Libra Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Libra and Scorpio make a lovely couple especially if it is Libra woman and Scorpio man. Both of them value commitment and both are focused on togetherness, although in different ways! They have a lot to teach and to offer to each other. Finding a common ground can make things easy and commitment stronger in their relationship.

A Scorpio man is a man who is very deep. He is sensitive and fiercely suspicious. He is a person who has high values and uses his emotional intelligence for good purposes. While he has a reputation for being suspicious and vengeful, these are simply his darker qualities that only come out when he is personally experiencing a bad phase in his life. In a relationship, a Scorpio man is very caring and protective mate who always stands in front of his lady love to keep her safe from all the worldly problems. No one ever gets to know the full man, but he opens up more to his lady then would with others.

A Libra woman is the very portrait of soft, elegant femininity, bestowed with incredible social skills and is notoriously charming with an angel like smile. She is charismatic, altruistic, tactful, and has the talent of sweet persuasion. Libra female’s social talents are paired with a sharp, logical mind. People readily open up to her, and she can come to understand their feelings easily. Her loyalty is unparalleled and she has a wonderful grace to her style. In a relationship she usually proves to be a perfect match for almost any man because she gives him the supreme power and stays beside him to love and support his all deeds.

Libra woman and Scorpio man makes a very charming and intense relationship with almost every melody of life in the proper tune. With her charisma and gentleness she impresses her Scorpio male so well that he finds nothing better than her closeness. She is remarkably cool and calm in a crisis, fiercely loyal, and cheerfully adaptable to change to help him reach his goals. She is woman in every sense of the word. She has a graceful sense of argument in that she can, and most likely wins whatever she gets herself into. She truly respects and admires her man for his strength, loyalty and dedication in all aspects of life. Though she tends to push him as she shows her masculine side and dominates the relationship but when watching him getting upset with this — she turns around and become completely submissive towards him leading into a happy relationship.

Scorpio man has this undeniable debonair aura to him that attracts the lovely Libra woman without even trying. To create a strong association he needs to stay determined and focused and she has to stay emotionally impartial. Trust is a big issue and must be a common ground between both of them. The importance of finances and material possessions is on a higher scale with this couple than it is with most other couples. Scorpio man always supports his Libra woman in all her endeavors. He is always so much in love at deeper level with her that he protects her fiercely and treats her like a princess showering her with lots of love and gifts. The bond between Scorpio man and Libra woman can be beneficial to them both with his confidence and her logic and intellect to fulfill their dreams.

Love of Scorpio man and Libra woman is like waking up on the softest cloud in the sky. Both Libra and Scorpio have very dynamic personalities to share with each other. They never suffer from boredom when they are together. They always provide one another with constant love and devotion which each one craves for. As their unison blossoms in the sunshine of love and vigor, he gives up his dominating attitude and embraces his lady love to protect her from all the emotional storms and she gives up her undue nagging to love and pamper her Scorpio man to make him happiest man on the earth. When madly in love with each other they create a fairy-tale romance which gives warmth throughout their lives making them the happiest couple of the world.

In the sexual relationship, the Scorpio man and Libra woman knows what the other one desires and with their devotion and affection they reach those goals. The passions of love ignite and the emotions of love kindle and the actions of making love set the hearts of these two love birds ablaze. Libra woman is tense and Scorpio man helps her soothe her soul by intense lovemaking and makes her feel satisfied. But sometimes he may find that she is even more restless than before, this causes a deep hurt within him. Libra woman tends to need alone time when in such a nervous state. If Scorpio man is to be around her as she makes amends with herself, he should merely keep her surroundings calm and orderly. When she is balanced, the sexual nature and physical bond between them can be so tremendous that it spills over emotionally. Tears can be a part of the showing of emotions toward one another. He is one of the best fitted lovers for Libra woman that she’d ever need in that he satisfies her every aspect except for expressing his love for her or romantically talking to her while making love to her.

There are a few drawbacks that keep on hindering the smoothness of the relationship of Libra woman and Scorpio man. Though she is not quick to offend him, it is sometimes that he finds her irritating due to her constant persuasion. He ends up angry and throwing her off her balance that is so necessary for a harmonious life. A drawback of this bond can be their form of communication. She is quite verbal in expressing her love and devotion and expects, or almost requires, the same from her lover. While he, can tell his lover just how she makes him feel with a mere glance or the touch of a hand. If she could only learn to be more patient and open-minded of Scorpio man, she gets just what she needs in some form or another. If she pushes him, however, she merely gets cold stares and silence which are not doing at all.

  1. the goat April 5th, 2017

    So true as long as we are together, but what happened to me recently, is totally devastating. We lived together happily for seven months and he had to go home for some family issues. His family is far away. After two weeks he dumped me, and was already in contact with another woman . I can not recognize him anymore.

  2. Aron January 18th, 2017

    Wish my ex Fiance (she’s Libra) could/would read this. Still love her, but ready to let go completely.

    • Shana March 15th, 2017

      If its meant to be you will get back together! Real, true love ALWAYS prevails. Hang in there!!

    • Siny April 24th, 2017

      Libra woman who date scorpio man for 8 years.
      Don’t let her go.
      She wants you not to let her go.
      She wants you to show her that you need her.

      Just…don’t let her go and don’t listen to her when she mad, she just want a hug… XD

  3. Sybrey December 20th, 2016

    My girlfriend is scopie we always fighting myb 3weeks or month its to big to us without fight after 3weeks but our relationship its perfect next year I am going to Mary her
    Its only there 1thing that i don’t like about her is to quite she talk when she is angry about our relationship
    To her its hard to tell me that
    She lov me but when we have disagreement
    Its when I know that she lov
    I don’t hand my feeling
    My starsigh its a Libra
    I always showing her how munch
    I lov her

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    annie2809 February 12th, 2016

    in my case this combination is a complete chaos. He is sooooo roma tic and Iam so not. i like being dominated but for some weird reasin so does he. He lets me be the dominant one in relationship which is driving me crazy. He touched my butt afze r two months. Like seriously -.- sorry for nistakes new phone new leyboard can’t delete anything -.-*

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    Alphagenesis98 December 26th, 2014

    Yep! It’s true alright! I have a girlfriend and her zodiac is libra, I find it interesting now that there some words that exactly fits in our condition right now

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    mrs.-smith September 3rd, 2014

    I’m a Libra woman dating this handsome Scorpio man. When we first met I came on to him very Strong. Since the first night we have been inseparable. I find myself thinking of him all throughout the day an night. After reading this love capability, I come to find this very true. I feel like he will be the one man that I have been praying for an will bring out the best in me.I know as a Libra woman sometimes we need our space but slot of times I’m OK with him being here every minute,  he is magnificent. He is someone special. In my heart I really feel connected to him. We talk about any an everything really no subject is off line. He can be stubborn at times an he does get quiet when he’s upset ,but I love my Scorpio man!!!!  He will be my protector

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    viennastevens July 22nd, 2013

    i’m a libra woman and i am in love with a scorpio man.he is a bit older than me and he justfinished school,so i’ll be not seeing him next year anymore.the point is that he stares at me all the time and he is magnificent.i feel like we’re connected,but i cannot express my words.we stopped talking some years ago,because i was a little bit too stupid (i was young and i liked him for about a year,but he talked to me.unfortynately,which i see now,i was really immature and,while he was trying to go out with me and have a kind of a relationship,i just did not respond).he was a really dark character in my life,and he still is.he is kind of my i went to high school,he started staring at me and look at me and being near me.but the thing was that i was trying to forget about him,so i was afraid of talking to him or even looking at him first.but that sick thing continued for my whole freshman he was just standing on the 2nd floor and he was watching me for like 5 minutes,staring straight at my eyes.and his eyes are sooo beautiful! blue and so intense.he is just a scorpio and i can feel it.those years ago,when we were still talking,he seemed a mystery to me and i was sure he was the one.but the way he looks at me is not nice.i can see possession and hate in his eyes.he often tries to walk just in front of me in order to give me that “i want to kill you” look.i guess it’s because i’ve done something wrong and i really don’t have and idea how to fix this…but i think it’s too late,anyway.

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    Anmorata April 12th, 2013

    I am a Libra woman. I started puberty when I was 9, and every man I’d ever been attracted to was dark skin, dark hair… until I fell for a tale pale blonde, who is SCORPIO. I didn’t even realize how I felt at first… I just knew that I was a moth to a flame, though for a long time I didn’t realize just HOW drawn in I was.
    Man is HIGHLY reserved, but broke the ice with me with a very devilish joke >:D (It certainly made me look twice at him and I never forgot, in the best possible way!) He knows my dreams and aspirations as well as my darkest memories. Conversation flows naturally, and from the beginning I always shared something I never expected to. I could feel him taking in every word… and he’d ask for more, even getting to the very questions that even *I* don’t necessarily have the answer, or have the answer but am just not ready to share it. He knows when I’m being evasive, so I usually do manage to spit out some kind of answer… and others, they have to come in time.
    When we’re together now, people see us as an item (whether friends or jealous onlookers). We look like innocent children around each other. Goes to show – I showed him a stuffed animal one day, he poked it in the belly and it was literally the cutest f$#%ing thing I ever saw in my life, so for Christmas I bought him a counterpart to said stuffed animal, along with SQUIRMLES (I am probably the only female over the age of 10 who would ever thought to give her beloved Squirmles XD)… to which he turned into butter and we both sat there playing with them for a long time. Even though I was in a serious relationship once before (as well as been with men I never dated), I’m so brought to my knees that as attracted as I am (and once ready would give him a trip around the Universe), he knows I’m not ready for that and he’s okay with it, and I get very bashful around the subject of sex with him. (Doesn’t stop the occasional flirtation though XD) In those times, nothing else in the world exists.
    It’s not always hearts and diamonds though. Both have had relationships that singed us severely. He closed himself off to most people in general for a long time, except for me, and sometimes I get intimidated by that kind of wall. I’m slowly getting over it, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t test him, in a very abrasive manner no less. He was taken aback and looked like he was going to be sick, so I immediately dropped the matter. He knows how “clever” I can get in certain situations – a trait in me he said he’s found very impressive, but in other times that it’s a dangerous game. Very recently he told me, “you’re playing with fire.” I know he’s trying to look out for me, or get me to wake up (not completely unwarranted, I deliberately test the limits at my work sometimes), and after I didn’t seem to take that seriously, he didn’t talk to me for a bit… a form of tough love that was really hard to swallow.
    The main thing that I can say is that it definitely is work, but for me, lifechanging in the best possible ways. I can’t predict the future, I can only find security in that my life takes me where I need to be, regardless of what happened in past. With him I have to relinquish fears, impatience, and attempts to control the outcome, whether it’s long-term or not. I have to trust myself, and be willing to trust him and know he cares about me, especially after he goes out of his way and has made it EXPLICITLY CLEAR he wants me in his life. It’s work that’s cut out for me – it pushes me out of my comfort zone on every level – but with everything I believe we do share, I feel it’s worth it.

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    Sassi135 February 26th, 2013

    I’ve read this over a hundred times and all the comments are soo simililar to my opinion of scorpio and libra LOVE! My first love was a scorpio ! It’s quite sad when the stars just don’t align for you and your love! But hopefully me and scorp can remain really good friends like Ashanti and Nelly, I think he will always have a special place in his heart for his beautiful Libra! #Peace N love to libra &Scorpio’s . LOl

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    SassiJazz31 February 26th, 2013

    I’ve read this over a hundred times and all the comments are soo simililar to my opinion of scorpio and libra LOVE! My first love was a scorpio ! It’s quite sad when the stars just don’t align for you and your love! But hopefully me and scorp can remain really good friends like Ashanti and Nelly, I think he will always have a special place in his heart for his beautiful Libra! #Peace N love to libra &Scorpio’s . LOl

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    blackorchid April 8th, 2012

    I am a Libra woman in a loving relationship with a Scorpio man and this describes us perfectly. He is intense, intense, intense and definitely keeps me on my toes. I’ve spent much of our relationship trying to figure him out only to find that I learned more about myself than I did him. My Scorpio man is incredibly sweet and extremely sensitive and a bit secretive. Getting to the heart of his feelings is like pulling teeth, so patience is definitely a necessity. There are times when he needs a lot space to be alone with his thoughts and I honor that because I know that he loves me. He is extremely protective and yet allows me the space to just be me. Libras love the closeness and intimacy of a relationship but definitely need to maintain their independence in order to be happy. The level of trust that we have for each other is strong and I would never do anything to jeopardize that because to do so would literally crush him. We are definitely a great match.

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    mondego March 5th, 2012

    i am a scorpio man sooo deeply in love with a libra woman.. her name is nebula snow… bula, loving u is easy coz you’re beautiful….
    i hope some day God will open your heart for me… πŸ˜‰
    btw, the descriptions of a scorpio men is sooo right.. πŸ˜€
    ~~~~~ icak mondego LOVE nebula snow ~~~~~ so much!

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    ashtainment November 26th, 2011

    Well,reading all of this I had to make an account to disagree about Libra women and Scorpio men NOT being a good pair. Yes, it does take a lot of work for the two to be happy in the long run. BUT, i swear it all works out in the end. I quote “He is one of the best fitted lovers for Libra woman that she’d ever need in that he satisfies her every aspect except for expressing his love for her or romantically talking to her while making love to her.” Come on now Libra’s, ya’ll know that this is true….because it’s true for me. the Leo may be sexy, the Aquarius may make you laugh, & so on with the others but none of them compare to the great Scorpio himself. Bottom line, I’ve dated my Scorpio for 7yrs straight & we broke up b/c he’s emotional but we’re back together & we couldn’t be any happier. all it takes is patience, space, and trust.

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    proudtobelibran November 24th, 2011

    I would say if you want her to break… Show her your anger and demand her respect.Dont underestemate your persuavisness. If this wont un-frieze her immediatly just let it be. I find i difficult to deal with someone who’s always suggary sweet with me. She sencess your dark-side and if your not showing it to her then she may feel as if your not completly devoted but still in control of your emotions and because off that she cant give her all. She’s been hurt in the past and wont give herself anymore before she thinks someone really dive into deep waters for her.. Doing stuff for her doesnt do the trick.. But showing her all of you including your bad side(anger,need to control her and stuff like that) “because you cant help it” will…Of course in a balanced way LOL..We libra’s look shallow or superficial but in love with a water sign we are not. It’s like whe feel more because of you and will sence if you are playing safe and not giving your all. As a libra i know that whe have really good hearts and if it’s hurt to many times whe can turn into ice-queens. You as a scorpio guy have the right personality to melt her. Just dont over analyze it but feel.. Shock her a little with your hidden self hihi. Help her get back in her heart.. She is in to you cause she spends all this time with you but she just thinks to much and still attached to her hurt feelings in the past so a bit affraid to look foreward. This is how i feel right now and dating a scorpio guy… whe just met eachother again after being friends in the past. Maybe this will help you a little. Good luck @demetris

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    LargerLovebug November 23rd, 2011

    Well, I’m a Libra and I have just started dating my Scorpio man. he is very sensual and very nice, sweet romantic and all the above. But I would never had thought that I would be in love with a Scorpio because this is my first time ever dating one. But it was strange on how we had met. Because we knew the same people and hung around the same people but we never crossed each other paths. But until October 29, 2011 I have met the love of my life. All I can say is that it was love a first sight. He treats me like queen. Its the small things that he does that make me feel like I’m the most beautiful woman in the world. I never believe love in first sight and now that I can say that I really do. I think that it is a turning point in my life to say that I have really found someone that I’m truly in love with and I thank God everyday for sending him my way. So If you are a libra female and you looking for that right one then find a Scorpio male you want be dissapointed. Because they are to die for. I love my scorpio male with the depths of my heart.

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    Ask Oracle November 4th, 2011

    @TheScorpio Lots of emotional drama here. See Love and Emotions are two different things and in fact they are enemy to each other. Emotions and thinkingness “bind” us to a particular situation but Love just flows… and makes us happy.

    Looks like if somehow we are able to handle the “emotions” part, everything will be okay in your life. There are a few ways –
    – Healthy food
    – Physical exercises
    – Breathing exercises
    – Understanding of Love.

    Breathing exercises have a great importance, they will significantly improve quality of your life in all areas. Please follow these instructions for next few days and you’ll see the change –

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    TheScorpio November 3rd, 2011

    One thing that i also have a problem with in thsi relationship is spite. I feel like she acts certains ways just to make me upset sometimes and i think this is why i feel like i could leave her at any moment. I am a scorpio maybe this isnt part of my zodiac description but i forget nothing. every little detail, every moment, every thing about any situation between us that stands out i remember. I remember all the times she has made me upset and when we fight i remember them all at once and explode so hard… i feel so ashamed after. iono maybe im not making sense but should i just leave her and be alone? I feel like im just gonna damage her beyond repair and i dont want that. i can’t live without her but that doesnt mean she cant be in my heart and having that empowers me. i know i will always love this girl but i fear i wont be able to give her what I think she deserves. I guess im lazy or just too emotional to have a girl liek this… Basically; should i leave her? i love her and she makes my life so much sweeter but is it worth it if i eventually break her heart? sometimes i think thats exactly what i am setting out to do. I feel that once i see her completely destroyed and lost that i will realize how much she will love me…. ANd that fear is ripping me apart.

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    TheScorpio November 3rd, 2011

    @vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae Hello, i am a scorpio man dating a libra for 1 year now (our aniverssary was on oct 6th) like this compatibility thing says there has been many ups and downs. One thing that i hate i am but cant seem to escape from is jealousy. I am sooo damn jealous of my libra and i dont know why sometimes. This deep rooted jealousy and mistrust has made me so depressed. SHe makes me so happy when i am with her but we only get to see eachother weekends if that. When i do i feel happy but i find myself getting bored of her easily. I feel like i havent full opened up to myself and to her to put enough value in our relationship. I prepare myself everyday to just end it and i dont know why. I make her so happy i make her cry, she writes me cards and makes them by hand but i cant seem to put this jealousy away. It drives me nuts i have never been this depressed in my life. Its like all i wanted was a girl i could trust and now i feel like i cant trust them at all. I sometimes think about being completely alone and that thought actually makes me happier but i know that deep down i would rather die than live without her. She makes me feel so good and confident in who i am and i do the same for her. When we fight i can be VERY nasty to her and she doesnt know to leave me alone. Its like she has to be there with me and make the situation better or its like she loses control. She violated my privacy early in the relationship by geting into my email and facebook. SHe dug up as much dirt as she could and she never told me until i figured out one time out of the blue…. I found this to be horrible at the time but i soon got over it. Months down the road everything is good but i cant get over this feeling i get. Maybe i have my own personaility disorder but i cannot give up on this girl. I read thise stuff that the chinese calendar says this is the worst realtionship and cannot happen but i refuse to accept that. I make her feel like she is an angel and that empowers me so much to see tears of joy on her face or a smile so big and her eyes so glazed over…. God this is a hard relationship but calender or not i dont give a fcuk i want her and that is that. I think venting this out has made me realized just how lucky i am… Scorpio’s out there find a libra she will make ur world so damn good u could be living in a carboard box and feel like ur on cloud 9.

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    Fate October 4th, 2011

    I am in a relationship with a Scorpio Man. We’ve been together for 4 months now! I have already seen the jealous and Suspicious side of him and the Cold shoulder he can give sometimes! I am still so inlove with him though! Does anyone have advice on how to deal with his “Dark” side? cos I am determined to make this work!!!

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    Fundie123 September 25th, 2011

    This is very true! I’m a libra female in a relationship with a scorpio man ans I was married before to a scorpio man for 7 years after 4years of dating but divorced in 2004 . Scorpion man is moody, jealous and suspecious!!!on the other hand so am I. Scorpio man does not show his feeling as all as oppose to libra who likes to share and show her feeling , I proved that when we were in a process of divorce with my ex – husband . I was depressed under treatment of depression and whe i look at him he was like fine with the situation up until one day forget his safe keys at home and I open his safe and I found out we are in the same treatment , he is taking the medication that I was taking but when you saw him you will see a happy men with no problems but inside …all I can say is that I agree with jenny when she says if you really want and need eachother – let nature take its course and be mature about handling diffrences. Know that a person irregardless of zodiac sign has blind spots in our personality, hurs, disappointments etc. I’ve been dating other man after marriege with different Zodiac sign and I never felt in love the way I love a scopion man finally I met my scopio man and I LOVE HIM so much he is so carrying and he treat me like a princess.I agree and i did prove that to myself that Libra women and Scorpio man make a lovely couple

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    FloridaGirl September 21st, 2011

    This is SOOOOO not true! I am a Libra Female, I have been trying to date a Male Scorpio for 2 months now. What a NIGHTMARE! The first two weeks were wonderful. He was loving, caring, nuturing, NICE, and now he is verbally abusive, controlling, and down right NASTY. I never had the sensation of floating on a cloud. Burning in HELL is a closer discription. My advice – RUN!!!!!!!!

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    IcockyBarbie August 4th, 2011

    This is very ture iam a Libra Woman that’s in love With A Scorpio Man We Have Been Dating For A Year Now And Is Very Jealous And Very Protective Over Me As You All Know I Like To Go And Meet New Ppl And He Doesn’t Like That Like When We Went Out There Was Guys Lookin At Me And Blowinq There Horns And He Was Getting Upset Saying U Gone Make Me Figth Over U And I Kept Telling Him I Dont Care What Say I’m Fouced On Him And I Hate His Jealously Ways But I Love Him So Much I Always Show Him Love And Effection When He Be At His Lows I always encourage Him And I Be There For Him He Cheated On Me Be4 Only Once Becus We Wasn’t Around Each Other It Was Just Conversation HE Apologized But I Can’t Belev He Wud Hurt Me Like That But That’s In The Past I Gave Myi Scorpio Lover My All My Virginity Everything We Are Doing Great We Are Having Our First Baby Together Our Son I’m 9Months Now But For All Myi Libras Out There Who’s Datinq A Scorpio Don’t Let Them Go Or You Will Miss Out On Something So Beautiful Even Thou They Are Jealous Controlling And Moody Don’t Mean They Want Open Up To You It Takes Time And Patients Libras Once Your Scorpio Fully Understand Hw Much You Love Them And Care after All the ups and downs in the end that scorpio will open doors that he neverd open to u once he gets close to u and tell and show hw much he loves u there’s no way you getin out that relationship libra it may be rocky but after so long that scorpio will love u more than ever bt u gta prove and show them that u are trustworthy and will never hurt them and your there for them and scorpios even thou we libras seem nt to take things seriously but
    we mean No harm we care for you deeply and the worst thing we will never d is h

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    Marylongwood July 30th, 2011

    I am libra and my husband is Scorpio. We have been married for 23 years and are in process of divorce. My marriage has been rocky since the first day of our marriage. When we are dating it was electrifying and romantic but once got married, there were thousands of ups and downs. I was warned by my family that our horoscopes don’t match, but I went against there wish and though that when there is a will there is a way. I liked him and I wanted to make my life with him. My family gave in and accepted him. But I tell you that Libra/Scorpio relationship is lot of work and not easy to work with. Finally we are at the point where we cannot stand each other and getting divorce. According to Chinese calender for compatibility this match cannot happen and the worst match in the zodiac. you can check them out your self. I have also visited my other sites for compatibility and for libra woman they say Scorpio cannot be the combination. If you are libra woman and have great relationship with scorpio please write about it I would be very much interested reading it.

  27. Inlovewithascorpio April 3rd, 2011

    I have been with my Scorpio man for five years now. We have been married for three. Our life together is beautiful, we get along very well and we understand eachother more. To keep my Scorpio Man I’ve had to; set aside my jealous thoughts and feelings, praise him for all the good things he does, understand that he expresses his love with sexy glances, short sweet messages, touching and making love, forget about the past and move on with the future, have confidence in myself and believe that he loves me for a reason, TRUST him and tell him so often, BELIEVE him when he tells me that he loves me and is the happiest he has ever been, make LOVE more often than not. He is intense and needs that from me too now and then. It’s hard work, but it has worked so far πŸ™‚

  28. Cake April 1st, 2011

    This article and all your stories have helped me so much, thank you.
    I’ve been madly in love (which is something I’ve never experienced before) with a Scorpio man for 3 years. We’re just friends sadly, he calls me ‘family’, however my intuition tells me there is much more to it. The chemistry between us is like nothing I’ve ever experienced before, the way he looks at me and takes care of me sometimes is very special and I know he’s not like that with other women as I’ve been watching for 3 years!!
    It’s been an exhausting and hurtful 3 years. One minute he’s all about me, the next time we see each other he’s pulled away. It’s the push me pull you thing that’s exhausting and the not knowing.
    Recently the chemistry/flirting/attention on me all got too much for me to bare a few weeks ago and I finally spilled the beans and bared my heart, mind and soul to him. His response, MUTE!! Nothing! Nada! Rein!! I ended-up saying it for him “just friends” to which he just nodded. My intuition and gutt tell me that I don’t believe him though, I know and see how we are together, as do others.
    How has this article and your stories helped? Well, it’s taught me that I’ve completely overwhelmed him, he’s now digesting everything. He seems to be 100% Scorpio in his personality so will hoepfully feel some comfort in knowing that there’s no one else in my heart but him, there’s no room for anyone else as he fills it 100%, has done since the first time I heard his voice. I hope and pray to the moon and stars that he’s taking time to think about everything and will feel secure in my love for him and know that I’m here for him and him only. Please all of you, hope and pray for me that he will eventually let his barrier down, open up and share his feelings and reciprocate mine. If he doesn’t, I honestly don’t know how/if I will ever move on, seriously, the only way I will move on and free myself is if/when he introduces me to his future wife (he’s single too at the moment), only then will I believe that he doesn’t see me as anything more than ‘family’. I love him, I love him, I love him. I’ve hung my balls out there, it was the most terrifying experience in the world but I reading this I hope it reassured him rather than scared him sensless. Every day I’m alive I hope and pray he’ll love me back….

  29. Maya Protopapa March 31st, 2011

    this is so true I am A Libra he is a Scorpio I couldn’t be any happier with him. We moved in together and we are making plans to have out first chil

  30. Joy Hamza March 14th, 2011

    Is really gud to have such luv’s really sweet an wanderful .such romantic pleasure is precious .can same luv life exist between other tribes?

  31. Lollipop March 8th, 2011

    I’m a libra female and have been dating my scorpio boyfriend for 6 months and it is tough at times but SO SO SOOOO worth it in the end! he makes me laugh so much and he told me I make him laugh which doesn’t happen often. he is hilarious!!! a great conversationist and extremeeeeely sexual haha. He’s very secretive and I’m very open so that was something i had to accept. i’m waiting for him to tell me he loves me because i very much have fallen in love with him! but that’s probably my libra passion kicking in. he is an extreme person which drew me in because i found him so interesting. All in all i believe libra and scorpio love matches are THE MOST passionate, definitely one of the best matches of the zodiac. i’ve always attracted aquarius and leo males and i find them great to get along with but only to a certain extent as i get bored too easily!!! The majority of my crushes are scorpios because they keep me wanting more! such an interesting bunch.

  32. b February 21st, 2011

    @demetrius: PS, i am a libra woman currently engaged and planning my wedding with my scorpio man. not going to spill my entire life story here on some random website, but just know that with enough commitment, open communication, patience, hard work and even harder LOVE (all of which must come from both parties), it can turn out bautifully. also, remember that emotions change. what she has is probably a trauma-related emotional wall that took years to build and cannot be undone in a matter of months. if you love her enough to go through hard times with her, be confident. that is the key to the door in that wall. you don’t have to come in with a wrecking ball and pulverize it; that will destroy the heart inside along with the wall. decide how you want to handle this and then stick to it. but i just wanted to give you some hope. if you’re willing and she works on that wall, it can work. in my situation, the love we have today makes all the pain we had to go through worth it. decide what you want the most; a pain-free existence, or a bit of pain followed by a loving, devoted, passionate, free, fun, and beautiful lasting relationship with this woman. up to you, really.

  33. b February 21st, 2011

    @demetrius: she probably will not make that call. she’s been hurt and is not prepared to meet your standards. good for you, making a clean break and not just going around behind her back to make yourself happy while stringing her along. that would have been easy. if you can be patient with her, then call her and suggest therapy. tell her that unless she gets some kind of counseling to get over her emotional trauma, you can’t continue to be hurt by her coldness. however, DO NOT LIE TO HER. don’t say you’ll wait if you won’t. that’ll just set her back even more and you will never get that love you want so badly. be honest about how she makes you feel, and be honest about how patient (or impatient) you’re going to be. if you want to see her be fully yours, reward her baby steps with further patience. but don’t waver, set your boundaries and stick to them. for example, if you tell her, “you have 3 weeks to have therapy set up or i’m done,” then wait the three weeks, and if she hasn’t made efforts, then let her go. but if she HAS made efforts, then don’t change your mind; let her know you’re there. i know it’s against your scorpion nature, but try to be as transparent as possible if you want to stay in a relationship. if you don’t, then make the break clean and do not string her along. it’ll be ok…
    i’ve been there.

  34. Angel February 21st, 2011

    I totally know that things are working out great with my scorpio man. We both are deeply in love with eachother. He has a great sense of loyalty and responsibilty towards me. It has been several months that we’re in a relationship and it’s wonderful to be with him! I am a libra woman yet I have no problems between me and my man. I’m always trying to stay patient but because of my libran charm, I’m unable. I told this to him and he is so understanding that we are really happy together. He just wants me 2 b happy!!!

  35. bdj January 29th, 2011

    things are going great!!

  36. bdj January 29th, 2011

    thanks sid

  37. sid January 13th, 2011

    Go for it. You will not be disappointed. Do make him work for your attention though and yes, try and be patient. Libra women are hardly patient lol

  38. bdj January 13th, 2011

    i have just met a scorpio man (my first). and i think i LOVE him. but i am truly scared. should i just give in and allow him in?? i can so easily. it has literally been three weeks and we are long distant. but it seems so real. like he’s my soulmate. and he feels the same. he’s very communicative. he always tells me how he feels. and I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY. Help!!! Do I give in and let him ravish and love me? he’s even already purchased his ticket to me the beginning of feb. and making future plans. so excited!!! he lights me up. we met one day and spent every day after that together until i departed. i’m in love…but i can’t tell HIM!! i was ready for love…done playing…and 28. let’s get it mr. scorp….but i don’t want to scare him off.

  39. Priyanka January 11th, 2011

    Dis is true… I m a libra woman completely Β£ truly in love wid a scorpio man.we hve been togedr 4 ovr 6 yrs nw..Β£ its true dat dey hve trust issues bt once wen dey r assurd wid u,nobody else in d world wud love u d way dey do…it is like heaven πŸ™‚

  40. demetris January 10th, 2011

    Well, i did it. I ended it. Previously, i asked for some help, and commented about my situation. I waited it out until new years to see if i would see any change in my libra girl. And i didn’t. Since those days, i posted, i’ve done even more things for her, saved her dog one uncertain night, felt like a hero to be honest, thought i had it all in the bag. Then xmas came, bought presents that other girls would envy of her, and also one particular present that i found on ebay, that had to do with her childhood. etc etc. That didn’t work either, her heart was as cold as ice , just as it was when i met her. I tried, to look past it, but new years came around, and i didnt’ feel i was with a g/f but just someone around. Then I woke up one day, smacked my face a little, and said, What the hell am i doing? So i confronted her, asking her, where are we going with this. She again, stated, i told you from the beginning, i can’t give as of yet. Then i asked, well do you even think you might give at some point in the near future? she again said, i told you, i can’t give and don’t know if i ever will. So that was my cue to persuade her to leave me, and stop having me around all the time, saying she’s happy with the way things are..cause this time around, i’m not happy about how things are. Anyways, so we ended it. An hour later she called me to see if i was alright. !!! HOw DARE SHE!..that actually ticked me off pretty goood, asked her to never call me again, even though, deep downinside i’m hoping this will make her break. Its been almost a week, this is the first week, that we haven’t talked since last week. I’m hoping she will break, and she will realize what she lost. What do you think?? will she come back? She told me a thousand times, how well i treated her, and done things that others haven’t….hoping that would be enough to make her realize she misses me. We had a routine going on for 4 months, with morning calls, work chats, and hanging out 2-3 times a week. Only on her schedule, never on mine. So i don’t know, i miss her, does she miss me?..will she play the stubborn card?. She’s 29, i’m 33. But why does this feel like i’m 19 she’s 17. ? …grrr…hoping for some enlightment from the female side. πŸ˜€

  41. Lucy January 8th, 2011

    I am a Libra woman. I recently fell in love with Scorpio man, well we both feel in love with lots of intensity and beautiful lovemaking, sensual… you name it. He treated me like a queen. He only needed to touch me and I had butterflies in my stomach, everything about him was just very very romantic.. Never met a man like him. However this man was extremely suspicious, jealous, mistrusting, tight fisted, and easily hurt it just bewildered me. The relationship is now over but I will never forget how deeply intense this man was. Love between Scorpio man and Libra woman can work but the woman will need to learn patience and treat this very masculine man as the King.

  42. natalie January 4th, 2011

    I’m a full out Libra female dating a full out Scorpio male and it has been HARD work! But after a year and a half I feel it’s been well worth taking the time to figure his secretive ways out, as he has done with my extra friendliness. I’ve been used to, and always have loved, men who easily show their feelings towards me..but with my scorpio, I just can tell by his looks now and when he does do something out of the ordinary for me, I know it’s special and not something he would do for every girl. He also has put up with my flirtatous ways, not without fighting but still, he puts up with it. I’ve been fighting settling down for soo long in fear of getting hurt, but he has taught me hes not here to hurt and it’s okay to love again, that has been the best gift. It’s not easy, but I believe in a libra/scropio having happy relationships <3

  43. leia December 2nd, 2010

    my scorpio man is the best thing that ever happened to me in relationship land. we both work at it, we both have ups and downs, but at the end of it all, it is much more rewarding to look back at what we have accomplished as couple. i know i can rely on him, and he can rely on me. i’m not turning my back on him EVER. and if does turn his back on me, then i will go to lessons he taught me long ago, and go for the fkn balls! ha ha ha but i am a libra with lots of scorpio in my chart anyway …

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    Ask Oracle November 23rd, 2010

    @Demetris – You are truly in love, and being emotionally weak and sensitive are actually good things. However, move ahead with caution.

    This girl probably has some personality disorder and understand that you can’t fix it. Atleast not at the price of your own self-respect and self-esteem.

    People with personality disorders are not normal, have very sharp minds, can fake things to a great extent to get what they want. Her jealousy traits and coming back to you DOES NOT means she loves you and will do anything for you.

    She was, is and will be the same way she is today, with you or anyone else. This leaves you with two choices:
    a) Being in love simply means BALANCED give and take. You have expressed your love for her in plenty of ways, and its her turn now. You would want to hold on your “feelings” for sometime until she properly reflects back to your expectations. If she doesn’t, starting looking for a nice girl who would make you happy…

    b) Accept her as a 6 year old baby, who can’t give back but always wants more and more. Keep doing and feeling things for her without having any expectations, even in far future.

    My suggestion for you is be nice and friendly to her, but maintain some distance and forget about the “love” thing. You are risking your emotional well-being here and outcomes could be worse than you can imagine. You deserve better mate, run away!!

  45. Demetris November 23rd, 2010

    Im a Scorpio man dating a Libra woman. And the article hits the spot. See the thing is here, is that i want a real relationship, i want to be loved, cared for , and to have someone close for once. Something Stable.

    I never dated a libra woman, until now, i’m 33. I’m excited, but at the same time irritated. She’s been through some bad experiences with her ex’es…and i feel like im just at the wrong time in her life. But at the same time, im so hooked to this girl, i don’t want to lose her. We almost broke up, and tried to not talk to each other, for like a week to make up our minds if we actually want to be together or not. But it seems as though both of us, couldn’t handle not being around each other.
    She from the beginning, told me, about her problem, and that she cant give, as much as i give her. I give her, compassion, passion, love, care, i treat her like a queen basically…like she deserves to be treated, but i get nothing back. when i don’t get anything back, i tend to change, and get worried, like i’m losing my confidence, the girl is very beautiful so beautiful i feel threatened by other guys who are trying their best to get her in bed, etc…she’s 28 but she’s using fb like its a damn competition on who adds the most people etc. I think its wrong, cause i never showed i have a problem unless i’m not getting any attention from her.

    Im very easy going ,i’m very straight forward, and i say things as they are. I give her compliments daily and it comes from the heart. I want this girl to be my official girl, but she can’t give me that either just yet. She says, she still needs time, and that this will come to her naturally. Is it? or am i wasting my time? Im jealous, but i’m trying to hide it, but how loyal are you libras? like really, how loyal? Should i worry? she says, if she’s with me, she’s with me, but when were out, she doesn’t want people knowing what’s going on between us. That makes me feel like crap, cause its like she’s hiding me, or embarassed to be around me. Im a good looking guy, don’t get me wrong, but i feel weak, when she does that…throws my confidence out the window for no reason. I know she gets’ jealous of me, keeps mentioning some girl i know, that likes me, its funny to see her jealous, but still, she knows very well, i wouldn’t.

    My problem here is that i’ve been dating her for 2-3 months. Not everyone knows about us. When were together everything is fine, when were apart i get jealous of different thoughts. I always ask to see her…and when we were on our break, she was so nice to me, like to the point of saying, she actually misses me, which was hard to believe since, she never mentioned something nice like that after 2-3 months.
    Its weird i know, but im crazy about her, don’t want to lose her, and i believe she has things to give, but i just need to find a way to break that chip of her iced heart. She can be cold at times, and when she realizes that , she becomes someone else, a very gentle, caring playful woman.

    For her to come back to me for the second time, must mean she’s into me. But to not want it official just yet, after 3 months, is killing me. What are your suggestions?

    By the way, sex is amazing, conversations are ok, and i make her smile and laugh and take real good care of her. I cook for her, massage her , etc. etc πŸ™‚

    So ? Do you think i’m over exaggerating with my feelings? cause i do take things personally, and im also emotionally weak and senstitive. But if i had to give her a cold shoulder i’d be able to do so, if i reached my peak of i cant take this bs anymore.

  46. Deejay November 21st, 2010

    Im A Scorpio Man & Im Having A Baby With A Libra Female I Feel As If She Attached To Me A Bit More Then I Am With Her Shes Soo In Love With Me But I Feel She Isnt Up Too My Standards Seeing That I Carry Myself So Well Now She Trys To Be The One For Me Dont Get Me Wrong I Appreciate All That But Im Just Not Sexually or Emotionally Into Her As Far As Being In Love I Only Enjoy The Love We Make Is Unimaginable But How Do I Fall In Love With Her Without Being Into Her? This Is All So Very Confusing But I Pray I Will Soon Figured This Out πŸ˜€ hahaha

  47. Ray October 31st, 2010

    Ive been in an in and out relationship with my Scorpian for about 5 years. He does something for my emotional pleasure. He makes me smile and I love his domineering nature. We both make each other feel secure, but it is a sense of illusion because I don’t really know anything about him outside of us. I know now that we will have our breaks but emotionally we “need” each other. We understand the need for seperation and trust is not something to bother because we know what to expect from each other. As long as we understand our respect line. He won’t go anywhere as long as I show him I love him. They love hard, so even if they slip away they will always be back. πŸ˜€

  48. Leimor October 30th, 2010

    I’m a libran female who has been best friends with a scorpio for nearly six years. I’ve also been in love with him the entire time, so was I ever glad about taking the initative finally because we’re dating now!
    There’s a huge trust factor between us, although I know more about him than he does me [weird, huh?].
    He’s passionate and good at anything he tries, but very humble about such. It’s scary how much being in this relationship has opened my eyes to how much in common we really have on an emotional level! A great thing is that he rarely misunderstands me, and when I misunderstand him he always tells me so and re explains. He’s also very free with compliments, something I love! The best thing I think though is that he inspires me to be a better person. We’re both largely Christian with several of the same views (though the difference in our raising makes me a bit more open minded than he), so I’m confident that even if (God forbid) the relationship doesn’t work out, we’ll still be able to be good friends who can keep supporting one another.
    Anyway, good luck to you guys. πŸ™‚ Scorpios can make you feel like it’s okay to take a chance.

  49. anonymous October 27th, 2010

    this article is so true but then again not so true, lol. im a libra female with a scorpio male. i tend to attract alot of scorpio men in my life but never have had a scorpio boyfriend til now. very hard to figure out with these little scorpians but i tend to have alot of great conversations with them and great chemistry. (like instant anttraction) the trust issue is very true but in this case i think im the suspicious one. he does get suspicious i feel like he gets like that when he feels guilty about something? maybe, who knows. he’s a very quiet and calm one. he ALWAYS pops a secret to me at random times which worries me because its usually something i would never think of. im very blunt and when i want an answer, i want it NOW. im pretty sure he’s the same way too. other than that, i know i love him immensely.and he says the same thing too and shows it alot. also a great listener. we act like 2 little kids, we laugh just looking at each other.(haha, zodiacs are just zodiacs they’re just fun to read) we are all the fucking same.–the sex is, well, you know, if u put a passionate scorpio with a sensual libra, what do you think you’ll get? πŸ˜‰

  50. april September 20th, 2010

    Scorpio men suck. They are too secretive, too exhausting and too damn mean! Sorry but even though he made my legs shake! (lol) The sex aint worth it.

  51. David September 1st, 2010

    This article has really given me some insight. Im a scorpio guy dating a Libra woman, and i swear she is the BEST!I generally tend to be the more expressive than her in a lot of ways because i figure theres no point in keeping my feeling and secrets away from the person i love. I give her space(lol caus its a long distance relationship) and complement her often enough, although she is always trying to return the favor hahaha, and shes always right for some reason i just dont understand, even when she doesnt know! although shes great at misunderstanding what i say alot. I know i can be a moody(working on it caus it hurt alot of people) and a bit jelous(yes just a bit) and im suspicious(i keep thinking she is a CIA agent trying to extract info)and a bit of a d!ck. i would like her to do some thing in our relationship the is a constant reminder that she loves me. sometimes i think she loves me more than anything and other times i think she loves me less than i love her, but i know i would do anything for her.all i know is she is the best woman i have ever met and she has dazzled me. I’ll try to take more concern into her balance. i would love to post on here one day about our love, relationship, and experiences together but haha we have only been dating for two month lol.

  52. jenny August 8th, 2010

    I’ve been in a topsy turvy relationship with my Scorpio man for 4+ years.Yes it is true he is , moody, jealous and suspecious!!!on the other hand so am I. Our LOVE is what keeps us balanced and wanting eachother helps beyond comprehension. True LOVE in all its glory is what proves to
    be our glue, when all else fails. His communication is better then mine , probaly due to his confidence in general and stratigic observation. All i’m saying is that if you really want and need eachother – let nature take its course and be mature about handling diffrences. Know that a person irregardless of zodiac sign has blind spots in our personality, hurs, disappointments etc. Please be mindful of the person in front of you and see the beauty of him. Basically we all want o be accepted, adored and appreciated at least thats how I feel about my Scorpio – he is wonderful and a once in a life GIFT!!!!

  53. Liz May 18th, 2010

    I am a libra woman who just got out of a relationship with a Scorpio man. We had even a further obstacle bc it was long distance. I have been in a long distance before, with a Pisces, it never went like it did with the Scorpio!!!! All I can say is Moody, moody, moody. I am a libra in it’s true essence. I need peace and harmony at all times. I just don’t like myself very much when my scales are tipped. I can be very much eye for an eye, so if you dish the no good to me, I will dish the no good back. I am aware of this and did my best to balance and neutralize negative situations, but I found myself in this task all on my own. He would create mountains out of mole hills due to his extreme temper, I would do my best to keep the fire contained all the while he’s adding fuel. IT WAS EXHAUSTING — to say the least. I finally decided to break up w/ him bc i was just far too tired emotionally and mentally. It was a constant need to prove something to him. He never trusted, and out of this mistrust, he ended up entertaining another woman just because he suspected I had entertained another man. RELIEVED IT IS OVER!!!!! AND SO i move on and the new man I am very attracted to and getting along great with….A SCORPIO — so…. one can never tell. Now this guy is so cool, easy, laid back, I have known him for some time before being more than just friends and he seems so easy and breezy. I love it! Although signs have their truths, remember, there can be variances. Well — maybe I am speaking too soon… we’ll see. : )

  54. some chick April 15th, 2010

    this is so true…this scorpio guy broke up with me..
    he had trustissues and i hated how he wouldnt answer my questions. He would also get annoyed of my indecesive nature…
    later we broke up…i think i pushed him away and now he gives me cold stares n the silent treatment..

  55. ZB April 11th, 2010

    HAHAHAH this is crap I am a Scorpio man and with a Libra woman. She is very outgoing, loyal, independent and active. Me active, outgoing, perfectionist. What i think you all don’t get is that we are EXTREMELY LOYAL it is ok if we look at other girl you just need to know we are just looking not playing grab A#%. Yes we can be jealous and make you feel like we don’t trust you but the best why to get us to don’t be jealous is one small thing like a text say hey babe missing you thats all.

    I give my Libra all the space she needs and when i see she is having a hard time i go give her a kiss and she is back on top blasting threw her studies or work. My libra make it wroth wake up for that day and not sleeping it away. She is the first woman i am genuinely interested in.

    Now i am no mean’s perfect i can be a down right Dic$HEAD at times she know when i get mad not to prob or when i am working on something that’s not going right she lets me do it my self even tho she will put is her 2 cents in and she always right(GRRRRR) i give her my face then she lol and walks away. But all in all she makes me one hell of a happy guy and for that ill never scare, hurt or lose her trust.


  56. renee March 30th, 2010

    I am Libra woman who just broke up with Scorpio man. I caught him cheating with his ex. His roommate told me he had many other women too. He loved attention, a real strong sense of self-importance. I learned the hard way that Scorpio men are NOT ALL LOYAL. He is very sensual physically and very intense emotionally. But he will cool and cut you out of any communication for days or weeks when mad or suspicious. My Scorpio was not a good man. Beware.

  57. mimidous March 1st, 2010

    This is 200% true for my situation. I am a libra. I am in a relationship with a scorpio man for 6 months. Since the date that I met him until now, I have been thru ups and down emotionally many times with him. He is very secretive and does not show his feeling as all as oppose to libra who likes to share and show her feeling. He is controlling. When he is angry, especially his jealousy, he could get very nasty. It took me a lot of work in order to make our relationship work. But it exhaust me physically and emotionally and now I am thinking of breaking up with him. Even though scorpio is a good man but it is too much work for a libra woman to be with a scorpio man. So any libra women outthere just be with a man who makes you happy rather than with a man who takes control of your life.

  58. jyoti February 12th, 2010

    sorry libra girls are not good for relation

  59. jyoti February 12th, 2010

    iam i love with a libra girl,she is controvercial all the time now i m quiting her bkz i thing she dont like me but she propose me first,,,,,,,,,, but now we are seperated.scorpian girl are good but not for making relationship.

  60. librachick December 19th, 2009

    i seem to get mostly scorpios for some reason..really into this one scorpio. we are dating for now, but i don’t think i’m ready for his sexual side because i’m still a virgin at 22.

  61. libragyrl November 22nd, 2009

    This article is very accurate. I just broke up with a libra scorpio cusp guy after a 2 year relationship. When he gets angry, he gets very nasty. I went running 4 the hills after that. Just can’t deal with that side of him

  62. Hope November 11th, 2009

    Well, some of it is true and some of it isn’t. I’m one of the few Librans that are non-verbal communicators. My relationship with a Scorpian man has been going on for about 5 years. I love him. Of course we had few ups and downs over the years, but hey, we made it this far. Scorpios have trust issues, that’s why for you libran females out there, you have make sure that he knows he’s the only one for you. I showed him I meant it when I said “I love you” 5 years ago by going up on stage and shouting it from the top of my lungs for everyone to hear. Yes, it was embarrassing but thanks to that, we built a healthy relationship.

  63. Suzy November 5th, 2009

    I’m a libran female in the beginning of a relationship with a Scorpio and I’m really scared reading this article. I don’t want to see him ever again. I’m already working on my break up line. I guess it’s just my charm.

  64. nikki October 19th, 2009

    This is very true! I’m a libra female in a relationship with a scorpio man. It is A LOT of work..but as a libra we have to be patient with a scorpio male. I praise him and compliment him just enough to show my appreciation…cuz that’s all they want is to be appreciated…not too mention they are very sensitive tho their exterior is as solid as a rock. He’s becoming my best friend someone that I can trust. He makes me feel like a queen. Not to mention how sensual he is. I’m falling in love with my scorpio. I guess its just my libran charm!

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