Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

The attraction between Cancer and Scorpio is magnetic, deeply felt, and has the potential to withstand the test of time. The warmth and caring nature of Cancer feel regenerating to Scorpio, and Scorpio sense of an all-encompassing love appeals to you Cancer deeply. Both have the similar ways of expressing their love and make each other feel “at home”.

A Scorpio man is an invincible person. He is an extremist with calm and steady surface and smoldering passion within him. Beneath the soft voice of Scorpio male lays his subtle strategies to enhance his career and personal life. He is one person who loves luxury and comforts immensely. He can sink into depression, or rise to intoxicating heights of ecstasy. In love with a Cancer woman, he is a passionate lover who knows all the synonyms of romance and eroticism. Though he is a great lover, but together with it he is very jealous and suspicious in nature too. He can be passionate just about anything, including sex, love and family. If you look at the surface, he will look totally calm and composed. Just look beneath that outer layer of his and you will find his smoldering passion.

A Cancer woman is enigmatically feminine. She is a gentle and kind lady with a good sense of humor and capturing aura of delicate personality. Her feelings are sensitive and tender and her loyalty is spotless. Though, she may not look very strong, but she is a tower of strength for her dear ones and perfectly able to manage herself, if alone. Patience is her dearest virtue and flexibility is her biggest weapon to win in all circumstances. Being in love with a Scorpio man, stirs the deepest emotions of the Cancer female making her a perfect match for a passionate male like him.

Cancer woman is always an interesting lady for a Scorpio man. She is full of such feminine mysteries which a curious Scorpio man always wants to unfold completely but gently. She has a reserved outlook in the beginning which attracts him but soon she shows him her great sense of humor which makes even a serious person like him to smile. She brings colors and joys to his life and provides him with a companion who is always by his side to love, care and understands his feelings. She is actually one person who understands him well deep to his soul and knows what goes on under his cool and composed surface. Loyalty is the biggest trait that makes him feel comfortable with a Cancer woman. Though to his dislike, he can find her to be possessive and bossy at times and also has to tolerate her mood swings but with such love and loyalty in return, he understands her value and keeps a cool temper while dealing with her mood swings.

The Scorpio man is one male who can easily win a Cancer woman’s heart. He appreciates and understands her very well and soon converts their understanding into a romantic endeavor. He deals with the wounded feelings of her with great compassion, understanding her dreadful heartaches and soothes them out with his passionate love and thick blankets of care and devotion. He gives her the protection and care which she craves for deeply with such intensity that it makes her feel complete in all dimensions of her existence. He is one person who cuddles her like a baby and respects her like a lady. She needs to understand that his chief faults are his suspicious nature, jealousy, and a desire to dominate others, especially the lady love of his life. To overcome these demons eclipsing his golden heart, she just needs to be a bit more patient as with time his confidence increases and he starts giving space to her being sure of her wisdom and trustworthiness.

The Cancer woman and the Scorpio man makes one of the best possible pair with great compatibility and warmth that is both emotionally and physically very intense and rich. As their love grows and they soar high with each other and experience an undoubted confidence in their relationship, she gives her complete trust to her Scorpio man and he grants her with the gift of forgiveness, which he never gave to anyone. She helps him to be reborn and discover his true personality, charm and magnetism with her unlimited devotion and tenderness while he helps to remove all the fears out of his Cancer damsel’s heart and teaches her to fly high fearlessly with his undivided attention and care for her. Their home is a temple of love where they both keep each other on pedestal to worship and offer their devotion, care and affection throughout their lives.

Sexually, the Scorpio man and Cancer woman makes one of the most amazing duo. The Water from both the signs mixes so well, that its serenity and soothing feel keeps nurturing their love. The Scorpio man’s love nature is more intense and yearning than that of most men and hers is more romantic and sensitive than that of most women. Both of them long for a certain degree of security in a relationship which they get from their emotional attachment and enhance with the purity of love making. Cancer female’s heart is almost always turned on by sensing peace and coziness she feels by being held in her Scorpio lover’s arms while he needs loyalty, that he can get in plenty from Cancer lady love. He enjoys it when her heart starts beating terribly fast during the act and her face getting so flush. Most times she wants so much to match his torturously delicious movements with her own, but she holds her emotions firmly. Actually she must let him know how much he drives her crazy and how much she is in love with him. As they become aware of each other’s unspoken needs, their physical mating can be a truly transcendental experience and their sexual union becomes a strange mixture of eroticism and purity.

As this is always a very wonderful couple but nothing is actually perfect and to reach perfection some amount of sacrifice is always needed, they must first conquer together their most negative traits: Cancer woman’s baseless fears and possessiveness, Scorpio man’s burning jealousy and revenge compulsion and also their mutual financial caution. If these differences are passed by successfully there can be hardly any Scorpio-Cancer relationship that is ever broken. As both of them are outrageous in nature and tend to retreat into solitude when angry, to have a healthy relationship they should rather openly talk it over to find solutions. Otherwise, a very lovely relationship may end up abruptly, after which they invariably miss each other very much usually throughout their lives.

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    Daryan07 June 2nd, 2016

    I am a Cancer woman (23 years old) and my boyfriend is a Scorpio (25 years old). Our relationship is pretty new but I can still say this is all 100% true and even though we haven’t experienced all of these aspects YET, I can already see it happening. My best friend of 18 years is a female  Scorpio and we have always been this way with each other. One thing I know for certain is Cancer and Scorpio are almost complete opposites, and in the strangest way this makes it work so naturally. Cancer is the scorpios strength emotionally and is always the one to mend the relationship when there is a falling out (which there will be), but even if cancer and Scorpio go weeks without talking, they find their way back to where they left off. Scorpio is the grounded one, and keeps the cancer grounded.  When I am questioning my sanity I always call my BFF and she can tell me honestly if I am being ridiculous or not, and she is the first to be proud of me for my accomplishments too.
    One thing I have experienced with Scorpio  ( with my best friend and boyfriend) is that they like to be the chaser. 
    In other words,
    They want to be the one who smothers their partner and be dominant, while cancer needs reassurance because we are scared to lose them. I feel this is the most confusing and maybe the only negative thing in a cancer Scorpio relationship. 
    You have to let Scorpio come to you and then return the love, and when you accept this as a cancer… that’s when things will go smooth.
    Scorpio are loyal when they have their heart set on a partner, and they are very grounded in their relationships.
     

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    TammimB February 11th, 2016

    @GabriellaCosciaLondon I know it’s been a while but I wanted to know old you were because I’m 18 at the moment

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    TammimB January 25th, 2016

    @GabriellaCosciaLondon Honestly even though I am 18 I’ve learned a lot about other Cancers, I mean I got into horoscopes maybe a year or year and a half ago. Mainly because of my favorite actres who’s a Taurus Megan Fox. I mean I have had 2 cancer teachers in school, I was close with both of them as friends and they weren’t exactly shy. My teacher was Ms D. Williams, she was a strong African American middle school science teacher, I was like a son to her because she only had daughter. It’s because of her that I’m good at science, my other teacher was a strong and funny Italian male teacher Global teacher. My nickname from him was Wizard because I would do something random out of no where, he was an awesome teacher and he was like a big brother to me because I’m the oldest child in my family.He was a very funny man, I also had a cancer best friend in middle school, was a player but he was still my friend.

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    GabriellaCosciaLondon January 25th, 2016

    Ps as a cancer woman I’m also very strong mentally and I bend over backwards for the needy and I fight dirty too.

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    GabriellaCosciaLondon January 25th, 2016

    I’m deeply insecure we cancer girls feel emotion and passion I’m very shy unless I get to know you I’m very typical of a cancer woman. I’m shy but sexual there’s a cancer guy where I work he’s quiet I’m outspoken I do we close off if men hurt us we are manipulative and will be cutting sometes unintentional oh and I like the power of men I have to get what I want. Cancer men I am not keen on its hard you have to fall in love and I did with scorpion male though sadly I’ve fallen out of love with him. We can be negative depressed and bitter all in one go. Cancer women have an array of emotions are moody and personally I like strong silent men who allows me some independence if he leads. Does that help.

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    TammimB January 25th, 2016

    @GabriellaCosciaLondon Hello I’m a cancer man and I was wondering how’s it like being a female cancer. Like I wanna know whats different so far

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    TammimB January 25th, 2016

    @ashley225 are you Muslim 

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    GabriellaCosciaLondon January 10th, 2016

    Have to say not sure about the cancer female scorpion male thing
    Have to say I did like one and even asked him out which is very rare for me to chase a man. He said no, then showed his true colours.
    Rude, chauvanistic, no manners, arrogant, blowing hot and cold, into mind games. Reverse Psychology. Very immature and thinks he can do my job without even any training.
    A truly narcisstistic person. Move on, like I have. I’m too good for you and can do much better. If a Cancerian Girl ignores you and refuses to speak to you the trust is gone for good – it’s over ! get the message.

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    moonchile May 7th, 2015

    I’m a cancer woman. I’m amazed at most of the comments as to they’re exactly what I’ve been going through with my scorpio man. We met about 6 months ago on my job. I had a bad breakup with a Capricorn man before this so I was focused on getting him back, Not meeting someone else. He’s older than me in his 40’s. I’m 31. Our attraction was instant and intense. I’ve never even thought about an older guy. As older guys don’t much appeal to me. But he is wonderful. I feel so drawn to him. The down side is he’s in a relationship with a woman. Actually with numerous women but our attraction is kinda unspoken. He tells me he loves me but I dismiss it as jokes. He tells everyone how he feels about me. I think, “how can you when you don’t know me?” But I secretly deeply love him as well. He gets so jealous when I talk to others or give my attention to others. I find it cute. I get mesmerized when I gaze in his eyes and it’s like he reads my every thought or desire. This is a painstaking situation as I just want us to be. I want to be able to give myself to him fully. Sometimes, I have to try so hard to restrain myself from touching him and kissing him. Things are so innocent between us I don’t want it to change. I don’t want it to get worse. It could always get better. I guess I’m venting my frustration on here because I want to know what do I do with this kind of thing. Having to hold back so much emotion for someone when I know things would be great! But I also can’t play second fiddle to anyone. 

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    wjddud1009 December 22nd, 2014

    I’m a cancer girl born July 12 and my boyfriend is a scorpio born on October 27th. This article is just so cute and because we’ve only started dating very recently, I can’t say this is correct just yet but we do share great chemistry. I met him at work, I worked there long before he did and I must say, I never believed in love at first sight until I saw him, I fell for him the moment I laid my eyes on him. I was with a Gemini, Taurus and Aquarius before and with all of them I had to lead the relationship but with him, I did ask him out first but after that he took the lead and boy, is that refreshing! I’ve always wanted my man to take the leash but they never did, however this man seems to know what I like… even though I’m he’s very first girlfriend! He was saying b/c i’m he’s first girlfriend he didn’t really know what he was doing but he felt very comfortable around me and that it feels as though we have been dating for a long time. I agree with him 100% on this and because I’m so in love with him and am very content about where we’re going with this, I truly wish for us to last a lifetime. We didn’t have sex but we did some other things that involved sexual interaction, and I have never felt so much pleasure even though we didn’t have full on sex. I love this man and he loves me, he makes me feel loved just by gazing at me. Wish every cancer girl would meet a darling scorpio like mine 🙂
     

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    456123 August 17th, 2014

    scopio fuck bed. connection amazing when one. scorpio man cancer woman. pisces scorpio. really carring outgoing and suitable for witch or orackle really hilarious and funy especially born 12 – 14 november. dont know special qualities maybe mariage but striky and forward. Met in woolworths for 3 years then plit becuse of my familky situation no s or mother. sss.  but the relationship is eally good one. sexy. Same thing… however man and pisces where really hilarious and funny.  So met again and deviantart and nightwish works anthing outy but not homeys or homey. Like swimming or rrrrrr bath or drive drive and e really good.  Dream come true in regards to show movies and closenesss like mother sister. Great planner and dealer- towards tability not like a pices cancer so pisces o but cancer _ not good. saggitarious worth it. especially when hot o hot o sexy with al. sa

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    Alise August 1st, 2014

    Astrologist so im thinking really good aries really serious with a scorpio ladies and cancer is a saggittarious not a pisces leo so aries sagitarious might even do then an show ofdf pft. Really good aries in fact fire and sexual and kissing and supportive and alone with a few interests that works in india or indonesia or somewhere like weekend getaway in a traditional taking a bath buying a corset or a chemise where u can use that make up to attract or fashion to ur advantage like stockings or underwear in a girly manner when he is so middle ground. Back get it the scene so im thinking aries got it somehow better off as a right match right and also more actibe nut not based leo – aries” based on a date first meeting in an hour not going to the southland movie not having it in the car like aries in the house in the car plus imaginatively thinking at work or near work with flowers with tickets and beince nice polite words where here its just like yeAr im an one lets go out but not out ill just sit there and watch a movie. or lie there and watch a movie with nothing going on around. Just like my sister. ( or my mother; so i agree with the aries on this one as an old stuff that works get ur book ur ideas or facts and get it somewhere on the irst date and second maybe even longer time when here is just like tara pop o pop o so anything aound means a no:( really good impession of an guy who is one year olde but also aies and older knowledgeable also indian and takes a girl out to his house to meet his family no father just a mother cause someone passed away no sister and no brother so looks really loving. And not stupid. Really considerate and even suitable for a long realtionship. And sex is outstanding for now cause they r creative and cuddly.

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    Alise August 1st, 2014

    Cancer is fine fire scoprio is not a good kisser good hands good touch but no no more???? so im saying yes to trying but 3 out of 5 cause the pisces cancer is a darling and actually sees whats going on around so he kinda keeps up to his interests and activities wherethere the pisces – scorpio aries leo leo is so not off guard and doesnt lead u to sex to try just looks and thats all when im saying its either there or no im saying no cause ive seen a pisces and he is more kinda caring and o so he can kinda relate or come into situation with a movie with going out with taking care of friends family gf wherethere this one is not just dickhead lke decan 3 and 3 but also not an straight forward person not active not active as in the sense of bed or geting close or trying to come into the serious contact or link with the she partner where she is trying to also get together have a future have a relationship move out or move into the house so im thinking the sex wouldvebeen nice but not to his eyes or mouth just like  his hands like n get it so im thinking without naming a letter a bad experience on the first date when no hotel no wish no wish where you wana be heading and also lyer about money about practicality when there are sparks and using that to ur advantage to blend in no just going into it or offering to come dine in a restaurant like steak house or fridays romanticly or sexually or physically being opt out from the room people and the show audoence about so no Im thinking the rule goes as it says normal one and thats all scorpio maybe but it gets worse when scxorpio becomes a mouse. or in this sense when scorpio my dad libra and bull so forth so get it off turned.ur decan ur light into something like ….. remote to control a man so im thinking that sex maybe good but kiss and touch ok; also toooo slow cause there r ones that u would like to get to know further one but this one seems to think he is the only one in the room no jealsousy nothing where pisces scorpio is even comparible more jealous then you like one. So aries atleast has it but not when u have an aries to excuse urself to get off ur get on or not thinking where ur going or what ur willing to do like i just said. So my advice girls eyes and years thats all. a tak pft

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    anndere April 17th, 2014

    I am a 18 years old cancer woman that hardly get over with scorpio man. attach is the best term rather. The heart-breaking day comes and I was crying so miserably (im expecting this day would come and I even practice myself but the pain is very penetrating) 4 weeks had passed after the breaking up and I couldn’t get him out of my head. Its funny how everything written here are spot on. HAHAHA!. suprisingly. Astrology says Cancerian seeks for romance which is true. Easily breakdown emotionally and the mood swing. But the funny part is how it describes perfectly the scorpio man. He is secretive and calm but there is smoldering passion beneath of his composure. Thanks to him for touching my heart and my romance-seeker had been rid-off and this silly longing wont bother me leading me to misinterpret my feelings especially boys’ kind intention. Now I am one-sidedly loved him because thinking of him even if we’re living in different world is way very weird. I cant hate him because he believes in me that I can endure the pain when he said what he wants even if it means of hurting me. He didnt leave me confuse and all and it made me love him even more. Maybe at this point he is the only man who made me feel this extreme emotion that’s why I am very attach to him. The thing I learned most while being with him is to never afraid of future. Have faith in God’s will for both of us and live. So reading in horoscope is very helpful but praying is really the best because meditation leads you to make rational and wise decision 🙂 

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    ashley225 March 5th, 2014

    my bf or u can say my future husband 🙂 is scorpio and im cancerian..we both know ech other from 4 years and we have an amazing type of romance or u can say sex….he always cares me like a baby and kinda typ of jealous, if any any one compilments me he becomes jealous because he doesnt want any one beside him 2 have a look on me or appreciates me or cares me..he wants me just for himself..he is so much passionate about me my whole personality or u can say he is crazy about me 🙂 but i knw his nature nd try to cover tht up 🙂 and i am totaly of him and loyal to him to extreme..he keeps me with him on fone if he is soo busy in meting or any where else but still he remain in touch wth me 24 hours..we have sex every second day but his need for me never fulfill,, all tht tym he wants me…he cant live without meeting me …i also have same feelings for him.. he cares me sooo much even more than my parents..we truly love each other and soon we got married…Inshallah 🙂 

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    LunarMaiden January 27th, 2014

    @Passion
    Cancer girls are stronger than you think.

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    Princessalwaysbeingstronger December 18th, 2013

    Im a cancer woman and i have a crush on a scorpio man, we are good friends but how do i aproch him to be in a relationship?

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    ConfusedCancerLady November 20th, 2013

    Hello, I am a Cancer lady (7/10) I have been talking to a Scorpio man (11/14) since March & it has been really serious. We aren’t together because he is 4 years older then me. He says he will wait for us to be together & that he does love me. Which I believe. The only thing is , is that we are both very jealous (wether he likes to admit it or not) anyway he doesn’t like for me to talk to other guys & I dont like for him to talk to other girls… but he does talk to another pretty girl , (a Virgo). Yes , I am jealous but I know that we aren’t together. I asked him since he is talking to her , ” I can talk to someone too?” he said ” It’s only fair” That kinda hurt but I didnt let him know that.. I have allowed myself to open up to him & trust him , which I dont really do. Then he told me he doesnt trust me, Now that felt like a slap to the face after all me & him have been thru but that didnt stop me loving him I told him we just need to work on that & he said ” I know, & Im sorry” Anyway , my Scorpio said that him & the Virgo lady weren’t serious & on the same level as we are. I believed him until recently… I’m really inlove with him & dont wanna lose him , but Im not gonna stick around if he’s just gonna sneak around & lie to me. He has told me a lot of things , things he hasnt told anyone else.. We haven’t talk in about 3 days which is the longest we’ve gone without talking.. He used to be different in the begininng & would text me first & he was the one who told me how he felt first & told me he loved me first.. I feel like this he could be the one & I’m willing to try & not give up. I feel like he doesn’t wanna hurt me or lose me … but also doesnt wanna hurt this other girl because thats just the kind of guy he is , but I’d rather him be 100% with then drag me along & really break my heart , he is my first real love… HELP PLEASE! Let me know what you Cancer ladies & Scorpio men think.

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    Sourkid November 14th, 2013

    This is one of the sorest points of my life. I was 16 when I met him and now in 25. I consider him the one I loved the most, and after several misunderstandings (because of the cultural issues with my family—-them not allowing me to see him or leave the house at all) and then him breaking my heart, my Gemini venus decided to have amnesia about the whole thing. I erased him from my memory, and I thought I was over him. That was until about 7 years later when I was dragged to a psychic who said he “loved me very much”. The thing is I never asked her about him, and she is not the first person who has said this. At the time I was read by this psychic I was slipping into major depression again due to the stress of my career. So it was a nice message to get, only….now I realize I never got over him. I erased his number from my memory (that was forever ago) and I don’t think he’s much of a social network person so I don’t know how to get in touch with him. However, I added a mutual friend of ours on FB back in 2009. I can’t know for sure if they’re still in contact but now I wonder…has he been stalking my profile through him??? I don’t know how to feel about that, but how else did he hold on for so long? I now live several states away from him so anything seems impossible right now. I dont know what I’m looking for by typing this, maybe I just needed to vent. This is a sore point of my life for me because it’s one of those reminders that I have never been in control of my own fate. Maybe that’s why I don’t believe in a god anymore. 
     
    Tommorow is his b-day btw. 

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    allyj879 October 12th, 2013

    wow.. so many others out there loving a scorpio 
    its been 3yrs now and i am in love with my scorpio man. we have had are ups and downs. we hit it off immediately and we never stopped talking to each other, after the first 3 months we got together, but unforunately that didnt last long as he had gotten back with his childs mom to see his kids more. its been 3 yrs and as much as we both try and move on we cant. i wanna move on as she is still in his life but he wont allow me too, he says he loves me and wants to committ to me after he has more money to support me and live with me. im tired of waiting but as much as i tried talking to other guys and moving on he has my heart and i end up hurting other guys cause i cant love anyone else. i miss him dearly and go through so much with him…. its like should i wait or should i try and go

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    passion10 May 11th, 2013

    I am having this cancer girl working with me. Its not like love at first sight. I was not intrested at all in her. But i dont know when it happened but now i am in love with her. Truly I love her. Her caring nature i like most, she made me laugh, her decent looks, she likes a food a lot. Tries every new cuisine. Loves to read articles, sometimes makes me boring but I like to sit with her, and i dont know when i fell in love with her. I love her now but dont whether she loves me or not. she is somewht moody. I can bear that, Till now waht I learned about her is that she is really a genuine person. I love when she scolds me like an old lady but the other moment she behaves like a child. I thinks of me as a child but then at the same moment she shy. I always thinks about her. I think I can go comfortably around her. But first I need to win her heart, made her trust me. And I am also not sure whether she is single or not. But then also i love her. Passion for love is not cheap, its just the scorpio way of defining the love. Lets hope I get what i want.

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    moonstone76 February 17th, 2013

    I have another question, do you think he thinks about me? I feel that he does. Attention any scorpio male, what is your opinion about this? My cancer sisters what do you think?

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    moonstone76 February 17th, 2013

    Hi everyone,
    I’ve been reading the threads for a while now and I like what I’ve been reading.  I get to read both sides from a cancer like me and from a scorpio male which is very interesting.  
    Well as my story goes, I’ve come across a scorpio male at school and I can’t seem to get him off my mind at all.  I could talk to him everyday but I don’t I have to limit myself to once a week. First because I am a student and he is an advisor and one more thing I am married to a virgo.  We are all adults here, he’s a little younger I think maybe 4 yrs just like my husband.  Let me mention now before I forget I am leaving my husband.  I’ve been ignored and neglected for about 5yrs by him and I am now leaving.  I think it’s by chance that I met this scorpio, but at the same time I just wonder if he is just nice because what he senses and the fact that its his job or if he has a genuine interest.  
    He stares at me all the time its almost like he watches everything that I do or who I talk to and everything.  He always smiles and speaks when he sees me.  Ok so like it mentioned earlier I go talk to him like once a week, so once I did not go see him for like two weeks and you know he pretty much came looking for me. I would see him and he would stare and I would speak and go on about my day. I would see him 3 or 4 times that same day passing by me or something to make himself be seen by me and I would ignore him.  Then I will go see him and we talk I close the door to his office so we can talk after each conversation he gives me the best hug that money can’t buy.  Mind you there is no kissing involved just hugs and they all started after I told him about my dad’s passing. My husband didn’t even hug me like that that. I told him that I am leaving my husband a few months and that I was moving out it was almost like he got excited and was helping me to find a place but I had to tell him that I can’t move yet that I have to stay with him a little longer. OMG he sounded so deflated when he said so you are going to just stay with him, I felt so bad I told him June was a more like reality for me to move because I still need to get a job and a car again. He said June is so far away.  I just wanted to kiss him all over just to smooth over the wrinkles I just formed.
    But the thing is, I know what I’m feeling and I just hope that my intuition is not off about him. I know when he wants to see me, when I’ve been away too long I can feel it. It’s in the way he looks at me. I don’t feel this with my husband and honestly I never have.  This is completely different than anything I’ve encountered.  What I want to know, which is or could be pretty obvious is that he’s really likes me, right? Do you think he will wait until June to make his move? I am done with school in about a month and we will not see each other for a while or not at all.  I know I will miss seeing him because all I do is think about him. I put my number in his phone one day, he hasn’t but will he call or text me if he won’t see me anymore? I feel that I’ve made enough subtle hints to how I feel, will he make a move? Or should I make a few more?

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    Lovee__IsTheCancer February 12th, 2013

    my first love was a Scorpio & all i can say is I’ve never loved anyone like him EVER & its been 17yrs … that is alot of time to love someone els, we have never really gotten over eachother .. & we never will. Im a cancer woman & i know i broke his ass down, he RIPPED me out of my shell & exposed me, rebuilt me & made me one hell of a woman… Our love was TOO intense, like Bonnie & Clyde type shit. We were DEFITNELY meant to be. He touches me & sendss shivers down my spine & when we look into eachothers eyes its like this firey passion that takes our breathes away. THAT right there the”magnetic love”. 

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    rikreal98 February 3rd, 2013

    IAm a Scorpio male and I do agree our sex drive is well,

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    scorpiolove13 January 15th, 2013

    I see alot of you woman having trouble with scorpios and some are happy. And thats good, keep it up. Some off yall say that all they wanted is sex.. well just like every other signs theres some bad ones that makes us scorpios look wrong. A scorpio man likes a challenge. One rule for i give yall, dont give it up the first night. Youll make him want you more. And plus if he stays around that meeans he really likes you (hint hint) or if he goes away well he just wanted a one night stand. i have not dated a cancer woman yet but would love to one day. The only thing that worries me with this relationship is that we scorpio can hurt poeple with our words real bad. And the cancer woman been really sensitive could really hurt her. And i think its true because my mom is a cancer and i have to freinds that are too. And i sure do hurt them sometimes :/ thats the only thing i dont like about been a scorpio, when we get mad we just say stuff with out thinking and hurt people. but the rest is true i like sex money power and specailly been in love 🙂 <3 

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    Sumiya January 3rd, 2013

    Me too a cancer woman and ma BF was a Scorpio. Everything was realllly great, perfect guy he was, i dated many men, but he was THE BEST.. whatever written is absolutely correct, he treated me as a princess.
    But my possesiveness ws the only reason for our fights 🙁 he would patiently hear evrything but I tended to go overboard which led to fights.. 
    Tip for the CANCER FEMALE: the scorpion guy will truly n honestly love u always.. dont be possesive and create unnecessary fights.

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    Giggles December 19th, 2012

    Hi, well i have met and i am still best friends with a scoprio guy and oh my, they make the best friends ever!!!, we have been friends for 3 years and well it got the better of us and we now have a baby boy, we have been told our friendship will not last because of this, our baby is now 6months old and we are still best friends, i can tell him anything and everything as he can tell me anything and everything, yes we have had our ups and downs in our friendship but we always worked it out, i think the longest fight we had lasted 20mins before we started laughing and forgot what the fight was about!!!, but i do have to say he doesnt get jealous at all, i have told him a few times that other guys have tried to pick me up and he laughs and says good luck to them but then he always says to me before i go out for tea with my family NO GUYS!!! then he laughs, we know we are single and we can see who ever we want but for some reason we dont see anyone, people think we are mad and say we are in a relationship but we both have been hurt before and rather stay as friends, if u have anything to say or add about this please do, i would love to keep him as my friend, we have a lot in common ???

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    kellystar July 19th, 2012

    i am sorry but scorp people are very insecure and jealous..

     

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    CostelloHime July 19th, 2012

    Lol my phone wouldn’t let me finish xD! 
    Anyways this is true to me right now and so far. My boyfriend and I have known each other for 7+ years and recently have admit to one another that we want to be with each other. The only downfall of this right now is that it’s a long distance relationship. Me being in the united states, and him being in Japan.
    We are both jealous types but we’ve promised to make this work. And as of the moment, everything said here has been true. Me being a Cancer and him a Scorpio 🙂

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    CostelloHime July 19th, 2012

    This is so true to m

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    LibraAphrodite June 26th, 2012

    @rice_bunny87
    I’m sorry to inform you but your man born Oct 4th is a Libra not a
    Scorpio.

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    JenJen626 May 21st, 2012

    I found my Scorpio and i must say that these feelings i have for him i have never felt with anyone else before. I never thought i could connect with anyone like i do with him… It’s such an amazing feeling. 

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    kdb111452 February 3rd, 2012

    I am a Scorpio male, let me dispel myths about a true Scorpio male.  First and foremost a true Scorpio male is a gentleman.  Yes we crave and enjoy sexual encounters, we love sex, but a true Scorpio enjoys making love than having sex.  There is a difference.  One he finds his true mate for life he is truly devoted and will not betray her.
    Jealous? Give us a reason and we will be!  Possessive?  Yes, if the woman loves us we are possessive of that loving nature.  Home is where the heart lies, so does the Scorp.  We love adventure, travel, but home is our castle.  Home is our lair, don’t mess with it or you pay the price.
     
    We are difficult to trust because we are slow to let others know who we are as a person.  But a Cancer woman will break that ice faster than two shakes of a lambs tail.   Yes, a Cancer woman and her true characteristics will slightly tame the Scorp.  I have never had sex with a Cancer woman, but now I am making love to the most beautiful Cancer lady I have ever met.  She cannot keep her hands off me, and vice versa.  I crave every minute to spend with her simply because she is not a fake and understands my needs.  I have no desire to stray.  She made me a better man.

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    toxicbunnywarfare January 16th, 2012

    Cancer female 7/9 involved with a scorpio male 10/4, he’s about four months younger. Anyways, Ive always noticed my scorpio in earlier childhood years, he stood out a lot! But I met my scorpio face to face in my sophomore yr in High school, about a year later I found out through my friends that he was just crazy about me, he loved the way I looked and we never even spoke a word to each other before!!!  We started dating soon after,  His eyes were just so out of this world pale blue^_^  I eventually took his V-card and then found out that I had to move out of state with my mother five days after… by then I had already fallen for him, but lost contact.Two years later I came back into town, and found him again, we slept with each other and I have to say, WOW! When it comes to sex, he can blow any other guy ive been with out of the water!!!  His intensity  the way he treats a womans body is just  pure amazing.  we loved to play the public sex game… now with my scorpio, he has mad ADHD, I would call and he would call back eventually,,like…. 3 days later to two weeks later. But one day I called… I never received a call back for months =( I was so hurt I was looking to get my love back but I found out that he was infatuated with another pretty female. Maybe all he wanted was sex. So I moved on once more I found someone else I cared deeply for, for four years( a Gemini) while in college and with this jealous gemini, I remember walking in the cafeteria , it was early in the morning, not many souls were sitting around there, but I looked up and saw from a distance that it was HIM!!!! I heart started to race!!! But I told myself to not forget that he didn’t return my calls. So I left it alone, but a second later sure enough he stopped me. I was so happy once more to see him again. I started getting pretty everyday hoping he’d see me. But I didn’t flirt or act upon the attracted I felt for him, I still had enough respect for my previous BF.  One day he followed me out to the bus stop, he knew I was waiting for my BF to come pick me up, but a subject I didn’t think he would ever bring up.  He informed me that he told one of his class buddys that I was his ex, the friend asked him why we  broke up and he didn’t have an answer… “we never broke up” he told me,  He asked me why I never called him back!!! What kind of game was he playing at??? But oh yeah!!! He had adhd… poor guy. But hello? I moved out of state… I told him that . and he just smiles and laughes. Gosh his smile and charm can make any girl melt before him. He leaned in for n asks for a hug, I refused at first because I have no clue when my jealous BF will roll up, so I told him if he wanted one he’d better do it right then, so we hugged . he smelled so good. By this time I replayed a self note in my head that I have a boyfriend and all he wanted was fun and sex!! Nothing else!… now when they say that scorpios can be tactful and mischevious…. They can be!  He sees my bf roll up and as im trying to get in the car, he has his arms wide open for a second hug!!!! Purposely making my bf jealous. I HATE when ppl act jealous!! And he knew it! A year later I became available again. Him and I exchanged numbers and soon after the sex happens again. But this time I tried to keep my emotions out of it. I met a virgo who showered me with romance affection n gifts!  My scorpio called me one day and told me he had something to ask me n if I wanted ot come hang out with him, I had to tell him that we couldn’t ‘mess’ around anymore and he got furious with me =( and that’s when I knew that he actually had feelings for me, after an hour long conversation he we both came to an understanding. The virgo ended being a woman beater and instinctively I ran to my scorpio, a real man who would never hit a woman and is against it by all means. For months the scorpio asked me out continuously, and I would say no. but when I was finally ready I asked him. We’ve been on and off for about a year. And the reason why that is … LADIES IF YOU HAVE A  SCORPIO WHO CLAIMS THEY DON’T CALL BECAUSE THEY ARE SICK…. Please read this…. Scorpios are known for the love for extreme seeking, may it be sports drugs or something weird like having a secret fetish…IT IS POSSIBLE… in my case my scorpio had a intense relationship with a drug. It was a powerful one and it just ate away at his life, one that he had to have otherwise the symptoms would get worse, I wouldn’t hear from him for days n I would get so upset because he kept it a secret from me for so long… WHEN SCORPIOS ARENT PROUD of what they are doing or where they are in life they tend to hide.. underneath that strong calm and collective scorpio lies an emotional being….i loved him dearly and hate to see him hurt himself and the ppl around him… he almost died a few time and I just couldn’t handle it anymore…everytime I tried to leave him and my pain for him behind… something kept pulling me back until the last time… I finally was putting my feelings for him at rest and LEFT. I cry n pray for him still that he’d be ok. and  I often question the love I gave to him, I was possessive , clingy and naggy on every little detail, how could he possibly love that? I could be making a mistake…. But at the same time I feel like I may be a source of his stress along with many other things he keeps bottled up inside.   They are secretive but if given the right environment and time im sure they will learn to open up and learn how to express whats really bothering them…Good luck to you cancer scorpio couple out there.

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    Mz.raindancer January 14th, 2012

    im a cancer female and I dated a scorpio man and honestly i truly never loved anyone more than that guy but we stopped talking for 4 monthes because of school. ive never been so happy with anyone but now im deppressed and its killing me so deeply it’s like the scar tht never heals right. i tried dating other guys but its not working I wonder if he thinks of me? i told his cousin (my best friend) tht i still loved him and even she’s surprised (i usually get over guys) anyone know what i should do?

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    hummm December 14th, 2011

    and i thin k if he stops starring …it wud be so easy for me to move on but he DOESNT STOP STARRING @!!!! ..its beeen 3 months , and eye contacts all along !

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    hummm December 14th, 2011

    so there is this guy , hes a scorpio . i am a cancerian and i do feel very very attracted towards him . i feel a string pulling me towards him . i see him everyday in college , and the thing is that i want too see him . Every morning i wake up , hoping to see him . I find him starring at me ALOT . He stares ALOT !!! .ALmost every time i see him , he looking at me . He knows me through a friend . We have had our hi hellos . But the thing is that he stares me alot for the last 3 months . He knows i like him . But he hasnt approached me yet! . i dont know whats his problem . If hes not interested then he shud not be starring . but he stares ALOT !!! . and i want to move on but i cant . I convince myself to move on but then i have that eye contact with him and i come back to the point where it all started ! .I actually care for him . I get worried if he misses his class or has a fight with some one . Its been 3 months now and to be honest im tired of liking him , wanting to see him everyday . i want to MOVE ON now but i cant ! :/ ..and what i dont undersatnd is if hes not interested then why does he stare ???? …because of him , i avoid talking to random guys the best i can . If he sees me talking to a guy , he gets all curious . He peeks and stuff. BUT I WANT TO MOVE ON !!!!! ..im soo entagled ! ..PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help ! ..what do i doo ???? …iv started feeling that i belong to him only . ITs not good , i shud be with a person who cares for me . WHAT DO I DOO ..how do i move on OR should i even try to move on ???? …PLEASE HELP ..cuz its hurts ! , it hurts to like some one this much ! ..some one who maybe doesnt give a shit about me …PLEASE HELPPP !!!!!!!!

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    adhitee November 29th, 2011

    im a cancer woman and i love a scorpio man . i love u my chOcoboy shiv.. i think the luckiest couple is the cancer woman and scorpio man..

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    Queeter-Bugg November 24th, 2011

    I am also a Cancerian female with a Scorpio male. Out of all of my relationships this has been the best and longest that I’ve been in. Im pretty sure everything that was said about us is true. I can’t possibly see us falling apart unless something were to happen like betrayal.

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    stuart November 22nd, 2011

    I am a scorpio man is in love with a cancer woman. we were in a relationship for two then a pisces man came into her life which made me to break up with her. she started saying i am always a good friend to her. we met only once and all talking and sharing is done through phone and chat But after one year, the pisces man dumped and we have started contacting again bt she still tells i am her friend but we loved each other from the day one. she is upset and heartbroken. i want to be with her. i love her. she doesn’t say anything or shares anything, she knows i care for her and i love her. please help with suggestions

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    CaseyJean October 20th, 2011

    I have been friends with my friend that is a Scorpio for two years now and we work together. At the moment we are not talking and it’s been three months since we have last talked. Everytime I Have gone to go talk to him he just walks away and doesn’t say a word. Luv when we are at work he reprisaly runs into me, or if he is in my way won’t move till I ask him too. I don’t know what I should do. I really love him and I just want everything to be fine between us again. What should I do?

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    shawtyready October 3rd, 2011

    IM a scorpio male I’ve been dating a cancer female for going on a year now and i most say im in love with her and i feel fine i love how clingy she is she so emotional she give me the chance to express the intense emotions that i crave to feel there is nothing like the cancer woman i would die for her..but on the flip side the clingy ways can be a bit of a problem for she can become very selfish for ur love witch is so cute and witch u love to give but it can be kind of annoying when ur doing something important and she call u literally 200time trust me this precious priceless. Woman love will come down on u in measures u didn’t know existed

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    Scorpioman September 16th, 2011

    I am a Scorpio Male (11/19) madly madly in love wid a Cancer Girl(7/1). The comments above reiterates that what i feel for her is true. i think she is my soulmate. never ever felt like that before. i think of her 24/7 and fantasize doin everything wid her. she is driving me crazy.

    comments posted here and at http://www.compatible-astrology.com/scorpio-man-cancer-woman.html just reflect wht m goin thru. just wanna spend ma lyf wid ma cancer girl.

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    carmenlv September 4th, 2011

    I forgot one MAJOR problem with my ex scorpio man. He is a tit-for-tat kind of man. Very revengeful! Love to make you suffer the consequences of any action that he felt wronged. He often refer to any issue or thing that I did as an offense. And, just like the law, there are consequences to every offense.

    This behavior is NOT good. As much passion for love that the scorpio man has for his cancerian woman, equally is that passion for anger when he feels crossed or insulted by the cancer woman. Cancer woman needs to be aware of this because it can lead to physical or/and mental/emotional abuse.

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    carmenlv September 4th, 2011

    I am a cancer woman who has had an on and off relationship with a scorpio man for 23 years. Yes, there is a lot of passion with these two water signs. However, there is a lot of control, possessiveness, jealousy and demanding ways with the scorpion man.

    For the cancer woman, who likes to be secretive and protective of her past, scorpio man’s suspicious ways digs and digs to get her to come out of her shell which she retreats to in order to protective herself.

    When scorpio man does this it causes serious conflicting and confusing feelings for cancer woman. Cancer woman wants to trust her passionate scorpion man, but scorpion man has the tendency to be very condemning and judgemental and can use harsh words towards tender cancerian woman. When this occurs it creates uneasiness for cancer woman. So what does she do because she is so emotionally driven, she detaches herself in order to protect herself.

    Scorpio man is too clingy and smothering at times. Cancer woman likes a little space at time to rejuvenate and refresh her moodiness ways. Allow her this time and space so that she can come back and be that attentive, affectionate tender lover.

    Cancer woman loves hard with every fiber within her. Protect her, cherish her, treat her tenderly, respect her, shower her with love and affection and you will have a loyal and devoted woman for LIFE.

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    Spirit September 2nd, 2011

    @Moon-Maiden
    WOW!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR RESPONSE. THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I WANT TO DO “if everything else is ok…”, “forgive him and also FORGET about that…”; However, he is not available. I haven’t heard from him via phone or IM. Moon-Maiden, I love him and I can’t stop thinking about him… I am not sure what i should do? I am not the type of person that would do anything but write a letter to myself and remain in my space with the hope that he will contact me… If he doesn’t then I know it was all a game and find away to move on… I WOULD LOVE TO CALL HIM BY HIS REAL NAME!! Smile and again THANKS!

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    Moon-Maiden September 1st, 2011

    @Spirit

    what’s in the name Spirit if u r really connected to that person. i understand you got hurt…but the reason may be….as you said..[I could understand, in the beginning, he didn’t reveal his real name because we met online]…may be after sometime he truely loved u and may fear losing you once he disclosed his identity. u must give him a chance,if everything else is ok… he might even be feeling bad for not having said that to you…coz one who hurts feels more pain than the one who is hurt. and what i suggest is …since he now knows that you know the truth…dont EVER bring that topic to him if you truely love him. he will open up once he is comfortable..or else he may even not say anything about that. so what? everyone has some limitations…and trying to accept them with that is what love is. this is what i would have done if i was in your place. forgive him and also FORGET about that…i think that will do wonders for both of you.

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    Spirit August 30th, 2011

    Is Scorpio man that secretive he kept his real name a secret?

    There is so much confusion going on in my mind.

    Recently, I was doing some research and discovered that the Scorpio man I had been connected to for two years deceived me; at least, that is how I feel because he did not tell me his real name. Yes, the name I had been calling him for two years IS NOT his legal given name. I indirectly told him about my investigation, but, I never told him what I found… however, I guess he figured it out because he put me on hide and DISAPPEARED!! I have not heard from him nor have I seen him online… ‘Did I mess up and get too much in his personal space’? I am not the one who hurt him; I am the one who wants to love him… the least he could do is tell me WHY.

    Hell, for TWO YEARS, I did not know this Scorpio man’s REAL NAME. I FEEL SO FOOLISH and HURT!!! I can’t stop crying. I feel deceived because I really thought he liked me just as much as i liked him… at least that is what he said when he informed me that he never thought he would meet someone like me especially online… LIAR!! He knew I was feeling him with all my heart… I could understand, in the beginning, he didn’t reveal his real name because we met online; but, as time went on and we started sharing our feelings and started getting physical he should have come clean. Am I wrong? Am I making a little thing out of nothing? Are Scorpios that secretive they would hurt and play someone like that..? WoW, so mean and cold… Can someone shed some light on this for me?

    I haven’t been in the dating world for a while and now I am wondering is it worth trying to get close to him again, or just write him off? Hurt Cancer.

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    Moon-Maiden August 28th, 2011

    @Samkaz Thanks Sam 4 your wise words. even i felt the same but things turnedout in a diff way. he completely shut everything out even though we never ever had any diff of opinion or arguments in our 3 year relationship. thought..may b thats the way he handle things. turned 18 this June 28…hope i get more stable and mature with age.

    and one more thing..[Otherwise, a very lovely relationship may end up abruptly, after which they invariably miss each other very much usually throughout their lives.]…..is it true?

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    Samkaz August 26th, 2011

    @Moon-Maiden
    i think that scorpio actually dont allow himself to get em0tially attachd to u becz of some prblm or may b age diff. May b he just take u as a good friend..

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    Moon-Maiden August 26th, 2011

    i had a chat friend who is a scorpio guy. we started off casually nd soon it turned out to be interesting. within a week or so..he said he is deeply in love with me. even i felt the same for him. we exchanged numbers and used to speak for hours. there was an age difference of 8 years between us. i had no issue but he felt that i’m too young and he cannot spoil my life but we deeply loved each other. from the conversations v had i always felt that he was very crazy about me. we never had sex but he was like crazy to have one with me. he used to alwayz say that he has so many issues to be sorted out and also coz of the age diff. he cant have a relationship with me but says that he loves me very much. long story short..now he is married to another girl. no issue about that as i alwayz wanted him to be happy.

    any scorpios out there or anyone….pl..let me know one thing…you scorpios consider yourself very passionate in whatever you do including love..how on earth can you easily forget the one for whom u deeply felt and connected to and get into a relation with another girl. is it so easy for you guys. he used to say that he was very passionate about me. is that what u call passionate love. pl. advise. btb…i’m a cancer female.

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    nataliadrake August 13th, 2011

    Two months ago I met a man in the parking lot of the grocery store he pulled and spoke to me I said hello and went to my car while I was about to start the car I felt someone staring at me and it was him. We talked and he this magnetic aura about him very charming so I gave him my number we talked for an hour or so then the next day. We made plans to hang out that Saturday he came by and picked me up we went to his place and to make a long story short well we had sex. This was a big deal to me seeing how I am a forty-two year old widow who has not had any physical contact with a man since my husband was sick with cancer diagnosed in “08” Anyway while it was happening I felt so awkward not knowing what to do and he did all the work and he started talking through it all which is not what I am used to at all. When it was over I sat there stunned that I did feeling so damn guilty like I cheated on my husband and I got dressed it I did not say much. He took me home and I said that we should have waited three months to get to know each other better to know what the other person likes and all and he replies “What difference would have made?” From what I have been reading about Scorpio’s in general well it is so eerie this man has the ability to be so damn charming when we are alone but so mean and nasty that he would cut you off at the knees and the lack of chivalry also. I want to get to know him but would it be worth the work to do it I know that he’s got a heart underneath at that ice that is covering it but as much as I want to give it a go and it won’t work without him putting in the work. I have not heard from him in three weeks and I have left messages on his phone not every day just at the end of the week just to see how he is doing nothing more no replies. I’ve been totally honest with him telling him that I like being around him just for him and not for what he’s got. When I met him he was driving an Escalade and he’s got another new car and he just went off like I told him that he wasn’t worth shit. So I feel like I am damned if I do and damned if I don’t with him and I feel like I waited two years out of respect for my late husband and now this what did I do to deserve this? I am a Cancer female.

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    fe August 8th, 2011

    i had a hurtful experience wif scorpio guy..but i got to agree on the intense emotions involved, the crazy chemistry etc..but when sumthg is wrong, n he acted nothg, just a total silence n shut everythg out,it does hurt a cancer’s heart..he is not wat he claimed to be, gentlemen n respectful n mature is jz plain BS..but i feel much better now, i decided to not wait or cry over him any longer, it is his loss,not mine..all i wana say is that, though the emotions n chemistry is strong, but it is certainly not worth the pain..they said scorpios tend to destroy wat they love..but loving someone should not be a reason to hurt loved ones..yes, cancer is soft-hearted n we’re very forgiving, empathetic etc, but at 1 point, i know i dont deserve all these rubbish from him, i deserve to b happy..i wait no longer n walk away! God bless us all!

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    lujain July 18th, 2011

    @ Mark : thank you for wishing me a happy b-day ur the first ^_^ , i didn’t came here for a while too. if you can >> keep us posted about how things are progressing & good luck…

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    Scorpio1983 July 13th, 2011

    @lujain thank you for the wise words, i didn’t came on for a while. but i will do this for sure, now i have more confidence. i want to wish you in advance happy birthday on 22 july 😉

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    Ask Oracle July 2nd, 2011

    @iamacancergirl Great! Now you are asking the right question. Most importantly, only faith and trust can make things possible for us. You cannot experience greatest possible Love without trust. Here are a few suggestions:

    a) Don’t take life too seriously. We humans are too dependent on external factors like air, water, food, climate, temperature, good state of health and mind to mention a few. This is the real reason for your past relationship problems. You can now choose to forgive yourself and everyone for whatever that happened.

    b) Fear, anger, possessiveness, neediness, desires, jealousy, control, manipulation, criticism etc. are enemies of Love. Be realistic in your expectations and understand that Love will test us a thousand and one times.

    c) Try to build trust from your side, and give your best. What other person does or doesn’t is really not your problem. If other person will do the right things at right time, Love will grow on its own.

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    iamacancergirl July 1st, 2011

    @Ask Oracle yea i think you are right. I dont know what is happening in his life now. All i have to do is trust his word and hope that he will surely get back to me. I got a message from him yesterday saying that he has severe throat infection and that he is not able to talk or message me. He also told me that he will only call me once he is fine. He also told me not to keep messaging.
    You are right love needs a state of calm and patience. I guess i am so impatient to meet him and so agitated and disappointed in love that i am just pushing this on him. But the thing is that i have had failed relationships before that made me get this tendency to just doubt any male’s actions or words. I really cant get to trust guys. Please let me know why this happens and what can i do to overcome this trait.

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    Ask Oracle June 30th, 2011

    @iamacancergirl Your relationship has not yet taken off and doubts have already entered your mind. Think about it.

    No one is at a mistake here, you are simply confusing “thinkingness” with Love. Love demands a lot of patience and a calm state of mind.

    He’ll respond to you when he is ready for it. Its that simple. Meanwhile you can use this time to pay attention to other important things in life including a good health. Take up a daily body exercise routine and it will help.

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    iamacancergirl June 30th, 2011

    I have a chat friend who is a scorpio male. We started out as chat friends. casual chats were so interesting that we exchanged numbers and started talking over the phone. The more we talked the more both of us realised that we have some deep connection going on. Then i had to move to another place for a job and we lost touch somehow and never spoke to each other. After almost 5 years, we got back in touch and exchanged numbers again and started talking. Neither of us lose the interest in talking to each other…if the topic of the conversation reaches an end, we start up a new one and chat on it for hours…we have never met though both of us planned to meet from the early days of the relation. He always says to me that he really likes me so much and that i am more than his friend. I really really like him too and i want this relation. Lately he told me that he will cme to my city to meet me and i have also told him ok. I dnt knw when he will come but all i know is that sparks are sure to fly. But for the past four days he has never called me or msgd me. He never lifts my calls and does not respond to my msgs. When i msgd him two days back, he msgd me back saying that he has full fever and he is not able to talk also. But i was just wondering if he is just doing that to avoid me. I am not sure. But i really want to meet him and talk to him in person and see where it goes. I really really like him and i cant stop thinking about him. Someone pls tell me something as to why this scorpio is avoiding me ?

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    Cancenique June 8th, 2011

    spell correction front–>from! lol Im going to bed before I mess up again. Im gonna dream about meeting a Scorpio! This is almost as good as FB! U guys are very interesting on here.

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    Cancenique June 8th, 2011

    I have never ever dated a Scorpio, and front what I heard and read, Im so looking forward to meeting one!!! 🙂

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    Casaundra June 8th, 2011

    I have started a relationship w/a Scorpio Man and I am a Cancer woman… I have notice already he is VERY sexual but such a GREAT guy! from the first time we meet I have had butterflies in my stomach and just fell head over heels for him! 🙂 I LOVE the ways he treats me although I do wish somethings were different… Him being from Africa and I being from the US. its hard to not be physical in public like hold hands kiss or hug… 🙁 I REALLY like him! Hope that everything goes GREAT! I want this relationship to LAST a LIFE time IF possible (I know I was kinda pessimistic there). But I do like him ALOT and see him and just butterfilies till he comes over to me and hold/kiss me. 🙂

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    Ask Oracle May 26th, 2011

    @deepwater (Kate)
    You should feel free to express your feelings/needs to him in a way that is non-demanding, non-controlling without fearing the consequences.

    But then he might cling to you, not able to let go, be needy/moody etc. This is actually a trap, you might get emotional and regret it later. A lot will depend on your skills to handle the situation.

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