual friend (who happens to be my best friend) about two – no! three and a half years ago (wow… has it really been that long?). I’ve been a guarded individual throughout the majority of my life thus far, because in the majority of my relationships I’ve been burned. I was raised by a single mom and was taught to love and respect women from an early age. This meant that when I fell in love, I fell in love with my entire being; because I believe she (the love interest) deserved that respect. Unfortunately, there are women out there who do not find that desirable. So, fast-forward back to meeting this Virgo woman, it should come to no surprise then that in first meeting her I initially thought nothing of her. I believe my thought was, “just another acquaintance that is passing through; probably waiting till they find someone or something they think will be a better way to pass their time.” But she began to hang out with my group of friends more and more. Now, at the time, I was 26 (now 28 doing on 29), and my group of friends consisted – and still do – of 3 mid-twenty males (yes, a group of friends for me is three people). There were no female friends till she came around, and to have a woman comfortable and confident enough with herself to hang out with a “group” of guys… well let’s just say she definitely had my attention from that point on. We hung out more and more as time passed, and more and more we began to hang out with just each other. The more alone time I got with her the more I felt I got to really know her, and the more she got to really know me. Unfortunately, I met her at the wrong time. Not because either of us were dating someone at the time, but because I was, and still am, going through a tough personal time. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer and her health had been declining. She eventually passed in July of 2011. My mom and I always had a special connection/bond, which makes since because she was born on July 6th (which makes her a Cancer). So, I lost a mother, and a best friend. It hasn’t been a year since her passing, so the scar is very fresh and it hurts even as I type this out. But it needs to be brought up, because I have been trying to deal with that while also confronting my feelings for this Virgo woman. I find her (the Virgo woman) beautiful inside and out. She’s smart, funny, sexy, flawed, etc… I recognize she’s not perfect, because hey… nobody is. But being flawed is part of what makes everyone beautiful! I digress; I find so much in my life uncertain now. I always kind of have, but having lost the one person that loved me despite seeing the worst of me was devastating. The time I took away to grieve (though I believe I will forever be grieving) resulted in a drift between me and the Virgo woman, because I didn’t really talk to her (or anyone for that matter) while I grieved. I didn’t intend for that to happen, in fact that was the last thing I wanted, but it happened. I admit it was partly my fault, because if people who I consider my friends don’t contact me once in a while, I cease communicating with them even though I want to. It’s not exactly pride, its more belief of what I think a friend should be expected to do. If they are a friend they will check in on you if you haven’t contacted them; especially when you don’t do social media (I don’t do facebook; in fact, this will probably be my only post on here. I don’t do things like this normally). Well, needless-to-say she didn’t contact me, so I didn’t contact her. She did eventually text me (I’m not going to lie) but by the time she did I had already deleted her number and had to ask who it was that texted me. (Don’t get the wrong idea. Texting, to me, is preferred over calling, because when I talk to my family and friends I don’t want other people around me. I want my privacy to talk, and generally that’s hard to get on a cell phone.) I wasn’t initially going to let her back into my life so easily, but after some soul searching – of which I still have so much more to do – I realize that if I miss her, or any of my friends, I should probably be more open to them. It’s hard for me to do, because there is a sense of not being in control. But control is never really something we or anyone else ever have. See, a lot of us Scorpio’s don’t make the connection that the constant emotional flux within and our stoic exterior means we’re not in control. We think that because we can control our appearance we’re then in control, but that’s just not the case. I see that now. (Yikes! This story of mine has become wordy. I apologize. Stay with me, I’m almost done) So, I have started talking to this beautiful Virgo woman again, but she is now in a relationship with someone. We still have our one on one hang outs that make me feel like if the world were to end while we were together I wouldn’t care; we have our fun banter back and forth that make me love her more and more, and I have admitted to her that I had a crush on her. (Hey! One step at a time. I’ll eventually admit to her that I’m head over heels in love with her.) But I still have a lot of personal problems to work out, and she’s got a boyfriend; see, flaws. I have omitted some things; some of these things would make me look good and some probably bad. But I believe I’ve given a decent glimpse into, at the very least, this man’s rambling Scorpio mind. I hope this helped someone out there.

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Stellar C (@StellarGirl) : May 20th, 2012
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i am a virgo in the truest since of the word, i have all of the good & bad qualitites of her too, mostly good! very hot headed, i abhore unfairness & scorps are very unfair. done get me wrong, i love my scorp, but i often wonder if i truly like him! he is all of what has been said above, the good & the bad. i’ve been punished for days, but w/the expectation that i should be perfect or always on point. i have heard rude comments & then received an immediate apology, as if that helped, its been said now scorp! to be so in-tune, ya’ll are cluless at best! when you are in-tune, you since the hurt you are causing & out of love & respect, you STOP, CEASE & DESIST! But no, you simply vouch for your mishap & move past it, expecting others to forgive you instantly! what if i want to be like you & hold a grudge? what if i want to be like you & smile in your face, but silently plot to underhand, undercut or leave you? how would you like that? i am loyal to a fault, until i know its your fault that i am no longer happy! which does take quite a bit, despite your judgmental beliefs of me. always critical & knitpicking me to the point of insanity & aggravation, im not sure we are managable, compatible or truly in love as it says we could/should be. it saddens me, b/c i have given my all & i feel persecuted & i have lost a great deal of respect for you. even the guy above FAILED MISERABLY to see that his Virgo female moving on was HIS fault, after his MOM died (sorry for that, but dont punish others!) & he distanced himself, it is not our nature to CHASE or beg to be treated as we should be or as you have been! we are not mind readers or psychics either! how was she to know if you did not tell her? that was unfair of you to erase HER when SHE didnt do anything wrong! she gave you space, space you obviously needed! & you decide to be friends again as if you are doing her a favor, but now she has moved on! oh well, you got what u deserved. i am usually a nice, loving, caring & an awesome person to be around, but now I feel awkward, angry, slighted, slightly miserable, unhappy, confused, in a daze, bewildered, and more! w/ my scorp man. i am hurt that it has come to this, but sick of being the problem, the issue, the only one wrong, blah blah blah! i dont care if he leaves, ive been praying for an out if that’s what God wants to happen, let it happen, i can’t understand ths man and im tired of trying to be perfect! for him, when he sits there being HIM 100% & doesn’t feel bad about it at all! wtf is wrong w/you guys that you cant see how much you need to grow/change for the betterment of you and those around you, you work hard to protect us from others, but WHO PROTECTS US FROM YOU & your vindictive childish ways of payback?? huh? what defense do we have but LOVE, & even that GETS OLD! You give, change, try & still feel BORED! That intense quietness guys can be read/translated as a BORE! Im so bored i could scream, the constant need to correct or control, the smart ass mouth and comments only to read me the riot act when I get smart or disagree w/him! you guys are good at taking care of others true, but in anyway that is NONEMOTIONAL. You lack the common sense to understand a virgo woman’s TRUE nature, which is a loyal, loving, nurturing creature-that has your best interest at heart, she’s not vindictive by nature! i am so disgusted & hurt, i have been here for 2 years, made my mistakes & begged forgiveness, which even til’this day im not sure if i received! no i did NOT CHEAT,nothing even close to that. i went through his phn b/c i was curious if this PERFECT ACTING PERSON WAS REALLY.. IN FACT PERFECT! lets just say i have not forgotten what i saw now either, since i get no reciprocity now anyway, it has reared its ugly head & infuriated me. now i am angry & i dont have a clue what i really want anymore. everyone thinks we are the perfect couple, but they dont see/hear what i do. smh! whatever happens-happens! im gonna work on me and either he will follow suit or fall away! either way, as the rest of you virgo women know, I AM A CHAMELEON & STRONG ENOUGH TO SURVIVE!!!

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VirgoLadiesRock (@VirgoLadiesRock) : July 7th, 2012
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Hello Everyone,
This post reflects quite accurately my own experience with my Scorpio.  
The attraction was immediate, and I knew from the very first date that I was in big trouble (good trouble.)  We met two years before, but circumstances prevented us from moving forward.  Very unexpectedly, we were reintroduced and, honestly, I’ve never looked back.
Because I am so transparent and verbal, I find myself challenged by his relative silence.  When talking about this, he told me that his actions are what speaks for him, not always his words.  For him, love is about caring for you, protecting you, making time for you, holding you and being there when you need him.   And he absolutely excels at this.   This man definitely takes care of those he loves.
I am a Virgo’s Virgo, with a Sun and Moon in the sign.  But, I do have a Scorpio rising, which might help me a bit as I navigate this man.  He’s a Scorpio Sun and Moon, which is interesting too.  In the end, it is pretty easy, even if we have our moods and our moments.  And, when I hold him, and he holds me, between all his other commitments, there is peace and he can rest, and we are in a place all of our own.  We get each other, and we laugh, and we are not afraid with one another and honestly, this is magical.
As I read this post, the thought that I have, is that for me, with this man, there is a sense of home.  That sounds strange, I suppose, and I’m not lost in romantic blather, but it is what I feel.   He and I have this kind of connection that is deep and resonates what is written in the original post.  We don’t have to say the words, we just know.  Somehow we understand the other.  The times to be strong, the times to be soft, the times to emote or stay silent, a dance…delicate and beautiful.
Will this man be the love of my life?  I think it is very possible.  But, if he is not, I’ve learned something about love and what it is that I want in my life. And, I’m better for this…I have more to give back to the world because I’ve known him.
In my lifetime, I’ve loved a number of signs (or thought I did) — this one is different.  It goes deeper and touches something that is transformational.  I’ve been with another Virgo, Cancer, Aries, Leo(s) — this man is the best fit by far.  I have a sense of peace with my Scorpio that I’ve not had with the others.  I know that this sounds strange in some ways, reading some of  the posts above, but for me it is true. Here, there is a fit, and a harmony.  I don’t have to be anything but who I am, nor he anything but who he is, to make things work.  We get each other, intuitively.  And, this is a great place to be.
For those Virgos with negative Scorpio experiences, I am sorry.  But, I encourage you to look deeper at the relationship and yourself.  Maybe your Scorpio wasn’t yet fully evolved, or had mitigating influences (mine is probably a bit older than most of yours and lived, loved, and learned a bit before coming into my life.)   Don’t give up on them in total because of your experience.  And, guessing that I am a bit older than most of you, I will say that life is large and you will meet many people along the way.  Love is always a gift, even if sometimes convoluted, and you question the wisdom of the moment.  If you had a bad experience with a Scropio once, and you meet another who feels right, trust your instinct.  It might just be about the right time, place and person.
Best to you all :-).

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Tina (@Tinaaapay) : September 1st, 2012
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@jamieask Oh my. Same sentiments. Why do I feel like I amatter atong my own story. But ours lasted for 6 years. Man, that was long! 

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Tina (@Tinaaapay) : September 1st, 2012
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Damn autocorrect. I mean narrating

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Tina (@Tinaaapay) : September 1st, 2012
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@jackieoFucking true. So fucking true. Especially this part, “They NEVER say goodby because, they always want to come back”

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whtwzzrd88 (@whtwzzrd88) : October 1st, 2012
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Ok, reading through this i have seen some relationships fail and some flourish. I am a scorpio man and I admit to most of the faults that were given in the above posts. But like anyone else we are not perfect. We have flaws. We are human. 
I personally was an unevolved Scorpio through most of my life until i did some self dicovery and i guess “evolved.” I have learned to control my worse attributes like being possessive and jealous. I still feel them but i personally believe that to be in a true relationship you have to always work on changes yourself to the better person that YOU want. 
You shouldnt judge all Scorpios because of one experience. I dated a Virgo for 2 years and she never let me in, she never fully trusted me even though i showed her my true self and wore my heart on my sleeve. But im not going to give up on all Virgo’s because of her. It just seems unfair.
I personally have never been physically or mentally abusive and never even thought to be, i dont think that is a “Scorpio” trait, i think that is just how the man was raised or just how he is. He just so happened to be a Scorpio. Make us all look bad. 
I do agree with the silence thing. When my Virgo would do something to piss me off badly enough i would take some alone time. Because I had to analyze why she said or did it and what i had done to deserve it. But you will find that with any male. Thats why they came up with the term “man cave.” We men need it. Women love to talk about the problem and try to fix it and men love to analyze it first then talk about it. 
I see that there is a lot of talk about “unevolved” and “evolved” Scorpios but barely any talk of the other Zodiacs having that distinction. I personally think that everyone has to look into themselves “evolve.” Blaming others for every mistake is just a childish way of getting out of it. These failed relationships on here have been the Scorpio’s fault only. But look back and analyze yourself and figure where you also screwed up. Except Virgo from above. What that guy did was all him and you didnt deserve it. I would have killed him if i were you. No one should ever be abused in anyway.
I know this is pretty scattered but i dont like talking about things i personally have experienced. So sorry about that. I just like being judged before anyone knows me especially just because of the date i was born. Not my choice. Blame my mother and father? It seems wrong. But im not afraid to admit my faults and try to change them. As long as i have a reason to and help along the way. 
All in all we all have faults. When in a relationship you should accept those faults and if need be help that person change them not force them to do it alone. Dont judge the whole by the part. Meh.

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anuj (@anuj9122) : September 9th, 2013
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hi
i am scorpio and my girl is virgo.What would you suggest to me?Should i live my wholelife with her or i should leave?

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Danielle (@Dw566) : October 24th, 2013
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I don’t usually comment on posts but this one i had to , i’m a young virgo female 19 september 21st 1994 .. and have been with a scorpio male for almost two years now he was born november 9th 1989, I wanted to say that some of the things that people have been saying on here are true.. and some of it’s not .. , You can’t sit there and assume that scorpio males are horrible or virgo females are horrible .. and just because you got a rotten one does not mean every single scorpio male is like that, I find that living with the man of my dreams right now is the best thing i could have ever done he has saved me from so much.. He is smart, outgoing , loyal , protective and does almost anything i ask him to do with a little push. Yes they are hot headed and get way over the top when they are mad but if you love them anough the fights and arguments will just brush off, We get into fights but it’s nothing bad we usually fight and then just brush it off after, But any sign can be like that any sign can be hot headed and anything els you can describe.. I may not be the smartest person in the world and yes i know that i am young and that i still have a long life ahead of me but it just got to me that all you guys and judge someone so cruelly on the day that they were born or just because you got a ” bad one ” .. No one said that you had to put yourself through those things with the scorpio male.. that was your own fault for sticking around, but you don’t half to sit there and assume that all scorpio males are bad people… NOT ALL OF THEM ARE.. My man is the best man in the entire world to me and i refuse to let anyone get in our way and try and make me feel different. To be honest i think that any virgo female like myself with all my life problems and stuff i have going on to have such a manly dedicated scorpio male in my life and whome i live with to look after her should be the most proud and loving virgo female in the entire world , I can say this without a dought he is my future husband.. and i can say this because i just know deep down in my heart from the moment we met even though i was young he was the one for me and  the only one i trust to be the father of my children someday, I know that everyone should stop slamming down the scorpios like they are complete jerks because not all of them are, Yes they can get very angry .. BUT SO CAN ANYONE .. so stop all the judgement.. just don’t judge another scorpio just because you had a bad one.. you probably did not know how to deal with them at the time and were just very angry and frusterated anyways i’m done with this for now and i am sticking to everything i said i love everyone so i’m not pin pointing out anything so say comment or do what ever you want. 

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