Leo Woman and Virgo Man Love Compatibility

Virgo and Leo are side-by-side sign and they have different elements as well as different modality. This can result in lack of understanding between them in the beginning. But with a healthy dose of tolerance, this relationship can be handled. With different needs but common goal to have a life time partner, these two can work well with each other.

A Virgo man is very clean, tidy and completely practical person with steadiness in everything he does. His life is always in order and to live in chaos makes this man physically ill. He is firm and conventional and does not waste his time on frivolous matters. He likes the calm and serene lifestyle. He is not one for making waves and when someone or something threatens such stability in his life he becomes introverted and highly sensitive. Relationships are very important for this man and he selects his mate with great care so that he can shower the deserving one with devotion and immense care.

A Leo woman is definitely the real lioness with all royal flavors and strong poise. She craves for admiration and certainly deserves it. If treated properly she carries gracious warmth and alluring sensuality in her persona but if misbehaved then she is one of the most cruel and hot-tempered woman of all Zodiac Signs. She is rather a very sentimental woman and when in love she desires consistent appreciation and praise to keep her spirit burning well. Though she always respects the dignity and superiority of her lover but she never considers herself anyways less then him. If any man wants to change her, he has to do it slowly through almost non-existing hints and ideas.

Though Leo woman is very different from the Virgo man, she feels a very strong attraction towards him. She has a very different expression of love for her Virgo man which is lavish and even showy. She is consumed with the romance of the relationship. For some out of this world reason, when a bond forms between these two zodiac signs, it is a love that fuses together in just the right combination. Leo woman’s arrogant and conceited ways somehow melt into a generous, loyal and affectionate lover who respects her Virgo man when he shows the right amount of admiration toward her. When she treats him good, she finds him friendlier and much more extrovert in behavior in which he portrays himself. She is one lady who is capable of bringing out the most creative and adventurous side of him.

Virgo man always finds Leo woman irresistibly gorgeous and independent woman. He is a man who is, by character, shy to a point where he finds it hard to show public affection for his Leo lady and even sometimes needles her about her terrible habits. She needs the attention and admiration to keep her insecurities from building up. She spends extravagantly and is quite the social butterfly. But he expresses love by laying solid groundwork for the partnership they both share. He also teaches her to be more stable and practical regarding life and love. All that these two have to do is think about the other person and try to fit the other’s qualities into their own life a little bit. With a bit of a change in their attitudes to fit each other will be beneficial to them both. They aren’t really so different if they stop and think about it.

When the burning passion of Leo woman and stable love of Virgo man blend together, they make a beautifully enticing relationship. Their differences make their relationship more exciting with lots to learn from each other. The sweetness of their relationship comes from the understanding that they develop with time towards each other’s approach to life. She brings spark and spirits to his life while he dissolves her arrogance to make her a warmer and caring woman. The dreams they build are colorful and more practical that gives both of them a reason to share even more smiles in their relationship. The fragrance of their love fills the air around them with glittery happiness of togetherness to be cherished for the lifetime.

The sexual relationship between Leo woman and Virgo man is one that cannot go on without good communication both mentally and emotionally. He tends to be too passive towards her, creating insecurity in her heart that makes her feel he doesn’t really want to be with her. Her anger and cold response to that causes him to be even more discouraged. This causes problems in their relationship. They both need to compromise and meet somewhere in the middle of the spectrum. He is on the passive and subdued side of this spectrum, whereas she is more aggressive and passionate in her lovemaking. She needs to calm herself a bit and come to realize that passion can be felt in a more serene state of mind also. On the other hand, he needs to realize that sex is not just a controlled meeting of two people who exchange a bit of affection and then go about their lives normally again rather it is the most beautiful form of expressing love to the spouse. He needs to be more free and more fervor in his actions to bring about the real essence of love making.

The relationship of Leo woman and Virgo man has to go through a lot of rough patches to actually make it work. Virgo man, although it is not easy for him, needs to be more complimenting and less critical of his Leo lady and she has to try to be more generous and less arrogant. If he loves her and is willing to work toward keeping her, he has to realize her hunger for attention. She needs to understand that he goes through life needing everything to be perfect and in order. To just go about her business, letting him worry about and work through all of the problems is a heavy burden on him. She should stop and try to get him to ease back and help him work out the problems with him. This will soothe his heavy tension and enhance his affectionate side for her.

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Lelu (@Lelu) : October 1st, 2009

I am a leo woman and my guy is a Virgo. This is dead on the truth of what our relationship is like. We have really good communication together and sometimes I think it’s the main key to us being so happy.

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Alicia (@Alicia) : October 30th, 2009

I am a Leo Woman dating a Virgo man……and its true about him being very shy and calm….we are differnet in many ways, but somehow I actually have stopped and thought that the way he is is teaching me to be more I respectful towards who he is…and his way of dating..Hes very supportive….with me and my dreams…and his way of showing he cares I have to really pay attention into detail. He doesnt show it like others ive dated…..We do have excellent communication…he opens up to me, and I learn I can not push him to do so….and it makes me feel more important that he opens up to me…..I am truly falling for this man for all the right reasons….and without a doubt…I take my time….virgos ive learned are not one to rush into a relationship…..the courting each other means the world….and its meaning the world to me…

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leo woman (@leo woman) : January 31st, 2010

i am a leo female and dated a vergo, our relationship was exactly what this article implies, but it was also right about how to push a virgo away…. watchout leo females keep up on your toes with the communication because it is the absolute key to the survival of the relationship, no matter how in love you two may be

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Wimpie (@Wimpie) : March 14th, 2010

I am a Virgo man and are extremely inlove with a Leo woman but she keeps pushing me away although she says she loves me, i will take the advise above and go try it. everything it says is true though, especially about the sensitive part, when we have a fight i get way too sensitive way too quick…

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Jovacyn (@Jovacyn) : March 16th, 2010

I am a Leo woman dating a Virgo man and yes this article is spot on! We’ve only been dating for a few months and immediately I noticed that we have a great connection because we communicate very well with each other. I have found that although we are very different our differences make us appreciate each other more.Being with him taught me that it can be fun to stay in and relax, which was tough at first because I like to be out and about, but he’s compromising and going out with me more now too. so, giving a virgo what he wants will get a leo what they want in return. Virgo’s a very giving from what I’ve learned.

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sara (@sara) : March 29th, 2010

i am a leo/virgo cusp terribly in love with a virgo man. this virgo man is exactly a copy of what i have read about virgo male in the articles.
our relationship is also following the same pattern.. i am really surprised. according to the above analysis i still have a long way to go.. but believe me..He is worth every bit of wait. i love him so truly, so very genuinely.ooo he is so very cute…his unaware attitude makes him all the more attractive to me… cant get enough of him.

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charleen (@charleen) : May 12th, 2010

I am a Leo woman madly in love with a virgo man. your article is spot on. we have just reconciled after a 20 year gap. Both married and going through difficult patches on both sides.there are times when I despair about him and keeps him on his toes about sending messages. he travels abroad every week because he reports in London. when he gets a chance we really make the best of our time. we both can’t let go but its the time that really keeps us apart.

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Amanda (@Amanda) : June 18th, 2010

I’m a Leo woman and Ive just started seeing a Virgo man. He approached me and all I could think at the time was: “yeah right, this will go no where”… but to my amazement the first night together it all just seemed to click. Before reading this, I was so freaked out because I felt like a fool waiting by the phone after that first night(something that my pride took as insulting). Alas, he called me but I was distant because I just kinda feel like it might be one-sided and purely sexual. I do really like this man, but because I know all to well the games guys play to get into a girls pants, I’m left feeling insecure and somewhat afraid to let down my guard. After I read this page and all the responses, I cant help but feel hope and yet… at the same time I need to know what it is he is expecting to get out of all this so I know if I should be devoted or keep looking for the right guy to ravish, spoil, and devote my love and loyalty to. After all, all us Leo woman crave is to find our king whom truly make us feel like a queen while in his arms and on his mind. Wish me luck ;)

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Greg (@Greg) : August 27th, 2010

I’m a Virgo guy, just started dating a Leo woman and we are somewhat hitting it off. I know it’s very early but I am extremely attracted to her drive and persona. Feel a little weird about something though. I recently asked her to hang out tomorrow night and she said shell get back to me because she had other plans. She got back and said she can’t. I feel uneasy about it and unsure if she likes me. Is it me or is that fishy. My take on it is that if someone really like you they will drop what’s going on and be with you for the desire to get to know you. Hope I’m not jumping the gun any comments would help.

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Priya (@Priya) : September 13th, 2010

Greg,

May be she is really busy or she would have not cancelled out on you. I am a Leo woman and I value my commitments. If I promised a friend I would meet up with them, then I will meet up with them. Just give her a gentle reminder. You wont be disappointed.

All the Best :)

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denise (@denise) : September 24th, 2010

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Alice (@Alice) : September 30th, 2010

I think Amanda said it perfectly. I’m a California Leo girl who just started dating a southern Virgo man. Until I read this I thought his shy sweetness was because of his origin, worried that my outgoing west coast personality was going to ruin our chances. But we’ve been dating a couple weeks and I can’t get enough of him! He compliments me constantly and I love to see him blush when I catch him staring. I’ve been doing the same thing to him so we share alot of adorable moments. I’m actually cleaner than he is! And I’m afraid that I will turn our individual pride in cooking into a competition soon, because that’s what I do when I’m challenged and I hate to lose! But I love to see the pride on his face when he shows off for me and a strong confident cowboy seems to be exactly what I never knew I wanted

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Stephanie (@Stephanie) : October 6th, 2010

Im a Leo Woman(july23) and Im dating a Virgo man, and I really think depends on how much the virgo man is intrested in you. This virgo man loves me, and has always liked me even when I was in a relationship with someone else so this was all he ever wanted. So I guess now that he got it, he cherishes every moment!

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Yentiboo (@Yentiboo) : October 24th, 2010

I am a Leo woman in a relationship with a Virgo man and this so far is the most challenging relationship ever. We get along fine but figuring him out is the problem. He seems to like a lot of space. I know this is good for both of us but as a Leo I feel like I have no control which is not good. Seems like everything we do is on his time. Hence, we see each other when he wants and go out when he wants. I really really like him and so I comply but I don’t know how long I can put up with this. When we are together though, I feel like I am the only woman in the world and he has eyes for no other so he’s a keeper, can’t complain there ;)

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Nicole (@Nicole) : November 3rd, 2010

I am a Leo woman and I recently met a Virgo man that I’ve been talking to for a few weeks and I absolutely adore him. The chemistry between us is Awesome. The article above is just as if it was him. I feel Blessed that I got a chance to link up with a Virgo man.

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Angela (@Angela) : November 24th, 2010

Im a Leo woman living with a Virgo man… and this article for the most part is spot on, though my Virgo opened up immediately… only because I told him on our second date that he didnt have to be so shy… and boy did he take that to heart lol. We moved in together after about a month of dating and have been living together for 4 months now, and are madly in love (we starting to discuss marriage). I cant even remember what life was like without him. An amazing combo, Leo and Virgo.

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pentheo (@pentheo) : November 27th, 2010

i am a leo woman living with a virgo. the first for me. i must admit, in all the horoscope readings on a virgo, the description of a virgo man is very accurate. i don’t necessarily require alot of attention or adoration so much as loyalty and communication. i am finding the communication challenging for me. he is very closed. very sure about who he is, but not willing to share anything personal. i know he is sensitive underneath the tough exterior because he tears up when watching romantic/dramatic movies…but he has yet to say he loves me after 2 years! i am concerned if it is just me he doesn’t want to love or his inability to open up? i do adore him and respect his need for space and independence…i guess i just wonder how much of myself i am sacrificing in order to maintain a peaceful relationship with him? he is very critical and opinionated…but over time he has learned to be more compromising with me..although it seems to be a struggle to get to that point..i am fiesty, but fair…i respect him and listen to his advice, but sometimes feel so unappreciated by him….i guess as a virgo the lack of compliments and adoration of my efforts should not be taken too personally, but its been a real challenging relationship to maintain…i wish all leo women that date a virgo man best wishes and strength to endure the tough stuff, knowing you’re strong enough to get through those moments…

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Julia (@Julia) : December 6th, 2010

I am a Leo woman married to a Virgo man and it’s not exactly accurate. He is shy and doesn’t like drama or “making waves” but he is the more creative one and extremely smart and I am the practical and conventional one. He is not tidy by any means and he couldn’t find a trash can if it was tied to him. We have excellent communication and well there is something to be said about a man who loves to take his time. He is extremely loyal and doesn’t yell when he is mad. I yell at everybody, lol. All in all, I’d say Virgos make good husbands.

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Karen J (@Karen J) : March 5th, 2011

I am a leo woman dating a virgo man and not everything they say is completely accurate. He`s shy but very patient and so understanding. Also, he`s very tidy he likes everything in order just like me. The man is very intelligent and operates on a time schedule. Being a leo woman I need someone who handle stressful situation well plus he doesn`t yell when he`s man and that`s good because I have a short temper. All and all the virgo man is well balanced and although he is shy he is not afraid to allow you to have the spot light. On the flip side I wished he opened up more freely. So leo women if you`re dating a virgo man just be patient and know if anyone understand the leo woman it is truly the virgo man.

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Dacia (@Dacia) : March 29th, 2011

I’m a leo woman smitten with a virgo man. I love passionate displays of affection and it’s like pulling teeth to get him to even say that he love’s me. He prefers to give compliments without being asked for them. My virgo is creative and smart as well. Very shy. Very sensitive. To be honest I don’t know how much more of this I can take. I’m not a very patient person. I want a man that will tell the whole world that he loves me! I know he truly cares but he is so methodical in his approach to love. So systematic when all I want is passion. Maybe he’s teaching me that love doesn’t always have to be flashy and dramatic. Our personalities compliment each other nicely. He’s unlike any other man I’ve ever met. So precious. Communication is the key.

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Renee (@Renee) : April 2nd, 2011

I just started dating a Virgo about a month ago. We are dating from a distance because I met him online. Instantly, we had a connection and we literally talk for hours on Skype and wonder where the time went.
But as a Leo woman, I need more of a committment from him or else I feel that I am not adorned and I look for adoration somewhere else (but in the back of my mind, I dont want to). Another Leo woman on the thread said something to the fact that a Virgo man can make a Leo woman very INSECURE at times. I believe this is true–b/c I constantly think of him and want him all of the time. And, I actually hate that part of it—that feeling!

I did have a conversation with him last night about compromising and of course as with all Virgo men, he took a while to digest it and then said, I understand and I will change. So that’s great! But What I am fearful about as well is that Virgo’s over analyze everything! So I am unsure because of this “compromise conversation” will he think less of me.

So far he has my complete loyality but he does make me feel insecure b/c of his lack of communication…but when we do communicate it’s electric.

Again, I would have to reiterate what everyone is saying in the thread…it’s about communication b/c the love is there and the chemistry is there. We just all have to find the balance and fit the love, time, and attention somewhere between it.

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casey (@casey) : April 12th, 2011

me and my virgo man have been together for almost a year now and our chemistry and love for eachother is still as strong as ever. like any couple we have our little arguments but i believe its good because we have learnt so much from eachother. i find most times when we disagree its because he is a lot more close minded than me and he believes in right and wrong and black and white where i see the big picture. but we love eachother very much and say it everyday. i truly believe he is the one for me :)

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renee (@renee80) : April 24th, 2011
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Hi thread! What do you all think about when to respond to Virgo men. should you respond right away when there is a confrontation or would you wait a day or so? I have noticed that with Virgo men, they tend to need time to think before they react on things. As a Leo woman, I like to arrive to solutions quickly. So when you have issues with virgo men do you attack the issue quickly or do you attempt to act more like them, as in digesting the issue first and then in a day or so respond?

Those who are married to Virgo men, I would love to hear what you have to say.

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Ask Oracle (@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae) : April 25th, 2011
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@renee80 Love is a matter of heart and not intellect that it needs any exhaustive analysis of any kind and one is always responsive and active about things to be treasured. And in case someone is taking a lot of time simply means they don’t care about you and not ready for the relationship yet.

In such a situation, I would prefer to run from such a person.

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Louisa (@Passionate1) : September 2nd, 2011
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I am a Leo woman married to a Virgo man for 11 years now. We are completely different in all aspects of life and it has taken me this long to realize that we are incompatible. This is my second relationship with a Virgo man. The first Virgo man I dated and the second I am now married to. As for renee80 question regarding confrontation with a Virgo man,they seem to be self-righteous making you feel as if it is your fault the confrontation happened. Both Virgo males where/are like this. When a confrontation happens, in my opinion, it is best to give the Virgo man space to think about it.Attacking makes the situation worse. As for those dating a Virgo man…they are wonderful to date, but being in a committed relationship takes more energy than it is worth. Meaning, a Leo female will give more than they receive, thus starving on the few crumbs the Virgo man provides!

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Ali (@ali_khan) : September 6th, 2011
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Hi, I’m Virgo male. I’m speechless after reading this article. Looks like someone talking about me & my Leo partner. Everything is so true. I wish i could know this earlier to avoid all those conflicts. I used to think my Leo partner is demanding too much from me I thought she is rude, self centered, mean, arrogant, short tempered etc etc. But it’s now after knowing my & her natural characteristics; It wasn’t too bad and all conflicts are avoidable since i admitted now Who Am I. Virgo & Leo can easily ignore their differences & enjoy the best qualities which they both have naturally.

The key principles which worked for me;
1- Reminding myself nothing is perfect except the creator. Means accepts others with all their flaws.
2- Reminding myself the good points of mine rather being busy in sorting out just all the problems in me so that i can find time for my partner.
3- Setting out the least standards for most of things in my daily life to find some more time rather than wasting it to make things perfect which will never be perfect anyway. Also I avoided much of the tension at back of my head to sort out pending work…Analysis:)
4- Write down my concern areas on paper prioritywise so that rather than achieving averything i can concentrate on few things (the most crucial ones). So that I can decrease my worries, get some more time & get some life too. Before that I convinced myself I cant achieve everything, i cant simply be perfect in whatever I do, its humanly not possible…. thats the most toughest work to do for me :p
5-In case of Leo woman; Pass on Compliments, tell her how special she is in your life. My partner exeeded my expectation sometimes, but as my standards were too high in negative terms so I failed to recognise most of the efforts she was making & learned the hard way after losing her :(
6- Just hold back your criticism guys; even though I’m still struggling to that. coz I just go into detailed analysis whatever i am involved in within few minutes. After reading this article atleast I am to some extend accepted that there are others as well with the same issues … lolz, i mean thats natural.

On Positive notes girls; Virgos dont do commitment until they really means it. Once they do; thats it, end of world, no matter what happen, most of them fulfill it. Virgos are very family oriented, faithful, truthful, they are emotional too its just that we describe our emotions in logics & analysis ;) What can i say my mind does not accept emotions unless they are backed by my mind too…..lolz

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Ali (@ali_khan) : September 6th, 2011
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If Leo women are wondering why Virgo males did not leave much comments in this article; the reason can be they laughed at loud after reading it as I did. Secondly look how much i wrote above still i think it’s not perfect and still I got more to add… remember the detailed analysis :P
Virgos may think that as they cant put all their words in a small box, means it wont be upto their standards so it’s better to leave it rather do it half heartedly :) :):) lolz…
Leo women, communicate with your virgo partners, you are special in their lives. It’s just they cant get out of all other things easily unless they get to the bottom of it & draws some kind of results which can atleast satisfy them :) And Virgos please limit your all other interests & RESPECT you Leo. Good Luck!

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VirGuyed (@ledmond) : September 21st, 2011
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After 4 months and tons of differences(LOL) I think I am getting the hang of this guy. things are finally seeming to come full circle. I am a leo woman and my virguy has been driving me up the wall. Not intentionally of course. He is the most gentle man Ive ever known but by far weak, firm but sweet in his own little special way. I struggle with the non verbal and non physical displays of interest/affection but then I have to look deep in myself and consider all of the actions that he does that clearly scream HEY LADY I LIKE YOU!!! We can talk for hours but when it comes to talking about feelings and where we are in the relationship the moment becomes akward. Not a day has gone by that he hasn’t reached out to me and when our schedules get too busy that we cant see each other the text and phone calls from him pile up. I must admit, that, I love, but I could sure use a hug or a kiss initiated by him. I still feel like when I initiate it he is going to wet his pants, so bad that I get nervous for him. I cant wait until that blows over. My love language is physical and I am going CRAZY!!! LOL. We are so opposite, yet so attracted to each other, I remember I told him we have nothing in common, now anytime he can find a common interest with us he points it out, its stuff like that, that keeps me going in this thing. I read somewhere that Virguys are doers and I agree, if he can do something to make me feel better he will but if he has to emotionally treat me, I can hang it up, I dont think he knows how to. It is a lot of work with these men, but in reality what relationship isnt. I must say I love the fact that I have so much trust in him and that is a great feeling. w/that said Im taking it one day at a time and where it ends…..well we’ll just have to see.

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debbie (@debbie23) : October 23rd, 2011
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hmmm…

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Kayla (@kaylalaine) : November 2nd, 2011
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I find it pretty peculiar that almost all of the positive comments are of a relationship between a Leo woman and a Virgo man. That is my situation as well, and I found this article to be extremely accurate. I’ve been with my Virgo for three years now, and most all of the information was spot on.

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CatherineAnneTerry (@catherinea) : November 8th, 2011
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Boy, I wished I’d have seen this years ago – I would have saved myself some grief and had answers that would have resolved issues. True to the above forms defined, life was fabulous with him. I would look to him to take the reins at times because, even being a Leo, it can be exhausting and having the pillar to lean on was great. However, the introspection was becoming more of an obstacle and communication was more difficult. It seemed he thought I could “guess” what his thoughts were and when I tried to get an exchange going, at times it was like pulling teeth. We were together for four years and it didn’t end well. I had reached my limit and my patience was at its end. Which is too bad . . . really love this man. We’ve been eachother’s life for over 25 years, in varying degrees and he was my dream come true. One other thing, though, he is a slob.

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Aubri (@Aubbers) : November 10th, 2011
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I cant believe how spot on this is…. I dont know exactly how to communicate some issues with my virgo though. I am reading this because I want things to work between us, I need some serious help. YIKES!

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elizabeth (@rinoa) : November 10th, 2011
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Yeah -creepy how this is pretty much true. Good news, it can work! I am married to a Virgo and I am a Leo. Been together five years. My advice…patience and understanding. Talk less and listen more. Leo’s can evolve, and Virgo’s can learn to step outside the box.

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Mel (@ndnic9) : November 12th, 2011
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Wow okay this is gonna be long….I’m a Leo female and my ex boyfriend is a Virgo and we broke up about 8 or 9 months ago …our relationship was the most craziest toxic yet passionate relationship ever…let me explain from the beginning:

Supposedly word around campus is that he had a big crush on me . I neva really payed much attention to him but i would occasionally catch him staring intensly at me everytime I passed by. Finally after everybody told me to give him a chance, thats what I did. The typical aggressive leo that I am , I approached him and asked him for his number. We immediately clicked. We were talking on the phone all the time , texting each other all the time , even started hanging out . His friends were excited because I was the girl of his dreams and he finally got to hang with me…

wait hold up before I continue with this juicy story let me quickly describe
him: black male,very studious ,likes to dress up or wear polo, super anal and meticulous,very scheduled,shy (well at least around me but not with
his friends),doesn’t say too much(more of an observer) you catch my drift …now back to the Story….

Things were going so well and we even became intimate pretty fast but things didn’t change after sex, it just made us stronger.I loved the fact that he was calm and sweet…that he wasn’t so ostentatious like many of my ex boyfriends and that he could sweep me away with subtle things that he did. It was the end of our junior year and everybody was packing up to go home …we both live in the same state, so we figured things would work out .he warned me that this summer would be a busy summer for him bc he would be working and traveling …I understood that and told him that if he would continue communicating with me (phone calls,text) and just see me when he could ,it would make me happy.he agreed !…we went our own separate ways for that summer I was at home and he was working …he came to visit me in July and met my mom ..immediately he asked me out and we were boyfriend and girlfriend (even though it felt like we were already in a relationship ) anyway after that visit everything went down hill from there ..my mom wanted me to take summer classes and he was traveling more ..he stopped calling as much and he would text me one word responses …I would ask him to see me and he would reply with “your being a brat,not now ” it Started to feel like I was annoying him and he just didn’t want anything to do with me …things became so weird for us in the summer …it was like he hated the fact that I wanted a lil bit of his attention and I hated the fact he was so cold …my birthday was coming around the corner and basically he didn’t get me anything and broke up with me …I was away in miami celebrating but I didn’t even celebrate the way I wanted to bc I was heartbroken….his exact words were “this is just not gonna work out ” n he clicked the phone on me !! Anyway my pride would not let me beg him back, so I kept it moving …he was still texting me and I just wouldn’t respond …sorry this story is taking so long …anyway senior yr was here and everybody was heading back ,he kept on hitting me up and calling me to check on me and like a fool I caved in ..we were boyfriend n girlfriend again …. i still couldn’t get over the way he treated me that summer and my intuition was telling me something was up…so I did my research and a good friend of mine told me he was cheating on me the whollllllle summer and that he really wasnt that busy …he would make trips to see this girl and told her more than once that he didn’t have a girlfriend…I was hurt by this and confronted him in front of his friends (the worst way to get a Virgo is to embarrass them) he apologized n apologized and I took him back …then I found out I was pregnant …he was nervous and repeatedly told me “you can’t keep it, I’m not ready for a child ” so I scheduled an appointment for us and basically he stood me up n lied to hang with his buddies while I got the procedure done …which happens to be a thing of his …I confronted on him lieing and he cried …I Neva saw him cry evaaaaa or show any kind of emotion like that !! he kept on saying ” you dont deserve a guy like me” but like an asswhole I took him back :( … He tried to be a better boyfriend but I just couldnt trust him anymore anything he said to me I automatically took as a lie and it was becoming stressful for us …we would argue, fight, scream at each other ,he would kick me out his dorm and that same very night ask me to come back n spend the night …I knew he wasn’t good for me …I changed and everyone around me could tell from the weight I was losing to my hair falling out to the bruises on my arm from us fighting …I guess he changed too … He wasn’t the shy sweet innocent boy I thought he was !!!anyway the last straw was when everyone on campus was saying that he was cheating again and I mean EVERYBODY!! It was embarassing …he claimed that it was all lies and everyone just wanted to see our relationship fail…we got into an argument and he ended up choking me …once he realizes what he was doing , he let go and i stormed out…he called and apologized a million times. We broke up a week or two later …well he broke up with me and said he couldnt do it anymore …he said he had to focus on school and all the fighting yelling and accusations were driving him up the wall …he said he loved me with all his heart which I doubt that and would take a bullet for me but we had to go our own separate ways …we stopped talking for awhile .I went MIA changed my number deleted him as a friend on Facebook …basically just dissapeared off the face of the earth …havent talked to him for 8 or 9 months until a couple days ago …he found me on twitter and we exchanged numbers again …he said he was looking for me….need advice n help …I don’t think I could Eva get in a relationship with him again at least not now but someone (a Virgo ) tell me if he did really love me …

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Mel (@ndnic9) : November 12th, 2011
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And by the way ….everything described above is accurate …I am such a Leo it’s not even funny …I love lavish things, I love attention etc .. my virgo ex boyfriend is a typical Virgo … I just wanna also add to the story above the sex was amazing …I’m talking about 2or 3 times a day …and Trust me as much arguments we had,we also had a bunch of makeup sex !!!

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Sophie (@sophieprep101) : November 27th, 2011
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@ndnic9
PLEASE! and I mean PLEASE Do not listen to him! Don’t get invloved with this Virgo man ever again! You need to cut him out of your life before it’s to late.

My mom is a Leo and my dad is a Virgo, And well lets just say my dad treats my mom alot like you were treated…To this day they fight and it just didn’t work out.

I can’t stress how much you do not need this man in your life.

Just stay away from him trust me.

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Kissme (@mssleo) : December 4th, 2011
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This is so true. I am going out with a virgo man and I am a leo woman. We argued about how I don’t feel appreciated. Even though, I read in the other articles that We shoud avoid Virgo man because we are not compatible with them. If a Virgo man and a Leo woman like myself come into an agreement with my boyfriend about our issues amd differences then we can make it work because if you truly love the person you are with, nothing I mean nothing will pull you apart. Every Leo woman out there are the greatest woman in the world because despite our personality, we know how to calm ourselves down and appreciate the man we love despite the fact, they don’t compliment the way we show our love.

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Virginia (@LeoGene) : December 5th, 2011
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I have been dating a Virgo Man for 6 years and just 2 months ago he cheated on me..(kissed a girl) We wanted to spend our lives together and we were happy until I got insecure and so did he. There wasnt enough communication going on. I am a passionate girl and his a shy guy. Everything that is said above is correct but they are not all loyal sadly. However, our love is strong and I forgave him and took him back because Leo’s believe in second chance and see whats true about people. I expect more from him right now.. I want him to text and call me more and he doesn’t, I would love for him to be romantic – but im dreaming right?. He thinks im overreacting. But he is caring and when we are together it’s the best..he cuddles me and kisses me and we make love but he’s still not open with me but am I expecting to much. I dont know if I can trust him but he apologised and said that he loves me more then ever, he made a BIG mistake and will never do it again and to show how much he loves me that he will marry me. But I cant do that until im ready to move on with whats happened. It’s hard but I want him in my life..
I think a lot and make stupid scenarios in my head – of him cheating, of him proposing to me, of our life together , of our lives separate..it’s draining at times..
Any advice??

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Karen J (@Karen2012) : December 14th, 2011
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Oh wow, everything they describe is so true about virgo man. I’m a leo woman to the heart and has being living with a virgo man for 10 months. Our relationship has been up and down I can’t count how many times we broke up and I put my pride aside to get hime back. We truly love each other and I’m understanding him more. We moved in after dating for a month he makes my life complete and I’m so in love with him. And might I add he’s 5 years younger then me he’s 21 lol but is so mature. After reading the article about the virgo guy cheating repeatly I’m so afraid that might happen to me. The reason being is one night I woke up and he wasn’t in bed it was the early morning of his bday he was on the phone with some girl explaining why he stoped talking to her. I was pissed and to make matters worse she saw us out together weeks before, I just hope he don’t send me through drama. He’s also a liar :( but he has a good heart I haven’t suspected him of any wrong doings lately. But for now we are madly in love and the sex is overly amazing. Thanks to everyone for sharing their stories and I hope your relationships works out. Damn these virgo man they have such hold on us its crazy.

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renee (@renee80) : January 18th, 2012
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Hi everyone,
 
I am totally in love with my Virgo guy.  As it is mentioned in the thread.  Virgo mean are very calm and logical.  I am learning with a Virgo man you must ask them direct questions and wait while they analyze it.  As a Leo woman we tend to be quick-minded, instant-gratifcation seekers, and above all else we want to be adorned and admired.  A Virgo man will not “SAY” this to you.  I repeat will not “SaY” it to you.  He might think it but it takes a bit coaxing to get him to say it.  Most Leo woman find this time consuming and laborious but give the Virgo man time.  He will come around.  If you want something you have to tell him.  Both signs have a hint of stubborness about us.  So, I believe through all of the selfishness-if you can get your Virgo man to see your side and you see his side, you both will be able to win at the battle of love. 
It’s been almost a year with my guy.  I’ll keep you all posted :-)
 
 

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Hope (@LeoNLove) : January 24th, 2012
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I am also a Leo woman in an 18 month relationship with a Virgo man. We are the “typical” Leo & Virgo as you read above and like so many on this thread. I am a single mother and he has no children. We do not live together. He has met some of my family, I have met no family members only a few buddies. Communication is well let just say he warned me and is SLOWLY trying to work on it. I must say I do here form him every day. There has only been maybe one or two instances that I did not here from him for 2 days. Which after reading a lot of these blogs is pretty good as I read so many woman waiting to hear from thier Virgo for as long as 2 months!
Leo woman…do you find it hard to spend time with your Virgo man?  Are you always the one initiating time together? Do you have children from a previous relationship? Does he engage with your children? or do you find he only makes time if you have a sitter? 
Virgo men ….please give me some guidance here: I see that my Virgo will begin a project and be consumed for days till it is exactly how he wants it. Which is fine…however why not just let me know “hey I am gonna be real busy for a few days, I may not text or call.” He just disappears and that makes me feel so insecure and leaves me wondering WTH happened?  Why be so distant and shut off to the world?  Why is it so hard for the Virgo man to let a woman in his world?
I would love some insight!

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