Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

I LOVE this article!

My scorpio man has expert knowledge of Virgo women. I feel at a disadvantage cause he is the only scorpio man I know and have known ever. He knows my every move and anticipates my acts and answers. I need to learn more about my Nov 8 1975 man. Please help.

I dated a scorpio male for a year and he cheated on me but stated he was in love with me and wanted me to still have his children I told him I wasn’t gonna sit and wait while he do him cuz I have a life too.I never cheated on him yes I still love him and am in love with him. He tells me he’s a f***ed individual what should I do

I find your description of a virgo woman terribly uncharacteristic of myself, (a virgo woman).

This comment is for comment #4 from “Keese”… I too am a Virgo woman, with my research of the zodiac and self observation I have learned that Virgo women are quite complicated, they have many different sides to their intellectuality and respond differently to each zodiac sign. This is why they are the most desirable of woman on the zodiac because they are so well rounded. Maybe you don’t relate because you have never had an intimate relationship with a Scorpio man…

Yes! Some of this is actually true. We are so different yet so much alike. Although, when there are issues w/ this love Virgos see, we analyze. We’re just not always sure how to deal w/ them. I am a Virgo woman and I am very open with my feelings and believe that I always have been. Why? Because I noticed that that would be a possible issue with a very aggressive yet loyal Scorpio. The only issue is that when we find the mistakes and try to fix them it becomes very structured looking. This I’m not sure a man or a Scorpio person would like; but the Good thing w/ Virgos is we no how to fix everything seems like. “It can’t be hard to make it less structured”. Well, flaws are flaws and we except each other for them. My scorpio lover always wondered why I seemed so strong-headed, soo perfect. Truth was I knew my imperfections and new exactly how i was going to fix them; I knew I would fix them. There were also many other reasons to being strong headed because I see I insecurities and fight against them. For example,”This Virgo girl is shy? No! I will force myself to be outgoing”.Other than all the flaws, that we overcome anyways; we couldn’t help but love each other I the deepest can’t and wo t let you go way. I believe if you get a Virgo girl to open up where it’s obvious,” sexually but genuinly” then it unconditional! Never know what you can make her free spiritcome alive and do. They’re almost capable of anything. Being a Scorpio or a Virgo is not easy to do but a Scorpio with a Virgo. Is To me the cutest, realest, downtoearth,passionate and most beautiful relationship

I’m a Scorpio guy with a hopeless crush on a Virgo girl. She lives far away, is incredibly beautiful, intelligent and wonderful. I could never attract her. But reading this article gives me some daydream material.

I am a virgo woman who has just started dating a scarpio man and I must say it has been great thus far…I just hope all that is said about our compatibility is true..:)

I am a virgo woman who was with a Scorpio man. I will never go out with another. Right from the start I just wanted to be friends to take it slow. But He showered me with gifts and says He loved me and asked me to marry him! I couldn’t get rid of him! No matter how critical I was! I needed to trust again take it slowly as a friend. From the start it was ruined beacause he needed more! 1 year and a 1/4 later He just leaves with out a word He gives me the silent treatment and leaves me wondering, is it over? He won’t tell me. They are not good at communication when it comes to leaving! Why can’t they just tell you it’s over? It has been 4 months now and he has’nt replyed to my letter asking him is it over? I shall never trust another crazy intense cry baby and aggressive Scorpio again! How to get rid of a Scorpio give him a list of every thing that needs to change with him!

I will never date a Scorpio. They move too fast for my taste–thinking that it’s love or whatever when I show the slightest bit of interest. (So, I totally know how you feel Andrea! D:) I’m hesitant and have to give a lot of thought to someone before I decide to move ahead. They can’t just get the hint when I’m not interested, even when I say so or make it very obvious through my actions. One of them asked about the possibility of a relationship after I denied his kiss (we’d hung out only three or four times prior to this). I wanted to take it slow cuz I’d just gotten over my Gemini ex-fiancé and still had some stuff I needed to work out for myself, and the speed at which he was moving made me feel cornered. Our first date was good, in his defense, and scorpios are just easy to open up to. But hanging out a handfull of times won’t make me want to go steady with someone.

Another seems to have finally gotten the hint that I’m not interested since he isn’t texting me 24/7 anymore, but he and the last example of a Scorpio still seem to think of themselves as being above everyone else.

Another Scorpio is best friends with my Aries ex. Both are conceited pricks with big ego’s so it’s no wonder they’re friends. In short that’s why I HATE this Scorpio. His shit don’t smell like roses!!! Also, he always embarrassed me in front of Aries by making me look stupid when me and Aries dated. In front of boyfriends I do care about how I present myself so making me look stupid in front of them is a good way to make me greatly dislike you. The only positive thing I have to say about him is that he saved my ass with quick talking but that’s it.

Scorpio guys–you want a Virgo girl? Learn some f**king humility, get over yourself, and go SLOW!

I’m a Scorpio man with a hopeless crush on an amazing Virgo women as well. We’ve known each other for a year or so and we’ve just recently started talking and spending more time together intimately. I knew I was drawn to her personality the second I heard her friendly/confident voice conversing with someone outside my my office door. I definitely faked a reason to take a walk to the drinking fountain in order to get a look at this one.

Since we’ve gained mutual friends so I was able to get to know her without coming on too strong. The problem im having is that the timing for us isn’t really working out and i’m starting to lose hope.

From the start we both were in serious relationships with other people however now both of us have broken up and single for roughly 7 months.

I have enough romance experience to know not to move quickly so it was obvious to give it some time. Because of this I was able to watch from a safe distance of friendship as she would bring around a new guy and then shamelessly flick them away at the first sign of a flaw.

Intimidating right?

Hardly. Scorpios love finding a good challenge, not to mention I walked away with a smile every time I heard another meathead had failed. So just in the last 2 weeks things starting to heat up significantly and I couldn’t hold back anymore It finally felt right to make a move. The new feelings we were both throwing back at each other had us bother floating with excitement there was no denying it was something different for both of us. I’ve protected this moment for so long it felt as if she was working hard to enjoy it with me for just as long.

Before I knew it my luck had came back and her ex boyfriend had showed up to reconcile for the last 3 years of having his head up his a**. The re-entery into her life had confused her so much I didn’t even have to ask after seeing the look in her face when she told me he was trying to get back in touch.

We finally sorted this out and through soooo much patience and coaching I finally got her on some steady ground. Not as intense as it was before, but at least she felt more in control head she knew we could work things out on my end with no anxiety one at a time. I’ve never this much patience for any other women i’ve been with in my life to this point.

Just a day ago her ex’s mother passed away in a car accident at 48. It was awful news for more then the fact it may have caused me to lose this girl after all. I let her run to his support without a fight for obvious reasons. It was hard to do with a smile on my face but I did. I told her not to worry on my end everything will be fine and she’ll know where to find me. It’s been a week and I still have made no attempts to contact in respect of giving her the space I know she desperately wants.

I have to admit i’ve thought of her everyday and I need help with what you all think I should do? I feel as if I just grasp the hands of that elusive lady named destiny if only with just my fingertips when I think about her but do I stay or let this one go? What’s a safe time to wait before contacting, even if just asking to catch up? Ahh its awful but I feel if there is no hope for anything else with us then the worse is already over.

This comment is for comment #11 for the story Anthony shared.

I am a virgo women and am currently in a relationship with a scorpio man. (though I am sad to say that things arn’t how they used to be…)
My scorpio man and I have a bit of a long history… We first met in 2005 and it was indescribable!! The amount of passion we both had!! I was in a relationship (sort of) but I had been and was having problems in my current relationship when I first started talking to this scorpio man. Things had even gotten so bad in my relationship to the point of a violent fight, that my scorpio man drove 3 hours to where I was at to come pick me up!
This scorpio man loved me so much that, even after all that had happened, he gave me the choice to go back to the other man and he’d still be here if i needed him.
A few years later my scorpio man and I started talking more frequently and hanging out more and more. (Though through the years we would get together for a lunch every once and awhile. So we never really broke the friendship and remained friends through out those years.) During those years I was in a new relationship with an entirely new man. After leaving him, my scorpio man and I started hanging out more and I’d think back and wonder why I ever left thins man in the first place. I loved to hang out with him and loved how he made me feel and how I could just let myself go and be silly or whatever with out feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed! Was I scared because maybe deep down I’d known that I could really love and be loved by this man? And that I had to have some more life experiences in order for me to see this and to actually see him. Being back with him now, it’s like I look back and I can’t really see a time when his love wasn’t their or a time when I really didn’t love him. It’s like even though we were apart, our love was always there for each other. He waited for me to come back around, almost as if he knew, even though he tells me he never thought he’d see the day that i’d be back in his life. It’s been 2 years now.
Something he said to me when I took the step and made the choice to be with him entirely, was “if you love something, let it go, and if it comes back that’s how you’ll know…”
I wonder why it was so hard to make this step before? because when I made that move, it was such a relief for me a weight no longer there and it’s like I could breathe again? feeling so strange, yet so right, and our passion so intense…. why did I have to wait so long!!! I’m only grateful he was still there for me when I came back.
I can’t say that she will come back to you and that you should wait. I’m not saying that at all, but saying that maybe she needs this experience to see and learn from. Now that she’s had a taste of the relationship you two have shared and her other one with her ex, she may need some time to see what she truely wants and what her heart desires…

I wonder if there is any advice you Virgo girls can give me. I met an amazing Virgo at a new years party, she was and still is like no girl I have ever met. Things went great we had to sleep together haha just cuddled talked didn’t do much. We had an 18th the next day and everyone got abit….mhmm (:D) next thing i know i wake up next to her and she said she carried me downstairs because I was so gone. I was given a wrong number by my mate and I didn’t get to contact her for 2 months, we hooked up again at hers went back to my mates and had to crash there and things led on we stayed up till 5am talking about anything and everything, got it on and she gave me her number. Then all of a sudden she has to move a few hours away and I don’t get to visit for about another 2 months (mind you I hate phone talk and that didn’t lead on to anything but giggling and chatting), called her up said i was in town got to visit her a couple of times but there was no talk of an “us” I had to leave the 2nd time because of the landlord so my luck had run short she asked if i wanted to go swimmin the next day “sweet this is my chance!” we ended up headin home early. Now I’m in the Australian army, after my assesment next week its off to trainin for about 5 months or so. I don’t know whether I should call up and just admit everything I feel, or hope that she is single at the end of the year which she has been this far but how would you guys feel if you hook up and then the guy goes off for so long. Any help would be greatly appreciated I’m so torn in what to do :S lol

Thanks in advance – Tommy ^_^

I am a virgo woman and am with a scorpio man. what i can say bout the article is, the characterististics being described about both sides are true. but there’s only one thing that bothers me, please hope u can tell me or advise me or something….

WHO HAS THIS MORE JEALOUSY CHARACTER? Virgo or Scorpio?

This is for Didi,you can get the information from the birth chart.There r so many of them.You can try the free one at http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php

hope this would be helpful

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Thanks Mel it helps what you said. And also I am not alone in the way I’d felt. I saw him up the road and He wen’t out of his way to walk right past me no word. So I didn’t either. He makes out I am the bad one. That I was mean to him? No I lost my trust in all men now. No matter who they are they all the same. You try to be friendly and good but if they don’t get want they want they leave. Friendship is gone! No more. I also went out with a Gemini they are boys that never grow up! They joke and lie! And have you and another girlfiend or a wife! Never again with them. No all men are the pits! All the same. I am staying single now. Keeping my guard up from them all. Okay as a friend but thats it. Been hurt too many times now and Scorpio put the icing on the cake!

I’m a 28 year old Scorpio man. I never have been out with a Virgo women. I’m very loyal. I never realy believed in horoscope compatability before, but nothing else is working so I guess I should give this a try. Ha Ha!!

I love my Scorpio guy very much, but his attention seems to be waning. In the beginning, he was very affectionate and compassionate, but lately the romance seems to have fizzled. I also notice he seems to do things to get me pissed off, rude or distant things that he knows will bug me, like walking waaaayyyy ahead of me when we go on a hike together. I try to speak to him calmly about things, but it seems like he then escalates it until the point where I get pissed off and then he an get mad at me because I get “mad at him all the time”, as he says. Then he wants to break up or give me the silent treatment for weeks. I said, why don’t you just take a break if you want one, or why don’t you just break up with me if you’re no longer interested. Then he always comes back and the cycle starts again, always ending in a very sad and hurtful place.

Hi Virgo woman PLEASE run when you see a Scorpio male. You will be left standing along wondering what the HELL happen? They NEVER say goodby because, they always want to come back. The grass always look greener. They will CHEAT and LIE to you the entire time you are with them. They make you feel like you are the only person they care about but behind YOUR back it’s a different story. They are GREAT actors, ask your SELF what did you have to attact them to YOU? ( money, title on your job, or degree ) A scorpio is a actor they will only show their representative to you, you will never know who you are dealing with I know dated a male scorpio for four years. PLEASE LADY DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME! RUN! RUN! RUN! They will move on because they found someone to take your place that’s WHY they pick fights. They want you to LEAVE so they don’t feel bad.

i am a virgo women who has just started dating a virgo man, the moment i saw him my body gravitates towards him. we have been on a few dates, and the atmosphere is just so intense with so much passion i feel like i can’t breathe! He lives so far away he travels so far to see me and he has waited hours for me to turn up(who ever said all virgos were great time keepers were disaluded) i can sence he is feircely loyal, protective and even jelious but this doesn’t put me off i know better than to let my heart lead my head but any virgo women is naturally hesisitant, he tells me im the only one and that no one has ever made him feel this way but we have barely known each other two weeks! i can’t say i don’t feel the same because i do, but i know the men of this zodiac are great actions and have a tendency to do this tango over and over because all scorpios love to tango, and i’m finding it very difficult to restrain myself HELP!

i mean’t so say scorpio man, sorry guys!

I am a Taurus guy(27), well I find this post interesting, I also wanna share, I met this Virgo girl 4 years back we are still great friends but somehow I fell in love with this girl, I don’t know but all these years I was in Philippines, Jakarta, Dubai, Bahrain and a lot many places I had opportunity to settle down in any of these countries but I came back for her, In all these years only one thing was consistent that is my love for her, I always felt she loved me more than i do, after coming back also we could not meet as her and my job was in different cities so every weekend I used to travel almost 1000 kms just to see her once, sometimes I spend 8-10 hrs. journey in standing and came to see her just for 5 mins., sometimes used to call her without saying anything just to hear her voice, though I never said I LOVE YOU we are so close I thought she already knows, She could share everything with me for her I changed my job and came to her city I proposed one fine day then she told me she is in love with another guy. I felt like my world has gone upside down but still I held myself and tried to go away but every time she brings me back sometimes she calls, sometimes she just gets so much worried about me she knows how I am. I have her boyfriends number but I never called him, I tried to return his visiting card to her but she refused she knows I won’t do anything stupid. I don’t know what is going on understanding between us is just so strong. But she says she loves Nik. I am also okay if everything goes well, but If that guy leaves her I just won’t be able to withstand that, this thought wakes me up from the middle of my dream, well right now I am following her orders that we will not see each other or talk she thinks this makes me insane hahahaaaaa she is still like a kid, but I know she won’t listen me so I am just waiting for her to get married properly or if needed I can always be back. I am open to her if she asks anything she gets the answer. I let her know upfront that it was I who used to give her blank calls occasionally. I am not worried about myself but for her what she’ll do, She seems like a confused girl about her feelings, I am staying here just to make sure that she goes fine as once gone I don’t know whether I will ever be back again as I don’t want to bring any misunderstanding between her and her boy friend. but still my heart aches for her sometimes I see bad dreams, I immediately call her and she also responds properly saying “Main theek hun”(I am okay). hahahahaaaa we already are in a relation but not expressing my feelings is going to cost me my life. hahahahaaaaaa, I know somewhere she has also got bound with this guy and just cannot step back as he is her childhood friend I pray to god this guy learn to love thousand times more than I do and GOD BLESS NAS.
Nas If you are reading this post then listen to me “For me you need not to prove anything just be the way you are, good or bad, best or worst whichever way you are just be like that, You already know but once again I wanna say that even if you don’t utter a word I will understand, I will be fine” girl have some attitude, and stop worrying about me.

I started one blog where I used to dump out all my emotions, they have no meaning at all without her but I feel so much that keeping those feelings inside hurts me so I submerged myself in my work and If still I get any time I used to write all my emotions at http://lostinbheed.blogspot.com/ It hardly helped hahahaaaaaaa loving some one from your heart and soul and then just let her go without any reason, when you don’t even know where she is heading hurts, She is the only one I have got to share my feelings, but I guess I have to learn to let go things, I proposed her and everything changed she used to talk to me day and night but now hahahaaaaa she does not even pick up the phone that’s okay for me I understand, but the guy she is with I met him once he doesn’t seemed nice and could take care her, May be I am hurt so i am not able to judge, but I believe she is in fantasy, well I hope her fantasy becomes reality, what else I can do because for me life has always been so difficult. Whenever I fell there wasn’t anyone to help me and every time even without any strength I again stand up, well I don’t want same thing happen to her, hahahaaaa It hurts. Though it hurts more to see your loved one going away slowly-slowly but if its good for her than I don’t care I am ready to bear thousand times more pain than I am in right now. God be with her, I can survive in hell also but don’t leave her hand, If something happens to her I won’t be able to rest even in my grave. So please bless her and let me rest in peace.

Nas, I already written posts but my pain is not easing off, may be I should learn to live with this feeling of acute pain hahahaaaaaaaaaaa, god bless you.

I am a Scorpio & I have a fling for a Virgo girl. The thing is, this girl is 75% into women. Bisexual. (People tell me she is 100% lesbian) but I doubt it since I’ve kissed her once and she has not put a stop by saying “she’s a lesbian or lets just be friends.” Anybody have any opinions or anything constructive to say?

Henry, I just got out of a relationship with a Virgo women who is supposed to be a lesbian. She was absolutely in love with me. She wanted to have my babies and leave her lesbian girlfriend for me. Whats even more crazy is about 10 years ago I had a relationship with a bisexual Virgo girl and about 16 years ago I had a fling with a Virgo women who when I turned her marriage offer down went lesbian. Virgo women are live too deeply in there minds and want to make final decisions about everything so they tend to be very confused and even more dogmatic. Don’t worry this last girl ran me absolutely crazy. The Scorpio in me was seeing the truth about the virgo female but the truth scares virgo’s. Her attitude was unless I was willing to be her boyfriend than husband she would deny everything. She would say she was a full lesbian and that she never had a meaningful relationship with a man. Advice don’t tell a Virgo anything private. They have to tell other people it’s there nature.

I will be married to my Scorpio man 11 yrs Oct 17,2010….He was AMAZING when we dated gentle ,sweet, kind, loving..as soon as we married on our wedding night he started mentally abusing me never constimated marriage til 18 hrs later his choice not mine!!! The mental abuse has stayed even to this day not ( just not as bad & easily managable) The physical abuse started after 2nd child @ 4 mnths of age…..Physical Abuse started 2 yrs & 4 mnths & 4 days after wedding…choking, punching, slapping,pulling my long hair & throwing me on the concrete…SCORPIOS ARE DANGEROUS he has ALWAYS threstend to kill me still I have people who know if I come up missing it is MY HUSBAND tell cops !!! I HATE HIM OH GOD HOW I HATE HIM!!!!I want out goin through vet assis.. to get me & my 10 yr old & 8 yr old OUT but still scared 2 ! watch ur back on scorpios !!!

im a virgo woman and scorpios are the only sign that can handle me i knw them like da back of my hand..the good thing about them is only the sex if u a virgo u know scorpios bring out ur sexual side..they really take u there if u know wat i mean but the bad part is they lie cheat and manipulate they love to play mind games and somehow i always end up falln for them and end up gettn my heart broke like how im feeln right now over one…i currently broke it off wit da scorpio man i was just dating he play to many mind games and i still manage to fall in love wit him ugh i wish love came with a receipt or refund cus all he gave me was false advertisement like all scorpio do on the surface is wat exactly wat they want u to see til u really start to see there true colors ..he wasnt anything like i thought he was so WORD ADVICE TO ALL VIRGO WOMEN STAY FAR AWAY FROM SCORPIO MAN!!!

Currently m dating scorpion man.For me he is still a mysterious charecter but still kind,helpful ,supportive and understanding.Its very difficult to change his mind for any firm decision he takes.I dont know how far this relationship will go.but mine is true love for him .

Would like to know more about virgo woman-scorpion man affair.

im inlove right now to a scorpio man.. We get along very much.. we talked alot of things, love and life.. i loved the characteristic of a scorpio. For now our relationship is in smooth sailing. He give me his love, faithful even we are in long distance relationship. As our astrological sign, my scorpio man is in year of the RAt and me, year of the MOnkey. we are 100% compatible. As for I gave it all to our Almighty God, that we will continue love each other:)

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i being with 3 scorp and a 4th one is coming hes way!. separate from their good and bad things!. what is it about virgo women and scorpio males?. i ATTRACTED them like bee to honey!. its unreal. lately I FEEL i can handle and manuver them easily!. cheaters are all men and women in the zodiac if we dont care enough or we are not happy enough!. i have a scorp asc I read them easily too easy to read for me this scorp!> very emotional, great in bed, extremely jealous, and i have to agree one of my experience with one was phisical the guy wanted to choked me, he even showed me his fist once!. but that dnt mean all scorp are violent. another common thing is that they are extremist, obesssive, compulsive and abusive. Personality that draw many scorps into drugs!. they are also loyal to friends and very protective of the people they love!.
but when u decided to dump a scorp and still loves u, he is going to resent you and love u at the same time. he will talk bad about you then, when u dump him…but whenever people are not looking he will beg for you to take him back!. maybe for revenge hahaha funny scorp u got to love them once u understand their full of ego and emotions!> not a very smart combination but one a VIRGO WOMAN can handle!. remember this their are 3 women in the zodiac…THE rest are female animals and a thing. VIRGO are not only women as geminis and aqua but we are also analitical, loyal and stable a quality any zodia male goes crazy for. WE ARE like a superior species always in control of others, and the current situation. ONCE a virgo women know herself enough is very hard to impress her with ego, vanity AND superficiality!. we are looking for an equal intelligent, human partner, who is can rationalize, caring, loving and mature!.

Interesting article. I find it highly peculiar that any Scorpio make worth his salt would degrade himself so much to shower any woman with gifts and affections of love when he has only just started to get to know her. Speaking from personal experience it would either take some Jedi mind trick, hypnosis or a government mind control program to get me to waste my time on a woman until she has confirmed through her word and actions that she is worth it.

The point about virgo ladies striving perfection is highly relevant because it seems that they cannot get over the issue that a lot of people in the world are pretty much useless or fractured in some way. As a Scorpio male this is something known almost by second nature. Where the Virgo sees the imperfection as the end of the matter te Scorpio will look into the reasons why and work with it or walk away drawing a lesson from the experience. The Virgo just seems bemused and unable to get beyond it.

Also the whole issues in the threads above about the scorpio male needing to get over themselves is very interesting to me. For a scorpio male it is neither here nor there how we present ourselves it is the content that we are interested in. Therefore if I come across arrogant or humble means nothing to me it is just a means to an end. Whereas the way of communicating seems to be all important to the virgo.

These are not necessarily impediments to a successful relationship if they are identified and discussed. Without discussion and respect they will cause fissures and cracks in any relationship. A less refined scorpio will not understand this an will be his or her own gravedigger with a relationship with a Virgo.

Just my thoughts on this matter but things that have come to mind when reflecting on what has been said.

well said the ‘second above’ from my comment..I completely second to you on every part..including the capability of Virgo Woman to handle the scorps. With their Quiet, analytical and intuitive mind they themselves appear to be enough mysterious to many guys (scorp is not an exception to it..lol) Somehow even i have felt that Virgo women are really one of the most desirable of all the zodiacs..Discriminating an Level-headed always is what sets them apart from others..And i appreciate your analysis of female signs of zodiacs..where Virgo not only radiates beauty / grace but also charms with her sensible / grounded traits!! Definitely once a Virgo knows her Real Worth…she can make any man feel thrilled for sheer intensity, depth and substance. So all egoistic, self-absorbed and fake / superficial guys..be wary of a Virgo Woman..for she can simply read it even at a distance!! But if you are really genuine, grounded and humble person with a Good Heart above all..You are most likely to win over her..n let me tell you 1 more thing that…if you do get her..then automatically you would start feeling the most lucky guy on earth…!! That’s the Pure Love of Virgo..Cheers

This is a good pair, I’m with a virgo girl and im a scorpio we loving it. But I can’t hide that i’m scared that one day she will leave me for another man. We got to face it thats how they are… They really good people, humble, down to earth but it is said that she can leave her man for a guy she met on the coastline. Plz people don’t take this bad I don’t mean that they aren’t good people. I love my Virgo girl….:)

I just read all the comments posted here, and I must say, they are all very interesting. I have been bothered by recent developmemts, and decided to google the compatibility of a Virgo woman and Scorpio man. I clicked on the first article I found. The problem is that I am a very independent Virgo woman (early 40′s) who loves intellectual conversations. Then, there is this Scorpio man (early 60′s). We have been casusl friends for about nine years, and I have never looked at him in any other way. Then, one day, via e-mail, he decides to tell me he is “in love” with me. I was very taken aback by this revelation, and to some extent it left me feeling very uncomfortable with the friendship, to the point where I decided early this year that I must tell him I have no intimate feelings for him. However, I am yet to do so, primarily because I want to preserve the friendship. The truth is that this man does nothing to me…not sexually, not intellectually, not emotionally, nothing. So should I pretend I am romantically interested in him, or shold I just disappear, or should I simply tell him the truth. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee help.

Should be casual friends, and not casusl friends.

I’m hopelessly in love with a scorpion man. the story becomes interesting because he is my one of my big brother’s childhood friends. we recently met and there was an instant attraction but we both shied away and silently suffered. the following week we met up (by chance I thought- only to find out it was orchestrated)and true to my virgo roots I was aloof and distant. I tried to hide how much I liked him only to get a pleasant surprise- he likes me too. he expressed himself articulately and i was quite taken aback. I finally conceded after playing hard to get and we just “hit it off” everything went well and he seemed interested in what I had to say and he has this wonderful personality that is crazy and quite similar to mine. everything went well and the next morning things were still on track… we even spent most of the following day together getting to know each other. Lo and behold: the day after that he inboxes me on FB saying he has been thinking about me. only to find out he is engaged and when I asked him about us, he never responded. I haven’t heard from him since… I feel so hurt and used. Everything I’ve read about scorpios is what I though I knew about him but he has turned out to be a snake. What to do, what to do?

Wow Kathy..

What a dilemma you have there. I dont know how relevant this may be to you as I am nowhere near the level of experience (perhaps not even in the same ballpark lol) that you seem to have. So bear with me here..

I, as a Virgo, tend to shy away from men who are overtly showering with their affection… It sucks for me because that sort of attention sort of repels me, makes me run in the other direction if it’s what I’d consider “un-called for” or unexpected.. Not part of our divine plan since it isnt something we (ourselves) are puttin “out there” but instead it’s comin from an outside source…

Mary-Anne, wow.. What a bastard! How dare he lead you on this way telling you he’s been thinkin of you YET he’s engaged? What a scumbag.

I’ve got one word for him honey: NEEEEEEEXT!!!!

Forget about him, do you want a man like that? Hells to the NO! What a dirtbag..

Wow Mary-Anne, one word for you REVENGE!!!!! What a dick head you sound really nice and i hope you make him want to have when he cant. PEACE!!!!

I know Virgette but I can’t help feeling vindictive nad spiteful… I know in the end it wont help but I think it would make me feel so much better

thanks Mahalia atleast your on my side… I wanna make him pay!

@ Anthony: Let Virgo girl know you exist, contact her through text or email first. 2 text messages is enough.

@ Mary-Anne: I agree with Virgette “NEEEXT” is the right word form him. He may truly love you that time and can’t resist your Virgo charm, leaving you is the right but painful choice for him. No need for revenge.

Wow.Scorpio’s are not as bad as most of you “Virgo’s” are claiming us to be. We’re actually very loving/ caring individuals. We’re affectionate/aggressive and we like to protect everyone we love. We also are efficient when it comes to making money. We will make you experience romance of magnitudes that some signs are incapable of.Honestly, I feel like Virgo’s are indecisive,insensitive at times and a bit prudish in bed but with time yo’ll eventualy open up.I love how intellectual virgo’s are and how they communicate. However, everything does not need to be criticized. Sometimes things should just be.

For those of you who were cheated on by Scorpios or eft hanging..there’s probably a detailed reason for that. If you don’t show a scorpio the love/affection and time they deserve. You will lose them instantly because we love with no limit and hard. Every Virgo i’ve known has cheated on their partners numerous times. The Virgo woman i’m with already had a man when i started talking to her and was still with him after we had sex. She broke it off eventually. bt Im not going to label them as cheaters or mentally abusive. Although, i feel like virgo’s can be mentally abusive when they don’t tell you whats exactly on their mind unless its critical.

I’m Currently with a Virgo now. She’s sweet, unpredictable, hot-tempered, intellectual,gorgeous organized, talkative, shy, etc. I am crazy about her. I just really hate when we argue. She claims that when we argue.. it seems as if we just dnt understand eachother. It’s not that we don’t understand eachother. It’s that we both want the last word and that doesn’t work. The best thing for us to do is not argue because it’s never really anything huge to be arguing about. Our make-up sex is off the charts! and we can really stir up a grand meal in the kitchen. We compromise. I can be a bit jealous at times but my virgo tries to reassure me. I’m only jealous because she is an amazing woman nd im possessive of all her beauty Nd grace. We would like kids together eventually but we’re taking everyday one step at a time. Everything is perfect But I just wish she was a little more affectionate & more open. Otherwise we have something I’ve been waiting for, for a quite awhile. She see’s the good in me and brings out the positive. I love her for that. She just “likes” me..alot and thats fine. As long as she knows what im feelin. We’re different but alike on some aspects. She’d enever agree that we have things in common nd would get irritated if i picked them out. lol but at the end of the day..we give eachother so much happiness.

I think at the end of the day. If youre a Scorpio with a Virgo or a Virgo with a Scorpio…the best thing is to explicitly show how you feel for one another. Stop over analyzing the situation and put EVERYTHING on the table. Scorpios and Virgos can be secretive..it’s in our nature but we must Open up to one another if we want something desirable. Virgo’s show your scorpio that you admire him. Compliment him. Virgo’s love to suck up Praise but I barely see one shoot praise back at the one they received it from. Scorpio’s PLEASE take your time with these virgo women and let them know you are in a relationship or seeing someone before you start talking to them, a virgo woman will appreciate this.. She loves the competition anyways. Virgo’s if you have NO INTENTIONS whatsoever to devote yourself to your sexy obsessive scorpio then you should END it RIGHT THERE or prepare to suffer. As scorpio’s we’re intuitive and can sense when someone is not being genuine. Don’t let us find out that you’re being untrue to us because we are vengeful souls. We can HATE just as much as we LOVE. Spread love and you’ll receive love. It just takes time and work. Virgo’s..STOP Expecting overnight progress, it will happen in due time& if you see your Scorpio trying..acknowledge him. Also, we sometimes like the aggression..try something new with us in the bed. Come out of your conservatism nd know that we want to take you there just as much as you want to take us there. IF both Signs are just up front..plain & simple.. a lot of time could be saved. Both Scorpio Nd virgo have plenty of positive traits. There’s no reason why they cnt make things work. If you’re not willing to adjust..save yourself frm the minor headaches. Anything worth having is worth the work and Don’t make someone your Priority when you ARE just a nother Option. be true to your hearts. Remember for a virgo Nd a Scorpio..to work..there has to BE TRUST & COMMUNICATION.

you know what im a virgo woman and i have talked to a scorpio male for like a year and a couple months we are not together but i do like him alot but he has a girlfriend the reason we are not together is because he play to many head games he dont share his feelings at all with me theres no reason to be with him because if he cheating on his girl that he says he love with me then he would cheat on me and im not going down like that my thing is i just cant let him go we stopped talking for like 3 months but that didnt work cause he came right back to me so i could never be in a relationship with a scorpio because they are all the same smh!!!!!

I am a virgo women who have been with a scorpio man for 17 years. we have 2 children and i am deeply in love with him. It seems that i am just getting to learn this man after 17 years. He is secretive, loving, caring, mysterious, egotistical, mean and i can go on and on.with all that said I am confused sometimes as to his intentions. He is very out going and have plenty of friends. I think some times I am jealous because he’s so outgoing and he tells me i need to go out with my friends and don’t worry about what he is doing. He has an addictive personality. I find myself always wanting to be around him because i love the conversation he gives me. He is like jekyl and hyde…he can seems distant at times..We are not married and he just found out he has a 20 year old daughter…I think sometimes he’s with me until he finds someone better…I feel I am a wonderful women who any man would love but can’t imagine my life without him and i don’t want to because we share wonderful moments as well….

So I really (honestly) did not go ahead with the revenge plan. I happened to meet someone else in an effort to forget about him. I ended up bumping into him at a club with a new guy I had taken interest in. I carried on with the new guy and really was trying to avoid him at all cost. he ended up making a fool of himself and trying all ridiculous things to get my attention. it didn’t work and I actually was carrying o0n with my life. until he told me how he felt about me and made me understand the miscommunications. he isn’t engaged and its a ploy to keep people out of his business and he like me. I’m so over joyed and I really think I going to fall for this guy cause his personality, humour, intelligence astound me. he lavishes me with so much attention that I cant help but be blown away. he can be so sensitive and yet such an insensitive brute at the same time…