Scorpio Man and Aquarius Woman Love Compatibility

i am an aquarius woman and seem to always attract scorpio men. it is always a disastrous relationship. scorpio men harbor bad feelings and wont disclose them to you until months later.

I’ve loved a scorpio man for 6 years and don’t really know exzactly how he feels about me we have broken up moore than I can remember but he always the one to come back I am an aquariaus woman

Woww im sad that some people experienced scorpio men like that, I use to be crazy in love with my scorpio man! He understood me like nobody else could, kept me level headed and everything. The only differences I could say was that he always we wanted things to go HIS way and he was kind of stubborn in his decisions of keeping things from me. But ive learned how to get some things out of him, I think its like a process with a scorpio just like a precious heart that has been broken many times. Their just suspicious of the people they want to share their true self with; I think. And im a Aquarius woman=)

I have dated a scorpio man, I am an aquarius woman, and he was very closed off when talking about his past. He had no problem telling me how beautiful I was but then it came to serious conversations about feelings it was hard to get him to open up. He was also addicted to sex and had a high sex drive. The reason the relationship ended was because he slept with anyone he found sexually appealing. Scorpios are nymphos. keep that in mind.

Aquarius women make me laugh as they come across as disorganised and innocent souls with a lack of control over their emotions. Some Aquarius ladies are breathtakingly beautiful but don’t they know it? Ha! For a Scorpio male they are like a special curio object. They love to be vague and change conversation whenever the mood takes them. Unfortunately their thoughts and feelings never convince that they have any depth or resonance that could convince anyone with half a brain.

For a Scorpio although the sex might be entertaining for a while the Aquarius woman is not exactly the most compatible person for them. It goes both ways of course but the Aquarius woman will only ever see it from their perspective because self matters more to them than anything else.

The Scorpio male will become annoyed at constantly having to change conversation and be light hearted all of the time. We need the whole variety of life’s experiences and not just light and happy all the time.

Scorpio’s also do not always know whether or not the Aquarius even likes them and so withdraws. An Aquarius woman’s actions are often contradictory and so for the Scorpio male they may appear to be totally indifferent towards them just at the time they like the Scorpio most. I have had this experience so many times with Aquarius women who irritated me with their total lack of affection and just before I was about to break up with them they asked to go to the next level of the relationship. It is as if they have no idea that what they do has any consequences. Once you learn that then a Scorpio male cannot take them seriously and cannot plan any kind of long term relationship with them.

They are ok as friends if you see them now and again. Fun as a one night stand as an Aquarius woman is surprisingly open to sex. But hopeless as wives for a Scorpio male.

I’m currently dating a Scorpio male and wow, so controlling! Don’t get me wrong, I love him loads and I know that he’s extremely loyal and loving to me. He has a fiery temper and when I want my freedom (being an Aquarius).. I get a hell of a guilt trip. He’s my best friend and has taught me so much, he’s a man with a level and wise head. I can relate so much to this article.

my manis scorpio…we have a gr8 relationship but hell hath no fury as him..i kno he loves me alot…i love him alot too..but im alwways so light headed and he tortures himself with dark suspicions…im completlty loyal to him,,,and wud do anything absolutely anything to please him….i hat egetting him angry..*(its not usually a pretty scene) but i believe in love..and i believe we can make it…im at fault at times for our fights..and i admit unlike him he never says sorry……..lol…this article means so much and is exactly how we both are

You now, I read the articles and from my experiences there are a lot of similarities of what is being said, however, I have to take exception to two things: anger and the inference that Scorpio males are, at all, jealous or controlling. For me, a Scorpio male, I am neither of two, although I don’t like being, for example, not invited out (no one does), I don’t even give my Aquarius g/f any problems about going places without me (vice versa), even though she is how these articles describe (air headed, light hearted etc) – and its so true about Aquarius women forgetting and being this way, all the time. But you’d be surprised – they have a “selective” memory. Anyway, if anything, I found it strange at the beginning that she didn’t really care where I went or ask too many questions, but now a couple years later, she is starting to become a little more interested (curious). I think we are together still because we see each other less due to life circumstances and family. The reason I say this is because if we were living together, in all likelyhood, the intrigue would wear out more quickly…for me I require a woman who keeps me interested in intellect and in other ways. An Aquarius women’s appeal may be not what a Scorpio male needs.

I am an aquarius who is interested in a scorpion male, so far he is open to talk abt anything. I bed to differ from these scorpio males that Aquarian women have no depth and are air headed. If you pay any attention to astrology or a real aquarius woman you know that you have to have enough patients to really want to go deep with her because aquarian women want to know everything about you but will take a lot of time to go deep about themselves.
We are also always thinking n with that will not always hear or remember what you say…not personal…but true. If you really wanna know us realize it takes time…hopefully this scorpio man does just that because I know and have plenty to say but I will not just come out and tell it all it will take a while.

i totally agree with u dark lord scorpio actually i’m not an aquarius lady i’m a pisces but my brother is scorpio & his girl friend is an aquarius frankly they always quarrel he like to control but she like to remain independent .
he is so sensitive & she ignores that i’ve been telling him that she’s not the opportune girl for him she’s not the girl he can live with her his dreams , he maybe was attracted to her character at first vut now he’s suffering because she ignores the most wonderful feelings human could feel

I’m not sure if I agree with dark lord scorpio’s assessment of Aquarian Women. My Scorpio friend says that I am too deep and philosophize too much. In fact, he stated that usually when he walks in a crowded room, he can fool everyone- but he must be careful when he speaks to me because I can see through anything. So, the airheaded comment is quite interesting. I wish I was because he bores me with his myopic way of viewing things (i.e.) his way.

I am an Aquarius Woman and I have been with my husband (Scorpio) since we were teenagers. We was together for 10yrs before we got married. And have been married for 6yrs as of May….so total of 16yrs and counting. At the beginning it was hard trying to understand each other..well you can call it puppy love since we were very young hahaha. But as we grew older we fell more in-love than ever before. Communication is the number one key cause you both can get lost so fast if not paying attention to each other. Scorpios are so hard-headed and stubborn, their mood swings are off the charts (happy one moment then upset the next and so on) …but remind you, if we have any issues, we sit down and talk about it…no yelling, no temper tantrums…just get things resolved and move on forward. But we know how to get underneath each others skin if we want to. We just choose not to, that’s the best way to keep things afloat. But overall.. my husband (Scorpio) have a great sense of humor, a soft heart, very intelligent, very creative, strong thinker, and a great lover and that’s what STILL catches my attention today. So I never understood why they say Aquarius and Scorpios are NOT compatible when we have been together so long and still deeply in-love. But then again, everyone’s relationships are different. But I am happy that I had found this site that tells differ.

wow talk about a conversation forum. I know aquarius talk or think or shop a LOT and what I mean is it’s very obvious, it’s a lifestyle for me anyway im aquarian, u could see it in my clothes, ok so scorpio guys are horny, I like that. Scorpio guys are stubborn like hell and aquarius too. I have Aries friends bffs forever, the love of my life ex was an Aries. Team Aries I just stick to these folks but damn I just met a scorpio man that’s foreign btw and we do it and I like his sexuality I’m just always turned on, I throw fit and he just really care. I’m liking this Aquarius Scorpio duo I think we are getting somewhere here, I’m really happy fighting and having sex, he agrees, I’m not going back to an aries, I rather be mistreated than deal with a stuckup ram, just sayin

I am everything you have ever read about a Aquarian rolled up into one little girl, and I am absolutly head over heels interested in this Scorpio man. I’m not sure if its just inital “puppy love” or what, but everything he does and everything he says I find incredably interesting and facinating and I find myself lost in hour long conversations and the first fight we had was HORRIBLE and I just couldn’t bring myself to back down and he sure wasn’t cuddling me with tenderness and patience haha. But we came back with very apologetic attitudes and everything has been wonderful since. I don’t know what it is but there is just something dark and mysterious and intelligent and wonderful about the Scorpio man that no other sign has. And with my curious warm-hearted (sometimes) light and happy attitude towards everything and everyone I can not WAIT to see where this relationship ends up. And from what I hear… I can’t wait for the *Ahem* craziness from my “Nypho” Scorpio man

I told myself I was going to leave this horoscope mess alone, but im so studied in it, and still amazed at it’s first hand glance into an individual’s personality. I enjoyed this article it gave me a positive outlook on a possible relationship with this Scorpio man and yes I am an Aquarius. I’ve been taken slightly aback by his aggressiveness (in a good way) but his honesty is like none other. He has observed me from afar for a long time and that excites me. He always seems to be reading my mind. And his patience for as many times as I turned him down excites me more, im very attracted to persistence.
I dont know what the future may hold, but i’ve never wanted to speak out on these forums before. What’s funny is I always thought I was incompatible with a Scorpio, but for some reason I seem to always get a long with my incompatitble sign anyways and having a very brief connection with those im compatible with. So @NattyCatty I feel you, I just ended a brief relationship with a ram and I was sure it was fireworks wow was I wrong!! lol
Here’s to looking forward to the future. Peace.

HA! Strange compatability for sure. My Scorpio is a musician and has had MANY, MANY, MANY women in his life…still does! He is the MOST secretive person I have EVER met, non communitive unless it is about him/his life etc. Does not really wish to engage in anything “intimate” in nature as far as talking. I know he is communitating with other women behind my back….they could be just ‘friends” however I have my suspicions. He does make me feel “loved” and like I am the only woman however at times I feel like he is just putting on the charm and blowing smoke. It has been 9 months but we have “known” each other for about 15-20 years….we’ll see! I simply don’t really trust him…sad but true!!!!

I had to create an Account just to comment on this, especially this article. The biggest irony in my life is that both the best and the worst woman in it are both Aquarius. My mother, who is an Aquarius, embodies everything, and I mean everything that is positive about Aquarians. She is independent as she has been raising me for all these years single-handedly with no help from others. That woman is an inspiration. She is optimistic, strong and well badass.. But now here is where i start ranting, and please don’t get offended if i use any bad word, I won’t stereotype Aquarian women.. My ex-girlfriend who also happens to be an Aquarian embodies the dictionary meaning of a loser or failure. She is beyond pessimistic. And also she was my biggest mistake I ever made. The reason I got attracted to her was for her “I don’t give a shit” attitude, which I really liked ,as the typical damsel in distress kinda ladies really really don’t work for me, I prefer strong women. But this girl I must say made me hate Aquarian Ladies for sometime, even though recently I made a very nice new friend, who also is an Aquarian, but nothing like that bitch. I mean she made my life hell.. Her constant pessimism irritated me so much. The constant “I know you don’t love me” or “Tell I’m being a menace in your life”, when clearly I did not say a thing, it just made me wanna kill her to be honest. Being in a relationship with her, I had many misunderstandings with my friends and family. At one point of time I just absolutely had it. I had to get rid of her, or she’d have turned my life into a living nightmare. I’m still single, and skeptical about love because of that hag. Yes at one point of time I realized that the reason I still stuck to her was because I wanted to get laid, but trust me hat reason also failed. To be honest I would have been successful, but her whole approach to everything was simply pathetic. I have never met such a negative person in my life. I absolutely hate negativity. She was not my type at all..The last time I called her just outta sympathy, she started ranting about how “I had destroyed her life” when clearly I did not say a word about how she disturbed me in my studies and tried to cut me off from my friends. Bloody bitch that one. She never attempted to understand me, yes I admit that sometimes I was just lurking for sex, but I tried my level best to make the relationship happen. I tried to be the good listener, the patient boyfriend, the one that most girls want as a boyfriend. But with her I failed. Always reckless and negative, paranoid of what people thought of her, picking up a cold war with other girls. She left college, got another (most probably) boyfriend and currently not a college graduate and unemployed. She was what I call “My Harbinger of Misfortune”, as after she entered into my life all the worst things have been happening. I just couldn’t tolerate failure, as it was my biggest fear, oh well life taught me a huge lesson on that topic, I lost two of my most loved ones, got almost insane because I couldn’t progress in life, was suicidal for 6 months, diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder and absolutely lost my happiness and will to live(momentarily ofcourse).. But look at me, if I were anything like her, I mean anything, i wouldn’t be typing this rather than I would have been a Whiny bitch. Yes I agree Scorpions can be horny, manipulative, power-hungry in short typically evil(According to some people), but with that Scorpio also has something that I don’t think any other zodiac has, that is, the ability to literally rise from the dead. this year is my Phoenix year, as I m realizing a whole lots of things about me. Its the power to rejuvenate that makes Scorpio unique in its own right. I know I used a lot of foul words, but thats how it is. That one Aquarian was a disgrace in the name of Humanity and also the very very amazing Aquarians out there. Sorry if i had offended anyone, but Scorpio-Aquarius relationship is major failure according to me. Peace.

I’m a scorpio man who went head over heels for an aquarius woman a few years back. It never amounted to much, we never even dated, but she touched my heart in a way nobody else ever has. We had plenty of fun conversations and were flirty on occasion. I would look forward to seeing her smile everyday. It was peaceful, but I ended up breaking that peace by trying to turn our friendship into something more. I asked her out several times, always turned me down, except once, and even then she kept me at a safe distance, even brought a wing-man. after that she started being very dismissive of me, and for the next few weeks she just outright ignored me. eventually it became too much for me and I had an outburst that offended her. she basically told me she didn’t want to be my friend anymore because I was too pushy and creepy. I was devastated. I tried to apologize on several occasions, and I have tried time and again to repair the breach in our friendship and restore communication, to no avail. Now, she’s in a relationship with someone else, and I have to give up on my feelings, a nearly impossible task, even a few brief relationships with other girls has not made me forget that one aquarius girl. It has been nearly two years since our falling out, and not a day goes by that I don’t feel that guilt. I guess we scorpio’s tend to internalize our pain instead of showing it on the surface. I doubt she knows the weight of the guilt that I’ve carried, but I suspect she doesn’t care. My friendship was just one of a million to her, and hers was one in a million to me. I still see her occasionally, as we work together, but she won’t even look my direction now. and every time I see her now just makes my heart sink. I would eventually come to understand why it went sour. If I had maybe taken the whole thing a little less seriously, maybe we could have found some common ground. despite all of it though, I still love her.

@SeraphAlright, this is pretty bad but I’m answering you so mabe one day someone will answer me.last summer i chatted all summer with a distant friend of mine who i’d known for 4 years at the time. i (aqua sun, rising and mercury- triple whammy) wanted to see how far i could go by chatting only (we never met, or flirted, or anythingg) and long story short we returned to school and i found out he fell in love. and the whole time i didn’t even know i was doing anything to him, till i actually saw him (pisces… :/ )and when someone ikes me but i dont like THEM at all and they want something big like commitment from me? 1)Stomach compresses, feel like i’m about to implode2)Glacier outer coolness to mask the internal malfunction going on (literally, my mind goes crazy and i cant understand anything but the fact that i want NO MORE of this)3)Infamous Aquarian escape instincts.Then I made the quick, cold but accurate calculation that if i was utterly detestable, not only would he hate me (and back away) but he’d also be HAPPY in hating me and backing away….. now, i have to admit it’s a terrible, terrible thing to do but it goes two ways for me. One, yeah I break their heart, but at the time breaking their heart is inevitable, so i decide to do it well and make them mad so it’s not like i’m sickeningly perfect and they’re not good enough. I don’t want to be that prety girl who’s just like ‘Sorry, no, but i love youuu eheehee’ and is still so nice to whoever she’s just dumped- that’s just pure torture to me,  where the person you love is tangible, literally within your grasp, but you KNOW they won’t like you and you have to let yourself always love them from a distance. That’s why the devil mechanism comes out. to protect me and to protect the person I have to rject, so they won’t have to think it’s their fault, so they can have the idea of ‘She’s just a bitch. She plaed my heart. It’s her fault. I was the good guy. There was nothing I could do.’ to fall back on.So, noble? Not really, not at all. And I do hate myself for it. But at the moment I also HATED him for bringing out that side of me, which made playing the ice bitch all the more satisfying….So basically, that Aquarian may not have exactly what I had in mind, but the fact remains that she’s icing you out for trying to get too close…..because she didn’t surrender, get it? All that stuff about our independence and whatnot is only partially true- as you can see we HATE being jarred up, unless we’re the ones who offer ourselves first and idk flew into the proverbial jar or however you wanna think of it. It’s not your fault at all and my heart goes out to you, but next time wait for BIGGER signs of love before you try coming close…..flirting is a game, love has totally different ways of expressing itself. For your own sake, please don’t ever confuse the two again. Best wishes xxx

im an aquarius woman im in love with my bestfriend who is scorpio. he can get very angry at times and im always doing for him. he doesnt trust me for god knows what reason. im so loyal by him and ive been the only real person in his life. we have the same humor and when im around him i feel like im on top of the world he is my bestfriend but we know the chemistry is there. idk if its cause hes a “nympho” but im so in love with my bestfriend and we have had sex before. it was amazing.

I really don’t know about Scorpio Male and Aqua Female Combo before as I was more situated with Aries and Libra guys during my High School to College Years. Because I found Scorpion Male very hard headed, and I am also hard headed. So its like battle of Gang Lords….heheheh. And yet, surprisingly  my best friend is a Scorpio Female…We hate and love each other like blood sisters for more than 15 years now.
Anyway, Just when I had a rather harsh experience with my then ex-husband Virgo Man, here comes two headstrong Scorpio males. Scorpio Male #1 is 40 years old and Scorpio Male #2 is 21 years old. And I am Aqua Girl 32 (though many thinks I am just in my 25) heheheh….
Anyway
 I am in-love with  Scorpio Man #1. He was very sweet, very loving to the point we had really great intimate times. He was very sharing of his affection but he was rather secretive. At one point I caught him messaging me with a different woman’s name, ‘Tessa’…so It could be true Scorpions are sexaholic people while Aquarians are also within a category but we prefer someone who doesn’t also capture our physical desires but also our intellectual desires as well…who wants to get laid with a Nimrod… Anyway, I was loving him…but his infidelity was catching up..and being intuitive, it was rather irritating. You see, as an Aquarian…I walk my talk, so I Loved him and yet, he started being distant with me, making excuses until one day,out of the blue like a bubble he was gone…no communication whatsoever…I tried contacting him, there was nothing…really nothing. To think we were already planning our future together. One thing I like about myself is being an inventor – Aquarians (if not subjected to psychotic childhood experiences) turns out to be strong independent individuals who are optimistic, with strong faith and hopeful endeavors…So, I got over my sadness, believing there is someone out there…and there is…wow…another Scorpion Man#2, younger and more sexaholic.What I like about Scorpion Man # 2 is that he is very honest. Brutally honest to his sexual activities. And even his sense of watching porn movies, though I find it sweet that he asks how I feel about it is rather obscurely disturbing. Anyway, I am also brutally honest with my Scorpion man#2 that because of past hurts with relationships, it will take a little time for me to totally accept him. Though he said yes, he keeps claiming in Facebook that My body and soul belongs to him…which is cute but for me who is a freedom lover a bit of an entanglement. Nonetheless, Scorpio Man #2 wont believe that I am 32…and it is okay with him if ever our relationship blossoms into more than just boyfriend and girlfriend material…Actually he wants us to have 5 children..Amazing! Though I am comfortable with my Scorpio Man#2…some of my friends say that Scorpio Man#1 made a mistake with his other woman and wants me back…humnn…so maybe I’ll be seeing two stingers fight for the water bearer…
Honestly, though I am still inlove with Scorpio man#1, I am learning to let go…because No woman can stay with a man who cannot be loyal to her. No man is worth sharing one’s glory if he cannot stay duringa woman’s troubled times. Afterall, I am enjoying Scorpio Man #2… I really like honesty…even if let’s say the honesty is painful…I prefer to know the truth.

I have been married to a scorpio man for 18 years and we just separated.  We dated 5 years before we got married.  The first month of our separation was crazy.  He was super dooper nice to me after his ex girlfriend called.  Offered to take care of everything I needed financially.  After about a month we had a talk and he said he wanted to work this out because we have had far more good days than bad days.  He poured out his soul, the whole 9 yards.  Our biggest problem in marriage was we didn’t argue but we never really talked about serious matters until they were serious.  I could get some stuff out of him but I really had to pry.  Our sex life has been rocky too for the past year.  It has been about a week.  I see him everyday because we work in the same office.  Something we have done for several years.  He talks and laughs at work encourages me to go get my hair done etc. but he has not been over here since that conversation.  Started calling me by my pet name and we hug in the morning before work but no real intimacy.  I asked him about his weekend and he named a host of things he had to do, invited him for a movie he is busy.  He said I can come over anytime I want (I have keys) but I am not sure bcuz I am getting mixed signals from him.  He says he loves me and I can trust him on that but his actions are much different.  Apart of me wants to back off and give him his space and the other part of me wants to take him on every offer he gives.  I am confused at this moment.  

@moongoddessdivine19 k listen.aquarians can be pretty vain. it sounds a lot worse than it actually is- it’s not a bad thing realy, like in your case- you got stung by scorp #1, you want him to suffer a bit. You also want to test scorp #2 to see if he cares enough. I can see all that because i’m out of the situation and because we’re sun sisters (sounds so gay but yea)
Trust me, please, TRUST ME: they will not be so sympathetic. scorp #1 will not be happy about if he finds out about another guy. scorps are known to be very double standarded. he left you for another woman and if he tries to get you back again it’ll either because he really, really means it or he really, really thinks you’re that stupid. It’s like the Katy Perry (scorpio) and Russel whatshisface (gemini) divorce thing: she looked down on him and thought she could boss him around because he was opening up so much to her (wanting her to stay at home and raise his kids, not cheating on her even though he was a womanizer before, etc.etc.et.) so she overdid her power thing by throwing her wedding ring at him in the middle of a fight, thinking it’s Okayyy he won’t actually do anything…He’s an air sign (see how this relates to you now? )He waited a day to see if she was serious (she stuck by her own decision like a true fixed sign) and then filed for divorce.There’s no ‘right’ way to go when a scorpio thinks you’re not to be respected. If you think he really does care, be very, veryyy cautious, or else you WILL be with him but without his respect entirely…and respect is of the utmost importance to these people.Anyways…..if scorp #2 is really attached to you and sees what you’re doing (if you actually do let them fight over you, even if they don’t know about each other) he’ll call it all off. if he thinks he wants you he will NOT be pleased to know you’re weighing him up, not to mention that you’re comparing him to another guy you’re weighing up too. My warning is that if this goes wrong, the whole thing WILL blow up in your face and you’ll end up with neither. Please take my advice nicely, i mean all this in the best way possible. Remember to be modest about all this, don’t let it get to your head but at the same time know what you’re doing all the time. And again, be VERY cautious with #1……oh and with #2, i’m telling you this because i need somoene to tell me this while i’m in the middle of all that crap, THERE IS NO INDEPENDENCE IN LOVE esp. not with a scorp. please don’t get picky about how they express their love (unless it isn’t actually love!) because of your need for freedom- to them it’s like, you want freedom? then why aren’t you happy single? just enjoy the fact that he’s being so nice..

@Dark lord Scorpio i’m sorry i NEED to tell you how much i looveeee your comment- like literally whenever i see it i get really giddy- ik you were dead serious when you wrote it and you probably had some terrible experiences to hate us THAT much (which, to be very clear, i’m not happy or giddy about and don’t find funniest in the least, i can see how serious that all is and i really learnt a lot about myself from it) but aaaahh thank you so much i find it fucking hilarious…but seriously. i loved it a lot because it was all realy true, and i need to be told all this once in a while. seriously, thaaaank youuuu :*