Scorpio Woman and Aquarius Man Love Compatibility

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The relationship of Scorpio and Aquarius can be rather tempestuous at times, but exciting nevertheless. They both admire each other’s strength of character. Scorpio’s nature is intense and personal, and very passionate. While Aquarius is easy going, open and frank with not much to display emotionally. They need to be quite truthful, diligent and honest to have a long lasting relationship.

An Aquarius man lives his life in a dream state. He is highly independent and stands behind any decision or promise he makes. He is not one to hide himself or his emotions, which makes him easy to read but does not easily commit himself to anything or anyone if he does not care to. Aquarius man is a bit moody but generally one can find him calm, generous, affectionate and full of good and quality humor. He is always a very generous lover towards his lady. He is sympathetic to all her demands and can even control her emotional outbursts.

A Scorpio woman is a totally poised lady with alluring charm in her persona. She is a complete woman with seducing exquisiteness and adequate fascination to make the heads turn for her. She is the master of her soul. The constancy and passion for love in a Scorpio female comes inexorably. She is highly possessive and quite suspicious of all of her relationships. This woman provides a lot of affection both emotionally and physically to make her man feel secure. She is a wonderful lover but jealousy may arise when she finds other girl around her love making her feel uncomfortable.

Aquarius man appear to be detached and somewhere out of focus when it comes to reality but the Scorpio woman who loves him sees this as a breath of fresh air and sees it as contributing to her otherwise down to earth and practical lifestyle. Since she tends to suppress any emotion, refusing to give it up for the rest of the world to read and he is a plethora of excitement, dreams, ideas and antics, together they seem to mold to each other giving the perfect qualities to a bond well formed. She can read others quite well while keeping her hidden until the time comes to where she feels the need to reveal all or part of herself and that’s definitely when she meets her Aquarius man. She can also show him to be a bit more self-controlled when it comes to losing his cool. What happens in the end is as unpredictable as the future but with her patience and his co-operation they can always make a good relationship.

Aquarius man has to step up and make the first move to capture his Scorpio woman’s heart. He can always make her some different person than what she is when she meets him. He can teach her to be a bit freer and not such a stickler when it comes to putting her foot down with suspicion and possessiveness. There may be times when Scorpio woman let a bad past experience get in the way of their path together, but her Aquarius man’s ability to go with the flow of things helps her get around such blocks and continue with he man as they skip down that path hand in hand. She may tend to go down a certain path because of the way a past experience has worked out, but this is rare as she is more than patient in waiting for the right time for every decision she makes and this helps even her Aquarius man to get stable in life.

As the relationship of the Scorpio woman and Aquarius man gets mysteriously interlaced, they can read the unspoken messages through each others’ eyes making their intimacy astoundingly beautiful. She holds him with her beckoning secrets of her eyes and he binds her strongly through the indefinable mystery of his existence. Their dreams are shading with lilac and sparkling silver that makes their realities even more vivacious and flamboyant when they are together. He becomes more stable and responsible with time while she learns to be free and less suspicious. Their love has a delighted sensation that brings out all the daintiness of the Scorpio woman and binds her Aquarius man so strongly with silky threads of affection that he just leaves all his mysterious odds and falls in the never ending eternity of oneness with his lady love.

The sexual life of Aquarius man and Scorpio woman is not very smooth, especially in the beginning. Her need to be close during sexual intimacy is not easily found in Aquarius man. He appears to be detached from her and in the situation when he is physically present; still his thoughts are merely up in the clouds where they feel at home the most. She should know that he does not do this because of her. He is merely happier this way. This causes her heartache which, in turn, causes a rise in her suspicion and jealousy. Scorpio woman’s best bet would be to show her Aquarius man she can be as close a friend as she can be a lover. This gives her a better lover in him who is verbally as well as physically more expressive. On the other hand, as he shows some more sincerity and trusts his Scorpio lover, his thoughts will no longer hover around and will be too busy being focused on her making their sexual union more devoted one. This can help them to uncover their deepest emotions and follow their bliss in making love.

Problems arise between the two when Scorpio woman tries to bind her Aquarius man from his freedom, something he feels is his given right to have. He rebels against these ties and hurt her feelings. She, in turn, shows anger, jealousy and rage and even goes along through life as if he does not even exist. Scorpio woman draws her feelings back and hide them deep within her and appear to not care as to whether he does what he wants to do or not. This breaks the intensity between them and spoils the relationship. Without proper communication, they won’t be able to come to terms with the problems that arise in this aspect. In a mutual bond between the two, they can each learn from the other one. Aquarius man’s weaknesses are Scorpio woman’s strengths as her weaknesses are his strengths. They can always complement each other and make their relationship finer.

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    23.eccentric October 31st, 2016

    MAYBE, YOU SHOULD BE NOT TOO DISTANT TO HER…AND BE AFFECTIONATE

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    Jeinely September 23rd, 2016

    This is cool

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    Brianna1106 August 23rd, 2016

    Its funny they say that Scorpios are possessive, but every Aquarius man i ever talk fall in love with me and are clingy af, Im engaged with a Aquarius now hes like an other Scorpio lol he gets jealous and hes possessive.

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    iyonna June 17th, 2016

    This Is All So Truue .

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    ramone21 November 1st, 2015

     @rinor, i feel u. im an aquariusmale pursuing a scorpio female as well so i kno the fight very well. for the most part mekel is on point but still kinda far off. the article above is very accurate as far as my relationship with my scorpio.  shes ur oppposite and ur hers. tell her how u feel and be open with her. its just as it says, shes intense and personal. let her learn to b comfortable by showing her how u feel. tell her the way u think anf feel but also keep urself withdrawn. remember its our mysteriousness that profounds them. in time shell open up but u will have to make the first move.she wont show it in a way ull recognize but she might be scared. scorpios are deep and keep themselve hidden and gaurded. if ur not in it for love u wont make it with her.

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    cherry1116 August 6th, 2015

    @rinor  While your dating her, just take her to the beach. or to the movies. or just go home and snuggle and watch twilight. 
    Make sure you show her lots of love, don’t be too distant.

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    cherry1116 August 6th, 2015

    @rinor just tell her how you feel, if she feels the same way I’m sure she would love if you would just confess your feelings. that Scorpio woman is probably thinking of a way to tell you that she likes you. but just go for it and I am sure she will say yes.(sorry if my English is not the best, i am not at all American)

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    rinor October 8th, 2013

    Hi im an aquarius man and i have a crush on a scorpion woman but i still didn’t show her my feelings.I kinda know that she likes me too, now can someone give me a piece of advise what scorpion women like the most, so when ill date her ill make her very happy.

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    tamekakave May 16th, 2013

    I dated a aquarius man most my life on and off for 16 years he didn’t want to commit cheated and still was trying to this ending statement is so true… I def treat him like Jeff doesn’t exist but that’s hard because we have 3 kids… I’m curly saying another guy that an aquarius and I’m so scared because of my past expense with one .. I can’t lite though he seems different. but I’ll seebhowbthisbgoes. we aren’t in A relationship but I kindavwant to be… but no rush our force . thus gives me more time to evaluate the situation …

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    Knotts January 1st, 2013

    I am a scorpio woman who has been dating an aquarius man and i have to say…He is moody and difficult all the time. It has only been a couple of months and Ive already had to beat him down to the ground a couple of times. Hes like a new puppy without a leash. I think he just needs to be house broken and then everything should go smoothly.  I dont really mind his need for “freedom” it seems to work well with my need for “independence” that he keeps trying to take away from me.  When he tries to get in the way of my independence is when the arguing occurs. And his smart mouth is another reason for the arguments. He always seems to say the rudest thing anyone could ever say and then say im sorry like thats the cure for it. Buuuut when he’s nice hes really nice and that is the only reason stay around. I do ask myself what the hell am i doing with this jerk but than again i believe this is the only man that can deal with my sarcasm and not let it get the best of him.  Im still contemplating on rather or not i should kick him to the curb but if some how he manages to keep me around until summer I will know that he is a keeper because I plan on giving him lots of freedom while im at the gym working on my summer bikini body that my sexy scorpio frame carries so well instead of wasting my time trying to figure out what it is i like about him.  I will say Im hard to please and can be demanding but that is only when im stressed out.  but if he takes his time and really gets to know me… he will see that will do for him the same things that he does for me and if he can be nicer to me it would be easier for me to deal with his irritating personality traits.  The friction that goes on with this aquarius man and I is minor.  I can honestly say i havent had a dull moment with his jerk.

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    luv-u-aquarian-man December 13th, 2012

    *him

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    luv-u-aquarian-man December 13th, 2012

    hi, i am jennifer n i am cusp b/w scorpion and saggitarus and i like a guy who is also a cusp b/w piscean and aquarias……i seriously like this guy but he appears not to get out of his stupid breakup……though we are good friends i don’t understand how to go about the whole thig…..i believe i am a staunch scorpion so can’t pofess my love to me…what should i do….n how will be or compatibility?

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    aachned1 December 7th, 2012

    @Becky
    ironically enough, I’m fairly sure that’s what my fiance thinks about me. There is one major difference between you and your Aquarius, and me and my Scorpio though, I lack an ego completely. In place of most males of the human race who have an over-prominent one, I completely lack one. She has yet to figure this out, and in our case, SHE is the one with the ego, though that’s not entirely bad, seeing as that means I can just inflate it further. 🙂

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    aachned1 December 7th, 2012

    Being a male Aquarius myself, I agree with nigh all of this, though seizing as I’ve been engaged to a Scorpio now for three years (and this was within a week of having begun to date her) I’d say that not ALL of us are quite so reluctant to join them. The only reason she and I aren’t married yet, is because we got engaged, and I am aware that this is probably a terrible idea to post online but oh well, when we were 15. I am the younger, though that didn’t stop me from asking. In fact, quit the opposite. She was wanting me to from the first day. I will admit this, I was reluctant to propose though only because we had just met. Within a week however, she got me to, and as of June 23, 2015, she and I will be married. Why wait so long you ask? Neither of our parents really care all that much for the other. 🙁 but beyond that, she and I have had absolutely no problems yet. Famous last words, I know, but oh well, nor however do either of us see any in the future, even despite all of these “predictions of doom to come”. Thank you this taking the time out of your lives to read this.

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    Darkstone83 August 1st, 2012

    Yep, this is pretty spot on. The reason I searched for this is because I worked alongside a married Scorpio woman. She and I hit it off quickly in a bland workplace no less, and had so much fun we made other people jealous because we laughed all day. As days turned into months, we texted eachother goofy funny stuff, pictures, jokes. Then we started texting as friends outside of work. Around this time, I noticed she was quite flirty, and because she is very attractive, and now, looking back on it, has that typical scorp allure, I was spellbound before too long. I think I read into things too deeply, as my overly analytical Aquarian brain does often. So our friendship became a rollercoaster as I became increasingly dependent on her affection, and from time to time she would put a wall up in defense. We never could stop communicating though, as one of us would wind up texting the other eventually. As things changed at work, and I was moved from sitting next to her, I had trouble letting go of her. She quit that job a couple weeks ago, and we parted ways on good terms, as I gave her a drawing as a sort of gag gift and she gave me a card telling me ahe wouldnt have made it at that job a whole year had it not been for me. That made me feel good. It was nice to leave that kind of imprint on a woman. Especially a scorpio woman now that I have more insight into their nature. I dunno what it is about them, but they are irresistable. To this day, there were some things that made me wonder about her, or if those thoughts were just my natural instinct to think too much, but one thing is for sure, I miss her like crazy, and will more than likely never come across such an awesom lady in the workplace again. I got on here, because just like this articel pointed out, she helped realize some things about my nature, just being friends. The few deep conversations we had were heartfelt and insightful, and now I know why Scorps are generally very private people. If I ever get a chance with a single scorp female, maybe now i’ll have a little better idea of how to approach and handle her!

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    Ms-Scorpio June 26th, 2012

    Orks,
    It seems you may have decided not to respond-Lost your email to login. It is okay I have done the same. Now, i was also with an aqua man that broke my heart; with not helping financially, nor not helping around the house. I do believe that a man and a job- living with me should contribute half of the house/rent. He didnt do that; and then also, very lazy * not helping out around the house and into his video games. He did win me over with an engagement ring and was very romantic at first. yes- was dating his representative at first-lol However, women no matter what sign needs a “real man,” not one that puts a ring on it gets great sex, clothes washed, dinner cooked should be at least paying 1/2 rent.I work full time also, so not helping me out with housework; just pissed me off! I could only take so much and after many talks nothing worked so asked him to move out. So after a week he asked my bff-girl out. Then after the turn down he went back to texting me saying he misses me. REALLY?-I see a big lack of morals here- so ignoring his text because i am not wasting my time on replying. If anything he was in love with the idea of a commitment; but didnt do his homework to do what it takes to make one work. And ironically, my household bills went down-:-) imagine that.

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    Ms-Scorpio June 21st, 2012

    Hello. My question to orks-aqua man posted May 4th 2012 is what did ended the relationship? Was it your inability to commit to your Scorp?
     

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    orks May 4th, 2012

    Well, here is some male perspective on the subject – I’m an Aquarian, who has fallen in love with a Scorpio woman. And she broke my heart few times in a row over the years. And when a say broke, I mean it.  You can imagine how it was, finding me reading such sites to get some reason behind all this.  I met her several years ago. At one point, she developed a huge crush on me. I could not reciprocate at all, informed her right away and I tried to push her off as gently as possible. But she persisted and persisted. Then I gave up a bit, then some more, then even more – we finally had a relatiion, which I planned to terminate, once her feelings ware off.   She was all over me, all the time – messaging, texting, calling.  The problem was, it felt so smothering, at one point I felt I can’t breath, literally.
     And here is some hint about this breeding space that Aquarius needs – by nature we are intrugued by the ‘big picture’ of things.  You can picture it as the Aquarian being a kite and the Scorpio being the kite holder.  The Aquarian likes to be hold tight (otherwise they lack ground) and the Scorpio likes to have someone who can tell how things look from afar. If you pull the kite too close to the ground, it will fall off (as it lacks the wind) and you don’t need a ‘fallen’ Aquarius, it is too pitifull. On the other hand, if the kite flies too high, the Scorpio starts worring constantly should it not fly off.  Learning to maintain the right distance is not easy, but here is a hint girls – there is no question an Aquarian man wouldn’t answer.  We run by simple logic – if there is reason to it, it deserves an answer.
    Few thoughts on the detachment thing – it is true that we are not very efficient in the emotions sector.  It took years and years for me to master that and I’m still no close to what Scorpio can do. Scorpios are gifted with all the facilities to manage emotions the way they feel. Aquarians, on the other hand, have no controls in this sector – and if an Aquarian falls into his emotions – he simply does not know what to do or how to react (it’s like trying to breath when some one is pouring buckets of water over your head).  That is why we retract – cause we need to get away from the source of confusion.  We need some time to find a reasonable explanation to these emotions.  
    Also, Aquarians are ruled by Saturn, there are simply times when we switch off – and it is not only relationships, it could be work, chores, hobbies, anything. Patience is the key to such periods. If you stick to your Aquarian man through this period (provided you ask him if he has something else on his mind) he will appreciate you even more after wards.  As to Aquarians being hard to comit – it is true too. But there is an explanation for that, as well.  Aquarians are well aware of their ‘windy’ nature.  We know this, because we experience a great deal of mood change, choice change, emotional change, more often than any other sign (I think).
    But Aquarians are also very responsible people, by nature.  So you can imagine that there is a complicated system of check ups (of our own feelings and emotions) trough time, to make sure we can be with someone. We need to find some deeper levels (which are much more stable) we can link to, before we can say to someone – I want to be with you.  And it takes time.  But above all – ask all the time. Ask the most direct and blunt (to your view) questions – you can rest asure you will get (in most cases anyway) true answers. And from there you can make you mind.  
    Now having said all that – it did not help in my case, but my ‘rollercoster’ was very transforming. And this is what you can expect from such a relationship – both of you will change for the better in the long run. And it does take effort and energy, but no matter of the end result, it is worth it. In my case, a Taurean man (and you can read to comments on this relationship in the site) will reap the benefits of this transformed Scorpio women I still think about a lot, but hey – if she is happy, I am also happy. Cause no Aquarian will feel happy, if the person next to him is unhappy. So – things either work out or they don’t  (no rocket science in that). But if they do – the amount of effort you have put in, will come back doubled at the end. If they don’t – you will have learned much more about yourself and about the world in general. And for a Scorpio, this could mean a lot.  If it sticks and does not go anywhere – sit down and discuss it.  Emotional fits look very immature to an Aquarian, as they lead to nowhere and the Aquarian man starts to wander if this is a mature person he is dealing with. Think of us like Vulcans. Startrek fans will fill in the rest.
     Finally, few more things to watch out for – we are both fixed signs and this translates into a lot of stubborness on both ends. You need to discuss a plan how to deal with such situations.  Also, you may not notice it Scorpio girls, but you are a lot about power and control in the relation.  With some Aquarians that may work, but with some it translates into a power struggle.  Coupled with stubborness – you can easily lose sight of the real things that connect you.  Make a plan for that as well – like impose a one day silence rule.  There is great chance the next day your Aquarian man will not remember what was all that about.  And find some common projects, hobbies or shared interests.  This is where you well see the real potential of this not easy, but very electrifying combination.  Hope this long post brings some more sense to your experiences. 
     

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    Nataleen777 April 13th, 2012

    I’m an Aquarius and my ascendent is gemini, so I act and appear as a gemini. I know aquarius likes space…because after a lot of repetition and social activity I like it when I’m alone better. My boyfriend is a Scorpio…he’s not my first scorpio, scorpio guys always liked me and asked me to be there girlfriend since I was 9 lol. Anywho…last I checked they wear this facade like they don’t want me to know their workaholics and that they like my feisty side…the sex is amazing. But it’s been good with Virgos and Aries too. I like scorpios because they always seem to make me there crabby princess…I once read in article that celebrity scorpio girls have this thing for aquarius guys…hmmm interesting. Well as an aqua gal I want to be the boss and scorpio thinks that’s hot…to top it off they claim I’m the sexiest girl ever, I have never been smothered by anyone more than scorpio guys…Also I think it depends on the astrologer on what he/she thinks. Because I’ve read different opinions from different astrologers.
    But yes aquarius and scorpio for the most part intrigue each other, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher? Well that was hot and steamy wasn’t it 😉

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    Audriii April 1st, 2012

    I’m a scorpio girl and am talking to an aquarius boy. The distance is way too big so it pretty much sucks, but I accepted the fact that he lives far away because when someone means so much, distance means so little right ? Anyway, I’ve been talking to him for almost 8 months before it all went a mess…BUT to be honest, when we first talked I’ve never had so much fun talking to someone, he’s super sweet, and has told me things that no one has ever told me before, We’ve webcammed, we’ve tried finding ways to text eachother but failed at it haha, We listen to the same bands, And he’s just so good for me. I’ve never felt so loved by someone before i’m just like “Damn, I can’t believe somebody loves me” He sort of gave me hope. My past relationships were shit so yea. I think he was crushing on me hard cause’ he messaged me every night then I started messaging him and when he would be busy he would apologize why he wouldn’t reply and I was okay with it. We started talking more then he would secretly give me little hints that he liked me and he really did. So, We both started having strong feelings for eachother. Aquarians do make you feel lucky! but then I guess he needed his “space” and I didn’t know that so as a scorpio I was a little suspicious and i’m also not really good at these things so I started asking friends advice and they would always say negative shit so I got scared and fucked up because I wasn’t “trusting him” and he got upset with me…we made up everything was better now, but since aquarians always need their “space” He went away for like a week or two and they’re kind of confusing cause sometimes one day they can be like “baby <3” and the next they would act like such assholes I don’t know they’re weird. Anyway, that’s where I started freaking out and I made a bad move and we sort of stop talking…I know he’s mad and disappointed in me because I thought he had moved on and I thought I should too, but couldn’t let go cause I really fuckin’ love him and I know he loves me…I never stopped trying to talk to him cause I wanted answers obviously. Now by reading all these comments I should’ve just waited for him to talk to me first and not assume shit. I sort of started doing my own thing and he would get pissed off or jealous. I don’t know what to do anymore. I just want to get on good terms with him. Communication is the key I just don’t know what to say. Help ? 

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    heartsflowers2002 March 6th, 2012

    I’m a Scorpio woman that has been with an Aquarius man for more than eighteen years…Most of what you read on these sites is true, in my experience.
     
    The biggest issue being: a gap of emotional levels, …hmm, at least the expression of them.
     
    The next biggest issue, would be his need of independent freedom. For it to work, the Scorpio woman has to learn to not take it personally and understand that it is just his nature (I still struggle with that sometimes). For him, that he is still around and desires to go do things with you, is like a great big “I’m in Love with You!”
     
    The last thing I have found, is that the foundation in this relationship, is a profound friendship. Even when things are crumbling at their worst, even if the romantic part seems gone, there is a true friendship there that you can rebuild upon.
     
    My Aquarius guy…He is unique.
     
    …This is a macho guy whose recreation is shooting BBs at other macho guys for sport, crawling over desert mountain rocks with other macho guys in jeeps, watching monster trucks, he’s not uneasy when seeing a medical show that’s kind of gross…
     
    But then, when I have no one else to help me, he is helping me highlight my hair pulling strands of hair through the cap, helping me make jewelry, (impressing himself with new experiences, without assigining gender or significance to them) he is going to parent-teacher conferences, doing grocery shopping and cooking…This surprises people when I tell them because he looks like a great, big lumberjack, all rough around the edges and his fingernails are usually stained with grease from fixing things. There are no gender roles with him. He can cook and I can take out the trash and it doesn’t matter becasue we are intellectually equal as far as he is concerned (although this is liberating, Sometimes, the flipside is that he comes across as unromantic–Why should he pull your chair out for you when you are perfectly capable of doing it yourself? After all he knows you moved that dresser to the other side of the room?)
     
    … He loves science, medical shows, Sci-Fi, TLC, History Channel (not so much history itself though, unless it’s about weapons, things like that–the past is not as interesting to him as the future–although the Scorpio in me sees their connection to each other) I ask him my science questions and answering them, for him, is as easy as it is for me, to define an emotional issue. A scientific, logical kind of mind…Tolerant temperament (sometimes you hate this, other times you are thankful for it) While I am shouting, emotional and passionate, he is the one who is going to calm it all down so we can both get back into our minds lol. Arguing is a waste of his time (on the flipside, the Scorpio in me finds it hard to connect with someone who isn’t impassioned or inflamed by much.)…
     
    He likes simplicity when I thrive in complexity, he is comforted by the surface while I long to dive to depth… He is very stubborn! Very stubborn… He is stable and dependable, and I am emotional and excitable. At our best, he brings me calm and I lend him excitement. He creates a secure environment when I can play like a girl, which amuses him and makes him smile and continue to maintain that sort of environment for me.
     
    Anyway, it really all depends on the couple I guess. Lot of power struggles, both are fixed signs. One is about thought, the other about feelings, a hard road…. But Aquarius is unique. You have to engage in the mind before anything else I think. You have to be able to be his best friend, above all. And when all else fails, you start again from that.
     
    (My Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, and Mars are in Scorpio and my rising sign is Taurus…His stuff… is all over the place lol. We are both Tigers in Chinese astrology. Tiger is likened to Aquarius of Western Astrology I believe…)

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    scorpio1519 January 10th, 2012

    im a scorpio women…who fell in love with an aquarius man. It was amazing, he was the calm to my storm. He was intelligent, sweet, romantic, always thought of my needs and wants. It was blinding we were so in love, I was never jealous which is a first because I knew he didnt see anything past me. The sex was amazing, it was always about my needs. We were best freinds at the same time as lovers, we shared most things…but he did lack in the emotion department when it came to expressing things other then his love for me. We ended up spending to much time together, he really did need his space…but would never say anything about it. Being a scorpio I was always straight up when I thought there was a problem and he would laugh and say it wasnt an issue or that we would talk about it another time. There was alot of romance though, he opened the car door for me and kissed me on the cheek before I got into and out of the car. waiting outside my house in the dead of the night because he wanted to see me. laying in bed listening to music and just talking about anything and everything. I was lost in a dream world that came to an end. which broke my heart and left me very confuse as to what happened. Though he broke it off, he left me with an explanation to the best of his ability….which I still till this day respect him for. He still sends me songs that I might like, or tells me how much he misses me and loves me…but even though he says these things he never acts on it…just empty promises.I love him still, being a scorpio has its down falls because I dont think I will never let him break my heart again. Plus I see him differently now I realized our relationship was not perfect, I was the adult in our relationship  where he was kind of immature. If you find the right aquarious its worth the try to be with them, they will open your eyes to a different world, a world where your more at peace with everything and everyone. Its amazing, adventurous…give them their space, and be open with them. Enjoy them because you can learn alot from them.

  24. Shannon February 27th, 2011

    I am a scorpio woman who fell head over hills for an aquarius man. We were together for 3yrs. I loved him from the moment we met. Our chemistry was crazy & intense. The sex was AMAZING! We connected on such a beautiful level. I was so blinded from reality because I was lost in love. I thought he was perfect in the beginning. As the time went on I realized it was all part of his manipulation. He wanted his freedom but he didnt want me to have mine. He was disrespectful where other women were concerned. I didn’t see it at first but once I looked back he had been that way from the start. He needed other women to feed his ego as he made me look like a fool. He was over friendly & opened the door for alot of unnecessary bs. He did all the right things for the first yr & 1/2, so I let my guards down. I was hesitant on marriage, but he would constantly bring it up. When I agreed then he would make excuses. He had an excuse for everything. I had given my all & opened up my heart completely, before I even realized it. Once he knew he became worse. He was mean with words & actions. He literally put me through hell. I admit I took him back time & time again, but it was just a game for him. He walked out after 3yrs because I valued respect to much. He told me I would have to lower myself to be with him & let him do whatever he wanted while I did what he wanted me to do. He cheated & so much more & claimed it was all justifiable. Needless to say I finally woke up & seen him for who he was “A REAL JERK”. It’s crazy I think I stayed so long because I was hoping the passion that had once brought us together would come back. This relationship was a rollercoaster ride of emotions that seemed as if it never slowed down. As odd as it may seem I still love him & miss what we once had. Now not all aquarius men are this way, I just eneded up with the wrong one. Don’t be blinded by his niceness or good words. Just pay attention to the little things & watch how he acts around different people. Don’t be a blinded fool as I was…..

  25. masa February 27th, 2011

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  26. Natisha February 14th, 2011

    Im a scopio n he an aqua.he jst drive me crazy n smetime he dnt txt nor call me n zat doesnt mean he dont love me its because he is stresed or in a prob.Wait 4 him n hav faith he will cme back 2 u.U jst need 2 b very patience wiz zem .My aqua man make me laugh n smtme cry.Bt in all he loves me lodzzzzzzzzz he is a real sugar n i can wait yearsssssss 4him.we both we r stubborn bt i bow myself infront of him to make our relation works. And never separate zem wiz zer frnds. Patience work best here.

  27. Catrice February 4th, 2011

    Hey Rony, just tell her. Scorpio women (myself included) can really appreciate a man who can express his feelings.
    Go for it, I know i absolutely love the aquarian man that approached me. He was unlike anyone i have ever met for sure.

  28. Rony February 3rd, 2011

    HI LADIES IM AQUARIUS GUY IM DIEYING FOR THIS SCORPION IM JUST GETTING MY HEART MELT IM INTO HER ALREADY BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HER ANY HELP!?!?!?

  29. Candi January 13th, 2011

    I am a scorpio living with my aquarius man! Yes we have had our ups and downs but he makes me laugh more than anyone. Hes always full of surprises, but yes hes very slow to commitment. Weve been living together for a year and 5 months now, and he finally gave me a promise ring for Christmas, he still doesnt want a full on commitment, but he doesnt want me to be with anyone else either.. If he would ask me to marry him today I would say yes, but I am a very patient person, and I intend to wait for my prince charming when hes ready….

  30. Nisha November 10th, 2010

    wow, am surprised with all the above comments..indeed so true that these aquarian men tend to be distant and treats us like a barest minimal in their life at times. im in love with an aquarian man. I met this guy., to be precise, met him at my NEIGHBOORHOOD!! I have met that amazing man. We live just a block away from each other. He was weird yet attractive. Immensely! Before I knew it, I fell for him 10years ago. So right now, after waiting for over ten years for him to notice me. He finally manages to notice me. This perfect stranger is that guy whom I have dreamt about. The faceless man, whom now i found an identity to. From the time I realized I have fallen in love with him, I have been made to feel that I wasn’t worthy of this man. He was the first male to make me feel inadequate. He was also the first male that made me want to get him. The journey was bumpy, and it still is. but the wait was fruitful the moment I got a clue to his identity. I got the clue to this man’s identity. Finally! It was exhausting.. The only thing that I don’t know is, for how long do I have him in my contact? For the past 1yrs after i got to know him,he has been soooo ignorant. Or he is simple playing hard to get. N around last year december bumped into him when i was with my best friend. thats when my friend and i plan to approach him to get a clue to his identity. so somehow my friend striked a conversation with him. as much as i thought he wasnt friendly, he proved me wrong. he was really nice and friendly. somehow i spoke to him as well. i was so happy for the fact that i atleast managed to get his name after 10 years of waiting for him to notice me. he even gave his email ID. which seem useless, cos he hardly replys to mails. i’ve dropped him a few mails but NO reply. after that a few times,i managed to see him around when i go over to the school he is teaching, with pretext to work. then he seemed friendly too. he speaks well in person..he even gave his mobile number. but when i call, he is normarlly busy…and tells me he will return to my call. but he never does

    What surprises me is that, despite knowing him after 10 years, i happened to know that we share quite abit of similarities. we both were from the same primary school..but never noticed each other then..n we both stay just a block away..and a few other similarities. the kind of relationship i am having with him, is kind of nothing now. Its not a friendship, a fling or a relationship. We are still like 2 strangers who by chance crosses path.his nice. i dont know if he ever felt what sadness is really like. i really like him. I dare say I loved him for the past 10 years and till today I am loving him. his more like the guy whose not at all existent. he exist in the world, also a block away from me, but his world is not anywhere near mine and mine near his. half the time it seem that his entirely in love with himself and no one else matters to him. Just recently, out of the blue we started going to work together. He is a gem of person in reality,jus that he is simply not cut for a relationship now. Ive confessed my feelings to him. And true enuf,he was honest enough to say he prefers starting it off as friends. He msges me once a while and at times he totally doest his MIA acts (i agree its just his nature of the aquarius.) The scorpio in me tries so hard tame the anger tho i will send him vexed msges when i am mad. He is the man i have stretched my patience with. I hope someday he wil reciprocate my feelings..cos i understand how family oriented and loving an aquarian guy can be after marriage. 🙂

  31. sn November 9th, 2010

    im also a scorp he aqua, we have been together for 2 years. hes in the navy so of course fits right into his needing his space. its hard im needy. right before he deployed this last time he proposed. it was awesome in the middle of his deployment i visited him for two weeks and he is coming home in 2 weeks….he just told me that he needs space even if he is half way around the world right now. he said he does not know how he feels right now…i think its cold feet. but now after reading this website i think its just his nature of the aquarius…so i feel a little better. i told him i will respect his space when he is ready to talk to me im here but i will not bother him. i do feel much better after reading this website

  32. AM November 6th, 2010

    I’m also a scorp female talking to an aqua man for about 3 months. I must say it can get confusing at times. I totally adore my aqua though and he’s incredibly sweet. He is very independent and likes his freedom; he is the slow to commit type. One pointer I will give is, you have to have your own life outside of him. When he gets distant, you get distant as well and do your own thing. You will always find a way back to each other. I personally love my freedom and independence, so I completely understand my aqua’s need for space. I also understand his need to be cautious when entering into a relationship because I am the same way. You can’t tell if someone is going to be right for you within the first six months of dating (whether you were friends at first or not). So why try and rush things…? This is how aqua’s view commitment.

  33. Karen October 19th, 2010

    I’m a scorpio woman and have been with a aquarian man for the past 20 years, we married 17 years ago and it is never dull. What is written about these signs is to true, they need their space and individual independance, they can be unattached at times which makes our life a very very unhappy time. Rollcoaster is not the word as far as I am concerned, sometimes it can be worse than that, but the upside to this is that I wouldn’t have him any other way, he’s my rock and my friend. When things are good they are extemerly fantastic but when they go bad its like living in hell.

  34. Becky October 15th, 2010

    I’m a scorpio woman and I’ve recently become involved with an Aquarian man and the connection in incredibly intense. We’ve been seeing eachother for about 4 months and I find I have the opposite problem! He wants to be around me CONSTANTLY. Not to the point of being controlling or creepy, just a lot. He needs me to spend every night with him and gets upset when we don’t see eachother…I kinda wish he was the typical aquarian as I’m the kind of girl that really likes my space…

  35. karen October 5th, 2010

    i started dating this aquarius guy, but we kind of rushed into things and he knew i lived far when we started it. once i went back home he realized the distance was tougher than he’d thought and reality of distance finally hit him. now i feel like an idiot, because i had a feeling of being unsure from the start. i need some advice on what to do he says he wants to be friends.but now i don’t jsut want him as a friend, because i got a taste of how sweet he can be.im confused.

  36. Catrice September 27th, 2010

    WOW! I am a scorpio woman. I met an Aquarius man 4 months ago. We had great conversation, he mailed me beautiful cards, emails, poems all of the time. I finally met him in person after 3 months because we live thousands of miles away from each other. Our first weekend was beautiful. He proposed to me and gave me an exceptionally unique engagement ring and a pearl necklace. Since i returned home he has been extremely distant. I asked him if everything is ok and he said “his feelings are the same for me and nothing has changed”. But it’s just so different from how things were when we first started communicating months ago.
    I text and him just to say good morning and sometimes he will not even respond.
    i just do not know if i should wait for him to call or text me
    instead of texting him.
    YIKES! I say to myself why would he give me an engagement ring if he wasn’t serious. It’s even harder because of the distance. When i read the comments on here i feel a little better about it being somewhat of a characteristic of an Aquarius Man. This is going to be an emotional challenge for me.

  37. Angie September 21st, 2010

    Wow! I thought it was just me. I met this Aquarian man in June, but I went to high school with his family members. I gave him my number for business, but he did not call until August. I thought he was not interested. He asked me was I going to this concert that was a few days away and I said that I was thinking about it. Then I asked him did he want to go. Every since then we have been doing something almost once a week, but it is like pulling teeth. I feel like he likes me and he kind of says it. But as soon as it seems like we are going to get closer, he pulls away. I want to leave him alone, but everytime he calls, I just giggle and say he not so bad. When we are together, he treats me like a Queen. I think that is why I miss him when he does not call or come by for a few days in-between. I can relate to all you ladies.

  38. CATHERINE September 21st, 2010

    I was married to an Aquarius man for 17 years. Independence was a huge must for him and he would take himself off all weekend to do his own thing. He was very grounded, steady and loyal but by god he was frustratingly picky about the most smallest of issues. He exagerated constantly and I found this to be irrational at times and extremely irritating. He always had to be right and was actually quite arrogant. He would fly off the handle at the drop of a hat and then insist that his point of view was right. The sexual side was pretty uneventful too – cool, selfish and uninteresting. I would never entertain another Aquarian again. After 17 years of marriage – I would of got less doing time for murder!

  39. Klarice September 20th, 2010

    I’ve been married to my Aquarius for almost a year now. I see the aloofness and detachment but I don’t need reaassurance every second of every day to know that he loves me. If he didn’t he wouldn’t be with me, married or not. We’ve been together almost two years and are inseperable. We’ve only slept apart three times since meeting and that was bc of work and a hospital stay. He enjoys his freedom but I’m always a part of everything he does. When the chips are down and I need him he’s always there to help me through difficult times, no questions asked. Couldn’t ask for a better husband. This is also my first Aquarius relationship.

  40. saunie September 12th, 2010

    I am a Scoprio woman and there’s an Aquarius man that I’ve known for about a year. We’ve only hung out a handful of times and talk occasionaly through txt and IM. One time he called and asked me to go have coffee with him and found it cute that he actually called me. Now I am finding myself more and more attraced to him everytime we hang out. How do i deal with the aloofness? I understand he values his space and often it is about two weeks or more when we see each other. and he asks me where I dissapear to and I ask him the same thing! But now i’m finding it hard to deal with all the space…sometimes i feel like finding someone who will be there more. I know he is attracted to me, and he told me it starts as friends first. But I dont want it ot be only sexual so that is why I hae not slept with him.From what Ive read m scared of getting hurt or used. Should I be patient and give in to him or should I just leave and not waste my time?

  41. ms scorpio September 4th, 2010

    I’m a true Scorpio female and there’s this Aquarius guy who likes and cares for me and to be in a relationship with me. He saw me at his cousins bday party few months ago and has been asking about me. Just the last 3 weeks we have been talking, texting every day every sec. I know he sincerely does care for me n wants my happiness whether with him or not. I’m beginning to have feels but after reading what everyone have said its scaring me go forward with it. I’m surprised by everyone’s comment about get slow to commit cause he’s ready he opened up to me right way n poured his heart out his past present n future first. So now I don’t know if I wanna move forward cause I don’t want any more drama or rollercoaster relationship.

  42. HOT GIRL August 6th, 2010

    I’M A SCORPIO WOMAN WHO HAS BEEN WITH A AQUARIUS MAN FOR A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS,BUT I MET HIM ABOUT 7 YEARS AGO….I CAN RELATE TO ALL THATS BEING SAID,MY AQUARIOUS IS SUCH A HARD NUT TO CRACK,MEAN WHILE I AM THE EMOTIONAL ONE WHO ALWAYS NEED AN EXPLANATION ON WHERE WE STAND…HE NEVER EVEN ASKED ME OUT,I HAD TO FIGURE OUT WE WERE TOGETHER.HIS NON-CHAULANT WAYS ARE SO HIGH ITS TAKING SO MUCH ENERGY TO BREAK HIM IN…I DNT USE FORCE I JUST USE MIND POWER..I GIVE HIM HIS SPACE AND LET HIM FIND ME WHEN HE IS READY…DO U KNOW HOW HARD IT IS NOT TO BLOW HIS PHONE UP AND SAY HOW I REALLY FEEL!….THOSE DARN AQUARIOUS DNT RESPOND WELL TO EMOTIONS AND PRESSHA.ILL THROW SOMETHING OUT AND SEE HOW HE RESPONDS TO IT…THE FUNNY THING IS U WOULD THINK HE IS NOT INTERESTED BUT IF HE REALLY FELT THAT WAY HE WOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH U.THEY DONT FAKE THE FUNK!IF THEY WANT U IN THERE LIFE U WILL BE IN IT…BUT IF UR WORTH NOTHING THEY WILL LEAVE U WHERE U STAND.IM ALSO A TOUGH NUT SO I AM ENJOYING FIGHTING FOR HIS HEART…OH YEA AND ONCE THEY HAVE BEEN HEART BROKEN…U HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF WORK TO DO…THE KEY TO A SCORPIO WOMAN V.S A AQUARIOUS MAN IS PATIANCE.

  43. Confused August 1st, 2010

    WOW, OMG, I can’t believe this is normal for this type of signs getting together. I am a scorpio women with Aquarius man for the last 7months, but I have kinda known him for 6 years. It drives me crazy the shyness to commit, we (for sure me) need to communicate better. But everything above is true, strange how could this be? But i hope it works out cause I really like him

  44. AdRiaNA July 17th, 2010

    I am a true scorpio for the most part and in a relationship with an aquarius man for almost 3 years. However, I can say rollercoaster is an understatement for wat we been through. But our chemistry is CRAZY!!! I mean we are really connected mentally and physically. Although, Aquarians are not supposed to be very affectionate, he is VERY affectionate with me and actually is jealous. Believe it or not with him I’m not jealous at all considering he DEFINATELY wants his freedom. I let him have it and just dismiss at as no big deal so I don’t get mad or insecure and it works. And also when it comes to tempers, believe it or not I’m the less tempermental. However, I tend to be the more responsible and I guess demanding type which kind of causes conflict between us.

  45. Lans July 14th, 2010

    Saundra, Girl go for it. Its very difficult to have an aquarius come to this point all by himself, as they do fiercely guard that side of them. Just remember that he is your best friend first and everything else after, give him his space and you would always be his focal point. Blessings to you both.

  46. Saundra July 12th, 2010

    I am a true scorpio and I am hesitant on whether or not I should date this aquarian because all the compatabilities said it just wouldn’t work out. He is really adament about getting into a relationship with me and speaks daily about taking care of me and potentially a family. I was going to just leave things alone but after hearing all these comments about the relationship surviving I think I may give him a shot 🙂

  47. SCORPETTE July 1st, 2010

    Aquarius men are sooooooooo sexy! I am very attracted to one that needs his space. I need mine too. We have this in common which makes it difficult for us to have a relationship but I am all for understanding this man to accurately communicate with him so I can keep getting that good stuff! I love the way his mind works. We communicate through music too.

  48. Lans July 1st, 2010

    I am also a Scorpio woman involved with an Aquarius man. We have known each other for about 2 years, but have only started getting serious about 6 months ago. Communication is definitely the key to making this union work and also understanding that unlike us, the Aquarius man treasures his space. Always remember that when he dissapears, it has nothing to do with you. That’s just how he’s made up. Once he feels that you wouldn’t judge him based on that, he will be more open to you.

  49. Lianna June 22nd, 2010

    I Am a Scorpio Woman and I’ve been with a Aquarious man For 8months now. We are crazy about eachother and have a really strong connection. At times things get rough but if you take the time out to try and understand eachother and work together in making it work the relationship will be a success. Stubbornness on both ends is always going to be an issue but you need to understand your similarities and differences inorder to move forward together and make it work!

  50. gabbie May 5th, 2010

    well im 100% scorpio nd im madly in luv wit an aquarius man.we have bheen tewgetha for 3 months nd counting.Yea sometymes dha dings dhat he does makes mhe jealous.Yea we had our problems in the past.But, one thing that is bothering mhe is our communication.I feel at tymes dhat he avoidin mhe bt i ghot ova it.I also agree 100% with the statements above everything that the paragraphs above say reminds mhe of mhe nd mha boifriend.

  51. Shama April 22nd, 2010

    Well.. i can’t disagree on above as me being a total 100% scorpio in quality and attitude and having a man of Aquarian over 10 years with a relationship. I’m always the one who needed to be assured of our relationship status and the bond and he is a guy who’d always grounded and too cool sometime makes our self get in to trouble but as i look back. It’s not needed. And the same time i was always ready to communicate the needed details to resolve the issues but my aquarian is so hesitant in talking about the problems face to face. But we do share a very strong bond which kept us both together this far and because of his cool type it was him who always accept me when i calm down after a storm. Also, it’s very true that he takes a long long time to make a decision and nothing can influence him other than his own decision. He’s SLOW TO COMMIT but a family type. Scorpio always has this strong feeling for aquarian and i feel this can be a best relationship if both knows each other and fairly communicate one another..

  52. =) March 31st, 2010

    I AM A SCORPIO WOMAN AND HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AQUARIUS MAN FOR 7 MONTHS. I AGREE WITH THE WHOLE “AQUARIUS WANT FREEDOM” THING, OUR RELATIONSHIP STRATED OFF REALLY WELL, BUT THERE WERE SOME ISSUES BECAUSE AS A SCORPIO WOMAN I AM POSSESIVE AND INSANELY JEALOUS WHAT HAVE I LEARNED FROM ALL THIS? TO TRUST MY PARTNER AND COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO THE RELATIONSHIP. IN ORDER FOR IT TO WORK AQUARIUS MAN HAS TO BE JUST AS DEDICATED AND FOCUSED AS SCORPIO WOMAN IS, I AM SO HAPPY WITH HIM AND HE IS HAPPY WITH ME AS WELL, ROLLERCOASTERS CAN BE AVOIDED THROUGHOUT COMMUNICATION

  53. :) February 21st, 2010

    yeah its absolutely correct..!! m a scorpion n u cn say i hv been wid an aquarius guy all d way from my high school..OMG..!! nothng bt total rollercoaster..!! a correct wrd 2 explain dis relationshp!! headaches,heartaches n god noes wat else..!!recently also m in fght wid him n dats d reason y i came across dis site..!!i dnt thnk v r gng 2 even tok agn nw..bt hmari ldai to har dusre din ho jati hai n phr mahino baad sb kch theek ho jata hai n phr 2 din baad phr se!!srsly aisa hi hota hai..n its true dat both r totally opposite 4m each other..i wnt 2 add sumthng also..both of them are equally stubborn n dats d reason y both hesitates 2 tk d 1st step to sort out everythng n dats y dis relation becomes as sais earlier..”rollercoaster..” full on drama n sirdardi n ol.!!

  54. um February 21st, 2010

    this is qutie discuraging…theres this aquarius hu likes me….am sOOooo not going thru all this drama agan…

  55. Allison December 4th, 2009

    OMG! My first love was a true Aquarius and I am a true Scorp. We were together most of high school and college and boy oh boy – nothing but trouble and headaches and heartache.

    I’m more of a chill person and he always wanted to disagree on silly things. If I had stock in duct tape (for his mouth), that relationship might have been better. lol

    Ugh.

  56. Your name November 26th, 2009

    this is so true i have been with a scorpio woman and let me tell you its been a headache. theses been a few good times with alcohol in place other than that i have thatx relationship 2 thumbs down

  57. Haley November 12th, 2009

    I’m currently engaged to an aquarius and I am a scorpio. While it took him forever to express his feelings and ask me to marry him, he truely does mean it as mentioned above. This describes me and my fiance perfectly I have had to learn he needs his space and in turn he has had to learn my emotions however I think in time we will still be together and still be happy.

  58. kaliann April 5th, 2009

    well i have onething to say…… what i have read is true. I am a scorpio with an aquarius for five years now. It has been a complete rollercoaster of emotions, good and bad. The need for the aquariaus’ freedom and the “stand up for whats right” kind of attitude of an scorpio ALMOST tore my family apart. The rollercoaster never stops.

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