Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man Love Compatibility

Both the Taurus and Scorpio are attracted to the other’s strong personality and willingness to commit. This is a sexually intense and magnetic partnership which has brighter chances of lasting when Taurus woman and Scorpio man are involved. Both the Taurus and Scorpio sense the ability to “go the distance”, and mutual respect is likely the result.

A Scorpio man is extremely perceptive and his the uncanny ability to understand the reasons and motives of others makes him more aware of the wide range of situations and possibilities. He is a person who has high values and uses his emotional intelligence for good purposes. While he has a reputation for being suspicious and vengeful, these are simply his darker qualities that only come out when he is personally experiencing a bad phase in his life. In a relationship, he is a very caring and protective mate who always stands in front of his lady love to keep her safe from all the worldly problems.

A Taurus woman is a very down-to-earth and hardworking person in all that she does. She does not tend toward being impulsive, instead she looks far ahead before she leaps and makes meticulous plans for the future. She may appear to be shy upon the first few meetings, but she can quickly warm up and be an entertaining conversationalist. In a relationship, she is a very devoted and loyal lover with warmth of love and supporting hand. She has very sensual and graceful approach in love life, making the relationship cozier and lasting.

As the eyes of the sensual Taurus woman meets the hypnotic eyes of the Scorpio man, there is an impossible to resist attraction that she experiences. Though in the beginning she feels he can be risky and unpredictable to deal with but his seductive qualities eventually wins her over, and with gracious luck she finds a man who can be trusted forever. She makes a great match for the Scorpio male who looks around for a woman with sugar coated heart and rock hard will. She knows how to respect and love him and how to make his life smoother without actually interfering. She gives her best of both emotional as well as physical love with a wonderful food, making the home of a Scorpio man the most perfect place to be in. She is intelligent enough to support him in rough times and to keep up his spirits when needed.

A Scorpio man in love with a Taurus woman adores his lady like a goddess. He knows how to love and respect her but never let her forget that he is the Man in the relationship! He has a passionate way of loving and protecting his lady love and provides her with the best of the things available in all aspects. He makes her feel special in a way no other man can make someone feel and also spoils her with lots of pampering, good food and best fragrances available with such a taste of music that makes her tap her toes. He is like a strong mountain, keeping her untouched by all problems and society evils. Though he is suspicious and sometimes passionate to an unhealthy amount but the kind of love and care given by him is far worthier than his grey qualities.

As love pours on the Taurus woman and Scorpio man tying them in a never wobbling knot, they both grow intimate and possessive of each other and actually learn to enjoy the feeling of being possessed in such a passionate way. The stubbornness of the Taurus female melts away in the passionate romance of her Scorpio male and his jealousy and suspicious order vanishes out in the devotion and loyalty presented by her. As their eyes meet to reveal all the lovely promises their hearts make to each other, blossomy unison is experienced by these two love birds. The deep love they feel for each other washes away all the differences making them two persons with loving heart and pure soul that claims for oneness and nothing else!

The blend of Water and Earth is one of the best, both in emotional as well as sexual relationship. Once a sexual link develops between the Taurus woman and Scorpio man, it becomes manifestly apparent that this is what drew them together. They both have powerful appetites and need an active, stimulating sex life in order to express them fully and feel appreciated to their greatest capacity. Their approach to sexuality does differ in some very fundamental ways. To Taurus woman, it is highly physical and earthy, and she reaches her heights primarily through her five senses. Scorpio man is quite the opposite. To him, sex is a metaphysical experience that takes him to a higher spiritual plane. Both form powerful emotional bonds through their love making, and their physical connection is without a doubt the strength of their relationship. Even when things go awry outside of the bedroom, their bond behind closed doors make them do their best to work things out. Their love making is a blend of passion and romance which makes them experience the highest form of fulfillment and Oneness!

This relationship begins with a bang and most likely is long-lasting but problems may arise for this couple when Scorpio man slowly reveals the deeper, inner side of his personality that he tries so hard to keep hidden from the outside world. On the surface, he displays only his cold, calculating reason and his deeply instilled practicality. These are things that Taurus woman is happy to embrace, since she values rationality and sensibility above all else. It is when the extremity and severity of his convictions come to light that she becomes wary. Even the stubbornness and blind prejudice of her creates issues for him who has a tendency of dominating in the relationship. If both of them are ready to co-relate their problems and talk it over, there is a good chance that these two find their way resulting in a happy ending.

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Bunny (@Bunny) : March 28th, 2011

sally because this relationship IS a Disney Fairy Tale :P

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mia (@mia) : March 29th, 2011

wow, after reading these comments, Taurus girls is way better off without scorpio males. they are nothing but waste of time and I surely dont like to be involved in scorpion emotional roller coaster. forget scorpio male and go for cancer or virgo they’re cute trust me taurus ladies scorpios cant we just to damn good.lol good luck!!!

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mkh (@mkh) : March 29th, 2011

I’m 29 and a male scorpion and have a 25 year old Taurus female friend who I have known for about a year and a half and met in graduate school in 2009. Last summer I started to develop romantic feelings towards her and in the fall told her that I was interested in pursuing a relationship with her if she was on the same playing field as myself. She wasn’t, but after that we really didn’t change, we still talk and see each other and in a way already act as though we’re a couple to a certain degree, I DON’T GET THIS. She flirts with me and vice versa, but then when i say she’s flirting she just says it’s my interpretation and my perception and that its all wrong. Basically, according to her, I’m over analyzing everything and misinterpreting her comments, gestures etc.. Anyways, since last September I have asked her twice more if she would like to date, and she keeps saying no. But the weird thing is that she has never given me an answer as to why not and even now is much more closer with me and does not seem as though SHE wants to end it (friendship), she leaves it up to me all the time. She keeps saying things happen for a reason blah blah blah, and that she doesn’t want a relationship with me and that she wants to focus on herself for a while (she was engaged for 2 years and then after she broke up, I met her) but still acts as though there could be something between us. She also says that she doesn’t want to say yes, and then end up hurting my feelings if, for lack of a better word, the shit hits the fan. Last week I asked her again and still she said no but was still interested in a friendship. Anyways one thing led to another and I said that I need to think about whether or not I can stay friends with her knowing that I have very strong romantic feelings towards her and she doesn’t. She says she loves me or has feelings for me as a REALLY GOOD FRIEND, but acts as though there exists the possibility of something more. More importantly, mutual friends who we both know through school have even told me that they thought we were dating or about to date, that’s how close we are. I just want your opinions as to what you think or recommend I do. Should I try to be her friend and then be devastated if she starts dating another guy, or should I be her friend and give it another try in a couple months, or just walk away but this is going to be hard because in a nutshell she’s the girl of my dreams and I love everything about her… I’m willing to fight for her and wait but do you think its worth it…Open to your suggestions and feedback…remember she’s a taurus and I’m a scorpion.

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toomuch (@toomuch) : March 30th, 2011

she just got out of a relationship. she may be trying to protect herself. she needs to be sure you wont hurt her. taurus women are slow,steady and practical in affairs of heart. with them everything is a test.they have enough patience to test you, whether you will be with them thru their thick and thin.they fall in love slowly but when they do its for a lifetime,thats why they are cautious. if you love her then be there for here whenever she needs you and then she will fall in love with you for sure.

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mkh (@mkh) : March 30th, 2011

thanks for your feedback. So you think I should continue to be friends, and see what happens. But should I step it up and act as though were dating or keep it the same? But sometimes she says, that her mind doesn’t change or not to keep my hopes up about dating her. Is that natural for a taurus woman or does she really not want anything more? thanks again!

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Alana (@Alana) : March 31st, 2011

I am a Taurus woman. I dated a Scorpio on and off for two years. The first time I saw him I felt an overwhelming amount of passion overcome me. We had an instant connection and I felt he was my soul mate. The physical apspects of our relationship was fantastic. If you add up the negative parts of being with a Scorpio and the postive ones the negatives in my opinion outweigh the positives. A woman mentioned earlier that the sex is key in this Scorpio and Taurus relationship. Quite frankly thats really pathetic. Sex is amazing I agree 100% but it definantly isnt everything. Basically if you can withstand a Scorpios mans moodiness and weird silent treatments than great. Its either heaven or hell with a Scorpio and nothing in between. Taurus women and men are best with Virgos and Capricorns. I am now with a Virgo and we plan on getting married. Virgos are solid and reliable. So ladies the choice is yours but I would not recommend a Scorpio.

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Neha (@Neha) : April 2nd, 2011

hi. im a taurus woman n i have been with a scorpio man since 7yrs.we knw each other since school n now we are working(although still not married) so it’s like we have grown up with each other.we know each other very well.n he pampers me like hell.there is nothin in this world that i have asked for n he hasnot given me, b it materialistic things or luv.but one thing is sure that a scorpio man is very cold at times.if he is hurt he does not leaves me wounded too.so impulsive and determined dat if sum1 has hurt him by mistake or sumthing he doesnt likes then he wil take back his revenge no matter whoever it is(even if its me).this habit of his hurts a lot.scorpio’s r far too mysterious n revengefull.sumtyms it gets so difficult to handle such personality but at the end love is what matters and by god’s grace we have plenty of it.

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yup (@yup) : April 3rd, 2011

just started dating a scorpio. his emotions are so scary, but i’m enjoying the ride. hopefully the passion doesn’t explode in our face; that’s the only thing i’m scared of, i want this to last long.

@mkh: it’s possible it’s like this. say there’s a girl that sleeps with you before you guys are commited. what are the chances of you dating her. not very likely i’m assuming.
well now, instead of xes, you’re giving her all the things she needs, attention, affection, etc. so she doesn’t feel the need to commit to you.
taurus girls are sensual, however, we’re also fairly traditional. meaning sex to us (at least in the beg. stages) is ‘wrong’.
she feels that if she dates you she’s gonna have to sleep with you. But the way the situation is playing out she has everything she needs from you, without having to sleep with you.
i’d say it’s important that you guys build a friendship based on trust, and then after that you can see where things end up.

does that make sense. and also, obviously that’s just my interpretation as a female taurus, i don’t know how into astrology you are, but there is more than just sun signs.

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mkh (@mkh) : April 4th, 2011

@yup: I see your point and it makes sense. as far as the astrology im really not that much into it, but its something i started to pay attention to, thanks to her always saying things about me being a scorpio and that she shouldn’t argue with a scorpio lol. i want to be her friend if it leads to a relationship, but im afraid that it won’t lead to what i want down the road, and her always making a point that were just friends and don’t expect we’d start dating.

@toomuch: i’ve shown her that im there for her no matter what, and she knows that, but she doesn’t always open up to me unless i initiate or ask her to talk me about things that may be bothering her, so that’s an area i’m trying to work on with her now, and its a pain in the ass!

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marche (@marche) : April 6th, 2011

iam taurus women have been dating for 2.5 years with scorpio man…yes right the chemistry are fantastic…but it take extremely patience to deal and understand scorpio man…they just like a baby boy they need be cherish praise love all the time..plus the scorpio jealousy are overwhelming and beyond our imaginatination..if u think u cant better dont date scorpio man…it takes a lot of effort for make it work..

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marche (@marche) : April 6th, 2011

@toomuch …i agree with u..for to remember scorpio man are inconsistency and very manipulative..oposite with taurean whos consistent and honest genuine…so it make drain out taurean

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faith (@ladytaurean) : July 18th, 2011
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i am a taurus woman and i always attract to a scorpio man i always see so much that i want in them. i meet scorpio men so much that its like we just are naturally attracted to eachother. they seem so right and i always fall in love with them but i cant bring myself around to trust them. its so many times when they would lie to me with a straight face and as a taurus woman that pisses me off. i just cant get myself to trust them

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J (@scorpio1111) : September 2nd, 2011
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Thankfully I’m not the jealous type, or quite type. Maybe that’s why her and I just click, or maybe just because we just learn from eachother… Ying &Yang is really the best way to describe this special bond we both share.

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anna (@taurus girl) : September 6th, 2011
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i agree with faith..
they say scorpios are the most faithful, but i’m not buying it.
all the ones i know have cheated on their spouses and g/fs….it’s easy for them to become infactuated and hard for them to fight the temptation to act on it…they seem to feel they are entitled to that kind of freedom
there were several times where i thought to myself WOW that guys is SUCH a player..and later found out that they were scorpios
basically, they should NOT be trusted
they ARE irresistable, (you can’t say they aren’t), and yes they do know how to make you feel special and loved and all that…but EVERY time you get involved with a scorpio you are playing with fire (and you WILL get burned)

you’d have to be really stupid to get involved with a scorpio simply because the *attraction* is strong
DON’T TRUST THEM, they are master manipulators!!

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dora (@sonadora) : September 11th, 2011
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i am a taurus woman and i have been with a scorpio guy for a year now. our love is very passionate however whenever he had quarrels he became extremely cold. 10 days ago we had such a huge quarrel, at the end he said we were done…however i cannot believe the fact that we are done. he told me not even call him. now i wanna give him time to wound. how many days shall i give him to “recover”? the last phonecall we had was not friendly at all, where he stated that he does not wanna see me anymore. 2 weeks ago he said i was the love of his life and could not live without me. so, i would like to know how many days to give this guy to contact him again and any advice will be very welcomed. :)

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sarahrhs (@sarahrhs) : October 17th, 2011
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Taurus woman married to a Scorpio man. I have to say this article is pretty dead on. I dunno, maybe I just got lucky. My Scorpio is very secretive and sort of chameleon-like towards the rest of the world. In the beginning he hid some things from me (not any deal breakers or red flags) but eventually he came to trust me and let me into his inner world. We’re almost kind of like a dynamic duo. I think if a mature Taurus and Scorpio meet up it’s likely it will be one of those cosmic, serendipitous,destined explosions. Scorpio men are often misunderstood. I understand that there are some crazy people out there..but on the whole, every Scorpio man I have been with has treated me well, if he didn’t then I cut him loose quick. It’s about recognizing the weirdos. I’ve been with Taurus and Virgo. Boooooring. Same and same are never good. Capricorns are just brooding anyway. I personally can’t deal with Cancer and Pisces, they need to get a grip. :p

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sarahrhs (@sarahrhs) : October 17th, 2011
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@taurus girl That’s ridiculous. There are two types of Scorpios, the “dove” and the “eagle.” If you are stupid enough to marry/date the “eagle” Scorpio and not smart enough to be a strong Taurus female then,duh, that will happen. Not all men are the same. You’d have to be a fool not to investigate a man before you totally put all your eggs in one basket. Married to a Scorpio man and he’s just as happy being on lockdown (marriage) as I am. If you find a Scorp straying…you’ve probably already shown him that you are weak and have no self-respect. This goes for all astrology types and men. If you don’t respect yourself or have confidence or carry yourself like an equal..a many won’t think much of you either.

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Alisha Milanna (@alisha.m.blair@gmail.com) : November 25th, 2011
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I believe for any relationship to work out, especially w/ a scorpio male, there has to be a mutual agreement to maturely open your mouth and communicate. Whether it may be painful or not. I’m a Taurus woman and in my younger dating years, I had a tendency to be clingy which can drive ANY real man in sane because a REAL man has REAL work to be done and more than likely that does not involve their mates because the attraction will keep business on the back burner. Open your mind. If you know you have someone that truly loves you and will come home at night,don’t worry about his moods. The more you push him to be happy happy joy joy 24hrs a day, the more moodier he will get. Back up T-woman, find you something to keep you busy while he is within himself and always remember that he has to deal w/summa your-not so easy –stubborn ways. All relationships are give and take. Th hardest part is finding sum1 that sees eye to eye. I agree w/the person that said maturity(not age) is the key to havin success.

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(@) : December 1st, 2011
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Taurus woman Scorpio man – OK I need a bit of advice, met a guy across the room in a mutual hangout, he added me on fb and the first time we communicated we talked for 3 hours, and from that day on we had communication everyday. We went for a date and from about a week afterwards we saw each other every day. He’s naturally a loner, doesnt mix well likes to sit in and watch films etc he works nights and me days so he would come to mine after work in the morning at 6.30am til I went to work and I went to his after work until he left at 9.30pm and then we would spend all weekend with each other, never being out of each others sight. Everything had been great, we get on, amazingly – have the same tastes in music and film and humour, he even started adding my friends on FB and we started going out because he knew that’s what I liked to do and he even changed his shifts in work so he could fit in around me. We never argued, a slight disagreement once or twice but it was talked about and got over, until…..he left himself logged into fb and I looked at his messages, out of curiosity to see if he had mentioned me to anyone – (I was trying to boost my ego I think) I read something in there that I didn’t like and I ended up mentioning it to him and he cut me off!!! Told me I had violated him and that there was nothing to talk about and best to leave it as friends and that he could never trust me again, and that he had no emotional involvement so it was easy to move on – all this was done over chat by the way – not face to face!!! NO EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT – how can you spend all that time with someone and make those changes in your life to fit around someone else and have no emotional involvement – Seriously, you’d have thought I had held him at knife point and stole all his money and ran off with his best friend and favourite toy, the way he reacted!!! Anyway I beat myself up at the thought of what I had done and at how bad he had reacted. He didnt talk to me for a few days although I was stripping my self of all dignity trying to get his forgiveness!! Eventually he said he believed I was sorry but the trust thing was unforgivable. I, being a taurus sat back for a few days gathered myself and retaliated – put my side across told him how dare he make me feel so low and like the scum of the earth for something I did when he never even took into consideration why I did it in the first place (insecurity) and I never even brought up the fact of what I found in the message in the first place!! which was that he was arranging to meet someone else (which he didn’t because he spent the day with me!!) A week has passed and he has started offering conversation rather than just one word answers. I think the fact that I pulled him about it and stood my ground helped. I would like to get things back to the way they where and I know scorpio’s need space and time but how much time?!! How long do they hold onto something like that? I want to tell him I miss him (I miss him like you wouldn’t believe) and would like to get back together because before this there were no bad bits, but obviously I dont want to come across as weak as they dont like that. But still want him to know I’m interested – the same ole yoyo. Can someone shed some light on this for me please

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kacy24 (@kacy24) : December 1st, 2011
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Taurus woman Scorpio man – OK I need a bit of advice, met a guy across the room in a mutual hangout, he added me on fb and the first time we communicated we talked for 3 hours, and from that day on we had communication everyday. We went for a date and from about a week afterwards we saw each other every day. He’s naturally a loner, doesnt mix well likes to sit in and watch films etc he works nights and me days so he would come to mine after work in the morning at 6.30am til I went to work and I went to his after work until he left at 9.30pm and then we would spend all weekend with each other, never being out of each others sight. Everything had been great, we get on, amazingly – have the same tastes in music and film and humour, he even started adding my friends on FB and we started going out because he knew that’s what I liked to do and he even changed his shifts in work so he could fit in around me. We never argued, a slight disagreement once or twice but it was talked about and got over, until…..he left himself logged into fb and I looked at his messages, out of curiosity to see if he had mentioned me to anyone – (I was trying to boost my ego I think) I read something in there that I didn’t like and I ended up mentioning it to him and he cut me off!!! Told me I had violated him and that there was nothing to talk about and best to leave it as friends and that he could never trust me again, and that he had no emotional involvement so it was easy to move on – all this was done over chat by the way – not face to face!!! NO EMOTIONAL INVOLVEMENT – how can you spend all that time with someone and make those changes in your life to fit around someone else and have no emotional involvement – Seriously, you’d have thought I had held him at knife point and stole all his money and ran off with his best friend and favourite toy, the way he reacted!!! Anyway I beat myself up at the thought of what I had done and at how bad he had reacted. He didnt talk to me for a few days although I was stripping my self of all dignity trying to get his forgiveness!! Eventually he said he believed I was sorry but the trust thing was unforgivable. I, being a taurus sat back for a few days gathered myself and retaliated – put my side across told him how dare he make me feel so low and like the scum of the earth for something I did when he never even took into consideration why I did it in the first place (insecurity) and I never even brought up the fact of what I found in the message in the first place!! which was that he was arranging to meet someone else (which he didn’t because he spent the day with me!!) A week has passed and he has started offering conversation rather than just one word answers. I think the fact that I pulled him about it and stood my ground helped. I would like to get things back to the way they where and I know scorpio’s need space and time but how much time?!! How long do they hold onto something like that? I want to tell him I miss him (I miss him like you wouldn’t believe) and would like to get back together because before this there were no bad bits, but obviously I dont want to come across as weak as they dont like that. But still want him to know I’m interested – the same ole yoyo. Can someone shed some light on this for me please

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Keenecko (@keenecko) : March 21st, 2012
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Oh wow I love this page; it rings true to Scorpios. I’m a 26 year old Taurus and my guy is a 35 year old Scorpio. He is very much the Scorpio and I am most definitely a Taurus. We have this incredible chemistry. We have things in common, but not everything and even the differences between us make for an interesting dynamic. He is so provocative, intelligent, logical and oh so disarming with just his look; his gaze, his eyes. He’s very calm on the front, serious in nature, but tender deep down. We are opposites in nature; I’m more social, chatty, giddy, vociferous, in public, he’s easygoing, quiet, laidback, you can never tell what he’s thinking, but we mesh so well I just can’t understand it. We both have our faults. I am very hotblooded and he can be very cold, almost without realizing it. But he likes my passionate and nurturing nature and I like his romantic and deeply piercing love and even how he can knock me down a few pegs when I’m being ridiculous. He and I can talk for hours about everything. The sex is indeed unbelievable. His kisses alone leave me stunned. His calm nature motivates me to ease up and my emphatic attitude cheers him up and lets him know that he is loved so deeply. I have never in my life met a man like him before and I wouldn’t want a relationship that is different to this one. It is not perfect, our ugly sides can cause for intense battles, but the respect and admiration we have for each other (and of course the passionate chemistry) keeps us drawn to each other.

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M (@Bananafish) : May 20th, 2012
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Hello! I am a Taurus Female (sun sign) with Venus in Aires. I am divorcing my Virgo (sun sign) with Venus in Leo. We were together for 6 years, married for 4 years. At first, things were great. But, then financial problems and his insecurity took their toll. He had a psychotic break and couldn’t handle the pressure of a family or marriage anymore. His worst trait is his indifference. He says he is not able to love on the depth that I am capable of. He has been diagnosed with a mental illness and is pretty detached. Ok. That’s where it STARTS/ENDS.
Moving on to my Scorpio. I have been best friends with my Scorpio male for YEARS. His Venus and Sun are both in Scorpio. We were best friends my senior year of high school. I never felt so great as I was with him. He was always up for my crazy notions. He was totally enamored by me. He was obsessed with me. Everyone always said we were going to get married. That’s what scared me. I didn’t want to be tied down just yet. I was in high school for crying out loud. But, I gave him a lot of attention and ego stroking even though we were both kids. It was something no one else gave him. After graduating, we lost track of eachother. 9 years later, we found eachother on a social network site. He had told me that he had been through some serious depression and had trouble with drinking for a while and didn’t remember a lot. But, what he DID remember was how enamored he was with me and how amazing I was. I was married to my Virgo and obviously not looking for a relationship, so I just accepted the flattery and returned it and treated him like a very cherished friend. With the ok of my Virgo, we started hanging out and having lunch once a month. He’d come over and visit. He’d take me to concerts. My Virgo was always invited but almost always not interested. Years later, I found out that just before my Scorpio came into my life, my Virgo was feeling detached and looking for a way to leave. I feel like I only got through this period in my life because of my Scorpio.
When my Virgo refused to talk to me, my Scorpio would always listen to my tears and my problems, even if it was late at night. I’d never call him, but sometimes I would email him to see if he was up. He’d say he could always make time for me and he would call me. He was just such a great listener. He still is. When my Virgo left, my Scorpio swooped in and took me to lunch listening to my problems. It wasn’t one sided, either. When my Scorpio had problems, I would listen to him, give him advice, try to help him find someone to love him. He seemed to really need it. There was a person that I buried deep down who secretly wanted to be the one to love him. But, during my separation, my Scorpio was busy with a work project. He works 12 hours a day and does nothing else. Secretly, I know he wants something more but once upon a time, when he was lamenting about not being able to find a woman, he told me he realized he needed to get the work aspect in gear so that he could be in a better position to care for someone. He is in his early 30s and has only had a few girlfriends. He says they all ended painfully. When he talks about them, which isn’t often, almost never, he seems detached. In fact, he tells me that the one he really cared for “always reminded him of me.” I laughed because I told him that I would always look for people who always reminded me of him. He liked that.
However, since splitting up with my husband, I noticed a difference in my Scorpio. He seems more reserved in ways and less than others. I have only physically seen him twice since telling him that the Virgo and I have been done for six months and are proceeding in divorce. He still treats me like a deeply cherished friend, but there are differences.
#1: For the last 3 years, we have had lunch together about once a month. Only until my Virgo and I split up did he start this thing where he feeds me off his plate. Whatever he is eating, he asks if I want some and puts it on my plate and asks for some of mine to try. He does the same thing with drinking.
#2: He makes more dirty jokes and playful comments. When I was with the Virgo, I would tease HIM and he would act flustered and say “face palm!” to me. I would laugh at his discomfort. Now, he seems to not mind making these “comments.” For example, he was teasing me about wearing my high heels on the boardwalk at the beach. He told me he really liked them but assumed they were uncomfortable. I told him that they were perfectly fine and that they gave me great muscle tone. He said he thought that “we women” wore them so we couldn’t run from “them” (men). I told him I was fully capable of running in heels. He seemed to like that.
#3: He took me out for my birthday when everyone bailed on my party. He spent quite a bit on me and would NOT let me pay for anything. He stayed out with me ALL night until 3 in the morning. He had to drive 2 and a half hours to come see me. He did this in spite of having a deadline to finish on a big project due in two days that was only supposed to be due in 2 months. I told him how much I appreciated him doing that for me. He also wished me a happy mother’s day the next day and two days later wished me a happy birthday. However, when we went out (my other friend, a Cancer, was also there), he told her he might be moving 8 hours away in a couple of weeks for a different job he might want. When she asked him what I was going to do, he said I would just have to come up there and visit him. I texted him a couple days later and told him I totally understood how busy he was, but that I wanted to see him before he left so I told him to let me know if he could make time for me. He said his plans were “not for sure yet” and that he was pretty busy for the next couple of weeks and would let me know. He texted me the next day, on my birthday, to wish me a happy birthday. I thanked him.
So, here is the confusing part. When he wasn’t working so much and we were just friends, we had all these inside jokes and things we would email eachother. It’s not like he ignores me now. If I initiate it, like with a text or email (which isn’t often), he will reply within an hour via text or a day or so via email. He seems busy and distracted. I understand that. I know he has nothing else going on right now except for work. When we do hang out, it’s great. We sit on the couch and watch funny videos. We laugh at silly things we have in common. But, there is no connection between the times in between unless I iniate it. It seems like it’s dead air. And, when I do initiate contact, it seems like it’s a polite response. Not that it isn’t genuine, it just lacks the old gusto of he used to have.
Am I just obsessing and worrying over nothing? Is it just because I am seeing HIM in a different light and it’s making me feel vulnerable? My friend says that he probably has no idea I am interested in him romantically because I don’t “swoon” all over him. I pay attention to him and stroke his ego, but I don’t cling or obsess on him. She is a Cancer. She is clingy, so I don’t pay attention to much of what she says. But she thinks if he doesn’t know I am open to him, that he won’t let his thoughts go there. When I was married, he would start to talk about things he wished he had done with me when he was younger and too scared, but that there was “no point in going there” and that things are as they are for a reason. So, it might be a good point. Also, could he just be busy and when he isn’t he might be more inclined to pursue me? I just worry that I may have missed my opportunity with him before I had the chance. Although, he definitely cherishes me and respects me, I want to know, can he fall head over heels for me again now that we finally have a chance? Or is he only ever going to love me if I am unattainable? My heart is yearning for the passionate, obsessive, all consumed person that he was. Is that person gone or just busy right now?

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Catherine (@Chococat) : August 2nd, 2012
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When I was captured by my 1st Scorpio, I ended a relationship someone who manipulated me. Scorpio guy was there to comfort me and he intutively knew when things weren’t right in my relationship..plus he wanted to sex me. He was married man, a marriage of convenience that help a woman stay in the US. There is alot to that relationship that I can’t convey here..(a whole book) I don’t validate my actions of being with a married man. I actually felt guilty about the whole thing but it turned out..She was no saint either. So in a way to feel good about myself I was with this Scorpio..but I quickly became bored due to his work schedule and commitment. Just as I was ready to leave him..he purposely got me pregnant. Hence I trusted him like I always have in the many months we were together. We didn’t have a good sex life. He wasn’t good. Good size member though. I decided to have his baby based on my previous issues with my former relationship..for some reason it didn’t feel entirely wrong to have the child. We later had a second one. We made do with everything ..he lived and worked out of town but he kept everything Kosher..despite his wife. We traveled like family and he supported me..at first he did try to deny to the state , that the kids wheren’t his..of course to hide the fact that wifey hadn’t known. 
We basically got along great, despite my growing feelings of resentment towards him..He wasn’t a man, he was an idiot when it came to standing up for himself. He never wanted to be angered as I guess he knew it would get out of hand. We went through some trying times but for the most part I felt he wanted to control me. I however became a woman (he is 12 yrs older than me). The one thing I can say about him is..he did have a way of knowiing when another guy was talking to me. I have Venus is Aries …so I can be pretty aloof to the thoughts of men.  If he was made at me..he told me ..”I had hoped you got into a car accident” ..I had to admit to him..”My Volvo got smashed last night by a drunk driver, thanks alot!”  After 11yrs ..I no longer had sex with him..hoping he would go away..but NOOO ..we had sex one more time and I knew exactly why I never wanted to have sex with him again. I vowed No more Scorpios..as he disappointed me constantly over  the years..took care of his immediate family more than us for the most part. He would be possessive when I was with female friends ..always saying we are talking about him and he don’t like this one and the other..yet hadn’t met any of them yet. He was clean..sexy and funny and I actually felt his love for me..as he did things or assisted me with various things but at times he just urked me. Of course saying he wanted me to marry him ..I never loved him that way. So he never tried to get a divorce..he is still married to this woman ..as they share an investment property and she needs his money for the mortgage. After reading a few good descriptions about Scorpio..mine would have the characterists I’m speaking of now. We are still friends ? but at times he will get mad and say something nasty as I have “thrown him away , like garbage
I’ll be back for my comment on my 2nd Scorpio ..my age though. And I plan to do a comparison and contrast..I hope.
 

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jef (@jef) : August 21st, 2012
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wow Keenecko u hit the nail on the head..i’m scorpio..clingy people not recommended..i’m starting to finally figure out this love stuff..definitely helps when ur with someone thats compatible.i’ve dated other signs to know.Jealousy runs deep 4 scorpios i think..they can shut you off quick..

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mounisha (@bhavya19) : September 15th, 2012
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@mkh
hi i think the girl is into astrology. i think she read so many things about scorpio in many sites. and i have read some as well. most of sites says that they are not good match. I think she is scared that it woudn’t work out if you guys get together. these horoscopes stuff is stopping her in my opinion. she seems to be trusting horoscopes rather than interpreting your love. taureans can be narrow minded somtimes and gets influenced easily, and are stubborn. (sometimes like me haha). so she should look at many more sings..like venus, moon, blah blah or go to proffesionals. she should realise that main thing matters is the love. tell her there is more to life than a two paragraphs describes it to be. and there is more to a person and soul, than some writting describes it to be. everything is about experience, evironment, and influences. i hope your love works and not just be broken because of internet haha. this is all my opinion and i don’t know much about horoscopes.

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Nneka Watson (@Neeks85) : October 24th, 2012
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@mkh, as a taurus woman myseelf , im sure deep down if she wasnt interested she would have definately made sure you knew that. respect that face she is still recovering from the broken engagement and that in itself will take time. you seemingly have the perfect foundation (friendship) to evolve into a relationship but you will need to be paitent as to keep insiting on bare your heart to her may turn her off completely. know that she is aware of your feelings and when the time is right she may respond in the way you want, but ask yourself are your feelings for her strong enough to risk the close friendship that you guys have? i hope that you find resloution soon, but even if you dont become lovers, being a friend is more of a permanent staple in her life that a ex-lover , think about it?

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Barbara (@barbalina80) : December 17th, 2012
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I am a Taurus female, very interested in a Scorpio guy and in my case, he’s 8 years and a half my junior. (anyway physically he looks older and in my case I look younger) It’s been kind of confusing. He is a total mystery to me. He doesn’t have a facebook, he doesn’t talk about his family, his friends, he’s moody but anyway I feel totally lured towards him. he emanates something magnetic. Sometimes he is flirty and nice to me and the next day he doesn’t even say hello, puff I don’t know how to deal with this guy!!!!!!

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Danielle (@Hope92) : December 28th, 2012
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I’ve been married for 4 years to a Scorpio. We got together when I was 16 and he was 19 I was uneasy with him at first he made me feel uneasy. But for me that was a big thing I had lost my mother a year before meeting him and I had become very cold and apathic but that spring day I met him, he was very forthcoming held my hand the first day very interactive which made my head spin because I’m not the type to like being touched unless it’s someone I care about he made me feel again. He was very active always on the go. It really scared the hell out of me to be feeling again. But I liked it, I was always jumping in his truck and heading out to new places with him. Well only two weeks after dating he told me he loved me I hung up on him I wasn’t having it. He wanted to move in together then get married he was very pushy about it all. And being dumb I got married to him at 16. Shortly after getting married He started pushing the baby talk how he wanted me to give him a son. (Just for the record I was raised to please your husband and give him what he ask for) So 6 months later I became pregnant with a little boy. We had some really rough times with living sitations when I was pregnant but after a lot of pushing and talking he finally got a okay job for the moment. When we moved into our first home we had together alone he became very contorling not allowing me to talk to some of my closest family and friends. He wanted me to mainly only close with his family and detach from mine. But I wasn’t having it, that caused many fights between us. Finally I had our son and things got a lot worse after that it was hell just walking out the fornt door. He started doing wrongful things to me but I stayed. Finally the time came when I decided to get my school work done and get my drivers linces he didn’t want me too. I had become his prisoner. After 4 years of being together he left me for a 38 year old woman (he is only 23.) It hurt but I felt a slight weight lifted from me. I got my GED and DL right after I moved out and this year I am getting my CNA and hopefully a nice little apartment outside of town. TAURUS WOMAN STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM SCORPIO MAN!!!!! I don’t know if they are all like that but I can put $100 that I wont ever be in a relationship with one again. They are great dads but horrible husbands he will hurt you and contorl you. If you’re in a relationship with one now get out of it. He’s maybe what you want but he is deff not what you need. I also found that he had cheated on me the whole 4 years with different woman I can say from exp. with one just stay away from them.

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Cheryl (@csmile2) : December 31st, 2012
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I am a Taurus lady and met a Scorpio male about 2 months ago. It started off as eye contact and wow. We were on an island for a mutual affair. It was so much fun. But unfortunately once back to the states it all went down hill. He was too aloof and mysterious. I didn’t have that kind of time.

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hotcoco123 (@laco123) : January 16th, 2013
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awawaawaR

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asil nosbig (@lizajanejade) : April 10th, 2013
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im a taurus women and ive been with my scorpio man for 13 years now married 6 of it.We went to high school together and he told me he addored me so much,but thought i was too cool for him.He played football and i hung out with totally different people.So he was scared to ask me out.We got together once before our 13yrs and it lasted a couple of months.We worked together putting swimming pools in for people.I needed to make money to pay my rent.The guy {leo} i moved in with me had to go to jail for driving on suspended driver liscences.I only knew this leo fellow for about 6 weeks and he moved in with me, yuk.So while he was in jail me and scorpio started working together and hanging out.I was falling in love with him and i know he was me.I had to tell him we can know longer hang out cuz leo was getting out on shock probation.My scorpio male cried.I tried so hard to get my leo dude leave me,i would stay out all night and nothing worked.Well i dont no about u but i didnt like the leo male.Always wanting to b the leader and not like how i wanted to b leaded.So when we spilt i ran into my scorpio man its been on every since.I love my scorpio man and would b lost without him.He can b so secertive and thats the only thing i have trouble with.Im open to him like water coming out of a faucet,lol,but its like fireworks when we make love.His ways in bed are so smooth,like his kiss is so soft wonder lover.I can b so stubborn that it makes my scorpio b just as hard at times.Just show him love and he will melt into your hand.Always trying to protect me i love him so much for that.He’s my bestfriend,lover,husband,and my hero.I never want to lose my scorpio man.

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Jason (@JasonScorpio) : May 15th, 2013
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I’m a scorpio guy and in 2008 met a taurus girl. We hit it off instantly, it was like we’d known each other for ages. We became best friends, spending a lot of time together and I knew we were falling for each other. The problem was that I was with someone at the time. So, I had to tell taurus girl no. She didn’t take it well, and we sort of lost contact.
We met up again in 2012, both single, and started talking again. Turns out we had both been thinking of each other a lot during those 4 years, sort of still being in love but from a distance. Well I wasn’t going to let her get away again. We’ve been together a little over a year now and care very deeply for each other.
The thing is, the fights are intense, and unfortunately I think she gets the worst of it most of the time. If you’re a scorpio guy with a taurus girl trust me, I recently learned this; drop your pride sometimes, be patient, instead of retaliating when she seems to be freaking out (we have this instinct to meet perceived attacks with superior force) try just comforting her instead. Let her win once in a while. It’s no big loss and she’s more important than you making your point right?
 
 
 

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MiaBoo (@MiaBoo) : July 9th, 2013
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ummmmmmm ima find my scorpio i think that its amazing how well we get along 

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JP (@ame87) : January 21st, 2014
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Met a scorpio boy back in 2008, all we did was having coffee and talk. We talked for 4~5 hours every time we meet. Our conversations were about Intellectual and philosophical staffs, nothing flirty. He was nice to talk but i did not get a good vibe from him as man. (Slightly moody and weak/lay..)
 
Anyway he left the country and we kept contacting each other every few months. 3years later, i accidently met his friends in the cafe and they told me that he liked me alot and still miss me. i am like “what? No way loll” He had many girlfriends and it was hard to believe it because i did not do anything apart from bit of coffee talk.
 
Back to 2013, i travelled and met him overseas. He wanted to take me to a bar but i do not drink, so we spent the whole night in the coffee shop like how we used to few years ago. We have not changed much. Just a little bit less cautious towards each other. We started to contact more, like once a week, but still i cannot think that he is into me.
 
Scorpio man is hard to know, intense and complicated, but i guess it is not fair to push them just beacuse you cannot figure them out. People need their time to decide what they want to do sometimes.. i do not know what he thinks but i do my thing, he does his thing and sometimes we share our lives when we have time. i would like to have long term friendship with him and i think that is good enough for taurus and scorpio. Relationship can make things more complicated instead of security and stability when you are not ready.. good luck everyone

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Florentyna (@Florentyna) : March 20th, 2014
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Ok, I know this quiet famous guy in my college, he’s like the eye candy of every girl in college flirts with all of them that’s what his reputation has been(even the 50’s professors aren’t spared by his charm)……but i have had a every different experience. I noticed him observing me for quiet sometime but he never really made the first move nor did we speak (though we both enjoy enough popularity in our respect)…..Finally i got restless with those eyes staring at me and noticing my moves and just started with a friendly chat a hi n hello here and there…To my surprise he never has flirted with me even once i have been waiting he would hit on me but no and he secretly confessed to my best friend whom he’s taken on a few dates that he’s scared of me….I did try being funny around him to just make him feel comfortable…..but he has never never never initiated any conversation whatsoever…but whenver we are in a circle of friends he would make fun of my guy(whom i had been dating) in a way to prove he’s better……and off late he made fun of me and when i told him this ain’t the way he should speak to me he has stopped replying being extremely cold and so did i post that incident (WE ARE AT LOGGERHEADS but he hasn’t left my thoughts for a minute)……I fail to understand this treatment….different cold but his eyes……what do i take from all this….especially now that we are done with our graduation…he’s so not my types but there’s this strange similarity that pulls me towards him
 
PLZ HELP ME DEAL WITH HIM…How do i make things normal between us?

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Neal (@scorpioguy447) : July 7th, 2014
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@Florentyna.

I myself am a scorpio man. I know we get moody sometimes and we say things we really don’t mean. Try and give him a few weeks a month is too much. Try to let him know you are still interested and that you will share an effort to make it work. But set some ground rules. They tend to help!

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Tiffany (@Tiffy0518) : August 8th, 2014
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I’ve been with my Scorpio for over 14yrs now and it hasn’t been an easy road that’s for sure.  He is always testing my to see if I will stray but I don’t and I’m always honest with him but yet he is so closed off an reserved it drives me nuts.  But when we’re good we’re great!  But I’d like to know why the hell he tests me all the time it’s like I need to test him cause I don’t know why he does it I’ve always been by his side.  Also he and I don’t seem to want the same things ex:  I want more sex, more kids and even marriage and he doesn’t seem to want the same things.  We’ve been together since 20yrs of age he’s 6 months older than me now we’re 33yrs old it’s hard to know if I should move on or not cause I want different then him and I’m tired of his insecurities.  I don’t know people but the longer you stay with a Scorpio the more you feel like you’re going insane and yes everything was great in the beginning but it’s been constant arguing and him not seeing how I really feel.    

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Shawn VanSickel (@chaskaguy1) : September 29th, 2014
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@taurus girl
I’m a Scorpio male. I am dedicated beyond belief, once I’m in love. If I love someone nothing can make me stray, ever! The only thing that has ever changed that was the other person cheating on me. For me, that is a death knell and there is no going back, ever! It’s true if you do that to me, you may wish you never met me, but not because of what I would do, only because of what I may say.
I am dating a Taurus woman right now. She’s strong willed, which is the key for me. She’s not over the top though, and bends, I do as well. She played hard to get, but I am persistent. Actually, I laid it on the line after a few weeks. If she remains loyal, I will defend her until the end of days. I have never cheated on anyone in 48 years. I have a Cancer moon.

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Shawn VanSickel (@chaskaguy1) : September 29th, 2014
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@Tiffy0518
Weird, a Scorpio that doesn’t want sex. I love sex and always have, even at 48. I actually prefer performing oral over anything else. He may have something from his past inhibiting him.

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