Aquarius and Pisces make a strange combination with some flickering and some smooth moments. An Aquarius can learn a lot from Pisces in this association and the Pisces always feels very compassionate and concerned towards Aquarius. The relationship works fine till the time the Aquarius displays cold and detached attitude, which can hurt Pisces very much.
A Pisces man is calm, thoughtful, quite gentle and compassionate person, most of the time. He can tolerate a lot and let most of the bad pass him by. Making a Pisces male angry is like witnessing a very different and stern side of him, but this rarely happens. He may be confused when it comes to a quick decision, but he is more than willing to give his all to someone he loves whether it be his lover or a family member. Being soft and compassionate, he usually proves to be a great partner to women from most of the zodiac signs.
An Aquarius woman is an admirable human being with so many interesting colors in her personality that can amuse anyone. She is not at all materialistic in any way. In fact, a simple romantic gesture gets her every time. She is not so easily surprised either. Though, she herself is the one who usually does the surprising, especially with her whimsical and crazy thoughts that float through her head. Even though she craves her freedom to continue to be her individualistic self, once she falls in love, she is forever of her lover.
Aquarius woman commits herself to the man she loves as soon as he has proven to be her very best friend. And the Pisces man is able enough to show her that he is not in the relationship just for her heart and body but for her intellectual mind as well. In an Aquarius woman, he sees his own strengths in self sacrificing himself for her without a hesitation. Most of the time, she prefers her Pisces man to show his friendship before his love. She initially spills her all to her new Pisces man lover in hopes that he actually listens to what she has to say. She supports him and makes sure to be on his side in all walks of life. Neither of them likes to make promises as they hate to break them when given. The only difference here is that Aquarius woman will be open about not wanting to give a promise.
Pisces man is quite taken by Aquarius woman. Her odd behavior does not faze him and he knows how to tolerate such antics. She has a need, a craving for her independence and adventure. She keeps this in her life to keep herself up in the clouds where she is happiest. That is until Pisces male comes along. Something about his attitude and attention toward her brings her out of the clouds and back down to earth. Her need for independence eases, and together that touch of ‘crazy’ that they play with together sends her into a love that she holds onto forever with faith and loyalty. She attentively listens to all of the advices that has to be given by the Pisces man, though she ends up doing things her way anyway. The good thing about it is that he always supports whatever she decides to do with a gentle smile and strong cooperation.
The sweetness in the relationship of Aquarius woman and Pisces man is even sweeter than honey. They know each other, understand the needs of each other and support the other whenever required. The humbleness of the Pisces man teaches her to feel safe around him both about her individuality as well as her emotions. Likewise, he also feels utmost comfort in sharing his dreams with her, who patiently listens to him and give all of hers to help in make them come true. None of them has ego problems and they both are ready to submit to each other both emotionally and physically with such a romance that is even envied by the angels of heaven.
Sex between Aquarius woman and Pisces man is not so much an experience as it is an experiment. With such a mental bond between the two, they reach new levels in their lovemaking, much more so than the ordinary couple in love. Their bodies can go through the motions and sex can be great, but they won’t feel completely bonded until their minds completely come together. They squirm and moan, entirely at each other’s mercy. With time and deepening of their understanding and emotions, there comes harmony and a wonderful smooth flow to their relationship. The satisfaction they feel in their love making comes from their deep bonding both emotionally and physically where they actually feel each other’s presence. Aquarius woman loves life and carries this into her sexual bond with her Pisces man, and he realizes that long treasured dream he has only been able to dream until his Aquarius woman helps him find it. If anyone is able to find the true romance in a bond, it is the unison of these two. It’s even better than the real thing, cause it’s just so intense, every single nerve just screams for more.
There are some arguments and differences between Pisces man and Aquarius woman. She may find him too dreamy at sometimes and feel that he is losing opportunities while he finds his Aquarius woman very aloof and cold at times, giving no response to his love and romantic gestures. This can create problems in their relationship. He has the fear of losing his own regard for himself and what he needs and she is afraid of losing her individuality. But quarreling is sometimes a funny thing when it occurs between two people who love each other, especially when it is Aquarius woman and Pisces man. They quarrel back and forth when in fact all they are really thinking is how much each one wants the other one. The little things can easily be overlooked and the bond between them can keep on growing stronger!
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I have known him for two months, but it feels like it’s been years, i have never been loved like this before, he is so consistence, caring and loving, first time i meet him i saw my husband, i saw a friend for ever
They always come back. Which is funny because they are so slippery and always run away from other signs but they always come back to aquarius, both male and female pisces, I think because we are more elusive than them.
How do I let a pisces down gently? They are pursuing me pretty hard and I am just not interested anymore. At most we vaguely let our interests known to each other a long time ago and have been in and out of each other’s lives. We recently reconnected and I don’t think they want to let me go. I don’t want to hurt their feelings but I also feel like they just aren’t giving up.
I am an Aquarian. DOB 02/04/1966.
After a year of my late husband’s passing. I met a Picean.
Yes, I did come across to him as a cold person which I am not.
The reason why I did that a couple of times because I found myself liking him a lot.
And I behaved the way I did to turn him off.
After I said what I said. I regretted it very much.
I also didn’t realize at the time that I was still very much in the fog after having suffered the loss of my husband of sixteen years.
But now I am feeling more relaxed and the heavy fog is lifting and I am able to think a bit clearly.
But I have this feeling that I have lost my chance of being able to see him again.
I am super independent and in some ways I am relieved that I still don’t have a boyfriend.
You are exactly right, Oracle!As life would have it, she and I planned before we were born, that she would divorce me after our kids were grown – I know this because she visited me after she passed away just 9 weeks ago. I was mourning her passing, meditating on her, her life, when she came to me in spirit – actually, it was my face allowed to enter heaven in an astral projection, which she told me is the result of my spiritual growth during our divorce, and that it was her sacrifice in divorcing me so that I would be reformed, confirmed to the Buddha I actually am, and I believe she has also benefitted equally and has perhaps foregone living a number of additional lives here in earth as the reward for the amazing sacrifices she made while she was alive.
I know this is true because we were so madly in love, so close, but after our kids were born, she became cold as ice and left me. The pain I suffered, and how angry she became, were so out of place, yet so right. This forced me to question everything, to read the New Testament (NKJV) four times within a couple months. That was life changing for me. I also read THE TEACHINGS OF THE BUDDHA, ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, AS A MAN THINKETH (James Allen), MANY LIVES, MANY MASTERS. These books showed me the truth, answered all my questions and fully convey and support The Truth as it is.
My love, my bride and ex-wife was thrilled to see, finally, what became of me. We hadn’t been close for twenty years, but her visit melted away all the ice cold years of pain from being apart.
She was being celebrated, congratulated and welcomed into the outer gates of heaven, where she was being administered to, shown the results of her life as she watched her children and made up with me. She displayed all the personality traits that make her so unique and she whispered something I said to her – a magic word, so to speak – a phrase that was quirky, charmingvand whimsical, just as I had whispered to her for a reason I couldn’t exolsin until now: she wanted to show me that her visit was surely not my imagination. I had long forgotten it untl she said it to me. She also put her precious hand in mine.
I can honestly tell you she and I love each other more than ever, that we are soul mates. I never stopped loving her, even as she married again.
I didn’t mind too much that she did, saying that if another man loves her, then he is doing for me what I have not been able to do (after I had gotten over my jealousy and anger. I really wanted her to be happy. Her visit was quite unexpected but most welcomed.
She hadn’t been very spiritual, didn’t seem to be “saved,” but I can tell you now that I will never judge anyone, nor will I sa tha the only hell that exists is the hell that we need in order to show us our faults. We are all going I be together when we have all learned somehow to love on another and not make ourselves greater than anyone else – because we are not greater than any other. We all have an inheritance awaiting, a eternal total ingeritence we cannot lose nor deny. Once we are prepared as a result of our lives lived and the mighty angels who work diligently to prepare us, which is o accept that God is pure, real love infinite, then we are accepted into he fullness of his presence. Gods love is unconditional, this is true, but having fellowship in atonement does have its requirements of us: to abandon fear in favor of faith. He will not le you fail at this. He is patient, he is kind. His grace and mercy are sufficient. Act now accordingly. Amen.
I have problem in my love life. Me and my hubby are in fights frequently. I don’t know when we will be free from all fights and problems.
Hi PiscesBloke,
Sorry this is going to be a long reply and thank you for being so blunt in your reply to me. It isn’t easy to expose your vulnerability to strangers and I appreciate your sincerity. I am still a little confused whether or not you are an Aries Rising. I can definitely sense an intense fire or Scorpionic energy from you. Your previous relationships or past experiences definitely shaped your opinions and thoughts.Your Libra Moon and Aries Rising would probably be a better match for an Aquarius with lots of air in her chart.I wonder if you have a Scorpio Venus because I haven’t known many Pisces men who openly admit to being possessive of their partner.
I am a Cancer Moon which means, moon is at home in Cancer. It is one of the most dominant aspects in my natal chart.It makes me an ultimate romantic, feminine, sensitive and nurturing. I feel and love like a Cancer and I’m also a Scorpio Rising so I want “all or nothing” kind of romance. I dated an Aries Moon in the past when I was 20. Let’s just say that Aries and Cancer energy aren’t a good match.Aries energy doesn’t care for delicate emotions which is my opposite. Though, I’m also an Aries Mars(a paradoxical combo with my Moon in Cancer),which is a placement that is quick to anger, so I deal with my intensity by working out hard and keeping myself busy.I think two Aries energies shouldn’t clash.A grounded Capricorn,Virgo,Taurus or an emotionally deep Scorpio or Pisces rising,moon,mars and venus would be more compatible with me.
The reason I asked about ‘forgiveness’ wasn’t because I have plans of cheating on my future Pisces partner but simply because I’m a self-aware Aquarian and I know that Aquarians can be blunt in their speech which may unintentionally hurt a sensitive Pisces.We are massive overthinkers and constantly plan about the future and sometimes become oblivious to our surroundings.An Aquarius may not be as expressive and eloquent as a Pisces.A Pisces may think we don’t care but that’s far from the truth. I wondered if a Pisces is willing to forgive, bring us back to reality and help us express that’s all.
As a Cancer Moon, I am “mother of the zodiac”, lol. It means I am far more nurturing than a Cancer Sun Sign female.My maternal instincts are very strong so I wouldn’t prefer a male who doesn’t want to create a family because a Cancer Moon is all about “the home life”. But I respect your wishes and your personal choice.Commitment talks are necessary for me because a Cancer heart wants the clarity, reassurance and emotional security. I don’t like guessing games and vagueness in relationship where I don’t know where I stand,so I would definitely discuss it with my man as my Aries Venus can’t stand the uncertainty in my relationships.My Aries Venus is probably the reason why I am so straightforward with my needs and desires even though I have a shy and feminine moon sign.
As for seduction part, I am ultra feminine when I want to please or crave the attention of my man. It stems from the strong desire for him.It’s definitely not a tool for deception as I am not the cheating type.I am a very loyal woman who has eyes only for her man. I desire to wear something sexy for my man, flirt with him, touch him,smile at him and make eye contact. It’s all for fun.And also, I like dressing up feminine and classy. I do wear subtle make up to match whatever I am wearing but 90% of the times I like to stay natural.I don’t wear drag queen or Kardashian inspired make up because it doesn’t suit my personality.I like painted toes and wearing nice shoes. I like to make myself look pretty. It’s just for myself, I dress modestly and I am not an attention seeker. I am not shallow but I do feel that looking presentable in professional settings and on romantic dates is important.
I admit to having a strong sexual appetite as I am an Aries Mars. But I don’t consider myself a nymphomaniac because if I were one, even the thought of leaving my Scorpio ex wouldn’t have crossed my mind.I wouldn’t have spent two years trying to get over that relationship, and would have engaged in meaningless sex with any man that showed little interest.I can’t separate sex and emotions, the sexual desire is fuelled by overwhelming love for my man. When I am not in love, I stay celibate and when I am in love, I can go for an all nighter marathon. I actually saw a comment on another website where a Pisces man was asking if Aquarius women want sex as much as Pisces men which only made me chuckle. I just want the perfect amount, not too much that he feels drained out and not too less where I feel starved for affection and unsatisfied. High sex drive doesn’t equate to a woman who is loose or likes to sleep around.I work hard, I like playing harder(with partner).
I also don’t consider myself to be pretentious. I like to be polite,kind and caring but my kindness is definitely not my weakness. I can love hard but I can also be extremely harsh and cold if I am being mistreated.I don’t think Aquarians are usually pretentious and fake. Pisces wants a partner who can make them feel grounded, secure and nurture them and this Aquarius is ready to do all that and more.
I know that most serial killers are of the Pisces zodiac sign but trust me, Aquarians aren’t shocked or disturbed by that fact. I don’t want to delve into the debate about whether “psychopaths are inborn or made” but I do feel that being the most sensitive,kind and emotional sign,I can see why Pisces would feel the resentments,vindictiveness,betrayal and pain on a much deeper level than others. I can also see how easily they can lose the sense of reality and get caught in the web of their own sufferings and the desire to inflict pain on others.I hope that whatever it is that pains you gets healed. No matter how much the society wronged you, you are not defined by others.You are your own person and I hope you learn to let go of the resentments and anger because others aren’t responsible for your happiness, you own your life and yourself.It’s never too late to start from the clean slate, be kind to yourself and be open to receiving love. I am sending you hugs and lots of positive energy.
Hello Russell, First of all Happy New Year! And second of all, thank you so much for replying to my questions about Pisces men with such honesty.I am seeing 3 common replies to the question about commitment and it makes me happy to know that Pisces men aren’t afraid to commit to the woman they like as I am also someone who likes the clarity on where I stand with my man in the relationship.
I love your replies to no.3,6,7,9,10,12,14,16 and 19.I love the fact that you consider sex as a sacred intimacy. I have read numerous articles saying how Pisces men value romance more than lust. Some Aquarius women with dominant air signs in their birthchart aren’t as vocal as I am about their feelings and sometimes they struggle with romance and expressing love so they choose to express it physically, Aquarius aims to please their partner to the fullest and is completely selfless in the bedroom.Aquarius females like myself also isn’t afraid to stay celibate for however long it takes until we find our love and soulmate. We can write love songs and dedicate poetry to you as well as stand by your side as your rock and help you achieve your dreams.We just desire a harmonious and drama-free love life, and a man who doesn’t desire to dominate us but treat us as equal and be our strongest support system.Someone who can read my heart,my body language and is comfortable with me even in silence.Someone with whom I wouldn’t always need words to communicate.
Some of the most endearing qualities of Pisces men are that they are even tempered,flexible, adaptable,aren’t greedy and materialistic, isn’t threatened or intimidated by a strong independent woman and support their women. They are sensitive,affectionate,committed,romantic and willing to sacrifice for loved ones.They are also least shocked or surprised by Aquarian quirkiness which makes them a perfect partner for an Aquarius female.It also helps that some Pisces men are extremely intelligent,creative and gifted artists.Some of my favorite poets and music artists are Pisces.I find Pisces men extremely charming and could listen to their thoughts and ideas all day long. You won’t need to hide your feelings,hopes,dreams and desires from an Aquarius Sun with Cancer,Scorpio or Pisces in her Moon and Venus sign as she would understand it, fulfill it and embrace it and would never make a Pisces man feel guilty or ashamed of his emotional,romantic and sensitive side.
I do want to make clarification regarding ‘period sex’ topic and sorry if I am being too descriptive here. It’s not a kink or fantasy but actually a strong emotional need.I am in anyway not suggesting to paint each other with blood but I have my reasons to specifically ask for this.I will explain this so that men can benefit from this information and may find it useful in future even if they aren’t with an Aquarius woman(squeamish people please don’t read ahead).Some women may not desire it at all due to period cramps and bloating but other women like myself experience high increase in libido during PMS and period which is caused by hormonal changes.This desire is all time high compared to other times of the month because ovulation starts 14 days after the first day of period as the female body is getting ready to become pregnant.I feel most feminine, most vulnerable, most aroused and most emotional and in need of my partner during PMS and period.It’s one of the most intimate experiences one can have with the partner.Obviously there are less messy ways to do it like wearing protection, putting a dark towel on the bed or doing it in the shower. Period sex helps in reducing the cramps and period days.Some women also experience intense orgasm during period sex.I would obviously never force a man for it if he is squeamish as I respect his wishes but for a long term relationship,I would definitely prefer a Pisces man who isn’t squeamish,lol.I can’t put sex on hold for a week with the man I love especially when I need him in my most vulnerable and emotional state.When I am single,I live a hermit’s lifestyle so when I have the man I love, I wouldn’t hold back the intensity.
One of the biggest challenges of this combination is communication, as Aquarius and Pisces both tend to be shy,reserved and slow to trust.They are both afraid of rejection and hurt.Once Aquarius commits though, they want 100% transparency and honesty from their partner and being a psychic much like Pisces, we know when our partner is holding back from us and it may hurt us tremendously and make us resentful. Aquarius and Pisces should put all their needs,desires and expectations on the table instead of being passive aggressive and complaining about each other.
My suggestion to Pisces men interested in Aquarius women would be to be honest and open with her or she would feel you aren’t serious about her. A loving Aquarius heart turning cold slowly is a sad thing to witness. Aquarius understands a Pisces’ need to have “me time” with yourself as we do the same sometimes(and we will design and build you your mancave) but if you bring that detachment and aloofness outside the mancave into the relationship then it would hurt the Aquarius woman a lot. Including her by sharing your dreams and thoughts would make her feel you value her opinion and trust her in your vulnerability.Aquarius appreciates honesty no matter how brutal it is so never worry about offending her even if it means telling her that you don’t love her.Aquarius believes in ‘hurt me with the truth but don’t comfort me with the lies’.Only an evolved and mature Pisces man can walk alongside a mature and evolved Aquarius woman. People who only play games in relationship would never become the power couple.
Pisces is the 12th sign of the zodiac who has inherited traits from all the other 11 zodiac signs, that’s why they may come off as moody and complicated.Sometimes they don’t even understand themselves and an Aquarius is willing to explore and be part of your evolution,self-discovery and spiritual journey but you have to sometimes reach out instead of shutting down or swimming away.Aquarius women with heavy air sign placements in their birthchart and less understanding of a water sign’s emotional depth should stay away from Pisces men because you will only hurt him.They are sensitive and you can easily bruise them with your bluntness, always be mindful of the words you choose.I hope universe sends me an evolved Pisces man of my dreams because I am so sick and tired of constantly compromising and being let down by men of other zodiac signs.Thank you to all the men who replied to me.Good luck to all the Pisces men and Aquarius women!
Hello DK, Thank you so much for your input and honesty. I really appreciate it a lot.I personally liked your replies to no.5,9,12,15 and 19.These seems to be common traits of Pisces men which is very attractive to me.
I want to clarify something for future responses, my intention behind asking if Pisces men are good at saving and investments is simply because I also believe in equal partnership and participation.I have a corporate job as well as co-own a restaurant with my best friend. So, I’m not financially dependent on anyone but I would like my man to contribute equally and pull his own weight.I like the word ‘teamwork’ you used and that’s what a relationship is all about. Aquarius women aren’t materialistic either but I desire to create a big happy family and that requires money, it’s just a mean to create comfort and provide security to children.I value love, loyalty, bonding, devotion and commitment above everything else as well. Aquarius ALWAYS falls in love with the mind first, then comes personality/soul and looks comes last. Aquarius will always value a kind person above a super rich person.
I maybe different from other Aquarius females because I am not afraid of commitment, being emotional,intense,vulnerable,open and honest with my man.It’s because I have Moon in Cancer(7th house), Pluto in Scorpio, Scorpio in 12th house, and Scorpio Rising.I have a more water sign energy.I think that’s the reason I feel strongly that my soulmate is a Pisces man. There is a psychic and telepathic connection with Pisces men which is hard to explain in words.
I am an intense Aquarius who wants to merge emotionally,physically and spiritually with my man and become one with him. I give my all when I am deeply in love.I don’t do casual sex.And that’s the reason why love making experience is extremely intense with the man I love,as I am not afraid of his sweat,tears and other fluids.Aquarius women are very kinky as well.We know the art of seduction and can be very persuasive so we can convince our men to try things in bedroom he thought he could never enjoy,lol. I can be super romantic as well.
I wear my heart on my sleeve, I am honest and open with my feelings and expect the same from my man. I hope I find my Pisces man soon. I am sorry you had bad experiences with women and I hope you find the one who loves you unconditionally.
1. Chase to a point but prefers being chased.
2. Not easily forgiving but may give more chances than others.
3. Not manipulative but dreamy with an urge to make them reality. Value a mutual connection and not just sex for the sake of sex.
4. Open comms and mind, integrity, someone who tries to understand and/or who matches the energy and effort shown/given to them.
5. If there’s a mutual vibe, she’s down then me too.
6. Not usually. Depends on the mood but if gauged right no problem.
7. Both. Maybe prefer the woman to say it first. In my exp it’s the women scared of commiting or ghosting without an explanation.
8. Not hot or cold, just tire of the woman not being open, hiding or not being honest about her feels.
9. Yes but I like to cook also and love doing things like this together.
10. Prefer adventurous type
11. Mostly a no as there is much we value over money. For me teamwork is essential. Not good by myself but as a unit yes let’s achieve.
12. Yes as values family
13. Patience and high tollerance. Tales a lot but yes once at tipping point avoid pushing further until calms down
14. Yes but also read when space is necessary
15. NOPE
16. Is ok
17. Yes but can’t say a massive fan of bloodsport … but we’re kinky
18. Coldness and not being honest/open. Be straight so we can set our minds on how to deal with stuff
19. No. Personally I like to empower women and encourage them to still be themselves but appreciates balance in realationships
20. Dreamy more than secretive, does tend to keep cards close to chest, not easily open to just anyone. Mostly won’t talk about/reveal things until it’s happend or there are extremely high certancies… often just fine in own thoughts/company at times.
***** Pisces Men please read and reply*****
Ok, So I’m an Aquarius Sun/Cancer Moon woman and I read all the replies here. Some are really sweet and some are just funny and bizarre. I am here because I have been single for past two years after my breakup with a Scorpio man and since last few months, I have been in touch with an Aquarius woman-Pisces man couple who have been together for 5 years. Their chemistry seems so effortless. They were best friends who married last year.
It reminded me of my short lived love affair with a Pisces Sun/Taurus Moon man 8 years back. Our connection, chemistry and attraction was amazing. Though he needed his “alone time” sometimes. We had confessed our love for each other but we couldn’t get together because of an unavoidable situation. Anyways, as much as I have experienced and read about Pisces men, I am still clueless about some things and would like to know more as they seem to suit what I am searching for in my man. I do need some doubts cleared though and I would be grateful if a Pisces man could reply to me( I am more inclined towards a Pisces with water or earth moon but others are also welcome to reply). Aquarius women please don’t reply on behalf of Pisces men,thanks! So, here are some things I am curious about a Pisces man :
1. Do Pisces men like to be chased or do the chasing?
2. Do Pisces men forgive easily or they believe in ” forgive but don’t forget”?
3. Are Pisces men manipulative and could they fake interest just to get sex?
4. What do Pisces men look for in the ideal woman?
5. How long it takes for a Pisces man to commit in a relationship?
6. Do Pisces men avoid commitment talks in relationship?
7. Do Pisces men like being told “I love you” first or are they old school about it?
8. Do Pisces men play “hot and cold” if they are disinterested or just because they are playing hard to get?
9. Do Pisces men like when their gfs/wives make hot home cooked meals for them?
10. Are Pisces men ok with a partner that’s a homebody or they like an adventure loving gf/wife?
11. Are Pisces men good at saving money and financial investments?
12. Are Pisces men good fathers? Do they get excited about fatherhood and are they involved in their kid’s life?
13. Do Pisces men have bad tempers?
14. Do Pisces men love an affectionate woman who loves to hug,kiss and cuddle a lot or is it too much?
15. Are Pisces men turned off by a female who has a high sex drive?
16. Do Pisces men like to be seduced or they think it’s manipulative?
17. Are Pisces men ok with experiments in the bedroom and period sex?
18. What hurts the Pisces man the most in a relationship?
19. Are Pisces men controlling and possessive?
20. Are Pisces men secretive?
1) be chased
2) Forgive easily within minutes
3) No but we use our imaginations a lot and sometimes we may fi d that more interesting, its nothing to worry about as its usually ipassing.
4) loyalty, down to earth, open minded and non judgmental, intriguing and confident.
5) minutes
6) depends on our mood but for the most part no.
7) either or
8) minds often wonder so we just become distracted but always come back down to earth.
9) yes please.
10) homebody
11) absolutly not only because we truly don’t care about money.
12) my father was a piecies and he was an amazing father.
13) it takes a lot but when it comes out its best to leave.
14) its never enough keep em coming.
15) hell no
16) it cool with me.
17) yes yes and yes
18) lack of attention, praise and ego rubs
19) they could be but bow in maturity absolutely not.
20) yes but with personal things. We don’t like anyone knowing everything and enjoy our privacy plus being alone with our thoughts.
Thank you so much Aleks! I really appreciate you taking out time to reply to my questions. You have just intensified my desire for a Pisces man with your honest replies. I am hoping to meet an intelligent,grounded, adaptable, romantic,loyal,committed and compassionate Pisces man(preferably an earth or water moon) in future.
Right On
Obviously can’t speak for all pieces Males, but as a Pisces sun /capricorn moon? I’ll answer from my own perspective.
1. I’d say about 70/30 in favor of being chased. The affirmation of being chased is a positive.
2. Depends on how major it is. If it really affected me? I’m not inclined to forget as easily.
3. No. Sex is sacred intimacy, can’t fake for it.
4. Somebody who is understanding, caring, and has an independence.
5. Assuming the relationship just easily sparks? Not long at all. A month at the very longest.
6. Nope. I like to know where we stand sooner than later. Commitment is never an issue.
7. I personally like it. We’re always guessing where we stand in someone’s life. Hearing “Love” is great affirmation.
8. Not hot or cold. But can definitely be disinterested early on if things aren’t reciprocated.
9. Yes. I love having my significant other cook for me. But I also love to cook for them, and even enjoy cooking together.
10. I’d say 60% in favor of a homebody. It’s nice adventuring once in a while.
11. Good-decent. Our dreaming mentality can be detrimental.Think team work can definitely go a long way.
12. Yes. Family, and our inner circle is everything.
13. High tolerance. But not afraid to voice frustrations after enough provoking. Never physical temper though.
14. Yes! Give me all the physical touch.
15. I’d be hypocritical if I said I was against it. We’re a intimate sign for a reason.
16. Love it. Make me melt like butter.
17. Down to experiment, and down to explore a kinky side. Not a fan of the blood stuff.
18. Coldness, betrayal, or dishonesty. We’re understanding, there’s no need to be secretive if we’re in a serious relationship.
19. No. I’m a big cheerleader of my partner in whatever Avenue they take.
20. We definitely dwindle in our own dreamland as opposed to being secretive. As DK perfectly stated, we keep our cards close to our chest. This is often why it’s easier to have short escapes for alone time to think, and recharge. Somebody who i trust, and can be understanding goes a long way.
Hi Rose. I’m a 3rd Decan Pisces sun/Aries moon. I’m obviously not speaking on behalf of all Pisces. I’ll be blunt, and some of the answers may stem from my own personal deep-seated issues and psychological problems, because at the end of the day people do have varying upbringings and disorders.
1. Maybe a bit of both but definitely leaning more towards the former.
2. That’s highly dependent on what exactly it is. If it’s something trivial then logic dictates that forgiveness should be an easy enough thing to do. When we start entering the realm of cheating then I’m afraid it’s “fuck off and die”. I personally hate cheating on any level and when in a relationship only dedicate myself to that person and hold them to the same standard. Forgiveness at that level is not something I do, and once I’m done I’m done forever and can be colder than an Antarctic winter.
3. Some are, some aren’t (which could be said for just about anyone). Personally sex is about intimacy and if the intimacy isn’t there, then it’s not worth it. So why bother. No casual sex thanks. You wanna get your rocks off, have a wank.
4. No fucking around, in short. But more seriously: Loyalty, honesty, communication (this can’t be stressed enough) and various other traits that aren’t morally skewed. On a personal level no makeup, narcissism or pretentiousness.
5. That’s highly dependent on the situation. If it’s going well then immediately. On a personal front, I’m not one for committing first which is probably a product of insecurity caused by the fear of rejection.
6. No. I just find them awkward personally. If I’m putting in the effort then the commitment is already there. No need to harp on about it.
7. First. But that could also possibly be because of what was stated in point #5.
8. No. Fuck games. They’re a waste of time. It’s either “yes” or “no”. Logical and straight forward. I don’t see any reason to bugger about.
9. Yes, but I also like to cook for someone and cooking together is fun.
10. A bit of both, depending on the mood. I’m one for spontaneity which could mean randomly driving out 200km/124 miles just to go check out the mountains.
11. Absolutely terrible. When the money is in the account there’s very little thought given to budget. It’s best to store excess money in a locked up investment. It has nothing to do with materialism and more to do with the lack of it. And probably impulsivity.
12. Maybe. This one I don’t know. But I’d prefer not to be one at all for personal and logical reasons.
13. This one might be a product of my upbringing, but: Extremely. And violent when pushed. I’ve never raised my hand to a woman but plenty inanimate objects have beared (bore?) the brunt of my temper. Doors getting kicked in, things getting smashed up. Once again, most likely a deep-seated issue.
14. Yes and sometimes no. More often yes than no. But don’t be offended if it’s the latter, it’s more than likely burnout and the necessity to be alone inside their own heads.
15. In my experience, most definitely not. But there are also limits. If we’re talking complete and utter nymphomania then I think just about anyone functional would be taken aback.
16. That depends how it’s done. Context is everything. Suspicion might arise if you’ve been caught in a lie and the act follows not to long after. Don’t use sex as a weapon because it might backfire.
17. Yes on both accounts. At least for me personally. It’s not a fetish, but I’m sure as hell not squeamish. You can have a shower afterwards to wash off.
18. Lying and cheating. By that stage it’s done. The trust is gone and the relationship is dead.
19. Any man can be. That’s also down to insecurity. Personally, a little jealous (could possibly fall into the greater definition of possessive), but controlling, no.
20. That’s an issue that’s dependent on trust and past experience. After having me being open and it used against me later on, you can forget about opening up. At least not easily. Trust is a long hard road and once people before have destroyed that, it’s hard to trust people in any capacity. So yes. Safe guarding emotions not because there’s some sordid past not wanting to be unearthed (not always the case. Most serial killers fall under Pisces).
I have a lot of rage and anger towards society, so I’m also not the final word on the matter. But hopefully there’s a bit of clarity there.
Hi Rose. My apologies if this double posted. The previous one had typos and inaccuracies. I’m a 3rd Decan Pisces sun/Libra moon ascendant in Aries. I’m obviously not speaking on behalf of all Pisces. I’ll be blunt, and some of the answers may stem from my own personal deep-seated issues and psychological problems, because at the end of the day people do have varying upbringings and disorders.
1. Maybe a bit of both but definitely leaning more towards the former.
2. That’s highly dependent on what exactly it is. If it’s something trivial then logic dictates that forgiveness should be an easy enough thing to do. When we start entering the realm of cheating then I’m afraid it’s “fuck off and die”. I personally hate cheating on any level and when in a relationship only dedicate myself to that person and hold them to the same standard. Forgiveness at that level is not something I do, and once I’m done I’m done forever and can be colder than an Antarctic winter.
3. Some are, some aren’t (which could be said for just about anyone). Personally sex is about intimacy and if the intimacy isn’t there, then it’s not worth it. So why bother. No casual sex thanks. You wanna get your rocks off, have a wank.
4. No fucking around, in short. But more seriously: Loyalty, honesty, communication (this can’t be stressed enough) and various other traits that aren’t morally skewed. On a personal level no makeup, narcissism or pretentiousness.
5. That’s highly dependent on the situation. If it’s going well then immediately. On a personal front, I’m not one for committing first which is probably a product of insecurity caused by the fear of rejection.
6. No. I just find them awkward personally. If I’m putting in the effort then the commitment is already there. No need to harp on about it.
7. First. But that could also possibly be because of what was stated in point #5.
8. No. Fuck games. They’re a waste of time. It’s either “yes” or “no”. Logical and straight forward. I don’t see any reason to bugger about.
9. Yes, but I also like to cook for someone and cooking together is fun.
10. A bit of both, depending on the mood. I’m one for spontaneity which could mean randomly driving out 200km/124 miles just to go check out the mountains.
11. Absolutely terrible. When the money is in the account there’s very little thought given to budget. It’s best to store excess money in a locked up investment. It has nothing to do with materialism and more to do with the lack of it. And probably impulsivity.
12. Maybe. This one I don’t know. But I’d prefer not to be one at all for personal and logical reasons.
13. This one might be a product of my upbringing, but: Extremely. And violent when pushed. I’ve never raised my hand to a woman but plenty inanimate objects have beared the brunt (bore?) of my temper. Doors getting kicked in, things getting smashed up. Once again, most likely a deep-seated issue.
14. Yes and sometimes no. More often yes than no. But don’t be offended if it’s the latter, it’s more than likely burnout and the necessity to be alone inside their own heads.
15. In my experience, most definitely not. But there are also limits. If we’re talking complete and utter nymphomania then I think just about anyone functional would be taken aback.
16. That depends how it’s done. Context is everything. Suspicion might arise if you’ve been caught in a lie and the act follows not to long after. Don’t use sex as a weapon because it might backfire.
17. Yes on both accounts. At least for me personally. It’s not a fetish, but I’m sure as hell not squeamish. You can have a shower afterwards to wash off.
18. Lying and cheating. By that stage it’s done. The trust is gone and the relationship is dead.
19. Any man can be. That’s also down to insecurity. Personally, a little jealous (could possibly fall into the greater definition of possessive), but controlling, no.
20. That’s an issue that’s dependent on trust and past experience. After having me being open and then later on having that used against me you can forget about openness. At least not easily. Trust is a long hard road and once people before have destroyed that, it’s hard to trust people in any capacity. So yes. Safe guarding emotions not because there’s some sordid past not wanting to be unearthed (not always the case. Most serial killers fall under Pisces).
I have a lot of rage and anger, especially directed towards society. So my word isn’t absolute. But I hope it provides a bit of clarity.
Hi Rose. My apologies if this double posted. The previous one had typos and inaccuracies. I’m a 3rd Decan Pisces sun/Libra moon. I’m obviously not speaking on behalf of all Pisces. I’ll be blunt, and some of the answers may stem from my own personal deep-seated issues and psychological problems, because at the end of the day people do have varying upbringings and disorders.
1. Maybe a bit of both but definitely leaning more towards the former.
2. That’s highly dependent on what exactly it is. If it’s something trivial then logic dictates that forgiveness should be an easy enough thing to do. When we start entering the realm of cheating then I’m afraid it’s “fuck off and die”. I personally hate cheating on any level and when in a relationship only dedicate myself to that person and hold them to the same standard. Forgiveness at that level is not something I do, and once I’m done I’m done forever and can be colder than an Antarctic winter.
3. Some are, some aren’t (which could be said for just about anyone). Personally sex is about intimacy and if the intimacy isn’t there, then it’s not worth it. So why bother. No casual sex thanks. You wanna get your rocks off, have a wank.
4. No fucking around, in short. But more seriously: Loyalty, honesty, communication (this can’t be stressed enough) and various other traits that aren’t morally skewed. On a personal level no makeup, narcissism or pretentiousness.
5. That’s highly dependent on the situation. If it’s going well then immediately. On a personal front, I’m not one for committing first which is probably a product of insecurity caused by the fear of rejection.
6. No. I just find them awkward personally. If I’m putting in the effort then the commitment is already there. No need to harp on about it.
7. First. But that could also possibly be because of what was stated in point #5.
8. No. Fuck games. They’re a waste of time. It’s either “yes” or “no”. Logical and straight forward. I don’t see any reason to bugger about.
9. Yes, but I also like to cook for someone and cooking together is fun.
10. A bit of both, depending on the mood. I’m one for spontaneity which could mean randomly driving out 200km/124 miles just to go check out the mountains.
11. Absolutely terrible. When the money is in the account there’s very little thought given to budget. It’s best to store excess money in a locked up investment. It has nothing to do with materialism and more to do with the lack of it. And probably impulsivity.
12. Maybe. This one I don’t know. But I’d prefer not to be one at all for personal and logical reasons.
13. This one might be a product of my upbringing, but: Extremely. And violent when pushed. I’ve never raised my hand to a woman but plenty inanimate objects have beared the brunt (bore?) of my temper. Doors getting kicked in, things getting smashed up. Once again, most likely a deep-seated issue.
14. Yes and sometimes no. More often yes than no. But don’t be offended if it’s the latter, it’s more than likely burnout and the necessity to be alone inside their own heads.
15. In my experience, most definitely not. But there are also limits. If we’re talking complete and utter nymphomania then I think just about anyone functional would be taken aback.
16. That depends how it’s done. Context is everything. Suspicion might arise if you’ve been caught in a lie and the act follows not to long after. Don’t use sex as a weapon because it might backfire.
17. Yes on both accounts. At least for me personally. It’s not a fetish, but I’m sure as hell not squeamish. You can have a shower afterwards to wash off.
18. Lying and cheating. By that stage it’s done. The trust is gone and the relationship is dead.
19. Any man can be. That’s also down to insecurity. Personally, a little jealous (could possibly fall into the greater definition of possessive), but controlling, no.
20. That’s an issue that’s dependent on trust and past experience. After having me being open and then later on having that used against me you can forget about openness. At least not easily. Trust is a long hard road and once people before have destroyed that, it’s hard to trust people in any capacity. So yes. Safe guarding emotions not because there’s some sordid past not wanting to be unearthed (not always the case. Most serial killers fall under Pisces).
I have a lot of rage and anger, especially directed towards society. So my word isn’t absolute. But I hope it provides a bit of clarity.
I am a picese man and testify to loving an Aquarius woman. This hipster ass website done read me like a cosmo.
I have been dating a pisces man for 10 weeks. He really wanted me first. It was so intense. I fell in love with him. Then I realised that I don’t feel his feelings toward me and I talked about mine. Then he still wanted to spend time together but I started to feel insecure. He talked about a famous actor that she is really pretty and I realised that I am not that type of woman physically. It hurted me. After 10 weeks he told me that he Is not in love with me and that he doesn’t see us to be together in the future. He told me that despite our sex Is magic he doesn’t feel the real physical desire. Ať the same time he told me that I am a woman he feels the most compatible with. I was terribly devastated and hurt. I have never met someone like him. We talked for houres, liked the same music, we both are so intuitive and somehow different. I don’t understand how he could want to separate. It is not a common thing to meet someone so close and it is hard to loose him. I wonder if he will text me or call again. I stay in silent and I don’t contact him. It is two weeks now. What to do? I know it is up to him. I am 46 yo aquarius. So, when it is nice between pisces and aquarius, it is really something special. But, as I read other comments, if it doesn’t work somehow, it could be really painful. Pisces men can be a real heartbreaker.
HI, heartbreakers. HONEY I was married to a Pisces man for 33 years. He went thru his male mid-life crisis and had 3 affairs, dyed his hair, traded in his truck on a nice white car, bought new shoes and clothes and had 2 affairs with married women and one with a 20 yr. divorcee…He married that last woman the same year that I divorced him. I got my final divorce in June and they married at the end of October. Pisces man can be cheaters and sneaky. I caught him at phone sex (back when that was popular). He was up it seemed from about midnight till about 2 a.m. (according to the phone records) chatting with female chatters about sexual topics and masturbating to her voice and her words…OMG. We got the phone bill and of course he denied it…he lied about it all, had no idea how all of those (over $200) worth of calls got on our phone bill. It all must have been a mistake (it wasn’t a mistake). SO trust issues followed and you can understand why.
When I divorced him we were 2 months shy of 33 yrs. together and 2 daughters as well…
Pisces also tend to be loners, they want A LOT of private or alone time.
They are dreamers and they are very moody as well…
Good luck with whoever, but be careful with a Pisces man…
WKR
I’m a Pisces man in love with an Aquarius woman and this reading is excitingly and eerily accurate … For someone to know what a relationship between us would be like with such accuracy blows my mind … Especially about the love making part she has in fact made my dreams come true in the bedroom…
I married my Aquarius woman in 2019 December but what i have read it’s like someone has been looking what’s happening between me and her…whenever she broke my heart or trust i felt every weak and much pain which led me to stay at home in bed doing nothing whenever she broke my Heart,i spent 4 months without working coz whenever i got a job and she does something which hurts me i felt i don’t need anything in this world with so much pain which led me to stay in bed everytime but whenever she come,just looking into her eyes….all i wanted was to make her happy..but she woke up one day
”Hazard,it’s over maybe it’s me refusing you to work” i did everything she refused to come back to me,after a month i went back to her door spent 3 hours outside at night after she let me inside and i told her i need to talk to you privately please then she became rude to me after she said a every painful word that she has a man
I felt so crazy in my mind and i beat her,now it’s 5 months still waiting
everyday everynight i think of the way she used to smile with her cute lips, how she used to stare at me with her pretty eyes, how i used to touch her adorable face when she was asleep, mostly the way she used to go crazy when i have annoyed her, her eyes used to be more prettier like nothing on this world is prettier than her eyes when she’s annoyed
everyday i tell her on what’s app how much i miss her and love her all she tells me to move on but i can’t, everyday every moment beating her it’s a big bad decision i ever done and on the person i love 
i don’t see my future nowadays used to dream everyday even before loving her but right now when am to dream which is rera to me nowadays i get bad scaring dreams,And my life is based on my dreams to chance my goals 
i don’t know what to do
I’m an Aquarius woman married to a Pisces male – and I’m blown away ! Like what we’re literally going through and our personalities to a T We’ve been married for almost 18 years have seven sons together and I’ve been unhappy and ready to take the “Dive” but our sex life is so good…. -I would add though ,in true Aquarius fashion, that Pisces men’s constant need for attention and appreciation/ validation is usually what turns us Aquarius’ off – neediness yuck, go back to mommy – mommy’s are needed, women are wanted! (I hate sounding so harsh, sometimes lol )
No Wonder why you’re unhappy, you don’t give your man the attention he needs.
I’m an Aquarius woman and I’ve been in love with my Pisces husband since we were 8 years old. We were separated for sometime but seems like the universe wanted us together because we found a way back together. I’ve had three children while we were separated and crazy part is I’ve always craved him. I’ve always missed him and compared my relationships to him. On the other hand he spend his whole life searching for me. Never married and never had children of his own. I was his one true love and he made sure I see to it. When we found each other it was like we never were truly separated. Now we can not keep away from one another.
How should I move forward with my Aquarius woman ? We’ve been talkin for 8 weeks and I want to take it to the next level
I think you should take her somewhere fun some place that she would really enjoy then have a nice time to talk to her about moving things further.
I am a Pisces man and my partner is an Aquarius woman. This feels much more relevant to our relationship than other posts I’ve read about this pairing. They’re usually so negative and hopeless, but this one gets much closer to how beautiful and complicated our partnership is. It isn’t always easy between the two of us. There’s miscommunication and my emotional needs often feel unfilled, but it’s a small price to pay for the most truly special woman I’ve ever known to be in my life. When things are good, they’re the most beautiful moments in the universe. And when they’re bad, they’re temporary and get resolved. I’ve been in relationships that were all smiles, but even though this one can be almost harrowing at times, I wouldn’t trade it for the world because I love with her every unit of my infinite soul and I always will.
I am HAPPY for you…I was with mine for 33 years that were bitter sweet. Then when that mid-life crisis hit him at age 52 things went down the tubes…I didn’t know when I married him that an Aquarius and a Pisces were NOT considered soulmates or compatible…Live and learn. SO, good for you and if you love her she’s a lucky lady b/c we all need love and someone to care for us and accept us for who we are.
How did you take your relationship to the next level ? Out of friendship and into a relationship ?
This is are exactly relationship and that we agree that this could not be wrong in anyway this is are destiny to be together it couldn’t be anymore right on our love
Love this! Such a great read…
#Aquarian
Thank you for sharing!
This describes my relationship with my Pisces boyfriend perfectly. I know that, as an Aquarius woman, I’m not easy to handle. I tend to overthink, I dive into logic way too much sometimes, and he helps me to go and feel more with my heart, and a little less with my mind. He respects my independence, he encourages me to be the best version of myself unconditionally. He definitely has things that I lack, and viceversa. He tends to be too dreamy and sometimes I have to bring him down to the ground a little bit. But, regardless of our little differences, all I can say is that I adore him, I never new someone so dedicated, so generous, so kind… I love him and love his heart.
Beautiful reading, thank you for this.
whoever wrote this knows me and Sheila pretty well, just WOW!
I’m an Aquarius woman and my significant other is a Pisces man, and boy do I love him. We’ve been together for 10 years so far (and hopefully more) and he is the sweetest and kindest person I’ve ever known in my entire life. He is my best friend and we enjoy talking everyday or just enjoying the peaceful silence because sometimes we don’t have to talk to understand each other. He also has his head in the clouds and has so many opportunities/aspirations he wants to accomplish and I love listening to them, but I’m also the level head that reigns them in and figures out what we need to do to accomplish them. It’s like he’s the head line of a paper and I’m the bullet points underneath. We compliment each other well, are able to be so comfortable with each other, and I can’t wait for many more years with him.
All Aquarians are water-bearers, and Pisces need water to swim. Thus, it can work with a Pisces if they are mature and emotionally healthy, like all signs. I got this free love reading and it was helpful: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
I hope it helps xoxo
Wow. I am an Aquarius female dating a male Pisces and this could not describe him more! He is head over heels for me and I am working really hard to open myself up and reciprocate the emotions because I do really like him. That is why I have been doing so much reading on our compatibility! I think this love can absolutely work and be amazing as long as they are both working on it, kind of like I am doing!
I think Pisces and Aquarius can work, if the Pisces is mature…and the Aquarius is open-minded, at the same time.
Try going here for a 100% free LOVE reading: https://youtu.be/DMsWLwr-kvI
Hope this helps! xoxo
It said aquarius female is the cold one … think someone should read this all over.
Because they are
If you think Pisces are cold and have a tiny heart? You are sadly mistaken. No zodiac sign has a bigger heart than a pisces. Maybe look at your approach to a pisces to see if that is throwing them off their normal selflessness and caring gentle nature.
Sissy!
WE were married 33.5 yrs. Not all happy years. Pisces are flirts and are capable of having affairs…He was NOT necessarily “cold”.
We divorced in 2001, he passed away in 2011 after our divorce and his remarriage…
SO it’s “ALL” now in the past, doesn’t matter now!!!
I have met a Gemini man recently and am way MORE compatible with a Gemini than I ever was with a Pisces…
WKR
Hi wanda, I am an aquarius women that recently got out of the realtionship with a pisces man of several years. I met a gemini man and wow we are so compatible. Things just work between us and the love that is growing feels very natural and it feels like all the wounds of my past cant hold me back and I am a kid falling in love for the first time again.
What love means to an aquarius, gemini can understand. It is not necessarily physical passion, but a closeness and romance of the mind. Sweet words of love turn me on faster than anything.
My Pieces man is the most lovable, caring and the most emotionally intelligent man I have ever dated. As an Aquarius woman I was drawn to him since our first date and here we are 5 months later and I’m more in love with him that I have ever been in my whole life. This article definitely reassured me that I made the right choice.
Literally a demon. This man is actually evil, and I have never said this about something in my entire life. Completely heartless, soulless and self serving.
I WISH my Pisces man would be jealous at times. At least I would know somewhere in his cold tiny heart he is capable of hot feeling and love
No matter how hard I try I just can’t be happy with this man. He is verbally abusive and starting to show signs of being physically abusive as well. He calls me nasty names when he is angry at me for the most trivial things like forgetting to get the mail. And Aquarius placement women have put head in the clouds for this kind of thing happens often. He has no forgiveness in his heart for simple mistakes like this. I don’t understand him. One minute he is throwing things in my direction. I don’t know if he is missing on purpose or accident. Next minute he is trying to laugh with me. I have been so tolerant and patient. Ignoring the red flags and just choosing to love and care for him. I can’t anymore. It feels like torture. I am always trying to soothe him and make things good between us I do have my faults and start fights too. But the way he fights has become so abusive and hurtful… when we fight all I ever want to do is to let my feelings be known and try to work past it. Now I find myself wishing to just be happy… and I have finally given up all hope of being happy with this man.
Obviously this man isn’t in touch with reality. It does appear as if he has some deep rooted phycological issues that may have stemmed from his past. I had a very jealous Pisces husband when we were first married. He showed signs of anger, throwing pots and pans and even putting hi fist into walls…screaming at me only b/c I was friendly with everyone and he was jealous. Wanted me to himself and didn’t want me to be friendly. Tried for awhile to change me but it didn’t work.
He seemed very insecure and childish at times.
Yes now I know these things, but when I was very young I didn’t realize any of it, and thus didn’t know what to do or think really.
I put up with him and eventually he got better at it b/c of me threatening to leave unless he did.
We stayed together for 34.5 yrs. and had 2 kids…
We finally divorced and he remarried, and then after 9.5 yrs. with her he passed away in 2011…
You might want to get to the root of his behavior b4 you do what I did and waste all of those precious years that you will NEVER EVER get back. I’m not 71 and I never remarried and am unfortunately alone now b/c of the phycological damage that all of that did to me. I didn’t think any other man would want me and thus remained alone which was a huge mistake. Now I am looking for a good companion, best friend, soulmate, partner and lover and at my age that’s not easy to find. SO, hope you take care of it somehow so you can learn from my mistakes…
Thank you so much wandakate. I love him a lot. Maybe I am in love with who he used to be. So it makes it hard to leave. But when I think of a future with him I feel depressed and hopeless. He knows how to bring me back when I have had enough yet he goes back to the same old nasty human being he was before. I can not live my life with him unless he completely changes. I am miserable.
Honey, just a smart piece of advise…GET OUT while you still are alive and can. IF a man is already verbally abusive and is already showing signs of being able to be physically abusive to you he well may do that very thing and it might not be pretty. There are millions of men out there (trust me) that will care about you as a woman and love you and treat you with kindness and the respect you deserve…
He sounds like he has some type of a personality disorder and that’s something that YOU can’t fix dear. The man may seriously need outside “help”. I would go with lots of caution and watch for “red flag warnings”
if I were you but for a VERY short time and I would make my plans to get away…
Many women have stayed with abusive men and been killed by those very men.
I hope it won’t happen to you, but you need to respect yourself and realize that things are the way they are and NOT the way you wish them to be.
Staying with him b/c you think there is a chance he will change is (in my humble opinion) not very smart or wise…
It’s your life I know but if it were me I would be thinking of my own future and if I was even going to be able to survive. He sounds like he’s got some deep rooted issues and may be taking his spite out on you…Don’t put up with it or you will be foolish!!!
Hope it works out for your benefit.
I don’t want to change him. He is who he is and if he can’t change himself there is nothing in it for me. I have zero hope for him. I just still feel very attached to him so it is difficult to leave. But every time he breaks my heart it feels easier to hate him and even my memories of him are becoming tainted. I honestly hate my life with him. I feel like a slave. He emotionally tortures me if I even don’t do the dishes. He will use emotional blackmail to make me behave the way he wants. I have no mental space to pursue my own projects or even talk to my friends while he hides his phone and talks to his friends all day long. Watches me do chores while he just scrolls through social media on his phone while telling me he is doing important things. We only do what he wants to do. I feel like my light is being smothered out. Why I feel an attachment to this man I don’t know. But it is fading. If he does not start to care about me as a human my love will die completely. Aquarius is so full of hope and it is hard to kill out hope. But this man is so evil towards me it is almost all gone.
I will lose someone that did not care much about me. He will lose someone that cared the world about him.
HI, I understand the situation, however I also am a retired teacher and an Aquarius woman for many years now and I do see how you are miserable, however I believe in self help. YOU lady are not using your head…You have been brainwashed by this man. He is sick in his head. He is manipulating you and controlling you and abusing you emotionally and doing all manner of evil to you. How on earth you live with him is beyond me. How you bring yourself to sleep with him is beyond me. You are living in FEAR and one day he may just decide to do away with you. I am sorry but as another Aquarius woman I can NOT sympathize with you.
You are as much to blame here almost as he is b/c you are trapped in this situation and are allowing yourself to be abused by this psychopath. The man needs help, but guess what? YOU dear also NEED help badly. SO YOU are the one who is making the choice to stay with this idiot abuser…He doesn’t seem like (from what you are writing here) that he gives a damn about anybody in life but himself and he sounds totally screwed up…
If you continue to stay in this relationship and continue to be a miserable woman with no life and continue to be used by him and abused by him and controlled by him then there is NOBODY to blame but yourself.
SO, sorry I seem cold but it’s actually concern for your well-being. I do wish you would muster up enough courage to get the hell away from this man, and NEVER return. But of course that’s your own choice. Some women get caught up in abusive relationships and just complain about them and their lives instead of doing anything constructive about their situation, YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE WOMEN regrettably.
I have offered you my advise and that’s really all I can do…YOU better decide to do something b/c it seems like YOU are allowing this man to drain the life right out of YOU…
PLEASE don’t tell me anymore about this sick situation until you get the heck out and do something about it. Don’t be lazy, step up to the plate and tell yourself ENOUGH IS ENOUGH !!!
Only YOU can get out and LIVE your life (and you have only one life to live) or YOU can stay there with this mentally sick man and WASTE your own life. IT’s all up to you. I wish you well and hope you make the RIGHT decision…
When you get away, let me know, until them I have to be done with reading this b/c truthfully it depresses me…
I was married to a Pisces for 34.5 yrs. Part of it was like walking on eggshells. He was so jealous at first. He had a horrible temper. Threw pots and pans when he was upset. He would do the same call me nasty names when he was angry at me for whatever happened. He would tell me I was manipulative and intimidating (but he was passing the buck). It was (I finally realized) HIM that was that way but wanting to blame me b/c he didn’t accept the way he really was…
He called me buffalo butt, balloon boobs (my boobs are smaller) hippo hips (before they were larger) and rhino rump, and my butt wasn’t all that large either. Just rhyming words that he thought up, pitiful…and stupid seriously.
We had 2 kids so I stayed with him. What a regret and a total waste of those years…But they are gone and I’ll NEVER get them back unfortunately…
He went thru his male mid-life crisis and had 3 affairs and finally in 2001 we divorced. He remarried and was with her for 9.5 years when he finally passed away in 2011…It’s all over for me now and I believe he treated her the same way b/c he didn’t know how to be any different…SO I have been there-done that and you have my utmost sympathy…GOD bless you…At least now we both know what to look for.
WKR in N.C.
I’m a Pisces male in a relationship with a younger Aquarian woman. I love her and really enjoy our sex together. Although, because of circumstances we are currently having a long distance relationship and this is making me quite insecure. We do talk everyday and I happy to give her her freedom but I feel like she maybe bored sexually because we are so far away from each other that she may seek a one night stand as she is totally unattached to her emotions and just sees it as sex and nothing more. For me having sex with another deepens our connection in a love based sense. Is the any Aquarian woman who could give some advice or suggestions? Thanks
TO PISCEAN 101: I am an older Aquarius lady and if she’s younger she will or can feel this way. She isn’t attached to her emotions when it comes to sex, b/c that is the way “most” and not all Aquarius women are. However as they age they actually do mellow out in a lot of ways I have noticed. She will hopefully (AS I HAVE DONE) enjoy it more, want it more and appreciate it more than when she is young. Se will then (with age) let her emotions rule it.
I will NOT be involved with a man without chemistry or feeling for that man. It’s NOT just “sex” for physical pleasure any longer with me, I feel what the Pisces man feels if not more so but I am now older so been there, done that. Am now in touch with my emotions fully and seriously. Best thing it to NOT have the distance. A younger Aquarius woman needs constant attention, she needs to know you are there for her ALL the time, so the more connected you are to her, the better this should all pan out. GET back with her asap and that should fix everything and good luck.
Wandakate in N.C.
@wandakate sorry but no. Aquarius woman can have sex with love if she meets the right man to bring it out of her. Pisces men usually do this for aquarius women unless other things in the chart says otherwise.
I am a young aquarius woman and I am nothing like how you describe young aquarius women. I want the emotional connection when it comes to sex. Ever since I was exposed to emotions during sex, this is what I want all the time. Before I just did not know how much more amazing sex could get. I never reached this level before but once I did, emotions with sex is the most important thing. The feelings of love for a person and being close to them actually turns me on more than any other thing.
I am also in a long distance relationship with a pisces. It sucks but I want HIM and having distance with the man I love is 10000000x better than being next to someone that just any other man. I do need constant attention but secretly, I want constant attention from HIM. Yes I need to feel that he is there for me all the time, but when you have aquarius woman’s trust she will always be there for you. But you need to get to that point with her first.
Pisces man, just keep on talking to her every day. Let her know you love her and you are hers. Not too much that it seems fake, just let her know in genuine moments. Never go to bed mad. Don’t let her feel neglected. I know pisces likes to have his privacy and alone time, but just remember to reach out to her. Aquarius is strange because we like newness and excitement but we also need consistency and stability. So sometimes it ends up being we want to have a lover or friend we can trust and grow deeper with, while we both go discover exciting things together. This is the type of aquarius that is a perfect match for the type of cookie cutter pisces man.
@Wandakate thanks for your response.
You say I should give her a lot of attention and I am, but I thought that she might find that too clingy or that I’m too needy or even that she feels like her freedom/independence is at risk (which is apparently what Aquarians don’t want to lose.)
Any other advice from you or anyone else or even more insights into how Aquarian women are?
I’ve never really gone this far to keep a relationship before nor have I been this close to an Aquarian. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. BTW, I’m 31 and she is 23. I enjoy health and spirituality and she likes socializing and studying environmental engineering.
Thanks
I’m so sorry this happened to you wandakate!
I have noticed pisces men need a looooooot of “alone time” which can actually mean he wants to be alone… or he wants to be alone with strangers! not including friends, family or a lover! which is really strange to me. some pisces really prefer the company of many strangers instead of the company of a few close ones. it’s funny because aquarius is suppose to be the one that likes independance, alone time and prefers many shallow relationships… but in my expierience this is what pisces man is…. and aquarius woman needs to react in the same way in order to stay sane and not have her heart broke 
i feel very lonely for companionship with this relationship. aquarians are dreamers too, butn ot in the same way as a pisces. we dream for the future, if we will get married, the vacations we will take, hwo to build our life together. pisces dreams about personal glory, people liking him, maybe other women.
Hi Pisces101, am a true blue Aquarius. My 2 cents: Aquarius are very protective with their feelings/vulnerability. We are actually very loyal beings and if she is in tune with herself and you are both in a committed relationship, it is not likely that one-night stands will happen. We treasure trust and honesty above all other things. Have a good talk with her about your concerns, which for Pisces can be daunting. I am currently dating a Pisces on a long distance relationship too.
Don’t doubt her. If she is no longer interested in the relationship, you will know/feel it immediately. We can’t pretend.
I am an aquarius woman with a pisces man long distance. I am the one that wonders if my pisces gets bored with the distance. Of course I want him near me, and I miss the sex and cuddling and kissing and just being present with him. But I wouldnt want it with any other man.
In the past I did not have sex with love, but that changed with my pisces man. We just have a special connection. We just get eachother in ways that we cant have with anyone else. I want to get closer to him every time we make love. I really feel as if we are connected the most in that moment. Yes I miss it, but I only want that with him.
Most aquarians are honest and have a lot of self control. The question is how close are you two? If you two are close or have talked about the future together, you don’t have much to worry about. We are loyal to people that we are 100% about, and will never ruin a potential future with someone. But if you don’t sense that she is very close to you maybe she could stray because aquarius is searching for the ideal lover. Still, aquarius is one of the signs that cheats less than others. I would not worry. Just try to see where she stands with you. How she feels about you and if you are a special guy to her.
Thank you so much for your response and perspective; it has helped greatly.
“In the past I did not have sex with love…” quoting you, I think it is the same with my Aquarian, although I’m the complete opposite which is why I’m worried. It would crush my connection I have for her if she was having casual sex.
We are quite close, very good friends, can talk for hours on the phone day after day, even have phone and text sex.
But I asked her one time about if she is having sex or messaging other guys ( I made a mistake and said I didn’t trust her, also I got a bit angry when I didn’t believe her, which looking back, didn’t help). She did say she wouldn’t do anything to lose me but also said that if I kept questioning her then she will go have sex with another.
That comment kind of stresses me out. I want to talk to her again about it but this time tell her why I feel this way and just about it more so I can have closure about this issue – Do you think this is a good idea or do you think she might feel like I don’t trust her or want to take her freedom to choose away?
Everything else between us is very very good and having her as a partner, I have learned so much about myself and how to be less emotional. After learning more about Aquarian woman, I started to learn more about her and see our relationship over time as we became good friends and better lovers.
Do you think I should talk with her or just trust her and deal with this issue myself?
Hey that’s a tough one…Not knowing her I really don’t know. I know I am searching even now for my “MR. RIGHT”. He needs to be one of 5 signs however b/c I don’t really hit it off with the other 7 signs…
I love attention online from a variety of men and it’s very hard for me to make up my mind which one I would settle with. I know that once I do find “him” I will be committed, loyal and that will be it in and out of the bedroom, but finding is the issue.
If she is like me then gee, I don’t know if she can be trusted…She may enjoy playing the field. SO I can not advise you specifically b/c I don’t want to tell you wrong. There are SO many variables…
SO, sorry I’m not an expert on this. Maybe ask someone that know more about this sort of situation on a more professional basis, like someone who know about the zodiac signs etc. That the only advise I can think of…
GOOD LUCK with her, I hope for your sake it works out. See if your signs match up. Sometimes just not being really compatible and NOT having enough commonality will cause something to go amiss…
Are you guys exclusive? I don’t know your ages but it sounded like she is younger, so maybe part of hookup culture generation. Has she given you reason to be suspicious or is it just your imagination running wild? I have been the suspicious one before and I really choked out all the easy happy feelings in the relationship…
Because it is long distance you need to trust eachother. Just remember if it is possible for yourself to be loyal and just want one person, it is possible for the other person as well! If you feel uneasy, you need to figure out why this is and approach her in a logical way. What is she doing that makes you feel this way? Are there any solutions? I think if you approach her in an accusatory way she will push away but if you approach her in an open and vulnerable way she will want to reassure you. If you are just looking to be reassured that she is being loyal, you cant approach the topic by being suspicious.
Sometimes it’s better to ease into the conversation like “it would kill me if you ever stopped being mine” and just read her vibes… aquarians go a lot by vibe, but usually pisces are the ones that can read it. And just see if this makes her act uncomfortable or if she reacts in a positive way, or maybe she will be mad again about the distrust. You know her better than I do lol. You could use this as a way to open up more conversation. Either way, approach her honestly and innocently, no arguing.
Do you have real concrete plans to see each other? Aquarius easily waits for a good thing to come in the future. We can suffer in the present to have something amazing in the future. Just make sure to keep her looking forward to it rather than letting the relationship stagnate and not move forward…. I am assuming you two are in a serious relationship with real commitment. If not, anything goes honestly.
You can also find the full charts of you and her to get a better idea. Just google “natal chart” you can even get phone apps.
Just go and catch her . She will not wait for you
She needs you everyday and through her life
Sex is one part but if you are not with her. Her loneliness will force her to go with other one
yea aquarius woman needs the man to be around. MY problem with pisces man even while we live in the same city he likes to be alone a lot and prefers to go out all alone and hates when i want to be included all the time. I am sitting here at home while he is out drinking right now, and honestly at this point if anyone wants to come and cuddle up next to me i will be happy. he has ignored my need for attention too long….
if you love her, go get her. otherwise she will start feeling lonely and will want anyone next to her.
OH HOW TRUE. I am the same way. If I meet a man and he doesn’t give me attention (lots of it) and doesn’t treat me special or make me a priority in his life after we know one another then I will get lonely for companionship. I was married to a Pisces for 34.5 years as an Aquarius and it was NOT easy. He did like his alone time, however he was NOT a drinker or a gambler or one to go and hang out with the guys. he did go through hi male mid-life crisis at about his mid 50’s and that was when he decided to be 25 again. He didn’t look for bars then or male friends to be with but went flirting with women and found 3 to have affairs with and he did that very thing. We get a divorce within 1 year of his philandering. He married the woman that was the 3rd affair. They were together for 9.5 yrs. and in May of 2011 (on their Disneyworld vacation) he got sick with his lungs and passed away in Fl. They lived in Ga. SO I never remarried and am not communicating with a few men to do the process of elimination. I am just dating several (typical Aquarius) and trying to find one that I am suitable for and that is also suitable for me…The truth will prevail hopefully by the end of spring. SO in the summer I hope things will start moving along nicely with one of them so I will know what I will be doing and who I will be with by the wintertime…
I am NOT interested anymore in ANY PISCES. They are dreamers, they are big flirts, they are not as dependable as women think they are, and they will cheat if given the opportunity…They are men that like ALOT (to much ) alone time…SO, for me NO MORE PISCES.
Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience with a piscean. You’re right, we are dreamers and do like some alone time. The dreamer things is something others just have to roll with and the alone time is usually just our time to recharge because we are like emotional and vibrational sponges and so to become normal again we need some time were no one is around and therefore we aren’t receiving any others nearby energy. The cheating thing, from my own experience, I couldn’t do it. If I’m with a woman, I’m 100% hers unless the energy changes between us then it’s time for us to split. But the thing I’ve learned from relationships especially the one with my Aquarian, is that communication is so important. Pisceans tend to keep things inside and not verbalize issues properly as they arise. So I’m trying to resolve this problem I have so we can have a better relationship with complete transparency.
Ok I’m a younger aquarius woman with an older Pisces man. He expressed kind of the same things you’ve expressed. Here was my reply. I’m so protective when it comes to my feelings that o rarely give dudes chances so if I did it’s because I SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT IN YOU. and it’s his ability to communicate his feelings, he’s not afraid to show his love and ita refreshing however I have to make sure you don’t just want me for the sexual part. Aquarius wants a friend first. So the furthest thing from our minds is sex….yes we are young. I’m I n my mid 20’s ….We wouldn’t cheat because we are too loyal..just don’t question her if she says she is busy doing something. She isn’t talking to other guys.
Awesome response, thank you.
We are friends I feel, who are in a relationship at the same time.
Any advice for Pisces to be in a successful relationship with an Aquarian?
Sorry butterfly but that doesn’t apply to ALL younger Aquarius women. I was 20 when I married. My husband was Navy. He left for 9 mos. to Vietnam. Did I cheat, unfortunately several times, why b/c he was away, I was ALL alone and a very young military wife to boot. Lots of military wives cheat. It didn’t make it justified but he was away, I was young and I lived close to the beach which seem to make it even worse.
Don’ tell me a young Aquarius woman won’t cheat, not true at all. They need attention and some of them need it everyday. If I meet a man even at my age now and he doesn’t text me everyday or email me everyday my mind wanders away from him. I need my man to be with me, if not then I need to know that I am on his mind. I want/expect to be his priority. I am very much like that. It’s the Aquarius in me. I am older now but I am still Aquarius, just an older version hahaha.
When he was 55 he started going thru his male mid-life crisis and he had 3 affairs. He married the 3rd one. I never remarried all that time, still single as of today.
They were together for 9.5 yrs. but in May of 2011 he passed away…I now date online but one man can’t keep my mind satisfied so I am dating 4 at the same time online. To me it’s “may the best man win”…I give my all to all of them, and am very dependable, text back or write them when they do, but their part is to be there for me as much as possible. It’s also in my mind a “process of elimination”. I want the man that best suits my personality and needs. The man that will devote the MOST of his TIME to me.
I want the man that will INVEST into “our” relationship. I don’t want his money, or his fancy car or house…I need and want his attention, his love, his ALL. That is what it takes. He has to connect mentally with me b/c of who I am. Once he touches my mind with his long emails and our discussions then he wins my heart. I need my questions answered, and I need his undivided attention when he is not working. There is NEVER in my mind any excuse for him NOT to text me. If he isn’t able b/c he’s busy to write an email then he needs to text, if no text, that’s not good. One of the men I am now dating online text tonite around 6:40 to say… I am in the hospital ER. Apparently he had a bad bad migraine and had to go to the ER, but he texted me so I would know. I like to be part of what’s going on. I want that devoted, committed, loyal man. And b/c of who I am, I think that is what I have to have. I will choose one of the 4 men but by process of elimination b/c that is how it has to be with me. I have to have more than 1 fish on my line biting, b/c if something happens to that one fish then I want to be sure my bases are covered with another fish on another line and now there are 4. I just like to be more safe than sorry I think. GOOD LUCK to all Aquarius ladies b/c it’s not easy to be one. I should know. My mind is only 40 thank goodness for that, but I just turned 71 in Feb. So I know what I am talking about, been there, done that.
Being an Aquarius young, middle age, or older (like me) is NEVER easy…Live and learn…
dreamers in what way? aquarius are dreamers too. i dream of a future with my pisces man. i dont know what he dreams about or if it even includes me. i feel like he mostly fantasizes about emotionally fulfilling situations? i worry a lot of emotional cheating with pisces man….
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what do you mean by “when the energy changes between us”?
and yes communication is so important with us. i really believe any probelm can be worked from good communication as long as both people are willing to listen and change. takes two mature people…. and younger women of any sign many not be it.
You need to love her and be a good person to her. We can read people and if we sense that the person is not good or real we are very cautious no matter how much our heart burns for this person. I can love someone to death but I will not allow myself to give everything to him if I think that he is not reliable and trustworthy.
I’m a female Aquarius and whenever my male Piece is not around because of work he delivers flowers to me of he sends me a long text telling me how much he adores me. I feel that t hose gestures outweigh the possibility of me even wanting to explore anything else with another person because I know I have a good man who won’t even compare to anyone else
I am an Aquarius female and I am dating an older Pisces male. YES we are more detached from emotions, but I assure you the sexual connection we share with someone we love trumps any fling or one night stand. Before I was in my relationship yeah it was just sex and I detached from it, but being with someone who cares so much about you is way more valuable to an Aquarius female. I hope this helps!
I just don’t know how he feels about me. he says things that makes me feel like he is cheating but other times the way he is with me makes me feel like it is impossible for him to be with another woman. I just love him and I want him to give me all of his love, but I get in in doses, at random times. I feel hungry all the time and I dont know how much longer i can keep going like this.
Well I’ve been with my husband 32 years married and divorced three times he’s Pisces I’m Aquarius and he is not easy Pisces men like to wander their eyes and they have this thing but they’re never satisfied with one woman
So sorry, Elizabeth to hear that your Pisces man has not been that loyal – mine definitely was very loyal, the precious time we had together he had only eyes for me, just that I was too young and insecure to see that back then….
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I love my Pisces man. He makes me truly happy and content. My only wish is to be by his side forever. I hope he feels the same way. He really loves me. I can sense that he’s never had a love like this before.
Its crazy reading some of these comments! I am a 34 yo pieces, and i honestly think they have hit rite on i agree atleast with 95% of it. I haven’t had luck in love yet. I was in a relationship for 12 years and waited 2 years and again a disappointment afyer 2 1/2 years. I am currently talking to a aquarius and from the first time we talked we clicked rite away. It feels like ive known her all my life. As of today ive noticed she has backed off. And i have this feeling something is wrong. We were texting and i told her i wanted to ask her something but in person or talking on phone, and of course she wemt around my questioning. She usally calls me when she gets off work on her way home she texted me when she got home. I honestly am a loving caring person and will always give it my all and make partner my priority and shower her with love. I just need to stop showing how much love im able to give and become a rock
For Aquarius woman you need to show consistency and undying devotion. We are capable of deep love but we are choosy I’m who we decide to give it to since secretly we have trust issues. The issues I have with my Pisces is always around trust and him being so quiet that I don’t know what he is thinking or feeling. She doesn’t want a lot of love she just wants all of your love. As in your complete attention and devotion. Being consistent will take you much farther than a few huge love gestures. Even if you are just calling her every night and proving you are there for the long haul.
TONY I am an Aquarius woman and have been for a very long time. I am 70 dear with a mind of 40.
Aquarius women are mysterious. They re usually independent. They don’t like men to suffocate them. They want your attention but not for you to cling to them.
She needs “space” most likely.
There is a saying…’IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING, SET IT FREE, IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU IT’S YOURS, AND IF IT DOESN’T IT NEVER WAS.”
That may be something for you to consider. Many Aquarius women don’t want to be married. They will fall in love deeply and adore their partner/man and can be very loyal to him, however marriage may not be their cut of tea simply b/c they want to be “free”. They are so individual and to marry means (to her) a feeling of losing ALL of her independence, that doesn’t sit well with MOST Aquarian women.
Therefore tread lightly with her so you don’t lose her. Love her and let her know but give her space to feel like she’s still controlling some of her independence.
Best advise I can give.
Good luck with all of it. I was married to a Pisces for 34.5 yrs. He was a dreamer, very artistic, very moody and when we first met extremely jealous of me. I would just notice another man and he would get upset…”Who’s he, you know that guy, did you date that asshole b4 me? I don’t like the way you are looking at him, you’re with me, not him, if you wanna be with him, then go be with him.”
A very insecure man no doubt. At that time I was young only 20 and I didn’t know what was what.
NOW I understand it all. It’s NOT a match made in heaven. And the astrology experts do not recommend that match simply b/c it’s a VERY difficult match to find common ground on.
Look it up and study about the two and you will see it’s just “complicated”. Pisces men are moody, Aquarius women have pretty even temperaments. LOTS of differences in these two signs.
So sorry your Pisces man was jealous and insecure, my Pisces, the only man who ever truly loved me and cared for me was never jealous, he gave me space but nevertheless made me feel loved and protected, my best friend who was always there for me…the chemistry we had I’ve never experienced since then, but I’ve been told he is my twin flame, I made one big mistake in my life and that was to leave him….Sent from Yahoo7 Mail on Android
I hate this Pisces man I don’t know why I stay with him. I think he wants to be the woman in the relationship and in life as well. He acts like a woman wants everything to be done for him. I love him but have zero respect for him.
Aquarius woman is a waste of time for Pisces man.
WHAT? I spent 34 yrs. with mine. I am aquarius and he was pisces. Feb. 4th and Mar 2nd…
Most of that time was good, It messed up when he went through his male mid-life crisis and had 3 affairs bc he was in his 50’s and thought he was in his 20’s again. He became a man that I didn’t know anymore, a total about face…He would argue with me, stay out all nite and started treating me like crap, like his new doormat.
Our passion was HOT in the beginning. The chemistry was good. We had 2 daughters who had 5 grandchildren for us.
He and I divorced finally after the 34 yrs. b/c of his affairs. He remarried and that lasted 9.5 yrs. when he passed away in 2011. He was only 64 at that time. I think it really depends on the people involved, but not everyone.
Likewise. Pisces man wasted my precious time. Yeah my time is more valuable than his because all he does with drink and jerk off all day.
Not sure exactly why you would say that, as I was married to one for 34.5 years. He was Pisces, I am an Aquarius woman.
It went okay, not perfect but good enough and we had 2 daughters together.
He got into his 50’s and went through his male midlife crisis and that’s when al hell broke loose. He begin to think he was younger (like 30) and he started to change something awful. Dyed his hair from gray to brown, traded in his truck on a nice white car, got himself new clothes, cufflinks, and new cologne as well.
He continued this nonsense until he had 3 affairs. Finally the 3rd woman told him she would marry him.
He left (long story short here) in June, and remarried her in October of the same year (on the rebound apparently).
They were together for 9.5 yrs. and he passed away in May of 2011…
He was only 64 at that time.
Aquarius and Pisces actually are capable of complimenting one another and the love making is off the charts since they are so compatible that way.
Seems like good chemistry (at least for us)…
Pisces man wants to be watered and nourished, but refuses to water and nourish others. This is not only true in our relationship, but from what I’ve observed in his relationships with his family and friends. Pisces are takers, and require everyone to support them, but they are always too drained to give support to others. I feel very lonely and unseen in this relationship.
Wow! I am an aquarius female and am about to marry a pisces male. I have known him since I was a kid and have always known him to be selfless, loyal and no matter how tired, dependable. All I ever had to do was mention a situation, and he right away took control and I didn’t have to lift a finger. Mine has served his country all his life, mentors youd boys and men and a constant companion to his true friends. To read your description is like night and day in what we have..I do hope you find happiness, you deserve nothing less.
I really love a pisces man and he’s my favourite person on the earth now. I’m totally unaware of his feelings, not exactly, I know that he might not have the same feelings for me. But this would be totally us if it works out.
Pisces are really blank. When I look in their eyes I see emptiness and blankness, like there is no soul inside. Their soul is always elsewhere, dreaming, but never present. They love in a different way, very fantastical and dreamy, but not at all passionate and deep. Don’t worry, he probably loves you and this is just his way. All the pisces I have ever known don’t even feel very strongly for their own family. Most other people would die for their family, but pisces would gladly sacrifice their family in order to pursue their superficial dreams.
But is this the kind of man you want to be with? He will love you, treat you well, marry you and do all the right things, but you won’t feel that complete abandonment of passion out of him. I love my pisces, and he is good to me, as in he puts in the minimum effort to keep me satisfied and doesnt betray me, but I still feel I want more. I feel hungry for more.
We can really read each other’s minds, which is a blessing and a curse. It feels like we are mean to be, but pisces and aquarius both like a lot of space in a relationship and mind reading does not create space! We are in each other’s space all the time. One will know when the other sees an attractive person and feel hurt, or know when the other is upset about something minor and make it a big deal even when keeping it a secret would probably make it blow over faster. There is a huge understanding of hidden motives too. All this makes is easy to be hurt while also not offering the other person enough space. We can’t hide anything for each other, which is good if you are honest.
I cried reading this. I love my pisces man so much. Usually I don’t see such a thorough and accurate reading of this pairing. Sex is really something special between us, a bond that only we can manage. The article is true, I feel connected to him in every way during sex, mind body and soul. I really feel he is reaching to my heart through my….. ahem. He is also my best friend in the whole world.
The pisces man should be more optimistic and adventurous, while the aquarius woman should be more open emotionally and patient if you want it to work. It is possible for pisces and aquarius but it requires a little care and awareness. We are both used to doing everything alone since we were both loners, so it takes awareness to make sure we actually do things together, but you need to, it makes everything so much better and brings us closer.
Spot on! Totally us.
I’m aquarius February 7th, and my fella is pisces March 11th, oh my god this is dead on about us. It is the most intense and deepest love I have ever been in and received in return. He is the most generous lover I have ever been with and the sex between us is breayhtakingly incredible. I have never been more intuned with a partner. I was with a libra before and while he was good for me, my pisces man is perfect for me. My life has been building towards this man and being 32 I finally feel like my life has started on its proper path.
Aquarius woman here. This is the first time I feel so deeply intuned with a partner with sex too. With this pisces man I feel truly bonded, just like this article says. I really feel his presence during sex, and I never had that with anyone before. My other serious relationships was a scorpio and sagittarius but I never felt like this. We have only been together a short time but I know he is the one for me. Even if he became sick, crippled, lost his attractiveness, I would still love him. I am truly in love with his soul.
This is it
I found the one. The one I will be with for the rest of my life.
As a full on Aquarius women born on the 2nd of February, I find the Pisces man (Pisces closer to Aries) I’m seeing a bit of whiner… Sex is very one sided and this is a first for me… not sure why this guy is so selfish in bed.. very odd because most men get most of their thrill out of making the magic happen for her.
I have never dated a Pisces man before and not sure if I keep this one around to see if things will get any better in all departments will I ever entertain this sign again…
I am a scorpio woman. I have venus in aquarius. I agree. Sex with pisces man is not the best. With most men sex feels like a joining of souls but with pisces man it feels like it is something being done to me physically. Feels a little violating and after sex I don’t feel close and fulfilled I feel empty. This is a problem with him not me because in the past I have been very sexually fulfilled with men that are not pisces!
I’m so close to giving up on my Pisces man. He just doesn’t make the effort to be with me. I feel like I am doing everything to be with him and he just wants to go the easy path. If I stopped trying so hard to make things work I feel like this relationship will fall apart. I want to stop trying. He says he loves me but never shows it. Aquarius women want to feel excitement and passion from a man. I just don’t get that from Pisces. I keep fantasizing about being loved passionately. I want to love someone to the death.
I am a scorpio woman but I feel like this too. I feel like I am always waiting for more love and affection and sexual closeness from him but I never get it. Funny thing is he has tons of women wanting him because he makes them think he is so sweet and emotional, little do they know he is empty inside and has the coldest heart!
Feeling the same , did you leave him ?
I am a libra, and my husband is a pisces. I found this information quite interesting. Thinking back on our relationship, it was someone else who first pointed out that they thought we would be good for each other. While we love each other, I wouldn’t say we have the most harmonious of marriages. We do argue and bicker but eventually move on and get over it. Remodeling our house turned out to be one of the most difficult things we ever did since there were so many decisions to make together. kissmanga
she was the one and i coultn see it when we were together. i believed she could never break up with me but here i am cant stop crying. the last time i looked in here eyes there was no love in them when before she looked at me like she was drunk with feelings. she doesnt even hate me she just doesnt care anymore and its driing me crazy. i want her back. i need her back. i dont know what to do. this pisces will love his aquarius forever, even if she refuses to be his.
listen man i am a Aquarius and you truly do love her try becoming her best friend that’s how you capture her attention. Have intelligent conversations with her that will interest her. When you do that she will ask questions about you be honest she will admire that. Last but not least tell her that even if she doesn’t love you you will always love her and give your life for her now that will make her smile. Also don’t forget to joke with her.
I’m an Aquarius woman and she is right…..conversation, honesty, and joking. And just for right now keep the emotional stuff to a minimum until u know for sure she feels the same as you. My man is a Pisces and when we first got together I had to tell him I need him to be my best friend before anything and calm the emotions down for right now. And once I fell in love with him I was able to match his emotions.
If you care about a woman you should show her while she is yours. It’s too late now.
m stressed out by my aquarius lady when ever l express love shes cold detached when ever l am romantic she is annoyed , when l have an outcry on this she cautions me to calm down and breathe , yesterday she was annoyed cause l mentioned having a candlelight dinner after her bulb blew off today she responded and didnt reply my enquiry on how she is
m distressed what do l do
its not cold and detached if she really likes you she is just figuring how to respond to it, like we over think things (speaking from experience), and the romantic thing, maybe try and rephrase this, its the way you deliver things.
so instead saying candle lit dinner, ”your bulb blew, i got some candles,” ”i might even cook you some food”
certain things and the way you say them makes everything feel really intense and maybe just, keep everything light hearted.
most of the time those two things you mentioned are over-thinking and not knowing how to respond to things
Pisces man I will ask a beautiful aquarius to marry me. I have never felt so loved by a person before and I feel as if I can not live without this woman. She doesn’t try hard to contact me every day, but when I contact her first I can tell she has been waiting all day to hear my voice. She used to pretend she needed freedom but once I won her over she is addicted to me. I know she fell in love very quickly, while I took my time as pisces does in love. I was cautious but I understand now, that I was hers from the first time I looked into her eyes.
Are there any long sucessful stories of pisces man and aquarius woman relationships? I have been with a pisces man for some time. I love him and he loves me but he is just so passive. Ive felt like the relationship has been stagnant for a while and sometimes he is so cold towards me I start to feel insecure about his feelings for me and if we will last. I have a lot of anxious feelings sometimes I feel like it’s the end of the world when he doesn’t text or call regularly. I know this scorpio, who always says hello and is constantly checking up on me. There is nothing physical or even emotional going on between us but I feel very warm in his caring for me. My pisces feels annyoed and suffocated when I call him at random times to talk, so I call mr scorpio and he is always open to talk and listen. I was recently talking to him about how I dont know where the relationship with the pisces is going, and… with his scorpio powers he somehow got me talking about what I am really REALLY looking for in a relationship… which is eventaully marriage and children. Pisces man said he wnts these thigs too, but he never said with ME specifically. Scorpio asked me if pisces ever talked about marriage with me. I said no. Then the scorpio asks if someone I know well were to ask for my hand in marriage, would I accept it? I said it depends on the person. And he tells me he really likes me and that that he can make me love him in time, and that he knows he will make a marriage work. I brushed it off jokingly but it got me thinking about my relationship with pisces… is it leading up to anything? Any aquarians and pisces married couples on here? Can you tell me about your relationship?
I advise you to stay away from scorpio and be with pisces. Scorpio knows what you want and will use it to get what they want. Pisces lives life doing what only he wants to do, so if he is with you that is exactly where he wants to be. What greater love is there than this? Enjoy your time with pisces. I will ask an aquarius to marry me, I just don’t know when or how… but I know I want this aquarius my entire life.
Experiencing the same thing been dating that guy for 3.5 years , when I bring up marriage or taking it to the next level he ignores it and says there’s so much time left for us . I don’t know if he’s the one for me
It is true. We have a true bond. Even when we argue, even during times of less passion, or distance. There is always that deep bond.
Aquarius women are used to more passion and intensity from the man. We like to be chased, we like to play it cool while the man shows the full range of his emotions because deep down we are scared and insecure about letting our hearts love fully. If an aquarius will not commit to you, it means you do not have her yet. I think pisces need someone else to take the lead this way as well. It takes time for the both of you to completely open up, but it is worth it.
For the aquarius girls that are second guessing this pairing, you won’t feel the spark right away like you would with a leo, aries or scorpio, but deep love that forms is much better than this. Suddenly you will be blindsided by real true love.
I think aquarius is the one that needs to make the moves in this pairing… which is hard because we are never chasers and we are used to fire and air sign men jumping through hoops to even get a date. (of course this doesnt mean they love love you!) It feels scary and vulnerable to show your affection but pisces will always accept it! Even if you think he is too busy or upset, he won’t reject your love. Which is something these fire and air sign men are terrible about!
Well, what I can say is the fact I am a Pisces and I am finding it hard to hand this Aquarius. She is a beautiful woman but she is so cold that I feel I have done something bad to her or that I have hurt her feelings. she confuses me and I feel she kinds play hard to get. But I can tell you I am done with her games and I am thinking of quitting.
Tell her how you feel, we Aquarian women can act outwardly cool and detached when in fact we are completely in love and are just afraid to loose our independence. That is how I lost my twin flame Pisces man, the love of my life when I was young.
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She is only cold because she is trying to convince herself that is the best way to be, when in fact its completely the opposite and she is in love. Us Aquarius women use that as a defensive mechanism sometimes. I say you tell her how you feel and she will understand.
Because to aquarius woman, PISCES is the one that appears cold and uniterested! I have talked to many aquarius women in relationships with pisces men and this is what most of them say! You both need to get past the stage of awkward shyness and doubting eachother, like the article says, once pat a certain point it is all smooth sailing.
Aquarians tend to try to act cold to protect themselves. Pisces has access to aquarius’ deepest emotions very quickly after meeting. Only pisces can do this to aquarius. Aquarius usually is looking for the love of her life, and will not commit unless she is sure that this person can fill this huge role.
Air and water makes fog, which is confusing and hides reality. It makes rain, covering you with emotions even when you are not looking to get wet!
Aquarius women hate to feel like we are intruding or bothering others. This is why we often end up with terrible abusive insensitive men that only think about their own needs and basically use aquarius as a willing slave!
It is up to you, pisces man, to let her know that you WANT her to come around and bug you and ask for you affection. Also, we are raised to be cold, so we will hide hurt feelings and pretend like everything is okay so people don’t make a big deal of it.
And yes! We are hard to get since we are used to brutish men that just chase and chase and only care about themselves. So we have this automatic guard up.
Don’t quit my brotha. I’m a Pisces too and patience is one of our stronger virtues. Just cause she seems cold doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you, it just means you got to step it up and switch it up. Keep her guessing by doing what we do best! Mysterious in your behaviour but yet letting a little bit of your true persona slip will let her know you do care and that you aren’t predictable cause Aquarius hate routine. Idk stick your tongue in her ass and see what that does. Anyways like they say in Canada “peace oooot!”
she already knows you are not in it for the long haul and tha’ts why she is the way she is towards you. Aquarius women cant stand weakness.
Don’t quit because an aquairus womans love is pure and true. She will treat all men the same, but if you can win her heart you will be the only one she shows her beautiful self to. She will play hard to get. this is not forever. When you win her she is forever for pisces. I waited for her to stop her silly games and pretending. When she saw that I am a real one, she is now addicted to me.
Serious Aquarius woman and I’m thinking about dating a Pisces man so I’m glad to have read everything because it he’s very nice handsome and he looks like somebody I could see in my life
Hi so who is this chap where’s he from
I am an aquarius woman I’m am with amazing pieces man but only thing is I messed up by hurting him we fought so much and he cheapt pointing finger at me I feel unworth what I’ve done I cheated drunk I try asking him to forgive me bkuz we have a bong wer e we can feel each others bad feeling I’m just just to afraid 2 lose him I understand ppl will hate for this but I’m willing to take on comes my way
well as pieces man, thats was a terrible mistake, we forgive but not from inside, so he will but is just period of time to start losing what he feels for you. we don’t forgive because we don’t forgets…
thats gonna make him look for others alternatives…..
sorry
I so feel for you fellow aquarius woman, I broke up with the love of my life, a Pisces man 30 years ago, who was my best friend and soul mate, I hang my head in shame and married an angry and violent Capricorn just to move as far away on the other side of the planet to not have to bear seeing him marry someone else… – I had it all- the most romantic, selfless, caring and loyal Pisces boyfriend and I made the worst mistake in my life when I left him out of my own insecurity….I hope one day he can forgive me, my heart belongs to him forever….
You cheated – YOU HAVE LOST HIM simple as that. Sorry.
If you replied to my comment, the answer is I never cheated on him, my father made me believe I wasn’t good enough for him, that someone as caring, compassionate and with the most gorgeous looks and personality could not love me…and I was insecure and very young, not easy to handle to meet your twin flame at the age of 14 and a bit and fall in love instantly – so much pressure when you are young, I’m very happy I wrote as letter of apology to him after 30 years when I broke my own and his heart at age 18 and he wrote back to me, even he is in a happy relationship I’m glad I know he’s forgiven me
I am an aquarius woman in love with a pisces man. I love him so much I really hope it works out for us, we have so many external obstacles between us. I really believe he is the love of my life and I will do all I can to make it work. Even if life forces us apart, I will make sure I am always in his life. Even if he ends up with another… but that being said I will make sure he never does haha. Our secret!
No, it is not as easy as the traditionally compatible signs, and I’m sure it’s more drama for him than dating another water or earth sign… but in a way, the drama just proves how much we love eachother. I am headstrong, and so is he! We fight but I know we both would rather just be in eachother’s arms. He makes me laugh, cry, smile, and sometimes just want to scream… in a good way and also in a bad way. But in the end I just want him.
Aquarius girls know how to chase a man without being obnoxious about it, and we also know when to withdraw. We quickly learn what the man wants in bed, or out of it. Yes we are independant, but when truly in love we just want to please our man. My suggestion to you aqua ladies is learn how to be more consistent and reliable. Words mean nothing to these men. Show him how much you care every day. Don’t forget because you get busy and wrapped up in the newest fun and cool thing! Always remember to take care of your pisces and he will be forever happy!
I did not do well with the fire or air signs. Pisces is perfect for this aquarius!
I totally agree with everything written.
@Eddie. Absolutely correct. My Aquarius wife was an amazingly lousy lover. So I got a job I loved, and put all my time and effort into that, and my sport. After the kids grew up we separated. She lives in one house, and I live in the other. I really enjoy the peace and quiet. Oh , we are still married, but that is in title only. I no longer need a woman in my life again. I enjoy the peace and quiet of not needing to justify myself to any one. If I wish to spend all day under a tree looking at the sky, I can. Of course, I still get people coming out of the blue, saying: “I have been wondering what you are doing.” (thid=s is on my property) As I have no wish to justify myself, I reply: “I don’t have the slightest curiosity about what you are doing. Stuff off.”
I myself am an Aquarian woman and have met a pieces male. When we met it was like, “finally!” Someone who gets me! I couldn’t believe how easy it’s been. I’m finally happy and content with someone. I was with a Leo man for fourteen years and his ego and materialistic ways made me sick. I just hope that no matter what comes of this relationship that I’ve been building with this pieces man that no matter what we enjoy each other to our fullest and always put our friendship first. I told him and he’s listened well. That what I need in a man is a friend at times, a lover for always, and someone who can be paitent and understanding. I’ve asked him what is it you need in a woman? And he said a woman who won’t cheat, who won’t lie, or cause drama in his life. I feel we will be just fine. Whether we are together just for now or 20 years from now. I feel no matter what we will always gain insight from one another and I truly feel no matter what we will forever and always be in each other’s lives.
Am aquarius woman, divorced since a few years from a very domining Aris husband. I like your comment Roszie. I just getting to know a pisces man, also divorced. I had a psychic reading and she told me were were a good match n take my chances with this pisces. I just wish that it develops in same way that your relationship Roszie…….. But first be good friends n go from there. Your experience gives me hope Roszie!!
I feel the same way about my pisces. No matter what happens, I know we will be together and in eachother’s lives. We are friends and lovers.
I’m an Aquarius woman and I was with a Pisces male for almost 2 years. The love connection was something out of this world, but we looked at relationships very differently. He looked more on the physical part and I was more towards the mental and with that it destroyed our relationship and it was a very toxic relationship. Now I moved on and is with a Gemini and he’s like my other half.
I’m a pieces man and I was married to one Aquarian woman for 20 years and had a long time relationship with another for 8 years. All i can say is great friends they were and are. Great lovers they are not and never were! Ability to be cold and not look after the needs of their pieces man is a definite issue. I personally feel sorry for any pieces man who finds himself in lover with an Aquarian woman and would advise against it. Phew, never again!
Yet, you lasted 20 years with one & 8 years with the other one lol
Thank you Lola… Valid. Point!!!
I am a Pisces man and I got out of a relationship with an aquarius women last year and we were going out for 3 years prior to the break up and a bit on and off through out the time frame, but we were so deeply in love with each other and passionate for each other it’s still to this day one of the best relationships I have ever had. I broke up with her in the worst way possible (not giving details and no it wasn’t cheating) and it completely shattered her and her trust in me. For the last year I spent trying to JUST BE FRIENDS with her (and nothing more until we were both ready) the entire year which I never do for any woman. But she resisted, I think she was paranoid that I had some kind of control over her and hanging out with her for too long might bring her gaurd down which makes sense I guess. But I finally told her I am exhausted in trying to prove myself. I said, “I gave you a year of my life, blocking out all other woman emotionally and physically and you’re still doing the bullshit with me, I’m done I’ll restart with someone else and just make sure not to make the same mistakes” she was all upset with me but she wore my level of care for her feelings down to 0%…now I’m with an Aries woman and it just feels right.
I’ve been friends with a picese man for about 5-6 years, we have spoken pretty much every day since then. 3 years ago i got into a relationship with a Leo (never again – toxic relationship and somewhat mental torture!)
I ended that after a year and found myself happy again when my picese friend managed to put a smile on my face.
We decided to date and things have never made more sense. We fit together like a glove, he is my best friend and a perfect partner. He knows me throughout and cherishes me.
The reason why i believe we work is because we were friends first, and fell in love later.
Aquarian women can be distant but when she finds the one, she’s all in.
Yesss Besties!! You are right… when an aquarian woman truly love….. which comes after being good friend…… we love all the way n give it all!!
I’m sorry about that but don’t be so hard on all of us! For aquarius women, we are fixed signs so it is all or nothing with us. We either want a relationship or we don’t, we either care or we do not. If trust is broken, it is almost impossible to fix. It CAN be fixed but you would have to give up a lot of your freedom pisces, and I know you would hate that.
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