Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

The relationship of Virgo and Aquarius can be a little more challenging than others, but compassion and understanding can most certainly make it work. Misunderstanding each other’s unique and different love natures is most likely to create troubles because Virgo wants security and Aquarius wants freedom.

An Aquarius man has a very good take on life. He is a social butterfly with his many friends and acquaintances always around him. This man can see the past, be in the present, while seeing the future all at once. Aquarius man is well rounded and intelligent and also makes for a great humanitarian. He is often detached from the rest of the world but still he enjoys long-term relationships and is quite old fashioned.

A Virgo woman is calm and cool on surface, existing on the sidelines as more of an observer at first. In all aspects of life, she needs structure and efficiency. This is because she is extremely analytical, and uses her powerful observational skills to help her gain a precise and realistic view of the world around her. In a relationship, she is a sincere mate unless she finds her man to be unreliable. At the same time she also finds public displays of affection as insolent and tacky. She is flexible in nature and truly loyal and willing to give unselfishly to the man she loves.

It takes a great deal of patience on the behalf of Virgo woman for her relationship with Aquarius man to work. The Virgo woman enjoys being a wife and a mother — she takes great care of her family when they are ill or in need. He might find himself taking advantage of her good helpful nature since when in love with a man her devotion is unmatchable. She does not believe anyone owes her anything, which makes her very self sufficient and that gives Aquarius man a more careless view towards family and life. The downside to a Virgo woman is that she can be very critical of others including her man, knowing her way is the right way. Just behavior can make him detached and cold towards her leading to many new problems in their relationship.

Aquarius man is talented enough to be able to ball all of the things into one and achieve great results that sound very impressive to the Virgo woman. He shows her many new colors of life and gives her wings to fly and discover the dimensions never seen or heard. He becomes fascinated with many things and takes on many projects which cause him to neglect her from time to time. He does not do this purposely; it is that he has a curious mind by nature that needs to constantly be engaged. What brought these two together in the beginning slowly fades if he does not allows her to become involved in his interests. If he does not involve her, she becomes suspicious and begins to lose trust in him. Once she begins to not trust her Aquarius man, she starts to smother him not giving him the independence and freedom he needs to survive.

Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination, in case of Aquarius man and Virgo woman, furnishing is done by her and imagination is his part of the job. The Aquarius man and the Virgo woman have a beautiful union when they actually get involved with the purest and deepest feelings to share with each other. She always possesses the practical nature the relationship needs for stability and he continues to have the daydreams that keeps things light and enchanting. He melts the ice of his Virgo woman and makes her tremble with anticipation in the relationship and she promises him the hope for the future. Every bit of earth and every blow of breeze are full of new excitements and involvements for them to be happily enjoyed in each other’s arms.

The sexuality between the Aquarius man and the Virgo woman is the best attribute of their relationship. In fact it is the strongest bond that keeps them intact. He has many different attitudes toward sexual pleasure. One, if not many, will do the trick for his Virgo woman, stirring her sensuality and making her more expressive during love making. On the other hand, she is also able to arouse him to have more desire by nature than other woman. He makes her feel wanted, desired and physically needed, what more can a woman ask for. In their sexual intimacy there is a sort of antipathy, or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other, and both together make up one whole. Also the Aquarius man makes her feel as though without her sexual pleasure he cannot go on living. This is altogether a quite passionate paring with both the partners feeling unexpectedly satisfied in each other’s arms fulfilling their partner’s desires and making their love making a well worthy experience.

One thing that Aquarius man and Virgo Woman have in common is that they are both dreamers by nature. They are both indeed very intellectual beings, but that does not stop them from dreaming. Besides the magnetic sexual connection and dreams they share, there is not much else going on between them. There may be initial attraction but apart from that, there are hardly any positive attributes that may contribute to the relationship’s stability. In fact with time Virgo woman may also find her Aquarius man less considerate about her. And after a while, once they are off with their pleasant talks and all the common traits start diminishing, the negative traits start showing and making the relation worse. In this relationship, the partners have to accept each other as they are, rather than trying to change each other or else it can end in a bad and unworthy relationship.

  1. Ruby May 20th, 2017

    I also agree. I am a Virgo woman with an Aquarius man. They are selfish lovers. Have no imagination in bed. They are selfish in every day life also. They only love themselves. My boyfriend doesn’t perform, doesn’t provide and doesn’t protect. He is not what I consider a man. He is a selfish child.

    • Jelissa May 23rd, 2017

      💯💯💯💯 very much so agree .. except the non protective part

    • Joey Jefferson June 11th, 2017

      Wait a minute…That is wrong…or at least in my case it’s wrong!
      I am a strong provider, protector!
      I am not selfish in the bedroom! Maybe not the most creative but I’m a giver when it comes to the sexual part of our relationship…She gets hers first!
      Is this different with me because my sign is so close to being Capricorn?

  2. Reniekia Groves April 7th, 2017

    Well all of you guys seem to really suprise me on your comments but Im confused. I met a Aquarius man about 3 months ago and we hit it off. We would see one another and tect and call then all of a sudden he shut down on me. I need help I really dont get it but I would love to know how to spark his interest in me again????????????

    • MsKima81 April 13th, 2017

      Aquarius Men run when they find themselves getting to close. They run from love in fear of getting hurt. When they start to care or they feel their emotions getting stronger, they will run. They don’t wanna get hurt like they have hurt others in the past. They can’t take the karma. They also like their freedom and don’t liked to be boxes into a relationship until they are 100% comfortable with you. They like having the pleasures that come along with being with you but they don’t want the responsibility of what comes along with a deeper connection in a relationship.

  3. Heart Broken April 6th, 2017

    I am a Virgo woman married to an Aquarius man. That article is on the money. My husband is vey selfish and the things that I do for him out of the kindness of my heart he expects them but not appreciate them, He does not do anything nice for me, like him being with me is a prize within its own entity. I am highly disappointed that I wasted my time love, loyalty and devotion on a man that couldn’t care less if I’m happy or sad. As long as he gets what he wants everything is fine. Needless to say, I deserve to be loved, happy and treated with respect so I will soon be divorced from this nightmare. And hopefully find someone that treats me just as good as I treat him! VIRGO WOMAN, RUN FROM AN AQUARIUS MAN!!!

    • Barb April 20th, 2017

      I agree 200% I wasted 6 years and took such emotional abuse from this Aquarius Man. I am never getting that time or energy back . What I can do is close that door ..NAIL IT SHUT and go live my life. Good luck to you and life does get better without them !

    • MasterIncubus April 22nd, 2017

      I’m a Aqurius man and I’ve been married too my beloved Virgo wife for 10 yrs. now. I’m a lil taken back by the accuracy of this article. Very insightful and informative for those that are entering this match relationship. I personaly can’t agree more on the notion on the amount of energy and time that is needed from both who union with this signs. I’ll not argue that as an Aqurius male that we are very geared towards obtaining outcomes or things that we want or expect from our love interest. But it’s a two way street. Communication is parramount for these two! I can understand your possition of opinion here, and express my condolences for the heartbreak between you and your husband. We after all have faced similar issues ourselves within our relationship and have over come them by instituting better ways to communicate our thoughts and feelings with each other.
      So I would ask if you’ve done the same? As well as have you been honest about your feelings reguarding this and communicated them in a formate other then just bitching about his coldness or his need for freedom of space with a rellentless intent? To the contrary of your sumation. I will say that we as Aqurius men do care a great deal about our loves well being and over all happiness in our relationships once we commit. And if he has dedicated himself too you? He dose care a great deal for you and is concerned greatly over all those aspects of your well being. Dispite how you only see his demeanor as other wise. If your not reaching a level of fufillment from him in areas of the “Romantic”? It’s no surprise. Our idea of romance is telling you how we would like keep your scantily clad bodys chained to our beds! But to right off all Aquarian Men as cold distance assholes that are only considerate to their own needs is a misdirected missle of poor personal experiences rolled into discontentment of your failing marriage. My advice is approach this thru a calm rational conversation and let out the hurt feelings and talk too each other like adults! The benifits for both are worth the effort In this!

    • AM April 27th, 2017

      Same as my case . Hes Aquarius and Im Virgo. Emotionally drained out. He tore my heart apart few weeks back. Went quite and after almost a month send me sweet msg tell me he s been missing. Go fuck yourself off. I know in my heart i love him so much. But Im totally done being treated like a fool.

  4. xxx March 16th, 2017

    I’m a male, Aquarius, and she’s a Virgo.

    I’ve realized that this women is very self sufficient, know’s how to take care of herself and doesn’t go after me for my money (as I haven’t told her how much I make but I do like the finer things in life.) She opened up to me on our first date about deep things and I liked that. She’s very strong, as a person and carries a lot of weight on her shoulders. I carry a lot of weight too, from my family, but I can see that in her. She’s very detailed and pays attention. I hope we make it far and to the end, because it doesn’t take me long to realize a real potential relationship from a side fling for me. She’s the real deal and I want to show her that she, off the bat, encountered someone who really cares about her and wants her. Time tells everything, but being a Aquarius, I gotta say I love the fact that Virgo’s are independent and self sufficient, as I am pursuing my dreams in building a legacy. I see myself and a future with her. time will tell

  5. Virgal March 8th, 2017

    My relationship with this Aqua has been so pure and organic… We are so different that it brings us together and we make the conscious effort everyday to be with one another.. We are both loyal, and he is the sweetest man. He showers me with flowers, surprises, so much love and affection, and he has brought me close to his family. They all love me as well as I do him and them. When he talks about his future he includes me in it. We have been together for 5 months but have known each other for 2 years (we dated a couple of months back then too). We have a few things in common like love for the outdoors and nature, we have similar perspectives but where we are different we grow and learn. He is the most loving man I have met, even more so than my emotional Cancer ex. LOVE THIS MAN!

  6. TZHE March 7th, 2017

    I’m a Virgo, he’s an Aquarius….we just started a few weeks ago…..I’m looking forward to my future with him. But seeing all these negative comments about Virgo women and Aquarius man, I feel disappointed……I’m scared that we will end this relationship in the end……

    • aqua March 31st, 2017

      I’m an aqua and trust me he wont end this till you’ll accept his ways of living his life…😊
      And read those positive comments…. And yes I’m in relationship with Virgo and I never think of leaving her but accepting her as she is…😊

    • AB April 2nd, 2017

      Yes I totally agree with you…I’ve known an Aquarius man off and on for 2.5 years now and its been nothing short of a miracle that i even talk to him…i mean i have love for him but im not in love with him…he was real sweet for the first month and then a monster comes out..he lies..its sad i tried whole hearted but he destroyed any hope of security with he don’t really listen to me or pay attention ..i just learned soooo many things i already knew reading this compatibility blog..and i seen you thought id reply..i do wish you the best of luck..

  7. Paula March 4th, 2017

    I am virgo and him aquarius…he has his freedom and so do i….but he has lied and cheated more then once , and that is the reason i dont trust him anymore…i became bitter with time and he became distant and cold. I tried and tried to be at peace with it and be cool with him but it just wont work…our relationship is going down and i won’t do anything more about it…i dont give a shit about it.

    • Ashley Smith March 12th, 2017

      Omg this is the exact thing that happened with me and my aquarius man. Its like I seen my story on this comment.

    • AB April 2nd, 2017

      Same with an Aquarius guy i dated…gound the compatibility reading to be dead on a lot of points. ..sane as you…lying stealing aggressive…pouts if he don’t get his way…looses temper easy…heck im sorry..good luck you deserve it

  8. Kaisha March 1st, 2017

    I am a virgo n he was aquarious. We had good relationship for many years. People used to tell us they wish they had a relationship like ours…. But at the end relationship broke into bad n unworthy. Sometimes atrology matches.

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    daquarian March 18th, 2016

    Thanks for writing your reply.
    To others: As is mentioned, @Waterbearer has summarized it well. Run away from Virgo. The pain that you have to go through is just not worth it.
    The problem with this combination is that the Aquarian takes attraction towards a Virgo as a positive sign, and lets it override all warnings that it displays. You realize it only after you’ve burnt your fingers.

    • Star January 28th, 2017

      I been with my Virgo wife for 15 years and the love grows stronger everyday.. She keeps me balance.. People always tell us they wish they had a relationship like ours…. Only the soul really knows follow ur heart… Don’t let astrology tell you who you should be with

      • TZHE March 7th, 2017

        Awww, finally a positive comment……I’ll take u as my Role Model! I’m looking forward to my future with my Aquarius man!

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    aquaman22334 January 26th, 2014

    I usually take these articles with a grain of salt but I got to say this is all true. My girlfriend is a virgo and I’m an aquarius. We’ve been dating for two years and I’ve never been happier. In the beginning of our relationship we took it upon ourselves to see and accept our differences in personality, for example I’m very messy and disorganized while she’s very neat and organized. This could have been a hurdle but we instead took it as an opportunity to learn from each other. She taught me proper methods of cleaning, picking up and keeping myself organized while she learned from me to not sweat the small stuff all the time. We accept our diffrences and bring it to the table if it becomes a problem instead of not saying anything. The key to our relationship is communication and it works well. She likes to think micro while I think macro. That sort of combination balaces itself out. She helps me focus on the here and now while I help her think about the future. Our sex life is active and beautiful, it’s indeed another strong point in our relationship. She aims to please and I aim to open her imagination while in the bedroom (but we keep it between us). We don’t indulge in things that could fracture our relationship like group sex. We are too in love with each other to try that. Another thing, she allows me to have my space when needed and something I appreciate. She admits she wants me around all the time but she also knows I need a few hours to decompress and be alone with my thoughts. In case you’re wondering we do live together and I have a study where I go to be alone when I need to. It’s not that I don’t love her and don’t want to see her, I just need to time to contemplate or work on something to keep my mind fresh. 
    We make each other very happy and even though many say we aren’t a compatible sign, love conqures all. The saying “opposites attract” is quite true. 

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    flyinggoatfish November 27th, 2013

    @Waterbearer Tom, thank you for the response! I find that I like reading the comments and seeing how astrology can play a part in real experiences and even sometimes how it doesn’t (sometimes happily, as in Shannon’s case). I think I know what you’re referring to, is it “Decans”? It is much easier to try to understand only yourself through astrology. People tend to avoid laying all of their cards on the table, if that makes sense, so they can be quite difficult to read. If you ever do want to look into the rest of your own chart, I’d suggest drawing one up at (it’s free and extensive and I love it; I don’t work for them, but maybe I should at this rate).
    The Sun sign isn’t always the best indicator for how we interact with others. I think that our personalities are such an amalgam of all of the planets in our charts and our environments that we really would need to look at everything to get a clearer picture of who we are and how we connect with those around us. Personally, I know that there are a couple Capricorn traits at the base of my personality, namely my ambitions to do something worthwhile and to achieve a clearer sense of self. But there is so much more that doesn’t make sense when I read about my Sun sign, that does when I read about, say, my Ascendant, or my Venus sign, or planetary aspects, etc.
    I appreciate the advice, but actually I’m not looking into a relationship with an Aquarius right now. I do have some wonderful Aquarian friends, but they are just that. Also, I doubt Jane or Alisha are interested in me in that way. I do love to travel, but as with your Capricorn, it can be difficult at first to get away from family, not to mention the many responsibilities I seem to collect without my noticing. More to your point (though I think I’ve lost my own by now), I agree that it would be a mistake for anyone to avoid a relationship with someone who could potentially be an amazing friend if not true love, simply because their birthday (as well as the birthdays of who knows how many thousands of people) happens to fall into a certain month. However, that doesn’t mean it isn’t interesting to read about retrospectively.

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    Waterbearer November 27th, 2013

    @flyinggoatfish Hi Bee! No, I don’t mind you asking at all! I should firstly state that what I posted were just my experiences. I like reading all the comments on here and have found many very useful and 90% of the time true. But, as Shannon has written above, it’s clear some signs can work even though they’re supposedly “incompatable” (very happy for you Shannon! :D).I did not look into any other signs – such as Sun Charts. I did look into something but I have forgotten the correct terminology, basically all stars signs are broken into thirds. I’m at the latter end of the Aquarians star sign, so my Birthday fell into the last third. I can find out what this is exactly called if you like, but I found it more useful for understanding myself rather than using it to apply to a partner. I do get along with nearly everyone I meet, I don’t think that’s down to ones star sign though, if you’re not a nice person, we’re not gonna get along no matter what your sign and I think that applies to most people.So to go further in what you’re thinking – are you looking for a relationship with an Aquarius man? My Capricorn Relationship was great, it was one of deep friendship (that we still share). It definately had a different vibe/feel – whatever you want to call it. But I found her very relyable and strong. We had dissagreements but not arguements and as stubborn as Aquarians are supposed to be, I had no problem holding my hand up when I was wrong (or more like acknowlodging how I handled things wrong – to be exact ;)).For your information, I broke it off because I was travelling a lot and she had no ambition to do so, she was a very homebound person who was very involved with her family and friends and couldn’t bare to be without them for more than a few days, which isn’t a bad trait, it was just a bit of a miss-match for me.I’d say to you if you are looking at an aquarian man to just give it a go. I’d happily give you pointers but remember, he might be totally different from me. Most people don’t understand the aloofness/moodiness, I think this is misinterperated. I’d tell anyone to give a shot at love a go, what do you have to lose? As long as you keep a level head about this and are honest – who knows? This site is great and as I’ve got older I’ve gone for what’s recommended for me. I’ve had some good relationships but it just seems less work and more natural when I stick to what’s recommended.I hope this has helped and I’ve answered your question(s)? Anything you want to talk about just give me a shout!P.S. And actually, I think I was far too harsh reading back on my Libra experience, she was a lovely girl but had a tendensy to rub me the wrong way. I’d happily go out with another Libra – like I say, notihng to lose and always something to learn, it’s all life experience!

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    flyinggoatfish November 26th, 2013

    @Waterbearer If you don’t mind my asking, do you happen to know any other planets’ signs in your astrology chart? Or theirs perhaps? You don’t have to tell me, just curious to know if there are any other compatibile planets there. I know that Aquarians are supposed to potentially get along with anyone, but going by only sun signs it’s surprising that you could have such a good experience with a Capricorn as opposed to a Libra. Side-by-side signs are usually considered incompatible, and signs in the same element very compatible.
    Saying that, as a Capricorn, I have many Aquarius and Sagittarius friends. I assumed that was due to my Sagittarius Venus/Aries Mars, but now I can’t help but wonder if there is more to side-by-side signs than I realized.
    (if you’re wondering why a cap is reading about Virgo/Aquarius compatibility, stop – it’s complicated)

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    Heartagrameyes October 6th, 2013

    Lol, virgo woman here who knows and aqua guy.  We actually have a lot of deep things in common and he’s utterly fun to be around!  We make each other laugh and talk to each other all the time.  As a matter of fact, I couldn’t be happier that I have this aqua guy in my life.  We go beyond sex and actually look into each, actually bother to know each other.  This Virgo woman here and the aqua guy I know have much more in common than what this is leading you to believe.  Haha, this aqua is what this virgo wants in her life :).  

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    Waterbearer September 17th, 2013

    Thought I’d comment on this since nobody has yet. Wish I could deliver some good news for those currently involved as these signs but from my experience of having being in 2 relationships with Virgos (each lasted 2 years) I would recommend any aqua guy or virgo girl to run…..just run as far away as possible from each other and never look back. It’s a horrible relationship to have, it just doesn’t work. Both Virgos were unfaithful – not saying all are, but from my experience they are not loyal. There is a very high attraction sexually and the dreams and aspirations of the Virgo woman are very alluring. But thats it – and you soon learn their dreams will always just be that where as aquarius’ achieve theirs quickly which infuriates Virgos and makes them jealous since they don’t even have a chance to help sometimes. Any common ground you share disappears quickly and it just becomes a daily battle.
    If you’re an aquarius guy reading this (ive had relationships with the following and recommend:) Geminis – they are brilliant, even if it doesn’t work out you’ll have a friend for life. Capricorns are surprisingly good too, you’ll get your space and they have a calming influence but expect to be more grounded and involved with their family – so good if you’re not so keen on traveling and want to settle down. Libras will think the world of you, but I found them a little too ‘princess’ like – snobbish at times, but I am not into fine dining and fancy materialistic possessions – will be good if you are, Sexually very dull at times. Sagittarius are also great, bit harsh sometimes but i liked it as I can handle honesty and the sex (if that’s important to you) is fun, crazy and very satisfying, completely opposite to Libra In the bedroom. Leo’s are also supposed to be a good match but I disagree, they get things done and are exciting but far too self obsessed which was a turn off. Hope this helps and hope to see some successful comments about aquarius and virgos.

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