Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

There is a certain element of enigma attached to Cancer women. She might have a reserved outlook but at the same time she also has a great sense of humor. She does not carries loads of ego but many people think she is quite self centered. But the Scorpio man is a rare species who can easily understand and truly appreciate her.

Scorpio man is an extremist, concealed beneath his soft voice, subtle strategies in his career and personal life. He can sink into depression, or rise to intoxicating heights of ecstasy. A Scorpio man is known for his passion. A Scorpio man can be passionate just about anything, including sex, love and family. If you look at the surface, he will look totally calm and composed. Just look beneath that outer layer of his and you will find his smoldering passion.

It’s really a Scorpio man who can easily win a Cancer woman’s heart. Since both of them find it difficult to express their feelings, initially people might think that they are very cold and devoid of emotions. But both of them appreciate this trait in each other and this understanding soon turns into a romantic endeavor. You don’t have to dig too deep to see why this relationship is so right. Cancer female’s heart is almost always turned on by sensing peace and coziness she feels by being held in her Scorpio lover’s arms. Scorpio male needs loyalty – and they can get crates of it from their Cancer counterparts.

Sexually, the Scorpio male’s love nature is more intense and yearning than that of most men. Both of them long for a certain degree of security in a relationship. Cancer female needs visible tokens of his affection. These small things affect her sexual chemistry profoundly. It’s advisable that they both should demonstrate their feelings quite often. If they remain aware of each other’s unspoken needs, their physical mating can be a truly transcendental experience. They both may have to let their passions and desires flow freely.

Both of them have a hard exterior in order to protect themselves from the insensitive elements in the world. The Cancer lady soon discovers that Scorpio man’s chief faults are his suspicious nature, jealousy, and a desire to dominate others; just as he realizes very early in the relationship that her weak points are secrecy, nagging possessiveness, and a vulnerability to hurt, both real and imagined. And so, when dealing with her wounded feelings, he must first realize how dreadfully her heart aches. Still, there will be times when Cancer woman will have to remind herself that what seems to be coldness and silence on Scorpio man’s part can be a mixture of shyness and a reluctance to admit what he’s really thinking, until he’s sure. He’ll have to be aware that her apparent uncaring withdrawal is only her way of protecting herself from possible disappointment, until she’s assured of being loved.

They must conquer together their most negative traits: Cancer woman’s baseless fears and possessiveness, Scorpio man’s burning jealousy and revenge compulsion — and their mutual financial caution. When they’re angry, both tend to retreat into solitude. They should rather openly talk it over to find solutions. Otherwise, a very lovely relationship may end up abruptly, after which they invariably miss each other very much.

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laura : May 20th, 2009

i’ve never read a more apt description. i lost the love of my life because of what you explain in this article. it’s been years, but i miss him every day even though i’m the one who “left” – deep inside, i know he misses me too. i will never love anyone like that again. sometimes i wish things were different for us.

Brianna : July 14th, 2009

Currently I am with a scorpio man and we have been together for almost 5 years… I love him more than anyone and I felt the connection when we first met, as did he. This info is very true and I am glad I read it. I learned about my self and my partner. Thank you.

Michelle : August 24th, 2009

I am currently with a Scorpio man also and this article explains the connection and passion between a Scorpio man and a Cancer woman Beautifully. I’m a Cancer as well, and when i first met the love of my life i felt that same deep connection and we both fell in love instantly. Some people ask, “Does It Exist?” Well,yes it does. Thank you.

xochitl & miguel : August 29th, 2009

we as a couple would like to say that for the most part it so true. we were laughing & dicussing each paragraph. this truely help us learn a little more about our relationship. thank you so much. we will love to learn some more.

Wendy : September 5th, 2009

I’m a Cancer and my husband of 19 years is a Scorpio. I am more in love with him now than I’ve ever been. We do act like kids and are very romantic still!!
I think what you wrote is very true.
Thanks,
Wendy

AshRod : October 1st, 2009

Just wanted to say you got really to the core of the relationship we been together 8 years and it good to have some advice when trying to understand each other when times get tough anyway thanks

Ronnie : October 13th, 2009

Why the hell you left him then Laura ?

stupid woman…

He must hate you now… because we HATE shallow people who destroy beautiful things because of bullshit :)
Nowadays there are a bunch of shallow stupid women without any sense of family and values.

By the way I heard piesces is better for scorpio :)
Maybe he got a piesces now and he’s much happier with her now than he was with you ? mmm ? ;)

v : October 14th, 2009

No woman is better for a scorpio male than a cancer woman. Period.

Lhiansie : October 15th, 2009

i realy appreciate of what ive read about the relationship between a cancerwoman and a scorpio man.in fact that is really true, actually i`m a cancer woman and my boyfriend is a scorpio man.i learned something on how to deal/bring strong relationship. we`ve beeb 2years in our relationship thank you so much!!!

trish : October 20th, 2009

RONNIE u r so immature 1st learn 2 spell n second im guessn ur single cz no woman wants a jerk or asshole n ur both so continue livin in ur moms basement u perverted freak……..LAURA u will find love again n its gud u cn admit that u miss hm mayb god will bless u n send hm bk jus pray on it…..btw im a cancer (june 26th n mu hubs a scorpio nov 1st) n we hve only been married 4 2 yrs but we hve 2 sons im 19 n hes 23 n i dnt thnk the passion will ever leave chaio!

michelle : December 24th, 2009

dont know about scorpio males, im a cancer woman met mr scorpio about 6 months ago very intense person, he only wants something casual i dont, have told him this,dont hear from him for weeks then he texts me, after months have given up. he still texts though, find a bit devious dont know tell me what you think.

julia : January 4th, 2010

Hey Michelle,
He’s just stoking your fire and putting himself into your head (a head fuck), whether you like or not, he has succeeded as you wouldn’t be writing in otherwise.
But always remember if he’s a true scorpio male (aged 18-48 yrs), he’ll definitely be having regular sex with somebody, if not with you
J

michelle : January 8th, 2010

yeah thanks for that not seeing him any more anyway took awhile but he was fucking with my head and hated it definately careful who i choose in future.

Nicolette : January 9th, 2010

waw i would lik to start off saying i am goin out wit a scorpio man and i am a cancer girl and this article has really opened my eyes and helped me more to understand him more and myself and we would hav problems here and there but we work theme out and we hav been to geather for 10 months now and steal goin strange and hope to keep it that why so just thank you look forward to more information

candice : February 17th, 2010

i am a cancer woman i was with a libra man an have a scorpio man as my friend he likes me alot always wants to spend time with me but i avoid it cause i really love my ex which is a libra what should i do?

Roxy : February 22nd, 2010

I am a Cancer Woman & I had a one-night stand with a Scorpio Man…I was currently in an open relationship at the time because there was no intimacy with the Cancer Man I was with at the time. I had to tell him that I had someone else but was on the verge of ending the relationship but instead of us talking about the issue at hand; he got revenge and we began hurting each other’s feelings very badly…My Cancer Man and I broke up and I didn’t see my Scorpio Man for a year…When I saw him again, he expressed interest in seeing me and I just wanted to make sure he wasn’t playing games so I confronted him and he was upset because I forced him to tell me what he really wanted…fast-forward…we are now communicating again but we are taking it slow because he got out of a crazy relationship with a woman who dogged him out…I am fine with moving slow because sexually I am still a virigin (our one-night stand only consisted of oral sex)…since I do love him I will be patient and he is not the typical Scorpio since he gets hurt very easily and he is ultra serious…he’s not sleeping around, in fact when I met him he had not had sex in two years. He’s the type of Scorpio that moves slow and he wants to make sure it is right so he won’t get hurt. This works for me because before we get together I want to have my house clean before I bring him over to make love.

Lux : March 1st, 2010

Hey Trish.

Thought I would let you know that you should probably spell correctly before correcting someone else on their spelling.

just a heads up.

oh and hi everyone! I’m a Scorpio.

A cancer Girl : March 3rd, 2010

I am a Cancer woman and my boyfriend of 2 years is a Scorpio. The intense Love making is unreal.. He is soo sexy.. He drives me crazy with his questions, and his constantly jelousy overwhelmes me… He can Be a bit distant at times.. But when he comes back from his “hibernation” the love is stronger then ever!!! I never get bored.. He makes me cry because when he feels hurt he wants to hurt me, but once he has and realizes that my heart hurts, he comes back and mends it to the point where im inlove all over again!!
We Brake up for a week and get back together only to argue and make Ravishig almost savage like LOVE.. You can almost say our relationship is not healthy but if I am away from him Iam sick.. so Id rather be sick with him the sick apart.. He is my ALPHA and I am his omega.. He loves his mama so I know that when I become his wife He will treat me as he treats his mama. This match was made in heaven and sprinkled his Hells poison.. I Lust for him when he is away, and I push him away when he gets too close. Idk why? we play stupid childish games and in the end I end up crying like a spiled child, only because I know he will come to my rescue.. I now it sounds painfull and almost a bit masoquist. But I love to be stung buy scorpios tail. I cling to him as crab does. I give him enough praise and yet he gives me just enogh he is selfish, self ubsorbed but he keeps me on my toes and I secretly act more hurt by things then I realy am so that I can get him to spoil me more, hahahah I love him.

A cancer Girl : March 3rd, 2010

Some of my spelling is wrong, Realized it once I submited it sorry hahaha. oh well u can make out what im tryig to say no need in correcting me. Thanks. Im a terrible speller product of New york city public school system lol.
oh well.
CANCER GIRL HEARTS SCORPIO BOY. LOL

teamfresh : March 10th, 2010

oh where are you my cancer girl?

from your lost scorpio :(

A cancer Girl : March 15th, 2010

He he he you are silly. I am here ha ha. what would you like scorpio boy?

Rough Revenge : March 21st, 2010

I’m a true Scorpio male, October 27th. I have a Cancer friend, she’s a true Cancer. We’re really good friends, but at times, I would wish it to be more than just friends. Every time I see her, my heart just starts racing and I want to spend time with her. I’ve had these feelings for 2 years, so this can’t be wrong. When she’s hurt or feeling insecure, I’m usually her shoulder and she usually runs to me when she needs a sympathetic ear. Even though we are far apart in age, 4 years, I feel like I’m not talking to a child, like we were meant to be. Over the past couple of months, I have been contemplating what to do, but every time I get close, I get butterflies and get scared. I don’t want to wait too long, as the chance may slip and I’ll always wonder. Any advice?

scaprio : March 25th, 2010

Hey,Rough revenge.
My story is the same with 2 many mis-understandings opening up at wrong time overwheming her at times.I even told her to stop talking cause she not let me open up.now she is back after 6 months.and did try and make conversation with me which I would not expect.now i have taken a decision cause i really do love her.Say it openly directly expect her to be overwhelmed if things go wrong(cause of butterflies),but wait cause she wont tell you directly bt give u subtle hints.Dnt ignore those.Dont be dissapointed be strong when she retreats cause she will b back trust me, n all go with all you heart and b honest.i am meeting mine end of the month.It takes one moment to b with some 1,but there are 1000s of moments lost if u dont take a chance.

Rough Revenge : March 25th, 2010

Scaprio, that is very helpful, I always feel like she’s leading me on, expecting me to make the first move. Maybe, its because I’m older…so she thinks I’m the initiator. But you’re right, I should try even if its hurts at first, it may blossom into something much, much more in the future. Thank you, this has been very helpful. I will handle this with that famous Scorpio self-confidence. :)

SexyFoxyRoxy : March 26th, 2010

Dear Rough Revenge,

Honey! You have to make the first move! I am a Cancer Woman (born June 25th) and we don’t make the first move darling! We are very feminine and we LOVE the SCORPIO man because they like to lead and dominate. She is waiting for you :)

I need help! I love a Scorpio Man (born November 15th)…we met at a Bar and we would talk and play pool and have lots of fun! He asked to come home with me and mind you I have NEVER done that before. We didn’t have sex but we cuddled and had a great time together. I had to tell him I was seeing someone but it was not serious. He got upset and stop talking to me…

Fast Forward…He began dating someone else that dogged him out real bad and of course I felt bad for him when I found out…

I feel we are Twin Flames…Eternal Soul Mates…I never felt this way about anyone before…I am older than him but I look young…

We hadn’t seen each other for almost 8 months, when I came back to the bar and he saw me he almost had a heart-attack (lol),those Scorpio piercing eyes never lie; I know in my heart of hearts that he wants me. I told him I was single but he doesn’t want a relationship right now, I don’t either but I want to develop a friendship…I want him to make love to me because I am a virgin and he knows it and I told him I will let him know when I am ready…at the bar I am sometime over anxious and he gets a little moody somtimes…so I decided to back-off and I will talk to him only when he talks to me first because he’s going through a lot of stuff right now and I don’t want to be hurt and take it personal…sorry to go off on a tangent but should I just be patient with him, I know that he likes me a lot but we just have not connected and I tried to meet other people but I can’t see myself being with anyone else but him.

nonebetter : March 26th, 2010

scorp’s…ah. I have fabulous memories of my 1st BF. A cheatin’ scorp. but wierdly, I never felt more protected, loved or enamored by him. I left him (that was 20 years ago). He did call me out of the blue one day, I was overseas and was asking me to marry him. He missed ME!! and I him. but I was so young and unsure. I loved him, but would not marry a cheater. He’d made efforts to change etc. Anyway, to this day, I NEVER had met anyone that measured up to the way he made me feel.

Until now. I’ve found another Scorpio!!! 20 years later…I have no expectations…just indescribable peace, laughter, longing, and joy- that I have him in my life.

Rough Revenge : March 27th, 2010

This is slowly giving me more confidence in my decision, thank you all, for being so helpful. :)

SexyFoxyRoxy, that’s exactly how I feel. I feel that if I can’t have her, no one else will measure up to the connection she and I have. But from what you’re telling me, you should wait. It seems like its only a matter of time between you two. :)

cancer girl : March 29th, 2010

I have a scorp guy i had been seeing for about 4 months.
Everything seemed fine, he knew i was involved with
someone else and he was ok with it. We did have sex
and he seemed to be in to me. Always very hot but gentle
& exciting. Then he pulled a disappearing act have not seen
him in over a month, not sure if he had seen anyone else
in that time frame, hope not but if he did i hope he
wore protection.Well he called me finally 4 days ago
telling me he is looking for work to do, guess his regular
job ended, not really sure he did all the talking, could
not get a word in, he said he appreciates me being so
undertanding.And that he would be busy all this week,
so i am not sure when i may hear from him or if he still
wants to see me. I think he is still interested, but i am
not sure. Maybe when he does finally call i will pretend
i am not available.If he really likes me i guess he will
keep trying until i can see him Right ? ?

Rough Revenge : March 30th, 2010

Cancer Girl, it should most likely work, the more I tried to get a hold of my Cancer love interest, the more available she seemed to become. Odd thing between Scorpios and Cancers. In most cases, even when they think that the other has forgotten about them, the other just throws a curve ball at random and instantly boosts back up the desire to have them.

natasha : April 4th, 2010

wow…wish he could read ths too…im a cancer girl and i have ths typical nature of wanting my lover to make me secured tht he loves. we dated for a year wish i broke off becoz we were jus dragging it…it seems he wanted it too..after a year of us dating different ppl…we met again…it seemd like destiny wantd us to be together.,..so we tot of dating again but goin very slow…smtimes i piss him off by tellin him im afraid of the same mistakes occuring…but i want him to make me feel sure of our retake…he wants it to work out n so do i…but somwhere i feel scared coz i was really hurt the last break up…

confused cancer girl : April 6th, 2010

I am a cancer woman involved with a Scorpio male and I get more confused by him on a daily basis. I love him and although he has not said the exact words, I know he loves me. We had a break up of 1 month where I left and when I called it was instantly back “on” He said he was trying to figure out how to call me too. We unfortunately have communication problems in the bedroom even though we both are very attracted and in love. I said communication not sexual.He thinks I am not aggressive enough yet I have sent photos and dirty text messages. I have come to the point where I think I just must attack him. What do you think? Anyone especially a Scorpio male here. I want to know why you think he doesn’t attack me first. He will lay on me and cuddle. I need help reading him and I am usually good at this stuff. Not a prude either.

Rough Revenge : April 7th, 2010

I think you should honestly lead him on, but every once in a while, show him that you have the ability to come out of your shell and take control of the situation. It will most definitely turn him on, ’cause even though we scorpions like to be in control, sometimes the biggest turn on for us is to be controlled ourselves, especially someone like a Cancer pulling on our heart strings. Hope this helps.

confused cancer girl : April 7th, 2010

Thanks. It did a bit.

confused cancer girl : April 8th, 2010

He broke up with me yesterday and I am miserable can’t stop crying. Yet he says he misses me already and will hate the man that lands me. Aren’t these mixed messages? I know why he did it. Because I was annoying him but I let him know thaT want to try again because I think we are soulmates. Question: If a Scorpio feels he is hurting you and feels bad will he come back or will he stay gone? He says he loves me by the way

Rough Revenge : April 8th, 2010

I honestly think you two will cross paths again, and most likely settle down, if he’s already jealous of any guy touching you. I feel the same way about every Cancer girl I’ve talked to, I feel the need to protect and possess them, not for my greed but I feel that every one is out to hurt her. He’ll be back, don’t worry. He just has to do some thinking first.

confused cancer girl : April 9th, 2010

I do hope so. He said that my love was gold and that he felt I was too good and sweet for him to keep hurting me. I asked him could we try again I think the relationship is worth fighting for. He hasn’t answered me yet. It was a txt message. I truly appreciate you assisting me with this. Best to just pull away for a while and let him think it out? He also told me he would love me for a long while and that he would hate anyone that lands me. My girlfriend said that means he was letting me move on. I thought it was a signal that he truly will think about me kissing and being with someone else. What is your take on the comment? Sorry I am just a bundle of insecurity and questions right now.

confused cancer girl : April 9th, 2010

I just noticed what a repetitive person I was sorry. I’m a mess still.

Rough Revenge : April 9th, 2010

No, you’re not repeating yourself, you’re only being yourself. A bit of advice, I would let him go for a couple of days, even if it sounds hard. He will feel like you’re ignoring him, and then he will get jealous and try to talk to you. Scorpios and their jealousy…

lady_cancer88 : April 12th, 2010

I fell in love w. a scorpio male about 5 years ago && haven’t seen him in 3 years.. he’s made a huge impact on my love life. I can’t seem to find anyone else quite like him. It’s truly disappointing. I honestly feel like I have to see him just one more time to know if it was really meant to be. I’m scared though, i’ve gained weight & don’t know if that’s gonna be a deal breaker lol.. ahh… so confused. :(

confused cancer girl : April 12th, 2010

Well Mine actually likes me plump and I am in the process of losing weight so I don’t know what to tell you. I have a long way to go before I would even be considered slim and that is why I dont feel it is any issue plus I am still sexy so he will be fine. I think if you are miserable maybe you should just try to reach out so that you know for sure its a done deal and be able to move on. By the way Rough we are not back together but I sent him a farewell text and he responded by telling me he missed me so you are right. I don’t know what future we may have but the connection is not like any other and I really don’t want to lose the love but at least I am at peace now to know if God doesn’t want me with him it has to be over. There are other issues at stake here so I have to be true to myself. Thanks for your insight and wisdom!

animorcancer : April 12th, 2010

so I met this scorpio man, he’s actually my neighbour. We’ve been fooling around for almost 6 months now but he doesn’t want a relationship. Should I just move on? It’s hard for me because I want him by my side but if he doesn’t want a relationship then I should leave right? I’m so confused right now :(

Rough Revenge : April 12th, 2010

I agree with confused cancer girl on reaching out towards him, lady_cancer88, and you’re so welcome confused cancer girl. Glad I could help and give peace of mind.

If he doesn’t want it, maybe you should just remain friends, maybe sometime in the near future he’ll change his mind. :)

confused cancer girl : April 13th, 2010

Rough I told him I couldn’t be his friend in a letter that I will give to him. I don’t want to know about him being happy with anyone else just as I dont think he will want to know I have moved on with anyone either. Plus his behavior that I wish he would end could get him hurt one day and that would destroy me even more if we kept in touch and I found out he was hurt in anyway. I told him this as well in the letter so hopefully he will understand and respect it because it is out of loving him that I can’t do it.
animor cancer- move on because you will only get hurt. The one thing that I do know is that they will tell you if they want you even when they are not sure of what they want as far a relationship goes just make sure you leave peacefully and let him know it is because you need to protect your heart. If he cares and he probably does he will try to make something work. If not he may have someone else and that is why having a relationship with you is hard for him. I asked my scorpio if he had anyone else and he said no so I had to trust him because of the circumstances and the way he said it. Hardest thing to do. I know believe me. In the back of my head I am praying that once mine reads the love letter I wrote he will be moved to return and try. God does perform miracles so we shall see!!

confused cancer girl : April 13th, 2010

ROUGH or any scorpio male out there I have a really serious opinion question for you. If you were to get a love letter from someone that you do love and miss, would you prefer a really really long one stating all the details of why she loved and missed you or would you just want to get through it? simple statements. I am talking 4-5 pages of emotion here!! Confused again!!

Rough Revenge : April 13th, 2010

I would rather get the really, really long one so I can see if it would have mattered or not, so I could then really decide if it was for the best or not. Honest truth.

confused cancer girl : April 14th, 2010

Thanks!! You can only imagine how many versions there are at this time!! LOL. Because I know whatever I give is so very important and that it will be my last words.

confused cancer girl : April 19th, 2010

I decided not to give him the letter and just stick to the fact if he and I are meant to be it will happen. I am not going to be checking again. Thanks to all for any advice especially Rough who made it easier for me!! Take care all of you Cancer girls in love with Scorpio men.

Rough Revenge : April 20th, 2010

And I will probably not be checking either, Cancers, I wish you all the luck in your pursuit of your Scorpio men. Hopefully you find the real ones, and not these fake ones. Maybe one day we’ll talk again, and you’re welcome confused cancer girl. :)

Triple Scorpio : April 21st, 2010

As a true Scorpio (sun, moon, rising) I’ll give some of the Cancer women some insight. We are intense you know that but sometimes I don’t like that intensity reciprocated because it makes me feel smothered as with a lot of Cancerian women it makes them feel smothered too. Of course the intensity is there but learn to read us and curb your insecurity because most Scorpio’s aren’t cheaters so if you give us space to breathe (hang out with friends etc) it makes the relationship that much better we know you’re there for us, you should know we’re there for you. To shorten it, there’s a time for the intensity; throttle doesn’t always have to be mashed to the floor, let your foot off the gas and coast sometimes. Good luck to the Cancer women, don’t forget how fucking magnetic and sexy you are :D

confused cancer girl : April 26th, 2010

That is exactly what I did wrong. Forgot the intensity needs to be held back so I lost him for now. I hope he comes back. Thanks. I said I wouldn’t be back on here but I had to check. LOL We don’t give up very easily either.

Rough Revenge : April 26th, 2010

I completely agree with Triple, this is very, very true. And, I know I said that too, but you guys have grown on me and I can’t leave you guys in the cold. That’s just because Cancer and Scorpio have huge hearts and determination. Lmao.

confused cancer girl : April 27th, 2010

Hey I will ask both men for an opinion. I keep getting intuition signs that I should just show up at his doorstep and basically jump him. What do you think. Not just as men but as Scorpio men. Do you think it’s like the ultimate in showing devotion or is it not letting him have his space and more like Fatal Attraction. The last time we had a text was almost 2 weeks ago when I txted him by mistake and he did say he missed me and thought the text was for my new guy.. jealousy of course. I assured him not. Do you think that may be also why he is staying away?

Rough Revenge : April 29th, 2010

I think that being spontaneous will delight him and it may hurt when you try and fail, but at least you can say you tried and hopefully move on, or he could just want you more later on. :)
He doesn’t want to get hurt, so he’s trying to shut you out. If you have so much desire towards him, just tell him, don’t resist it. If he’s jealous, then he’s still in love with you, dear. If he wasn’t, he would have forgotten all about you.

confused cancer girl : April 29th, 2010

I went over there last night and it went extremely well. He said he loves me and I will see what happens next. I am not sure how deep it is. I will try not to smother and be patient with him.

Alyssa : April 29th, 2010

idk if im too young to relate to any of this but, recently a month ago i meet this scorpio guy at a party i attended at my college. its funny because i danced with him for a song and then walked away to dance with other ppl but some how we ended up finding each other again and danced til the party was over. ever since then we talked non stop and our first date we went to the movies and the second at his dorm. lately i’ve been feeling like im just some bootycall to him cuz he only texts me when he wants me to come see him. idk if this a bad thing or a good thing since we already had sex which was the BEST that i’ve ever had and still think about. but every time i tell myself i need to let him go he always texts me and tells me to come see him. but each time he does this and i tell him im coming he tells me not to cuz something comes up. IDK WHAT TO DO, ITS DRIVING ME NUTZ!!! someone help me lol!!!

confused cancer girl : April 29th, 2010

Unfortunately they seem to make us crazy Alyssa. Mine was not texting me to come back so I took matters into my own hands. What is it you want from him? Ask yourself because that will be what motivates your next moves. If you want a boyfriend you need to see if that is what he is looking for as well. I am older and so is my mate so I think he may have been through the sex for sex sake phase of his life already. We say the words love and trust me they do not say what they do not mean! I can’t remember if I asked him or he told me on his own but he would have avoided saying it if he didnt mean it. So try to figure out you first then deal with him although he will be in charge of whatever relationship it is anyway just make sure it is what you want. I am still having difficulty as you can see.

Rough Revenge : May 1st, 2010

I am so proud of you, Confused. Now you’re helping people. :)
But Alyssa, he’s probably still in the early stages of the relationship, I know a lot of Scorpios who don’t open up very easily. Eventually, he’ll come to his senses. You have to show him how much he means to you.

confused cancer girl : May 3rd, 2010

Well Rough thanks but unfortunately I believe my relationship is officially over. We had passionate love on Wednesday and then he didn’t even text me back on Friday. Thursday I had to hunt him down. I felt like he may have been shutting down on me so I gave him my love letter of about 9 pages letting him know all the love I feel for him and what I see us having and being in the future but I also let him know that this was goodbye if he didn’t want it. I have heard nothing. I left it on his car and texted him that it was there so I am sure he has gotten it. Have no clue if he read it but regardless he has not reached out so I think he is done with me even though Wednesday night he told me he loved me and we made love… I am clueless and I break into tears everyday. I am healing as best as possible. DARN!! I still think we are soulmates somehow so I am in prayer:-D

Rough Revenge : May 3rd, 2010

Eh, I don’t know what to say. This may be too overwhelming for him at the moment. But it just seems that he REALLY does care and is taking everything in to consideration. You just have to get him to open up and relax. :)

confused cancer girl : May 4th, 2010

Well I left it open to him. I think I scared him off for now and that is okay. I have to move on. If he realizes what he is missing he will try to return and we will see what happens at that point. I do realize I may have done the smother thing and you know what I told him I came over only out of love and nothing more or less. If he can’t appreciate it then someone else will. I just feel sad it didnt work out but that may also be because it has to be in the right time for both of us. Who knows 2 years from now it all may be a different story to tell. I’m better though no cancerian tears for 2 days since saying goodbye so the decision is on him.

Rough Revenge : May 5th, 2010

Well, I’m glad you’ve come to some sense of inner peace and realization. A lot can happen in 2 years, I know this from experience. People change, lines shift. :)

Scorp : May 5th, 2010

Amazing description here, just love it!
I am scorp guy and searching a cancer girl, I guess my decision was right :)
Just a tip for scorps: gemini sucks ;)
@confused cancer: leave the guy alone, he’ll come back if its meant to be… there are too many scorps out there, just go for them :)

Rough Revenge : May 5th, 2010

Well, thank you. Of course Gemini sucks, for a Scorpio or any water symbol. Gemini is air, Scorpio is water. Air is logical, water is emotional. It just won’t work. I have had some alright relationships with Sagittarians before though. So don’t think only Pisces or Cancer are good for you. You may find that your true love is a Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn. :)

confused cancer girl : May 6th, 2010

Thank you Scorp. I agree with leaving him alone. I did say goodbye and he didn’t even acknowledge my letter which means he is not angry about it and it had some impact. I am sure you do not hold your tongues when you are angry or hurt but more than that the timing is off right now. I will be blogging on the Pices page soon. I have met a nice guy that seems interested. I will guard my heart though. Can’t be this distraught again. That stinger of yours is no joke. Secretly I believe he will come back. Too much good stuff to ignore. Call me stuck up but I just think I reached him on a level he has never been before and it scared him yet he enjoyed it or we would have been over a long long time ago. Like a week into it. Thanks and Rough I know other signs are okay but the deepness is very real in this combination if you can handle it.

Rough Revenge : May 7th, 2010

Yes, Confused, we have sharp tongues when angry or vindictive, and our sting is very vicious. But what hurts us even more is when trying to get the elusive crab, and failing. I don’t think you’re stuck up, maybe for an earth or air, sign they’ll be stuck up, but in fire and water symbols, intuition is our strong point. We can see through bullshit. Well, of course, a relationship with a fellow water symbol is going to be better than any other element.

confused cancer girl : May 7th, 2010

Well only time will tell if he wants the crab back. Like I said I hope he felt what I did and realizes the world is a better place with me in it. I am finally on the mend so I can’t dwell on him or I will lose myself completely.

Aaron : May 12th, 2010

I am a Scorpio male and the moment I saw my Cancer crush I immediately had a premonition of us being together. Since then we’ve only socialized with one another a hand full of times but when we do I always get the feeling that she might dig me as much as I dig her. I’d believe it a little easier if she wasn’t so drop dead gorgeous.

Aaron : May 12th, 2010

Oh and for Confused Cancer Girl, I read that Cancers and Scorpios are often extremely difficult and even painful to separate, often these two never completely fall out of love with one another.

Rough Revenge : May 13th, 2010

Well, the Cancer women I have any type of relationship all seem to have that strange mystery feeling, where it seems we’re always comfortable around each other. Especially, one of my good friends that I have a crush on still after all these years, and I can definitely tell that she still has feelings for me. She just tries to hide it, but when she gets drunk, the truth comes out. It always restores my faith, then she reverts to keeping it all low key again.

Canserious : May 16th, 2010

Hi everyone,
1st: Thank you all for your valued opinions and experiences.

I met my Scorp about a month ago on the whee he was my photographer and the connection was immediately there except he acted on it after we parted ways. he is 2yrs younger so I was skeptical at 1st as I typically find comfort in much older lovers. Well, it didn’t take long before I said yes to his sweet text of asking me on a date. I even blogged about him and he somehow found it and told me he wished someone could blog about his day to day as openly and sweetly as I did about our encounter and that he couldn’t have chosen better words to relate our attraction.

Fast forward a few dates, we’ve already had sex and I suppose are seeing 1 another but we had both agreed (myself being the initiator) that we hate it when we go on our first dates and the other person practically stalks you to be their significant other (too rushed, too annoying).

He is young, very successful and internationally known in his field which intrigues me ..(Me! I am difficult to intrigue) but he does it. He even went as far saying I remind him of his female counterpart and he’s baffled each day, he never knew I existed….so I suppose we intrigue one another.

The point: Well, everything feels “Just Wright” (<–shameless self promotion LOL) and I feel very secure with him yet there are small things that are beginning to bug me…everything I left my Pisces for about a year ago. I can't understand actions such as him not calling or texting when he is away. Thus far he's been gone twice 1 for personal family reasons which he said he wanted me to be the 1st face he saw upon his return (but clearly just a figure of speech) and we saw each other immediately 2 days later (our sche conflicted for sooner). He is gone this 2nd time (practically back to back, 2 wends) for work and the same: before he left, we had a great evening dining out and enjoying one another's company but he just doesn't call or text or even email!

I know we spoke of immature girls he'd been with in the past and that if he were to date someone it would have to be a mature woman but he said I was astonishingly all of that but I just don't know how much I am these days. He seems to have more faith in me than myself (haha).

I don't know, should I talk to him about being incog while away? I do understand how much his personal space means to him but it seems silly to not communicate like that…I am all about c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n.

I have never been so insecure about a relationship! I've spent the last 2 days researching our compatibility (which seems outrageously stalkerish yet I am doing it! OMG if he ever knew!) and odd enough, I haven't felt yet that he may be seeing someone else also since we never really clarified our "situation". I think for his young age he is very focused and grounded. knows what he wants, goes for it, and accomplishes well so sometimes I wonder if he is in my charts now to ground me…as in…maybe this is all just a phase and the feeling will simmer into blahsay. Am totally confused when he acts one way while with me in person (can't stop kissing me, touching me…telling me he's never been that much into kissing but can't stop touching me…saying he has a lot of respect for me and think I ma brilliant, very sexy,and quite attractive)…Ahhh, just everything seems perfect then he doesn't communicate. Just don't get it…

What to do?

Canserious : May 16th, 2010

Hi everyone,
1st: Thank you all for your valued opinions and experiences.

I met my Scorp about a month ago on the whee he was my photographer and the connection was immediately there except he acted on it after we parted ways. he is 2yrs younger so I was skeptical at 1st as I typically find comfort in much older lovers. Well, it didn’t take long before I said yes to his sweet text of asking me on a date. I even blogged about him and he somehow found it and told me he wished someone could blog about his day to day as openly and sweetly as I did about our encounter and that he couldn’t have chosen better words to relate our attraction.

Fast forward a few dates, we’ve already had sex and I suppose are seeing 1 another but we had both agreed (myself being the initiator) that we hate it when we go on our first dates and the other person practically stalks you to be their significant other (too rushed, too annoying).

He is young, very successful and internationally known in his field which intrigues me ..(Me! I am difficult to intrigue) but he does it. He even went as far saying I remind him of his female counterpart and he’s baffled each day, he never knew I existed….so I suppose we intrigue one another.

The point: Well, everything feels “Just Wright” (<–shameless self promotion LOL) and I feel very secure with him yet there are small things that are beginning to bug me…everything I left my Pisces for about a year ago. I can't understand actions such as him not calling or texting when he is away. Thus far he's been gone twice 1 for personal family reasons which he said he wanted me to be the 1st face he saw upon his return (but clearly just a figure of speech) and we saw each other immediately 2 days later (our sche conflicted for sooner). He is gone this 2nd time (practically back to back, 2 wends) for work and the same: before he left, we had a great evening dining out and enjoying one another's company but he just doesn't call or text or even email!

I know we spoke of immature girls he'd been with in the past and that if he were to date someone it would have to be a mature woman but he said I was astonishingly all of that but I just don't know how much I am these days. He seems to have more faith in me than myself (haha).

I don't know, should I talk to him about being incog while away? I do understand how much his personal space means to him but it seems silly to not communicate like that…I am all about c-o-m-m-u-n-i-c-a-t-i-o-n.

I have never been so insecure about a relationship! I've spent the last 2 days researching our compatibility (which seems outrageously stalkerish yet I am doing it! OMG if he ever knew!) and odd enough, I haven't felt yet that he may be seeing someone else also since we never really clarified our "situation". I think for his young age he is very focused and grounded. knows what he wants, goes for it, and accomplishes well so sometimes I wonder if he is in my charts now to ground me…as in…maybe this is all just a phase and the feeling will simmer into blahsay. Am totally confused when he acts one way while with me in person (can't stop kissing me, touching me…telling me he's never been that much into kissing but can't stop touching me…saying he has a lot of respect for me and think I ma brilliant, very sexy,and quite attractive)…Ahhh, just everything seems perfect then he doesn't communicate. Just don't get it…I am Cancer Sun and Rising with a Gemini Rising btw.

What to do?

confused cancer girl : May 18th, 2010

The wildest thing is I could have written word for word your exact dilemma and it is almost sickening to me that I have the exact feelings about the communication and incognito manuevers. My Scorpio and I have since parted yet there is a deep feeling in me that he is coming back. I feel sickened by not being able to move on as I wanted to. I found myself deep into him again today and it has almost been a month ago since I last saw him.. I wish I could tell you what to do I really do. All I can say is, he made me into a semi”stalker” and I NEVER did anything close to what I did with him. Just be prepared if it isn’t right to be broken when it ends. I have not been the same to be honest and I still have not been able to put my finger on exactly why I loved him so much. How do you think I got on this website?? LOL And I saw the movie by the way and almost started to cry because I missed him that much. Good grief!!

Splint : May 18th, 2010

I feel ya cancer girl. I hate life because of this very emotion. ;(

confused cancer girl : May 19th, 2010

Try not to Splint!! I already found someone new to start feeling good again and you will too when the time is right. I know that I fell back into sadness because the new person and I were out of contact for a moment and it brought back insecurities from the last relationship and that right there was my lesson not to bring baggage into new things so I will be more patient with the new guy. Don’t hate life because if you didn’t have it then you can’t experience the good things waiting for you not all relationship wise either. There is more to life than relationships and even though it doesn’t seem like it today possibly tomorrow something will stir in you a renewal of why you are such a great person and things that you have to share with the world! Keep a smile on the best you can.

Uzine : May 19th, 2010

I am scorpio 28 years old man madly in love with a cancer girl of 20 years… We are far apart from each other… london and asia… fell in love by just seing each other via fb and webcam and also yahoo chat…

she says she loves me a lot within a week of chat… and i do love her to bits…

She tells me I love u about 100 times a day… i never get tired of her saying it…

God help us to make our relationship over the internet a successfull one… i want to marry her and spend my life wid her…

ps: one guy said he is 4 years older… man i am over 8 years older… damn…

Splint : May 19th, 2010

I hear ya. I think i should just let her know how i feel, ya know? I DO hint at it though…i usually rely on hints to show but maybe it’s best to just reveal my feelings. She’s going to be gone the whole next month ;( but i’m going to tell her i’ll miss her like crazy. And i will. It’s going to be traumatic since i don’t have lots to do this summer to get my mind off of her.

Splint : May 19th, 2010

And Uzine, age is but a factor, it means nothing. I can’t say if it’ll be successful or not, but have hope!! I’m not experienced with that type of thing.

Jeremy : May 23rd, 2010

hi everyone…i am a scorpio man, i met a cancer girl who works in a bar as a bartender..first time we scarcely exchanged few words; the second time she was so daring to start asking about personal issues, i wasnt so conservative with my answers, on the contrary, i liked it much…anyway, i saw her 4 times, the last time was a aweek ago..i tried to ask her out but i had no chance to talk about anything personal, so i left her a piece of paper with me telling her that i am upset coz i got not chance to talk with her somewhere else since she is either working or going to college during the day..and asket her if she would like to go for a coffee with me sometime…i am afraid that was stupid, but i didnt have the courage to ask her face to face while she is working, i guess i would have known the answer in advance..could a cancer girl help me out here??

confused cancer girl : May 24th, 2010

Okay Jeremy not stupid at all. The only thing I can tell you as a cancer female is that we are very loyal. So if she is involved with someone you probably won’t hear from her. Your best bet would be to casually see where she stands. If she flirts with you it could be because there is a connection but for your own piece of mind I would just ask her if she’s taken and then let her know you would not have asked her out if you had known. Respecting her loyalty will actually make her like you more and keep you in mind. Then just be a casual as you can because she would be offended if you continued to pursue after knowing she is with someone. If she is single and likes you you may be in for a free beer!! Good luck

Splint : May 24th, 2010

Any advice you have to give about cancer women, cancer girl? :D

confused cancer girl : May 25th, 2010

Only about myself and that is I love to be shown little special affections like if you went someplace without me and thought about me by getting something be it a simple postcard. I love to feel loved and protected yet not smothered. (Fine line I realize) You can send me sweet text messages all day long and I won’t get annoyed because I know you are keeping me close. Surprises are wonderful. Never forget my birthday please because I will be upset. In return I will do whatever makes you happy. Oh and of course tell me I’m beautiful once and a while! :-D

Splint : May 25th, 2010

Then i have nothing to worry about!! ;)

Thanks!! :)

Some guy : May 26th, 2010

Hi, I’ve been following this thread for a while now and found it very interesting. I’m from India and have been in the US for the past 10 yrs. A couple of years ago I met a girl when I went for a treatment at one of the ALCs. The chemistry between us was amazing, something you read in the novels. I felt a great connection between us and I bet she did too. After that I went home but I couldn’t stop thinking about her. This all happened on a Saturday and the next Monday I went back to the clinic to ask her out. She refused due to the fact that I was a client and it’s against the rules. I came to later that she was seeing someone. Days passed but I can’t keep her off my head and it’s like her name is in the air all the time. I got a job in another city and moved here a few months ago. Wherever I go, the movies, at work, while shopping, I come across someone with her name. The world keeps revealing her to me screwing my head even more. I’m in desperate need of an expert opinion on this. What should I do now? I don’t even know her last name which makes the matters worse. Please
advise. Thank you all.

confused cancer girl : May 27th, 2010

I have to admit I hope that same torment you are going through is occuring with my last boyfriend and only his pride and ego are keeping him away. I would try to inquire about her and then try to get her last name and tell her that while you realize she is taken that you would love to be her friend. If she doesn’t want that then leave your number with her and if she felt the same connection she may contact you when and if she breaks up with her current boyfriend. Other than that do your best to live your life. The signs will eventually let up when you start dating and get involved in other activities. Trust me I see signs and things all day long and sometimes I want to kick and scream but one sided is only that one sided. Love in order to work in a relationship needs two people so find someone else who deserves your affection. Good luck

Splint : May 27th, 2010

Hey Cancer Girl, i have another question for you…sorry. so i’ve known this cancer girl since last january – we’ve talked lots n lots. So last week i sent her a friend request on myspace but she never accepted, even though shes been on many times since. I even sent a message along with it saying who i am n all. *sigh* Why the f*ck would she pretend to be my friend for all these months then just backstab me?? Really, just SAY you don’t wanna be fkin friends wit me!!! Thing is, she didn’t seem bothered by me or uninterested – she always smiled at me and started conversation – not to mention saying things like “your funny” n asking whats wrong when things seemed bad.

I didn’t think cancers could be so cruel….

confused cancer girl : May 27th, 2010

You keep forgetting our rule and that is to be loyal and trustworthy to our current mates. Perhaps her current boyfriend is already a scorpio and gets jealous when he sees her friending guys on the myspace account. You have to always remember we are not cruel especially to the person we are involved with so why cause distrust if in fact you are just a friend. Got it now?? ;-D

Some guy : May 27th, 2010

Thanks Cancer girl! I never thought I had any chance if it has not been for all these signs. Moreover, you don’t meet people whom you connect with everyday and certainly it doesn’t happen to me. I don’t know..I just felt that I knew her the moment I met. Is there a way to find out the last name of a person? I mean it’s been so long and I don’t even know where she is right now..help please..

Splint : May 27th, 2010

Yes i completely understand, BUT i just want to be friends, that’s all. I wasn’t trying to pursue her or nothin…guess you can’t befriend girls who are “taken” these days. That’s what my point was. Trust me, the last thing i want in life is to sell my soul to love. And that’s ok that she didn’t accept i only want her to at least message me or something…i want to know if she got it and if were friends or not (apparently not). That’s all i’m venting about…not fun to have ur mind screwed with but i learned my lesson -not to get attached to people nor trust em.

confused cancer girl : May 27th, 2010

Splint I think you are taking it wrong and too personal. What if she IS attracted to you but because she has a boyfriend it feels uncomfortable. Even though all you want is friendship being friends is not easy unless you have a real reason like you work with someone. Other than that intentions can definitely be blurred. Just be cool with her when you run into her and casually ask her what’s up with not responding? See what she says. As for Some guy you are going to have to go back to the hospital and see what you can find out. Or just call the hospital and say her name was Judy ask for Judy that used to work in the area where you met her. See if somebody will say Oh you mean Judy Smith in xray department…?? I don’t know but if you feel the need to try then go for it. I know I would! Nothing is wrong with making the effort.

Splint : May 28th, 2010

Lol your right, i am taking it too personal but i don’t blame myself. Frankly i think its weird if her boyfriend did not let her accept any invitations of her male friends. I doubt that’s the reason (don’t even know if she has a bf) and if that was a reason that would be TOO controlling!! Who would want a mate that would be like that?? Anyways i thank you for your wise advice n all,though i aint going to ask her why she refused -i’d seem lustful or some shit.

Hope all is well with you!!

confused cancer girl : May 28th, 2010

I’m hanging in there. Sometimes it isn’t controlling just trying to avoid being questioned ” who’s that? ” Why even start that conversation and have to explain. You could be just so adorable to her that she doesn’t want her other friends hooking up with you!! Have a great weekend get out and enjoy it!! I’m gonna try.

Splint : May 28th, 2010

Awe haha that’s all sweet. Hope your right but i won’t get me hopes up!! I’m very sorry for what happened bout your scorpio ;( i feel ya – i’m very understanding. If i ever want to chat just let me know – i can give you my myspace url or something…or email…lol i sound like a freak now. Just sayin cuz i like to help ppl ;) . Have a good weekend!!!

Splint : May 28th, 2010

I mean if YOU ever want to chat…anywho i put that last comment down without thinking!! :O Nvm it!!

confused cancer girl : June 1st, 2010

No u sound pretty normal. Thanks. Sure give me the myspace page.

Alyssa : June 14th, 2010

ok just to fill in anyone who does knw my situation about me and my scorp guy, we still are talking, its been 5 months so far and recently he has asked me to take a trip with him to Ocean City beach for three days!!!! im like woooo, where did this all come from but of course i said yes because i truly love and feel for him and want to spend time together. its funny because now im more comfortable with telling him how i feel about him and he listens to me and i love that but i feel like he’s expressing his feelings towards me in his actions and me telling him by word of mouth. instead of my worrying about what was gonna happen next i just let things flow and being relaxed. now look,we’re going away for three days at a beach resort, i didnt see this coming at all lol.

confused cancer girl : June 15th, 2010

Happy somebody can make it work. My Scorpio and I can’t. He loves and misses me but will not talk to me…I have never delt with anyone like this before and I really am starting to believe I may need some help. He has things that remind him of me and vice versa. I just believe he is scared of having a real relationship and giving up his current lifestyle so I will leave him alone. I told him he will regret it one day and that he knows I am the “one” he just isn’t ready. Silence after that so I must be right because they will defend themselves when you get them wrong. Good luck Alyssa and enjoy!

cancergirl : June 18th, 2010

Well my scorpio guy confuses me bcuz i think he is confused himself , he told me he does not even know
what he wants anymore. He sorted of ended it with me over
a misunderstanding – and then by some kind of miracle-
that i kept believing we are supposed to be together-if only to give each other happiness thru sex which is where
everything seens to connect – although we never had any
fights or arguements and we never talk about anything that leads to one- i have always been there for him on several occasions- when he needed me- and he said thanx.
Anyway we had very passionate sex it was even more amazing
than any of our other encounters, if he has deep feelings for me he sure is very good at hiding it.
I will be working soon again & i have been trying to
stay busy -but i always think of him- i wonder if he thinks
of me.

cancer girl 2x : June 19th, 2010

Hi every one, I’m a cancer girl, I’m 23years old on the 22nd.and have been friends with this Scorpio guy, 22 as well 1st November. well we was talking for at least 3months before i decided to meet him. it was one of them things “i dont have no money to take u out but i need 2 meet u right now” this was x-mas day just gone… so i meet him and let me tell you i was nervous as hell lol ended up mubbaling my words up sitting in his car while he dint take his eyes of me! since then he has asked me out quite a lot to see me and for some reason, even though i like him… i make excuses up… dont ask why i do this, I’m just as confused as the next person. but just today we started talking properly and hes asked me again when I’m free next week???…. i dint hesitate this time, and told him i was busy 2 of the days during the week, and that’s all i said… but he hasn’t replied back and that was 3hours ago…. i no its only 3hours but this man doesn’t mess around he replies within 2.3minuets max! so… I’m thinking now did i not make it clear enough…do i now message him asking when hes free? or do i wait for him to message me? i dont want to come of as the clingy cancer girl cause am far from it if anything I’m too distant… advice from Scorpio men would be much appreciated thanks x

jane : June 20th, 2010

I am a cancer woman who after breaking up with an Aries, met a man who has made a huge impression on me, he is a scorpio and 14 years younger than me. At 1st we did not talk but now we do and I feel like I have known him all my life. He always wants to go on breaks with me, we are extremely tactile with each other but he has been seeing someone for 2 months and although he says he loves her Im not sure. Everyone at work is talking about us he never leaves my side and has even started smoking again beccause I do. I feel we have a really strong bond and would not mind if it develops but Ive been hurt so a friendship suits me, I like him and I respect him and I know there is chemistry there but dont want to rush anything but wouldnt say no as we are so compatible even though I am 44 and he is 30, I dont look my age but he knows it, I support him and he supports me.

confused cancer girl : June 21st, 2010

Cancer girl trust me he is thinking of you because mine is thinking of me. We sound alike.
Cancer girl2x my birthday is the 22nd too and my Scorpio is the 7th of Nov so I bet we all have the similar connections. These guys make me sick and yet I want to be with him again so badly… GEEZ

michelle : June 27th, 2010

yeah well im a cancer female and my scorpio male told me for almosr a year he loved and wanted to be with me by text messages of course it was just sex too him but i did love him and he knew it,made promises never happened asked him if he really loved me if not just leave and let me go his, response was ok then best of luck.and that was it devastated but have had no contact since and dont think i want to again.very manipulative got what he wanted but was scared of committment.

confused cancer girl : June 30th, 2010

I can’t say that mine had the same result. He is afraid of commitment I will believe that to be true but we were not the sex couple of the year so I know it was much more. Actually only a handful of times together sexually and believe me if it was sex only he wasn’t getting it from me! LOL so I believe mine when he says he loves and misses me. He is afraid plain and simple. If I don’t hear from him again I will know it is because he can’t give up his bad habit that I can’t live with. That is truly what broke us up. Different values and lifestyle but we had genuine love and affection so it hurts.

michelle : July 1st, 2010

ok think i get that, mine was the same but i think to busy a lifestyle work wise for a committment. i know he does like me but not in the same way i like him, funny thing is one of us will contact back a few weeks later because he cant find what he is looking for and me either, i know there is a bond there, but im finding it hard to have a relationship with some one else, have been out with a few scorps very similar, they find it hard to commit.

confused cancer girl : July 1st, 2010

Mine has not contacted me but I can’t stay away from him. I get into a funk or a crying thing and then want to talk to him. I haven’t even seen him since April 28 when we last made love but the last time I texted him he said it kills him not speaking to me and that he loves me and misses me. What the heck is that? He feels the same he is just involved in some stuff that I can’t agree with and he knows it so he stays away. He agreed to talk with me then backed out. I think he is afraid and I told him so. He knows I am the one for him. Sounds cocky I realize but I believe it. I can’t seem to want to be with anyone else either. I feel almost sick to be honest. I will be fine I keep telling myself but then I see or hear my signs and get back into sadness.

michelle : July 3rd, 2010

yes i know what you mean, feel sad sometimes but dont know why,i have been out with other men and dont find it that hard if i dont see them again.this one i think of all the time doing my head in so i know what you mean,dont know what is going to happen if we decide to contact each other again,i dont really want to see him but part of me does,just want a normal relationship with him,but i dont think it is going to happen.think it is time to move on,its no good feeling this way.

confused cancer girl : July 5th, 2010

Michelle we are talking a lil again. will keep u posted. He told me he is good at running from his feelings. we shall see. i pray for this to work. Only God can make him and I work together

michelle : July 6th, 2010

ok sweet hope things go ok for you and i do but i know what us cancer girls are like get hurt easily so just be careful saw my scorp a couple of days says he has dated but no spark with anyone, its a cancer scorp thing know that, let me know how you go. michelle.xx

confused cancer girl : July 7th, 2010

I see there definitely is something with the 2 signs. He
told me he thinks of me often and was not with anyone and I know he isn’t he is the very picky type. I think he may have had sex but not sure and really don’t need to know because it won’t matter we were officially apart and not speaking at all. I had my own opportunities as well just didn’t want to because I couldn’t get my mind and heart off of him. Thanks for the warning believe me I see how hurt I got and I don’t want to be there again. I will definitely be more cautious and wait til I can completely trust him again although I already do trust just not sure if we can work it out. I am in prayer on it so it really isn’t up to me. good luck to you as well it sounds like yours has some feelings as well for you just make him say he loves you and you know it will work out! ;-D

michelle : July 13th, 2010

was reading your comment about make him say he loves you, he has said that but not sure he is sincere, have talked to a few women about scorpio men, seems to be hard to get them to commit it takes a lot of trust for them to connect with you,and some say it takes years and they can just turn up on your door step,dont want that hopefully would have moved on by then,there is a definate connection they seem to like cancer women, but still i have tried with not too much happening. let me know how you go, mich.xx

confused cancer girl : July 13th, 2010

Oh I had no idea he has said the love you words! Yikes! LOL You may be completely correct. I am inviting mine to dinner next week. He and I like I said have been texting but not calling each other and I made a cute comment like “think of me a little” and he said he always thinks of me. I do agree with the trust issue. I will see if he comes around. He at least let me know that ever since he has met me his head has been a mess which makes me think he feels I am very different from what he is used to and therefore was trusting and he got sidetracked when I first left him. I came back but not sure if he will need more time for the commitment thing. We also have other issues that hold me back so we shall see. I will definitely let you know about the dinner outcome ( most likely we will jump each other haven’t seen him since April) LOL

ScorpiOLezBreal : July 17th, 2010

I have read all these accounts and all i can say is wooooow. I’m a Scorpio Woman and the person I can’t stop thinkin’ of is a CAncer woman. Yes I’m a lesbian. Don’t judge me by my lifestyle. I know this says “Cancer woman and Scorpio man” but I haven’t seen a section for lesbians like this. So this will have to do. If anyone is willing to put their input in about my situation. I’d gladly appreciate it. I need comments.

Im going to try to make this short and simple. Well me and my cancer woman have known eachother for 2 years. We met online and at the time we had both jsut got out of crazy relationships. She ended up getting back with her gf who is a cancer. Then they broke up a week later and we met up. When I seen her in person.. Wow sparks flew and wow. It was so intense. The first day we ended up kissing and touching but nothing more. IF the timing wasn’t so off that day..we would’ve had sex. But anyways, the next day after that she asked me to come over. We had sex and it was incredible. We started textin alot and talkin her an there. I was jealous and possessive. I hated the idea of her still talking to her ex. She was still talkin’ to her and i tried to pussh all my silly feelings aside but I couldn’t. Lonng story, short..we were together for 2 months and then she went back to her ex. Then 3 months after that..We hooked up..then she went back her ex.She’s gone for 9 months for military training. then she comes back and we hang out,sex,blah blah. Like our relationship has been off and on. During thanksgiving and christmas is when we tried to have a relationship again. She felt insecure and like I had other women. I sort of felt the same because i didnt kno if her ex was out or not. Then during christmas I find out that her friend who was staying with her for a 2weeks was actually her ex gf who is a leo. It was some chick she met in the service. I was hurt when she told and still she remained insecure. I don’t understand how she could be so insecure when she’s the one who kept secrets from me.

Anyways, I can’t stop thinking about her. We had romantic times and incredible sex. We wrote eachother poems and letters. Her whole family knows me and my family really knew nothing of her because they’re not as accepting. Sometimes she would complain about me not making her apart of my family and it’s not like i didnt try. Everytime I wanted her to meet with my mom or somethin..there was an excuse or we’d break up before it. We’re both afraid of being hurt. We value most of the same things.

2 months ago she messaged me telling me that she has some things of mine and she wants to send them. I told her i’d come get them. She said she’d rather send it and then she agreed for me to come over. Her schedule was so busy that I just told her foorget it because Im aware of her games. She’s like a yo-yo..drawing me back in when I’m ready to fall off the string. It hurts because I love her. I care about her. There is no one like her and I understand her more than I think she does. We’ve forgiven eachother for some things but the pain is still there. She’s the one whose been unfaithful before with her ex. I just wasn’t truthful about some things bt they were never as serious as the secrets she kept. I feel like we have this dumb ass pride thing that won’t let us hit eachother up or patch things up. Her bday is June 26th and I told her happy bday. She said it was really sweet of me but we haven’t talked since. I also was the first person to call her on her bday. Last time we had a convo.. she said she was talking to a man. She claimed that she was a lesbian. Not only did she claim it but she owned it. She was rainbow this and that anti-male. Anyways, i have no clue if her and the dude are still workin’ things thru bt I WANT her. I need her back in my life. I know she fucked up bt that doesn’t stop me from wanting her in my arms. It doesn’t stop me from wanting to make love. I feel incomplete without her. I’ve gone on dates and I’ve even had sex with others bt nothing compares. This is 2 years now..and in March she’ll be in Iraq or Afghanistan. I don’t know If I should leave her be so she can focus on her missions and move on with life or should i pursue her. I don’t want to be hurt. MY HEAD says “Move ON” but my HEART says “GO get her”. SOMEONE. Anyone ..help me. I just wish I knew why she did what she did. She’d break up with me at really odd times and it didn’t make sense. Soemtimes I would choose to leave her alone becuz of her lies and such. She claimed that she always wanted to be friends but nothing about us together is friendly. We’re sexual and lovey together. There’s nothin’ i wouldn’t do to see her dimples from cheek to cheek. NOTHING. I realize she wants to be friends because she loves me and cares somewhat but I feel like a friendship is a way for her to always have some hold on me. She knows I want her. As intense I feel right now, I bet she can feel me needing her attention and needing her touch. I can’t be the first one to CRACK. I dn’t know what to do. I dnt kno if she’s USING me. Everything she says and what we do seems so genuine. I feel that maybe things won’t be the same because now there’s not only exes i have to think about..there’s man. ugh. help. thanks for reading my situation.

confused cancer girl : July 19th, 2010

Dear ScorpioLez, I’m not sure you want to be involved with this person right now. First she doesn’t seem quite sincere and also she flip flops too much first with you and the exe and then with others. The difference I see with your situation and all the others believe it or not is not the gender issue but the cancer woman. Most of us have not cheated on the Scorpios or betrayed the trust issue and your cancer has. The hurt between the other relationships comes from more of not knowing how to make it work with the basic personality traits. Your cancer woman has commitment issues and possibly not even sure if she is lesbian and those are deal breakers for me. I do understand you wanting to be with her and the wonderful connection but it sounds like you may deserve better. I think your HEAD is in the right this case. Just an opinion. Be strong no matter what.

michelle : July 24th, 2010

to confused cancer girl, want to know how your dinner date turned out hope it went well, i have just had contact with another scorpio male i went out with a while back, he rang mme at work out of the blue said he was thinking of me but didnt know if i wanted to talk to him,said he misses me and wants to come and see me, i have never had this happen with any other male i have been out with who keeps wanting to come back must be some connection somewhere, because every other star sign i go out with when its finished thats it no more but with scorpios they seem to come back.

confused cancer girl : July 26th, 2010

We didn’t get to do dinner yet. Hopefully this week sometime. I believe in them coming back something always told me in my heart of hearts that mine was never truly gone. Enjoy it. Maybe he is the one for you. I will tell you about the dinner after we have it! ;-D

cancergirly : August 1st, 2010

Alright so Im a cancer woman and my love interest is a scorpio man. I met him a year ago, and even though the nature of our friendship was sexual/flirtatious we are always able to adapt to every type of situation. He is 7 years older than me but you honestly cant notice the difference. The problem: although our communication over the past year has been scattered he always tries to pull me back in a flirty manner. I feel like to him i am a bootycall even though we’ve never had sex….got close once but thats it. We have a lot of mutual friends and the female ones all tell me hes a bit of a man-hoe lol idk its not what i want and idk what to do so that im not viewed like one of those girls in his eyes. My cousin who knows him very well says he probably likes me…..idk we hang out often mostly with a group and even then he”ll flirt with me. We have an intense chemistry, but how do i make it more serious? I feel like if im not a bitch i cant tame him. Scorpio men i need ur help on this one

horny scorp : August 2nd, 2010

Yea I think that your scorpio guy don’t want you. He just wants sex. If he does like you he would’ve tell you..I know it hurts for you hearing this but yea. To him you are just a booty call (sorry for the bad english) BTW Im a scorpio! Seeking for a cancer

confused cancer girl : August 2nd, 2010

I have no idea about these men I really don’t I invited my scorpio over and he didn’t respond. He is chicken because he cares… I know it sounds stupid but they do tell you how they feel so if they like you they will tell you but they may not act on it. FEAR!!!!! I am relaxing and leaving him alone again. If he wants me he will come to me. I’m getting tired.

cancergirly : August 2nd, 2010

Yes! He tells me oh i like you, lets go out together just us two (etc.) But when we see eachother with a group of ppl its either a lot of attention or barely any from him. Maybe i should try and set aside time for just us??

Heather : August 2nd, 2010

Scorpio’s and Cancers share some sort of zing when they look into each other’s eyes…Its such an intense feeling,so sexy. I just got involved with a Scorpio male that doesnt want a relationship because of his recent breakup with a girl he had a six year relationship with. BUT, funny thing is that he cant keep his hands off of me, questions my wherabouts and who Im going wherever with, has asked a list of questions about my personal life, and keeps an eye on me and my interactions with men…Who knows, lol. He is coming to my house on Sunday for dinner and a movie (first time). At the same time, the last two times we have seen each other has been with friends and when we kiss (because we literally cant go a moment apart when we are together, his friends are asking him when we are getting married, and I understand how uncomfortable that could be for him (even though he completely ignores him and continues to hold me and kiss, what a weirdo)… We will see how it goes, I am feeling oh so much.

Heather : August 2nd, 2010

Might I add…If it’s meant to be, it will surely be. Love to all the Cancer women, you know in your heart whether its right or not, trust your golden intuition…and dont be in denial if your heart is screaming at you! xx

cancergirly : August 2nd, 2010

Thank you!! I can relate to your sitation a lot.

cancergirly : August 5th, 2010

Do scorpios need their space??

ScorpiOLezBreal : August 7th, 2010

Thank you for your input Confused Cancer girl and thank you for not being judgemental. It truly means alot. Well, i’ve been keeping a distance from my cancer heartbreaker. lol i haven’t seen her since late December. we’ve made contact and on June 26..i called her to say happy bday and she thought it was real sweet but thats pretty much it. Oh yea, recently she sent me a text saying that it was her brother’s bday and that her and her family were going out meaning she wanted me to come along. luckily i was on the plane headed somewhere. Ha, totally not in her direction. I told her that I had other plans. The funny thing about the sitaution is..the fact that i wanted to call her real badly before and talk before this happened. One thing about Scorpio’s male or female. lol in this case I’m between a male/female (since i’m the more dominant one)..Scorpios.if we feel like we’re going to be HURT after taking you up on your offer..we will reject it. If we know feeel thaat your intentions are true, then we will take you up in it. it doesnt matter if we have prior important engagements..we will do just about anything to be beside you. Confused Cancer girl.. im sure your Scorpio guy CARES alot and thats why he is keepin’ his distance. MAybe he will come around but sometimes we love being chased down. From whaT i’ve read, it seems like you made urself more than available. So maybe a breather would do some good. =)I hope it all works out.

As for me. I am so tempted to talk to my cancer. I dream about her sooo much. i think about her enough alredy but the dreams are killing me. I don’t know if I need closure or what the hell i need But im not sure what to do about it. I’ve dated around a little bt most of these girls are the same as her or no better. I dnt know how to feel. She’ll be deployed in March to Afghanistan..SO I don’t know if i should get together before she leaves. I feel like if..we get together it will bring old feelings back and i dnt wanna be in pain when she leaves. You know?

@ Cancergirly : you should try something like telling him to come with you to get something out the kitchen or to get fresh air…if you’re in a friend setting. The scorpio you described sounds like he’s unsure abt asking you out. If he’s mentioned you guys hanging out alone more than once.. he really wants to hang out. You should totally take him up on his offer, it may be what you two needed after all.

@ Heather.. Scorpios do need space sometimes but no ridiculous space like a gemini or something. Giving us a day to miss you is cool. When a Cancer and Scorpio are really INTO one another..they usually cnt go too long without seeing eachother again. I’ve dated 3 cancer women. We always end up contacting one another in some way. it’s weird. but definitely keep things cute. he’s really into you to continue to kiss you after his friends have made comments like that. Before Scorpios get a relationship, they like to take it sorta slow especially if we just got out of a long term relationship. Believe me, take your time. Rushing it is what messed up my relationships. enjoy the courting. haha.

Hope i helped. If anyone would like to help me. feel free. thank you. Much love to all my Scoprios and Cancerians

yuliana : August 10th, 2010

I am a cancer woman, and I met this scorpio man through the internet, so we exchanged e-mails about our current lives. However, he is travelling the world and was passing in the country where I live. We met at first and he was super polite and very formal, and of course nothing happened. So I figured maybe the spark was not there, although I did like him. Two weeks later he text me to meet up again, he mentioned he was coming back this way. So we met up again and had a nice time together, however this time we kind of hooked up. It was so passionate and romantic, but he would not allow me to give myself to him completely since he would put a barrier with the justification that his didnt want to get stuck in a random country for anyone. He was committed to his 2year trips etc. SO i respected that and said good bye. Days later he continued texting saying things like he missed me etc so I didnt really know what to do because I initially liked this guy, so I followed his lead, however everytime I would express myself romantically he would cut me off. Finally after a month of txts and very empty msgs I felt it was time for me to let him go for real, he said many times he didnt want to stay attached, but at the same time he wanted my undivided attention whenever he needed it, meanwhile I had to content myself with random txts and not feedback whatsoever on whatever he was feeling for me. So out of the blue I decided to delete his msg and txt and from my list of friends. I know that I still like him and I wisk he would contact me back, but I also know that this guys never took me serious and in a way i made him a favour to continue his journey. It sucks for me and well one thing that all cancer women have is that we are proud and do not take b.s from anyone. we dont like to waste our time with indecisive people. If we dont convince you in the first 5 minutes after we met, than you are not for us.

Elizabeth : August 16th, 2010

I’am a cancer girl and I fell for a Scorpio guy the second I saw him, this was about two years a go at the beginning of my sophmore year of High School. I’ve met him through mutual friends. I had a boyfriend at the time, we had been dating for about 6 months, he was a Libra. I was instantly attracted to my Scorpio guy and it wasn’t only because of his looks, I loved the way he looked at me with such intensity and how he was so mysterious. I felt like he had a scary dark side and some how that just made me much more attracted to him. I’am actually very good at predicting a persons personality. It was also very weird because we didn’t even have to communicate or talk alot, but I could still feel him, I felt an unexplainable rush through my body and he understood me and I understood him too just by glazing at him. He has the most intense eyes and I loved it, I felt such a connection like no other. We started talking over Myspace, texting, and on the phone and I started falling for him, more and more because I felt that he was falling for me too .(he eventually admit about 4 months a go that he actually did have feelings for me) I loved the way he was passionate over everything. He was either hot or cold , he would always send me mixed signals about how he felt for me. This really confused me , but still deep down in my heart I felt like he was the guy that I wanted to be with so I dumped my bf thinking that we were going to end up dating each other. One second he would be calling me beautiful the other he would say that I was too nice and innocent for him? He would tell me some of his darkest secrets that he had never told anyone because he had trust issues before in his pass and he still does, I was the only girl that he trusted so I felt like I must have been very speical to have that privilege. Sometimes he would be flirting with me alot then he would say I was more like a good friend? He was really messing with my emotions and my head. He would tell me that i was too innocent for him and he just wanted to go around and mess around with girls and have not commitment, even after all the things his said to me that I really did not want to hear, I still had feelings for him and sometimes i still feel like i do . I still don’t understand why I feel like this sometimes , maybe its because I can’t get over rejection or it could be that we really had or probaly will have something special. I went to a party about 4 months ago and he was their, I had too much to drink I think it had a little to much to drink because I was upset to see him flirting with some girl. So basically I was drunk not totally wasted but definetly not sober. I couldn’t even walk that straight, so he sat me down and sat next to me he told me to sit down and chill and that he was going to take care of me. I was resting my head on his shoulder and he was caressing my head and back. I had never been so close to him before, he also brought me some food so I can sober up but I was hurt about what he had done to me , he made me fall for him and at the end he still wasn’t mine so I threw the food of his hand walked away went back inside the party and made out with some guy that I knew in their. The scorpio guy and one of my best friends went up to me while I was kissing the guy , my best friend grabbed me by my hand and took me away from him while the Scorpio guy was giving the guy dirty looks like he was jelous that was when the bad tension began and about thirty minutes later some how they ended up so close to fighting each other until the owner off the house told them that if they started any drama or fighting they will have to leave. I know Scorpio people are very jelouse so are Cancerians, I’m not sure if all of this happened because my Scorpio guy was actually jelous because maybe he still had something for me . I’am in a realtionship now and its about to be 4 months with my new boyfriend, he is a Gemini, he is very charming and nice and I really do love him he is also friends with the scorpio guy. I still like the Scorpio guy I can never get over him I still feel like we were meant for each other and maybe the right time will come . Theirs just something very special about him its been about 2 years and i still can’t get him out of my heart:(

What do you guys think? Is it that I can’t get over rejection? tell me your opinions.

Capricious Cancer : August 18th, 2010

Hello :)
Im a Cancer 6/27 and I’ve been dating a Scorpio 11/13 for about 5 months. Too often I feel unloved. I feel I give him so much but he’s too comfortable with our relationship to care about my feelings. He gets into these pouty moods where he goes into the bedroom sits on the floor and buries his head into his knees. In the beginning I would cradle him and apologize for hurting his feelings, but too often I apolgize for him… Too often I find myself forgetting about myself because I’m thinking about how he feels or what he wants. True things aren’t always bad, yes the sex is great… but I don’t want to make up from a fight by making love and not talking about it, this is just not me. Anyone care to assist, I feel like I’m drowning more and more everyday.

I’ve been reading a few posts and I’ve come to the conclusion that Cancers should just put themselves aside and worship the Scorpio, this just seems ridiculous. I am just as important and I have just as many needs (if not more sometimes) than the Scorpio… don’t I?

florence_capri : August 19th, 2010

ooooooooh u poor cancerian girl, don’t worry, scorpio r lik that….but u should be urself.:)

Aishwarya : August 20th, 2010

Hi, I’m June 25th born. Never had a scorpio boy friend, but yes my close friend is a Scorpio. They’re loyal friends, very good at heart, and true to their words. I feel so safe and secured just by having him as my friend. Don’t know what future holds for me, but I would like to live my life with a man who understands my mood swings and know why I’m so insecure.

florence_capri : August 22nd, 2010

very tru, they can be gud boyfriend, great lover…….but when it comes to serious and faithful relationship think twice….:)

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